[HN Gopher] MDMA-assisted couples therapy investigated in pilot ...
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       MDMA-assisted couples therapy investigated in pilot trial
        
       Author : futureguy
       Score  : 168 points
       Date   : 2020-12-09 19:57 UTC (3 hours ago)
        
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       | stakkur wrote:
       | I tried this therapy in the late 80s. It didn't work; my
       | girlfriend left with the bass player after the party.
        
       | werber wrote:
       | My family went through some pretty tumultuous times that created
       | a giant rift where there was no communication from my early
       | adolescence into early adulthood with one side of my family and
       | one night of taking mdma with my closest cousin from childhood
       | was able to facilitate a remediation. However when I've taken it
       | recreationally without a goal in mind it has been such a painful
       | experience in the following days, which isn't every users
       | experience, but for myself without meaningful emotional resolve
       | the drug left me feeling incredibly depressed. With that being
       | said, I hope anyone who wants to experiment with it invests in a
       | safety kit ( https://dancesafe.org/product/mdma-testing-kit/ ),
       | no matter your intention
        
         | heavyset_go wrote:
         | Yeah, MDMA is a heavy 5HT releaser, which is the cause of post-
         | MDMA depression after as little as one dose. I wish other
         | relatives to MDMA were investigated, too, like bk-MDMA. It
         | results in less 5HT release, has the same effects as MDMA, but
         | doesn't have a come down with depression as a symptom unless
         | abused.
        
           | therealx wrote:
           | Interesting. By abused, do you mean prolonged use over many
           | days or large one time dosage or both? If the one time use
           | definition, can you reach a threshold dose for what one
           | considers an mdma experiance and still avoid the bulk of
           | depression?
        
             | therealx wrote:
             | I just checked erowid and it seems to be a very different
             | experiance. Still seems interesting!
        
         | taurath wrote:
         | Also supplements are mandatory to prevent a really large
         | comedown period - the most important being alpha-liproic acid,
         | to avoid neurotoxicity.
        
           | uoaei wrote:
           | 5-HTP is a precursor to serotonin and taking it for about a
           | week before your experience allows your body to synthesize
           | more to replace all the serotonin that gets used during the
           | experience.
           | 
           | For more information look into "pre-loading" for MDMA
           | experiences.
        
             | com2kid wrote:
             | > 5-HTP is a precursor to serotonin and taking it for about
             | a week before your experience allows your body to
             | synthesize more
             | 
             | Prolonged use of 5-HTP will also cause heart problems, same
             | reason fen-phen does. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fenflur
             | amine/phentermine#Adver...
             | 
             | I don't know of any studies of exactly how much is needed
             | to cause problems, before taking 5-htp one might want to
             | look into that!
             | 
             | I am always rather concerned that 5-htp is available OTC,
             | and is even added to energy drinks, when it is known to
             | have such harmful effects.
        
             | pvarangot wrote:
             | 5-HTP will do nothing to your serotonin levels if you are
             | healthy. That's mostly anecdotal evidence from communities
             | that are usually looking into using it with more frequency
             | that what most experts agree that you should be using it.
             | 
             | It is recommended as post-loading by psychiatrists but also
             | based on their anecdotal experience with patients.
        
               | taurath wrote:
               | Agree with this. It also must be taken at least 24 hours
               | afterwards in order to ensure that you've finished
               | metabolizing the MDMA or else the newly available
               | serotonin will make the drugs effect more continuous.
        
           | com2kid wrote:
           | Fun fact, assuming you meant lipoic not liproic, large doses
           | of R-ALA will put someone into a ketogenic state.
           | 
           | From what I understand, ALA is rather unstable and degrades
           | quickly, so for accurate dosing using stablized r-ala.
           | 
           | Anyway, about 1000mg and you'll be in ketosis a couple hours
           | later!
        
             | taurath wrote:
             | Yes, and large doses are not recommended. 100mg every few
             | hours while under effect of MDMA.
        
