[HN Gopher] Why Japan is so successful at returning lost property ___________________________________________________________________ Why Japan is so successful at returning lost property Author : hhs Score : 155 points Date : 2020-01-15 16:57 UTC (6 hours ago) (HTM) web link (www.bbc.com) (TXT) w3m dump (www.bbc.com) | AnimalMuppet wrote: | I remember forgetting an umbrella in a restaurant in Tokyo, and | being chased down in the street by someone returning it. It was | pretty amazing. | virtuous_signal wrote: | This smells like a lot of post-hoc rationalization. Collectivism? | What about China, which did terribly on this kind of test. | Shintoism? Only 3-4% of the population follows that. See | https://www.latimes.com/science/la-sci-people-are-honest-los... | where the graphic in the middle of the page compares countries. | It appears that Scandinavian countries fare best followed by | Eastern European. I would be happy to hear what people at HN | think are the real reasons. | | For what it's worth, as a scatterbrained person, I think it would | be great living in a country with so much trust that I could | expect my lost things not to be stolen. | simmanian wrote: | I was born in one of the "safe" East Asian countries and I | think it all comes down to their sense of ownership in the | community. Koreans and Japanese have this deeply ingrained idea | that the entire history of their country has been built and run | by their "people" and they will have a hivemind-allergic | reaction to anything they see as undesirable. There's very | little crime in public in these countries because people equate | a crime that happens in some back alley of a major city to a | crime that happens in your cousin's backyard. It's simply | abhorrent. | | Needless to say, this culture does have its drawbacks, but I | think the key takeaway is to increase people's sense of | ownership in our communities. | jdtang13 wrote: | I completely agree. Foreign culture analyses like this are | always tinged with bias and an incurable desire to find little | small-picture justifications. I'm sick and tired of seeing | every random quirk of Japanese people being explained as | "Shinto this, Buddhism that"; it's such an oversimplification. | The interior lives of human beings are built upon perhaps | 1,000,000 variables, not just 3 variables. | | The writing is in English, published by someone who spent an | entire life growing up in the West. And, as you mentioned, this | "returning item phenomenon" seems not to be the case in modern | China, even in the cities. | | If you want to even begin to describe Eastern culture in | English, maybe take a look at how hard it was, and still is, to | articulate the internal world of the Russians: | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Russian_soul | dtwest wrote: | I interpreted this particular article's main point as being: | | Don't assume Japanese people are more honest than people in | other countries, there are many social and cultural factors | at play that influence behavior. | | Generalizing a group of people is almost always inaccurate, | and often frustrating to read, but I don't think this article | is an egregious example of that. This is a fluff piece to get | people interested in the 2020 Olympics in Tokyo, don't | mistake it for serious cultural analysis. | nwienert wrote: | Homogenous, nationalistic, small country with high IQ, good | education system, high GDP, low levels of immigration, and a | culture that emphasizes community. | | Oh, and lower levels of inequality, relatively, and a more | aligned politics/media system that doesn't foment distrust. | jessriedel wrote: | I mostly agree, but note that Japan has 126M people, so it's | quite large. | JakeTheAndroid wrote: | Yeah, but when you compare 126m to 1.3b I feel like you'd | expect to see drift between the results. That's 10x the | amount of people. If only 1 in every 10 people in each | country is willing to break the social norms and ignores | social pressures, then China will have 10x the amount of | these infractions compared to Japan. | | But yes, Japan is not a small country even if it is a | relatively small landmass. | omegaworks wrote: | Immigration has been steadily increasing in Japan.[1] That | homogeneity presupposes trust is a right-wing stereotype used | to devalue immigrants in a society and justify harsh | enforcement. You can find people of every ethnicity in Tokyo, | including many half and full Brazilian people that you could | mistake for latinos here in the US[2]. | | 1. https://www.japantimes.co.jp/news/2016/03/11/national/japa | n-... | | 2. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brazilians_in_Japan#Migratio | n_... | nwienert wrote: | Go to Japan. Immigration is absolutely nothing like | European or American countries. | swebs wrote: | >Ethnic groups: Japanese 98.1%, Chinese 0.5%, Korean 0.4%, | other 1% (includes Filipino, Vietnamese, and Brazilian) | | https://www.cia.gov/library/publications/the-world- | factbook/... | SpicyLemonZest wrote: | It's true that Japan has a lot more ethnic homogenity | than most countries, but this is is a misleading | statistic. The Japanese census considers all people with | Japanese citizenship to be simply "Japanese" regardless | of their race. | matheusmoreira wrote: | > That homogeneity presupposes trust is a right-wing | stereotype used to devalue immigrants in a society and | justify harsh enforcement. | | The fact it's a right wing idea doesn't mean it's wrong. A | nation's laws is written by its people. The fact is | different peoples have different cultures and follow | different sets of rules. The ideal immigrant is the one who | naturalizes and fully integrates into the existing society. | What usually happens is they stick together in foreigner | groups for mutual support. They maintain their culture and | continue living by the same rules they are used to. | | It is extremely demoralizing to see people not only break | the rules we follow but come out ahead for doing so while | escaping any retribution. It's even worse when foreigners | do it because it simply isn't part of their culture. If a | group of people doesn't litter the streets and foreigners | who think nothing of it suddenly arrive, they will be | looked down upon. | | > You can find people of every ethnicity in Tokyo, | including many half and full Brazilian people that you | could mistake for latinos here in the US | | A relative minority. Many more japanese live in Brazil than | the other way around. | claudeganon wrote: | > a more aligned politics/media system that doesn't foment | distrust. | | Japan is essentially a right-wing, one-party "democracy" put | in place by US intelligence services, postwar. The current | prime minister is literally the grandson of a CIA-backed war | criminal, who was famously known as the "Devil of the Showa | Period": | | https://www.nytimes.com/1994/10/09/world/cia-spent- | millions-... | | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nobusuke_Kishi | | Freedom of the press is absolutely abysmal in Japan and has | been further on the downslide since Abe came to power: | | https://www.theguardian.com/world/2017/jun/13/japan- | accused-... | | I speak Japanese, have spent a lot of time in the country, | and have a great admiration for its people, but about the | last thing I'd express _any_ admiration for are its politics | and media. And speaking anecdotally, very few people there | seem to put much trust in them either. | nwienert wrote: | I didn't express admiration, I just pointed out the reasons | the people have such high trust and cooperation. | factsaresacred wrote: | Shame and the homogeneous makeup of the population likely play | large roles. | | Comparing China to Japan won't do any good as the cultural | revolution decimated its social capital. | virtuous_signal wrote: | I don't know about that last part. Most Eastern European | countries were part of the USSR and underwent massive | revolutions. I've even seen them described as low-trust | societies, but they seem to do well. | ido wrote: | What do you mean when you say eastern european countries | "do well" (supposedly compared to China)? | | Some (like the Baltics) are doing great, but I don't think | I'd rather live in Moldova, the Ukraine or Albania rather | than China. | virtuous_signal wrote: | "Well" was the wrong word (unless one is thinking of the | experiment as a test). I simply meant the percentage of | lost wallets returned. In the study from Science that the | LA Times article covers, this group of countries as a | block did better than all countries from South America or | Asia, for instance. | factsaresacred wrote: | The Cultural Revolution was unlike the political | revolutions of Eastern Europe. It was a bloody orgy of | violence and vandalism that attempted to tear traditional | Chinese culture out from the roots, and in the process | destroyed China's social fabric and trust, perhaps | irreparably (or at least until the Party collapses and the | country can confront its past - something the Eastern | European nations have been allowed to do). | | An excerpt from the book 'Out of Mao's Shadow': | | > _Families were torn apart as wives divorced husbands who | had been accused of political crimes, children condemned | parents, and siblings turned against one another. When the | Cultural Revolution finally ended, it was easier for many | people just to move on than talk about it..._ | | > _...Such violence has not been expunged from the | country's collective memory so much as repressed, and | repressed memories have a way of surfacing unexpectedly. | There have always been voices in China calling on the | nation to confront the barbarity of the Cultural | Revolution. Only with an honest accounting and thoughtful | examination of the era, they argue, can the country come to | terms with the legacy of mistrust and moral decay that | haunts it today._ | vkou wrote: | The cultural revolution was not the cause of this. | Chinese history did not start in 1966. 1966 was preceded | by six decades of brutal military occupation, a complete | breakdown of law and order, and civil war. | | I'm not sure you can point at any country that had gone | through such a violent, unstable, and lengthy period of | fragmentation and bloodshed, and came out on the other | end as a cohesive, high-trust society. | shadofx wrote: | Taiwan and South Korea were both bloody, autocratic | military regimes. Many nations have walked the bridge to | hell and back, but the cultural revolution meant that | China burned the bridge after crossing it. | vkou wrote: | One of your examples further proves my point - nobody can | categorize Taiwan as a high-cohesion, high-trust society, | despite not having a 1966 moment. | | The other's not a very close parallel. | | Korea was under Japanese occupation in that same time | period, which was no picnic, but it at least had a | functional, centralized government, and at least, was not | an active warzone through most of it. (It is more similar | to post-war Eastern Europe in that regard.) | | It also did not go through a multi-decade-long civil war. | verisimilidude wrote: | The abundance of "police boxes" in Japan, small satellite police | stations, probably helps a lot. | | While living in Japan, I found a lost wallet on the street, in | the gutter. That