[HN Gopher] Written communication is remote work super power
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       Written communication is remote work super power
        
       Author : snird
       Score  : 340 points
       Date   : 2020-06-19 18:08 UTC (4 hours ago)
        
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       | joe8756438 wrote:
       | I also find keeping a log of work helps provide the right
       | communication at the right time. Especially when remote I find it
       | is easy to forget all the things I've worked on in a given week.
       | It doesn't always make sense to interrupt somebody with updates
       | on something the moment it is done. Colocation provides so many
       | more cues to communicate progress, ideas, etc. in the collocation
       | context the work log is less important as a communication tool.
       | 
       | It so happens, (shameless plug alert) I built a tool [0] that
       | asks me what I did on a daily basis via sms, the responses are
       | organized in my work notes folder. I use this for keeping track
       | of long-running projects that depend on lots of other people for
       | input. I also use it to build a monthly description of work to
       | include with my clients' invoices.
       | 
       | 0. https://www.tatatap.com
        
       | rogerkirkness wrote:
       | Fundamentally, it's faster to write and type than it is to talk
       | and listen.
        
         | nine_k wrote:
         | It hugely depends on one's competence in writing, and one's
         | style of thinking.
        
         | tomplayford wrote:
         | I personally find it much faster to talk and / or draw than to
         | write or type.
        
       | devxpy wrote:
       | Written communication will also give you RSI though
        
       | watwut wrote:
       | We found it faster to call and speak
        
       | tomplayford wrote:
       | Not everyone finds written comms as easy as everyone else.
       | 
       | absolutely +1 to keeping records, but as a form of communication
       | it's not terribly equal.
        
         | Benjammer wrote:
         | I don't know how to phrase this without sounding like a
         | somewhat pedantic asshole, but I cannot understand this
         | reasoning. Are we really saying there is less variability in
         | people's spoken communication abilities than written? This
         | concept is _baffling_ to me. Who in the world talks better than
         | they write?
         | 
         | Also, in my experience, written comms is immensely more
         | accessible and accommodating to diverse teams with people who
         | may have variable levels of expertise with English.
        
           | tomplayford wrote:
           | I was referring to dyslexia. About 5-15% of the US population
           | have some form of dyslexia. Probably should have spelled that
           | out.
           | 
           | I do agree that for non native english speakers, the written
           | word is more accessible.
        
             | Benjammer wrote:
             | I worked with a guy who was legally blind, but could
             | function with a physical screen overlay device that
             | magnified things up to pretty absurd proportions. He was
             | one of the better communicators (in writing) in the entire
             | engineering org. I think we should work on individual cases
             | to make writing more accessible to people for whom it's a
             | struggle. But we shouldn't just throw out writing and it's
             | overall effectiveness. That's not a solution, it's avoiding
             | a hard problem.
             | 
             | We don't just decide to only build one story buildings
             | because of physical accessibility, because we don't want to
             | throw out the efficiencies of multi-story structures.
             | Instead we install ramps, automatic doors, elevators, etc.
             | And we have legal standards for door widths and hallway
             | widths, etc, etc.
        
               | tomplayford wrote:
               | Totally agree - not suggesting we throw out writing, we
               | would all be doomed.
               | 
               | I'm sure your blind colleague wrote well - so do many of
               | my dyslexic colleagues. Doesn't mean it was easy or fast
               | For them though.
               | 
               | I suppose what I'm saying is that there's no one-size-
               | fits all or one thing for all tasks. This article
               | highlights the advantages of writing. And I agree. But it
               | isn't the right work from home comms tool for all
               | combinations of people and tasks.
        
               | Benjammer wrote:
               | Sure, that makes sense. Also I can for sure acknowledge
               | that you answered my initial question. There are
               | definitely people who speak better than they write, when
               | it comes to certain conditions and disabilities that make
               | writing harder than it is for the average person.
        
         | RHSeeger wrote:
         | I'm not sure I follow that statement. I can see an argument
         | that text is not strictly better than verbal communication but,
         | at worst, I'd say it's equal (for people as a whole, not for
         | one person in particular). Some people are better at written
         | communication while some are better at verbal.
        
           | tomplayford wrote:
           | For most people, I'll happily agree with you. From a
           | dyslexic's perspective, being forced to only ever present
           | one's ideas and thoughts in text is pretty restricive.
        
             | RHSeeger wrote:
             | And that's fair.. for a dyslexic, written communication is
             | worse. I wasn't trying to imply that, for all people, which
             | medium is better varies for each individual. I was trying
             | to say that, over the set of all people, which medium is
             | better tends to vary by person. That neither medium is
             | "better" for everyone.
        
           | [deleted]
        
       | baron816 wrote:
       | How do you get your coworkers to start proofreading what they
       | write?
        
       | _curious_ wrote:
       | _Effective_ written communication is remote work super power
        
         | ggurgone wrote:
         | that! I wrote something on the same lines
         | https://giuseppegurgone.com/remote-work-communication/
        
       | jaakl wrote:
       | Video calls are like single-room IRC 20 years ago, before PM,
       | threads etc within same room were added. Probably just matter of
       | months when we will see subrooms, side-channel whisper, history
       | of transcribed logs and many other additions also in video calls.
       | Just current software limitations.
        
         | giglamesh wrote:
         | "Breakout Rooms" is already a feature of Zoom.
        
         | djrogers wrote:
         | Pretty much all of those features you call out are available in
         | modern video chat software - at least the one I have to use
         | daily (Zoom).
        
