[HN Gopher] Your competitor wrote the RFP you're bidding on
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       Your competitor wrote the RFP you're bidding on
        
       Author : asyncscrum
       Score  : 175 points
       Date   : 2022-04-06 14:48 UTC (8 hours ago)
        
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       | Andy_G11 wrote:
       | If the actual bid is not going to go your way no matter what, and
       | if possible, just advertise subsidiary products which might be
       | bolt-ons to other projects that the customer may want. That way,
       | you give the sham process a veneer of respectability (which will
       | no doubt be appreciated by both competitors and customer) and
       | still get to raise the customer's awareness of some things that
       | they might actually want to buy from you.
        
       | Mulpze15 wrote:
       | ROI of RFPs... It is so depressing for me to spend time on an RFP
       | that I won't do it unless I am 100% convinced the RFP was written
       | for me, because I know the account/people.
       | 
       | It's not just the time spent on it, it's the feeling of
       | powerlessness and wasting time you could be spending on something
       | much more fulfilling.
       | 
       | So much more fun to say "no, I won't bid" after a few emails,
       | with little work behind it.
        
       | antiterra wrote:
       | I worked for a company that was incredibly high touch and kept
       | getting burned by inadvertently giving free consulting on system
       | design only for the customer to just hire a generic development
       | contractor to implement it.
       | 
       | They thought they got smart by adding a contract to the process
       | that had a six digit contracting fee if the customer went with
       | another vendor.
       | 
       | The first big fish was more than happy to pay their consulting
       | fee and then develop everything in house. To them, the fee (which
       | didn't really cover the opportunity cost or development time) was
       | a pittance.
        
       | tetha wrote:
       | Oh RFPs are an everlasting source of fun in B2B.
       | 
       | Like, we've received the wrong questionaire once. It contained
       | the question what we would do if armed forces intruded into our
       | secured facilities to seize assets. We eventually settled on the
       | answer "Run or hide, while calling the cops". At that point the
       | customer noticed their error and it was pretty funny.
       | 
       | In other areas, the consulting teams and us are developing some
       | degree of a safe word system. Ask us in operations for something
       | the right way and we can give an annoying answer how nothing is
       | possible due to security policies and compliance and further
       | discussion requires meetings with people with long job titles.
       | And suddenly, deal breakers aren't that important anymore. And
       | sometimes you can even team up with the customers infosec
       | department this way in order to simplify things into a both more
       | secure and easier path.
       | 
       | The best way we've found around this is to write white papers for
       | commonly asked questions and topics, like storage security. It's
       | great for our sales guys to be able to answer common questions
       | with a PDF with a bit of glamour, but with enough
       | incomprehensibility density to look important and to get
       | forwarded to infosec / CISOs. Yes I'm a bit jaded about the
       | process.
        
         | f0e4c2f7 wrote:
         | Writing the types of whitepapers you're describing is an art,
         | and not a holy one.
        
       | brightball wrote:
       | When I didn't realize this was how the process worked, I once
       | spent 2 weeks and about $5k meeting all of the requirements for
       | the RFP including the amount of formally printed copies of the
       | 200 page proposal had to be provided.
       | 
       | Had delivered them.
       | 
       | I was more than a little bothered afterwards because of the sheer
       | amount of time and money put in. They didn't even bother to give
       | us a courtesy call to let us know we weren't selected.
       | 
       | In the end, they ended up hiring a company that was a friend of
       | the head of marketing who delivered something completely
       | different than what they'd asked for in the RFP. Frustrating all
       | around especially because of the number of people that were
       | involved in putting the whole thing together.
        
         | brightball wrote:
         | Apparently typing this on my phone was a bad idea. Apologies
         | for the multiple typos.
         | 
         |  _facepalm_
        
       | MauranKilom wrote:
       | The article doesn't care to mention what RFP even means. So I'll
       | be the guy in the comments asking: "WTF does RFP stand for?"
        
