[HN Gopher] Our Fundamental Right to Shame and Shun the New York...
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       Our Fundamental Right to Shame and Shun the New York Times
        
       Author : tptacek
       Score  : 218 points
       Date   : 2022-03-22 19:14 UTC (3 hours ago)
        
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       | mikevm wrote:
        
       | commandlinefan wrote:
        
         | cm2187 wrote:
         | I think it is part of an effort of the democratic party to move
         | back to the centre ahead of the midterm elections. A lot of the
         | progressive agenda is toxic electorally.
        
         | tptacek wrote:
         | People on both ends of the political spectrum are pretty
         | constantly trying to cancel Ken White. People on the left claim
         | he's a pawn of the Koch Brothers (especially for his vocal
         | support of FIRE), and on the right because he's vehemently
         | opposed to Donald Trump. He's received semi-credible death
         | threats.
         | 
         | This seems like another instance of what Dan Gackle refers to
         | as "notice-dislike" bias: you're unlikely to notice as much
         | when people say things you don't find objectionable, but notice
         | acutely when they say things you find problematic. We all have
         | that bias; it's a limitation of our cognition.
        
         | hraedon wrote:
         | That's a pretty tendentious view of both Popehat's expressed
         | opinion and the NYTime's article.
         | 
         | Popehat is pretty clearly against what he defines as "cancel
         | culture," and the NYTimes article is primarily about
         | journalists and elite opinion writers not liking backtalk from
         | their readers.
        
           | Vaslo wrote:
           | Seems he is against it until conservatives are victims of it.
           | Then suddenly it's a good thing. You have a right to not
           | patronize someone who you disagree with. Just like I think
           | there will be a backlash against those who call for the
           | pitchforks - they'll find people peacefully protesting them
           | outside of the their workplaces, places they frequent,
           | outside their homes. Just another ACLU shill in this article.
        
             | hraedon wrote:
             | One of his cited examples of actual "cancel culture" is the
             | shouting down of Ilya Shapiro, an act he characterizes as
             | "fascist and contemptible," and two others are either
             | cancelings within social justice spaces or involve circular
             | firing squads on the left. To me, this is maybe an
             | indication that he is operating on principle more than
             | politics.
        
       | amriksohata wrote:
       | The mainstream media is getting choked with pressure from social
       | media and alternate news sources. I have seen a pattern across
       | many of the major outlets who used to have more conservative
       | approach to reporting, are now becoming more and more daring and
       | bombastic with headlines for clicks and attention
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | asdff wrote:
         | Seems to be keeping things afloat though. You would think if
         | all the predictions were correct that mainstream media would
         | cease to exist at this point, now that it's common for
         | literally everyone to have a smartphone and social media. And
         | yet, it survives to this day, so clearly there's demand for
         | whatever they are serving.
        
       | olivermarks wrote:
       | https://taibbi.substack.com/p/worlds-dullest-editorial-launc...
       | 
       | Matt Taibbi's great post on this same topic.
       | 
       | 'This Times editorial is watered down almost to the level of a
       | public service announcement written for the Cartoon Network, or
       | maybe a fortune cookie ("Free speech is a process, not a
       | destination. Winning numbers 4, 9, 11, 32, 46..."). It made the
       | Harper's letter read like a bin Laden fatwa, but it's somehow
       | arousing a bigger panic.'
        
         | tootie wrote:
         | Taibbi has mostly torpedoed his credibility with Russian
         | apoligism. Him and Glenn Greenwald.
        
           | Manuel_D wrote:
           | What was he wrong about? He was warning that NATO expansion
           | would stir up Russia. He was right about that. He was wrong
           | in predicting that Putin wouldn't launch a full-blown
           | invasion of Ukraine, but he was pretty clear in admitting
           | this mis-prediction.
        
           | LegitShady wrote:
           | thats a personal opinion of yours. I put his credibility
           | higher than most major news orgs I can think of.
        
           | olivermarks wrote:
           | Strongly disagree. Taibbi & Greenwald along with Michael
           | Tracey (who is currently in Poland on the Ukranian border)
           | are some of the few independent journalists with the cojones
           | to take on the establishment, who spend a huge amount of time
           | smearing and discrediting them because they are impartial and
           | provide invaluable commentary on all sides.
        
           | Spinnaker_ wrote:
           | He immediately and thoroughly owned up to his mistakes
           | regarding Russia. His credibility has increased in my mind.
        
             | tootie wrote:
             | He's still posting Ukrainian Nazi tweets. He owned up to
             | the thing he was incontrovertibly wrong about but doesn't
             | seem to be rethinking his approach.
        
               | olivermarks wrote:
               | I'd suggest that openly discussing the fact that Ukraine
               | has a huge neo nazi problem is responsible reporting. I'm
               | frankly surprised the many BBC and other documentaries on
               | this huge problem from the last few years have not been
               | removed from youtube given the sudden transformation of
               | Ukraine into white hats in the current 'western'.
               | 
               | This is why I read Taibbi, because the legacy media has
               | lost so much credibility. (It should go without saying
               | the Russian invasion is obviously appalling and wrong but
               | many people appear to have calcified into 'any criticism
               | of Ukraine makes you a Russian 'apologist' etc etc)
        
           | sendfoods wrote:
           | Could you provide some context? I have not been following
           | them closely lately, but am familiar with their work and
           | _generally_ find them very respectable journalists.
        
       | Overtonwindow wrote:
       | Cancel culture happens because it works, and it not even be true.
       | Until businesses, universities, and institutions say no to the
       | digital mob, it will continue.
        
         | pessimizer wrote:
         | That's the good thing about cancel culture: it works. The bad
         | thing is that anything that works eventually goes corporate.
         | 
         | > Until businesses, universities, and institutions say no to
         | the digital mob, it will continue.
         | 
         | You can wait on that, but I prefer labor laws.
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | Overtonwindow wrote:
           | Good point.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | tensor wrote:
         | I think it should continue. For a while I was leaning against
         | it, but on reflection I realized that there is no obligation
         | for me to listen to or engage with people that have abhorrent
         | views. Rarely will doing so actually change their mind, or
         | mine.
         | 
         | What corporations are allowed to do is one thing, but as an
         | individual I've decided to take cancel culture to heart. When
         | possible, I now just put anyone with awful views on my personal
         | ban lists. Twitter and Reddit both allow this. I no longer see
         | any of their posts and they don't see mine.
         | 
         | I'm far happier having done this an I don't think the world has
         | lost anything by it. There are definitely issues I'm willing to
         | engage on and discuss, but there are many that I am not.
         | Hearing the same tired old propaganda talking points from
         | people in certain camps is just poison to me.
        
           | jimbokun wrote:
           | Cancel Culture would be actively seeking to enact
           | consequences on those people beyond disagreeing with them,
           | blocking them, or calling them a poo-poo head.
           | 
           | Like contacting an employer to get them fired, trying to ruin
           | their business, trying to get them banned from social media
           | sites or organizations, etc.
        
           | diffeomorphism wrote:
           | > For a while I was leaning against it, but on reflection I
           | realized that there is no obligation for me to listen to or
           | engage with people that have abhorrent views. Rarely will
           | doing so actually change their mind, or mine.
           | 
           | I don't think anyone disagrees with that, but your notion has
           | pretty much nothing to with what other people call "cancel
           | culture".
           | 
           | If there is a talk about topic "X", you not showing up is not
           | "canceling" anything and nobody cares.
        
         | commandlinefan wrote:
         | Cancel culture isn't particularly new, either - the name is,
         | but it was going on when I was a kid. The only difference was
         | that the same people who are cheering it on now (like, I'm
         | sure, Popehat) are the same ones who were raging against it
         | when it was the religious right doing it.
        
           | pessimizer wrote:
           | > when it was the religious right doing it.
           | 
           | The religious right continues to do it. They've somehow been
           | grandfathered in while we gather lynch mobs to attack pink-
           | haired community college liberal arts professors.
        
             | ameminator wrote:
             | If only the people who condemned the religious right would
             | also condemn the fanatic left, I'm sure the world would be
             | a more consistent place.
        
               | ssully wrote:
               | It would be a consistent place assuming the people who
               | condemn the fanatic left also condemn the religious
               | right.
        
           | kbelder wrote:
           | It's not new, but it's scaled up. Computers are a force
           | multiplier.
        
       | fredgrott wrote:
       | In order to fully understand this subject one has to understand
       | where our commons went or disappeared to...Under US constitution
       | about the only free commons is the postal mail.
       | 
       | Let me illustrate:
       | 
       | Small town relocates Police department to private shopping mall.
       | Now can I protest on the sidewalk in that private shopping mall
       | right outside the Police Dept. door?
       | 
       | The short legal answer is not as its private property sidewalk
       | 
       | Its not cancel culture its people waking up to realize that what
       | they thought was public commons to apply limited free political
       | speech is instead a privately owned communications channel not
       | public commons
        
       | egberts1 wrote:
       | I got blocked by Sacramento Bee (a California newspaper)
       | Editorial from their Facebook page.
       | 
       | Pretty sure that they didn't like the different facts that I have
       | pointed out over several different times as rebuttal to their
       | dated opinions ... with using each of their own website pages as
       | counter-citations.
       | 
       | But hey, Editorial folks reserve the rights to cancel me for
       | their own idiocy of their own makings.
       | 
       | It's just the slippery narratives of their overlords that they
       | are trying to propagate (or is it propagandizing).
       | 
       | That to me is "cancel culture".
        
         | lazide wrote:
         | I don't know of any definition of cancel culture that would
         | fit. That's moderation.
         | 
         | Cancel culture would be if they put your profile or picture on
         | the front page as an example of being a terrible person who has
         | done things every right thinking person should not, and no one
         | should think of employing or working with you - because they
         | didn't like your comments.
        
         | hraedon wrote:
         | Did you suffer any sort of consequence for your responses
         | beyond being deprived of the ability to continue accessing
         | their Facebook page?
         | 
         | If not, you're really straining even the most generous
         | definition of "cancel culture" beyond the point of even minimal
         | usefulness.
        
           | egberts1 wrote:
           | sure, they're rallying people at the behest of the governor
           | against the middle-class. sure enough, they got what they
           | wanted and we are paying dearly for it to this day.
        
             | lazide wrote:
             | Sounds like a vague political harm, not a focused
             | individual one - which seems to be the complaint around
             | cancel culture abuses?
        
         | biorach wrote:
         | being blocked from a facebook page is not being cancelled
        
           | egberts1 wrote:
           | nope. that being blocked from a page is not the definition of
           | "cancel culture".
        
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       | coding123 wrote:
       | we freak out too much over shit that doesn't matter. Let's just
       | fix homelessness and end buying culture.
        
       | davesque wrote:
       | At the risk of outing myself as a skeptic of certain orthodoxies,
       | I also found the Times op-ed in question to have a rather un-
       | serious tone. However, I think there were different things I
       | latched onto than the author of this critique. I didn't find the
       | lack of clear distinction between the legal definition of free
       | speech and the common definition to be particularly problematic.
       | As the author mentions, a lot of people felt it was reasonably
       | clear that the Times was referring to the common notion of free
       | speech. But I noticed passages such as this one from the Times
       | op-ed:
       | 
       | "Many on the left refuse to acknowledge that cancel culture
       | exists at all, believing that those who complain about it are
       | offering cover for bigots to peddle hate speech. Many on the
       | right, _for all their braying about cancel culture_ , have
       | embraced an even more extreme version of censoriousness as a
       | bulwark against a rapidly changing society, with laws that would
       | ban books, stifle teachers and discourage open discussion in
       | classrooms."
       | 
       | For the supposed paper of record, I found the choice to use the
       | decidedly contemptuous language to refer to the right wing (that
       | I italicized above) very telling. There were a handful of other
       | telling moments in the Times article where the authors clearly
       | revealed their bias and intellectual stake on certain issues.
       | Even if I mostly share those views, I found the overall article
       | to be rather ineffective at encouraging any but the most
       | sympathetic readers to reconsider their rhetoric. On some level,
       | the Times authors seemed to want to continue to cling to a sense
       | of righteousness that must actually be at the root of the problem
       | in question.
        
         | elil17 wrote:
         | >For the supposed paper of record, I found the choice to use
         | the decidedly contemptuous language to refer to the right wing
         | (that I italicized above) very telling.
         | 
         | I genuinely don't know how else they could describe what's
         | going on. Braying means speaking loudly and harshly - an
         | accurate description of how many public figures on the right
         | discuss cancel culture. It's colorful language, sure, but it's
         | an op-ed, which mean's its someone's opinion.
        
           | davesque wrote:
           | I don't disagree that it is an accurate (and somewhat
           | inflammatory) description of how figures on the right discuss
           | cancel culture. What I'm saying is that it is an
           | _ineffective_ means of changing anyone 's mind that they must
           | care about changing.
           | 
           | As participants in the culture war often do, they claim to
           | want peace while also wanting victory.
        
             | TameAntelope wrote:
             | Why must the tone always be conciliatory? Why must both
             | sides have a point? Why must we write everything to try and
             | change minds on every topic at once?
             | 
             | Maybe for the rational people, the argument you're talking
             | about is over; at this point maybe we're just discussing
             | the problem directly. Maybe everyone who would be convinced
             | has been convinced, and the people who remain can be dealt
             | with differently than how we'd deal with genuine difference
             | of opinion.
        
             | [deleted]
        
             | elil17 wrote:
             | Fair enough - doesn't seem effective to me either
        
       | ZeroGravitas wrote:
       | Does he have a similar rant on 'virtue signaling' or maybe the
       | now old-skool 'political correctness'?
        
       | civilized wrote:
       | This is a good post.
       | 
       | Regardless of how we feel about cancel culture, I think we can
       | all agree that the quality of thought coming from the NYT
       | Editorial Board is (and always has been) pretty mediocre at best.
       | 
       | I'm vaguely anti-cancel culture (with a lot of nuance and
       | context-dependence) but I don't feel particularly galvanized by
       | the Board coming out for or against me. They don't think or write
       | clearly enough for it to make any difference in my mind.
       | 
       | And so long as we're on the topic, some of the worst "cancel
       | culture" incidents have been perpetrated by NYT management
       | itself, such as the firing of veteran science reporter Donald
       | McNeil for "using the N-word". He did not use the N-word, he
       | _mentioned_ the word in a context where it came up, as the NYT
       | and other prestige media have themselves done in a variety of
       | situations. And as John McWhorter has reminded us over and over,
       | the use-mention distinction is relevant here but for some reason
       | completely ignored.
        
       | photochemsyn wrote:
       | I wonder to what extent the subject here, 'cancel culture', is a
       | side effect of the outrage porn nature of social media (and maybe
       | media in general), in which engagement statistics show higher
       | engagement when it comes to inflammatory subjects/posts. Outrage
       | porn's history goes back forever, but in the modern media context
       | it might have been invented by Jerry Springer.
       | 
       | Basically the model seems to involve identifying a subject for
       | the outrage to focus on, whipping up clicks and views by bumping
       | the subject's statements up the social media engagement ladder -
       | this is a lot of ad revenue, ahem - and then, finally, the
       | ceremonial burning of the sacrificial victim for the appeasement
       | of the flash mob. This is particularly true when the target has
       | no political following or wealth status, certainly no means to
       | push back (like a billionaire's PR team calling all their
       | contacts in the media, crisis managers, social media botnets,
       | etc.).
       | 
       | As far as the political-social use of this exercise, it's the
       | kind of thing authoritarian states are known to do and was
       | parodied by Orwell in 1984 as the "Two Minute Hate" routine.
       | Actual debate of sensitive topics is the last thing anyone
       | involved with this circus wants to see.
       | 
       | In contrast, students were once taught to argue the points of the
       | opposition in a debate, as an exercise in thinking as well as
       | understanding. This kind of debate training seems highly unlikely
       | in today's world, and would probably generate lot of outrage and
       | calls for cancellation of the program.
        
       | aerovistae wrote:
       | Does anyone notice a weird effect with this article's font where
       | random letters of parts of letters appear bold, and it seems to
       | shift as you move your eyes around? I'm viewing it on a 2020 M1
       | Macbook Air screen.
        
       | wlakjlkjkerg wrote:
        
       | nullc wrote:
       | There is a big difference between:
       | 
       | (1) Not associating with someone who you know has done some
       | wrong.
       | 
       | (2) Not associating with someone where there are unproven public
       | rumors that they've done some wrong.
       | 
       | (3) Not associating with someone who associates with someone who
       | is subject to unproven public rumors of wrong doing.
       | 
       | (4) Publicly attacking people over unproven rumors of wrong doing
       | for which you have no personal knowledge.
       | 
       | (5) Publicly attacking people because they failed to engage in
       | public attacks against a third person who is subject to unproven
       | allegations which the attacking party (nor the party being
       | attacked) have no personal knowledge. ("If you won't denounce
       | Albert Einstein as a vile traitor here and now then you're a
       | supporter of communism yourself!") -- or the N-th generation
       | version of that ("You meta-meta-meta communist scum!").
       | 
       | (6) Complaining that the people with torches and pitchforks might
       | be acting in a way which undermines the fairness or even
       | viability of a civilized society.
        
