[HN Gopher] That Time I Told My Wife I Wanted to Quit My Job
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       That Time I Told My Wife I Wanted to Quit My Job
        
       Author : ezekg
       Score  : 42 points
       Date   : 2021-09-21 20:30 UTC (2 hours ago)
        
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       | yuy910616 wrote:
       | Having a supportive spouse is basically a superpower.
        
         | ezekg wrote:
         | Absolutely agree. Thanks for reading!
        
       | hellisothers wrote:
       | Was excited to read a feel good story about good relationships
       | and the ability to strike out on one's own. Then got to the
       | "~taxes~ theft" and it killed the buzz. Why even include that?
       | Whole article built on the privilege of being able to build your
       | own business but calling the thing that built the infrastructure
       | to make it happen theft :\\.
        
         | hauzjk wrote:
         | I'm pretty sure its just a lil joke
        
           | ezekg wrote:
           | Can confirm, it was definitely in jest. But I am a
           | libertarian, so I have to spread the good word through memes
           | whenever I can.
        
         | lolpython wrote:
         | It takes some experience with writing to learn to remove asides
         | like these that detract from the main point. It's extra weird
         | that they did this on the company blog. Hopefully a couple
         | extra editing passes are done in the future.
        
         | lurker2093 wrote:
         | majority of taxes aren't 'building the infrastructure' that
         | enables one to start a SaaS.
        
         | t0mbstone wrote:
         | I took it as a jab against the idea that crypto should be
         | taxed.
         | 
         | Many people feel that crypto should be treated like liquid
         | money that can be bought or sold freely, and not like a taxable
         | investment.
        
         | smilekzs wrote:
         | There are other ways to build the infrastructure without the
         | current (IMHO exploitative) tax system in the US, especially
         | given how both income and services are taxed. I find it unfair
         | to discredit the authors based on essentially an lighthearted
         | expression of sarcasm on their frustration with such a system.
        
       | jonny383 wrote:
       | Sounds like you're the wife, frankly.
        
         | dqh wrote:
         | What is that even supposed to mean. It's certainly not a
         | comment that belongs here, or anywhere.
        
           | macksd wrote:
           | To the dead comment that wrote "If you're a man and don't
           | understand what I'm talking about above, then expect to be
           | blindsided by your family after career changes": as if this
           | thread didn't start by implying a "real man" would blindside
           | the mother of his child with startup plans without
           | considering her input. You condescendingly refer to female
           | psychology and a need for security, without stopping to look
           | at your own selfish motives that started all this?
        
             | snowwrestler wrote:
             | Please don't quote dead comments to continue arguing with
             | them.
        
           | redis_mlc wrote:
           | False, this is a very germane topic for a startup forum.
           | 
           | Most wives WILL NOT go along with a plan to start an unfunded
           | startup and WILL leave you if you quit your job and can't
           | support them at the same level as before. In fact, most women
           | have a "backup plan/husband" at all times.
           | 
           | You can read about hypergamy and monkey-branching to
           | understand female psychology and need for security. It's
           | universal, so it doesn't matter what country you're in,
           | although some religions suppress it in practice.
           | 
           | I don't like the overwrought ("beta") presentation of the
           | blog article, but the salient relationship points are very
           | real. He's a lucky guy to have an understanding and agreable
           | wife.
           | 
           | If you're a man and don't understand what I'm talking about
           | above, then expect to be blindsided by your family after
           | career changes, since this happens every day around the
           | world.
        
         | happytoexplain wrote:
         | This seems petty and meaningless.
        
       | softwarebeware wrote:
       | Cool read, always wanted to take my own idea to market and
       | succeed with it, but never actually found that unique idea that
       | someone wasn't already doing better, unfortunately. "The future
       | is here, it's just not evenly distributed" -William Gibson
        
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