         | toyg wrote:
         | https://www.investopedia.com/terms/r/request-for-proposal.as...
         | 
         |  _" A request for proposal (RFP) is a business document that
         | announces a project, describes it, and solicits bids from
         | qualified contractors to complete it."_
         | 
         | Basically, it's a long laundry list of requirements for things
         | you want to buy (e.g. software), with some vague justification
         | attached. It's a thing in big companies and public
         | institutions, which are supposed to have a high degree of
         | oversight on any move they make. In practice, it's just another
         | source of Bullshit Jobs, since the company publishing an RFP
         | has likely already decided what they are going to buy and just
         | have to go through the motions - a bit like those companies
         | publishing job ads because they have to, when they already know
         | who they are going to hire.
        
         | bombcar wrote:
         | Request for proposal. Basically a list of requirements for
         | something, and then someone will reply to it with a quote.
        
         | rav wrote:
         | Apparently, "Request for proposal", which is a private-sector
         | equivalent of a tender process (speaking from my point of view
         | of doing a lot of consulting projects for the public sector). A
         | tender process usually requires the agency to pick the
         | quantitatively best bid (by some predetermined ranking scale,
         | usually price or some price-quality combination), whereas an
         | RFP has no such requirement and just lets the agency pick
         | whatever seems subjectively/qualitatively the best choice.
        
       | micheljansen wrote:
       | Ha, most companies have no clue about how to even get started
       | writing an RfP and are more than happy having a friendly vendor
       | do it for them. It's not necessarily a bad thing but a little
       | bias is almost impossible to avoid.
        
       | zerkten wrote:
       | You want to avoid RFPs except where you can exploit them. For
       | example, if you are able to get by with smaller customers for a
       | while, you can use the RFP process to gain access to stakeholders
       | and test out ideas.
       | 
       | Procurement departments are often keen to encourage more
       | participation to help cover for the fact the decisions have been
       | made, but as long as you aren't taken in, then it's less of a
       | problem. In government and some industries, they may have
       | opportunities for smaller orgs through other entry points, but
       | the main RFP entry point can be easier to work out.
        
       | edko wrote:
       | Some companies even do this for job applications. A manager has a
       | person they want for a role but, because of policy, they must
       | publish it on their employment website, and go through the
       | charade of interviewing candidates, wasting everybody's time. In
       | the end, their preferred candidate wins.
        
         | dtjb wrote:
         | I don't think it's an exclusively bad practice, especially at
         | larger organizations where cliques and silos are deeply
         | entrenched. It can be hard to retain good people when every
         | opportunity is spoken for by the director's buddy and there's
         | no path to move up.
         | 
         | I'm not arguing an absolute, there should be a way for leaders
         | to hand pick the clear favorite when they're qualified, but I
         | don't know if that should be the default policy.
        
         | rmason wrote:
         | This practice is fairly rampant at universities. It's just a
         | way they game the rules they're forced to operate under.
        
           | [deleted]
        
         | Fomite wrote:
         | Someone I know didn't get a job written for them because
         | someone with staggeringly high qualifications applied. It's
         | rare but it happens.
        
         | perfecthjrjth wrote:
         | This is needed for H1-B and PERM.
        
         | h1srf wrote:
         | Green card job postings do this because it is a requirement to
         | advertise the opening. So you tailor the job description
         | specifically for the person you already employ on a immigrant
         | visa.
        
           | nradov wrote:
           | You're probably referring to job postings used to justify
           | H-1B (and similar) visa applications. Such visas are only
           | supposed to be approved if the employer shows that no US
           | person can do the job.
           | 
           | There's not really any green card job postings. But getting
           | an H-1B can be the first step toward obtaining a green card
           | (permanent residency) for some immigrants.
        
             | h1srf wrote:
             | Nope. Green card requires PERM which I think is a bit more
             | extensive than the H1B process.
        
           | commandlinefan wrote:
           | > tailor the job description
           | 
           | And still don't hire anybody who shows up who actually has
           | those qualifications.
        
         | MegaButts wrote:
         | > Some companies
         | 
         | I'm genuinely asking - are there companies that _don 't_ do
         | this? I guess excluding companies with something like <20
         | people.
        
