[HN Gopher] Career advice nobody gave me: Never ignore a recruiter
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       Career advice nobody gave me: Never ignore a recruiter
        
       Author : alexc05
       Score  : 459 points
       Date   : 2022-02-01 15:23 UTC (7 hours ago)
        
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       | Apreche wrote:
       | The problem I have is that almost every recruiter that emails me
       | lists the positions they are trying to fill. Almost all of those
       | positions are ones to which I am morally opposed. It's a waste of
       | both of our time to respond positively and interview for
       | positions that I won't accept under any realistic circumstance.
        
         | capableweb wrote:
         | I'm not sure how you go from "Never ignore a recruiter" to
         | "Always respond positively and interview with a recruiter".
         | There is a middle-ground where you can reply, without being
         | positive and not setting up an interview, while not burning
         | bridges that you might want to cross in the future.
        
       | __MatrixMan__ wrote:
       | I get a lot of recruiters that are trying to fill positions at
       | defense contractors. So right away I know two things:
       | 
       | - I'm not interested - They aren't at liberty to talk about the
       | technical details
       | 
       | So I always respond with something like:
       | 
       | > Oh yeah, I'm pretty decent at {language}. But I want to keep
       | growing, so I'm really not interested in writing {very old
       | version of language}. Can you tell me what version they're using?
       | 
       | I figure it's a good balance between "screw off" and bothering
       | with a phone call that won't be fruitful for either of us. It
       | keeps me in their rolodex (in my experience, recruiters have a
       | very high turnover rate--so who knows who they'll be recruiting
       | for tomorrow). Also, I like to imagine that some poor engineer is
       | trying to convince the machine to let him upgrade, and maybe I
       | can help them out, whoever they are, by making the old version
       | seem like a recruiting hazard.
        
       | rharb wrote:
       | Just today I responded to a recruiter who directly emailed me
       | "because my LinkedIn bio looked promising", asking: 1) How he got
       | my email address, since it is not affiliated with my LinkedIn
       | profile (uses my work email and only contains information about
       | my current position) 2) That I wasn't interested, thanking him
       | for his time
       | 
       | He responded, seemingly offended, that I "have a Gmail account, a
       | very public account" that his "team of Search Engineers" found.
        
         | MattGaiser wrote:
         | I've gotten a bunch of recruiters at work too and in a few
         | cases they sent the email to the wrong Matt because they just
         | spammed every common email name combo for corporate emails.
        
       | dogman144 wrote:
       | I'm always nice to recruiters if they make the bare minimum
       | effort. If the job isn't a fit, I offer to stay in touch. It has
       | led to great opportunities for me simply by taking advantage of
       | the network effects offered by a recruiter link. Things turn up
       | if you talk around enough.
        
         | CoastalCoder wrote:
         | I try to be nice to recruiters who demonstrate that they've
         | actually spent 60+ seconds considering if my resume was a match
         | for the position. (Including my stated location requirements.)
         | 
         | Occasionally I'll tell them that I'm not working on a different
         | level of the software stack than their position requires, and
         | try to point them in the right direction. No idea if that's
         | helpful to them, but it's nice to feel like I've been kind to a
         | stranger.
        
         | ibi5 wrote:
         | The key to me is transparency. If they're going to beat around
         | the bush about the details I ask for I'm not going to waste my
         | time on them.
        
         | [deleted]
        
       | jen20 wrote:
       | Every time I read something about recruiters, I am reminded of
       | this fantastic post [1] (sadly the original has been taken down,
       | and this is the only copy I know of).
       | 
       | Anyone who has ever experienced third party recruiters in the UK
       | will be nodding their head along after just the first few
       | paragraphs...
       | 
       | [1]:
       | https://gist.github.com/CumpsD/696599d1bd4cd472a056586967293...
        
       | Rd6n6 wrote:
       | > ... and one in a hundred can double your salary.
       | 
       | The time required to work with the 99 who can't double your
       | salary isn't nothing, that's a part time or even full time job
       | spent courting people who are just spamming everybody on linkedin
       | with a pulse
        
       | qubyte wrote:
       | Most of the recruiter traffic comes from LinkedIn, which is not
       | particularly surprising. The very first line of my profile there
       | reads:                 Please do not contact me about
       | cryptocurrency, blockchain, NFTs, or associated technologies.
       | 
       | Almost all recruiters who contact me on LinkedIn are talking
       | about... cryptocurrency, blockchains, or NFTs etc. If a recruiter
       | isn't prepared to read even the first line of my profile then I
       | think I'm fine to ignore them. For all other recruiters I'll send
       | a polite and friendly "thanks, but I'm not looking at this time".
        
         | dariusj18 wrote:
         | I bet you it's those keywords in your profile that draw them to
         | send you a message
        
           | qubyte wrote:
           | Up until I added that line it was "rust" which was doing it.
           | Perhaps the line makes it worse, but at least I'm happy to
           | ignore those requests now. :)
        
             | makerofthings wrote:
             | I added rust to my list of skills and then got swamped with
             | blockchain nonsense. It's very odd, I took it back off
             | again.
        
             | drewm1980 wrote:
             | It is ironic that so many companies are using such an
             | efficient programming language to implement the most
             | horribly, deliberately wasteful computations on the planet.
             | I got into rust because I want to do meaningful work
             | efficiently not proof-of-meaningless-work.
        
               | pcthrowaway wrote:
               | Not sure if you're just calling blockchain development
               | meaningless work in general, or referencing proof-of-
               | work, which refers to meaningless computation done for
               | blockchain security despite the unnecessary wastefulness.
               | 
               | If you're referencing the latter, maybe it's worth
               | pointing out that all the blockchains using Rust (or the
               | popular ones anyway) are proof of stake.
        
         | hn_version_0023 wrote:
         | I explicitly state in my LinkedIn profile "do not contact me
         | I'm not seeking new opportunities at this time" and I _still_
         | get a half dozen a week.
         | 
         | Recruiters are the laziest humans on earth.
        
           | devoutsalsa wrote:
           | Recruiters work super hard with archaic, shitty tools. You
           | may not like their methods, but (mostly) they are anything
           | but lazy.
        
             | noirbot wrote:
             | Work hard, not smart, I guess...
        
             | hn_version_0023 wrote:
             | If they can't be bothered to read the all-caps text stating
             | I don't wish to be contacted, then yes, they are _lazy_.
             | 
             | If they read it and contact me _anyway_? Then they're
             | disrespectful of my wishes and not worth my time. But I'll
             | concede that isn't lazy!
        
         | nsxwolf wrote:
         | I don't know what I've done to be so blessed as to not receive
         | any blockchain recruiter spam.
         | 
         | Everyone thinks I do Ruby on Rails though, because someone
         | accidentally endorsed me for it once years ago. Somehow 50+% of
         | the stuff I get is RoR.
        
           | jedberg wrote:
           | You can remove endorsements if you don't want to get those
           | anymore.
        
         | MattGaiser wrote:
         | I have one line from 2017 about working on blockchain
         | proposals. I never wrote any blockchain code. But it is half of
         | my LinkedIn inbox.
        
           | duskwuff wrote:
           | Honestly, I'd recommend taking that off your resume, or
           | describing it in a way that avoids using keywords. Your
           | resume doesn't have to mention every job you've ever had,
           | especially if they aren't relevant to the work you're looking
           | for.
        
           | qubyte wrote:
           | I think it happens to me because I mention that I'm dabbling
           | in rust in my profile, and I guess that's a keyword they
           | scrape for.
        
             | cableshaft wrote:
             | There are certain platforms that support smart contracts
             | written in Rust (like Solana), so yeah, there's a chance
             | that's triggering them.
        
       | mabbo wrote:
       | A simpler approach: just be nice to recruiters.
       | 
       | Even the cold-calling, working-for-an-agency, just-wants-10%-of-
       | your-salary recruiters. Most of them are simply nice people who
       | are trying to make a living in a difficult and incredibly
       | competitive business. Some are assholes, no doubt, but just being
       | polite until they prove that they are cost you very little.
       | 
       | I had a recruiter reach out this morning to tell me about great
       | opportunities in <city> with <company>. I don't want to work for
       | that company, ever, for serious ethical reasons. I don't want to
       | move to that city (though it's not a terrible place).
       | 
       | I simply said "Hi <name>, thanks so much for reaching out. I'm
       | not really interested in any new opportunities right now. I'm
       | also planning a fully remote career from now on, so moving to
       | <city> doesn't really work for me. Thanks for reaching out
       | though".
       | 
       | It took 30 seconds. It burned no bridges. It made no presumptions
       | about them and didn't try to harm them back for wasting my time.
       | 
       | If they persist, I'll ask them to please take me off their list
       | and not contact me again- as politely as I can manage.
       | 
       | So far this strategy has proven 100% effective at handling
       | recruiters, but it also makes me feel better because there's no
       | negative emotions involved.
        
         | c7DJTLrn wrote:
         | Exactly. I don't get the hate. We are so privileged in the
         | software industry to have people on our backs all the time
         | offering us work that it makes me kind of sick when people take
         | it for granted.
         | 
         | Sure, some recruiters will waste your time, but a lot of them
         | are quite good at their job. It's literally their job to
         | matchmake workers and employers. You don't have to be an
         | asshole to them for reaching out.
        
         | matsemann wrote:
         | > It took 30 seconds.
         | 
         | I don't want to deal with that multiple times a day, though.
         | They're not "nice people" when they disregard the only thing
         | written in my Linkedin profile: " _please no unsolicited calls_
         | ". If they didn't even bother to read that single sentence,
         | they probably know nothing about me and have nothing to offer.
         | It's arrogant of them to waste my time.
        
       | CoastalCoder wrote:
       | I'm happy to invest in a relationship with recruiters who will be
       | around for a while. But I get the impression that most recruiters
       | have only short stints in that work.
       | 
       | P.S. I would like to give credit to one recruiter though: Markus
       | Edmunds. He'd been recruiting for a particular technical
       | specialty a year or two ago. He really got to know my preferences
       | and strengths, and never ghosted me when individual companies
       | passed on my resume. I know that's indistinguishable from him
       | acting in enlightened self-interest, but it was still a
       | productive relationship.
        
       | frockington1 wrote:
       | Add NYC to that list as well. There's no reason to move to either
       | of those cities in 2022.
        
         | Ar-Curunir wrote:
         | > There's no reason to move to either of those cities in 2022
         | 
         | Hm, and here I was, thinking that different people like living
         | in different places for different reasons!
        
         | eatonphil wrote:
         | I like NYC. I moved here in 2017 though. But after the pandemic
         | I moved to Central Queens where my rent is much cheaper
         | (2400/mo) and the apartment is bigger (1,000sqft ish) in a
         | doorman building. 30m subway to Central Park and the best
         | Chinese, Thai, Indian, Vietnamese, and Korean restaurants in NY
         | are the next neighborhoods over.
         | 
         | The coffee and pastries nearby aren't as fun as Brooklyn
         | though.
        
         | wnolens wrote:
         | Oops, just moved to NYC last year! :)
        
           | reasonabl_human wrote:
           | Can you elaborate on reasons for the move? I am facing a
           | similar realization regarding another one of your child
           | comments about not clicking as much with west coast culture
           | but am concerned about a drop in tech opportunities
        
             | wnolens wrote:
             | Many reasons. But after 10 years on the west coast, I had
             | many dozens of friends but almost none that I wanted to
             | spend holidays with (i.e. felt like family, neither friends
             | nor partners). I decided that it wasn't for a lack of
             | trying or giving it time.
             | 
             | The west coast felt judgmental and divisive. I couldn't
             | always express myself for fear of alienation. I do not have
             | strong views and I (used to?) consider myself liberal (I'm
             | not American).
             | 
             | I really enjoy how conversationally adept the average New
             | Yorker is. It's simply more fun to be with people. And the
             | diversity is refreshing. I'm a software dev more by
             | circumstance, not temperament. I used to only talk to ~30
             | y/o tech men/women. Now my day includes a sweet 75 year old
             | lady, academics, health workers, and plenty of ~30 y/o
             | folks who are living interesting lives without a mold.
             | 
             | I kept my job and moved here, taking a 10% haircut thanks
             | to taxes. Oh well. All the big tech firms have a physical
             | presence in NYC (FB, GOOG, AMZN..). There's less kool-aid
             | drinking startups, but I'm ok with that. It's a big city,
             | you can have your pick. I think as a tech worker, you have
             | the breathing room to give up the top 10% opportunities in
             | the field and still be a top 1% earner in the larger
             | society (with more job satisfaction).
        
               | wobbly_bush wrote:
               | Not the person you are responding to - what about NYC
               | made you get in touch with non-tech people that wasn't
               | possible on the west coast? Is there something different
               | about NYC's culture that helps in mingling with more
               | people?
        
               | wnolens wrote:
               | Hm.. It might be largely a numbers thing: higher density
               | (more interactions), and more diversity. But can't ignore
               | the general willingness to connect (ex: going to a bar
               | solo in NYC yields me a lengthy convo 50% of the time,
               | and I almost never initiate.).
        
             | econnors wrote:
             | not OP, but been in NYC for over 5 years and there's no
             | shortage of interesting opportunities in tech
        
         | boringg wrote:
         | Outside of the fact that if you like the city, the surrounding
         | land and the people that live there. As well as many other
         | great reasons to live in the cities.
         | 
         | Just because you guys don't like them doesn't mean many other
         | people love those areas, please stop unnecessarily dumping on
         | cities you don't like.
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | datavirtue wrote:
           | I love city energy. Just have to opt out of the pollution.
           | The automotive exhaust alone is rediculous (as a truck rolls
           | coal in front of my house).
        
         | 1270018080 wrote:
         | I can understand the Bay Area, but it's a little bit crazy to
         | think there's no reason to live in NYC.
        
           | CoastalCoder wrote:
           | "No" reason is probably an overstatement. But it's certainly
           | a different lifestyle than e.g. living in a suburban / rural
           | area and working remotely. Many of us would consider it a
           | step backwards unless the net increase in income was life-
           | changing.
        
             | wnolens wrote:
             | Step backwards in take home pay and square footage. Step
             | forwards in social life, romantic life, culture (if you
             | weren't getting it elsewhere).
             | 
             | If you're married with kids, NYC doesn't make sense. If
             | you're single with passions outside work - it's great.
        
               | rrose wrote:
               | i grew up in a big city. great place to grow up. so glad
               | my parents didn't move out to the suburbs. One size
               | doesn't fit all
        
               | datavirtue wrote:
               | What if my passion is goat husbandry?
        
               | CoastalCoder wrote:
               | That's about how I figure it. Even if you try to split
               | the difference by living in the suburbs of NYC, my
               | impression is that housing is still pretty expensive
               | _and_ you have a time-consuming commute.
        
           | wnolens wrote:
           | West coast of USA is easy-mode life. I don't fault anyone for
           | living there and loving it. It just wasn't for me socially.
           | 
           | NYC makes me feel more human and connected, even if that
           | means higher taxes, smaller apartment, and generally more
           | discomfort on a daily basis.
        
           | daok wrote:
           | What are you talking about? The Bay Area has one of the
           | greatest weather of the world, lot of job opportunities,
           | beaches near by as as mountain. Lot to like also.
        
         | dang wrote:
         | We detached this subthread from
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=30164267 and marked it off
         | topic.
        
       | throwaway202202 wrote:
       | This may be familiar by now but developers are very lucky.
       | 
       | I left computers to move to investments, make 500k+/year but I
       | envy the stability and choices that developers have. If I lost my
       | job tomorrow it is not clear I could find another similar job.
       | You have lots of options.
       | 
       | It looks like the situation will remain this way during our
       | lifetimes (you never know), but you should at least appreciate
       | it.
        
         | dogman144 wrote:
         | Great take. I turned down a path into finance to go computers,
         | and did so to target the reverse of what you notice.
         | 
         | Few other jobs offer pay and stability similar to a Dr. or
         | Lawyer without the working hours and with geo-flexibilty. Few
         | other jobs offer a shot at a massive personal liquidity event
         | without the direct exposure to a recession like in finance. Few
         | other jobs offer this pay for what's basically a trade without
         | a tough physical lifestyle like working in O&G.
         | 
         | If more "normal" people went into engineering, as in the normal
         | white collar types who are smart but go into MBAs/MDs instead,
         | I think we'd see interesting social impacts as more people
         | discover that you can do flavors of digital nomad work without
         | being the stereotypical tech bro. I think this is just starting
         | to happen with MBAs who go into TPM roles.
         | 
         | Eng paths re-enanble lifestyles that I feel were lost post-1970
         | for much of the general working population. Now, you can live
         | and work nearly anywhere. No requirements to suck it up in
         | Cleveland, NYC, whatever for the kids because of good schools
         | and a good local white collar job. If you want to pack up and
         | go to Europe, you can grab a visa from big US tech there, or
         | small startups. Just meet the right recruiter. Wild stuff.
        
         | dboreham wrote:
         | I think this means that your compensation reflects the cost to
         | your employer should you decide to quit.
        
       | NikolaeVarius wrote:
       | I ignore 99.9999% of recruiters, but anything that interests me I
       | just toss salary numbers that I find are funny.
       | 
       | Makes it easier on all of us
        
       | dbg31415 wrote:
       | I Dissent.
       | 
       | I've seen so many shady tricks pulled by recruiters. I'm sure it
       | goes both ways, but never forget the recruiter isn't in the
       | business of helping you, they're in the business of helping the
       | people who pay them.
       | 
       | Seen recruiters low-ball staff, or tell the person that they
       | weren't as good as other candidates... "but if you lower your day
       | rate to be more aligned with your junior-level skills..." So when
       | the person shows up, they feel deflated since they think we
       | thought they were junior... but in fact, we loved them and just
       | didn't have enough budget to hire them at the right rate -- and
       | the recruiter helped us get their rates down because at the end
       | of the day the recruiter only cared about putting seats in chairs
       | for us.
       | 
       | Seen recruiters spam over candidates without so much as doing a
       | basic screening interview. "Oh yeah, he's great... he knows
       | JavaScript and English..." and they're literally just looking at
       | the poor guy's LinkedIn and they haven't ever spoken with him
       | past a few copy-paste emails. It's a numbers game to them. They
       | don't want you, as the person paying them, to ever feel like
       | their shelves are empty.
       | 
       | Seen recruiters promise people visas along with the offer
       | letter... then for whatever reason, if the job shifts, the
       | recruiters just cancel the contract and the person would get
       | deported. Saw this in Sydney A LOT. The recruiters and staffing
       | agencies don't care at all what happens to the person, as long as
       | they get a commission. They lie and over-promise, and sell-sell-
       | sell... and even if they only have a 3-month contract they'll
       | promise someone a year, then just switch it last minute or have a
       | cancellation clause.
       | 
       | As someone who worked for a Digital Agency where we hired a lot
       | of people through recruiters... the number of times some poor
       | bloke would come up to me and be like, "So... 3 months probation
       | then I'm full time? That's what the recruiter said... now you can
       | get me a visa and I'll be able to bring my wife over here too?"
       | and I'd have to be like, "Yeah sorry, Johnny... this was just a
       | 3-month gig." Had one guy, "But I gave up my family's visa for
       | this... the recruiter promised me higher pay and that you'd take
       | over my visa..." Felt awful. And the poor guy almost certainly
       | had to leave Sydney when the job was done.
       | 
       | Worse... my GM wouldn't let me fire that recruiter. "They give us
       | the best rates..." Was all so shady. Left me with the solid
       | impression that these people were all just bottom feeders.
       | Willing to do anything to make a buck that day.
        
       | junon wrote:
       | No thanks. Most cold callers these days don't even work for the
       | company. They always seem to say "I'm recruiting for an
       | esteemed/up and coming/potential unicorn (lol)/hot/aggressively
       | funded/blah blah blah company". I've bitten a few times and asked
       | for details about said company and they say they want a call
       | first.
       | 
       | No thanks. Tell me about the position first. Then I'll tell you
       | if I'm interested.
        
       | FpUser wrote:
       | In my whole life I've never been able to find any job / contract
       | using recruiter. Obviously had to take matters into my onw hands
       | ;)
        
       | democracy wrote:
       | not worth it - they have a very high turn over, making
       | connections there with everyone is a waste of time
        
       | gitfan86 wrote:
       | Funny Story:
       | 
       | A recruiter sent me a detail post about a job. I wrote back and
       | said I was interested. He never responded so I applied to the job
       | online and got it.
       | 
       | 4 months later he messages me and says sorry but it looks like
       | the position has been removed.
       | 
       | I didn't write back.
        
