[HN Gopher] Amazon Isn't the Only Shop Online
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       Amazon Isn't the Only Shop Online
        
       Author : prostoalex
       Score  : 235 points
       Date   : 2020-04-06 16:39 UTC (6 hours ago)
        
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       | Animats wrote:
       | Amazon is holding up much better than other online retailers.
       | Ordering works fine. My Amazon orders are showing up, although
       | slowly. Safeway and Smart and Final can't even give me a delivery
       | slot. Smart and Final's web site was failing over the weekend -
       | Cloudflare timeouts, login timeouts, false credit card declines,
       | HTTP error 461 (there is no standard 461 error.), and a "Site
       | undergoing maintenance" message from their "DevOps Team". Back up
       | now, though.
        
       | StillBored wrote:
       | Yah, the only thing that's been arriving from Amazon lately are
       | the things sold and shipped by 3rd party sellers. Frankly, i've
       | been paying the extra to just order from the smaller shops lately
       | because amazon's critical "prioritization" algorithm doesn't seem
       | to know what is actually critical.
       | 
       | Part to fix my cloths washing machine? 3 weeks from Amazon, two
       | days from Granger.
       | 
       | Problem solved, plus unlike a similar part I ordered a couple
       | months ago from amazon, I'm pretty sure the granger parts aren't
       | counterfeit. The box stamped "Made in U.S.A" is likely
       | legitimate.
        
       | complianceowl wrote:
       | The HN is a very intelligent community, so I'd like to hear your
       | thoughts out loud here. Do you guys think supply chains will move
       | closer to home because of this pandemic? I'm hearing every
       | narrative under the sun right now: "This will establish globalism
       | even more", "No! This marks the abrupt END of globalism." What
       | are your thoughts?
        
         | complianceowl wrote:
         | Guys, you freaking rock. Thank you for your informative and
         | insightful responses. This is precisely why I referred to you
         | guys before even receiving any responses as "intelligent".
        
         | twblalock wrote:
         | Supply chains need to be more resilient, and that probably
         | means making them more global rather than less.
         | 
         | A pandemic could originate in any country. Making things "at
         | home" would turn out to be a bad idea if the pandemic
         | originates at home. If that happened we would like to be able
         | to get help from other countries.
        
           | jshevek wrote:
           | De-globalization, in this case, brings redundancy. This is
           | less efficient, but more fault tolerant.
           | 
           | Striving for domestic manufacturing does not prevent imports
           | from occurring if deemed necessary. Tariffs are easy to wave,
           | in an emergency.
        
         | jshevek wrote:
         | Certain products will be made and/or stock-piled closer to
         | home. The effect this has on globalism overall depends on how
         | various factions battle over narratives.
        
         | stuff4ben wrote:
         | It's certainly going to shift manufacturing of some "essential
         | items" for emergencies closer to home. But you can't do a knee-
         | jerk reaction based on something like this. This is a very rare
         | event and it would be foolish to annihilate your existing
         | global supply chain over this. It will probably mean that
         | countries (the smart ones anyways) will start to stockpile and
         | ensure they have plans to follow in the event something like
         | this happens again.
        
         | Mountain_Skies wrote:
         | Only with government intervention. If company A switches to
         | more expensive domestic manufacturing while company B stays on
         | the other side of the planet, B can undercut A. Next time there
         | is a supply disruption, A will be able to beat out B, but A
         | might be out of business by then. Government intervention would
         | be required to even the field, maybe through tariffs or
         | importation prohibitions.
         | 
         | An alternative would be for company A to appeal to the public
         | (or business customers) to buy from them at a higher price
         | because it helps keep society from being disrupted by supply
         | chain interruptions. That might work short term but cheap
         | prices seem to win out over concerns of societal wide benefits
         | in the long run.
        
         | pjc50 wrote:
         | "Globalism"?
         | 
         | It's very hard to say right now. Money will be tight, so the
         | pressure to buy the cheapest will remain. A lot of producers
         | and consumer businesses will go bust. Shortage and oversupply
         | will ping pong around for a while.
         | 
         | A lot depends what the effect of deaths is on politics - do any
         | leaders get killed? Differential effect on older voters?
         | Hopefully the number of those will be small enough not to
         | matter.
        
       | larrik wrote:
       | Right when this all was starting, I had finally chosen a bass
       | guitar I wanted. I decided to try and support a non-Amazon
       | business in GuitarCenter (the local music shops focus a lot more
       | on school band instruments). So, I order online, and pick the
       | "pick up at store" option, since it says they are in stock.
       | 
       | I show up, and an hour later they figure out that they don't have
       | it in stock, they only have the floor model (which I can have for
       | a whopping 5% off...). Apparently, the system (a green screen
       | app, no less) can't tell the difference between "new in stock"
       | and "floor model". I got the rundown of their logistics chain
       | (which is basically just UPS), and I lost confidence that even
       | ordering ship-to-home online again would even work. So, I bought
       | it from Amazon for the same price and got it later that week...
        
         | selykg wrote:
         | Check out Sweetwater next time. They are significantly better.
         | Their site actually shows you each guitar/bass they have in
         | stock and they have an entire gallery Of photos for each. If
         | you order one they'll send a zip or the whole collection of
         | photos.
         | 
         | If you call and talk to the sales rep for you (you're assigned
         | one) they can usually knock 5-15% off.
         | 
         | They also make sure each guitar/bass is setup to factory spec
         | before sending it out.
        
           | larrik wrote:
           | Never really heard of them before. Looks like everything I
           | bought is out of stock anyway, but it's good to know there
           | are alternatives.
        
             | selykg wrote:
             | I imagine a lot of gear is tough to get unless it's high
             | end stuff right now. There has been a ton of people picking
             | up instruments during the shelter in place orders.
             | 
             | Sweetwater is significantly better than GuitarCenter
             | though. Better customer support, better site, better
             | warranty, better everything.
        
             | kube-system wrote:
             | All pro musicians know and love Sweetwater
        
           | sosborn wrote:
           | I second this recommendation. Sweetwater is great and their
           | sales reps know what they are talking about.
        
             | ganoushoreilly wrote:
             | I third it! Every guitar I buy from them has come with
             | personal images of the exact guitar, you can even view
             | everything before you buy it!
             | 
             | Sweetwater reps are also really competitive on pricing. I
             | like reverb for hard to find used gear, but I always end up
             | shooting over prices from there to my Sweetwater rep, not
             | once have they not beat it.
        
           | hsitz wrote:
           | Sweetwater is good. BHPhotoVideo is also excellent for music
           | stuff (as well as tech in general). Free shipping, great
           | service, affiliated payboo credit card that covers sales tax,
           | saves me 10% on every order.
        
         | mdesq wrote:
         | Home Depot and Lowes do this same thing with certain items like
         | dishwashers. It's obnoxious. Their website will show that they
         | have "1 left in stock" but it's the demo model that's installed
         | in a rack of cabinets and not for sale.
        
         | JoeAltmaier wrote:
         | Yeah. I phoned an implement dealer, to buy a mower I saw
         | advertised in their online store. Wanted to make sure he had
         | set actually eyes on recently, because we've all had online
         | listing be wrong. "Yeah we have that. I saw it ... yesterday?"
         | 
         | So I rent a trailer and drive 4 hours, and guess what? Just a
         | square of yellow grass on the lot where the mower used to sit.
        
       | nataz wrote:
       | Amazon shipping hack - order what you want to order, wait 48
       | hours to see if it ships, and if it doesn't cancel and order
       | elsewhere.
       | 
       | This assumes you value ordering through Amazon (I do b/c prime
       | shipping, easy return policy, and I have a large gift card
       | balance)
       | 
       | One thing I've noticed is that amazon may list a delivery date
       | far out in the future, but it's possible you still get the
       | product quickly, depending on what I can only assume are local
       | warehouse logistic issues.
       | 
       | Over the past two weeks I've ordered packing/shipping supplies, a
       | high chair, some electronics, and a board game which all had
       | expected delivery dates of +1 month, and they all arrived in 2
       | days.
       | 
       | YMMV.
        
         | serf wrote:
         | > Amazon shipping hack - order what you want to order, wait 48
         | hours to see if it ships, and if it doesn't cancel and order
         | elsewhere.
         | 
         | Amazon used to have a history of banning 'bad customers' (lots
         | of returns, cancelled orders, etc), is this no longer the case?
        
           | mnm1 wrote:
           | It is still the case.
        
           | dawnerd wrote:
           | Anecdotal but I've cancelled a TON of orders and haven't been
           | banned. Returns I can see, but definitely not cancelled
           | orders.
        
             | mod wrote:
             | > I've cancelled a TON of orders
             | 
             | Out of curiosity, why?
        
         | jshevek wrote:
         | I've done this. It doesn't work for some third party shippers
         | who claim to ship immediately (cancel option removed) even if
         | they don't.
        
         | secabeen wrote:
         | I've also noticed that if you order multiple items, and one of
         | them has a short shipping time, they'll suddenly ship your
         | other items that are waiting. Presumably if they're all at the
         | same warehouse, and they're already shipping one thing, they
         | put the other stuff in the box.
        
           | dawnerd wrote:
           | Flip side is sometimes something that could ship fast ends up
           | being delayed so they can group it with something that comes
           | from a further away warehouse.
        
             | fma wrote:
             | That makes no sense. If you order 2 items, and they're in 2
             | different warehouses, you'll get 2 packages. They aren't
             | going to ship from 1 warehouse to a 2nd warehouse and then
             | bundle them.
        
         | ehsankia wrote:
         | I really wish they could provide more clarity. I haven't tried
         | ordering things that list as May, but browsing items, I
         | randomly see individual items that for some reason have much
         | closer dates. I even saw one with 1-day shipping. It makes no
         | sense to me. I wish they could give a slightly better window
         | prediction than "this may take a month"...
        
           | larrik wrote:
           | I needed some surge protectors. The ones I really wanted were
           | all May, but then the AmazonBasics one was this week. Hmm...
        
           | airstrike wrote:
           | > I really wish they could provide more clarity.
           | 
           | I'm not sure but I think this is because of some virus or
           | something, from what I've heard
        
           | dangrossman wrote:
           | The 10% of items that show as available for 1-day or 2-day
           | shipping are likely the ones in your nearest Amazon
           | warehouse. There's 119 other warehouses products can be in
           | that they would have to ship by UPS/FedEx/USPS instead of a
           | local delivery by their own contracted drivers.
        
           | greenshackle2 wrote:
           | They are shipping "priority items" quickly. Who knows how
           | they determine what are "priority items".
           | 
           | When I ordered hygiene items (shampoo, soap, etc.) they
           | shipped the next day. But my order of kitchen equipment has
           | expected delivery in May (which I'm totally fine with).
        
       | jupp0r wrote:
       | To any other non-amazon stores out there: have toilet paper in
       | stock and I'll give it a try!
        
       | rchaud wrote:
       | Best Buy's ecommerce site is great; they don't have the absurd
       | levels of info overload and upselling of a typical Amazon page.
       | 
       | In Canada, Amazon's electronics offerings are rife with awful
       | Chinese brands sold by dropshippers. Amazon seemingly doesn't
       | carry any of the inventory themselves unless it's a Fire tablet
       | or Echo.
       | 
       | It's actually a big relief to shop online via at a proper outlet
       | (even Walmart.ca is more reliable) than through the Bezos flea
       | market.
        
       | jedberg wrote:
       | Yeah I've ordered a few things now directly from the
       | manufacturer.
       | 
       | The problem is in a lot of cases I'll see stuff that's slightly
       | cheaper on their site but then shipping is ridiculous.
       | 
       | I ordered a mono price stand up desk recently. The price on
       | Amazon was $10 more, but Monoprice wanted $45 for domestic
       | shipping! So I waited three extra days and saved $35.
       | 
       | It's kind of a toss up now between speed and price depending on
       | the item. I mean, it always was, but when prime is functioning
       | normally, the speed is almost always worth the price (to me).
        
         | bluetidepro wrote:
         | I agree 100% with this. It's appalling how many other sites
         | (esp. the direct manufacturer ones, like you mentioned) use
         | dark patterns with their shipping/handling prices. It really
         | does make you understand why everyone wants to use the big
         | sites like Amazon, at least they are pretty straight fwd when
         | it comes to the price, shipping, fees, etc. Nothing worse than
         | getting down an e-commerce funnel only to find you wasted 10+
         | mins filling out stages of forms to then find the
         | shipping/handling cost is absolutely ridiculous, and have to
         | bail.
        
           | KaoruAoiShiho wrote:
           | Or.... small companies don't have economy of scale logistics
           | operations?
        
             | bluetidepro wrote:
             | As commented to someone else's reply, you don't understand
             | what I mean by a dark pattern. There is a difference in
             | having a shipping cost, vs hiding the shipping cost in the
             | funnel. They hide it in the funnel, that IS a dark pattern.
             | There is nothing wrong with charging for shipping, but
             | don't be shady about how you present that cost.
        
