[HN Gopher] Seneca on The Shortness of Time (2017)
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       Seneca on The Shortness of Time (2017)
        
       Author : prostoalex
       Score  : 198 points
       Date   : 2020-02-02 12:35 UTC (10 hours ago)
        
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       | rnd33 wrote:
       | One thing I can't shake, and it appears already in the second
       | sentence of the quoted letters by Seneca:
       | 
       | "Life is long enough, and it has been given in sufficiently
       | generous measure to allow the accomplishment of the very greatest
       | things if the whole of it is well invested."
       | 
       | What are "great things" and what is the definition of a "well-
       | invested life"? Most of us will live rather unremarkable lives,
       | most likely forgotten in a hundred years or so (at best!). Who
       | says a "good life" means being remembered as long as possible by
       | future humans? Who says the point of living is not to live in
       | luxury and carelessness?
       | 
       | It just seems to me that Seneca assumes the stoic world-view to
       | be the norm. Can anyone help me understand?
        
       | compumike wrote:
       | On a related note, if you don't make conscious and deliberate
       | decisions about how you want to spend your finite time -- i.e. if
       | you are living "on autopilot" as another commenter said -- the
       | decisions will be made for you by default, whether you like it or
       | not.
       | 
       | "I saw my life branching out before me like the green fig tree in
       | the story. From the tip of every branch, like a fat purple fig, a
       | wonderful future beckoned and winked. One fig was a husband and a
       | happy home and children, and another fig was a famous poet and
       | another fig was a brilliant professor, and another fig was Ee
       | Gee, the amazing editor, and another fig was Europe and Africa
       | and South America, and another fig was Constantin and Socrates
       | and Attila and a pack of other lovers with queer names and
       | offbeat professions, and another fig was an Olympic lady crew
       | champion, and beyond and above these figs were many more figs I
       | couldn't quite make out. I saw myself sitting in the crotch of
       | this fig tree, starving to death, just because I couldn't make up
       | my mind which of the figs I would choose. I wanted each and every
       | one of them, but choosing one meant losing all the rest, and, as
       | I sat there, unable to decide, the figs began to wrinkle and go
       | black, and, one by one, they plopped to the ground at my feet."
       | -- Sylvia Plath
        
         | mariushn wrote:
         | Wonderful quote! How do you get more figs in the tree? As in,
         | how to discover possibilities you haven't thought of, and the
         | tree has only 2-3 figs now, none amazing?
        
           | whtrbt wrote:
           | Wander, ramble, daydream, experiment.
        
       | 867-5309 wrote:
       | "The very parent at the park playing on his iPhone while his
       | children run around playing and laughing is the same one, who,
       | when you fast-forward the axis of time, wants those precious
       | moments back."
       | 
       | other brands are available..
        
         | atorodius wrote:
         | Antonomasia?
        
           | 867-5309 wrote:
           | product placement? elite luxury?
        
       | pmoriarty wrote:
       | Seneca's _Moral Letters_ [1] are also well worth reading, though
       | they are as a whole more hit and miss than _On the Shortness of
       | Life_ which is excellent throughout.
       | 
       | [1] - https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Moral_letters_to_Lucilius
        
       | jacobwilliamroy wrote:
       | I didn't realize Seneca was still writing as of 2017
        
         | dang wrote:
         | We'd change the year to that of his letter, but the bulk of the
         | OP was not written by Seneca.
        
         | golemotron wrote:
         | Entrepreneur too. His apple juice is incredible.
        
       | agumonkey wrote:
       | I was reminded that some things in adult life still distort the
       | notion of time. Climbing for instance got people to quote "turns
       | a second in a century". The amount of focus and depth for every
       | little move makes your mind works differently.
       | 
       | I think modern life kills this. Too many things are too
       | comfortable and too stressful (as in short burst of opposite
       | stimuli).
        
       | cryptozeus wrote:
       | Letters by seneca (free)
       | 
       | http://www.openculture.com/2017/10/three-huge-volumes-of-sto...
        
