[HN Gopher] What happens to a mail-order mattress after you retu... ___________________________________________________________________ What happens to a mail-order mattress after you return it Author : japaget Score : 152 points Date : 2020-02-20 16:34 UTC (6 hours ago) (HTM) web link (fivethirtyeight.com) (TXT) w3m dump (fivethirtyeight.com) | madengr wrote: | Mattress shopping is almost as bad as car shopping. I'll buy a | used car to get around the sleazy car sales people, but the wife | absolutely won't go for a used matresss. | | I'm sure the mattress markup is astronomical, and I'm sure most | brands come from the same factories. | mthoms wrote: | The sleaze of the mattress industry is a major reason the | _mattress in a box_ business has done so well. I just love when | these kinds of markets get disrupted because the disdain these | companies have for their own customers is infuriating (see also | taxi industry). | | There's a great "Adam Ruins Everything" episode about this | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1tZOKfCial4 | | FWIW, I absolutely love my _mattress in a box_ and the buying | process was painless. | throwaway_tech wrote: | >The sleaze of the mattress industry is a major reason the | mattress in a box business has done so well. | | Don't be fooled if you thought the traditional mattress | buying experience was sleazy (similar to a car buying | experience), the mattress in a box online dark patterns take | sleaze to a whole other level. | mthoms wrote: | I'm sure you're right. | | I have to say my experience was very good in that regard, | possibly because I went with the most respected brand in my | country (Canada) and the industry is much less | crowded/competitive here. | | Having said that, I bought the mattress over 2 years ago | now so maybe things have changed. I _hate_ dark patterns | with a fiery passion. | corporateslave5 wrote: | Yeah I bought one for 175 bucks, just as a temporary thing. I | love it. I'll never pay 1000 dollars for a mattress again | exhilaration wrote: | Just buy your mattresses from Costco, no sleaze in sight. | [deleted] | war1025 wrote: | Sort of interesting to think about the fact that used | mattresses are a no-go for people, but they'll gladly sleep on | hotel beds used by orders of magnitude more people. | | Don't think I'd buy a used mattress either though... | leetcrew wrote: | ultimately people prefer not to stop and think about the fact | that hotel beds are kinda gross, since there's really no | alternative if you want to travel to a place where you don't | know anyone. | | but even if you do acknowledge this, it's not nearly as bad | to sleep in a "dirty" bed for a few nights as it would be to | own one and use it every night. | ska wrote: | I once met someone who always traveled with something a bit | like a thin cotton (silk?) full body sleeping bag (like a | mummy bag). Idea was you never physically touched the hotel | bed. It was apparently expensive. | | The funny thing to me was the she stayed in high end hotels | pretty exclusively who I think you can at least be taking a | fairly aggressive kill-it-with-bleach approach to laundry. | I wondered if there was a wallmart version aimed at people | who stay in seedy motels where it would seem to be more | practical. | fnordian_slip wrote: | There are brand ones that are rather expensive, but at | least in Europe I know that decathlon makes really cheap | silk and cotton sleeping bag liners, because that's where | I got mine. | | They are made to go into sleeping bags, and I love mine | for that use case (less sweat and dirt in your down bag), | but I have also used them in dirt cheap hostels. | | In one seedy hotel in Italy several people in my party | had a lot of bedbug bites, but I can't say for sure if it | actually protected me. I expect I was probably just lucky | that there were none in my room. | | Still, it's a little over 100 grams (less than 4 ounces) | and it makes dirty mattresses in shitty hostels bearable. | ghaff wrote: | Sleep sacks can actually be required for hostels. | (http://www.reidsguides.com/hostels/sleepsacks.html) I | imagine a silk one could be expensive but they're pretty | inexpensive for the most part. | | That said, as someone who travels a lot, when I look at | travelers' catalogs like Magellan at a lot of the safety, | germ protection, etc. items, part of me thinks that | people who buy all that stuff are probably better off | just not traveling. | ApolloFortyNine wrote: | They're definitely abusing the word 'most' there. I've | stayed in easily 20 hostels at this point, and not once | has a 'sleep sack' been required. And in all my hostel | research, I have never stumbled across someone mentioning | they needed one. | ghaff wrote: | I don't think I have on the relatively limited occasions | I've stayed in a hostel (or a mountain hut). That said, | I'd certainly heard of sleep sacks sometimes being | used/required in hostels. So it can't be all that rare-- | or maybe it used to be more common. | ska wrote: | Makes sense I guess although I've never run into that | requirement. | | By description the thing she had was much smaller & more | form fitting than above link. One of the "selling points" | was how small it packed into carry-on, for example. | ghaff wrote: | Probably something more like this: | https://www.rei.com/product/850427/cocoon-silk-mummy- | liner | | The thing with silk is it's pretty fragile but it's | probably the thinnest/lightest material that you'd | actually want next to your skin. | seiferteric wrote: | I think bedding is actually the thing that makes me most | uneasy at hotels, you just don't