wallet was sitting just down the street from the | police. Line-of-sight. Picking up the wallet and taking it to the | station was immediately obvious and convenient. | NotASithLord wrote: | My phone slipped out of my pocket on the subway on my last night | in Tokyo. Realized 20 minutes later, talked to some employees and | described what kind of phone it was (a cheap Samsung, really not | a big deal), gone as can be. Flew back home to Miami. | | Received my phone back in the mail a month later. A friend of | mine there kept checking with the employees and it eventually | showed up in lost and found. Refused to allow me to pay for the | international shipping. | BlameKaneda wrote: | "Tamura describes the concept of 'hito no me'; the 'societal | eye'. Even without a police presence, no theft will occur while | there is hito no me. But left in a place where there is no one | watching, thefts do occur." | | "Likewise, in Shintoism everything, from rocks to trees, | possesses a spirit. While organised Shintoism is a minority | practice in Japan, omniscient objects permeate the culture....if | you are always being watched and your natural disposition is to | think of others first, it is natural that you would be bothered | to hand in the lost item." | | The concept of "standing out" is a bit foreign in collectivist | cultures like Japan, and getting blamed/shunned/etc for stealing | would be mentally taxing. | LeoTinnitus wrote: | That is how I analyzed it for the most part since there was | such a wide variance between countries. Eastern Europe really | stood out to me and I believe that may have to do with a | generation of people that were used to the surveillance state | of post-communist society. | | In the US, the social impact generally means little, however | the economic and time one matters a lot (via jail or fines). | Post-communist states might be still conditioned to live in a | culture where people are used to corrupt police that ENSURING | you have nothing damning is far better than taking a risk and | dealing with getting out of that. | ookblah wrote: | I found this similar mentality in Korea where you can leave your | laptop, phone, etc. at a cafe completely exposed on a table while | you go to the restroom or even out to lunch. When you come back | your stuff will still be there. | | As I live in NYC, this completely blew my mind and I still felt | that anxiety and awkwardness just leaving my stuff to go use the | restroom. Near guaranteed theft in NYC lol. | | --- | | And to add another story. A friend and I were traveling in Japan | a few years ago. My friend had the lucky privilege of forgetting | his backpack (with laptop, passport, all the not-fun-stuff to | lose items) not once, but twice during the trip. | | The first time, he forgot it on the train ride to Osaka (left it | on the rack above the seats). The bag went all the way to the end | of the line. 4 hour round trip to get it back, but we were super | surprised. | | Second time was the day we were to fly back. He left it on the | train platform bench (!!!) for that non-stop ride to Narita. That | feeling of dread when we started moving and he realized he had to | wait at least an hour before he could contact anybody about it. | | Long story short, he took the 1 hour train back and it was still | sitting there. Missed the flight, but got everything back safely. | Amazing. | kevin_thibedeau wrote: | I lost my phone on the NYC subway. It was returned to a station | and I picked it up a week later. | jessriedel wrote: | I worked in NYC coffee shops on a daily basis for 2 years (and | Toronto and SF for more years). Whenever I went to the | bathroom, I just asked a random person nearby if they would | make sure no one walked off with my stuff. I never had anything | stolen, and the people I ask don't seem bothered in the | slightest. It's a very small burden, and I think there's | something pleasant about having someone put their trust in you. | peterwwillis wrote: | If you just want to talk to someone, I get it, but otherwise | there's no point. Nobody's going to fight a thief to | safeguard a stranger's stuff (and shouldn't because they | could be sued by the thief). And it's a crime of opportunity, | thiefs are not sitting in cafes waiting for a laptop user to | go to the bathroom; high risk, low reward. | mcast wrote: | This is the standard I've encountered at coffee shops and | school libraries, no one seems to mind. However, it would be | easy to build an app that alarms when the battery becomes | disconnected (i.e. someone walks away with your stuff). | reroute1 wrote: | > It would be easy to build an app that alarms when the | battery becomes disconnected (i.e. someone walks away with | your stuff). | | Wait what? How does this work? | JakeTheAndroid wrote: | on OSX or Linux you could grep the logs every few minutes | or seconds or whatever and see the battery status that | includes AC power. From there you could have it alert you | via whatever method you want. | | On OSX: | | pmset -g rawlog | | Output: | | $ pmset -g rawlog pmset is in RAW logging mode now. Hit | ctrl-c to exit. * Battery matched at registry = XXXX | 01/15/20 XX:XX:XX No AC; Not Charging; 75%; Cap=5490: | FCC=XXXX; Design=XXXX; Time=X:XX; -752mA; Cycles=14/1000; | Location=XX; Polled boot=01/15/20 XX:XX:XX; Full=01/15/20 | XX:XX:XX; User visible=01/15/20 XX:XX:XX | | I expect there are more elegant solutions, but this would | theoretically work, as I used to use this among other | things to track my daily laptop usage to see how on task | I was any given day. If the lid is closed but unplugged | then I was probably going to/in a meeting, if the lid is | closed and charging then I was likely afk, not working. | Worked pretty well to give me a ballpark of my | productivity. | keiferski wrote: | This is already a thing: https://beepify.com | jessriedel wrote: | $19.99... | davemp wrote: | If laptops/phones have power events that you could hook | into for when charger is unplugged. Just start blaring | the speakers when you detect such an event without the | alarm being disarmed first. | thbr99 wrote: | Britain is bad at returning stolen property. Eg Kohinoor | vearwhershuh wrote: | _" What's in it for the finder to be honest enough to hand in the | item?"