       | lawlorino wrote:
       | Am I the only one who doesn't find this kind of writing helpful?
       | It just seems to add to my increasing anxiety about throwing my
       | life away by reminding me of that fact but not presenting a path
       | to solution. I think I can best summarise my problem from the
       | quote
       | 
       | > "A man who dares to waste an hour of time has not discovered
       | the value of his life."
       | 
       | The critical thing that I'm missing is how does one go about
       | finding the value of their life exactly?
        
       | lihaciudaniel wrote:
       | If you like to read more about Seneca, I can't recommend enough
       | Tao Of Seneca [1] by Tim Ferris. Other classical text that are
       | must read include Enchiridion by Epictetus, Marcus Aurelius
       | Meditations
       | 
       | [1] https://tim.blog/2017/07/06/tao-of-seneca/
        
       | dahart wrote:
       | > The best way to spend money is to buy time
       | 
       | I realized recently that I never fully understood 'time is
       | money', never felt it first-hand truly and deeply, until I tried
       | to start my own business. Then I 'discovered' that money directly
       | extended the amount of time I could chase my dream and feed my
       | family. Having a job never gave me the sense that I was buying
       | time, maybe because it's not finite in the same way the startup
       | is.
        
       | blinkingled wrote:
       | Yet the best hours of my life have been idle, empty ones with no
       | plans or agenda whatsoever.
       | 
       | This whole idea of filling time with 'work' like it is a race is
       | completely antithetical to any idea of joy and fulfilment.
       | 
       | It feels like 'wasting' time or downtime is essential to
       | meaningful productivity.
       | 
       | I did absolutely nothing and it was everything that I thought it
       | could be. -- Peter Gibbons.
        
         | agumonkey wrote:
         | I guess whatever you do, try to approach what pleases your mind
         | to the fullest. Either coasting along looking at the sky or
         | climbing a mountain.
         | 
         | Slight anecdote, as a health improvement I started jogging in
         | the woods last summer. My brain is still recovering from a lot
         | of nasty sensations and I'm very sensitive to any form of happy
         | emotions. Whenever I run, I'm free to pick my path, and this
         | feels like a very raw form of happiness seeking. If a part of
         | the forest appeals to me (because it's new, or the sun shines
         | differently through it, or if it's more challenging) I do it
         | and it appeases something in me.
        
         | lordleft wrote:
         | I would like to point out that Seneca was contemptuous of
         | busyness for its own sake. The point is not to work, but to
         | spend the finite time we are alive well. Maybe that includes
         | periods of rest and repose.
         | 
         | There is a tradition of meditation in Stoicism that invites us
         | to take it easy and reflect on what we have, instead of
         | hurrying to an arbitrary destination, given to us by our
         | bosses, or society.
         | 
         | From the same essay:
         | 
         | Everyone hustles his life along, and is troubled by a longing
         | for the future and weariness of the present. But the man who
         | ... organizes every day as though it were his last, neither
         | longs for nor fears the next day... Nothing can be taken from
         | this life, and you can only add to it as if giving to a man who
         | is already full and satisfied food which he does not want but
         | can hold. So you must not think a man has lived long because he
         | has white hair and wrinkles: he has not lived long, just
         | existed long. For suppose you should think that a man had had a
         | long voyage who had been caught in a raging storm as he left
         | harbor, and carried hither and thither and driven round and
         | round in a circle by the rage of opposing winds? He did not
         | have a long voyage, just a long tossing about.
        
           | dorkwood wrote:
           | Which translation is that? It seems easier to read than my
           | copy (Richard M. Gummere).
        
             | lordleft wrote:
             | I got the quote from this brainpickings article:
             | https://www.brainpickings.org/2014/09/01/seneca-on-the-
             | short...
             | 
             | ...which uses: https://www.amazon.com/Shortness-Life-
             | Penguin-Great-Ideas/dp...
        
