[HN Gopher] Tuesday was my last day as CEO of CircleUp ___________________________________________________________________ Tuesday was my last day as CEO of CircleUp Author : rmason Score : 183 points Date : 2020-10-15 20:05 UTC (2 hours ago) (HTM) web link (twitter.com) (TXT) w3m dump (twitter.com) | PragmaticPulp wrote: | The 6-page e-mail sent to the difficult former board member is | interesting: | https://docs.google.com/document/d/17tEc9ETL4tjfTmNbpwJJ5OSx... | | Given that he posted the e-mail contents online and wrote it in a | way to narrate the board member's own bad actions, I'm assuming | the real intent to was to warn others against working with this | person. He stops short of naming the difficult board member, but | it wouldn't exactly be difficult to figure out who it was from | all the clues. | blantonl wrote: | Name the board member. The former CEO can be dignified by | keeping his name confidential , but this is a founder and | entrepreneur discussion forum and this deserves discussion | about this individual. It is also relevant to the story. | | There is absolutely nothing wrong with knowing about, and | discussing who it is and possibly who else has had the same | experiences - as long as it isn't mudslinging but a | professional discussion. Similar to the letter. | sokoloff wrote: | I think just publishing the event without posting the email | leaves enough of a trail for another CEO to reach out and ask | "Hey, we're going to work with XYZ and know he used to be on | your board. Any advice for us?" | hinkley wrote: | Nobody likes to date people who are always trashing their | exes. Board members end up choosing the CEO, do they not? | There are degrees of dirty laundry airing that could end up | burning bridges with people you've never even met before. | | Meanwhile the next CEO knows there's a rat, and can work out | for themselves who that might be before their first 100 days | are up, by which point most managers have been typecast. | After that it's very hard to fully take advantage of major | new insights you've had. It's an uphill battle to make major | changes to your style of management. | khaledtaha wrote: | Let's not do that. I'm incredibly appreciative of OPs | transparency here. As a person who is susceptible to the same | degree of stress and mental health toil, let's not make the | story about the investor but rather around the stresses of | being a CEO. | exolymph wrote: | You can't control what people are interested in, what they | want to know more about. | xyzzy_plugh wrote: | Why not both? | fairity wrote: | I agree that the problematic investor shouldn't be outed | here. The investor isn't here to defend himself, and outing | him will cause him irreparable (and perhaps undue) | reputational damage. | | [edit] Is giving the accused a platform to defend himself | that unpopular of an opinion? Online shaming often gets out | of hand and goes too far. I recommend this TED talk: https:// | www.ted.com/talks/jon_ronson_when_online_shaming_goe... | birdyrooster wrote: | What forum should he be outed in exactly? | fairity wrote: | There are a couple options that come to mind: | | 1) Contact the accused party and ask him for a written | response. By giving him the opportunity to defend | himself, you get a more balanced view and decrease the | likelihood of cruel & unusual punishment. | | 2) Out the investor in private forums where | data/information that arises after the publication of | this article can be fully considered. YC and many other | founder networks have investor databases for this | purpose. | munk-a wrote: | 1 isn't a terrible idea in most circumstances but with | investors you're more likely to get a C&D than a fair | response given the line of work and the importance of | reputation to the process. | | 2 - no, I disagree strongly for two reasons: | | Keeping information in a quiet private forum makes it | inaccessible to people at large. This means the next CEO | who runs up against this investor is mostly completely | unaware of their past actions. | | And, honestly, hackernews is probably the single most | relevant forum you could find to discuss this on - it has | a general lean toward tech but it is run by ycombinator | which is specifically interested in all things | investment. | fairity wrote: | > Keeping information in a quiet private forum makes it | inaccessible to people at large. This means the next CEO | who runs up against this investor is mostly completely | unaware of their past actions. | | I agree this is the downside of my proposed approach. | But, the alternative is a world where someone's | reputation can be irreparably damaged by unsubstantiated | claims made by one person. | | Do you want to live in a world where someone's reputation | and livelihood can be destroyed by unsubstantiated | claims? You may think I'm overstating the potential | damage, but I think people generally underestimate the | damage the internet mob can inflict on a person. | munk-a wrote: | There are some societal tools that exist to fight against | baseless slander