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       Alphabet's Chief Legal Officer Stepping Down Amid Investigation
        
       Author : SuperKlaus
       Score  : 193 points
       Date   : 2020-01-10 19:14 UTC (3 hours ago)
        
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       | neonate wrote:
       | http://archive.md/uZkcU
        
       | ycombonator wrote:
       | Is there a database of all sexual abusers who have been let go ?
        
       | stopads wrote:
       | It's pretty wild that he was there since 2002, he's practically a
       | founder.
        
         | ocdtrekkie wrote:
         | He specifies that he was there over 20 years, prior to the
         | company being incorporated, and only joined full-time in 2002.
         | 
         | That being said: David Drummond is a terrible person[0], who
         | only has been there this long because of Larry Page and Sergey
         | Brin's protection, because they are terrible people too[1][2].
         | The way Google's highest executives have treated women is
         | disgusting and inexcusable. And while Drummond may not be
         | getting an exit package, he sold off $200 million in stock this
         | past year.
         | 
         | Evil is still very, very good business.
         | 
         | [0] https://medium.com/@jennifer.blakely/my-time-at-google-
         | and-a...
         | 
         | [1] https://www.businessinsider.com/google-sergey-brin-
         | employees...
         | 
         | [2] https://fossbytes.com/larry-page-andy-rubin-150m-sexual-
         | hara...
        
           | jakobegger wrote:
           | > After our son was born, I received a call from HR notifying
           | me that one of us would have to leave the legal department
           | where David was now Chief Legal Officer (...)
           | 
           | This sounds like the worst possible policy I can think of.
           | Get pregnant from your boss, and HR kicks you from the team!
           | How does that help anyone?
        
             | asdfasgasdgasdg wrote:
             | I wonder what they would have said if her response had
             | been, "OK, David can leave. I'm fine right here." It's
             | hardly like they could fire her for refusing to leave her
             | job after her boss knocked her up. Unfortunately all these
             | kinds of hypotheticals that come up in these situations are
             | impossible to test, because the person without power always
             | has too much on the line to stand up and fight.
        
             | matheusmoreira wrote:
             | > Get pregnant from your boss
             | 
             | There isn't much anyone can do to prevent disaster after
             | this.
        
             | im3w1l wrote:
             | It's not a punishment, it's to prevent nepotism and moral
             | hazard. I think normally they will try to place you in the
             | same role in some other project but that may not have been
             | possible in this case(?)
        
               | unapologetic wrote:
               | No, it's punishment.
               | 
               | It's not down out of cruelty, it's done out of greed.
               | He's more important, so even though he should absolutely
               | 1000% be the one on the chopping block, she gets forced
               | to sales. Then he uses the financial hardship and
               | promises from him to get her to quit.
               | 
               | How to tidy up a disastrous bit of professional
               | misconduct in just a few easy completely sociopathic
               | steps.
        
               | zozbot234 wrote:
               | The way you implement that is by proactively asking for a
               | transfer _before_ the relationship comes to light. If you
               | don 't do that, this is essentially proof that you were
               | seeking to abuse the situation in some way hence
               | penalties (on the supervisor, see my side comment) are
               | very much appropriate.
        
             | OnlineGladiator wrote:
             | > How does that help anyone?
             | 
             | It helps the boss, of course.
        
             | ProAm wrote:
             | They knew the relationship was against company policy from
             | the get go, what did they think was going happen? Two
             | people made a poor decision and have to live with the
             | consequences?
             | 
             | > aware that our relationship was in violation of Google's
             | new policy which went from "discouraging" direct-reporting-
             | line relationships to outright banning them.
        
               | unapologetic wrote:
               | He forced the consequences onto her.
               | 
               | None of these men will ever actually face consequences.
               | They are all obscenely wealthy and well connected.
        
               | ProAm wrote:
               | What did he force onto her?
        
               | lanstin wrote:
               | From the article, he lied and as a consequence of the lie
               | extended a sexual relationship with a person. Then when
               | his actions (among other things) had created a new human,
               | he behaved in a way most people recognize as badly. This
               | narrative clearly depicts a despicable person. If you are
               | happy with a lot of powerful institutions being
               | controlled by and for despicable people, then by all
               | means, there's no issue. However, it's a common trend for
               | despicable people to run institutions into the ground
               | rather than create a happy institution that ends up
               | realizing the "transform humanity for the better" vision
               | that so many profess.
        
               | unapologetic wrote:
               | Well she's stuck raising the son of an emotionally
               | abusive sociopath.
               | 
               | Besides that he pressured her into quitting with promises
               | of financial support, then left her with the baby and
               | refused to pay.
               | 
               | I can't even comprehend the type of person who doesn't
               | see the cruelty of this man. She trusted the wrong
               | person, that doesn't justify his behavior.
        
               | ProAm wrote:
               | I agree hes probably a terrible person, but I just dont
               | see where he is abusing his power at Google. He didn't
               | pressure her into a relationship, he didnt force himself
               | upon her, didnt threaten her job if she didnt cooperate,
               | he didnt pressure her into leaving, she even says so in
               | the article. These both sound like people of poor
               | judgement, I just dont see the abuse people are trying to
               | levy.
               | 
               | > so I quit Google, signing whatever documents they
               | required because likewise, I wanted to protect him
        
               | d1zzy wrote:
               | > Well she's stuck raising the son of an emotionally
               | abusive sociopath.
               | 
               | She decided to have a child and she decided to raise
               | them. These are choices she made. He decided he doesn't
               | want to take part in raising his son.
               | 
               | It sounds like you want her to get all the pros and him
               | all the cons in this situation. But their decisions have
               | both pros and cons for both of them. Her decision means
               | she gets to have a family/child (at the cost of the
               | work/money needed to raise a child). His decision means
               | he's a bad father who will his son will likely always
               | hate but it has its financial advantages.
               | 
               | > Besides that he pressured her into quitting with
               | promises of financial support, then left her with the
               | baby and refused to pay. > > I can't even comprehend the
               | type of person who doesn't see the cruelty of this man.
               | She trusted the wrong person, that doesn't justify his
               | behavior.
               | 
               | Yes, he's a cruel liar. Probably most people would be if
               | given the opportunity (yes I'm a cynic and I don't
               | believe in natural/native human kindness) but I'm not
               | trying to make excuses for him. From the article he seems
               | like a terrible person. But so what, that's not illegal.
               | In the end what are we trying to achieve by pointing this
               | out?
        