       | krm01 wrote:
       | In our business, async communication is at the core of how we
       | deal with clients. We design UI/UX for tech companies
       | (http://fairpixels.pro) and in the 10+ years of trying out a
       | dozen of ways to work, async email conversations were by far the
       | most effective for us.
       | 
       | Email over Slack, why? Slack and other chat environments still
       | create the expectation of realtime responses. Also, messages you
       | type there are short and often of a lower quality.
       | 
       | Email is usually more longform. This forces us and clients to
       | think first, write second.
       | 
       | The quality of feedback and communication is just so much better.
        
       | timwaagh wrote:
       | In my team if someone needs to pick up the kids he just says it
       | in chat or even in a video meeting and gets them. I think webex
       | meetings work better than real live ones. If they are tiring
       | that's positive because meetings last too long. If only one
       | person can speak at a time it prevents people from interrupting
       | and makes them conscious not to hog the mic. Async communication?
       | How would you do that? If you have a question and can't find an
       | answer, what do you do? Make a jira user story to document this
       | specific scenario and put yourself as the reporting too? Then
       | assign to a colleague and hope he does something with it? I mean
       | it could possibly work if everyone is accustomed to it, is of a
       | very high level and is also a high level technical writer. But it
       | just seems to me that in practice junior might be too dumb to
       | understand seniors writing. Or senior just writes something
       | that's not legible. Or senior ignores his new assigned story
       | because junior created it and not the product owner. Or scrum
       | master sees the story and thinks: that's not part of sprint goals
       | and throws it out of the board. It seems really slow to work this
       | way.
        
         | eXpl0it3r wrote:
         | I think it really depends on the project size and the kind of
         | work. If you're more in a waterfall model, where the specs are
         | clear and you just got to do it, I can understand how being
         | able to work uninterrupted is a nice-to-have.
         | 
         | But if you work very closely with the business and often run
         | into things that could be done or understood in different ways,
         | having to wait a day or more to get a clarifying response would
         | not work. And this is know-how that can't be written down
         | easily if at all, since a lot of decisions are purely based on
         | experience and historical knowledge.
         | 
         | I used to have this illusionary vision of how everything should
         | be neatly documented, but if you operate on a constantly
         | changing code base, it's really hard to find a good balance.
         | Documentation gets outdated every few weeks and sometimes days,
         | plus most of the time, you don't even know that said
         | documentation has been written. As such, you can't fully trust
         | the documentation and you always have to check out at least
         | part of the code.
         | 
         | What seems to work for me, is documentation that gives a broad
         | overview of a topic and then gives certain pointers into the
         | code. That way you capture the essence of functionality that is
         | likely to remain for a longer time and the transition from
         | documentation to code is made easier.
         | 
         | And finally, if someone is stuck or doesn't understand
         | something, I find it problematic to have the expectation that
         | nobody may be available to read your message for the next few
         | hours or whole day. What is more efficient, someone spending a
         | couple of minutes to provide assistance or someone
         | googling/search Jira/wiki/Confluence for half a day and not
         | making any progress?
        
       | VectorLock wrote:
       | I've noticed the biggest difference between junior developers and
       | more experienced individuals is their written communication
       | abilities. This has led me down the path of trying to find
       | resources to help teach communications to those that I mentor but
       | since this isn't my area of expertise (teaching communications)
       | I'd love if anybody had resources to share.
        
       | cborenstein wrote:
       | A strength (and weakness) of async is that it comes with a higher
       | expectation of writing quality.
       | 
       | When the expectations are too high, it's likely that people won't
       | get things down in the first place.
       | 
       | My team has noticed an unintuitive approach to communication that
       | seems to work better than alternatives. Write better private
       | notes.
       | 
       | Private notes are low-friction. You know what's worth writing.
       | You don't need to worry as much about if it's a mess.
       | 
       | Our approach is to help you make your private notes a little
       | better organized. And to make it fast to share these notes when
       | they might be helpful to someone else too.
       | 
       | It's bytebase.io. Would love the community's feedback.
        
       | lbotos wrote:
       | I gave a talk on this idea few years ago, that even just the
       | _metadata_ of slack messages was enough to make improvements to
       | process. As a support engineer it was useful for us to see when
       | we were asking questions in slack, what the patterns were to
       | improve our team training:
       | 
       | Ticket comes in -> we don't know -> we link to ticket in X
       | channel. Tally the channel links, look at chart, identify
       | patterns.
       | 
       | In an office, this would require me to be an EXTREME micro
       | manager, whereas remotely, I just paid attention and used the
       | meta data to drive our training.
       | 
       | In an office, you could ask the team to keep track, or to tell
       | you what they noticed, but by having a direct tap into the data
       | stream, the team just does the work.
       | 
       | (This requires a high degree of trust, and we were looking
       | _inward_ so it wasn't something that was met with disdain. If we
       | were using this to compare what teams were more responsive and
       | being outwardly critical, well, I don't think that will go over
       | well anywhere.)
        
       | techbio wrote:
       | The discoverability of written thought decreases with its
       | quantity.
       | 
       | It comes down to knowing your sources, not relying on some Bacon
       | number of reinforced echoes.
        
       | MattGaiser wrote:
       | I have a day where everyone else in on flex (basically their day
       | off every two weeks).
       | 
       | I have already cleared two large tickets because I can address
       | the comments they left when I am done another task (because they
       | wrote out their entire thought instead of waiting for a
       | conversation).
       | 
       | I would bet I am 2-3x as productive as I now have hours of
       | uninterrupted time.
        