           | dangrossman wrote:
           | It's not a dark pattern that shipping actually costs everyone
           | that isn't Amazon a lot. Go get a shipping quote from UPS or
           | FedEx for sending a desk across the country. It's not going
           | to be any cheaper than these stores are charging. They're not
           | hiding extra profit in their shipping fees.
           | 
           | People are so used to Amazon Prime that they have no idea
           | what things cost to ship any more. I run a small online store
           | and every 1-pound package I mail out costs $8-12 in postage
           | by the cheapest shipping method available to me, at
           | commercial shipping rates. If the box is over a cubic foot in
           | size and going to a state on the other side of the country,
           | it can quickly double or triple in cost.
           | 
           | Amazon has $120/year in Prime subscription fees to subsidize
           | the displayed shipping costs, puts some of the shipping fee
           | into the item price (they're rarely the cheapest for most
           | products, especially very cheap or very heavy ones), has a
           | warehouse within 20 miles of every American so that nearly
           | everything they ship is a same-zone local shipment, and has
           | their own delivery network so they don't have to pay
           | carriers. No other business has those things.
        
             | bluetidepro wrote:
             | It IS a dark pattern when they don't show you that cost
             | until the final step after you have invested time getting
             | there. You misunderstand, I'm not arguing that it costs
             | money to ship things, I understand that to be true, I'm
             | saying it's a shitty dark pattern when you aren't clear
             | about that cost up front in the funnel. People can be
             | honest, there is nothing stopping them from doing that.
        
               | dangrossman wrote:
               | They don't know the cost to ship you things until they
               | know what's going to be in your cart and what address
               | it's getting mailed to. Shipping costs are based on
               | package dimensions, weight, and distance between the
               | sender and recipient. This is the reason that in nearly
               | every ecommerce platform, shipping costs get displayed at
               | the second to last step of the checkout process, or in
               | the shopping cart only if you provide your zip code
               | there. They don't have the information needed to run a
               | postage quote any earlier.
        
               | bluetidepro wrote:
               | Again, you still aren't following. I'm saying many sites
               | don't do that. You are correct, I should be able to see
               | estimated shipping from my cart on any e-commerce site by
               | just putting in a zip code in, and them knowing what is
               | in my cart (product wise). It's a dark pattern that MANY
               | sites don't do this, they make you fill out a ton of info
               | to get to that point. It's sketchy and a dark pattern to
               | put that many walls behind a final price including
               | shipping. I understand there has to be a few walls, but
               | you wouldn't believe how many sites put extra walls in
               | there to try to "trap" you in their funnel.
        
               | jeromegv wrote:
               | Where you see dark pattern is in fact a limitation of
               | most ecommerce platforms. Shopify, which powers millions
               | of retailers website, doesn't offer this out of the box.
               | You need the advanced plan ($$) and on top of that you
               | need a special app/theme that would allow you to do it
               | before checkout.
        
             | plorkyeran wrote:
             | Honest sites let you enter a zip code at the very start of
             | the shopping process and display an estimated shipping cost
             | as you're looking at items. Dishonest sites make no mention
             | of shipping costs until you're at the very end of the
             | checkout process.
        
           | ghostpepper wrote:
           | I'm convinced they do this on purpose. The more time you've
           | invested, the more likely you are to acquiesce and pay their
           | exorbitant shipping fee.
        
             | hurricanetc wrote:
             | I guess I am in the minority because as soon as I see a
             | shipping fee more than 7-10% of the cost of the item I
             | immediately start looking elsewhere. Numerous times I've
             | just decided to not buy an item because I didn't want to
             | pay the shipping costs.
        
       | benbristow wrote:
       | I usually prefer to use Amazon just because the experience is so
       | simple and in the UK their logistics delivery service is pretty
       | good with live tracking when the parcel gets near to your home.
       | 
       | Amazon can be annoying when using third party sellers though and
       | might end up getting dispatched with an alternative delivery
       | service, god forbid Royal Mail who don't have any live tracking
       | feature.
       | 
       | I'm always happy to help out smaller/alternative businesses
       | though if they offer competitive prices and use decent delivery
       | firms like DPD.
        
       | awaythrower wrote:
       | Also beware of phony Magento sites that don't have actual
       | products, but are just trying to get CCs, PayPal or crypto
       | payments.
        
         | prox wrote:
         | How does that work? I've seen a lot of copy paste webshops of
         | formerly retired domains. They obviously look quickly hacked
         | together (allthough looking professional enough to the
         | untrained eye)
        
       | salvagedcircuit wrote:
       | Ironically, I find that I am ordering more from Mcmastercarr and
       | digikey more than ever.
        
       | double0jimb0 wrote:
       | Amazon has massive network of 3rd Party Sellers who ship items
       | directly from their own warehouses, not relying on Amazon's
       | currently-hobbled fulfillment centers
       | 
       | You can find these by selecting "other sellers" on the Amazon
       | product page.
       | 
       | This has been the way to get stuff quickly on Amazon for the last
       | 3 weeks.
       | 
       | Then on Friday, with no warning or explanation, Amazon extended
       | all shipping times quoted out to April 20th, including the
       | shipping times provided by 3rd party sellers.
       | 
       | This extension has no basis in reality, as 3rd party sellers have
       | not experienced any shipping delays because they don't use
       | Amazon's warehouses.
       | 
       | This was a hugely anti-competitive move by Amazon that has
       | severely impacted 3rd party sellers and directly misleads
       | consumers.
       | 
       | Numerous 3rd party sellers have reported this situation to the
       | DOJ.
       | 
       | If any reporters want more info, please reach out. Email in
       | profile.
        
         | CPLX wrote:
         | For what it's worth, the solution is just to order whatever you
         | want anyways, and watch it ship to you 2-3 days later.
        
           | double0jimb0 wrote:
           | Well of course, but most people go by what they read on the
           | screen in front of them at the time of purchase.
        
       | buzzert wrote:
       | If anyone is looking for computer parts, I gotta shoutout Newegg.
       | Been using them for more than 15 years, and they've been
       | extremely great at delivering during the pandemic.
        
         | ShamelessC wrote:
         | With all the social distancing going on and my general laziness
         | towards staying active without being forced to, paired with the
         | massive hype surrounding Half-Life: Alyx, I decided to build a
         | VR ready computer.
         | 
         | Newegg was fine. I'd been using them since my first build 15
         | years ago. But this time I also had access to the amazing
         | website pcpartpicker.com. Not only do they make it easy to find
         | parts that are all compatible with each other, but you'll also
         | be given multiple shopping options with discounts.
         | 
         | Most of it I got from Newegg but I was able to save about 75$
         | by getting the PSU and MoBo from bhphotovideo.com which was a
         | surprisingly good experience.
         | 
         | BTW, HL Alyx is as amazing as they say and you really don't
         | have to spend a fortune to play it. My entire build was only
         | 650$ and my VR headset of choice (Samsung Odyssey) only 270$. I
         | was worried I'd made a mistake by going with a cheap headset
         | but it works very well.
        
       | tmaly wrote:
       | Amazon was sold out of bakers yeast as were the local grocery
       | stores. I was able to order from a specialty place. The order was
       | delivered 2 days later. The price was very reasonable.
       | 
       | For certain things, I am seeing some serious prices. People are
       | selling cotton masks 4 for $25. That seems a little steep given
       | that a box of N95 masks went for $6 before this.
       | 
       | I just ordered parts for building a new computer. I had to order
       | from 4 different places as Amazon did not have half of the items
       | in stock. There are definitely some supply chain issues.
        
       | Finnucane wrote:
       | Too bad they didn't mention bookshop.org for getting books.
        
         | iedddkke wrote:
         | or alibris.com
        
         | binaryorganic wrote:
         | I recently learned about bookshop, and was super excited until
         | I actually started making a wishlist of stuff I wanted and
         | found half of it to either be back ordered or not exist in
         | their system at all. Turns out all orders are processed through
         | a single book supplier and if they don't have it bookshop won't
         | either.
         | 
         | As someone who doesn't use Amazon, I tend to use indiebound,
         | which just pairs you with the closest independent bookstore who
         | has the thing you want.
        
       | giancarlostoro wrote:
       | Amazon is the only shop selling the most convenience. At least
       | Walmart and Target have online order and parking spots to pick up
       | your orders from, but I can only imagine a lot of old brick and
       | mortar type of stores are way behind the times. Just some stories
       | on here are horror story level examples of the night and day kind
       | of service you can get in regards to buyer convenience.
        
       | ebg13 wrote:
       | I tried ordering some things from Home Depot the other day, and
       | they silently cancelled half of my order while still charging me
       | the same amount for delivery from the store and while saying that
       | some things can only be delivered from a warehouse and that some
       | things can only be delivered from a specific store _and_ that
       | delivery from each store has a $45 minimum purchase before they
       | 'll even consider delivery despite the fact that they're charging
       | the same amount for delivery from the store no matter how much
       | you order. That of course makes it difficult to then order the
       | remaining items even if you call them and demand a refund for the
       | first delivery fee, because the remaining items now don't meet
       | the minimum. Then the delivery from the warehouse is some weird
       | arbitrary calculation involving a nominal+ amount that then gets
       | divided up across the items you're ordering (3.77 here, 2.83
       | there, and so on) such that if you remove any item the delivery
       | fees for the other items all go up, and then there are some items
       | that deliver for free if you order more than $45 worth _from the
       | warehouse_ which of course doesn 't help you if some items can
       | only be purchased from the individual stores. And then there are
       | still things like cans of spraypaint that you can't get delivered
       | at all and you're only allowed to pick up in person.
       | 
       | I know that right now is an exceptional time, but this kind of
       | shopping experience is part of why people choose Amazon first.
        
         | tmaly wrote:
         | I ordered a chest freezer from Home Depot. When I ordered it, I
         | double checked that it was not listed as out of stock. I got a
         | notice they were delivering on April 4. It was never delivered.
         | The delivery company told me they were never shipped the
         | freezer to deliver. When I called Home Depot, they said
         | freezers are on back order to June. They told me I could call
         | the manufacturer. This is a bit crazy. I have never had a place
         | tell me to call the manufacturer.
        
         | kevin_thibedeau wrote:
         | DO NOT order from Home Depot online. I made that mistake once
         | and found out that they reuse SKUs for different product
         | models. They will pull the wrong product off the shelf because
         | the SKU is all they go off of. Support refuses to do anything
         | about items delivered from a local store. The store employee
         | won't be able to readily exchange the item.
        
           | ebg13 wrote:
           | > _Support refuses to do anything about items delivered from
           | a local store._
           | 
           | Partially true. Support may actually contact the store and
           | negotiate a refund for you. Allegedly I'll be refunded for
           | the from-store delivery fee for my first order that had some
           | of the items cancelled, and I didn't talk to the store
           | directly.
        
         | x0x0 wrote:
         | My favorite is how home depot lists stuff in stock on the
         | search results page, but then when you click the individual
         | item it's out of stock.
         | 
         | It's a store. Why the fuck would a store ever show me an item
         | -- at least by default -- that it isn't willing to sell me?
         | Like who exactly wants that "feature"? It makes attempting to
         | buy something from home depot's site an infuriating experience.
        
           | ebg13 wrote:
           | One of the items I tried ordering that was cancelled showed
           | 34 in stock at that store _while_ I was on the phone with
           | them (immediately after the delivery person left) trying to
           | find out why they cancelled my items and they were saying the
           | items were probably out of stock in that store.
           | 
           | And if you have three stores within a couple of miles of you
           | that all claim to have a bunch of stock of an item but you
           | order from one that suddenly (allegedly) runs out, you get to
           | go all the way back down the hill because they don't migrate
           | stock between stores.
        
             | bradlys wrote:
             | This is one of the reasons I don't buy things from Home
             | Depot if I can help it. I've gone to multiple stores
             | thinking something was in stock to only find they were all
             | out of stock. On top of that, the staff there are almost
             | helpless when it comes to finding things that aren't on the
             | shelf itself. If it's up top, be prepared to waste an hour
             | trying to get someone to fetch the item. (If it's there!)
             | 
             | Their poor system can work in your favor though. Went to go
             | pick up my order after it being cancelled at multiple
             | places. Turns out, at this one, they only had 2 of the 4
             | items at pickup. I tell them it says there are more in
             | stock, they confirm. We go hunting for the remaining 2.
             | Takes 30 minutes for them to fetch the remaining two from
             | the top with my help (without my help, they would have
             | never found it!). We go back to the register, they punch in
             | that they're giving me 2 more. I go home with all 4 of my
             | items. I was never charged for the full order. Only the
             | initial 2.
        
               | solotronics wrote:
               | I mean technically that is stealing but I guess its
               | pretty low on the scale of "bad stuff".
        
               | bradlys wrote:
               | Is it? They rung me up with it - it's up to them to
               | decide what to charge me. I'd put as "bank error in my
               | favor." I only noticed later when I was making sure they
               | didn't overcharge me when looking at my bank account.
               | (They had to charge and refund about 3x)
        
               | boomboomsubban wrote:
               | It's still stealing, the correct move would be to go back
               | and pay the correct amount as you likely would have done
               | if they overcharged you.
               | 
               | That said, I doubt you could legally be held responsible
               | and I see no problems with what you did morally either.
               | If you noticed at the time I'd find it morally
               | questionable, but you can't fix every mistake.
        
               | sneak wrote:
               | Stealing requires intent, generally.
        
               | ebg13 wrote:
               | "bank error in your favor" is not a real thing and a bank
               | will definitely hold you accountable for that. But I
               | honestly read your description as HD just giving you the
               | extras as a gift for your hassle.
        
