[HN Gopher] Grindr user data has been for sale for years
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       Grindr user data has been for sale for years
        
       Author : pondsider
       Score  : 183 points
       Date   : 2022-05-02 13:51 UTC (9 hours ago)
        
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       | racl101 wrote:
       | Oof. Niche dating app selling your data. Not good.
        
         | lostgame wrote:
         | I posted this in another comment - but - here's the worse
         | thing.
         | 
         | It's not just niche, like a Christian dating app.
         | 
         | If I am a Christian - frankly - living in North America - I've
         | got nothing to hide to anyone, mostly.
         | 
         | I probably came from a Christian family, and - if I didn't -
         | being Christian isn't something that frankly carries the stigma
         | that being gay/trans/lesbian/bi/etc, does.
         | 
         | I would know, because I happen to be Christian, transgender,
         | and lesbian. :P
         | 
         | There's an argument that with privacy 'if you have nothing to
         | hide, why do you care?' - and being on the LGTBQ+ spectrum
         | _nukes_ that argument, just as being a stoner in a weed-hating
         | state might.
         | 
         | Selling the orientation of individuals for profit is an
         | _abomination_ of capitalism, such a risk to the queer
         | community, and such a fundamental and brutal rape or privacy,
         | that I frankly hope to see a class action lawsuit over this.
         | 
         | Grindr shutting down completely would not be good enough; here.
         | This is beyond felonious. This is a human rights violation of
         | the utmost degree.
        
           | headphonepoopr wrote:
           | I am appalled by this and I hope they have to pay for it as
           | much as others in this thread but, I'm sorry, categorizing
           | hypothetically selling your data which could hypothetically
           | be used for harm as a "human rights violation of the utmost
           | degree" really dilutes the severity of real human violations
           | that have actually happened (see I don't know, child rape,
           | forced sterilization etc). That's an interesting choice of
           | framing.
           | 
           | Why openly disclose your sexual preference/orientation so
           | eagerly on hacker news comments, then?
        
             | moate wrote:
             | If I say stealing a car is "criminal to the utmost degree"
             | would you say "I'm sorry, but categorizing theft of
             | property as criminal really dilutes the severity of real
             | criminal violations that have actually happened"?
             | 
             | I ask this because "human rights" is a wide and varied
             | collection of thoughts and ideas ranging from the right to
             | not be sexually assaulted to the right to not have
             | businesses you interact with sell data about your sexual
             | behaviors.
             | 
             | My point is, the whole conversation is subjective. You're
             | both wrong in the eyes of some people and completely
             | reasonable and correct in the eyes of others. Just some
             | helpful framing you might want to use before "whatabouting"
             | when people's lives may literally be on the line for this
             | information being disseminated in their home countries.
             | 
             | From the safety of my home in an exceedingly liberal state
             | in the US, working for an employer with a decent track
             | record for inclusivity, I would be Big Mad if my grindr
             | data was sold. From Chechnya, I would be terrified for my
             | safety, physically as well as at a job, in the same
             | situation.
             | 
             | TL;dr- When people stop being hate-crimed or state-
             | santioned-murdered for being gay, the community will stop
             | "overreacting" to people outing us against our wishes.
        
               | pessimizer wrote:
               | > If I say stealing a car is "criminal to the utmost
               | degree" would you say "I'm sorry, but categorizing theft
               | of property as criminal really dilutes the severity of
               | real criminal violations that have actually happened"?
               | 
               | And I'm pretty sure that if we follow the argument to
               | absurdity, all of us should only be talking about a
               | single incident at a time. The _worst_ one, that renders
               | the rest not only irrelevant but disrespectful and
               | insulting to the _real victim._
        
             | colatkinson wrote:
             | What do you think would happen to an LGBT person in, say,
             | Saudi Arabia? The answer is, "capital punishment, fines,
             | public whipping, beatings, vigilante attacks, vigilante
             | executions, torture, chemical castrations, imprisonment up
             | to life and deportation." Those seem like they're well into
             | the category of "real human violations."
             | 
             | This is also not a hypothetical situation -- something
             | quite similar happened in Egypt a few years ago [1]. And
             | that was using good old fashioned entrapment. The damage
             | could have been far more significant with large-scale data
             | analysis.
             | 
             | While I can't speak for OP: they likely feel comfortable
             | posting about their gender/sexuality on here because they
             | live in a place where that won't happen. And while HN is
             | often less than progressive on LGBT issues, users here
             | generally aren't calling for public executions. But not
             | everyone lives in the US or Western Europe, and these
             | people live under a genuine threat of death.
             | 
             | [0]
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_rights_in_Saudi_Arabia
             | 
             | [1] https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/middle-
             | east/egypt-l...
        
