[HN Gopher] What happens to a mail-order mattress after you retu...
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       What happens to a mail-order mattress after you return it
        
       Author : japaget
       Score  : 152 points
       Date   : 2020-02-20 16:34 UTC (6 hours ago)
        
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       | madengr wrote:
       | Mattress shopping is almost as bad as car shopping. I'll buy a
       | used car to get around the sleazy car sales people, but the wife
       | absolutely won't go for a used matresss.
       | 
       | I'm sure the mattress markup is astronomical, and I'm sure most
       | brands come from the same factories.
        
         | mthoms wrote:
         | The sleaze of the mattress industry is a major reason the
         | _mattress in a box_ business has done so well. I just love when
         | these kinds of markets get disrupted because the disdain these
         | companies have for their own customers is infuriating (see also
         | taxi industry).
         | 
         | There's a great "Adam Ruins Everything" episode about this
         | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1tZOKfCial4
         | 
         | FWIW, I absolutely love my _mattress in a box_ and the buying
         | process was painless.
        
           | throwaway_tech wrote:
           | >The sleaze of the mattress industry is a major reason the
           | mattress in a box business has done so well.
           | 
           | Don't be fooled if you thought the traditional mattress
           | buying experience was sleazy (similar to a car buying
           | experience), the mattress in a box online dark patterns take
           | sleaze to a whole other level.
        
             | mthoms wrote:
             | I'm sure you're right.
             | 
             | I have to say my experience was very good in that regard,
             | possibly because I went with the most respected brand in my
             | country (Canada) and the industry is much less
             | crowded/competitive here.
             | 
             | Having said that, I bought the mattress over 2 years ago
             | now so maybe things have changed. I _hate_ dark patterns
             | with a fiery passion.
        
           | corporateslave5 wrote:
           | Yeah I bought one for 175 bucks, just as a temporary thing. I
           | love it. I'll never pay 1000 dollars for a mattress again
        
         | exhilaration wrote:
         | Just buy your mattresses from Costco, no sleaze in sight.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | war1025 wrote:
         | Sort of interesting to think about the fact that used
         | mattresses are a no-go for people, but they'll gladly sleep on
         | hotel beds used by orders of magnitude more people.
         | 
         | Don't think I'd buy a used mattress either though...
        
           | leetcrew wrote:
           | ultimately people prefer not to stop and think about the fact
           | that hotel beds are kinda gross, since there's really no
           | alternative if you want to travel to a place where you don't
           | know anyone.
           | 
           | but even if you do acknowledge this, it's not nearly as bad
           | to sleep in a "dirty" bed for a few nights as it would be to
           | own one and use it every night.
        
             | ska wrote:
             | I once met someone who always traveled with something a bit
             | like a thin cotton (silk?) full body sleeping bag (like a
             | mummy bag). Idea was you never physically touched the hotel
             | bed. It was apparently expensive.
             | 
             | The funny thing to me was the she stayed in high end hotels
             | pretty exclusively who I think you can at least be taking a
             | fairly aggressive kill-it-with-bleach approach to laundry.
             | I wondered if there was a wallmart version aimed at people
             | who stay in seedy motels where it would seem to be more
             | practical.
        
               | fnordian_slip wrote:
               | There are brand ones that are rather expensive, but at
               | least in Europe I know that decathlon makes really cheap
               | silk and cotton sleeping bag liners, because that's where
               | I got mine.
               | 
               | They are made to go into sleeping bags, and I love mine
               | for that use case (less sweat and dirt in your down bag),
               | but I have also used them in dirt cheap hostels.
               | 
               | In one seedy hotel in Italy several people in my party
               | had a lot of bedbug bites, but I can't say for sure if it
               | actually protected me. I expect I was probably just lucky
               | that there were none in my room.
               | 
               | Still, it's a little over 100 grams (less than 4 ounces)
               | and it makes dirty mattresses in shitty hostels bearable.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | Sleep sacks can actually be required for hostels.
               | (http://www.reidsguides.com/hostels/sleepsacks.html) I
               | imagine a silk one could be expensive but they're pretty
               | inexpensive for the most part.
               | 
               | That said, as someone who travels a lot, when I look at
               | travelers' catalogs like Magellan at a lot of the safety,
               | germ protection, etc. items, part of me thinks that
               | people who buy all that stuff are probably better off
               | just not traveling.
        
               | ApolloFortyNine wrote:
               | They're definitely abusing the word 'most' there. I've
               | stayed in easily 20 hostels at this point, and not once
               | has a 'sleep sack' been required. And in all my hostel
               | research, I have never stumbled across someone mentioning
               | they needed one.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | I don't think I have on the relatively limited occasions
               | I've stayed in a hostel (or a mountain hut). That said,
               | I'd certainly heard of sleep sacks sometimes being
               | used/required in hostels. So it can't be all that rare--
               | or maybe it used to be more common.
        
               | ska wrote:
               | Makes sense I guess although I've never run into that
               | requirement.
               | 
               | By description the thing she had was much smaller & more
               | form fitting than above link. One of the "selling points"
               | was how small it packed into carry-on, for example.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | Probably something more like this:
               | https://www.rei.com/product/850427/cocoon-silk-mummy-
               | liner
               | 
               | The thing with silk is it's pretty fragile but it's
               | probably the thinnest/lightest material that you'd
               | actually want next to your skin.
        
