[HN Gopher] Shaking Up the Diamond Industry ___________________________________________________________________ Shaking Up the Diamond Industry Author : EwanToo Score : 166 points Date : 2020-02-01 08:06 UTC (14 hours ago) (HTM) web link (www.newyorker.com) (TXT) w3m dump (www.newyorker.com) | rcarmo wrote: | My father was a diamond cutter (one of the folk who designed the | modern "Portuguese cut" of the 70s) and he went through the | evolution of diamond cutting from abrasion with copper disks (for | cutting windows and facets) to laser cuts. | | I distinctly remember going into the (then state-owned) workshops | as a kid and watching the cutters at work with their loupes, and | how they kept tabs on stones by checking in and out of the vaults | little envelopes annotated with each step of the process - it was | true craftsmanship. | | Biggest stone I "saw" (they did resin molds of the large ones for | senior cutters to measure and mark the places for clamping and | cutting, and my father would bring some models home to study and | review other cutters' suggestions) was about 2x2x3cm, and IIRC it | was cut down into many smaller ones due to impurities (you'd cut | a window to peer in, assess where the impurities were and then | plan the cuts to excise them or avoid including them into the | finished cut). | | The techniques are sure to be vastly different today, but the | detachment with which he viewed his work was rather fun: they | were intricate puzzles to maximize yield during the rough cut | phase and reflectiveness during the shaping phase - they did the | math by hand for the facet sizes and angles, and it took years to | figure out the best ways to do some of the shaping in a | reproducible fashion (that was his key achievement). | | And all that time, they were "just pretty rocks". He was very | nonchalant about it, and never considered them of much value. | DeBeers tried to hire him and he pretty much said he was done | with the hype (rather amusing considering I'm about his age at | the time and also fed up with our industry hype). | | (Also, if you read Michael Crichton's "Congo", he got the diamond | color names wrong) | rcarmo wrote: | Also, a note on the humanitarian side of things, but not | directly related to mining: When the Portuguese colonies | seceded in the 70s, many people returned or emigrated to | Portugal with nothing more than the clothes on their backs and | "diamonds" they had exchanged their farms and real estate for. | | I remember a few dinner conversations about how a few of them | came to my father to assess the value of those stones, and most | were chunks of quartz or other worthless crystals. | | I think some of those conversations were really tough, and one | of the reasons he disconnected from work as much as he could | (his hobby was electronics, and one of the reasons I got into | computers was that he brought a Sinclair ZX81 from London after | years of putting together various kits, including a HeathKit | oscilloscope). | | So, in a way, diamonds are the reason I do what I do these | days. | primity wrote: | I come from one of those families. My grandfather came back | to Portugal from Angola soon after the war started. | Unfortunately, he never got to trade his possessions for | diamonds, so they had essentially their clothes. | olliswe wrote: | I currently live in Sierra Leone working as a software dev, and | just came back from an evening jog around the largest diamond | mine in West Africa. It's crazy how much pain an misery diamonds | have caused to this country. The citizens here in Koidu don't get | any of the income of the diamonds, and live it extreme poverty... | Meanwhile the guys from De Beers are living bougie lives in their | maximum security compounds, with a pool, western supermarket and | bar. | pinkfoot wrote: | > The citizens here in Koidu don't get any of the income of the | diamonds. | | Surely the issue of where and how minimg licences and sales | revenue is distributed in SL, is something the folk of Koidu | should take up with their government. | | As with any company anyehere, De Beers pays the share they are | obliged to to the authorities. | grecy wrote: | > _As with any company anyehere, De Beers pays the share they | are obliged to to the authorities_ | | BP and Facebook aren't paying their share of taxes in the | USA, do you think De Beers is going to do so in Sierra Leone? | | The only difference is there are _just_ enough tax dollars in | the US to make life tolerable for the masses - cheap beer & | cigarettes, sports on TV and elementary education. | lordnacho wrote: | I still wish I'd discovered Moissanite before I got married. The | rock would have been multiples larger and I'd have the | satisfaction of not contributing to a monopolistic and | exploitative industry. | jseliger wrote: | There has been more noise around lab-grown diamonds as of late: | https://qz.com/630512/would-you-propose-with-a-diamond- | grown.... | turing_incomp wrote: | A pricing comparison based on real data: | https://blog.onetruerock.com/blog/LabvsEarth | | The site was previously on ShowHN. I was in the process of | looking a few months ago and found the overview of how the | market works interesting: | https://blog.onetruerock.com/blog/OneTrueRockValue | anonu wrote: | I wish manufactured diamonds were more prevalent before I got | married. There's still a slight look and feel difference | between these things. I feel the diamond still looks slightly | more sparkling in light. This is all subjective of course... | shawnz wrote: | While cubic zirconia has a lower refractive index than | diamond (making it less "brilliant"), moissanite actually has | a higher refractive index than diamond. | irishcoffee wrote: | I was fortunate enough to discover moissanite. Wife loves it, | and the price was somewhere in the ballpark of 90-95% cheaper | than an equivalent size diamond. The added benefit is, everyone | thinks it's a diamond and we haven't yet felt the need to | correct them... | chadmeister wrote: | Exact same situation here. Wife gets complimented on it all | the freaking time and not a single person has ever thought it | was anything but a diamond. One of the best decisions of my | life second only to marrying this woman! | matwood wrote: | > everyone thinks it's a diamond and we haven't yet felt the | need to correct them | | It also avoids conversations that have few good outcomes. | Tell someone who spent $$$$ on a diamond that you think | diamonds are a waste of money or a humanitarian disaster, and | it's not a great way to start a conversation. There are also | other colored stones that I think are nicer looking than | diamonds, but moissanite provides a nice way to stay within | cultural norms without necessarily[1] contributing to the | problem. | | [1] Obviously actively fighting against the whole diamond | industry is better, but we all have to pick our battles. | galangalalgol wrote: | Synthetic diamond will eventually become so easy the | industry won't be able to supress it anymore. The collapse | will be interesting, in the bloddy sense of the term I | suspect. | bluedevil2k wrote: | Synthetic diamonds are not easy to produce and they take | time and energy (literally). The only reason synthetics | are made is because the price of real diamonds help prop | up the price of artificial ones. If the market collapses, | as you predict, than artificial diamonds don't become | economical to create any more. My prediction: new mines | will continue to be found and real diamonds will have the | same market hold they have now in 20 years. | Ericson2314 wrote: | That doesn't make much sense. The ratio of the mining | cost manufacturing cost is the same regardless of the | demand. | [deleted] | [deleted] | dodobirdlord wrote: | Research on bulk synthesis of diamond will continue for | the foreseeable future, it's just too important a | manufacturing material. It will be a massive win for | thermal engineering when semiconductor chips can easily | be embedded in a diamond matrix. | 77pt77 wrote: | "Synthetic" diamonds are better in all objective criteria | that "natural" diamonds. Before they were a thing they | would even be considered top quality diamonds. | | Once they were mass produced the criteria changed and now | the "natural" with higher degree of impurities (a | previously undesirable trait) are considered better. | | It's not about the rock. The rock is a placeholder. It's | about how much you spent on the rock (commitment) and the | fact that it's not available to everyone (social proof). | pzone wrote: | It is extremely difficult to create large, colorless, | flawless synthetic diamonds. Currently synthetics are | primarily used for industrial applications like drill | bits. | 77pt77 wrote: | "synthetic" diamonds with far fewer impurities are far | cheaper than "natural" diamonds of the same size. | | The goalpost will always move because the things used to | justify it are excuses and not real reasons. | petre wrote: | Even De Beers announced they would start selling | synthetics. | nyolfen wrote: | de beers is doing it as a pr move, selling them as | 'budget' diamonds as an attempt to devalue them | BlueTemplar