[HN Gopher] Written communication is remote work super power ___________________________________________________________________ Written communication is remote work super power Author : snird Score : 340 points Date : 2020-06-19 18:08 UTC (4 hours ago) (HTM) web link (snir.dev) (TXT) w3m dump (snir.dev) | joe8756438 wrote: | I also find keeping a log of work helps provide the right | communication at the right time. Especially when remote I find it | is easy to forget all the things I've worked on in a given week. | It doesn't always make sense to interrupt somebody with updates | on something the moment it is done. Colocation provides so many | more cues to communicate progress, ideas, etc. in the collocation | context the work log is less important as a communication tool. | | It so happens, (shameless plug alert) I built a tool [0] that | asks me what I did on a daily basis via sms, the responses are | organized in my work notes folder. I use this for keeping track | of long-running projects that depend on lots of other people for | input. I also use it to build a monthly description of work to | include with my clients' invoices. | | 0. https://www.tatatap.com | rogerkirkness wrote: | Fundamentally, it's faster to write and type than it is to talk | and listen. | nine_k wrote: | It hugely depends on one's competence in writing, and one's | style of thinking. | tomplayford wrote: | I personally find it much faster to talk and / or draw than to | write or type. | devxpy wrote: | Written communication will also give you RSI though | watwut wrote: | We found it faster to call and speak | tomplayford wrote: | Not everyone finds written comms as easy as everyone else. | | absolutely +1 to keeping records, but as a form of communication | it's not terribly equal. | Benjammer wrote: | I don't know how to phrase this without sounding like a | somewhat pedantic asshole, but I cannot understand this | reasoning. Are we really saying there is less variability in | people's spoken communication abilities than written? This | concept is _baffling_ to me. Who in the world talks better than | they write? | | Also, in my experience, written comms is immensely more | accessible and accommodating to diverse teams with people who | may have variable levels of expertise with English. | tomplayford wrote: | I was referring to dyslexia. About 5-15% of the US population | have some form of dyslexia. Probably should have spelled that | out. | | I do agree that for non native english speakers, the written | word is more accessible. | Benjammer wrote: | I worked with a guy who was legally blind, but could | function with a physical screen overlay device that | magnified things up to pretty absurd proportions. He was | one of the better communicators (in writing) in the entire | engineering org. I think we should work on individual cases | to make writing more accessible to people for whom it's a | struggle. But we shouldn't just throw out writing and it's | overall effectiveness. That's not a solution, it's avoiding | a hard problem. | | We don't just decide to only build one story buildings | because of physical accessibility, because we don't want to | throw out the efficiencies of multi-story structures. | Instead we install ramps, automatic doors, elevators, etc. | And we have legal standards for door widths and hallway | widths, etc, etc. | tomplayford wrote: | Totally agree - not suggesting we throw out writing, we | would all be doomed. | | I'm sure your blind colleague wrote well - so do many of | my dyslexic colleagues. Doesn't mean it was easy or fast | For them though. | | I suppose what I'm saying is that there's no one-size- | fits all or one thing for all tasks. This article | highlights the advantages of writing. And I agree. But it | isn't the right work from home comms tool for all | combinations of people and tasks. | Benjammer wrote: | Sure, that makes sense. Also I can for sure acknowledge | that you answered my initial question. There are | definitely people who speak better than they write, when | it comes to certain conditions and disabilities that make | writing harder than it is for the average person. | RHSeeger wrote: | I'm not sure I follow that statement. I can see an argument | that text is not strictly better than verbal communication but, | at worst, I'd say it's equal (for people as a whole, not for | one person in particular). Some people are better at written | communication while some are better at verbal. | tomplayford wrote: | For most people, I'll happily agree with you. From a | dyslexic's perspective, being forced to only ever present | one's ideas and thoughts in text is pretty restricive. | RHSeeger wrote: | And that's fair.. for a dyslexic, written communication is | worse. I wasn't trying to imply that, for all people, which | medium is better varies for each individual. I was trying | to say that, over the set of all people, which medium is | better tends to vary by person. That neither medium is | "better" for everyone. | [deleted] | baron816 wrote: | How do you get your coworkers to start proofreading what they | write? | _curious_ wrote: | _Effective_ written communication is remote work super power | ggurgone wrote: | that! I wrote something on the same lines | https://giuseppegurgone.com/remote-work-communication/ | jaakl wrote: | Video calls are like single-room IRC 20 years ago, before PM, | threads etc within same room were added. Probably just matter of | months when we will see subrooms, side-channel whisper, history | of transcribed logs and many other additions also in video calls. | Just current software limitations. | giglamesh wrote: | "Breakout Rooms" is already a feature of Zoom. | djrogers wrote: | Pretty much all of those features you call out are available in | modern video chat software - at least the one I have to use | daily (Zoom). | krm01 wrote: | In our business, async communication is at the core of how we | deal with clients. We design UI/UX for tech companies | (http://fairpixels.pro) and in the 10+ years of trying out a | dozen of ways to work, async email conversations were by far the | most effective for us. | | Email over Slack, why? Slack and other chat environments