[HN Gopher] Setting up personal OKR (objectives and key-results) ___________________________________________________________________ Setting up personal OKR (objectives and key-results) Author : pravj Score : 97 points Date : 2021-01-02 14:56 UTC (8 hours ago) (HTM) web link (hackpravj.com) (TXT) w3m dump (hackpravj.com) | supercanuck wrote: | What is your morning workout routine? | pravj wrote: | It includes: | | - 50 jumping jacks [3 sets] | | - 25 knee-highs [3 sets] | | - 30 mountain climbers [2 sets] | | - 25 pushups | | - 1 minute plank | | I stopped doing it after I was able to meet my weight loss | milestone, need to restart. | lxe wrote: | OKR is probably one of the worst fads to happen to project | management and software engineering. | | Just set normal realistic goals and plans, or even just a general | direction. Don't use numbers where it doesn't make sense -- not | everything needs to be a piece of data -- not everything has a | completion percentage. | | Hope it goes away soon, along with "Agile", "Extreme Programming" | and "Open Office Layout" | fermienrico wrote: | Live a little. Put the business bullshit away. | nbzso wrote: | Wow, just wow. Someone contributed to OKR getting a wife. I am | blown away. I will never quantize some parts of my life. Work is | work. Learning is learning. There are a lot of methodologies for | GTD, but in my experience balancing order with improvised chaos | is healthy practice :) | | PS. Joke aside there is a proven correlation between high | achievement and habit of tracking and measuring a goal. I am not | sure about OKR but may be the choice of which methodology to use | is personal or psychology driven. | wortelefant wrote: | the main benefits of OKRs might be transparency and alignment, | not having a quantifiable goals. I am dating without much | success for more than one and a half years now, and I have yet | to meet someone who might be open to build something together. | I regularly spend money on platforms like tinder, veggly, | okcupid with a hope that despite corona, it might contribute to | such a development. Still I did not put much effort in my | activities there, as I wantee to keep it playful and not follow | up on it as I would with a "real goal". I feel unhappy about my | lack of progress in this area and I hope that for this new | year, acknowledging it as a committment will help move this | forward. | [deleted] | systematical wrote: | This is how I've decided to do my goals for the year. I split | mine into 4 categories: personal, professional, physical, and | reading. And then do monthly goals for each and track what I do | per day. I don't have to do something in each category every day | or even have to do anything any day. It's just helpful for me to | see if I am slacking in an area over a stretch of days. The idea | is to keep the goals fairly easy to accomplish and not plan more | than a month out so I can pivot. | gen_greyface wrote: | Any reason you have reading as a separate category? Cant it be | merged into the personal and professional categories? | systematical wrote: | Its an area that I've neglected a lot in my adult life. I | started off the year saying I am going to at least read one | book (any book) per month. Currently reading One World by | Wendell Willkie FWIW. I don't mind if there is cross-over and | if there is that's even better! All about easy goals and | progress. | WJW wrote: | What I like about OKRs is that it really focuses on providing | ways to clearly specify your goals and measure whether you are | achieving them. This is also its biggest weakness, since "Key | Results" that cannot be expressed as continuous, clearly | measurable values will suffer. This leads to cold-seeming | Initiatives like the "Connect to the girlfriend for at least six | hour-long sessions." from the blog post. Well meaning no doubt, | but relationship quality just doesn't lend itself to quantisation | like that. | | That said, I'm actually a fan of OKRs for achieving personal | goals as long as you can be honest to yourself about what your | Objectives actually are. (ie, if you don't really value being fit | but put it on the list because you feel it is compulsory then no | framework is going to provide enough motivation) In corporate | settings, the incentives are typically not aligned at all and | that tends to break implementation very badly. But for personal | settings where you are both goal-setter and implementer it can | work quite well. | pravj wrote: | Agree that a quality-sensitive metric can't be modelled fully | in the structure. This is something I'm even observing in the | work-environment also. | | Do you have any learnings to make such initiatives work? | Jugurtha wrote: | > _Well meaning no doubt, but relationship quality just doesn | 't lend itself to quantisation like that._ | | Granted, but sometimes you can find proxies and variables that | increase the likelihood of success if you hit them | consistently. For example, what's "successfully land an | aircraft"? It's a sequence of hitting certain parameters within | certain time windows that, when you do that, result in a | smooth, successful, landing. Successful landing is a "lagging | indicator". | | There are many things, even in "artistic performance", that are | a sequence of consistently hitting a target within a certain | tolerance, at a specific time, etc. | | In the workplace, you may have the problem of having a quality | relationship with your colleagues or "reports". You may not be | able to "quantify" that easily, but you can have regular one on | ones in a relaxed enough setting that lead to candid | conversations that unearth problems early enough that you can | effectively solve them. The relationship quality is a lagging | indicator, if you will, of what has been done upstream. | | What do you think? | WJW wrote: | What I have found for myself is that I easily fool myself | into applying these kind of frameworks for everything in my | life, because every problem can be a nail for the OKR-shaped | hammer. Some problems are better approached in different ways | though. It's a valuable tool to have in the mental toolbox | but it is also good to have a variety of approaches to choose | from when confronted with a new problem or task. | jvanderbot wrote: | I've used OKR for 7 years, on a quarterly basis. I had simple | markdown files at first, then vnl-log files, and now R notebooks | (https://github.com/dkogan/vnlog) to read / plot. | | It may seem like overhead, and there's some snark in this thread | about how it's project / team management without the project and | team. | | I completely disagree. If you set up your KR's so they are 1) | quantitative, 2) daily measurable, 3) simple to log ( a few | keystrokes while journalling) and 4) completely under your | control to achieve. | | At the end of the day, I mark down my progress on all my OKRs. I | can quickly plot them, look back at progress, and look back at | goals and concerns by seeing the _types_ of objectives I had. It | 's a 10,000 foot journal that I otherwise wouldn't have. | | There's more to this than simply quantifying yourself. We like | #'s because they are representations of complex systems. The self | and your personal history are absolutely a complex system worth | tracking. | | Looking back at my OKRs when I was dating my (now) wife, | comparing the ways I put effort into our relationship and our | changing priorities. Seeing over time my running distances, | weight lifting activity, meditation record, and seeing how I | consistently attempt to over-achieve by setting KR values too | high ... Having those points of reference has made today more | enjoyable, and been a constant reminder that progress comes | slowly and missing on any particular attempt at something is | irrelevant. It's so completely a part of my life now that I can't | imagine setting goals or daily priorities without it. | | Think of it like quantitative journalling. | demadog wrote: | Any books you recommend along these lines? | sh_123 wrote: | Can you share more about your process? I'm very interested in | learning more. How do you track your daily data points? | tuatoru wrote: | There are a lot of these comments on HN, that baldly ask for | more information without contributing anything or providing | any context. So many that I suspect a bot. | wcarss wrote: | With regard to your juggling KR, I learned by a method of | breaking it down that I found very helpful and learned from a | book that I can't remember the title of, and would like to relate | here. | | I learned in ~3 hours of low effort while watching TV during a | single day, told a friend about it, and they subsequently did the | same thing that same day. Afterward we both said things to each | other like "wow, I had no idea it was this easy!" | | A quick disclaimer: this is for 3-ball juggling. 4-ball is a bit | different, and I have heard it is a better foundation for 5,6,7+, | but I never learned how to do it well. | | First, get your three balls or similar. Hacky sacks, tennis | balls, bean bags, rubik's cubes, whatever you've got. | | Second, sit somewhere comfy and safe, with your arms down and | your hands roughly near your knees if they were crossed. Hold | just one ball. Practice tossing that one ball from one hand to | the other hand, tossing it to about eye level on each throw. Your | goal here is to keep your hands mostly down and apart and to get | used to the feel of what power of throw you need and where your | hand needs to be to catch the ball, without spending too much | attention watching your hands. Practice left to right repeatedly, | and right to left repeatedly, and then also practice back and | forth. This should take somewhere between 5 minutes and an hour | total -- but try to make this _easy_. If a later step is hard, do | this first step more. Make sure the ball gets right to about eye | level on each throw, in a neat little arc. | | Third, once you feel good about the above, sit in the same | position, with one ball in each hand. Throw one and when it hits | the peak, around eye level, throw the other, and then catch them | both. That's it. Now practice this, again repeating first a left- | hand throw and then first a right-hand throw, and then a little | back and forth, and try to keep that consistency where each just | gets to about eye level in a nice little arc. This teaches the | real "trick" of juggling: knowing when to throw. This should also | take somewhere