[HN Gopher] "User engagement" is code for "addiction"
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       "User engagement" is code for "addiction"
        
       Author : rbanffy
       Score  : 339 points
       Date   : 2021-03-04 19:07 UTC (3 hours ago)
        
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       | heterodoxxed wrote:
       | Imagine how different social media would look if it were
       | subscription based and required much, much less investment and
       | revenue could grow linearly with the userbase.
       | 
       | The incentive of an ad-supported, vc-funded social media is to
       | addict you.
       | 
       | The incentive of a subscription service is to be useful enough
       | that you stay subscribed. If you log in once a week but never
       | cancel, that's the ideal situation for a subscription service.
       | 
       | What I wrestle with is whether consumers will ever accept a small
       | subscription fee (and I mean VERY small) after they've been given
       | everything for free, even if it meant less psychological
       | manipulation, no ads and strong privacy.
        
       | ldbooth wrote:
       | Let's talk about taxing the 'user engagement' companies similar
       | to what is done with cigarettes and alcohol.
       | 
       | Mess with their money.
        
       | HNfriend234 wrote:
       | Social media is a perfect example of where this is used. I know
       | countless people that are literally addicted to it. They want to
       | see every new update continuously and the social media apps are
       | designed to do this through notifications.
       | 
       | I saw this clear as day when I was at jury duty. We were waiting
       | for the court to get back into session. There was a girl sitting
       | next to me on the bench and I noticed about every 5 minutes she
       | would open up her phone and go through her routine. First pull up
       | facebook, scroll through it. Close the app then pull up
       | instragram, scroll through. She did this consistently for the
       | entire 2 hours we were sitting there (the court was delayed). If
       | that isn't addiction, I don't know what is.
       | 
       | Then look at all the mental health problems young people are
       | having these days - bullying, depression, suicide etc. and I
       | would say a big part of that is influenced by social media.
       | People see other people living the "good life" and they get
       | depressed because they can't have the same. Young women see
       | "pretty" women on Instagram and they know they can never compete
       | with that, so their self esteem drops to nothing. Then you have
       | all the bullying that goes on as well. Completely toxic
       | environment.
       | 
       | Social media is the cigarette of our generation.
        
         | bosswipe wrote:
         | > Then look at all the mental health problems young people are
         | having these days
         | 
         | Is there any evidence that mental health is worse than for
         | previous generations?
        
           | reaperducer wrote:
           | _Is there any evidence that mental health is worse than for
           | previous generations?_
           | 
           | I don't think so. But people do seem more fragile these days.
           | 
           | Still, even if it isn't worse, that doesn't mean we shouldn't
           | try to do something about it.
        
             | C19is20 wrote:
             | Couldn't' 'seeming more fragile these days' be a part of
             | copycatting, in that if person X got offended by something,
             | then these addicted-to-social media-types copy the
             | behaviour...and then some?
        
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           | foofoo4u wrote:
           | Two sources that show anxiety and depression are on the rise
           | with the youth.
           | 
           | https://www.pewresearch.org/social-
           | trends/2019/02/20/most-u-...
           | 
           | https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-
           | tank/2019/07/12/a-growing-n...
        
         | mdpopescu wrote:
         | > If that isn't addiction, I don't know what is.
         | 
         | In my case, boredom. I normally fix that by reading books on my
         | Kindle, but if I don't have it for some reason, the phone is a
         | good substitute.
        
           | hashkb wrote:
           | Kindle app on phone is decent. Better than Instagram.
        
         | alcover wrote:
         | I had a girl like this next to me on a train. For the whole one
         | hour journey she scrolled and switched between apps in a
         | spasmodic manner. At times she would lay the phone down for a
         | few secs then resume at once.
         | 
         | It looked sick. It looked like someone on amphetamines.
        
         | polynomial wrote:
         | > Social media is the cigarette of our generation.
         | 
         | Except with cigarettes we could point to the very real physical
         | harms of lung cancer, emphysema, etc.
         | 
         | With social media we just have vaguely sinister warnings about
         | addiction and mental health issues, which can seem paltry in
         | comparison.
         | 
         | The former was obviously a health problem that was deranging
         | people's bodies, whereas the later is seen largely as a social,
         | not a medical, problem.
        
           | hashkb wrote:
           | It took a really long time for us to realize that. Doctors
           | used to push cigs.
        
         | Shared404 wrote:
         | > Then look at all the mental health problems young people are
         | having these days - bullying, depression, suicide etc. and I
         | would say a big part of that is influenced by social media.
         | 
         | Guess who has suffered through most of those, without any kind
         | of social media, outside of HN :)
         | 
         | Edit: And suffered before getting on HN. Seems relevant to the
         | situation.
        
       | hector_vasquez wrote:
       | "User Engagement" is now indeed code for "Addiction," but not
       | because user engagement has changed in any meaningful way. It's
       | because society has been transforming terms that used to have
       | medical/clinical definitions to mean something completely
       | different. PTSD and OCD are two more examples.
        
         | zerocrates wrote:
         | Of course that process of "mainstreaming" clinical terms and
         | shifting their meaning hasn't meaningfully changed either. See
         | as an example the endless treadmill of clinical terms for
         | intellectual disabilities re-purposed as insults by the general
         | populace, causing the medical community to shift to new ones,
         | and so on.
        
         | 8note wrote:
         | What did the tobacco industry used to call addiction? It can't
         | be that new.
         | 
         | Also, I didn't know that addiction was originally a clinical
         | term. til
        
         | Judgmentality wrote:
         | I've heard OCD used casually/incorrectly before, but never
         | PTSD. Is that really a common term?
        
           | ketzo wrote:
           | "Oh man, I hate scrum stuff; I've got some real PTSD from how
           | my old job did it"
           | 
           | "I wanna be hopeful about the Bears' playoff run, but I've
           | got PTSD from last year's reverse sweep"
           | 
           | I hear stuff like this pretty commonly, yeah.
        