still | create the expectation of realtime responses. Also, messages you | type there are short and often of a lower quality. | | Email is usually more longform. This forces us and clients to | think first, write second. | | The quality of feedback and communication is just so much better. | timwaagh wrote: | In my team if someone needs to pick up the kids he just says it | in chat or even in a video meeting and gets them. I think webex | meetings work better than real live ones. If they are tiring | that's positive because meetings last too long. If only one | person can speak at a time it prevents people from interrupting | and makes them conscious not to hog the mic. Async communication? | How would you do that? If you have a question and can't find an | answer, what do you do? Make a jira user story to document this | specific scenario and put yourself as the reporting too? Then | assign to a colleague and hope he does something with it? I mean | it could possibly work if everyone is accustomed to it, is of a | very high level and is also a high level technical writer. But it | just seems to me that in practice junior might be too dumb to | understand seniors writing. Or senior just writes something | that's not legible. Or senior ignores his new assigned story | because junior created it and not the product owner. Or scrum | master sees the story and thinks: that's not part of sprint goals | and throws it out of the board. It seems really slow to work this | way. | eXpl0it3r wrote: | I think it really depends on the project size and the kind of | work. If you're more in a waterfall model, where the specs are | clear and you just got to do it, I can understand how being | able to work uninterrupted is a nice-to-have. | | But if you work very closely with the business and often run | into things that could be done or understood in different ways, | having to wait a day or more to get a clarifying response would | not work. And this is know-how that can't be written down | easily if at all, since a lot of decisions are purely based on | experience and historical knowledge. | | I used to have this illusionary vision of how everything should | be neatly documented, but if you operate on a constantly | changing code base, it's really hard to find a good balance. | Documentation gets outdated every few weeks and sometimes days, | plus most of the time, you don't even know that said | documentation has been written. As such, you can't fully trust | the documentation and you always have to check out at least | part of the code. | | What seems to work for me, is documentation that gives a broad | overview of a topic and then gives certain pointers into the | code. That way you capture the essence of functionality that is | likely to remain for a longer time and the transition from | documentation to code is made easier. | | And finally, if someone is stuck or doesn't understand | something, I find it problematic to have the expectation that | nobody may be available to read your message for the next few | hours or whole day. What is more efficient, someone spending a | couple of minutes to provide assistance or someone | googling/search Jira/wiki/Confluence for half a day and not | making any progress? | VectorLock wrote: | I've noticed the biggest difference between junior developers and | more experienced individuals is their written communication | abilities. This has led me down the path of trying to find | resources to help teach communications to those that I mentor but | since this isn't my area of expertise (teaching communications) | I'd love if anybody had resources to share. | cborenstein wrote: | A strength (and weakness) of async is that it comes with a higher | expectation of writing quality. | | When the expectations are too high, it's likely that people won't | get things down in the first place. | | My team has noticed an unintuitive approach to communication that | seems to work better than alternatives. Write better private | notes. | | Private notes are low-friction. You know what's worth writing. | You don't need to worry as much about if it's a mess. | | Our approach is to help you make your private notes a little | better organized. And to make it fast to share these notes when | they might be helpful to someone else too. | | It's bytebase.io. Would love the community's feedback. | lbotos wrote: | I gave a talk on this idea few years ago, that even just the | _metadata_ of slack messages was enough to make improvements to | process. As a support engineer it was useful for us to see when | we were asking questions in slack, what the patterns were to | improve our team training: | | Ticket comes in -> we don't know -> we link to ticket in X | channel. Tally the channel links, look at chart, identify | patterns. | | In an office, this would require me to be an EXTREME micro | manager, whereas remotely, I just paid attention and used the | meta data to drive our training. | | In an office, you could ask the team to keep track, or to tell | you what they noticed, but by having a direct tap into the data | stream, the team just does the work. | | (This requires a high degree of trust, and we were looking | _inward_ so it wasn't something that was met with disdain. If we | were using this to compare what teams were more responsive and | being outwardly critical, well, I don't think that will go over | well anywhere.) | techbio wrote: | The discoverability of written thought decreases with its | quantity. | | It comes down to knowing your sources, not relying on some Bacon | number of reinforced echoes. | MattGaiser wrote: | I have a day where everyone else in on flex (basically their day | off every two weeks). | | I have already cleared two large tickets because I can address | the comments they left when I am done another task (because they | wrote out their entire thought instead of waiting for a | conversation). | | I would bet I am 2-3x as productive as I now have hours of | uninterrupted time. | sabujp wrote: | i find that i spend 3x more time explaining something through | writing than through a quick chat | Buttons840 wrote: | > participants need to be competent at writing and reading prose | (it's harder than