         | 1996 wrote:
         | Coasting through life is still being part of the rat race -
         | except you run at a lower pace.
         | 
         | The core issue remains: if you don't have a plan for your life,
         | society will make a plan for you.
         | 
         | By making your own destiny, you may fill part of your time with
         | work, but only as long as it serves your purpose.
         | 
         | How good is your idea of wasting time to get meaningful
         | productivity, if you are achieving someone else's goals instead
         | of your own?
        
           | marnett wrote:
           | This is profound and concise. Particularly that
           | society/someone/something will make a plan out of you if you
           | are without one.
        
           | blinkingled wrote:
           | > How good is your idea of wasting time to get meaningful
           | productivity, if you are achieving someone else's goals
           | instead of your own?
           | 
           | That's a great point actually - the someone else's goals
           | part. The whole intelligence in service of madness thing
           | stems from the fact that sane and intelligent people
           | sometimes do not have a goal of their own.
           | 
           | I definitely did not mean to imply that idling is the only
           | thing you do with your life - on the contrary I was trying to
           | say idling is a great way of knowing who you are and coming
           | up with general goals for yourself that you can then fulfill
           | in the rest of the time.
           | 
           | The problem with busy life is you never really dream of your
           | goals and are constantly looking for things to do - it makes
           | it almost eventual that you'll be in service of others'
           | goals. That's not always a bad thing but I find no
           | fulfillment in doing just that.
        
             | tonyedgecombe wrote:
             | _The whole intelligence in service of madness thing stems
             | from the fact that sane and intelligent people sometimes do
             | not have a goal of their own._
             | 
             | I have a suspicion that the majority only have a vague idea
             | and they mostly end up where they are by happenstance.
        
         | ellius wrote:
         | One thing not highlighted in this article is that Seneca
         | considered "leisure" the highest virtue. He talks about
         | Augustus, for example, and other prominent Romans who "won" the
         | rat race, and says they basically wasted their lives. So I
         | think you'd find Seneca's message agreeable. Just read the real
         | thing and ignore this knockoff.
        
         | cortesoft wrote:
         | There is a Brad Paisley song about this - Time Well Wasted.
         | 
         | Like everything, the key is finding the right balance - between
         | activity and rest, between production and consumption, between
         | relationships and solitude. There is no easy answer to what the
         | right ratios are, and they will vary by person and by the stage
         | in life.
        
       | magwa101 wrote:
       | Seneca, JFC...
        
       | lordleft wrote:
       | It was this essay, along with a choice quote from Epictetus, that
       | induced me to finally leave my day job to go back to University
       | to study CS. I graduated a month ago and began my first full-time
       | SWE position last Monday.
       | 
       | I spent my twenties on auto-pilot, allowing external
       | circumstances to effectively decide my life for me. Seneca and
       | the Stoics reminded me of the immense agency I still possessed,
       | despite the obscenity that was the recession and the cost of
       | American Higher Education. I still had some say over my life, or
       | at least over my choices, and if I didn't exercise my agency,
       | life would slip through my fingers and hurtle to me a deathbed
       | filled with regret and disappointment.
       | 
       | The quote from Epictetus:
       | 
       | "How long are you going to wait before you demand the best for
       | yourself and in no instance bypass the discriminations of reason?
       | You have been given the principles that you ought to endorse, and
       | you have endorsed them. What kind of teacher, then, are you still
       | waiting for in order to refer your self-improvement to him? You
       | are no longer a boy but a full-grown man. If you are careless and
       | lazy now and keep putting things off and always deferring the day
       | after which you will attend to yourself, you will not notice that
       | you are making no progress but you will live and die as someone
       | quite ordinary. From now on, then, resolve to live as a grown-up
       | who is making progress, and make whatever you think best a law
       | that you never set aside. And whenever you encounter anything
       | that is difficult or pleasurable or highly or lowly regarded,
       | remember that the contest is now, you are at the Olympic games,
       | you cannot wait any longer, and that your progress is wrecked or
       | preserved by a single day and a single event. This is how
       | Socrates fulfilled himself by attending to nothing except reason
       | in everything he encountered. And you, although you are not yet
       | Socrates, should live as someone who at least wants to be
       | Socrates."
        