               | lanstin wrote:
               | There are people who aren't cruel liars and who manage to
               | make their companies truly great and beloved. "Don't do
               | what is illegal" is not "don't be evil" and being evil
               | will make it harder to organize the worlds information,
               | and harder to get a long sustained effort from others to
               | help with that task.
        
               | southphillyman wrote:
               | >Besides that he pressured her into quitting with
               | promises of financial support, then left her with the
               | baby and refused to pay.
               | 
               | California doesn't have child support? If he's not in his
               | child's life he's a scumbag but at the very least I'm
               | assuming the child is getting a very generous financial
               | contribution.
        
               | rstupek wrote:
               | From her blog post she did eventually get a custody
               | arrangement which requires he pay substantial (in her
               | words) child support.
        
               | ocdtrekkie wrote:
               | Both people knew it was wrong, but Larry and Sergey's
               | best buddy got promoted to become one of the most
               | powerful executives on the planet and paid hundreds of
               | millions of dollars, and the woman got pushed out of her
               | job and left to support their kid herself.
        
               | ProAm wrote:
               | She was forced out because it was against company policy.
               | She wasnt forced out of google, but to a different
               | department. And she voluntarily quit google, she was
               | never fired. It's a sad story, but it's just adults
               | making their own decisions that don't work out.
               | 
               | > so I quit Google, signing whatever documents they
               | required because likewise, I wanted to protect him
        
               | ocdtrekkie wrote:
               | And David wasn't forced out for violating company policy
               | because...? He's a man? He's Larry and Sergey's friend?
        
               | ProAm wrote:
               | No one was forced out, HR said one of them had to leave.
               | We dont know anything beyond that she was the one to
               | change departments. She wasnt fired.
        
               | snowwrestler wrote:
               | > She was forced out because it was against company
               | policy
               | 
               | > No one was forced out
        
               | sokoloff wrote:
               | She worked for him _in the legal department_. If she 's
               | asked to change departments, what's someone presumably
               | trained and skilled in law going to do? Start coding? Run
               | a product team? Do sales?
        
               | ProAm wrote:
               | Right, she had affair with her boss at a company where
               | there was a clear policy against it. What was she
               | supposed to do? Maybe think ahead and realize this is a
               | bad idea, OR realize there are potential consequences for
               | making said decisions. Regardless when google found out
               | they did not fire her, they gave her a chance to continue
               | employment at the company. I dont know what her
               | qualifications were but if she managed to get hired at
               | google I would imagine she could also find work
               | relatively easily outside of google.
               | 
               | >aware that our relationship was in violation of Google's
               | new policy which went from "discouraging" direct-
               | reporting-line relationships to outright banning them
        
               | vkou wrote:
               | During manager training done by any lawyer worth their
               | salt, it is drilled into you two hundred times that if
               | you start a relationship with a subordinate, _you_ have
               | to declare this relationship to HR, you have to move
               | jobs, and that you may be personally liable for any of
               | the legal fallout that comes with workplace relationships
               | /allegations of harassment/allegations of nepotism.
               | 
               | It seems that the execs don't get the same kind of
               | training that line managers get. Or, perhaps, they are
               | protected from the consequences. One set of rules for me,
               | another for you...
        
             | snowwrestler wrote:
             | The right way to implement a policy like that is to say
             | that supervisors are not permitted to have relationships
             | with their subordinates. That way, if such a relationship
             | develops against the rules, it's clear upon whom the
             | consequences should fall: the supervisor.
             | 
             | Supervisors get more money and power from the organization
             | than their subordinates, so it's fair for the organization
             | to have higher expectations for the behavior of the
             | supervisor than the subordinate.
        
               | zozbot234 wrote:
               | Supervisors also have more skin in the game so, quite
               | trivially, making the supervisor responsible also means
               | it's inherently easier to enforce that policy! The fact
               | that they'd try to shift that burden onto the subordinate
               | just tells you how much they care about following the
               | rules, i.e. not at all.
        
               | TallGuyShort wrote:
               | Agreed, but a bigger factor is the power differential,
               | IMO: the boss has the higher need to maintain at least an
               | image of impartiality, and it's harder for the
               | subordinate to resist advances knowing that the giver is
               | key in deciding when they can and can't get time off, pay
               | rises, etc.
        
               | snowwrestler wrote:
               | Great point.
        
               | nostrademons wrote:
               | Google had one that said exactly that when I joined in
               | 2009, but that post-dates the alleged affair(s) here, so
               | I wouldn't be surprised if it was introduced directly
               | because of this.
               | 
               | Drummond wasn't the only one engaged in such shenanigans,
               | too - I can think of at least half a dozen executives
               | (including both founders) who engaged in relationships
               | within their reporting chain.
        
           | rdtsc wrote:
           | Oh wow.
           | 
           | > David would go for months or even years at a time
           | completely ignoring my pleas to see his son -- not even so
           | much as a text to us, despite living about a mile away.
           | 
           | I can see not having the desire to be with her and break up
           | the relationship, but abandoning his child and not seeing
           | them for years at a time is downright evil.
           | 
           | It's so strange to hear how Google touts itself to be at the
           | forefront of inclusivity and tolerance, and here their
           | executive acting this way for decades and nobody does
           | anything.
        