it sounds) | | In my experience, around 1/3rd of developers are not good | typists. Writing code isn't really about typing, so it's OK, but | when participating in an active conversation in a chat room with | multiple people, not being able to type well hurts. | zawaideh wrote: | would be nice to use "they" or alternate between "he" and "she" | in the post. Otherwise, it's a great post | satvikpendem wrote: | If I were to ever hire, I'd optimize first for clear, written, | long-form asynchronous communication, second for ability for the | job at hand, and anything else third. | | Having hired some freelancers recently, I've found that there is | a world of difference between those who can communicate clearly | and those who can't. | oDot wrote: | I wrote Emergency Remote[0] for companies thrown into remote due | to the situation. | | From my experience, it seems that the reason companies use sync | communication and "emulating" an office is not because they don't | understand the benefits of async, but because of the required | discipline. | | Fortunately, that discipline is required vastly more of the | initiator of the conversation. This allows the recipient to quite | easily refuse sync communication. This way employees can help | each other out and get used to async. | | [0]: https://www.emergencyremote.com/EmergencyRemote.pdf | DenisM wrote: | We're finding it quite effective to record short 2-minute videos | and circulate those. Everyone can talk and point things on the | screen, not everyone can write or even read attentively. | chinigo wrote: | Are these screen recordings with narration or video recordings | from a webcam? | | Personal preference of course, but I'd be less able to express | myself in a video recording than in an audio recording or | written document, out of pure self-consciousness. | DenisM wrote: | They are all screens. Rarely I record a design on the | whiteboard and I end up in the frame, but I'm fine with it. | BTW this also works much better than any spec. | | Self consciousness is an interesting problem. I prefer seeing | faces on the screen during the stand-up (such as it is in the | days of COVID), but I was told many hesitate to be on camera. | | Did you ever find a way out of this? Join.me has very small | video size, I imagine this is one way to lessen the stress. | Alas it doesn't work for me - I need to see the facial | expressions because I need to know when I lost the audience, | and because I find it hard to pay attention to a disembodied | (and heavily compressed) voice. | gav wrote: | > Self consciousness is an interesting problem. I prefer | seeing faces on the screen during the stand-up (such as it | is in the days of COVID), but I was told many hesitate to | be on camera. | | Getting people to turn on their cameras has always seemed | to be a challenge in my experience, but it does seem | contagious, once a few people do, everyone starts to over | time. | | It makes a huge difference to see peoples faces over | talking into a void. I think empathy is a bit part of it. | sytse wrote: | When writing you are not getting feedback (give more context, go | faster, what concerns to address). A back and forth can be a much | faster way (both in total time elapsed and time spend) to resolve | something. At GitLab we recommend async by default and jump to | sync when you start going back and forth. | https://about.gitlab.com/company/culture/all-remote/asynchro... | nine_k wrote: | Real-time, spoken communication is on-site work super power. | | When uncertainty is high, and an intense discussion is needed, | spoken word is much more efficient, from my experience. People | are fundamentally better at speaking quickly and taking proper | turns. This all is much slower and more cumbersome in video call, | phone call, or a text chat. The perceived sequence breaks, the | turn-taking protocol breaks (unless enforced by a moderator, at | the expense of speed), and the communication become slower, less | efficient, and more tiresome. | | I _love_ neatly written logically organized texts. But to produce | such a text, a lot of the questions it answers should be already | understood, answered, and arranged in a easy-to-consume order. | There are situations when this is not possible, and _finding out_ | the scope of the problem and its structure is exactly the task. | Here 's where face-to-face verbal communication rules. | | Of course, providing some written output after such a meeting is | important, too, be it nicely written minutiae (a shared document | on a large screen works well), or just a photo of the whiteboard. | | So, _both_ written and face-to-face types of communication are | important. None can efficiently replace the other. | marcosdumay wrote: | Latency is the video-call superweakness. | | But with text there are tools to overcome this problem. Text | scales into larger groups, and accepts days long latency. | People adapt quite well to hierarchical chat and shared co- | authored documents. Any group larger than half a dozen people | will organize better around text. But any large group is also | composed of smaller ones, that can always benefit from on-site | talking. | | My impression, after some time of forced remote-only | interaction is that both modes are very important, but spoken | on-site communication is ideal for a very small share of the | total communication. | e40 wrote: | I agree with you partially. I found something interesting, with | this everyone work from home: I'm able to communicate with | certain people more effectively via zoom. | | I think it boils down to with zoom, you are literally in | someone's face, and it's very obvious when you aren't fully | focused on them. | | Perhaps the new way, with zoom, gave some people an opportunity | to reset their manners? Not clear what the real reason behind | it is, but I noticed it immediately. | | What a great bonus it was. | danielovichdk wrote: | Actually funny this question. Because come to think about it, | text is by far my preffered way to communicate. | | That goes for work and for serious-private matters. | | The absolute strengt with text is that it gives you history by | default - you can save it. | | While