         | operatingthetan wrote:
         | I had that happen with a house once. I sent a house to my agent
         | (that I had an existing relationship with), and they never
         | responded. So I found a new agent and bought the house. Old
         | agent reappears two weeks later and I informed them of what
         | happened.
        
           | jackling wrote:
           | Curious to know what their response was.
        
       | kaydub wrote:
       | No, I definitely ignore recruiters. Internal recruiters I _may_
       | respond, but if you 're some consultancy firm or recruiting firm
       | I'll never work with you.
       | 
       | My skills are in demand. When I want a new job I'll reach out for
       | it. It'll be there.
        
       | onphonenow wrote:
       | "It is a wonderful position of privilege to be in and I'm
       | thankful for it."
       | 
       | Insta-delete if I'm doing hiring... ? I've found folks who
       | actually deliver seem to have less of this type of long winded
       | stuff.
        
         | Tehchops wrote:
         | Do you have hard data to back that up or is it just anecdotal
         | personal bristling whenever someone says "privilege"?
        
           | AnimalMuppet wrote:
           | Real tech people don't blather.
           | 
           | Yeah, I know, that's not "hard data". It's a pretty
           | consistent pattern, though. Tech people have to be able to
           | communicate with precision; they usually don't do "blowing
           | smoke".
        
             | Mockapapella wrote:
             | Not a recruiter, but this has been my experience too
        
             | Tehchops wrote:
             | > Real tech people
             | 
             | Ah this fun gatekeeping meme rears it's head again.
             | 
             | So how do you define "tech" people? Do you have a
             | scorecard?
             | 
             | How do they meet your assessment for "real"? Cohesive
             | organization of atomic matter generally constitutes "real"
             | in a lot of physics definitions.
             | 
             | I'd argue trying to label someone a "real tech person" is a
             | laughably subjective exercise that's so corrupted by
             | personal bias and toxicity as to be utterly useless in
             | evaluating someone's capability to participate in organized
             | software engineering.
             | 
             | Case in point: I have worked with several folks, in FAANG,
             | who by all technical standards were "real" tech people.
             | Polyglot programmers, could tackle any sticky logic
             | problem.
             | 
             | Ask them to communicate their solution to other engineers?
             | To communicate with others with empathy? Be able to
             | navigate conversations with directors and VPs about broadly
             | implementing their solutions? Absolutely, 100% fell on
             | their face. Couldn't do it. They couldn't form a cohesive,
             | understandable, actionable statement about their work to
             | save their lives. They'd go off on some completely
             | pointless technical tangent that had little to do with the
             | problem at hand.
             | 
             | Code reviews they participated in ground to a complete
             | fucking halt. Not because they actually addressed
             | meaningful technical issues. No, they wanted to pontificate
             | and show off how much smarter they were.
             | 
             | In my not totally hard-data experience, people that maybe
             | didn't have quite the "real tech people" skills but were
             | expressive, capable communicators often actually shipped
             | more meaningful work, more often, and built organizational
             | equity not just for themselves, but for their teammates and
             | managers too.
             | 
             | Software development at any scale, like it or not, involves
             | working with other people. In my experience people that go
             | around gatekeeping and using some hilariously subjective
             | ruler to grade "realness" aren't very effective at all.
        
               | 0des wrote:
               | I take it by your confrontational response that their
               | comment hooked you somewhat. I can assure you it's the
               | truth, and though it may or may not have been relevant to
               | you in a way that affected you emotionally, the words
               | ring true in my experience. Those who can do the thing
               | don't mince words about it, the ones who can't need to
               | massage what they're saying a bit to not lay the bad news
               | on you like a ton of bricks; it is natural for people to
               | want to be accepted socially.
        
               | Tehchops wrote:
               | "Truth" and "rings true in your experience" aren't
               | necessarily overlapping values.
               | 
               | Sure, it's a confrontational response, because I've seen
               | too many solid, empathetic, capable individuals run out
               | of tech by toxic gatekeeping bullshit _just like this_.
               | 
               | Then all I'm left to manage and work with are toxic,
               | self-aggrandizing, "um akshually" engineers who rate
               | appearing smarter than others over working well with
               | others and getting things done.
        
               | 0des wrote:
               | What is the need to interject the word 'manage' in there?
               | Is that a powermove?
               | 
               | edit: Have a great day, I'm going to let this one go.
               | Things to do, code to write :)
        
               | Tehchops wrote:
               | Have a good day as well!
        
               | AnimalMuppet wrote:
               | I agree that people trying to appear smarter is toxic, at
               | least if done very often. (Even if not done often, maybe
               | it's still toxic, just not a lethal dose.) That isn't
               | what I meant.
               | 
               | It really comes down to this: You can't blather at the
               | computer. You have to make very precise statements to the
               | computer. If you can't be precise in your communications,
               | you can't program.
               | 
               | That usually spills over into human communications, too.
               | People who can talk to computers can usually talk to
               | humans who can talk to computers, because they can use at
               | least some of the same terms with the same meanings.
               | 
               | And they can talk with the same mindset. You can't show
               | off to the computer. You can't get the code to compile or
               | to run by using more flowery wording. Tech people tend to
               | carry that mindset into their communication with each
               | other.
        
               | onphonenow wrote:
               | The point folks are making here is that folks who go on
               | these long rants, demand "hard data" for every
               | experience, write in over formal language, say things
               | like "corrupted by personal bias and toxicity as to be
               | utterly useless" may not be that able / focused on just
               | moving forward on stuff - it's all tied up in ego ego ego
               | type things.
               | 
               | You like the posters approach? Fine. I don't find their
               | style (or yours) to be either healthy or productive and
               | it just can stress teams out to have to work with someone
               | super high need.
        
               | Tehchops wrote:
               | > "corrupted by personal bias and toxicity as to be
               | utterly useless" may not be that able / focused on just
               | moving forward on stuff.
               | 
               | It's the same recycled logic of people who want to return
               | to the times of being able to say whatever they want, and
               | people who are offended just "need to move on".
               | 
               | This kind of thinking is why homophobia/misogyny/racism
               | is still so prevalent in tech. Dog whistles like "real
               | tech people" or "super high need" or "people that just
               | can't move on".
               | 
               | It's a lot more convenient and dismissive to associate it
               | with some kind of lack of performance. "Oh they should
               | just focus on the code, thank god for all the coders who
               | never want to attend meetings and just code..."
               | 
               | I know you don't like my "style", but I'm afraid most
               | organized software development is starting to become
               | _more_ aware of the need to be empathetic and accepting
               | of the human element, not _less_ , and just "getting over
               | it and coding" isn't an acceptable answer anymore.
        
             | 0des wrote:
             | 100% spot on. You can usually tell on which side of the
             | sales vs tech spectrum someone is on organizationally by
             | this.
        
               | onphonenow wrote:
               | I would add managers who have super inflated views of
               | themselves but not technical so maybe with some
               | insecurities mixed in?
               | 
               | Maybe mixed in with all the microaggression / toxic work
               | environment type stuff?
               | 
               | The folks who code are usually like, hey, let me show you
               | this, or do you have time to look at this.
               | 
               | THe managers, sales etc folks never say this. They will
               | schedule you for long long boring meetings on any topic
               | they can think of.
        
           | onphonenow wrote:
           | "Do you have hard data to back that up or is it just
           | anecdotal personal bristling whenever someone says
           | "privilege"?" - Tehchops
           | 
           | This is actually a perfect example of this! Let's take a
           | minute here to look at your response.
           | 
           | "Do you have hard data to back that up"
           | 
           | I literally said "I've found". Folks who go on long winded
           | discussions about privilege do exactly this - redirect,
           | misunderstand, demand impossible things.
           | 
           | I didn't say I had hard data, I said this was just my
           | personal experience. I don't need hard data to back up my own
           | experience - it's simply my experience.
           | 
           | The "hard data" that you seem interested in is often
           | horrendously weak in this social studies type area. This may
           | be offensive or triggering, but measuring job performance is
           | extremely hard, and measuring it relative to communication
           | styles is harder. This raises a question in my mind, are you
           | unable to evaluate the likelihood that hard data would exist
           | so that it makes sense to demand it and you would believe
           | what I presented if I found some? There may be some poor
           | critical reasoning skills here.
           | 
           | "just anecdotal personal bristling whenever someone says
           | "privilege""
           | 
           | Dismissing others experience rather than engaging on the
           | comment. Is your experience positive with folks who
           | communicate like this? Mine is not. The writer is using this
           | over the top over formal language. Their language choice is
           | all a bad sign of ego ego ego. Tech folks are in high demand,
           | they are not gods.
           | 
           | "While I very much appreciate the fact that exceptionally
           | talented and engaged recruiters reach out consistently"... "I
           | will be unavailable for further discussion."
        
             | Tehchops wrote:
             | > Dismissing others experience rather than engaging on the
             | comment. Is your experience positive with folks who
             | communicate like this? Mine is not
             | 
             | I believe your original comment was:
             | 
             | > Insta-delete if I'm doing hiring...
             | 
             | Now who's being dismissive again? ;-)
             | 
             | > Folks who go on long winded discussions about privilege
             | do exactly this - redirect, misunderstand, demand
             | impossible things.
             | 
             | And I've found folks who respond defensively as you have
             | tend to not reflect on their own privilege, and generally
             | do not respond well to criticism or questioning.
             | 
             | Of course... feel free to "dismiss" what I'm saying.
        
           | nsxwolf wrote:
           | I personally bristle when someone says "privilege", but I
           | don't think a recruiter should.
        
       | hatware wrote:
       | Strange article, if I didn't ignore 99% of recruiters that reach
       | out to me, I wouldn't make any progress.
        
       | serverholic wrote:
       | Sorry but I do not care enough about my career to put in this
       | much effort. Recruiters are a dime a dozen these days and it's so
       | much easier to just wait until you need one. Even if it's a bit
       | less optimal.
        
       | abledon wrote:
       | Love the idea of automating my linkedin email funnels... I might
       | throw a GPT3 into the mix to spice things up...
        
       | omgmajk wrote:
       | I reply to InMail so that they get their LinkedIn credit back.
       | They are usually thankful for that. Other offers there's a 50/50
       | chance I have the energy to reply.
        
         | acjohnson55 wrote:
         | I simply turned my InMail off. I've never gotten a useful
         | message in however many years I've been on LinkedIn.
        
       | speedgoose wrote:
       | I don't want to work for a company that needs recruter spam to
       | hire. It must not be a very attractive place.
        
         | llampx wrote:
         | - Groucho Marx
        
       | not2b wrote:
       | In my view (your experience may differ): almost always ignore a
       | recruiter, unless getting out of your current job situation is so
       | urgent that you're willing to waste a ton of time, or the
       | recruiter presents a very specific proposal that makes clear that
       | they've done their homework meaning that you are a great fit for
       | a unique opportunity.
       | 
       | In some cases going through a recruiter is a guarantee that you
       | _won 't_ get a position, because a third-party recruiter tries to
       | sell you to a company that has its own recruiters and is
       | unwilling to pay the third-party recruiter's fee.
        
       | kache_ wrote:
       | I always just respond with a "whats the salary range?" response,
       | merely for data collection purposes
        
         | A4ET8a8uTh0 wrote:
         | This. It works. And it saves time for both sides ( and remember
         | that recruiters have no motive not to disclose it -- the more
         | you get the better it is for them ).
        
         | organsnyder wrote:
         | Same. Also to normalize discussing salary up-front. I'd say at
         | least half of recruiters are forthcoming with this information.
        
       | dave_sid wrote:
       | I'd certainly say don't be rude to recruiters. Some people seem
       | to get unnecessarily wound up by recruiters and forget that we
       | are all adults just trying to do our job. It doesn't hurt to be
       | polite and might just work in your favour in the long run.
        
       | klaudioz wrote:
       | I have a dirty trick to ignore "bots" recruiters in Linkedin:
       | 
       | I just put a greek character on my name or add an emoticon, so I
       | got a lot of messages starting with:
       | 
       | "Dear name ..
       | 
       | So, it's safe to ignore the message. Even when probably I'm not
       | interested I used to reply with a template message, but I won't
       | waste 30 seconds with a bot.
        
       | 908B64B197 wrote:
       | I think we have this post every few months on this site, so let
       | me explain how recruiting works.
       | 
       | There's 3 types/market for recruiters and they almost never
       | overlap. The first are "body shop style" recruiters. It's
       | basically a numbers game where they try to cold-call as much
       | people with githubs/linkedin or blogs that reference programming.
       | They don't know programming (not even what's the difference
       | between languages or front-end/back-end) and are looking for a
       | list of buzzwords. They'll send copy-pasted messages (you can
       | tell because it references tech you never used or never even
       | claimed to have used). If you respond (and really you shouldn't)
       | you won't be able to get any relevant information about the
       | position because... they don't have it. These recruiters are
       | often contracted by external firms in "best value countries" and
       | are given canned response to message you. That's probably what
       | the author encountered.
       | 
       | Second type are professional recruiters. Their salary is by
       | commissions will often be a percentage of your salary. They are
       | knowledgeable about programming and tech (often former engineers
       | who wanted a break from coding!). They typically are looking to
       | match specific profiles to specific jobs at client companies.
       | This goes all the way to recruiters specialized in C-Suite
       | executives (and you can picture the commission finding a CEO will
       | bring in). Their messages will be personalized and you shouldn't
       | hesitate to reply back even if you aren't looking for a job. They
       | know that most great software engineers are almost never openly
       | looking for a job so their goal is to be on good terms with a
       | large number of talented developers so that the minute they start
       | looking for a job they can match them with positions. You'll know
       | when you encounter one.
       | 
       | Third type is basically referrals. A players attract A players,
       | smart companies know it. Make sure your referral bonus is a
       | percentage of total comp. It's probably the most effective way of
       | recruiting (it has an insane signal to noise ratio). But you only
       | get access to that type of network by... bringing value and being
       | part of it in the first place!
        
       | thomasfromcdnjs wrote:
       | I've been doing a variation of this myself over the years, it's
       | gotten me good jobs. Sometimes, I'd simply say I want X salary
       | that is ~20% more than I currently would have thought I was
       | worth. Then sometimes the recruiter would come back and say that
       | is actually possible.
        
       | dboreham wrote:
       | Always ignore recruiters.
        
       | cletus wrote:
       | I went into this thinking I was going to disagree because
       | honestly I hate recruiters and the time-wasting involved but I
       | actually agree.
       | 
       | Here's why: by having a template that he just copy-pastes. This
       | is extremely low effort and will filter out a lot of recruiters.
       | I also agree with working with company recruiters over third-
       | party recruiters.
       | 
       | The first thing many recruiters will want to do is "hop on a
       | call". Resist this urge. In fact, don't even give them your phone
       | number. Force them to use email to contact you. A phone call is a
       | good way of wasting your time. If you actually need to call them
       | on the phone, call them.
       | 
       | There are lots of techniques recruiters will use to waste your
       | time. One common one is if pressed on compensation range you'll
       | get the answer that it's "competitive".
       | 
       | Use a template like this to simply filter out time-wasters. If
       | they want to get on a call, resist giving concrete details or
       | otherwise just give you bad vibes, just stop responding. They
       | can't call you. They don't have your number. Move on.
        
         | milkytron wrote:
         | > There are lots of techniques recruiters will use to waste
         | your time.
         | 
         | Why is this? Why do they insist on wasting a candidate's time
         | when answering some simple questions via email is much more
         | efficient?
         | 
         | I've talked to HR people about this, and the answers I've
         | received are not satisfying. A common response is that they
         | want to get to know you, hear how you speak, determine if you
         | might be a good fit. BUT, shouldn't they figure out if the
         | candidate is even interested by verifying basic
         | needs/requirements?
         | 
         | The responses come down to basically they don't value our time
         | as much as we do.
        
           | cletus wrote:
           | > Why is this? Why do they insist on wasting a candidate's
           | time when answering some simple questions via email is much
           | more efficient?
           | 
           | That's easy: they want you invested. The sunk cost fallacy
           | works.
           | 
           | Think about it another way: being a recruiter is being in
           | sales. Sales people love pipelines (funnels) so if you think
           | about the recruitment stages a simplified view might be:
           | 
           | 1. Email candidate
           | 
           | 2. Candidate responds to email
           | 
           | 3. Discuss on phone
           | 
           | 4. Candidate submits resume
           | 
           | 5. Organize phone screen
           | 
           | 6. Conduct interviews
           | 
           | 7. Negotiate offer
           | 
           | 8. Accept offer
           | 
           | Each of these steps has a conversion rate. Imagine you get
           | paid $20,000 for placing a candidate. Work backwards through
           | this pipeline and you might figure out you have to send 5,000
           | emails to place one candidate. That means each email you
           | send, you've "earned" $4. Imagine if the response rate is
           | 20%. Well, getting a candidate to respond by changing up the
           | content or presentation of the email means you've now
           | "earned" $20. If only 1 in 3 talk on the phone then each
           | phone introduction you make "earns" you $60. And so on.
           | 
           | it's a numbers game. They're just trying to get you to the
           | next stage in the pipeline.
        
             | convolvatron wrote:
             | no. i think its more. i mean yes this is true.
             | 
             | i've had lots of recruiters that really thought their value
             | was to harass me me by phone. even though I've emphasized
             | repeatedly that there isn't anything more that they can do
             | personally to help me...the insist on calling me nearly
             | ever day to 'see where my head is at'
             | 
             | i'm pretty sure i've lost out on some decent positions in
             | the past because i got so sick of spending 30 minutes here
             | and there talking to the same idiot that said 'dont _ever_
             | call me back you asshole'
        
       | DebtDeflation wrote:
       | Bad career advice I received early in my career: Don't talk
       | compensation until late in the interviewing process after you've
       | already convinced them to hire you.
       | 
       | Compensation is the first thing I bring up now. "I currently make
       | X salary, Y annual bonus, and Z equity. This position will need
       | to exceed all 3 by at least 20% before I even consider it. Does
       | that sound doable? If not, let's not waste any more of each
       | other's time."
       | 
       | Way too many lowballers out there.
        
         | d23 wrote:
         | Unless you're already extremely out of band and are pretty sure
         | your range will be higher than 95% of your incoming offers, I
         | do not recommend doing this. Never give first numbers, and if
         | you're in software and haven't gotten past the middling,
         | typical startup salary numbers and onto the mind-blowingly high
         | numbers, you will not feel confident enough to handle a
         | negotiation where you've already given away too much
         | information.
        
           | vincentmarle wrote:
           | > Never give first numbers
           | 
           | I disagree: the first one who gives a number is able to
           | anchor the negotiation around their preferred outcome; it's
           | much harder to negotiate up from a lowball number than the
           | other way around.
        
           | DebtDeflation wrote:
           | I have >20 years of experience and my comp is absolutely >95%
           | of inbound offers. So yes, I definitely want to not waste
           | time with those and instead focus on the 5%.
        
             | d23 wrote:
             | That's great, and I'm in a similar situation myself. But
             | your intro mentioned this being early career advice, which
             | could mislead people into making pretty big negotiation
             | mistakes.
        
               | pojzon wrote:
               | I would consider that a good advice for anyone who is
               | half-decent in current market.
               | 
               | Good Engineers are at the value of gold. Can save you a
               | lot of money down the road.
               | 
               | I have like 8y of experience and salary requirement is
               | the first thing I negotiate. Easy 30-50% jump each time
               | in past few years.
        
         | tgsovlerkhgsel wrote:
         | Once you've reached a high salary, it's a "damned if you do,
         | damned if you don't".
         | 
         | If you talk comp early, you'll potentially (almost certainly)
         | lowball yourself. If you don't, you'll spend a full time job's
         | worth of time with hopeless positions.
        
         | mosdl wrote:
         | I do the same thing - I give them a ballpark of what I am
         | making right now and depending on the opportunity what it would
         | take to make me say yes (and if I em flexible/etc).
         | 
         | Sets expectations and avoid wasted time, which everyone
         | prefers.
        
         | l33t2328 wrote:
         | I have to imagine that it is good advice for early in your
         | career. When you're applicant number x out of 1500 who all got
         | good grades at a good school, have some good github projects,
         | and do well at the leetcode, grating the interviewer by
         | prematurely mentioning comp may not be your best move.
        