wrote: | Yeah, one of my physics teachers did a job for a diamond | company where the goal was to ADD impurities to a | diamond, because diamonds with (the right?) impurities | are colored, more rare (?), and fetch a higher price. | [deleted] | Aunche wrote: | Synthetic rubies and sapphires have been around for over | 100 years and are dirt cheap ($10 for a 15mm one on | eBay). However, the market for natural rubies and | sapphires is still going strong. A high quality natural | Ruby costs about the same as a similar sized diamond. | There's no reason to believe the diamond industry is | going to crash any time soon. | thaumasiotes wrote: | > Synthetic rubies and sapphires have been around for | over 100 years and are dirt cheap ($10 for a 15mm one on | eBay). | | Rubies are much cheaper than that. | | At least, I used to order them from Pehnec Gems at prices | more like $3 per (in lots of 10+). I haven't bought them | in years and pehnec.com currently resolves to 10.0.0.1; | not sure what's going on. | tony0x02 wrote: | I think we're close if not already there. | mysterydip wrote: | First time I've heard of moissanite, unfortunately (7 years | too late). Any recommendations on a place to shop for it? | pottertheotter wrote: | It's been 4 years but I got my wife's ring from | https://www.moissaniteco.com/ and we had a good experience. | roganartu wrote: | It doesn't really matter, tbh. The patent for moissanite is | held by Charles and Colvard, so no matter where you shop | for them they will be coming from them (and should have an | authenticity certificate too, btw). | | Charles and Colvard has an online shop you can find by | googling. | | No affiliation, my wife's stone is just also a moissanite. | betab7777 wrote: | Charles and Colvard actually lost their patent a while | ago...I wanna say two or three years in August? I'm a | huuuuge proponent of moissanite, but it's one of the | reasons I am slightly wary of purchasing moissanite | online without at least speaking to the seller. | Moissanite doesn't always come with a certificate. In my | mind, though, if you love it and can afford it, who's to | tell you it's fake? | throwawayhhakdl wrote: | Isn't it a natural gem? How is it patentable? | CrazyStat wrote: | I also went with moissanite. My wife (then girlfriend) was in | the "2-3 months salary for a diamond" camp which I find | incredibly crass. Saved $15k on the diamond by going with | moissanite and spent a fraction of that on getting a nice | custom ring + wedding band made by an independent local | jeweler instead. I was happy to support a local craftsman | rather than DeBeers & co. | Infinitesimus wrote: | Did her perspective change or does she believe she got an | expensive diamond? | CrazyStat wrote: | I was upfront with her about my dislike for the diamond | industry and my feelings about spending 3 months salary | on a diamond. I told her that I wasn't getting her a | diamond and told her exactly what it was when I gave it | to her. | | I don't think I changed her perspective necessarily, but | she knows what she got and respected my reasons for that | decision. She didn't break up with me over it anyway. | elcomet wrote: | Did you tell her about the nature of the stone ? | | That sounds like a disaster to come if she doesn't know, | and she learns it by going to the jeweler to clean / repair | the stone. | CrazyStat wrote: | Yeah I told her exactly what it was when I gave it to | her. We had had several discussions prior about my | feelings about the diamond industry and the surrounding | social expectations, so she knew I wasn't going to get | her a diamond. | joering2 wrote: | Can you elaborate? You mean the fact all are synthethic | (for hewlery purpose) or something else? | CrazyStat wrote: | If she thought I gave her an expensive diamond and then | learned from a jeweler that it was in fact a moissanite I | would expect her to be upset about me misleading her. | raverbashing wrote: | Life Pro-Tip: don't marry a woman that will feel unvalued | by the stone in the wedding ring. | | Spend the money in something better and that will further | the relationship, like the honeymoon. | onetimemanytime wrote: | >> _Spend the money in something better and that will | further the relationship, like the honeymoon._ | | Honeymoon's over. Ever heard that? I was thinking more in | the buy a home or invest in stocks | albertgoeswoof wrote: | Better yet, stick it in an index tracker fund for 30 | years and when you're 60 you'll have a million in the | bank. | | Which you won't spend anyway because you'll have nothing | and no one to spend it