For reasons that are unknown to me so far, this topic is treated like
a tabu in many places. The people do not just avoid talking about it
publicly. They condemn any related thoughts. And they would attack me
when I don't stop talking about it.

One problem could be a common misunderstanding, that selflove is about
being selfish, ego centric and careless towards others. The opposite is
true, because you can only be social and caring when you love yourself.

I am not trying to be a preacher here. People wrote entire books about
selflove and these people are way smarter than me.

This is just a little poke or prod to suggest topics to you, in case
you are looking for the penpal in me :)