[HN Gopher] Meeting everyone on a new team
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       Meeting everyone on a new team
        
       Author : craigkerstiens
       Score  : 81 points
       Date   : 2020-09-19 17:45 UTC (5 hours ago)
        
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       | dv35z wrote:
       | Perfect timing. I just joined a company this past week as a
       | software engineer. Day one, I knew 5 people, only topically. By
       | the end of week 1, I have introductions/1:1s scheduled for 30+
       | top-notch people at the organization. Here's the method I used to
       | do this:
       | 
       | I created a really comprehensive intro email about myself (work
       | stuff, personal stuff, passions, etc). I wrote this in Google
       | Docs, so it would be easy to paste into Gmail, and preserve the
       | nice formatting. In this email, I included several questions (see
       | below), which I wanted to ask the person. I got these questions
       | from a few sources, including "The first 90 Days" book, along
       | with some other questions I found through Google. At the end of
       | the email, I marked in bold: Suggest 3 other amazing people for
       | me to connect to, and why you recommend them.
       | 
       | I sent the emails out, and got replies within 1-2 days - 75%
       | provided me with 3 names! If some did not provide me with names,
       | I politely followed up with warm, thankful email, but also a
       | reminder to please send me name, which each of them did.
       | 
       | I then sent out "cold" emails to THOSE people, starting with "X
       | person said to reach out you" (helping bring a familiar name
       | immediately at the beginning of the email). I used the exact same
       | email template for that, along with asking for more names.
       | 
       | I used a Google spreadsheet to keep track of all the people I
       | reached out with, along with columns for questions, the people
       | they referred, and who referred them.
       | 
       | At current, I have 15 1:1s scheduled for next week, and
       | tentatively 5-10 scheduled for the week after. I'm using labels
       | in Gmail to flag "@ Waiting" for the people who have not
       | responded, so that I can follow up after a few days.
       | 
       | In the meeting invites I sent to folks, I included the agenda
       | items in the description, so it was top-of-mind for them, as they
       | checked their calendar.
       | 
       | I'm using a note taking tool called Obsidian
       | (https://obsidian.md/) to take notes on all the conversations I'm
       | having with people. This tool lets you write in markdown, and
       | quickly crosslink topics (like a personal wiki). The goal is to
       | create a knowledge base of information, based on all the "here's
       | what you need to know" topics that people share with me.
       | 
       | Finally (and important). I made sure to set expectations with my
       | manager before doing this. I basically told him: (1) I am going
       | to setup conversations with many people this first 2 weeks of
       | work. (2) I will use this output of these conversations to build
       | a learning plan of topics which these people suggest focusing on,
       | (3) I will then synthesize these notes, and will share them with
       | you (manager). (4) You and I will review the learning plan, and
       | prioritize it together. (5) We will use this plan, along with our
       | weekly 1:1s to build out a 30/60/90 day plan.
       | 
       | This was important, because it allowed me to "buy time" before
       | being thrown into a million meetings, assignments, etc. Each
       | person I have spoken to so far has had different suggestions on
       | what the first several things to focus on, learn, etc are.
       | However, they have all been incredibly valuable - and in many
       | cases, they are things I would not have immediately known to even
       | list down.
       | 
       | The great part about this approach (in my opinion), is that all
       | of the people I'm meeting are essentially pre-selected for
       | awesomeness by someone awesome. All of the conversations have
       | been enormously valuable.
       | 
       | The feedback I've gotten from the people has been really great,
       | and validating!
       | 
       | Bonus: I have been using an app called UpHabit
       | (https://uphabit.com/), which is a "Personal Relationship
       | Manager". It lets you tag people (e.g. by skill, passion, etc),
       | and then assign regular reminders to reach out to them (e.g.
       | "connect with this person every 3 months"), and lets you take
       | notes on the conversations you had. I have found this tool
       | enormously valuable, as its allowed me to "scale" my personal
       | network, and trust that important people don't get forgotten. I
       | find myself a very LIFO person (the people I most recently
       | connected with, I'll remember to connect with. The folks from
       | long time ago, I often forget). This tool has been helping me re-
       | invigorate my personal/professional relationships.
       | 
       | Note: I have no affiliation with either of the tool
       | recommendations in this post, aside from finding them very
       | useful!
       | 
       | Below are the questions I included in my intro email. If anyone
       | would like to see the "full" email, I could probably generify it,
       | and share directly.
       | 
       | --- Tell me about yourself! If you feel comfortable sharing, I'd
       | love to hear what you are personally passionate about, and what
       | topics, processes, areas etc you are passionate for at X.
       | 
       | What is your role & your responsibilities at X?
       | 
       | What's a "day in the life" like for you? This helps build empathy
       | and understanding for your world, and how I could best help.
       | 
       | What are your top 3 priorities in the next two months? What
       | specifically are you hoping to achieve?
       | 
       | What do you feel are the top 3 challenges/blockers (1) facing X,
       | (2) facing your team, (3) you professionally at X?
       | 
       | What is your understanding and expectations of me and my role?
       | 
       | How do you envision us working/partnering with one another?
       | 
       | If you were in my shoes, what would be the top 3 things you would
       | prioritize, learn, or focus on in the next month or two?
       | 
       | For each of the above, what would be an actionable next step to
       | make progress? (it could be as simple as, "reach out to X
       | person", or "read this blog post")
       | 
       | What do you think would be some realistic, achievable and
       | impactful "quick wins" or contributions I could make, for me to
       | consider taking on as I get started at Kohls?
       | 
       | Very Important: Suggest 3 amazing people at X for me to reach out
       | to, who you think connecting with and learning from would help
       | make me successful in my journey at X. Be sure and tell me what
       | about these people is so amazing & awesome!
        