you can save text it's also eaiser to the search. | | The mental model around writing and communicating is the mental | proces that goes into it, and which is also the reason i disagree | with people that believe you should be good at writing - if you | haven't thought about what you want to communicate you can't | write it nor speak about it. Why would you be better at | communicating by speech rather than text? Sure it's faster to | speak or video, but does that give a better result? I say no way | Gibbon1 wrote: | I spent about ten years with field service as part of my job. | | What that taught me is every form of communication has it's | uses. For full effect you often need multiple types. Talk on | the phone. Send a follow up email. Then talk on the phone | again. Update the original email into a formal doc. Two | engineers with a whiteboard can solve some problems in a few | minutes that would take days of back and forth over text. | | Formal text though is usually very good. Especially if the | author can produce high quality output quickly. This is my | particular failing. | EvanAnderson wrote: | It's worth noting that some people specifically see verbal | communication's undocumented-by-default nature as a feature. | | When I was younger I found that idea very offensive. I | considered people who held that viewpoint to be suspect | (engaging in political machinations, or using fluid | recollections of conversations to their advantage). I still | think there's a grain of truth to my suspicions, but I've | learned to recognize that there are acceptable reasons for | undocumented conversations. | Buttons840 wrote: | There's still phone calls. Any co-worker you trust enough to | have an "off the record" conversation with wouldn't turn down | a "hey, can I call you?" request. They might think it's weird | at first, but would understand later I'm sure. | RHSeeger wrote: | I've called coworkers literally just to rant to someone | before. Sometimes, you need to complain, but having a | record of that is not helpful in any way. | jugg1es wrote: | In my experience, the people most averse to writing stuff down | are usually the remote engineers. Remote workers don't typically | have the same cultural influence as local employees, so they tend | to be somewhat alienated and therefore have fewer expectations | put on them. I think this disincentivizes remote workers from | fully assimilating into the culture and leads to less interest in | communication. Inevitably, this ends up affecting their | willingness to properly document. | | Just my opinion built on my anecdotal experience. | Benjammer wrote: | I have the exact opposite anecdotal experience. Remote | engineers I've worked with have put a lot more effort into | their writing because they understand that it's one of their | only avenues to participate in the company communication | culture. | siculars wrote: | People ask me what do they need to be good at to work at Google. | I jokingly (but kind of seriously) tell them it's just like grade | school - reading and writing. 80% of the job is reading, editing | and commenting on docs people wrote or writing docs people will | read. | [deleted] | rakoo wrote: | Interestingly, I've been thinking about organization at work and | I feel like there are many forms of async communications that | should or could be merged, because of how common they are. We | need to communicate announcements, ask for opinions on changes, | document a process, list relevant steps to a change that is | happening, ... | | In my mind there are multiple goals a perfect system should have: | | - Must be easy to create a new "conversation" - Must be possible | to write long form content in a "post", where "post" is the first | item in a conversation - Must be able to have a meaningful | conversation with replies to specific points - Must be able to | change the content of the "post" based on the discussion that | happened (such that a "post" can be a poll, participants discuss | options, and the final decision is summarized) - Must be able to | easily enter and exit the full conversation - Must be able to | easily link the full conversation, for referencing - Must be able | to set metadata (dates, relevant people, status, stuff like that) | | We have many systems, but none really fits the bill: | | - Email is probably the worst, because you can't modify the | original message, you can't link to it and you can't | transparently enter the conversation if you weren't part of it | initially. We've all seen the "adding XYZ to the loop" that | provide 0 content to the conversation. There's also the whole | issue about top-posting and lack of proper threading that make | having a conversation difficult. Probably just a client issue | rather than a protocol issue though - NNTP is a step above, but | ironically because it has remained niche the clients and the | etiquette help having a proper conversation. Still doesn't fill | the bill - Ticket systems are paradoxically pretty good for this | situation. They do contain the necessary structure for | incorporating metadata, in all the various forms ingenuity can | come up with.... sometimes too much ingenuity, such as the labels | and fields and knobs that were needed for that project years ago | are still here, cluttering a lot of space because most aren't | actually needed anyway. Imagine using such a mess - A wiki is | nice, but the emphasis on structuring is detrimental for flows | that go outside of documenting. Sometimes you just want a linear | list of conversations ordered by date - Google docs and | associated are good for really long forms for the initial "post", | but are not very good at structured conversation | | Perhaps the best software, for all those use cases, is a forum | software. I'm partial to the (old) reddit UX or the HN UX; remove | the useless voting and it's almost the perfect way to | communicate. The interface gives you the space to actually take | time about what you want to say and properly articulate it. HN is | a bit terse here, reddit gives you formatting helps to nicely | present your ideas and makes reading it easier. | | Only drawback is that they are text only, and sometimes you