_ | | By asking this question, you deny yourself access to its answer. | GuB-42 wrote: | Why? That's the kind of question that makes up the entire field | of game theory. | | In every situation, the most natural strategy is to maximize | personal gains. That's how natural selection works. But when | people don't act like that, it means there must be some | opposing force, normally one that benefits society. There is a | lot to learn here, in fields as diverse as biology, economics, | computing, and of course, games. | SkyBelow wrote: | >Why? That's the kind of question that makes up the entire | field of game theory. | | I think it depends upon the person who is asking. The average | person asking it comes from a different perspective than | someone who studies game theory and human nature asking the | question. | vearwhershuh wrote: | Exactly. | reroute1 wrote: | Exactly what? | | > By asking this question, you deny yourself access to its | answer. | | ... No it doesn't? | jshevek wrote: | I don't know what it means to say "that's how natural | selection works" in this context. At times, evolutionary | pressure favors cooperation and altruism. | simmanian wrote: | As Hobbes writes in The Leviathan, Western civilization views | the world as a "war of all men against all other men." | Basically, the world is made up of individuals, and everyone | is on their own, and they must fight with others in a zero- | sum game to attain safety and happiness. If you subscribe to | this view, it becomes harder for people to see that it's | actually in your interest to act in good faith. | | That is how I understood GP's comment. | someone7x wrote: | > In every situation, the most natural strategy is to | maximize personal gains. | | The iterated prisoner's dilemma begs to differ. | | There are many many situations where cooperation is both | natural and optimal. | samatman wrote: | The iterated prisoner's dilemma does no such thing, as it's | scored by maximizing personal gains. | | It does point to the advantages of not defecting on players | who cooperate. | kube-system wrote: | > optimal | | i.e., there is something in it for them. It doesn't have to | be a tangible thing, it could be a simple as self- | satisfaction. | ghostbrainalpha wrote: | When you take a basic moral truth, but then phrase it so that | it will not immediately be apparent what you are saying.... | | You create the appearance of profound wisdom. And often book | deals. | munificent wrote: | Studies have shown people recall information better if they | had to put some effort into acquiring it. Sometimes a | profound wisdom lodges better if the "ah-ha" moment occurs in | the reader's mind and not on the page. | tyfon wrote: | It's not quite at the level of Japan, but Aftenposten, which is a | newspaper in Norway, conducted a test [1] (translation [2]) in | Oslo where they "lost" 20 wallets. 15 eventually returned. | | Personally I've lost my wallet twice and it has been returned | both times. | | It is nice to be able to trust your fellow citisens somewhat :) | | [1] https://www.aftenposten.no/okonomi/i/zlOb/slik-gikk-det- | da-a... | | [2] | https://translate.google.com/translate?sl=auto&tl=en&u=https... | retrac wrote: | The Toronto Star tried the same thing in Toronto. 15 of 20 were | returned. (One minus the cash.) | | https://www.thestar.com/life/2009/04/25/we_left_20_wallets_a... | mmhsieh wrote: | i lost a phone in shinjuku station and located with the help of | the station employees within 30 minutes. somehow they did this | location act in the busiest subway junction in the world, with | just a few phone calls. | grillvogel wrote: | its funny that this article is part of a japan 2020 olympics | feature, when there will surely be an increase in crime and bad | behavior due to all the 2020 visitors. | kibwen wrote: | Little-known tip: in the US, if you happen to find a lost wallet | that contains an ID, you can just drop it in the nearest postbox | and the USPS has the duty to attempt to return it to its rightful | owner. Here's the relevant page of the postal code: | https://pe.usps.com/text/dmm300/507.htm | Hydraulix989 wrote: | Given what I've seen and also have personally experienced with | postal employees, I wouldn't place much trust in it, for | example: | | "USPS loses about $1800 of packages from | store.rossmanngroup.com :(" | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G4CCuMg6jXI | shujito wrote: | discipline, education and culture | rs999gti wrote: | > discipline and culture | | Monoculture | makapuf wrote: | Do you say that with a negative or positive tone ? It's hard | to tell from your answer. And if so, why ? | jshevek wrote: | I took it as an observation or speculation of cause and | effect. There is no judgement (positive or negative) needed | for this. | jrsdav wrote: | I experienced this while visiting Japan. | | While doing a transfer on the Shinkansen in Hiroshima, I left my | camera bag at a noodle kiosk on the platform (around $3k worth of | equipment). Didn't realize it until 2 hours after getting on the | next train. | | When