         | DenisM wrote:
         | Easier said than done tho. How does one overcome the comfort of
         | inertia?
         | 
         | How did you? Just by reading Seneca, or was there more to it?
        
           | yepguy wrote:
           | I think the secret actually consists of having a good set of
           | aesthetic judgments and emotional reactions. The power of
           | these things is precisely that they're involuntary reactions
           | which push or pull you to do the right thing. Thus they are
           | indispensable for all those moments when your intellect and
           | will are insufficient.
           | 
           | The difficulty is that you can't reason yourself into having
           | them, but must nurture them by other means. This used to be
           | one of the primary goals of education, and is the primary
           | value of a (proper) liberal arts education, as opposed to
           | "critical thinking" skills.
           | 
           | The Stoics wrote about the importance of cultivating a
           | contempt for pleasure. The Christians teach that you should
           | "Love not the world, nor the things which are in the world"
           | (1 John 2:15). Understood naively, these statements are a
           | sure recipe for unhappiness and disaster. But properly
           | understood, within a healthy aesthetic framework and with
           | emotions trained in accordance to it, these statements
           | obviously contain a large chunk of the secret to happiness
           | and success.
           | 
           | I recommend watching this video for an extended introduction
           | to this way of thinking: https://youtu.be/tX5e6eSkaMc
        
             | IggleSniggle wrote:
             | Haven't watch this video, but thanks for posting this. For
             | some reason, despite being deeply involved in the arts my
             | entire life, and despite believing that the classic liberal
             | arts are about enculturation more than knowledge, I never
             | quite put it together that aesthetics more generally had a
             | kind of behavioral utility beyond personal "satisfaction."
             | 
             | Behavioral cognitive therapy is aesthetics for beginners,
             | or maybe "applied surgical aesthetics"
        
           | CalRobert wrote:
           | Everyone's different but I find that keeping my mortality
           | front and center in my mind does wonders.
           | 
           | If, everytime you consider loafing around doing nothing (or
           | worse, you wind up working all weekend on something you don't
           | care about to make your boss rich), you think "I've got ~2500
           | sunday afternoons left, maybe 2000 in good health, maybe 500
           | while I have young kids", etc you consider how precious your
           | time is.
        
             | demosito666 wrote:
             | > you consider how precious your time is.
             | 
             | And what are you going to do with it then? I totally
             | realize how valuable the time is. This gives me tremendous
             | anxiety and fear of missing out - it's so precious after
             | all that I have to use in absolutely the best way possible.
             | But what this best way would be?
             | 
             | So I end up in similar analysis paralysis that the one who
             | spends more time choosing a movie to watch then actually
             | watching it does. Needless to say that he also enjoys the
             | movie less - because he is not sure that he made a right
             | choice after all. And after that he realizes that he just
             | waisted double the amount of movie time to something that
             | he hadn't even liked.
             | 
             | IMHO putting time/productivity/goals/etc. as your top
             | priority is a mistake. Similar to committing to some ideal
             | from your childhood for the whole life. Unless yours and
             | your close ones' personalitiea are not factored in, this is
             | just a way to delude yourself into "productivity" trap.
        
               | lutorm wrote:
               | Indeed, knowing what it is that is important to you may
               | be the most important feature of your philosophy of life,
               | and discerning this is difficult. But all we can do is
               | try our best to figure it out and realize that time is
               | not wasted if it is spent _purposefully_.
        
