[HN Gopher] Midwest Developer
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       Midwest Developer
        
       Author : luu
       Score  : 110 points
       Date   : 2021-12-27 20:23 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | HeyLaughingBoy wrote:
       | > In Minnesota, the emphasis is on working hard at whatever you
       | do, and living a good life
       | 
       | I moved to Minnesota from Connecticut about 20 years ago. When
       | describing the company culture during my interview, my manager
       | said "well, we have a choice of Summer hours to give you more
       | time off during our very short summers, but come Winter, everyone
       | just hunkers down and gets to work." Said with a broad smile and
       | excitement about getting to work! Really nice guy though, and a
       | damn good engineer.
       | 
       | I'll just leave this here:
       | https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/969324.How_to_Talk_Mi...
        
       | neartheplain wrote:
       | I'm a Midwest native and huge fan of the region. It's been great
       | to see more big tech firms open offices here, in addition to a
       | rising number of startups and software consulting firms. Was
       | happily surprised to see that Tundra Labs, who recently launched
       | a well-reviewed VR full-body tracking product, is based out of
       | Green Bay, Wisconsin (I am not affiliated, just a Midwest VR
       | enthusiast):
       | 
       | https://twitter.com/Tundra_Labs
        
       | hangonhn wrote:
       | How could you forget about the humble Gopher protocol:
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gopher_(protocol) !? :-)
        
         | greenyoda wrote:
         | One of the earliest graphical web browsers, Mosaic, was also a
         | product of the Midwest, having been developed at the University
         | of Illinois: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mosaic_(web_browser)
        
       | analog31 wrote:
       | Greetings from Wisconsin. I'd describe the attitude towards work
       | a bit differently: I think we tend to have generally healthy
       | attitudes about work-life balance. I've not seen the 996 culture
       | here except in some rare cases. When we work, we work. Then we go
       | home. There's probably a different age distribution among tech
       | workers, that might be reflected in our attitudes. I have
       | colleagues who are past 65 and still enjoy coming in and doing
       | their thing.
       | 
       | Not everybody hates the winter. I love it. Right now I'm looking
       | out at a nice snowstorm, and hoping to take a long walk in it. I
       | believe the trick to dealing with the weather -- hot and cold --
       | is to get out and embrace it. If you're outside every day, the
       | seasons won't take you by surprise. You'll figure out clothing.
       | You'll find the nice places to take walks or ride your bike. It
       | doesn't have to happen all at once, or even within the space of
       | one year.
        
         | curiousllama wrote:
         | > Not everybody hates the winter.
         | 
         | Absolute truth.
         | 
         | > I believe the trick to dealing with the weather -- hot and
         | cold -- is to get out and embrace it.
         | 
         | I used to routinely need to walk >2 miles over the course of a
         | day in Chicago winters. I assure you, I still hated it!
         | 
         | 100 degrees and humid? No problem. Sub-zero? I'm leaving!
        
       | mNovak wrote:
       | I will vouch that the Midwest is highly underrated. People are
       | friendly; there's way more diversity and culture than people seem
       | to think; it's affordable.
        
         | Supermancho wrote:
         | My family (parents and siblings) sold their properties in
         | California and moved to Minnesota, shortly before I moved to
         | Washington with my wife. 2.5 years later we moved to Fargo. It
         | looks like Irvine most of the year and has everything you need
         | in Southern California for a fraction of the price.
        
       | mgkimsal wrote:
       | I grew up in Detroit, but moved south about 15 years ago. I've
       | got a couple friends from MN, and visited there for a conference
       | ... maybe 8-9 years ago. I loved the downtown - big enough to
       | feel like a 'real city', but not overwhelmingly so. That was my
       | impression, anyway. I was only there for a few days, but really
       | liked the short vibe I got. I was visiting in July, however, and
       | kept imagining how brutal the winters would be. I have to imaging
       | 'as bad as Detroit' or perhaps worse. It was amazing to me how
       | quickly I don't miss winter/snow at all. I never cared for it,
       | even when living there, but when you're born in to an area, you
       | 'live with it'. After a while, much of your life is there, and
       | leaving can be hard (friends/family/work/etc).
       | 
       | My family is in 34(f)-degrees-Detroit area right now, while I had
       | a 72(f)-degrees afternoon. Just could not think of moving back
       | permanently, but I do like to visit.
        
       | transienthrow wrote:
        
       | allturtles wrote:
       | No matter how dismissive one is of the midwest, how could you be
       | ignorant of the existence of a major metro area like Minneapolis-
       | St. Paul? Per [0], it's the 16th largest in the U.S. Its teams
       | participate in every major televised sports league (NFL, NBA,
       | NHL, MLB).
       | 
       | I dunno, I almost just don't believe the OP's anecdotes, unless
       | they are talking to recent arrivals to the U.S. from other
       | countries. I'm from a significantly smaller Midwestern city than
       | Minneapolis, and I don't recall anyone ever saying "where's that"
       | or "are there buildings there" when I say where I'm from.
       | 
       | [0]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Metropolitan_statistical_area
        
         | aspaceman wrote:
         | I grew up pretty close to Chicago and folks in California still
         | call me "corn boy".
        