we arrived at our destination, I told my friend we were | meeting (a Japanese native) what happened, and she reassured me | that it would be right where I left it (said something about | there being a "taboo" with the Japanese and touching other | people's private property). | | So we walked over to the JR attendant and explained what | happened, and in no time at all she had the other station | attendant on the line who confirmed they found my bag. Just as | easy as that. | | Then I proceeded to lose my wallet and passport in a taxi, which | we recovered just as easily! | | Japan is a great country to visit, if while abroad you displace | the part of your brain that keeps track of things... | jyounker wrote: | On the other hand, the Japanese are inveterate umbrella | thieves. So much so that you will find _locking_ umbrella racks | in many buildings. | | The pressure has to go somewhere. | Reedx wrote: | The article hits on this, suggesting that they are viewed as | communal property since they're so abundant, cheap and | frequently forgotten. Umbrellas are also an on demand item, | so can see how this could evolve as a sort of community | solution to the rain problem. | yboris wrote: | I visited Japan and was caught in the rain with no | umbrella. I hid next to an awning near a school. A person | came out from inside and offered me to take an umbrella | from the numerous ones that were left by the people inside. | | I suspect "communal property" is a better way to think of | what happens with umbrellas than "umbrella thieves". | ultrasaurus wrote: | I was in Japan last week and I can confirm that I forgot | every umbrella I used -- I hope you got one of mine. | irrational wrote: | What is the rain problem? I live in the Pacific Northwest | where it rains for 9 months out of the year. Our solution | is to not use umbrellas at all. Everyone has a waterproof | rain jacket. | tareqak wrote: | Why umbrellas specifically? I read the article and I enjoyed | it, but the question of why umbrellas are not treated the | same in terms of being returned was mentioned but not | answered. Near the end of the article, there is this sentence | | > "Communal property is virtually unheard of except for that | many people seem to regard umbrellas as up for grabs if not | properly secured." | kstenerud wrote: | Because when the rain comes down, it COMES DOWN HARD, and | you NEED an umbrella NOW. I started doing the same after | living there a few years. | | Same thing with stealing crappy bikes with flat tires from | the nearest bike rack to get home when you're drunk as a | skunk at 3 am. | novok wrote: | You can buy them everywhere for 300-1000 yen, those models | are the ones that everyone uses so it isn't much of a | sacrifice for everyone to buy another umbrella a few times | a year. | the_af wrote: | Is this for fancy umbrellas or any umbrella? I once lost a | cheap plastic umbrella while visiting a castle, which I left | for a minute to take a photo and it was gone, and I always | assumed another tourist took it by mistake. | harikb wrote: | Is it possible the social support structure, education, etc are | creating a society where unfortunate people don't have to | steal/pawn to make a living? | livueta wrote: | I'm a little skeptical. Many Japanese live in a pretty | grinding form of underemployment poverty - "freeter" will get | you lots of hits in Western media. Moreover, some truly | deprived groups like the urban homeless are almost notorious | for generally _not_ engaging in the sort of petty property | crime we're talking about that's common in similar | demographics in the West. | | Those make me lean towards cultural factors. | TheTruth321 wrote: | Shame. | kstenerud wrote: | No, it's a cultural thing. Home burglaries and thefts from | cars and shops are fairly common, but you don't take | unattended bags and such that are left in the open. | Reedx wrote: | We tend to underestimate the effect culture can have. It's | also why the Japanese don't litter their cities, despite few | garbage bins. | | https://www.weforum.org/agenda/2017/07/why-japanese-dont- | lit... | baddox wrote: | I wouldn't underestimate the effect of culture, I would | just tend to assume that something about Japan has _caused_ | its culture, rather than culture itself being a primary | cause of attitudes towards lost property. In other words, I | wouldn 't consider "it's just their culture to respect lost | property" a useful explanation. | johnchristopher wrote: | Yeah, well. Maybe, maybe not. Quoted from a previous | discussion: | | > I was cycling in Japan for about 2 weeks, just a few | weeks ago. I was also impressed in most places by how clean | it was, not only in the cities, but more generally speaking | about everywhere. | | > At some point though, I was cycling along the coast of | Mie then Wakayama prefectures, and although the scenery and | roads were clean, I had a glance just behind the ramp walk, | and realized that behind the trees, in the bush next to the | road were hundreds of garbage bags, litter of all sort, | really anything, just lying below. There was such a | contrast from what my eyes were seeing until, I was | shocked. | | > In another town several kilometres after (I forgot which | place exactly, must have been while cycling up towards | Wakayama city), I passed next to a big commercial area on | my right. On my left there was a small patch of forest then | the sea and again, that forest contained many many plastic | bags, full but neatly tied up, every couple of meters or | so, for several hundreds of meters. | | > I originally thought the first thrashes I saw along the | road in the country side where "mistakes", like