         | tptacek wrote:
         | The author likely agrees with all of this.
        
       | karaterobot wrote:
       | Here is the original NYT article this opinion is in reference to:
       | 
       | https://archive.ph/T0SKl
        
       | stickfigure wrote:
       | Every time something like this comes up I am reminded of The
       | Toxoplasma Of Rage:
       | 
       | https://slatestarcodex.com/2014/12/17/the-toxoplasma-of-rage...
       | 
       | YOU KNOW WHAT NOBODY HATES EACH OTHER ABOUT YET? _FREE SPEECH._
        
       | Gimpei wrote:
       | The problem with the debate on "cancel culture" is a lack of
       | specificity. The fact is that there are certain occasions where
       | "canceling" seems fine, and others, where it does not. And I
       | think a problem with the progressive argument is the refusal to
       | acknowledge that there can ever be any excesses.
       | 
       | For example, there is the case of Dorian Abbot, who was
       | disinvited from an MIT lecture after he wrote an op-ed
       | criticizing affirmative action [1], even though the MIT lecture
       | had nothing to do with affirmative action. I just don't see how
       | allowing him to speak about climate science significantly
       | impinges on the free speech of the members of the MIT community
       | who found his views objectionable. I think it's also significant
       | that 73% of the US population agrees with Abbot (I support
       | affirmative action for the record). Basically the message that I
       | get from MIT's behavior is that if you have a thoroughly
       | mainstream opinion, you better not mention it in public if you
       | want to have a successful academic career. This is chilling for
       | science. If I were still a practicing social scientist, I
       | wouldn't touch any hot button social issue with a ten foot pole.
       | Or at least not if I wasn't prepared to p-hack a socially
       | acceptable result.
       | 
       | I also think that shutting out views that you disagree with is
       | terrible for personal intellectual development. Only hearing
       | views that correspond to your priors is a recipe for group-think
       | and intellectual laziness. I make a point of trying to read a
       | wide range of opinions (National Review to Jacobin) because I
       | believe having my ideas challenged makes them stronger. I don't
       | see how you can have an informed opinion about anything without
       | doing the same.
       | 
       | Lastly, if the polls that nytimes cite are true, "cancel culture"
       | is a huge political mistake for progressive. It risks making the
       | democratic brand toxic so that electoral victory, and any real
       | change is impossible.
       | 
       | [1] https://www.nytimes.com/2021/10/20/us/dorian-abbot-mit.html
        
         | krapp wrote:
         | >The problem with the debate on "cancel culture" is a lack of
         | specificity. The fact is that there are certain occasions where
         | "canceling" seems fine, and others, where it does not. And I
         | think a problem with the progressive argument is the refusal to
         | acknowledge that there can ever be any excesses.
         | 
         | Actually, many progressives do acknowledge that. Plenty of
         | people on the left feel that cancel culture sometimes goes too
         | far, including marginalized groups who feel it appropriates
         | their struggle and does more harm than good, primarily serving
         | as a way for outsiders to virtue signal allyship in ways that
         | don't really threaten their privilege, or require skin in the
         | game as it were.
         | 
         | On the other hand, given a corrupt system which often protects
         | and insulates powerful people from the consequences of their
         | vile actions, cancel culture is sometimes the only lever people
         | have to effect progressive change in that system. I mean,
         | cancellation, protest and collective action are the only reason
         | certain issues are even part of the greater cultural
         | conversation at all.
        
           | AnimalMuppet wrote:
           | When was the last time that someone genuinely powerful was
           | successfully cancelled?
        
             | krapp wrote:
             | Donald Trump?
             | 
             | Although that depends on what you mean by "successfully"
             | cancelled.
             | 
             | Plenty of politicians and celebrities have been cancelled
             | for racist, sexist and otherwise abusive behavior, but I
             | don't know what your line for "genuinely" powerful is,
             | either.
        
               | Banana699 wrote:
               | >Donald Trump
               | 
               | Trump was banned from twitter after he already lost the
               | presidency, and banning from a mediocre low-IQ forum is
               | not how most cancel culture opponents define it, the
               | dominant conception has an essential material aspect to
               | it, such as firing from a job, harassment or extra-legal
               | violence.
               | 
               | >Plenty of politicians and celebrities have been
               | cancelled for racist, sexist and otherwise abusive
               | behavior, but I don't know what your line for "genuinely
               | powerful" is, either
               | 
               | Not OP, but I suspect his\her line for "genuinely
               | powerful being cancelled" is that the cancellation is not
               | planned and catalysed by a "more powerful" entity. When
               | and if "cancelling" is ever used against a powerful
               | person, there are often extremely obvious marks of an
               | equal or superior in power person(s) behind it. When this
               | doesn't happen, the cancellation attempt fails (e.g.
               | Sexual allegations against Joe Biden failing).
        
             | zeruch wrote:
             | Harvey Weinstein?
        
         | whimsicalism wrote:
         | > For example, there is the case of Dorian Abbot, who was
         | disinvited from an MIT lecture after he wrote an op-ed
         | criticizing affirmative action
         | 
         | Or Chelsea Manning who was disinvited from speaking at Harvard
         | after pressure from the government
        
         | guelo wrote:
         | > For example ...
         | 
         | One of the reasons this debate is so useless is that it's
         | mostly about cherry-picking anecdotes that support your
         | partisan biases.
        
       | tptacek wrote:
       | The comments on this thread seem to be quite wildly missing
       | White's point. Many of the arguments taking place here seem
       | premised on the idea that Ken White has attempted to solve, once
       | and for all, the "cancel culture" problem --- or somehow write a
       | dispositive argument that "cancel culture" isn't real.
       | 
       | He's not doing any of these things. He's responding to a specific
       | NYT staff editorial.
       | 
       | White agrees with many of you that disproportionate responses to
       | speech happen, are harmful, and are occurring regularly. He cites
       | several instances, from both sides of the American political
       | spectrum. You don't have to come up with an elaborate argument
       | about how White is wrong about how harmful "cancel culture" is;
       | White almost certainly agrees with you (at least in a general
       | sense; maybe not in your particulars).
       | 
       | His point is that you have to discuss something more particular
       | than "the right to speak your mind without fear of shame or
       | shunning". You've never had that right. You can't have it. To be
       | free of shame or shunning is to be free of other people's speech.
       | If you're saying something provocative, you are almost certainly
       | responding in a sense to something someone else said; if you
       | think you have the right to speak without shame or shunning, so
       | does the person you're effectively responding to. At best, you're
       | arguing for what White has in the past mockingly referred to as a
       | "replevin of feels"; at worst, what you're asking for is totally
       | incoherent.
       | 
       | This Substack post would be bigger news if Ken White had,
       | Solomonically, worked out the whole problem of disproportionate
       | responses to speech. He has not, and I think he's probably much
       | too smart to try. He's just critiquing someone else's bad
       | argument. That's all you really have to engage with here; you
       | don't have to let cortisol trick you into believing this is an
       | amassing of the forces of "cancel culture isn't real" that you
       | must mobilize against.
        
         | TameAntelope wrote:
         | I don't think we should lose sight of just how batshit insane
         | the NYT editorial was.
         | 
         | We can continue to talk about Cancel Culture, but the opening
         | assertion of the editorial was that we have a right to,
         | "...speak [our] minds and voice [our] opinions in public
         | without fear of being shamed or shunned." That's gobsmackingly
         | wrong.
         | 
         | It's the kind of sentence that, to me at least, grinds my
         | mental gears to a halt. I just... I have a very hard time
         | thinking generously about the author of that sentence.
         | 
         | I'm glad people like Ken exist, to put into words something
         | more coherent than what I'd ever be able to create.
        
           | akhmatova wrote:
           | _It 's the kind of sentence that, to me at least, grinds my
           | mental gears to a halt._
           | 
           | This is the cortisone rush that tptacek was referring to. You
           | need to let it go through you (or past you) until you feel
           | your mental gears loosen up again. Then step back and look at
           | the bigger picture.
           | 
           | What the editorial author meant was not some kind of
           | _absolute_ freedom from the threat of being shamed or
           | shunned. But that, once upon a time, and it wasn 't too long
           | ago, there was a thing known as "civil discourse" in this
           | country. In which (and granted the boundaries are fuzzy hear)
           | -- in itself the mere fact of having an unpopular (or
           | difficult) opinion on the state of the world ... did not run
           | such an alarmingly and dysfunctional risk of getting you shut
           | down in form or another as it does today.
           | 
           | Note that this don't mean "unpopular or difficult" in the
           | anything-goes sense. Spouting sheer idiocy can (and should)
           | get you shunned and shamed, along with threats of
           | implications of violence, and a whole lot of other things I
           | don't need to mention.
           | 
           | But taking unpopular / difficult (or even simply naive)
           | stances within the boundaries of plausibility and reason, by
           | themselves, should not merit such a reaction. And yet
           | increasingly they do. That is what is meant by a breakdown in
           | the standards of civil discourse. And it this breakdown of
           | standards -- and the creeping climate of "better hold your
           | tongue" that has taken over this country -- that is the main
           | concern of the editorial piece. Not absolutist notions of
           | freedom or freedom-from.
           | 
           | Nuance. That's the key takeaway here.
        
           | coffeemug wrote:
           | From TFA:
           | 
           | > Americans don't have, and have never had, any right to be
           | free of shaming or shunning. The First Amendment protects our
           | right to speak free of government interference. It does not
           | protect us from other people saying mean things in response
           | to our speech.
           | 
           | First, the term "free speech" is overloaded-- it means a
           | legal right to speak free of government interference, and it
           | also means a cultural environment of pluralism where opposing
           | views are welcomed and debate is encouraged. Here Ken
           | conflates the two meanings.
           | 
           | Second, unlike legal norms, cultural norms are continuous
           | rather than discrete. There are maybe 3-5 definitions of
           | murder (premeditated, involuntary, etc.), but saying mean
           | things is a continuum. You can live in a society like Soviet
           | Union c 1930 where your coworker who wants your position
           | calls for "the people's court" because of a joke you made-- a
           | completely informal struggle session that doesn't involve the
           | government. Or you can live in a society where you can
           | express anything whatsoever and not get fired. Or at a
           | million points in between.
           | 
           | Third, legal norms follow cultural norms. See gay marriage.
           | 
           | When people talk about cancel culture they talk about
           | cultural norms shifting toward struggle sessions (the word
           | "culture" is in the term!), and concerns that some day legal
           | norms may follow this cultural shift. In this context the
           | word "right" is used colloquially. Obviously nobody has a
           | legal right to speak without fear of shaming.
           | 
           | We want to live in a culture where a joke on the internet
           | doesn't lead to a struggle session at work. It isn't batshit
           | insane, it isn't gobsmackingly wrong, and it isn't that
           | difficult to understand.
        
             | otterley wrote:
             | > We want to live in a culture where a joke on the internet
             | doesn't lead to a struggle session at work.
             | 
             | Everyone wants to do that, until they find themselves the
             | target of a joke while struggling to have a good career,
             | live in a nice place, and raise a family as a member of an
             | unprivileged group with a lot of adverse baggage to
             | overcome. Not everyone thinks such jokes are funny, and
             | they have just as much a right to be pissed off about them
             | as you think you have to make them. Getting along with your
             | peers is an essential duty at most jobs, and that includes
             | refraining from unnecessarily upsetting them.
        
             | tptacek wrote:
             | Ken White agrees with you that there are disproportionate
             | responses to speech on the Internet and, if you follow him,
             | isn't any more amenable to struggle sessions than you are
             | (see: his years-long advocacy of what Lukianoff is doing at
             | FIRE).
             | 
             | The problem is that the NYT here managed to articulate a
             | different, and stupid, problem: the eroding of our supposed
             | right to speak without shame or shunning. The NYT's
             | arguments are in a line of similar arguments that are not
             | in fact about free speech, but rather _the opposite_ : they
             | purport to defend speech, but only selectively, and in the
             | cases they don't defend, they're an appeal to shut down
             | speech and voluntary association.
        
             | [deleted]
        
           | mrjangles wrote:
           | Yeah that's a good point. There is not a single person
           | complaining about cancel culture today that wouldn't
           | immediately join the snarling mob and try to cancel someone
           | that argued something like "we should rape 1 year olds" or
           | something like that, for example.
           | 
           | If we kept the arguments to "It is wrong to hate people just
           | for holding the same opinion as 50% of the population", or
           | "Hating someone for making a joke is wrong", it would make a
           | lot more sense.
           | 
           | You know, the more I think about it, the fact that there are
           | a large body of people who literally hate and want to destroy
           | the lives of half the people living in the western world,
           | simply because of their opinions about life, really rubs in
           | how psychotically dangerous they are. It is amazing they are
           | allowed to get away with their behavior. The reason is that
           | people really are instinctively terrified of a ravenous mob
           | (and rightly so), so they keep quite, but, in the age of the
           | internet, there is less to fear from these mobs.
        
             | tptacek wrote:
             | I don't think "speech without social repercussions should
             | be safe from approbation as long as it's popular speech" is
             | a good norm either.
        
           | lliamander wrote:
           | I can't find the quote, but Norman Rockwell said that the
           | inspiration for his _Freedom of Speech_ painting was a town
           | hall he attended where a man not much liked by the community
           | was allowed to speak his piece, even when the people did not
           | like what he had to say.
           | 
           | I'm not arguing we shouldn't be able to shame or shun (the
           | NYT itself would be my preferred target). I think the idea is
           | that we should aspire to resolving our differences through
           | dialog. What we have now is a crowd of people who feel that
           | dialog is no longer necessary, and that to even simply engage
           | in dialog with one's political enemies is bad and might
           | somehow taint you.
        
           | zdragnar wrote:
           | It's not too far off. Any behavior which constitutes assault
           | or harassment is not protected by the first amendment.
           | 
           | Shaming and shunning can easily be considered harassment in
           | the right context, though actually proving it in a court of
           | law gets much trickier.
        
             | SpicyLemonZest wrote:
             | "In the right context" is doing a lot of work there! I
             | think we can all agree that:
             | 
             | * If you say that vanilla ice cream is boring, and I
             | respond by getting 10,000 Twitter users to email your CEO
             | saying they'll boycott your company until you're fired,
             | that's at least colloquially harassment and completely
             | unacceptable behavior.
             | 
             | * If you go on a 10 minute rant about how much my political
             | and religious views suck, and I respond by uninviting you
             | from my birthday party, that's a reasonable response and
             | not harassment at all.
             | 
             | So to meaningfully address the issue of "cancel culture",
             | which the NYT and Popehat both agree is real, we really
             | have to talk about what is and isn't the right context or
             | we won't be able to get anywhere.
        
             | TameAntelope wrote:
             | Shaming and shunning is not harassment, harassment is
             | harassment which requires additional components beyond just
             | shaming and shunning; you have to take it to an excess or
             | compound it with other behavior for shaming and/or shunning
             | to reach anything even remotely resembling harassment.
             | 
             | So decidedly no; you are not granted a freedom from shaming
             | and shunning for your opinion, not in American culture, not
             | in Western or Eastern culture, not historically, not in any
             | religion, nowhere has this concept been held up as a
             | societal more. The concept literally does not exist, and
             | yet here the NYT cites it as some cultural artifact like
             | it's been a cornerstone of American society from the
             | beginning.
             | 
             | And what's provable in a court of law is completely
             | immaterial to this discussion, not sure why you'd bring
             | that up. The NYT was not citing the First Amendment, and in
             | fact directly says so later on in the editorial.
        
             | throwawaygh wrote:
             | _> Shaming and shunning can easily be considered harassment
             | in the right context_
             | 
             | Shunning is never harassment. Shaming could be, but not on
             | its own -- it would probably have to be either
             | extraordinarily sustained/egregious and/or paired with
             | credible threats to person or property.
             | 
             | Even emergent behavior that has the same effect as blatant
             | harassment isn't harassment. I.e., sending one person 10K
             | letters, some of which contain (even unspecific) threats,
             | is CERTAINLY harassment. But if 10K people each send one
             | letter, there are probably zero instances of harassment
             | unless one of the letters is seriously egregious (e.g.,
             | contains specific and credible threats). And even then, the
             | other 99,999 letters aren't instances of harassment.
             | 
             | Organized behavior might be. It depends on the amount of
             | coordination. But probably the case is too difficult to
             | take on.
        