           | haswell wrote:
           | I think there are two things going on here.
           | 
           | I personally suffer from C-PTSD (C=Complex) stemming from
           | childhood trauma. C-PTSD (generalized as PTSD caused over
           | months/years vs. a single or cluster of traumatic events,
           | e.g. warfare) is still relatively new compared to the
           | traditional understanding of PTSD.
           | 
           | So there is some legitimate expansion of the definition of
           | PTSD.
           | 
           | But one thing I've noticed since I received the diagnosis is
           | just how many people around me use the term "PTSD" casually.
           | 
           | - "That project gave me PTSD"
           | 
           | - "I have PTSD from my last boss"
           | 
           | - "I have PTSD from the last four years of political
           | upheaval"
           | 
           | Now, I should be clear, I do think it's possible to be
           | impacted by truly traumatic circumstances that don't rise to
           | the level of what we traditionally think about when we hear
           | the term.
           | 
           | But I also see the term used far too casually, far too often.
        
             | teh_infallible wrote:
             | Agreed. Overuse of these words trivializes the actual
             | conditions they originally described.
        
       | Invictus0 wrote:
       | Duplicate
        
         | chalst wrote:
         | Please link to claims of duplicate submissions. This story is
         | not shown before on
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/from?site=medium.com/swlh
        
           | eesmith wrote:
           | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=26153331
        
           | leereeves wrote:
           | The previous post had a different URL
           | (craigwritescode.medium.com) which now redirects to the URL
           | in this post.
           | 
           | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=26153331
        
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       | Nasrudith wrote:
       | I couldn't even finish reading the article - it was just back to
       | back vapid sinisterizing cliches with no actual point. That
       | conceited paranoid douchebag would call a Chinese takeout menu "a
       | plot by communist China to render him utterly dependent upon them
       | for sustance, monopolize his income and jeopardize his health
       | with MSG".
        
       | falcolas wrote:
       | Now, amp that all up with even more colorful light shows and
       | sound effects, and you have loot boxes. Also, amusingly enough,
       | referred to as "user engagement" by game studio heads (also known
       | as "recurring revenue", as if it's a reasonable subscription and
       | not a fucking slot machine).
        
       | Nbox9 wrote:
       | "Recommendation" is code for "Advertisement".
        
       | teh_infallible wrote:
       | The word "addiction" is overused in my opinion. Bad habits are
       | not addictions. An addiction is something which actively harms
       | you, but you can't stop doing it.
       | 
       | Yes, you can argue social media is harmful, but it generally does
       | not cause people to lose their jobs or spend all their money.
        
         | rossdavidh wrote:
         | I agree that "addiction" can be overused (irony unintentional),
         | but I think it can be objectively defined by whether or not it
         | causes a lasting biochemical change in the user (eventually),
         | which causes discomfort or pain upon withdrawal. Food, for
         | example, does not; we enjoy it (sometimes), but having more
         | does not make us eat ever-larger amounts (if it's, say, a green
         | salad; high-fructose corn syrup I admit the jury is still out).
         | 
         | So, the assertion that social media is "addictive" would
         | translate to, "it conditions the user to require a dopamine (or
         | whatever) hit that they will return to the social media to
         | acquire, and will feel bad (worse than before they used it) if
         | they stop using." Whether or not that's true of social media is
         | debatable, but I think it is raising at least a valid question.
         | 
         | On the other hand, even though Stack Overflow has a lot of the
         | same software features, it has no such problem, so I think the
         | important question is what does Facebook do differently than
         | Stack Overflow to cause people to spend ever-larger amounts of
         | time on it, to no real purpose?
        
         | mpalmer wrote:
         | COVID has been more harmful than a deadlier disease would be
         | because it spreads more effectively.
         | 
         | If social media caused people to lose their jobs or spend all
         | their money, far fewer people would use it, and public
         | engagement with the problem would be greater.
         | 
         | I suggest that social media's harm to society is greater
         | _because_ it 's less harmful to the individual than gambling,
         | etc.
        
         | dharbin wrote:
         | Can someone have a gambling addiction? I've often heard that
         | gambling addiction is a real problem, so why can't social media
         | be addictive? Social media and mobile games like to use similar
         | "engagement" techniques as slot machines, for example.
        
         | benlivengood wrote:
         | > The word "addiction" is overused in my opinion. Bad habits
         | are not addictions. An addiction is something which actively
         | harms you, but you can't stop doing it.
         | 
         | I suggest parasitism as a more accurate description of what
         | seeking "user engagement" is.
        
         | fartcannon wrote:
         | I'm addicted to caffeine. It's relatively harmless, might even
         | help me work better. No one ever lost their job or spent all
         | their money on caffeine. But it's unquestionably an addiction.
        
           | polynomial wrote:
           | Quite a few would lose their jobs if NOT for caffeine, I'd
           | wager.
        
           | 8fGTBjZxBcHq wrote:
           | If we're going into like very technical definitions I believe
           | what you're talking about is physical dependence. In a mental
           | health context persisting use even after multiple serious
           | negative consequences is part of the definition of addiction.
           | 
           | Though even there I think they are moving to phrases like
           | "drug use disorder" partly because of usage mismatches like
           | this.
        
       | andrewla wrote:
       | This kind of semantic game has to stop.
       | 
       | If you water down the meaning of "addiction" enough then you can
       | say that anything is "addictive" and with that, you can carry
       | over all the connotations of the word.
       | 
       | Then people start saying "I'm addicted to coffee" and "I'm
       | addicted to bread" and before you know it people saying "I'm
       | addicted to heroin" are met with "well, why don't you just stop,
       | like I did with coffee for a week that time".
       | 
       | Since the dawn of time people have tried to make things that
       | people want to use. Making "addiction" a synonym for "success" is
       | just stupid.
        
         | faitswulff wrote:
         | People can be neurochemically addicted to coffee. I suspect the
         | same can be said of social media.
        
         | mdpopescu wrote:
         | To be honest, I still don't understand how people use the word.
         | Am I addicted to water? I have nasty physiological reactions if
         | I stop using it. What about sleep? Is that a bad habit I should
         | get rid of?
        
         | WaxProlix wrote:
         | Addiction has levels to it, and any one addiction isn't going
         | to be identical to others. Caffeine addiction is a very real
         | thing, as is heroin addiction. Just because the latter can be
         | much stronger and more harmful doesn't mean the former can't
         | exist.
        
