[HN Gopher] Setting up personal OKR (objectives and key-results)
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       Setting up personal OKR (objectives and key-results)
        
       Author : pravj
       Score  : 97 points
       Date   : 2021-01-02 14:56 UTC (8 hours ago)
        
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       | supercanuck wrote:
       | What is your morning workout routine?
        
         | pravj wrote:
         | It includes:
         | 
         | - 50 jumping jacks [3 sets]
         | 
         | - 25 knee-highs [3 sets]
         | 
         | - 30 mountain climbers [2 sets]
         | 
         | - 25 pushups
         | 
         | - 1 minute plank
         | 
         | I stopped doing it after I was able to meet my weight loss
         | milestone, need to restart.
        
       | lxe wrote:
       | OKR is probably one of the worst fads to happen to project
       | management and software engineering.
       | 
       | Just set normal realistic goals and plans, or even just a general
       | direction. Don't use numbers where it doesn't make sense -- not
       | everything needs to be a piece of data -- not everything has a
       | completion percentage.
       | 
       | Hope it goes away soon, along with "Agile", "Extreme Programming"
       | and "Open Office Layout"
        
       | fermienrico wrote:
       | Live a little. Put the business bullshit away.
        
       | nbzso wrote:
       | Wow, just wow. Someone contributed to OKR getting a wife. I am
       | blown away. I will never quantize some parts of my life. Work is
       | work. Learning is learning. There are a lot of methodologies for
       | GTD, but in my experience balancing order with improvised chaos
       | is healthy practice :)
       | 
       | PS. Joke aside there is a proven correlation between high
       | achievement and habit of tracking and measuring a goal. I am not
       | sure about OKR but may be the choice of which methodology to use
       | is personal or psychology driven.
        
         | wortelefant wrote:
         | the main benefits of OKRs might be transparency and alignment,
         | not having a quantifiable goals. I am dating without much
         | success for more than one and a half years now, and I have yet
         | to meet someone who might be open to build something together.
         | I regularly spend money on platforms like tinder, veggly,
         | okcupid with a hope that despite corona, it might contribute to
         | such a development. Still I did not put much effort in my
         | activities there, as I wantee to keep it playful and not follow
         | up on it as I would with a "real goal". I feel unhappy about my
         | lack of progress in this area and I hope that for this new
         | year, acknowledging it as a committment will help move this
         | forward.
        
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       | systematical wrote:
       | This is how I've decided to do my goals for the year. I split
       | mine into 4 categories: personal, professional, physical, and
       | reading. And then do monthly goals for each and track what I do
       | per day. I don't have to do something in each category every day
       | or even have to do anything any day. It's just helpful for me to
       | see if I am slacking in an area over a stretch of days. The idea
       | is to keep the goals fairly easy to accomplish and not plan more
       | than a month out so I can pivot.
        
         | gen_greyface wrote:
         | Any reason you have reading as a separate category? Cant it be
         | merged into the personal and professional categories?
        
           | systematical wrote:
           | Its an area that I've neglected a lot in my adult life. I
           | started off the year saying I am going to at least read one
           | book (any book) per month. Currently reading One World by
           | Wendell Willkie FWIW. I don't mind if there is cross-over and
           | if there is that's even better! All about easy goals and
           | progress.
        
       | WJW wrote:
       | What I like about OKRs is that it really focuses on providing
       | ways to clearly specify your goals and measure whether you are
       | achieving them. This is also its biggest weakness, since "Key
       | Results" that cannot be expressed as continuous, clearly
       | measurable values will suffer. This leads to cold-seeming
       | Initiatives like the "Connect to the girlfriend for at least six
       | hour-long sessions." from the blog post. Well meaning no doubt,
       | but relationship quality just doesn't lend itself to quantisation
       | like that.
       | 
       | That said, I'm actually a fan of OKRs for achieving personal
       | goals as long as you can be honest to yourself about what your
       | Objectives actually are. (ie, if you don't really value being fit
       | but put it on the list because you feel it is compulsory then no
       | framework is going to provide enough motivation) In corporate
       | settings, the incentives are typically not aligned at all and
       | that tends to break implementation very badly. But for personal
       | settings where you are both goal-setter and implementer it can
       | work quite well.
        