             | akerl_ wrote:
             | Harassment is a legal concept. In what context are we
             | considering "shaming and shunning" to be harassment in if
             | not the context of the court of law?
        
             | [deleted]
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | prescriptivist wrote:
         | > That's all you really have to engage with here; you don't
         | have to let cortisol trick you into believing this is an
         | amassing of the forces of "cancel culture isn't real" that you
         | must mobilize against.
         | 
         | At least you are clear in what you think about the average
         | person that is concerned about this topic.
        
         | zeruch wrote:
         | Your is so far the only comment that seems to have actually
         | read and understood the piece. Bravo.
        
         | jollybean wrote:
         | "His point is that you have to discuss something more
         | particular than "the right to speak your mind without fear of
         | shame or shunning". You've never had that right"
         | 
         | This is a bit flawed, essentially 'straw man' argument in the
         | grand scheme.
         | 
         | While there might be good reason to critique the NYT article,
         | the response I think missed the bigger point.
         | 
         | Nobody is really making the argument that speech isn't going to
         | have consequences.
         | 
         | The 'Cancel Culture Does not Exist' or 'This Is Not A 1st
         | Amendment Issue' arguments are already tired, empty canards.
         | 
         | The awful failure of the authors argument are clearly evident
         | in his dismissal of the Harper's Magazine moment - he argues
         | 'nobody bothers to define cancel culture' etc. which is
         | bullshit.
         | 
         | Stephen Pinker, one of the Harper's signatories, faced
         | concerted and vicious attempt at 'cancellation' of some of his
         | positions and credentials when he dared to voice the heretic
         | idea along the lines that policing in America is largely much
         | more heavy handed than eslewehere, and that this is the
         | fundamental issues, less so race. God forbid (!).
         | 
         | Thankfully, Stephen Pinker has enough credentials to hold off
         | the cancellers.
         | 
         | JK Rowling is another good pop culture example. People lament
         | that 'she's a billionaire and can't be cancelled' again which
         | is not true. The amount of front page sardonic vitriol about
         | her by ostensibly 'respectable' publications is very directly
         | translated into hesitancy on every popular front: movie deals,
         | book deals, actors fear of 'being in the out club' if they
         | appear in a film based upon her book etc. Her 'cancellation'
         | can be literally be measured in dollars.
         | 
         | It's pernicious specifically because the vast majority of
         | participants actually are probably not bothered entirely by
         | Rowling or Pinker comments - but that the 'fear of association'
         | created by the 'Cancel Screamers' creates a chilling effect on
         | speech and participation.
         | 
         | Ergo the 'consequence' of speech is not legitimate: people are
         | not 'running from Rowling' because of what they think of her
         | positions, they are running from her because of what _others_
         | might think of them.
         | 
         | I'll step back my argument an inch and admit that there are
         | actually nutbars (of all stripes) who probably believe they can
         | 'say whatever, whenever' - 1 minute on Twitter will remind us
         | of that, however there's a gigantic grey are of obvious areas
         | of public cancellation.
        
         | rayiner wrote:
         | I think both you and Ken and the New York Times are getting
         | tripped up by the phrase "free speech." What the New York Times
         | is actually talking about is "ideological pluralism." When
         | elderly Millennials like me were growing up, you could have--at
         | least in educated circles--a broad range of heterodox opinions
         | without anyone getting too upset about what you said.
         | 
         | And that's just not true anymore. I've got in trouble with
         | white progressives in my social circle (which is mostly white
         | progressives) for saying we should carefully scrutinize
         | refugees from Syria and Iraq. Meanwhile my dad--whose
         | grandfather was an Imam and who has worked in Afghanistan--
         | expressed the exact same opinion after we withdrew from
         | Afghanistan and there was the question of Afghan refugees.
         | 
         | Ken is absolutely correct that conservatives used to do it too.
         | But I didn't grow up in the deep south where being in favor of
         | same-sex marriage in the 1990s would get you socially
         | ostracized. I am alarmed, however, that in blue America in
         | 2022, I can't even discuss how my Muslim family members feel
         | about marriage, divorce, etc., except to condemn their views.
         | Saying "rural America in the 1990s was just as bad" doesn't
         | actually score any points with me.
         | 
         | I think the New York Times editorial is confused and inelegant.
         | But kudos to them for actually speaking up. Because I don't
         | think we're all just having some collective delusion that
         | something has changed in "liberal society" and that change
         | isn't a good one.
        
           | tptacek wrote:
           | Ken White doesn't think you're having a collective delusion
           | either. See, for instance, his recent response on Twitter to
           | the drama about unpopular speech at Occidental. So I'm not
           | sure what you're rebutting here.
        
       | lliamander wrote:
       | I think his notion of "disproportionate response to to speech" is
       | a good start, but is too generic to help us understand why this
       | has become an issue of discussion over the past decade.
       | 
       | When I think of cancel culture, my primary thought is of private
       | individuals facing meaningful harms (mainly economic) as a result
       | of public outcry over the individuals (perfectly legal) speech or
       | actions that signal the individual is "on the wrong team".
       | 
       | It's not a simple definition, but captures both why people are
       | afraid of it, and why it is happening now (social media made it
       | possible to make a private individual's speech and actions
       | public, even if that individual wasn't a user of that platform).
       | 
       | Public figures losing speaking engagements or whatever is bad,
       | but the targeting of private individuals in this manner is an
       | escalation of political conflict that is very alarming.
       | 
       | Lastly, I will add that while this evil is not exclusively
       | committed by the Left, there is absolutely an asymmetry. The Left
       | has generally been far more likely to cancel people than the
       | reverse. There are a number of possible causes (people on the
       | left are more politically active, will be amplified by a left
       | -leaning media industry, etc)
        
         | Misdicorl wrote:
         | > The Left has generally been far more likely to cancel people
         | than the reverse. There are a number of possible causes (people
         | on the left are more politically active, will be amplified by a
         | left -leaning media industry, etc)
         | 
         | I think this is more neatly described by the right having more
         | mainstream and surreptitious avenues of "cancelling" people
         | they don't like. Gang lists, credit scores, police
         | intimidation/brutality, selective enforcement of drug policy,
         | the prison system, good ol' boys clubs, etc etc etc.
        
           | lliamander wrote:
           | That grab-bag of issues suggests you have a confused notion
           | of what constitutes "the right". For instance, how is police
           | brutality a example of "right-wing cancel culture" when some
           | of our most salient examples occurred in left-wing dominated
           | cities? Not everything you disagree with is a political
           | weapon used by your enemies.
           | 
           | I will concede (though you didn't make this point explicitly)
           | that the religious right has historically had a fair bit of
           | social power that might be described as cancel culture, but
           | that power has arguably been gone since before cancel culture
           | as I described it became a thing.
        
       | rilezg wrote:
       | Do we need more time and space in our society for measured
       | discussion about current events? Absolutely, but such discussion
       | is anathema to engagement-algorithm-driven social/traditional
       | media. If you take the time to think things through, then by the
       | time you are ready to speak the world will have already moved
       | along and the post you are replying to is as good as dead.
       | Instead we reward only the hottest, most emotion-provoking takes
       | and clap-backs. Those exchanges do nothing to foster mutual
       | understanding, but they sure do get the views and rake in that
       | sweet ad money, which helps meet growth projections.
       | 
       | We're free to blame Democrats or Republicans or Russians or
       | whoever, but 'cancel culture' is a natural response to a system
       | that viralizes outrage. Completely banning the speech on the
       | specific topic that causes the outrage will always be a losing
       | battle because the system will always find some new dumbness to
       | amplify. If you really want change then you gotta change the
       | system, dude.
        
       | akhmatova wrote:
       | _This is sheer nonsense from the jump._
       | 
       | No it's not. The basic point that was being quoted (from the NYT
       | comment piece) was quite sensible actually.
       | 
       | The OP author then immediately falls into the semantic trap of
       | "right to express oneself freely" == "First Amendment rights".
       | They're not equivalent. They're overlapping and related obviously
       | -- but nonetheless fundamentally different things.
       | 
       | My expectations that there might be something to this post
       | dropped precipitously at the point, so that's where I stopped
       | reading.
        
       | thrashh wrote:
       | Cancel culture is just a symptom.
       | 
       | As I see it, the Internet has created two problems:
       | 
       | (1) Everyone now has a voice -- yeah that's cool but society
       | isn't handling it too well yet
       | 
       | (2) It's now easy to associate with people who think like you --
       | cool but absolutely terrible
       | 
       | What happens is that now a bulk of the things you hear come from
       | your own circle (which is self affirming!) and then when you hear
       | something from outside your circle, it feels so far off that it
       | causes you to react violently (a.k.a. you want to cancel them).
       | 
       | The problem is: you can't get rid of that violent reaction. It's
       | natural and human to dislike things that you're unfamiliar with.
       | (Actually I think every living thing is like that -- being wary
       | of unfamiliar things is essential to survival.)
       | 
       | So the only thing you can do is desensitize yourself by hanging
       | out with a diverse set of people. I don't know how we can make
       | society as a whole do that more, but the Internet is allowing
       | some people to do it a lot less.
       | 
       | To make matters worse, before when it didn't matter if Jane or
       | Frank were totally clueless, it matters now because because Jane
       | and Frank both have a voice and can tweet about it.
        
         | president wrote:
         | IMO cancel culture wasn't as large as a problem until it was
         | sanctioned by very large and influential people and
         | institutions like the NYT.
        
       | BitwiseFool wrote:
       | > _" Our failure to have a serious discussion about defining
       | "cancel culture" encourages this. When some people vaguely
       | complain about "cancel culture" in a way that lends itself to
       | promoting this constant partisanship, other people not
       | unreasonably see it as partisan."_
       | 
       | Popehat seems to be falling into the trap of thinking the
       | precisely defining something will lead to clarity. It rarely, if
       | ever, does. Each one of us has our own conception of a term -
       | wordfeel, if you will - and virtually no one actually knows or
       | holds to the literal dictionary definition. We hear words and
       | apply them if they seem right to us. Even if you managed to
       | precisely define cancel culture, people would easily try to claim
       | that some alleged cancelling event it is _actually_ something
       | else,  "accountability", "showing you the door", etc.. Never
       | underestimate someone's ability to lawyerly redefine what
       | something is or isn't.
       | 
       | Additionally, I think Popehat is dead wrong here:
       | 
       | > _" Saying we should "end cancel culture" means we're saying
       | some people should refrain from some exercises of speech and
       | association to promote other people feeling more free to speak."_
       | 
       | No rights are actually being infringed by this. It is possible to
       | have cultural mores that are in the spirit of free speech. The
       | opposite stance, not calling on people to end cancel culture, is
       | _also_ accepting a reduction in speech. Even so, by Popehat 's
       | own worldview, because the government is not restricting cancel
       | culture this shouldn't be seen as some infringement of liberty. I
       | don't know what Popehat actually wants here.
        
         | tptacek wrote:
         | Without the definition, White says, the appeal to an "end
         | cancel culture norm" is, overtly, a call to broadly restrict
         | people's speech. If you dismiss the demand for clarity, you
         | can't coherently rebut his assessment of what "end cancel
         | culture" means.
        
           | BitwiseFool wrote:
           | >"If you dismiss the demand for clarity, you can't coherently
           | rebut his assessment of what "end cancel culture" means."
           | 
           | I'm dismissing his standard of what counts as "clarity"
           | because I sense he's expecting a lawyerly definition based on
           | something akin to precedent and case law. In other words,
           | he's seeking past examples of alleged "cancel culture" and
           | trying to define what made each event count as, or not count
           | as, "cancel culture". And then from that formulate a rigid
           | definition. I believe such a rigid definition is flawed
           | because it is reactionary, because vernacular consensus is
           | not formed this way, and because the definition can easily be
           | skirted around.
           | 
           | It would be like me demanding clarity on what makes something
           | "cool".
        
             | tptacek wrote:
             | If you want to erect a new societal norm around "cool", it
             | would in fact fall upon you to define "coolness".
        
               | BitwiseFool wrote:
               | I'm not sure I'm trying to do that. I chose "cool" as an
               | example because none of us came up with the term, no one
               | can confidently define it and have everyone agree on it,
               | and it's a word we all seem to use without truly knowing
               | what it means.
               | 
               | At the risk of stretching an analogy too far, I would not
               | need to define what "coolness" is in order to confront
               | people who I perceive to be overly critical and who are
               | trying to get people to stop expressing themselves in
               | ways they perceive as "uncool". In other words, if I tell
               | someone "If you have nothing nice to say don't say
               | anything at all", it does not seem reasonable to expect
               | me to define what "nice" means in order to justify
               | chiding someone for not being nice.
        
               | tptacek wrote:
               | You're getting to Ken White's point, which is that we
               | can't reasonably call for clear norms about "cancel
               | culture" given how poorly defined it is. Without that
               | definition --- and maybe we'll never have it --- "cancel
               | culture" is mostly just an undisciplined tool for
               | shutting down criticism.
               | 
               | White writes at length about the fact that
               | disproportionate responses to objectionable speech
               | happen, and are worth discussing. His take is that you
               | have to talk about those things in their particulars,
               | rather than trying to write staff editorials and open
               | letters about the phenomenon of "cancel culture" (or, in
               | the NYT's case, a [nonexistant!] right to express
               | thoughts without fear of shame or shunning).
               | 
               | White's essay is _about the NYT letter_. It is not an
               | attempt to end the  "cancel culture" debate once and for
               | all. I'd ask you to scroll through this thread and try to
               | pick out the arguments here that recognize that fact, or
               | the ones that are clearly premised on the notion that
               | White believes he's "solved" the cancel culture problem
               | (or doesn't believe it's real).
        
         | dragonwriter wrote:
         | > Popehat seems to be falling into the trap of thinking the
         | precisely defining something will lead to clarity
         | 
         | No, he's very clearly making the argument that vigorously
         | avoiding defining it at all while trying to argue about it
         | prevents any coherency or utility, not that precisely defining
         | it leads to clarity.
        
         | adriand wrote:
         | > Popehat seems to be falling into the trap of thinking the
         | precisely defining something will lead to clarity. It rarely,
         | if ever, does. Each one of us has our own conception of a term
         | - wordfeel, if you will - and virtually no one actually knows
         | or holds to the literal dictionary definition.
         | 
         | I really disagree, I think he addresses this very specifically
         | at the end of the article, where he writes, "I believe more
         | specificity -- action items -- is the answer":
         | 
         | > Pointing to specific instances of "cancellation" and debating
         | why they are inside or outside of our norms is a productive
         | action item. Saying "colleges shouldn't disinvite speakers
         | because of controversy" is a good specific action item; we can
         | debate it. Saying "Ken, stop piling on 20-follower Twitter
         | accounts when they say stupid things" is an action item; I can
         | debate it. [Shan't.] Saying "stop demanding that businesses
         | fire people for what they say off the job" is an action item. I
         | might not agree but we can discuss it.
         | 
         | He's not at all falling into a definition trap! I think that
         | misses the point of the article, which is one of the most
         | coherent articles I've ever encountered on the subject.
        
         | abnry wrote:
         | Cancel culture is...
         | 
         | targeted at individuals,
         | 
         | for the loss of their job, invitations, or positions,
         | 
         | for offenses that are minor in comparison to historical
         | offenses,
         | 
         | or offenses that are based on guilt by association or
         | speculative inference,
         | 
         | often for things in the past,
         | 
         | which were things many people accepted at the time,
         | 
         | and often which the individual disavows today.
        
           | tptacek wrote:
           | That's a more specific and coherent definition of cancel
           | culture, but it's certainly not the current consensus
           | definition: many "cancel culture" debates --- probably most
           | of them --- are about speech or opinions that the individual
           | stands resolutely behind.
           | 
           | And, of course, "for offenses that are minor in comparison"
           | or "speculative" is almost always subjective; it just shifts
           | the debate to a different set of words, but it doesn't narrow
           | it or offer us any guidance. People think all sorts of things
           | are minor, or world-ending; proven, or fabricated.
        
             | abnry wrote:
             | > And, of course, "for offenses that are minor in
             | comparison" or "speculative" is almost always subjective.
             | 
             | They really aren't. I used the word "historically" for this
             | reason. Years ago, for example, people would openly espouse
             | directly racist views. Today, you can get fired for using a
             | slur in the "mention" category, rather than in the "use"
             | category.
             | 
             | And speculative inference isn't anything more than saying,
             | "this person said x, y, & z... which means they _must_ also
             | believe horrendous things a, b & c" when it is in fact
             | logically possible to believe x, y & z without believing a,
             | b, & c.
        