         | alcover wrote:
         | Yes it's addiction for many users.
         | 
         | They're hooked on notifications, not disabling them even though
         | it interrupts real-life conversations, sleep, scenery enjoying,
         | etc..
        
       | PragmaticPulp wrote:
       | I don't like the current trend of social media apps burying users
       | under push notifications, calls to action, and other engagement
       | hooks.
       | 
       | However, there's a second, parallel problem adding fuel to the
       | fire: The more we talk about overindulgence in social media (or
       | Netflix, or video games, or fast food) as an act perpetrated by
       | evil corporations on us helpless individuals, the less sense of
       | individual agency we give ourselves. I'm not suggesting that we
       | let social media companies off the hook, but battling this
       | problem is going to require more than simply shaming them in
       | Medium posts. We have to start reminding people that they are in
       | control of their decisions, and that they can take steps to
       | reduce their social media usage to healthy levels.
       | 
       | I know the common refrain is "Delete Facebook!" but that's the
       | equivalent of abstinence-only education. We need to start talking
       | about how to configure Screen Time on iOS, or how to use
       | Facebook's built-in tools to hide content you don't want to see.
       | We also need to encourage people to take control of their feeds,
       | muting users and topics who draw them into unproductive
       | discussions.
        
         | UShouldBWorking wrote:
         | Wait till you see what they are doing to women.
        
         | itsjustmath wrote:
         | Humane tech has an informative page detailing how to "take
         | control": https://www.humanetech.com/take-control
        
         | matwood wrote:
         | > We have to start reminding people that they are in control of
         | their decisions
         | 
         | Exactly. I not a big FB user, but last year I was on a lot more
         | than normal b/c I was home. Then one day I realized I was just
         | either arguing with family or reading things that left me
         | disappointed, and wondered why am I subjecting myself to this?
         | I didn't delete my account because I still use messenger to
         | communicate to a few people, but I haven't been on FB proper
         | for months.
        
         | mumblemumble wrote:
         | > The more we talk about overindulgence in social media (or
         | Netflix, or video games, or fast food) as an act perpetrated by
         | evil corporations on us helpless individuals, the less sense of
         | individual agency we give ourselves.
         | 
         | If it's done well, it should have the opposite effect.
         | Describing all the ways that companies are trying to get you
         | addicted will help inoculate people against their tricks. In
         | order to psychologically defend yourself, you first need to
         | understand exactly what you're defending yourself against.
        
         | _greim_ wrote:
         | > the common refrain is "Delete Facebook!" but that's the
         | equivalent of abstinence-only education. We need to start
         | talking about how to configure Screen Time on iOS, or how to
         | use Facebook's built-in tools to hide content you don't want to
         | see
         | 
         | To this list I'd add the concept of _epistemic hygiene_. Just
         | as crowding together in metropolises re-wired our culture to
         | value hygiene, these informational metropolises of social media
         | will eventually cause us to greatly value epistemic hygiene.
         | Seeing a rage-inducing headline would then evoke a kind of
         | "ew..." response. At least, this is what I hope will happen.
         | Maybe it will require a generational turnover.
        
         | hshshs2 wrote:
         | These companies are spending billions to destroy your self
         | control, it's a nuanced situation... but they're using absurd
         | amounts of power to undermine us. We don't have the high
         | ground. They are actively and knowingly manipulating people's
         | emotions.
         | 
         | I recognized that I am not equipped to fight them, so I left
         | and will encourage others to really think about whether or not
         | they can put up a fight. IMO most people don't even know
         | they're being manipulated and that's absurdly dangerous.
        
         | AdmiralGinge wrote:
         | >We have to start reminding people that they are in control of
         | their decisions, and that they can take steps to reduce their
         | social media usage to healthy levels. I know the common refrain
         | is "Delete Facebook!" but that's the equivalent of abstinence-
         | only education. We need to start talking about how to configure
         | Screen Time on iOS, or how to use Facebook's built-in tools to
         | hide content you don't want to see.
         | 
         | I couldn't agree more, and to add to that I think it's usually
         | a foolish approach to treat people as hapless automatons
         | without any agency if you're trying to convince them that your
         | point is worth listening to. If you look at two of the worst
         | political failures in the UK recently (the Remain campaign for
         | the Brexit referendum in 2016 and Labour's election campaign in
         | 2019), I think what they have in common is that they
         | essentially told people "you're a downtrodden proletariat
         | buffeted about by forces well outside your control, but we can
         | make things better for you" which is such a foolish approach in
         | my opinion. Regardless of whether they actually do or not, the
         | average person likes to think they're in control of their own
         | destiny so blaming everything on Facebook being manipulative
         | bastards will never work if your aim is to change the public's
         | relationship with social media.
        
           | PontifexMinimus wrote:
           | > they essentially told people "you're a downtrodden
           | proletariat buffeted about by forces well outside your
           | control
           | 
           | That's the plain and simple truth, isn't it? I mean, I don't
           | control facebook.
        
             | AdmiralGinge wrote:
             | Yeah it might be true, but it's extremely counterproductive
             | to point this out when you're trying to convince someone of
             | something. People like to feel like they have agency, even
             | if it's mostly an illusion.
        
               | PontifexMinimus wrote:
               | People also don't like to be lied to, and most people are
               | well aware they don't control Facebook.
        
           | legerdemain wrote:
           | I agree! The economic effects of Brexit are difficult or
           | impossible to measure, so they're not worth worrying about.
           | On the whole, Brexit was good for British people because it
           | gave them a feeling of action and momentum, like they had a
           | real "hand in history." Britain has never been as energized
           | and optimistic as it has been post-Brexit.
           | 
           | In the same way, I bristle at the suggestion that I'm not
           | rational enough to resist the "addiction" of push messaging.
           | We all know what the word "addiction" actually means. This is
           | not addiction, this is just hokey phooey using fake-medical
           | language to push a liberal agenda of extra regulation.
           | 
           | Every time I get a notification from Twitter or Facebook, my
           | day gets a little brighter. When LinkedIn tells me that
           | someone is looking at my profile, that means someone cares,
           | and that's a wonderful thing to know.
        