       | sabujp wrote:
       | i find that i spend 3x more time explaining something through
       | writing than through a quick chat
        
       | Buttons840 wrote:
       | > participants need to be competent at writing and reading prose
       | (it's harder than it sounds)
       | 
       | In my experience, around 1/3rd of developers are not good
       | typists. Writing code isn't really about typing, so it's OK, but
       | when participating in an active conversation in a chat room with
       | multiple people, not being able to type well hurts.
        
       | zawaideh wrote:
       | would be nice to use "they" or alternate between "he" and "she"
       | in the post. Otherwise, it's a great post
        
       | satvikpendem wrote:
       | If I were to ever hire, I'd optimize first for clear, written,
       | long-form asynchronous communication, second for ability for the
       | job at hand, and anything else third.
       | 
       | Having hired some freelancers recently, I've found that there is
       | a world of difference between those who can communicate clearly
       | and those who can't.
        
       | oDot wrote:
       | I wrote Emergency Remote[0] for companies thrown into remote due
       | to the situation.
       | 
       | From my experience, it seems that the reason companies use sync
       | communication and "emulating" an office is not because they don't
       | understand the benefits of async, but because of the required
       | discipline.
       | 
       | Fortunately, that discipline is required vastly more of the
       | initiator of the conversation. This allows the recipient to quite
       | easily refuse sync communication. This way employees can help
       | each other out and get used to async.
       | 
       | [0]: https://www.emergencyremote.com/EmergencyRemote.pdf
        
       | DenisM wrote:
       | We're finding it quite effective to record short 2-minute videos
       | and circulate those. Everyone can talk and point things on the
       | screen, not everyone can write or even read attentively.
        
         | chinigo wrote:
         | Are these screen recordings with narration or video recordings
         | from a webcam?
         | 
         | Personal preference of course, but I'd be less able to express
         | myself in a video recording than in an audio recording or
         | written document, out of pure self-consciousness.
        
           | DenisM wrote:
           | They are all screens. Rarely I record a design on the
           | whiteboard and I end up in the frame, but I'm fine with it.
           | BTW this also works much better than any spec.
           | 
           | Self consciousness is an interesting problem. I prefer seeing
           | faces on the screen during the stand-up (such as it is in the
           | days of COVID), but I was told many hesitate to be on camera.
           | 
           | Did you ever find a way out of this? Join.me has very small
           | video size, I imagine this is one way to lessen the stress.
           | Alas it doesn't work for me - I need to see the facial
           | expressions because I need to know when I lost the audience,
           | and because I find it hard to pay attention to a disembodied
           | (and heavily compressed) voice.
        
             | gav wrote:
             | > Self consciousness is an interesting problem. I prefer
             | seeing faces on the screen during the stand-up (such as it
             | is in the days of COVID), but I was told many hesitate to
             | be on camera.
             | 
             | Getting people to turn on their cameras has always seemed
             | to be a challenge in my experience, but it does seem
             | contagious, once a few people do, everyone starts to over
             | time.
             | 
             | It makes a huge difference to see peoples faces over
             | talking into a void. I think empathy is a bit part of it.
        
       | sytse wrote:
       | When writing you are not getting feedback (give more context, go
       | faster, what concerns to address). A back and forth can be a much
       | faster way (both in total time elapsed and time spend) to resolve
       | something. At GitLab we recommend async by default and jump to
       | sync when you start going back and forth.
       | https://about.gitlab.com/company/culture/all-remote/asynchro...
        
       | nine_k wrote:
       | Real-time, spoken communication is on-site work super power.
       | 
       | When uncertainty is high, and an intense discussion is needed,
       | spoken word is much more efficient, from my experience. People
       | are fundamentally better at speaking quickly and taking proper
       | turns. This all is much slower and more cumbersome in video call,
       | phone call, or a text chat. The perceived sequence breaks, the
       | turn-taking protocol breaks (unless enforced by a moderator, at
       | the expense of speed), and the communication become slower, less
       | efficient, and more tiresome.
       | 
       | I _love_ neatly written logically organized texts. But to produce
       | such a text, a lot of the questions it answers should be already
       | understood, answered, and arranged in a easy-to-consume order.
       | There are situations when this is not possible, and _finding out_
       | the scope of the problem and its structure is exactly the task.
       | Here 's where face-to-face verbal communication rules.
       | 
       | Of course, providing some written output after such a meeting is
       | important, too, be it nicely written minutiae (a shared document
       | on a large screen works well), or just a photo of the whiteboard.
       | 
       | So, _both_ written and face-to-face types of communication are
       | important. None can efficiently replace the other.
        
         | marcosdumay wrote:
         | Latency is the video-call superweakness.
         | 
         | But with text there are tools to overcome this problem. Text
         | scales into larger groups, and accepts days long latency.
         | People adapt quite well to hierarchical chat and shared co-
         | authored documents. Any group larger than half a dozen people
         | will organize better around text. But any large group is also
         | composed of smaller ones, that can always benefit from on-site
         | talking.
         | 
         | My impression, after some time of forced remote-only
         | interaction is that both modes are very important, but spoken
         | on-site communication is ideal for a very small share of the
         | total communication.
        
         | e40 wrote:
         | I agree with you partially. I found something interesting, with
         | this everyone work from home: I'm able to communicate with
         | certain people more effectively via zoom.
         | 
         | I think it boils down to with zoom, you are literally in
         | someone's face, and it's very obvious when you aren't fully
         | focused on them.
         | 
         | Perhaps the new way, with zoom, gave some people an opportunity
         | to reset their manners? Not clear what the real reason behind
         | it is, but I noticed it immediately.
         | 
         | What a great bonus it was.
        