           | seiferteric wrote:
           | I think bedding is actually the thing that makes me most
           | uneasy at hotels, you just don't have a choice. You can
           | expect they wash the sheets with each new guest, but I don't
           | think they do so with the comforter which grosses me out.
           | Then there is the whole bed-bug situation...
        
         | tenpies wrote:
         | I'm also somewhat suspicious that foam mattresses are quite bad
         | for your health, not necessarily from a sleep mechanics
         | perspective, but from an air quality one. I mean you are
         | literally sleeping on a piece of plastic that is optimized for
         | surface area. You then squish it constantly while using it and
         | inhale those aerosolized plastic particles for about 8 hours
         | per day.
        
           | dubcanada wrote:
           | Everything we touch/eat is plastic/comes in contact with
           | plastic to some degree, your shoes, clothes, bread sits in
           | plastic for days, vegetables for months, etc.
           | 
           | I really doubt a bed wrapped in some form of cloth is any
           | worse.
           | 
           | Unless you live on mars you are most likely getting ten times
           | more pollution/plastic from other areas then your foam
           | mattress.
        
           | jamespetercook wrote:
           | Wow I never thought about this
        
           | wahern wrote:
           | There are latex foam mattresses. I've purchased two from
           | Sleep on Latex (sleeponlatex.com, or Pure Green on Amazon).
           | 
           | That said, whether latex, polyurethane, or whatever, with
           | foam mattresses you're supposed to use a mattress protector
           | to prevent sweat and accidents from soiling the foam.
           | Alternatively or in addition to that, Sleep on Latex uses a
           | wool topper, as I'm sure many other brands do. And then on
           | top of that most people use sheets. I would think all of that
           | covering would trap any particles so they can conveniently be
           | washed out to sea with all the other microplastics from the
           | laundry.
        
           | Someone1234 wrote:
           | Unfortunately while off-gassing is a legitimate concern
           | (particularly in poorly ventilated rooms) it is harder and
           | harder to avoid, as spring mattresses now also often contain
           | one or several layers of foam.
           | 
           | I'd like to see some high quality research on this using
           | realistic test environments, or even monitoring in actual
           | bedrooms. I don't know who is willing to fund that though.
        
           | timw4mail wrote:
           | Kind of makes a used one seem like a better idea...
        
           | pastor_elm wrote:
           | Mattresses have been sprayed with flame retardants for
           | decades. Supposedly, many of these new-age foam ones don't
           | contain them.
        
           | allovernow wrote:
           | Ofgassing in the first few weeks or so may expose you to
           | harmful chemicals, but I don't see any reason for foam the to
           | degrade into fine particulate if it isn't exposed to UV,
           | assuming it isn't made of total garbage.
        
           | telchar wrote:
           | I paid a little extra (~$600) for a foam mattress
           | manufactured in California. I figured there is a lower chance
           | of harmful offgassing than the cheaper Chinese mattresses
           | like Zinus. I don't have any way to test that though.
        
         | jrockway wrote:
         | I was happy with the two IKEA mattresses I bought. I have one
         | super-cheap foam one that I used for many years and keep around
         | for guests; guests say they like it more than their mattress at
         | home, and I think it only cost $30 and has lasted going on 15
         | years at this point. I also had one of their more expensive
         | latex foam mattresses, and that kind of developed a sunken in
         | spot in the middle where I slept on it after ~5 years. I
         | replaced it with a more botique latex mattress and the same
         | thing happened; so I think that's more of an intrinsic weakness
         | in the material rather than a manufacturing defect. And, you
         | have to expect that something used every day for 8 continuous
         | hours is going to need replacement after a few years anyway.
         | 
         | What I like about IKEA is that you just walk in and self-serve
         | yourself a mattress. No sales. No marketing. If you don't like
         | it, at least it was cheap. So I'm giving them a recommend.
        
           | leetcrew wrote:
           | > If you don't like it, at least it was cheap
           | 
           | it's actually better than that. you can return it any time in
           | the first year of ownership, provided you kept the receipt.
        
             | ohazi wrote:
             | Provided you can get it into your car. If it came vacuum
             | rolled, the odds of this being the case are low.
        
               | leetcrew wrote:
               | this is probably how they get away with such a generous
               | return policy.
        
           | dole wrote:
           | One caveat about IKEA mattresses: being a multi-national
           | company, verify the mattresses and linens you're buying
           | complies to the same sizing in your region of the world; they
           | can differ and there's always stories about how IKEA sheets
           | don't fit standard sizes or fit them well, at least.
        
             | rahimnathwani wrote:
             | I've bought mattresses from Ikea in the UK, China and USA.
             | 
             | In all three of those countries, Ikea sells mattresses in
             | the regular local sizes. I recall that, maybe 20 years ago,
             | Ikea in the UK only sold beds and mattresses in their
             | native (Swedish? Euro?) sizes. But, in the last few years,
             | I've bought both beds and mattresses from Ikea that are
             | standard UK and standard US sizes.
             | 
             | Of course, it's always good to double check the actual
             | measurements of your old/new mattress before pulling the
             | trigger.
        
           | EvanAnderson wrote:
           | I'll add a positive comment for IKEA mattresses here, too. We
           | purchased one a couple of years ago. It was significantly
           | cheaper than a "name brand" mattress, even if I consider that
           | I may need to replace it more frequently. So far it has held
           | up very well, too.
        