       | light_hue_1 wrote:
       | All of this depends on who you are. And a lot of information is
       | being left out here. I lived in the Midwest for 6 years doing my
       | PhD. For me, it was beyond horrific. By far the worst place I've
       | ever been.
       | 
       | You have black skin? Oh yeah, the Midwest is going to be real
       | fun. I have seen some horrific racism that blew my mind. Even
       | Boston, which is notoriously racist, had nothing on the most
       | liberal parts of the Midwest that I've been to.
       | 
       | Dare to be gay?! Yeah, I've seen the nice people in the liberal
       | towns in the Midwest react to two men holding hands. Saying that
       | it wasn't positive is.. a massive understatement. None of my gay
       | friends felt remotely comfortable outside the confines of campus.
       | 
       | You're an atheist? I have seen people shout at atheists calling
       | them devils and far worse things.
       | 
       | The Midwest is largely Trump country. I have seen people casually
       | stop friends who had a Hispanic accent in the supermarket to tell
       | them to go fuck themselves and go back to their country.
       | 
       | You want culture? In major towns I can go to the symphony, go to
       | talks, classes, explore new parts of the town, take tours, go to
       | concerns or performances, etc. Not to mention that I'm not bound
       | to having a car and going on endless drives to get to the one
       | supermarket near me.
       | 
       | If you're white, straight, and you decide to tolerate hate by
       | looking away and making sure to never bring up any contentious
       | issues, yeah, maybe the Midwest is for you.
       | 
       | I've been there. Never again.
        
         | almost_usual wrote:
         | Most of California is Trump country outside of the Bay Area and
         | LA.
        
           | carlivar wrote:
           | When does it stop being Trump country and revert back to just
           | conservative?
        
             | almost_usual wrote:
             | I'm only saying it because that's how the parent referenced
             | it.
        
         | bovermyer wrote:
         | First off, stop saying "the Midwest" like it's one unified
         | culture. That's like saying all humans are the same.
         | 
         | Secondly, Minneapolis specifically is very cosmopolitan. I live
         | here, and there's a vibrant progressive culture.
         | 
         | I've seen far more Trumpling culture recently on a drive
         | through Illinois and Indiana than in my last ten years of
         | living in Minneapolis.
         | 
         | I will repeat - do not _ever_ call "the Midwest" one culture
         | again.
        
           | wobblykiwi wrote:
           | Driving through Illinois during the election last year was
           | interesting. Having grown up and currently living in Chicago,
           | you won't see much "Trumpling" (as you put it) culture in the
           | city proper and much of the surrounding suburbs, but that
           | changes drastically even an hour or 2 drive out from the
           | city. It's like an entirely different world.
        
             | cozzyd wrote:
             | Yes, probably the best example is driving down Route 66
             | between Joliet and Wilmington. Wilmington greets you with
             | this: https://www.google.com/maps/@41.3094815,-88.1413858,3
             | a,47.3y...
        
             | selectodude wrote:
             | Unless you're Jussie Smollett :O
        
         | profmonocle wrote:
         | > The Midwest is largely Trump country.
         | 
         | Minnesota, the state being discussed in the article, hasn't
         | gone red in a presidential election since 1972 - longer than
         | any other state. (Only DC has a longer blue streak.) We were
         | also the first state in the midwest to legalize gay marriage
         | via legislation rather than a court order.
         | 
         | Yes, the rural parts of the state are very conservative. (The
         | district just north of me was Michele Bachmann's.) But this is
         | true nationwide - just look at rural California or Washington.
        
         | cozzyd wrote:
         | There are certainly parts of the Midwest like you describe, but
         | not the bigger cosmopolitan cities (Chicago, Minneapolis,
         | Detroit, Columbus, Madison etc.) that people are likely talking
         | about here, but overall you're mostly describing rural small
         | towns all over the country, with a few exceptions (ski towns,
         | vermont).
        
         | thatfunkymunki wrote:
         | Yeah, being even slightly queer or non-white is majorly
         | disruptive to leading a reasonable, hate-free life in the
         | midwest IME (I specifically have experience with Chicago). I
         | think people that talk about how diverse, open, and respectful
         | places like Chicago are are either white/straight or have never
         | lived in a coastal USA city (that is, NYC, SF, LA, Seattle,
         | etc).
        
           | almost_usual wrote:
           | I can't imagine PNW loggers and NorCal State of Jefferson
           | types being more open minded than your average Chicagoan.
           | 
           | The west coast is very conservative outside of major metros.
        
             | thatfunkymunki wrote:
             | my apologies, I specified coastal cities in an edit, since
             | my original phrasing mentioned only the coast in general.
        
         | kayodelycaon wrote:
         | Having grown up in various places in the Midwest and lived here
         | most of my life, I've never seen this. What campus was this?
         | 
         | Cincinnati Pride is a week-long LGBT event that most of the
         | city gets into.
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cincinnati_Pride
        
         | istorical wrote:
         | In flyover country you have insane racists screaming at you for
         | being gay/black/whatever.
         | 
         | In NYC/SF you have insane homeless people screaming at you for
         | ...whatever they are screaming at you for.
         | 
         | I think the important question is - what percentage of the
         | population in any of these areas is really shitty to live
         | around, and how often does a person have these types of
         | experiences. In either case, it's hard to avoid some form of
         | unpleasant shitty people.
         | 
         | All that being said, that really sucks and I hope the world
         | changes for the better soon.
        
       | mikewarot wrote:
       | It should be noted that CBBS, the first Computerized Bulletin
       | Board System, was created because of a snow storm in the Chicago
       | area. Constraints inspire creativity.
        