             | hackinthebochs wrote:
             | What is "evil" about not wanting to see a child that you
             | presumably didn't want to begin with? A woman with an
             | unwanted pregnancy can abort. Men don't have that option.
             | But that doesn't obligate them to an emotional bond with
             | the child.
        
               | oh_sigh wrote:
               | Read the article - he wanted the son until he didn't, and
               | then he peaced out.
        
               | vanusa wrote:
               | Okay - "evil" may have been a touch too strong.
               | 
               | I'll go with "scummy and reprehensible".
               | 
               | And: "deeply at odds with the ethical standards that
               | Google once claimed to stand for (not that we ever took
               | them seriously when they said those things)."
        
               | hackinthebochs wrote:
               | I can endorse scummy and reprehensible.
        
               | senordevnyc wrote:
               | Do we really want companies firing employees for personal
               | morality issues that have zero bearing on their ability
               | to do their job?
        
               | andrewprock wrote:
               | No, we don't. But we _do_ want companies firing employees
               | for personal morality issues which have bearing on their
               | ability to their job.
        
               | defen wrote:
               | > What is "evil" about not wanting to see a child that
               | you presumably didn't want to begin with?
               | 
               | The child doesn't get a choice about being brought into
               | the world, so your desire or intent to produce a child is
               | irrelevant. If you don't want to father a child, don't do
               | anything that could reasonably lead to producing a child.
               | If you father one anyway, that's on you. To deliberately
               | alienate yourself from your child in that way, especially
               | when you have the wealth and resources he does, is evil
               | in my opinion.
        
               | d1zzy wrote:
               | > The child doesn't get a choice about being brought into
               | the world, so your desire or intent to produce a child is
               | irrelevant. If you don't want to father a child, don't do
               | anything that could reasonably lead to producing a child.
               | If you father one anyway, that's on you.
               | 
               | That's on a man no more than it's on a women if she gets
               | pregnant and the previous agreement was that the guy had
               | to use condoms and he didn't. Otherwise what you're
               | saying is "if you don't want to get STDs or have kids
               | never have sex". Luckily that's not how the law works.
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | People routinely get pregnant despite using hormonal
               | birth control. (Condoms are even less effective.) The
               | purpose of sex is having kids, and unsurprisingly humans
               | are very good at conception. If you don't want to have
               | kids, don't have sex.
        
               | hackinthebochs wrote:
               | >If you don't want to have kids, don't have sex.
               | 
               | How do you square this with your claim in a sister
               | comment of "by virtue of their right to control their own
               | bodies can abort a baby before it is born"
        
               | hackinthebochs wrote:
               | And yet, we generally accept that women have the right to
               | an abortion regardless of their willfully chosen actions
               | prior. How do you square the two positions? Note that I'm
               | not arguing that the man has a right to absolve himself
               | of financial responsibility.
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | There is nothing that needs to be squared. People are
               | responsible for the predictable consequences of their
               | actions. We hold women and men equally accountable when
               | their having sex produces a child.
               | 
               | The fact that women, by virtue of their right to control
               | their own bodies, can abort a baby before it is born,
               | doesn't change the analysis for either. Both are still
               | responsible for a baby that is born. The fact that the
               | woman has additional options to avoid the consequence
               | doesn't absolve the man of responsibility (both to
               | provide financial support and to be a father). Women may
               | have many reasons for not aborting a baby. (Maybe they
               | even believe it's morally wrong!) But if you take action
               | that predictably may result in an outcome, you don't get
               | off the hook because someone else had the power to avert
               | the outcome at a later stage and chose not to. Both
               | people are responsible.
        
               | hackinthebochs wrote:
               | >The fact that the woman has additional options to avoid
               | the consequence doesn't absolve the man of responsibility
               | 
               | I disagree. Having more options does in fact alter the
               | level of responsibility.
        
               | defen wrote:
               | An abortion doesn't result in a person so it's not really
               | comparable. My understanding is that the vast majority of
               | surgical or medical abortions occur due to either 1)
               | grave risk to the mother's life 2) serious genetic
               | defects or malformities in the fetus or 3) well before
               | viability (during a time when spontaneous abortions are
               | also common)
        
               | hackinthebochs wrote:
               | Basing a principle of rights or duties based on
               | contingencies (live birth or not) seems dubious. If the
               | mother has a right to decide against the burden of a
               | child, the father should as well (all things being
               | equal). Granted, all things aren't equal, but the
               | financial obligation seems sufficient to fulfill a duty
               | to the living child. Besides, why should we force contact
               | when the father doesn't want it? I don't see that as
               | benefiting the child.
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | > If the mother has a right to decide against the burden
               | of a child, the father should as well (all things being
               | equal).
               | 
               | This is your false premise. Nothing about fairness
               | requires the law to give someone additional rights to
               | offset someone else's intrinsic advantages. Neither men
               | nor women have a "legal right to decide against the
               | burden of a child." If either has a child, they're on the
               | hook for it. The law doesn't need to give men an
               | additional _legal_ right to "make up" for the fact that
               | women can terminate a pregnancy by exercising their
               | natural right to control their own pregnancies.
        
               | hackinthebochs wrote:
               | I'm talking about what should be the case, i.e. what is a
               | moral right or duty. Legal concerns just add extra
               | complication that are tangential to my claims.
        
               | ocdtrekkie wrote:
               | > The people in Google's legal department were very close
               | and in 2004, at my birthday party at the W in San
               | Francisco, David reserved a suite to host an "after
               | party." It was there, that night he told me how he wanted
               | more children. I urged to him to have one with his wife
               | but he demurred and said that would never happen because
               | he was estranged from her, which admittedly I already
               | knew -- he was the only married one in attendance without
               | his spouse.
               | 
               | The kid was, in fact, David's idea from the get-go. He
               | lamented at a party to a then-just-coworker about how
               | badly he wanted more children. Of course, whether or not
               | that was just his move to try to get a woman into an
               | affair with him or not, we have no way of knowing.
        
           | throwaway490194 wrote:
           | Yes they are terrible people too. But "the way they have
           | treated women"? ARE YOU FREAKING SERIOUS? The women who
           | participated in these extra-marital affairs are every bit as
           | evil!
        
             | lawnchair_larry wrote:
             | Nah, women are victims with no agency, men are predators.
             | Get with the times!
        
               | throwaway490194 wrote:
               | LOL. They're BOTH narcissists and narcissism is genetic
               | so the baby she popped out will be a narcissist as well.
        
           | jacquesm wrote:
           | Holy crap, that is some story.
        