in a public forum but, tbh, the US has | resisted adopting those. | | I would rather live in a world where the powerful can be | baselessly attacked compared to a world where the weak | are unable to fairly attack them - if we need to err on | one side or the other I prefer to put up with trolls and | scammers. | yowlingcat wrote: | Well. It seems like you can't narrate the latter without the | former. What would you propose? | anon_usr_134 wrote: | If you read the email it states that the investor was a lead. | Series A was led by USV and the email already ruled them out. | This investor sold right during or after the series C. might be | Brendan Dickinson from Canaan for the Series B. | maest wrote: | It's clear that people in the industry will be able to figure | out who the letter is addressed to - and I would be surprised | if the CircleUp CEO didn't realise this. So the censorship is | mostly for show. | | The fact that the VC isn't named, makes it difficult for them | to reply in a public way and respond to some of those points. | PragmaticPulp wrote: | > and I would be surprised if the CircleUp CEO didn't realise | this. | | That was the point I was trying to make: | | The CEO went out of his way to make the board member as easy | to identify as he could, short of spelling his name out. | | I'm not suggesting that people try to reverse engineer it, | but clearly the open letter was meant to be partially | retaliatory and partially a warning to others in this space. | sineus wrote: | Given the timeline, that he was lead investor, the name | length, the experience of the VC, the current and past | board members, it's easy to figure out the missing name. | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/CircleUp Confirms the name | which would also fit in the redacted parts of the email. | tschwimmer wrote: | Where are you seeing the current and past board members? | That's what I'm trying to diff against but I can't find | good sources. | ericjang wrote: | If you highlight the name, the highlighted text is | {{14}}. I don't think the lead investor's name is | necessarily 6 characters. FWIW, I was deeply curious | about who the investor was and spent some time | investigating who lead the fundraising rounds on | Crunchbase, but I couldn't narrow it down sufficiently. | [deleted] | skybrian wrote: | It seems like if many people don't know, then it actually | makes a difference that they don't know. I don't know the | details but it seems possibly important, not just for show? | | See: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Missing_stair | [deleted] | rmason wrote: | Here's the blog post that goes along with that tweet stream: | | https://ryancaldbeck.medium.com/transitions-fa7ce4af435 | a-posteriori wrote: | Adding the google cache. Looks like the medium is down. | | http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:-EgQnmp... | ghiculescu wrote: | I was wondering where I knew that name from... there's a module | about Ryan & CircleUp in the HBS Disruptive Innovation Course - | https://online.hbs.edu/courses/disruptive-strategy/ | | It was one of the more interesting companies profiled and I found | the module very cool. If you read this Ryan - thanks for being | part of it, and all the best for the future. | madrox wrote: | Reading this is like reading about my own experience. I went | through a similar period several years ago as an executive. I was | leading engineering for three separate products and dealing with | some very difficult stakeholders. I was also in a new | relationship that I was trying very hard to maintain. The stress | of all these things happening to me at once was colossal. I | experienced a constellation of bad health symptoms. What I can't | believe, in hindsight, was when I asked my doctor if this could | be stress related. He asked, "do you feel stressed?" I thought | for a second and said, "no." | | I've never written anything about that time, despite wanting to, | but this is the thread I wish I could write. Details aside the | emotions are all the same. It felt cathartic to read this. | cthulhua wrote: | Wow, this really struck home with me. I left a FAANG about a year | ago to be employee #1 at a startup. 6 months ago, after some | headaches and vision issues, I was diagnosed with a brain tumor. | My work has been great through all this, but I can't imagine the | additional stress of being a CEO whilst dealing with all that. | duxup wrote: | I don't want to digress too much here but I thought this was | interesting: | | > Believing that to attract a great CEO we would need more than | two years of runway | | What is involved in this process that takes 2 years? | PragmaticPulp wrote: | > What is involved in this process that takes 2 years? | | He's not saying the process will take 2 years. | | He's saying that no reasonable CEO will sign on to a company | that is months away from going bankrupt. Two years of runway is | long enough for a new CEO to find their feet, set direction, | and work on profitability and/or fundraising. | | If the CEO arrives