(DIR) Return Create A Forum - Home --------------------------------------------------------- Bad Manners and Brimstone (HTM) https://badmanners.createaforum.com --------------------------------------------------------- ***************************************************** (DIR) Return to: Technoquette ***************************************************** #Post#: 66546-------------------------------------------------- Oh, my. Niece is at it again! By: oogyda Date: May 16, 2021, 2:04 pm --------------------------------------------------------- Yesterday's facebook post: Are you really vaccinated if you're not posting about it?! This time it was to be able to post about her stepdaughter getting her first dose. ::) #Post#: 66549-------------------------------------------------- Re: Oh, my. Niece is at it again! By: Tea Drinker Date: May 16, 2021, 4:37 pm --------------------------------------------------------- Oy. I did post about being vaccinated to Facebook (which I only look at every few months), because it might reach someone who would want to know, but that's different from thinking everyone should. I know people who might not post about being vaccinated because they don't want to get into pointless arguments about whether they should have done it. (Whatever your opinion about either vaccination or Facebook, "you shouldn't have done that thing" is rarely useful advice.) #Post#: 66550-------------------------------------------------- Re: Oh, my. Niece is at it again! By: Jem Date: May 16, 2021, 4:47 pm --------------------------------------------------------- [quote author=oogyda link=topic=2057.msg66546#msg66546 date=1621191849] Yesterday's facebook post: Are you really vaccinated if you're not posting about it?! This time it was to be able to post about her stepdaughter getting her first dose. ::) [/quote] I see this style of post all the time for various topics; always tongue in cheek. "Did you really hit a back-squat PR if you didn't post video? ;D" (along with posting said video) "I VOTED!!!!! It only counts if you post about it! ;)" "I know some of you haterz wouldn't believe me if I didn't post a photo of my spectacular Thanksgiving meal! :)" I've never taken it as a negative thing, just a stylistic thing. Not everyone has the same interests or sense of humor. #Post#: 66556-------------------------------------------------- Re: Oh, my. Niece is at it again! By: LifeOnPluto Date: May 17, 2021, 7:23 am --------------------------------------------------------- [quote author=Jem link=topic=2057.msg66550#msg66550 date=1621201673] [quote author=oogyda link=topic=2057.msg66546#msg66546 date=1621191849] Yesterday's facebook post: Are you really vaccinated if you're not posting about it?! This time it was to be able to post about her stepdaughter getting her first dose. ::) [/quote] I see this style of post all the time for various topics; always tongue in cheek. "Did you really hit a back-squat PR if you didn't post video? ;D" (along with posting said video) "I VOTED!!!!! It only counts if you post about it! ;)" "I know some of you haterz wouldn't believe me if I didn't post a photo of my spectacular Thanksgiving meal! :)" I've never taken it as a negative thing, just a stylistic thing. Not everyone has the same interests or sense of humor. [/quote] Yes, I read this in a sort of jokey tone. Eg "If a tree falls in the forest, does anyone hear it" etc. #Post#: 66561-------------------------------------------------- Re: Oh, my. Niece is at it again! By: Wanaca Date: May 17, 2021, 9:55 am --------------------------------------------------------- I guess I could see the joking style of it, but it really would rub me the wrong way. Not everyone wants to advertise everything about their life. If I want to share my medical stuff, I will. If I don't, I won't. I don't like being baited into sharing something. This is one of the many reasons why I'm not interested in Facebook. #Post#: 66562-------------------------------------------------- Re: Oh, my. Niece is at it again! By: NFPwife Date: May 17, 2021, 10:32 am --------------------------------------------------------- That's a stylistic, tongue-in-cheek format. It's takes a gentle swipe about everyone posting about (thing) and says "And I'm doing it too!" It's meant to be light hearted and a little self-deprecating. #Post#: 66564-------------------------------------------------- Re: Oh, my. Niece is at it again! By: Jem Date: May 17, 2021, 10:55 am --------------------------------------------------------- [quote author=Wanaca link=topic=2057.msg66561#msg66561 date=1621263332] I guess I could see the joking style of it, but it really would rub me the wrong way. Not everyone wants to advertise everything about their life. If I want to share my medical stuff, I will. If I don't, I won't. I don't like being baited into sharing something. This is one of the many reasons why I'm not interested in Facebook. [/quote] I really doubt the niece was trying to bait anyone into sharing anything. I think she was using a popular turn of phrase because SHE wanted to share something. I do completely understand that some people are more private than others. I don't think either group (or anything in between) should be judgy toward the other or try to change the way people use social media. I think if a person posts things that annoy or offend, that person can be defriended, muted, or blocked. I don't think every post requires a comment or is directed specifically for each individual person on a friends list. #Post#: 66565-------------------------------------------------- Re: Oh, my. Niece is at it again! By: Meg1079 Date: May 17, 2021, 11:29 am --------------------------------------------------------- [quote author=Wanaca link=topic=2057.msg66561#msg66561 date=1621263332] I guess I could see the joking style of it, but it really would rub me the wrong way. Not everyone wants to advertise everything about their life. If I want to share my medical stuff, I will. If I don't, I won't. I don't like being baited into sharing something. This is one of the many reasons why I'm not interested in Facebook. [/quote] Eh, I did a quick post when I got my Covid vaccine, and it wasn't to bait anyone into sharing their medical information. I shared it because I know that some people out there were on the fence about having it done and it was my way of saying that I had it done and it was no big deal. I know plenty of people who have been vaccinated and haven't posted about it and I would never, ever guilt or shame them into doing so. #Post#: 66566-------------------------------------------------- Re: Oh, my. Niece is at it again! By: Rose Red Date: May 17, 2021, 12:47 pm --------------------------------------------------------- I guess it can be serious or tongue-in-cheek depending on the person. The OP seems bothered by several entries that her niece posted. I think the OP should just unfriend niece if her views annoy her. #Post#: 66572-------------------------------------------------- Re: Oh, my. Niece is at it again! By: Hanna Date: May 17, 2021, 2:22 pm --------------------------------------------------------- I think it is meant as a joke. But on top of the mother's day ban she issued, it's hard to be sure. ***************************************************** (DIR) Next Page