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           | chillwaves wrote:
           | Truly feel some people are born with more resilience but I
           | also think it can be trained, from an earlier age the better.
           | 
           | If you have grown up giving in to discomfort/pleasure, then
           | you are conditioned to accept the same. It's harder now, but
           | not impossible.
        
           | graeme wrote:
           | By making choices day by day. As the other commentor posting
           | quoting Heraclitus, they are what make us:
           | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=22217440
           | 
           | If a big choice is required, then first do a search of
           | possible benefits, and vulnerabilities. Of what you would do
           | if things went wrong, what the worst case scenarios are, and
           | how to deal with them.
           | 
           | I made such an analysis when considering leaving graduate
           | school to start a business, and it helped immensely in
           | clarifying things.
           | 
           | You do ask a good question, as there are two separate
           | questions in the quote from Epictetus: resolving upon a
           | thing, and taking action to conform to it.
           | 
           | It seems OP had already resolved, they just needed to make
           | the jump. The resolution stage has somewhat different
           | demands.
           | 
           | For some, they may find that some factors preclude such a big
           | jump. For instance, obligations to support a family, health
           | issues, major consequences to failure and lack of a safety
           | net, etc. If so, then the second part of the question doesn't
           | apply, as wishing for a different circumstance is merely a
           | dream, not a resolution.
           | 
           | But, if your trouble is merely comfort and inertia, then slap
           | your face with cold water and wake up. You only have one
           | life. It is seeping away even as you read this comment.
           | 
           | If you want to do something else and you are not doing it,
           | then comfort is your enemy. It lulls you into sticking with
           | what is merely tolerable.
           | 
           | But you are dying. Focus on this, focus on the pain of that
           | realization. It is this pain, this discomfort, that can let
           | you resolve upon a change, whatever that may be in your
           | circumstances.
           | 
           | Once you have resolved, then all becomes clearer. Save every
           | penny you can. Discard comfort and focus on necessity, for
           | the transition will be worse than both the comfortable
           | present and the expected better future. Every bit of slack
           | you can generate helps immeasurably.
           | 
           | Ask if you truly, truly want the change. Soul searching on
           | your own with pen and paper is the best method I know, along
           | with long walks.
           | 
           | If you do form this resolve, and _truly_ decide you want it,
           | hewing to this idea is what lets you break out of inertia.
        
           | lihaciudaniel wrote:
           | "Much difference is there between lying idle and lying
           | buried!"
           | 
           | Moral letters to Lucilius/Letter 82
        
         | oldputput wrote:
         | I don't think Socrates would be seeking a 'full-time SWE
         | position' were he alive today.
        
           | oklol123 wrote:
           | Would be probably a physicist, doctor or lawyer
        
           | lordleft wrote:
           | We can be a Socrates anywhere. We don't have to literally be
           | on trial for "corrupting the youth" to exercise reason and
           | pursue virtue. We can strive to live well on even quotidian
           | place like the workplace or our local communities. In fact
           | that's where much of the drama of the philosophical life
           | unfolds. I wasn't saying that Stoicism pointed me in the
           | direction of a lucrative career but that it encouraged me to
           | ask myself how I can lead a better life for others, and that
           | involved finding work that I loved and that could provide for
           | my family. So no, I don't think Socrates would become a SWE
           | for the typical reasons why people jump into this industry.
           | But there is nothing in his thought that suggests to me that
           | he would above doing meaningful, intellectually enriching
           | work that would enable to help to contribute to his community
           | and to support those he loved.
        
           | watwut wrote:
           | He would be in politics advocating against democracy and for
           | the next war.
        
           | IggleSniggle wrote:
           | I think you're right, although I think he would feel the
           | allure of software and probably write software. He faulted
           | _writing_ with the decline of memory and resulting in the
           | _pretense_ of understanding vs True understanding.
        
         | natmaka wrote:
         | Character is destiny. The content of your character is your
         | choice. Day by day, what you choose, what you think and what
         | you do is who you become. -- Heraclitus
        
           | lihaciudaniel wrote:
           | Everything is change, nothing is forever -- Heraclitus
        
         | agumonkey wrote:
         | I found it shocking to realize that thousand years old
         | realizations are still worth more than the vast majority of
         | ideas invented since (regarding human existence that is).
         | 
         | Gives a slight taint to the meaning of the word 'progress'.
        
