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ohh, great...*groans*
By: Sephieroth Date: March 24, 2016, 10:57 pm
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omg man....i really dont want my sister and her kids coming here
tomorrow...ugh! her kids really set me off. especially her
daughter (cuz she's wishy-washy, like all the time), and her
son? he thinks he knows everything, so he tries to get me to act
very unlike myself (or do something stupid, which i never listen
then). they both are kind of like that, though: they think they
know everything, so they go telling people like me what to do.
and thats one of the quickest ways to peak my fury: by acting
like you know everything and decide you can tell me what to do
(not so much with teens, though; mostly kids piss me off like
that). they literally put me through hell when they're here. the
daughter is 5, and still throws a fit every time she wakes up.
always wakes me up, as well. goddamn it. i cant believe she
hasnt grown out of that (she's done it since she was 1). then
again, im not much different with my anger problems. i've had
them my whole life. still got them. nothing's changed (at least
not that i can see). anyway, her son is just gross. he does all
kinds of nasty things. and if i does any of it in my room, i
immediately kick him out. i dont put up with gross habits. not
one bit. he usually has a fit when i do that, but idc. cuz he
does it again anyways.
im not putting the blame on the little ones for their repetitive
misconduct, though: its my sister's fault. she's the mother. its
her job to teach them this and that; not mine. and i can already
see she STILL hasnt taught them good manners. and thats why when
they're eating, i do the best i can to avoid eating with them:
cuz i know if i do, i know i'll get too mad and lose it on them.
and then their mother wont be happy with me. not like i havent
pissed her off before, though....but, you know.
and there's more than that she hasnt taught them. she's missing
a number of things there, believe me. i cant even name them all.
too many. sometimes i feel like she just lets them do whatever
the hell they want.... *sigh*
#Post#: 124--------------------------------------------------
Re: ohh, great...*groans*
By: Truth Date: March 25, 2016, 9:03 am
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You are not a mother, you don't have kids, you don't know how it
is and you can't know if she is raising her kids properly.
5 years old is still really young, you can't expect a 5 years
old to be calm in the morning. And little boys do gross things,
it's pretty common. Kids are more complicated than that you
know.
Take that opportunity to try to have a good family time without
thinking about the bad sides. Be glad you have a family ;)
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Re: ohh, great...*groans*
By: TotallyNotDaveHuehue Date: March 25, 2016, 10:23 am
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You don't have kids yet, so you just got to be patient with
this. If you learn from it now it won't be as tough when you
have kids, having kids is a hard job that no one really knows
what it's like without having them. You have to be patient with
kids and learn from it instead of walking away from it.
#Post#: 127--------------------------------------------------
Re: ohh, great...*groans*
By: Sephieroth Date: March 25, 2016, 12:16 pm
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yeah, i know... but i get stuck babysitting them a lot (just
about every time they're here). and i dont do very well with
children (i never have, not one of my skills). and playing my
wii u with them is abdolute hell (if you've read my other post,
you know why). i can relate to her son better than her daughter
(we have similar issues, thats why). him i and usually get along
better, but im not saying we do all the time, of course (like
everyone).
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