[HN Gopher] It's easier to manage four people than one person
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       It's easier to manage four people than one person
        
       Author : chesterarthur
       Score  : 176 points
       Date   : 2020-07-27 13:34 UTC (9 hours ago)
        
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       | phjesusthatguy3 wrote:
       | I'm sure some companies have valid business-related reasons for
       | having managers with one report, but the only times I've ever had
       | one report was when my organization was testing _me_.
        
       | rusabd wrote:
       | It is easier to handle 4 children than one as well. The
       | realization came when I wasn't able to hold 3 children with just
       | two hands and had to rethink my approach
        
       | mathattack wrote:
       | This is similar to what I've seen. Most toxic boss relationships
       | are where the boss has only one person to dump on, or the other
       | extreme of too many folks to stay on top of.
        
       | ck425 wrote:
       | Hmm I've had new managers a couple of times. It's only now that
       | it occurs to me that sticking a new manager with an
       | intern/grad/early career is a bad idea. I've suffered because my
       | managers weren't yet particularly good managers and in both cases
       | they were new or newish managers. I never held it against them
       | but at the time I never questioned it either. Looking back it
       | seems kind an obviously bad idea to stick us together. The best
       | manager I had as a grad was a super experienced manager who
       | really helped me get my shit together.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | rdiddly wrote:
       | You really don't know anything when you have just one of
       | anything.
       | 
       | The stock market went up after I flapped my arms! I might be
       | controlling it or it might be a coincidence. Try it again a few
       | times and you realize you're not gonna be rich.
       | 
       | I looked at one row in my data table and discovered that it has a
       | wacky value! It might be just the one row or I might have bigger
       | problems. Look at more rows to find out.
       | 
       | One witness tells the police "Jeff committed the crime!" Well
       | Jeff might've done it, but maybe the witness just hates Jeff, or
       | maybe they're the guilty one, trying to deflect blame. Detectives
       | have to look for corroboration.
       | 
       | One plane crashes into one of the WTC towers! Could be an
       | accident. Wasn't until the 2nd one that we knew it was
       | intentional.
       | 
       | One person is dancing! Could be spontaneous, could be a planned
       | routine. Add a second person doing the exact same moves at the
       | same time, and now you know it's planned.
       | 
       | My wife sure is great, she's the best! Well maybe she's just one
       | of many great wives. Probably she is, but in that case you just
       | decide to ignore the other data points and provide your own
       | corroboration! ;)
        
         | hinkley wrote:
         | Two different bosses weighed in on this:
         | 
         | 1) You haven't proven you can do something until you've done it
         | a second time.
         | 
         | 2) Anything worth doing is worth 2 people doing.
        
         | irrational wrote:
         | >Well maybe she's just one of many great wives.
         | 
         | So, people in polyamorous relationships are just looking for
         | more data points?
        
       | agumonkey wrote:
       | Maybe a root factor in societal structures too. 2 people is an
       | unstable system, a third party helps.
        
       | an_opabinia wrote:
       | > that's 100% bad feedback from your reports. If the report
       | doesn't do well, that's 100% of your reports that aren't
       | succeeding.
       | 
       | It kind of goes to show, if it's a bad measurement for N=1, just
       | because it's a better measurement for N=7 it may still be
       | meaningless. Your employees are not a science experiment.
       | 
       | Another way of looking at it is, if 100% of Mark Zuckerberg's
       | employees, in say 2006-2007, were saying he was a bad manager, if
       | 100% were "not succeeding," would it matter?
       | 
       | Another way of looking at it is, while 90% of businesses benefit
       | from an objective look at manager performance, don't you want to
       | work for the 10% where it doesn't matter instead of the 10% where
       | it matters and they actually score well?
        
         | [deleted]
        
       | corpMaverick wrote:
       | It can happen when there are a lot of power dynamics that can
       | create a dysfunctional org structure. In one company I worked the
       | Director had like 20 direct reports, and then went 3 more levels
       | deep with one or two reports each.
        