           | ellius wrote:
           | Taleb makes the argument this should actually be obvious. Old
           | ideas have survived over time, which suggests they are good
           | enough to be passed down from generation to generation. New
           | ideas are a complete crapshoot, and you have to do a lot more
           | work to figure out if they're worth a damn.
        
           | jvanderbot wrote:
           | My favorite book on this exact sentiment (with healthy doses
           | of neuroscience) is Happiness Hypothesis. Recommended!
        
           | dwrodri wrote:
           | The progress we have made towards changing the conditions
           | humans live in has evolved immensely, but the progress we
           | have made towards a different human condition from our
           | ancestors is almost nonexistent.
        
             | agumonkey wrote:
             | yes agreed, materially we're off the pit
             | 
             | I'd argue though, that a good life is a balance between
             | human condition and material needs. A kind of optimized
             | frugality.
        
           | taberiand wrote:
           | That's the thing about philosophy - it doesn't take any
           | special tools or rely on modern technology to study, just
           | intellect. People today aren't any more or less sophisticated
           | than the people of thousands of years ago, and them no more
           | than the people thousands of years before them. Philosophy
           | transcends time and space, and the golden age of Greek and
           | Roman philosophy is full of extremely insightful and
           | applicable knowledge to our modern lives.
        
             | stallmanite wrote:
             | So philosophy is similar to software as a field in that you
             | don't need a bunch of equipment to get going? Maybe it's
             | trivial but I had never considered that fact or it's
             | implications before.
        
               | refset wrote:
               | My favourite computer-related quote: "programming is
               | applied philosophy" (origin unknown, sorry!)
        
               | simonh wrote:
               | "What is Magic but applied philosophy?" I'm sure I've
               | seen that as a quote, but I can't find where from.
               | Possibly Dune?
        
               | thunderbong wrote:
               | I'm not so sure.
               | 
               | Of course, I have asked many philosophical questions of
               | myself, when understanding software. This, I've noticed,
               | especially happens when you're crossing layers. For
               | example, between hardware / assembly, assembly / C, C /
               | OOP.
               | 
               | However, considering that we have not really come up with
               | a language with which we can communicate with computers
               | seamlessly, I have my doubts. Because, unless we have a
               | language, we can't really philosophize.
               | 
               | This could be a problem due to the interfaces we have
               | though. Or probably, because our interfaces with
               | computers seem to be getting broader and richer with each
               | generation of hardware, we haven't really been able to
               | freeze on the language through which we communicate.
        
               | therein wrote:
               | I always thought, and probably not for the most solid
               | reasons:
               | 
               | Math is applied philosophy and theory of knowledge.
               | 
               | Physics is Math applied on reality.
               | 
               | Chemistry is applied Physics.
               | 
               | Biology is applied Chemistry.
        
               | bigbonch wrote:
               | I would ammend the last two points and say Chemistry is
               | Physics applied to physical primitives and Biology is
               | Chemistry applied to organic phenomena or something like
               | that.
        
               | drworm wrote:
               | Which brings to mind this classic XKCD:
               | https://xkcd.com/435/
        
               | thunderbong wrote:
               | Agree. I had also thought of the sciences in that manner.
        
           | leftyted wrote:
           | Progress lies in the fact that everyone has access to these
           | ideas. It isn't surprising that the best ideas are old. Any
           | idea that has survived for thousands of years has to be good.
        
             | agumonkey wrote:
             | bruh, I'm not even sure that's remotely true.
             | 
             | I'd bet my left pinky that people knew this earlier in life
             | than us because our society shields us from our true
             | selves.
             | 
             | Too many distractions to the point it's harmful.
        
             | IggleSniggle wrote:
             | Or at least it has survivability, which is often but not
             | always a proxy for a "good idea." Ideas that are very good
             | but also unpleasant or exceedingly complex are unlikely to
             | survive. Perhaps for some definitions of good, these ideas
             | are not good.
        
       | acabal wrote:
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