       | yesimahuman wrote:
       | I live in Madison and believe it or not we have coastal VC-backed
       | startups (including my own and a SoftBank-backed unicorn or two)
       | and lots of professional engineers. A lot of people on the coasts
       | are frankly just not that knowledgeable outside of their bubble
       | and that's okay, it really doesn't mean that what the Midwest has
       | isn't significant. I have actually grown to quite like being an
       | under the radar city for all the benefits that brings and having
       | a different perspective on America
        
         | neartheplain wrote:
         | There's also a full-fledged Google office in Madison, in
         | addition to their offices in Chicago and (soon) Rochester,
         | Minnesota. Working as a developer and living in the Midwest
         | doesn't necessarily mean leaving Big Tech.
        
       | marktangotango wrote:
       | The worst part of being a developer in the midwest is the
       | companies; banks, financial services, insurance, telecoms,
       | insurance, banks. Did I mention insurance and banks? Of course
       | there is more variety, but I think most would agree there's not a
       | lot of cutting edge stuff going on "here" generally.
       | 
       | Growing remote oppurtunities do mitigate that, but the number of
       | companies trying to "modernize" their infrastructure is...
       | depressing.
        
         | yesimahuman wrote:
         | There are legacy companies everywhere. There are more than
         | enough interesting startups or remote opportunities in the
         | Midwest (city depending) that this isn't really true any more
        
           | PascLeRasc wrote:
           | The interesting companies (Duolingo, Argo, Root, maybe
           | Capital One, etc) in the Midwest won't hire anyone from
           | regular local universities. They get all their people from
           | CMU/Stanford/UCs. If you went to a place like Ohio State the
           | best you can hope for locally is DBA at an insurance company.
           | A lot of the engineers I graduated with have given up on this
           | and are doing real estate or retraining to become a teacher.
           | You can work for SpaceX, Google, Amazon, but you need to move
           | out of the Midwest first. So out of college you need to ask
           | yourself if giving up all your local friends and family is
           | worth having a fulfilling career. It's hard.
           | 
           | The workplace culture is different too. If you're in the rust
           | belt, your managers over age 50 came from manufacturing lines
           | and were taught that they need to literally see you looking
           | like you're working all the time and they'll use phrases like
           | "extract value from human capital". They'll want you to beg
           | and plead for permission to use your PTO, but then put in
           | your performance review that you're getting a 1% instead of a
           | 2% raise for excessive time off utilization. My friend's
           | telecom workplace just announced that their holiday bonus is
           | that they may wear jeans on Fridays all 2022.
        
             | yesimahuman wrote:
             | As a startup employer in the Midwest this doesn't resonate
             | with me at all. We don't care what school you went to as
             | long as you're good. In this hiring climate no one can
             | afford to be weirdly selective about school
        
               | endemic wrote:
               | Same here, I helped do recruiting for a previous
               | employer, a healthcare tech company in Columbus, OH.
               | AFAIK the other local tech companies are fairly
               | egalitarian regarding higher education.
        
               | PascLeRasc wrote:
               | Midwest is broad and from what I hear about Chicago and
               | Minneapolis they're much more progressive. I'm referring
               | mostly to Ohio/western Pennsylvania/WV.
               | 
               | It's good to hear that you'd give local grads a chance
               | though, thanks.
        
               | yesimahuman wrote:
               | As a midwesterner I should know better than to make
               | generalizations about what is a huge and diverse region
               | of America, so good reminder!
        
             | ralmidani wrote:
             | I live in Columbus, worked at Chase, and currently work at
             | ScriptDrop (we coordinate prescription deliveries). I don't
             | have a CS degree, just a bootcamp. I haven't encountered,
             | or heard of anyone who has encountered, any of the issues
             | you mention (I've never had a PTO request turned down or
             | even questioned).
             | 
             | Small sample size, so maybe there are idiotic companies and
             | managers out there, but they're probably not as common as
             | you suggest.
             | 
             | Also, I prefer working for a company that has demonstrated
             | and tangible real-world value. Not every problem in the
             | world is an algorithm away from being solved.
        
       | josefdlange wrote:
       | This is so lovely and so remarkably familiar. Thank you so much
       | for sharing. Having recently moved back to the midwest (SE WI)
       | after being in the Seattle area for almost ten years, I feel so
       | much of this. You've put it into words far better than I could
       | dream of doing.
        
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       | jeffreportmill1 wrote:
       | Thank you for sharing your experience. I recently became a
       | midwest developer myself having moved to Chicago 2 years ago and
       | I've wondered about the lives of colleagues in this part of the
       | country as we've explored a little of Wisconsin and Indiana. They
       | warned me that 6 weeks of the year I would wish to be anywhere
       | else. 2019 was fine - I found the cold invigorating, and with
       | like more than a few inches of accumulated snow, I thought
       | reports had been exaggerated. The winter of 2020-2021, disabused
       | me of that - 3 feet of snow piled outside for 2-3 months has
       | humbled me.
       | 
       | I started as a southern developer 30 years ago, but in Texas I
       | was considered a hippie. When I moved to Silicon Valley to fix
       | that, I was considered too much of a Texan. After 10 years in CA
       | we went back to Texas which felt more like home, but
       | paradoxically was more isolating, because I knew very few
       | software developers (working for myself). I must have thought
       | this adventure in Chicago was going to be my happy medium.
       | 
       | So I wish you continued good luck in Minnesota. Say hello to Al
       | Franken and Garrison Keillor for me (two Minnesotans I've enjoyed
       | listening to for years).
        
         | blockwriter wrote:
         | The Indiana Sand Dunes are a good day trip into Indiana from
         | Chicago.
        