       | notenoughhorses wrote:
       | Even worse, 2 managers, one direct report
        
       | temporalparts wrote:
       | One interesting detail is that this describes 99% of internships
       | in Tech. Interns are given to a single full time engineer who
       | have never managed before because it is their first foray into
       | management.
       | 
       | Yet I don't hear a lot of complaint about the program (or maybe
       | I've not been listening hard enough). I wonder what the different
       | about internships.
        
         | pmiller2 wrote:
         | I can think of a few things. Interns are even less experienced
         | than junior engineers, so they might not know when they're in a
         | bad situation. They also have a pretty decent incentive to not
         | make waves, since they're typically being graded on their work,
         | and evaluated for the possibility of a return offer.
         | 
         | On the other side of the equation, when I mentored an intern at
         | my company, I was given a great deal of support and training in
         | how to help them have a successful internship. This may or may
         | not be the case for a new manager.
        
       | hartator wrote:
       | Interesting I've a similar take. To hire at least 2 people for
       | the same position even if you need only one. This way you achieve
       | redundancy, can manage the people using same tools and compare
       | results, and they can collaborate between them.
        
       | lacker wrote:
       | Yeah, it's usually a mistake for a manager to have 1 report,
       | except in temporary situations like you are planning to have a
       | 6-person iOS team, the team started off with just a manager and a
       | budget, and they just hired the first person.
       | 
       | An org chart is like a B-tree; if you split it up and create a
       | new node too early, you'll have more inefficient hierarchy than
       | you need. Wait until one team is getting large before splitting
       | it into multiples.
        
         | hinkley wrote:
         | You might also be able to say that if your boss has one report,
         | then _their_ boss is fucking up, and shit rolls downhill. Some
         | large fraction of  'one report' situations are already going to
         | be a dumpster fire by the time the boss and report have
         | introduced themselves to each other.
        
         | bluedino wrote:
         | I worked at a place where it was somewhat common to have a
         | manager with one report. It was usually because the report was
         | such a screw-up, instead of firing the person they would bring
         | someone in to 'manage them'.
         | 
         | Then, they'd blame the manager when the report screwed up, fire
         | him, and bring in another manager...
        
           | kshacker wrote:
           | Oh wow I just took the opposite view in
           | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=23967235
        
           | giancarlostoro wrote:
           | Amazing the many ways companies waste resources.
        
           | blablabla123 wrote:
           | I've also worked at a similar place. I don't know why but
           | somehow they never wanted to have teams with more than 1
           | person except maybe for a few months. Fluctuation was crazy.
           | At the end the company was shrinked considerably from 30-40
           | people to 5 people and now they work only on projects with
           | state funding.
        
         | cmehdy wrote:
         | I agree. If you're leading a team of one, you're better off re-
         | structuring things so that both you and the other person fall
         | under your manager, and you can instead offer to mentor the
         | other person if necessary. This strategy even works if it's a
         | transient phase: you just acknowledge the transition plan with
         | upper management and the other person so that they don't feel
         | slighted when things get re-structured, and this enables
         | someone who would be under your management to feel at ease
         | talking to their "n+2".
         | 
         | (I'm of the firm belief that if you can't go and reach beyond
         | your direct chain casually, something is wrong with the
         | culture. This doesn't mean that one should be doing that, it
         | just means that one can. Apply your best judgment to the
         | situation of course)
        
           | kshacker wrote:
           | How does mentoring work within the same team?
           | 
           | I have worked under managers where you designate a point
           | person for a project who can review and as a process mentor
           | people.
           | 
           | But I have also worked under managers who have some kind of
           | subconscious pressure to treat all reportees equal so they
           | hesitate in even acknowledging that 2 people have different
           | calibre and thus everyone either works independently or
           | collaborates : so if you find something bad, you either fix
           | it yourself and move on, but you don't talk about it (part of
           | this is driven by the need to protect bad hiring decisions
           | but if you do not mentor them you make things even worse a
           | year down the line - ok this may be my bias showing up here
           | but hey we are all biased) except in a weekly staff meeting
           | where with many people and limited time you can cover very
           | little.
           | 
           | So just curious what mechanisms do people set up to mentor
           | people within a team without designating a reporting
           | relationship?
        
