[HN Gopher] Struggling to learn a new language? Blame it on your...
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       Struggling to learn a new language? Blame it on your stable brain
        
       Author : hhs
       Score  : 48 points
       Date   : 2021-08-30 19:47 UTC (3 hours ago)
        
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       | GameOfKnowing wrote:
       | [speaking in tongues]
        
       | holoduke wrote:
       | Learning a language requires a lot of motivation. A few hours a
       | week is not enough. In my case I started studying russian one
       | year ago. I promised myself to spend at least one to two hours
       | per day on learning new words and grammar. I watch YouTube videos
       | of random russian people. Write down all sentences and repeat
       | them till I fully understand them. I don't use any apps. But I do
       | have two times per week a session with a private teacher. She
       | pushes me to the limit. Without her I would have given up long
       | time ago. She gives me the essential motivation to practice the
       | language practically every day. Now after this year I am able to
       | hold basic conversations at a B1-2 level. By far not enough. But
       | slowly getting there. Another 3 years and I would be at a similar
       | level of my English (not native as well)
        
         | actually_a_dog wrote:
         | I don't think that's a bad level of proficiency after one year
         | of self study. Sure, you'd do better if you were in an
         | environment where you had to listen to and speak Russian all
         | day, but, that's not practical for everyone.
        
       | cletus wrote:
       | So here are two things I believe to be true:
       | 
       | 1. Learning a language is not an academic exercise, it's a social
       | one. If you're an introvert, learning a second language is (IMHO)
       | going to be extremely difficult because the activities most
       | likely to make that happen aren't ones you're likely comfortable
       | with. Worse, you'll be less inclined to do those activities
       | because you'll feel hamstrung by your inability to communicate.
       | It's difficult to get to a point where you have a sufficient
       | vocabulary to understand what's said or say what you want; and
       | 
       | 2. This is particularly difficult for English speakers for two
       | reasons. First, so many speak English or are learning that it's
       | hard to be in a situation where you can't revert to English. This
       | makes progress more difficult. The second reason most other
       | languages will have integral concepts that will be difficult for
       | you to acquire because there's no English equivalent. Some
       | examples:
       | 
       | - Gender of (non-person) nouns;
       | 
       | - Declension of words by gender, case, article and/or number;
       | 
       | - Agreement of adjectives;
       | 
       | The above is rather Indo-European centric of course. Asian
       | languages tend to have different characteristics that make them
       | difficult:
       | 
       | - The writing system;
       | 
       | - The importance of tone;
       | 
       | - Replacing grammar with context.
       | 
       | Nowadays most native English speakers do not know any grammar.
       | Like at all. Ask the average high school graduate what a noun is
       | and you're more likely than not to get a confused look.
       | 
       | To me this is a strength of English because you can obviously
       | learn the language, including reading and writing, without
       | "cruft". For example, word order in English is stricter than,
       | say, German because in German you can denote case by declension
       | and you can't do that in English. Likewise Spanish typically
       | drops the subject because it's obvious from the conjugation of
       | the verb.
        
       | actually_a_dog wrote:
       | So, what happens if you destabilize your brain a bit via
       | psychedelics? There is some good research out there showing that
       | certain psychedelics increase neuroplasticity, so it would be
       | interesting to see what the effects on language learning would
       | be.
        
       | ngokevin wrote:
       | That's a reason why many language learning apps or methods
       | recommend a period of "immersion" (i.e., just watching shows or
       | listening to music) and no speaking. Just listen and get used to
       | the sounds before trying to produce it awkwardly yourself. This
       | is popular in the https://refold.la language learning community
       | where they don't even recommend to speak until you can fully
       | understand an entire TV show without subtitles (which sounds a
       | bit extreme to me). https://languagelearningwithnetflix.com is
       | commonly used.
       | 
       | I'm going to shamelessly plug my project in case it might be
       | useful for anyone here. A webapp to learn a language if you're in
       | a relationship and learning it because you have a partner or
       | spouse that speaks that language. It's still early, but I've been
       | learning a third language as an adult for a while, and it helps
       | to make use of a native speaker who is around you all the time.
       | They can help train the ear as well. https://learncoupling.com
        