           | pvarangot wrote:
           | Supplements are not mandatory even on semi-legal MDMA
           | assisted psychotherapy and in research studies. I don't know
           | were you got that from. If they are effective or not is also
           | a matter of debate, the specific action mechanisms are not
           | well understood even in simple models like mice, and all the
           | evidence in humans in anecdotal.
           | 
           | They are only recommended and it's usually preloading and not
           | postloading.
           | 
           | The most common side effect on people with ASD is anxiety and
           | difficulty concentrating, and on people with PTSD it's
           | anxiety or depression. They happen in around 50% to 25% of
           | the population and they also happen on people taking placebo.
           | Here we are talking about people _with an actual serious
           | mental condition_ that is leading to chronic social anxiety
           | or dissociative episodes even when not under the influence of
           | any drug.
           | 
           | That's all data from MAPS sponsored published research
           | studies. I'm not sure where you got the idea that supplements
           | are mandatory to prevent a really large comedown period, but
           | I think you might have confused yourself from reading too
           | much anecdotal data, or you have been lied to.
           | 
           | Data gathered from surveys on recreational users point out
           | that depression happens only in something like 10% to 15% of
           | the population but it's tricky to get conclusions from self
           | reported studies.
        
             | taurath wrote:
             | Personal experience and the experience of a lot of people
             | who have used MDMA, backed up by the studies below. I'm not
             | saying you will become depressed. MOST people feel a "fried
             | out" feeling the next couple days unless supplementation is
             | taken, and that effect is well studied and established.
             | 
             | https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/10619665/
             | 
             | Here is the basing study - and the neurotoxic effects of
             | MDMA being metabolized to MDA in vitro are well documented.
             | 
             | https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/2457659/
             | 
             | Yes - these are rat models. But it's not like we are
             | allowed to test for toxicity in humans at these levels.
        
             | ketamine__ wrote:
             | Drug users like to see themselves as experts. It makes them
             | feel smart. It's really that simple.
        
               | pvarangot wrote:
               | I was also thinking that the person I replied to was
               | getting their anecdotal data from drug user groups or
               | communities or online "how to trip" wikis, but I
               | understand that I'm biased. I was just calling to
               | attention that it may be wiser to get your information
               | from people actually gathering data in an unbiased way
               | and from large populations.
               | 
               | That being said, ketamine__, I do agree with your general
               | statement about some drug users thinking their use makes
               | them smarter or wiser, it's a common indication of
               | addiction though. Specially among people that are highly
               | functional among society or in disciplines like
               | engineering or the sciences.
        
               | taurath wrote:
               | Please see my response above. It is based on, YES,
               | experience from communities but also backing from
               | scientific studies.
               | 
               | There are NO large population scientific studies on MDMA
               | usage. The scientific data that does exist absolutely
               | supports supplementation. I am not a current user of MDMA
               | nor a "druggie", but I attribute an enormous amount of my
               | personal growth to its occasional use in conjunction with
               | therapy in my 20s.
        
           | loves_mangoes wrote:
           | I'm glad to learn about alpha-liproic acid, and on the same
           | theme the beta (and alpha1) blocker Carvedilol taken 1h
           | before has been found [0] to reduce hyperthermia and other
           | cardiotoxic effects of MDMA without "affecting the subjective
           | effects".
           | 
           | This is your threadly reminder to practice harm reduction if
           | you plan to take neuro- and cardiotoxic drugs like MDMA =)
           | 
           | [0] https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22404145/
        
             | bennysonething wrote:
             | Genuine question, is mdma cardio toxic? Thought that was
             | cocaine?
        
               | therealx wrote:
               | Many drugs are, but youre (I think), thinking of the
               | study where they accidently used meth instead of MDMA.
        
               | pvarangot wrote:
               | It's not clear it's cardiotoxic even on heavy users. Most
               | research points out that it is, but the mechanism is not
               | well understood so it may be a correlation as most heavy
               | users will not be leading a healthy vascular life.
        
             | cwkoss wrote:
             | Note that it is spelled alpha-lipoic acid - no 'r'
        
       | PragmaticPulp wrote:
       | Good to see some progress in this area.
       | 
       | As usual, it's important to emphasize that this research is about
       | therapy, with MDMA as an additional modulator on top of the
       | therapy. In this case, 15 therapy sessions over a period of 7
       | weeks. MDMA was only involved in 2 of the 15 sessions. If I'm
       | reading the paper correctly, patients received 3 therapy sessions
       | before MDMA was introduced and the bulk of reported improvements
       | happened prior to MDMA being added. Looking at the graphs, there
       | aren't any obvious score increases around the MDMA sessions. In
       | fact, I couldn't tell when the MDMA was introduced without
       | reading the methodology section.
       | 
       | The study was also limited to 6 couples, with no control group.
       | Note that the control group in this case doesn't have to be a
       | placebo group, because it's too obvious if someone has taken a
       | powerful drug. Instead, the control group would simply receive
       | therapy without MDMA and results would be compared. The
       | difference would begin to show the benefit of therapy+MDMA over
       | therapy alone, which is critically important in these trials. You
       | can't just give people 15 therapy sessions and then attribute the
       | benefits to 2 doses of MDMA.
       | 
       | People tend to see these headlines and assume that the drug is
       | doing all the work, or that they can simply replicate the results
       | by taking the drug and seeing what happens. This is usually
       | backed up by a couple of random positive anecdotes in the comment
       | section while anyone with negative experiences is downvoted or
       | dismissed.
       | 
       | Please don't assume you can replicate these results with ad-hoc
       | experimentation with street drugs. If you browse Reddit, it's not
       | hard to find anecdotes from people who have mistaken the short-
       | term effects of these drugs for long-term healing, which usually
       | results in them reaching out for more drugs the next time they
       | have problems. Once people convince themselves that the drug is
       | the easy solution to their problems, they're on their way to low-
       | level addiction.
        
