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My adoption story
By: clare low Date: June 16, 2017, 5:02 am
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It is bad enough being adopted - rejected by your parent - only
to end up with a horrid adoptive parent.
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Re: My adoption story
By: Carolinem Date: August 1, 2017, 9:19 am
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Totally agree. It's very confusing as a child (or an adult for
that matter) to understand why on earth I was adopted in the
first place. I was told it was my father's decision, but he
never got his own way, my mother was totally dominant, so how
come they adopted? Maybe it was feelings of inadequacy as she
could not have children. I was told she didn't want a girl, that
it was my fault he died (I was 15 when he died of a hereditary
heart condition) and when was i going to just go away. Then she
sold the house and left me to find a flat. No help, financial or
otherwise.
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Re: My adoption story
By: RHS Date: December 17, 2017, 4:07 am
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I was adopted as baby along with my twin brother. My mother was
unable to love me unconditionally I always feel I’m the wrong
pea in the pod, she is incredibly bright when it was obvious I
was not of the same intelligence she would be critical of my
achievements. I found listening to Jeremy Vines programme a
huge relief to know I am not the only person to have suffered
with being bought up by a controlling & self centred mother.
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Re: My adoption story
By: steved Date: December 17, 2017, 4:19 am
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Oddly enough when I was younger and the frequent target of my
biological mothers ire I used to genuinely wish I had been
adopted and that outhere some place was a mother who did care
for me.
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Re: My adoption story
By: Jennifer Date: December 18, 2017, 8:11 am
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Are you sure we aren’t twins Steve separated at birth , I always
wished I had been adopted and that my life could be so different
, when my parents argued I prayed for a divorce and that I could
go with my dad and he could meet someone else , someone kind
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Re: My adoption story
By: clare low Date: December 19, 2017, 9:58 am
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Hi
It's really sad that you wish you were adopted and had different
parents. It highlights for me just how uncomfortable you were
at home.
Luckily it seems you get on well with your father. Hang on to
this as a lifeline.
Best wishes
Angela
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Re: My adoption story
By: clare low Date: December 19, 2017, 10:06 am
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I am so glad that your found my chat with Jeremy helpful in
dealing with your difficult situation.
Just what I wanted to happen.
Best
Angela
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Re: My adoption story
By: Jennifer Date: December 20, 2017, 11:38 pm
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Thank you for you reply Angela you have no idea what a wonderful
thing you have done for us on this site, we are as Steve’s
said broken souls in need of repair and you have done so much
healing for me this last week.
My father died 10 yrs ago sorry I didn’t make it clear but
I would have gone with my dad as he was the lesser of 2 evils.
This week has been life changing and I will be forever grateful
at you coming forward and speaking to Jeremy
Love Jennifer
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Re: My adoption story
By: steved Date: December 22, 2017, 3:40 pm
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I have noted in my life and among some other broken souls that
whilst one parent was almost the cevil incarnate the other was
often mild, meak, often remote from the kids involved, Not evil
or bad in themselves but not having the will or strength to stop
the other parent from tormenting us.
Aye Jenny you DO sound like the sister I wished I had, someone
with a soul and empathy.
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Re: My adoption story
By: Jennifer Date: December 28, 2017, 8:40 am
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Yes Steve it follows a pattern regularly , that’s the
problem my dad didn’t have the guts to stand up to her,
maybe if he had I wouldn’t have the issues I have had for
25 yrs so much our parents have to answer to .
Lol pity we don’t live near one another a good chat would
do us good
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