       | danielovichdk wrote:
       | Actually funny this question. Because come to think about it,
       | text is by far my preffered way to communicate.
       | 
       | That goes for work and for serious-private matters.
       | 
       | The absolute strengt with text is that it gives you history by
       | default - you can save it.
       | 
       | While you can save text it's also eaiser to the search.
       | 
       | The mental model around writing and communicating is the mental
       | proces that goes into it, and which is also the reason i disagree
       | with people that believe you should be good at writing - if you
       | haven't thought about what you want to communicate you can't
       | write it nor speak about it. Why would you be better at
       | communicating by speech rather than text? Sure it's faster to
       | speak or video, but does that give a better result? I say no way
        
         | Gibbon1 wrote:
         | I spent about ten years with field service as part of my job.
         | 
         | What that taught me is every form of communication has it's
         | uses. For full effect you often need multiple types. Talk on
         | the phone. Send a follow up email. Then talk on the phone
         | again. Update the original email into a formal doc. Two
         | engineers with a whiteboard can solve some problems in a few
         | minutes that would take days of back and forth over text.
         | 
         | Formal text though is usually very good. Especially if the
         | author can produce high quality output quickly. This is my
         | particular failing.
        
         | EvanAnderson wrote:
         | It's worth noting that some people specifically see verbal
         | communication's undocumented-by-default nature as a feature.
         | 
         | When I was younger I found that idea very offensive. I
         | considered people who held that viewpoint to be suspect
         | (engaging in political machinations, or using fluid
         | recollections of conversations to their advantage). I still
         | think there's a grain of truth to my suspicions, but I've
         | learned to recognize that there are acceptable reasons for
         | undocumented conversations.
        
           | Buttons840 wrote:
           | There's still phone calls. Any co-worker you trust enough to
           | have an "off the record" conversation with wouldn't turn down
           | a "hey, can I call you?" request. They might think it's weird
           | at first, but would understand later I'm sure.
        
             | RHSeeger wrote:
             | I've called coworkers literally just to rant to someone
             | before. Sometimes, you need to complain, but having a
             | record of that is not helpful in any way.
        
       | jugg1es wrote:
       | In my experience, the people most averse to writing stuff down
       | are usually the remote engineers. Remote workers don't typically
       | have the same cultural influence as local employees, so they tend
       | to be somewhat alienated and therefore have fewer expectations
       | put on them. I think this disincentivizes remote workers from
       | fully assimilating into the culture and leads to less interest in
       | communication. Inevitably, this ends up affecting their
       | willingness to properly document.
       | 
       | Just my opinion built on my anecdotal experience.
        
         | Benjammer wrote:
         | I have the exact opposite anecdotal experience. Remote
         | engineers I've worked with have put a lot more effort into
         | their writing because they understand that it's one of their
         | only avenues to participate in the company communication
         | culture.
        
       | siculars wrote:
       | People ask me what do they need to be good at to work at Google.
       | I jokingly (but kind of seriously) tell them it's just like grade
       | school - reading and writing. 80% of the job is reading, editing
       | and commenting on docs people wrote or writing docs people will
       | read.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | rakoo wrote:
       | Interestingly, I've been thinking about organization at work and
       | I feel like there are many forms of async communications that
       | should or could be merged, because of how common they are. We
       | need to communicate announcements, ask for opinions on changes,
       | document a process, list relevant steps to a change that is
       | happening, ...
       | 
       | In my mind there are multiple goals a perfect system should have:
       | 
       | - Must be easy to create a new "conversation" - Must be possible
       | to write long form content in a "post", where "post" is the first
       | item in a conversation - Must be able to have a meaningful
       | conversation with replies to specific points - Must be able to
       | change the content of the "post" based on the discussion that
       | happened (such that a "post" can be a poll, participants discuss
       | options, and the final decision is summarized) - Must be able to
       | easily enter and exit the full conversation - Must be able to
       | easily link the full conversation, for referencing - Must be able
       | to set metadata (dates, relevant people, status, stuff like that)
       | 
       | We have many systems, but none really fits the bill:
       | 
       | - Email is probably the worst, because you can't modify the
       | original message, you can't link to it and you can't
       | transparently enter the conversation if you weren't part of it
       | initially. We've all seen the "adding XYZ to the loop" that
       | provide 0 content to the conversation. There's also the whole
       | issue about top-posting and lack of proper threading that make
       | having a conversation difficult. Probably just a client issue
       | rather than a protocol issue though - NNTP is a step above, but
       | ironically because it has remained niche the clients and the
       | etiquette help having a proper conversation. Still doesn't fill
       | the bill - Ticket systems are paradoxically pretty good for this
       | situation. They do contain the necessary structure for
       | incorporating metadata, in all the various forms ingenuity can
       | come up with.... sometimes too much ingenuity, such as the labels
       | and fields and knobs that were needed for that project years ago
       | are still here, cluttering a lot of space because most aren't
       | actually needed anyway. Imagine using such a mess - A wiki is
       | nice, but the emphasis on structuring is detrimental for flows
       | that go outside of documenting. Sometimes you just want a linear
       | list of conversations ordered by date - Google docs and
       | associated are good for really long forms for the initial "post",
       | but are not very good at structured conversation
       | 
       | Perhaps the best software, for all those use cases, is a forum
       | software. I'm partial to the (old) reddit UX or the HN UX; remove
       | the useless voting and it's almost the perfect way to
       | communicate. The interface gives you the space to actually take
       | time about what you want to say and properly articulate it. HN is
       | a bit terse here, reddit gives you formatting helps to nicely
       | present your ideas and makes reading it easier.
       | 
       | Only drawback is that they are text only, and sometimes you need
       | to include non-text (a screenshot of the planned changes, a video
       | of the flow to document, a map of the place you're discussing
       | about, ...)
       | 
       | (If it is not clear already, I'm still sad at the death of Google
       | Wave. 10 years later and it's still the future:
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p6pgxLaDdQw)
        