         | cozzyd wrote:
         | My work takes me to Antarctica and Greenland, so now I don't
         | think Chicago winters are all that bad anymore :).
        
         | cpher wrote:
         | Welcome to Chicago. I've lived here 15+ years, and Illinois
         | most of my life. And I _still_ hate winter LOL.
        
       | Minor49er wrote:
       | This take is pretty spot-on. Many developers also move to
       | Minnesota, so there are some pretty striking personality clashes
       | in odd ways. As long as you like craft beer, though, you're
       | golden
        
         | the_only_law wrote:
         | > As long as you like craft beer, though, you're golden
         | 
         | Depends are we talking about "oops all IPA's" type craft beer
         | or a nice varied selection of styles and flavors.
        
           | piefayth wrote:
           | You wouldn't believe the extent of the beer scene in the Twin
           | Cities. There's pretty much any beer you could imagine, then
           | probably some ones you can't.
           | 
           | I moved here from Chicago ~6 years ago and was disappointed
           | at how much worse the TC food scene was (it still has some
           | gems, and is improving, as another commenter pointed out),
           | but immediately I noticed a stark contrast in my social
           | circles. In Chicago people would invite you to bars and
           | restaurants, but in Minneapolis nearly everyone I met
           | (coworkers, dates, etc) wanted to go to a brewery! And it's
           | clear why - there's genuinely fantastic beers on every
           | corner. You could spend months just trying to sample all the
           | single cans that your local liquor store sells.
           | 
           | Even beer haters would be delighted at the nice array of
           | sours and ciders around. My mom, a known beer-despiser, still
           | asks me when we can get more "nice beers from that place you
           | took me."
        
       | rmason wrote:
       | You think it's bad being from Minneapolis-St. Paul, try telling
       | them you're originally from Detroit!
       | 
       | It's getting better but the amount of ignorance about Detroit is
       | amazing! I tried once talking an evangelist into adding Detroit
       | to the road show around twenty years ago. There had just been an
       | article in Time magazine and it said something like the city had
       | the lowest number of college graduates per capita of any major
       | city and there were less than 670,000 people. The guy immediately
       | hit me with that fact. He said we couldn't possibly go to a place
       | that small and if we did there wouldn't be that many developers.
       | 
       | I said that may be true for the city of Detroit but the Detroit
       | metro has over four million people and I assure you there are a
       | lot of developers. So they decided to add Detroit as a tour stop
       | and he later told me that it was one of the largest and most
       | enthusiastic audiences on the entire tour.
       | 
       | Even today Detroit gets left off most tech tours and when one
       | does add them they're pleasantly surprised by the turn out.
       | That's despite the fact that Amazon, Microsoft, Google and
       | Twitter have offices there.
        
         | michigama wrote:
         | There's something particularly exciting about Detroit that's
         | hard to put my finger on, especially the last few years of
         | development in the Midtown area. Something about all of the
         | lovely art deco architecture slowly being re-occupied and
         | revitalized by tech/retail/restaurants makes it an incredibly
         | interesting time and place to be around.
        
       | mishftw wrote:
       | "In Minnesota, the emphasis is on working hard at whatever you
       | do, and living a good life."
       | 
       | Having done my undergrad at the University of Michigan and spent
       | a year and half in Detroit afterwards, I relate a lot to this
       | article. People are just nicer and more personable here, there is
       | less arrogance and an attitude of "doing the work".
        
       | kayodelycaon wrote:
       | I lasted about 2 years in the PNW before I decided to go back to
       | the midwest. It's worked out really well. A side benefit,
       | Cincinnati is within driving distance of a lot of furry
       | conventions. (Before the pandemic...)
       | 
       | The midwest is a lot more laid back than other places I've been.
       | People are friendly here. I've had a few nice conversations with
       | random strangers, just because we were standing in the same line.
       | If you don't want to talk to people in line, that's fine too.
       | You're not forced to interact with anyone, but there are a lot of
       | opportunities if you want to.
        
       | jplhomer wrote:
       | Des Moines, IA software engineer checking in!
       | 
       | It's great. Not terribly exciting, but the hours/culture/WL
       | balance others have described holds up.
        
       | kerneloftruth wrote:
       | This is very good, and applies to so many people from the
       | Midwest. This describes, pleasantly and without vitriol, the
       | attitudes (shaped by perspective) that many coastal folks with
       | little exposure to the rest of the US have. These are the same
       | folks who call the Midwest states "flyover states", implying
       | "nobody who's anybody stops or lives there".
       | 
       | I've been asked by someone from Boston if we celebrated
       | Independence Day in Texas, and have seen a UC Berkeley graduate
       | become genuinely frightened by the sight of a Southern Living
       | cookbook.
       | 
       | Being ignorant of places you haven't been to is understandable,
       | but it seems a common pattern for those in the Midwest to see the
       | coastal places as "special" and desirable to at least visit;
       | whereas geographically ignorant Californians (the ones I'm most
       | familiar with) generally view all the interior states as
       | "lesser". Granted, this is a bit of generalized judgement on my
       | own part.
        
       | binarynate wrote:
       | The part about working on side projects in the winter resonates
       | with me. I've lived in Indiana my entire life and am considering
       | moving to Texas to escape the cold, gray winters. Part of me is
       | worried that I'll be less productive in the winter because of
       | that, but I think it will be worth the tradeoff.
        