             | throwanem wrote:
             | If I _decide_ to tell you, or everyone who reads HN
             | comments, that I 'm gay, then that's up to me. I can choose
             | whether and how to disclose, or not to disclose, depending
             | on my evaluation of risk, which will be fairly accurate
             | because I have a lifetime of experience in making such risk
             | assessments and seeing how they play out. (In this case I'm
             | not too worried, because I've been out for a long time, so
             | if it gets broadly fashionable again to discriminate
             | against us queers then I already have the same problems in
             | either case.)
             | 
             | If I use a dating app that promises it will maintain its
             | data about my orientation as confidential, and that app
             | turns out to have been lying all along, then I'm forced to
             | run the risk no matter whether I would have _chosen_ to do
             | so. Because I can 't know who is accessing that data or
             | what they're doing with it, I don't even have a way to know
             | how much risk I've been forced to take on. And because I
             | have no way to remove my information from the dataset, I
             | don't have any control over how long that risk continues to
             | be present; I have to assume it's forever, or at least as
             | long as a copy still exists.
             | 
             | It's a good example in microcosm of all the issues around
             | handling sensitive data that this industry has had ever
             | since anyone began trusting us with such data in the first
             | place.
        
               | pessimizer wrote:
               | I agree with all that you and lostgame have posted, but I
               | think it's irrelevant in modern times. There are so many
               | ways to track us (that are probably being stored
               | indefinitely) that your sexual orientation, private
               | religious or political beliefs, or anything else that can
               | be gleaned from your movements and associations will be
               | available for any future administration that decides a
               | certain class of people should be rounded up.
               | 
               | The Holocaust, through computerized processing of census
               | data (via IBM), found "Jews" who didn't even know that
               | their maternal grandmothers were Jewish. Comparing those
               | primitive records and tech to today is like comparing
               | Hiroshima to the nukes of today. If some US
               | administration 20 years from now decided that they wanted
               | to round up all of the communists, homosexuals, and Jews
               | with a 90% certainty, even assuming technology hasn't
               | advanced an inch in the interim, they could get the list
               | within days. I think it would be easy even if we turned
               | off the data spigots _today_ and 20 years from now they
               | only had access to data collected between the dawn of web
               | 2.0 and now.
        
               | throwanem wrote:
               | I've never been all that favorably inclined to the
               | counsel of despair.
               | 
               | That goes double when we're discussing an issue that goes
               | to the heart of how we as an industry conduct ourselves -
               | to what standard we hold ourselves and one another.
               | 
               | Granted, right now no such standard exists. I don't think
               | that will always be true; if we don't regulate our own
               | behavior then someone will certainly do so for us. I
               | think it'd be a good idea if we had a say in how it
               | happens, and when we have people apparently arguing that
               | no one should expect anyone to hold us to any standard,
               | it's very hard for me even to imagine an argument in
               | support of the idea that we _deserve_ one.
               | 
               | I'd also like to think that, by being in this industry,
               | we're not all in the position of an RJR or Philip Morris
               | employee trying to believe we aren't _really_ peddling
               | addiction and cancer. Whether that sort of thing bothers
               | anyone else, it 's not up to me to decide, though I think
               | it should. It _does_ bother me.
        
       | vinni2 wrote:
       | It's unfortunate that majority of the gay community uses this app
       | despite knowing privacy risks.
       | 
       | But there are some precautions one could take to reduce the
       | risks. Like turning off precise location for specific apps is
       | possible in iOS. I assume similar feature is available in android
       | too. This might not help much in a big densely populated city but
       | in a small city this is good enough to find people on Grindr. I
       | also turn off the location access for Grindr once I favorite some
       | people I like to keep in touch with.
        
       | lostgame wrote:
       | As a lesbian - this is terrifying.
       | 
       | Not for myself - because I'm out - but because the fact that I am
       | out would potentially be for sale, and - for instance - my
       | primary partner - isn't.
       | 
       | She comes from such a traditional family, and her home country is
       | so anti-queer - that if they somehow found out her parents would
       | literally likely commit suicide - the exact same thing happened
       | to a friend of hers, and it's unfortunately a very real concern.
       | 
       | This marks the official crossing of the line from any potential
       | 'if you don't have anything to hide, why do you care' bullshit
       | excuse that fucking idiots use to push privacy issues aside.
       | 
       | If you are not out - it is not okay for _ANYONE_ you don't know
       | to know you're gay /lesbian/bi/whatever.
       | 
       | This is a brutal fucking outrage. I'm frankly _fuming_ , like -
       | on the verge of an anxiety attack - over this.
       | 
       | Lawsuits had _better_ fucking ensue.
       | 
       | Frankly, this makes me want to preemptively leave HER (the
       | lesbian equivalent of Grindr) - before I find out the same shit
       | is happening.
       | 
       | Die, Grindr. Fucking die.
       | 
       | As a queer person this may be the single greatest abomination
       | I've seen a corporation claiming to support the LGTBQ+ community
       | commit.
        