             | cmehdy wrote:
             | In one place I worked it was about helping junior engineers
             | reinforce the things that were otherwise a difficulty for
             | them, and it happened with both sides wanting it and
             | evolving goals throughout the months. Assess the needs and
             | discuss them if there is a disagreement, establish
             | actionable items, set up metrics together that can be
             | tracked more or less loosely depending on the subject and
             | the people, and when necessary figure out ways to
             | communicate to the team or to higher up any request related
             | to that project for growth (time to learn, structural
             | change, etc). And when it doesn't make sense to do the
             | mentoring anymore, just stop. It doesn't have to be a
             | permanent thing at all.
             | 
             | Sometimes practically it might have been about technical
             | stuff, but really it was mostly about helping people
             | communicate better and helping them navigate the structure
             | of the company to feel more at ease with its different
             | parts. Sometimes it enabled them to bring to the surface
             | skills they weren't confident they had or that they had but
             | weren't being put to use. People outside the team would
             | also tend to notice the change positively, which can have
             | an impact on a junior's career path. IMO, for most people
             | in tech the problem is fairly frequently anything-that-
             | isn't-tech-itself.
             | 
             | It can be very empowering within a team to have people who
             | grow beyond their comfort zone with the perspective of a
             | more experienced person who also knows your day-to-day
             | struggles.
             | 
             | Of course that implies working in teams where there's an
             | investment in the teams, in the individuals, in the value
             | of long-term returns of such growth, etc. Not a fit for
             | every company - I just happen to have experienced such
             | things at a very nourishing place.
        
             | zem wrote:
             | a "team lead" designation is useful for this
        
             | nicoburns wrote:
             | > I have also worked under managers who have some kind of
             | subconscious pressure to treat all reportees equal so they
             | hesitate in even acknowledging that 2 people have different
             | calibre and thus everyone either works independently or
             | collaborates
             | 
             | IMO that kind of manager is just a bad manager. Same with
             | school teachers who treat to treat all the kids exactly the
             | same. I get the sentiment, but in reality everybody is
             | different with different strengths and weaknesses, and also
             | different needs.
             | 
             | > So just curious what mechanisms do people set up to
             | mentor people within a team without designating a reporting
             | relationship?
             | 
             | I think in many cases (esp. if there is a big difference in
             | experience level between the mentor and mentee) it is quite
             | similar to a reporting relationship. The main difference is
             | that a mentor doesn't have the authority to make a mentee
             | do something in the way that a manager does. If everything
             | goes well, then such conflict should never arise, or only
             | rarely.
        
             | QuercusMax wrote:
             | I think that's a problem where you don't have well-defined
             | ladders, so there's no "obvious" way to distinguish
             | newgrads from greybeards.
             | 
             | There are lots of teams at Google where an L6-7 manager has
             | reports who are anywhere from L3 to L7; this, in fact, has
             | been my experience the entire 5 years I've worked there.
             | This shouldn't be a problem at all, and hasn't been in my
             | experience.
             | 
             | I have, in fact, been in exactly the situation where I'm
             | mentoring a new-grad who is assigned my subteam. I'm the
             | TL, but not their manager, so the relationship and
             | responsibility is very clear.
        
             | WrtCdEvrydy wrote:
             | > what mechanisms do people set up to mentor people within
             | a team without designating a reporting relationship
             | 
             | As someone who went through this myself, it's a lot easier
             | to set up mentoring within the same team as just knowledge
             | transfer at the beginning.
        