between 5 minutes and an hour to get comfortable | with. | | Fourth, sit now with two balls in one hand and one in the other. | Throw with the hand that has 2 first, and just do what you did | above, but this time, at the point the second ball thrown is in | the air at peak, instead of waiting and just catching both, throw | the third ball. You can still just catch them all from here. | Practice each direction, another 5 minutes to an hour here, but | you might slip into the next step naturally. | | Fifth, and finally: rather than just catching at the end there, | try to just continue the pattern. You have all of the skills | required at this point and you will be "juggling" each time. Once | you've thrown all 3 starting from each direction, it likely won't | be hard to do a 4th or a 5th throw, which feels amazing to get | to, and then it's just smoothing things out and finding | consistency. | | At that point, try to hit 10 throws, then 30, 100, etc. Getting a | string of 30+ might take a day or two to actually get, but it'll | likely be addictive and you'll want to just keep trying, and it's | easy to do most of these steps while you do other low-hands-use | things like watching TV, having a conversation, or listening to a | podcast. | | This comment may get lost, but maybe it'll also help someone! | Juggling is a wonderful little skill to have, and it sticks | around for life. I learned a little over a decade ago while in | school and actively played with it for about a year, but can | still easily resume it today. | zikzak wrote: | This is how I learned. The most important step here is | selection of the right thing to juggle. Nothing adds more | difficulty (well, maybe riding a unicycle). The hackysack was | made for this. The heft and size are perfect, especially when | you move to having two in one hand and one in the other (the | juggling starting position). After that, it is all muscle | memory. After I got the basics, I would go out in the yard and | just do laps while juggling. Before a week or so I was able to | juggle fairly well with three identical objects, then figured | out doing different sizes and weights together. At some point, | I realized girls were not going to be impressed enough by this | skill to overcome the other deficiencies I had, and I stopped. | :) | Jd wrote: | I have a pretty extensive personal system partially based on OKRs | but I find the key element is doing the exercise as a group and | having accountability partners. | tonymet wrote: | I'd like to see this added to the system. At my company, every | goal has a "POC" - point of contact aka "owner" or "partner". I | think you should add a partner to each goal - a person who will | rate you on the objective. The objectives are what matter. e.g. | if you hit 6 hrs time with gf, but she still thinks you are | rubbish , you haven't made any progress on the "strengthen | relationships with gf" objective. | lljk_kennedy wrote: | Exactly. Outcome > Output. | dwb wrote: | I cannot imagine structuring my (non-work) life like this. | Nothing would suck the joy/play/freedom out of my leisure time | faster. Happy for you if it works for you though. | m463 wrote: | remember, this is the time period in every year where people | set up exercise plans and decide to lose weight and save money | and ... you know. :) | aftergibson wrote: | I'm doing the same this quarter and looks like a very similar | setup. However, I don't think I could handle managing that many | objectives and try to keep it to at most three. That way I spend | time really reflecting on what actually matters. | tonymet wrote: | First off, I like the exercise. I think it's healthy as a form of | journaling and more people should be introspective in this way. | | But I'd like to ask what problem is this trying to solve? In a | large org, the OKRs are driving alignment and accountability. | | But for an individual, i think the bigger challenge is | motivation, discipline, dedication, commitment. | | So what I mean is, I don't think individuals have a problem | knowing what to do: we all know we need to lose weight and reduce | BMI. | | The devil is building the habits (eating less, exercising more, | avoiding temptation, being more disciplined, being around people | with likewise habits) to achieve the OKR. | | I'm not saying that the OKRs are a bad idea - just that they are | a map of a terrain that leaves out all the devilish hills that | really need climbing. | closeparen wrote: | There are usually more obviously good and desirable things than | I have the bandwidth to accomplish in one time period; it's | useful to pick the subset that will be my current focus. | | For example last year I invested a lot in lifestyle habits | around exercise and cooking. Now those habits are largely | autopilot and I'm looking at mental habits around attention, | complaining, and negativity. | lazyasciiart wrote: | It's just a variation on stuff like "making SMART goals". It's | a framework for breaking down your goal into identifiable steps | and finding ways to check your progress early, instead of | saying "this year I'll lose weight" and checking back on | December 30. | ghaff wrote: | Not that I'm a particular David Allen GTD fan (and really am | not