[HN Gopher] Tolstoy's Children's Stories ___________________________________________________________________ Tolstoy's Children's Stories Author : smiljo Score : 124 points Date : 2020-04-27 16:38 UTC (6 hours ago) (HTM) web link (lareviewofbooks.org) (TXT) w3m dump (lareviewofbooks.org) | superimposition wrote: | Here's free collection of Tolstoy's Fables for Children | | https://publicdomainreview.org/collection/leo-tolstoys-fable... | hy56 wrote: | > _If you do this, be sure to read something lighter afterward, | like perhaps Anna Karenina's suicide scene, or a biography of | Sylvia Plath_ | | Nobody, including the author, seems to have mentioned the | cultural aspect in all this. Allow me: | | Q: What is the difference between a Russian optimist and a | Russian pessimist? | | A: A Russian pessmist thinks that things can't get any worse. A | Russian optimist thinks they not only can, but will. | blankton wrote: | Im currently reading Archipel Gulag from Alexander | Solschenitzyn and that joke sounds quite familliar. The reality | of the past century in Russia really proved optimists wrong. | Devestating to read that book. It literally puts me on breaks | to just sit and think. Sad that humans are capable of such | cruelty. | coribuci wrote: | Keep in mind that this book was written in USA | riazrizvi wrote: | I think classic folk tales were more macabre, but since consumers | today are not interested in them so much it's somewhat lost to | us. We have Grimm's Fairy Stories, but as the author points out, | in most modern editions they edit out the darker ones. We have | this Tolstoy collection because he is a famous author and people | are interested in his stories. And guess what, they are super | dark. Is that because Tolstoy was dark? No, it's because the | traditional stories of the time were much darker. Here's an | example of a Yiddish Folktale: | | _Moyshele and Sheyndele_ | | Once upon a time there was a poor woodcutter who had a wife and | two small children, a boy and a girl. The boy was called | Moyshele, the girl Sheyndele. The woodcutter's wife died and he | married a second wife who was a very wicked woman and a cruel | stepmother to the children. One day the woodcutter left the house | to chop wood in the forest, and the stepmother got ready to go to | market to do the Sabbath shopping. Before she left, she gave the | children some food, putting Moyshele's in a pot and Sheyndele's | on a plate. She said, "Moyshele, if you break the pot I'll chop | off your head, So you'd better not." She told Sheyndele, | "Sheyndele, Sheyndele, just you wait, I'll chop off your legs if | you break this plate." Then she slammed the door and went to | market. The children were afraid to eat lest they break | something, but the rooster suddenly flew up on the table and | knocked over the pot. It fell to the ground and broke into teeny- | tiny pieces. Moyshele, seeing them, was terrified and began to | cry. Sheyndele comforted him, saying, "Hush, Moyshele.Don't cry." | And she took the shards of the pot and pushed them into a corner | of the room. When the stepmother came home, she couldn't find the | pot. "Where is the pot?" she asked Moyshele. "The rooster broke | it," he said. The stepmother was very angry, but she pretended | that nothing was the matter. Later she said to Moyshele, "Come | with me and I'll wash your hair." So Moyshele went with her. She | took him into another room and cut off his head, after which she | cooked it for supper. When the woodcutter came back from the | forest he said, "Where is Moyshele?" "I don't know," said the | stepmother. Then they sat down at the table and ate the soup and | the meat. Sheyndele, unaware of what she was eating, sucked the | marrow from the bones and threw them out the window. A little | mound of earth covered the bones and when the glad summer came | again, a new Moyshele grew up out of it. Moyshele stood there on | his little mound until, seeing a tailor pass by, he called, | "Tailor, tailor, make me a pair of trousers and I'll sing you a | song: Murdered by my mother, Eaten by | my father, and Sheyndele, when they were done, | Sucked the marrow from my bones And threw them out the | window." | | The tailor, hearing the song, pitied him and made him a pair of | trousers. Moyshele put them on, and then a shoemaker went by. | Moyshele called, "Shoemaker, shoemaker, make me a pair of boots | and I'll sing you a song: Murdered by my | mother, Eaten by my father, and Sheyndele, when | they were done, Sucked the marrow from my bones | And threw them out the window." | | The