           | rootusrootus wrote:
           | We have done it at every company I've ever worked for, but
           | not for all positions. Probably less than half on average.
           | But it is somewhat common to find that someone we know and
           | like has become available and we open a position to offer it
           | to them. But HR makes us post it anyway, pro forma.
        
           | detaro wrote:
           | I don't know if it's universal at large companies, but your
           | cut-off is at least an order of magnitude to small.
        
           | throwawayboise wrote:
           | Yes. In fact, it's probably safe to assume it's happening
           | unless the position being advertised is entry-level or has
           | multiple openings for the same job description.
        
           | mulmen wrote:
           | Of course there are. If all companies only publish job
           | openings as a charade and know who they want to hire why go
           | through the charade?
        
             | Spooky23 wrote:
             | The H1 visa thing is one, although usually those jobs get
             | posted in obscure places and are purposefully written very
             | poorly.
             | 
             | Another is if you want to justify using a contractor.
             | Sometimes you have to show problems attracting good
             | candidates before you can go that route.
        
             | MegaButts wrote:
             | You don't necessarily know who you want to hire when you
             | have a position. The question is if you already know who
             | you want to hire, do you always go through the charade?
        
               | notahacker wrote:
               | And the answer is "almost never, unless there are formal
               | requirements for the appearance of a hiring process,
               | which companies will tend not to put in place unless
               | legal/contractual/csr obligations around hiring force
               | them into doing or they really don't trust middle
               | managers' ability to promote". Even a charade of a hiring
               | process costs time and money (and much more so than an
               | RFP process)
               | 
               | Even organisations like universities that have formal
               | requirements to advertise [certain positions] externally
               | will stick to doing the minimum allowable (which might be
               | a poorly written and overly demanding job spec put up on
               | the org's own careers page for the shortest allowable
               | time and any responses binned) if they've actually
               | already made the decision.
               | 
               | Of course there's also a tendency of people to confuse
               | the charade with the more common case of a position being
               | genuinely open and contested and an internal or existing
               | relationship candidate applying (and sometimes but
               | definitely not always being favoured), especially if they
               | just missed out on a job after thinking their final
               | interview went well...
        
               | MegaButts wrote:
               | In my experience it's the opposite. I personally know
               | this has happened for probably over 100 positions, and
               | that's not based on rumors but something I witnessed. And
               | I saw that across a half dozen organizations ranging from
               | 100-10,000 employees.
               | 
               | So "almost never" is almost certainly wrong. My sample
               | size is small, but it's big enough that when it happens
               | 100% of the time it suggests it's the norm.
               | 
               | Your assumption that organizations are efficient might be
               | wrong. I'm basing my judgment on observation and you're
               | basing it on theory.
        
               | notahacker wrote:
               | You personally know of over 100 cases where the company
               | _didn 't_ have any sort of policy obliging it to
               | advertise jobs, but went through a full fake hiring
               | process with multiple candidates it was committed to not
               | hiring just for the fun of it?!
               | 
               | (Your assumption that my understanding of hiring
               | processes is basely wholly on theory might be wrong)
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | [deleted]
        
             | jreese wrote:
             | Getting an H1B worker visa requires the hiring company to
             | advertise the open position and assert that no other
             | candidate met the required qualifications.
        
               | shkkmo wrote:
               | Either the company performs a real search with intent to
               | hire, or they are violating the law in a way they think
               | they won't be caught.
        
             | plorkyeran wrote:
             | Every sufficiently large company will have some job
             | postings which are charades, but that doesn't mean that
             | every job posting from a sufficiently large company is a
             | charade.
        