       | jka wrote:
       | Yep, this article rings true on a number of levels, particularly
       | regarding asynchronous work and lack of interrupts.
       | 
       | Anecdotally, I'm working on a software project at the moment with
       | a small team of volunteers.
       | 
       | To explain some context: I'm the sole developer currently, and
       | I'm treating communications to the team as high-value for us, now
       | and in future - the same way that I'd like to think that I treat
       | the code (I write this with the awareness I've recently cut some
       | corners; but cleanup is on the cards).
       | 
       | One observation is that I'm _really enjoying_ only using email
       | for that communication.
       | 
       | Sometimes I code for a couple of days before checking or
       | answering emails, simply based on what feels most productive or
       | compelling at the time.
       | 
       | As a result I never get distracted by pings while working, and
       | feel much more comfortable taking time while writing messages and
       | replies, generally allowing me to be a bit more thoughtful.
       | 
       | And there's only one communication platform. My attention's not
       | split between instant messages, emails, and other organizational
       | tools.
       | 
       | This situation's probably an edge case based on the small team
       | size and my personal preferences, but it's been an interesting
       | experience.
       | 
       | I don't know how well this approach would scale* -- and an open
       | question based on my experience and also raised by the article
       | is: how and where do you organize that content so that it can be
       | discovered by newcomers to the team?
       | 
       | *Example: crisis moments, such as technical outages, would be
       | tricky to manage for a multi-person operations team
        
         | jgilias wrote:
         | I was lucky enough to be able to use the Twist app for team
         | communications for some time. I highly recommend it to people
         | willing to go the async way. It feels like a perfect cross
         | between e-mail, forum and slack.
        
           | karussell wrote:
           | Yeah, I really liked the concept, but when we tried it 2
           | years ago or so it had several bugs regarding never getting a
           | notification although it should and showing me that I have a
           | new message although everything was read. We reported them
           | but nothing changed. And all team members had these problems.
           | Probably they have fixed them now but we unfortunately we
           | switched to slack and now it is very unlikely we switch back
           | due to these serious problems.
        
         | vasco wrote:
         | I like flow as much as anyone but find the thought of working
         | multiple days without speaking to my team to be crazy, I'd feel
         | like none of us would be able to move as fast alone as we do
         | together, and half the time would end up following rabbitholes,
         | or spending too much time on the wrong things because we'd
         | never check in for an opinion. The only way I'd see a full or
         | more days of work without communicating working well is if we'd
         | work on larger amounts of releasable code at once, but then
         | there's more chances of conflicts, reviews get longer and
         | harder to do and there's more risk releasing.
         | 
         | I think having a team with 1 rotating person responsible to
         | handle all external requests per week, and everyone else being
         | focused on their work but still being able to pair when needed,
         | ask questions provide guidance, etc to be really cool. All of
         | this remote, of course.
        
           | joe8756438 wrote:
           | That's an interesting idea regarding rotating external
           | request handling. Do the team members not currently on call
           | forward requests to those on call? How do you manage
           | continuity of communication once the rotation has shifted?
        
           | jka wrote:
           | Thanks, yep, those are all legitimate concerns about whether
           | this would scale.
           | 
           | It's occurred to me that Stripe's email transparency[1] could
           | help (although they discovered limitations with that approach
           | too, and have been good about publishing those).
           | 
           | We're lucky (in some ways) not to have a large inbound
           | feedback load, which is surely also a factor. Thanks for the
           | external-request rotation suggestion; that's a good idea to
           | provide a refresher from focus work when the burden starts to
           | affect the team.
           | 
           | Honestly though, I have to re-state that it's been _so_
           | refreshing and enabling to work this way that I wonder
           | whether there 'd be ways to scale up and solve the consensus,
           | conflict and opinion problems you mention.
           | 
           | Despite that, I'd add another problem to the pile: not
           | everyone is going to be able to contribute at equal pace at
           | all times (for various completely valid reasons) in a large
           | enough team - and there needs to be genuine cultural
           | understanding and acceptance of that which I believe is
           | frequently absent from high-intensity startup environments.
           | 
           | [1] - https://stripe.com/blog/email-transparency
        
         | u801e wrote:
         | > One observation is that I'm really enjoying only using email
         | for that communication.
         | 
         | If it were up to me, I would use a self-hosted NNTP server as
         | an internal forum for communication and reserve email for one-
         | on-one private communication.
         | 
         | > As a result I never get distracted by pings while working
         | 
         | I actually disable notifications from chat applications and
         | email and just make sure I check them periodically throughout
         | the day. No one has ever complained that I took 10 to 20
         | minutes to respond to a question. Though if there's an active
         | discussion going on, I will participate as needed.
         | 
         | > how and where do you organize that content so that it can be
         | discovered by newcomers to the team?
         | 
         | Newsgroups would typically have a monthly group FAQ post. While
         | that could be done via email, newcomers wouldn't be able to see
         | emails sent before they started.
         | 
         | > crisis moments, such as technical outages, would be tricky to
         | manage for a multi-person operations team
         | 
         | The monthly post with the up-to-date operation procedures to
         | follow for technical issues could work and could be checked for
         | out-of-date information before posting (which is something that
         | wiki documents don't handle well).
        
