[HN Gopher] Writing advice should stop targeting people who hate...
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       Writing advice should stop targeting people who hate to write
        
       Author : enkiv2
       Score  : 53 points
       Date   : 2021-04-07 14:40 UTC (8 hours ago)
        
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       | solidist wrote:
       | Some years into habitual writing, this is all I've got:
       | 
       | https://dev.to/solidi/recognizing-remote-romantic-bibliophil...
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       | It guess what I learned is that each piece is about a "concept."
       | Say it clearly. And enjoy it years later by reading it again. And
       | finally publish something, no matter how small once monthly.
        
       | paperwasp42 wrote:
       | I'm part of a writing group that consists of 10 published
       | authors. Of the 10, 8 absolutely despise writing first drafts.
       | 
       | Those 8 constantly groan about having to sit their butts in the
       | chair and get the words down. There's a common mentality of, "I
       | hate writing, but I love having written."
       | 
       | But those 8 members have landed several major deals, had movie
       | rights sold, hundreds and thousands of copies sold, etc. And
       | perhaps more importantly, they've gotten letters saying that
       | their work changed people's lives for the better.
       | 
       | So although I personally fall into the "I love writing in all its
       | stages" category, I have no problem with other writers talking
       | about how much they hate it. Those people create some of the best
       | work I've ever had the pleasure of reading. If it takes some
       | moaning and groaning to make it happen, then so be it.
       | 
       | That being said--I will reserve my right to tease them about
       | their moaning and annoy them with my undying enthusiasm. :)
        
         | Dracophoenix wrote:
         | What makes you feel more favorable towards first draft in
         | comparison to your friends. Is it a mental model that you've
         | adopted? Some interest in screwing around before composing in
         | earnest? No multi-million dollar contracts or other stressors
         | hanging over your head?
        
         | SiVal wrote:
         | That's fascinating. Are they writing what they want to write,
         | or are they only writing for the money or adulation?
         | 
         | I've written commercially, but not at the rarefied level of
         | your cohorts, and I've never wanted to make a career of it.
         | I've always wanted to write well, but I've never had to rely on
         | it to make a mortgage payment, much less to establish my place
         | in the world, and I've often wondered if that explained the
         | fact that I _don 't_ hate writing first drafts.
         | 
         | If I need to fix a toilet because a fixed toilet is needed, I
         | like having fixed the toilet but might not enjoy fixing it. But
         | if I'm creating what I want to create--writing or painting or a
         | software project--then I feel like creating it, not just having
         | created it. But for some it apparently is more like fixing very
         | valuable toilets.
        
       | Spooky23 wrote:
       | If you write, and like to write, why would you seek advice about
       | how to write?
        
         | Veen wrote:
         | For the same reason people who like to paint seek advice about
         | painting and people who like to program seek advice about
         | programming. Writing is a craft. You can learn how to do it
         | better (although not usually from books about how to write
         | well).
        
       | atoav wrote:
       | As someone teaching at art school and who worked and works as a
       | freelancer in all kind of creative professions (VFX, graphic
       | design, programming, sounddesign) I think the best advice you can
       | give to anyone in any creative profession is:
       | 
       | Learn to switch hats. When you have your writing hat on, put your
       | critic hat, your editor hat, your publisher hat, etc. down. Make
       | space for the other hats in times when you don't feel like
       | writing. Same is useful for music, film, painting, design, art.
       | 
       | The thing is: it is really easier said than done. Most people
       | constantly worry about other domains when they work on their
       | things. Sure, let some ideas of how you want your work to be
       | published flow into your writing, but don't _worry_ about it. You
       | can still worry later when you read the text again with a
       | different hat. Or you could have worried about that before you
       | started writing. Worry about writing, about which phrase to use
       | to convey what, worry about where you want your text to develope
       | and how fast.
       | 
       | The mastery of this type of very conscious context switching is
       | hard, because nobody is going to tell you which hat you need to
       | wear when and for how long. Nobody will tell you which hat is
       | more important, and which you better leave to others. It is a
       | very individual thing, but one thinking about really pays off in
       | the long term.
        