         | icecap12 wrote:
         | In my experience, this most frequently occurs if the company
         | does business with the government (fed, state, or local). In
         | such cases, the "charade" is required by Federal or State law.
         | I agree its absolutely ridiculous, but large companies can and
         | are in fact frequently audited on these and other hiring
         | practice requirements (such as interview notes, etc.).
         | 
         | At my $BIGCORP, if you want to give somebody a band promotion
         | (meaning, up to the next major band), the job must be posted
         | both internally and externally and you must interview any
         | candidates who appear to meet the requirements. It's a pain in
         | the ass, especially when you clearly have someone in mind.
         | There are always people both internal and external looking at
         | our jobs site because we're a well known Fortune 50; you're
         | bound to get applicants to the higher level roles. It just
         | creates extra work and wastes the time of all involved...but
         | alas, regulation.
         | 
         | eta: could also be a requirement of publicly traded companies,
         | though I'm far less sure on this.
        
         | umvi wrote:
         | This has happened twice to my dad.
         | 
         | The first time was in 1994 when he applied for an Air Force
         | position in Italy. The role required a max 3 out of 3 score on
         | the DoD Italian proficiency test and some other niche
         | requirements, all of which my dad fulfilled. The Air Force
         | selected my dad for the position since the only other candidate
         | that applied was the person currently holding the position.
         | Then there was a big debacle because the commander over that
         | position actually wanted the extend the guy currently holding
         | the position a few years and decided crafting a niche job spec
         | that seemingly only he could fill was the best way. There was a
         | bunch of back-pedaling and politics and the job position was
         | redacted in order for the commander to keep his guy from being
         | replaced by my dad.
         | 
         | The second time was similar, but at a public university. A
         | super niche job opening for their history department was
         | published on their site that required experience with american
         | military history, and a few other things my dad was uniquely
         | qualified for. He applied, and the job posting was shortly
         | taken down and my dad got a response like "actually we've
         | decided to move a different direction from when we originally
         | posted that job listing. That listing has been removed and we
         | are no longer accepting applications for it". Seemed like
         | another instance where the candidate to-be-hired was pre-
         | determined, but my dad threw a wrench into their plans by
         | applying to a job posting that was only supposed to have 1
         | candidate (the predetermined hire).
        
         | brightball wrote:
         | I applied for a job that a friend of mine was up for simply
         | because they couldn't complete the job search until they had
         | enough candidates. I went through the interview process to
         | speed things up for him. Got interviewed by 9 people when we
         | all knew what the outcome was supposed to be.
         | 
         | I spent most of the time talking about how great he was at his
         | job just to move it along faster.
        
       | danbmil99 wrote:
       | So you're saying, there's gambling in Casablanca? Who knew? (your
       | competitor did)
       | 
       | I think there is a corollary to "If you don't know who the sucker
       | is -- it's you":
       | 
       | "If you didn't have the inside track crafting the RFP to your
       | specs, you won't win the bid."
        
       | notyourday wrote:
       | We have an official answer of how we respond to RFPs - we send an
       | invoice for "RFP response"
       | 
       | * $5,000/h
       | 
       | * 10h minimum
       | 
       | It is cathartic to hear the freak out on the other side. We also
       | say "No" to "Fill out this questionnaire" or "We need answers to
       | the following questions". You either have a product they want at
       | which point they will figure out how to ignore their rules to get
       | you, or you do not have a product that they want and you are
       | wasting your time doing "enterprise sales"
        
       | Overtonwindow wrote:
       | This happens a lot in government contracting...
        
         | p_l wrote:
         | F-35B happened essentially to ensure Lockheed-Martin won JSF
         | bid, as far as I know.
        
         | saynay wrote:
         | I see a lot of Franken-RFPs in government contracting. You get
         | sections that are just word-for-word recreations of a products
         | spec sheet, straight off their website. But different sections
         | are from different, competing, products. So the end RFP is
         | something that no one actually has, and then they are required
         | to award the project to whoever made the lowest bid. 5 years
         | later, when that project inevitably fails, they do it all over
         | again.
        
       | n_o_u wrote:
       | I've experienced this a number of times and it's mostly
       | frustrating. Recently though, we've had two customers come back
       | to us after their "preferred" vendor failed to execute. So even
       | if they have a competitor in mind, it's sometimes good to get in
       | front of them regardless.
        
         | rdtwo wrote:
         | Did you charge double the initial ask?
        