things | flying off the window or pushed by the wind from another | place (although there was a lot of garbage anyway). But | when I saw these tied up plastic bags, they weren't there | by chance, really people throw these bags away on the | forest right here. That made me a bit sad, especially since | it broke the original image I got. | | > (And I haven't spoke about the beaches and seafront all | along that peninsula; I wouldn't walk bare foot there). | | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=21240083 | Nition wrote: | When I was in Japan in 2009, every pedestrian in the | cities waited patiently at each crossing until the light | turned green, even if there were no cars around at all. | | However, when the streets were mostly empty, I saw one | Japanese man come to an empty crossing, glance around, | and cross on red. | | Can't generalize much off a single example, but it did | make me think peer pressure is probably a factor. | boomboomsubban wrote: | In America, the primary "road safety" I was taught as a | kid was "look both ways before crossing the road." I | think the Japanese priority is based more on obeying | traffic lites, though this is just conjecture from media | and my experience. | | This said, when people are around there are more likely | to be sudden cars as well. It's easier to justify | jaywalking at midnight than noon. | ghaff wrote: | Adhering to crossing lights is a very cultural thing. | There was a thread that came up about this a week or two | ago. Even within the US, perhaps especially within large | northeastern cities like Boston and New York, people will | cross if there's no traffic (or even if a driver has | hesitated for a moment). Whereas on the West Coast people | mostly obey the lights. | peterhadlaw wrote: | I think the point is that it's a cultural thing, regardless | of how fortunate or unfortunate someone is. | 9HZZRfNlpR wrote: | I'm sure it plays a role, but there are countries with | similar wealth and support systems, but so many things (like | the lost property example) are unique to Japan. | hourislate wrote: | I lost my passport (didn't know at the time) at NRT. I had left | it on a counter at a coffee shop. About 15 minutes later while | sitting at the gate an airport employee ran up to me and handed | it back. Just amazing. | mmhsieh wrote: | I got lost when going out to hike Mt. Nokogiri. I was walking | wrong-way down some road when the employee at the visitor | center some 1.5km away comes running after me to inform me | that I am going the wrong way. I don't know how he deduced | this after I walked out of that center. He escorted me to the | correct trailhead which I missed by about 500m. Welcome to | Japan. | Zarel wrote: | I'd always heard about this, but the one time I left my | backpack in a Yamanote Line train, it was returned with around | $2000 worth of cash (in multiple different countries' | currencies) missing from my wallet. My wallet was really deep | inside a bag inside a bag, too, so someone clearly went digging | into my backpack. | cookingrobot wrote: | I once found a wallet on the sidewalk outside a mall in Japan. | I tried to drop it at the mall's lost and found, but the | security guard there took me with him to a police box. The | policeman there took me to the local police station, and we | spent the next hour filling out a report. They were all very | friendly and appreciative that I turned it in, but it was | really quite an ordeal. If I were to find something valuable | again, I might just leave it alone to avoid the hassle. | sanitycheck wrote: | I think part of this is that a far greater proportion of "lost" | valuables in Japan are _really_ lost than in other countries, | street crime being pretty rare. | | But still, that 6% figure for New York! Can it be true? Is it | really normal to steal other people's shit if they leave it | behind? | zuminator wrote: | Just as an anecdote from a NYC resident, a couple years back I | found a Japanese woman's wallet on a commuter bus. From the | address I saw that the owner lived in my neighborhood so I went | by her home after work to return it. Nobody was home so I left | a little note with my phone number. She called me, and I met | her the next day to return it to her. I considered our business | concluded but about two months later she and her husband sent | me a Christmas card with a gift card inside. I thanked them but | sent the gift card back. | | I have also lost my own wallet on multiple occasions when I was | younger and more careless, and I would say it was returned | maybe two out of five times. Not great, but not that bad | either. | ido wrote: | I don't know about Japanese culture, but where I'm from | accepting the gift would be the polite thing to do (vs | rejecting it). | selectodude wrote: | Yeah, spending postage and effort to return a $20 gift card | (or whatever it was) is so rude. I'm not sure where in the | world that wouldn't come off as rude. | jotm wrote: | Man, I was living in the UK. A kid on a skateboard dropped his | phone, didn't notice. Less than a minute later, a guy (gardener | or construction worker by the looks of it) picks it off the | ground and gets in his van. Bye bye phone. | | Another time, found a wallet and returned it, the woman said | it's unbelievable, no one else would do that. Gave me 10 | pounds, too, heh (there was way more in the wallet, plus cards | and ID, it's how I found her). I'd be very happy if someone did | that for me. | | But yeah, usually "finders keepers" holds true :/ | | I like these kind of stories from Japan, makes it seem like | people do respect each other. Shame not everything is that good | over