           | JamesBarney wrote:
           | This can be an issue because now the person who has decision
           | making ability is now someone who has less project context,
           | takes more time because they are busy with other projects,
           | and has not nearly as much time to think about the project as
           | the two people on it.
           | 
           | Not having someone whose full time job is being responsible
           | for a project's success or failure has it's own set of
           | drawbacks
        
             | cmehdy wrote:
             | But there is someone responsible for the project's success:
             | the person who set up a team where one person would have
             | only one other person under them.
             | 
             | Fix that and you'll ensure the project of setting up the
             | team actually works, therefore as the "n+2" it's your
             | responsibility until then. Managing is also about ensuring
             | that the people who work under your management have all the
             | tools to succeed, and a badly formed reporting structure
             | for them is on you as a manager.
             | 
             | At the very least, in a situation where that 1 -> 1 -> 1
             | thing might occur, a conversation including all three
             | parties should occur, where everyone can acknowledge the
             | situation, voice their wishes or concerns towards a
             | structure or another, and go forward with a shared
             | understanding. That way, even if it doesn't please someone,
             | they consciously "disagree and commit".
        
               | JamesBarney wrote:
               | If the person who setup the team is full time on the
               | project, then yeah 1 -> 2 is better than 1 -> 1 -> 1.
               | 
               | But 0.2(oversees 5 projects) -> 2 isn't necessarily
               | better than .2 -> 1 -> 1
        
               | cmehdy wrote:
               | It'll take the same time for that person who's stretched
               | between many projects, since they need reports from the
               | person they're managing anyway.
               | 
               | It will take more time for the two people since one more
               | people will be included, but that's where opting-out is
               | more comfortable than opting-in: you could have a
               | discussion about the reporting part together and figure
               | out what's most comfortable for everyone (whether it is
               | only sending one person regularly or if both are there,
               | etc). It can even be an opportunity for growth for the
               | more junior person if they take on the reporting duty,
               | since they'll have the help of someone more experienced
               | and they'll hold more responsibilities than they
               | otherwise would have. And all this can be decided by the
               | people involved, who will know better than anyone else
               | what they've actually done.
        
               | JamesBarney wrote:
               | It's not about reporting, it's about decision making. Who
               | is making the decisions? Who is deciding if a feature is
               | worth postponing the deadline? Who is deciding when good
               | is good enough? Who is deciding how to structure the
               | teams? Should we write unit tests? How many? What should
               | be unit tested? What's the software architecture? What DB
               | to use? If you take any two devs there are a million
               | things they'll disagree on. And someone just needs to
               | make a choice.
               | 
               | For expediency, so you don't spend too much time bike
               | shedding, and for consistency so you either deliver a
               | polished and robust application late or a rough
               | application on time instead of a half reliable, half
               | polished application a little late.
               | 
               | Most of these decision should be made at the organization
               | level or by a person full time on the team. And usually
               | the person who makes these decisions(the product ones not
               | necessarily the technical ones) also reports up the chain
               | to make sure theses decisions are aligned with the
               | organization.
        
               | cmehdy wrote:
               | Again, this is not an issue. You could make up a bunch of
               | questions about pretty much anything, it's always going
               | to be questions and answers in a management chain.
               | 
               | The point is that all this stuff can be answered by the
               | two people as a team, and if they disagree they have to
               | figure out a mature way to present their disagreement or
               | manage to convince each other. If you're an experienced
               | engineer and you think your solution is better than the
               | junior's, then by all means just lay it out for your
               | teammate to understand and accept it. If you can't even
               | convince your teammate, I'd be worried about what you're
               | going to do about your superiors all the way to the CTO.
               | 
               | Ultimately if there are a couple paths then you end up
               | listing the trade-offs together as a team, genuinely, and
               | you present THAT to your superior so that you can have a
               | higher-level discussion about what they see and want from
               | their perspective. You do the homework together, and you
               | do it well enough so that your manager doesn't have to
               | work for you.. Which you should be able to do anyway if
               | you were about to be the manager, right?
        
       | mywittyname wrote:
       | My experience has always been that my happiness with a manager is
       | directly related to the number of reports that they have. They
       | rarely have time to "just check in" unexpectedly, so meetings and
       | interactions tend to be scheduled. You're also afforded much more
       | autonomy in every respect, so long as there are no complaints
       | from others about your performance, they are happy.
       | 
       | And lastly, managers with a large number of reports have a more
       | significant pool of talent to help you with a task that you're
       | struggling with. Since your manager is directly in charge of the
       | other person, you can be assured that the person knows the
       | problem and that they will find time to assist.
        