       | 988747 wrote:
       | Truth is, most of corporate directors have their favorite,
       | battle-tested vendors, but are still required, by corporate
       | policy, to go through some formal RFP process which they see as
       | annoyance. That's why they go through unofficial channels: my
       | company has been asked, on multiple occasions, to help write RFP
       | which we later responded to (and won, of course).
        
       | rootusrootus wrote:
       | So how to you get into B2B if the deck is stacked this hard
       | against smaller/newer companies? Hang out a shingle somewhere
       | with a sticker price and refuse to do any RFPs? Schmooze a lot
       | and hope to finally get on the other side of the RFP process?
        
         | djrogers wrote:
         | Having been through this several times, you usually start out
         | with a differentiated product, represented by boutique
         | resellers, and pitch/sell to early adopter types. After you've
         | gotten a little bit of runway under you, you can start
         | targeting a broader array of resellers and customers, and grow
         | from there.
        
           | sitkack wrote:
           | This is where OSS can really literally and metaphorically get
           | you in the door. But you will mostly also see occurrences of
           | the big consulting shops using the same software. So it cuts
           | both ways.
        
         | Spooky23 wrote:
         | You look for procurement lobbyists and partners like system
         | integrators and leverage those relationships.
         | 
         | Also, you need to figure out if it's wise. Big companies or
         | government agencies will murder you with insurance and
         | compliance requirements before they give you a nickel.
        
       | lukasfischer wrote:
       | I had to smile while reading the post as I experienced this many
       | times. It's a shame. The question remains: How can this be
       | improved? Especially critically when public money is spent on
       | large scale multi million projects. As a citizen, I would like to
       | see a "fair" bidding process where the "best" supplier wins.
        
         | wodenokoto wrote:
         | Sitting on the other end, it can be super frustrating having to
         | go with the lowest bidder, which you very well know aren't up
         | to the task, but they managed to fill out the bid adequately at
         | the lowest price.
         | 
         | From here on it's a battle to get the spirit of the bid and not
         | some useless interpretation of what you asked for.
         | 
         | It's also a common tactic to seriously underbid and make up for
         | it by overcharging for changes.
        
         | SkyPuncher wrote:
         | Honestly, I don't think it can. Public perception cannot
         | tolerate failure/issues - even if there are huge efficiency
         | gains by not requiring _everything_ to be put through the
         | process.
        
           | Spooky23 wrote:
           | RFPs are only one tool in public procurement. Usually you go
           | the RFP route for a novel project that you don't want to
           | manage.
           | 
           | I have too many years of experience in the space. The
           | successful projects are always owned by government managers
           | and RFP or RFQs off of centralized contracts (ie GSA) for
           | specific tasks or people.
           | 
           | It is simple. If you can't manage the project, you probably
           | can't spec it either. And if you can spec it, only time to
           | market is a ideal reason to RFP.
        
         | detaro wrote:
         | Public RFPs are at least something you can sue over if your
         | competitor gets too brazen benefits. More transparency into
         | them for the general public would be nice, FOIA (or equivalent)
         | requests help a bitbut then often come to late to intervene,
         | just can bring it to light afterwards.
         | 
         | > _As a citizen, I would like to see a "fair" bidding process
         | where the "best" supplier wins._
         | 
         | Defining what is "best" is of course the biggest challenge. In
         | many jurisdictions, it can deviate from "cheapest wins", but
         | then needs pre-defined criteria for evaluation, and any
         | judgement factor of course can go both ways - it can be used to
         | protect from a costly mistake and to give a benefit to a
         | inferior proposal. But such criteria can at least be used to
         | push it out from cheapest-wins, and make it easier to attack
         | the decision to attempt to compensate for bias.
         | 
         | A big problem IMHO are follow-up RFPs where the initial one
         | didn't ensure their viability. E.g. once a company has won
         | "implement system X", all RFPs that require "integrate with
         | system X" or "maintain system X" are on one hand formally ok
         | because doing so is actually needed, but unfair because if
         | system X is sufficiently proprietary, the first company
         | obviously has a massive advantage.
        