       | 015a wrote:
       | Being a midwest developer:
       | 
       | - Cost of living. Its the cheapest place in the US to live.
       | 
       | - Gender ratio. This is something new grads should absolutely
       | consider. The gender ratio even on midwest tech teams feels
       | nation-leading, with many of the companies I've talked to
       | (including my own) near 50-50. But even beyond tech; its far more
       | equitable here. This is a theme I see all the time with west-
       | coast tech; they talk about making change, implement tons of
       | policies to try to it happen, but here, its already happened. We
       | just don't talk about it. This is important for new grads even
       | beyond their job; finding a partner here is so much easier & more
       | fun.
       | 
       | - Pay & Job Security. Some companies are "old" and still stuck in
       | their ways and won't match more high-tech salaries. You'll find
       | that anywhere. Other companies have more progressive leadership,
       | despite being a traditionally old business, and pay aggressively
       | well. You'll also find that anywhere. You have to spend some time
       | researching who is who, but: these companies have tons of money,
       | desire to modernize, and the best part: very little sense of what
       | being a "good engineer" means. Read into that what you will, but:
       | you literally won't ever have a problem finding a job. I've
       | gotten offers after literally just casually talking with someone
       | for fifteen minutes in a company's engineering leadership at a
       | tech meetup.
       | 
       | - Remote. Many west coast companies are now paying west coast
       | salaries regardless of work location. Local companies are pushing
       | for more work-from-home or hybrid.
       | 
       | - Novelty. Tech still feels nascent in many of these cities.
       | Maybe not MSP/Chicago, but more of the second tier midwestern
       | cities. The communities are small, three-person startups are
       | still everywhere, and there's a startling amount of "old money"
       | looking to invest. Most awesomely, there's much less bullshit; in
       | general, you hear what some of these companies are working on and
       | think "shit, that will sell".
       | 
       | - Weather. You get used to it. But you know what we don't get?
       | Wildfires, hurricanes, and earthquakes. Tornadoes are common, but
       | they generally don't strike major cities. I'd take the midwest
       | environment over west coast any day; warm weather every day is
       | fine, but imagine buying a house in an area that's years overdue
       | for an earthquake that will level your city.
        
         | strombofulous wrote:
         | > Cost of living. Its the cheapest place in the US to live.
         | 
         | When I lived in a "low COL town" that wasn't in the midwest
         | (about 2 hours from a major city of any kind and about an hour
         | in various directions from a couple small cities) people would
         | say this all the time... "Sure I'm only making 60% of what I
         | could be but my CoL is so low!!"[0]
         | 
         | But my rent was still over $600/mo for a 2-room apartment
         | (each)
         | 
         | Gas costed the same it costs everywhere else
         | 
         | Walmart prices were walmart prices.
         | 
         | Restaurants were typically cheap but that's because they
         | weren't amazing - the population couldn't afford to sustain an
         | high-end restaurant. There are cheap restaurants everywhere.
         | 
         | I felt like it was cheap compared to outliers like seattle and
         | the bay area, but not cheap on its own. I'm interested in how
         | this might be different from the midwest. What kinds of
         | products or services stand out to you as significantly
         | contributing towards a low CoL?
         | 
         | [0] With remote the bit about 60% is no longer as accurate, but
         | it's what a lot of people said at the time, and some of them
         | still make comparatively little and say they're fine because of
         | the low CoL.
        
         | tandymodel100 wrote:
         | The gender ratio thing is weird and a surprising reason for why
         | people my age seem to want to work in New York City. I really
         | don't get it - as a non-white guy people like me are out of
         | luck no matter the ratio.
        
       | adamrezich wrote:
       | when I was at GDC 2016 I met a couple who are somewhat well-known
       | in those circles and while hanging out one night they started
       | talking about the complex mix of feelings they had about having
       | just moved back to San Francisco after being away for years. they
       | said that because the weather is so mild and largely unvaried
       | there, it's easy for one to lose track of time month after month,
       | and the years sometimes just seem to run together as a result.
       | this was incredibly interesting to me, having grown up in South
       | Dakota (whose status as "midwest" is disputed (if not "midwest,"
       | then what?)), which was an experience much like the one in this
       | article. recently worsening cold-season arthritis aside, I very
       | much enjoy the seasonal weather. "The summers are humid, hot, and
       | fleeting, yet caked in an energy that can only be felt when a
       | resource is limited" really resonates with me (except for the
       | humid part).
        
         | dehrmann wrote:
         | > if not "midwest," then what?
         | 
         | Great plains.
        
       | boc wrote:
       | As someone from the middle of Kansas, it's funny reading someone
       | describe Minneapolis like a sleepy backwater town. If you truly
       | grew up in the heartland, major cities like Minneapolis and
       | Chicago feel incredibly alive and full of energy.
       | 
       | Minneapolis is a cosmopolitan city. It has the second most
       | theater seats of any US city (after NYC). It has lots of great
       | food and international diversity, being home to large diasporas
       | from Africa and SE Asia. If you're a Bay Area native, the most
       | shocking thing about Minneapolis will be the weather, not the
       | culture or people.
       | 
       | In my opinion, the worst part about the weather in the Midwest is
       | the variability. Good luck trying to plan a few days ahead -
       | fronts whip through and drop or raise the temps dramatically.
       | Rain/sleet/snow can happen almost anytime, and the intraday
       | changes in weather are going to be foreign to anyone accustomed
       | to coastal living. I've personally seen it go from 90F to 28F
       | within 24 hours. If you can handle that, then Minneapolis is a
       | great place to live.
        