have a choice. You can | expect they wash the sheets with each new guest, but I don't | think they do so with the comforter which grosses me out. | Then there is the whole bed-bug situation... | tenpies wrote: | I'm also somewhat suspicious that foam mattresses are quite bad | for your health, not necessarily from a sleep mechanics | perspective, but from an air quality one. I mean you are | literally sleeping on a piece of plastic that is optimized for | surface area. You then squish it constantly while using it and | inhale those aerosolized plastic particles for about 8 hours | per day. | dubcanada wrote: | Everything we touch/eat is plastic/comes in contact with | plastic to some degree, your shoes, clothes, bread sits in | plastic for days, vegetables for months, etc. | | I really doubt a bed wrapped in some form of cloth is any | worse. | | Unless you live on mars you are most likely getting ten times | more pollution/plastic from other areas then your foam | mattress. | jamespetercook wrote: | Wow I never thought about this | wahern wrote: | There are latex foam mattresses. I've purchased two from | Sleep on Latex (sleeponlatex.com, or Pure Green on Amazon). | | That said, whether latex, polyurethane, or whatever, with | foam mattresses you're supposed to use a mattress protector | to prevent sweat and accidents from soiling the foam. | Alternatively or in addition to that, Sleep on Latex uses a | wool topper, as I'm sure many other brands do. And then on | top of that most people use sheets. I would think all of that | covering would trap any particles so they can conveniently be | washed out to sea with all the other microplastics from the | laundry. | Someone1234 wrote: | Unfortunately while off-gassing is a legitimate concern | (particularly in poorly ventilated rooms) it is harder and | harder to avoid, as spring mattresses now also often contain | one or several layers of foam. | | I'd like to see some high quality research on this using | realistic test environments, or even monitoring in actual | bedrooms. I don't know who is willing to fund that though. | timw4mail wrote: | Kind of makes a used one seem like a better idea... | pastor_elm wrote: | Mattresses have been sprayed with flame retardants for | decades. Supposedly, many of these new-age foam ones don't | contain them. | allovernow wrote: | Ofgassing in the first few weeks or so may expose you to | harmful chemicals, but I don't see any reason for foam the to | degrade into fine particulate if it isn't exposed to UV, | assuming it isn't made of total garbage. | telchar wrote: | I paid a little extra (~$600) for a foam mattress | manufactured in California. I figured there is a lower chance | of harmful offgassing than the cheaper Chinese mattresses | like Zinus. I don't have any way to test that though. | jrockway wrote: | I was happy with the two IKEA mattresses I bought. I have one | super-cheap foam one that I used for many years and keep around | for guests; guests say they like it more than their mattress at | home, and I think it only cost $30 and has lasted going on 15 | years at this point. I also had one of their more expensive | latex foam mattresses, and that kind of developed a sunken in | spot in the middle where I slept on it after ~5 years. I | replaced it with a more botique latex mattress and the same | thing happened; so I think that's more of an intrinsic weakness | in the material rather than a manufacturing defect. And, you | have to expect that something used every day for 8 continuous | hours is going to need replacement after a few years anyway. | | What I like about IKEA is that you just walk in and self-serve | yourself a mattress. No sales. No marketing. If you don't like | it, at least it was cheap. So I'm giving them a recommend. | leetcrew wrote: | > If you don't like it, at least it was cheap | | it's actually better than that. you can return it any time in | the first year of ownership, provided you kept the receipt. | ohazi wrote: | Provided you can get it into your car. If it came vacuum | rolled, the odds of this being the case are low. | leetcrew wrote: | this is probably how they get away with such a generous | return policy. | dole wrote: | One caveat about IKEA mattresses: being a multi-national | company, verify the mattresses and linens you're buying | complies to the same sizing in your region of the world; they | can differ and there's always stories about how IKEA sheets | don't fit standard sizes or fit them well, at least. | rahimnathwani wrote: | I've bought mattresses from Ikea in the UK, China and USA. | | In all three of those countries, Ikea sells mattresses in | the regular local sizes. I recall that, maybe 20 years ago, | Ikea in the UK only sold beds and mattresses in their | native (Swedish? Euro?) sizes. But, in the last few years, | I've bought both beds and mattresses from Ikea that are | standard UK and standard US sizes. | | Of course, it's always good to double check the actual | measurements of your old/new mattress before pulling the | trigger. | EvanAnderson wrote: | I'll add a positive comment for IKEA mattresses here, too. We | purchased one a couple of years ago. It was significantly | cheaper than a "name brand" mattress, even if I consider that | I may need to replace it more frequently. So far it has held | up very well, too. | Yhippa wrote: | I bought one of these over a decade ago from Costco. It had a | defect in it but I never really pursued returning it. I had no | clue how I'd get it out of my house by myself. Use a chainsaw or | machete to cut it into blocks and then toss it out the window and | then take it to the dump? It was really