       | theredsix wrote:
       | I've definitely noticed this in the past and it's good to see a
       | concise logical reasoning of the problem.
        
       | DDerTyp wrote:
       | Thank god for this article. I'm a new tech lead with 1 person in
       | my team. This person is even from a different country, new to the
       | industry and not that advanced in his programming skills. I
       | noticed everything this article describes. Although everything
       | gets better day by day, week by week, it is still difficult and I
       | sometimes even have the feeling "damn, do I really want to be a
       | tech lead?"
       | 
       | Every tip is appreciated.
        
         | em-bee wrote:
         | i have worked with a junior multiple times.
         | 
         | a junior-senior combination works well with pair programming.
         | 
         | i suspect your problem is that you can't yet judge what your
         | junior is capable of, so you assign him tasks and then find out
         | he is struggling with a task, or doing it wrong, and then you
         | have to spend time correcting or teaching.
         | 
         | in pair programming these activities go hand in hand. you
         | tackle a problem together. at first you take the lead, but ask
         | the junior how he would solve it. initially you drive (type the
         | code) and he observes. once he has seen you code for a while,
         | you can let him drive. as you work together you slowly learn
         | about his abilities, and when tasks come up that you feel
         | confident he can do by himself, then let him, while you bugger
         | off to deal with your email.
         | 
         | depending on the nature of your work, you may need to spend
         | some time doing managerial stuff that your junior can't help
         | you with, or you have to attend meetings. (although for
         | meetings about the code you write i'd take the junior along)
         | 
         | with only one person in your team i do hope though you get at
         | least 50% of your time to code yourself, which you can use for
         | pair programming. the other time your junior will spend on
         | tasks on his own or learning something that you'll need next.
        
           | JimboOmega wrote:
           | Junior-senior pair programming is different from managing one
           | report, though the line is quite blurry. When I had a solo
           | report it felt much more like a junior-senior pairing than
           | being a manager (especially as it was their first eng job,
           | and teaching them the basics was most of what I did).
           | 
           | Ultimately as a manager you're also evaluating their work and
           | are in a position to decide things like if their employment
           | continues, if they get promotions/raises, etc; that is what
           | makes it distinct. Feedback in a junior-senior pairing is
           | much more purely about helping them grow.
           | 
           | Dang though. 50% of your time to code... I'm an IC (as much
           | as I want to be an EM) and that sounds really nice. I
           | regularly have whole days where I don't get to code (in part
           | because, as a potential future EM, I'm expected to mentor; I
           | have 7 regular 1-1s, for instance).
        
           | bllguo wrote:
           | this is amazing advice. I figured this out the hard way as
           | the manager just last week. Was initially apprehensive as I
           | haven't done much pair programming before, but it was
           | incredibly productive and my report loved it
        
         | staysaasy wrote:
         | OP here - glad that you enjoyed it, thanks for reading!
         | 
         | One thing I'll mention is that management is hard and largely a
         | learned skill. I think of it like playing a sport. Some people
         | are better than others due to innate ability, but everyone can
         | improve with practice.
         | 
         | We've written / will write more on these sorts of topics if
         | you're looking for more tips. Best of luck!
        