         | therealx wrote:
         | I actually had long term healing from MDMA, and had no problems
         | putting it down at any time. Of course people with addictive
         | personalities can get addicted, but thats true of almost
         | anything.
        
         | pvarangot wrote:
         | It's normal to get the glowy MDMA feeling in a good
         | "breakthrough" therapy session or deep conversation with a
         | friend. So yeah if you just take a pill and look at the wall
         | you'll know, but in a very warm social context or a good
         | therapy session you may get the serotonin rush out of a
         | placebo.
        
         | ketamine__ wrote:
         | > Once people convince themselves that the drug is the easy
         | solution to their problems, they're on their way to low-level
         | addiction.
         | 
         | What's the difference between this and being prescribed an
         | antidepressant? I'd argue there is no difference except that
         | self-medicating is much less likely to work.
        
           | jskajakzkjx wrote:
           | MDMA induces tolerance and requires dose escalation for
           | redosing after the acute effects wear off. It's like benzos,
           | heroin, or speed in that respect. At least it will stop
           | working eventually so few people would compulsively redose
           | every day, but I've seen people who did it every weekend and
           | eventually had a very bad time. Antidepressants, on the other
           | hand, are designed for daily use (and generally require
           | sustained use to be effective). The dynamic where you want
           | more so you keep increasing your dose to fight tolerance
           | until you end up worse than you started is less of a risk.
           | 
           | I don't mean to attack MDMA. I think it's great, and a lot of
           | people could benefit from if. But I think this is a real
           | issue if it's easily available outside of a therapeutic
           | context.
        
         | sneak wrote:
         | > _which usually results in them reaching out for more drugs
         | the next time they have problems_
         | 
         | "I hate to advocate drugs, alcohol, violence, or insanity to
         | anyone, but they've always worked for me."
         | 
         | -- Hunter S. Thompson
        
           | PragmaticPulp wrote:
           | I know this comment was meant to be facetious, but this is
           | actually how many people spiral into addiction. Recreational
           | drugs feel like they're "working" when they make the person's
           | problems temporarily disappear, but in reality the person
           | hasn't solved anything. When the problems inevitably return,
           | the temptation is to reach for more drugs. Tolerance is real,
           | though, so people tend to reach for escalating doses over
           | time. The cumulative effects of drug abuse and avoidance
           | behavior begin to add up, compounding the original problems
           | and digging the person into an even deeper hole.
           | 
           | That's why these successful programs are always therapy-
           | first, rather than drug-first. The focus is first on
           | identifying and fixing problems, using drugs to potentially
           | amplify the therapy rather than avoid the problems.
           | 
           | Sadly, most of these studies lack any control groups (e.g.
           | therapy-only) to compare against. If you look at the graphs
           | in the study, patients were already reporting massive
           | improvements after the first 3 therapy sessions, before
           | taking any MDMA at all. Unfortunately, I don't think we can
           | draw any conclusions about the MDMA in this study other than
           | it didn't appear to make things worse when it was introduced.
        
             | bennysonething wrote:
             | I took way to much mdma when I was in my twenties, it
             | really messed up my short term memory and I'm pretty
             | certain the affects on my memory are still there. At the
             | time I think it started to mess with my confidence too. I
             | had some great times on it and actually meet my future wife
             | on it. Over all I wish I'd never tried it though. It was
             | too good. Then after a while the nastier side of it
             | outweighed the fun and we stopped doing it.
             | 
             | I can definitely see how it could help couples talk through
             | their difficulties and it seems to bond people closer
             | together.
             | 
             | As an aside I know a guy who completely fucked himself by
             | doing mdma farvto much. It was really sad to meet him after
             | a few years, he'd gone from happy outgoing to a paranoid
             | mess.
        