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           | onetimemanytime wrote:
           | Well, she thought that he'd marry, and stay faithful to her.
           | She knew the deal, should be happy with child support...the
           | rest is bitter grapes
        
             | jacquesm wrote:
             | You clearly did not read the linked article.
        
               | onetimemanytime wrote:
               | I did but I don't take her comments after the
               | disappointment at face value. How dare a married,
               | billionaire cheater not settle down with her but continue
               | to sleep with other women?
               | 
               | She was an adult that entered in a consenting
               | relationship with a married man (I can guess why), she
               | admitted so much. Google policy or not, is irrelevant
               | since both sides knew the deal.
        
               | unapologetic wrote:
               | It's not irrelevant, it's a blatant abuse of power.
               | 
               | This guy is clearly a pretty sick sort of predator.
               | 
               | > How dare a married, billionaire cheater not settle down
               | with her but continue to sleep with other women?
               | 
               | He basically got her fired and then bailed on her and
               | their son. He refused to pay child support despite being
               | a millionaire and is basically in an abusive relationship
               | with her still.
               | 
               | It's disgusting. It's the sort of behaviour that should
               | ruin your personal and professional life completely.
        
               | onetimemanytime wrote:
               | _> >This guy is clearly a pretty sick sort of predator._
               | 
               | Maybe he was the prey. You cannot refuse to pay child
               | support, it's one option you do not have. Play hard ball
               | in response to stuff etc maybe, but you will pay in the
               | end.
               | 
               | She should have named her price upfront. All consensual
               | and he is a d*ck and a moron in a sense, as a
               | billionaire, he could have used his pocket change and
               | made her happy $$ wise. Now he gets bad press.
        
               | ProAm wrote:
               | Yes, this is a woman who entered a relationship and it
               | didnt work out. Ive definitely read it and this is not a
               | #metoo story. He didnt force himself up on, he didnt take
               | advantage of her, he didnt threaten her, he didnt demand
               | she date him, it's about dating someone at work when
               | there are clear rules around it. No one said she had to
               | leave the department, but that one of them would have to
               | leave. It's a tragically sad story, especially for the
               | child, but this was two consenting adults in an adult
               | relationship that was full of bad choices.
        
               | jacquesm wrote:
               | Well, then maybe you read the story but did not
               | understand it. That's fine with me, but I _did_ read the
               | story and that is not my takeaway at all.
               | 
               | For starters, there is a clear abuse of power here with
               | one party being the senior person at the company
               | suggesting that things will be 'ok' when clearly there
               | was a plan all along to create a situation of asymmetry
               | and dependency, followed up with a lot of _very_ mean and
               | manipulative action.
               | 
               | Besides using the child as leverage against the mother
               | there is a clear - and continuous - act in the self
               | interest of the dominant party, more wealthy, still
               | employed and willing to use every dirty tactic in the
               | book and a couple I'd never even seen before against the
               | other.
               | 
               | Utterly revolting and not simply 'two consenting adults
               | in an adult relationship full of bad choices'. That's
               | victim blaming at its worst.
        
               | hackinthebochs wrote:
               | I don't get this "abuse of power" angle at all. Having a
               | relationship with a subordinate is not an abuse of power.
               | Insisting that your job rests on a relationship is an
               | abuse of power, but without evidence that happened (and
               | it seems like it didnt), there's no abuse. This idea that
               | a power differential invalidates a relationship is
               | nonsense.
               | 
               | The fact is, people spend half or more of their waking
               | hours at work. You spend more time with your colleagues
               | than you do your own family in many cases. Relationship
               | are going to happen. We need to learn how to deal with it
               | rather than try to codify rules against it.
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | > This idea that a power differential invalidates a
               | relationship is nonsense.
               | 
               | Why? Seems pretty sound to me.
        
               | hackinthebochs wrote:
               | Because power differentials do not invalidate consent?
               | Power differentials do not indicate coercion and people
               | are fully capable of consenting even in the presence of
               | power differentials. We've gotten to the point where we
               | equate _potential_ for abuse with abuse. Its a little
               | ridiculous.
        
               | FireBeyond wrote:
               | "One of us needs to leave. If you leave, I'll take care
               | of you financially, since I'm making far more money
               | here".
               | 
               | "Oh, you left, thanks. Oh, that financial help? I changed
               | my mind about that".
               | 
               | It's possible to be abusive in a myriad of ways.
        
               | jacquesm wrote:
               | The abuse of power is that he maneuvered her into a
               | position of dependency, then bailed out and used the fact
               | that she was now dependent on him against her.
        
               | hackinthebochs wrote:
               | Maneuvered implies intent. How do you know that was his
               | intention from the start?
        
               | jacquesm wrote:
               | Well, it certainly didn't happen by accident. Fathers
               | should support their kids, period.
        