heavy. Much heavier than | normal mattresses. At least it seemed much more flexible to bend | around corners. | PopeDotNinja wrote: | I once had a loveseat that I couldn't get out of a studio | apartment without moving almost everything. Since I was a bit | bored at the time, I slowly carved up the entire thing with a | Swiss Army knife w/ the saw & scissors extensions. Was actually | kind of fun. | svieira wrote: | I once tore up a recliner sofa with a crowbar and tossed the | pieces out of a third story window (I didn't get it in, and | there was no way it was going out the door in its then- | present configuration). | gbronner wrote: | I had a tenant who did this to a batch of furniture. Wound | up in the front yard where it got nice and wet in the rain | and then froze. | | Made it even harder to get rid of it. | zabzonk wrote: | In Edinburgh, Scotland, in the 1970s, a friend of mine | inherited a flat and contents but no money. It was an | extremely cold winter and he ended up chopping half the | furniture to pieces (it was the typical hideous stuff you got | in flats in Edinburgh back then) and burning it in the fire- | place to keep warm. | dredmorbius wrote: | Probably mostly natural materials. | | That'd be risky now. | jethro_tell wrote: | I had a friend who moved into an old oddly shaped rental. | When we went to move the heavy stuff in, the big front | picture window was out for repair and the guys said we could | move anything through it while they went to lunch. In the | end, we spent an afternoon chopping couches and dressers and | such into pieces and hauling it to the dump. Didn't really | think that through. | mech1234 wrote: | Get a firm or very firm innerspring mattress from IKEA. You can | do this for less than $300 and it will fit in the back of a sedan | in it's roll-up-package. | | Sleep on it for a bit. If you don't like the feel, which you | probably won't, add a memory foam mattress topper for ~$50. Use a | thicker or thinner topper to suit your needs. | | Congrats! Because your mattress is firm, its foam will not break | down for a long, long time. Sleep easy knowing you didn't waste | stupid amounts of money and that your mattress will last | essentially forever. | acomjean wrote: | I too like the spring mattress with memory foam topper. | Johnny555 wrote: | I tried some Ikea mattresses when I was mattress shopping, and | none of them felt comfortable even in a short test period in | the store. | | I ended up buying a Leesa and have been very satisfied with it | over the past 5 years. | pathartl wrote: | Not sure this is good advice. I like a firm mattress, but IKEA | mattresses are absolutely terrible. I also cannot sleep with a | foam topper on any bed. They're hot and screw up my back beyond | belief. | mstade wrote: | As a counterpoint I have done exactly this and am perfectly | happy with my IKEA mattresses; your mileage may vary I guess. | rahimnathwani wrote: | Ikea sells different types of mattress (spring, foam, latex), | each with different thicknesses and price points. | | I've bought ~10 Ikea mattresses, avoided the cheapest ones of | each type, and been pretty happy. | | I can understand why a foam topper would feel hot. It's main | purpose is to provide a sleeping surface that's the same | shape as your body, so of course this means it maximises the | amount of contact between you and itself. So no space for air | to circulate | | But I don't understand how a foam topper can screw up your | back, unless your mattress is too soft to begin with. A | bad/cheap foam topper will compress pretty easily, and | provide no additional support, but I don't see what harm it | would do. | unlinked_dll wrote: | >I've bought ~10 Ikea mattresses, avoided the cheapest ones | of each type, and been pretty happy. | | You've bought _ten_ mattresses from them?! In how many | years, and for how many people? | | I don't think my parents bought ten mattresses in the | 20-odd years they had their four kids living at home - and | I still sleep on one of them. | | Personally I don't trust anything from Ikea anymore. Their | quality is such garbage for all their products from | furniture to glassware to lamps, I can't give them a dime | of my money knowing whatever I buy won't be around next | year. Multiply whatever you were going to spend by 1.5 and | go to a decent home store, or just go to Target instead. | Wohlf wrote: | I feel the same way about foam toppers, and foam mattresses | are exactly the same. | chihuahua wrote: | I've had an Ikea foam mattress for a few years, and I really | like it. I think it cost around $900 for a queen size (?) | rjkennedy98 wrote: | At the returns department of the company I work for they use the | returned mattresses to clean the floor. The put the forklift | prongs inside the mattress and drive around to clean up the | warehouse. | Reedx wrote: | _"In California, a lot of charities can't accept a used | mattress,"_ | | So those in need of mattresses don't get them and more likely to | go to landfill... regardless of condition. | | Are used mattresses really that risky? Are charities themselves | not able to make a reasonable judgement call on what they accept? | fwip wrote: | It's risky for the charity. For instance, if the mattress has | bedbugs, it stands a good chance of contaminating everything | they've got in storage, requiring them to purge their entire | inventory, sanitize, and build up from scratch again. | sauwan wrote: | Can't they set up an offsite hotbox to get rid of the bedbugs | before it gets onsite? Surely someone could set up a mobile | truck that can come, park, and heat up 15 mattresses for the | few