---------------------------------------- A wedding and a funeral September 21st, 2017 ---------------------------------------- A friend's father passed away this week and we'll be going to his viewing tomorrow night. The following day we head up to Buffalo for the wedding of my wife's friend. I'm experiencing some ineffable feelings about the juxtaposition. I won't waste time in trying to explain the unexplainable. Instead, if you're reading this and not in a great hurry, give me thirty seconds of your time. Take a relaxed position and think of two friends. Surround one with an experience of unabashed joy and the other in inconsolable sorrow. Picture it clearly for a moment, then think on your reaction to both, your desire stemming from both. I'll wait for you. - * - * - * - * - * - * - * - * - There's something there that's more than the sum of its parts. .