shoemaker, hearing the song, pitied him and made him a pair | of boots. Moyshele put them on, and then a hatmaker went by. | Moyshele called, "Hatmaker, hatmaker, make me a hat and I'll sing | you a song: Murdered by my mother, | Eaten by my father, and Sheyndele, when they | were done, Sucked the marrow from my bones And | threw them out the window. | | The hatmaker, hearing the song, pitied him and made him a hat. | And Moyshele put it on and ran off to school. | One log there, One log gone. As for my tale-- | My tale is done. | | - Weinreich, Beatrice. Yiddish Folktales | | > I'm all for showing your kids reality, and bringing them to the | hospital or the wake or the funeral. But Tolstoy's tales read | more like an undigested rage at the world, unfortunately | misdirected at children. | | Yeah no. What's the point of such a teaching story as the one | above? Perhaps it's a story to teach resilience; _Even if the | world treats you so badly, that it sort of chews you up and spits | you out, you can still make your way, though perhaps it might | just be by telling your sad story and playing on people 's | sympathies_. | krick wrote: | > in most modern editions they edit out the darker ones | | Yeah, it's disgusting. It's incredibly hard to find actual | stories now, they are always screwed up by talentless editors. | Reminds me of drawing fig leaves over Renaissance pictures when | protestantism took over. | [deleted] | fennecfoxen wrote: | Hmm. I think I saw this one as _The Juniper Tree_ in which the | kid comes back as a bird first. My mother, she | killed me, my father, he ate me, My sister Marlene | gathered all my bones, Tied them in a silken scarf, | Laid them beneath the juniper tree, Tweet, tweet, what a | beautiful bird am I. | | (Grimm 47, Aarne-Thompson type 720, "my mother slew me, my | father ate me") | | Remember that plenty of the original Grimm stories had been | meant to entertain adults, too. | dan-robertson wrote: | In case you skimmed the article after the first few paragraphs, | note that the point is not that the stories are sad or grim but | that they are only sad or grim. There is no moral or hate that | leads to things happening. The characters just lives who've are | sad. | | I also read the article as lighthearted and humorous and so | assumed some things may have been exaggerated it embellished | slightly for effect. | ginko wrote: | Knowing Tolstoy's other writings I get the feeling that these | one paragraph summaries don't do his prose justice. | rosstex wrote: | Rock-a-bye baby, on the treetop. When the wind blows, the | cradle will rock. When the bough breaks, the cradle will | fall. And down will come Baby, cradle and all. | | or It's raining, it's pouring, The old | man's snoring. He went to bed And he bumped his | head And he couldn't get up in the morning. | | Tell me these ain't dark. | telesilla wrote: | And relevant today: | | Ring-a-ring o'roses | | A pocket full of posies | | A-tissue, a-tissue | | We all fall down | | (actually this is not at all related to the plague but it makes | a more scary story if we say it does) | [deleted] | dan-robertson wrote: | You'd think the author of the article would have thought about | other contemporary stories and mentioned them on their | article... | ken wrote: | > I'm all for showing your kids reality | | I really don't think that's why children's stories used to be | macabre. Nobody ever claimed these were accurate representations | of reality. | billfruit wrote: | Not directly related, but many Soviet era children's stories, by | Sergei Mikalkhov, et al are very good and brilliantly | illustrated. | lihaciudaniel wrote: | >Anna Karenina's suicide scene spoilers on side note, isn't | Tolstoy famous for being a Schopenhaeur influenced writers why | did he had 13 children? He is a great writer nontheless | 1f60c wrote: | Is the site down? | quotha wrote: | Those stories sound awesome, my kids would love them! | friedxenon wrote: | Why do headlines all sound like they're written by teenage girls | now, even when they're written by grown men? | darkerside wrote: | > But frequently those stories are redeemed by a depth which | feels archetypal: when Rapunzel's prince falls from her tower and | blinds himself in the rose bushes below, his blindness appears to | have a meaning -- it's not just gratuitous bloodshed. | | If I doubted my dismissal of this article, I felt vindicated by | this line. Is the author really so blind as to believe that | popular fairy tale endings are archetypal for any reason beyond | the fact that they became