hours it takes to kill or drive off the bedbugs, no? | megablast wrote: | > Can't they set up an offsite hotbox to get rid of the | bedbugs before it gets onsite? I am not sure if you are | serious or not, maybe you think charities have huge amounts | of money to throw at all problems like Google does? | minikites wrote: | Can you ensure that this process is followed fully and | correctly all of the time? | ska wrote: | Is setting this up worthwhile for a general charity? Would | it be better for them than say, working out an overstock | donation? | magic_beans wrote: | Do you really thing a charity can afford that? And mattress | companies have exactly zero incentive to fund this. | hombre_fatal wrote: | One simple option is to immediately insert the mattress | into a bed bug cover upon pickup. | three_seagrass wrote: | Bug covers for mattresses need to be of the right type | and installed properly. Doing it upon pick up only | increases the risk of damaging the cover and ruining any | utility it has. They're not designed for durability and | it takes only a pinhole puncture to ruin the entire | cover. | giarc wrote: | Off topic somewhat but there was a news story of a library | that lost a ton of books because someone return a book | infested with bed bug eggs. Went on the shelf and spread | throughout the library. | morelisp wrote: | Wouldn't this apply to any bedding, or even clothing? | minikites wrote: | David Sedaris has told a story about catching crabs from | thrift store pants. | TallGuyShort wrote: | Buddy of mine tried telling his wife the same story, but | she didn't buy it. | floatrock wrote: | Depends. Clothing you can wash. In my state, outdoor | outfitters aren't allowed to sell used sleeping bags | because of hygiene concerns. | reaperducer wrote: | I've noticed this is very jurisdictional. | | I recently needed to get rid of a mattress set, and looked | online. There are dozens of pages claiming that $Charity_X | won't take mattresses, and dozens more claiming it will. | | That's the problem with the internet - it's sometimes not | specific enough. Due to local laws, the charity in question | doesn't take mattresses. Fortunately, in mine it does as long | as there are no stains and they're in pretty good shape. It | gets the mattresses fumigated and uses them in its homeless | shelters and battered women's shelters. | | Edit: I suspect the charities that won't take mattresses are | ones that run primarily on resale revenue, and not those that | run their own housing. | nitwit005 wrote: | I would assume the issue is partly that there aren't many | organizations capable of dealing with it. You need to operate a | warehouse for the mattresses, and have some sort of local | storefront presence like Goodwill so people can donate and pick | them up somewhere. | circa wrote: | I know this is about mail-order mattress companies. I have always | thought that one of these Mattress store chains are going to be | busted for being involved in a drug ring or something like that. | There are way more locations than there needs to be. Especially | with all of these online mattress brands popping up. There always | seems to be 1 guy working and no one in the stores, ever. At any | of these locations. I don't understand how a business model like | that can last. But they're still kickin' | freedomben wrote: | At least around the salt lake Utah area those stores go out of | business all the time. | reaperducer wrote: | This isn't exclusive to mail order mattresses. | | I went to a big-name department store just last week and bought a | mattress. For the first time, I chose a "memory foam" mattress | because I liked how it felt in the store. (Thought the | traditional spring mattress felt more familiar and "right," | there's something about the foam that was nice.) | | When the giant delivery truck arrived three days later, there was | the usual box spring, which I guess is what necessitated the | truck, but then the delivery guys brought in a small box the size | of a chair and that's what contained the shrunken mattress. | | I asked what happens to the mattress if I decide that memory foam | isn't for me after all, and they said it depends on the brand. | Some go to charity, some go to an exporter for resale overseas, | and some get shredded and made into new mattresses. | giarc wrote: | Be careful with brick and mortar mattress stores (although you | said department store). Many will have "restocking" type fees | for returning a mattress. | reaperducer wrote: | I asked about that. The only thing I would have to pay is the | same delivery fee again for the truck to pick up the old | mattress set (reasonable, IMO), and the price difference if I | chose to replace it with a more expensive set. | dbg31415 wrote: | Returns on bulky items are a mess. | | I ordered a fridge and dishwasher from Costco. They were scuffed | up during delivery. | | Costco asked me to bear with them... send pictures... write up a | report... | | Once Costco was able to stick the delivery company for the bill, | they sent me a new set. They didn't care about the original set. | | At one point a guy showed up in a pickup. No uniform. Not in a | delivery van, or truck. Just a guy with a dolly and a beat-up | F150. He said, "I'm here for the old fridge." | | When he saw they were new appliances, he was like, "Yeah, {the | original delivery company} told me to take them to the dump... | let me sell them, I'll come back with a U-Haul." And he kept | texting and setting times and not showing. I had a Fridge and | Dishwasher in my living room for over a month. | | I asked Costco what was up... I asked them to get it