       | Yhippa wrote:
       | I bought one of these over a decade ago from Costco. It had a
       | defect in it but I never really pursued returning it. I had no
       | clue how I'd get it out of my house by myself. Use a chainsaw or
       | machete to cut it into blocks and then toss it out the window and
       | then take it to the dump? It was really heavy. Much heavier than
       | normal mattresses. At least it seemed much more flexible to bend
       | around corners.
        
         | PopeDotNinja wrote:
         | I once had a loveseat that I couldn't get out of a studio
         | apartment without moving almost everything. Since I was a bit
         | bored at the time, I slowly carved up the entire thing with a
         | Swiss Army knife w/ the saw & scissors extensions. Was actually
         | kind of fun.
        
           | svieira wrote:
           | I once tore up a recliner sofa with a crowbar and tossed the
           | pieces out of a third story window (I didn't get it in, and
           | there was no way it was going out the door in its then-
           | present configuration).
        
             | gbronner wrote:
             | I had a tenant who did this to a batch of furniture. Wound
             | up in the front yard where it got nice and wet in the rain
             | and then froze.
             | 
             | Made it even harder to get rid of it.
        
           | zabzonk wrote:
           | In Edinburgh, Scotland, in the 1970s, a friend of mine
           | inherited a flat and contents but no money. It was an
           | extremely cold winter and he ended up chopping half the
           | furniture to pieces (it was the typical hideous stuff you got
           | in flats in Edinburgh back then) and burning it in the fire-
           | place to keep warm.
        
             | dredmorbius wrote:
             | Probably mostly natural materials.
             | 
             | That'd be risky now.
        
           | jethro_tell wrote:
           | I had a friend who moved into an old oddly shaped rental.
           | When we went to move the heavy stuff in, the big front
           | picture window was out for repair and the guys said we could
           | move anything through it while they went to lunch. In the
           | end, we spent an afternoon chopping couches and dressers and
           | such into pieces and hauling it to the dump. Didn't really
           | think that through.
        
       | mech1234 wrote:
       | Get a firm or very firm innerspring mattress from IKEA. You can
       | do this for less than $300 and it will fit in the back of a sedan
       | in it's roll-up-package.
       | 
       | Sleep on it for a bit. If you don't like the feel, which you
       | probably won't, add a memory foam mattress topper for ~$50. Use a
       | thicker or thinner topper to suit your needs.
       | 
       | Congrats! Because your mattress is firm, its foam will not break
       | down for a long, long time. Sleep easy knowing you didn't waste
       | stupid amounts of money and that your mattress will last
       | essentially forever.
        
         | acomjean wrote:
         | I too like the spring mattress with memory foam topper.
        
         | Johnny555 wrote:
         | I tried some Ikea mattresses when I was mattress shopping, and
         | none of them felt comfortable even in a short test period in
         | the store.
         | 
         | I ended up buying a Leesa and have been very satisfied with it
         | over the past 5 years.
        
         | pathartl wrote:
         | Not sure this is good advice. I like a firm mattress, but IKEA
         | mattresses are absolutely terrible. I also cannot sleep with a
         | foam topper on any bed. They're hot and screw up my back beyond
         | belief.
        
           | mstade wrote:
           | As a counterpoint I have done exactly this and am perfectly
           | happy with my IKEA mattresses; your mileage may vary I guess.
        
           | rahimnathwani wrote:
           | Ikea sells different types of mattress (spring, foam, latex),
           | each with different thicknesses and price points.
           | 
           | I've bought ~10 Ikea mattresses, avoided the cheapest ones of
           | each type, and been pretty happy.
           | 
           | I can understand why a foam topper would feel hot. It's main
           | purpose is to provide a sleeping surface that's the same
           | shape as your body, so of course this means it maximises the
           | amount of contact between you and itself. So no space for air
           | to circulate
           | 
           | But I don't understand how a foam topper can screw up your
           | back, unless your mattress is too soft to begin with. A
           | bad/cheap foam topper will compress pretty easily, and
           | provide no additional support, but I don't see what harm it
           | would do.
        
             | unlinked_dll wrote:
             | >I've bought ~10 Ikea mattresses, avoided the cheapest ones
             | of each type, and been pretty happy.
             | 
             | You've bought _ten_ mattresses from them?! In how many
             | years, and for how many people?
             | 
             | I don't think my parents bought ten mattresses in the
             | 20-odd years they had their four kids living at home - and
             | I still sleep on one of them.
             | 
             | Personally I don't trust anything from Ikea anymore. Their
             | quality is such garbage for all their products from
             | furniture to glassware to lamps, I can't give them a dime
             | of my money knowing whatever I buy won't be around next
             | year. Multiply whatever you were going to spend by 1.5 and
             | go to a decent home store, or just go to Target instead.
        
           | Wohlf wrote:
           | I feel the same way about foam toppers, and foam mattresses
           | are exactly the same.
        
         | chihuahua wrote:
         | I've had an Ikea foam mattress for a few years, and I really
         | like it. I think it cost around $900 for a queen size (?)
        
       | rjkennedy98 wrote:
       | At the returns department of the company I work for they use the
       | returned mattresses to clean the floor. The put the forklift
       | prongs inside the mattress and drive around to clean up the
       | warehouse.
        
       | Reedx wrote:
       | _"In California, a lot of charities can't accept a used
       | mattress,"_
       | 
       | So those in need of mattresses don't get them and more likely to
       | go to landfill... regardless of condition.
       | 
       | Are used mattresses really that risky? Are charities themselves
       | not able to make a reasonable judgement call on what they accept?
        