on. But smugness and pride are | truly priceless. | CrazyStat wrote: | 60x return in say 35 years is a pretty damn good index | fund, can you tell me where to get that? | cosmodisk wrote: | 2-3 months of salary for me would be a substantial | contribution towards a deposit for a flat.My fiance would | smack my face if I'd spend it on a shining rock ) | coredog64 wrote: | One downside to moissanite: I bought some earrings that I | thought were nice looking and affordable. My wife doesn't | wear them very often and instead wears real diamond earrings | that were the same price because the moissanite is too big. | gowld wrote: | As thousands know, it's not enough for you to discover it, you | need to partner to discover and appreciate it, and as a couple | not be peer pressured by your partner's judgmental friends, or | you need to keep a lifelong secret that you might be the | villain for making the ethical choice. | onetimemanytime wrote: | >> _The rock would have been multiples larger_ | | and that beats the purpose: "how much did you pay for that | diamond. Must've cost a fortune." The idea is not wear | something bigger, if it's cheaper | dannyw wrote: | We should crowdfund a PR campaign that diamonds are synonyms for | death and exploitation, and it's more humane for "any gem but a | diamond". | | A $10 million campaign or so, targeting youth especially, can | have tremendous impacts on future generations. | iamgopal wrote: | For 10 million, we can manufacture lab grown diamonds using | MWPCVD. | starpilot wrote: | shit HN says | quickthrower2 wrote: | I think you'd need to replace the diamond / expensive jewelry | thing with something that appeals to the younger generation. I | am not in that generation so I am not sure what that would be, | but here is an idea. | | The diamond idea is based on having something that resembles | luxury, like yachts and expensive champagne. It was initial | marketed on the idea that you only love someone if you | sacrifice your salary for a month or two to buy a ring. We can | keep that concept (because that'll be tough to change) but | shift the object: | | Somehow we want to make all that kind of stuff look morally | disgusting, i.e. private jets with CO2 emissions that help kill | the planet and people with floods and fires, and rich snobs | spending money on pearls when they could be donating to | charity. Another 2008 crisis which will happen like clockwork | would be a great wave to surf for getting momentum behind the | idea. More homeless middle class and rich bankers will make | people angry. | | The idea is to make luxury and opulence (but not necessary | money) seem bad to the middle class, in the same way as | advocating slavery would seem bad. | | Then the replacement could be a donation to the charity that | the receiver of the engagement ring chooses. The ring could be | a simple 18ct gold band or gold plated. It could be 3D printed | from an unusual material. Doesn't matter that it costs $50 or | whatever, it's now just a symbol, it could have imprinted on it | the cause that was donated to. | | The $10M would be spent on seed funding for a company to sell | this kind of product, because then it's profits can be | reinvested in marketing it further, rather than the "1 | superbowl ad" that someone else mentioned in jest. | jatgoodwin wrote: | Except the diamonds discussed in the article are from Botswana, | where the article states "the firm paid the Botswanan | government eighty-five million dollars in taxes, and nearly | thirty million in royalties, on profits of about a hundred and | eighty-five million." | | Seems pretty good deal for the Botswanans. | arczyx wrote: | To be fair, paying the government in taxes and royalty does | not mean that the diamond is not obtained through | exploitation of the local population while the corrupt | officials took the money (this sometimes happened in my | country). | | I don't really know about Botswana though, if those money | actually go to the Botswanans then good for them. | grecy wrote: | > _I don 't really know about Botswana though, if those | money actually go to the Botswanans then good for them._ | | Botswana is probably the best run and least corrupt country | in Southern Africa (maybe all of Africa). They've never had | a war of any kind, are incredibly friendly to everyone | regardless of skin color, etc. etc. | | They are famous for tricking the British into giving them | mineral rights before they were granted independence, and | have used that money wisely the benefit the local people. | Huge success story, and fantastic country. | tacheiordache