             | girvo wrote:
             | The other more difficult issue (and was my personal one) is
             | when you lean on drugs (opiates in my case) to try and
             | solve _unsolvable_ issues.
             | 
             | That's a recipe for addiction, more so than anything else.
        
             | RangerScience wrote:
             | IMO the difference between a drug, a medicine, and a
             | psychedelic is behavioral more than substantive, although
             | different substances do have more or less tendency for
             | abuse.
             | 
             | Morphine is a medicine until you take like a drug. MDMA is
             | a psychedelic at a rave and a medicine on a therapist's
             | couch. By all reports, there's no possible way to abuse
             | ayahuasca.
             | 
             | You will have more mileage with someone experienced, and
             | more still with a professional, just like you would with
             | other therapy practices that you can teach yourself, like
             | meditation and yoga.
             | 
             | AFAIK addiction is mostly about a person's life, and not
             | the things they ingest. That's why rehab clinic success is
             | so heavily dependent on the support network (or lack
             | thereof) the person returns to. You have to have something
             | to avoid in the first place to turn to substances to avoid
             | them.
        
               | tpm wrote:
               | Unfortunately (and I am a fan of psychedelics when used
               | in the 'right' way) I think it is indeed possible to
               | abuse psychedelic drugs, not perhaps in the sense of
               | addiction, but it can still be a habit (with negative
               | consequences) of sorts for some people, either alone or
               | as a part of polysubstance abuse, or be used to
               | manipulate people who are more susceptible under the
               | influence. I have seen some examples of this.
        
               | pmoriarty wrote:
               | _" By all reports, there's no possible way to abuse
               | ayahuasca."_
               | 
               | I don't know where you heard this, but this is a highly
               | dubious assertion.
               | 
               | I know people who have in fact abused ayahuasca, take it
               | compulsively, and have had negative impacts on their life
               | from taking it.
               | 
               | There's a long and sad history of various drugs being
               | claimed to be harmless or even beneficial, only to have
               | it revealed later that they aren't.
               | 
               | Cocaine was such a drug, with Freud being a huge fan of
               | it, claiming it as a miracle cure with no potential for
               | abuse. In fact it was used to treat morphine addiction.
               | 
               | Heroin was also initially used as a treatment for
               | morphine addiction.
               | 
               | The methadone came around, and was used to treat heroin
               | addiction. But, surprise! It turns out that just like
               | heroin and cocaine, methadone itself can be addictive.
               | 
               | Marijuana was widely hyped as completely harmless, but it
               | turns out that some people can get (psychologically)
               | addicted to it, abuse it, and suffer negative effects.
               | 
               | Anything (whether drug, activity, object, or food) that
               | is highly desirable can be abused.
        
               | RangerScience wrote:
               | > I know people who have in fact abused ayahuasca
               | 
               | I am super interested in hearing more details. Can you
               | share?
        
               | therealx wrote:
               | I haven't heard of it either, but it's mostly a
               | proglonged, enhanced DMT trip, and I know people who got
               | addicted to DMT, so I could believe it?
        
               | scythe wrote:
               | >The methadone came around, and was used to treat heroin
               | addiction. But, surprise! It turns out that just like
               | heroin and cocaine, methadone itself can be addictive.
               | 
               | That's a little unfair to methadone. It _is_ less
               | addictive than heroin and morphine. But users figured out
               | how to combine it with other drugs to get a stronger
               | high, which led to some recreational abuse. It 's sad
               | that these maintenance programs are so widely disparaged
               | when they are in fact valuable treatments for opioid use
               | disorder supported by extensive medical evidence that are
               | underutilized due to popular misconceptions and paranoia.
               | 
               | https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/article-
               | abstract/18289...
        
           | mseidl wrote:
           | I remember reading an article or something that was something
           | like "Soldiers with PTSD try MDMA, give rave reviews"
        
             | uoaei wrote:
             | Straight from the source: https://maps.org/research/mdma
             | 
             | MAPS does pretty much all of the coordination with the FDA
             | and other regulatory bodies for making these studies
             | possible.
        
         | pmoriarty wrote:
         | _" Note that the control group in this case doesn't have to be
         | a placebo group, because it's too obvious if someone has taken
         | a powerful drug."_
         | 
         | It's not, actually. I've heard interviews with researchers in
         | other MDMA studies saying that there were subjects who were
         | absolutely convinced they got MDMA, and acted like they were on
         | it, but when the double-blind study was over it was revealed
         | that they didn't.
         | 
         | Never underestimate the power of placebos or of the human mind.
        