             | SpicyLemonZest wrote:
             | Your experience is far from universal. Twitter has made my
             | life measurably worse: I'm less happy, have less free time,
             | react less charitably to people I disagree with. I can look
             | through my comment history and identify the periods where I
             | was most active on Twitter, because I'm constantly flying
             | off the handle at people for no good reason.
        
               | legerdemain wrote:
               | Would you call yourself helplessly "addicted" to Twitter?
               | If not, then you disagree with the premise of TFA.
        
               | SpicyLemonZest wrote:
               | I would. Every morning, I wake up saying I'm going to log
               | off Twitter for the day as soon as my coffee's done, and
               | most days I end up logging multiple hours of Twitter
               | time.
        
               | legerdemain wrote:
               | I see. I wish you success in breaking your addiction. A
               | number of support tools are available!
        
               | WesolyKubeczek wrote:
               | What helped me was actually deleting my account and after
               | that, not feeling like creating a new one.
               | 
               | I still peruse feeds of some people I used to follow, but
               | now, instead of doing it compulsively every hour or
               | whenever I need my dopamine, I do it once a month or so,
               | if I don't forget. I don't have them bookmarked, so I
               | also enter the full URLs.
               | 
               | And if Twitter says I need to log in to read more of a
               | thread, or whatever, too bad. I don't have that thingy
               | that you use to log in to Twitter.
               | 
               | Now, Facebook is a different story since they offer a
               | very walled garden. You cannot even read most of the
               | stuff unless you log in, by default. Trouble is, there
               | are people on it I interact with. As it happens with some
               | of those people, Facebook is the only way to reach them.
               | 
               | And another thing is Hackernews, of course.
               | 
               | See, those are places where stuff happens. You go there,
               | scroll to what interests you, engage in a discussion, and
               | it almost feels like meeting people again, especially in
               | a pandemic world.
               | 
               | Or I just want to feed my brain with new stuff to get
               | that sweet dopamine.
               | 
               | I think that what could change this addiction could be
               | entraining the brain to release dopamine as a reward for
               | engaging into more immersive, time-consuming activities.
               | Like reading more of the long form, deep articles or
               | books. Watching a 2 hour movie instead of 15 minute usual
               | youtube fodder. Get that side project to a usable state
               | (starts crying).
        
         | heterodoxxed wrote:
         | | _the less sense of individual agency we give ourselves_
         | 
         | In aggregate, the population is at the mercy of material
         | forces. Turning a social problem into an individual moral
         | failing has never managed to solve anything at scale.
        
         | Nextgrid wrote:
         | It's less about screen-time or self-control and more about
         | toxic, malicious software used for communication.
         | 
         | A lot of the calls-to-action used to generate "engagement" are
         | the same calls to action used for legitimate communications,
         | and the only way to tell is to "engage" with the product.
         | 
         | There's nothing wrong with people opening their social media
         | app if they receive a real message from a friend. The problem
         | is when the platform is incentivized to "manufacture" messages
         | even when there aren't any.
        
         | reaperducer wrote:
         | _We need to start talking about how to configure Screen Time on
         | iOS, or how to use Facebook 's built-in tools to hide content
         | you don't want to see_
         | 
         | I have my home router configured to not allow any social media-
         | capable devices to connect on Sundays.
         | 
         | After a few weeks, the FOMO cycle is broken and you realize
         | that there's more to life than scrolling.
        
           | robterrell wrote:
           | Can you share your blocklist, please?
        
         | AndrewUnmuted wrote:
         | > I know the common refrain is "Delete Facebook!" but that's
         | the equivalent of abstinence-only education. We need to start
         | talking about how to configure Screen Time on iOS, or how to
         | use Facebook's built-in tools to hide content you don't want to
         | see.
         | 
         | Isn't this also denying people their individual agency, though?
         | Using Facebook is not like sex is for teens, who are faced with
         | the rather unavoidable biological realities of puberty. There
         | are many ways to achieve the things people seek from Facebook,
         | some technological and some not.
         | 
         | We don't need to start under the assumption that people will
         | not be able to commit to having more healthy media consumption
         | habits. These tools offered by Apple, Facebook and Google you
         | mention are not things we should be encouraging. If these
         | companies had the user's best interests at heart, their
         | products would not need these kinds of sub-features in the
         | first place. But when you study the gambling and nicotine
         | industries to figure out how to better hook your users to your
         | mobile apps, you didn't start out from the right place. So I
         | would reckon the answer to that would be to abstain from the
         | product entirely.
        
         | scsilver wrote:
         | I think our built environment and lack of engaging community is
         | the main reason we are disadvantaged against self control. We
         | need trust and support of others, we need it daily, and we dont
         | get enough of it to make significant progress against many
         | addictions. A change in our built environment is a start to
         | improving our connections to our local community, and
         | subsequently continued accountability when facing addictive
         | influences.
        
         | ckosidows wrote:
         | This is all just personal anecdote. It might be wrong for you;
         | maybe it doesn't apply to everyone, but it has worked for me...
         | 
         | The options seem to be: 1) Delete your social media account 2)
         | Set up timers (OS-level, account-level, etc) 3) Filter you feed
         | to only the people who matter
         | 
         | The first two options didn't work for me. I created a new
         | account and deleted the timers. The first option left me
         | feeling excluded. The second option just turned SM into a drip-
         | feed, making me check whenever the timer was up. If they work
         | for you, great!
         | 
         | The option that worked was to filter facebook and snapchat to
         | only show people who personally mattered to me in the physical
         | world. I only see things about people I come into contact with
         | and care about. I know them well enough to know the whole story
         | rather than just what they post at face value. Their posts can
         | encourage conversations rather than make me feel bad about some
         | cool thing I'll never do or know more about.
         | 
         | Social media is a tool which, used effectively, can benefit
         | you. But used ineffectively it can harm you. I hope schools of
         | the future or some people/institution teach effective social
         | media use. Or hopefully we can enforce social media companies
         | to follow some regulations regarding user wellbeing.
        
         | ummonk wrote:
         | I'm not sure empowering users in this way would be all that
         | effective. It would be like trying to empower people to avoid
         | opioid addiction. It's hard to set and stick to limits on
         | something that is designed to addict you.
        