need | to include non-text (a screenshot of the planned changes, a video | of the flow to document, a map of the place you're discussing | about, ...) | | (If it is not clear already, I'm still sad at the death of Google | Wave. 10 years later and it's still the future: | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p6pgxLaDdQw) | jka wrote: | Yep, this article rings true on a number of levels, particularly | regarding asynchronous work and lack of interrupts. | | Anecdotally, I'm working on a software project at the moment with | a small team of volunteers. | | To explain some context: I'm the sole developer currently, and | I'm treating communications to the team as high-value for us, now | and in future - the same way that I'd like to think that I treat | the code (I write this with the awareness I've recently cut some | corners; but cleanup is on the cards). | | One observation is that I'm _really enjoying_ only using email | for that communication. | | Sometimes I code for a couple of days before checking or | answering emails, simply based on what feels most productive or | compelling at the time. | | As a result I never get distracted by pings while working, and | feel much more comfortable taking time while writing messages and | replies, generally allowing me to be a bit more thoughtful. | | And there's only one communication platform. My attention's not | split between instant messages, emails, and other organizational | tools. | | This situation's probably an edge case based on the small team | size and my personal preferences, but it's been an interesting | experience. | | I don't know how well this approach would scale* -- and an open | question based on my experience and also raised by the article | is: how and where do you organize that content so that it can be | discovered by newcomers to the team? | | *Example: crisis moments, such as technical outages, would be | tricky to manage for a multi-person operations team | jgilias wrote: | I was lucky enough to be able to use the Twist app for team | communications for some time. I highly recommend it to people | willing to go the async way. It feels like a perfect cross | between e-mail, forum and slack. | karussell wrote: | Yeah, I really liked the concept, but when we tried it 2 | years ago or so it had several bugs regarding never getting a | notification although it should and showing me that I have a | new message although everything was read. We reported them | but nothing changed. And all team members had these problems. | Probably they have fixed them now but we unfortunately we | switched to slack and now it is very unlikely we switch back | due to these serious problems. | vasco wrote: | I like flow as much as anyone but find the thought of working | multiple days without speaking to my team to be crazy, I'd feel | like none of us would be able to move as fast alone as we do | together, and half the time would end up following rabbitholes, | or spending too much time on the wrong things because we'd | never check in for an opinion. The only way I'd see a full or | more days of work without communicating working well is if we'd | work on larger amounts of releasable code at once, but then | there's more chances of conflicts, reviews get longer and | harder to do and there's more risk releasing. | | I think having a team with 1 rotating person responsible to | handle all external requests per week, and everyone else being | focused on their work but still being able to pair when needed, | ask questions provide guidance, etc to be really cool. All of | this remote, of course. | joe8756438 wrote: | That's an interesting idea regarding rotating external | request handling. Do the team members not currently on call | forward requests to those on call? How do you manage | continuity of communication once the rotation has shifted? | jka wrote: | Thanks, yep, those are all legitimate concerns about whether | this would scale. | | It's occurred to me that Stripe's email transparency[1] could | help (although they discovered limitations with that approach | too, and have been good about publishing those). | | We're lucky (in some ways) not to have a large inbound | feedback load, which is surely also a factor. Thanks for the | external-request rotation suggestion; that's a good idea to | provide a refresher from focus work when the burden starts to | affect the team. | | Honestly though, I have to re-state that it's been _so_ | refreshing and enabling to work this way that I wonder | whether there 'd be ways to scale up and solve the consensus, | conflict and opinion problems you mention. | | Despite that, I'd add another problem to the pile: not | everyone is going to be able to contribute at equal pace at | all times (for various completely valid reasons) in a large | enough team - and there needs to be genuine cultural | understanding and acceptance of that which I believe is | frequently absent from high-intensity startup environments. | | [1] - https://stripe.com/blog/email-transparency | u801e wrote: | > One observation is that I'm really enjoying only using email | for that communication. | | If it were up to me, I would use a self-hosted NNTP server as | an internal forum for communication and reserve email for one- | on-one private communication. | | > As a result I never get distracted by pings while working | | I actually disable notifications from chat applications and | email and just make sure I check them periodically throughout | the day. No one has ever complained that I took 10 to 20 | minutes to respond to a question. Though if there's an active | discussion going on, I will participate as needed. | | > how and where do you organize that content so that it can be | discovered by newcomers to the team? | | Newsgroups would typically have a monthly group FAQ post. While | that could be done via email, newcomers wouldn't be able to see | emails sent before they started. | | > crisis moments, such as technical outages, would be tricky to | manage for a multi-person operations team | | The monthly post with the up-to-date operation procedures to | follow for technical issues could work and could be checked for | out-of-date information before