           | mywittyname wrote:
           | Fresh out of school, you're worth just about as much as
           | someone you graduated with.
           | 
           | 20 years into your careers, you may be worth 10x or 1/10 of
           | that same person.
           | 
           | Why waste people's time? It's a waste of time interviewing
           | for a place if you know they aren't offering anything close
           | to what you'll be asking. And if you're making 2-3x the
           | median salary for that job title, you should probably get a
           | comp range up front.
           | 
           | I've been burned by this a lot. Don't talk comp, go through
           | hours of interviews, taking afternoons off for in person
           | interviews (in the before times), all to find out that their
           | maximum for for the position is a 25% pay cut.
        
         | saberdancer wrote:
         | Agreed, but it depends a lot on how much you value your time.
         | 
         | When starting out, you are usually not going to be low balled
         | as you are cheap. Your time is not worth as much either and you
         | are trying to climb the ladder.
         | 
         | Once you get to proper level of compensation, your time becomes
         | much more valuable and the number of offers that meet that
         | level of compensation become much lower. This means your best
         | call is probably to move to talking money first.
         | 
         | Of course, you might miss out on some opportunities but you'll
         | save a lot of time.
        
         | jedberg wrote:
         | If you're going to start with salary, at least don't tell them
         | what you currently make, because that will instantly be their
         | baseline. Just tell them what you desire and don't tell them
         | that it is 20% or whatever more than what you currently make.
         | 
         | But really you shouldn't start with giving a number. They
         | already have a huge advantage because they negotiate salary all
         | day and you do it once every few years. Just ask them for the
         | range and make sure the minimum is above your X+20% number. If
         | it's not, let them know that their range is too low, and if
         | they won't tell you, say, "thank you, next".
        
           | alkonaut wrote:
           | Does the baseline matter though? If I'm not switching for
           | less than 1.2x does it matter if they know what $current pay
           | is? Either they can offer it or they can't?
        
             | jedberg wrote:
             | It still matters because of mental anchoring. In their mind
             | they are being very generous by giving you 20% more than
             | you make so their offer will be the minimum.
             | 
             | If they don't know what you're making now, they will think
             | the minimum might be too little and if they really like you
             | they will go higher than the 1.2x.
        
           | opportune wrote:
           | I don't think this true if you are already near top of band
           | (very lucky place to be in). Right now I have golden
           | handcuffs and just ignore almost all recruiters because I
           | know only a few select big companies (plus quant) can match
           | my pay.
           | 
           | Startups are a bit more hit or miss though, and if they are
           | small enough they probably won't even have pay bands. You
           | need to do more due diligence there
        
       | douglee650 wrote:
       | TLDR
       | 
       | - everything is signal, even/especially noise in aggregate -
       | engineers are particularly subject to blind spots - know yourself
       | - ymmv
        
       | mikece wrote:
       | I like the template but I bristle at the notion that being a
       | software engineer is a "privilege." I have spent countless hours
       | training and re-training myself on technologies that change every
       | few years: don't confuse my work ethic and interest in software
       | engineering with some sort of passive privilege that fell into my
       | lap. There are people far smarter than me who either cannot or
       | don't have the perseverance to stay in this industry because it
       | means having a never-ending commitment to learning and starting
       | over (as opposed to having the privilege of getting hired as a
       | manager at a company because of your blood line).
        
         | cortesoft wrote:
         | It probably depends on how you got into the line of work.
         | 
         | I always say I am lucky and privileged because through random
         | chance, I developed an interest in programming as a kid and it
         | became my favorite hobby, long before I chose it as a career. I
         | spent hour and hours at it because it was how I played, and I
         | became good at it because it matched my way of thinking about
         | the world and I spent all my free time doing it.
         | 
         | This was luck. I could easily have had gardening as my favorite
         | hobby, or art, or playing music. I would have had a lot harder
         | time turning those into a lucrative career, so in that sense I
         | am lucky.
         | 
         | Now, many people came into the field in different ways, so not
         | everyone in the industry is lucky in the same way, but that
         | doesn't chance the fact that I am personally lucky.
        
           | bitcharmer wrote:
           | There is nothing privileged about being passionate in things
           | that may earn you good money.
           | 
           | Luck? Sure
           | 
           | Privilege? Definitely not
        
             | nsv wrote:
             | What is the difference between luck and privilege?
        
         | q845712 wrote:
         | Is it easier if you reframe it as "good fortune"? For instance
         | suppose that you or an immediate loved one suddenly developed a
         | condition which was treatable and tolerable within your current
         | life but took up 10+ hours per week. It sounds like thus far
         | you've had the good fortune to always be able to find the time
         | to continuously learn and re-train.
         | 
         | Or if you think back to your earliest contacts with technology,
         | whether someone gave you a book, told you the name of some tech
         | to learn, helped you get access to a computer, etc., I think
         | all of us who are working in tech have had the good fortune to
         | have access to technology and resources that helped us train
         | ourselves but I can imagine having had substantially less
         | access earlier in my life and the deficit that could've left.
         | So I think I've been overall very fortunate, and that's part of
         | what's meant by the word "privilege."
        
       | stretchwithme wrote:
       | I'm very impressed with your ycombinator skills.
        
       | koonsolo wrote:
       | Worst jobs I got through recruiters.
       | 
       | Best jobs I got when I picked the company and applied.
        
       | anonygler wrote:
       | Strong disagree. I've made it my policy to never work with a
       | recruiter that isn't affiliated with the company they're hiring
       | for. Recruiting farms like Cyber Recruiters (yuck) will do
       | everything in their power to waste your time out of sheer
       | incompetence and disinterest.
       | 
       | I've "doubled" my salary plenty of times through this policy.
       | 
       | But the real secret sauce is referrals. Companies always
       | prioritize a strong referral, ignoring mediocre interview
       | performance, and will even skip the reference checks so I don't
       | have to bug my network.
        
         | wly_cdgr wrote:
         | Unfortunately, you are correct. Nepotism has always been the
         | key to professional success
        
         | lhorie wrote:
         | My takeaway from the article wasn't to work with every
         | recruiter that spams you (in the sense of actually spending
         | time in their funnel), but rather, take the opportunity to
         | "interview them" with a "standardized test" of sorts.
         | 
         | As the article said, most of the time, you're not actively job
         | searching, but you generally do care about salary data points
         | and what sort of roles are available. For unicorns, you can
         | find salary info through levels.fyi, but for those not making
         | those 300k+/yr, the pool of better paying jobs is much larger
         | and recruiters still remain a useful source of data. Sniffing
         | for roles is an underused technique. Recruiters have like 3
         | paragraphs to catch your attention, so they optimize for bang-
         | for-the-buck. Which means they aren't going to offer EM roles
         | if you don't already hold that title, even if the company has
         | an opening. A lot of times, if your next career ladder rung is
         | a title upgrade or a role pivot, you need to ask explicitly.
         | 
         | As for your policy, I feel like it's attributing all your chips
         | into one thing while ignoring everything else you've done. Like
         | many here, I've had my share of salary bumps over the course of
         | my career, and each time it was through different methods
         | (diagonal internal move, OSS lead, unicorn recruitment,
         | promotions). It'd be naive to not have more than one tool in
         | the arsenal.
        
           | alexc05 wrote:
           | I love this response. Thanks Leo!
        
         | castlecrasher2 wrote:
         | Agreed, though I still pay attention in case something
         | interesting shows up. For example, I got my current role
         | through a third-party recruiter (an individual, not a farm like
         | Cyber Recruiters) and it was a great experience through and
         | through.
        
         | devoutsalsa wrote:
         | > Companies always prioritize a strong referral, ignoring
         | mediocre interview performance, and will even skip the
         | reference checks
         | 
         | I wish this were always true. When I worked as a recruiter, I
         | saw referrals routinely get tossed onto the stack of resumes
         | with no special preference. How candidates are treated
         | completely depends on the preferences of the hiring manager &
         | corporate red tape, even at smaller companies.
        
         | busterarm wrote:
         | I was hired to my current company through an external recruiter
         | that had a great track record but was expensive. We dropped all
         | of those external recruiters in favor of internal ones who are
         | absolutely useless at finding us worthy candidates because
         | unlike the external recruiter I worked with our internal ones
         | don't have an engineering background.
         | 
         | My recruiter started his career as a software engineer.
        
         | reincarnate0x14 wrote:
         | I'm sure there are great recruiters out there (somewhere), but
         | totally agree on this. Had real days of my life wasted on
         | interviews and such, sometimes only to have everyone at the
         | table realize it was a completely bad fit with no hurt feelings
         | about a minute into us talking directly and not through "the
         | process". Meanwhile got an out of the blue referral from a guy
         | I had worked with ten years prior that started my consulting
         | years.
         | 
         | Not everyone is a superstar networker but be kind, supportive,
         | and professional to your coworkers. People talk.
        
         | Sohcahtoa82 wrote:
         | > I've "doubled" my salary plenty of times through this policy.
         | 
         | Meanwhile, I doubled my salary by responding to a recruiter.
         | 
         | Though FWIW, I was actively looking for new work at the time.
        
           | commandlinefan wrote:
           | Well, let's be honest - when you're just starting out, making
           | $50,000/year, you can probably double your salary in one
           | jump. If you're making $200,000/year, you're not going to
           | double your salary, recruiter or not.
        
             | Sohcahtoa82 wrote:
             | You're absolutely correct.
             | 
             | In my case, I doubled from $100K to $200K. I would not
             | expect to double it again. I'd be lucky to even see 50%.
        
         | scarface74 wrote:
         | I've had great experiences with local recruiters who had
         | relationships with the client companies. They will tell you the
         | max salary you can get, the interview process, why past
         | candidates failed, the actual must have requirements, etc.
         | 
         | My success rate from my application being submitted by a
         | recruiter to a phone screen with the client company is 100%. My
         | non rejection rate was close to that.
         | 
         | That's when I was hopping around in corp dev. I have a
         | specialty now that's slightly more niche. I am working for by
         | far the largest company in that niche so I don't really need
         | the middlemen anymore. If I ever decide to leave my current
         | employer, no one is going to ignore my resume.
        
         | alexc05 wrote:
         | You make a good point. This advice is strongly weighted towards
         | people who still have multiple salary doublings left in their
         | career ladder. At each step up the career ladder, you can
         | afford to be more and more selective around what you're looking
         | for.
         | 
         | This basic script is designed to remove or greatly reduce that
         | time-waste from the early process.
         | 
         | I'd argue that it makes early ghosting a non issue, by reducing
         | the cost of the initial and clear response it cuts through
         | multiple layers of that dance that the spam-cruiters go
         | through.
         | 
         | You're also right about referrals and I don't think this is
         | mutually exclusive with them, instead it is a complimentary
         | passive search protocol.
        
         | kodah wrote:
         | > I've made it my policy to never work with a recruiter that
         | isn't affiliated with the company they're hiring for.
         | 
         | This is a massive privilege. A lot of companies interview in a
         | way that I couldn't pass years ago, so I depended on external
         | recruiters to get me jobs. This was basically how I made a
         | living in the South without a CS or CE degree.
         | 
         | The universal truth I see throughout every career advice thread
         | is always take this advice with a grain of salt.
        
           | obmelvin wrote:
           | Yes, it's interesting to see how many people here are 100%
           | against 3rd party recruiters rather than recognizing there
           | are those good and bad at their job - just like anything
           | else. My best friend from growing up had a 3rd party
           | recruiter go completely out of their way to help him, and he
           | was very appreciative of that.
        
             | conro1108 wrote:
             | I think it's possible to recognize that 3rd party
             | recruiters can be good or bad at their job while also
             | coming to the conclusion that the bad outweighs the good to
             | a degree that it's not worth the time to figure it out.
             | 
             | It's certainly a privilege to be in a position where you'd
             | still have an excess of inbound job opportunities even
             | without 3rd party recruiters. But if that's the position
             | you're in, it's one of the more effective strategies I've
             | seen to increase signal:noise.
        
             | andrewnicolalde wrote:
             | What form did the help take?
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | l30n4da5 wrote:
         | > Strong disagree. I've made it my policy to never work with a
         | recruiter that isn't affiliated with the company they're hiring
         | for. Recruiting farms like Cyber Recruiters (yuck) will do
         | everything in their power to waste your time out of sheer
         | incompetence and disinterest.
         | 
         | 100% agree. I'd go a step further and say: don't bother
         | applying for any job on Indeed where they say "we're looking to
         | fill a contract position with <insert some info about another
         | company (a top industry producer!)>" because they're just a
         | front for those same recruiting farms.
        
         | TameAntelope wrote:
         | Ah, but if someone doesn't have the secret sauce, are you then
         | suggesting that person is doomed?
         | 
         | Industry sanctioned nepotism doesn't feel like a good look for
         | the SWE industry, especially given our diversity problems.
        
           | bboozzoo wrote:
           | > Industry sanctioned nepotism doesn't feel like a good look
           | for the SWE industry
           | 
           | Is it nepotism though? Your friends are not your family.
           | Unless I'm missing some fine details of what nepotism means
           | as a non native English speaker.
           | 
           | Besides, if you are a reliable employee, I doubt any
           | reasonable company would miss out on an opportunity to
           | consider a strong referral. Regardless of industry.
        
           | vanusa wrote:
           | It's not nepotism. That isn't even what "nepotism" means.
           | 
           | People have always gone through their in-network to seek
           | advice and find others to work with, since the beginning of
           | time. It's how nearly anything really great or interesting
           | gets done, actually.
        
             | TameAntelope wrote:
             | I don't think, "It's always been done this way." is as good
             | of an argument as you think it is, especially considering
             | the discrimination that takes place when you hire referrals
             | over searching for the most qualified candidates.
             | 
             | Maybe we should shoot for doing better than how it's been
             | done in the past? I think we can as an industry do a lot
             | better than where we are currently.
        
               | kritiko wrote:
               | Hiring for "culture fit" is problematic. Hiring known
               | commodities is not.
               | 
               | I'm interested in hearing how you think the search for
               | the most qualified candidates can be improved.
               | Interviewing is, necessarily, a messy process and full of
               | uncertainty.
        
               | colmvp wrote:
               | A person who is referred (especially in SWE) doesn't
               | automatically mean they'll get the job, they'll still
               | have to pass checks from members who may have never even
               | interacted with the referrer. The advantage lies in the
               | fact that it means their resume/cover gets reviewed while
               | the 200th applicant doesn't. The reality is companies get
               | tons of applicants and on paper most of them might be
               | qualified.
        
               | TameAntelope wrote:
               | When you have multiple people on this very thread saying
               | they've hired or been hired as referrals without any
               | interview at all, it's hard to say with a straight face
               | that these people still had to pass any quality check
               | whatsoever.
        
           | stronglikedan wrote:
           | You had me until "diversity problems". That's a made up thing
           | to push identity politics, which is also a load of bullshit
           | that needs to die in a fire. Other than that, yes, finding
           | the best candidate for the role is always preferred, but
           | often not feasible, so shortcuts are taken. As with any game
           | in life, it's more beneficial to learn how it's played, than
           | what the "rules" are.
        
             | TameAntelope wrote:
             | Diversity problems are not a, "load of bullshit that needs
             | to die in a fire".
             | 
             | Straight white men dominating the software field is a load
             | of bullshit that needs to die in a fire.
        
               | datavirtue wrote:
               | You make it seem like straight white men conspired to
               | take over the industry and box everyone else out. Last
               | few teams I have been on were very skin diverse. They all
               | had privileged cushy backgrounds though...except for one
               | of the white men who was self-made.
               | 
               | The power base in the US is white middle class. It's not
               | just software that is dominated by white men. Law,
               | medicine, construction, management at corporations. Not
               | just white men. Privileged white men and the few
               | "diverse" people mostly come from a level of privilege
               | that would make my white lucky ass sick to my stomach.
               | 
               | Nice comment.
        
               | thaumasiotes wrote:
               | > It's not just software that is dominated by white men.
               | Law, medicine, construction, management at corporations.
               | Not just white men.
               | 
               | By what metric is software dominated by white men? Are we
               | counting Indians as white?
        
               | TameAntelope wrote:
               | https://www.pewresearch.org/science/2021/04/01/stem-jobs-
               | see...
        
               | thaumasiotes wrote:
               | That would seem to indicate that 54% of "software
               | developers" are white.
        
               | TameAntelope wrote:
               | Yeah, that sounds about right. Over half.
        
               | TameAntelope wrote:
               | Thanks, I appreciate it.
               | 
               | It's not very important, when you focus on outcome,
               | whether or not a group of people conspired to create that
               | outcome, or if that outcome was simply a consequence of
               | other factors. The impact here is that straight white men
               | over-represent the software industry as a whole, and
               | there are things we can do to fix or improve that.
               | 
               | It's a _super_ bad idea to hire anyone who is not
               | qualified for a position, but I 'm not going to pretend
               | there's any kind of even remotely objective or precise
               | way of determining who maximally fits into that position.
               | 
               | Instead, it seems optimal to acknowledge that there will
               | always be more qualified candidates than there are open
               | positions, and once you've found each qualified
               | candidate, selecting the candidate that brings the
               | largest difference in perspective (regardless of
               | representation group) will be the best candidate. Given
               | the saturation of straight white men in the SWE field,
               | the odds that another straight white male will give the
               | largest new perspective is not super high (though it is
               | not zero).
               | 
               | The "action" here, if we need to walk away with one
               | "thing" to do, is to saturate your pipeline with
               | candidates from very diverse backgrounds, and _then_
               | select the best candidate. It 's a bullshit move to say,
               | "only straight white men applied" if you did no work at
               | all to reach out to other communities explicitly.
        
               | labcomputer wrote:
               | > Instead, it seems optimal to acknowledge that there
               | will always be more qualified candidates than there are
               | open positions
               | 
               | This is a wrong assumption, in my experience. As a rule
               | of thumb, for not-principal/staff SWE roles, I would
               | estimate that it takes:
               | 
               | 1. 10+ resumes to find someone worth phone-screening
               | 
               | 2. 10ish phone screens screens to find someone worth an
               | in-person interview
               | 
               | 3. 3ish in-persons to find someone worth an offer.
               | 
               | In other words, a hiring manager has to look at 300+
               | resumes to find one qualified candidate. So... imagine
               | you get a reference from someone you trust. You go from 1
               | in 300 odds of finding someone who is basically qualified
               | to 1 in 3.
               | 
               | This is after recruiters have pre-screened the resumes,
               | btw. The candidate pool for Step #1 excludes all the
               | people who apply to a senior SWE role with no Github
               | portfolio, no relevant claimed skills, no degree and no
               | work experience other than Burger King.
               | 
               | I'm curious to hear other people's experience, but I've
               | literally never been in the position of "Do we hire
               | candidate A or candidate B for this tech role?" It's
               | always "Do we think A is good enough, or should we keep
               | looking?"
               | 
               | > but I'm not going to pretend there's any kind of even
               | remotely objective or precise way of determining who
               | maximally fits into that position.
               | 
               | Sure, defining who is "optimal" is challenging but that's
               | a cop-out. The situation is usually: Person A can't
               | finish FizzBuzz (literally FizzBuzz) in 45 minutes in any
               | language in coderpad, while Person B can do FizzBuzz,
               | some easy recursion problem and maybe some kind of stats
               | brain teaser. There is no world in which both of those
               | candidates are "approximately the same".
        
               | TedDoesntTalk wrote:
               | The reality at all the companies I've worked for is that
               | you are handed resumes, one or two at a time, from HR or
               | a recruiting partner. You interview those 1 or 2 until
               | you find a good/great candidate. Then you stop
               | interviewing, make an offer, and wait for reply. You
               | don't interview 50 people then choose the best and most
               | diverse candidate.
               | 
               | Your "action" doesn't fit with the reality I've
               | experienced.
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | CoastalCoder wrote:
           | I think the popular definition of "nepotism" is hiring one's
           | family or close relations. I doubt anyone is advocating that.
        
             | TameAntelope wrote:
             | Closeness isn't a requisite for nepotistic behavior, only
             | undue bias due to personal familiarity.
             | 
             | I don't think it's any less bad to hire someone you don't
             | know all that well because you share friends than it is to
             | hire people because they're you're close friend or a family
             | member.
             | 
             | The point is that it's exclusionary to outsiders, and
             | outsiders tend to be the exact people tech needs more of.
        
               | andrewf wrote:
               | Family is nepotism, friends are cronyism.
        
               | TameAntelope wrote:
               | Cronyism is more in politics, nepotism is more in
               | business.
        
               | l33t2328 wrote:
               | Personal familiarity is a great tool though.
               | 
               | If a hiring manager knows someone, the kind of worker and
               | individual they are, they are in a great position to know
               | if they should hire them.
        
               | CoastalCoder wrote:
               | I was just trying to state the _popular_ (AFAIK)
               | definition of nepotism.
        