         | santoshalper wrote:
         | It's shockingly easy to delete Facebook. I haven't used it in
         | years, and it almost never comes up. They have done a masterful
         | job of making you feel like you cannot live without them
         | through the careful application of dark patterns, but I assure
         | you that not only do you not need it, but once gone, you also
         | will not miss it.
         | 
         | Seriously, give it a try. Shockingly easy.
        
         | PontifexMinimus wrote:
         | > battling this problem is going to require more than simply
         | shaming them in Medium posts. We have to start reminding people
         | that they are in control of their decisions, and that they can
         | take steps to reduce their social media usage to healthy
         | levels.
         | 
         | Yes, but that's only going to have a small effect, at best.
         | Just like you can't solve the obesity crisis by telling people
         | to eat less.
         | 
         | Things are getting more addictive
         | (http://www.paulgraham.com/addiction.html) because companies
         | under technology and capitalism form weak superintelligencies
         | that are capable of building things that are increasingly
         | addictive. So asking people to use willpower to overcome that
         | is going to increasingly fail.
         | 
         | I think the only thing that could succeed is government
         | intervention.
         | 
         | > I know the common refrain is "Delete Facebook!"
         | 
         | If FB and other social media providers were required to
         | federate using ActivityPub, then people would be able to delete
         | FB and still have access to their friends and contacts on it.
         | 
         | > We also need to encourage people to take control of their
         | feeds, muting users and topics who draw them into unproductive
         | discussions.
         | 
         | With ActivityPub it would be a lot easier to build applications
         | that allow them to control and curate their feeds for
         | themselves. The user is back in control.
        
         | 2OEH8eoCRo0 wrote:
         | >We need to start talking about how to configure Screen Time on
         | iOS, or how to use Facebook's built-in tools to hide content
         | you don't want to see.
         | 
         | We are so outgunned it's almost ridiculous to try. The game is
         | rigged.
        
         | cgriswald wrote:
         | Apps and websites often don't honor their own configuration
         | choices. They use loose definitions to slide in advertisements
         | or other unwanted information. They do not give you the
         | granularity to decide what types of information you actually
         | want. They also change them after you've taken the time to get
         | it sort of working for you.
         | 
         | You're not going to give people agency by having them press a
         | button provided by someone else. The button doesn't really do
         | anything. "Cold turkey" is really the only solution to these
         | mind games.
        
         | mywittyname wrote:
         | > I know the common refrain is "Delete Facebook!" but that's
         | the equivalent of abstinence-only education. We need to start
         | talking about how to configure Screen Time on iOS, or how to
         | use Facebook's built-in tools to hide content you don't want to
         | see.
         | 
         | I see it more akin to the opioid crisis. Just like drug
         | manufactures shouldn't be pushing opioids as a way to deal with
         | minor pain and depression because they know it hooks users.
         | Maybe social media companies shouldn't be pushing hateful and
         | outrageous content to hook their users.
         | 
         | You can sing about personal responsibility all you want. But
         | these companies pay scientists millions of dollars a year to
         | come up with ways to keep you hooked. The only way to win is
         | not to play the game. Normal people are seriously outgunned
         | here.
        
           | tppiotrowski wrote:
           | Can you provide some reading material about the scientists
           | that get paid millions of dollars to keep you hooked? This is
           | the first time I've heard of scientists involved.
        
             | ummonk wrote:
             | FANG pay is usually hundreds of thousands not millions, but
             | most data scientists at these companies are working to
             | optimize user engagement.
        
               | ceejayoz wrote:
               | They spend millions on _multiple_ scientists, not per-
               | head.
        
             | loopz wrote:
             | They for sure don't work on solving the climate crisis.
             | That's unprofitable.
             | 
             | Wall Street gobbled up most ph.D's and researchers years
             | ago, but marketing/ads space have a stranglehold on much of
             | it nowadays.
        
             | ceejayoz wrote:
             | There are lots of examples of this.
             | 
             | https://www.theguardian.com/news/2018/mar/18/facebook-
             | cambri...
             | 
             | > He was hired to work at Facebook as a quantitative social
             | psychologist around November 2015, roughly two months after
             | leaving GSR, which had by then acquired data on millions of
             | Facebook users.
             | 
             | https://venturebeat.com/2014/06/07/exclusive-to-sell-ads-
             | in-...
             | 
             | > Corey has been working as a quantitative researcher at
             | Facebook since last summer. His growth research team has
             | "two sociologists and a manager trained in communications
             | with a sociologist as an advisor," according to an article
             | he published early this year. The team helps expand
             | Facebook to developing countries. Corey uses R-based
             | software stack, collects data via Hive and uses a few other
             | coding languages to do his job.
             | 
             | https://www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2014/06/ever
             | y...
             | 
             | > We now know that's exactly what happened two years ago.
             | For one week in January 2012, data scientists skewed what
             | almost 700,000 Facebook users saw when they logged into its
             | service. Some people were shown content with a
             | preponderance of happy and positive words; some were shown
             | content analyzed as sadder than average. And when the week
             | was over, these manipulated users were more likely to post
             | either especially positive or negative words themselves.
             | 
             | > This tinkering was just revealed as part of a new study,
             | published in the prestigious Proceedings of the National
             | Academy of Sciences. Many previous studies have used
             | Facebook data to examine "emotional contagion," as this one
             | did. This study is different because, while other studies
             | have observed Facebook user data, this one set out to
             | manipulate it.
        
             | theplague42 wrote:
             | Literally any analyst or data science job related to growth
             | or user engagement on social media.
             | 
             | https://research.fb.com/category/data-science/
        
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           | misdichotomy wrote:
           | > Normal people are seriously outgunned here.
           | 
           | This is quite right. PragmaticPulp's phrase "an act
           | perpetrated by evil corporations on us helpless individuals"
           | is a bit of rhetorical jujitsu, creating a strawman to set up
           | a rallying cry "I believe people have agency!" You don't have
           | to assume that individuals are "helpless", as if they are
           | generally helpless and lacking agency, to agree that these
           | corporations are exploiting them.
           | 
           | That said, people's agency is limited (bounded rationality).
           | Awareness of how one is being manipulated is not evenly
           | distributed among the population (asymmetric information).
           | And even when there is awareness, people are unevenly
           | affected by it and unevenly empowered to deal with it.
        