posting (which is something that | wiki documents don't handle well). | jackjeff wrote: | Async communication is suitable to resolve some kind of issues. | But it has two drawbacks: participants need to be competent at | writing and reading prose (it's harder than it sounds) and even | with the best of care your ideas can easily be misinterpreted | resulting in the loss of an async cycle. | | For problems which are not well defined, and where a lot of | decisions need to be taken, especially when they verge toward the | arbitrary, it's a lot easier to have people in a room and hash it | out. A remote meeting can work too. | | The problem with meetings are those which are not well prepared. | There shall be an agenda and proper minutes should be produced. | | For most complicated matters actions/investigations are supposed | to be followed up. In a way that's how you mix async with sync | communication. | codingdave wrote: | > misinterpreted resulting in the loss of an async cycle. | | True, but readily fixed with "Can we talk about this when you | have a minute?" | | Also, losing "an async cycle" is a completely alien concept to | me. I've been working remotely for a decade, never heard that | phrase, and not entirely sure why it matters. Does a | conversation that takes 14 Slack messages make the business | less efficient than one that only took 11? | | Honestly, I'm not trying to just nitpick, but why would a room | full of people be beneficial to decisions "when they verge | toward the arbitrary"? Wouldn't that be the perfect time for | everyone to send their async opinions, and let a single | decision-maker just decide? Large calls/meetings work when you | don't know what you don't know - to get all the information on | the table, and have all the knowledge in the same place at the | same time. You talk, give answers where needed, assign some | action items to people, and go back to your async lives. | | As far as the initial statement that you must be competent at | writing and reading prose... I'd love to hear more about that | than "it's harder than it sounds". I've worked remotely with | people with dyslexia and reading disabilities and C-level | personalities that refused to get in-depth in any single | communication. And one guy who had all those traits - the | CEO... and it worked fine. None of that stopped us from doing | our jobs effectively. You did need to learn how your co-workers | communicated, but let me assure you - we were not excellent | writers, we just knew our co-workers well enough to know their | communication styles. | | That is what remote work comes down to, at the end of it all. | Not communication frameworks and rules of when to use what | communication channel - but getting to know your team well | enough that you know how to work together. If you do that, you | succeed, whether remote or in an office. | Benjammer wrote: | >For problems which are not well defined, and where a lot of | decisions need to be taken, especially when they verge toward | the arbitrary, it's a lot easier to have people in a room and | hash it out | | Easier in what way? I think it makes people less frustrated by | having to think hard about a hard problem, and feels "better" | when everyone is saying what they think without any barriers, | but I would guess it's much worse at arriving at good solutions | to challenging business problems. Especially in the case you | describe, with many decision points. I cannot fathom how a | group of people chatting can efficiently work through many | decisions at once, without laying it all out on paper anyway, | whether it's before or after the fact. None of the meeting | conversation matters unless you have someone taking good notes | and summarizing decisions. Which makes me think, why not just | start with the writing part? How is one person's notes about | what a bunch of people said during a real-time conversation | going to be even remotely on the same level as the people | themselves composing their thoughts in writing? The in person | meeting just seems like a space to share emotions and make | shows of power in front of others. | | I think async writing is much better (obviously nothing's | perfect) for removing emotions from the discussion and forcing | people to spend time thinking through their thoughts. The act | of composing a written email, or composing a one-page spec | document can do wonders for people ironing out their own | thoughts and ideas. | | And CC (+BCC) is, imo, the greatest business tool being dropped | nowadays in favor of synchronous comms. CC keeps people | informed without wasting time or disrupting schedules. It also | allows the bosses to keep a much better handle on the comms | culture of the company, since they obviously cannot sit in on | or observe every meeting. | | In person meetings have plenty of specific use cases, but I | don't really understand the drive to make critical decisions | synchronously in the moment during a meeting. Meetings are | great for presentations, Q&A, gathering feedback, etc. | BeetleB wrote: | > and feels "better" when everyone is saying what they think | without any barriers | | Except there are barriers: People can tell you immediately | that they don't understand you before you go off and speak | for too long. Whereas with asynchronous, you could write a | large amount and people won't be able to comprehend it | because you made a mistake early on. | | > I think async writing is much better (obviously nothing's | perfect) for removing emotions from the discussion and | forcing people to spend time thinking through their thoughts. | | I agree on the latter, and disagree on the former. Rarely | have I seen an important decision being discussed async that | is devoid of emotion. With async, emotions are harder to | gauge. This does not lead to people giving others the benefit | of the doubt. It more often leads to people misreading | emotions. | | > And CC (+BCC) is, imo, the greatest business tool being | dropped nowadays in favor of synchronous comms. CC keeps | people informed without wasting time or disrupting schedules. | It also allows the bosses to keep a much better handle on the | comms culture of the