               | vanusa wrote:
               | _Closeness isn 't a requisite for nepotistic behavior,
               | only undue bias due to personal familiarity._
               | 
               | Actually it is; it's how the term is defined.
        
               | TameAntelope wrote:
               | Actually it is not; _this_ is how the term is defined:
               | 
               | > nep*o*tism - /'nep@,tiz@m/ - noun - the practice among
               | those with power or influence of favoring relatives or
               | friends, especially by giving them jobs. [0]
               | 
               | > Nepotism is a form of favoritism which is granted to
               | relatives and friends in various fields, including
               | business, politics, entertainment, sports, fitness,
               | religion, and other activities. [1]
               | 
               | [0] https://www.google.com/search?q=define%3Anepotism
               | 
               | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nepotism
        
               | vanusa wrote:
               | _The practice among those with power or influence of
               | favoring relatives or friends,_
               | 
               | That's precisely the point - "close" relations. When we
               | talk about _business_ referrals, it by no means implied
               | that the person being referred is a  "friend" in the
               | usual sense of the term (let alone relative). Usually
               | it's just someone you vaguely know (by their _work_ ,
               | and/or a chance encounter at a meetup or conference), but
               | don't know too well personally.
               | 
               | And just because they come in via a referral does not
               | mean, _ipso facto_ , that "favoritism" is happening and
               | all objectivity is thrown out the window in the
               | evaluation process.
        
               | TameAntelope wrote:
               | We may be violently agreeing here; what is bad is the
               | idea that someone can get a job because they know someone
               | else, over a more qualified candidate who doesn't know
               | that person already. We agree this is bad, yes?
               | 
               | Our industry is _uniquely_ , as in above-replacement-
               | industry, plagued by a diversity problem, and I'm
               | asserting the practice among those in power of favoring
               | relatives, friends, _or even friends of friends_ over
               | other, more qualified candidates is a contributing factor
               | to that diversity problem.
               | 
               | It is not guaranteed that this always happens, but I am
               | asserting it often is (as evinced by the "lack of
               | interview" or "going by reputation only" as reputation is
               | rife with bias), and _that_ is a bad thing.
        
               | vanusa wrote:
               | _We may be violently agreeing here;_
               | 
               | Violence is completely counter to my way of being - so
               | No.
               | 
               |  _What is bad is the idea that someone can get a job
               | because they know someone else, over a more qualified
               | candidate who doesn 't know that person already. We agree
               | this is bad, yes?_
               | 
               | We keep going in circles - with this idea that person
               | that someone in the company already "knows" (or who came
               | in via a referral anyway) gets the job at the expense not
               | just of a comparably qualified (but not known to the
               | company) candidate, a hypothetical _more qualified_
               | candidate. You just keep assuming that this what happens
               | when companies act on referrals (and implicitly, that it
               | happens a lot).
               | 
               | That's now that I see happening, when referrals are made.
               | But if it's what you want to believe, then it's what you
               | want to believe - and there probably isn't anything I'll
               | be able to say to dissuade you from this belief.
        
               | TameAntelope wrote:
               | Violent agreement is just a term for when people seem to
               | be disagreeing but actually aren't. [0] If _that_ is
               | completely counter to your way of being, then it 's
               | possible your way of being isn't compatible with the
               | concept of constructive argument.
               | 
               | And I'm confused about where I said anything about
               | certainty. I'm not talking about how all companies
               | operate all of the time, I'm talking about how some
               | companies operate an unfortunate number of times.
               | 
               | > Holding everything else constant, from job title to
               | industry to location, female and minority applicants were
               | much less likely to report receiving an employee referral
               | than their white male counterparts. More specifically,
               | white women were 12% less likely to receive a referral,
               | men of color were 26% less likely and women of color were
               | 35% less likely. [1]
               | 
               | This is not good. Can we agree on that?
               | 
               | [0] https://wiki.c2.com/?ViolentAgreement
               | 
               | [1] https://hbr.org/2018/03/how-to-use-employee-
               | referrals-withou...
        
               | vanusa wrote:
               | _I 'm not talking about how all companies operate all of
               | the time, I'm talking about how some companies operate an
               | unfortunate number of times._
               | 
               | In between these opposite extremes -- your language
               | clearly indicates that you think this level of what we
               | might call "aggravated bias" (hiring not just someone in
               | your network; but hiring them _over_ a more qualified
               | candidate, presumed to exist and be interested in your
               | opportunity) is _commonplace_ , or something close to it.
               | 
               | Such that in your mind, "including referrals in your
               | hiring funnel" == aggravated bias (in the sense above),
               | basically.
               | 
               | As to the bias stats you liked to: the findings
               | interesting, to say the least -- if they can be
               | validated. Unfortunately the link to the original
               | Payscale "study" seems to be broken (if we can call it
               | that -- since remember, this is the work of a private
               | company, with products to push).
        
               | TameAntelope wrote:
               | > Such that in your mind, "including referrals in your
               | hiring funnel" == aggravated bias (in the sense above),
               | basically.
               | 
               | Can you show where I said anything approaching this? I do
               | not believe this, nor do I believe I said or even
               | suggested this to be the case.
        
               | vanusa wrote:
               | _I 'm asserting the practice among those in power of
               | favoring relatives, friends, or even friends of friends
               | over other, more qualified candidates is a contributing
               | factor to that diversity problem._
        
               | TameAntelope wrote:
               | Not sure where in that statement I referenced hiring
               | funnels.
        
               | vanusa wrote:
               | I'd continue, but you're getting awful slippery.
        
               | TameAntelope wrote:
               | You made an assumption that turned out not to be true.
               | That's okay, it happens!
        
               | pwinnski wrote:
               | So you're defining closeness as not including blood
               | relation or friendship?
               | 
               | You are quoting definitions which disagree with your
               | assertion. You used the word incorrectly, and now you're
               | doubling down on that rather than leave the word behind.
               | 
               | Better hope good recruiters aren't seeing this! ;)
        
               | TameAntelope wrote:
               | What is my assertion, in your own words?
        
               | vintermann wrote:
               | I once had a former team leader tell me that "I warn you,
               | I practice nepotism", and she did not refer to familiar
               | relations, she just meant that she favored people she
               | knew and liked when looking for people (it included me, I
               | guess, since she "got me in" at a consultancy when I was
               | looking for a job).
               | 
               | So at least some people use the word that way.
        
         | ehnto wrote:
         | That's the career advice I would give, build good bridges and
         | make friends with people. Everyone is moving around enough that
         | you'll be able to cross into new companies and skip whole song
         | and dance prior. You also get the benefit of having a heads up
         | on the company you're joining too.
         | 
         | I don't have a professional network per se, just a bunch of
         | friends I clicked with at various companies. I know if they're
         | enjoying somewhere, I probably will too, since we value similar
         | things in the work.
        
           | belval wrote:
           | > I don't have a professional network per se, just a bunch of
           | friends I clicked with at various companies.
           | 
           | You might not want to label it as such, but that is exactly
           | what a professional network is. People can genuinely be your
           | friends and still be part of your network.
        
             | actually_a_dog wrote:
             | Eh, I find work "friends" to be even more ephemeral than
             | school friends. Nobody I've ever worked with in the past
             | has ever contacted me after I left the company we worked
             | for. At least school friends are around for a more or less
             | guaranteed period of several years.
             | 
             | Edit to add: I have initiated contact before and been well
             | received. Nobody contacts me. It's tiring to have to do
             | 100% of the work to maintain these relationships.
        
               | Cd00d wrote:
               | I think that's a little strange. You haven't maintained a
               | single relationship after having been coworkers?
               | 
               | Try messaging someone you used to work with to check in -
               | you may enjoy catching up or even stumble into being able
               | to give or receive help.
        
               | XorNot wrote:
               | I've had the same experience. I have no idea how this
               | advice is working for people in most job markets - it
               | certainly doesn't seem to be a thing in Australia.
        
               | jpmoral wrote:
               | I'm in my second role in Australia. Can't say whether
               | it's a thing but people from my previous role (people
               | still there and people who have moved on) definitely keep
               | in touch with each other.
        
               | throwaway1777 wrote:
               | Sounds like it's on you for either not being someone they
               | liked working with or not putting any effort at
               | maintaining contacts. Can't always expect other people to
               | pull all the weight.
        
             | ehnto wrote:
             | Hence the 'per se'. Some people go out of their way to
             | groom a network of people specifically for their careers, I
             | was just trying to articulate that difference.
        
           | pydry wrote:
           | I did this for a while and certainly got some leads but the
           | really well paid roles still seemed to come mostly via
           | recruiters.
           | 
           | The "networking" was also very time consuming. It was also
           | fun but if i had a wife and kids I wouldnt have had the time
           | for it.
           | 
           | The good recruiters seemed to have a knack for finding the
           | companies that were the right combination of rich and
           | desperate whereas companies I found through my network were
           | generally from companies that were always keen on talking to
           | a decent technologist but werent exactly craving somebody
           | with my precise skillset to start next week.
        
           | softwarebeware wrote:
           | > I don't have a professional network per se, just a bunch of
           | friends I clicked with at various companies. I know if
           | they're enjoying somewhere, I probably will too, since we
           | value similar things in the work.
           | 
           | I wish this were true for me. I do have people I click with
           | but I have a personal value not to work for anywhere whose
           | main revenue source boils down to "more eyeballs / clicks"
           | and this rules out pretty much everywhere my past
           | coworkers/friends have gone to work.
        
           | kcarter80 wrote:
           | That is a professional network.
        
             | ZhangSWEFAANG wrote:
             | I think he meant that he dosen't have a huge professional
             | network, just something slightly informal.
        
               | FredPret wrote:
               | That is a professional network.
        
               | ehnto wrote:
               | I was just trying to articulate what I see as a
               | difference between a purpose built career network and a
               | network of actual friends from work. There is a
               | difference between those two types of networks not
               | captured when you call them both a "Professional
               | network".
        
               | azinman2 wrote:
               | To me all you've described is a professional network with
               | strong and weak ties.
        
               | ehnto wrote:
               | The difference is the intention behind the relationship I
               | suppose. I don't think it matters if we disagree, it was
               | an off the cuff statement. I see a difference, I consider
               | it important. No one else has to.
        
               | notdonspaulding wrote:
               | Not to beat a dead horse, but the reason you keep getting
               | these kinds of replies is because it seems like you have
               | an idea about a second type of Professional Network that
               | is different than what you described as your network of
               | friends. Everybody's just trying to say that the real
               | Professional Network is exactly the network of your
               | friends, and if there is another kind of "purpose built
               | career network" that people are talking about, it's the
               | imitation of what you've got, not the other way around.
               | 
               | What you've described from your own experience is the
               | _substance of what a professional network is_ , and has
               | always been. LinkedIn connection requests are trying to
               | create a digital product _in the form of_ the real-world
               | phenomenon that you 've experienced and described. If
               | we're going to call one of them a professional network,
               | everyone in this subthread is saying, let's give the real
               | thing the name professional network, and the imitation a
               | different name.
               | 
               | (None of this is intended to disparage LinkedIn. It is
               | what it is, but if it's trying to be a substitute for
               | real relationships between humans, it will always be the
               | shadow, not the substance.)
        
               | ehnto wrote:
               | That is the case I think, the two ideas about types of
               | professional networks seems clear, and it would seem I
               | probably see it differently to some. To me, "professional
               | network" is better at describing a network curated for
               | your career.
               | 
               | It's a tough one, because while I can see that it is also
               | a professional network, said network would be pretty
               | offended if I called them that. So I don't necessarily
               | disagree with you, or even with the other commenters, but
               | there is at least some room for subjectivity about what
               | to call your own personal relationships.
        
               | caddemon wrote:
               | Eh I think there is a huge middle ground between "network
               | consisting of work friends" and "LinkedIn network". Maybe
               | it's different in academia but I know plenty of people
               | that have a strictly professional network built from real
               | world interactions - conference meet ups, seminar series,
               | collaboration projects, etc. They would be happy to call
               | each other up for work purposes but would never do
               | something purely social together or consider each other
               | friends.
               | 
               | I don't think the type of network I've just described is
               | imitating anything. They are mutually beneficial but
               | purely professional relationships. The fact that the
               | internet has enabled people to have a much larger number
               | of superficial relationships doesn't mean that what the
               | poster was describing is the only way to have a "real
               | professional network". Yeah it's a professional network,
               | but it's not the only kind.
        
               | djrogers wrote:
               | All you're describing here is a professional network with
               | 2 group of people in it - those you have beers with, and
               | those you don't.
        
         | fecak wrote:
         | Former recruiter here. You are spot-on about referrals, and
         | having an insider advocating for you or just their willingness
         | to make the recommendation starts things off at a great spot.
         | 
         | Here's where I disagree. You haven't doubled your salary
         | BECAUSE of your policy of not working with recruiters, but
         | rather DESPITE this policy.
         | 
         | Deciding to disregard any recruiter opportunity is just
         | shutting out quite a few things that you probably won't hear
         | about otherwise, especially at the higher levels. Exec roles
         | are often handled by retained recruiting firms and aren't as
         | well publicized as entry level and junior roles. So just saying
         | "I will never work with a third party recruiter" can certainly
         | be your policy, and you may save yourself a fair amount of time
         | by sticking with it, but that policy is doing nothing to
         | advance your position (career, earnings, etc.)
         | 
         | The reasons that there are so many incompetent recruiters are
         | many, but a few are:
         | 
         | - low cost: companies hire entry level recruiters and pay them
         | next to nothing in guaranteed compensation (mostly commission-
         | based). The good ones will make the company a lot of money, and
         | the bad ones can't afford to stay in the industry because they
         | aren't making enough in commission - so they 'go away'.
         | 
         | - low skill: the skills required to be a good recruiter aren't
         | typically taught in school, so they aren't coming out of
         | college with a strong foundation. They need to learn and be
         | successful quickly (because it's commission-based)
        
           | scarface74 wrote:
           | I stayed at one job too long until 2008. I was looking to
           | restart my career and I spammed every ATS I could find. I
           | didn't have a network and I had no choice. I found a job that
           | paid around $80K as a mid level .Net dev - still more then I
           | was making. But about $10K below the local market.
           | 
           | Over the next three years, I did build out my network of
           | _local_ external recruiters who had relationships with the
           | hiring managers.
           | 
           | I hopped around between various corp dev job - one generic
           | corp dev CRUD job looks about like any other - by leveraging
           | recruiters. By the beginning of 2020, I was making $150K and
           | hearing opportunities of $165K locally. Then Covid hit and
           | external recruiters had absolutely nothing to offer me paying
           | more than I what I was making.
           | 
           | I hopped on the FAANG bandwagon because of an internal
           | recruiter in mid 2020. Almost two years later, I still
           | haven't had an external recruiter ping me about anything
           | mildly interesting.
        
             | fecak wrote:
             | I'd bet your LinkedIn isn't optimized at all for discovery.
             | Populate a skills section with languages and tools you use,
             | and you'll often see an immediate uptick.
        
               | scarface74 wrote:
               | The companies paying in the BigTech compensation range
               | don't care about what languages or tools you are using.
               | 
               | The same recruiters see I work for BigTech and they are
               | still sending me "exciting opportunities for .Net leads
               | paying up to $150K".
        
           | ibi5 wrote:
           | "but that policy is doing nothing to advance your position
           | (career, earnings, etc.)"
           | 
           | Why does everybody assume that the goal is to advance to an
           | exec role?
           | 
           | I'm sure that you were a competent recruiter, but the reality
           | is that I don't have the time or the energy to waste on you
           | to figure out if you are or not.
        
             | fecak wrote:
             | The OP mentioned doubling salary multiple times.
             | 
             | I don't assume everyone is looking to advance to an exec
             | role - in my experience, most actually are not looking for
             | that at all. I tend to assume people aren't looking for
             | exec roles.
             | 
             | "Advance your position" could refer to improved work/life
             | balance, more time off, remote, whatever you value. I was
             | referring to overall position (life quality), not on an org
             | chart. I can see how that wasn't made explicitly clear.
        
               | piva00 wrote:
               | What's your suggestion on fostering relationships with
               | recruiters?
               | 
               | I do ignore the vast majority of contacts due to the
               | sheer overload of them, I don't have the energy or time
               | to parse through each message and see if it's worth
               | pursuing the recruiter in the future or not.
               | 
               | My CV is no unicorn, I have a lot of experience in
               | different roles and company sizes but I'm not a deep
               | specialist or a very sought after technologist, just a
               | decent engineer. Even then I get dozens of contacts per
               | month, it's impossible for me to actively engage with
               | that...
               | 
               | If I decided to keep some recruiters in the loop when I
               | look for new jobs, how should I do it? I can't just
               | answer all these contacts and filter out, are there good
               | places to match decent professional recruiters and job-
               | seekers? I'd love to have an ongoing relationship with a
               | good recruiter who could match me to openings offering
               | things like a 4-day work week, etc., but usually I'd have
               | to go searching for these openings and then contacting
               | the recruiters for them, how can I invert this
               | relationship?
               | 
               | I feel like tech recruiting became a new gold rush,
               | noticed it got progressively worse the past 15 years with
               | recruiters just blasting me with spam. The increasingly
               | higher bonuses for hiring attracted a crowd that I'm not
               | very fond of.
        
               | fecak wrote:
               | The article's methods are actually quite good. You should
               | ignore most of the recruiter contacts - if the recruiter
               | approaches you for a job that is clearly not a fit for
               | your background, I'd dismiss that person as either not
               | respectful of your time or incompetent, and both are good
               | reasons to ignore that person down the road.
               | 
               | If you're getting a fair amount of incoming traffic,
               | you're already optimized for discovery, so that is
               | working. Telling recruiters "I'm only looking for jobs
               | that fit these parameters" and then paying attention to
               | the ones that are respectful of that will work to start a
               | relationship. I had some relationships for the entire 20
               | years I was in the business, and some of those people I
               | didn't make a dime off for maybe 15 of those years.
        
           | actually_a_dog wrote:
           | That's actually the problem with third party recruiters: the
           | bad ones so greatly outnumber the good ones that it's
           | extremely hard to filter out the bad from the good. I could
           | easily spend half an afternoon or more every week on random
           | calls with third party recruiters and never get anywhere.
           | 
           | What I've started doing is only dealing with the ones who
           | both show a little evidence of having seen my profile on
           | LinkedIn (since this is generally the ultimate source of
           | these contacts), _and_ mention a specific opportunity (not
           | just  "full time Python role with my direct client").
           | 
           | That brings me to the second problem, which is that most of
           | these third party recruiters are working for companies that
           | are still series C and earlier. I've done the startup game
           | twice now, and figured out that working for a company that's
           | going to pay me partially in lottery tickets that won't pay
           | out for 7-10 years isn't that great of an opportunity. There
           | are the odd exceptions out there, but they are few and far
           | between.
        
           | jrochkind1 wrote:
           | > The reasons that there are so many incompetent recruiters
           | are many, but a few are... companies hire entry level
           | recruiters and pay them next to nothing in guaranteed
           | compensation (mostly commission-based). The good ones will
           | make the company a lot of money, and the bad ones can't
           | afford to stay in the industry because they aren't making
           | enough in commission - so they 'go away'
           | 
           | Wouldn't that be an explanation for why there _shouldn 't_ be
           | so many incompetent recruiters? Why don't the incompetent
           | ones all "go away"?
        
             | fecak wrote:
             | Good question. The bad ones don't go away immediately. They
             | go away eventually, and are quickly replaced with another
             | round of new hires. So you have maybe 10% of the industry
             | that stays for the long haul, and 90% is a revolving door
             | of college grads.
             | 
             | There are probably other industries that have similar
             | models where most of the workforce is newbies at all times,
             | but I don't have an example that won't be dissected.
        
               | selfhifive wrote:
               | That's a great description of software consultancy firms.
               | Most people are fresh college grads who leave after their
               | first contract is up or earlier.
        
               | fecak wrote:
               | The bigger ones, yes. Not boutique/niche firms, but large
               | ones tend to churn.
        
               | nsv wrote:
               | Well, retail and food service is a classic example of a
               | high-turnover industry.
        
           | ozim wrote:
           | I think only true part in that description is "Exec roles are
           | often handled and retained by recruiting firms".
           | 
           | But that is level where normal developers are not finding
           | themselves. I am senior developer but I don't imagine being
           | approached for exec level role.
           | 
           | There are different worlds of recruiting - world where I am
           | is low level spamming that I get every day and most of it is
           | just predation on unhappy people that would be open to switch
           | job.
           | 
           | World where there is super specialized recruiting like exec
           | level or really niche skills might work as described but that
           | is super specialized and most people are nowhere near that
           | world.
        