       | jseliger wrote:
       | I do grant writing for nonprofits, public agencies, and some
       | research-based businesses, and this happens all the time with
       | public agencies: https://seliger.com/2009/12/27/why-seliger-
       | associates-never-...
        
         | ricksunny wrote:
         | 100%. (Also involved on the proposing / applying side of grant
         | writing here).
        
       | mgkimsal wrote:
       | I wrote the outline of what became an RFP for a university on
       | site tech training program. Someone else won. At the time, we
       | were about the only people doing this. Certainly the outline
       | referenced things that we'd developed training material for, and
       | we were early in this market. However another company 'won'
       | because they were local, and didn't have to factor in travel
       | costs (we had flights and multiple hotel rooms for a week
       | factored in). The university was 'bound' to go with the lower
       | bid, because they were claiming the 'same' material (which...
       | they couldn't have at the time). Internal trainees reached out
       | later and said it was pretty bad, to the point where they were
       | telling the instructor how to do stuff during the class. But...
       | they got the 'lowest' bid...
        
       | random3 wrote:
       | :) reminds me of my first company - I was still in college and we
       | bid for selling computers and printers to the national railways
       | company.
       | 
       | I negotiated for weeks with IBM and HP.
       | 
       | We made our proposal (sealed envelope type).
       | 
       | We won.
       | 
       | One week later HP faxed the railway company that they retracted
       | our "warranty authorization" (or something like that).
       | 
       | We got disqualified.
       | 
       | Another blessed HP partner was supposed to win and HP solved the
       | issue.
       | 
       | I shut off the company and graduated CS.
        
       | indymike wrote:
       | I used to have a rule for my sales team:
       | 
       | Never respond to an RFP you did not write.
       | 
       | Most naive salespeople would complain about it and point out how
       | ethics rules prevented vendors from writing RFPs. I'd then point
       | out the similarities in the RFP to the competitors product
       | descriptions on their websites and documentation.
        
         | mindtricks wrote:
         | I'm not sure I 100% agree with the rule, but sales teams should
         | definitely consider it deeply.
         | 
         | It's worth the money for a sales team that understands this
         | process. If your team isn't influencing the RFP, that means
         | they have no real relationship with the client and relevant
         | stakeholders. You'll likely just pull in cost-conscious or
         | high-maintenance clients.
        
       | _jal wrote:
       | When we were starting a consulting company back when, we fell for
       | this once.
       | 
       | As the article states, once you're aware that this happens, it
       | usually isn't hard to spot the signs. After that, if we suspected
       | we were being suckered for someone else's process checkbox, we'd
       | offer to write a response at our normal hourly rate, and actually
       | got a taker once.
       | 
       | But in general, this stuff will bleed you dry when you're
       | starting out, be careful.
        
       | dagw wrote:
       | Just because you wrote it, doesn't mean you'll always win it.
       | I've been involved in cases where we had pretty much designed and
       | sold in the project and basically wrote the RFP and then some
       | other company came along offered to do it at a significantly
       | lower price.
        
       | Kalanos wrote:
       | It typically requires a lot of time from your best ppl to respond
       | to RFPs
        
         | asyncscrum wrote:
         | This is 100% true. The bigger the deal value, the less
         | delegation there is. Often times, if it's like a top 10
         | account, the CEO shows up and is heavily involved in the
         | presentation layer.
        
       | commandlinefan wrote:
       | > We need to integrate with Qlik!! We need a data warehouse! We
       | need to restrict access to the app to certain IP ranges!
       | 
       | But the time range and price quote never changes...
        