         | fwip wrote:
         | It's risky for the charity. For instance, if the mattress has
         | bedbugs, it stands a good chance of contaminating everything
         | they've got in storage, requiring them to purge their entire
         | inventory, sanitize, and build up from scratch again.
        
           | sauwan wrote:
           | Can't they set up an offsite hotbox to get rid of the bedbugs
           | before it gets onsite? Surely someone could set up a mobile
           | truck that can come, park, and heat up 15 mattresses for the
           | few hours it takes to kill or drive off the bedbugs, no?
        
             | megablast wrote:
             | > Can't they set up an offsite hotbox to get rid of the
             | bedbugs before it gets onsite? I am not sure if you are
             | serious or not, maybe you think charities have huge amounts
             | of money to throw at all problems like Google does?
        
             | minikites wrote:
             | Can you ensure that this process is followed fully and
             | correctly all of the time?
        
             | ska wrote:
             | Is setting this up worthwhile for a general charity? Would
             | it be better for them than say, working out an overstock
             | donation?
        
             | magic_beans wrote:
             | Do you really thing a charity can afford that? And mattress
             | companies have exactly zero incentive to fund this.
        
             | hombre_fatal wrote:
             | One simple option is to immediately insert the mattress
             | into a bed bug cover upon pickup.
        
               | three_seagrass wrote:
               | Bug covers for mattresses need to be of the right type
               | and installed properly. Doing it upon pick up only
               | increases the risk of damaging the cover and ruining any
               | utility it has. They're not designed for durability and
               | it takes only a pinhole puncture to ruin the entire
               | cover.
        
           | giarc wrote:
           | Off topic somewhat but there was a news story of a library
           | that lost a ton of books because someone return a book
           | infested with bed bug eggs. Went on the shelf and spread
           | throughout the library.
        
           | morelisp wrote:
           | Wouldn't this apply to any bedding, or even clothing?
        
             | minikites wrote:
             | David Sedaris has told a story about catching crabs from
             | thrift store pants.
        
               | TallGuyShort wrote:
               | Buddy of mine tried telling his wife the same story, but
               | she didn't buy it.
        
             | floatrock wrote:
             | Depends. Clothing you can wash. In my state, outdoor
             | outfitters aren't allowed to sell used sleeping bags
             | because of hygiene concerns.
        
         | reaperducer wrote:
         | I've noticed this is very jurisdictional.
         | 
         | I recently needed to get rid of a mattress set, and looked
         | online. There are dozens of pages claiming that $Charity_X
         | won't take mattresses, and dozens more claiming it will.
         | 
         | That's the problem with the internet - it's sometimes not
         | specific enough. Due to local laws, the charity in question
         | doesn't take mattresses. Fortunately, in mine it does as long
         | as there are no stains and they're in pretty good shape. It
         | gets the mattresses fumigated and uses them in its homeless
         | shelters and battered women's shelters.
         | 
         | Edit: I suspect the charities that won't take mattresses are
         | ones that run primarily on resale revenue, and not those that
         | run their own housing.
        
         | nitwit005 wrote:
         | I would assume the issue is partly that there aren't many
         | organizations capable of dealing with it. You need to operate a
         | warehouse for the mattresses, and have some sort of local
         | storefront presence like Goodwill so people can donate and pick
         | them up somewhere.
        
       | circa wrote:
       | I know this is about mail-order mattress companies. I have always
       | thought that one of these Mattress store chains are going to be
       | busted for being involved in a drug ring or something like that.
       | There are way more locations than there needs to be. Especially
       | with all of these online mattress brands popping up. There always
       | seems to be 1 guy working and no one in the stores, ever. At any
       | of these locations. I don't understand how a business model like
       | that can last. But they're still kickin'
        
         | freedomben wrote:
         | At least around the salt lake Utah area those stores go out of
         | business all the time.
        
       | reaperducer wrote:
       | This isn't exclusive to mail order mattresses.
       | 
       | I went to a big-name department store just last week and bought a
       | mattress. For the first time, I chose a "memory foam" mattress
       | because I liked how it felt in the store. (Thought the
       | traditional spring mattress felt more familiar and "right,"
       | there's something about the foam that was nice.)
       | 
       | When the giant delivery truck arrived three days later, there was
       | the usual box spring, which I guess is what necessitated the
       | truck, but then the delivery guys brought in a small box the size
       | of a chair and that's what contained the shrunken mattress.
       | 
       | I asked what happens to the mattress if I decide that memory foam
       | isn't for me after all, and they said it depends on the brand.
       | Some go to charity, some go to an exporter for resale overseas,
       | and some get shredded and made into new mattresses.
        
         | giarc wrote:
         | Be careful with brick and mortar mattress stores (although you
         | said department store). Many will have "restocking" type fees
         | for returning a mattress.
        
           | reaperducer wrote:
           | I asked about that. The only thing I would have to pay is the
           | same delivery fee again for the truck to pick up the old
           | mattress set (reasonable, IMO), and the price difference if I
           | chose to replace it with a more expensive set.
        