             | fecak wrote:
             | All of my recruiting work was retained for the last 5-10
             | years I was in business, and I wasn't recruiting
             | executives. I'm not saying that is the norm (it definitely
             | isn't), and you are correct that senior developers will not
             | be approached for executive roles.
             | 
             | Higher level candidates will probably attract higher level
             | recruiters, because the amount of time to place someone
             | making $100K is the same amount of time to place someone at
             | $500K, with the only difference being a $25K fee for the
             | first person and a $100K fee for the second.
        
           | ASinclair wrote:
           | How am I supposed to get any sense of a recruiter's skill
           | when they reach out? Do I need to be looking at their
           | LinkedIn profiles to see their tenure? I've dealt with maybe
           | one or two competent recruiters out of dozens.
        
             | fecak wrote:
             | Tenure is a good one, but can be misleading. There are a
             | few ways to make money in recruiting. Being really good at
             | it and ethical is one way, but there are also people who
             | are unethical and it hasn't caught up with them.
             | 
             | I would always suggest looking at their tenure. A new
             | recruiter doesn't have the depth of client relationships to
             | be all that helpful, but most new recruiters are 'sourcers'
             | and not handling the client side (they are responsible for
             | researching and bringing in candidates).
        
           | dvtrn wrote:
           | _Deciding to disregard any recruiter opportunity is just
           | shutting out quite a few things that you probably won 't hear
           | about otherwise_
           | 
           | and
           | 
           |  _that policy is doing nothing to advance your position
           | (career, earnings, etc.)_
           | 
           | Are readers supposed to read this as a suggestion that
           | missing out is synonymous with _losing out_? I kind of take
           | exception to these phrases because it strips a lot of agency
           | out of otherwise exceptional people who are more than capable
           | of navigating their careers to where _they_ want them to be,
           | maybe not necessarily where you as a recruiter _think they
           | should be_.
           | 
           | Seems to me the market is very strong for employees and those
           | with in demand skills and experience to back them up are
           | probably missing out on job x but probably aren't losing out
           | by any equal measure-all other considerations being equal.
           | One of the most common refrains I've been hearing _right here
           | on HackerNews_ in response to the  'Great Resignation' isn't
           | that people are leaving the workforce, they're just finally
           | leaving jobs they've been wanting to anyway and taking their
           | labor elsewhere.
           | 
           | So
           | 
           | That said, what does it really matter if someone decides they
           | want more autonomy in who they decide to interview with?
           | Shouldn't we be _encouraging_ more of this?
           | 
           | Especially given some of the fees that come with hiring
           | through a recruiter?
        
             | fecak wrote:
             | I don't think missing out and losing out are synonymous.
             | I'm simply stating that if you decide to ignore any subset
             | of potential opportunities solely due to the source, you
             | are limiting your exposure to possibilities.
             | 
             | For example, if you don't have a LinkedIn profile, you will
             | probably get far less incoming inquiries from hiring
             | entities (external/internal recruiters, hiring managers,
             | etc.). That's a decision many people make.
             | 
             | Everyone has autonomy in who they interview with - I'm not
             | sure where that comment is coming from.
             | 
             | This isn't about autonomy or interviews. It's about the
             | ability to say "yes" or "no" to additional information
             | about opportunities. Nothing more.
             | 
             | EDIT: To address the Great Resignation thing, agreed there
             | as well. I'm a resume writer/career advisor now and my
             | business has been brisk. Lots of clients are changing
             | industries to find more impactful work, better working
             | conditions, etc. Obviously if someone IS leaving the
             | workforce they aren't calling me to write their resume, but
             | I'm seeing a lot of activity from people looking to find
             | work they "feel better" about in one way or another.
        
             | NikolaNovak wrote:
             | I read it as a fairly mathematical statement of fact. There
             | is a tree of opportunities, and one can choose to prune
             | some of them at the root. By definition, any
             | direct/anticipated; _and_ any unanticipated, indirect
             | opportunities; are gone. Which is a 100% valid personal
             | choice, I interpreted the minor quibble being whether this
             | is a net positive creditor to their overall success. On one
             | hand, pruning opportunities is in principle a negative; on
             | the other hand, time saved not dealing with undesired
             | channels is a positive.
        
               | fecak wrote:
               | The reluctance to work with recruiters is mostly the
               | "time suck" element. If you were to chase every
               | opportunity sent by recruiters you'd waste a ton of time,
               | but you'd also maximize your potential for getting offers
               | that meet your criteria (whatever those criteria are).
               | 
               | It was meant as a statement of fact. To oversimplify, if
               | you limit the information you are willing to receive, you
               | won't have all the information you could have.
               | 
               | My main issue with the original post was that OP was
               | crediting a policy of reduced information with doubling
               | their salary. That just isn't the case.
        
             | res0nat0r wrote:
             | Sounds like just a general statement of opportunity cost.
             | If you're disregarding all recruiters, and someone comes
             | along with a possible job that fits with a $200k raise that
             | you would normally disregard out of hand, and most of your
             | average raises you find on your own are $50-75k when you
             | switch jobs, spending time talking to the recruiter would
             | likely be worth it.
        
               | moron4hire wrote:
               | That doesn't sound like a thing that ever happens.
               | 
               | If I took every recruiter call I receive, I'd be spending
               | half my week talking to recruiters. All for a tiny,
               | small, infinitesimal chance that they might find me a job
               | that A) is in a field I want, B) at a company I want, and
               | C) at a decent salary.
               | 
               | I've been unemployed with next to no professional network
               | before. And I took those recruiter calls. And they were a
               | waste of time. I'd end up in companies doing slimy stuff,
               | I'd get low-balled on salary, I'd get bait-and-switched
               | on my role.
               | 
               | In the end, the only way I've ever gotten good jobs is
               | through the professional network. It was faster to build
               | a professional network from 0 by working on open source
               | projects and going out to meetups than to go through a
               | 3rd party recruiter.
        
               | ipaddr wrote:
               | I agree with everything you say until you are out of
               | work. At that point I start taking calls.
        
             | vintermann wrote:
             | As far as I can see, the only thing outsourced recruiters
             | provide is blame-shifting. They're not better at judging
             | candidates. They're not better at finding candidates.
             | They're almost certainly worse at understanding what the
             | company needs than the company, and worse at understanding
             | what the candidate has to offer than the candidate.
             | 
             | But, if the company hires a few people they're unhappy with
             | through a recruiter (which is bound to happen from random
             | chance no matter how they hire), they have someone to
             | blame. They can switch to another recruiter, and assure
             | their further-ups that the problem has been addressed.
             | 
             | There are many corporate roles that are mostly about
             | providing blame-shifting opportunities, but outsourced
             | recruiting is an unusually pure one. Along with
             | "networking"-logrolling, it's one of the things which I
             | really can't stand about working in software development,
             | and on darker days they makes me wonder if I shouldn't go
             | be a hermit in a cabin in the woods or something instead.
        
               | sebzim4500 wrote:
               | Does this blame shifting really happen though? I've never
               | seen recruiters get blamed for a bad hire. I've seen them
               | get blamed for sending people that fail at the first
               | interview though.
        
               | fecak wrote:
               | A bad hire isn't on a recruiter unless they are basically
               | lying to the employer about the hire's credentials or
               | background, and even then it's the employer's job to vet
               | what is being said.
        
         | stretchwithme wrote:
         | My policy is if you hear 18 other recruiters murmuring in the
         | background, decline, then block that number and that email.
         | 
         | Sometimes you get multiple contacts from different recruiters
         | with the same company on the same day.
         | 
         | If they won't tell you what company is interested, they don't
         | have a contract with that company.
         | 
         | Don't be open and honest with a recruiter if they aren't open
         | and honest with you.
        
         | jeffalbertson wrote:
         | Very much agree with this comment. Just had an awful experience
         | with a Jobot recruiter and will 100% never work with anyone
         | affiliated with that company again.
        
         | hamburglar wrote:
         | Also strong disagree. I literally ignore several obviously
         | useless recruiters a week. I occasionally humor one long enough
         | to confirm that they know exactly nothing about me and have put
         | zero actual thought into their inquiry. Asking "what about my
         | resume made you think of me for this position" is usually very
         | enlightening.
         | 
         | I do have an exception, however, and it's not recruiters that
         | are affiliated with a particular company, it's _high quality_
         | recruiters that my friends refer me to and who will work on my
         | behalf. I had one spend a TON of time really getting to know
         | what I was looking for, what my skills were, and what made me
         | happy, and he looked at companies with an eye toward making
         | both me and the company happy long term, because he knew that's
         | where the big payoff was.
        
         | dvtrn wrote:
         | _Recruiting farms like Cyber Recruiters (yuck) will do
         | everything in their power to waste your time_
         | 
         | Or share your data.
         | 
         | I made a throwaway, but not obnoxious email on my domain just
         | for recruiters a few years ago, so I could try tracking who I
         | was talking to.
         | 
         | Via three consecutive third-party recruiters I started getting
         | cold calls and e-mails from recruiters I'd never contacted,
         | never met, or never before engaged with from agencies that
         | weren't the ones I spoke to or sent a CV to. Soon I started
         | getting other completely irrelevant email. Then the robocalls
         | came. I later found that email address among five different
         | data leak sources.
         | 
         | Just so happened to be a different popular recruiting company
         | that has "Cyber" in the name.
        
           | lelandfe wrote:
           | I highly recommend using a Google Voice number for recruiters
           | for just such a reason.
           | 
           | I keep all my interviewing data isolated from my private
           | data.
        
             | devoutsalsa wrote:
             | These days I just never answer the actual phone for anyone.
             | I don't even bother to look who is calling.
        
               | jjwiseman wrote:
               | A scenario I hadn't thought about, that you might want to
               | be aware of: I had to call 911 recently. I talked to the
               | dispatcher, and hung up. A few minutes later they called
               | me back to give me instructions. The call showed up as a
               | regular Los Angeles 323 area code number. In fact, it was
               | flagged by my phone as spam.
               | 
               | It made me wonder whether reverse 911[1] calls, which are
               | used to warn about hazmat situations, fire evacuations,
               | and other public safety issues, show up similarly.
               | 
               | 1. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reverse_9-1-1
        
               | stjohnswarts wrote:
               | Yeah, me too. I have my 3 best friends and my mom
               | whitelisted; everyone else can leave a message or SMS.
        
             | dvtrn wrote:
             | I have a nice collection of "throwaway" phone numbers for
             | all kinds of reasons, while one of them is dedicated to job
             | hunting, I don't think merely having it would have stopped
             | this agency from sharing my CV across to whomever they
             | shared it with, or stopped whatever leak occurred for said
             | email address to end up in so many collections of leaked
             | data.
             | 
             | That was the reason: to understand where my data was
             | leaking from, not to duck recruiter calls.
        
           | imglorp wrote:
           | Same experience.
           | 
           | It seems like an old flea market where most people don't buy
           | anything but the vendors all buy and sell old stuff from each
           | other to supplement.
        
           | Tade0 wrote:
           | I always ask where do they have this number from.
           | 
           | One time the guy told me that the person who referred me
           | "preferred to remain anonymous".
           | 
           | I asked him if he realised that this is a violation of GDPR
           | and that a typical candidate would recognize it as such?
           | 
           | No coherent answer.
        
             | Cd00d wrote:
             | I've more than once asked a cold-call recruiter how they
             | got my number where the answer has been a rather candid,
             | "there are markets for such information".
             | 
             | Kinda makes me regret the few years my LinkedIn profile had
             | my phone number public, but I do wonder how successful
             | these questionable personal data marketplaces are. I
             | certainly haven't had a conversation get beyond "this is
             | spam".
        
               | dvtrn wrote:
               | Check out http://intelx.io, depending on your risk
               | tolerances, putting your email and phone number in yet
               | another search bar may not be in the cards. If you can
               | swallow it though, depending if (1) anything you care
               | about has been leaked at all and (2) anything you care
               | about being leaked has been indexed by this site...the
               | results may be illuminating. Or nothing at all.
               | 
               | Interesting resource nonetheless that supplements my day-
               | to-day line of Devsecops.
               | 
               | This site and a few other OSINT tools was how I
               | discovered who 'sold out' my CV to some of the
               | questionable 'recruiting agencies'.
        
           | anothernewdude wrote:
           | Even non-recruiter HR will share your data without concern
           | these days.
        
           | chana_masala wrote:
           | I legally changed my name two years ago and I still get
           | recruiting emails addressed to my old name. It hasn't been on
           | LinkedIn for equally as long, so I can only anticipate that
           | my data was sold and my old name is cached in some database.
        
         | Taylor_OD wrote:
         | > Recruiting farms like Cyber Recruiters (yuck) will do
         | everything in their power to waste your time out of sheer
         | incompetence and disinterest.
         | 
         | Cyber Coders, I think that is the actual name, is pretty bad.
         | They use a lot of automation to build funnels and send out
         | messages automatically. There are several thousand other
         | recruiting firms that do the same thing with more or less
         | technology.
         | 
         | That being said their goal isnt to waste your time. They are
         | just playing a numbers game. They are trying to hit the postgre
         | DBA who just got told their contract is ending with an email
         | about a postgre DBA contract that starts ASAP. If you are that
         | person and you get that email you might have good results.
         | 
         | I think people get angry when recruiters don't personalize
         | messages or make sure that they are actually qualified for a
         | job or that they actually are helpful during the interview
         | process. But they sold for 105 million in 2013. Their model
         | works despite having one of the worst reputations in the
         | business. They generate a shit load of revenue by spamming
         | massive amounts of people and getting enough emails to the
         | right person at the right time.
         | 
         | If you view third party recruiters as someone who is going to
         | be your job agent and work for you, you're going to have a bad
         | time. If you think of them as street vendors who are slinging
         | wares of questionable quality and price and who offering no
         | refund no return one supply items... You might have a better
         | experience and save yourself a lot of grief.
         | 
         | TLDR: Recruiting companies print money by getting the right
         | email to the right person at the right time. They don't work
         | for you. Don't expect their service to be tailered for you.
         | 
         | [1] https://www.cybercoders.com/insights/press-release-
         | cybercode...
        
         | LinearEntropy wrote:
         | I completely agree with you. Every single job offer I have
         | received has come through direct listings from the company
         | itself.
         | 
         | Safe to say the quality of tech recruiters in New Zealand is
         | even lower than those elsewhere.
        
           | Mandatum wrote:
           | Because the market is tiny. Recruiters can't specialize, and
           | those that do get eaten up by the likes of Datacom or
           | Australian-based providers.
           | 
           | Most recruiters in NZ start from labourer/contracting/HR
           | firms and then move into tech because it's better paid.
           | Whereas in Australia you get people who trained specifically
           | to be a tech recruiter, or migrated to recruitment from tech
           | (usually BA and QA type roles).
        
         | winternett wrote:
         | Agreed. Mu primary test for a recruiter call is to ask them if
         | the position is funded and what the title is. Recruiting
         | warehouses will often say they want to ask me a few more
         | questions before answering that, and the truth is they're
         | scouring Indeed for the same jobs I could find on my own and
         | adding a recruiter commission to the bid.
        
         | kyawzazaw wrote:
         | Great Third party headhunters can be good too
        
         | subsubzero wrote:
         | Strongly with you on this one. I have had recruiters from the
         | UK reach out to me(I'm based on the west coast in US) from
         | agencies and made the mistake of replying to one. Complete
         | waste of time and total incompetence on their side. I have a
         | rule like this(recruiters have to be from the company they are
         | soliciting for):
         | 
         | - If I am interested in the company I will reply right away.
         | 
         | - Somewhat/not really interested ignore first email they send
         | out and if they followup a reply I then email them stating I am
         | not looking for work now but could change my mind in the
         | future.
         | 
         | - Not interested in company at all just ignore the unsolicited
         | response.
         | 
         | I have also completely given up on startups as the comp they
         | have been getting back to me with is 50-70% lower than my TC
         | and its a waste of my time. Your time is the most important
         | resource you have, don't waste it on unsolicited responses from
         | recruiters in positions that are not right or companies you
         | have no desire to work for.
        
         | codegeek wrote:
         | There are 3 types of recruiters:
         | 
         | 1. Internal company recruiters. They couldn't care less about
         | contacting you directly unless things have changed in today's
         | market (My last interaction with in house recruiter was circa
         | 2010).
         | 
         | 2. Scummy recruiting farms where they hire a bunch of people on
         | commissions and they spam anyone and everyone
         | 
         | 3. Recruiters who actually have relationships with a customer,
         | prospect good candidates like a salesperson, keep their
         | pipeline full and understand the hiring needs. They work
         | diligently to find good candidates who fit the job description.
         | They do exist but are rare unfortunately.
         | 
         | I have no problem with #3 above and I have worked with some
         | great ones in the past and right now as a hiring manager,
         | working with one who is trying to find a senior level candidate
         | for a while now (lot of work there).
        
           | gbronner wrote:
           | I got my current job through an internal company recruiter.
           | He's the best I've ever seen in this business -- the
           | introduction was extremely well targeted, the process was
           | very low-pressure, and he's measured on the long-term success
           | of the people he brings in.
           | 
           | He spent time explaining the role, the skills, and the goals,
           | and offered feedback throughout the process.
        
           | jnwatson wrote:
           | That's a great categorization.
           | 
           | I've accepted a job through a very good internal recruiter
           | once in 2015.
           | 
           | I can distinguish between a 2 and a 3 in a 5 minute phone
           | call.
           | 
           | I don't understand all the hate about recruiters. I cut off
           | the bad ones and the folks left are great. The overhead is
           | quite low.
        
           | ravenstine wrote:
           | My exact experience. I've had one actual great recruiter that
           | was in the #3 category, one okay recruiter from #2 who a #1
           | recruiter farmed out to, and then dozens and dozens of
           | sleazeballs from #2.
           | 
           | For the most part, I just say ignore recruiters entirely,
           | unless the job is for a great company and there are no red
           | flags, instead opting to network and send emails directly to
           | people in charge of hiring.
        
           | jiveturkey wrote:
           | #3 = headhunters
        
         | silisili wrote:
         | Same. Sorry for any good recruiters out there, but these people
         | are generally used car salesman like scum. Multiple keep
         | emailing my work address even after asking them numerous times
         | to stop. One I worked with on a potentially good role - acted
         | like my best buddy, constantly texting and calling for weeks,
         | and when I decided not to take the offer, just ghosted me. Not
         | even an 'OK thanks anyways'. I think even an annoyed reply like
         | 'Sigh, OK' would have been more professional.
         | 
         | Anymore I just ignore them all.
        
         | polote wrote:
         | > I've "doubled" my salary plenty of times through this policy.
         | 
         | Let say you started at 50k (which is very low) and you doubled
         | your salary 4 times (what is plenty ?). Then you make now 800k.
         | Which is unlikely, so your main argument is probably wrong
        
           | ThalesX wrote:
           | I've doubled my income some times but I started out at around
           | $200
        
         | picture_view wrote:
         | I was recently talking to a 3rd party recruiter who started
         | asking me for detailed salary info of all my past jobs. I told
         | him that I didn't feel comfortable answering that, then when he
         | pushed back I told him I'm legally not required to give him
         | that info in my state (and the potential employer's state.) He
         | abruptly cut the call off and ghosted me.
         | 
         | I decided to apply to the company directly. They were happy to
         | talk to me because my experience was a really good fit for
         | them. I come to find out that the recruiter emailed them saying
         | that I was a poor candidate and that he suggest they don't talk
         | to me. Luckily they didn't listen to him.
         | 
         | I am also done with 3rd party recruiters.
        
           | larkost wrote:
           | It is ok that you did not feel comfortable with that, but pay
           | negotiations are exactly why you would want to have a
           | recruiter: they handle that for you, and are generally
           | incentivized to get you as much money as they can since they
           | generally get a percentage of your yearly salary as their
           | pay. So by telling the recruiter you were not going to share
           | that with them you were hamstringing them... of course they
           | thought you were a bad candidate (for them).
           | 
           | It is a bit petty that they told the company that you were a
           | poor candidate, but you seem to not understand what was
           | happening. And it could have been they had already mentioned
           | your name to them, and then had to explain why they suddenly
           | were not representing you. I don't know, but that is a
           | reasonable explanation.
           | 
           | I personally have had a mixed bag with recruiters: many I
           | have dealt with are worthless in that they don't understand
           | the jobs they are recruiting for (so give very bad matches to
           | both sides), but I have been lucky twice and had recruiters
           | give me great jobs and handle the pay negotiations so well
           | that I probably got $20-40K/year more than I would have by
           | myself (if I had somehow found those positions).
        
             | throwaway6532 wrote:
             | >and are generally incentivized to get you as much money as
             | they can since they generally get a percentage of your
             | yearly salary as their pay
             | 
             | This is not quite true. They're optimizing for throughput,
             | not max dollar value. If they optimized for the maximum
             | amount of money they could get you that would come at the
             | cost of their time which would lower their throughput of
             | placing candidates and hence the maximum amount of money
             | that they can personally earn in aggregate.
             | 
             | They'll still try to spin you that line though.
        
             | picture_view wrote:
             | So the only good candidates for a recruiter are the ones
             | willing to let their recruiter break the law and make a
             | salary history a requirement for consideration?
             | 
             | WA state law makes it very clear as a candidate I don't
             | need to share salary information, and by some readings of
             | the statute it's illegal for them to even ask.
             | 
             | My most recent job is at a very large public company where
             | the salaries are well published (levels.fyi) - there was no
             | need for me to give a detailed salary history of all my
             | recent jobs.
             | 
             | If the value-add of a recruiter is getting a better
             | negotiated salary, what is the value-minus of putting
             | another point of failure between me and a job I want.
             | Surely it's possible that over time the minuses are greater
             | than the pluses.
        
       | robin_reala wrote:
       | _Who else has real and direct insight into how much money any
       | given role pays?_
       | 
       | Your union?
        
         | mrweasel wrote:
         | I get access to salary statistics every year via my union. They
         | collect everything from the member, support is almost always
         | around 80%. Just plug in area, experience, title and if you
         | have a management role. So yeah, my answer would be: most
         | people have insight in salary levels.
         | 
         | Also remember that in some countries you income is public
         | record that can be looked up by anyone.
        