       | hpcjoe wrote:
       | Back when I had my own HPC company, we often consulted on RFP
       | specs for customers building clusters. After a while we started
       | building our own clusters. A well known large/prestigious
       | university on the East Coast US called us to help with the RFP,
       | and bid. We did.
       | 
       | We found out later that they simply wanted help with the RFP.
       | They never took our bid seriously. Small company with a great
       | rep, they preferred dealing with the large companies with meh
       | reps.
       | 
       | Another one ... a university somewhere here in Michigan, an alma
       | mater of mine in fact, did something akin to this, but used
       | another vendor as its stalking horse. We constructed our bid
       | aggressively, and submitted.
       | 
       | Later that month, while on vacation with the family in Florida,
       | the purchasing agent called me up. She wanted me to teach the
       | other companies how to do what we did (much higher density, far
       | better performance, etc.) I asked why. She said they liked our
       | solution. They just didn't want to buy from us.
       | 
       | We'd won the RFP. But lost the business.
       | 
       | Of course, we declined teaching our competitors. They (the
       | university) were unhappy with that, and didn't understand why we
       | wouldn't do this for them.
       | 
       | I was then, and still am somewhat, blown away by the complete
       | lack of understanding of how businesses actually work, on the
       | part of the RFP folks, the purchasing agents, etc.
       | 
       | Another time, I had a university call us up asking for a bid for
       | something. I asked if they had a preferred vendor (all do). She
       | said yes, but state law said they need at least 3 bids before
       | they can purchase. I asked if our bid would be taken seriously.
       | She said no.
       | 
       | Yeah. I've shared some of these anecdotes with others in this
       | industry, and we all nod our heads. All of us have run into this
       | before. Some of the stories are far more outrageous than mine.
       | 
       | An interesting tangent: I currently work for a company whose RFP
       | we won ~14 years ago for storage, but was rejected by the person
       | who was my first boss here, as we (the company back then) were
       | too small. That's happened multiple times throughout my career.
       | Even though our solution was demonstrably superior in all
       | technical and financial aspects, we "lost".
       | 
       | Can be disheartening.
        
         | bombcar wrote:
         | The most understandable of all those is the "too small" - once
         | you've been in the business long enough you realize that small
         | companies can disappear quite quickly. Large ones can too, but
         | it's much less common (and if they do go down, you can point to
         | everyone else taken down with them).
         | 
         | The workaround is to sell your stuff _through_ a larger company
         | that 's complementary.
        
           | toyg wrote:
           | On the other hand, if you are a midsize or large business,
           | with minimal effort you can effectively own a vendor that
           | will act as an unofficial extra department. You give them
           | enough business to become their biggest customer and they are
           | effectively hooked for life, because who's ever going to drop
           | a client providing 40-50% of their total revenue?
        
         | ineedasername wrote:
         | _> too small_
         | 
         | I'm sorry to tell you, but I am one of those people who
         | frequently argue against a small less established vendor, at
         | least for anything really important.
         | 
         | Why? I've been burned a few times. New (< 5 years) small
         | companies can disappear overnight. If they don't simply
         | disappear and have a bit of revenue then they often get
         | acquired by one of the big players. Those players either:
         | 
         | 1) don't know how to properly manage this new product and it
         | stagnates, the 75% of account managers are fired and support
         | goes to shit. Or:
         | 
         | 2) the company has no intention of keeping the product, and
         | despite initial assurances to the contrary a year goes by and I
         | get a notice that they're shifting all customers of the
         | acquired product to their own competing version. Sometimes this
         | comes with a very sneaky hard sell to re-up on a long term
         | contract before the announce the product EOL.
        
         | throwawayboise wrote:
         | > University
         | 
         | Universities are almost a separate reality. Unless you happen
         | to be dealing with someone who has prior experience in the
         | private sector, they will have no idea how businesses operate
         | or how money is earned. It's typical to be dealing with someone
         | who has been doing the same job for 20 years and never worked
         | anywhere else.
        
           | inopinatus wrote:
           | This is common in healthcare, too. Both sectors then suffer
           | from decision makers being senior academic/medical staff who
           | think very highly of themselves but actually lack any
           | managerial acumen, offering a sterling demonstration of the
           | Peter Principle in action.
        
           | bgroat wrote:
           | My brother is an academic and has roughly zero understanding
           | of real world operations.
           | 
           | Which isn't too surprising.
           | 
           | He's exclusively been in classrooms since he was 4 years old.
        