popular? They were just as nasty and | surprising back then, and it's only repeated listenings and | social acceptance that has made them appear to be any more child- | appropriate than a screaming, dying tree. | | FWIW, I generally believe kids are way more resilient to any of | these things than we think they are. Like the poplar tree, in | trying to protect them, we lead them to their own downfall. | galaxyLogic wrote: | Check out the Mioomins, good for children and adults alike. | | The series starts with books that are allegories for World War II | like "The Moomins and the Great Flood" and "Comet in Moominland". | Good reading in these pandemic times not gory but all about | seriousnes of the world we live in and how small humans and | families can cope with that. | | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moomins | wallstprog wrote: | I much preferred the original title of the post -- why change it? | smiljo wrote: | Did we break their site? :( | | Edit: seems to be back up with everything in order. | yters wrote: | The author knows old kids tales are violent, but there is a | meaning to thr tragedy. Tolstoy's stories are just meaninglessly | violent and tragic. | xabotage wrote: | Assuming "meaningless" truly is an apt description for them, I | actually think this makes Tolstoy's stories seem all the more | intriguing. Most violence and tragedy in life is meaningless, | we humans ascribe meaning to it. It's sometimes fun to read a | fictional piece and contemplate why the themes resonate with | me, without having a ham-handed, prefabricated meaning shoved | down my throat. Modernized fairy tales (and almost all modern | fiction) are not intended to confront the consumer with these | kinds of emotional/intellectual obstacles without a moralistic | guide. This often makes it suitable for children, but I wonder | if we underestimate children's ability to confront this kind of | ambiguity (but that doesn't necessarily mean we should read | Tolstoy's stories to them, or only ever offer ambiguity as a | moral socialization strategy). | yters wrote: | Meaningless violence is too easy, so is ham fisted | moralizing. True classics find some kind of meaning, even in | the meaninless tragedy of life, like the Iliad. | ksdale wrote: | I grew up watching Disney-type stuff, and as I got older, | it was off-putting to encounter stories that didn't seem to | have a "point." A bunch of stuff happens and then you're | required to just accept the utter lack of resolution. I | know that some people view that lack of a resolution as | "meaningless," and I'm not accusing you of that, but | sometimes the lack of an obvious lesson is the lesson. | People die, conflicts go unresolved, life goes on until it | doesn't and sometimes all we can do is accept it. | xabotage wrote: | Agreed, I think the secret is often a kind of subtlety that | can often be confused with meaninglessness. For example, | the first time I read "Of Mice and Men", I found the | "meaningless" suffering to be infuriating - how could this | book possibly be considered a classic? - until I later | understood more context around the novel's time period and | message, and realized it was only my juvenile tastes and | expectations that made it seem meaningless (no happy | ending? What is this tripe?) | | I doubt Tolstoy wrote his stories without some kind of | purpose, but I agree it would be a mistake to try too hard | looking for meaning in case he just felt like writing up | some sad shit. | [deleted] | recursivedoubts wrote: | The Gigantic Turnip is an delightful children's book. I wore that | thing to the spine with my kids: | | https://www.amazon.com/Gigantic-Turnip-Aleksei-Tolstoy/dp/19... | rectang wrote: | > * Tolstoy wrote them; they couldn't be that bad. Now I | sincerely wish I had never touched them.* | | The reviewer is Disney's useful idiot. Gotta stay away from | Tolstoy -- it's not just disturbing, it's actually dangerous! | | Only Bowdlerized and Disneyfied happy happy joy joy for your | kids! | | And if you aren't perpetually happy all your life, it's not not | that the universe is indifferent to human suffering, it's that | there's something wrong with _you_. | | > _There isn't even that much to talk to your children about: | trees are nice, don't cut them down so much? People are not all | that happy?