               | [deleted]
        
           | harrisonjackson wrote:
           | The first part sounds like a pretty terrible UI bug - it
           | should be showing as out of stock everywhere :thinking: maybe
           | the search results don't cross-check your selected store
           | location but the detail page for an item does. (not excusing
           | it just thinking where the issue could be)
           | 
           | A couple of reasons to show items they can't sell you right
           | now in the search results...
           | 
           | 1. The best reason I can think of is if you click into it and
           | it isn't available then they could show "similar" items and
           | cross-sell you on those - and maybe actually help you find a
           | good alternative.
           | 
           | 2. If you are searching for a specific item then the result
           | should show you that item regardless of availability or you'd
           | just keep looking for it and be confused about it never
           | showing up in their results.
           | 
           | 3. Maybe SEO? More listings - even out of stock listings ->
           | more SEO juice
        
           | dvtrn wrote:
           | This has long been an issue I've had when trying to use
           | online shopping/curbside pickup for grocery stores, and this
           | comes even before the COVID-19 pandemic arrived and pushed
           | more of us fortunate to live in cities where online grocery
           | buying is a thing to....well start buying groceries online.
           | 
           | Found myself just as baffled/apoplectic as you are: why would
           | this be on your online storefront if you don't have the
           | inventory for me to actually buy?
           | 
           | Even Amazon Prime delivery via Whole Foods has this problem,
           | to bring it back around to the thread topic.
           | 
           | Interestingly it's something that small e-commerce stores are
           | _much_ better about, it would seem (though I don 't really
           | have any data backing that up)
        
             | goatforce5 wrote:
             | Last year I tried setting up a subscription for some pet
             | food from a mid-sized pet store chain.
             | 
             | The first order went through fine.
             | 
             | 3.5 weeks later I get an email saying my next order is
             | about to be processed, now is the last chance for
             | cancellations, etc. I ignore it, as I want the order to be
             | processed.
             | 
             | A few days later I get an email saying they're out of stock
             | and they'll retry again later. I get these emails every day
             | for 2 weeks, and then my order is automatically cancelled.
             | 
             | This happens for 2 or 3 months before I get fed up and
             | cancel the subscription.
             | 
             | If I put in an order effectively a month in advance you'd
             | think they could make sure they had enough stock for that
             | upcoming order.
             | 
             | (And it wasn't a complicated order, just multiple boxes of
             | a single SKU.)
        
             | justforyou wrote:
             | >> why would this be on your online storefront if you don't
             | have the inventory for me to actually buy?
             | 
             | Twofold:
             | 
             | 1) They're betting that you'll still buy something once
             | you're surrounded by merchandise. 2) This allows them to
             | play games with shrink, imventory, and insurance.
        
               | dvtrn wrote:
               | _They 're betting that you'll still buy something once
               | you're surrounded by merchandise._
               | 
               | Hrm. Good point, that's exactly what's ended up
               | happening. Just never actively considered it
        
           | justforyou wrote:
           | Even better, you can reserve items to pickup at Home Depot
           | online which are not actually in stock. Website quantities
           | are not tied to point of sale, and are instead manually
           | enteted by staff when they have the opportunity/bandwidth.
           | 
           | (Or at least that was the explanation given by Home Depot's
           | customer support.)
        
             | markkanof wrote:
             | I feel like I'm using a different homedepot.com than
             | everyone else on this thread. I'm not aware of an option to
             | reserve things for pickup at the store, only to purchase
             | them and pickup at the store. Every time I have done this
             | they send an email when the order is ready to be picked up,
             | and then I go there and pick up all the items. Not saying
             | you didn't have the experience you did, just wondering if
             | they actually do things differently in different parts of
             | the country.
        
               | ebg13 wrote:
               | > _I 'm not aware of an option to reserve things for
               | pickup at the store, only to purchase them and pickup at
               | the store._
               | 
               | Those two things you just said are the same thing.
        
               | markkanof wrote:
               | I don't think they are. When the parent commenter said
               | reserved for pickup, I assumed they meant some way to say
               | "hold these at the counter for me to come purchase". What
               | I am saying is that in my experience, you are making a
               | purchase, someone at the store is pulling the items from
               | the shelf and setting them in a special area, then you
               | get an email/text that the order is ready, meaning that
               | everything is ready to go, they had all the items, and no
               | other customer will be able to purchase the items that
               | you ordered.
        
               | ebg13 wrote:
               | "hold these for me until I get there" is exactly the same
               | as "don't let someone else buy them before I get there".
               | Whether you pay before you get there or after doesn't
               | change the fact that the item is being held for you so
               | that no other customer will be able to purchase the items
               | that you ordered.
               | 
               | We can break down your two statements and put them
               | piecemeal side by side:
               | 
               | I assumed they meant... "hold these..."
               | 
               | What I am saying is... "pulling the items from the
               | shelf..."
               | 
               | I assumed they meant... "at the counter..."
               | 
               | What I am saying is... "in a special area..."
        
               | markkanof wrote:
               | You're completely correct. What I was trying to
               | communicate, and what I should have emphasized, is that
               | it's not just a send and forget kind of process. After
               | the items have been set aside you get an email/text to
               | confirm that things are ready to pickup and in my
               | experience everything that I've ordered is there when I
               | go to pick it up. So I'm saying that the things that were
               | listed as in stock on the website are actually in stock
               | at the store, and I get a confirmation once everything
               | has been "secured" for me.
        
         | markkanof wrote:
         | I'm really surprised to hear so many horrible experiences with
         | Home Depot ordering online. Over the past 2-3 months I have
         | placed multiple orders for things that are shipped to my house,
         | and that has gone off without a hitch.
         | 
         | I've also placed an order for "express delivery" which seems to
         | be a HD delivery driver coming from either a store or a local
         | warehouse. I placed an order for a bunch of screws, insulating
         | foam, joist hangers, etc. My ordered was placed around 1pm and
         | I had the items on my porch by about 6pm the same day.
         | 
         | I also ordered a bunch of lumber, sheets or rigid insulation,
         | etc. that needed to be delivered by truck. The driver arrived
         | on time, used his all-terrain forklift to navigate around a
         | bunch of parked cars (I live in a fairly dense residential
         | neighborhood), and place the whole load right where I wanted it
         | on my front lawn. Couldn't be happier with the whole process.
         | 
         | Just thought it was worth sharing some positive experiences, as
         | a counter point to the negative ones here.
        
         | sonicggg wrote:
         | It seems the kind of charge I would dispute with my credit card
         | company.
        
         | mathattack wrote:
         | This is the difference between delivery being your primary
         | focus versus secondary focus.
        
         | jakearmitage wrote:
         | HomeDepot's ecommerce is a joke. Not only the shopping
         | experience is poor, they treat logistics as if they were doing
         | you a favor. And, on top of all that, you get damaged items. I
         | made 7 purchases and all 7, in different periods of time, had
         | to be returned or replaced.
         | 
         | Same for Lowe's. There's a reason people shop on Amazon. Other
         | than BestBuy, no other retailer "gets" ecommerce.
        
           | Shivetya wrote:
           | Best Buy is great, especially for delivery.
           | 
           | Apple, CostCo, Ashley Home Funiture, Wayfair, Wal-Mart, and
           | some minor players, have all performed well in my usage and
           | those who I know also use them. Now with two I had a damaged
           | item they did not want any part of returned, apparently this
           | is common with free shipping deals as the return shipping for
           | larger items can be ridiculous.
           | 
           | Home Depot I have to agree with assessments others have made,
           | lost an item off their own dock and when recreating the order
           | after two weeks of back and forth; UPS was getting annoyed
           | too, they wanted to remake the order and charge full shipping
           | again. Just really bad customer service. They really do act
           | like all screw ups are yours.
        
           | Spooky23 wrote:
           | That's crazy. Target smokes Amazon for most things these
           | days, especially with pickup. Ditto for NewEgg and Walmart.
           | 
           | Amazon is increasingly overrated, they peaked a decade ago
           | and have declined to a warehouse club/flea market.
        
           | powvans wrote:
           | I thought the same thing about Home Depot until this hit.
           | I've had the opposite experience with them the last few
           | weeks. Things come quickly, my cart is consistent wherever I
           | am logged in, and I can just add pretty much as much stuff as
           | I want and get it all delivered the next day for $9. I'm
           | loving the express delivery. In general it would always be
           | worth it for me to spend $9 to get stuff delivered from Home
           | Depot. Pre-pandemic it's a solid hour or more in the car to
           | cover the 4.3 miles there and back from my house.
           | 
           | Maybe I'm getting a better experience because I'm in Atlanta
           | and there's a bit of a headquarters halo effect.
           | 
           | Their search and general catalog organization isn't great. I
           | just use Google as my entrance to their site and that makes
           | life easier.
        
           | sseagull wrote:
           | I imagine this is one of those things where everyone has
           | different experiences. Or maybe it depends on location.
           | 
           | We recently moved into a new house (from an apartment) and
           | needed lots of little things renters never worry about. I
           | have ordered quite a bit of stuff from Home Depot, from a
           | washer & dryer to a lawn mower to random small tools and
           | paint. Never had any issue whatsoever.
        
           | coding123 wrote:
           | This is a key point. Especially for prime items, but largely
           | to other items they sell that are not fulfilled by them. It
           | just feels like there is more responsibility through the
           | amazon platform than other websites.
           | 
           | I ordered a case of water through Amazon through a reseller.
           | The shipment literally got lost. Amazon dispute, 20 minutes
           | later, refund is done.
           | 
           | I am waiting for a resolution through Paypal from another
           | website - off amazon - since Friday for toilet paper that
           | will definitely not be sent. After looking at policies, etc..
           | they generally don't do refunds.
           | 
           | Though, I did have luck on one other site.
        
           | smichel17 wrote:
           | I've been pretty happy with newegg, and my recent electronics
           | purchases have been split between it, Amazon, and direct from
           | manufacturer (preferring direct unless there is a significant
           | price difference, due to counterfeit-wariness).
        
           | kbash9 wrote:
           | Never had an issue with costco.com where I've made some of my
           | big purchases.
        
             | Someone1234 wrote:
             | Just this week I had an issue with Costco.com.
             | 
             | Ordered an item, their delivery estimate was 3-5 days. 7
             | days passed and the item hasn't shipped. No updated ETA or
             | any information/communication on how long it might take.
             | 
             | Decided to cancel and order from an alternative vendor (who
             | would communicate better, frankly). Was unable to even
             | cancel it online (cancel button was missing, in
             | contradiction to their help docs).
             | 
             | Tried to use Online Chat to cancel, which was seemingly
             | offline/broken for multiple days. Finally called their
             | customer service number, and it was cancelled within the
             | hour (which credit where credit is due was one of the best
             | telephone customer service experiences I've had).
             | 
             | Took all of 10 days to NOT receive a 3-5 day item from
             | Costco.com, the replacement item ordered elsewhere arrived
             | in 48 hours. Still don't know how long the Costco.com item
             | would have taken because they never communicated that.
        
               | ethbro wrote:
               | From experience internally (not at Costco, but other t20
               | retail), here's what happened, from most to least likely.
               | 
               | 1. Your order type fell into an edge cast that an
               | incomplete batch system -> system transfer job choked on.
               | Naturally, it silently failed.
               | 
               | 2. Inventory count mismatch.
               | 
               | 3. Incomplete transportation handshake.
               | 
               | Logistics looks simple from a customer perspective: (1)
               | order, (2) ship, (3) receive. From a vendor perspective
               | it's (1+) bulk source, (2+) distribute, (3) maintain
               | consistent inventory counts, (4) receive order, (5)
               | source order items from stock most efficiently, (6)
               | orchestrate multi-sourced items, (7+) provision & batch
               | transportation, receiving and reshipping at multiple
               | legs, (8+) fulfill last mile.
               | 
               | All while stitching together 30+ year old systems for
               | each of those. And the +'d items are all semi-outside of
               | the company's control. (Ever wonder why there are so many
               | transportation-abstraction companies?)
               | 
               | Which is to say, no excuse for bad service. But it's a
               | bear of a problem.
               | 
               | Incidentally, why most retail has _excellent_ customer
               | support phone centers (usually onshore): they know their
               | systems break a non-zero amount of time, and want the
               | best touch when you need to have things fixed.
        
           | beamatronic wrote:
           | Target is okay although I often get cosmetically damaged
           | packaging.
        
           | cpascal wrote:
           | > Other than BestBuy, no other retailer "gets" ecommerce
           | 
           | Target.com is a pretty solid experience.
           | 
           | Walmart.com is also surprisingly good.
           | 
           | Although I'm sure people can provide horror stories for both
           | retailers.
        
             | sjg007 wrote:
             | Walmart has been quite reliable for grocery pickup. I've
             | tried Hy-Vee and the experience wasn't very good. Lots of
             | stuff sold out or not picked. Target has given up on
             | grocery curbside as well. But for household goods it works
             | well. I'm trying our local supermarket curbside next so
             | hopefully that will work out. I know we are in crazy times
             | but I'd be really cool to get a dedicated grocery curbside
             | / delivery operation with only warehouses and no stores. I
             | think the UK has something like that.
        
             | whymauri wrote:
             | I'll toss Staples on to there. I ordered a chair two years
             | ago. Relatively modern website, free delivery, and it
             | arrived earlier than anticipated with no damage. Just make
             | sure you unsubscribe from their newsletter.
             | 
             | I also think they'll price-match.
        
             | bluGill wrote:
             | We have been trying to use Walmart for groceries, it is
             | okay, but too often they substitute what we don't want.
             | There is a reason we ordered mild not spicy: the kids won't
             | eat spicy hot foods.
        