take care of | ASAP... they were like, "Uh... I mean, I guess we can... or you | can just sell them..." | | In the end I sold them to a neighbor, for half what I paid... he | called the brand repair place and ordered a new door. Which is | all I was expecting anyone to do in the first place. | whalesalad wrote: | FWIW I had a Leesa and ended up returning it. That went fine and | dandy, everything worked as they promised with no frills. | | What I actually want to share with you all here is to go to a | mom-n-pop mattress store in your local area. Find your local | mattress NERD and buy a bed from them. They're going to have all | kinds of wild stuff you can try and will do a great job of | selling you the right bed for you (and your partner). | | My wife and I ended up finding this guy - | https://www.youtube.com/user/MattressToGo - and watching some of | his (surprisingly popular) videos you will see he is legitimately | a mattress nerd. | | Coincidentally we lived about an hour from his brick and mortar | location so we drove out to check out the showroom and ended up | buying a mattress on the spot. It took a few days to arrive but | it's without a doubt my favorite mattress. | | I love the convenience afforded by these modern startup companies | but there is really something to be said for going to someone who | has made one thing their entire life's misson and letting them | help you out. | joegahona wrote: | I have a Leesa and don't love it, but I've had it over a year | now, so can't return it. I didn't realize "mom-n-pop mattress | stores" existed -- how would one find one? | | I ended up with an online-mattress purchase because of a poor | experience with both a Mattress Firm store (pushy salespeople) | and most obnoxiously with a specific manufacturer, Simmons. I | stayed at an AirBnB in SF years ago and the bed was noticeably | the most comfortable bed I've ever slept on. I messaged the | host _years_ later and asked him what type of bed it was, and | to my surprise and delight, he messaged me back with text and | images of the tags on the mattress. When I tried contacting | Simmons by phone, email, and even Facebook Message, telling | them I would BUY that mattress, no matter the cost, if they | could point me in the right direction, I got nowhere and was | made to feel like I was a bother. So while it's easy for me to | believe that these online mattress companies are marketing | companies glueing foam together, maybe this is what we needed | to make an outdated industry improve. | jacob019 wrote: | Forgive me if this is off-topic. I am currently in the market for | a queen size mattress in a box. The last one that I bought on | Amazon was perfect, it cost about $300. | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07F8NNL8X It is no longer available. | Now it seems that you can get a decent one for under $250. Here | are some that I found: | | Ashley: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0777K9RGX | | Vibe: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B074NDQ143 | | PrimaSleep: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075T6BNC2 | | Anyone here have any suggestions? | dang_dumb wrote: | Zinus sleep - I have a king hybrid mattress from them and it's | fantastic. https://www.zinus.com | dublinben wrote: | The Green Tea mattress from Zinus is a popular choice, and | well-regarded. It's right at your price point. | | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00Q7EPSHI/ | werber wrote: | https://www.amazon.com/Zinus-Memory-Green-Mattress-Queen/dp/... | | I've had several friends go out and buy it after a night on | mine. I've had it for ~3 years and haven't noticed any | degradation. After trying much more expensive (and heavily | advertised) ones other people own, I can't really tell the | difference. | Mountain_Skies wrote: | I have the same mattress. Almost never give it a second | thought, which is what I really want in a mattress. Some | reviews complain of a fishy smell but I didn't encounter it | with mine but there are enough reviews with that complain | that I wonder if there are multiple manufacturing pipelines, | one of which leads to a fishy smelling mattress. | emodendroket wrote: | I bought an Avocado mattress in the strength of Consumer | Reports' recommendation and, while it's certainly not the | cheapest option, it is very comfortable. | wycy wrote: | I have the AmazonBasics mattress: | https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07C49ZPQG/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b... | | It's my guest room mattress but I do sleep in the guest room | occasionally, and when I do I sleep better than my normal | mattress. That said, the edge support isn't great. Being close | to the edge makes it feel almost like you're at a slight slope. | Still, no regrets for $250. | | Edit: I'm 6ft / 165 lb. It's possible that it would be less | supportive for heavier weights. | giarc wrote: | I agree with the edge support and foam mattresses. A friend | of mine asked me about whether he should recommend a foam | mattress for his grandparents. I specifically said no because | of the edge support. I fear someone with mobility issues | might not be able to support themselves if they were to sit | on the corner. | ropiwqefjnpoa wrote: | I like companies like Sharetown, they help prevent things from | just ending up in a landfill and they make money doing it. | There's a computer recycling company near me that does pretty | well reselling equipment sent to them for recycling. They destroy | drives when instructed to, but will wipe the rest and resell | intact running servers and workstations. | | It's