       | drc500free wrote:
       | With government contracting, your competitor didn't just write
       | the RFP, they wrote the budget line item that congress approved.
       | You needed to be there 4 years ago when appropriation started.
        
       | bell-cot wrote:
       | Flip-side, an honest & competent purchaser can use "cooked" RFP's
       | to try to weed out incompetent, indifferently-honest, cost-
       | overrun-prone, etc. would-be suppliers, when they're forced to
       | follow a "publish RFP and take bids" rulebook.
        
         | asyncscrum wrote:
         | Yes this is also an additional gotcha that makes this process
         | an even deeper quagmire.
        
       | stormcode wrote:
       | I worked at a digital agency for years. This is the most true
       | thing I've read in ages. Every single point struck a nerve with
       | me. I honestly wish I'd read and believed this before starting my
       | job there. It would have saved me endless hours of stress and
       | pushing back with my leadership about technical requirements that
       | went nowhere.
        
       | Shank wrote:
       | > In the case of RFPs, think of it like you're buying a logo. You
       | want this nice logo on your website, in case studies, in press
       | releases and in CEO powerpoint decks. What is this logo worth to
       | you?
       | 
       | This is actually the opposite of true for big companies. Some
       | companies let you use their logo, but most enterprise agreements
       | will prohibit this explicitly. If you see a logo on a website,
       | unless it's associated with a formal case study or testimonial,
       | it's probably just an indicator that one person on the domain
       | signed up at one point. If the logo later is removed and replaced
       | with a different company, it's usually because they've signed a
       | contract or been C&D'd and can't show it anymore.
        
       | arrakis2021 wrote:
       | Having read and filled out dozens of RFPs I can confirm almost
       | all of them read like this. this is spot on.
        
       | duxup wrote:
       | > Must-have requirements that will never ever be used by anyone
       | 
       | Heck sometimes the folks who created the requirement forget they
       | were the one who created the requirement, and certainly forgot
       | why...
       | 
       | Or my favorite they requested it, forgot it was their request,
       | and they make a big stink about why it is there.
       | 
       | I got that one this week. Fortunately no real consequences aside
       | from me shaking my head with my camera off / off camera.
       | 
       | In my experience these situations are as much a company exploring
       | "what do we even do here?" as much as looking at software or
       | services.
        
       | atldev wrote:
       | So true. I once received an RFP template where our competitor had
       | forgotten to clear their company (and even author) from the
       | document details. I was glad because it helped us avoid a
       | complete waste of time.
        
         | jjkaczor wrote:
         | So - over the past three years, I had an extremely part-time
         | regional government client who I worked with maybe 40-60hrs per
         | year through a friend's boutique consultancy, mostly as a
         | favor.
         | 
         | Last spring, I prepared a migration roadmap, including some
         | initial estimates.
         | 
         | Apparently, when they sent out their RFP, they included my name
         | and the majority of my roadmap. My current client (a large,
         | multi-national consultancy) was reviewing to bid - and someone
         | recognized my name and reached out to me internally. We all had
         | a laugh when I explained how tiny the actual project would be -
         | heck, my friend didn't even respond to the RFP as it would be
         | too much headache and not within his niche focus area.
         | 
         | (Overall - this article is very accurate in my experience, I
         | have been on both sides of the process, and typically it is a
         | complete waste of time, resources and energy)
        
       | ineedasername wrote:
       | > _These may or may not be actually important requirements for
       | this prospect to be successful_
       | 
       | This is why most people who've been around even a little while
       | grow to hate sales reps and the sales process in general,
       | especially those large enough for an RFP.
       | 
       | This clearly shows a demonstrable tendency towards the mercenary
       | "close the deal no matter what" that is so pervasive. And it is
       | usually very short sighted as well, because this is how you
       | acquire customers that grow to hate you, bad mouth you whenever
       | the opportunity arises, and switches to a competitor when
       | possible, having learned enough about that product ecosystem to
       | hopefully cut through the bullshit the next time around.
        
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