             | danaliv wrote:
             | Indeed, that's precisely what makes these techniques so
             | powerful. For many people, even self-knowledge isn't a
             | reliable defense.
        
         | amelius wrote:
         | Perhaps a solution is that we separate the delivery of social
         | media posts from the company that produces them. (Just like
         | email can be received in a client that is not run by e.g.
         | companies that send spam).
         | 
         | This means that we can teach our Social Media Inbox
         | (abbreviated here SMI) that we don't like certain messages, and
         | the SMI will remove them from the feed.
         | 
         | The trick here is that the SMI has its incentives aligned with
         | the user, not the social media companies. So there is no
         | incentive to make us addicted.
        
         | rapind wrote:
         | We're just witnessing advertising's race to the bottom.
         | Eventually everything published is questioned because all forms
         | of media are incentivized to push drivel for eyeballs.
         | 
         | The optimist in me see's how ridiculous and blatant the drivel
         | is becoming and suspects we'll achieve some sort of collective
         | enlightenment before we extinct ourselves. A smarter media then
         | emerges (timing is everything here) eschewing advertising
         | dollars in favour of a more consumer friendly model.
         | 
         | Then again, I'm probably being naive.
        
           | ceh123 wrote:
           | Paid services to align interests with the user (best user
           | experience wins) are the way to go and I really hope they win
           | out in the long run. I also think individual driven filters
           | and algorithms are the way to go. In my experience, heavily
           | AI/ML driven algorithms for user experience (think spotify
           | suggestions) lead to overfitting super quickly. ML assistance
           | can be amazing (obviously), but I know I want some degree of
           | manual control on my algorithms.
           | 
           | Another plug[0] but, I'm hoping to be a part of this
           | solution. Just a personal project right now, but I'm building
           | a search website whose end goal is to be ad-free (paid) and
           | let users create filters to remove any of the countless trash
           | websites that SEO their way to the top of google.
           | 
           | Currently I've just got it working for web search and a few
           | filters I've created for myself (removes a ton of websites I
           | never find value in, some blogs, news sites, pinterest, etc.)
           | 
           | [0] https://hadal.io
        
         | loveistheanswer wrote:
         | >I know the common refrain is "Delete Facebook!" but that's the
         | equivalent of abstinence-only education
         | 
         | Not at all; its more like breaking up with a toxic,
         | manipulative, dishonest partner. There's many more fish in the
         | sea and there's many more ways to heathily socialize than just
         | Facebook. Though I suppose people in abusive relationships
         | often have a sort of Stockholm syndrome where they see no
         | alternatives.
        
           | Barrin92 wrote:
           | not only do people in abusive relationships often have
           | stockholm syndrome, many people are actually materially
           | dependent on their partner, for example women who have stayed
           | home a long time historically but also still today, and thus
           | they literally cannot leave. Or they have children, or
           | leaving might put others at risk.
           | 
           | Point of working through the analogy being, even on an
           | individual basis framing leaving a relationship as some sort
           | of arbitrary choice is kind of nonsensical, in particular if
           | there is a power imbalance between the people in the
           | relationship, to the point where staying in an abusive
           | relationship might be a 'rational choice'.
           | 
           | Which is actually why we've created very elaborate laws and
           | customs surrounding marriage rather than telling everyone
           | "well if you don't like it just leave".
        
             | parkersweb wrote:
             | It's off-topic - but I found this BBC podcast on the
             | simplification of using Stockholm syndrome as an
             | explanation fascinating:
             | 
             | https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m000s7n1
        
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       | jointPrb wrote:
       | The other side of this is how these companies build engaging
       | products that thousands struggle with. May be a solo developer
       | could learn some lessons. Can anyone shed light on how to build
       | engaging products and make users come back? What methods are
       | these companies using that small dev can utilize and learn?
        
       | yawaworht1978 wrote:
       | You could also say it is staying competitive. User engagement is
       | important, the user should be in charge of setting limits. Sure,
       | anything can become addictive if the user has the "right"
       | personality, but using an app is still a far cry from using
       | recreational drugs. However, porn and some gaming are coming
       | close.
        
       | mumblehat wrote:
       | A tangential point about the horrifying power of euphemism: I've
       | done some consulting work with some large biopharmaceutical
       | companies in the past and found myself consistently shocked at
       | how effective euphemism was at making people comfortable talking
       | about, and doing, very questionable things. E.g. "Maximizing
       | treatment" = "extend how long a patient requires our medication".
       | This was at a senior level and these were, on the face of it,
       | warm, caring people having a very comfortable and open
       | conversation. I had always assumed decisions that directly
       | disadvantaged the consumer would look different, with some sense
       | of secrecy or at least awareness. Nope, one level of language
       | abstraction is apparently all it takes.
       | 
       | There are countless other examples out there. I just finished
       | "Cruel Britannia" regarding the torture practices of the British
       | over the last century. They were particularly adept at it.
       | Euphemism is such a powerful tool for doublethink and systemic
       | abuses of power.
        
       | mgraczyk wrote:
       | Posts like this completely misunderstand how companies like
       | Facebook think and operate. As a result, they cause people to
       | fight boogymen instead of working toward positive change.
       | 
       | Yes, using Facebook instead of doing something like talking in
       | person or reading a book is probably worse for you in the long
       | run.
       | 
       | But most people don't do those things instead of Facebook.
       | Instead they use Tiktok. Or watch TV. Or read Teen Vogue. Or get
       | drunk and watch reality TV. Or sit alone in their nursing home
       | with no real connection to any other human.
       | 
       | Facebook doesn't want you to be addicted, addiction is bad for
       | user retention in the long term. Facebook wants you to be a
       | happy, healthy Facebook Family of Apps(tm) user. I know this
       | because I oversee ML launches on some of the highly
       | controversial/addictive surfaces on a certain Facebook property.
        