         | pravj wrote:
         | Agree that a quality-sensitive metric can't be modelled fully
         | in the structure. This is something I'm even observing in the
         | work-environment also.
         | 
         | Do you have any learnings to make such initiatives work?
        
         | Jugurtha wrote:
         | > _Well meaning no doubt, but relationship quality just doesn
         | 't lend itself to quantisation like that._
         | 
         | Granted, but sometimes you can find proxies and variables that
         | increase the likelihood of success if you hit them
         | consistently. For example, what's "successfully land an
         | aircraft"? It's a sequence of hitting certain parameters within
         | certain time windows that, when you do that, result in a
         | smooth, successful, landing. Successful landing is a "lagging
         | indicator".
         | 
         | There are many things, even in "artistic performance", that are
         | a sequence of consistently hitting a target within a certain
         | tolerance, at a specific time, etc.
         | 
         | In the workplace, you may have the problem of having a quality
         | relationship with your colleagues or "reports". You may not be
         | able to "quantify" that easily, but you can have regular one on
         | ones in a relaxed enough setting that lead to candid
         | conversations that unearth problems early enough that you can
         | effectively solve them. The relationship quality is a lagging
         | indicator, if you will, of what has been done upstream.
         | 
         | What do you think?
        
           | WJW wrote:
           | What I have found for myself is that I easily fool myself
           | into applying these kind of frameworks for everything in my
           | life, because every problem can be a nail for the OKR-shaped
           | hammer. Some problems are better approached in different ways
           | though. It's a valuable tool to have in the mental toolbox
           | but it is also good to have a variety of approaches to choose
           | from when confronted with a new problem or task.
        
       | jvanderbot wrote:
       | I've used OKR for 7 years, on a quarterly basis. I had simple
       | markdown files at first, then vnl-log files, and now R notebooks
       | (https://github.com/dkogan/vnlog) to read / plot.
       | 
       | It may seem like overhead, and there's some snark in this thread
       | about how it's project / team management without the project and
       | team.
       | 
       | I completely disagree. If you set up your KR's so they are 1)
       | quantitative, 2) daily measurable, 3) simple to log ( a few
       | keystrokes while journalling) and 4) completely under your
       | control to achieve.
       | 
       | At the end of the day, I mark down my progress on all my OKRs. I
       | can quickly plot them, look back at progress, and look back at
       | goals and concerns by seeing the _types_ of objectives I had. It
       | 's a 10,000 foot journal that I otherwise wouldn't have.
       | 
       | There's more to this than simply quantifying yourself. We like
       | #'s because they are representations of complex systems. The self
       | and your personal history are absolutely a complex system worth
       | tracking.
       | 
       | Looking back at my OKRs when I was dating my (now) wife,
       | comparing the ways I put effort into our relationship and our
       | changing priorities. Seeing over time my running distances,
       | weight lifting activity, meditation record, and seeing how I
       | consistently attempt to over-achieve by setting KR values too
       | high ... Having those points of reference has made today more
       | enjoyable, and been a constant reminder that progress comes
       | slowly and missing on any particular attempt at something is
       | irrelevant. It's so completely a part of my life now that I can't
       | imagine setting goals or daily priorities without it.
       | 
       | Think of it like quantitative journalling.
        
         | demadog wrote:
         | Any books you recommend along these lines?
        
         | sh_123 wrote:
         | Can you share more about your process? I'm very interested in
         | learning more. How do you track your daily data points?
        
           | tuatoru wrote:
           | There are a lot of these comments on HN, that baldly ask for
           | more information without contributing anything or providing
           | any context. So many that I suspect a bot.
        