nice working with them because I know the equipment will | most likely find a home. | 0xff00ffee wrote: | I gotta admit, there's one tiny bit of this that I think is kinda | cool: the secondary "Sharetown" ecosystem does sound like an | "afterburner" of sorts for unused product, and I much rather see | products be up-or-re-cycled than tossed in landfill. I think | there is a much larger market for this, especially as TFA says | about the huge increase in returns. | [deleted] | droithomme wrote: | It's amazing anyone buys used mattresses. The likelihood of | getting bedbugs and pounds of a stranger's skin flakes is very | high. Gross! | jldugger wrote: | A hotel is basically a gigantic used mattress store with | massive churn. | acd wrote: | Online shopping is not that sustainable. Current concerns are | returns. First you have the carbon emissions of the first package | delivery then the return package carbon emissions plus the waste. | The waste comes that is more expensive to handle return products | than to simply throw them. | | What I mean it's more eco friendly to have big batch shipments to | stores than individual small packages sent by post. | | A normal physical store is usually more environmentally friendly | than online shopping. | Animats wrote: | No, driving the SUV to the store usually uses more fuel than | the entire supply chain to get to the store. | sergers wrote: | I bought a foam mattress off amazon canada. | | Decided to return it. | | Surprisingly amazon.ca doesnt offer large item pickup like USA, | and expected to return a king size expanded 10" thick foam | mattress to the local post office. | | I called them asking wtf, how am I supposed to return it. | | They gave a me refund, and told me donate destroy it myself or | even just keep it. | | I decided to keep it | deftnerd wrote: | It feels like there might be other possibly uses of old or | unwanted foam mattresses. Perhaps they can be cut down to | standard sizes for home insulation batting? As insulation between | raised garden bed containers and the ground? Insulation between | the ground and a fish tank in an aquaponics setup? | | While there might be better solutions for all of those things, if | these materials are going to end up in the landfill and can be | provided for almost no cost, it seems like a waste to not utilize | the resource. | anonAndOn wrote: | Although it's a bit of work to cut the foam layers into | hundreds of little blocks, you can turn an unwanted foam | mattress into a decent bean bag. | bsanr wrote: | I'd thought I'd get around the madness of mattress shopping by | using just the technique mentioned in the article here: | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=22377160 | | At least, until I found something I liked. I purchased a Purple | 3, thinking that if I loved it, I'd just stick with it. I _did_ | love it, but I couldn 't justify spending $2k on a twin(!). I | returned it, and purchased from another company for ~$700. I | didn't like it as much as the Purple, but when I went to begin | the return, I was told that there _was_ no return process, and | that I could "move the mattress to a different room, or donate | it." Two days later, I received a refund for the full purchase | amount. That ended my journey; no awesome mattress at any price | beats "decent and free." | | As much as I appreciate getting a new mattress for zilch, the | experience made me extremely wary. Was my mattress so cheaply- | made that the manufacturer could afford to give them away? What | was up? So I did some research. It turns out that the mattress | industry is a racket. The markups are ludicrous; almost every | mattress on the market costs, at most, a few hundred dollars to | make. And then it's also impossible to comparison shop because | "models" differ based on retailer by one or two small features; | that means no price-matching, if you can even tell what you're | buying. | | These are the kinds of things that make people suspicious of the | way the economy is set up. It should be easy to find out what | you're purchasing, and then to pay a fair price for it. Instead | you have entire manufacturing-retail chains built on obfuscation | and able to eat untold amounts in lost product. | emodendroket wrote: | Casper is losing money in large part because of returns so I'm | not so sure! | chrshawkes wrote: | You're the reason my Casper stocks seem to be a waste of money. | :) | mherdeg wrote: | There was a pretty popular recent post on reddit's | /r/unethicallifeprotips about this recently. | | It's beginning to become common knowledge that paying for a | mail-order mattress is often optional. By choosing not to | request a refund (and keep the product), you are subsidizing | the purchases of everyone else who does. | | If you squint this kind of looks like the CyberRebate business | model and I wonder how much longer it'll be sustainable. | | (The industry also has amusing quirks like | https://www.vox.com/2017/9/23/13153814/casper-sleepopolis-la... | ) | Johnny555 wrote: | _I purchased a Purple 3, thinking that if I loved it, I 'd just | stick with it. I did love it, but I couldn't justify spending | $2k on a twin_ | | I don't understand this -- you loved the mattress and you knew | the price when you ordered, so what other outcome did you | expect if you couldn't justify the price to yourself even if | you loved it? It seems that you'd have been better off going | with a more affordably priced mattress from the beginning like | a Leesa or Casper? | | Otherwise you're just guaranteeing yourself a lot of hassle to | send back a mattress that you know you don't want to pay