with only a few months of runway, their | first tasks will be to cut burn rate by laying off many of the | employees. That doesn't create a good first impression. | bishnu wrote: | I think what he's saying is that no-one would be willing to | take over as CEO unless they had two years of runway ahead of | them. | skrtskrt wrote: | In addition to the other answers, it sounds like they knew they | needed more time to execute & validate the pivot. | | Let the original founder/visionary execute the pivot and then | hand off the reins, rather than pull someone new in and try to | brain-dump how you want them to pull off the pivot that mostly | exists in your head. | codingdave wrote: | It isn't that the process takes two years - I'm guessing they | were talking more about being a good career move for a CEO | candidate: | | A great CEO has many options in front of them of what to do | with their career. Asking them to take on a company that | doesn't have much runway limits the time they have to get in, | become the new leader, and mold the organization. Therefore, it | is not likely to be their best option, which means the | candidates who are interested are more likely to be not-so- | great CEO candidates. | duxup wrote: | Got it, that makes a lot more sense. | ProAm wrote: | Twitter is the worst for long form messaging. | Kiro wrote: | I agree that the UI sucks but I like the constraints. It gives | no room for filler text and every paragraph/tweet needs to have | its own point. | luminati wrote: | First thanks so much for writing this. The gilded world of | unicorn CEOs seems all roses and wine from the Techcrunch | armchair VC/outside world, so it was eye-opening to read an | intimate account of the cold, brutal reality of being one. | | That said, I have one question. What on earth was the co-founder | doing? Isn't it the whole point of having co-founders so that you | can share the trauma? Why did the CEO have to suffer through so | much pain all alone? | czbond wrote: | From much experience with startups, founding and co-founding is | a mental mind-f*ck at all times. Even founders of good | companies are under constant stress to keep the thing proposed | up. The stress and drama of running a company completely f's | your world up long into "success" | Aeolun wrote: | I always wonder why people use Twitter for these braindumps? Do | these threads just lend themselves well to starting and typing | until it's all off your chest? | [deleted] | kypro wrote: | I quite like it. It promotes a concise writing style which | wouldn't be as acceptable if it were on a blog without | character limits. | | Whenever I write something like this I've found I end up | constructing each tweet a bit like a lengthy bullet point. I | cut everything unnecessary and try to make my point as clearly | as possible in as few words & tweets as possible. | | When I write a blog post I naturally end up optimising for | writing quality, and what could have been 5 tweets ends up as | 1,500 words. | d3ntb3ev1l wrote: | So many fine people on both sides of the Silicon Valley soap | opera | easton wrote: | Thread Reader really helps for this, given the length (and some | weird issues at least for me with twitter web). | | https://threadreaderapp.com/thread/1316730252295454720.html | regularemployee wrote: | I'm not a CEO, nor do the livelihoods of people depend on me. | | But I feel the pain everyday of having to answer to my managers | who are constantly asking for status on my projects. I care about | my managers but I don't care about the projects. I hate my work. | | There are so many things in life that I am curious about like | singing, drawing, gardening, bird watching, etc. I'm not good at | any of them (nor do I wish to be) so they won't bring me any | income. Every day I put my curiousness aside to code some stuff | to make my managers look good. | | I can't quit my job to take a break because my wife and kids | depend on my salary for money. My neighbors are suffering more | because they are not in tech. They are trying so hard to have my | life and I try my best to help them get into an industry I don't | even like. | | Money brings so much suffering and our entire society is built on | it. Society is greedy and wants to expand infinitely too! | Everything in nature must eventually be owned my someone. | | It seems like the only way to escape is to become a CEO, make | millions, and buy a bubble of eternal happiness as Ryan has done. | | I hope I don't end up behaving like his former board member. | tossmeout wrote: | Why not just downgrade your lifestyle to be in a cheaper | situation? Easier said than done obviously, as that initial | downgrade feels like a big hit. And ofc you might have | extenuating circumstances that prevent it. But otherwise, I've | found that you simply acclimate over time. Then you can give | yourself breathing room to take time between jobs, or perhaps | move to a lower-paying job you actually enjoy. ___________________________________________________________________ (page generated 2020-10-15 23:00 UTC)