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       | gloryjulio wrote:
       | You can get better data points from levels.fyi and teamblind
        
         | alexc05 wrote:
         | This is for part two!!!
        
         | rodiger wrote:
         | Those are great for larger companies but most smaller places
         | won't have much listed there
        
           | gloryjulio wrote:
           | I agree. Although as someone who has been burnt before, I
           | would not consider the position from a small company unless
           | its a very senior and generous offer.
        
       | blizkreeg wrote:
       | Q for engineers on this thread: would you be more open to a
       | "recruiter reach-out" if that person _is_ an engineer themselves
       | but independently also helps startups build teams as a recruiter?
        
         | deathanatos wrote:
         | I'd rather talk to another eng, but the problem with recruiters
         | isn't that they're recruiters, it's that their email _wastes
         | people 's time_; cf. the article, and the canned response the
         | article recommends writing: what if... what if the recruiter
         | just _told_ us those things up front? Then I 'd instantly know
         | this is worth responding to! Instead, we have to waste a
         | mostly-automated round trip asking for what ought to have been
         | done up front.
         | 
         | Of course -- the offer would need to be actually palatable.
        
         | ebiester wrote:
         | The more you differentiate yourself, the more likely I am to
         | listen. My priority is: 1. Internal recruiters. They have real
         | pull. 2. External recruiters that give me real information and
         | give me quality information before I get on a call and why I
         | might be interested. 3. External recruiters that are working
         | with a company that I have prior interest in.
         | 
         | Below this, I usually don't respond.
         | 
         | 4. Recruiters that ask if I can "get on a call" to get me
         | details. 5. Recruiters from big name firms. (Robert Half et.
         | al) 6. Low quality recruiters that have no connection to what I
         | do.
        
       | onion2k wrote:
       | I don't ignore recruiters. I tell them to $%^& off.
        
       | tomrod wrote:
       | Depends on recruiter quality.
       | 
       | There are some 3rd party groups that are solid. Most are a waste
       | of time.
        
       | manuelabeledo wrote:
       | Good advice on salary negotiation, awful about "answer all the
       | calls".
       | 
       | Truth is, many first contacts are just to add you to their
       | database. In some cases, there aren't any immediate openings
       | either.
        
       | gadders wrote:
       | After reading the responses, all I can say is that the US
       | recruiting industry must be a lot different from the UK one. Or
       | maybe it's different because I'm not in a popular niche like
       | Python dev or something.
       | 
       | I'm in the UK and I just looked at my latest linkedin recruiter
       | message. They told me the company type, the role, the skills they
       | were looking for. An accurate enough description to make me think
       | it was a real role. They didn't include the rate, but that would
       | have been my next question if I had been interested.
       | 
       | If I'm not interested in the role, I normally reply with "Thank
       | you for thinking of me but it's not right for me because
       | [reason]. Good luck in your search." I might even refer them on
       | to a friend if I know one that fits the requirement and may be
       | looking.
        
       | ricardobayes wrote:
       | Honestly that autoresponder reply reads a bit condescending and
       | borderline rude, but it could be just me. 'This means I don't
       | have the time to hop on a call' is not how my mother taught me to
       | talk to people.
        
         | lbriner wrote:
         | Your mother probably didn't teach the recruiters to call you up
         | without invitation to interrupt your day either.
        
       | sebastianconcpt wrote:
       | Here is my version:
       | 
       |  _Thanks for reaching out. I 'm okay to travel to spend a week to
       | work together every now and then but I'm working remote only and
       | permanently from X1-Country and I'd only be interested in
       | opportunities with compensations around X2 plus benefits and if I
       | like their tech stack. Let me know when you have something that
       | sounds like a match for that. Thanks again._
        
       | rietta wrote:
       | Completely disagree. I have found recruiters to be nearly
       | useless. However, my experience is through the lens of someone
       | who created a consulting practice bit by bit and have gained a
       | good reputation in my niche. Recruiters don't help people like
       | me. Those on LinkedIn who don't even read your profile are the
       | worst.
        
       | mkl95 wrote:
       | When you are a junior engineer, recruiters ignore you or use you
       | to boost their career. When you are a senior engineer, you ignore
       | recruiters or use them to boost your career.
        
       | eatonphil wrote:
       | That's a pretty big wall of text when most recruiters reach out
       | with a single sentence or few sentences.
        
         | coolso wrote:
         | It reads like the author really wanted to get that "privilege"
         | line in there, and then came up with a lot of other words to
         | put around it to hide that fact.
        
         | alexc05 wrote:
         | I like to think of it as spamming the spammers! The marginal
         | cost of extra words in a "select all -> copy -> paste" is
         | pretty low so I think it makes a lot of sense to be very clear
         | and address any objections they might have in advance.
         | 
         | I also have found through experimentation that posting one
         | liners like "how much?" just results in the recruiter reverting
         | to their own script of "objection handlers"
         | 
         | The size and clarity of the message really does say "this isn't
         | a conversation", "no bullshit" and "let's not fuck around here"
         | 
         | This is my own experience though. I've been running with it and
         | refining for about 6 months to a year. Maybe It could be
         | better. :)
        
           | lhorie wrote:
           | Hey Alex, fancy seeing you here :)
           | 
           | I'm going to agree that the "if you want me, do some work
           | first" thing seems a bit overkill. For me, usually just a
           | single sentence asking for salary range and job description
           | gives me more than enough to figure out whereabouts in the
           | spectrum they are.
           | 
           | This is the way I think about it:
           | 
           | 1) there are different types of recruiters. At least in the
           | city where you are, I can tell you that there are actually
           | some good recruiting firms that consistently send appealing
           | opportunities while avoid wasting your time with emails about
           | lowballers, if you just spend the 30 mins upfront to chat
           | with them about your expected salary range and
           | specialization. These recruiters understand that there's an
           | entire subsection of the workforce that is very capable but
           | has zero online presence, and they build their own moat by
           | connecting w/ professionals directly, to build a long term,
           | high quality, proprietary network. Being part of such
           | networks and having the recruiter sift and prescreen jobs for
           | you can be valuable. For one-off linkedin cold mailers, the
           | signal to noise ratio is generally pretty low IME because
           | they optimize for volume. While they can give me data points
           | about what lowballers offer, I personally haven't gained
           | anything from this info, so I'd optimize elsewhere. YMMV.
           | 
           | 2) you can often infer salary range from the company name and
           | job title alone. As a rule of thumb, if it's an no-name
           | company, they're almost always going to lowball if you're at
           | senior level. If your goal is to raise your salary quickly,
           | then rather than looking at sideways increments, you'll want
           | to target "obvious" upgrades (e.g. if one is junior, look for
           | "senior" roles; if you're senior at a local non-US company,
           | look for US-based multinationals; or just go for broke and
           | try for unicorns exclusively)
        
             | alexc05 wrote:
             | Those are incredibly good points. If you look at the
             | levels.fyi data I think this pattern applies really well to
             | the people within the bottom half of the graph.
             | 
             | There's ALWAYS the option of trying to go from "No Name" ->
             | "Big Name" but I also feel like that can be a harder path
             | to take. When the person reaching out is a "Meta" or a
             | "Netflix" I know that I don't need to ask how much.
             | 
             | I'm pretty sure the number I got there would be a 4x or
             | 5x... in Meta's case though, it's the leetcode stopping me
             | (2 mediums in 45 minutes? Maybe if I wasn't dad to a
             | toddlerI could study enough to get there, though my other
             | problem is I keep getting bored of the grind and wind up
             | building cool shit for fun instead), in the Netflix case
             | it's because they keep saying "NO" (hahahahaha)
             | 
             | The optimal path here for the bulk of the developers in the
             | middle of the pack is to make a move when the person
             | reaching out has a role at a different no-name shop that is
             | 50% higher than their current.
             | 
             | Remember there are a few vectors for that big salary bump.
             | One where you were grossly underpaid from the moment you
             | were hired, but another one that pops up might be that
             | you've been in the role for a couple years and you have
             | been so busy and engaged that you didn't even NOTICE that
             | the market popped in the meantime, your no-name-company
             | doesn't really pay attention to keeping up with the market
             | and the persona reaching out is ALSO picking you for a spot
             | that has a significant increase in responsibility.
             | 
             | I do think that the "reply to everyone" model starts to
             | fall down once you're at an Uber, or some other big logo.
             | 
             | The best part about advice is once you've heard it you can
             | choose to ignore it on a case by case basis.
             | 
             | :D
             | 
             | I've PERSONALLY only ever heard the "I ignore recruiters"
             | jokes so the idea that they're this tremendous fountain of
             | untapped knowledge was pretty wild to me.
             | 
             | OOOH!! One more thing about the leetcode grind. I'd ALSO
             | argue that if you're in the middle of your grind and a 50%
             | raise comes along, it's probably a clever move to pause the
             | grind for long enough to take the raise and then get back
             | to work on the grind while you're making way more.
        
               | lhorie wrote:
               | > The optimal path here for the bulk of the developers in
               | the middle of the pack is to make a move when the person
               | reaching out has a role at a different no-name shop that
               | is 50% higher than their current
               | 
               | I think it's worth noting that 50% bumps were
               | historically nowhere as realistic as they are today with
               | the current job market. At least from my convos w/
               | recruiters over the years, large bumps would normally
               | imply some very tangible upgrade, like a corresponding
               | job title change. A 30-50k bump back in ~2015 typically
               | meant moving from a dev role to a role w/ significant
               | leadership/managerial responsibilities.
               | 
               | Being able to command 50% bumps without a significant
               | change in levels of responsibilities in today's market is
               | definitely an anomaly from a historical perspective, but
               | under these circumstances it definitely makes sense to
               | consider lateral job changes to get in on those juicy
               | market dynamics.
        
           | eatonphil wrote:
           | I think you could get the same effect but in like 6-8
           | sentences, 1-2 paragraphs.
           | 
           | If I saw this text in a response, personally (and I'm not a
           | recruiter), I'd move on since the person seems hard to
           | handle.
           | 
           | But yeah my approach is different in the first place. I only
           | respond to recruiters who seem to put good thought and
           | background research into their conversation starter.
        
             | alexc05 wrote:
             | I'd love to see your version of the same thing. The exact
             | response isn't really as important as writing something
             | that is authentic and in "your voice"
             | 
             | You're probably right that a different response would work
             | well for you.
             | 
             | Though if a recruiter wasn't willing to read through that
             | for the ~$30k payday I'd represent if they are successful,
             | maybe that's one that I don't want to work with either.
             | 
             | But we all gravitate towards people who we think we'd fit
             | with. Maybe someone skips over me for coming across as a
             | stuffy and a lot of work and maybe someone else says
             | "finally a type-a jackass like me! we're gonna crush this
             | thing"
             | 
             | ha ha ha
        
               | notapenny wrote:
               | I'd cut that whole message down to this:
               | 
               | "Thanks for reaching out, could you send along the
               | company name, a job description and total compensation
               | details for the role?"
               | 
               | Get to the core of what you're asking. The rest of the
               | response is needlessly long-winded. You don't want them
               | to waste your time, and that is a fair ask in our
               | industry, but you also don't need to waste theirs.
        
       | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
       | What is sad, is what has happened to the industry, over time.
       | 
       | When I was younger, recruiters would woo you, and would act as
       | your advocate. They would sing your praises (sometimes, with a
       | bit of "embellishment") to the prospective employer.
       | 
       | They also made quite a bit of money.
       | 
       | I suspect that outfits like monster.com devastated the
       | "concierge" type of recruiter.
       | 
       | Also, there were contractor specialists. They acted almost
       | exactly like talent agents, getting a commission, whenever they
       | successfully found a contract for their clients. I dealt with a
       | number of them (as an employer) over the years.
       | 
       | I think the "agents" are a thing of the past. Not exactly sure
       | what killed them.
       | 
       | These days, everybody, in every profession, is obsessed with
       | scale. Lots of small numbers, as opposed to a few big ones.
       | 
       | I assume that "self-service" sites have accelerated that
       | transition.
       | 
       | If anyone ever saw the movie _Jerry Maguire_ , it sort of laments
       | the same kind of metamorphosis, in the sports agent field.
       | 
       | I have been rather shocked at the uncouth behavior that has been
       | directed my way, by recruiters. I've been told that it's because
       | I'm older. They haven't done or said anything to dissuade me from
       | that point of view.
       | 
       | Dealing with today's recruiters was one of a number of reasons
       | that I threw in the towel on looking for work, and just accepted
       | that I'm in early retirement.
       | 
       | In any case, I am sad to see the change, but folks seem OK with
       | the state of the industry, so I guess that it's really just sour
       | grapes, on my part.
        
       | tra3 wrote:
       | Great advice, in my opinion.
       | 
       | The incentives for recruiters are clear; to get you hired. They
       | cannot however force a hire and there's a threshold for
       | submitting duds -- their clients will stop working with them.
       | 
       | I look at recruiters as a helping hand in the hiring process.
       | That said I've had a couple that have wasted my time, so there's
       | that.
       | 
       | Typically, unless you're getting flooded, it takes almost nothing
       | to engage with them temporarily. I like the approach the author
       | recommends. Recruiters are folks that are trying to make a living
       | too, there's no need to be nasty.
        
       | emilyridler wrote:
        
       | MattGaiser wrote:
       | Eh, you need to use some heuristics on them. Any with "urgent
       | requirement" should be utterly ignored. A personalized LinkedIn
       | message is worth taking.
       | 
       | The problem is that far too many of those companies are using an
       | external recruiter to fill the job as the job is low paid
       | garbage.
        
       | beeskneecaps wrote:
       | Ignore recruiter if they:
       | 
       | * are a part of a large firm
       | 
       | * use multiple fonts, sizes, or any color in their emails
       | 
       | * send an email _and_ an InMail
       | 
       | * text or call you
       | 
       | * jokingly or seriously refer to themselves as a stalker
       | 
       | * automatically substitute in your skills or past company name
       | 
       | * ask for your resume when they can obviously download the
       | LinkedIn pdf
       | 
       | * don't disclose comp
       | 
       | * don't disclose the company name
       | 
       | * use tracking pixels or redirect links
       | 
       | * send an automated sequence of follow-up emails (4 follow-ups =
       | bot)
       | 
       | Write them back if they seem like a human! "Not interested at
       | this time, but let's keep in touch. Thanks for your time" should
       | do.
        
         | lbriner wrote:
         | It's no unreasonable to check if the Resume on Linked In is up
         | to date by asking for an up to date one is it?
        
         | l33t2328 wrote:
         | How can you detect tracking pixels?
        
           | woodruffw wrote:
           | Tracking pixels are just embedded 1x1 images in HTML emails.
           | They're not hidden; they're just stuffed in the rendered
           | HTML. For example, here's one from B&H photo:
           | <img src="https://www.bhphotovideo.com/bimages/email-
           | icons/1pximgfortracking.jpg?email=status" />
           | 
           | Detecting them automatically is probably tricky, but you can
           | avoid the entire problem by not loading external resources in
           | HTML emails (or, better yet, always load the plaintext
           | version of the email.)
        
           | asadlionpk wrote:
           | Turn off "auto-load images in emails" option in gmail. If a
           | plain-looking email has that banner at top "click here to
           | load images", there is a pixel-tracker in there.
        
             | faeyanpiraat wrote:
             | Or just a company logo..
        
           | orangepurple wrote:
           | Fastmail shows a banner that indicates image links are
           | included in the email and asks you if you want to load them
        
             | devoutsalsa wrote:
             | I recently switched from Gmail to Fastmail. I have to say I
             | really like it.
        
         | AnimalMuppet wrote:
         | If they seem like an intelligent human, don't just write them
         | back. _Keep their name._ When you decide that you 're looking,
         | let them know.
        
       | gwbas1c wrote:
       | I have one rule about life: I do not work with spammers. This
       | includes my career.
       | 
       | Recently, I've been solicited for jobs where it was clear that
       | the recruiter never looked at my resume. (I'm a software
       | engineer, and the roles had nothing to do with software
       | engineering.) I flagged these as SPAM.
       | 
       | Reading resumes is _work._ Reading job openings is _work._ When a
       | recruiter spams a job opening without screening the recipients,
       | they 're just trying to push their work onto strangers.
        
       | thrower123 wrote:
       | Recruiters need to pass the bozo test to prove that they have
       | read and understood the first sentence of my LinkedIn profile
       | before they rate anything beyond having their email reported as
       | spam.
       | 
       | It's a high bar for them to cross; I've only seen two or three in
       | the past few years, and those I think were sold my data by
       | Triplebyte instead.
        
       | michelb wrote:
       | Obviously this is geared towards software development, and my
       | personal experience with recruiters for software jobs is similar
       | to most here.
       | 
       | However, I sometimes help out my client's HR departments and the
       | recruitment experience for other jobs is vastly different. Like
       | searching for expert welders or other specific skillsets, not
       | unlike the ones that exists in software development (+10 years
       | java, +15 years embedded C, etc.). They almost always use
       | external recruiters for the first filtering, and they deliver
       | quality candidates. Expensive fees, but worth it.
       | 
       | Why is this such a problem with recruitment for software
       | development? Are there recruitment shops that DO understand the
       | differences in software development?
        
         | mulmen wrote:
         | The uncomfortable truth is that quality doesn't matter in
         | software. When you need something welded you need an expert.
         | Most companies don't need or even want a candidate with 10
         | years of Java experience. They want someone with barely enough
         | skills to ship the minimum portion of the feature the business
         | will accept. It's an evolutionary process. If companies wanted
         | high quality candidates the market would deliver a solution. In
         | software it just doesn't matter for most cases.
        
           | valdiorn wrote:
           | I'd argue that it does matter, however it's incredibly
           | difficult to measure "quality" of a software project, so
           | there's no real way to distinguish crappy software engineers
           | from good ones. Even people with 15+ years of experience have
           | often just been delivering dogshit for 15+ years.
        
       | jyu wrote:
       | You know how everyone hates real estate agents? Imagine if a real
       | estate agent did not need to take courses, become licensed, and
       | face repercussions for unethical and illegal conduct.
       | 
       | That's what a recruiter is.
        
       | city41 wrote:
       | I think there is a better middle ground.
       | 
       | > you don't want to be a jerk to the one in 100 who have taken
       | the time to carefully craft a high quality message to you alone.
       | 
       | I agree with this. If I get the sense the recruiter put effort
       | into the email, then I will usually respond. I'm sure I still
       | fall for automated messages with this. But some recruiters really
       | do their homework, really research you, have interesting and
       | fitting opportunities, and can be valuable.
       | 
       | The 99.99% of recruiters who are just spamming? Totally ignore
       | them.
        