       | wcarss wrote:
       | With regard to your juggling KR, I learned by a method of
       | breaking it down that I found very helpful and learned from a
       | book that I can't remember the title of, and would like to relate
       | here.
       | 
       | I learned in ~3 hours of low effort while watching TV during a
       | single day, told a friend about it, and they subsequently did the
       | same thing that same day. Afterward we both said things to each
       | other like "wow, I had no idea it was this easy!"
       | 
       | A quick disclaimer: this is for 3-ball juggling. 4-ball is a bit
       | different, and I have heard it is a better foundation for 5,6,7+,
       | but I never learned how to do it well.
       | 
       | First, get your three balls or similar. Hacky sacks, tennis
       | balls, bean bags, rubik's cubes, whatever you've got.
       | 
       | Second, sit somewhere comfy and safe, with your arms down and
       | your hands roughly near your knees if they were crossed. Hold
       | just one ball. Practice tossing that one ball from one hand to
       | the other hand, tossing it to about eye level on each throw. Your
       | goal here is to keep your hands mostly down and apart and to get
       | used to the feel of what power of throw you need and where your
       | hand needs to be to catch the ball, without spending too much
       | attention watching your hands. Practice left to right repeatedly,
       | and right to left repeatedly, and then also practice back and
       | forth. This should take somewhere between 5 minutes and an hour
       | total -- but try to make this _easy_. If a later step is hard, do
       | this first step more. Make sure the ball gets right to about eye
       | level on each throw, in a neat little arc.
       | 
       | Third, once you feel good about the above, sit in the same
       | position, with one ball in each hand. Throw one and when it hits
       | the peak, around eye level, throw the other, and then catch them
       | both. That's it. Now practice this, again repeating first a left-
       | hand throw and then first a right-hand throw, and then a little
       | back and forth, and try to keep that consistency where each just
       | gets to about eye level in a nice little arc. This teaches the
       | real "trick" of juggling: knowing when to throw. This should also
       | take somewhere between 5 minutes and an hour to get comfortable
       | with.
       | 
       | Fourth, sit now with two balls in one hand and one in the other.
       | Throw with the hand that has 2 first, and just do what you did
       | above, but this time, at the point the second ball thrown is in
       | the air at peak, instead of waiting and just catching both, throw
       | the third ball. You can still just catch them all from here.
       | Practice each direction, another 5 minutes to an hour here, but
       | you might slip into the next step naturally.
       | 
       | Fifth, and finally: rather than just catching at the end there,
       | try to just continue the pattern. You have all of the skills
       | required at this point and you will be "juggling" each time. Once
       | you've thrown all 3 starting from each direction, it likely won't
       | be hard to do a 4th or a 5th throw, which feels amazing to get
       | to, and then it's just smoothing things out and finding
       | consistency.
       | 
       | At that point, try to hit 10 throws, then 30, 100, etc. Getting a
       | string of 30+ might take a day or two to actually get, but it'll
       | likely be addictive and you'll want to just keep trying, and it's
       | easy to do most of these steps while you do other low-hands-use
       | things like watching TV, having a conversation, or listening to a
       | podcast.
       | 
       | This comment may get lost, but maybe it'll also help someone!
       | Juggling is a wonderful little skill to have, and it sticks
       | around for life. I learned a little over a decade ago while in
       | school and actively played with it for about a year, but can
       | still easily resume it today.
        
         | zikzak wrote:
         | This is how I learned. The most important step here is
         | selection of the right thing to juggle. Nothing adds more
         | difficulty (well, maybe riding a unicycle). The hackysack was
         | made for this. The heft and size are perfect, especially when
         | you move to having two in one hand and one in the other (the
         | juggling starting position). After that, it is all muscle
         | memory. After I got the basics, I would go out in the yard and
         | just do laps while juggling. Before a week or so I was able to
         | juggle fairly well with three identical objects, then figured
         | out doing different sizes and weights together. At some point,
         | I realized girls were not going to be impressed enough by this
         | skill to overcome the other deficiencies I had, and I stopped.
         | :)
        
       | Jd wrote:
       | I have a pretty extensive personal system partially based on OKRs
       | but I find the key element is doing the exercise as a group and
       | having accountability partners.
        