for. | Plus, now you know there's a more comfortable mattress out | there that's out of your price range. It's kind of like test | driving an $80K Acura when all you can afford is a $30K Honda, | sure you may love the Acura, but if you can't afford it anyway, | why bother? | stronglikedan wrote: | Probably more along the lines of, "if I love it _thiiiiiis_ | much, then I 'm willing to spend the $2k, but I only loved it | _thiiis_ much, so I couldn 't justify the expenditure." | simonsarris wrote: | 1. Testing cars you can't afford is awesome. Knowing the full | range of experience in a good can be very enlightening. How | much better is a $10,000 camera from a $1,000 camera, or $400 | wine from $4? I used to run a tasting group which is | basically a way to pool money and try liquors that are vastly | out of our individual price range and I highly recommend it. | You can try expensive cars and mattresses for free, that's | even better! | | 2. What's wrong with thinking "Well it is great, but its not | $2000 great." You aren't beholden to the thoughts you had | about how worth-it it might be before you tried it. | ghaff wrote: | >What's wrong with thinking "Well it is great, but its not | $2000 great." You aren't beholden to the thoughts you had | about how worth-it it might be before you tried it. | | Nothing. But I read the GP comment more along the lines of | "It was as great as I imagined it would be but it was still | too much money" | | Sure, if you can, if something expensive is good but not as | great as you hoped it would be for the money, return it. | But it's a bit hard for me to see buying (not test driving) | something that, however great it is you're not keeping it. | megablast wrote: | > Testing cars you can't afford is awesome. | | How much does testing cars cost the dealer? Compare it to | the mattress. | Johnny555 wrote: | _Testing cars you can 't afford is awesome_ | | I can see the value in test driving a car a class above | your level so you can see what you're missing. When I was | looking for a car, I tried out a low-end Acura in addition | to a high-end Honda, but those are $35K and $45K cars. | | I could probably justify the $10K jump in price if the | Acura was spectacular, but no matter how much I love an | $80K car, I could never justify buying one. | ghaff wrote: | I was speaking at a company event at the BMW facility in | SC. We did some driving on their track. My takeaway was: | | 1. I do get the attraction of some of these cars. | | 2. Nope. Not worth it to me even though I could afford | them if I wanted to. | wahern wrote: | > Was my mattress so cheaply-made that the manufacturer could | afford to give them away? | | Shipping is expensive, especially for something as heavy and | bulky as an uncompressed foam mattress. Among other things, I | have a free stroller (sans cup holder) and a life-time supply | of Feather razor blades (they accidentally sent the bulk | packaging) because Amazon didn't want to pay for return | shipping. | | Factor in the risks and headaches of trying to resell a used | mattress, and I can easily see never wanting to take one back | even if it means having to factor into the regular price the | costs of finicky buyers. The mattress market is weird: | http://freakonomics.com/podcast/mattress-store-bubble/ | [deleted] | wycy wrote: | Part of the crazy markup in the mattress industry might be in | the non-returnability of them. Manufacturers need to price in | the fact that some % of them will be returned (read: given away | for free) because no one wants a used mattress that might have | bed bugs or other unknown substances. | giarc wrote: | But I wonder how many people buy a mattress, never open it, | "return it for refund" then just resell a "unused, unopened | mattress"? | magic_beans wrote: | I bought a casper mattress. I now wish I had started | "return proceedings" and gotten a refund, because it sounds | like they just tell you to donate it. | blackearl wrote: | It's also impossible to comparison shop because most people buy | them once a decade, you don't really break them in for weeks, | and sleeping is so subjective it's impossible to take anyone's | word for it. | | I bought a queen for around $600. It's fine. Improving sleep | has been more about exercising more often, decreasing screen | time, and reading/meditating before bed. | ghaff wrote: | I was doing some research because I'm going to have to buy | one for a vacation house later this year. On the one hand, I | don't want to just randomly choose an expensive purchase. On | the other hand, truth be told, I spend a quarter to a third | of nights in various hotel rooms and they're mostly "fine." | | And I've personally had everything from a waterbed to a | (high-end) futon in my own house. | | So I know I don't want something really crappy but so long as | I don't go off in some weird direction or really cheap out, | I'm sure I'll be just fine. | gumby wrote: | I went with ikea for the vacation house. It is perfectly | adequate (for us -- I know this is subjective) and | realistically we only spend perhaps 50 nights a year there. | blackearl wrote: | Well according to some of the other comments you can shop | around for a "free" mattress because it's not worth | returning. Just make you destroy it by leaving it | somewhere, maybe like a vacation home. | ghaff wrote: | I'm not sure I would count on that :-) I'm also not sure | how I feel about the foam mattresses. That's one type of | mattress I don't have a lot of experience sleeping on and | my initial reaction in the store was it was "different" | to a degree that I wasn't sure what to make of it. | | Also, I tend to