       | dbg31415 wrote:
       | Returns on bulky items are a mess.
       | 
       | I ordered a fridge and dishwasher from Costco. They were scuffed
       | up during delivery.
       | 
       | Costco asked me to bear with them... send pictures... write up a
       | report...
       | 
       | Once Costco was able to stick the delivery company for the bill,
       | they sent me a new set. They didn't care about the original set.
       | 
       | At one point a guy showed up in a pickup. No uniform. Not in a
       | delivery van, or truck. Just a guy with a dolly and a beat-up
       | F150. He said, "I'm here for the old fridge."
       | 
       | When he saw they were new appliances, he was like, "Yeah, {the
       | original delivery company} told me to take them to the dump...
       | let me sell them, I'll come back with a U-Haul." And he kept
       | texting and setting times and not showing. I had a Fridge and
       | Dishwasher in my living room for over a month.
       | 
       | I asked Costco what was up... I asked them to get it take care of
       | ASAP... they were like, "Uh... I mean, I guess we can... or you
       | can just sell them..."
       | 
       | In the end I sold them to a neighbor, for half what I paid... he
       | called the brand repair place and ordered a new door. Which is
       | all I was expecting anyone to do in the first place.
        
       | whalesalad wrote:
       | FWIW I had a Leesa and ended up returning it. That went fine and
       | dandy, everything worked as they promised with no frills.
       | 
       | What I actually want to share with you all here is to go to a
       | mom-n-pop mattress store in your local area. Find your local
       | mattress NERD and buy a bed from them. They're going to have all
       | kinds of wild stuff you can try and will do a great job of
       | selling you the right bed for you (and your partner).
       | 
       | My wife and I ended up finding this guy -
       | https://www.youtube.com/user/MattressToGo - and watching some of
       | his (surprisingly popular) videos you will see he is legitimately
       | a mattress nerd.
       | 
       | Coincidentally we lived about an hour from his brick and mortar
       | location so we drove out to check out the showroom and ended up
       | buying a mattress on the spot. It took a few days to arrive but
       | it's without a doubt my favorite mattress.
       | 
       | I love the convenience afforded by these modern startup companies
       | but there is really something to be said for going to someone who
       | has made one thing their entire life's misson and letting them
       | help you out.
        
         | joegahona wrote:
         | I have a Leesa and don't love it, but I've had it over a year
         | now, so can't return it. I didn't realize "mom-n-pop mattress
         | stores" existed -- how would one find one?
         | 
         | I ended up with an online-mattress purchase because of a poor
         | experience with both a Mattress Firm store (pushy salespeople)
         | and most obnoxiously with a specific manufacturer, Simmons. I
         | stayed at an AirBnB in SF years ago and the bed was noticeably
         | the most comfortable bed I've ever slept on. I messaged the
         | host _years_ later and asked him what type of bed it was, and
         | to my surprise and delight, he messaged me back with text and
         | images of the tags on the mattress. When I tried contacting
         | Simmons by phone, email, and even Facebook Message, telling
         | them I would BUY that mattress, no matter the cost, if they
         | could point me in the right direction, I got nowhere and was
         | made to feel like I was a bother. So while it's easy for me to
         | believe that these online mattress companies are marketing
         | companies glueing foam together, maybe this is what we needed
         | to make an outdated industry improve.
        
       | jacob019 wrote:
       | Forgive me if this is off-topic. I am currently in the market for
       | a queen size mattress in a box. The last one that I bought on
       | Amazon was perfect, it cost about $300.
       | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07F8NNL8X It is no longer available.
       | Now it seems that you can get a decent one for under $250. Here
       | are some that I found:
       | 
       | Ashley: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0777K9RGX
       | 
       | Vibe: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B074NDQ143
       | 
       | PrimaSleep: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075T6BNC2
       | 
       | Anyone here have any suggestions?
        
         | dang_dumb wrote:
         | Zinus sleep - I have a king hybrid mattress from them and it's
         | fantastic. https://www.zinus.com
        
         | dublinben wrote:
         | The Green Tea mattress from Zinus is a popular choice, and
         | well-regarded. It's right at your price point.
         | 
         | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00Q7EPSHI/
        
         | werber wrote:
         | https://www.amazon.com/Zinus-Memory-Green-Mattress-Queen/dp/...
         | 
         | I've had several friends go out and buy it after a night on
         | mine. I've had it for ~3 years and haven't noticed any
         | degradation. After trying much more expensive (and heavily
         | advertised) ones other people own, I can't really tell the
         | difference.
        
           | Mountain_Skies wrote:
           | I have the same mattress. Almost never give it a second
           | thought, which is what I really want in a mattress. Some
           | reviews complain of a fishy smell but I didn't encounter it
           | with mine but there are enough reviews with that complain
           | that I wonder if there are multiple manufacturing pipelines,
           | one of which leads to a fishy smelling mattress.
        
         | emodendroket wrote:
         | I bought an Avocado mattress in the strength of Consumer
         | Reports' recommendation and, while it's certainly not the
         | cheapest option, it is very comfortable.
        
         | wycy wrote:
         | I have the AmazonBasics mattress:
         | https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07C49ZPQG/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b...
         | 
         | It's my guest room mattress but I do sleep in the guest room
         | occasionally, and when I do I sleep better than my normal
         | mattress. That said, the edge support isn't great. Being close
         | to the edge makes it feel almost like you're at a slight slope.
         | Still, no regrets for $250.
         | 
         | Edit: I'm 6ft / 165 lb. It's possible that it would be less
         | supportive for heavier weights.
        
           | giarc wrote:
           | I agree with the edge support and foam mattresses. A friend
           | of mine asked me about whether he should recommend a foam
           | mattress for his grandparents. I specifically said no because
           | of the edge support. I fear someone with mobility issues
           | might not be able to support themselves if they were to sit
           | on the corner.
        