         | JamesBarney wrote:
         | I have a couple pieces of advice.
         | 
         | There are hundred ways that you would have written any piece of
         | code differently than your mentee. And if you correct all of
         | them you will both be unhappy and unproductive. There are truly
         | amazing coders who code differently than you or I. Focus on
         | issues that materially affect the application(correctness,
         | reliability, performance, security, reliability,
         | maintainability - less important than the other) and give clear
         | explanation of why you're making the critique and how it
         | affects the application.
         | 
         | Also remember you're a team, and he wants the application to be
         | awesome too. Approach critiques with "here's a way we can make
         | the application faster" as opposed to "you wrote slow code".
         | 
         | Document every critique you make to create a code guidelines
         | document. This will help anyone else who joins the teams, and
         | will make your critiques feel less arbitrary, and help them
         | remember and be able to lookup your critiques.
         | 
         | Make sure you have a standup every day to watch over their
         | progress and code.
         | 
         | It's really easy to focus too much on getting your own work
         | done and slack off as a tech lead or mentor. Always prioritize
         | your mentee's work over your own. Don't start your work until
         | you've set him up for success for the next few days. (code
         | reviews, making sure he has work lined up and understands what
         | he needs to accomplish and how he needs to accomplish it)
         | 
         | Maintain a positive attitude, remember to compliment them, err
         | on the side of over complimenting than under complimenting.
         | 
         | Don't be afraid to ask for their advice or for them to do
         | research.
         | 
         | Expect the quality to not be up to what it would be if you
         | wrote it. Try to plan for this by increasing QA time, testing,
         | and spending more time reviewing the parts of the applications
         | where correctness is the most important. Also make sure to do
         | performance testing in case he did something boneheaded.
         | 
         | Over communicate. Explain the why's of everything. There are
         | 100 tech leads who under communicate for every tech lead who
         | over-communicates. So chances are your team will run better if
         | you communicate more.
        
           | iooi wrote:
           | This is great advice.
           | 
           | > Document every critique you make to create a code
           | guidelines document.
           | 
           | It helps more to have as much of this as possible in lint and
           | style checkers, so there's no arbitrariness at all.
        
             | JamesBarney wrote:
             | Agreed, also saves a lot of time for everyone.
        
         | michael-ax wrote:
         | "damn, do I really want to be a tech lead?"
         | 
         | not with a single report. the overhead is maddening. much
         | better to have 2..3..4 where you can put them to
         | plan/discuss/evolve solutions while you just update and evolve
         | checklists. debrief daily, use their work. be consistent, write
         | your own daily summaries for upstream. going from 1 to 4 should
         | ~double the time you need while making you much more
         | productive/deliver more comprehensive skills & results at the
         | same time. make sure you get paid for keeping things on track
         | while doing your usual! p.s./edit: four is a great size. 2x5 is
         | the most i'd want to do. coordinate with hr but stay out of it.
        
       | fizixer wrote:
       | And how many angels can fit on the pin of a needle?
       | 
       | What the eff does "manage 1 person" mean? I have to resist the
       | temptation of reporting this post for how bad it is.
       | 
       | When you're working with 1 person, stop being a free-loader (by
       | calling yourself a manager) and do some work yourself.
        
         | NikolaNovak wrote:
         | Not sure if you've read the article, but with benefit of doubt:
         | 
         | >What the fuck does "manage 1 person" mean?
         | 
         | "Manage one person" is relatively self-explanatory. On the org
         | chart, you are designated as a team lead, with exactly one (1)
         | person reporting to you. You are responsible for their work,
         | career, and success. They have you as their boss.
         | 
         | It is relatively common in many organizations, including
         | tech/software, due to (likely mistaken) belief that it will
         | ease in a new manager/team-lead. Alternatively it could be
         | circumstantial due to people leaving or weird teams forming or
         | planned expansion that doesn't happen or difficulty hiring, or
         | a natural hierarchy of a very senior and very junior developer,
         | etc.
         | 
         | >>do some work yourself.
         | 
         | Typically, a manager or team lead of small teams absolutely
         | does do some of their work themselves. In fact, usually they do
         | ALL their usual work, AND now coach/guide/manage their team, in
         | this case a single person. Usually the situation is the
         | antithesis of "free loading".
         | 
         | Given such situations absolutely do occur, the post seems to be
         | fairly realistic as to common ways they can go wrong, and how
         | to address them.
        
       | curiousllama wrote:
       | > Avoid at all costs the combination of: new manager, 1 report,
       | report is new-to-industry, manager is not a subject-matter
       | expert.
       | 
       | This is interesting. Consulting teams are often structured
       | exactly this way, with a Lead managing 2 "managers," each leading
       | one Associate/Analyst. I wonder why that antipattern is so
       | consistent...
        