               | cglace wrote:
               | We have had great experiences with Krogers substitutions.
               | Usually, the substitute with a greater quantity for the
               | same price or better quality.
        
             | kube-system wrote:
             | I've personally had a lot of issues with Walmart.com.
             | 
             | Their inventory data seems to be a bit messy, I've seen a
             | lot of product names/images/descriptions that are clearly
             | messed up, and on more than a few occasions, I've received
             | a single item when the listing said it was a multi-pack.
             | Also, some of the inventory counts are a bit weird --
             | sometimes an item will show in-stock on the product page,
             | but not in the cart, at the same time.
             | 
             | In the past I had a lot of issues with their shipping, but
             | they seem to have mostly fixed those. Stuff like those huge
             | stickers over important parts of the product, or improper
             | packing.
        
             | dawnerd wrote:
             | Walmart still suffers the same problem Amazon has with 3rd
             | party sellers. Quality can vary greatly depending on who
             | you're buying from on their platform.
             | 
             | Target and Best Buy definitely nailed it.
        
             | caymanjim wrote:
             | newegg.com is great. They primarily sell computers and
             | office equipment, but if I'm buying that stuff, it's my go-
             | to. Fast delivery, fantastic customer service. If something
             | is defective, they'll send you a replacement with a return
             | shipping label, no questions asked. Been using them for
             | nearly 20 years without a single complaint.
        
               | rkagerer wrote:
               | 10 years ago I used Newegg a ton, but with third party
               | items now mixed into their store, I find shopping there a
               | bit more of a dice roll.
        
               | caymanjim wrote:
               | Amazon suffers from that as well. I'm loath to buy
               | anything from Amazon, Newegg, or any other retailer when
               | it comes from a third party seller. As far as I know,
               | that's always indicated on the product page. They don't
               | hide it, but they don't aggressively inform you either.
        
               | rfeather wrote:
               | I have decent luck with Microcenter as a Newegg
               | substitution. + if you live in some cities, they have
               | brick and mortar
        
               | beamatronic wrote:
               | 100 percent this. I dropped NewEgg when they added third
               | party sellers.
        
               | atlasunshrugged wrote:
               | I was just comparison shopping for an HDMI adapter across
               | Amazon, NewEgg and Bestbuy. Out of the 3 I found NewEgg
               | still to be the best even with the 3rd party sellers
               | mixed in. Amazon the quality looked super sketchy for
               | some of this stuff and for Bestbuy the website had
               | loading problems, an unintuitive UI for store selection
               | (and put me into a store in CA for some reason even
               | though I'm nowhere near there and had no VPN).
        
               | mypalmike wrote:
               | Monoprice is a good place to go for adapters and cables
               | and such.
        
               | raegis wrote:
               | I always press the "Seller: Newegg" button. This way I
               | never get counterfeit stuff. On the other hand,
               | specifying the seller to be Amazon on Amazon.com
               | sometimes yields third party products in disguise.
        
           | AmVess wrote:
           | Nordstrom does it well. I buy shirts and things and they
           | arrive reasonably packaged, and include a return print out
           | ready to go. Returning an item is as simple as putting the
           | print out on the outside of a box and leaving it for the mail
           | collector.
        
           | Someone1234 wrote:
           | I had a Home Depot order delivered recently, zero padding. It
           | was just a cardboard box surrounding the product, and the
           | product itself had little internal packaging (inc. Lithium
           | Ion batteries). I'm surprised Home Depot hasn't started fires
           | before.
           | 
           | Luckily the product I ordered worked fine, but I wasn't best
           | pleased when I opened it. It was pretty obvious the
           | manufacturer designed the product packaging for retail
           | shelves only, and Home Depot just assumed it was shipping-
           | grade protection.
        
             | passthejoe wrote:
             | My favorite from Target was eight Contigo travel mugs
             | (bought for holiday gifts) that came in a very large box
             | with no padding. Even though they could have clanked around
             | and gotten very scratched, they were all OK. Sort of a
             | miracle, but it didn't give me much confidence in
             | Target.com.
             | 
             | And you can't state quantities on the Target.com site when
             | you select an item. You have to go into the cart and change
             | the quantity. That's something most sites do better.
             | 
             | Also, I understand it's a difficult time inventory-wise,
             | but don't let me put stuff in my cart if you can't deliver
             | it and won't let me order anything until I remove them.
             | Give me a "save for later" feature ... like Amazon does.
        
               | Spooky23 wrote:
               | One thing that's weird about target is that they fulfill
               | from stores. Usually when we get a shady packaging
               | experience it's shipping from a Target store from some
               | unusual place.
        
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           | croshan wrote:
           | Sure, but they handle it well.
           | 
           | I placed an order for a pair of 35lb dumbbells, and only one
           | came, and the cardboard box around it was falling apart.
           | 
           | I called customer support, probably for the first time in my
           | life, to ask wtf happened. And they explained the logistics
           | issue (the dumbbells were shipped separately for some
           | reason), and ended up crediting me half the cost of the
           | dumbbells, even though the first wasn't really damaged.
           | 
           | Also their dumbbells were better and cheaper than Amazon's,
           | so there's that too.
        
             | lkbm wrote:
             | > (the dumbbells were shipped separately for some reason)
             | 
             | USPS limits packages to 70 LBs. There's probably some
             | special option to get around this, but for the "normal"
             | shipping, that's the limit.
        
           | ravenstine wrote:
           | To be fair, the in-person shopping experience at Home Depot
           | is exactly the same. They're staying true to their ethos. ;)
        
           | mauvehaus wrote:
           | I beg to differ. Rock Auto is where it's at for auto parts.
           | The website is ugly as hammered shit, but it's fast, shows
           | you the options grouped by rough quality level (economy/you
           | cheapskate, daily driver, performance, etc), shows you what
           | part to select so it _ships from the same warehouse_ as the
           | parts already in your cart and saves you shipping, and
           | returns are painless (disclaimer: I 've only ever done
           | returns for core exchanges). I have never had a better online
           | purchasing experience.
           | 
           | And the prices are a fraction of what you pay at a brick and
           | mortar place. Especially for e.g. wiper blades.
           | 
           | Companies that "get" e-commerce are out there, but a lot of
           | them are quietly and competently doing their thing in unsexy
           | domains and aren't trying to eat the whole pie.
           | 
           | Rock Auto, for instance, isn't trying to serve every idiot on
           | the planet with a car. If you can't keep your lefts/rights
           | and fronts/backs straight when ordering e.g. brake hoses,
           | you're going to find it a frustrating experience. Putting up
           | a (small) barrier to entry to keep out the least clueful
           | people probably helps keep their costs down.
           | 
           | Not affiliated, just a very happy repeat customer.
        
             | intrepidhero wrote:
             | I'll second Rock Auto. A dated looking website that Just
             | Works (TM).
             | 
             | Parts-tree another great one, focused on yard maintenance
             | equipment.
             | 
             | Ace hardware is kind of neat. I ordered some stuff as
             | Christmas presents and the local store called me on the
             | phone to ask if I was going to be home and where would I
             | like them to put the items. I asked if they could stick
             | them in the garage and maybe in some generic looking boxes
             | to preserve the surprise (of being presents) and the boxes
             | all showed up neatly hand wrapped in brown paper! Only one
             | data point but definitely made me feel like ordering again.
        
             | quasse wrote:
             | RockAuto's easily navigable catalog is what has gotten them
             | $5000+ in sales from me over the years.
             | 
             | Autozone / NAPA try, but the catalogs are clunky and
             | require many page loads to navigate to a given item. Once
             | you find an item, it's a crapshoot whether the listing will
             | be items that are actually for sale at a store near me.
             | Half the time the first 5 items will be "generic" parts
             | that don't actually fit my car anyway.
             | 
             | RockAuto lets you drill down to the exact part you need,
             | compare 5+ different brands on the spot and add it to the
             | cart without ever changing pages. It's a real triumph of
             | slim web design.
        
             | racnid wrote:
             | Their website is one of the clearest and easiest to
             | navigate parts website I've ever come across. I just wish
             | there was an equivalent for motorcycles.
        
               | kube-system wrote:
               | Bikebandit's website isn't too bad after you figure out
               | how to select your bike.
        
             | solotronics wrote:
             | I like NAPA/Oreilly where you can see whats in a store and
             | have them set the parts aside for you so they are there
             | when you get there.
        
               | mauvehaus wrote:
               | Advance and I believe Autozone also let you place orders
               | for in-store pickup. At one point, Advance was putting a
               | coupon code right at the top of the homepage that would
               | save you 20% off your order if you did that.
        
             | dan_quixote wrote:
             | My nomination is McMaster-Carr (mcmaster.com) - They have a
             | huge catalog of parts/tools yet somehow it's so intuitive
             | to browse. I was a mechanical engineer in a previous life
             | and McMaster's website was my bible. Step one for any new
             | prototype design was to browse this site. Best case
             | scenario, you could cobble together your prototype from
             | various COTS (commercial off the shelf) McMaster parts. And
             | if that wasn't an option, scan the catalog for necessary
             | parts and raw materials. If they don't exist at McMaster,
             | your design idea just got at least 10X expensive and lead
             | time doubled.
        
               | mkl wrote:
               | My main experience with their site is the incredibly
               | aggressive and trigger-happy bot filter. If you reload a
               | page a few times due to a bad connection, they block you.
               | Not "solve this captcha to continue", just "go away,
               | we're not letting you in".
        
               | sambroner wrote:
               | I was always shocked by McMaster-Carr's delivery speed. I
               | felt like the parts would arrive as quickly as I could
               | have conceivably picked them up.
               | 
               | This was 10 years ago now, so sort of like Amazon Prime
               | before it became ubiquitous, but for materials and tools.
               | However McMaster was and remains much better organized
               | and much better spec-ed.
        
               | jgust wrote:
               | I have a sneaking suspicion that Amazon is re-solving
               | problems that traditional supply chain companies like
               | McMaster-Carr solved 1-2 decades ago. It would be
               | fascinating to read a case study comparing the two.
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | Amazon is trying to shed all possible liability as a
               | merchant and collect their 15% or whatever rent, since
               | that's where the margins are. That's at odds with what
               | I'm looking for as a buyer, which is a seller that will
               | vet and stand behind their products.
        
               | btrettel wrote:
               | Once, circa 2006, I ordered some rubber tubing from
               | McMaster-Carr in the morning. It was shipped it from New
               | Jersey to western Maryland, where I lived, by that
               | afternoon.
        
               | benboughton1 wrote:
               | Can anyone nominate an Australian equivalent to
               | mcmaster.com ? I am prototyping something and would love
               | to have a lost of available parts to troll through with
               | prices.
        
               | jbay808 wrote:
               | I like McMaster-Carr, but I often hear them being held up
               | as a positive UX example when, in my experience, their
               | website is endlessly frustrating. They often force you
               | into choosing arbitrary categories too early, break
               | tabbed browsing expectations, and have a frustrating mix
               | of metric and imperial measurements that can't be
               | escaped. Their pricing is also generally at quite a
               | premium.
               | 
               | For example, let's say I want a piece of hollow metal
               | cylinder (any metal, to be determined later based on cost
               | and availability), with an ID of around 12 mm and a wall
               | thickness of at least 5 mm, at least 150 mm long. It ends
               | up being a needlessly frustrating experience even for
               | such a simple item.
        
               | btrettel wrote:
               | Having used McMaster-Carr for over a decade, I strongly
               | agree about the filtering being non-ideal and also the
               | prices being high. There's an interaction between the two
               | as well: You can't sort by price. Often there are many
               | items meeting the specs I want but I just want to see
               | which ones are the cheapest. At the moment I skim
               | everything, making notes about candidates, and them
               | manually compare them on price.
        
               | jbay808 wrote:
               | Yes, this exactly. This causes searches to take hours for
               | simple things. Sometimes if I look in "steel" expecting
               | to find something cheap, the only part matching my
               | dimensions is military-grade superalloy tool steel that
               | costs a fortune, so I have to go back and look again in
               | "stainless steel" where there's perhaps a reasonable
               | price.
        
               | smolder wrote:
               | I know what you mean, and I can say that most of the
               | categorization, which may seem arbitrary, reasonably
               | comes from how those items are manufactured and used
               | historically. An example is pipe versus tube; they are
               | measured differently and have differences in ranges of
               | wall thickness, precision and so on, because different
               | needs and processes developed between pipes that carry
               | fluids vs structural tubing. Most but not all people are
               | going to want one category or another based on intended
               | use, and probably have a highly-available size/thickness
               | in mind already, too.
               | 
               | Getting things custom made is expensive, so customers are
               | pressured to use what's widely available. Stocking lots
               | of things not widely purchased is also expensive. These
               | forces have been working for a long time to give us a
               | pretty wide selection that covers most uses.
        
               | jbay808 wrote:
               | I know that pipe and tube have different specifications
               | and applications -- that's specifically why I picked this
               | example. But those differences don't always apply to
               | _me_. I 'd prefer a UI with a check box for pipe, tube,
               | or both, because sometimes I want my search to cover both
               | things. Maybe I want to use a pipe as a paperweight or an
               | art piece or whatever. If McMaster could accurately guess
               | what I was going to use something for, my employer
               | wouldn't need me.
        
               | fireattack wrote:
               | If we started to include McMaster-Carr I would also say I
               | have very good experience with Digi-key and Mouser.
        
             | drewzero1 wrote:
             | I hope Rock Auto never replaces their website. Sure I have
             | to scroll down the whole page to find my manufacturer in
             | the alphabetical sidebar listing, and then open the nested
             | categories like I'm looking for a folder in Windows 3.1,
             | but once I get there I find a list of parts that I know
             | will fit my car arranged so I can tell the quality vs.
             | price trade-offs.
             | 
             | I used to look for parts on Advance and O'Reilly's sites,
             | half of the time it seemed the search results would have
             | parts that wouldn't fit my car. So I really like the way
             | that RA's nested folder structure ensures the most
             | important constraint (compatibility) is met during the
             | search.
        
             | keanebean86 wrote:
             | I've also had great experiences with Rock Auto. I've been
             | ordering the occasional part from them for about 10 years.
             | Shipping can be expensive but everything comes pretty
             | quick.
             | 
             | Some parts are cheap but they're also inexpensive.
        
               | mauvehaus wrote:
               | Yeah, I try to bundle things up to save on shipping. On
               | the other hand, by the time I need anything, I probably
               | also need wiper blades, and the price difference on just
               | one wiper blade usually covers the cost of shipping.
        
             | hathawsh wrote:
             | This is why I read HN. Thank you for recommending a good
             | retailer.
        