         | tonymet wrote:
         | I'd like to see this added to the system. At my company, every
         | goal has a "POC" - point of contact aka "owner" or "partner". I
         | think you should add a partner to each goal - a person who will
         | rate you on the objective. The objectives are what matter. e.g.
         | if you hit 6 hrs time with gf, but she still thinks you are
         | rubbish , you haven't made any progress on the "strengthen
         | relationships with gf" objective.
        
           | lljk_kennedy wrote:
           | Exactly. Outcome > Output.
        
       | dwb wrote:
       | I cannot imagine structuring my (non-work) life like this.
       | Nothing would suck the joy/play/freedom out of my leisure time
       | faster. Happy for you if it works for you though.
        
         | m463 wrote:
         | remember, this is the time period in every year where people
         | set up exercise plans and decide to lose weight and save money
         | and ... you know. :)
        
       | aftergibson wrote:
       | I'm doing the same this quarter and looks like a very similar
       | setup. However, I don't think I could handle managing that many
       | objectives and try to keep it to at most three. That way I spend
       | time really reflecting on what actually matters.
        
       | tonymet wrote:
       | First off, I like the exercise. I think it's healthy as a form of
       | journaling and more people should be introspective in this way.
       | 
       | But I'd like to ask what problem is this trying to solve? In a
       | large org, the OKRs are driving alignment and accountability.
       | 
       | But for an individual, i think the bigger challenge is
       | motivation, discipline, dedication, commitment.
       | 
       | So what I mean is, I don't think individuals have a problem
       | knowing what to do: we all know we need to lose weight and reduce
       | BMI.
       | 
       | The devil is building the habits (eating less, exercising more,
       | avoiding temptation, being more disciplined, being around people
       | with likewise habits) to achieve the OKR.
       | 
       | I'm not saying that the OKRs are a bad idea - just that they are
       | a map of a terrain that leaves out all the devilish hills that
       | really need climbing.
        
         | closeparen wrote:
         | There are usually more obviously good and desirable things than
         | I have the bandwidth to accomplish in one time period; it's
         | useful to pick the subset that will be my current focus.
         | 
         | For example last year I invested a lot in lifestyle habits
         | around exercise and cooking. Now those habits are largely
         | autopilot and I'm looking at mental habits around attention,
         | complaining, and negativity.
        
         | lazyasciiart wrote:
         | It's just a variation on stuff like "making SMART goals". It's
         | a framework for breaking down your goal into identifiable steps
         | and finding ways to check your progress early, instead of
         | saying "this year I'll lose weight" and checking back on
         | December 30.
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | Not that I'm a particular David Allen GTD fan (and really am
           | not much of a "methodology" person in general) but one of the
           | handful of his ideas I really did like was the idea of
           | breaking down projects into specific actionable tasks.
           | Whether it's losing weight or getting better organized.
        
         | spieswl wrote:
         | That last statement is crucial.
         | 
         | I was surprised to see how in-depth and detailed these
         | objectives are. Not to knock the author, mind you; the
         | dedication to breaking these things into granular tasks is
         | impressive. Rather, I feel that there's little room for
         | flexibility in taking an OKR approach to personal development.
         | 
         | Case in point, I had a personal objective to do more service in
         | the community in 2020. The way I had envisioned the key results
         | was more volunteering, more interactions with people, more
         | things like spending weekends working on a Habitat for Humanity
         | house or something of the like. The pandemic really
         | disincentivized those kinds of in-person activities for the
         | sake of the community, so I pivoted to identifying more causes
         | I could donate to or provide help to in remote ways. It was
         | hard, no doubt, and I was still disappointed that I didn't get
         | to do the former things, but considering the circumstances it
         | _feels_ like my original objective was achieved. The takeaway
         | is that I think personal objectives that leave little room for
         | flexibility are fighting an uphill battle from the start.
        