         | ksm1717 wrote:
         | Given that the only thing like evidence available to the public
         | regarding how Facebook thinks and operates is the outcomes, and
         | any insider knowledge is, by nature, rife with conflict of
         | interest, I don't think you could expect anyone to assume
         | benevolent intentions.
         | 
         | Not to mention I don't know what would be effective work toward
         | positive change from an outsider when the decisions made for
         | and by the company are (completely reasonably) made internal to
         | the company.
         | 
         | I kind of agree that the Facebook boogeyman stuff is played
         | out, but it's not like there's much of an alternative to
         | discuss.
        
         | panic wrote:
         | Facebook _employees_ want you to be a happy, healthy Facebook
         | Family of Apps(tm) user. But Facebook as an emergent entity of
         | its own has  "wants" which can be hard to see from the inside.
         | Facebook employees don't actually know what happens between
         | each individual user and their Facebook account. You can do
         | user studies, or gather aggregate metrics, but any technique
         | you might use will obscure what's really happening in one way
         | or another. And the whole internal idea of what is happening
         | will naturally be bent toward what helps Facebook survive. In
         | particular, it's very important that what Facebook employees
         | are encouraged to imagine as positive change is not damaging to
         | Facebook itself, or the company will eventually die.
        
           | mgraczyk wrote:
           | Thanks for the reply.
           | 
           | It's true that Facebook the company is an emergent entity,
           | and that the companies behavior and "wants" don't necessarily
           | match those of its employees.
           | 
           | I disagree with the claim that "any technique you might use
           | will obscure what's really happening in one way or another."
           | 
           | RCTs that measure self-reported wellbeing and other
           | engagement-independent measures of mental health do not
           | obscure what's really happening. Techniques like this could
           | be used to actively improve user health, even at a cost to
           | engagement.
        
         | fumar wrote:
         | I understand your POV and can empathize. I tell myself similar
         | affirmations. "Our users value our features and content. They
         | connect to the world for the better using us." But, I can't
         | shake the truth of our business model - ad revenue. It drives
         | the entire organization down a strict path.
         | 
         | Take an extreme example: A manufacturer of sugar. You started
         | your company because of close proximity to sugar cane but over
         | time the sugar industry grew. Then science revealed how bad
         | sugar is for the human body in large amounts. Can you shift
         | your business from selling sugar to an alternative? You are in
         | the business of selling sugar and everything is centered around
         | one goal "sell sugar". There is a subset of buyers that buy and
         | consume in large quantities. Do you tell your consumers to stop
         | eating sugar?
         | 
         | FB and similar are in the business of selling available ad
         | inventory. Thanks to technology the availability and
         | "sweetness" of it is unlimited. Can we quantify the potential
         | individual or societal impacts? Science claims to think so and
         | its not looking great.
        
         | qvrjuec wrote:
         | So at what point does the metric used for user engagement cross
         | a threshold for 'addiction'? Wouldn't incentives to drive this
         | metric up across the board to increase revenue outweigh the
         | pressure to maintain a healthy relationship with the Facebook
         | Family of Apps(tm)? Regardless, I still can't see the
         | motivation for Facebook to act in a way to ensure the user is
         | healthy, only to ensure the user is engaged at an optimal level
         | for Facebook and not the user.
        
       | CivBase wrote:
       | If a service is monetized with ads, then the user is the product.
       | We say that a lot but I think a lot of people still don't
       | understand it, especially outside the tech sphere. "Engagement"
       | isn't about building a better service; it's about serving more
       | ads. "Driving user engagement" should be seen as synonymous with
       | "psychologically manipulating users to use the service so they
       | see ads".
        
         | api wrote:
         | This is true, but it's not exclusively limited to ad-driven
         | models. It can also be true of surveillance or in-app purchase
         | models. The latter has become big in gaming where games addict
         | the user and then steer them toward purchasing special items,
         | expansion packets, "loot boxes," etc.
         | 
         | Basically any app or service where there is a direct link from
         | the amount of time the user spends on it to revenue
         | incentivizes shady "Skinner box" addictive designs and other
         | dark patterns.
        
         | hinkley wrote:
         | If George Carlin were alive we'd have 3+ hours of material on
         | this topic from him.
        
         | edmundsauto wrote:
         | Why not "providing value to users so they use the service so
         | they see ads"? A lot of providing value is marketing and
         | engagement. It can be manipulative and it can also be
         | beneficial to the user - both should be accounted for.
        
           | viraptor wrote:
           | Different metrics. Providing value could be measured in
           | different ways concentrating on that. Engagement doesn't even
           | have to provide value. User going through more pages to get
           | to the thing they need and spending more time in the app is
           | engagement.
        
           | hutzlibu wrote:
           | "It can be manipulative and it can also be beneficial to the
           | user"
           | 
           | Example please, how it can be beneficial to me, to be
           | manipulated by ads.
        
           | benlivengood wrote:
           | This would be great if the metric was measuring value.
           | Measuring value is hard; the closest quantified analog we
           | have is money.
           | 
           | So a valid comparison might be "how much would anyone
           | actually pay for this ad-funded thing?" It turns out the
           | answer is often $0.
        
           | CivBase wrote:
           | Why invest in "providing value to users" when psychological
           | manipulation is so much cheaper?
        
             | Nasrudith wrote:
             | Because people tend to drop you and forget about it when
             | you only provide clickbait and doomscroll fodder when they
             | realize that you have nothing of value to provide.
        
               | CivBase wrote:
               | I'm not so sure about that. What value does Facebook
               | offer that isn't done better by a dozen other platforms?
               | Most people I talk to openly admit it provides them with
               | no value, but they still idly scroll through their feeds
               | day after day and can never bring themselves to ditch the
               | platform. Simply put, they're addicted. Facebook is
               | widely hated yet wildly successful because they have
               | mastered psychological manipulation.
        
               | edmundsauto wrote:
               | Speaking for myself as a light FB user in the US, I get a
               | ton of value from seeing my relatives' updates.
               | Otherwise, I would have no connection with the next
               | generation of babies in my family.
               | 
               | I generally find this line of thinking problematic:
               | conversations with a homogenous and small group ->
               | generalization based on an interpretation of their
               | interpretation of their experience.
               | 
               | Also objectionable but on the other side: people's
               | revealed preferences for how they spend their time are
               | better indicators of what they find valuable.
               | 
               | Neither explanation is particularly compelling except as
               | confirmation bias IMO.
        