           | fblp wrote:
           | Interesting. Got a link to a study?
        
             | pmoriarty wrote:
             | Not off hand. About a year ago I watched and listened to a
             | huge number of talks and videos on psychedelics in general
             | and psychedelic therapy in particular, and it was at one of
             | those that I heard an MDMA researcher mention this.
             | 
             | My best guess is that it was at a video of a talk or
             | interview given on the _Aware Project_ [1], or on an
             | episode of the _Psychedelic Salon_ [2]
             | 
             | [1] -
             | https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0oErWkP157InE47YAuhzPg
             | 
             | [2] - https://psychedelicsalon.com/
        
           | mattkrause wrote:
           | Here's crazy case report of man who "overdosed" on placebos
           | given to him as part of a blinded clinical trial.
           | 
           | https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17484949/
           | 
           | His blood pressure crashed (80/40 initally, 100/62 after
           | several hours of IV fluids) and his heart rate was over 100
           | bpm. When he found out the pills he had taken were inert, he
           | bounced back almost immediately.
        
             | mjburgess wrote:
             | just a panic attack
        
               | mattkrause wrote:
               | It's obviously psychosomatic (which is why I brought it
               | up) but it's different from a garden-variety panic
               | attack:
               | 
               | - Blood pressure tends to shoot up, rather than down,
               | during a panic attack. - Four hours would be incredibly
               | long; they're usually more like 20 minutes
        
           | crazygringo wrote:
           | Wow, that is bizarre. At first I'd say it seems unbelievable,
           | but then when you think of people in churches speaking in
           | tongues, etc. -- I guess I could see it.
           | 
           | But if you've ever _done_ MDMA you 'd certainly know it was a
           | placebo, so it feels like these are people who never had, but
           | _imagined_ what they thought it _ought_ to be like.
           | 
           | I'd actually be incredibly curious to hear their description
           | of it? Especially since everyone knows what people act like
           | when drunk or on cocaine... but I'm not quite sure people
           | have as definite an idea of MDMA?
        
             | majormajor wrote:
             | > But if you've ever done MDMA you'd certainly know it was
             | a placebo, so it feels like these are people who never had,
             | but imagined what they thought it ought to be like.
             | 
             | There have been times when the effect of coffee or
             | marijauna hits me after a few sips/a bite of an edible,
             | which _feels_ placebo-y. But then I 'm aware that it seems
             | to be too fast, even as I start to feel it so fast, so
             | could that still be a placebo effect?
             | 
             | I don't know, but it confuses me.
        
             | pvarangot wrote:
             | The first MDMA experience is usually very surprising, yes,
             | but not for everyone. Depending on how you usually regulate
             | your serotonin release, getting a very similar feeling to
             | that of a run of the mill "roll" may happen if you are just
             | very happy or melancholic or introspective. A very deep
             | conversation about something that you have been wanting to
             | let go for a while or a therapy breakthrough can elicit
             | that feeling.
             | 
             | I don't know about this couples therapy thing, but remember
             | that in most of this trials researchers are dealing with
             | somehow of an "unstable" brain chemistry. Individuals with
             | PTSD or ASD tend to dissociate even when sober and to be
             | very sensitive to mindset and setting and believing they
             | took a pill that is going to make their struggles go away
             | while talking with a therapist can be a very warm and
             | welcoming setting.
             | 
             | That being said, I also would like to point out that how
             | people act on cocaine is usually heavily misunderstood and
             | most of the stereotype of someone under the influence of
             | cocaine is usually how people act on cocaine+some other
             | strong stimulant like pseudo-efedrine. Cocaine was used
             | medically for a long while and it's effects are very well
             | understood and not similar to the usual "that person is on
             | coke" stereotype.
        
             | twic wrote:
             | > But if you've ever done MDMA you'd certainly know it was
             | a placebo
             | 
             | What's the dose used in the experiment? Similar to a
             | recreational dose, or much smaller? If it was much smaller,
             | i could imagine people not really being able to tell.
             | 
             | EDIT: The paper [1] says there are two MDMA 'sessions',
             | about three weeks apart, and:
             | 
             | > Each partner was given 75 mg MDMA in the first MDMA
             | session, and 100 mg in the second MDMA session, with an
             | optional supplemental half-dose 1.5 hours later in both
             | sessions (participants were informed that the supplemental
             | half-doses could prolong the therapeutic window of MDMA
             | effects).
             | 
             | I am told that a typical recreational dose of MDMA is 100
             | mg. More concretely, an Orange Tesla is ~250 mg, so make of
             | that what you will.
             | 
             | [1] https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/20008198.2
             | 020.1...
        