company, since they obviously cannot sit | in on or observe every meeting. | | "You know how many emails I get every day? Do you think I | have time to read every email I get?" spoken by every | manager/senior engineer in my company. | | (Although I'll admit, I prefer email to all other async comms | I've seen. Pseudo-IM stuff is the worst). | | There are, for sure, problems with both forms of | communications. Conducting good "live" discussions in a room | is a skill, and most of the participants have to be | proficient at it. The same will go for async communications. | | I think if there are serious, technical/tough issues to | discuss, it is best to have it written up, with proper | "counter" documents, and _then_ get into a room to make the | final decision, with everyone already well informed. It 's a | rare workplace where that will happen. People will respond to | something well written with a one line objection on one minor | aspect of the proposal, etc. | | I | duxup wrote: | Recently, I was so frustrated with some folks poor reading | comprehension that I was thinking about an imaginary | communication system that would allow for decision making where | there were some rules: | | - No responding from mobile devices. The poor response rate is | just too high. | | - The reader is quizzed on the the contents of the | communication before they can respond (randomly generated | quizzes might be amusing). | | - The reader has to retype the original communication | themselves before they can respond.... | | - Timeout value, if no responses that pass the above tests in a | given time frame, whomever asked gets to complete the task with | no input and nobody can change the outcome for ... a week or so | and everyone has to live with it. | | - Anyone who wants to change it after the timeout value better | explain why they didn't ask before hand... no idea how this | would work, yeah we're getting into the weeds here. | | Of course, these are all unworkable in a modern business | environment but man ... I can dream that some folks would who | make demands or provide input at least put a minimum amount of | effort into things before they throw their given wrench into | the works. | yazaddaruvala wrote: | FWIW, it doesn't have to be a "new communication channel", | you just documented some best practices for email. | | > No responding from mobile devices. The poor response rate | is just too high. | | If something was left implicit or de facto re-ask for it to | be explicit or de jure. | | > The reader is quizzed on the the contents of the | communication before they can respond (randomly generated | quizzes might be amusing). > The reader has to retype the | original communication themselves before they can respond.... | | A simple "What's you're rationale?" or if you're less | confident "Sorry, I understand the action items and can | execute them but I didn't follow the motivation. So I can do | an even better job (or so I can make this decision without | you next time), could you walk me through your thought | process?" | | > Timeout value, if no responses that pass the above tests in | a given time frame, whomever asked gets to complete the task | with no input and nobody can change the outcome for ... a | week or so and everyone has to live with it. > Anyone who | wants to change it after the timeout value better explain why | they didn't ask before hand... no idea how this would work, | yeah we're getting into the weeds here. | | This is the most important email best practice that trips up | junior workers. Make the default of your email your desired | outcome. | | Instead of: "Does everyone approve?" then if people respond | asking "Ok, when should I do it? Thursday?". | | Try it like this: "I'll make the change on Thursday. Please | let me know if there are any concerns.". | | 1. Make the default response (i.e. no response) in your | benefit. | | 2. Ensure there is a timeout value attached. | | None of this is difficult or theoretical, its just a set of | best practices you can get your self and others used to. | freedomben wrote: | Oh man, I hear you. The amount of sad encounters (especially | lately) that I've had as a result of people not understanding | what I'm saying because they don't actually read what I wrote | are enraging. I almost quit one client over it because their | IT guy is the worst. He will decide ahead of time what your | email probably says, and that's what he reads into it even if | I wrote the opposite. | | I try to blame myself first for poor communication, but I | asked some mostly independent people to help mediate and they | basically came back and told him to read better and review | past messages if he couldn't properly remember the context. | cperrine wrote: | "I know that you believe you understand what you think I | said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is | not what I meant." | ponker wrote: | You could only have such a system in an environment with a | huge power imbalance between the sender and recipient, like | Tim Cook sending a message to an Apple IC engineer. But with | that kind of power imbalance all of these things happen | anyways -- if an individual engineer gets an email from Tim | Cook he definitely isn't firing off a poorly-thought-out | reply from a mobile device. | kubanczyk wrote: | No, actually the opposite is true. The whole idea of any | policy is to give artificial "power" to one side to | straighten out the situations where the balance of power is | unclear. | | An exec (the remote-only version of Tim Cook if you like) | can use their leverage to change the existing email flows | between all managers and all engineers. Because it's more | scalable than micromanaging one engineer. | | In other words, some people are good at organizing through | setting policies (the better sort of politics) and it's a | good place to discuss such ideas. | | Parent's formulation doesn't look convincing though :) | BeetleB wrote: | Bullets 2 and 3 combined are actually recommended for spoken | communications as well. As the listener, before responding, | it's a good habit to say "This is what I understand about | your proposal" and proceed to summarize and give the original | speaker an opportunity to correct you. | | Probably over half of the communications problems I've seen | at work are because people don't follow this basic practice. | They respond based on what they understood, not based on what | the speaker was saying. | | As one book I read put it: You should be able to reflect | their world view back to them as if you yourself are | advocating for it (even if you completely disagree). When you | do this, they'll believe you understand them. For many | people, only then will they listen to your critiques. | dmos62 wrote: | There's also a subtlety where if you focus too much on what | someone said, you might lose why he said it and how it | pertains to the situation. I've gotten through some | communication problems by focusing on how I understood the | person's position, instead of what the arguments he brought | forth. When you do that you get this funny situation where | it almost seems like each person is participating in | different conversations, but at the same time the | discussion is progressing effortlessly. I think of it as | letting yourself be free to frame and reframe the issue at | hand however you like. | infogulch wrote: | > They respond based on what they understood, not based on | what the speaker was saying. | | Lets say there are three main steps in responding to | communication: 1. Comprehension of the original | communication. 2. Mapping that communication onto the | reader's priors. 3. Crafting a response that communicates | the results of that mapping. | | The problem seems to be that the first two steps are | typically left implicit indefinitely. As a result, there | can be discontinuities lurking hidden in or between any of | those three steps and it's a hell of a lot of work to pry | those discontinuities up to the surface. | BeetleB wrote: | Well, the whole point of repeating back their world view | is to prevent implicitness and reduce hidden | misunderstandings. | | It's really not hard to do. You'll never get there 100%, | but getting to 80%? It's easy. | SJetKaran wrote: | > - No responding from mobile devices. The poor response rate | is just too high. | | For me, the tendency of slack to let users write very short | sentences/phrases is the issue. Etiquette for slack allows | very IM like messages, whereas Emails are generally required | to be more verbose. | asjw wrote: | How can you trust someone's spoken words if they can't write? | | And what's the problem in your opinion with written iterations? | | I usually attend meetings, hours a day, when I have to repeat | the same concepts over and over, multiple times, to the same | people, because they just forget what we established hours | before. | | There are people at my job setting up meetings just to "recap", | which is a poor excuse for "we didn't take notes and/or we | weren't listening and just said yes" | | At least emails are searchable... | tluyben2 wrote: | It is my problem with meetings & calls; I have no issue with | effective meetings, however, a lot of people I work with (but | ofcourse not all), treat meetings and voice calls just as a | reminder/recap. They basically do not remember most of | anything and don't read/write anything either. So the people | who take notes, read the minutes and read the docs have to | sit through hours or rehash per week. | | I cannot imagine how much time/money is lost by this in the | world. | Traster wrote: | I think a big part of this article is that the author doesn't | like being interrupted and therefore has defined this as the | problem. I don't like being interrupted either - but often the | interruptions I experience are the best opportunities I have to | communicate ideas, have creative back and forth, and importantly, | communicate the details that are going to get me shouted at for | saying on the wiki. | | The problem with asynchronous communication is that I need to | predict what information you're going to need, before you need | it. The result is huge amounts of documentation work going on - | 90% of which is useless, and the other 10% is either | undiscoverable or could as just as easily be solved with "has | anyone touched the db" in chat. | | The example is great - because it's absolutely something that | I've seen happen. You post on the group chat "did anyone touch | the db" and someone replies, "Oh Johnny mentioned something about | it the other day". Suddenly you're not searching through | thousands of jira tickets and wiki pages, and most likely not | finding what you want anyway - since no one can predict how | they'll scre up. You just ping Johnny, and if Johnny isn't there? | Well he'll reply when it's back. It's fine. _That_ is part of | flexible working. Flexible working isn 't "I get to pick up my | kids at 12" it's about everyone having flexibility, and everyone | giving flexibility. | | To me, this asynchronous communication plan sets an unacheivable | goal, because you're never going to know what it is other people | are going to need to know, and documenting everything | exhaustively is an uneconomical. | ChrisMarshallNY wrote: | My biggest issue (and it is an issue that has been brought to my | attention), is the old "Emperor Joseph" issue: | | _" Too many words."_ | | I trend prolix. In my essays, this can be corrected by post-edit, | but it is not so easy to do that in realtime. | cmarschner wrote: | Peter F. Drucker, influential author of countless books on | management, once made a very simple argument: there are reader | types, and there are listener types. If you are dealing with a | partner you better know which type they are. | | It doesn't make sense to hand a listener type a manuscript | without talking about the subject, and it doesn't make sense to | set up meetings with a reader type before you hand off the | written argument. | | We should perhaps just accept that an tolerate each other where | our strengths are. | | [1] Peter F. Drucker: Managing Oneself. | https://www.amazon.com/Managing-Oneself-Harvard-Business-Cla... | | Edit: Online: | http://academic.udayton.edu/lawrenceulrich/LeaderArticles/Dr... ___________________________________________________________________ (page generated 2020-06-19 23:00 UTC)