[HN Gopher] Mel Brooks and Carl Reiner on their 70-year friendship
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       Mel Brooks and Carl Reiner on their 70-year friendship
        
       Author : tintinnabula
       Score  : 96 points
       Date   : 2020-02-20 18:23 UTC (4 hours ago)
        
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       | coldcode wrote:
       | Two of a kind, never repeated. I don't think you could make
       | people like this today, they came from a different era. Not even
       | sure you could make Blazing Saddles today either.
        
         | andrepd wrote:
         | _> Not even sure you could make Blazing Saddles today either._
         | 
         | I keep hearing stuff like that, but why not? Why would you
         | think it couldn't be done today?
        
           | kedean wrote:
           | Well, to start, the number of n-bombs they drop is super
           | uncomfortable these days, even with satire in mind. I love
           | the movie, but that aspect just feels off now, even though I
           | understand the intent.
        
             | dragonwriter wrote:
             | > Well, to start, the number of n-bombs they drop is super
             | uncomfortable these days, even with satire in mind.
             | 
             | It was, then, too, and intentionally so in contrast to the
             | sanitized approach to the time period in conventional
             | cinema of the time.
             | 
             | OTOH, that specific thing that it is satirizing is far less
             | current and relevant today, so I suppose without active
             | consideration of context, it might seem gratuitous as well
             | as uncomfortable.
        
         | rocmcd wrote:
         | I've always viewed Tropic Thunder as somewhat of a successor to
         | Blazing Saddles, but I largely agree that it couldn't be
         | recreated today.
         | 
         | The time period in which these movies were made is a lot of
         | what makes them so special. That's not to say that what we'll
         | have next won't be special, but 1974 (and 2008) was a different
         | time.
        
           | oh_sigh wrote:
           | Thinking back to when Tropic Thunder came out, I remember the
           | scandal relating to the movie had nothing to do with RDJs
           | character, but with the fact that they say "retarded" in it.
        
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             | manigandham wrote:
             | And like most of these "scandals", it was nothing more than
             | a handful of offended people being very vocal while the
             | vast majority didn't even notice. It's only worse now
             | because of social media amplifying the outrage but the
             | relative numbers are the same.
        
             | Ididntdothis wrote:
             | I have to admit the "full retard" is one of the best lines
             | I have ever heard in a movie. Maybe "10-20 million dead,
             | tops" from Dr Strangelove is on that level.
        
           | nerfhammer wrote:
           | I saw a good youtube video about how blazing saddles was
           | satirizing decades of hyper popular sanitized Western genre
           | and helped kill it
           | 
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jzMFoNZeZm0
        
           | slowmovintarget wrote:
           | Mel Brookes got full creative control over _Blazing Saddles_
           | in an accident of contract. The studio didn 't notice and
           | signed. This is why the movie is so good. Mel got to make
           | what he thought was funny.
        
             | drewcoo wrote:
             | The movie itself alludes to that toward the end when the
             | cowboys bust through a wall into a studio dance number, Dom
             | Deluise as the studio's director tries to regain order, and
             | Slim Pickins proclaims "I'm workin' for Mel Brooks" and
             | socks him. Which is a great example of what Mel Brooks
             | thinks is funny.
        
       | luckydata wrote:
       | I wish any of my friendships was that robust. I've met a lot of
       | people and I'm very social but for one reason or another
       | friendships in the Bay Area never seem to become very deep (and
       | most people I like end up leaving).
        
         | d4mi3n wrote:
         | I can't speak to friendships of 70 years, but I have a number
         | of friends I've known for the better part of 10 to 15 years. I
         | find there's a few things that help foster these kinds of
         | relationships:
         | 
         | 1. You genuinely like each other.
         | 
         | 2. The relationship is positive, meaning each party contributes
         | in positive ways to the well-being of each other.
         | 
         | 3. Proximity helps, but in cases where friends get separated
         | due to circumstances of life: stay in touch. Make a point to
         | call now and then, send a holiday card, involve them in travel
         | plans, etc. maintaining contact is key.
         | 
         | 4. For people you do lose contact with: check in. I know SO
         | many people who let fantastic friendships wither due to fear of
         | getting back in touch. What's a year or two of downtime
         | compared a friendship that can last decades? Reach out, they'll
         | be happy to hear from you.
         | 
         | Relationships take effort, and friendships are no different.
         | Look for ones that add to your life in positive ways, try to do
         | the same for them, and hang on to them as best you can. Good
         | luck!
        
       | gabagool wrote:
       | Carl Reiner and Mel Brooks also appear in an episode of Jerry
       | Seinfeld's Comedians in Cars getting Coffee. It can be found,
       | officially, on Netflix in the "Light and Sweet" season:
       | https://www.netflix.com/title/80171362.
       | 
       | As I recall, the episode was initially just focused on Carl
       | Reiner, but Seinfeld was invited back later that evening to join
       | Reiner and Brooks for dinner.
        
         | staticautomatic wrote:
         | "You'll look at [the bacon] and you'll say 'That's too crisp!'.
         | That's how I want it."
        
         | circa wrote:
         | Yes! Great episode!
        
       | tomcam wrote:
       | The real news is that Mel Brooks drives from Santa Monica to
       | Beverly Hills during rush hour on a daily basis. I'd barely do
       | that for my own kids! JK, but that's super impressive. It is a
       | brutal drive of the sort known to people from SV where absolutely
       | no shortcuts work anymore.
        
         | melling wrote:
         | Looks like a 9 mile drive.
         | 
         | When I was a kid in the 1970s, I remember people in California
         | joking about how they loved to drive. They couldn't see the
         | point of mass transit.
         | 
         | They even tried to build a high speed rail, but no one saw the
         | value. 50 years later and it's nearly impossible to build one
         | now.
        
           | phlakaton wrote:
           | In LA (and now in the Bay) you never measure car travel by
           | miles. ;-)
        
           | perigrin wrote:
           | It may be 9 miles but at the wrong time of day (e.g. when the
           | sun is out) it could take you hours. I hate driving in LA.
        
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