       | dsr_ wrote:
       | The typical recruiting-house recruiter has a script that was
       | given to them by someone else, has no particular job in mind for
       | you, and does not know the difference between Java and
       | JavaScript. They are, in short, one small step above spammers.
       | Unless you are currently thinking about changing jobs, you should
       | definitely ignore them.
       | 
       | None of that applies to an in-house recruiter. Someone who works
       | in HR for the hiring company, directly, may have years of
       | experience, good training, and have a good idea of what the
       | hiring manager is looking for. You shouldn't ignore them,
       | although if you're entirely happy you should have a short message
       | prepared -- "Thanks for thinking of me. I'm happy with my current
       | position, but you never know what the future holds. Feel free to
       | check in with me again in six months or so."
       | 
       | TL;DR: reputation counts.
        
         | mymllnthaccount wrote:
         | My experience has been the opposite. 3rd party recruiters cold
         | messaging me have led to my last two job changes and
         | significant bumps in salary. One of them put my salary in at a
         | higher level than I had asked for.
         | 
         | In house recruiters on the other hand have not been more
         | knowledgeable about the team they are trying to fill for. Also,
         | I have a theory that companies that are willing to pay a huge
         | commission check to 3rd party recruiters are more likely to pay
         | more for talent.
        
         | alexc05 wrote:
         | Hmmm... maybe I should have been clearer and more explicit
         | about the fact that there are times when you ignore the script
         | entirely.
         | 
         | Companies that are known to pay top of market... Like you're
         | not going to hammer Facebook or Netflix by saying "how much
         | sucker?" if you're in a bottom of the market bracket.
         | 
         | I also ignore the script when it is a company that I'm really
         | interested in and excited by.
         | 
         | I should clean that up. Thanks for the comments.
        
           | llampx wrote:
           | I liked your article, you don't need to cover every edge case
           | imho. Its on people who want to take inspiration from your
           | script whether they apply it like a sledge hammer or a
           | goldsmith's tool.
        
         | swagasaurus-rex wrote:
         | Absolutely true. 3rd party recruiting agencies have very
         | different motives than an in-house HR department recruitment.
         | 
         | An easy tell-tale sign is that they withhold the name of the
         | company until they get you on the phone. They have a contract
         | saying once you're in direct contact with the recruiter, you
         | are in their pipeline and they get rights to bill a portion of
         | your contract.
         | 
         | 3rd party agencies are incentivized to get you the most amount
         | of money they can, so they can skim off the top. They are
         | highly motivated to move you through and get you signed as
         | quickly as possible, qualified or not.
         | 
         | In house recruiting doesn't have this constant need to move
         | candidates, and will be fast or slow depending on the needs
         | within the company.
        
       | lifeplusplus wrote:
       | Not sure how this got upvoted
        
       | jedberg wrote:
       | A great tip I heard was to put something at the top of your
       | LinkedIn profile like "If you're messaging me about a job
       | opening, please tell me your favorite song at the top of your
       | message".
       | 
       | That way you can throw away any message that doesn't start with
       | the answer because you know it was a bulk mail and they didn't
       | actually read your profile.
        
       | rendall wrote:
       | I dunno. I've been a SWE for almost 20 years now, and I just got
       | a recruitment email for "Senior Manager of Partner Relations".
       | I'm honestly not sure what that even is, but it's definitely not
       | code monkey. Email included all kindsa reassurances, which, even
       | if I were in the field of "Partner Relations", would make me
       | pretty nervous:
       | 
       | We do not conduct fake interviews
       | 
       | We will not ask you for references unless you are being
       | considered for a job
       | 
       | We will give you feedback the moment we get it from our customer
       | 
       | etc.
       | 
       | Do I really have to "not ignore" this recruiter?
        
       | dokka wrote:
       | I also strongly disagree. All the jobs I've taken at the advice
       | of a recruiter were the worst jobs I've ever had. Even if the job
       | matched everything on my checklist and I was able to visit the
       | company and talk to the employees before signing on, it was still
       | a terrible place to work. Why? Because it was in everyone's best
       | interest to hide how miserable the job actually was. And yes, the
       | salary was higer, but the jobs didn't last. The longest I was
       | able to tolerate these jobs was about 2 years each. Which didn't
       | look very good on my resume. Switching jobs every 2 years is
       | probably ok for some, but I wouldn't hire anyone that has a
       | consistent record of that. My advice is to find places that you
       | would want to work and apply there on your own.
        
       | yupper32 wrote:
       | I ignore all recruiters for a few reasons:
       | 
       | 1. It's not like they give up. I've been receiving the same
       | emails from the same firms for years and years.
       | 
       | 2. You can't just respond. The few times I've responded years ago
       | meant that they follow up at an even more frequent pace, even
       | when I made it clear I wasn't interested. Sometimes calling me
       | after I said no!
       | 
       | 3. It's clear very few of them actually read my profile.
       | 
       | 4. Very few are upfront with compensation.
        
       | 1270018080 wrote:
       | Counterpoint: Always ignore recruiters.
        
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       | bravetraveler wrote:
       | I ignore recruiters all the time lol.
       | 
       | I haven't had issues with finding good paying work - history,
       | references, and a good bit of research in the places where I
       | apply has served me well /shrug
        
       | rr808 wrote:
       | Does anyone know what the salary range is now though? It seems
       | pretty random. Levels.fyi has a lot of very high numbers. Blind
       | has crazy high numbers. I'm not sure if people are lying or
       | including RSUs that have gone up 10x.
       | 
       | Most experienced people in HCOL areas still earning 150k-200k
       | max. When I talk to a recruited and ask for 300k often they'll
       | say its possible but dont say if you have to be a superstar to
       | get that. Meta seems paying 500k+ often and random big tech cos
       | are all over the place.
        
       | kstrauser wrote:
       | I'm not replying to the guy who wants me to move to Tampa for "up
       | to $60K" as a PHP developer. (Nothing against Tampa or PHP. I'm
       | just not moving there for that.)
       | 
       | But occasionally I'll get an email like:
       | 
       | "Hi! I saw from your LinkedIn that you used to do X, but now
       | you're doing Y. That's an interesting progression! I'm working
       | with a company who needs people with experience in X who'd rather
       | be doing Y, because they'd like to be on Y. I also see that
       | you're interested in Z, and you'd be reporting to our CTO who
       | wrote a book about Z. Want to hear more?"
       | 
       | I'm not looking, but I send them a nice reply and remember their
       | names. If I _were_ looking, that's the kind of recruiter I'd want
       | to talk to.
        
       | ghostoftiber wrote:
       | I like forcing recruiters to voicemail. It's the same for email.
       | This doesn't mean I am ignoring them but it does give me a way to
       | filter who I even reply to. If they send me a badly written, very
       | generic email for something like Helpdesk Level 1, something I'm
       | not even doing or isn't on my resume, or CEO of Company X for
       | $10/hr, I don't even reply. The voicemail works the same way - if
       | they can't seem to render a sentence, be topical, or sound
       | conversant in the local language, I just delete it.
       | 
       | If it sounds remotely interesting, I might send them an email
       | back. The exception is AWS/Azure/Google which is heavily
       | recruiting for TAMs and they're having a heck of a time filling
       | the seats and keeping them filled. If they're
       | $MAJOR_CLOUD_PROVIDER I always ask them if its for a TAM or
       | similar role up front.
       | 
       | I have a small blacklist of companies too - folks I know who are
       | going to go through the entire interview process and it doesn't
       | matter whats said because they're going to lowball the crap out
       | of people. I don't want to work for bottom-feeders.
       | 
       | The "good offers" I get typically come from someone who has seen
       | an open source contribution from me, or someone I know from
       | consulting. If you find yourself jammed up in your career and you
       | can't find that next lillypad, try consulting to build up your
       | connections. It's a good way to get the inside story at
       | companies, and also if you find a company you really like, it's
       | very possible to arrange something so that they hire you on some
       | split between your consulting rate and your pay rate so you and
       | them win. Check your employment contract first, local laws, etc.
       | Check my profile for an email to send your resume to if you want
       | to chat.
        
       | mv4 wrote:
       | Horrible email response: long-winded, cringe-inducing, poorly
       | structured.
       | 
       | Just state clearly what kind of information you need in order to
       | continue the conversation (or not). Even a simple "what's the pay
       | like" would be more effective.
        
       | honkycat wrote:
       | Two years ago I quit my job, then covid kicked off and I was out
       | of work for 6 months.
       | 
       | During that time I was relying on recruiters to hunt down leads
       | for me.
       | 
       | Nothing was coming up! They kept trying to feed me full-stack and
       | front-end roles, and I kept saying no thank you.
       | 
       | Then, I just started sending out my own resumes. And I instantly
       | got more callbacks in the MONTHS I spent with recruiters.
       | 
       | I have a few suspicions:
       | 
       | 1. The recruiters present themselves as having a "relationship"
       | with companies, but they actually don't, they are just
       | bullshitting you.
       | 
       | 2. The jobs people actually want end up getting filled, so if you
       | end up with a recruiter, you are going to be ending up with
       | bottom-tier opportunities.
        
       | caffeine wrote:
       | I've been doing this for years. It's good advice.
        
       | lnxg33k1 wrote:
       | >> If you respond, does that mean you're being disloyal to your
       | current employer?
       | 
       | Is it a thing? Am I Sir Worker of Devs I?
        
       | vmception wrote:
       | How could anyone come to this contrarian conclusion, even after
       | reading the article it is baffling.
       | 
       | There is a time and place for in-house recruiters and third party
       | recruiters. This article does not identify them and obsessively
       | takes the contrarian view with no supporting rationale for doing
       | so.
        
         | alexc05 wrote:
         | Hey! Thanks for your feedback. I would love to try and
         | understand what you're saying but I'm struggling a little.
         | 
         | Can you explain what you mean by "There is a time and place for
         | in-house recruiters and third party recruiters." what is that
         | time and place?
         | 
         | I honestly tried to be really nuanced (but clearly failed a
         | little, thanks for that data point).
         | 
         | I think it does speak to the fact that I have seen 20 years of
         | the prevailing narrative that there is zero value to recruiters
         | and this realization was, to me, pretty mind-blowing.
         | 
         | I appreciate that "never" is a word that lacks nuance, maybe
         | that was a little too clickbait of me.
         | 
         | Sorry for that.
         | 
         | Thanks again for the feedback.
        
           | vmception wrote:
           | I like third party recruiters because I like to use them
           | strategically. I know how they are compensated and they learn
           | what I want to do, so I could get raises every 15-18 months
           | by switching companies that they placed me at and they could
           | get paid multiple times because turns out I'm a reliable
           | employee!
           | 
           | We knew to ignore each other for 15 months. It was a good
           | symbiotic relationship. Sometimes they knew I wanted side
           | gigs and would hook me up with the companies that "needed
           | something yesterday!" while they knew I was employed at one
           | of their client companies. sometimes the recruiter hired me
           | on their payroll directly instead of letting me be a
           | contractor with their clients. it was a fun time for some
           | time.
           | 
           | This has almost nothing to do with random outreach from them
           | on linkedin. It is barely the same topic. But thats what I
           | used them for.
           | 
           | In-house recruiters are distinctly different animals with a
           | couple of overlapping daily tasks and the same name, but the
           | way to use them is very different. A company with one of
           | those wouldn't be using third party recruiters and thats
           | fine, in house recruiters can somewhat bat for you in a
           | unique and more holistic way but they are still just
           | gatekeepers you want to get passed so you can talk technical
           | stuff with hiring managers.
        
           | Kalium wrote:
           | I wouldn't go so far as to say _zero_ value, but I would say
           | that engaging with third-party recruiters is generally an
           | activity with a negative expected value. Generally they don
           | 't actually have or aren't willing to share the incredibly
           | useful real and direct insights you wisely point to.
           | 
           | Personally, I've found that high quality messages from
           | recruiters are usually painfully obvious. They lead with the
           | name of the company and show evidence that the recruiter read
           | my profile. These are so rare that I completely skip any kind
           | of bot-ish response to handle them.
           | 
           | Most of the responses I can expect to the kind,
           | compassionate, empathetic script you've so helpfully provided
           | will not contain all three data points requested. At best, we
           | can expect to get a JD and maybe a company name. Comp is
           | usually withheld and the cycle goes around again.
           | 
           | Treating the recruiter-spammers as humans, unfortunately,
           | does not really seem to produce the results we would all love
           | it to. It mostly seems to be treated as proof that the
           | spammer has hooked a fish and just has to reel them in.
        
       | jugg1es wrote:
       | My problem with responding to recruiters - especially FAANG - is
       | that once you start a conversation it's hard to stop. I find it
       | very hard to leave if I'm in the middle of a big project.
        
       | pizza234 wrote:
       | I give an extremely simple answer, where I state that in the
       | present, for $real_reason, I'm not looking for other
       | opportunities, but in the future, I may. It worked!
       | 
       | I actually spend a little bit of effort to filter out (block)
       | incompetent recruiters, but that's all.
        
       | stakkur wrote:
       | I have to say--none of this advice would be actionable in all my
       | previous experiences with recruiters.
       | 
       | The truest statement is the one the author makes up front:
       | >Recruiters are just cold calling
       | 
       | More accurately, they're contacting a _lot_ of people who 's
       | profile contains their search keywords. _No recruiter is
       | contacting only you for a req they 're trying to fill_.
        
       | lizknope wrote:
       | A lot of recruiters won't list the company that they are
       | recruiting for. I assume this is because you could just apply to
       | the company directly and they wouldn't get their fee.
       | 
       | One time I asked the company who they were recruiting for. They
       | told me the company name and I replied with "I already work
       | there."
       | 
       | This was on LinkedIn where my current employer is on my page and
       | anyone can see it.
        
       | tudorconstantin wrote:
       | I loved the article. I worked in sales for ~2 years before
       | starting my career as a software engineer +15 years ago, so
       | knowing how downputting rejections are, I try to treat all the
       | salespeople as human beings, so I try to respond to all of them.
       | My strategy is to make them refusing me, by requiring "only" a
       | +30% i increase.
        
       | JohnWhigham wrote:
       | A recruiter got me my first job a decade ago when I was fresh out
       | of college and my internship place didn't hire me and I was
       | panicking to find something as I didn't have a backup plan. He
       | helped me interview at multiple places until he found one for me
       | (the pay sucked but it was a job). So yeah, they're annoying, but
       | I do understand their place.
        
       | Spinnaker_ wrote:
       | I also recommend a response to every recruiter, but you don't
       | need to explain your privilege, you don't need to suck up to
       | them, and you don't need to justify your actions.
       | 
       | "Hey ____. Before we move forward, can you provide me with the
       | company name, a job description, and the expected compensation.
       | Regards"
        
         | wnolens wrote:
         | This is what I do. That email in OP is gross.
         | 
         | "Hi, thanks for the message. I would appreciate as much detail
         | as you can via message. Interested in location, compensation,
         | and what specific problems they need help solving. Thanks!"
         | 
         | I don't take a call unless the work description is specific
         | enough. I don't want to work on your "backend". If asked, I
         | tell them my comp expectation is min +50k over what I currently
         | make. And I sure as hell am not moving to the bay area.
        
         | ryandrake wrote:
         | I don't like to ignore recruiters, but it's hard to answer them
         | correctly. I'm always looking for a nice way to articulate "I'm
         | comfortable with my current job, but interested in exploring
         | whether I'm being compensated fairly. I don't want to slam any
         | doors. But, I am also not up for the hazing session of grinding
         | leetcode, filling out online forms, doing take-home tests,
         | phone screens, and 5 rounds of interviews, just to find out at
         | the end of it all what my current market value is."
        
         | jeremywho wrote:
         | Yes, his response template is way too verbose.
        
         | Kalium wrote:
         | > "Hey ____. Before we move forward, can you provide me with
         | the company name, a job description, and the expected
         | compensation. Regards"
         | 
         | I've found that this makes 80-90% of recruiters go completely
         | silent. For some reason, asking for this basic information
         | scares off the vast majority of recruiters.
         | 
         | I'm genuinely unsure what I - or they - get out of dragging
         | this out into a screenful of blah blah blah.
        
           | sergiotapia wrote:
           | That hasn't been my experience. I always get the salary
           | range, equity package, and what stage/growth the company is
           | at currently and where they want to take things. All in the
           | first 30 minute call.
        
             | Kalium wrote:
             | I've tried a fair number of those calls. You might be
             | surprised by how many recruiters don't really have salary
             | range or meaningful equity details (preferences, shares
             | outstanding, etc.) but _really_ want me to be excited for
             | the great opportunity to get in on the ground floor of a
             | rapidly growing business.
             | 
             | To my eyes, thirty minutes is a pretty expensive way to
             | find out if a position is in line with my comp and the
             | company one I want to work for. It could just as easily be
             | handled in thirty seconds.
             | 
             | Last month I had a quick 20-minute call with a recruiter
             | who couldn't tell me anything about the company or the
             | position that I hadn't found in thirty seconds of
             | searching. This is not an unusual experience,
             | unfortunately. The only explanation for that call I can
             | find is that the recruiter sincerely expected to impress me
             | with a phone sales approach.
        
           | joezydeco wrote:
           | They go silent, or they also give a canned response about
           | being competitive in the market when it comes to comp
           | (without naming a number).
           | 
           | If they do name a number and you reply it's too low, they
           | again go into a canned response of "we're willing to reach
           | (++x) for the right candidate", which is just as much
           | bullshit as before. You'll complete an interview cycle and
           | get the lowball offer of (original x).
           | 
           | TLDR they'll lie about comp and never completely answer you.
        
             | Kalium wrote:
             | Sometimes I say something like "I'm glad to hear you're
             | competitive! I'm currently being offered
             | $REAL_BIG_COMPANY_NUMBER, so I look forward to our
             | conversation." Generally this ends the conversation.
        
           | lbriner wrote:
           | One of the most common reasons is simply that they don't want
           | you to go direct to the company in question and bypass their
           | commission. If they give you too much, it is very easy to do
           | and many companies will recruit directly and the recruiter
           | would have no legal basis to do anything about that.
           | 
           | On the other hand, because of commission, it is in the
           | recruiter's interest to get you as much money as possible so
           | you might get a better offer via them than you would if you
           | went direct.
        
             | joezydeco wrote:
             | 9 times out of 10 the job description you get from the
             | recruiter is a lazy cut-and-paste from the actual company's
             | input.
             | 
             | It's never anonymized and simply pasting it into Google
             | will almost always get you a lead on the hiring company.
             | 
             | Another lead is if they give you the company location.
             | There is only one company on the planet, for example, that
             | has R&D offices in both Mossvile and Aurora, Illinois.
        
               | bengy5959 wrote:
               | Also 9 times out of 10 its a bait and switch for a
               | different company. Whenever I've worked with these
               | recruiters they always "see whats a good fit" with my
               | resume and its never the company that was in the job
               | description.
        
             | ornornor wrote:
             | > it is in the recruiter's interest to get you as much
             | money as possible so you might get a better offer via them
             | 
             | Up to a point. They get a fraction of the marginal increase
             | in salary, and they'd much sooner "close the sale" than
             | risking having someone else fill the job to try and get an
             | extra 500$ commission.
             | 
             | It's the same story with real estate agents: selling your
             | house for an extra 20k might be a lot to you but to the
             | agent it's an extra 400$ in commission (exact percentage
             | varies). In other words, it's hardly worth risking the
             | seller losing interest or working an extra 2-3 weeks for so
             | little.
        
               | pishpash wrote:
               | You can split the extra margin 50/50 so your motivations
               | are exactly equal.
        
             | wnevets wrote:
             | > it is in the recruiter's interest to get you as much
             | money as possible so you might get a better offer via them
             | than you would if you went direct.
             | 
             | Unlikely. Its way better for the recruiter to focus on the
             | quantity of hires rather than trying to increase the
             | salaries of a smaller number of them. It takes way more
             | work and makes them less money to help increase your salary
             | by 20% than just finding another role and hire.
        
             | mcrider wrote:
             | I think the _one_ time I responded to a recruiter and went
             | through the process was because they told me the company up
             | front. Unless its an internal recruiter, I never get that
             | info. I was interested in the company and I figured they
             | could help speed me through the process (which I believe
             | was true). I didn 't take the job but I appreciated this
             | person not BSing me.
        