       | Fnoord wrote:
       | > When I joined the Financial Times as Technical Director for
       | FT.com, I inherited a team of around 50 engineers. One of the
       | first things I did was meet each of them for a one-to-one. I was
       | initially resistant, but it was extremely valuable, I'm glad I
       | did it, and I would definitely do it again in a future role.
       | 
       | I recently joined a startup, and I am glad I did not meet
       | everyone (except learned a lot of faces in video meetings)
       | because of COVID-19. More precisely, the second wave has been
       | officially recognized by the government last week. Remote working
       | is the status quo, and it will remain that way. Not my
       | preference, normally, but it'll remain this way for the time
       | being. Perhaps an interesting article in 2021.
        
         | masonhensley wrote:
         | You can do this remotely.
         | 
         | If in a historic remote team or now, I still encourage this
         | practice.
        
         | pvinis wrote:
         | why were you resistant at first?
        
           | Godel_unicode wrote:
           | The &gt in the first paragraph means they're quoting the
           | article.
        
         | sokoloff wrote:
         | They joined FT in 2018 from what I can tell, so meeting
         | everyone would have been entirely normal. In a remote working
         | model, you could obviously do it over VC.
        
       | zachrose wrote:
       | > With a team of ~50, that's a lot of hours, and I was also
       | working four days a week so each meeting takes up a greater
       | proportion of time.
       | 
       | At thirty minutes a pop these meetings come out to 25 hours. That
       | does not strike me as "a lot of hours" given that this is talking
       | to everyone who works in your department. Put another way is like
       | a sanity check on the biggest and most important category of your
       | department's budget, at roughly 1% of your annual time.
        
       | Cyph0n wrote:
       | Would a similar strategy be valuable for an IC (individual
       | contributor) joining a new team? For example, setting up 1-on-1
       | meetings with direct teammates soon after joining.
        
         | mrud wrote:
         | Yes! This is what we do. We even explicitly typically put it in
         | your 30 day plan.
        
       | yodsanklai wrote:
       | I work remotely, where most of my team doesn't (well, didn't
       | before Covid). I took the habit of initiating conversations with
       | new employees, remotely or whenever I visit the office. It
       | doesn't take much but it's worth it. It brings more trust and
       | ease up future relations. Surprisingly, I've noticed some people
       | can be isolated from their colleagues even when sharing the same
       | office.
        
       | cmehdy wrote:
       | At a "lower" level, I've done something a bit along those lines
       | when starting at my last job: I picked a bunch of people from
       | each team at the company and reached out to them to schedule a
       | one-on-one about them, the way they see things, their experience
       | so far, their team, and a short introduction on my part.
       | 
       | It wasn't about trying to be ten steps ahead of anything or about
       | taking any statement as absolute truth, but to understand
       | different perspectives, to explain in quick and simple terms the
       | reason why I had joined and in what ways I could help them, and
       | to establish those contacts to facilitate future interactions.
       | Every single discussion was worthwhile, because I understood a
       | lot about the company really quickly (which helped me in my work)
       | and every time an issue came up I could easily feel empowered to
       | connect with those people and be put in touch with the right
       | person, or to hear the non-official stuff that is sometimes
       | harder to share across teams and therefore help the team with a
       | little bit more personality than by slinging tickets across
       | boards.
       | 
       | Assuming you're not working in a place with an overwhelming
       | amount of psychopaths (which I assume is a reasonable goal for
       | the majority of people), I would say that caring about other
       | people does pay back quickly and significantly (as shallow as
       | that might sound).
        
       | kybernetikos wrote:
       | I did something very similar when I joined my last team. I like
       | Anna's questions. One of the questions I asked was 'who do you go
       | to for advice and bouncing ideas off'. This gave me a great view
       | of the key knowledge nexus points and how people are connected to
       | each other in the team.
       | 
       | After I'd spoken to everyone, I created a report for the
       | executive committee summarizing all topics that had come up
       | multiple times, and highlighting individuals that were widely
       | relied on.
        
         | ketzo wrote:
         | Oh man, I love that "who do you go to for X?" question. I'm
         | starting as an SWE on Monday, so that's big on my mind.
        
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