               | ProAm wrote:
               | An abuse of power? They had an affair, how was that a
               | plan to create a situation of asymmetry and dependency?
               | How did she not know this was a bad idea all along? Did
               | she think a person willing to cheat on a spouse was going
               | to be a good person down the road?
               | 
               | > David and I began an affair shortly after that night
               | and we were together for years.
               | 
               | She made a bad choice in life. She had an affair with a
               | married man that worked in her department, when she knew
               | such a relationship was against company policy. No one
               | said she had to leave the department, only that one of
               | them had to.
               | 
               | Everything that happened after, while terribly cruel, is
               | not anything you dont see frequently when a relationship
               | falls apart that involves children. It's very sad story
               | but I am not victim blaming anyone, they are both at
               | fault. But they both willingly went into this situation
               | with their eyes open knowing full well what the
               | consequences could be.
        
               | elliekelly wrote:
               | Do you think he got the same phone call saying one of
               | them had to leave?
        
               | unapologetic wrote:
               | This situation is fucked up on multiple levels.
               | 
               | You don't punish the subordinate. Given his level, he
               | should have been out.
               | 
               | Instead they transferred her from legal to sales and her
               | performance tanked because it was a job she was in no way
               | qualified to do.
               | 
               | He got her to quit (and sign a bunch of forms) promising
               | to support her, then bailed.
               | 
               | He refused child support and after she sued, he started
               | using threats against her kid to fuck with her.
               | 
               | This is a woman who got into a relationship, then
               | realized that not only was the guy a complete psycho but
               | the company had his back because he's the important one.
               | 
               | The rot at google is very real. Top down too.
        
               | ProAm wrote:
               | He did not get her to quit, she made that choice herself
               | because she wanted to protect him. She made that choice.
               | Yes he is a terrible person, yes possibly psycho and this
               | story sucks but no one forced anything.
               | 
               | > so I quit Google, signing whatever documents they
               | required because likewise, I wanted to protect him
        
               | lanstin wrote:
               | Is rape the only thing that companies should fire people
               | for? A pattern of relationships like this is quite likely
               | to be very bad for Google, both in terms of settlements
               | and in terms of lost morale and acceptance of shitty
               | behavior instead of working together on the great common
               | project. The question isn't "forced" it's "why is firing
               | the subordinate done instead of firing the habitual
               | asshole when it's clearly in the companies interests to
               | fire the habitual asshole." And the answer to that
               | question makes it plausible that Google has been
               | protecting bad people at the cost of their idealistic but
               | achievable missions.
               | 
               | Also, she may have made that choice, but also he "got"
               | her to quit - not sure if you've been in a relationship,
               | but both things can be true. Someone can influence you to
               | make a bad choice. The responsibility for that bad choice
               | then exists in both people.
        
               | ProAm wrote:
               | She wasnt fired. And she quit on her own volition.
               | 
               | I can't speak to a pattern of bad behavior because I just
               | dont know more than this story and the one she posted
               | about. He absolutely sounds like human garbage, but her
               | story isn't a #metoo story. There was no abuse, no abuse
               | of power, no forcing anything.
               | 
               | > so I quit Google, signing whatever documents they
               | required because likewise, I wanted to protect him.
        
               | FireBeyond wrote:
               | ... because he had promised her financial support and if
               | he also lost his job, that would go away.
               | 
               | And then he withdrew / refused support, that he'd agreed
               | to, in writing.
               | 
               | Yes, it's not all black and white, but it's close to
               | willfully obtuse to see a timeline of events and then
               | fall back to a definition of "well, he didn't hold a gun
               | to her head/use physical violence so it wasn't really a
               | forced situation".
        
               | ProAm wrote:
               | I agree he's a horrible person, but all those things have
               | nothing to do with Google and his position at Google or
               | her position at Google. Those were relationship decisions
               | they made on their own. They both made horrible personal
               | decisions, but it doesn't involve google.
        
       | freepor wrote:
       | A true all-star in his profession. Managed to protect one of the
       | most unethical businesses in technology history from any
       | substantial legal/regulatory consequences. His tenure at Google
       | is comparable to OJ Simpson's unforgettable 1973 season for the
       | Buffalo Bills.
        
       | dredmorbius wrote:
       | Earlier / dupe: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=22013436
       | 
       | This is (for obvious reasons) getting multiple submissions. The
       | CNBC article seems the most comprehensive to date:
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=22014115
        
         | Fnoord wrote:
         | That post from earlier received no discussion, so it isn't a
         | dupe (does not count as such).
        
       | vl wrote:
       | > Last year, a committee of independent directors from Alphabet's
       | board hired a law firm to investigate its handling of allegations
       | of sexual misconduct and inappropriate relationships by current
       | and former executives as part of its legal defense against
       | shareholder lawsuits over its handling of the matters, according
       | to documents viewed by The Times.
       | 
       | Let's sure hope they investigated Sergey and Larry too, unlike
       | them, at least this guy got married to his office romantic
       | interest.
        
         | vkou wrote:
         | > Let's sure hope they investigated Sergey and Larry too,
         | unlike them, at least this guy got married to his office
         | romantic interest.
         | 
         | One of them, at least.
         | 
         | Another one, whom he had a baby with, was allegedly pushed out
         | of the firm.
        
         | claudeganon wrote:
         | They both "stepped back" shortly after the announcement of this
         | investigation, so it seems likely they were also examined.
        
       | zepto wrote:
       | There is nothing toxic about Google's culture. These are normal
       | events in any organization of this size. They are just as
       | focussed as ever on organizing the world's information and making
       | it universally accessible.
        
         | narag wrote:
         | I can't see any visible clues, but my sarcasm-O-meter just
         | exploded.
        
         | throwaway17_17 wrote:
         | Curious, are the downvotes on this comment for the comment
         | which I assumed was sarcasm, or for the fact that a non-
         | qualified sarcastic comment is of a type of discussion HN rules
         | discourage?
        
       | jeffrallen wrote:
       | Oh gross. Why can't powerful men behave themselves? Makes me
       | grateful I'm not a powerful man.
        
         | stronglikedan wrote:
         | > Why can't powerful men behave themselves?
         | 
         | They can behave themselves equally as well as not-powerful men,
         | but they're just in more of a spotlight.
        