         | dQw4w9WgXcQ wrote:
         | Awhile back on here someone made a good point that if you learn
         | a language via an opposite sex partner, you generally end up
         | learning a manner of speaking that is typified by that sex.
         | 
         | So relational training does work to a point, but if you want to
         | be a man who speaks immersively and culturally like a man (and
         | so forth) it's worth remembering that digesting telenovelas and
         | practicing with your Colombian girlfriend will train you in a
         | certain direction.
        
           | yosito wrote:
           | I learned Spanish with a combination of Google Translate and
           | Spanish language music. People often tell me that I speak
           | Spanish like I'm singing and that my grammar seems like
           | Google Translate.
        
           | mc32 wrote:
           | This is true, from my experience. Natives of the language
           | will clue you in too that you're doing it.
        
           | ngokevin wrote:
           | That's a good point. It's not necessarily learning directly
           | 100% from a partner, but more using them for feedback,
           | reinforcement, and motivation. I'm curious what the context
           | of that conversation was!
        
           | _jal wrote:
           | I learned German as a 16-17 year-old exchange student, and
           | haven't had cause to use it super regularly since then, aside
           | from talking to people there.
           | 
           | They tell me I still sound a bit like an extremely out-of-
           | date teenager.
        
         | ttesttom wrote:
         | I would kindly disagree and say that it's better to learn the
         | pronunciation rules and practice _producing_ them. There is a
         | lot of research around learning that production and testing are
         | better for learning (and also why is easier to understand than
         | speak). Specifically, to train pronunciation, the anki decks
         | from the author of the book Fluent Forever are incredible.
         | 
         | Source: Learned a romance language for my SO and everyone I've
         | met in the native country tells me I have a very natural accent
         | and clean pronunciation.
         | 
         | https://fluent-forever.com/product/fluent-forever-pronunciat...
        
           | ngokevin wrote:
           | Yeah, I wouldn't go as extreme as refold's 100% comprehension
           | before even speaking. Just noting what's become popular
           | recently.
           | 
           | Personally, a two-week period or so just absorbing and
           | practicing pronunciation by yourself sounds good before
           | trying with other people.
           | 
           | Congrats on successfully learning your SO's language!
        
         | nextaccountic wrote:
         | Hey, thanks for the refold link, it was helpful.
        
         | diskzero wrote:
         | Your app looks interesting. I'll check it out!
         | 
         | I learned conversational French, German, Russian and Spanish as
         | an adult. The method that worked best for me is similar to what
         | you mentioned. I watched as many shows as I could in the
         | various languages. I listened to native language programming
         | and attempted to read as much material in the languages as
         | possible. While I was doing this, I was also working through
         | Rosetta Stone, which worked well for me. I also went to
         | language MeetUps and just absorbed the sounds and patterns of
         | conversation.
         | 
         | When I did decide to join the conversation, I took on a
         | philosophy of fearlessness and just went for it. Sure, many
         | mistakes were made, but I had zero negative feedback from my
         | attempts. When I later travelled, I adopted this same attitude.
         | I knew I was going to make mistakes, but I generated a lot of
         | goodwill for my attempts. Sometimes I got corrections,
         | sometimes I had to repeat myself, sometimes I would get an
         | answer back in English, whatever! No one ever shamed me and my
         | skills continued to improve.
        
           | ch4s3 wrote:
           | > Sometimes I got corrections, sometimes I had to repeat
           | myself, sometimes I would get an answer back in English,
           | whatever! No one ever shamed me and my skills continued to
           | improve.
           | 
           | Whenever I'm traveling abroad I always make an attempt to
           | learn a few hundred words, some phrases, and how to sting
           | together simple sentences. With very few exceptions, the
           | attempt is usually greeted with amusement and a polite
           | response. People were down right thrilled in Hungary, and the
           | Portuguese are in my experience quite happy to suffer through
           | you attempt.
        