         | logshipper wrote:
         | > But for an individual, i think the bigger challenge is
         | motivation, discipline, dedication, commitment.
         | 
         | I definitely agree with the above.
         | 
         | I found my way around this by doing weekly check-ins where I
         | report on progress and accordingly formulate strategies for
         | achieving said goals. Those reports are meant for no one but
         | me, but they allow me to:
         | 
         | a) Measure my progress
         | 
         | b) See what's working and what's not
         | 
         | c) Most importantly, hold myself accountable
         | 
         | Such reports are a version of looking myself in the mirror and
         | talking about the week that was, my habits, and the progress
         | (or lack thereof) I made. Furthermore, at least for me, the
         | mere act of writing allows me to crystallize my thoughts on a
         | topic, lends clarity and ultimately provides an infusion of
         | motivation to keep working toward my goals.
         | 
         | Of course, what works for me might not work for someone else,
         | and we all need a different framework based on our
         | individuality, but I hope I was able to add to your point
         | surrounding accountability.
         | 
         | edit: Formatting
        
       | noarchy wrote:
       | Maybe I'm too cynical with regard to today's corporate practices,
       | but what would be next? Maybe weekly tasks can be filed as Jira
       | tickets? Burndown charts for how one's week went?
       | 
       | If it works for you, great, but this seems like something I would
       | never want to import into my personal life.
        
         | tonymet wrote:
         | can we ask what you are doing instead?
        
           | dkdk8283 wrote:
           | I agree with parent and I'll provide my own answer: I live in
           | the moment. A simple but powerful lesson I learned from my
           | pets.
        
           | noarchy wrote:
           | Good question. I wish I had a more sophisticated answer, but
           | everything I do is fairly low-tech. First, memory: this works
           | for nearly everything in my case. Second, a whiteboard for
           | grocery items, which I update as needed. Third, just keeping
           | momentum going for my goals.
           | 
           | For what I might term "loftier" aspirations (diet, fitness,
           | etc), I just make sure I am being consistent. Those things
           | have to be built into your lifestyle, or at least, that is
           | the only way I can get it to work. There was a time, for
           | instance, when I did track my nutrition with a spreadsheet.
           | But after a few months I realized I could manage it all
           | within my head: I had gauged my daily macro needs, and could
           | largely judge by eye, and it has worked for years since.
           | 
           | I have tried todo-style apps, as an example of where I have
           | tried a more explicit approach. I find that they are just
           | procrastination and delay lists for me. If I am not actively
           | doing it already, with exceptions, it probably won't be done
           | at all.
        
           | raverbashing wrote:
           | Not bureaucratize my life plans?
           | 
           | I keep my objectives in my head. No need to write this kind
           | of thing down and keeping scores of myself. And whatever
           | happens happens. I don't need to bog myself down with some
           | corporate invention.
        
       | 3gg wrote:
       | Sounds like the corporate brainwash really worked here.
        
       | javajosh wrote:
       | I really like this but some of your objectives don't have a
       | timeline attached. For example, "Write 10 reviews on twitter". I
       | would have liked to see a parenthetical "(1 per week for 10
       | straight weeks)" or "(within 60 days)". Without this its hard to
       | put concrete tasks on a calendar.
       | 
       | BTW I like your goals, too. They seem quite wholesome and
       | achievable, and reasonable (granted I don't know your BMI now,
       | for example, but waking up before 8:30am is a good one.)
        
         | pravj wrote:
         | Glad you liked the structure/goals.
         | 
         | All of them are for January-February-March 2021. Does that
         | cover the time-bound aspect you're talking about?
        
           | javajosh wrote:
           | Sure does! Okay, so there's a "default time bound" on your
           | list. Makes sense.
        
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