       | ropiwqefjnpoa wrote:
       | I like companies like Sharetown, they help prevent things from
       | just ending up in a landfill and they make money doing it.
       | There's a computer recycling company near me that does pretty
       | well reselling equipment sent to them for recycling. They destroy
       | drives when instructed to, but will wipe the rest and resell
       | intact running servers and workstations.
       | 
       | It's nice working with them because I know the equipment will
       | most likely find a home.
        
       | 0xff00ffee wrote:
       | I gotta admit, there's one tiny bit of this that I think is kinda
       | cool: the secondary "Sharetown" ecosystem does sound like an
       | "afterburner" of sorts for unused product, and I much rather see
       | products be up-or-re-cycled than tossed in landfill. I think
       | there is a much larger market for this, especially as TFA says
       | about the huge increase in returns.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | droithomme wrote:
       | It's amazing anyone buys used mattresses. The likelihood of
       | getting bedbugs and pounds of a stranger's skin flakes is very
       | high. Gross!
        
         | jldugger wrote:
         | A hotel is basically a gigantic used mattress store with
         | massive churn.
        
       | acd wrote:
       | Online shopping is not that sustainable. Current concerns are
       | returns. First you have the carbon emissions of the first package
       | delivery then the return package carbon emissions plus the waste.
       | The waste comes that is more expensive to handle return products
       | than to simply throw them.
       | 
       | What I mean it's more eco friendly to have big batch shipments to
       | stores than individual small packages sent by post.
       | 
       | A normal physical store is usually more environmentally friendly
       | than online shopping.
        
         | Animats wrote:
         | No, driving the SUV to the store usually uses more fuel than
         | the entire supply chain to get to the store.
        
       | sergers wrote:
       | I bought a foam mattress off amazon canada.
       | 
       | Decided to return it.
       | 
       | Surprisingly amazon.ca doesnt offer large item pickup like USA,
       | and expected to return a king size expanded 10" thick foam
       | mattress to the local post office.
       | 
       | I called them asking wtf, how am I supposed to return it.
       | 
       | They gave a me refund, and told me donate destroy it myself or
       | even just keep it.
       | 
       | I decided to keep it
        
       | deftnerd wrote:
       | It feels like there might be other possibly uses of old or
       | unwanted foam mattresses. Perhaps they can be cut down to
       | standard sizes for home insulation batting? As insulation between
       | raised garden bed containers and the ground? Insulation between
       | the ground and a fish tank in an aquaponics setup?
       | 
       | While there might be better solutions for all of those things, if
       | these materials are going to end up in the landfill and can be
       | provided for almost no cost, it seems like a waste to not utilize
       | the resource.
        
         | anonAndOn wrote:
         | Although it's a bit of work to cut the foam layers into
         | hundreds of little blocks, you can turn an unwanted foam
         | mattress into a decent bean bag.
        
       | bsanr wrote:
       | I'd thought I'd get around the madness of mattress shopping by
       | using just the technique mentioned in the article here:
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=22377160
       | 
       | At least, until I found something I liked. I purchased a Purple
       | 3, thinking that if I loved it, I'd just stick with it. I _did_
       | love it, but I couldn 't justify spending $2k on a twin(!). I
       | returned it, and purchased from another company for ~$700. I
       | didn't like it as much as the Purple, but when I went to begin
       | the return, I was told that there _was_ no return process, and
       | that I could  "move the mattress to a different room, or donate
       | it." Two days later, I received a refund for the full purchase
       | amount. That ended my journey; no awesome mattress at any price
       | beats "decent and free."
       | 
       | As much as I appreciate getting a new mattress for zilch, the
       | experience made me extremely wary. Was my mattress so cheaply-
       | made that the manufacturer could afford to give them away? What
       | was up? So I did some research. It turns out that the mattress
       | industry is a racket. The markups are ludicrous; almost every
       | mattress on the market costs, at most, a few hundred dollars to
       | make. And then it's also impossible to comparison shop because
       | "models" differ based on retailer by one or two small features;
       | that means no price-matching, if you can even tell what you're
       | buying.
       | 
       | These are the kinds of things that make people suspicious of the
       | way the economy is set up. It should be easy to find out what
       | you're purchasing, and then to pay a fair price for it. Instead
       | you have entire manufacturing-retail chains built on obfuscation
       | and able to eat untold amounts in lost product.
        
         | emodendroket wrote:
         | Casper is losing money in large part because of returns so I'm
         | not so sure!
        
         | chrshawkes wrote:
         | You're the reason my Casper stocks seem to be a waste of money.
         | :)
        
         | mherdeg wrote:
         | There was a pretty popular recent post on reddit's
         | /r/unethicallifeprotips about this recently.
         | 
         | It's beginning to become common knowledge that paying for a
         | mail-order mattress is often optional. By choosing not to
         | request a refund (and keep the product), you are subsidizing
         | the purchases of everyone else who does.
         | 
         | If you squint this kind of looks like the CyberRebate business
         | model and I wonder how much longer it'll be sustainable.
         | 
         | (The industry also has amusing quirks like
         | https://www.vox.com/2017/9/23/13153814/casper-sleepopolis-la...
         | )
        
         | Johnny555 wrote:
         | _I purchased a Purple 3, thinking that if I loved it, I 'd just
         | stick with it. I did love it, but I couldn't justify spending
         | $2k on a twin_
         | 
         | I don't understand this -- you loved the mattress and you knew
         | the price when you ordered, so what other outcome did you
         | expect if you couldn't justify the price to yourself even if
         | you loved it? It seems that you'd have been better off going
         | with a more affordably priced mattress from the beginning like
         | a Leesa or Casper?
         | 
         | Otherwise you're just guaranteeing yourself a lot of hassle to
         | send back a mattress that you know you don't want to pay for.
         | Plus, now you know there's a more comfortable mattress out
         | there that's out of your price range. It's kind of like test
         | driving an $80K Acura when all you can afford is a $30K Honda,
         | sure you may love the Acura, but if you can't afford it anyway,
         | why bother?
        