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         | monksy wrote:
         | Let's face it Home Depot is garbage. From my experience they
         | fail completely when at the store (employees running away from
         | you, ignoring you, trying to avoid being asked for help, etc).
         | The store, the way it's setup, tries to agressively cut
         | corners. (The default for checking out is self checkout)
         | 
         | I went to menards and I found the experience really rewarding.
         | It's great. They're not a great company ecologically, labor
         | rights, etc. However, 95% of the time I have a good experience
         | when asking for help and with the prices.
        
           | malandrew wrote:
           | They used to be good, but now it's worse than useless. The
           | staff has become less knowledgeable over time and the quality
           | of the products sold have gone way downhill.
           | 
           | I usually now seek out specialty places that deal with just
           | one part of the problems Home Depot and Lowes addresses like
           | looking for a plumbing supply place that actual professional
           | plumbers would use.
        
           | monadic2 wrote:
           | FWIW I just ordered a bunch of shit from home depot, it
           | arrived faster than amazon could deliver it and everything I
           | was looking for was in stock. I've also never had any major
           | complaints in person with unhelpful staff--just the opposite.
           | My only gripe with them is the self checkout you mentioned
           | (why am I doing the store's work for them?), which certainly
           | is not going to improve if Amazon moves into the retail
           | space.
           | 
           | I have no clue where this impression of competence on
           | Amazon's behalf is coming from--I must simply have radically
           | different luck with the service they provide.
        
             | rainbowzootsuit wrote:
             | The "pro desk," garden center, and the returns desk are all
             | places where I am able to have someone check me out. As you
             | said, I don't work for Home Depot. However if you're
             | getting penny clearance items the self checkout is the
             | place to visit.
        
             | ckosidows wrote:
             | Perhaps it's different with a store like Home Depot where
             | products are much bigger and perhaps harder to scan, but do
             | people actually dislike self checkouts?
             | 
             | "Doing the work for the store" seems like such a non-
             | argument to me. I would much prefer to scan things myself
             | as I feel I can often do it faster, and I don't have to
             | wait in a line if the store only has two cashiers staffed
             | at a certain time.
             | 
             | You pump your own gas. Why is checking yourself out so much
             | more controversial?
        
               | blacksmith_tb wrote:
               | One possible reason is that eliminates a whole category
               | of unskilled labor? (full disclosure, writing this from
               | Oregon, where we can't pump our own gas to preserve
               | another category of unskilled labor jobs - except right
               | now, thanks COVID-19?) I personally would probably prefer
               | to have a human checker for that reason, I don't notice
               | much improvement in speed or ease of checking out when I
               | do it myself, there's just a line for the self-checkouts
               | instead...
        
         | bluGill wrote:
         | Depending on what you want you will probably have better luck
         | calling (not online, a voice call) your local lumber yard. They
         | deal with contractors all the time who call their orders in for
         | delivery so this is business as usual. They wouldn't know how
         | to help you if you walked in the door.
         | 
         | Make sure you setup an account with a salesman. They work on
         | commission, but if you know what you want they know exactly how
         | to enter your order so your small order is easy to handle.
         | (contractors often give them a blueprint and tell them to
         | deliver materials which is work for them although it is more
         | money)
        
         | richjdsmith wrote:
         | Same story happened to me last Friday. I put in an order on
         | their website, met their minimum delivery order amount, and yet
         | when I got the confirmation email an hour later, I found out
         | 3/4 of my items were being shipped to my nearest (35min, 60km)
         | home depot.
         | 
         | I called customer service and was told it was impossible to
         | change the order so all get delivered, and that it was
         | impossible to cancel the order. My only recourse is to go to
         | their wharehouse, pick it up, then ship it back.
         | 
         | I don't love amazon, but they don't pull this crap on me.
        
         | rkho wrote:
         | I ordered some things from Home Depot the other day as well.
         | They did not fulfill half the order, instead marking it as
         | delivered. Attempting to resolve this issue, they refunded only
         | 1/3rd of the missing items and then required me to go to a
         | physical store to resolve the issue because their system
         | literally could not fix the problem without them offering a
         | physical cash refund.
         | 
         | This is likely to do with the store which fulfilled the order;
         | I've found Home Depots to be very hit or miss in their service
         | quality and the location which fulfilled this order has been
         | consistently bad in-person.
         | 
         | Don't even get me started on how Home Depot uses location
         | settings and keeps changing preferred stores when ordering.
         | It's a nightmare.
        
       | vernie wrote:
       | I've been using eBay lately. Sellers have been consistently
       | delivering in 2 days and it feels just as likely that I'll get
       | fake shit as from Amazon these days.
        
         | dawnerd wrote:
         | I sell on eBay and it's pretty easy to beat Amazon. Most first
         | class and priority packages arrive in under 3 days depending on
         | your location to an airport. I'm right next to PDX and almost
         | all of my packages go through there and end up on the other
         | side of the US overnight. Those packages typically take two
         | days. Also helps I ship same day so they're on a flight that
         | night or the next morning.
         | 
         | As for the fakes, they certainly exist on eBay but it's a lot
         | easier to spot. If an item doesn't have good pictures, that's a
         | huge red flag. I personally stay away from sellers that just
         | use stock images. I want to know exactly what I'm getting.
        
           | kube-system wrote:
           | I avoid shady listings when I really need the item, but if
           | I'm looking for a deal, I've never had an issue leaning on
           | eBay's buyer protection. I've gotten all of my best deals
           | from poorly-listed items.
        
       | tanilama wrote:
       | If Amazon has shipping delay in US, then it is unlikely other
       | smaller shops can fare it better.
        
         | owenwil wrote:
         | This isn't really accurate - independent retailers have quite
         | the advantage right now because they aren't constrained by
         | centralized fulfillment. The reason Amazon has shipping delays
         | is because:
         | 
         | 1) Amazon has observed a massive influx of orders and
         | fulfilling centralized orders requires a large amount of
         | workers in fulfillment centers - Amazon is hiring more than
         | 100,000 workers for this reason[1] - and getting those orders
         | in and out of those warehouses takes a good chunk of logistics
         | planning and time. Independent retailers don't need to deal
         | with this, particularly if they're shipping direct or use their
         | own facilities.
         | 
         | 2) They use their own delivery networks for a majority of
         | deliveries in cities these days to bypass sending via the
         | normal postage system. The platform, Amazon Flex[2], saves them
         | money on postage but likely needs to ramp up scale-Flex usually
         | actually means deliveries are faster, but as order volume
         | scales up, it'll slow down deliveries.
         | 
         | Amazon is bottlenecked on both fronts: a massive influx of
         | orders means needing to get those products into its warehouses,
         | then actually having workers fulfill them, _and_ it needs to
         | manage the shipping side, due to its reliance on Amazon Flex in
         | city areas. Independent retailers just aren 't bottlenecked
         | like this - they have their own set of inventory that isn't
         | super broad, and they ship with normal delivery networks, which
         | are generally delivering on time in North America right now.
         | 
         | [1] https://blog.aboutamazon.com/operations/amazon-
         | opening-10000...
         | 
         | [2] https://flex.amazon.com/
        
         | behringer wrote:
         | Ebay is generally cheaper and arriving on time.
        
         | dsfyu404ed wrote:
         | Ebay seems to be doing fine. I make about five orders a week
         | through them (this week it's mostly hardware and electronics
         | supplies). Having the platform truly just be a transaction
         | facilitator means the hard, linearly scaling, work of actually
         | shipping merchandise is distributed among tens of thousands of
         | sellers instead of hundreds of warehouses.
        
         | jshevek wrote:
         | At the beginning of the pandemic, Amazon was overwhelmed by
         | people panic buying or preparing for shelter in place. The
         | problem was not primarily the shipping industry, it was within
         | Amazon. They've since hired large numbers of people and
         | deprioritized [items deemed] non-essential so that people can
         | get their essential needs in a timely manner.
        
           | StillBored wrote:
           | How does amazon know what is essential?
        
             | monkpit wrote:
             | A guess: it's probably just heuristics based on things
             | being panic-bought, high demand, suddenly high number of
             | searches, etc. Obviously they don't "know" some subset of
             | essential items, that would be difficult, error-prone, and
             | they would inevitably miss certain things which would lead
             | to complaints and bad press.
        
             | jshevek wrote:
             | _Edit: I thought you said "determine" rather than "know",
             | answered accordingly below. Of course they don't "know",
             | that's not a helpful question._
             | 
             | The same way everyone does when trying to solve this
             | problem systemically (vs individually), by making imperfect
             | decisions and leaning on categories.
             | 
             | My UVC lamp was delayed. I think that's more important than
             | someone else's "third month" bunker food, but what are you
             | going to do.
        
             | grimjack00 wrote:
             | At a high level, at least, anything in categories like
             | "Groceries", "Health Care", "Personal Hygiene".
        
       | Waterluvian wrote:
       | My wife orders from walmart.ca often. It's generally good but
       | still feels lower quality than Amazon (which has its own issues,
       | yes). Last week they shipped an entirely wrong item. So my kids
       | aren't getting their Duplo set for Easter.
        
       | LatteLazy wrote:
       | >Amazon Isn't the Only Shop Online
       | 
       | They sort of are at the moment, at least here in greater
       | London...
       | 
       | My normal groceries company have cancelled online orders silently
       | and will not deliver anything. They can't even update their
       | websites with new opening times.
       | 
       | The local DIY (B&Q) store are taking order for essential items
       | only (loft ladders and plants are essential, but not light bulbs
       | or fuses wtf?)
       | 
       | Amazon randomly added a month to all their delivery _estimates_
       | but everything is still coming in a few days and I can get
       | whatever I want.
       | 
       | To be honest, it makes sense to manage infrastructure of supply
       | centrally. That's the genius of amazon, not retail but supply.
       | While other companies can barely ring up items, Amazon connects
       | buyers to sellers before either know the trade will happen.
        
       | sneak wrote:
       | A lot of the things I used to buy on Amazon I buy on eBay instead
       | using "buy it now". Even free shipping items are frequently less
       | than Amazon.
       | 
       | I've already phased out AWS, I hope to stop using amazon.com by
       | the end of the year. I don't like doing business with military
       | contractors.
        
         | bradenb wrote:
         | While I respect your right to not give "military contractors"
         | your business, I just don't see how you can use it as
         | justification. The military is a resource and isn't inherently
         | good or bad.
        
         | malandrew wrote:
         | FWIW it's the military that is now building all the field
         | hospitals and sending hospital ships to help with COVID-19
        
         | bdcravens wrote:
         | I assume you use Linux for your operating system then? Both
         | Apple and Microsoft do business with the military.
        
       | Someone1234 wrote:
       | One reason previously for using Amazon was recommendations for
       | example their "Customers who viewed this item also viewed: [list
       | of alternative items]." Unfortunately the recommendations boxes
       | like the "Customers who viewed this item also viewed" have been
       | completely removed, with no real replacement except "sponsored."
       | 
       | I don't consider sponsored ads a replacement for actual
       | recommendations based on real people's buying behavior. Obviously
       | Amazon wants us to though so they can double-dip. Personally I am
       | buying less, not more, because I cannot find things.
       | 
       | But maybe it is more profitable to Amazon for us to spend longer
       | looking, more sponsor spot revenue. Talk about perverse
       | incentives, make more money from a slower shopping experience.
        
       | thebean11 wrote:
       | The estimates on Amazon right now seem way longer than the
       | reality. I'm getting all my packages in 2-3 days despite Amazon
       | estimating a week or more.
        
         | mritun wrote:
         | Same for me. 3 items earlier estimated for Apr 27 are already
         | sitting in a box in my living room.
        
           | frank086 wrote:
           | Same. I put in a big order figuring if I have a three week
           | turn around, better buy three weeks of stuff. Two days later
           | I see the poor delivery guy unloading all my stuff.
           | 
           | Now I am an inadvertent horder.
        
         | xkjkls wrote:
         | Delivery estimates are very much an underpromise, overdeliver
         | thing, so that makes sense.
        
         | colmvp wrote:
         | In Canada at least, some Prime shipping estimates are ONE
         | MONTH.
         | 
         | At the end of the day, I'm not complaining because prioritizing
         | medical supplies is prudent but I have to imagine that a lot of
         | people are choosing to use alternative sources like Order-and-
         | Pickup instead.
        
