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Re: Overpowering mothers
By: blva Date: September 24, 2019, 10:19 am
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I found your site and it gave me much comfort that I am not
alone. My
mother and I have been estranged for 8 years and have seen each
other
one time in last six years at my brothers wedding. My father
passed
away when I was 13 ( I am now 48) . I am married and have two
kids
(Age 12 and 10). My mother has a narcissistic approach to life
and
for years swore at my wife, belittled me, would not respect
boundaries
and was never able to be pleased or satisfied. 8 years ago
after
being given a third chance with her grandkids, she swore in
front of
my wife in my son's room (in front of neighbors) and had to be
physically escorted out by me. She screamed I had assaulted
her. I
knew then that our relationship was over for good. Fast
forward to my
daughter's bat mitzvah this past weekend. We had heard that
she hired
a private investigator to find out the date/location. We hired
security with the synagogue. A friend was on the plane with
her so we
went to the airport to beg her not to ruin her granddaughters
big day.
She refused. She showed up at the synagogue the next day. She
was
refused entry. She then proceeded to picket the synagogue to
humiliate us--by holding a sign "I am X's grandmother and I am
not
allowed in". Everyone who was present saw her or who left. It
was
shocking and horrific. I am speechless that someone would do
such a
thing. I saw on your sight similar stories. It made me feel
less
alone.
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Re: Overpowering mothers
By: alanacollins Date: July 12, 2020, 8:59 am
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since my mum lost my baby brother, nothing has been the same.
she had always been from a non-religious home, but her cousins
and auntie were brought up Jehovah's witnesses. they persuaded
my mum into finding light with Jehovah, and so she started
reading their "bible", or whatever the word for it is. she
didn't start her proper studies until a few years later. i think
i was 9 when she started properly, and my younger sister 3. she
would take us to my auntie's house, who was a jehovah, and my
dad would get angry with her. you see, we were all christened
(my dad, me) except from my mum and younger sister. but we
weren't religious in any way whatsover, apart from my mum. my
dad holds a hatred towards jehovah's witnesses because he
believes they changed my mum for the worse. my mum and dad would
argue ALOT about my mother's religion etc. my mum has changed
alot. she was baptised last year and not me, my dad or my little
sister showed up. she had family there, but not us. my dad had
told me that if i was to ever follow her footsteps then he would
never speak to me again. 2020, and my mum prefers her religion
over me. she treats me like rubbish. her religion has changed us
all, but has effected me the most. i feel lonely, depressed. i'm
only young and she manipulates me and tries to bully me all of
the time. she tells me she wishes she had my friends as
daughters instead of me. she would also rather call me lazy than
motivate me into doing more things. we've had many issues
before, and i honestly thought they were all squashed when we
talked it out - more like cried it out - a few weeks ago. but
no, after telling her that her and my dad's behaviour had made
me self -harm and try to commit suicide at least 4 times, they
both in turn still continue to put me down. oh, and if you were
wondering why i said my dad was involved in me being like this,
it's because he would abuse me and try to dominate himself as
the man of the house. he told many lies too. the physical abuse
has stopped, but the verbal hasn't. and that's my life.
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Re: Overpowering mothers
By: bc2 Date: September 29, 2020, 4:43 pm
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I cannot remember when my mother showed any care or concern for
me, since occasionally in 2004. Always arguing, nothing
affirming, no Christmas or birthday presents, interfering with
my holidays, clothes etc. Latest thing is I shouldn't have a
house to live in! How stupid, stupid, stupid. Mum is 99
tomorrow. It has affected my health greatly in the past. Mum can
't go on much longer. Why do we have to suffer like this?
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