_ | | Yeah. Maybe "People are not all that happy" would be a good thing | for kids to learn. | notyourday wrote: | Old Disney stuff was dark. The fluffy versions are relatively | recent. | RcouF1uZ4gsC wrote: | The fluffy versions sell. How popular would Little Mermaid | have been, if at the end, Ariel ended up as sea foam? | coribuci wrote: | depends on the director and the script. | ken wrote: | How far do I have to go back? I know Sleeping Beauty (1959) | is definitely much sanitized from the stories it's based on. | notyourday wrote: | Thirties and forties. | coribuci wrote: | Snow white is dark ??? | | Disney is brainwash for children. | zamfi wrote: | > And if you aren't perpetually happy all your life, it's not | not that the universe is indifferent to human suffering, it's | that there's something wrong with you. | | How people respond to adversity and suffering matters. | dang wrote: | Please don't post in the flamewar snark style to HN, regardless | of how wrong someone is or you feel they are. Maybe you don't | owe the LA Review of Books better, but you owe this community | better. Bashing another with your snark prowess doesn't open up | thoughtful conversation. | | We're trying to have a community that manages not to succumb to | the default of internet-acidic. I'm sure you know this, because | we've had to ask you about this several times before. If you | wouldn't mind reviewing | https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html and using HN | as intended, we'd be grateful. | ivanhoe wrote: | Those books shouldn't be judged by today's norms. They were not | written for the children (nor parents... especially not parents) | of today, but for children back then who lived in a completely | different world. | | For instance, in the version of Cinderella by Charles Perrault - | the version that we all know - one of the evil stepsisters was | advised by her mother to cut off her toes in order to fit the | slipper. She almost fools the prince, but doves warn him about | blood dripping from her foot. He then goes back again and tries | the slipper on the other sister. She cut off part of her heel in | order to get her foot in the slipper, and again the prince is | fooled. While riding with her to the king's castle, the doves | alert him again about the blood on her foot. | | How about that for a good night story? | copperx wrote: | Aren't we and our children exposed to much more violence, | blood, and plain evilness in media nowadays? | | I don't understand how people in those times would be less | sensitive to such themes. | riazrizvi wrote: | In older societies, people see a lot more violence/blood | toward animals. In old-fashioned societies, when you need a | chicken, the butcher grabs a live one, wrestles it's | wriggling body, wrings its neck, and skins it in front of | you. You grab the meat and it's still warm. Butchers killing | larger livestock is likely a show you can see near the | market, you may even have participated in some such act | yourself because of customs. It would be a common thing and | it's so visceral. You smell it. You can see the animal's | struggle, fear and pain. After you are habituated to that, a | story is not so bad. | lainga wrote: | I think the operative term is "evilness" - if you are a | moderately wealthy westerner in this century, violence and | bloodshed are things you have relegated to seeing in media, | and not an unavoidable part of life | bscphil wrote: | > violence and bloodshed | | And ideally, most of that sanitized away by the media which | just talks numbers, shows air strikes from 50 km away, and | tells you how many "insurgents" were killed today. | realo wrote: | Hum... Mozart's father (Leopold) took his son and daughter to | a public hanging 'for a jolly treat one free afternoon'. | | That would not work, nowadays... | | https://www.spectator.co.uk/article/the-marvel-of-mozart- | s-l... | foobarian wrote: | Or, original Hansel and Gretel - parents dropped them off in in | the woods because there was not enough food for everyone. | | Or, "The Little Match Girl." Yikes. | pmontra wrote: | > The publicists of the most recent edition issued by Simon & | Schuster, who seemingly did not read it, write of this book, | "children will be able to take away important lessons, as well as | laugh at silly mishaps and characters, from this timeless | collection." | | This is possible but unfortunately the author of the article | decided not to answer his children: | | > "Daddy," my stunned four-year-old son asked, "why did the lion | die?" | | > "Daddy Daddy," my daughter asked, still wondering about the | now-dead lion's lifestyle, "why did the people feed the lion | puppies?" | | Instead he "took the book away and hid it from" them. Not good | parenting IHMO. Don't read from that book again, OK, but