         | Traster wrote:
         | I suspect it's because the job titles are meaningless hierarchy
         | to keep people happy, and collapse into a 1 boss N employees
         | structure any time anything important happens.
        
       | bbu wrote:
       | Why would you need a manager for 1 person? There are 0 benefits
       | in creating a team like that.
        
         | 1123581321 wrote:
         | Say a small company employs a single senior subject matter
         | expert who successfully manages up the chain to make sure the
         | right work gets done. A junior subject matter expert will do
         | better work if they are placed under the senior, because if
         | they are a peer, they are likely to not manage up as well as
         | the senior, who will have to step in and de facto manage to fix
         | that anyway.
        
         | balls187 wrote:
         | Typically it's a temporary, an intermediate step, or politics.
         | 
         | I managed several teams, and during that time I inherited a new
         | team with 2 headcount, plans to increase headcount, and company
         | initiative to grow that product.
         | 
         | I didn't have bandwidth to manage that team myself, so I turned
         | one of those headcounts into a manager position.
         | 
         | In the world of startups, the first hire is often an engineer,
         | who normally reports to the tech-cofounder.
        
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         | softwaredoug wrote:
         | Not sure, plenty of individuals have coaches to keep them on
         | track. I personally do better with accountability systems to
         | keep me on track.
        
       | dougmwne wrote:
       | Ouch. Yes I've experienced this. I struggled with my first
       | experience supervising a team of one. We were also two people in
       | different places in our lives and maybe less shared experience
       | than I have with a fellow gamer or geek. And it was remote. We
       | did build trust, but it was slow going. I pushed hard not to
       | micromanage. Weird to see all the adverse incentives I
       | experienced all lined up like this. Curious if anyone else has
       | developed any strategies.
        
       | magneticnorth wrote:
       | I've been on the junior report side of this in my first job, and
       | these points really resonate with me - it was the worst manager
       | situation I've ever had, due to the situation-induced
       | micromanaging and my having no one else in the same situation to
       | validate how bad my experience was, or share a different
       | perspective.
       | 
       | I switched teams as soon as I could, and I and that manager have
       | both gone on to be reasonably successful - that manager has a lot
       | of reports now who seem to really appreciate him, and I haven't
       | had a bad manager since that situation. I think the bad manager-
       | report scenario wasn't really about either of us nearly so much
       | as it felt at the time.
       | 
       | It is validating to read this is an anti-pattern observed by a
       | lot of people; it was hard not to take things personally at the
       | time or blame the manager for how unhappy I was.
        
         | JamesBarney wrote:
         | Was the biggest issue just the micromanaging?
         | 
         | I've seen this several times when newly promoted managers are
         | given 1 or 2 reports. Specifically individuals that are high
         | conscientiousness, i.e. hard working, detail oriented,
         | organized. Then they are promoted, and put into stressful
         | position where there previous strengths can become liabilities
         | and they spend all there time making sure their reports do the
         | job in the same way they would have done it. And if they had
         | more reports it would quickly break them of this micromanaging
         | habit because they just don't have the time.
         | 
         | I found that more relaxed/laid back managers tend to do better
         | with a 1-2 reports but then quickly start to run into issues as
         | the team size grows and overwhelms their organizational
         | abilities.
        
           | magneticnorth wrote:
           | Yeah, I think that's about exactly it. He was micromanaging
           | and also somewhat randomizing, asking me to switch focus
           | often when he thought something else was higher priority,
           | which doesn't work well for my work style in terms of
           | actually getting things finished. And to my non-credit I
           | didn't really communicate this issue to him at the time.
           | 
           | But I think he did figure it out much like you described, and
           | is successfully managing (and not micromanaging) a high
           | performing team today.
        
         | hinkley wrote:
         | I expect there would also be the effect of every time you need
         | something from him, it was the first time, so he had to wing it
         | or think on his feet.
         | 
         | With 4 people, you've got a good chance that you're at least
         | the second person to ask the question.
         | 
         | In a situation where he's harping on you for something, it
         | would be hard to tell if this is just how he is, or he's
         | specifically picking on you. If everyone is getting the same
         | grief, then it's just how he is, not how he is with you.
         | 
         | Additionally, how many times do you want to give the same
         | speech? Either you give up on something, or you gather everyone
         | and address it at once (at which point you are not necessarily
         | the target).
        