           | stronglikedan wrote:
           | Probably more along the lines of, "if I love it _thiiiiiis_
           | much, then I 'm willing to spend the $2k, but I only loved it
           | _thiiis_ much, so I couldn 't justify the expenditure."
        
           | simonsarris wrote:
           | 1. Testing cars you can't afford is awesome. Knowing the full
           | range of experience in a good can be very enlightening. How
           | much better is a $10,000 camera from a $1,000 camera, or $400
           | wine from $4? I used to run a tasting group which is
           | basically a way to pool money and try liquors that are vastly
           | out of our individual price range and I highly recommend it.
           | You can try expensive cars and mattresses for free, that's
           | even better!
           | 
           | 2. What's wrong with thinking "Well it is great, but its not
           | $2000 great." You aren't beholden to the thoughts you had
           | about how worth-it it might be before you tried it.
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | >What's wrong with thinking "Well it is great, but its not
             | $2000 great." You aren't beholden to the thoughts you had
             | about how worth-it it might be before you tried it.
             | 
             | Nothing. But I read the GP comment more along the lines of
             | "It was as great as I imagined it would be but it was still
             | too much money"
             | 
             | Sure, if you can, if something expensive is good but not as
             | great as you hoped it would be for the money, return it.
             | But it's a bit hard for me to see buying (not test driving)
             | something that, however great it is you're not keeping it.
        
             | megablast wrote:
             | > Testing cars you can't afford is awesome.
             | 
             | How much does testing cars cost the dealer? Compare it to
             | the mattress.
        
             | Johnny555 wrote:
             | _Testing cars you can 't afford is awesome_
             | 
             | I can see the value in test driving a car a class above
             | your level so you can see what you're missing. When I was
             | looking for a car, I tried out a low-end Acura in addition
             | to a high-end Honda, but those are $35K and $45K cars.
             | 
             | I could probably justify the $10K jump in price if the
             | Acura was spectacular, but no matter how much I love an
             | $80K car, I could never justify buying one.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | I was speaking at a company event at the BMW facility in
               | SC. We did some driving on their track. My takeaway was:
               | 
               | 1. I do get the attraction of some of these cars.
               | 
               | 2. Nope. Not worth it to me even though I could afford
               | them if I wanted to.
        
         | wahern wrote:
         | > Was my mattress so cheaply-made that the manufacturer could
         | afford to give them away?
         | 
         | Shipping is expensive, especially for something as heavy and
         | bulky as an uncompressed foam mattress. Among other things, I
         | have a free stroller (sans cup holder) and a life-time supply
         | of Feather razor blades (they accidentally sent the bulk
         | packaging) because Amazon didn't want to pay for return
         | shipping.
         | 
         | Factor in the risks and headaches of trying to resell a used
         | mattress, and I can easily see never wanting to take one back
         | even if it means having to factor into the regular price the
         | costs of finicky buyers. The mattress market is weird:
         | http://freakonomics.com/podcast/mattress-store-bubble/
        
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         | wycy wrote:
         | Part of the crazy markup in the mattress industry might be in
         | the non-returnability of them. Manufacturers need to price in
         | the fact that some % of them will be returned (read: given away
         | for free) because no one wants a used mattress that might have
         | bed bugs or other unknown substances.
        
           | giarc wrote:
           | But I wonder how many people buy a mattress, never open it,
           | "return it for refund" then just resell a "unused, unopened
           | mattress"?
        
             | magic_beans wrote:
             | I bought a casper mattress. I now wish I had started
             | "return proceedings" and gotten a refund, because it sounds
             | like they just tell you to donate it.
        
         | blackearl wrote:
         | It's also impossible to comparison shop because most people buy
         | them once a decade, you don't really break them in for weeks,
         | and sleeping is so subjective it's impossible to take anyone's
         | word for it.
         | 
         | I bought a queen for around $600. It's fine. Improving sleep
         | has been more about exercising more often, decreasing screen
         | time, and reading/meditating before bed.
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | I was doing some research because I'm going to have to buy
           | one for a vacation house later this year. On the one hand, I
           | don't want to just randomly choose an expensive purchase. On
           | the other hand, truth be told, I spend a quarter to a third
           | of nights in various hotel rooms and they're mostly "fine."
           | 
           | And I've personally had everything from a waterbed to a
           | (high-end) futon in my own house.
           | 
           | So I know I don't want something really crappy but so long as
           | I don't go off in some weird direction or really cheap out,
           | I'm sure I'll be just fine.
        
             | gumby wrote:
             | I went with ikea for the vacation house. It is perfectly
             | adequate (for us -- I know this is subjective) and
             | realistically we only spend perhaps 50 nights a year there.
        
             | blackearl wrote:
             | Well according to some of the other comments you can shop
             | around for a "free" mattress because it's not worth
             | returning. Just make you destroy it by leaving it
             | somewhere, maybe like a vacation home.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | I'm not sure I would count on that :-) I'm also not sure
               | how I feel about the foam mattresses. That's one type of
               | mattress I don't have a lot of experience sleeping on and
               | my initial reaction in the store was it was "different"
               | to a degree that I wasn't sure what to make of it.
               | 
               | Also, I tend to be hot generally including when sleeping.
               | From what I've read, a foam mattress may not be a great
               | choice given that.
        