         | samschooler wrote:
         | I was interested in the "second most theater seats of any US
         | city (after NYC)" claim. After a little google, it looks like
         | its actually _per capita_. Which is still cool, but not the
         | same.
         | 
         | https://thetangential.com/2014/07/29/sorry-twin-cities-that-...
        
           | hirsin wrote:
           | Ha, thank you, I was about to inject the pro-Cleveland piece
           | mentioned in your link, so that was educational. How
           | bounteous our country is to have so many second place cities!
        
             | MobileVet wrote:
             | 'Pro-Cleveland' is something you don't hear a lot, lol. If
             | it wasn't for the gray winters it really would be a solid
             | place. I grew up there and went to school in Indiana. The
             | difference in sun was remarkable and made a lot of
             | difference when it was cold.
        
         | yesimahuman wrote:
         | Yes it's hilarious hearing people describe midwestern towns as
         | quaint when we have massive cities like Chicago and pretty much
         | everything most other coastal cities have
        
           | cozzyd wrote:
           | Yeah after living in Chicago for the last 7 years, SF doesn't
           | feel very big like it used to when I lived in the Bay Area
           | many years ago.
        
         | nso95 wrote:
         | From Oklahoma and I agree - feels like they think the midwest
         | is some sort of alien world...
        
       | vineyardmike wrote:
       | As a new englander, living in the PNW, dreaming of returning to
       | california sun, I sure do miss my time in the midwest (although
       | i've never been to Minnesota specifically).
       | 
       | Obviously you can't generalize everyone, but the people i met in
       | the MW were way nicer than the people i knew from the east coast
       | or west coast. I've been invited into many strangers homes as if
       | i was a close friend. Very few people seem to be captured by a
       | blind viral drive towards success the way you find in places like
       | NYC or SF, and instead people are just happy and enjoy their
       | position in life. (not to say people don't do good work, or don't
       | succeed at goals). If you dream of a nice middle class life, with
       | a quaint house and a nice family, and all that jazz, it seems
       | like a great place to be, and a culture that wants you to have
       | it... if you're straight and white and "normal".
       | 
       | The weather sure does suck though. Hot summers, cold snowy
       | winters. Worse than new england, with less money to keep roads
       | and infra in shape. That said, i find myself every fall on the
       | west coast missing "real fall" where the leaves change and the
       | brisk wind cools you down outside as you can see your breath.
       | Throwing on a soft flannel and grabbing something warm to drink
       | while you stand outside and enjoy nature...
        
         | coldpie wrote:
         | > The weather sure does suck though.
         | 
         | Ahhhhh you gotta embrace it and find the good in it or you'll
         | just resent everything :) St Paulite here. This morning it was
         | 9 degrees F on the way to the bus. The snow has a beautiful,
         | sparkling layer of ice from the rainy drizzle we got the other
         | day. Most of the plants were covered in a thin coating of ice,
         | the streetlights reflecting through them looked like inverted
         | icicles. It's snowing now, we'll probably get 2" this
         | afternoon, lovely to crunch through.
        
           | jcims wrote:
           | I live in Ohio and it's probably my faulty memory at work but
           | it seems that our winters used to be much more like what you
           | describe. I can distinctly recall hunting deer in -20F
           | weather in the 80s and my cheap plastic orange vest just
           | disintegrating as I walk. Lots of weekends and evenings spent
           | sledding or trying to optimize packing vs throwing in a good
           | snowball fight (afterall it's not good until someone bleeds,
           | right?)
           | 
           | Aside from a nice blast of snow last year, it seems that our
           | winters are now largely an indiscriminate blah of slush and
           | rain and I'm tired. Need to relocate north or south and i
           | can't figure out which.
        
         | light_hue_1 wrote:
         | > if you're straight and white and "normal".
         | 
         | Yup. That sums my experiences up nicely, although I would add
         | "if you're straight and white and 'normal' and don't care about
         | how people treat anyone else".
        
         | dragonwriter wrote:
         | > Obviously you can't generalize everyone, but the people i met
         | in the MW were way nicer than the people i knew from the east
         | coast or west coast.
         | 
         | > it seems like a great place to be, and a culture that wants
         | you to have it... if you're straight and white and "normal".
         | 
         | That suggests that you are using a definition of "nice" that
         | many people (especially those who are not, but even many who
         | are, unless the last term includes bigotry within its ambit)
         | straight and white and "normal" would rather strongly disagree
         | with.
        
           | vineyardmike wrote:
           | > the people i met in the MW were way nicer than the people i
           | knew from the east coast or west coast.
           | 
           | The people i met were way more _polite_ than people
           | elsewhere. Thats what nice meant.
           | 
           | > it seems like a great place to be...
           | 
           | It seems to be a place that is rewarding to be in and will
           | make you happy (if you fit in and want their cultural norms).
           | Normal in this context = Want a quaint middle class hetero
           | nuclear white-picket-fence american-dream style life and
           | you're also polite and friendly just like those around you.
           | Many people want that, especially "all american" people who
           | grew up (white, middleclass, american) with that experience
           | themselves (and american propoganda). No bigotry implied...
           | thats not everyones experience, but its probably the "normal"
           | for a native Midwesterner (from my time there).
        