find an | answer to those questions. | aaronharnly wrote: | I happen to be a close personal friend of the author, and | happen to know that he answers deep and difficult questions | from his children very directly and well; and that he allows | them to see all facets of life (an eagle eating a mouse; a deer | not surviving the winter) as a matter of course. Perhaps the | paragraph is simply lighthearted :) | irrational wrote: | Find an answer? The lion starved to death before he could pass | through all the stages of grief. Loose pets are free meat for | the lion. Neither of these answers would be satisfying to | children. | | Taking the book away and hiding it is good parenting. Better | parenting would be reading the book ahead of time and never | sharing it with them to begin with. | neonate wrote: | https://archive.md/yBlli | kulix425 wrote: | really uplifting when everyone needed it the most. thank you | crazygringo wrote: | > _Tolstoy's tales are unusual in that they lack the depth of | relationships -- and even hatred -- that the old folk tales have. | There are no stories of wicked stepparents or lurking dangers in | the woods. Instead, there is a kind of dead-end romanticism: bad | thing happens; a person is sad; end of story. There isn't even | that much to talk to your children about: trees are nice, don't | cut them down so much? People are not all that happy?_ | | Wow. The author seems to be missing the morals _entirely_. Just | from browsing their story descriptions, the lessons seem to be | about, respectively: | | - The overwhelming power of grief, which you may wind up | suffering when you choose to love | | - Don't be tricked by people trying to get you to enjoy yourself | in a dangerous situation | | - The feeling that makes you uncomfortable destroying beauty is a | kind of conscience, so listen to it, for there is an intrinsic | connection between beauty and life | | - Happiness is misunderstood by nearly all -- it doesn't come | from material possessions, it comes from within | | - People are supported by those around them, not diminished, so | don't treat those who surround you as unimportant or take them | for granted | | - If you tame an animal, you're responsible for their well-being. | You can't "go back" or shirk your responsibilities, so think | twice before you take on a personal commitment or you may | generate suffering you never intended | | Writers for the LA Review of Books are generally... supposed to | be literary and really good at finding meaning in texts, heck | even way more meaning than the author sometimes intended. | | This author seems to be being deliberately obtuse about these | stories. I'm not sure why. But these stories seem incredibly | stimulating food-for-thought to talk with your children about. | RcouF1uZ4gsC wrote: | There have been lots of comments about how dark children'a books | were. But, back then, children's lives were pretty dark. With the | high infant and childhood mortality, a good proportion of | children had lost a brother or sister. Given maternal mortality, | many children had probably lost a mother in childbirth. Given the | nature of farmwork and the primitive nature of medicine, many | children probably had a father, uncle, etc who was killed or main | in an accident. And that is before you consider the frequent wars | in which soldiers roamed across the land raping, pillaging, and | killing. Death would have been all around children. | mhb wrote: | Nowadays everyone's wrong on the internet, but that doesn't | mean I want to read a book about it. | goto11 wrote: | Important point many are missing: Folktales were not originally | for children. They were told among adults after children had gone | to sleep. But when folklorists (like the Grimm brothers) started | collecting and publishing folk tales, it became a trend to | publish sanitized edition for children. | | Read something like the Arabian Nights tales in an uncensored | version - these were clearly not intended for children anymore | than 50 Shades of Grey are for children. The children's editions | are _heavily_ sanitized. | | I suspect their change into children literature was because of | cultural changes - educated 19th century adults couldn't take | folktales serious anymore (except as anthropological studies) and | found them childish. The same way that 19th century popular | literature like Dumas and Verne became children's books in the | 20th century. | | Walt Disney is often criticized in this context, but both Snow | White and Cinderella are actually pretty faithful to the