           | d1zzy wrote:
           | I think it's more than that, powerful/rich people men are
           | going to have more access to (consensual) sex than poor men.
        
             | stronglikedan wrote:
             | But if it's consensual, then they _are_ behaving
             | themselves.
        
               | EForEndeavour wrote:
               | That's a low bar. Consensual does not mean ethical or
               | palatable to shareholders and the public.
        
               | throwaway17_17 wrote:
               | At the rates of return Alphabet experiences, along with
               | such a large share percentage held by a 'smallish' group
               | of founders/early supporters, many of whom are apparently
               | credibly stated to have engaged in very similar behavior,
               | I doubt there will much pressure from shareholders. It is
               | doubtful, but if this was the straw that broke the
               | regulation-impasse-camel's back, Drummond makes a good
               | scapegoat for current leadership.
        
             | johnhughesco wrote:
             | sucks to be poor, brah.
             | 
             | why you heff to be poor?
        
         | oh_sigh wrote:
         | Consider all of the powerful men who aren't forced out of their
         | positions.
        
           | lanstin wrote:
           | An argument that is less powerful with each passing decade.
        
       | duxup wrote:
       | I thought his relationships were pretty much known... for a long
       | time by everyone?
       | 
       | I swear I remember folks publicly noting these relationships.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | pinopinopino wrote:
       | Good, more mayhem for Google. I don't mind see them burning a
       | bit. Hopefully the EU forces them to split up soon too. I have
       | had my share of monopolist corporations playing moral compass.
        
       | rvz wrote:
       | The multiple scandals, trip-ups, investigations and blunders at
       | Google sounds very eligible to be turned into its own theatrical
       | melodrama set.
       | 
       | In this rehearsal, the CLO has already been "off script" for many
       | years and the "directors" have told him that he isn't getting his
       | $50m golden parachute this time. Instead, he leaves with nothing
       | and takes an Uber back home. No travel expenses paid.
        
       | gumby wrote:
       | No $50M for him.
        
         | dlp211 wrote:
         | Yes, the $150MM in stock he's unloaded over the past quarter
         | will have to suffice.
        
       | loganfrederick wrote:
       | I really liked Ben Horowitz's new book "What You Do Is Who You
       | Are". However, the only passage that I disliked and stood out to
       | me is when he defended David Drummond for his ability to thrive
       | at Google for a long time despite the corporate culture changing.
       | 
       | This was after Drummond was called out publicly for abandoning
       | his kid he had with a subordinate:
       | https://www.law.com/corpcounsel/2018/10/25/report-alphabet-c...
       | 
       | I am sure he's made a lot of people money, but it's not like
       | Google couldn't find a great legal chief who also wasn't a
       | terrible person.
       | 
       | Edit: First article I linked to was paywalled, so here is the
       | underlying story: https://medium.com/@jennifer.blakely/my-time-
       | at-google-and-a...
        
         | pinewurst wrote:
         | This is the same Ben Horowitz who defended illegal option price
         | fixing and other ethically dubious behavior in his last book.
         | I'll probably get penalized for this, but achieving success is
         | not equivalent to being a role model.
        
           | loganfrederick wrote:
           | In Horowitz's defense (on a the options pricing matter,
           | hopefully not taking this thread too far off course), I
           | thought he had explained his position on options pricing
           | reasonably: https://dealbook.nytimes.com/2014/02/06/how-ben-
           | horowitz-avo...
        
         | tmpz22 wrote:
         | > "HR told me that Sergey's response to it was, 'Why not?
         | They're my employees,'" Ayers said. "But you don't have
         | employees for f---ing! That's not what the job is."
         | 
         | Ooooof. That shatters the "Early on Google's culture was
         | great!" narrative...
         | 
         | [1]: https://www.businessinsider.com/google-sergey-brin-
         | employees...
        
         | Aqua wrote:
         | That's not how business works.
        
           | IfOnlyYouKnew wrote:
           | The idea that business cares only about profit is just plain
           | wrong. The law people think of is almost never relevant. Each
           | year, millions of business decisions are made knowing full
           | well that it will cost a bit of money, not bring in any (or
           | even good PR), but is the decent thing to do.
           | 
           | As but one example: Google once gave us money for a non-
           | profit event, in no way related to their business, with
           | explicit instructions not to mention them.
        
             | seibelj wrote:
             | If your anecdote is true then how do you know that?
        
               | CydeWeys wrote:
               | Because they were involved in it??
        
               | GhettoMaestro wrote:
               | On the basis of your extreme pedantry, please consider
               | killing yourself. You would be doing the world a massive
               | favor.
        
               | IfOnlyYouKnew wrote:
               | I called them and asked for money. See my use of the word
               | "us".
               | 
               | So, yes, maybe they did it because they knew I'd be going
               | around using them as an example of altruism in business,
               | 12 years later.
        
             | minikites wrote:
             | And then the shareholders punish them:
             | 
             | https://www.vox.com/new-money/2017/4/29/15471634/american-
             | ai...
             | 
             | >American Airlines agreed this week to do something nice
             | for its employees and arguably foresighted for its business
             | by giving flight attendants and pilots a preemptive raise,
             | in order to close a gap that had opened up between their
             | compensation and the compensation paid by rival airlines
             | Delta and United.
             | 
             | >Wall Street freaked out, sending American shares
             | plummeting. After all, this is capitalism and the capital
             | owners are supposed to reap the rewards of business
             | success.
             | 
             | >"This is frustrating. Labor is being paid first again,"
             | wrote Citi analyst Kevin Crissey in a widely circulated
             | note. "Shareholders get leftovers."
        
           | loganfrederick wrote:
           | You're correct, that's not how companies usually make their
           | personnel decisions. But one would think more companies would
           | factor in PR-risk as a real financial risk. But Google being
           | Google economically-speaking, this still probably isn't a
           | material event.
        