there. | haskellandchill wrote: | Yes. | sct202 wrote: | A youtuber did a similar test (but probably a lot less | controlled) and it wasn't that bad (4/10 for NYC). Result | spreadsheet: | https://www.dropbox.com/s/m2ahob0949mmj3s/Wallet%20Data%20Ag... | JakeTheAndroid wrote: | I can't speak to NYC but in SF you absolutely will lose your | shit. I have had coworkers get their cars broken into midday | after leaving their backpack unattended for an hour or so. | Friends have had their backpacks yanked from between their legs | on Bart as it entered a station. These are not situations where | these items are just laying around, and they were still taken. | | Coworkers have lost their laptops at bars or coffee shops | because they got up for a few minutes. It could be that the | value is so well established in this area; if you steal a | backpack you are almost guaranteed to get a Macbook. IDK if | that is similar in NY. | Aunche wrote: | My wallet dropped out of my pocket in Manhattan. After maybe 10 | minutes, somebody picked it up and proceeded to buy as many | things with my cards until I cancelled them. | dfxm12 wrote: | _But still, that 6% figure for New York! Can it be true? Is it | really normal to steal other people 's shit if they leave it | behind?_ | | Who said anything about shit getting stolen? The article | claims: _88% of phones "lost" by the researchers_ were handed | into the police _by Tokyo residents, compared to 6% of the ones | "lost" in New York._ (emphasis mine) | | I found a wallet in NY once. The ID had the owner's address | around the corner and I was able to drop it off to him. I found | a phone once (I noticed it was ringing on an otherwise empty | table) it was the phone's owner calling from her girlfriend's | phone. I was able to hand it back to her myself. The cops | really didn't need to get involved in either case and didn't. | In another American city, I've left my phone in a cab and | gotten it back without going through the police as well. Is a | city a less trustful place if the cops aren't thought of as a | lost & found? | zebnyc wrote: | Honest question: Do folks feel warm fuzzies when they do | something "good / +ve"? Frankly unless I went out of my way to do | something significant, I don't feel anything. Asking as there | might be some of that going on here. | | For e.g., around Christmas here in SF, I was a at a shopping mall | parking lot waiting for my wife to return. I noticed a man | counting a few bills of cash. He counted and then turned to head | to his car. As he turned he dropped a couple of bills. I just | shouted out to him to bring it to my attention so he could get | it. I don't feel anything about the incident and would be hard | pressed to use it as a barometer of my character. | minaa-chan wrote: | I don't. I do "good" things because that's the way I was | raised. I actually dislike getting thanked or anything that | draws attention to the "good" thing I did because it seems so | needless. | | Occasionally I'll feel a twinge of guilt if I could've helped | out and didn't but usually I do it out of habit. | sethammons wrote: | Likely a few dollars means nothing to you so the act of | pointing the nearly lost dollars is a similar small task (not | withstanding the possibility the act could have a profound | effect on the recipient depending on their situation). | | When I was younger and we were struggling hard, we found a | wallet in a store loaded with green bills. That money would | have had immediate, real, positive impact for us, like gas | money and food that we did not have. We turned in the wallet | and did not bother counting the bills. The cashier might have | pocketed the money, who knows. But hopefully the owner of the | wallet got their stuff back. I think that act does cast a | barometer on my and my wife's character. We did what was | "right" -- the property was not ours and not ours to take. Did | we feel good about it? Nope! It was just doing the right thing | even though there was a touch of pain to it. | laurieg wrote: | Funny this story should come up now. | | Two days ago I was on my regular running route and I saw a wallet | on the ground. It had 5000 yen (around 50 USD) sticking out of | it. The weather was a bit damp and it was far from a police box | so I didn't want to risk getting randomly stopped and searched on | my way to hand it in so I just put it on a fence post and went on | my way. | | I run the same route everyday, so when I ran the next day lo and | behold, the wallet was still there, complete with 5000 yen note | sticking out. I'm curious if it will still be there on today's | run. | supernova87a wrote: | There are both amazingly good and amazingly bad things about | Japanese culture. | | The shame of being seen to be not honest or respecting people's | property leads to amazing responsibility and kindness. | | But it also leads to people being depressed and feeling | constrained not to be able to break out of societal expectations. | | The very things that make us love Japan, would make you go crazy | to live there. So enjoy the privilege of being able to visit and | experience the benefits, while not having to deal with the | downsides. | | And maybe it causes you to reflect that, in the US -- the very | personal freedoms (i.e. lack of guilt on being disobedient or | trying new things) leads to a society where it's more likely | you're not getting your wallet back if you leave it somewhere... | generaljelly wrote: | This is a good assessment. I believe Japan generally only works | for people that already fall in line with societal norms to | some extent. | | I do wish to believe that a personal freedom society and a | society that takes your wallet don't have to be tightly | coupled... Although I will say the public shame of Japan is | stronger than the private shame of the US. | russdill wrote: | Related: | https://www.preposterousuniverse.com/podcast/2019/09/02/62-m... | | Michele Gelfand on tight vs loose cultures. There's also a link | there to her TEDx talk. | duxup wrote: | There was a good blog post about a guy living in Japan. | | Here he was in this clean and crime free place, but his bicycle | kept getting trashed overnight. Just his bike parked in a sea | of other bikes. | | He thought it was because he was a foreigner, but finally after | he reported it to the police numerous times someone explained | the phrase "The nail that sticks out gets knocked down." and | pointed out the bikes he was buying were from China. | | His bike looked similar to everyone else's bike in the area, | but it was made by a Chinese company and there had been news | stories about how these bikes were faulty / dangerous / bad | (the information apparently was somewhat questionable). | | So he bought a proper Japanese bike that looked like the other | bikes, and it never happened again. | | The contrast of a clean and orderly society with very targeted | pressure by random members of society not to do something like | buy the wrong bike ... is quite striking. | drdeadringer wrote: | > "The nail that sticks out gets knocked down." | | Ever since I first heard this I've kept both this phrase and | the phrase "the squeaky wheel gets the grease" in mind at the | same time. | | Basically, both sides of this coin together ask you "should | you speak up?" type of thing; substitute "speak up" with | whatever the given situation is. | raarts wrote: | We Dutch have a similar proverb: "Whoever sticks his head | above ground level, his head is cut off. " | 1996 wrote: | Tall poppy syndrome, which can be oppressive in Northern | Europe. | | Germany seems more relaxed than the Netherlands, and | France seems to be worse. I've had friends telling me | their Mercedes got frequently keyed for no reason, and | the old Mercedes star on their classic even got ripped | off. | bengalister wrote: | French guy here. | | There is a proverb in France that says that to live a | happy life, you'd better keep a low profile (not literal | translation which would more be to live a happy life, | live hidden) "vivons heureux, vivons caches". | | So yes if you own nice things and show it publicly, | you'll get annoying comments, have them damaged or | stolen. And it is getting worse. | | Unlike in Japan, I would not expect a lost wallet to be | returned to its owner, never. | monksy wrote: | That's very true in Germany. They do have a lot of | freedoms, but they aren't very creative as a society. | They fall back on strong adherence to rules and their | culture re-enforces it. | | See this: | | https://www.telegraph.co.uk/expat/expatlife/10599631/Why- | the... | duxup wrote: | That seems a lot less elegant a phrase... | davidgay wrote: | I'm guessing it sounds a lot more elegant in Dutch... | seppin wrote: | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tall_poppy_syndrome | [deleted] | rb808 wrote: | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crab_mentality | novok wrote: | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Law_of_Jante | SkyBelow wrote: | It is interesting to ponder why we do either. | | We hammer nails because we want a flat surface. We grease | wheels because we want quite wheels. | | If you get the hammer or the grease depends upon what is | needed to fix the problem. Do you need a punishment or a | reward. | lawn wrote: | Wasn't there a story a while ago how a Japanese school | essentially forced (or put a lot of pressure) a schoolgirl to | dye her hair to fit in with the other girls, but it failed | over and over until she got burns on her head? | supernova87a wrote: | Another regarding gender expectations is the recent news | that a (maybe more than 1?) Japanese medical school's | admissions staff were rigging standardized test scores to | disfavor women applicants. This is because they were seen | as less reliable / career-oriented or productive (or | whatever justification) for not favoring them to receive | the education that men deserve. | | Expectations. | Aunche wrote: | It isn't an irrational bias thing. Women in Japan are | pressured to stay at home to take care of the kids, so | they're less likely to work as much as a men. | triceratops wrote: | Bias is bias. Not to mention this can cause vicious | cycles where women don't progress in their career due to | a perception they'll become homemakers -> are pressured | to work less because the career is going nowhere -> | continue to not progress. | dr_dshiv wrote: | My first day in Japan I fell asleep on the train. I woke up to a | train employee telling me to leave the train. I grabbed my bag | and left in a daze, only to realize too late that I left my | duffle bag on the top shelf. I reported it and was assured that | it would be found. 2 weeks later they still hadn't found my bag | but kindly told me that it must have been a Korean. | | Um. Well, that was 20 years ago. I'm sure things are different | now. | throwaheyy wrote: | Because they care about others | pzumk wrote: | > In a study comparing dropped phones and wallets in New York and | Tokyo, 88% of phones "lost" by the researchers were handed into | the police by Tokyo residents, compared to 6% of the ones "lost" | in New York. Likewise, 80% of Tokyo wallets were handed in | compared to 10% in New York. | | Wow! ___________________________________________________________________ (page generated 2020-01-15 23:00 UTC)