               | tptacek wrote:
               | You can get fired for having the wrong hairstyle --- that
               | is a thing that in fact happens more often than firings
               | because of cancel mobs. So we're not really saying much
               | yet. Similarly, you can use the logic in your second
               | paragraph to insulate any kind of speech at all from
               | approbation; if you take what you're saying to its clear
               | conclusion, what you're really saying is that it's never
               | OK to boycott anything over speech. That's far beyond
               | what even the most vigorous anti-cancel-culture advocates
               | are saying.
        
               | musicale wrote:
               | > Today, you can get fired for using a slur in the
               | "mention" category, rather than in the "use" category.
               | 
               | Surely a reference to something is different than the
               | thing itself, and quoting someone does not mean that you
               | endorse their viewpoint.
               | 
               | Claiming or acting otherwise seems like it would lead to
               | all sorts of logical contradictions.
        
           | orangecat wrote:
           | Or "offenses" that are purely imaginary, like suggesting that
           | people should read a book before accusing its author of
           | transphobia (https://laurenhough.substack.com/p/a-question-
           | for-lambda-lit...), or discussing a common Chinese expression
           | whose pronunciation vaguely resembles a slur in English
           | (https://www.insidehighered.com/news/2020/09/08/professor-
           | sus...).
        
         | pas wrote:
         | > defining something will lead to clarity. It rarely, if ever,
         | does
         | 
         | US politics is full of ambiguities, word games, and of course
         | attacks that exploit these clarity gaps. See a list [0] of them
         | below.
         | 
         | Of course slogans are useful, and trying to hold hypocrites to
         | account by using their slogan against them, yet at the same
         | time it seems the political discourse is _extremely_ low
         | signal-to-noise, and there 's almost no general need/demand for
         | clarity. For example the both the "rich people pay no taxes"
         | and the usual "XY corp last year paid 3.50 in taxes" memes are
         | just that, catchy memes.
         | 
         | And all of this puts a brutally counter productive shouting at
         | the late night game feeling on politics. (Sure, there's a
         | reason why political discourse is like this... we probably have
         | to go through the catchy meme arms race.)
         | 
         | [0] BLM, defund the police, liberal and classical liberal,
         | gender/sex, socialism, recently critical race theory, equality
         | vs equity (equal outcome, equal opportunity), free speech vs.
         | selective publishing/hosting of content free from government
         | interference; safe space vs. safe space from certain
         | ideas/trigger vs. safe space for expressing ideas free of
         | consequences, and maybe also "no child left behind" too. (Of
         | course a few of them are proper slogans, but then due to the
         | ambiguity in semantics folks try to use these as concrete
         | promises.)
        
         | Animats wrote:
         | _Popehat seems to be falling into the trap of thinking the
         | precisely defining something will lead to clarity._
         | 
         | He does seem to be obsessing over nomenclature. A more useful
         | question is, what happens if you express an unpopular opinion?
         | Do you get fired? Arrested? Lynched? Torn to bits by a mob?
         | Shamed on social media? Blocked by social media companies?
         | Can't get published in major media? Attacked by TV pundits? Not
         | invited to the good parties? Also, how long does this go on,
         | and is it retroactive for things said in the past?
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | zeruch wrote:
         | "Popehat seems to be falling into the trap of thinking the
         | precisely defining something will lead to clarity."
         | 
         | It's not a trap, it's essentially true. Clarity doesn't mean
         | solvability, but reducing ambiguity, or at the very least
         | getting some better consensual agreement on terms among
         | adversaries usually helps flash out the discourse beyond tropes
         | and jabs.
        
         | Imnimo wrote:
         | >I don't know what Popehat actually wants here.
         | 
         | I think he wants people who say "we should end cancel culture"
         | to recognize that their cause is not "the spirit of free
         | speech".
        
         | systemvoltage wrote:
         | This completely leaves out that the tolerance for speech, even
         | minor offenses, which used to be acceptable are now being
         | weaponized to destroy each other in visceral, tribal fashion.
         | 
         | You can have an accountable society and cancel someone for
         | crossing the line. That line used to be for things such as
         | Pedophilia, encouraging violence, promoting rape-culture, etc.
         | Truly terrible things.
         | 
         | I hope people will wake up or we'll end up with a worse place
         | than ever.
        
         | Misdicorl wrote:
         | > Popehat seems to be falling into the trap of thinking the
         | precisely defining something will lead to clarity. It rarely,
         | if ever, does.
         | 
         |  _Certainly_ it leads to more clarity. Two parties talking
         | "past" each other is one of _the_ most common sources of
         | disagreement in my experience. Of course it isn 't a panacea
         | and there will still be disagreement on when the definition is
         | being used correctly, and bad actors, and .... But it is an
         | _excellent_ (and I would argue _necessary_ ) starting point for
         | any meaningful discussion.
         | 
         | > Additionally, I think Popehat is dead wrong here:.... I don't
         | know what Popehat actually wants here
         | 
         | The headings of the sections work pretty neatly for me to
         | distill this down (skipping the intro).
         | 
         | 1) (Why) Working Towards A Definition Is Important -> dont just
         | handwave
         | 
         | 2) Propaganda Drives Perception -> rethink what you think
         | cancel culture is
         | 
         | 3) Everybody's Rights Matter -> The person being cancelled may
         | have been out of bounds and trying to cancel someone else too.
         | Context is important
         | 
         | 4) We Need Action Items -> stop these stupid articles that
         | simply clutch pearls and propose something _anything_ that can
         | actually be considered
        
           | parineum wrote:
           | > Two parties talking "past" each other is one of the most
           | common sources of disagreement in my experience.
           | 
           | A prime and recent example of this is "defund the police".
           | You could talk to 10 people at a protest and get 10 different
           | answers on what that means, and that's among supporters. Any
           | actual conversation on the topic has to start with "well what
           | do you mean?". You would often hear a refrain of "nobody is
           | talking about completely defunding the police." but there was
           | plenty of actual support for that in just-outside-of-
           | mainstream groups.
           | 
           | So many movements are united behind such vague slogans that
           | they garner widespread support because everybody has a
           | personal and reasonable (to them) interpretation of it's
           | meaning.
           | 
           | "Cancel culture" just the next "Occupy Wallstreet", "Black
           | Lives Matter", "Defund the Police", etc. It's a leaderless
           | grassroots phenomenon with no stated objectives or goals.
           | 
           | I think people are much more concerned with finding a
           | community to fight with rather than actually winning the
           | fight.
        
             | Misdicorl wrote:
             | Yes, the "vague idea anyone can attach meaning to" is often
             | an intentional aspect of these movements to gather larger
             | support. Its also easy to subsequently exploit and I think
             | the venerable CIA handbook from the ~60s goes into detail
             | on that. Of course having a narrow focus doesn't really
             | stop exploitation from a motivated counterparty with
             | sufficient resources, especially when you need broad source
             | support (e.g. large political reform issues).
        
         | skissane wrote:
         | > No rights are actually being infringed by this. It is
         | possible to have cultural mores that are in the spirit of free
         | speech.
         | 
         | What do you mean by "rights"? Legal rights or moral rights? If
         | legal rights, under which law in which jurisdiction? I agree
         | very many cases of "cancellation" are not illegal, and as such
         | not violating anyone's legal rights - but a lot of people seem
         | to approach this with a narrow focus on the US 1st Amendment
         | (hereafter 1A), when this isn't a US-only issue, and even in
         | the US there are other laws involved than just 1A - a private
         | company firing someone for their publicly expressed political
         | views cannot violate 1A, but it _might_ violate state laws
         | against political discrimination in employment (such as
         | California Labor Code section 1101), and those state laws can
         | also be understood as creating (or recognising) legal rights.
         | Also, law is not static, it evolves through case law and
         | legislation, so something which is legal today might not be
         | legal in the future-people who believe that we have a problem
         | with "cancel culture" are likely to lobby for laws against it,
         | and we'll see if they succeed.
         | 
         | If one acknowledges the existence of ethics/morality
         | independent of the law, it follows people may have
         | ethical/moral rights which are violated even if their legal
         | rights (in a certain jurisdiction at a certain time) are not
         | being violated.
        
         | Latty wrote:
         | > I don't know what Popehat actually wants here.
         | 
         | For people to stop calling it "cancel culture" whenever they
         | face reasonable consequences for actions they take that harm
         | others would be a good start.
         | 
         | People not wanting to patronize or associate with you when you
         | cause harm to people they care about is really not a bad thing,
         | and it's not new either, and yet it is what gets called "cancel
         | culture" by a lot of people.
         | 
         | Contextless social media that encourages misunderstanding, a
         | lack of ability to find retractions, and the ability to dig up
         | old sins and present them as present views are an issue, and
         | result in people piling onto others over misconceptions. It's a
         | real problem. That's almost _never_ what actually gets talked
         | about, it 's just "I should get to say whatever I want without
         | people disliking me".
        
           | noduerme wrote:
           | As you point out, while boycotting someone based on your
           | perception of their opinion is not _new_ , the modality of
           | mass mob boycotts of individuals over things potentially
           | taken out of context is entirely new, and that's exactly what
           | "cancel culture" refers to. The underlying mechanism of
           | Twitter is what gave birth to the term, regardless of whether
           | it's used by haters to justify hate speech.
           | 
           | One other thing that's new, in America, is the idea that
           | speech is less important than people's feelings. Coupled with
           | the new notion that hurting someone's feelings constitutes a
           | form of harm tantamount to violence, this allows
           | proportionality in punishment to be abstracted away. If
           | measures of harm are arbitrary and shifting depending on how
           | much mob traction one particular issue recieves or how
           | sensitive one person happens to be, then proportionality is
           | impossible, and "cancel culture" captures a state where
           | cancellation is the answer to any grievance of any severity
           | which manages to find cultural purchase.
        
             | commandlinefan wrote:
             | > the modality of mass mob boycotts
             | 
             | I was watching the news this morning and they were talking
             | about the latest company that's boycotting Russia in
             | response to the social media storm. It occurred to me that
             | governments are becoming increasingly irrelevant. They
             | don't have to impose sanctions (and their own rules make it
             | difficult to do so) - the Twitter mob is deciding who to
             | banish. It's a form of democracy, I guess - but one without
             | any checks or balances or regulations.
        
               | dylan604 wrote:
               | > It's a form of democracy, I guess
               | 
               | It's not much different than the old historical mobs with
               | pitch forks and torches, only there's a slightly lower
               | potential to physical harm.
        
               | jimbokun wrote:
               | A handful of tech companies arguably have far more power
               | to regulate speech than any government.
        
               | guelo wrote:
               | Not universally true, Putin and Xi Jinping have more
               | power than tech companies in their countries.
               | 
               | America decided 231 years ago that private actors would
               | have more power over speech than the government.
        
               | krapp wrote:
               | The counterargument to that, of course, is that a handful
               | of tech companies can't actually make your speech
               | illegal, make their competition illegal, arrest you,
               | imprison you, ban your speech across an entire country,
               | burn your literature or have you and your
               | ethic/religious/political group shot and dumped into
               | shallow graves.
               | 
               | I mean, sure... getting banned from Twitter is
               | momentarily annoying but Twitter having _far more power
               | to regulate speech_ than the entity that writes the laws
               | that define Twitter 's existence, that claims a monopoly
               | on violence, and that in many cases directly controls the
               | media and censors the internet? No.
               | 
               | It's a common argument but I've never really found it a
               | compelling one.
        
               | gopher_space wrote:
               | > It's a common argument but I've never really found it a
               | compelling one.
               | 
               | You can literally make your own twitter any time you
               | want. My charitable view is that people are actually
               | complaining about a monopoly on attention. It's an
               | interesting subject but doesn't have anything to do with
               | speech.
        
               | RcouF1uZ4gsC wrote:
               | > You can literally make your own twitter any time you
               | want.
               | 
               | Until cloud companies decide to stop hosting you and
               | registrars refuse to register your domain.
               | 
               | But of course you can also make your own cloud company
               | and your own domain registrar as well.
        
               | Terry_Roll wrote:
               | > It occurred to me that governments are becoming
               | increasingly irrelevant.
               | 
               | I've been thinking this for quite a few years now.
               | 
               | >the Twitter mob is deciding who to banish. It's a form
               | of democracy, I guess - but one without any checks or
               | balances or regulations.
               | 
               | Or swarms of bots shaping public opinion run by just a
               | few people? As long as Govt's allow encryption, over the
               | telecoms networks in their countries, the sooner govts
               | become irrelevant.
        
             | [deleted]
        
             | guelo wrote:
             | Consumer boycotts are not new. They have a long history
             | including the Boston Tea Party that kicked off America.
        
             | ashtonkem wrote:
             | > As you point out, while boycotting someone based on your
             | perception of their opinion is not new, the modality of
             | mass mob boycotts of individuals over things potentially
             | taken out of context is entirely new. ... One other thing
             | that's new, in America, is the idea that speech is less
             | important than people's feelings.
             | 
             | They used to kill people for advocating for integration and
             | civil rights. Actual mobs used to assemble to kill black
             | men accused of hitting on white women. Not internet "mobs",
             | actual ones with guns and pitchforks.
             | 
             | Literally nothing you're talking about is new, in fact it
             | has gotten way less bad over the past few decades. In fact,
             | arguing that its new and pernicious requires us to
             | purposefully ignore the history of political and speech
             | based violence throughout the 20th century and earlier.
        
               | dataangel wrote:
               | I'm not convinced that history is just repeating itself.
               | There does seem to be something qualitatively different
               | about the possibility that nowadays a non-celebrity can
               | spout an offensive joke or political take and have it be
               | much more likely to be recorded and broadcast to the
               | whole world with permanent consequences for them
               | everywhere they go. Bad decisions are far more likely
               | nowadays to be permanently recorded, and moving over to
               | the next town, state etc is no longer enough to escape
               | your history. There were implicit safeguards before in
               | that most people were much less likely to have a wide
               | audience that would remember what they said. It was much
               | easier to change your mind about something and then
               | pretend it was your opinion the entire time and save
               | face. There are organizations with pet issues that
               | dedicate themselves to recording offensive social media
               | posts by college students and then making profile pages
               | for each student on their site to publicly shame them. In
               | the past these kids could graduate and then change their
               | mind years later and no one would be the wiser as long as
               | they never became celebrities or politicians.
        
               | jimbokun wrote:
               | Speech is far more free in the US today than in, say, the
               | 1950s and 1960s.
               | 
               | But I would argue less free than, say, the 1990s.
        
               | danShumway wrote:
               | I personally don't think even that is true.
               | 
               | - Culturally, the 90's were ripe with moral panics over
               | satanism, gender expression, obscenity, etc... That could
               | be a longer conversation, but the short version is that
               | there was a ton of speech suppression happening in the
               | 90's and early 2000's.
               | 
               | - Technologically, our mediums today (as problematic as
               | they are) still allow for a greater ease of communication
               | with a wider audience than they did in the 90's. There
               | are developments online since the 90's that I don't like,
               | and I worry about centralization online. But the earlier
               | decentralized Internet was also very insular and
               | inaccessible to a lot of people, and I think that gets
               | lost from conversations about Internet freedom. More
               | people have access to the Internet today and more people
               | have access to publishing platforms today.
               | 
               | - In terms of mass media, there is again worrying
               | consolidation happening, but it is nevertheless still the
               | case that getting your message out to a wide audience in
               | 2022 is easier than it was in 1990. Podcasts, video
               | streaming, site deployment, etc... is all easier to do
               | today than it was in the past.
               | 
               | Stuff like game development, music production, and so on
               | are also easier today than they were in 1990. That's not
               | to say that they're perfect or can't be improved, but I
               | think back to the Flash boom, and that didn't really
               | start until the early 2000's and it really was a
               | different level of accessibility for making games,
               | including games about political and social topics. In the
               | same vein, a quick reminder that Youtube as a site was
               | not founded until 2005 and until 2010 the max video
               | length was only 10 minutes. Podcasts didn't really start
               | to catch on among the public until the late 2000's.
               | Patreon was launched in 2013, providing a very simple,
               | mainstream way for at least some creators to self-fund
               | their own work by directly interacting with fans.
               | 
               | ----
               | 
               | I think people forget sometimes how new all of this stuff
               | is. And again, that ignores how much straight-up
               | censorship and how many moral panics were happening
               | during that time period, but even just from a
               | technological perspective, if I have a message I need to
               | get out, I would rather do it in the 2020's than the
               | 1990's.
               | 
               | I could _maybe_ see an argument that we 're on a
               | technological downtick from the 2010's, but honestly I
               | don't even believe that. Even with all of the platform
               | problems we have online (and it is a problem for our
               | online communication to be so centralized and there are
               | problems about where some platforms are headed), I still
               | feel like almost everything today about media production
               | and dissemination is just so much easier than it used to
               | be. About the only thing I really miss is Flash, and I
               | don't even really think that's a tech problem, I think
               | many of those developers have just moved over to programs
               | like Unity.
               | 
               | Not to say everything is perfect or everything has gotten
               | better, just... I think people have rose-colored glasses
               | that they wear when looking back at those times.
        