         | GCA10 wrote:
         | It's worth taking a moment to identify what's so bad about
         | micromanaging -- which turns out to be a serious fail for
         | multiple reasons.
         | 
         | First is the obvious day-to-day impact on the subordinate, who
         | finds it exasperating to be second-guessed so much on little
         | stuff, or to burn up so much time briefing the boss on things
         | that don't deeply matter.
         | 
         | Second is the inability of both boss and manager to focus on
         | the big picture. Ten tiny tweaks on a misconceived project
         | measure up poorly vs. one bold decision to redefine (or kill!)
         | that project.
         | 
         | The third factor is subtler but perhaps even more important.
         | People grow by making a certain number of fixable -- or
         | unfixable -- mistakes on their own and then figuring out what
         | to do next. That's how we build up a full repertoire of tacit
         | knowledge that lets us make good decisions going forward. If
         | we're getting micro-calibrations all the time from someone
         | else, our ability to have confidence in our own decision trees
         | never takes shape.
         | 
         | I spent three years in my 20s working on a big U.S. company's
         | expansion into Europe that had only middling results. Our
         | targets were high and the bosses had only a faint idea of what
         | initiatives we were trying. That meant there was unlimited room
         | for learning by doing. I came out of that with an enduring
         | sense of "Yeah, that usually works," or "No, you're going to
         | add a week of redo to the project if you try that."
         | 
         | And no amount of micromanaging would have got me there.
        
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         | birdyrooster wrote:
         | Having been in the position with a single person under me
         | before, the biggest challenge was that we had just enough work
         | to do that it was too much for one person but not so much work
         | that I could easily fill this other person's time. I am sure
         | this was bittersweet especially for someone new to industry.
        
       | staycoolboy wrote:
       | Dead on. My first time with a single direct report was a
       | catastrophe. I was like a helicopter parent (as opposed to a
       | micromanager). I did get feedback from him that we felt more like
       | peers than manager/report, which he said felt weird but couldn't
       | explain. He left the company, and I hope it wasn't due to me.
       | 
       | Fast forward two years and I was managing 8 people, and I didn't
       | have time to helicopter. Just like this article: I was too busy
       | rotating through each person to spend too much time on any one.
       | Plus I had one really good report and one terrible report, so I
       | had to spend more time with the latter. Just like the public
       | school system.
       | 
       | Yeah, this is a great article. Short but important. Wish I had
       | seen it ages ago.
        
       | encoderer wrote:
       | Great points. I've observed this myself for years as a Director
       | in a tech co.
       | 
       | Only other thought about it: managers with 1 report are also very
       | likely to be new managers. Experienced managers do not (usually)
       | take on roles managing a single person.
       | 
       | To put it more generally: Good managers are unlikely to take a
       | role managing just 1 person so therefore managers with a single
       | report are likely not good managers.
        
       | monkeydust wrote:
       | Have min number of directs for anyone to become a manager, number
       | of companies do this. Somewhere between 3 to 6 from what I hear.
        
       | dataduck wrote:
       | This seems like pretty good advice, but what if you can't follow
       | it? Say you're the one with ultimate responsibility for a tech
       | team of exactly two. What's the least bad thing you can do?
        
         | staysaasy wrote:
         | Author here - I'd recommend two things.
         | 
         | First, per the article, I'd aim to become an expert in whatever
         | your report is doing. Being able to just do the thing yourself
         | is a great release valve. Things can get really hairy when you
         | have the combination of high pressure deadlines/deliverables
         | and total reliance on one report to fix it.
         | 
         | Second, look to set up things like performance calibrations
         | where promotions and comp changes are decided by a collective
         | group, even if it's just you and your manager. Partnering on
         | raises/comp changes can help you both make better decisions and
         | have your report more comfortable that the outcomes are high
         | quality and the decision of the entire organization, not just
         | you.
        
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