         | wincy wrote:
         | The "if you're straight and white and normal" sure doesn't
         | track with my experience. I'm a software engineer in Overland
         | Park, Kansas, and live in a middle class neighborhood in the
         | suburbs. Cows a mile one way and IKEA the other way. It's the
         | "American Dream" town, and it's MORE diverse than when I lived
         | in the city. My neighbors are Indian and Jordanian, Kenyan,
         | Chinese, Vietnamese, Pakistani, African American, Caucasian
         | (some from US, some from other countries). I bought this house
         | from a Nepalese couple based on their names.
        
           | packetlost wrote:
           | This is absolutely not the experience if you live in
           | Wisconsin. Well over 80% of people here are white.
        
             | CountDrewku wrote:
             | Because it's full of German immigrants. Do you want them to
             | hate themselves because they're a specific skin color?
             | 
             | Would you say something similar about people's skin color
             | if you went to Nigeria?
             | 
             | What's your point with a comment like this? Yes America is
             | majority white and those percentages are higher in some
             | areas. It's not a problem.
        
               | sohdas wrote:
               | He's just saying that the Midwest (eg. Wisconsin) is not
               | generally as diverse as Overland Park, which is true. You
               | should examine what made you react so strongly to this.
        
               | CountDrewku wrote:
               | You should probably examine the comment at the top of the
               | chain he/she responded to and think it over a little
               | harder.
        
               | xmprt wrote:
               | The point is that people make generalizations that they
               | don't realize based on their personal experience. For
               | example, I can make tons of generalization about how nice
               | India is for tourists as an Indian (I currently live in
               | America but travel back for family and as a tourist
               | occasionally) but someone who's white might not share
               | that same experience because they might be hounded by
               | scammers and people looking to make a quick buck off of
               | an unsuspecting foreigner.
               | 
               | Similarly, cities and people in the midwest might be
               | great if you're straight, white, and "normal" but that
               | might not be true for everyone. Will people be as
               | welcoming if they see you as an outsider? Maybe. I try to
               | keep an open mind but I also can't be 100% sure.
        
             | carlivar wrote:
             | Same stat likely applies to Kansas. The closest comparison
             | to Overland Park would be some suburb of Milwaukee. I
             | guarantee Milwaukee area diversity is higher than Wisconsin
             | as a whole.
        
               | managerclass wrote:
               | If by diversity you mean segregated:
               | 
               | https://www.jsonline.com/story/news/local/milwaukee/2019/
               | 01/...
        
             | rangersanger wrote:
             | like almost every other state in America, Wisconsin is
             | majority white unless you're in the cities. Milwaukee is
             | majority minority.
             | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_Americans
        
           | codemac wrote:
           | ... Overland Park is 82% White[0]. It's one of the wealthiest
           | white suburbs of Kansas City, and has been for decades.
           | 
           | I appreciate your experience is different than the
           | statistics, but it's quite literally less diverse than the US
           | as a whole, and less than Minneapolis and many other
           | midwestern cities.
           | 
           | [0]: https://www.census.gov/quickfacts/overlandparkcitykansas
        
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           | drewcoo wrote:
           | From a quick look at what DDG feeds me, Overland Park is a
           | nice Kansas City suburb. With a bunch of higher education
           | institutions. And a botanical garden! This place seems like a
           | midwestern outlier.
           | 
           | The town I grew up in (unnamed Iowa) now offers to pay remote
           | workers to move there. The town has declined since I remember
           | it in the 1980s as a fortune 500 factory town with a
           | population of about 15,000. It has never had a botanical
           | garden. It was always safest to be white, straight, and
           | normie in whatever way possible if you have to be there.
        
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         | CountDrewku wrote:
         | >if you're straight and white and "normal"
         | 
         | Why did you feel it was necessary to put that in your comment?
         | Are you upset that a specific skin color of people decided to
         | migrate to the Midwest?
         | 
         | Did you witness lgbtq or people of certain skin colors being
         | run out of town or receiving some sort of prejudice? Or are you
         | being bigoted and just saying that due to their specific skin
         | color and life choices they want people with different
         | lifestyles to not enjoy prosperity?
        
           | bserge wrote:
        
           | dragonwriter wrote:
           | > Did you witness lgbtq or people of certain skin colors
           | being run out of town or receiving some sort of prejudice?
           | 
           | It's been a pretty consistent report of people I know who are
           | visibly not "straight and white and 'normal'" and whose prior
           | US experience is limited to relatively cosmopolitan coastal
           | areas who visit the Midwest (urban areas other otherwise)
           | that not only does the WASP-normativity seem higher, but even
           | minorities engage in more and more aggressive self-
           | segregation from visibly different minorities, to the point
           | of active avoidance on the street.
           | 
           | Oddly, people who are or pass as "straight and white and
           | 'normal'" are much less likely to report this, and often seem
           | surprised to hear it from others.
        
             | CountDrewku wrote:
             | Oh, well then I guess those visiting coastal people must be
             | bigots. Not surprising since they have a specific negative
             | name for an entire area of the country.
             | 
             | This is really some astounding hypocrisy. Reporting that a
             | massive part of the country is 'insert prejudiced comment'
             | due to their race, skin color, religion based on prejudiced
             | anecdotal comments...
        
       | slowmovintarget wrote:
       | I miss the Minneapolis that was. I lived and worked there for a
       | time after getting married. The city is not what it was ten years
       | ago, though.
       | 
       | Most of the restaurants I frequented (and they were exceptionally
       | good) are gone. Crime has dramatically increased, including all
       | time highs for murders in St. Paul, and Minneapolis three murders
       | away from its all time high.
       | 
       | I lived in an apartment in Minneapolis. I could walk just a block
       | or two into downtown. It was a wonderful, vibrant city. A ten
       | minute walk to Lake Calhoun, groceries down the street, my
       | barber, and the ice cream shop right next to each other. It was
       | my favorite of all the places I've lived. I just wish it was
       | still as I recall it. Perhaps my perspective is too full from
       | consuming news and has too little from current residents.
        