             | Kalium wrote:
             | I understand their fear of being cut out.
             | 
             | I want them to understand that I need to know up-front if
             | the position is interesting enough to be worth investing my
             | time in at all. I _could_ sacrifice my time and energy to
             | assuage their fears, but every time I 've done that in the
             | past ten years there has been zero return on investment.
             | 
             | A reader might, at this point, optimistically point out
             | that the next recruiter could be different. This reader
             | would be correct. That could indeed be the case! Yet every
             | time I wind up deciding to try the optimistic approach I
             | wind up on a phonecall in which I learn that the company
             | isn't someone I want to work for, the JD isn't one I
             | actually want to work on, the comp isn't nearly enough, or
             | some combination thereof. Generally the comp is so far off
             | it has no change to even be negotiated to something I would
             | consider. Often they try to sell me on a 40%-60% pay cut,
             | because a slice of that is worth a lot to them (it's
             | happened twice this month).
             | 
             | At this point I'm quite tired of paying optimism's price to
             | assuage the fears of recruiters. The kindness is not
             | returned. I understand others might choose differently.
        
             | seneca wrote:
             | > On the other hand, because of commission, it is in the
             | recruiter's interest to get you as much money as possible
             | so you might get a better offer via them than you would if
             | you went direct.
             | 
             | This isn't my experience at all, having worked with
             | recruiters both as a hirer and hiree. Recruiters typically
             | are looking to close as many positions as possible, making
             | money on volume. Their incentives are to spend as little
             | time as they can getting candidates just enough so they say
             | yes.
             | 
             | They typically are paid a percentage of a candidates first
             | year salary. At first glance this might seem to mean
             | they're motivated to get you as much as possible. In
             | reality it means that the effort to get an extra $20k,
             | which might make a big difference for the candidate, only
             | results in an extra e.g. $2000 for them. They're not going
             | to spend time on that that could be spent on closing
             | another candidate, and getting another full commission, if
             | they think the candidate will accept either way.
             | 
             | The money a recruiter is paid also often comes from the
             | same budget a potential signing bonus would. The fact that
             | they take 10% of the first year salary makes companies less
             | forthcoming with extra money for the candidate.
        
               | datavirtue wrote:
               | A lot of the recruiters have different businesses. Some
               | may be recruiting for direct hire but alot of them retain
               | them as employees as they contract for six months or
               | however long...sometimes years..for an hourly rate. They
               | pocket the difference over what is paid to the engineer.
        
         | mrweasel wrote:
         | Yep, at least tell me who your recruiting for. I have a list of
         | companies I don't care to work for, so let's not waist time on
         | those.
         | 
         | A number of recruiters are also just bad at their job. I worked
         | as a .Net developer 12 years ago, but most recruiters
         | apparently aren't smart enough to figure out that not only is
         | my knowledge horrible out of date, it might also not interest
         | me anymore.
        
         | Philip-J-Fry wrote:
         | Yep, short and sweet. If they can't answer that then they
         | aren't worth your time.
         | 
         | Works most of the time for me.
        
         | commandlinefan wrote:
         | Or just a canned, "Thanks for getting in touch, but I'm not
         | looking for a change right now."
        
           | dewey wrote:
           | If it's just that you might as well just ignore it and not
           | cause any additional noise.
        
             | derwiki wrote:
             | Not GP but I can't shake that it feels rude, even if
             | expected.
             | 
             | But more practically: if I decline after the first, I don't
             | get the other 4 emails they have queued up for me
        
               | wccrawford wrote:
               | If they cold-contact you, it is _not_ rude to simply
               | ignore them.
               | 
               | If you have an existing relationship with them, then it
               | could be considered rude, but it would depend on your
               | relationship.
        
               | taormina wrote:
               | I can tell Amazon isn't banging down your door.
               | Seriously, it's insane how no one at Amazon Recruiting
               | talks to anyone else in Amazon Recruiting.
        
               | weeblewobble wrote:
               | Amazon is getting ridiculous. I get an email from them
               | almost every day
        
               | delecti wrote:
               | I've started getting very firm with them. I respond to
               | each email with "no thank you, also stop contacting me,
               | also here's the last person I asked to stop contacting
               | me, but who didn't." We'll see how long it works, if at
               | all, but after 3 separate Amazon recruiters contacted me
               | last month I was fed up.
        
               | muh_gradle wrote:
               | They're all cold emailing you with a canned email. It's
               | about as close to automated as possible.
        
               | OJFord wrote:
               | I replied to a first follow up (~'I don't think I'm a
               | good fit', nevermind anything else) this morning as it
               | happens. Almost always ignore; took one as far as
               | interview a few years ago, which I never heard back from
               | (no result/feedback) until a week or so ago! But I might
               | make that a policy, if they 'just check in' after the
               | first email then may as well try to head it off there I
               | suppose.
        
         | sebastianconcpt wrote:
         | This is what I'm doing so far. I typically answer stating how I
         | would like to work and hint my conditions and let them know
         | that I'm happy to follow up if they see a fit.
        
         | BeefWellington wrote:
         | It's amazing how these basic questions are often like
         | kryptonite to these people.
         | 
         | Protip: If you want senior people to respond, you should
         | probably include that information up front.
         | 
         | I've done several interviews at places only to get to the stage
         | we're talking money and suddenly it becomes clear they were
         | expecting to pay about a third to half of what I currently make
         | for someone in a senior position. Each time I think it could
         | genuinely save a lot of time and effort (and thus money) by
         | just being up front about that stuff.
        
       | lxe wrote:
       | I only reply to recruiters from companies that I'm actually
       | really interested in (but not currently looking to move), or
       | places where my former colleagues work.
        
       | justinlloyd wrote:
       | Like most things in life, 90% of everything is crap. That goes
       | double for recruiters. I've worked with only two competent
       | recruiters in my very long career, who have, at most, gotten me a
       | low double-digit raise at best. I've had one recruiter royally
       | screw up an offer to the point the company rescinded, and I've
       | had another recruiter use coercion on me to not work at SONY for
       | 20% more than the other company was offering. But as only a
       | single data point, I can quite emphatically say no recruiter has
       | ever doubled my money for me.
       | 
       | I will also say that most recruiter outreach, even in this hot
       | market, is absolutely lousy, and the compensation on offer is
       | below what I am currently earning at a company I am exceptionally
       | happy with doing work I love, and I don't consider myself to be
       | overly compensated.
       | 
       | Most recruiters that do any outreach immediately ghost me when I
       | ask about compensation range, and if compensation range is
       | mentioned, it has yet to be more than what I currently make. Once
       | or twice in the past three months I've had an "upto $X for the
       | right candidate" where $X is only 10% more than what I am
       | currently making, so it is highly unlikely I will get that upper
       | bound.
       | 
       | If I responded to every recruiter that reached out to me via
       | email and LinkedIn I'd spend many more hours per day wasting my
       | time than I would care to think about. And most recruiters that
       | reach out to me these days are of the exceptionally low quality
       | churn'n'burn variety.
       | 
       | I currently have three recruiter messages open on LinkedIn, one
       | for an animator with 2+ years of experience, another for someone
       | wanting a mid-level front-end web developer for an AR
       | application, and another for a "senior" Java programmer. I don't
       | do any of those things, didn't even look at my profile or C.V.
       | Just a scattershot approach, which you would think on LinkedIn,
       | with its targetted InMails, it wouldn't be the case. But here we
       | are.
       | 
       | Of the one recruiter out of the three who didn't immediately
       | ghost when asked about compensation (always my first question),
       | the upper bound is $80K below what I currently make, and again, I
       | don't consider myself well compensated.
       | 
       | My recommendation is never waste your time with any recruiter,
       | but if you must, expend it on those that actually work for the
       | company they are hiring for.
        
       | eez0 wrote:
       | There is no one better than yourself to get what you're looking
       | for, so instead of relying in a third party to give you the edge,
       | make sure you're already on the top of the wave.
       | 
       | I never work with external recruiters (staffing agencies)I have
       | made the exception three times, and all of them ended with a poor
       | experience, basically repeating the same information over and
       | over again between them and the people from the actual company.
        
       | atum47 wrote:
       | Maybe once you're a respected programmer with some solid
       | companies on your resumee recruiters maybe nice to you. Fresh out
       | of college, like I was a few years back, recruiters really don't
       | care about you. They spam you likedin inbox and you email with
       | generic messages to see if anyone bites. Back in my day they went
       | as far as sending me whatsapp messages - the funny thing is -
       | they don't even bother to properly answer you.
       | 
       | I was coming back from the south of the country to my city, a
       | long drive, and I received a whatsapp message from a recruiter
       | telling me about an opportunity, since I was fresh out of college
       | looking for a job, I stopped the car to talk to them, only to
       | find out they won't respond you right away. I only got a answer
       | from this person like 3 days later.
        
         | alexc05 wrote:
         | That's baked into the assumption of the script though. If your
         | response is a copy and paste, who cares about the ones that
         | ghost you after one message? Doesn't matter because the cost of
         | interaction was quite low.
         | 
         | If they send the ball back after your initial response THEN you
         | know you can open a conversation up until that point, just
         | assume it is spam and you're spamming them back.
        
       | throckmortra wrote:
       | * no 3rd party recruiters * won't respond if compensation isn't
       | posted up front
       | 
       | My simple rules of engagement
        
       | Ekaros wrote:
       | To me it's pretty clear that I really shouldn't bother with ones
       | that have position I'm not clearly interested in or isn't line
       | with my own career. These are pretty clearly not desirable
       | positions. So why even follow up with that spam.
        
       | andrew_ wrote:
       | I run a small agency in addition to my full-time gig. Every time
       | a recruiter sends me a message I respond with a script that
       | includes criteria for work that I'll do, work that I won't do,
       | and interview limitations. I also include an agency hourly rate
       | which makes most of them run for the hills. Every great once in a
       | while I'll get a short-term contract out of it.
       | 
       | The lone full-time contract I took on came about from recruiter
       | contact, but he wasn't one of those keyword carpet bombing mooks.
       | I've only ever landed one full-time job without a referral in 20
       | years in the industry. Referrals and niche market sites (e.g.
       | AngelList) are the way to go.
        
       | throwingawayyou wrote:
       | I've gone back and forth on this issue. The bottom line, some
       | recruiters help and can get your resume into the right hands.
       | Aka, not on the shit heap.
        
       | JuanitaYoung wrote:
       | Even a handyman can have a good resume. A friend of mine is a
       | handyman and he needed a resume, they wouldn't hire him without
       | it. He needed a resume for part time work
       | https://resumeedge.com/blog/how-to-write-a-resume-for-a-part...,
       | but he didn't know how to do it himself. He got help from experts
       | and the resume was successful. Now he was easily hired.
        
       | xutopia wrote:
       | I reply gently saying that I have no interest unless it is my
       | absolute dream job and describe exactly what that is. They are
       | happy to receive a reply even if my demands seem bonkers.
        
       | praptak wrote:
       | I am currently at my 4th full time job. Each and every one of
       | them I got via someone I knew, even the first one.
       | 
       | I spoke to recruiters but they were pretty useless for getting a
       | job.
        
       | duxup wrote:
       | My current approach:
       | 
       | I don't have time ... the volume of messages is too high, and the
       | amount of 'legitimate' inquiries are too low. And the odds of
       | getting ghosted by the recruiter too high.
       | 
       | If they're a recruiter from a company that I know and they WORK
       | FOR that company, I'll respond.
       | 
       | Having said that I think that is a good article and I really like
       | that email.
        
         | CoastalCoder wrote:
         | Is there a decent way to determine that?
         | 
         | I know there are two extremes: (a) recruiter is a regular
         | employee of hiring company, vs. (z) recruiter works for an
         | unaffiliated placement company.
         | 
         | But i.e. if a recruiter is a temporary contractor with the
         | hiring company, they'd still have an email address from that
         | company, right?
        
           | macksd wrote:
           | I suppose it is possible that a temporary contractor has an
           | email address from that company, but I think you can get
           | reasonably high signal by looking at their LinkedIn history.
           | Switching positions every few months is a red flag. Even if
           | they're an independent contractor, longer-term arrangements
           | with each client suggest better relationships and better
           | commitment to real outcomes.
           | 
           | I see plenty of recruiters who just work for recruiting firms
           | and don't hide that fact. Anyone who won't immediately tell
           | me who they're recruiting for gets ignored. I'm sure I end up
           | talking to the occasional contractor but you can easily
           | filter out a lot of obvious low-hanging (and rotten) fruit).
        
           | duxup wrote:
           | I find that a lot of people working for a recruiting company
           | actually make it clear in their email with the address or
           | signature.
           | 
           | To some extent a contractor who working for the company I
           | know ... I'd still consider that a direct company reaching
           | out to me type situation that I'd be more inclined to
           | respond.
           | 
           | I don't find that it is hidden all that often, but that's
           | just my experience.
        
       | Tehchops wrote:
       | I don't know if it needs to be this elaborate. I like the idea
       | though.
       | 
       | However...
       | 
       | > Can you send along the company name, a job description and,
       | total compensation details for the role you're reaching out in
       | reference to?
       | 
       | Should be table stakes. I've started having to walk away from any
       | recruiter that insists on a 15 minute call without providing
       | these details up front. I wish there was some collective
       | awareness around the fact that if someone took a 15 min call with
       | every recruiter ping they got, they'd be on the phone 5-8 hours a
       | day.
        
       | tgtweak wrote:
       | Taking this post to publicly shame a recruiting technique I was
       | victim to:
       | 
       | I entertained a reference check call by a recruiting firm (not
       | standard but he was a good coworker and it was a serious position
       | with a serious company). The interview was normal and standard
       | fare except the last question which I found off-putting and
       | dishonest: "Are you looking to fill any positions?"
       | 
       | Although I was, it's not the kind of professionalism I expect
       | from any company representing mine so I politely declined and
       | ended it there. My friend got the job and all's well that ends
       | well.
       | 
       | Fast forward 3 months and I get cold called by the same company
       | asking me if I would consider a position at XYZ inc (new company,
       | unrelated to the first).
       | 
       | I was blown away that a company would think this is acceptable,
       | and that information given for reference checks by employees are
       | somehow automatically made into leads owned by the recruiting
       | company. I escalated to legal at serious company and explained in
       | no unclear manner how serious of a matter this was, to which they
       | terminated the hiring agreement over.
       | 
       | So just a reminder please vet your recruiting companies before
       | you mandate them to represent your company.
        
       | mywittyname wrote:
       | Sounds like this was written by someone who has very atypical
       | experience with recruiters. Perhaps they haven't had their
       | resumes copied into the database that gets bought and sold by
       | every recruiting firm in existence.
       | 
       | I could make a full time job out of replying to recruiters,
       | because I get probably 100 "opportunities" a day. Most of them
       | have never actually read my resume, or they are working off of a
       | 10 year old copy that was bought from a data broker. And probably
       | 10k other people get that same exact email, so even if I did
       | respond, the odds are bad.
       | 
       | If a founder of a company reaches out with a thoughtful message,
       | there's a 100% chance I'll respond, even to decline. If an in-
       | house recruiter for a copy reaches out, and shows that they
       | understand why I'd be a good fit, there's a 100% chance I'll
       | look, and a 50% chance I'll respond.
       | 
       | I did get my current role by doing roughly what the article
       | states. A recruiter for a startup reached out to me, explaining
       | what the role was and why I might be a good fit. I interviewed
       | with an intent to only leave for a 50%+ salary bump, and they
       | offered 80%+ and equity, so I left. That being said, I ignored
       | 99.9% of the other recruiters who reached out.
        
       | jppope wrote:
       | Great article, very thoughtful and definitely a useful template/
       | concept
        
       | rthomas6 wrote:
       | I wonder if it would work to respond with a link to an online
       | form to fill out with the job details. This website would also
       | contain your resume and descriptions/code for your software
       | projects. Kind of a script flip, making potential employers apply
       | to you, rather than the other way around. Obviously this will
       | only work if you are really good, and know it.
        
         | alexc05 wrote:
         | I've heard of that being done. It's actually the thing that
         | inspired me to write the note in the first place.
         | 
         | I didn't have time to take on the overhead of setting up a cool
         | site / form to go with the response, but I could have the
         | response.
         | 
         | The form version of this works as an even bigger filter. Fewer
         | leads will come though, more leads will be higher quality.
        
       | habeebtc wrote:
       | I make a habit of responding to each and every recruiter.
       | 
       | The ones who send me jobs I am way overqualified for, or simply
       | don't pay enough, I tell them my current compensation package
       | with the advice to send relevant offers in the future.
       | 
       | Realistically though, every external recruiter I have talked to
       | since I got into my current big tech company has been a waste of
       | time. They can't usually touch my comp package, and only the
       | other big tech companies are likely to be able to (or internal
       | recruiters).
        
       | bdamm wrote:
       | The only value a recruiter brings to me these days is someone to
       | practice light interview skills with when I'm feeling like I need
       | a reminder that I can still do it.
        
       | k__ wrote:
       | There are few people in my life that wasted as much of my time as
       | recruiters.
        
         | muh_gradle wrote:
         | The trick is to ignore them. Then they can't waste your time as
         | effectively.
        
       | hsn915 wrote:
       | If you want a high salary you're not going to get one by going
       | through recruiters.
        
         | vultour wrote:
         | Maybe in SF, but in London you'll often see recruiters working
         | for hedge funds which offer pretty much the best compensation
         | around.
        
       | db1234 wrote:
       | I just want to say I feel blessed to work in a field where
       | companies bombard you with opportunities. I may not reply to
       | recruiter emails but don't consider them spam.
        
       | karboosx wrote:
       | My idea for recruiters was special website with referral link
       | where they could fill out all information I was interested in
       | (the fields was required in order to submit the form) and big red
       | information that stated: "If your offer will be interesting I
       | will contact back on linkedin".
       | 
       | In addition I made small control question, for example: "Whats
       | the first letter on my LinkedIn description?".
       | 
       | That way I know I don't talk with a bot and they really read my
       | profile.
        
       | pjc50 wrote:
       | Possibly, but they left out the possible outcomes of "simply
       | refuse to talk salary, or to talk salary in email" and "just lie
       | about the salary and/or the job".
        
         | alexc05 wrote:
         | I did have that in there at one point. In _my case_ I tend to
         | either practice refining my script, or just thank them and walk
         | away. It 's in the autoresponse "without that data I'm unable
         | to continue further discussions"
         | 
         | You do have to stick to that, but it's IMO pretty clear but
         | also concise enough that you don't well on it.
         | 
         | Thanks for reading and sharing your thoughts!
        
       | mmastrac wrote:
       | As others on this thread have pointed out - avoid unaffiliated
       | recruiters, talk to affiliated/salaried recruiters from a
       | company.
        
       | dschuetz wrote:
       | Interestingly, I have employed a similar sentiment so far,
       | without knowing that it might be actually a good thing. I am
       | trying to give at least one short and comprehensive answer that:
       | I am not looking for new challenges, thanks though. Exceptions
       | might apply to especially annoying recruiters who just don't care
       | and ignore my wishes and send me useless messages regardless.
        
       | stjohnswarts wrote:
       | I don't ignore them, I give their email or voice mail a quick
       | perusal. Maybe 1 in 4 pass that I'll reach back out to them.
       | Things I look for
       | 
       | 1. did they name someone/some company that I know
       | 
       | 2. Does it look like a form letter
       | 
       | 3. Do they have a "give me all these details" section of the
       | email on the 1st email. Instant trash can on that one.
       | 
       | 4. Does it fall under the regime of things I do.
       | 
       | 5. What email address alias/phone number did they have access to.
        
       | civilized wrote:
       | Does anyone, recruiter or otherwise, want a screenful of auto-
       | response text? I'd cut it down to 2-3 sentences and make it much
       | more direct.
        
       | whateveracct wrote:
       | Always worth talking to ones with opportunities that seem
       | interesting. Those are rare. But if you do and follow up every
       | 6mo/year..you can just ping them whenever you're ready to move on
       | and you'll have an interview.
        
       | aluminussoma wrote:
       | I don't think the recruiter gets 10% of the salary anymore. I
       | have seen recent recruiter fees for 20% of the first year base
       | salary. People should know that.
        
       | MattPalmer1086 wrote:
       | I pretty much always respond to recruiters that seem to have
       | understood what I do, even if I'm not looking. They are gold.
       | 
       | I usually ignore the others.
       | 
       | The ones that spam me with positions that are clearly absolutely
       | nothing to do with my career, I sometimes respond to asking why
       | they think I'm suitable. And that's just for the childish
       | pleasure of wasting a bit of their time.
        
       | buttsecks wrote:
       | Lol Wut?
       | 
       | You should always respond to recruiters at your OWN discretion.
       | Use 3 digital condoms (throwaway numbers, etc.), and don't
       | continue the Convo if they won't disclose details such as salary.
       | Ain't nobody got time for dat.
        
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