       | jackjeff wrote:
       | Async communication is suitable to resolve some kind of issues.
       | But it has two drawbacks: participants need to be competent at
       | writing and reading prose (it's harder than it sounds) and even
       | with the best of care your ideas can easily be misinterpreted
       | resulting in the loss of an async cycle.
       | 
       | For problems which are not well defined, and where a lot of
       | decisions need to be taken, especially when they verge toward the
       | arbitrary, it's a lot easier to have people in a room and hash it
       | out. A remote meeting can work too.
       | 
       | The problem with meetings are those which are not well prepared.
       | There shall be an agenda and proper minutes should be produced.
       | 
       | For most complicated matters actions/investigations are supposed
       | to be followed up. In a way that's how you mix async with sync
       | communication.
        
         | codingdave wrote:
         | > misinterpreted resulting in the loss of an async cycle.
         | 
         | True, but readily fixed with "Can we talk about this when you
         | have a minute?"
         | 
         | Also, losing "an async cycle" is a completely alien concept to
         | me. I've been working remotely for a decade, never heard that
         | phrase, and not entirely sure why it matters. Does a
         | conversation that takes 14 Slack messages make the business
         | less efficient than one that only took 11?
         | 
         | Honestly, I'm not trying to just nitpick, but why would a room
         | full of people be beneficial to decisions "when they verge
         | toward the arbitrary"? Wouldn't that be the perfect time for
         | everyone to send their async opinions, and let a single
         | decision-maker just decide? Large calls/meetings work when you
         | don't know what you don't know - to get all the information on
         | the table, and have all the knowledge in the same place at the
         | same time. You talk, give answers where needed, assign some
         | action items to people, and go back to your async lives.
         | 
         | As far as the initial statement that you must be competent at
         | writing and reading prose... I'd love to hear more about that
         | than "it's harder than it sounds". I've worked remotely with
         | people with dyslexia and reading disabilities and C-level
         | personalities that refused to get in-depth in any single
         | communication. And one guy who had all those traits - the
         | CEO... and it worked fine. None of that stopped us from doing
         | our jobs effectively. You did need to learn how your co-workers
         | communicated, but let me assure you - we were not excellent
         | writers, we just knew our co-workers well enough to know their
         | communication styles.
         | 
         | That is what remote work comes down to, at the end of it all.
         | Not communication frameworks and rules of when to use what
         | communication channel - but getting to know your team well
         | enough that you know how to work together. If you do that, you
         | succeed, whether remote or in an office.
        
         | Benjammer wrote:
         | >For problems which are not well defined, and where a lot of
         | decisions need to be taken, especially when they verge toward
         | the arbitrary, it's a lot easier to have people in a room and
         | hash it out
         | 
         | Easier in what way? I think it makes people less frustrated by
         | having to think hard about a hard problem, and feels "better"
         | when everyone is saying what they think without any barriers,
         | but I would guess it's much worse at arriving at good solutions
         | to challenging business problems. Especially in the case you
         | describe, with many decision points. I cannot fathom how a
         | group of people chatting can efficiently work through many
         | decisions at once, without laying it all out on paper anyway,
         | whether it's before or after the fact. None of the meeting
         | conversation matters unless you have someone taking good notes
         | and summarizing decisions. Which makes me think, why not just
         | start with the writing part? How is one person's notes about
         | what a bunch of people said during a real-time conversation
         | going to be even remotely on the same level as the people
         | themselves composing their thoughts in writing? The in person
         | meeting just seems like a space to share emotions and make
         | shows of power in front of others.
         | 
         | I think async writing is much better (obviously nothing's
         | perfect) for removing emotions from the discussion and forcing
         | people to spend time thinking through their thoughts. The act
         | of composing a written email, or composing a one-page spec
         | document can do wonders for people ironing out their own
         | thoughts and ideas.
         | 
         | And CC (+BCC) is, imo, the greatest business tool being dropped
         | nowadays in favor of synchronous comms. CC keeps people
         | informed without wasting time or disrupting schedules. It also
         | allows the bosses to keep a much better handle on the comms
         | culture of the company, since they obviously cannot sit in on
         | or observe every meeting.
         | 
         | In person meetings have plenty of specific use cases, but I
         | don't really understand the drive to make critical decisions
         | synchronously in the moment during a meeting. Meetings are
         | great for presentations, Q&A, gathering feedback, etc.
        
           | BeetleB wrote:
           | > and feels "better" when everyone is saying what they think
           | without any barriers
           | 
           | Except there are barriers: People can tell you immediately
           | that they don't understand you before you go off and speak
           | for too long. Whereas with asynchronous, you could write a
           | large amount and people won't be able to comprehend it
           | because you made a mistake early on.
           | 
           | > I think async writing is much better (obviously nothing's
           | perfect) for removing emotions from the discussion and
           | forcing people to spend time thinking through their thoughts.
           | 
           | I agree on the latter, and disagree on the former. Rarely
           | have I seen an important decision being discussed async that
           | is devoid of emotion. With async, emotions are harder to
           | gauge. This does not lead to people giving others the benefit
           | of the doubt. It more often leads to people misreading
           | emotions.
           | 
           | > And CC (+BCC) is, imo, the greatest business tool being
           | dropped nowadays in favor of synchronous comms. CC keeps
           | people informed without wasting time or disrupting schedules.
           | It also allows the bosses to keep a much better handle on the
           | comms culture of the company, since they obviously cannot sit
           | in on or observe every meeting.
           | 
           | "You know how many emails I get every day? Do you think I
           | have time to read every email I get?" spoken by every
           | manager/senior engineer in my company.
           | 
           | (Although I'll admit, I prefer email to all other async comms
           | I've seen. Pseudo-IM stuff is the worst).
           | 
           | There are, for sure, problems with both forms of
           | communications. Conducting good "live" discussions in a room
           | is a skill, and most of the participants have to be
           | proficient at it. The same will go for async communications.
           | 
           | I think if there are serious, technical/tough issues to
           | discuss, it is best to have it written up, with proper
           | "counter" documents, and _then_ get into a room to make the
           | final decision, with everyone already well informed. It 's a
           | rare workplace where that will happen. People will respond to
           | something well written with a one line objection on one minor
           | aspect of the proposal, etc.
           | 
           | I
        