source | material. Cinderella is just based on the Charles Perrault | version of the story, not the Grimm version which contain a lot | more maiming. | dannygarcia wrote: | > Folktales were not originally for children. | | I learned this the hard way. I purchased a beautifully made | "Grimm's Complete Fairy Tales" to read to my then toddler. | There are some particularly disturbing stories but I was | surprised by how many were flat out nonsensical or silly (like | The Story of a Boy Who Went Forth to Learn Fear [0]). It's | fascinating to read these in their (translated) original form. | Not your typical bedtime story. | | [0] https://www.pitt.edu/~dash/grimm004.html | voldacar wrote: | Wow, what a strange story. Super surreal and dreamlike | mikeInAlaska wrote: | > Walt Disney is often criticized in this context | | Disney hired Pixar to put out Tolstoy 1 and 2, then they | acquired Pixar and have since released Tolstoy 3 and 4. | jan_Inkepa wrote: | For those interested in seeing the scope/variation of | cinderella stories, there's a book "cinderella; three hundred | and forty-five variants" | https://archive.org/details/cu31924007918299 that is ... I | wouldn't recommend reading it cover-to-cover like I did, but | there are some interesting variants hidden in it! | ginko wrote: | This seems to be pretty much par for the course for 19th century | children's books. Compare them to the original versions of H.C. | Andersen's fairy tales or Hoffmann's Struwwelpeter[1]. | | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Struwwelpeter | user982 wrote: | When you say "the original versions of H.C. Andersen's fairy | tales," you mean as compared to modern (Disney) adaptations, | right? I know the Grimm tales were self-sanitized in later | editions, but haven't heard that of Andersen's. | ginko wrote: | Yeah, I was mainly referring to the later adaptions. Don't | think there were different versions. | brummm wrote: | My gandma used to read the Struwwelpeter stories to me as a | child. I would actually disagree with the premise of the | article that they make children want to die. They actually are | supposed to frighten children into behaving properly. | A4ET8a8uTh0 wrote: | I am willing to agree. I read Grimm really early. The purpose | of those stories is not some sort of cutesy money grab slash | temporary babysitter to keep the little ones occupied long | enough for parents to do what needs to be done. That said, I | understand the reason for both. Both are needed, but | dismissing those stories, because they are scaring kids is.. | it feels like a rehash of the self-esteem movement. | alpaca128 wrote: | I actually enjoyed the stories back then and they didn't | really work when it came to changing my behaviour. Probably | mostly because I just didn't grasp the seriousness of the | bloodier parts. | brummm wrote: | The one that would always stick out to me was the one of | the child that doesn't want to eat its soup and then dies | (Suppenkasper). | derefr wrote: | > Probably mostly because I just didn't grasp the | seriousness of the bloodier parts. | | And this is why the original folktales emphasize the gore. | You can basically chop off the last quarter of any folktale | and replace it with a direction to the story-teller, i.e. | "[and now you shall carry on about bad things happening to | the child protagonist, in as visceral a manner as you have | the mind and words to render, until the children listening | have been thoroughly traumatized as to the consequences of | their misbehavior.]" | ginko wrote: | Same here. The thing is I don't think they're just supposed | to frighten children. I can remember having lots of fun | getting those stories read to me by my grandmother. Of course | they're dark, but they're also comically exaggerated. There's | certainly a reason why Struwwelpeter has been popular for | generations. | kick wrote: | "Tolstoy's Children's Stories Will Devastate Your Children | and Make _You_ Want to Die " | will_pseudonym wrote: | This is the 2nd time I've heard of Struwwelpeter. The first | time was on The Office (US). | | https://youtu.be/OeIi4ni1LvY?t=67 | yters wrote: | "Ring around the rosy" is about the plague. | | "12 days of Christmas" and other tales and sings have hidden | Christian symbolism due to persecution. | downerending wrote: | I'm still vaguely haunted by _Never Tease a Weasel_. Seen through | children 's eyes, probably a lot of books targeting them are | rather creepy. ___________________________________________________________________ (page generated 2020-04-27 23:00 UTC)