         | coldpie wrote:
         | > Perhaps my perspective is too full from consuming news and
         | has too little from current residents.
         | 
         | Yeah, you're pretty deep into "old man yells at clouds"
         | territory here :) Turn off the news and come visit. The Twin
         | Cities are still great. Maybe you can come discover some new
         | favorite restaurants, we've got loads of great ones.
        
         | paulcole wrote:
         | > I just wish it was still as I recall it.
         | 
         | Somehow the places we lived when we were 20-30 years old always
         | seem worse when we look at them 10 years later.
        
           | kerbs wrote:
           | I also have the opposite view of Minneapolis 10-15 years ago.
           | 
           | so much urban renewal has happened since then. It honestly
           | became pretty run down in the core suburban sprawl/white
           | flight years of the 90s. The last decade has been pretty
           | amazing with renovations, neighborhood developments, and
           | almost all of the surface parking lots turned into something
           | far better.
        
         | kerbs wrote:
         | I live downtown (North Loop) with my wife and two daughters
         | under 5.
         | 
         | The crime narrative is strange, and the restaurant scene has
         | never been better.
         | 
         | The downtown _core_ isn't quite the same, but that's of course
         | because nobody goes to the office anymore - but they're still
         | building everywhere (including another 40+ tower on Nicollet)
        
           | colechristensen wrote:
           | I in uptown and got an email a few weeks ago explaining the
           | bullet holes in the building, and still get emails from the U
           | about armed robberies regularly and much more often than a
           | decade before. There is no question crime rates are up
           | significantly, police are too busy to respond to many calls,
           | and even caught crime isn't being investigated, charged, or
           | convicted anywhere near properly.
           | 
           | The restaurant scene did take a significant covid dip and
           | several of my favorite places are gone but there is still
           | quite a lot and a few new things.
        
             | ardme wrote:
             | Yeah uptown got hit really hard. Maybe the other commenters
             | don't live in uptown but I do and the crime issues are
             | pretty wild since the riots. My neighbor was carjacked at
             | gunpoint by a group of teenagers in our parking lot. You
             | have to be very aware of your surroundings now. I'd say
             | about half of the businesses have closed permanently around
             | me.
             | 
             | The Walgreens on 27th and Hennepin gets robbed at least
             | once a month. One time they just shot up drive through
             | windows and the employees left while they robbed the place.
             | Luckily the glass is bulletproof on them. The cops don't
             | seem to really respond things.
             | 
             | One of the weirdest things was this summer where they were
             | doing construction on 28th and Hennepin and there was a cop
             | posted up there during the day. I asked him why and he said
             | "because the construction workers were being assaulted and
             | their tools were being stolen". And this is in a nice area
             | right by Lake of the Isles.
             | 
             | Deny it if you want, it's just like a political mess now
             | because the DA will no longer bring a lot of prosecutions
             | to trial it seems like.
        
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         | xcskier56 wrote:
         | Having lived in Minneapolis proper for the last 10 years and
         | growing up nearby, the restaurant scene is VASTLY better than
         | it was before. We used to have stuffy, overpriced, mediocre
         | restaurants. Now we've gotten vibrant, new and creative places
         | that aren't just serving the same old fair dressed up. Sure
         | some of the old classics have closed, but there's always been a
         | new, better place taking their spot. Case in point, Lucia's =>
         | Sooki & Mimi. Lucias's was good, but Sooki & Mimi is phenomenal
        
         | DrSteveBrule wrote:
         | > I could walk just a block or two into downtown. It was a
         | wonderful, vibrant city. A ten minute walk to Lake Calhoun
         | 
         | Based on these data points, I estimate that you walk at least
         | 15.6 mph.
        
           | acqbu wrote:
           | lol!
        
           | DIVx0 wrote:
           | Minneapolis is pretty small compared to "big" cities in other
           | states but I do agree that this is an unlikely walk but a
           | totally achievable bike ride.
           | 
           | Also the lake's native Dakota name has been restored and
           | locals call it Bde Maka Ska
        
         | TameAntelope wrote:
         | I don't understand why people quote the murder rates as any
         | kind of indication of the city itself. Murders are _far and
         | away_ being committed by people you have no association with to
         | people you have no association with.
         | 
         | Are you in a gang? No? You're fine. It's horrible and awful,
         | but the way you've quoted it here is as if _your_ personal
         | likelihood of being murdered has meaningfully changed, when it
         | hasn 't (or maybe you rep tre tre crips or something, I don't
         | know your life).
        
         | jcims wrote:
         | It's been close to 20 years since I was in Minnesota. I was
         | there doing contract work for Wells Fargo and really enjoyed
         | the city. I can't remember what it was called but I still tell
         | people about the human habitrail on the second floor that you
         | (well, presumably mostly 'we' unaccustomed visitors) can use to
         | get around town when it's too damn cold outside.
        
           | idreyn wrote:
           | The skyways! They're fun and iconic, but in some ways they're
           | the worst thing about downtown Minneapolis. Since so many
           | office workers use them to get around, the streets feel dead
           | and car-dominated even by the standards of American cities.
        
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