         | duxup wrote:
         | Recently, I was so frustrated with some folks poor reading
         | comprehension that I was thinking about an imaginary
         | communication system that would allow for decision making where
         | there were some rules:
         | 
         | - No responding from mobile devices. The poor response rate is
         | just too high.
         | 
         | - The reader is quizzed on the the contents of the
         | communication before they can respond (randomly generated
         | quizzes might be amusing).
         | 
         | - The reader has to retype the original communication
         | themselves before they can respond....
         | 
         | - Timeout value, if no responses that pass the above tests in a
         | given time frame, whomever asked gets to complete the task with
         | no input and nobody can change the outcome for ... a week or so
         | and everyone has to live with it.
         | 
         | - Anyone who wants to change it after the timeout value better
         | explain why they didn't ask before hand... no idea how this
         | would work, yeah we're getting into the weeds here.
         | 
         | Of course, these are all unworkable in a modern business
         | environment but man ... I can dream that some folks would who
         | make demands or provide input at least put a minimum amount of
         | effort into things before they throw their given wrench into
         | the works.
        
           | yazaddaruvala wrote:
           | FWIW, it doesn't have to be a "new communication channel",
           | you just documented some best practices for email.
           | 
           | > No responding from mobile devices. The poor response rate
           | is just too high.
           | 
           | If something was left implicit or de facto re-ask for it to
           | be explicit or de jure.
           | 
           | > The reader is quizzed on the the contents of the
           | communication before they can respond (randomly generated
           | quizzes might be amusing). > The reader has to retype the
           | original communication themselves before they can respond....
           | 
           | A simple "What's you're rationale?" or if you're less
           | confident "Sorry, I understand the action items and can
           | execute them but I didn't follow the motivation. So I can do
           | an even better job (or so I can make this decision without
           | you next time), could you walk me through your thought
           | process?"
           | 
           | > Timeout value, if no responses that pass the above tests in
           | a given time frame, whomever asked gets to complete the task
           | with no input and nobody can change the outcome for ... a
           | week or so and everyone has to live with it. > Anyone who
           | wants to change it after the timeout value better explain why
           | they didn't ask before hand... no idea how this would work,
           | yeah we're getting into the weeds here.
           | 
           | This is the most important email best practice that trips up
           | junior workers. Make the default of your email your desired
           | outcome.
           | 
           | Instead of: "Does everyone approve?" then if people respond
           | asking "Ok, when should I do it? Thursday?".
           | 
           | Try it like this: "I'll make the change on Thursday. Please
           | let me know if there are any concerns.".
           | 
           | 1. Make the default response (i.e. no response) in your
           | benefit.
           | 
           | 2. Ensure there is a timeout value attached.
           | 
           | None of this is difficult or theoretical, its just a set of
           | best practices you can get your self and others used to.
        
           | freedomben wrote:
           | Oh man, I hear you. The amount of sad encounters (especially
           | lately) that I've had as a result of people not understanding
           | what I'm saying because they don't actually read what I wrote
           | are enraging. I almost quit one client over it because their
           | IT guy is the worst. He will decide ahead of time what your
           | email probably says, and that's what he reads into it even if
           | I wrote the opposite.
           | 
           | I try to blame myself first for poor communication, but I
           | asked some mostly independent people to help mediate and they
           | basically came back and told him to read better and review
           | past messages if he couldn't properly remember the context.
        
             | cperrine wrote:
             | "I know that you believe you understand what you think I
             | said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is
             | not what I meant."
        
           | ponker wrote:
           | You could only have such a system in an environment with a
           | huge power imbalance between the sender and recipient, like
           | Tim Cook sending a message to an Apple IC engineer. But with
           | that kind of power imbalance all of these things happen
           | anyways -- if an individual engineer gets an email from Tim
           | Cook he definitely isn't firing off a poorly-thought-out
           | reply from a mobile device.
        
             | kubanczyk wrote:
             | No, actually the opposite is true. The whole idea of any
             | policy is to give artificial "power" to one side to
             | straighten out the situations where the balance of power is
             | unclear.
             | 
             | An exec (the remote-only version of Tim Cook if you like)
             | can use their leverage to change the existing email flows
             | between all managers and all engineers. Because it's more
             | scalable than micromanaging one engineer.
             | 
             | In other words, some people are good at organizing through
             | setting policies (the better sort of politics) and it's a
             | good place to discuss such ideas.
             | 
             | Parent's formulation doesn't look convincing though :)
        
           | BeetleB wrote:
           | Bullets 2 and 3 combined are actually recommended for spoken
           | communications as well. As the listener, before responding,
           | it's a good habit to say "This is what I understand about
           | your proposal" and proceed to summarize and give the original
           | speaker an opportunity to correct you.
           | 
           | Probably over half of the communications problems I've seen
           | at work are because people don't follow this basic practice.
           | They respond based on what they understood, not based on what
           | the speaker was saying.
           | 
           | As one book I read put it: You should be able to reflect
           | their world view back to them as if you yourself are
           | advocating for it (even if you completely disagree). When you
           | do this, they'll believe you understand them. For many
           | people, only then will they listen to your critiques.
        