               | SpicyLemonZest wrote:
               | I can see an argument for it, but it's worth noting that
               | there was quite a lot of censorship in the 90s that
               | people don't often remember nowadays. Remember when MTG
               | and D&D completely removed "demon" and "devil" from their
               | lexicon? Remember when Nintendo localization policies
               | required removing every cross from every game?
        
               | tptacek wrote:
               | In the 1990s, my ability to speak was restricted to high
               | school essays, zines that 12 people read, and FIDONet BBS
               | boards.
        
               | noduerme wrote:
               | That was, for many of us, our ability to be _heard_. Our
               | ability to _speak_ was not hindered by fear of having our
               | lives ruined for holding an unpopular opinion or asking
               | an incorrectly phrased question.
        
               | tptacek wrote:
               | The most common battlefield on which these "cancellation"
               | debates happen is people's access to Twitter, a service
               | that did not exist in the 1990s (you could, obviously,
               | get banned off a BBS for any or no reason). You see it in
               | this very thread: people writing appeals to the amount of
               | control tech companies have over speech, and how
               | unprecedented that is.
        
               | ssully wrote:
               | What are things that you would say in the 1990's that you
               | wouldn't feel comfortable saying today?
        
               | dataangel wrote:
               | Can't speak for parent but I have refrained from
               | discussions of things people have been cancelled for even
               | when I agree what is leading to the cancelling is
               | horrific, because the consequences of getting
               | misinterpreted are too grave. Even asking a clarifying
               | question for something you genuinely don't know could be
               | misinterpreted as a dog whistle. It's hard to blame
               | people for that because sometimes clarifying questions
               | really are feigned ignorance meant to sink time or
               | provoke, but at the same time there is a growing
               | sentiment on Twitter and elsewhere that choosing the most
               | charitable interpretation in discussion is actually bad
               | and empowers bad actors. What you get is a situation
               | where nobody trusts anybody.
        
               | noduerme wrote:
               | Anything that called bullshit on political correctness,
               | and anything not politically correct.
               | 
               | I'm not afraid to say so here, but I would be if I were
               | on social media.
        
               | jimbokun wrote:
               | Lol, obviously if I typed it here it would mean I'm
               | comfortable saying it, so it's a Catch-22 isn't it?
        
               | long_time_gone wrote:
               | If you can't explicitly say it, can you at least describe
               | in what ways it is "less free than, say, the 1990s?"
               | 
               | If not, the comment loses value.
        
               | lazide wrote:
               | Eh, 'it depends' - plenty of people got harassed, sent to
               | jail, or outright killed for being openly gay during that
               | time, among many other things. Not everywhere, but a
               | great many places in the US.
               | 
               | Anti-obscenity laws were also going nuts around that
               | time.
               | 
               | The internet was relatively mellow on that front, but
               | that was because it was mostly unknown and super niche.
               | 
               | society was still trying to apply it's rules to it, it
               | was just far less competent at doing so.
        
               | kbelder wrote:
               | I'd agree.
               | 
               | I'd also say race relations are on the same trajectory,
               | and that's probably not a coincidence.
        
               | pessimizer wrote:
               | They used to imprison people for sending information
               | about birth control through the mail. I don't know what
               | planet the "it wasn't like this in the good old days"
               | people live on. The most common phrase quoted by people
               | to describe a hypothetical rational limit on speech[*]
               | was cribbed from a case that found it was ok to imprison
               | people for passing out pamphlets against WWI.
               | 
               | * https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shouting_fire_in_a_crowde
               | d_the...
        
               | Latty wrote:
               | > I don't know what planet the "it wasn't like this in
               | the good old days" people live on.
               | 
               | Obviously not always, but often because you are viewing
               | it through the a different lens: there is an unspoken
               | "for people like me" missing from the end of their
               | statement.
        
               | danShumway wrote:
               | There's a huge lack of education and cultural
               | understanding about just how much freedom of speech we
               | have today compared to what it was like in the past.
               | Overall, people in America are more free today to say
               | things than they used to be in the past, period. They
               | have more mediums that they can publish to, it is easier
               | than ever before for them to get support and to connect
               | with communities, and legal protections have literally
               | never been better.
               | 
               | I think part of it is that dominant parts of culture were
               | never in a position to experience past censorship. Some
               | of it might just be short memories. Some of it is
               | probably bad faith, or that attacks on Twitter feel more
               | real for some people. But the lack of perspective is a
               | real problem. You don't have to go far into the past to
               | find out that there were tons of taboo topics and ideas
               | that could not be talked about, both because of legal
               | restrictions and gatekeepers, and because of a lack of
               | tolerance from society, and because the mediums through
               | which to talk about them were just so much more
               | centralized and exclusive than they are today.
               | 
               | Even today, I find that free speech advocates (and I
               | consider myself to be a free speech advocate) are often
               | uneducated about the scale of censorship that happens
               | outside of mainstream culture.
               | 
               | It's really disappointing and frustrating. Academics get
               | a tiny, tiny sliver of the kind of backlash that
               | marginalized groups get when they protest dominant
               | narratives, and it's the end of the world -- because many
               | of them have just never encountered real, hard censorship
               | before and they don't have a frame of reference. Or less
               | charitably, they just don't care about having a frame of
               | reference and it's all just a narrative tool for them.
        
               | Animats wrote:
               | _They have more mediums that they can publish to, it is
               | easier than ever before for them to get support and to
               | connect with communities, and legal protections have
               | literally never been better._
               | 
               | Yes. Now everybody has a megaphone and it's too noisy to
               | hear anything. This leads to heavy self-selection of
               | inputs. The real battle today is not over who can say
               | what. It's what people should be listening to.
               | 
               | For the current war, not much is being censored after the
               | source. You can read all the positions: Russia Today,
               | China Daily, South China Morning Post, One America News
               | Network, CNN, Fox, the Voice of America, the BBC,
               | Reuters, the office of the President of Ukraine... Plus
               | vast amounts of stuff on Twitter. Few people do that.
               | They tend to obtain info from one source they more or
               | less agree with.
        
               | danShumway wrote:
               | > The real battle today is not over who can say what.
               | It's what people should be listening to.
               | 
               | This is why the characterization of all speech criticism
               | as cancel culture is so problematic. We have a segment of
               | the population now that believes that free speech means
               | not only that they can say things while being shielded by
               | laws from government retaliation and by cultural norms
               | from unreasonable forms of cultural retaliation; they now
               | also believe that free speech requires them to be given
               | exclusive, privileged priority on platforms and for them
               | to be given extra control over what people hear. For
               | them, it is cancel culture that their voice isn't louder
               | than everyone else's.
               | 
               | Notably, they don't view it as censorship that other
               | segments of the population don't have the same platform
               | privileges in the first place. To them, the normal
               | position of free speech is that their voice should always
               | be specially audible, and they are less concerned about
               | making it easier across the board for people to filter
               | through the noise or about democratizing curation, and
               | more concerned with making sure that their microphone is
               | never threatened by other people's speech or association.
               | 
               | ----
               | 
               | It is very important for us to talk about how people get
               | information and about how to further decrease gatekeeping
               | around curation and subscription of information; I think
               | that's one of the next fronts in increasing free speech
               | in America.
               | 
               | But it's also important for us to recognize that most
               | people don't have exclusive contracts with major media
               | networks and tons of advertising and promotion, and that
               | demanding that people retain access to privileged speech
               | platforms while their critics are characterized as
               | censors for even just criticizing them or boycotting
               | those platforms -- it's essentially the same as walking
               | into a public gym and getting mad that everyone doesn't
               | stop their own conversation and only listen to what one
               | person has to say.
               | 
               | I think Popehat really hits the nail on the head when he
               | talks about privileging the first speaker; some (not all,
               | but some) of the backlash I see around online
               | communication and criticism is coming from people who
               | were used to being major voices that couldn't be ignored,
               | and are mad that the increased noise means they no longer
               | have that same level of exclusivity or respect, and are
               | mad that opposing voices are increasingly given the same
               | level of volume and attention and that those voices have
               | more ability to respond to their speech. They're mad that
               | their critics are on more equal footing with them in
               | public debates and have similar levels of reach and
               | volume.
               | 
               | This is why it's also so deeply important to express that
               | there is a difference between a rando someplace getting
               | fired from their job for a Twitter opinion they gave 10
               | years ago, and someone getting disinvited from an semi-
               | exclusive speaking role at a conference because they are
               | actively expressing bad or harmful ideas. Those are
               | really not the same thing; one is a cultural retaliation
               | against speech that might cross the line into unnecessary
               | harm and mob justice, and the other is just people
               | getting mad that they don't have a special right to an
               | exclusive megaphone.
        
             | kritiko wrote:
             | >One other thing that's new, in America, is the idea that
             | speech is less important than people's feelings. Lenny
             | Bruce was convicted of obscenity less than 60 years ago.
             | The civil liberties around speech went through a series of
             | challenges and expansions very recently. The ACLU used to
             | defend nazis. Now they prefer not to, to the chagrin or
             | dismay of more traditional civil libertarians.
        
               | noduerme wrote:
               | The one thing that's remained constant from times when
               | civil rights activists were imprisoned for "offending"
               | people to now when right wingers are canceled for
               | offending people seems to be that the bulk of the
               | population is incapable of, or unwilling to, set the
               | principle of speech over their own feelings about that
               | speech. I think it's because most people just can't
               | imagine themselves being on the wrong end of a censorship
               | regime (civil, corporate, or otherwise).
               | 
               | This is why the ACLU was so important; that was the
               | entire point of it. It was started by a Jew. I'm a Jew,
               | and I contributed to it. Not because I like nazis or
               | think for a moment that they'd give me the same chance to
               | speak. But because inevitably, narrowing of speech will
               | come for those who believe themselves immune. We will
               | have a far-right government again, and whatever liberties
               | we allow to erode now because it suits us will be used
               | against us. Only the very young and those with very short
               | memories think that silencing opinions they don't like is
               | a winning strategy in the long run.
        
               | Latty wrote:
               | You are equating government imprisonment with public
               | cancellation here because they both have a chilling
               | effect, but we very quickly run into the paradox of
               | tolerance: do you restrict the expression of "cancelling"
               | to protect other speech?
               | 
               | Those Nazis you use an example of abhorrent speech that
               | must be allowed were calling for communists to be rounded
               | up and killed for their views. Surely that is partaking
               | in cancellation?
               | 
               | Who cancels the cancellers?
        
               | cgrealy wrote:
               | > narrowing of speech will come for those who believe
               | themselves immune.
               | 
               | True, but on other hand, history has shown us the Paradox
               | of Tolerance.
               | 
               | "Liberals" have learned this lesson. When I was growing
               | up, people who I would consider socially liberal
               | generally supported the "I disagree with what you say,
               | but will defend your right to say it" position. These
               | days, the same people are less confident. I'm one of
               | them.
               | 
               | I want a free and open society where people can discuss
               | ideas and those ideas are weighed on their merits and the
               | ridiculous ones (racism, sexism, homophobia, etc) are
               | laughed at.
               | 
               | But that's not what's happened. The Overton Window in the
               | US has dramatically shifted.
               | 
               | I don't know how to fix this. I don't even know that
               | there is a fix for this. But I can certainly understand
               | the mindset that says "maybe we don't need to defend
               | nazis?"
        
               | Jensson wrote:
               | > I want a free and open society where people can discuss
               | ideas and those ideas are weighed on their merits and the
               | ridiculous ones (racism, sexism, homophobia, etc) are
               | laughed at.
               | 
               | > But that's not what's happened. The Overton Window in
               | the US has dramatically shifted.
               | 
               | Any evidence for this? To me it seems like things went in
               | the right direction and never really stopped. That things
               | are getting worse and therefore we need to police the
               | people harder is just a lie, don't listen to them.
               | 
               | Example, a little over a decade ago the general consensus
               | was that gay marriage shouldn't be legal, in what way was
               | the overton window of gay rights better back then?
               | Authoritarians always try to convince you that evil is
               | growing so they need more powers, but they are wrong
               | regardless if they are right wing or left wing
               | authoritarians.
               | 
               | https://news.gallup.com/poll/1651/gay-lesbian-rights.aspx
        
               | galaxyLogic wrote:
               | Of course we don't have to defend Nazis but we can defend
               | free speech. We should attack Nazis' inhumane poisonous
               | speech and misinformation. And especially we shouldn't
               | amplify it. Twitter should not amplify the spread of
               | fascist ideology in the name of "fairness". They should
               | ban it. People still have their freedom of speech but
               | Twitter has the right to not propagate hate and lies.
        
               | Animats wrote:
               | _But because inevitably, narrowing of speech will come
               | for those who believe themselves immune._
               | 
               | Exactly.
        
               | iosono88 wrote:
        
             | tptacek wrote:
             | I think you're making White's point for him. You're
             | implying that free speech should be at least as important
             | as other people's feelings. He agrees. Which is why appeals
             | for a new norm of shutting up critics is so problematic.
             | This is what he's talking about with his "First Speaker
             | Problem" thing: the "free speech" you're alluding to is
             | virtually always a response to someone else's speech. How
             | do you coherently isolate the speech that must be protected
             | --- the supposed "first speaker" --- from the speech that
             | shouldn't (critics of that first speaker)?
        
               | gambler wrote:
               | A) Criticizing an idea so that others understand how it
               | is flawed.
               | 
               | B) "Criticizing" an idea to get it expunged from various
               | media to manipulate what ideas people are exposed to.
               | 
               | If you even _pretend_ that there is no difference between
               | A and B, you 're not worth intellectually engaging with.
        
               | jakelazaroff wrote:
               | Sure, but the point here is that the NYT is engaging in
               | B.
        
               | tptacek wrote:
               | Then you shouldn't have any problem with what Ken White
               | is saying here, because he makes that distinction at
               | great length.
        
               | jimbokun wrote:
               | It's a norm not a law.
               | 
               | Be open to a broad array of viewpoints and opinions, as a
               | general rule. It makes you a better human being.
        
               | tptacek wrote:
               | It's an aspirational norm, but it's nobody's practiced
               | norm; virtually everybody has lines they draw. So what
               | does it tell us that we can aspire to having that norm?
               | I'd argue: not much.
        
               | jimbokun wrote:
               | The extent to which a society aspires to this norm has a
               | great effect on the extent to which that society
               | flourishes and prospers.
        
               | tptacek wrote:
               | Then we've clearly flourished throughout the 20th century
               | in spit of it and not because of it.
        
               | hanselot wrote:
        
               | akvadrako wrote:
               | You are saying we shouldn't be open? That will surely
               | lead to never ending conflict.
        
               | tptacek wrote:
               | I can't even figure out how to connect your response to
               | what I wrote, so I can't possibly do any good by trying
               | to reply to it.
        
               | klyrs wrote:
               | My opinion is that Joe Dingleberry* should shut up,
               | because I've already heard his opinion and find it
               | uninteresting. Are you open to my opinion, or just Joe's?
               | 
               | * name changed to protect the uninteresting
        
               | Natsu wrote:
               | It's funny to see all the shifts on this. 18 USC 1001 was
               | "chickensh-t" that they wouldn't pull back in his day to
               | Ken... at least until it wasn't. We talked about chilling
               | effects and heckler's vetoes, but now they're well-
               | deserved social sanctions?
               | 
               | I've been reading him for probably a decade now, so it's
               | hard not to notice how things change whenever the shoe is
               | on the other foot.
        
               | tptacek wrote:
               | I think White has been pretty consistent about 18 USC
               | 1001 being chickenshit, even when it applied to Trump
               | employees. It's important to distinguish between
               | normative and positive arguments; whenever White talks
               | about 18 USC 1001, he's making positive claims. If
               | you're, for instance, talking about the All The
               | Presidents lawyers podcast, he was there to handicap what
               | was actually going to happen in cases against the Trump
               | administration. He wasn't _running_ the prosecution.
               | 
               | And, when he does, he virtually always points out how
               | that statute is more often used to harass people we find
               | sympathetic, even when it's being aimed at e.g. Trump's
               | former lawyer.
               | 
               | (18 USC 1001 for non-Pope-Heads is the statute that
               | criminalizes lying to the FBI).
        