               | CivBase wrote:
               | I was providing a quick and simple example, not making a
               | generalization about all Facebook users. Just as my
               | anecdotal evidence does not necessarily demonstrate an
               | addiction problem across all Facebook users, your
               | anecdotal evidence does not demonstrate a lack thereof.
               | 
               | The point is that there are users whose use of a service
               | is driven by psychological manipulation, not by a value
               | proposition. The relationship between many people I know
               | and Facebook is merely an example.
        
         | devmunchies wrote:
         | > If a service is monetized with ads, then the user is the
         | product
         | 
         | false. The derived data and access to eyeballs is the product.
         | The user is a resource for creating the product.
         | 
         | Some analogies:                 - Cows are not the product,
         | milk is the product. Cows are a resource/asset.              -
         | Prostitutes are not the product, sex is the product. The women
         | are resources.
         | 
         | I feel this more accurately dehumanizing than simply stating
         | users are the product.
        
           | 8note wrote:
           | I don't think the eyeballs are the product.
           | 
           | Eyeballs don't need to be advertised to because they don't
           | spend money
        
             | Nasrudith wrote:
             | Spending money is the assumption but that is unworkable as
             | a metric for a third party. Far easier to say you did your
             | part with x views than whatever janky curve on attributed
             | sales would result in.
        
       | roughly wrote:
       | I feel like there's basically two business models in the world -
       | you can be a baker, in which you try to create a product that
       | customers will want on its merits, and work to make the best
       | possible customer experience, or you can be a crack dealer. I
       | think a lot of people think they're bakers, but you gotta
       | realize, the moment you start sprinkling crack in the cookies,
       | you're not selling cookies anymore.
        
         | throwaway1525 wrote:
         | Can you give few examples "baker" products which have scaled to
         | really large scale? I always see it as everybody starts as a
         | baker but over time it becomes a sliding scale.
        
           | ceh123 wrote:
           | To piggy back on this, is it possible to continue being a
           | baker at scale without pricing most people out of your
           | product?
           | 
           | i.e. is it possible to provide something like (internet
           | search) or (social networking) that relies on a paid model?
           | Not everyone who needs/uses google or facebook can afford an
           | iPhone.
        
           | roughly wrote:
           | I'd consider the auto industry to be a "baker" industry (for
           | the most part). Ikea's a "baker", GAP is a "baker". A lot of
           | the pre-digital world made pure play baked goods.
        
             | marcinzm wrote:
             | >A lot of the pre-digital world made pure play baked goods.
             | 
             | Coupon codes on your receipt, planned obsolescence,
             | strategic item placement in store to encourage buying
             | additional or more expensive items, loyalty programs and
             | points, physical marketing mailings, targeted pre-internet
             | advertising, etc.
        
             | hashkb wrote:
             | Careful with fashion. Fashion trends are manipulated to
             | keep the dopamine flowing if and only if you update your
             | wardrobe every season. All the magazines, shows, etc...
             | it's not entirely innocent of the problems we're
             | discussing.
        
           | NortySpock wrote:
           | Apple hardware/software, Microsoft Windows, Intel hardware,
           | Netflix (buffet TV shows), Amazon web store (logistics), Etsy
           | store, Steam / GOG Games - all of these (except Netflix) are
           | selling* either hardware or software, to you, once.
           | 
           | Netflix is a subscription to access and stream a lot of
           | shows, but it is "fee for subscription service", not all that
           | different from an alarm company subscription, OnStar, or a
           | subscription lawn maintenance company.
           | 
           | * Ok, Steam / GOG Games or Microsoft Windows is a licensed
           | use with limited conditions, it's not like you can use it on
           | just any hardware
        
             | marcinzm wrote:
             | Most large e-commerce sites including Etsy aren't bakers.
             | They use recommendation engines, personalized site
             | experiences, email marketing campaigns, discount coupons
             | for repeat purchases, dark patterns, offsite re-targeting
             | ads and so on to get you to buy and buy repeatedly.
             | 
             | edit: And the ever fun one of free shipping with a minimum
             | order of X, great way to make you think you're getting a
             | deal by giving them more money.
        
         | carabiner wrote:
         | Two business models in tech: selling a product vs. selling ads.
         | The latter is really selling your users.
        
           | roughly wrote:
           | right, baker and crack dealer.
        
           | NortySpock wrote:
           | selling a product vs selling ads vs selling a feeling
           | (dopamine hits)?
           | 
           | Some freemium games are clearly just trying to hit the
           | dopamine center.
        
       | crowdhailer wrote:
       | Very much so. It's something we're trying to push back on at
       | https://sendmemo.app
       | 
       | But how do you measure success, we're a messaging app. - Total
       | messages sent - Number of conversations.
       | 
       | Measuring any of this will mean we optimise keeping users on the
       | platform.
       | 
       | We're trying active conversations, where to be active means only
       | at least one message per week. We'd love to find a metric which
       | went up as each individual user spent less time on memo. A "time
       | to solution" metric
        
         | ketzo wrote:
         | I quite like the idea of measuring "time to solution" somehow,
         | particularly for more business- or productivity-oriented
         | software. I guess that doesn't make sense if you're making a
         | video game or a social network, though.
        
           | Schiendelman wrote:
           | Or even "effort to solution".
        
         | mstipetic wrote:
         | Why not just ask every now and then "did you enjoy interacting
         | with our service?" Or "are you finding value here?" and have
         | people rate it.
         | 
         | I've often thought how different facebook would look like if
         | they asked that and optimized for that metric
        
         | benlivengood wrote:
         | The "time to solution" metric sounds a lot like SRE's mantra;
         | automate ourselves out of a job. This is often measured in how
         | many hours of human labor we can save for better use elsewhere.
         | 
         | The optimal app requires zero interaction time from the user
         | but still provides tangible benefits. Aside from entertainment,
         | most people don't really want to interact with software.
        
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