             | dmos62 wrote:
             | There's also a subtlety where if you focus too much on what
             | someone said, you might lose why he said it and how it
             | pertains to the situation. I've gotten through some
             | communication problems by focusing on how I understood the
             | person's position, instead of what the arguments he brought
             | forth. When you do that you get this funny situation where
             | it almost seems like each person is participating in
             | different conversations, but at the same time the
             | discussion is progressing effortlessly. I think of it as
             | letting yourself be free to frame and reframe the issue at
             | hand however you like.
        
             | infogulch wrote:
             | > They respond based on what they understood, not based on
             | what the speaker was saying.
             | 
             | Lets say there are three main steps in responding to
             | communication: 1. Comprehension of the original
             | communication. 2. Mapping that communication onto the
             | reader's priors. 3. Crafting a response that communicates
             | the results of that mapping.
             | 
             | The problem seems to be that the first two steps are
             | typically left implicit indefinitely. As a result, there
             | can be discontinuities lurking hidden in or between any of
             | those three steps and it's a hell of a lot of work to pry
             | those discontinuities up to the surface.
        
               | BeetleB wrote:
               | Well, the whole point of repeating back their world view
               | is to prevent implicitness and reduce hidden
               | misunderstandings.
               | 
               | It's really not hard to do. You'll never get there 100%,
               | but getting to 80%? It's easy.
        
           | SJetKaran wrote:
           | > - No responding from mobile devices. The poor response rate
           | is just too high.
           | 
           | For me, the tendency of slack to let users write very short
           | sentences/phrases is the issue. Etiquette for slack allows
           | very IM like messages, whereas Emails are generally required
           | to be more verbose.
        
         | asjw wrote:
         | How can you trust someone's spoken words if they can't write?
         | 
         | And what's the problem in your opinion with written iterations?
         | 
         | I usually attend meetings, hours a day, when I have to repeat
         | the same concepts over and over, multiple times, to the same
         | people, because they just forget what we established hours
         | before.
         | 
         | There are people at my job setting up meetings just to "recap",
         | which is a poor excuse for "we didn't take notes and/or we
         | weren't listening and just said yes"
         | 
         | At least emails are searchable...
        
           | tluyben2 wrote:
           | It is my problem with meetings & calls; I have no issue with
           | effective meetings, however, a lot of people I work with (but
           | ofcourse not all), treat meetings and voice calls just as a
           | reminder/recap. They basically do not remember most of
           | anything and don't read/write anything either. So the people
           | who take notes, read the minutes and read the docs have to
           | sit through hours or rehash per week.
           | 
           | I cannot imagine how much time/money is lost by this in the
           | world.
        
       | Traster wrote:
       | I think a big part of this article is that the author doesn't
       | like being interrupted and therefore has defined this as the
       | problem. I don't like being interrupted either - but often the
       | interruptions I experience are the best opportunities I have to
       | communicate ideas, have creative back and forth, and importantly,
       | communicate the details that are going to get me shouted at for
       | saying on the wiki.
       | 
       | The problem with asynchronous communication is that I need to
       | predict what information you're going to need, before you need
       | it. The result is huge amounts of documentation work going on -
       | 90% of which is useless, and the other 10% is either
       | undiscoverable or could as just as easily be solved with "has
       | anyone touched the db" in chat.
       | 
       | The example is great - because it's absolutely something that
       | I've seen happen. You post on the group chat "did anyone touch
       | the db" and someone replies, "Oh Johnny mentioned something about
       | it the other day". Suddenly you're not searching through
       | thousands of jira tickets and wiki pages, and most likely not
       | finding what you want anyway - since no one can predict how
       | they'll scre up. You just ping Johnny, and if Johnny isn't there?
       | Well he'll reply when it's back. It's fine. _That_ is part of
       | flexible working. Flexible working isn 't "I get to pick up my
       | kids at 12" it's about everyone having flexibility, and everyone
       | giving flexibility.
       | 
       | To me, this asynchronous communication plan sets an unacheivable
       | goal, because you're never going to know what it is other people
       | are going to need to know, and documenting everything
       | exhaustively is an uneconomical.
        
       | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
       | My biggest issue (and it is an issue that has been brought to my
       | attention), is the old "Emperor Joseph" issue:
       | 
       |  _" Too many words."_
       | 
       | I trend prolix. In my essays, this can be corrected by post-edit,
       | but it is not so easy to do that in realtime.
        
       | cmarschner wrote:
       | Peter F. Drucker, influential author of countless books on
       | management, once made a very simple argument: there are reader
       | types, and there are listener types. If you are dealing with a
       | partner you better know which type they are.
       | 
       | It doesn't make sense to hand a listener type a manuscript
       | without talking about the subject, and it doesn't make sense to
       | set up meetings with a reader type before you hand off the
       | written argument.
       | 
       | We should perhaps just accept that an tolerate each other where
       | our strengths are.
       | 
       | [1] Peter F. Drucker: Managing Oneself.
       | https://www.amazon.com/Managing-Oneself-Harvard-Business-Cla...
       | 
       | Edit: Online:
       | http://academic.udayton.edu/lawrenceulrich/LeaderArticles/Dr...
        
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