               | Natsu wrote:
               | I watched that podcast and didn't see it. Given that it
               | was a prosecution over a difference of opinion over what
               | constitutes discussion of "sanctions" in a call they had
               | a recording of, with only an FD-302 for evidence of what
               | was said, where the only copy was from months after the
               | fact.
               | 
               | I don't know that I listened to every podcast, so you an
               | point out a quote if there was one, but I sure don't
               | remember anything like the word "chickensh-t" coming up.
               | Instead, there were a lot of longwinded debates over who
               | had the better substantive argument for how long a
               | prosecution that was dismissed could be maintained by the
               | court.
               | 
               | Which seems patently absurd given that they are violating
               | separation of powers there. But it's political, so
               | concerns about a judge playing prosecutor were simply
               | tossed out the window? What was the end result of that
               | supposed to be, anyway? A criminal referral... to the
               | people dropping the case?
               | 
               | Those seem like awfully big concerns to sweep away in a
               | mealy-mouthed discussion of substantive factors where he
               | honestly didn't sound like he was taking a side.
               | 
               | And I'm pretty sure we've both been listening to him for
               | a long time, since I sorta think it was one of your
               | comments a really long time ago that made me start
               | reading his stuff. Do you really not see any changes?
               | 
               | I'd say his tone started changing about the time he had
               | that feud and split with his former friend Clark.
        
               | tptacek wrote:
               | Which podcast in particular? It ran for 3 years, and 18
               | USC 1001 was a recurring character.
               | 
               | I don't think discussing Clark is going to do any favors
               | for your arguments.
        
               | Natsu wrote:
               | Not going to defend Clark here, just using that as a
               | point of time reference and possible explanation for the
               | notes of bitterness, since that was an ugly feud for
               | former friends.
               | 
               | I was thinking of All the President's Lawyers in
               | particular during the end of the trial (e.g. between
               | dismissal & pardon).
        
               | danShumway wrote:
               | It's extremely hard for me to imagine how anyone who's
               | read or listened to a lot of Ken's commentary could walk
               | away thinking that he was suddenly in favor of 18 USC
               | 1001 just because of the existence of the Trump
               | administration. He regularly criticizes the statute.
               | 
               | I don't know, I really just don't see it.
               | 
               | ----
               | 
               | Also, quick sidenote on the heckler's veto:
               | 
               | > We talked about chilling effects and heckler's vetoes,
               | but now they're well-deserved social sanctions?
               | 
               | https://nitter.42l.fr/Popehat/status/1504505701401448467#
               | m
               | 
               | The heckler's veto isn't really the right term to use
               | when talking about cancel culture or shouting down
               | speakers. The heckler's veto is more about the government
               | shutting down speech under the assumption that it might
               | cause a riot or disruption in the future.
               | 
               | But for whatever it's worth, Ken also regularly
               | criticizes shouting down speakers in public forums. I
               | really just don't see this change in his opinion that
               | you're talking about.
        
               | Natsu wrote:
               | Oh, he hates the statute normally. He just failed to even
               | express mild criticism of it when it was abused and he
               | was discussing the trial, which stood out when he was
               | literally discussing the merits of a trial centered on
               | one. Maybe he made up for it on some episode I didn't
               | listen to, there are a lot of them and there's no way I
               | heard them all, but I was kinda surprised to see him fail
               | to mention a hobby horse of his in a discussion of a
               | trial centered on said hobby horse.
               | 
               | > The heckler's veto isn't really the right term to use
               | when talking about cancel culture or shouting down
               | speakers. The heckler's veto is more about the government
               | shutting down speech under the assumption that it might
               | cause a riot or disruption in the future.
               | 
               | You say that as if nothing got shut down or forced to pay
               | huge security fees due to other people being moved to
               | violence against the speakers, but there were and have
               | been lawsuits over the same. One of which I think even
               | involved Clark, though I didn't follow that particularly
               | closely.
        
           | senthil_rajasek wrote:
           | >For people to stop calling it "cancel culture"
           | 
           | Accountability Culture.
        
           | macrolocal wrote:
           | > People not wanting to patronize or associate with you when
           | you cause harm to people they care about is really not a bad
           | thing, and it's not new either, and yet it is what gets
           | called "cancel culture" by a lot of people.
           | 
           | Although nowadays, soft penalties scale and can be automated.
           | So it feels sensible to explore regulatory frameworks that
           | could rein in the worst excesses.
        
             | Latty wrote:
             | Who gets to decide what the excess is?
             | 
             | I'm not saying they don't exist: if I advocate for gay
             | rights, and turns out my employer has a bunch of homophobic
             | customers who get me fired because they don't want to spend
             | money that ends up in my pocket, that would be deeply wrong
             | in my view.
             | 
             | The question is, what does the "regulatory framework" do
             | there? Force those customers to spend money that ends up
             | funding someone that fights for something they see as
             | morally wrong? Force my boss to employ me even though I
             | hurt their business?
             | 
             | The whole point of freedom of speech is the government
             | doesn't get to ban views they don't like. Not supporting
             | someone because of their views surely needs to be as much
             | of a protected view as any other.
        
               | macrolocal wrote:
               | > Who gets to decide what the excess is?
               | 
               | Legislators, who also get to address how we criminalize
               | physical aggression, the poor man's social aggression.
        
               | bryanrasmussen wrote:
               | > Force my boss to employ me even though I hurt their
               | business?
               | 
               | Well probably the answer would be stronger wrongful
               | termination regulation and then if they fire you for
               | advocating for gay rights then you would probably get
               | paid a reasonable amount of money for the loss you
               | suffered, and your boss would have more of an incentive
               | to think over if they really need to fire you to avoid
               | losses to their business or if they should stand up to
               | the people trying to force their hand.
        
               | Latty wrote:
               | OK, but then the government is deciding what speech
               | should be allowed without losing your job.
               | 
               | If it's _any_ speech, then do I get to tell people my
               | company sucks and they shouldn 't shop there without
               | being fired? What about telling individual customers they
               | don't deserve human rights? That very quickly becomes
               | obviously absurd. So the question becomes "where is the
               | line", and if they government gets to draw that line,
               | then that no longer looks like freedom of speech to me.
        
           | Mountain_Skies wrote:
           | When one is already in overshoot, it's a bad play to make
           | demands in the direction you've already overextended yourself
           | on.
        
           | krapp wrote:
           | >For people to stop calling it "cancel culture" whenever they
           | face reasonable consequences for actions they take that harm
           | others would be a good start.
           | 
           | That's never going to happen. Such people have a vested
           | interest in gaining sympathy for their views and actions by
           | discrediting their critics as nothing but a hateful mob or a
           | conspiracy to silence and oppress them, and clearly their
           | efforts are working. "Cancel culture" has itself become a
           | moral panic akin to the Red Scare.
        
             | ryandrake wrote:
             | Your post reminds me of Barry Deutsch's _I Have Been
             | Silenced_ comic [1], which is clearly still relevant today.
             | 
             | 1: http://leftycartoons.com/2018/08/01/i-have-been-
             | silenced/
        
           | jimbokun wrote:
           | > For people to stop calling it "cancel culture" whenever
           | they face reasonable consequences for actions they take that
           | harm others would be a good start.
           | 
           | Someone having an opinion different than you does not cause
           | you harm.
           | 
           | This is the Big Lie underlying a lot of the rhetoric that has
           | been labeled "cancel culture".
           | 
           | The potential harm at shutting down the opportunity to find
           | out you were wrong about something by hearing viewpoints
           | different from yours, is far greater than whatever harms you
           | fear from the words themselves.
        
             | dtjb wrote:
             | Nobody is getting cancelled for having a different opinion
             | on tax rates or foreign policy.
             | 
             | There are very specific and narrow types of speech that
             | lead to 'cancellation,' and it's almost always speech that
             | attacks people's identity, race, and sexuality.
             | Historically that type of speech has been equated with
             | harm.
        
               | remarkEon wrote:
               | I agree that's there's a pattern for what gets you
               | cancelled, but there is absolutely not a list published
               | somewhere that tells you what subjects to avoid.
        
             | joshuamorton wrote:
             | How do you draw a distinction between writing an NYT op-ed
             | to, say, support same-sex marriage, voting for a candidate
             | who supports same sex marriage, and signing a bill to allow
             | same-sex marriage? In every case you're "just" writing
             | something down. When does one cross the line from "just"
             | sharing an opinion, to advocacy for that opinion to
             | political action on favor of a policy?
             | 
             | Phrased differently, if someone advocates for a policy that
             | I believe will be harmful, why should I treat that
             | differently than a stated intent to harm me?
        
             | Latty wrote:
             | I said "for actions they take that harm others", and you
             | jumped to some trivial difference of opinion. If the
             | difference of opinion is supporting policy that hurts me or
             | people I care about, then yes, of course it can harm me.
             | 
             | You are saying that someone can use freedom of expression
             | to say people I care about should not have human rights,
             | but I can't say those people shouldn't be employed by some
             | company.
             | 
             | Freedom of expression swings both ways. I agree we should
             | think about the harm done, ensure it is real, and what
             | level of consequence is reasonable before acting, but that
             | doesn't mean there are no situations action is justified.
        
           | abnry wrote:
           | > reasonable consequences for actions they take that harm
           | others
           | 
           | This is what is at issue. What does "reasonable consequences"
           | mean for "harm to others"? Sometimes the harm to others is
           | disputed, as the harm is almost always considered emotional.
           | Sometimes what is considered "reasonable consequences" is
           | something as significant as loss of livelihood.
        
             | Latty wrote:
             | Of course, it depends on what you view as harmful, and
             | who's opinions you agree with. There is no obvious right
             | answer. Pretending we can say "so this should never happen"
             | is absurd in my view, it implies people have to give their
             | money to people that will use that money to fund harm.
             | 
             | The core of free speech is that even abhorrent views should
             | not face censorship by the government, because democracy
             | requires it. If this is true, surely the right to _not_
             | support people who 's views you disagree with is just as
             | necessary? (If not, is every Republican cancelling the
             | Democratic party by not donating to them?) The answer, as
             | with democracy and freedom of speech, is to make the better
             | argument, get people to agree with you, and then use that
             | to support the things you think are right.
             | 
             | We don't have a better answer than that.
             | 
             | I think there _are_ obvious cases we can personally make
             | better choices: seek context and clarity, don 't jump to
             | conclusions and pile on just because others say something
             | without checking it is valid and proportionate, but again,
             | that's never the "anti-cancel culture" argument.
        
               | SamoyedFurFluff wrote:
               | > The answer, as with democracy and freedom of speech, is
               | to make the better argument, get people to agree with
               | you, and then use that to support the things you think
               | are right.
               | 
               | I find this difficult to agree with but not because of
               | the sentiment but because of the environment. If a bad
               | faith actor wants to smear even totally reasoned speech
               | by spouting complete fabrications, so long as they have
               | the bigger platform/microphone on social media no amount
               | of making a correct argument will resolve the problem. I
               | agree in a perfect world without these sorts of
               | algorithmic effects, this would be the ideal solution--
               | but if you simply aren't favored by the algorithm how can
               | being reasonable save you from someone who is spewing
               | lies?
        
               | Latty wrote:
               | Yeah, of course that's a problem, having a bigger
               | platform gives you more political power.
               | 
               | This... isn't new. Money is the classic way to attain
               | platform, and the US has repeatedly doubled down on the
               | freedom to spend as much money as you want politically,
               | as a core freedom.
               | 
               | Fox News is constantly broadcasting what I would classify
               | as complete fabrications to their bigger platform, should
               | the government be stepping in to stop that?
               | 
               | I agree these things are a problem, but that's the cost
               | of free speech, the two choices are the government
               | deciding who's speech is right, or individuals deciding
               | who's speech is right.
        
               | jimbokun wrote:
               | Once you start increasing the power to censor "false"
               | ideas, who do you really trust to make those decisions
               | and not abuse that authority?
        
               | SamoyedFurFluff wrote:
               | Please note I never advocated for censorship. I'm only
               | saying the ideal solution won't work. I don't want
               | censorship either, but also I don't believe simply more
               | speech is the solution. I don't know what the solution
               | is.
        
               | krapp wrote:
               | If you define anything other than "simply more speech" as
               | censorship, as many seem to nowadays, then a solution
               | either cannot exist or must involve censorship.
        
               | tines wrote:
               | > If this is true, surely the right to not support people
               | who's views you disagree with is just as necessary?
               | 
               | Totally agree, but I think one of the nuances here is
               | that what "support" means can be pretty narrow or very
               | broad.
               | 
               | For example, if you don't like someone's message and
               | they're speaking at your college, you can show your
               | disapproval by choosing a point on a spectrum of
               | refusals. You can start light by going to hear them speak
               | but refusing to agree with them, and get a little more
               | intense by attending and listening and then rebutting
               | their arguments (i.e. refusing to approve the message).
               | Sliding further along the scale, you might refuse to go
               | to the talk at all. Further, you might refuse to attend
               | the college that allows them to speak. Further, you might
               | refuse to use any social media that allows them to post.
               | And so on.
               | 
               | The further you go on that spectrum, the more your
               | actions cause other people not to be able to support the
               | speaker (or even hear them without supporting them), even
               | if they want to. Not attending the speech yourself may
               | cause the speaker not to be invited back if there is low
               | enough attendance, which is just about the most minor
               | form of that. Further along the spectrum, refusing to use
               | social media that gives them a platform could get them
               | banned if enough people do it, which is a more intense
               | form of denying others access.
               | 
               | That's really long-winded but I hope my point is clear. I
               | think "cancel culture" isn't so much about retaining the
               | individual's choice to not support something, but rather
               | denying that choice to other people. And it's not even
               | about supporting really; the ACLU that defended Nazis
               | because they realized that if Nazis' rights can be taken
               | away then so can any minorities' be taken away might not
               | exist any more. Certainly they didn't support Nazism, but
               | they felt that they didn't have to in order to defend
               | them in a court of law.
               | 
               | I think someone once said something like "it's the mark
               | of an educated mind to be able to entertain an idea
               | without accepting it" and I feel like at a certain level
               | you have to trust people to do that if you want to live
               | in a democracy. My interpretation of opponents of cancel
               | culture is that they don't want other people to keep them
               | from entertaining ideas just because accepting them would
               | be bad. You have to be able to entertain an idea to
               | destroy it as well. The more you know about racist
               | beliefs, for example, the more easily they're destroyed.
               | The less you know, the more appealing they are. Best to
               | bring them out in the light and let them be destroyed by
               | the truth (would be their argument I believe).
               | 
               | I guess it's a difference in world view. Some think you
               | can put people on the right track by focusing on
               | providing them with the right information, and others
               | think you can put them on the right track by keeping them
               | from harmful information. The latter might be the way you
               | can instruct a child, but for adults, the former is the
               | only way it can work healthily (they would say).
               | 
               | Not sure whether any of that makes any sense, I could be
               | completely wrong, would like to hear your opinion.
        
               | Latty wrote:
               | People have a right to expression, but not a right to a
               | platform. Not everyone can go on TV every day to talk
               | about what they believe, so it must be curated, and that
               | curation is an expression in and of itself.
               | 
               | Should we try and be proportional and fair in our
               | responses to people personally? Of course. Should we as a
               | society try to limit people's responses? No.
               | 
               | There used to be literal lynching, and clearly active
               | violence is over the line, but we allowed racists and
               | other bigots to boycott places that employed people they
               | didn't like and express their views like that.
               | 
               | Now that the bigots face being denied employment because
               | of their bigotry, suddenly it's wrong to boycott and deny
               | them their jobs.
               | 
               | Is it wrong to refuse to spend money at somewhere that
               | employs (and therefore uses the money I spend there)
               | someone who seeks to deny human rights to someone I love?
               | It may get them fired if enough people take that stand.
               | Does it hurt others if they can't access that bigot's
               | speech? You can argue it denies them an opportunity, but
               | then the fact I can't go to their boss and make my point
               | is denying that person an opportunity to.
               | 
               | The reality is you are talking about pitting two pieces
               | of expression against each other, and just because one
               | came first and the other is a response to it seems
               | entirely meaningless to me, neither should be restricted.
        
               | tines wrote:
               | What do you think of the argument that the nature of
               | boycotting has changed? In your example, people might
               | boycott a restaurant they didn't like, but there were a
               | ton of small restaurants, no one restaurant was very big.
               | Now, we have a handful of websites that like 90% of all
               | written human communication goes through, and people
               | aren't boycotting a Twitter handle, they're boycotting
               | Twitter itself (so to speak) to force it to deplatform
               | someone.
               | 
               | I guess it's somewhat related to the other argument of
               | proportionality of punishment. Is it right to boycott
               | someone to an unlimited extent if they're bigoted? What
               | is the limit? would be the questions along that line.
        
               | Latty wrote:
               | This seems like an argument to have better "public
               | squares" and better regulations against monopolies,
               | rather than enforcing private entities to platform
               | others.
        