           | mod wrote:
           | I'm in the south: shipping for my item was 29 days.
        
         | gnulinux wrote:
         | I live in Boston. I seem to be getting most things in around 5
         | days, even though Amazon estimates 2 weeks. Almost everything
         | was delivered before their estimates. But everything is still
         | slower than usual (normally, I'd get things delivered in 1 to 3
         | days)
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | Probably depends on the item. I'm outside of Boston and I
           | don't think any order has taken longer than 2 days--other
           | than a couple I picked delayed shipping in exchange for a
           | digital credit. (And even those arrived on the early side of
           | their estimate.)
        
         | irrational wrote:
         | Not me. Amazon is estimating 2-3 weeks on most things now, and
         | so far are sticking by their estimates.
        
           | eshyong wrote:
           | I'm guessing a lot of this is location dependent, and based
           | on warehouse-proximity.
        
             | bradlys wrote:
             | It's also based on the items you're ordering. Some stuff
             | we've ordered arrives within a few days or less. Other
             | items that I've ordered (tools) has taken about 3 weeks to
             | arrive. Some items keep getting pushed back. I would cancel
             | and buy elsewhere but I'd pay a lot in shipping since these
             | aren't all items I can buy from one place online.
             | 
             | I have shopped online for other items though. I bought some
             | insoles for really cheap from a UK based bicycle store, the
             | items got here in less than a week... all the way from the
             | UK! It's not like all shipping is broken down - just
             | Amazon.
        
               | xkjkls wrote:
               | Yeah, Amazon has stopped issuing purchase orders for a
               | huge number of non-essentials, which probably contributes
               | to really high delivery estimates. If anything is out of
               | stock at their warehouse, they have no idea when they
               | might have room to restock.
        
             | irrational wrote:
             | That's the interesting thing. I'm located in a major city
             | with at least one enormous Amazon warehouse nearby. Before
             | the pandemic started we would usually receive our orders
             | the same day.
        
         | jasonv wrote:
         | Latest order estimated delivery in 10 days but everything came
         | in 2-3. In CA.
        
       | MisterTea wrote:
       | Can someone please explain to me like I'm 5 why adults have to be
       | told that other retail outlets exist besides Amazon?
       | 
       | If you are one of these people, please kindly explain to me how
       | you forgot there are other shops.
        
         | kube-system wrote:
         | Many people who shop online have only become online shoppers
         | _after_ Amazon became the dominant online retailer. For some
         | people, Amazon _is_ online shopping.
        
         | maerF0x0 wrote:
         | > please kindly explain to me how you forgot there are other
         | shops.
         | 
         | I will provide one anecdata. Often times the first place I look
         | for the existence of an item is Amazon. That is if I want a
         | certain cable, I do not open and search 5-10 different places
         | (overstock, target, bestbuy et al). I just go to amazon and
         | choose from what they have. There may be better, there may be
         | cheaper, but unlikely with a sufficient margin to compensate
         | for the overhead of searching more places, learning more
         | nuances (return policy, shipping) etc.
        
         | throwanem wrote:
         | For the same reason people who use Facebook tend to forget
         | about people who don't. Convenience is sticky. Amazon, like
         | Facebook, spends a lot to subsidize that convenience and thus
         | that stickiness.
         | 
         | It's the online equivalent of the Wal-Mart effect.
        
         | chillacy wrote:
         | Well... there's a thing called the "literal meaning" and
         | sometimes there's another "figurative meaning"... and as you
         | grow up you'll end up knowing the figurative meaning of a
         | phrase quicker until it's second nature.
        
       | chadash wrote:
       | pro tip: I find that when things sell out on Amazon, there is
       | often a lag before it sells out on sites that cater to
       | businesses. The first place to check is staples.com, but I've
       | even started placing a few orders with restaurant supply stores
       | and such.
        
       | jdlyga wrote:
       | Well then give us a list! Nearly everything else I've checked is
       | either out of stock or doesn't deliver to my house.
        
         | markkanof wrote:
         | Maybe not the type of items you are shopping for, but I just
         | ordered a sink and faucet from build.com and got free 2-day
         | delivery.
        
         | gambler wrote:
         | Most chain stores and even some local stores have online
         | storefront and still ship items. It's a good time to support
         | them. You don't want to live in the world where Amazon is the
         | only game left in town.
         | 
         | Also, Ebay.
        
       | renewiltord wrote:
       | I was going to say how Amazon might as well be the only guys
       | online but this article is really good and offers real
       | alternatives. Very cool.
        
       | ww520 wrote:
       | Is it possible to ask for price reduction or refund on the Prime
       | membership due to the long delivery time? The point of Prime is
       | mostly moot without the speedy delivery.
        
         | dawnerd wrote:
         | I cancelled my prime for the time being and it automatically
         | refunded the 12.99
        
       | jshevek wrote:
       | Edit: Article can be read here:
       | 
       | http://archive.md/k3zNE
       | 
       | It seems like WSJ.com should not be the link used without a
       | follow-up link giving access to the whole community.
       | 
       | > _Are paywalls ok?
       | 
       | It's ok to post stories from sites with paywalls that have
       | workarounds._
        
       | rsync wrote:
       | Mcmaster-carr is fantastic:
       | 
       | https://www.mcmaster.com/
       | 
       | Very simple UI with access to technical diagrams. Good pricing.
       | If I order before noon or 2pm or something, here in the bay area
       | I receive the items next day.
       | 
       | I wish all web stores could be like this.
        
         | xkjkls wrote:
         | It's actually very similar to the UI you get if you go through
         | the business section of Amazon:
         | https://www.amazon.com/b2b/info/amazon-business?layout=landi...
        
         | ncheek wrote:
         | McMaster has a powerfully simple website. You can get to any
         | item with mcmaster.com/<part number>. They often provide 3D
         | models of their parts. You can even paste in a list of items to
         | quickly bulk-add to your cart. It just works.
         | 
         | Their customer service is also second to none. I've never had
         | the phone ring more than once before being answered by a real
         | person. And they'll respond 24/7 to phone calls or emails. Oh,
         | and they've accepted returns a year after I bought something,
         | no questions asked.
         | 
         | In the Atlanta area they usually deliver same-day via courier,
         | or you can drive over to their warehouse for will call.
         | 
         | McMaster can often be more expensive than other distributors,
         | especially for things like metal stock (I recommend price-
         | comparing with onlinemetals.com or midweststeelsupply.com but
         | be careful about Midwest Steel's processing times). But you're
         | paying for the service and ease of use.
         | 
         | Probably the biggest problem I have with McMaster is their lack
         | of insight into shipping cost. They don't give you even an
         | estimate of the shipping before you check out, it just gets
         | added once they ship. I will say their shipping prices have
         | always been fair but it can be scary to buy something not
         | knowing what it will cost.
        
           | spacemark wrote:
           | I've probably put in 100 McMaster orders over the last year
           | via work, side gig, and home projects. My take on this is
           | that their prime customers (businesses) do not put shipping
           | costs in their top 5 or maybe even top 10 priorities.
           | Businesses pushing out products or engaged in rapid
           | prototyping or meeting a deadline are much more concerned
           | with speed, and McMaster __always __beats Amazon in shipping
           | time to my workplace (usually less than 24 hours from order
           | to delivery, no joke). Their customer also values accurate
           | technical data so they 've put a lot of effort into CAD
           | models and are very responsive to customer service calls.
           | 
           | In short, they know their customer persona. I wouldn't hold
           | my breath that they'll add upfront shipping costs any time
           | soon!
        
             | daniel_reetz wrote:
             | This exactly matches my experience. I run a prototyping
             | shop in the LA area. I get items the very same day from
             | McMaster. That kind of feedback loop is priceless. They
             | ship with DGC for most deliveries, and DGC is usually cost-
             | competitive with any other service.
        
       | loser777 wrote:
       | I've observed this with big and small business alike:
       | 
       | + bought a baking steel direct from the seller (shipping time ~5
       | days vs. 1 month+, so I canceled the amazon order)
       | 
       | + monitor out of stock for over a week on amazon (in stock at
       | bnh, shipping time ~4 days)
       | 
       | + monitor arm I didn't even bother looking at on amazon (shipping
       | time direct from seller ~2 days)
        
         | CaliforniaKarl wrote:
         | I never heard of "baking steel". Looking online, it seems to be
         | like a pizza stone? If yes, that's cool!
        
           | Shebanator wrote:
           | it is a pizza stone, but metal. I have one and it is super
           | heavy, which makes it inconvenient to use, but it does
           | improve the crust quality of oven-baked pizzas.
        
         | chrisweekly wrote:
         | bnh?
        
           | Arcsech wrote:
           | https://www.bhphotovideo.com/ presumably. I've ordered some
           | things from there, and generally had a good experience, with
           | a few notes:
           | 
           | - For large purchases at least, they are very scrupulous
           | about sending tax documents to your home state to make sure
           | the sales tax gets paid. This is probably a social good
           | overall, but unusual for internet retailers and may take some
           | folks by surprise.
           | 
           | - They follow a Jewish holiday schedule, including the
           | Sabbath, and do not take orders on the Sabbath (in New York's
           | time zone, at least). Again, not a negative, but unusual for
           | modern businesses, especially online ones.
        
             | tzs wrote:
             | * They collect sales tax now.
             | 
             | In 2018 in the case South Dakota v. Wayfair the Supreme
             | Court overturned the 1992 case (Quill v. North Dakota) that
             | had ruled that states could not force merchants with no
             | physical presence in the state to collect sales tax on mail
             | order sales to state residents. If a company is doing
             | enough online business with customers in a state, that
             | state can now force the merchant to collect tax.
             | 
             | If you get a B&H store credit card [1] and use it for your
             | B&H orders (which is all you can use it for since it only
             | works at B&H) they give you an instant reward at checkout
             | equal to whatever your sales tax was. In effect then, if
             | you get and use that card there B&H pays your sales tax
             | transparently for you.
             | 
             | * With two exception for the most part online shoppers can
             | ignore the Jewish holiday closings. The website still works
             | so you can still shop. I _think_ you can even still place
             | items in your cart and maybe submit the order. Orders just
             | are not processed until the holiday ends.
             | 
             | Most of the holidays are just a day, so if you hit one of
             | those its not really a big delay.
             | 
             | The two exceptions are Passover and Sukkot. Those are each
             | one week long. Passover is in March or April, and Sukkot is
             | in September or October. That's long enough to be
             | irritating.
             | 
             | [1] https://www.bhphotovideo.com/credit-cards
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | Last time I ordered from them, I think they collected the
             | sales tax. I'm not sure when this started; I am a long-time
             | customer but they're not a store I tend to purchase from
             | frequently.
             | 
             | I like them overall and I tend to prefer using them to
             | Amazon for AV type of purchases.
        
               | kube-system wrote:
               | 2018:
               | 
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/South_Dakota_v._Wayfair%2C_
               | Inc...
        
               | hsitz wrote:
               | Doesn't just about everywhere collect sales tax online
               | now?
               | 
               | BHPhotoVideo is my go-to place for tech and music stuff.
               | I got their affiliated payboo credit card that pays the
               | sales tax for you, saves me that 10% on every order.
        
           | deadbunny wrote:
           | I assume it's B&H Photo https://www.bhphotovideo.com/
        
             | chrisweekly wrote:
             | thanks! (probably right)
        
       | nkkollaw wrote:
       | Sure, Amazon might not be the only one, but every time I tried to
       | buy somewhere else, something happened.
       | 
       | They charged me twice, charged me to never sent me the product
       | and forcing me to waste 2 weeks, sent to the wrong address, etc.
       | 
       | Amazon seems to be the only one that can actually do their job
       | properly without hassles.
        
       | daniel_reetz wrote:
       | I really felt this. Seeing things go out-of-stock or become
       | unavailable for months was a strong reminder of how things used
       | to be online - when I purchased different types of items from
       | different independent web retailers. I went searching for many of
       | them, most are gone.
       | 
       | Does anyone remember Pricewatch? Old school computer parts
       | sellers like CompGeeks? Those were really interesting times.
        
       | tanyatik wrote:
       | Is it even ethical to shop on Amazon for non-essentials these
       | days? There are big concerns amid worker safety.
       | 
       | https://www.nytimes.com/2020/04/05/technology/coronavirus-am...
        
         | xkjkls wrote:
         | I'm not sure these concerns are unique to any other business
         | with a warehouse, however.
        
       | bombledmonk wrote:
       | I just bought something from Best Buy online when Amazon said the
       | same item was in stock, but would not arrive until April 27th. BB
       | said it be here Thursday, though is usually a day early because
       | of proximity to the warehouse.
        
       | manigandham wrote:
       | http://archive.is/k3zNE
        
       | bluGill wrote:
       | I always search for alternative sellers. They are more likely to
       | have someone who knows the product. A plumbing supplier will know
       | something about pipes and I have some reason to trust them when
       | they give advantages to their different price levels. I don't
       | need 200 different brands of 1/2 inch pipe connections, I need
       | the 3 different levels of pressure they are rated for, and the
       | choice of material they are made from. They also tend to provide
       | reasonable sorting so that I can find what I need without
       | scrolling for ages.
        