       | marcinzm wrote:
       | I feel it's because a beginner is a mostly blank slate so you can
       | give generic advice without need to understand their personal
       | context. Someone who is proficient will have strong context
       | (areas they're strong in, weak in, like, dislike, etc.) so advice
       | should be tailored to them. Writers may also not actually be
       | cognizant of their own context so can't self select specific
       | tailored advice books. Which is why there's historically been
       | writing workshops, editors, proofreaders, etc.
       | 
       | Curious how off the mark I am in my thoughts.
        
       | exolymph wrote:
       | Hey you! Nice to see your work on the front of HN. That said, I
       | disagree with the thrust of your thesis :) I'm a professional
       | writer, it's pretty much my only monetizable skill as well as my
       | passion, and writing first drafts is like pulling teeth. It's
       | arduous and I rarely enjoy it in the moment. Very satisfying when
       | I'm done and get to show off the result, though! I am exactly
       | that cliche about "hate writing, love having written." This is
       | not exactly an uncommon sentiment among writers, either.
        
         | jeffwass wrote:
         | I'm curious how you feel about editing.
         | 
         | For me, I do enjoy writing the first draft, even when I don't
         | know how or where many scenes will go. It's definitely hard
         | work, but enjoyable, especially when I get into the moment.
         | 
         | But editing, on the other hand, I don't look forward to.
        
           | exolymph wrote:
           | To me editing still feels chore-ish but to a much lesser
           | extent, and sometimes I'll have fun doing it.
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | Editing is tedious--especially in the later "how did this
           | stupid error make it this far?" stages. But it's definitely
           | _easier_ to start from some sort of foundation for me. That
           | said, this is mostly with respect to editing my own writing.
           | For editing the work of others, I definitely find there 's
           | sometimes this uncanny valley where I can't just say "this is
           | trash" but I also can't say this just needs a bit of TLC
           | either. And that's really frustrating because you sort of
           | want to respect the original writer's work, but it really
           | isn't very good.
        
       | tayo42 wrote:
       | I think this is just because most self help/self learn topics
       | focus on beginners or people who like the idea of starting. It's
       | easy for the writer to get a win. You don't need to be an expert
       | to write something targeted at beginners. Like in programming,
       | that's why we have endless "how to write your first todo app in
       | ..." and not "how to maintain and organize a 10k loc application
       | with 5 co workers all trying to fuck it up"
       | 
       | If you like to write, you're already writing, you're not a
       | beginner anymore I would think. I think the same thing could be
       | written as we need more intermediate and advanced advice.
        
       | tunesmith wrote:
       | Any general advice on how to find a writing group, for
       | intermediate writers that are past the beginners stage? I'm
       | thinking of people that are perhaps beyond the nanowrimo and
       | fanfic stages, that are comfortable with dialogue and
       | characterization, that can string together some fun scenes and
       | short stories, but aren't published writers.
       | 
       | I personally have been having fun over the past year writing a
       | branching novel with some friends. I know I've personally written
       | more than 50k words with all sorts of characters and twists and
       | turns and satisfying conclusions, but I feel like I'm plateauing.
       | I've thought about joining one of my local meetup.com writing
       | groups but I get the sense they'll take anyone and I'd rather be
       | the weakest writer in the room. Well, maybe second-weakest.
        
         | cableshaft wrote:
         | My wife had some luck taking a couple of courses by established
         | writers, who had their own private Facebook group you can join
         | afterwards. Seems like most of the people who are willing to
         | pay a few hundred dollars for the course are more serious about
         | wanting to make a career of it.
         | 
         | I belong to a local writer's group, and except for a short
         | story anthology that gets put out every year (and I participate
         | in sometimes), it's pretty clear that 90% of the people in the
         | group are never going to put forth the effort to probably ever
         | even get a self-published book out there.
         | 
         | And they definitely aren't serious enough to spend any money to
         | have any success. Can't even get them to chip in $15 apiece to
         | pay to get a decent looking book cover so the anthology might
         | grab some eyeballs and their stories get more readers.
        
       | datavirtue wrote:
       | This guy likes writing too much. "bryonic??"
        
         | User23 wrote:
         | Sounds like he's a fan of the Count of Monte Cristo.
        
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