             | shawnz wrote:
             | There's also the risk of employees not being able to work
             | effectively if they don't feel safe/comfortable in their
             | work environment.
        
               | dmix wrote:
               | So it is in fact very much how business works... between
               | bad PR and company cultural issues. This stuff matters.
               | 
               | Not to mention businesses have customers and investors
               | who care about these things.
        
         | KingMachiavelli wrote:
         | I would assume there is extensive child support that would more
         | then compensate? (Article is paywaled, so I don't know the
         | details).
        
           | rayiner wrote:
           | I'm pretty sure money doesn't compensate someone for growing
           | up without a father.
        
         | qroshan wrote:
         | Steve Jobs also abandoned his kid. He created a $1 Trillion
         | company.
        
           | Waterluvian wrote:
           | Exactly. Success as a business person has nothing to do with
           | success as a moral or ethical person. In fact it's probably
           | easier to be one when not being the others.
           | 
           | Being good at business does not make you a "good person".
        
       | oooogaboooga wrote:
       | He likes dem white women.
        
       | bhaile wrote:
       | Interesting comment from Bill Maris from Axios.
       | 
       | Bill Maris, who founded Google's venture capital arm and reported
       | directly to Drummond before quitting in 2016, tells Axios...
       | 
       | "The news of David Drummond leaving Google today brings to mind a
       | quote from one of my most favorite creatures. 'At an end, your
       | rule is. And not short enough, it was.' I had been asked in the
       | past why I left Google in 2016, and I have never really commented
       | on that. David Drummond is the reason I left Google. I simply
       | could not work with him any longer. It's that simple. We have
       | very, very different ideas about how to treat people, and this
       | was a long time coming."[1]
       | 
       | [1]https://www.axios.com/alphabet-david-drummond-
       | departure-7572...
        
         | godzillabrennus wrote:
         | I met Bill years ago and he was insanely helpful to me at the
         | time. Google lost an incredible person when he walked away.
        
       | jiveturkey wrote:
       | huh.
       | 
       | https://www.cnbc.com/2020/01/10/alphabets-legal-chief-is-lea...
       | 
       | > Drummond is also a board member of private equity firm KKR &
       | Co. L.P.
       | 
       | KKR is the PE firm well known for destroying the companies they
       | buy, for their benefit ... and not for their LP's benefit.
       | Dastardly.
        
       | lacker wrote:
       | These sexual misconduct investigations at Google are really
       | finding some critical stuff. At this point my guess is that it is
       | related to the Larry and Sergey resignations, and we will
       | eventually hear information that reflects poorly on them
       | directly.
        
         | outside1234 wrote:
         | Haven't we already? Sergey was banging everything that moved at
         | one point.
         | 
         | ref: https://www.businessinsider.com/google-sergey-brin-
         | employees...
        
           | [deleted]
        
         | thrwn_frthr_awy wrote:
         | We've heard it already. They literally had a "masseuse room"
         | where Sergey would have sex with employees inside the Google
         | building.
        
           | EForEndeavour wrote:
           | This phrasing is a bit misleading. It makes it sound like
           | Sergey had designated a room exclusively for sex with
           | employees and called it the "masseuse room." To be precise,
           | Google's offices include private massage rooms in which
           | employees can get professional massages. Sergey allegedly had
           | sex in one or more of these rooms.
        
             | thrwn_frthr_awy wrote:
             | > It makes it sound like Sergey had designated a room
             | exclusively for sex with employees and called it the
             | "masseuse room."
             | 
             | Yes, it does sound like that. I'd advise all people in
             | leadership to avoid conduct that could be interpreted this
             | way.
             | 
             | Edit: Thank you jacquesm for fixing my freudian slip :)
        
               | jacquesm wrote:
               | Interrupted? I think you meant 'interpreted'.
        
               | celticninja wrote:
               | Both are apt.
        
           | pinewurst wrote:
           | Quote from link above: "HR told me that Sergey's response to
           | it was, 'Why not? They're my employees,'" Ayers said. "But
           | you don't have employees for f---ing! That's not what the job
           | is."
        
             | m0zg wrote:
             | I might be wrong, but I don't think there's any law that
             | forbids having consensual sex with employees. It's
             | unethical if they're his direct reports, sure, but I don't
             | think it's illegal. I'm sure if I had _fifty billion
             | dollars_, I'd have to fight off women like zombies in a
             | movie even though I'm already married.
        
               | ellard wrote:
               | Consent is murky at best when there's a large power
               | discrepancy between two co-workers. See: everything
               | that's been going on with Hollywood in the past couple of
               | years
        
               | johnhughesco wrote:
               | Did it occur that the employee might be attracted BECAUSE
               | of the power discrepancy?
        
               | IfOnlyYouKnew wrote:
               | Sort of: "I 'want' to have sex with him because I don't
               | get to decide not to have sex with him and keep my job"
        
               | hackinthebochs wrote:
               | It turns out money and power are standard features of
               | attraction to women generally.
        
               | cdumler wrote:
               | Consent requires no coercion, meaning that both parties
               | are fully informed of all relevant information and both
               | are in a legal capacity to do so. It is guaranteed that
               | employees are not in a position to be fully informed
               | because they will not have the same access to company
               | information and employee resources.
        
               | damnyou wrote:
               | Yes, it's probably not illegal, but it should still cause
               | the exec to be fired.
        
               | d1zzy wrote:
               | He's not an exec, he's a founder (which together with
               | Larry and Eric controls over 50% of shareholder voting
               | power). He'd have to fire himself.
        
               | nostrademons wrote:
               | There's no criminal law against it, but it opens you up
               | to civil suits from aggrieved parties (who can be either
               | participants in the affair or bystanders who feel they
               | were given a raw deal because of the relationship).
               | Hiring, firing, and performance management is supposed to
               | be based on your performance at doing your job, not
               | because your boss dumped you and now dislikes you. Sexual
               | harassment and discrimination suits are both relatively
               | easy to document and tend to be viewed sympathetically by
               | juries.
        