       | blensor wrote:
       | I have started to fall back to a shopping site run by our postal
       | service [1] which has been trying for several months through TV
       | ads to get people to use the more regional shopping site rather
       | than Amazon. I guess they could not have hoped for a better
       | scenario than a countrywide lockdown paired with shipping delays
       | at Amazon
       | 
       | [1] shoepping.at
        
       | derrekl wrote:
       | I emailed a local comic shop that's closed to the public, but I
       | was able to order $100 worth of trade paperbacks. Got it 2 days
       | later. No "online" shop, but still worked. As best you can, try
       | to spend money with the local stores you used to go to.
        
       | olafure wrote:
       | I used to use Amazon a lot. The two big factor were pricing and
       | reviews.
       | 
       | Today their review system is massively rigged and can't be
       | trusted.
        
       | beamatronic wrote:
       | Reading this entire thread, something became very clear to me:
       | there is STILL a lot of room for improvement to be made for
       | online e-commerce. Someone should invent a local-first inventory-
       | first Amazon
        
         | sneak wrote:
         | Like a local delivery-only costco, perhaps?
        
       | CodeSheikh wrote:
       | Amazon's (+Wholefood) supply-chain failure is an eye-opener for
       | me during COVID-19 crisis. I hate to acknowledge my dependability
       | on Amazon Prime while living in a big city. I am not sure how I
       | will break my habit but I know for a fact that I won't be
       | ordering everything from Amazon Prime in the future.
       | 
       | For a company that commands e-commerce space in year 2020, it is
       | really frustrating to find this workflow while ordering from WF
       | while using Amazon's app, it is a joke and UI/UX 101 blunder. You
       | add items to your cart. They run out of inventory. Items
       | disappear from your cart. Either you place your order assuming
       | all items were in your cart or you don't get a delivery slot and
       | you have to add those items again. Why can't they just borrow the
       | same feature from Amazon.com where unavailable items move
       | conveniently to "Save later" section?
        
       | Kaibeezy wrote:
       | paywall, whatever :(
       | 
       | yep, amazon has been useless lately - ebay, on the other hand,
       | all those independent sellers, very responsive!
        
         | jshevek wrote:
         | http://archive.md/k3zNE
        
           | Kaibeezy wrote:
           | thank you
        
         | Diederich wrote:
         | http://archive.md/k3zNE
        
           | Kaibeezy wrote:
           | thank you
        
       | Diederich wrote:
       | Help requested.
       | 
       | My wife, who is in her 50s, is immunocompromised, and she also
       | has a history of fast escalating and difficult to treat
       | respiratory problems. We are and have been (for the past 32 days)
       | treating this bug very carefully. If she catches it, she has a
       | very good chance of not surviving it.
       | 
       | Our son and I are at less risk, but we can easily bring this bug
       | home.
       | 
       | We've been having more and more trouble getting food. We have a
       | fair quantity of emergency supplies, but we'd rather not tap into
       | those.
       | 
       | At first it was the various delivery options: instacart, various
       | others, but they became less usable. Early last week we started
       | doing Amazon Prime Now, which allowed us to place and pay for
       | orders at Whole Foods, then wait in the parking lot for them to
       | put the orders in our trunk.
       | 
       | Over the past few days, this has gotten less viable. We'd find
       | ourselves driving 50 miles to pickup a $30 order.
       | 
       | So, we're open to suggestions. We live in Mountain View, the SF
       | Bay Area.
       | 
       | We have been able to buy quite a bit of chicken and beef, and we
       | have a 50 pound bag of flour coming in, so we're certainly not in
       | any danger of starvation.
       | 
       | It's just kind of a low-grade anxiety that kind of sucks.
       | 
       | Thanks!
       | 
       | PS: We have a pretty rigorous decontamination process that
       | everything goes through before it comes into the house, so we
       | feel pretty good about that.
        
         | tehjoker wrote:
         | I'm on the east coast, but I'm participating in a mutual aid
         | network that does exactly this kind of thing. Try googling your
         | local branch of the Democratic Socialists of America (I think
         | you're in Silicon Valley DSA's territory). Each chapter is
         | independent and not great at communication with each other, but
         | I found a web page that said SV DSA is doing grocery delivery
         | mutual aid for elevated risk people. I don't want to post it
         | here because I don't want them to get trolled, but it's easily
         | to google.
         | 
         | I only mentioned DSA because I'm member of the national org,
         | but there are probably many other organizations doing similar
         | work. Please be safe and stay healthy! Good luck!
         | 
         | Edit: Just want to emphasize to people in a similar situation,
         | that the key words to search for are "Mutual Aid" on google,
         | facebook, and twitter if you don't know someone already
         | connected to an organization. Many of these orgs are also
         | looking for volunteers.
        
         | julianramirez wrote:
         | We've been using a meal delivery service like Blue Apron for
         | several years now and have increased our order from 3 nights to
         | 7 nights. We still use grocery delivery for snacks and other
         | meals, but it's been a great having dinners taken care of.
        
           | Diederich wrote:
           | We have been avoiding prepared meals until there is clearer
           | data about how safe they can be.
        
         | gnicholas wrote:
         | I hear Sigonas Market has their own delivery service. I go to
         | their store in Redwood City and at the Stanford Shopping
         | Center, but dunno if they'd deliver to or have shops in MV.
         | Prices are quite good on some items, but they're not full-
         | service (no meat, I think).
        
         | RJIb8RBYxzAMX9u wrote:
         | Expensive options:
         | 
         | - Subscribe to meal kit services like HelloFresh or Blue Apron
         | (or both).
         | 
         | - Buy from other mail order grocers like Imperfect Foods, Omaha
         | Steaks, etc.
         | 
         | - Hire someone with TaskRabbit to do the shopping for you,
         | particularly from grocers that don't deliver (i.e. Trader
         | Joe's, smaller specialty grocers, etc.).
        
           | Diederich wrote:
           | We actually have bought a fair amount of meat from Omaha
           | Steaks.
           | 
           | > TaskRabbit
           | 
           | I had not considered that, we'll take a look. Thanks!
        
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         | pottertheotter wrote:
         | My parents live in Sunnyvale and my mother is also
         | immunocompromised, so they're going through the same thing.
         | They have some people helping them get things from stores, and
         | I'm absolutely certain they would be happy to help out your
         | family. Feel free to reach out (email on profile) and I'll make
         | sure you're taken care of.
        
         | swsieber wrote:
         | > we have a fair quantity of emergency supplies.
         | 
         | If you won't use them now, when will you? Are we talking days,
         | weeks or months?
        
           | smileysteve wrote:
           | When someone in the house gets sick and nobody is supposed to
           | leave because they've been exposed.
        
             | swsieber wrote:
             | Well, that's I ask about duration the food supply will
             | last. If you have a 1 week supply, then yeah, don't dip in.
             | If you have a 3 month supply, then I'd be a little more
             | open to it (personally).
             | 
             | I'm pretty much fine with it as long as I think it's
             | reasonable that I won't deplete more than some fraction of
             | it before I can top it off.
        
           | Diederich wrote:
           | There are few universal truths, but one of them is this:
           | Things can always get worse. (Even if that might be unlikely
           | at any given time.) At this moment, we have enough normal
           | food to not need to dip into the emergency stuff, though it's
           | getting more challenging. Plus, we rather prefer normal food.
           | 
           | Basically, we don't consider our current situation an
           | emergency yet.
        
         | airstrike wrote:
         | Consider soylent or other meal replacement items and military
         | rations for emergency.
         | 
         | Stock up on non-perishable grains, pasta, tomato sauce and
         | canned fish. And I really mean stock up - at least 3-4 weeks
         | worth of meals.
         | 
         | Not in the SF Bay Area, but WF through the Amazon app is still
         | what's been working for us, though I have to log in repeatedly
         | to find a delivery window available...
        
           | Diederich wrote:
           | Thanks for your response.
           | 
           | We do have a fair amount of such emergency supplies,
           | primarily in the form of protein bars, but a lot of other
           | things as well. We would rather leave those be until (and if)
           | there's an actual legit emergency for us to face.
           | 
           | I think the Whole Foods via Amazon is still working, it's
           | just extremely over-used in the bay area, so the orders we
           | actually manage to get through are very small.
        
             | hamandcheese wrote:
             | I find the chocolate Soylent drink to be quite yummy now
             | and then, especially for breakfast (far above what my
             | standards would be in an emergency) and Amazon is showing
             | delivery this Friday to my apartment in SF.
        
             | justforyou wrote:
             | This is an actual legit emergency.
        
               | Diederich wrote:
               | > This is an actual legit emergency.
               | 
               | No disagreement; remember, we consider every box that
               | arrives as potentially life threatening. And we're quite
               | aware of the local, national and global scope and impact.
        
         | tehlike wrote:
         | I live in MTV, and I have helped a neighbor who was going
         | through chemo once last week (so roughly in similar situation
         | from immunity pov, her family does not leave home for same
         | reason), and would be happy to help you. Email in profile.
         | 
         | I stop by costco once every two weeks, and would not mind
         | picking up some stuff for you.
         | 
         | Like another commenter mentioned, nextdoor is fairly decent for
         | getting help, you can find highschoolers doing runs for their
         | neighbors.
         | 
         | Small side note: it's kind of hard finding some staples -
         | toilet paper, eggs, etc, so make sure you are aware of it.
        
           | Diederich wrote:
           | That's very kind of you, we'll keep it in mind! Many thanks.
        
         | azakai wrote:
         | Aside from Whole Foods, Amazon also has Amazon Prime Now (go to
         | https://primenow.amazon.com/ and pick store: Amazon). They have
         | a lot of staple foods there, and sometimes they have more
         | availability than Whole Foods. (I'm guessing there might be
         | different bottlenecks at Whole Foods stores and Amazon
         | warehouses.)
         | 
         | Another option are restaurant deliveries. Those are easy to get
         | (they're happy to get the orders!). Up to you how you feel
         | about the risk, but all the experts I've read say you can
         | reduce the danger there to something comparable to grocery
         | delivery (mainly to discard the original packages and you can
         | also reheat the food).
        
         | wear_a_mask wrote:
         | I am not allowed to post because Dang is kind of a dick, but I
         | can tell you that you should go out and shop with PPE at local
         | Lunardi's markets. They are really doing a great job, have lots
         | of inventory, and enforce social distancing.
         | 
         | Wear a mask and gloves, come in to your house, strip down and
         | wash/throw everything away. Delivery is just not going to work.
         | 
         | Conversely, you could post on CL offering $100 cash (Venmo,
         | square) to someone who can get groceries for you.
         | 
         | Hopefully a shadow-mod sees this and lets it appear.
        
         | Cerium wrote:
         | Instacart releases slots throughout the night. 2am to 5am are
         | great for getting one. There are many currently lesser known
         | delivery systems - search for ones targeting minorities. For
         | example Yamimeal (despite having meal in the name - they do
         | groceries). Also, buy bigger orders if you can. I have been
         | getting at least a couple hundred dollars at once, good for
         | 7-10 days. I would get more at once, but I want to eat some
         | vegetables.
        
           | Diederich wrote:
           | > throughout the night
           | 
           | We haven't tried at very odd hours as you suggest; we'll give
           | it a try, thank you.
        
             | shadowoflight wrote:
             | My mother-in-law's strategy for getting a slot with Wal-
             | Mart grocery pickup has been to pre-fill her in-app cart in
             | the evening, and set an alarm to wake up a few minutes
             | before the window to place the order and get a pickup slot
             | opens up (I think somewhere in the 12:00-2:00am timeframe).
             | This may be applicable for placing Instacart orders (and
             | the like) as well, unless they require you to pick an
             | available slot _before_ populating your cart...
        
           | williamdclt wrote:
           | I don't know if they can be delivered, but frozen vegetable
           | can be kept forever and are often better than "fresh"
           | supermarket vegetable because they are frozen right after
           | being picked, so they actually are fresher.
           | 
           | My only source is my mom though, you might want to double-
           | check this claim
        
         | r0m4n0 wrote:
         | Personally I have been utilizing Costco same day delivery
         | powered by Instacart. The next available delivery day is
         | usually 5 or so days out but you can modify your order until
         | they actually start physically shopping so I just add groceries
         | all week once I have my delivery day. I start a new order the
         | day my last order arrives so I have a constant flow of fresh
         | groceries every 5 days. Totally affordable (free delivery and
         | only slightly marked up over sticker prices) and I haven't left
         | my house in 3 weeks. Just make sure you setup replacements as
         | I'd say 15% of items I choose are out of stock. Instacart now
         | leaves your groceries at your front door and sends you an SMS
         | so you don't even have to interact with anyone.
        
         | everybodyknows wrote:
         | For produce, eggs and chicken, consider a "CSA" -- Community
         | Supported Agriculture:
         | 
         | https://www.sfgate.com/bayarea/article/CSAS-THAT-DELIVER-TO-...
        
         | ipsum2 wrote:
         | I'm happy to purchase groceries for you, I'm in the same area.
         | Email is in the profile.
         | 
         | For other people who are also in a similar scenario: NextDoor
         | and local FB groups are great for this.
        
           | Diederich wrote:
           | Wow thanks! We might take you up on that, very much
           | appreciated.
        