               | jcampbell1 wrote:
               | 1mg per lb of body weight is about what is required to
               | "roll" for a very infrequent user. I personally think it
               | is a pretty ideal drug to use no more than twice per yer
               | with a partner, and you sure as hell don't want a
               | therapist in the room, as it would waste the physical
               | intimacy effects.
        
             | bawolff wrote:
             | Its a common joke in teen tv shows, where the main
             | character is supposed to obtain alcohol but can't so buys
             | non alcoholic beer, but everybody thinks its the real thing
             | and nobody notices.
             | 
             | Not sure how based in reality that is, but seems to imply a
             | similar effect for other drugs might be real.
        
             | mlyle wrote:
             | Clearly you've never seen one of the kegger pranks where
             | someone buys a keg of non-alcoholic beer and everyone acts
             | drunk :P
        
             | sushisource wrote:
             | Indeed. It's something I rarely hear mentioned, but I have
             | found valuable about recreational drugs - they teach you a
             | _lot_ about how your body works and what certain things
             | feel like. A lot like tasting a spice in isolation allows
             | you to pick it out in a complete dish.
        
             | tenaciousDaniel wrote:
             | I'd bet that that was one of the controls in the study -
             | targeting participants who had never used MDMA before.
             | Otherwise it would affect the integrity of the placebo
             | group.
        
           | zepto wrote:
           | Also people who didn't receive a placebo who didn't seem to
           | respond at all and claimed to have received a placebo.
        
       | yboris wrote:
       | A very related book on the topic: _Love Drugs: The Chemical
       | Future of Relationships_ by Brian D. Earp And Julian Savulescu
       | 
       | https://www.sup.org/books/title/?id=27130
        
       | el_dev_hell wrote:
       | Note: the below is an anecdote from my life. I have no
       | medical/psychological training past a psy 101 class in uni.
       | 
       | I took a fair amount of MDMA in my late teens/early twenties.
       | Mostly in nightclubs and music festivals. It was cool at the time
       | (great memories and the music 100% was better).
       | 
       | In my late twenties (after 5+ years without MDMA), my partner and
       | I decided to roll after getting some MDMA off the dark web. We
       | went to a bar, which was my past go-to, and had an OK night. We
       | left pretty early and went home.
       | 
       | When we got home, we had 100mg left each and decided to roll in
       | the peace of our house. We both dropped a cap and spent the next
       | 6 hours having very deep conversations and just caressing each
       | other (I especially enjoyed touching her hair).
       | 
       | We didn't have any major issues in our relationship leading up to
       | that night, but we did have a bit of friction over our future
       | plans. After that one night, our relationship was at least 30%
       | more pleasant and we both felt significantly closer to each
       | other.
       | 
       | We still have a great relationship 2 years later. Obviously, the
       | MDMA isn't the only factor, but it helped to dramatically
       | strengthen our feelings towards each other.
       | 
       | One downside was sex. She was very in the mood and I was unable
       | to perform on MDMA.
       | 
       | YMMV.
        
         | GordonS wrote:
         | Just wanted to say that I appreciate you sharing this
         | interesting, personal story!
        
         | ttul wrote:
         | 20mg Cialis, just saying.
        
       | tlb wrote:
       | The value of a dramatically improved relationship can be
       | equivalent to several years of life. Ask anyone who's been in a
       | failing marriage. So the value of a therapy that helps fix
       | relationships would rank among the great breakthroughs of modern
       | medicine.
       | 
       | It's a shame that research has been hampered by the war on drugs.
       | Some day our descendants will look back on the prohibition on
       | research towards such therapies as one of the great own-goals of
       | our species.
        
       | cmehdy wrote:
       | Link to the research article:
       | https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/20008198.2020.1...
       | 
       | While studies of this kind are still very hard to make and very
       | limited in scope (in this case, uncontrolled and with a very
       | small sample size), I'm glad to see that we are lifting the
       | unnecessary taboos around things like MDMA so that proper
       | research can begin to get done (with 6-8 decades of delay
       | compared to what we could have had, but still).
       | 
       | Props to MAPS (Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic
       | Studies) in the US for paving the way to that change.
        
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