much of a "methodology" person in general) but one of the | handful of his ideas I really did like was the idea of | breaking down projects into specific actionable tasks. | Whether it's losing weight or getting better organized. | spieswl wrote: | That last statement is crucial. | | I was surprised to see how in-depth and detailed these | objectives are. Not to knock the author, mind you; the | dedication to breaking these things into granular tasks is | impressive. Rather, I feel that there's little room for | flexibility in taking an OKR approach to personal development. | | Case in point, I had a personal objective to do more service in | the community in 2020. The way I had envisioned the key results | was more volunteering, more interactions with people, more | things like spending weekends working on a Habitat for Humanity | house or something of the like. The pandemic really | disincentivized those kinds of in-person activities for the | sake of the community, so I pivoted to identifying more causes | I could donate to or provide help to in remote ways. It was | hard, no doubt, and I was still disappointed that I didn't get | to do the former things, but considering the circumstances it | _feels_ like my original objective was achieved. The takeaway | is that I think personal objectives that leave little room for | flexibility are fighting an uphill battle from the start. | logshipper wrote: | > But for an individual, i think the bigger challenge is | motivation, discipline, dedication, commitment. | | I definitely agree with the above. | | I found my way around this by doing weekly check-ins where I | report on progress and accordingly formulate strategies for | achieving said goals. Those reports are meant for no one but | me, but they allow me to: | | a) Measure my progress | | b) See what's working and what's not | | c) Most importantly, hold myself accountable | | Such reports are a version of looking myself in the mirror and | talking about the week that was, my habits, and the progress | (or lack thereof) I made. Furthermore, at least for me, the | mere act of writing allows me to crystallize my thoughts on a | topic, lends clarity and ultimately provides an infusion of | motivation to keep working toward my goals. | | Of course, what works for me might not work for someone else, | and we all need a different framework based on our | individuality, but I hope I was able to add to your point | surrounding accountability. | | edit: Formatting | noarchy wrote: | Maybe I'm too cynical with regard to today's corporate practices, | but what would be next? Maybe weekly tasks can be filed as Jira | tickets? Burndown charts for how one's week went? | | If it works for you, great, but this seems like something I would | never want to import into my personal life. | tonymet wrote: | can we ask what you are doing instead? | dkdk8283 wrote: | I agree with parent and I'll provide my own answer: I live in | the moment. A simple but powerful lesson I learned from my | pets. | noarchy wrote: | Good question. I wish I had a more sophisticated answer, but | everything I do is fairly low-tech. First, memory: this works | for nearly everything in my case. Second, a whiteboard for | grocery items, which I update as needed. Third, just keeping | momentum going for my goals. | | For what I might term "loftier" aspirations (diet, fitness, | etc), I just make sure I am being consistent. Those things | have to be built into your lifestyle, or at least, that is | the only way I can get it to work. There was a time, for | instance, when I did track my nutrition with a spreadsheet. | But after a few months I realized I could manage it all | within my head: I had gauged my daily macro needs, and could | largely judge by eye, and it has worked for years since. | | I have tried todo-style apps, as an example of where I have | tried a more explicit approach. I find that they are just | procrastination and delay lists for me. If I am not actively | doing it already, with exceptions, it probably won't be done | at all. | raverbashing wrote: | Not bureaucratize my life plans? | | I keep my objectives in my head. No need to write this kind | of thing down and keeping scores of myself. And whatever | happens happens. I don't need to bog myself down with some | corporate invention. | 3gg wrote: | Sounds like the corporate brainwash really worked here. | javajosh wrote: | I really like this but some of your objectives don't have a | timeline attached. For example, "Write 10 reviews on twitter". I | would have liked to see a parenthetical "(1 per week for 10 | straight weeks)" or "(within 60 days)". Without this its hard to | put concrete tasks on a calendar. | | BTW I like your goals, too. They seem quite wholesome and | achievable, and reasonable (granted I don't know your BMI now, | for example, but waking up before 8:30am is a good one.) | pravj wrote: | Glad you liked the structure/goals. | | All of them are for January-February-March 2021. Does that | cover the time-bound aspect you're talking about? | javajosh wrote: | Sure does! Okay, so there's a "default time bound" on your | list. Makes sense. ___________________________________________________________________ (page generated 2021-01-02 23:00 UTC)