wrote: | We, Romanians are very emotionally attached to Botswana's | currency. It means in Romanian, the most important thing | men pride themselves with. | ci5er wrote: | So... One superbowl ad? | bluedevil2k wrote: | You're totally naive if you think other gems are mined more | humanely than diamonds. Just look at the countries about half | the diamonds are coming from these days - Russia, Canada, | Australia. You think it's going to be more humane and ethical | to mine sapphires in Madagascar or Lapis in the mountains of | Afghanistan? | anonu wrote: | Really cool history. Thanks for sharing this. | | I can imagine if you "know the truth" about the business you're | in you might want to get out. I felt like that about certain | financial jobs I've had in the past. The actual work felt like it | provided no real value to society, but the intellectual | challenges were what kept me there. | Riguad87 wrote: | If you think into the problem some more, I believe that you | will conclude, on the face of the natural problem and without | need of further information, that exit from a complicated | family concern is the provision of the older generations and | never in the realms of practical viability for those who | inherit legacy management and ownership. | | I am very much interested in knowing your thoughts, should you, | on reflection find my point above not to be self evident. | vostok wrote: | That's interesting. I actually feel quite differently about my | own experience in finance. | | HFT is a great example mentioned by a sibling comment. You kind | of need some number of traders out there to make sure that | market prices are honest and fair. HFT has done a great job of | reducing (a) the number of people involved in trading per | dollar traded and (b) the amount of money made by traders per | dollar traded. | skrebbel wrote: | I'm very far from the finance world so please correct me if | I'm saying something stupid. | | But how does eg an algorithm that sells stock when the | newspaper headlines have a "negative sentiment" help ensure | that "market prices are honest and fair"? What's "honest and | fair" about stocks across the board dropping because of | bushfires or a virus outbreak, only to rise back to pre- | headline levels half a day later? | amylene wrote: | The best way to make a correct prediction is to continually | update your estimate as new information comes in. As it | comes in. That's all the markets are doing. | | When the virus starts, the markets adjust downwards because | there is a chance that virus kills tens of millions, which | would have severe economic impact. | | As the world public health starts to reduce the error bars | or bad outcome likelihood, the market adjusts. | | The problem is that you're thinking of something as having | a concrete value. Instead, think like Tetlock teaches in | superforecasters. Then you will have a better model of | what's going on. | anonu wrote: | "keeping markets efficient" is how I justified what I did. | But what's that number N of market participants where N+1 | brings a de minimis improvement in efficiency. I think the | number of market participants (large institutional players) | is already well over N. To the point where its just computers | churning trades. | | To be clear, nothing wrong with that. But from a personal | perspective you start to question your contribution. | dang wrote: | (We detached this subthread from | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=22209972) | andrepd wrote: | >The actual work felt like it provided no real value to society | | A sign of a broken system that needs urgent repair. Most | financial jobs, hft, adtech jobs... We have our best minds | working on things that do not provide any useful value to | society. This is not a good state of affairs. | brandnewlow wrote: | I can't speak to finance but I get confused when people bash | advertising in broad strokes. People running businesses need | ways to exchange money for new customers. That's advertising. | Making that more efficient might surely be annoying but a | complete waste of time? | hansvm wrote: | I think the parent comment was referring to adtech in | particular, which I agree isn't inherently bad, but which | currently has a model of: 1. Slurp up as much data as | possible no matter how sensitive and no matter the societal | cost. 2. Use that data purely to increase the efficiency of | wasting an enormous chunk of the world's bandwidth and | computing resources (anecdotally, something like 30% of my | traffic before I started blocking everything at a dns | level) _pushing_ ads to anyone who might match by any means | necessary whether they want them or not. | | I might even acquiesce to some form of push-based ads being | broadly beneficial (e.g. for truly novel offerings), but | for almost everything that currently shows up as an ad I | would much rather be able to efficiently search for it and | find it once I'm actually ready to buy than to be inundated | with hundreds or thousands of worthless ads ahead of time | in the off chance that they'll bring a particular product | to the forefront of my mind and sway my purchasing | decisions. | | That's kind of the point of frameworks like async/await :) | Adtech is using a polling system to try and demand my | attention with a, let's say, 1% success rate, but we could | cut down the noise 100x simply by awaiting my next | purchasing decision. | kijin wrote: | The parent said adtech, not advertising. What we call | adtech today is advertising plus tracking. The tracking | part is what most people seem to have a problem with. | BlueTemplar wrote: | Post-war advertising isn't much better itself, being | based to make people to want things they might not even | need... | Riguad87 wrote: | I still say we ignored the Main Street and non-scale non- | flow micro-sensitive and disaggregated or rather yet to be | aggregated, customers, not whole by reasons superficially | readily learned. | | Sobel's The First Junk Bond, gives the mechanics of | preservation of the vast onshore reserves, until (I don't | have the recall but I think Sobel gives the trigger price) | $50/B plateaux. | | In 95 I wrote the level of inefficiency in agency | transactions was 60%. | | In 2018, stories on the embedded framework fraud of online | advertising buying, gave the same number for the new | system's inefficiency. | | Print, my world despite the gasping inhalation of every | party I speak with, remains almost unchanged in headline | volumes, despite the unbroken prophecy of all trade | journalism. | saidajigumi wrote: | I think you have a vast disconnect between the reality of | advertising today vs. the quaint mid-20th century mental | model that you seem to hold. Or you're being entirely | disingenuous about what people complaining about | "advertising" _mean_. | | If modern advertising 1) did not vacuum up personal data in | extremely invasive ways, 2) didn't distort the entire | business models of the largest tech companies against the | interests of the overwhelming majority of their users, and | 3) wasn't a broad attack vector on that same user | population (dark patterns, outright malware delivery, just | plain terrible UX everywhere, etc.)... then there'd | probably be very little complaint about advertising, | relatively speaking. | | Put another way: no one gripes about the existence of | Craigslist. Thought experiment: what if the targeted | advertising model was _illegal_ , both enforceable and | enforced with teeth. How much of what's detrimental about | modern advertising would simply vanish, like a bad memory? | vasco wrote: | Not taking sides but what you described were the natural | developments of "making advertisement more efficient", | people found that by showing targeted ads they'd have to | show less of them to get the same amount of new | customers, therefore making advertisement cheaper and | more efficient. If this is a net positive or negative for | society is something I'll stay out of. | rhizome wrote: | Efficiency is overrated. It's an acceptable rationale for | destruction and exploitation (the process demands it), | but that acceptance doesn't make it a good thing overall. | | > _people found that by showing targeted ads they 'd have | to show less of them to get the same amount of new | customers_ | | I mean, did they really? Where can I read about these | successes? | coredog64 wrote: | Nitpick: Plenty of people gripe about CL. By giving away | classified ads, CL killed a huge cash cow for many | newspapers. | ggm wrote: | E.J. Epstein's "the death of the diamond" was a great read. But, | since 1984 is long behind us, kind of wrong. | | I had no idea how much bort the world consumes. Industrial | diamonds are .. industrial. Hard to feel romantic about drill | bits and cutting saws. | | Also the simplicity of the financials to lend liz Taylor the | dough to buy the diamond .. Who actually bought it if the money | came from the shop? | [deleted] | jake-low wrote: | Folks who enjoyed this article may also be interested in this one | [0] from The Atlantic, published in 1982, which chronicles the | rise of the diamond industry during the 20th century. | | [0]: https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/1982/02/have- | yo... | dang wrote: | Discussed 5 months ago: | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=20818618 | | 2012: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=4535611 | | 2010: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=1405698 | | Also 2010: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=1110283 | | Those are the big threads. Lots of little ones too: | https://hn.algolia.com/?dateRange=all&page=0&prefix=false&qu... | | The author showed up here once: | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=5414757 | jacobwilliamroy wrote: | What do you do with your diamonds? Are they supposed to have nice | piezoelectric properties or something? | BlueTemplar wrote: | Well, it's one of the hardest known materials... | The_mboga_real wrote: | Now do one about all the really poor diamond hunters, you fag | devin wrote: | Fantastic article. Before you make a comment about the diamond | industry, read the whole thing. I've had the same view, but this | article moved me. | | Also, the audio version is wonderfully read. Recommended. | quickthrower2 wrote: | As always, beware that the article might be biased. I don't | think it is too tinfoil to suspect that the diamond industry | does good PR. | berlin1212 wrote: | Human rights violations - nobody wants to fix it! | pacamara619 wrote: | Is it possible to artificially create diamonds so that they have | defects which make them slightly blue in colour? | iamgopal wrote: | You mean boron impurities ? | Aunche wrote: | Yeah. You can get artificial diamonds of pretty much every | color. They aren't super popular though because everyone will | assume that the diamond is artificial or even fake because | natural blue diamonds cost $1 million. | bruceb wrote: | One way to shake up the industry is just not to buy diamond | wedding rings. That simple. | | Big rocks on a finger make the person seem needy and insecure. | Like I need this big flashy thing is proof of my worth. | jtms wrote: | Anecdotally, many younger couples I know are going with lab | made stones or gemstones other than diamonds. | greenonions wrote: | I bought my wife a simple gold band. We were students. I told | her how Americans spend so much money on diamonds and she was | like, "that's stupid, you could go on such a good vacation | and have nice food." | demosito666 wrote: | The right way to shake this industry would be to obliterate it | completely. Finding another useless piece of glass and selling it | for $$$ is not shaking anything. | lotsofpulp wrote: | Society would have to work to convince people that status | symbols are not worth pursuing. Unfortunately, based on my | experience of how people's brains work, that is quite an uphill | battle. | bonoboTP wrote: | While status symbols exist everywhere, this specific | obsessing over diamond rings and being "shamed" if you don't | get one is pretty US-specific. In Hungary, for example, many | couples just get simple, golden rings without any gemstone. A | wedding ring traditionally isn't supposed to be flashy here. | paganel wrote: | People over here in Europe are not that hung up on diamonds. | Not saying we don't care about status symbols, because we | most certainly do, just wanted to point out that it's | definetely doable to "eliminate" diamonds from the "status | showing" game. | zhte415 wrote: | > Society would have to work to convince people that status | symbols are not worth pursuing. | | On this note, a book recommendation: The Theory of the | Leisure Class: An Economic Study of Institutions. | | Thorsten Veblen, 1899. | | More relevant now than ever. From Wikipedia, a short summary: | | > a treatise on economics and a detailed, social critique of | conspicuous consumption, as a function of social class and of | consumerism, derived from the social stratification of people | and the division of labour, which are social institutions of | the feudal period that have continued to the modern era. | | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Theory_of_the_Leisure_Clas. | .. | | I believe he coined the phrase Conspicuous Consumption. | mhb wrote: | Maybe replace it with something that also consumes energy and | produces nothing of real value. Maybe call it cryptocurrency. | oiasdjfoiasd wrote: | ^ guy who missed the boat. | CrazyStat wrote: | So the new engagement ring diamond will be a piece of glass | with a bitcoin wallet containing 1+ BTC microetched on it? ___________________________________________________________________ (page generated 2020-02-01 23:00 UTC)