             | akira2501 wrote:
             | To me "consequences" are sought when someone wants to
             | alleviate their own burden or guilt over the situation.
             | Rarely is "restitution" sought. It seems to me that the
             | latter would be a far more useful trend if we're going to
             | continue trying to deal with social problems using the
             | awesome power of the internet.
        
             | alphabettsy wrote:
             | > Sometimes what is considered "reasonable consequences" is
             | something as significant as loss of livelihood.
             | 
             | What if it's reframed?
             | 
             | If I call my boss a fatty and they fire me that's ok right?
             | It's just their feelings and I'm losing my income, but in
             | that case it's acceptable. Why?
        
               | anamax wrote:
               | The case we're talking about is I accuse you of calling
               | me a fatty and get a bunch of people to tell your
               | employer that they'll boycott, costing a bunch of people
               | their income, people who didn't do anything, unless they
               | fire you.
               | 
               | Note that I said "accuse". Maybe you called me a fatty,
               | maybe you didn't.
               | 
               | Note that "get" is too strong. There appear to be people
               | waiting for an excuse to go after "your employer" for
               | pretty much any value of "your employer". I may not even
               | be bothered - someone else may do the "get" even if all I
               | do is mention that you called me fatty/thought that you
               | thought of me as a fatty without any intent that someone
               | do something.
        
               | jakelazaroff wrote:
               | Let's not move the goalposts. If you hurt your boss's
               | feelings, should you lose your livelihood?
        
               | iosono88 wrote:
        
               | anamax wrote:
               | I see your "move the goalposts" and raise a "mote and
               | bailey".
               | 
               | I'm describing cancel culture as it is, which is
               | different from "calling your boss a fatty" (or a Nazi for
               | that matter).
               | 
               | We might well decide that the "right thing" in these
               | situations is different.
               | 
               | Which reminds me - does someone have an obligation to
               | hire me after I call them a fatty?
        
               | jakelazaroff wrote:
               | I'm not convinced it's different from "cancel culture as
               | it is". One common theme I've seen -- including in this
               | thread! -- is people creating a dichotomy between "free
               | speech" and "feelings". Usually that means they want to
               | say something controversial, but their own feelings get
               | hurt when they receive pushback, so they try to reframe
               | the debate in such a way that they're the aggrieved
               | party.
               | 
               | The "insult my boss" is a good thought experiment because
               | it reveals that motivation. Is it _really_ about "free
               | speech" vs. "feelings", or is there something else going
               | on?
        
               | anamax wrote:
               | Get fired is "their own feelings get hurt"?
               | 
               | The boss situation is a lousy experiment because its
               | result tells us nothing about what the result should be
               | in the situation we're discussing. (For one, my boss
               | isn't going to fire me by threatening the business if I
               | call him a fatty.)
               | 
               | For example, it's relatively easy to figure out who the
               | person is behind this account. The mob could decide that
               | I've "done wrong" and go after my income. That's no where
               | near me screaming at my boss that he's a Nazi or a fatty.
        
               | kritiko wrote:
               | In America, in most jobs you can be fired for any reason
               | as long as it is not discriminatory against a protected
               | class.
               | 
               | What do you mean by "acceptable" here? As in, an average
               | person would consider it fair?
        
               | liquid_bluing wrote:
               | I think it's broadly considered acceptable because
               | insulting your boss is an aggresive behavior directed at
               | a colleague. Simply stating an opinion is not.
        
               | alphabettsy wrote:
               | Does it matter at all what the opinion is?
        
               | cowuser666 wrote:
               | That's exactly the point that was being made to you. The
               | debate here is precisely what is reasonable, and what is
               | harm.
        
               | alphabettsy wrote:
               | The comment I replied to seemed to trivialize emotional
               | harm and suggest that loss of livelihood might be too
               | severe. Did I read too much into it?
               | 
               | I was providing an actual scenario as a basis of
               | comparison. I think concrete examples are more useful
               | here.
        
               | cowuser666 wrote:
               | It's not really an informative example. You're not losing
               | your job in this case for emotional harm. It's because
               | you insulted your boss. You could lose your job even if
               | he didn't care.
               | 
               | If you had to let an employee go and caused even more
               | emotional harm (brought on by their no longer being
               | employed), you wouldn't receive a reprisal.
               | 
               | Why are you pointing out that speech sometimes is
               | reasonable to punish? How does this clarify the question
               | of whether we have become too punitive regarding
               | political and controversial social speech.
        
           | fsckboy wrote:
           | > _For people to stop calling it "cancel culture" whenever
           | they face reasonable consequences for actions they take that
           | harm others would be a good start._
           | 
           | the article is about free speech, but you sneak in the word
           | actions, and then you label the damage (of free speech) as
           | harm to others, and the consequences as reasonable.
           | Therefore, I'd say you fit what this editorial is about,
           | "many on the left refuse to acknowledge that cancel culture
           | exists at all, believing that those who complain about it are
           | offering cover for bigots to peddle hate speech."
        
           | BitwiseFool wrote:
           | When I mention that I don't understand what Popehat actually
           | wants, I'm looking at it in the context of the concept of
           | "competing rights" that he writes about.
           | 
           | >"People complaining about "cancel culture" frequently
           | suggest that it chills speech. Perhaps. But so does a vague
           | denunciation of other people's speech."
           | 
           | My confusion stems from the fact that Popehat seems to want
           | to have it both ways. On one hand, he entertains the idea
           | that "cancel culture" has a chilling effect. It is not a
           | stretch to say that "cancel culture" is a kind of
           | "denunciation of other people's speech". But he's
           | simultaneously criticizing people who want to end "cancel
           | culture" because he sees them as _also_ committing a
           | "denunciation of other people's speech".
           | 
           | If Popehat's main gripe is that the liberty of speech is
           | being limited, both "cancel culture" and "anti-cancel
           | culture" lead to speech being denounced and limited. With
           | this contradiction in mind, I don't understand what Popehat
           | hopes to achieve.
        
             | _jal wrote:
             | He's pointing out that many (not all) people complaining
             | are asking for criticism - other peoples' speech - to be
             | shut down.
             | 
             | There are a few sincere people out there. But most whining
             | about cancel culture are just asking to be free from
             | criticism. Sometimes it is blatantly obvious [1], more
             | frequently layered with complaints about legitimately out
             | of line acts and misdirects.
             | 
             | The answer to bad speech is more speech. End of story.
             | 
             | [1] https://www.huffpost.com/entry/palin-criticism-
             | threatens_n_1...
        
               | BitwiseFool wrote:
               | >"But most whining about cancel culture are just asking
               | to be free from criticism"
               | 
               | This assessment doesn't sit right with me because I don't
               | sense the people 'whining' about cancel culture are
               | trying to get out of ideological critique. I sense
               | they're calling for tolerance because the 'critique' is
               | laden with threats to livelihood and societal standing.
               | 
               | From that perspective, I don't believe that calling on
               | people to be more tolerant of other people's speech is a
               | substantial reduction in speech. One could say it results
               | in a net gain of speech.
        
               | SamoyedFurFluff wrote:
               | I don't know if tolerance of speech is always a net gain
               | of speech. Communities can enter death spirals where only
               | extreme speech exists because everyone reasonable is so
               | turned off by the extreme speech that they leave. (Edit:
               | I'm not saying that tolerance of speech is always a net
               | negative either. I'm just saying it might be too complex
               | to say.)
        
               | Banana699 wrote:
               | >Communities can enter death spirals where only extreme
               | speech exists because everyone reasonable is so turned
               | off by the extreme speech that they leave.
               | 
               | This never happens in a country, people will not abandon
               | their land and their social networks because $MEAN_PERSON
               | said something bad about trans people. What you describe
               | only happens in online communities or hobby clubs, and
               | not all of them at that.
               | 
               | In practice, fears from "unpolite" speech is almost
               | always hysterical reactions by those unprepared and/or
               | ill-equipped to counter speech with speech.
        
               | SamoyedFurFluff wrote:
               | > This never happens in a country
               | 
               | I'm super confused where I ever invoked the idea of what
               | this looks like outside of online communities. I'm sorry
               | if I caused you to misunderstand my speech.
        
             | Imnimo wrote:
             | >But he's simultaneously criticizing people who want to end
             | "cancel culture" because he sees them as also committing a
             | "denunciation of other people's speech".
             | 
             | Right, but I think his criticism here is not that "they
             | should not denounce other people's speech", it's that they
             | are being hypocritical in their reasoning. He's arguing
             | against the soundness of their denunciation, not arguing
             | against their right to make it.
        
           | lazide wrote:
           | The type of people who complain and lash out when they face
           | reasonable consequences for harming someone else are the
           | least likely to follow any such guidance here though?
        
           | RobertRoberts wrote:
           | But who decides what "actions they take that harm others" is?
           | 
           | If you look up if there are nazis in Ukraine army in US news,
           | it will claim it's false, but international news sources say
           | it's true.
           | 
           | Since nazis are the worst ever, don't you think it's
           | important to get this right? And how can we tell if we can't
           | have openly opposing sources that don't get cancelled?
        
             | Latty wrote:
             | Individuals make that decision, just as they do when it
             | comes to democracy as a whole. That's the point of freedom
             | of speech: we can't have an authority on the truth.
             | 
             | The alternative is you _aren 't allowed_ to dislike and
             | refuse to patronize someone because of their actions, which
             | is obviously absurd.
             | 
             | Everyone agrees people shouldn't face disproportionate
             | responses, so arguing for that is nothing. Either you need
             | to argue there are general things causing that (e.g: not
             | looking into context, retractions, etc... before making
             | judgements, which is a real problem) or argue the ethics of
             | the particular situation, which is unique to a case.
             | 
             | Almost always, I see "cancel culture" used as a shield to
             | avoid having to defend the actual harm done.
        
           | [deleted]
        
         | throwawaygh wrote:
         | _> The opposite stance, not calling on people to end cancel
         | culture, is also accepting a reduction in speech._
         | 
         | I'm not sure that accepting certain spaces becoming unwelcome
         | is the same as a reduction in speech.
         | 
         | The quote toward the end of the article really hits the nail on
         | the head for me:
         | 
         |  _> The room felt tense... I was shaken, but also determined to
         | not silence myself. Still, the disdain of my fellow students
         | stuck with me. I was a welcome member of the group -- and then
         | I wasn't._
         | 
         | Feeling tense and unwelcome in a space where people disagree
         | with you is totally normal and to be expected. A huge fraction
         | of people grow up feeling exactly like that in virtually every
         | space they inhabit.
         | 
         | (BTW, I'd be unsurprised if the tenseness in this case was more
         | about annoyance with a loudmouth once again derailing a seminar
         | with what they think is profoundly courageous iconoclasm but is
         | actually annoying low-effort culture war trolling that's
         | spoiling a quite expensive educational product for the rest of
         | the paying customers...)
         | 
         | I grew up non-straight and atheist in the midwest, decades ago,
         | and not in a city. The feeling of tenseness described here is
         | totally normal. Gays are not entitled to a complete absence of
         | tenseness in midwest churches or sports bars. That tenseness
         | and unwelcomeness will result in lost opportunities for
         | socialization, employment, etc. even without overt
         | discrimination.
         | 
         | Not everyone will feel comfortable in every space. Not everyone
         | will fit in everywhere. That's life. It seems like literally
         | everyone except a certain brand of conservative hothead
         | understands this.
         | 
         | To me, the entire cancel culture thing can be summed up as:
         | "apparently some people went through a lot of life without ever
         | desiring to inhabit a space where they weren't 100% welcome
         | and, unsurprisingly, react in an emotionally stunted and
         | frankly embarrassing way when encountering this situation."
         | 
         | IDK. Half the country -- and a much larger percentage of its
         | landmass -- is wholly hostile to anyone who _isn 't_ a died-in-
         | the-wool conservative. Whence the entitlement to also fit in
         | perfectly everywhere else with zero friction? As a queer
         | person, I don't even have that much sympathy for fellow queer
         | people who try to get along in conservative religious
         | communities. You have a right to free association. If you don't
         | like feeling tense and unwelcome, exercise that right. If you
         | choose to inhabit spaces where you aren't welcome... well, I
         | can sympathize up to a point, but I'm mostly going to roll my
         | eyes if you complain too much.
        
           | Karrot_Kream wrote:
           | I'm going to preface this by saying that I'm a dark-skinned
           | POC straight man that grew up in poverty (and that in the
           | SFBA I feel like a unicorn, especially in my climbing gym
           | where sometimes I'm the only dark-skinned POC for my entire
           | workout).
           | 
           | > Feeling tense and unwelcome in a space where people
           | disagree with you is totally normal and to be expected. A
           | huge fraction of people grow up feeling exactly like that in
           | virtually every space they inhabit.
           | 
           | I grew up very used to the idea of feeling unwelcome because
           | of my skin color. I didn't and still do not feel the most
           | comfortable in many spaces. That uncomfortability has made me
           | keenly aware at how alienating the feeling is. When I see
           | other people feel uncomfortable, I don't think "good now you
           | feel how it's like to be me", I feel that humanity has lost
           | yet another victim to intolerance. I do not think that
           | normalizing this feeling helps anyone, even if the person
           | feeling this pain is a straight, white man.
           | 
           | Moreover when someone hates me for my skin color (and
           | perceived behaviors associated with my skin color), I
           | certainly become uncomfortable and angry, but at the end of
           | the day I realize it's something I cannot fundamentally
           | change. My skin color and body type will stay with me for the
           | rest of my life. But when people become uncomfortable by _my
           | ideas_ that's what hurts more; I feel that people disapprove
           | of the fruits of my own agency. It's why I've always felt so
           | keenly for transgender folk who endure endless discrimination
           | for simply choosing how to live their own lives.
        
             | throwawaygh wrote:
             | _> I certainly become uncomfortable and angry, but at the
             | end of the day I realize it 's something I cannot
             | fundamentally change._
             | 
             | This is the point on which we agree. When I say
             | 
             |  _> > Feeling tense and unwelcome in a space where people
             | disagree with you is totally normal and to be expected. A
             | huge fraction of people grow up feeling exactly like that
             | in virtually every space they inhabit._
             | 
             | I'm not excusing intolerance. I'm simply saying in my own
             | way what I quoted from you above. One must choose: either
             | avoid discomfort or grow some callouses. You don't get to
             | climb 5.14 with no pain, and as far as I can tell a lot of
             | the noise around cancel culture is from folks who were
             | climbing 5.12 and are now demanding the guidebook author
             | soften the grades because they can barely huff up a 5.9.
             | The ground shifted and they aren't willing to put in the
             | work but feel entitled to the send. I have some sympathy,
             | but only to a point.
        
       | TrispusAttucks wrote:
       | If the government requests a social media company to suppress the
       | speech of a user does that constitute a violation of the first
       | amendment?
        
       | InfiniteRand wrote:
       | How different is cancel culture from say the Hollywood blacklist?
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hollywood_blacklist
        
       | legitster wrote:
       | > Our failure to have a serious discussion about defining "cancel
       | culture" encourages this.
       | 
       | Can we please just define it so we can move on as a society? I'm
       | equally tired of this game where snarky writers try to pretend it
       | doesn't exist. The first amendment doesn't protect against secret
       | blacklists or mobs but we can still agree they are "bad things"
       | and could agree on at least some new set of common courtesy.
       | 
       | All sorts of examples come to mind of unfair public shaming
       | spectacles against largely undeserving targets:
       | 
       | John Roderick losing all sorts of shows and bookings for the
       | "bean dad" episode: https://www.nbcnews.com/pop-
       | culture/viral/bean-dad-john-rode...
       | 
       | "So You've Been Publicly Shamed" is full of examples. Here's an
       | excerpt where the offender and the offendee where BOTH fired in
       | retributions:
       | https://www.esquire.com/uk/culture/news/a7933/exclusive-extr...
       | 
       | A recounting of a former blogger who ended up on a secret
       | industry blacklist: https://miketunison.substack.com/p/fun-with-
       | drew-magary
       | 
       | And it's not just a far off issue, this kind of stuff is
       | happening in my area! To normal people!
       | https://pdx.eater.com/2017/5/22/15677760/portland-kooks-burr...
        
         | tootie wrote:
         | It doesn't have a definition and doesn't need one. It's
         | liberally applied to all forms of "people being offended". It
         | exists in the space between behavior that is legal yet morally
         | unacceptable. Like abject racism. The actual quality of
         | offending is purely subjective and always has been. Someone can
         | be considered "cancelled" when a critical mass of people agree
         | and refuse to support them. This is how every society has
         | existed forever.
        