         | JoshTriplett wrote:
         | Definitely try alternate services. We had much more luck with
         | local stores than with Prime Now. In our area, Prime Now for
         | Amazon has never had a delivery window, Prime Now for Whole
         | Foods rarely does, but the local Fred Meyer has delivery
         | windows open up regularly, often for same-day delivery. Also
         | check Albertson's, Safeway, Target, Walmart, Shipt, and any
         | other service. Talk to local non-chain or small-chain stores
         | and see if they have any options; I've found that several
         | places that don't normally delivery are happy to deliver in the
         | current situation, especially for a tip. That goes for
         | restaurants, pharmacies, and many other services. In some
         | areas, TaskRabbit and similar are still operating, and "pick up
         | XYZ for me" tasks are very common. And if all else fails, ask
         | around for someone willing to pick things up and drop them off
         | for you, and pay them well.
         | 
         | Also, this may depend on your financial situation, but if you
         | can, don't make small orders; make large orders less often.
         | (This is true all the time, but it's especially true right
         | now.) Then, even if you have to drive a long distance for a
         | pickup or pay a larger delivery fee, you don't have to do it as
         | often.
        
         | urxvtcd wrote:
         | You could try replacing some meals with Huel or whatever.
        
         | whymauri wrote:
         | J. Kenji Lopez-Alt wrote a really good COVID-19 Food Safety
         | Guide [0]. You may find it useful when preparing food at home
         | or dealing with food delivery. He's also really active on
         | Twitter and Reddit, so you can probably ask him more specific
         | questions or even this question and he'll reply with some good,
         | professional advice.
         | 
         | [0] https://www.seriouseats.com/2020/03/food-safety-and-
         | coronavi...
        
           | Diederich wrote:
           | Beautiful, this is great. I really appreciate it.
        
           | orchard_vkm wrote:
           | Great resource. Thanks very much for sharing!
        
         | credit_guy wrote:
         | Some restaurant suppliers have opened their online store to
         | individuals. I can't speak for California, but in New York City
         | we just shopped yesterday on baldor[1]. For most items the
         | minimum quantity is way to high for a single family (e.g. for
         | potatoes you can only order 50 lbs or so). But you can still
         | find some stuff. It's not a very pleasant online shopping
         | experience, but it'll do for now.
         | 
         | [1] https://www.baldorfood.com/
        
         | gwittel wrote:
         | I am in MV.
         | 
         | Unfortunately most online things are overwhelmed. They don't
         | have enough shoppers. You can keep checking for a slot opening
         | up, but its a challenge and hard to plan for. Are you
         | specifically looking for fresh items, or are there particular
         | things you need?
         | 
         | Staples are usually available, and you can sometimes get them
         | from smaller vendors online. At least those you can plan ahead
         | for a future delivery. For some staples I've had luck with
         | Target and random online (usually specialty/gourmet) sellers.
         | 
         | For fresh items, its harder -- either get lucky with online or
         | go =/. You can try the smaller chains as they are lower foot
         | traffic or in some cases are better at rate limiting customers.
         | I've had luck with Ava's downtown (they also have early hours
         | for senior and/or immunocompromised). Nijiya is rate limiting,
         | as is Trader Joes (expect 30+ min line though). Nob Hill has
         | been OK, they also have special pre-packaged boxes for seniors
         | and at risk customers. They are first come/first serve, and
         | have mixes of staples/fresh foods. They say they're available
         | via e-cart as well, but I haven't tried. I've had to book Nob
         | Hill ~1 week ahead (and didn't get everything). Dittmer's is
         | also rate limiting (but sounds like you're good on meats).
         | 
         | As a last resort -- the MV farmer's market opens an early for
         | seniors and immunocompromised (so either 8 or 8:30, I can't
         | remember and its not listed online). I've been ~9 and its
         | busier than I'd like. They're trying to enforce line spacing
         | and do limit number of people in booths. Some booths only sell
         | pre-bagged items held behind the counter (e.g. apples from
         | Rainbow).
         | 
         | As a last resort -- maybe a shared grocery need list with
         | friends/neighbors? Someone can pick up an extra item or two
         | when they're out. We've been doing that at times and following
         | usual safety procedures afterward.
         | 
         | Take care!
        
           | Diederich wrote:
           | I'm working (at home!) at the moment, so I can't reply
           | properly right now, but thank you for all of this!
        
           | Ozzie_osman wrote:
           | Rose Market on El Camino across from Castro Street also has
           | good groceries, just don't carry paper towels, toilet paper,
           | etc. But if you just want food they're usually well-stocked.
        
           | gwittel wrote:
           | Ace Hardware is doing curbside pickup. Cost Plus World Market
           | is as well (they sell random pantry goods).
        
         | iandanforth wrote:
         | https://www.goodeggs.com/sfbay/home - Can be busy but slots are
         | opening up
         | 
         | https://zeroshop.co/ - Limited selection but good availability
         | 
         | Can't speak to if they deliver to you, but both do in Menlo
         | Park.
        
         | rb2k_ wrote:
         | We've had no issues getting same Whole Foods deliveries via
         | Amazon in Menlo Park. We just had to refresh a few times over
         | the course of 15 minutes or so and always got a slot.
        
         | Animats wrote:
         | Costco is still shipping. I just ordered about $135 worth of
         | stuff, including fruit, bread, milk, and hand cleaner, for
         | delivery today.
        
           | djrogers wrote:
           | That depends entirely where you live - around me, this is
           | aboslutely not true for all intents and purposes (no delivery
           | windows available, or no products available, or both).
        
         | graeme wrote:
         | > Over the past few days, this has gotten less viable. We'd
         | find ourselves driving 50 miles to pickup a $30 order.
         | 
         | You might consider making tiers of food. And maybe get a
         | standup freezer if you have the space/budget:
         | 
         | Tier 1: fast perishable fruits/vegetables, e.g. bananas. You
         | buy these in quantity at the store, but accept you'll run out
         | between trips Tier 2: root vegetables and other long lasting
         | produce. You buy in quantity and store in a cool, dark place.
         | Should last a while Tier 3: frozen meat, frozen nuts, frozen
         | vegetables. Frozen sliced bread Tier 4: canned fish, canned
         | fruit, canned vegetables. Canned meat/jerky
         | 
         | I'm Canadian. My grandma had a root cellar in the basement.
         | Tier 1 was basically out of the question every winter for a
         | portion of her life
         | 
         | You more or less arrange things as a tradeoff between tier 1,
         | and trips to the store, which are both costly and increase
         | exposure odds.
         | 
         | You also then keep checking all delivery options and look for
         | alternate qaya to keep tier up. But tiers 2 and 3 are fairly
         | decent.
         | 
         | There's also bulk meal cooking + freezing after a store run.
         | This is where the freezer comes in handy again.
         | 
         | If you have a backyard, also a good time to experiment with
         | gardening.
         | 
         | It sounds like you're already doing a good job of having
         | emergency stockpiles. Am hopeful this might give you some more
         | ideas for how to make the long term stockpile more palatable in
         | between orders.
        
         | alleyshack wrote:
         | You don't specify why Instacart "became less usable", though if
         | your experience is like mine I'd guess it's a combination of
         | delivery windows being a full week out and the results being
         | somewhat unreliable between replacements/out of stock. What's
         | been working for my household is to make the Instacart order
         | knowing it won't be delivered for at least a week, and use that
         | time to fill out the order as needed. We're not to this point
         | yet but I've also thought about doing a rolling window (i.e.,
         | make one order with a delivery window of next Saturday, then
         | start another one in two days with a delivery for next Monday,
         | etc) so there's always something coming in.
         | 
         | Another suggestion, which I have not tested yet personally,
         | would be to look up small grocers in your area. If you're
         | willing to drive to pick up your shopping, a small grocer may
         | be willing to prepick your order and have it ready for you in
         | the parking lot without an intermediary.
         | 
         | A third option would be to check for local milkman deliveries,
         | since many of them deliver more than just milk. A quick search
         | for the Bay Area brings up "Bay Area Milkman" and "Milkman SF".
         | Again, haven't tried them so can't vouch for them, but I'm
         | keeping similar options in my own back pocket if/when we need
         | them.
        
           | impendia wrote:
           | > a small grocer may be willing to prepick your order and
           | have it ready for you in the parking lot without an
           | intermediary.
           | 
           | This is what I did. A small, upscale grocery near me started
           | offering curbside pickup: you send in an order in the
           | morning, get called to arrange payment in the afternoon,
           | drive there the same day, and they drop off your groceries at
           | your car. Worked perfectly. Yum.
           | 
           | Indeed, prominently advertised on their website:
           | https://www.rosewoodmarket.com/grocery-curbside-pickup/
           | 
           | Unfortunately this is in a different state. But maybe
           | Mountain View/Palo Alto/Sunnyvale/etc. has something similar?
           | Where do all the vegans and serious foodies shop? I'd try
           | there.
        
           | vonmoltke wrote:
           | > You don't specify why Instacart "became less usable",
           | though if your experience is like mine I'd guess it's a
           | combination of delivery windows being a full week out
           | 
           | I can't get a delivery window _at all_ in Instacart right
           | now. I can 't get pickup of delivery from any grocery store
           | in northern New Jersey right now.
        
             | alleyshack wrote:
             | Oh yikes. Mine's been iffy, but looking a full week out
             | I've usually been able to find something. I suppose I
             | should consider my area fortunate for that.
             | 
             | I don't know if either of my other suggestions are of any
             | use to you, but I genuinely wish you luck in your search.
        
             | MBlume wrote:
             | Check out immediately after midnight, this is what's worked
             | for us.
        
             | andrewblossom wrote:
             | I've experienced the same in northern NJ. No available
             | delivery/pick-up slots from any providers.
        
           | Diederich wrote:
           | Ok, this is all very useful, thank you kindly.
        
         | zapstar wrote:
         | I have been very impressed with ordering online at Target. Many
         | items that my local grocery store did not have were able to be
         | shipped to me in 2 days. I hope maybe this can help with your
         | situation, at least as far as non-perishable food is concerned.
         | 
         | (They do have warnings on every product now about potentially
         | being out of stock, but so far, they've been able to fulfill
         | every order I've made.)
        
         | jefftk wrote:
         | Have you considered buying from stores that normally target
         | commercial businesses? They generally have a lot more slack
         | right now with restaurants not running. The minimum order size
         | is kind of high, but if you buy non-perishables it might be
         | good? https://www.webstaurantstore.com is what I've used.
        
           | Diederich wrote:
           | My wife has tried that but so far she's run into the 'must be
           | a restaurant' wall. We'll try
           | https://www.webstaurantstore.com , many thanks.
        
             | fennecfoxen wrote:
             | When I was in San Jose, there was a "Cash and Carry"
             | foodservice store where one could just walk in and browse
             | the food (I once randomly met the properietor of Psycho
             | Donuts there, looking for new flavor ideas.) It appears to
             | be operating under a slightly different brand now, but
             | seems to be open the the public still?
             | 
             | https://www.smartfoodservice.com/locations/store/san-
             | jose-57...
             | 
             | Looks like there's a click-and-carry option, but no
             | deliveries unless you Instacart.
        
         | caymanjim wrote:
         | It sounds like you're shopping with alarming frequency, almost
         | daily. Why so much? I stocked up over a month ago because it
         | was clear this was coming, and while I've supplemented a little
         | bit with one delivery and one shopping trip since then, I
         | certainly didn't need to. I especially wouldn't be relying on
         | InstaCart and other one-off prepared food deliveries with an
         | immunocompromised person at home.
        
         | influx wrote:
         | Do you have Amazon Fresh available? You might have to check
         | through the day to get a slot, but it's been a life saver for
         | our family.
        
           | Diederich wrote:
           | We do have Amazon Fresh, it's just been hard to get slots.
           | 
           | When you 'check through the day', can you say roughly how
           | many times you are checking? Thanks!
        
             | simmons wrote:
             | I think they must be adding slots fairly frequently. (But
             | they might also be snatched up quickly.) My wife and I put
             | in an Amazon Fresh order yesterday after doing a quick "dry
             | run checkout" to confirm there was an available slot. While
             | shopping, we got a notice that the slots were exhausted,
             | but we continued in the interest of getting an order
             | prepared. When we checked out, it again said there were no
             | slots. I waited a minute and refreshed the browser, and a
             | slot had opened up for tomorrow. I'm in Colorado, but I
             | assume AF works the same everywhere.
             | 
             | So far, I've had a better experience with Amazon Fresh than
             | with Instacart (King Soopers/Kroger) due to 1) the ability
             | to "call dibs" on items instead of waiting for the shopper
             | to see there's no stock and struggle to find a replacement,
             | and 2) the quick 1-2 day delivery (but maybe I've just
             | gotten lucky). On the other hand, lots of stuff is out of
             | stock which makes shopping challenging.
             | 
             | We also put in an Amazon Pantry order yesterday. Expected
             | delivery: April 26! :O
        
             | chaz wrote:
             | Dozens of times per day. It's on my bookmark bar, and I
             | click it routinely:
             | https://www.amazon.com/afx/slotselection/
        
         | kirykl wrote:
         | Contact local pet sitters, and see if they would do in-store
         | shopping for you. Many have lost business with people
         | cancelling vacations
        
           | Diederich wrote:
           | That's a very interesting idea, thank you!
        
           | repiret wrote:
           | My wife is also immunocompromised, and we live in the middle
           | of nowhere, where instacart and uber eats and all the other
           | gig economy services don't operate.
           | 
           | We were able to hire our housekeeper to do grocery shopping
           | for us.
           | 
           | Housekeepers; Pet sitters; more generally, there's a lot of
           | people out of work right now, connect with them and you'll
           | find someone who will help with your shopping.
        
       | neonate wrote:
       | https://archive.md/k3zNE
        
         | monkpit wrote:
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