             | ngokevin wrote:
             | Interestingly in Hong Kong, they will go to hell and back
             | to divert the conversation to English if they see you
             | aren't a native speaker. You literally have to say "I can't
             | speak English" if you want to keep it in Cantonese.
        
               | diskzero wrote:
               | Yeah, sometimes that will happen in countries where
               | people have strong English language skills. I'll respect
               | their wish to speak in the language they want to
               | communicate in.
        
               | ch4s3 wrote:
               | Yeah Holland is like that.
        
           | ngokevin wrote:
           | Yeah, the method is very appealing because speaking requires
           | interaction with other people. People are very content to
           | learn passively via watching movies because speaking does
           | require that fearlessness.
        
         | dark_glass wrote:
         | Your project looks amazing. I am in the same situation where I
         | am learning Cantonese because my partner and her family speak
         | it (actually Taishanese, but Cantonese is close enough).
         | 
         | Love the Yale romanization for your included Cantonese flash
         | cards! Definitely going to check this out.
         | 
         | As for listening before speaking: It has been incredibly hard
         | for me to pick out specific vocabulary with colloquial
         | Cantonese in movies and other videos. Native speakers talk too
         | quickly for me right now. I did watch a lot of French movies
         | when learning French and that seemed to help more with
         | comprehension later. I likely just need to spend more time with
         | Cantonese since it is more different to my native tongue than
         | French.
        
           | ngokevin wrote:
           | Yeah, very hard to learn Cantonese since it's tonal, but you
           | can do it! For movies, I find it a lot easier to reinforce
           | once I've gotten used to the language a bit. Lot of good
           | Stephen Chow and Jackie Chan films to learn with.
           | 
           | There are podcast packs in the app to get you introduced to
           | Cantonese. I'll keep in touch to see how it goes!
        
       | mynameisash wrote:
       | > the age-old question of why it's so difficult to learn a second
       | language as an adult
       | 
       | This immediately jumped out at me, the rest of the article
       | notwithstanding. My hot take is that there are at least two
       | strong reasons why it's so difficult:
       | 
       | 1. You're not serious about it.
       | 
       | There's a man in my weekly French meetup who when I joined was a
       | little bit better than me (which wasn't saying much -- I was
       | horrible). Since then, his French has improved almost none. He
       | can't conjugate, he can't pronounce, he can't even stay in the
       | language: stumbling halfway through a simple sentence, he just
       | gives up and switches to English. He's not serious about trying
       | to improve. For him, I think, he just likes the social aspect of
       | the group.
       | 
       | 2. You worried about failing.
       | 
       | Far too many people I've seen want to be fluent to the detriment
       | of _becoming_ fluent. When in conversation, they think very
       | carefully about what they say, practice pronunciation in their
       | head, etc. Saying something embarrassing or even just slightly
       | off is seen as a hindrance to their goals, but it 's just the
       | opposite: you have to make mistakes in order to get better.
       | 
       | Not to say that it's not hard to learn a language, but I've
       | talked with so many people who just say, "Learn Spanish? At my
       | age?! Impossible." But I can get by pretty well by myself in
       | France with patient native speakers, and I'm self-taught. It's
       | not as hard as people think.
        
       | DoreenMichele wrote:
       | Children aren't trying to learn a language. They are trying to
       | communicate their needs and language is the way you do that.
       | 
       | If you need to communicate in a particular language, you learn
       | it. If you just kind of think it would be nice to know another
       | language, you probably won't really become fluent.
       | 
       | Of course, there will always be exceptions.
       | 
       | Having said that: Any tips for brushing up on my college French?
       | "Beginner" stuff is too basic but I'm very rusty and the internet
       | decided for me that one of my forums is a bilingual forum. I'm
       | happy to embrace that but my French needs work.
        
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