               | Stratoscope wrote:
               | If you sleep hot, memory foam is what you want to stay
               | away from. You sink down into it and it molds around your
               | body.
               | 
               | Non-memory latex foam lets you sleep much cooler because
               | you don't sink into it so much. I also tend to be too
               | warm and have used latex foam mattresses for the last 20
               | years. They have been fine, unlike memory foam.
        
               | megablast wrote:
               | You can also get free stuff from the shop by putting it
               | in your pocket and leaving.
        
         | post_break wrote:
         | Which mattress did you end up liking? I have an OG purple and
         | love it, but need one for my spare bedroom.
        
         | 135792468 wrote:
         | I didn't read the article but I've worked for one of these
         | companies that was a startup and have a local mattress company
         | as a client. So a little perspective.
         | 
         | These companies are all marketing companies. There is no
         | "science" they literally get rolls of foam from foam makers,
         | throw them on in layers and try to find the right combo. I was
         | there, I've done it myself.
         | 
         | The companies that end up winning have fantastic marketing,
         | like purple, or were early, like Casper.
         | 
         | Markup for foam mattresses in general is close to 2000%.
         | Average foam cost for a king mattress was <$50. The old school
         | mattress companies are close to The same which is why they have
         | stores on every corner.
         | 
         | The industry is dirty as hell and as cut throat as they come.
         | 
         | As far as the returns, a reputable company will send the
         | Salvation Army or local equivalent to pick up the mattress and
         | it becomes a tax write off for the company. Otherwise like
         | others have said they will tell you to keep it. No sense
         | bringing it back to the warehouse and in a lot of places it is
         | illegal to resell a mattress.
         | 
         | AMA if you want. Fascinating industry.
        
           | mikepurvis wrote:
           | Indeed. And on top of those hundreds of marketing companies
           | pretending to be mattress companies is the even weirder world
           | of online mattress _reviewers_ , who are all ensnared in a
           | tangle of kickbacks and referrer fees and endorsements. Fast
           | Company had a great piece on it a few years ago if you want a
           | taste:
           | 
           | https://www.fastcompany.com/3065928/sleepopolis-casper-
           | blogg...
        
           | jmpz wrote:
           | It's worth reading the article to get context before
           | commenting.
           | 
           | What experience do you have to assert "These companies are
           | all marketing companies. There is no "science" they literally
           | get rolls of foam from foam makers, throw them on in layers
           | and try to find the right combo. I was there, I've done it
           | myself."
        
             | twunde wrote:
             | https://www.cnbc.com/2019/08/18/there-are-now-175-online-
             | mat... mentions that most of the online companies outsource
             | their design and production to one of 4 producers.
        
           | egdod wrote:
           | Any thoughts on why markup stays so high if the industry is
           | actually cutthroat? Competition should be driving margin way
           | down.
        
             | kazinator wrote:
             | Could depend on where the markup is and whose margin.
             | 
             | If all those retailers are themselves buying from a small
             | number of suppliers, they could be paying a lot of that
             | markup, while their own margin is razor thin due to cutting
             | each others' throats.
        
             | Zimahl wrote:
             | I'm not OP, but I'd guess its because there is a really
             | limited market for mattresses. People of course need and
             | want them, but the turnover is (or can be) a very long
             | time. I have a mattress in our guest bedroom that I used in
             | college, over 20 years ago. It could probably be replaced,
             | but will probably only get replaced with our main mattress
             | when we replace it. It's fine for the minimal guests we
             | have or when my wife or I sleep in it when we are sick (and
             | don't want to keep the other awake).
             | 
             | So for mattresses you really can't afford low margins if
             | you want to stay in business. I can't imagine mattress
             | stores sell more than several mattresses a month. As for
             | why Casper and Purple mattresses are so much when you are
             | supposedly removing the middle-man (the physical stores),
             | I'm not sure. Because they can? I don't really understand
             | why someone would buy one of their mattresses that you
             | can't test out at a store, when you can pay the same price
             | at a store and test out all your options.
        
           | nradov wrote:
           | Exactly. If you want to save money on a foam mattress you can
           | literally just buy one or two pieces of industrial foam and
           | cut them to fit your bed. There's no special material, no
           | magic formula.
        
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         | on_and_off wrote:
         | old (2017) but good link on the mattress madness :
         | https://www.fastcompany.com/3065928/sleepopolis-casper-blogg...
         | 
         | yes, mattresses are pretty much a racket.
        
       | spartas wrote:
       | Abuse of these mattress return policies is also incentivized when
       | new online mattress companies are popping up every month.
       | 
       | https://www.wsj.com/articles/unintended-perk-of-the-online-m...
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | clSTophEjUdRanu wrote:
       | I love this. I've always thought their guarantee was meaningless
       | because almost nobody is going to actually mail back a mattress.
        
         | ska wrote:
         | Some of the guarantees, at least when I looked a few years ago,
         | include pickup for return. Presumably (cf article) not to
         | original location; but still, hard to image something more zero
         | risk than this.
         | 
         | With something like a 120 day no-questions asked, no risk
         | return I think they are more relying on you getting used to it
         | in that amount of time. And huge markup means they can eat
         | quite a few too, I suppose.
        
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