         | bloaf wrote:
         | In my mind it's just a colloquialism for a certain kind of
         | illiberalism:
         | 
         | > "Cancel culture" is the belief that certain beliefs about
         | race, gender, and equality are so utterly indefensible that
         | anyone holding them is _necessarily_ acting in bad faith and
         | consequently deserving of punishment.
         | 
         | In practice, this means moral condemnation in place of
         | consideration and argumentation, which is precisely
         | illiberalism.
         | 
         | What distinguishes "cancel culture" from, say, the conservative
         | hatred of communism, is the whiff of hypocrisy that comes from
         | the use of mob rule to enforce what are ostensibly academic
         | positions, and the frequent reference to inclusivity as a
         | justification of social exclusion.
        
         | oh_sigh wrote:
         | Popehat did, I think, an excellent job of it, even though he
         | doesn't believe this is synonymous with cancel culture:
         | 
         | > some responses to speech are disproportionate and outside
         | norms of decency
        
           | legitster wrote:
           | I largely agree. But this is an awful lot of faff to
           | ultimately agree with their concept but complain about their
           | scope.
           | 
           | We can all agree there is a problem. Why wait for your
           | political opposition to give you the correct parameters
           | before you start solving it?
        
             | hraedon wrote:
             | Because "solving it" can look radically different depending
             | on the definition or group trying to do the "solving."
             | Platforms enforcing their terms of service to ban, say,
             | holocaust deniers, is not what I consider "cancel culture,"
             | but a lot of people on the right would disagree.
             | 
             | Similarly, I think that David Shor was unfairly maligned
             | and fired over hugely disingenuous misreadings of his work,
             | but how do you solve that in any meaningful way? I don't
             | think we should make "twitter user" a protected class, but
             | I fail to see how else you can realistically prevent
             | businesses from responding (read: caving in) to bad PR.
        
           | tootie wrote:
           | Some are disproportionately harsh. Some are
           | disproportionately lenient. Some are just right. Popehat has
           | discovered that human perception is subjective and imperfect.
           | Wait until he discovers this applies to literally everything.
        
           | BitwiseFool wrote:
           | I feel like he just kicked the can down the road and
           | introduced additional ambiguities by invoking the concepts of
           | norms and decency. Both of which are very contextual and
           | highly variable.
        
       | stjohnswarts wrote:
       | Sure people can 'cancel' people if they like. I guess decorum and
       | common human decency take a backseat to the right to call
       | everyone who doesn't agree with your point 99% an idiotic mouth
       | breathing alt-right pig. The NYT got it right. People are
       | forgettting to debate and the possibility they might be
       | overreacting on some factoid or area of life. They equate
       | loudness and shouting down as just fine ways to go through life.
       | If you want to have a civil war in the next 20 years or so, keep
       | it up.
        
       | fleddr wrote:
       | A piece of pseudo-intellectual drivel that fails to get to the
       | point.
       | 
       | "just as we constantly debate norms of what speech is socially
       | acceptable, we debate norms about what responses to speech are
       | socially acceptable."
       | 
       | I consider the above section critical in his misunderstanding.
       | The measuring stick by which people are cancelled, here referred
       | to as socially acceptable norms, are in fact not norms at all by
       | any stretch of the imagination. Meaning, these are the enforced
       | norms of loud outrage-addicted unhinged characters forming mobs,
       | not the common norms of the population at large.
       | 
       | Further, there's nothing to debate about these "crazy norms" or
       | their disproportionate responses to non-compliance as they are
       | uncontrollable. Learn how a mob works.
       | 
       | When people cannot express their feelings on political topics,
       | with opinions commonly found acceptable by the public at large,
       | then that is a big problem. It's incredibly dangerous and this is
       | how you get extreme counter movements.
       | 
       | The heart of the matter is not the shouting at each other, that
       | will always happen, it's real world consequences. When they go
       | for your job or inflict life long reputation damage, that makes
       | people anxious to express themselves.
       | 
       | We have to understand that this is a new problem. Before, in the
       | physical world, if you would say something controversial, people
       | might verbally counter you, which is business as usual and the
       | free exchange of ideas, including bad ideas. That's quite a
       | different experience from a pile-on by the mob, smearing you,
       | calling your employer to get you fired, digging into everything
       | you ever posted online to do maximum damage.
       | 
       | That dynamic is new and it has to be fought. It's cruel and
       | sadistic.
        
       | whatshisface wrote:
       | There has to be some kind of term for making your case against
       | the absolute least sympathetic adversary ("We're allowed to
       | boycott giant corporations right?") while using the same word
       | that describes the absolute most sympathetic cases ("Are all
       | companies allowed to get together and jointly refuse to sell food
       | to farm animal rights activists?")
        
         | galimaufry wrote:
         | I've heard it called a "non-central example". That has a
         | negative connotation though, I wish there was a more neutral
         | term. The statement "all natural numbers are greater than 1" is
         | false, and it's not helpful to object that 0 and 1 are
         | noncentral examples.
         | 
         | (It's not a motte-and-bailey, that's about a particular sort of
         | shifting goalposts)
        
           | tines wrote:
           | Nitpick, I don't think 0 is a natural number
        
             | whatshisface wrote:
             | Zero is sometimes a natural number and sometimes not. N is
             | written as N_+ or N_0 sometimes to indicate which one is
             | being used.
        
               | tines wrote:
               | Ah, that's annoying.
        
             | diffeomorphism wrote:
             | Matter of taste/notation. Both definitions 0,1,2,... and
             | 1,2,3,... are very, very common.
        
             | leadingthenet wrote:
             | 1 is still not strictly greater than 1, though.
        
         | psyc wrote:
         | When using the same word is the main problem, that's
         | equivocation. When the problem is treating distinct situations
         | as if they're the same, that's false equivalence.
        
         | pas wrote:
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Motte-and-bailey_fallacy ?
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | commandlinefan wrote:
         | "Motte and Bailey" is the term you're looking for - although I
         | wish there were a less pretentious term (or at least one that
         | didn't have two words that you then have to define when you use
         | it).
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | [deleted]
        
       | gnicholas wrote:
       | > _All of this is to say that Americans' perception that they
       | can't speak without disproportionate blowback is not
       | unimpeachable_
       | 
       | It's strange to argue that chilled speech should be measured by
       | something other than people's perception of the risks of speaking
       | freely. If people say they are afraid to speak out, then they are
       | afraid. One could argue that the press is making too big a deal
       | out of a particular topic, but I don't think there's a strong
       | argument that places like the NYT are talking too much about
       | cancel culture (conservative outlets do talk about it frequently,
       | but polling indicates that cancel culture is perceived to be a
       | problem by non-conservatives as well).
        
       | mywittyname wrote:
       | > Many on the left refuse to acknowledge that cancel culture
       | exists at all,
       | 
       | May on the right refuse to acknowledge that cancel culture has
       | always existed (and that they historically used it to their
       | advantage). It seems their outrage has more to do with the loss
       | of social influence.
       | 
       | It wasn't that long ago when _knowing_ a Communist was enough to
       | be blacklisted from jobs. Lots of famous, intelligent, and
       | influential people were cancelled by McCarthyism.
       | 
       | Criticizing your opponent for using your own tactics against you
       | is a time honored tradition.
        
       | lrem wrote:
       | That's a lot of words to say "people are free to steer clear of
       | people they don't like and always have been". And not much of
       | thought into "what changed that now it is a problem perceived by
       | some?"
       | 
       | There has been a fundamental change to our reality over the past
       | couple decades: things you say and do are now by default in
       | public and permanent record. If your not-too-famous grandpa said
       | something outrageous, he ruined the relationship with the people
       | that heard it and the people they talked to. In the worst case it
       | went into a filler column of the local newspaper. He had a
       | limited number of people to apologise to. And in the worst case
       | could move to another town and start fresh.
       | 
       | If you write an outrageous blog post today, you're hosed. Even if
       | you're not famous, or in any other way a "public figure". But
       | just because your outrageous writing (or second-hand - someone
       | else writing about a thing you said) is in public record today,
       | you will find that some people in the far future will get
       | offended by it. You get hired in 20 years as a VP of a large
       | company in another country? Well, someone will dig up that post
       | and before you know it you're out of a job. Saying sorry and that
       | you're wiser now, than when you were a teenager, is likely not
       | going to help. Bonus points if what you wrote is within the
       | mainstream today, but the cultural norms move in the following
       | decades.
       | 
       | I think that's a problem. But it cannot be solved by laws. Right
       | to be forgotten won't work well enough (just a hunch, but
       | international enforcement of soft issues like this doesn't have a
       | reassuring track record). Nor by telling people they have to
       | listen to jerks. That's what the OP deconstructs as obviously
       | absurd. What we need is to build into our culture and
       | understanding that people do change and can reach redemption.
        
         | TameAntelope wrote:
         | > If you write an outrageous blog post today, you're hosed.
         | 
         | This just isn't true, and I'm not sure why the discussion
         | around cancel culture is framed like it is true.
         | 
         | It's exceedingly hard to be cancelled if you're acting
         | genuinely, kindly, and with empathy for the topic you're
         | discussing. You can say literally anything you want if you can
         | figure out how to be nice when you say it, but you do have to
         | put real effort into that endeavor.
         | 
         | Getting canceled isn't a landmine, it's a tar pit.
        
           | Aromasin wrote:
           | Could not agree more. Time and time again I've seen people
           | broach taboo topics on various media and walk away unscathed,
           | often lauded if anything for their tact. Likewise, I've seen
           | many people do the same with an air of arrogance and
           | superiority, get lambasted by the general public, and go on
           | to preach about how they're a victim of some new, alt-left
           | system of oppression.
           | 
           | Guile and wit get you just as far in today's 21st century
           | "cancel culture" as they did in a 1800's gentleman's club, a
           | 1400's king's court, or a BCE Roman senate. What you say is
           | much less important to most people than how you say it.
        
           | Banana699 wrote:
           | >It's exceedingly hard to be cancelled if you're acting
           | genuinely, kindly, and with empathy for the topic you're
           | discussing.
           | 
           | This a hypocritical Isolated Demand For Rigor[1], or in this
           | case for Niceness. Many people doing the cancelling don't
           | have to be and don't bother with civility or politeness, they
           | are entirely ok with the worst slurs if it came from mouths
           | they support. The kindness they demand is a thin wrapper over
           | ideological conformity, and the demands are demonstrably done
           | in bad faith to silence the discussion not to shape it.
           | 
           | It also, rather naively and hilariously, imagines potential
           | cancellers as ideal rational censors who will read all of
           | your words before arriving at a fair judgment. This is in
           | stark contrast with what actually happens, where cancellers
           | read a headline and then reach a red 100 Celsius before
           | reading a single additional word. The off-the-top-of-my-head
           | example is a whole ironic saga of twitter cancelling a trans
           | scifi author[2] because a pro-trans story just so happened to
           | have an "offensive" title (that turned out to be literally
           | true in the world of the story.)
           | 
           | >Getting canceled isn't a landmine, it's a tar pit
           | 
           | Both are public dangers that civilised societies hunt and
           | eradicate.
           | 
           | [1] https://slatestarcodex.com/2014/08/14/beware-isolated-
           | demand...
           | 
           | [2] https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_Sexually_Identify_as_an
           | _At...
        
           | letmeiiin wrote:
           | Sometime it's basically impossible to nicely say that
           | something is just moronic.
        
             | TameAntelope wrote:
             | Sufficiently talented communicators more or less only have
             | these "cancel culture" problems through choice, not through
             | inability to express themselves.
             | 
             | Which is honestly why I have little sympathy for the
             | "cancelled", in many cases.
             | 
             | Occasionally, I do feel a pang of empathy for people like
             | Gina Carano, for example, who genuinely don't seem to know
             | how to say what they want to, and may not have
             | intentionally wanted to harm others, but through ego end up
             | refusing to reword their expression or to account for how
             | their words might hurt others.
             | 
             | It's a small pang, and not a long lasting one.
             | 
             | I can see how the confusion might happen, but even for the
             | least articulate among us there are clean off-ramps that
             | get ignored.
        
               | cowuser666 wrote:
               | no chilling effects here..
        
               | TameAntelope wrote:
               | My point is cancel culture is not very chilling if you're
               | a competent speaker/writer, and it ought to be even less
               | chilling than it is (possibly not chilling at all).
               | 
               | If you believe you're entering a conversation with
               | positive intent, a genuine point of view, and empathy for
               | others, you are more or less immune to being cancelled.
        
               | Banana699 wrote:
               | >If you believe you're entering a conversation with
               | positive intent, a genuine point of view, and empathy for
               | others, you are more or less immune to being cancelled
               | 
               | Any sufficiently selective style guide is
               | indistinguishable from a censor.
               | 
               | It's bizarrely hilarious how "Progressives" mirror
               | religious fundamentalists, down to the particular
               | language used to dispel accusations of censorship and
               | closed-mindedness. "You can say whatever you like, just
               | in ways we like (which will sometimes include you
               | shutting up entirely)" looks painfully familiar for any
               | closeted atheist.
        
           | ryandrake wrote:
           | We have no idea what the prevailing norms and taboos will be
           | 20 years from now. Something you write today that is benign
           | and uncontroversial, might be utterly offensive in 20 years,
           | and all someone has to do is dig back in the internet
           | archives and find it. I think back to 20 years ago, and I
           | know I've told some (at the time) harmless, slightly off-
           | color jokes, which today would get me fired instantly. You
           | don't know which way the sensitivity wind will blow in the
           | future, so your only safe play is to limit yourself to
           | Rated-G "genuine, kind, and with empathy" speech, as you put
           | it.
        
           | lrem wrote:
           | > It's exceedingly hard to be cancelled if you're acting
           | genuinely, kindly, and with empathy for the topic you're
           | discussing.
           | 
           | Sure, but that isn't the premise of what I wanted to express.
           | You've had a bad day, or are a genuine jerk, and wrote
           | something that you _really_ shouldn 't have. Passage of time,
           | personal growth, change of opinions, conduct that
           | demonstrably disagrees with the post and an apology does not
           | prevent that from possibly ruining your future.
           | 
           | Who of us wasn't an easily influenced jerk as a teenager?
           | Well, right, some weren't. But many more outgrew that. Some
           | took more time than others. Some remained jerks, at least for
           | now. But I prefer to hope they will change for the better.
           | And would prefer if we recognized the change in those who
           | succeeded.
        
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         | tootie wrote:
         | What changed is politics. One side of the political spectrum
         | was tired of being called out for unacceptable speech that they
         | didn't understand and decided they could make hay by stirring
         | up a fresh culture war. They've discovered that they can be
         | offensive and hateful then blame "cancel culture" when they get
         | called out and gain favor with their base.
        
         | stale2002 wrote:
         | > I think that's a problem. But it cannot be solved by laws.
         | 
         | I actually think that there is a solution that not many people
         | have mentioned.
         | 
         | What we can do is actually fund enforcement of the actual
         | really bad stuff that people do during these hate/harrassement
         | type situations.
         | 
         | And by that I mean, when people make death threats against
         | someone, or harassment or target them in a similar way, then
         | you have a government run doxxing squad that finds out who sent
         | the death threats, and they arrest them, send them to jail, and
         | put a felony on their record, even if it is a 1 time/first
         | offense.
         | 
         | Right now, if you send a bunch of deaths threats to people,
         | you'll probably get away with it. But if the government
         | actually enforced the law, and sent you to prison, the first
         | time you did that to anybody, well I think the worst of the
         | "cancel culture" type harassment would end really quick.
        
       | TameAntelope wrote:
       | His "First Speaker Problem" is exactly why I've hated these
       | discussions thus far; why is the speech of one person sacred, but
       | speech in response to that person not? The idea that the First
       | Speaker is, themself, responding to yet someone else is a great
       | follow up that I hadn't considered.
       | 
       | I also have very low expectations for this community's ability to
       | discuss this reasonably. So far is seems like folks are posting
       | responses to the topic, rather than the article, and that hardly
       | bodes well.
        
         | croes wrote:
         | If you say something and someone calls you an idiot it's free
         | speech but if hundreds do it at the same time it's bullying.
        
           | topaz0 wrote:
           | From the essay:
           | 
           | >> Saying "colleges shouldn't disinvite speakers because of
           | controversy" is a good specific action item; we can debate
           | it. Saying "Ken, stop piling on 20-follower Twitter accounts
           | when they say stupid things" is an action item; I can debate
           | it. [Shan't.] Saying "stop demanding that businesses fire
           | people for what they say off the job" is an action item. I
           | might not agree but we can discuss it. Saying "if a minor
           | says something racist in a semi-private setting we shouldn't
           | put them on blast and make them infamous" is an action item.
           | We can grapple with it. We can't grapple with "the culture
           | makes me feel uncomfortable speaking." Saying that just
           | returns us to our cultural and partisan priors.
        
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