be hot generally including when sleeping. | From what I've read, a foam mattress may not be a great | choice given that. | Stratoscope wrote: | If you sleep hot, memory foam is what you want to stay | away from. You sink down into it and it molds around your | body. | | Non-memory latex foam lets you sleep much cooler because | you don't sink into it so much. I also tend to be too | warm and have used latex foam mattresses for the last 20 | years. They have been fine, unlike memory foam. | megablast wrote: | You can also get free stuff from the shop by putting it | in your pocket and leaving. | post_break wrote: | Which mattress did you end up liking? I have an OG purple and | love it, but need one for my spare bedroom. | 135792468 wrote: | I didn't read the article but I've worked for one of these | companies that was a startup and have a local mattress company | as a client. So a little perspective. | | These companies are all marketing companies. There is no | "science" they literally get rolls of foam from foam makers, | throw them on in layers and try to find the right combo. I was | there, I've done it myself. | | The companies that end up winning have fantastic marketing, | like purple, or were early, like Casper. | | Markup for foam mattresses in general is close to 2000%. | Average foam cost for a king mattress was <$50. The old school | mattress companies are close to The same which is why they have | stores on every corner. | | The industry is dirty as hell and as cut throat as they come. | | As far as the returns, a reputable company will send the | Salvation Army or local equivalent to pick up the mattress and | it becomes a tax write off for the company. Otherwise like | others have said they will tell you to keep it. No sense | bringing it back to the warehouse and in a lot of places it is | illegal to resell a mattress. | | AMA if you want. Fascinating industry. | mikepurvis wrote: | Indeed. And on top of those hundreds of marketing companies | pretending to be mattress companies is the even weirder world | of online mattress _reviewers_ , who are all ensnared in a | tangle of kickbacks and referrer fees and endorsements. Fast | Company had a great piece on it a few years ago if you want a | taste: | | https://www.fastcompany.com/3065928/sleepopolis-casper- | blogg... | jmpz wrote: | It's worth reading the article to get context before | commenting. | | What experience do you have to assert "These companies are | all marketing companies. There is no "science" they literally | get rolls of foam from foam makers, throw them on in layers | and try to find the right combo. I was there, I've done it | myself." | twunde wrote: | https://www.cnbc.com/2019/08/18/there-are-now-175-online- | mat... mentions that most of the online companies outsource | their design and production to one of 4 producers. | egdod wrote: | Any thoughts on why markup stays so high if the industry is | actually cutthroat? Competition should be driving margin way | down. | kazinator wrote: | Could depend on where the markup is and whose margin. | | If all those retailers are themselves buying from a small | number of suppliers, they could be paying a lot of that | markup, while their own margin is razor thin due to cutting | each others' throats. | Zimahl wrote: | I'm not OP, but I'd guess its because there is a really | limited market for mattresses. People of course need and | want them, but the turnover is (or can be) a very long | time. I have a mattress in our guest bedroom that I used in | college, over 20 years ago. It could probably be replaced, | but will probably only get replaced with our main mattress | when we replace it. It's fine for the minimal guests we | have or when my wife or I sleep in it when we are sick (and | don't want to keep the other awake). | | So for mattresses you really can't afford low margins if | you want to stay in business. I can't imagine mattress | stores sell more than several mattresses a month. As for | why Casper and Purple mattresses are so much when you are | supposedly removing the middle-man (the physical stores), | I'm not sure. Because they can? I don't really understand | why someone would buy one of their mattresses that you | can't test out at a store, when you can pay the same price | at a store and test out all your options. | nradov wrote: | Exactly. If you want to save money on a foam mattress you can | literally just buy one or two pieces of industrial foam and | cut them to fit your bed. There's no special material, no | magic formula. | [deleted] | on_and_off wrote: | old (2017) but good link on the mattress madness : | https://www.fastcompany.com/3065928/sleepopolis-casper-blogg... | | yes, mattresses are pretty much a racket. | spartas wrote: | Abuse of these mattress return policies is also incentivized when | new online mattress companies are popping up every month. | | https://www.wsj.com/articles/unintended-perk-of-the-online-m... | [deleted] | clSTophEjUdRanu wrote: | I love this. I've always thought their guarantee was meaningless | because almost nobody is going to actually mail back a mattress. | ska wrote: | Some of the guarantees, at least when I looked a few years ago, | include pickup for return. Presumably (cf article) not to | original location; but still, hard to image something more zero | risk than this. | | With something like a 120 day no-questions asked, no risk | return I think they are more relying on you getting used to it | in that amount of time. And huge markup means they can eat | quite a few too, I suppose. ___________________________________________________________________ (page generated 2020-02-20 23:00 UTC)