               | m0zg wrote:
               | You're assuming there are "aggrieved parties". To the
               | best of my knowledge nobody was "aggrieved" by Sergey at
               | least. He probably had them sign something before the
               | "massage" or else I'm sure we'd see some lawsuits.
               | 
               | Don't get me wrong, I'm not justifying sexual harassment
               | in any way. But it's not "harassment" if it's wanted and
               | consensual, and it's not _automatically_ unethical if the
               | employee is not in his chain of command or even if they
               | are, if they aren't forced into it, and there's no
               | punishment for declining. If they make advances on their
               | own and are merely not turned down (see e.g. Rosenberg,
               | who IIRC wasn't in his chain of command), that's
               | stretching the definition.
        
               | nine_k wrote:
               | This is reasonable, but it's very hard to be outside the
               | sphere of influence of a company's top officer, even if
               | you are formally not a direct report. At the very least,
               | it is risky for that top officer, because it would be
               | hard to shake off any accusations of coercion, were they
               | brought up. And, of course, actual coercion becomes much
               | easier, within certain range.
        
               | nostrademons wrote:
               | The "aggrieved party" doesn't have to be a party within
               | the relationship. _Anyone else in the org_ can make a
               | case that their career opportunities were impeded by the
               | existence of a superior /subordinate relationship within
               | their reporting chain. People in a romantic relationship
               | are assumed to not be impartial when it comes to things
               | that may affect their romantic partners, which means that
               | it's pretty easy to make a case that an executive's
               | decisions were biased by the affair in a way that may
               | harm your career. So if you were Rosenberg's _teammate_
               | and she got placed on a hot project like Google Glass
               | while you were passed over for the position, you could
               | make the case that your career was harmed because she 's
               | sleeping with the head of Google X.
        
               | m0zg wrote:
               | No aggrieved parties stepped forward. And you can make
               | whatever "cases" you want, but if no one was "aggrieved"
               | you don't really have a case.
               | 
               | >> you could make the case that your career was >> harmed
               | because she's sleeping with the head of Google X
               | 
               | Funny how otherwise "progressive" people automatically
               | assume that the only reason women would sleep with their
               | boss is to advance their careers. The romantic component
               | doesn't factor into it at all.
               | 
               | Thankfully, simply making a case is not enough under US
               | law. You have to prove it as well. Best I can tell
               | Rosenberg did not experience any meteoric career rise.
               | Nor would there be any way to accomplish that without
               | drawing attention: Sergey is not in charge of promotions,
               | committees are.
               | 
               | In fact, as an ex-Googler, I'm not sure Sergey was in
               | charge of _anything_ at Google for the past 15 years. He
               | had his hobby projects, but he was as checked out as a
               | founder can really be. He's literally probably there for
               | the dating pool. :-)
        
               | nostrademons wrote:
               | I'm also an ex-Googler, and was at Google when the
               | Rosenberg affair broke. Sergey was nominally head of
               | Google X (the reporting org that Google Glass was in) at
               | the time. Whether he was actively doing anything other
               | than boning his employees is another matter; I had a
               | number of friends in X (including in Glass) and his job
               | largely seemed to be to cheerlead various X initiatives
               | at the time.
               | 
               | And the role of HR and legal is to _minimize_ the company
               | 's risk. Just because the risk doesn't materalize doesn't
               | mean the risk wasn't there. The way sexual harassment
               | claims usually play out (if both parties have competent
               | lawyers) is that the company pays out a significant sum
               | of money and then both sides sign non-disclosure
               | agreements and waivers to further liability. The point
               | isn't to go to trial, the point is that the threat of
               | facing a sympathetic jury incentivizes both parties to
               | work out a settlement.
               | 
               | There was one very obvious aggrieved party in to the
               | Brin/Rosenberg affair in Hugo Barra, Android's VP and
               | spokeperson and Rosenberg's ex-boyfriend who quit to head
               | Xiaomi's international efforts right as the affair broke.
               | Presumably Google gave him a generous severance package
               | to not disparage or sue the company, which is why you
               | haven't heard him disparage or sue the company.
        
               | dredmorbius wrote:
               | There _is_ a potential criminal risk if a relationship
               | can be construed as nonconsensual, coerced, or quid pro
               | quo.
               | 
               | More generally, there's a tremendous _civil_ liability,
               | both personally to the principles involved _and_ the
               | firm, through such activity. A liability which may be
               | entirely independent of the apparent (or actual)
               | consensuality at the time, and which might be filed by
               | non-participants (e.g., other employees perceiving sexual
               | favouratism or discrimination).
               | 
               | A principle function of a corporation is as a risk-
               | externalising, and limiting, legal structure. (This is
               | literally stated in some forms of organisation, as with
               | an LLC: limited liability corporation.) The principle job
               | of management and oversight is to maximise the reward-to-
               | risk ratio.
               | 
               | Company founders openly and documentedly treating the
               | employee pool as their personal coital resource is a risk
               | in the extreme.
        
             | GeekyBear wrote:
             | The next line is really illustrative of whose interests an
             | HR department serves.
             | 
             | >"'Oh my God, this is a sexual harassment claim waiting to
             | happen!' That was my concern," she recalled
        
               | sokoloff wrote:
               | Sure, but in this case, stopping the behavior that is
               | likely to lead to harassment claims is aligned with both
               | the company's and the employees' interests.
        
         | johnhughes wrote:
         | Larry Page used to "date" Marissa Meyer. You make what you want
         | to make of Meyers meteoritic rise at Google
        
         | johnhughesco wrote:
         | Larry used to "date" Marissa Meyer. More like FOB
        
           | johnhughesco wrote:
           | Why is stating facts downvoted on this crappy website?
        
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