         | vmception wrote:
         | > She comes from such a traditional family, that if they
         | somehow found out they'd literally likely commit suicide.
         | 
         | "they" in this case is the family finding out and the family
         | committing suicide? or did "they" change mid-sentence. Sounds
         | bad for any party finding out, just trying to understand the
         | threat model here. If your primary partner found out about the
         | widely reported data leak existing and becoming suicide sounds
         | now extremely probable. The other possible readings of that
         | sentence are, extreme, but less extreme in probability.
         | 
         | Just a couple readings of this that aren't clear.
        
           | pinot wrote:
           | It's perfectly clear given the context.. no one's family
           | member commits suicide over finding out their relative is
           | gay.
        
             | dev_tty01 wrote:
             | You are fortunate to have grown up in a culture where that
             | is mostly true. However, in some cultures, the "shame" of
             | that disclosure about their child is considered worse than
             | death. Horrifically sad, but true.
        
             | prepend wrote:
             | I think GP is saying there are countries with stigma
             | against homosexuality that family members would kill
             | themselves to find out that their children were gay. That's
             | what I understood.
        
               | lostgame wrote:
               | Absolutely, 100%.
        
             | vmception wrote:
             | Narrator: it wasn't clear. The family member was who was
             | being referred to.
        
           | lostgame wrote:
           | Her parents, sorry. Edited. A very similar thing happened to
           | her friend, so it's a reasonable concern. Her home country is
           | fucked in that regard.
        
         | Syonyk wrote:
         | > _...the single greatest abomination I've seen a corporation
         | claiming to support the LGTBQ+ community commit._
         | 
         | Just wait a few months, something else will probably show up.
         | Remember that "claiming to support the LGBTQ+ community" is, in
         | almost every case, just a calculated way to increase their
         | profits. Change a few logos, let the PR department fund a
         | float, and wait for the additional dollars to roll in!
         | 
         | > _Frankly, this makes me want to preemptively leave HER (the
         | lesbian equivalent of Grindr) - before I find out the same shit
         | is happening._
         | 
         | Good. Do it. The entire core of our modern consumer tech
         | ecosystem is based around this sort of deception and lying. If
         | it's a popular app, it's making the money on the backend
         | somewhere. Robinhood (the stock trading app) was _literally_
         | just selling off order flows to the high frequency traders who
         | would pay them rather obscenely large sums of money for the
         | "Heyo, I've got someone ready to buy 15 shares of GME, I'm
         | going to buy 15 shares of GME now, and... buy!" data. They
         | _existed_ to sell out an audience who didn 't know better for
         | fractions of a cent per trade, but in volume.
         | 
         | If you don't mind some dense reading, Zuboff's book on
         | Surveillance Capitalism is well worth the read. The author is
         | just in love with high scoring Scrabble words for no good
         | reason, unless she finds a reason to invent a new word instead.
         | But the outcome of it is that you'll want to regularly frisbee
         | your smartphone across the room into the nearest wall without a
         | case.
         | 
         | "Modern consumer tech" is absolutely, 150%, at odds with _any_
         | concept of personal privacy. And the more people start opting
         | out, the sooner we can go back to  "My personal habits are not
         | your profits."
        
       | Jensson wrote:
       | Any large company that doesn't explicitly say "we aren't selling
       | your data" is definitely selling your data. You can't really
       | trust what they say, but you can trust what they don't say.
        
         | pedro2 wrote:
         | It's worse. Google and friends don't sell your data either.
         | 
         | They just assign you to various buckets and then aggregate the
         | information in those buckets to sell targeted advertising.
         | 
         | But they don't sell your data :)
         | 
         | At this time, it's best to assume apps with trackers embedded
         | (you can check that with Aurora Store) sells data associated
         | with you indirectly.
        
           | EduardoBautista wrote:
           | How is this worse? I'd much rather companies do this instead
           | of selling the actual data. In fact, I don't think this is
           | much of a privacy issue at all.
        
             | pedro2 wrote:
             | My point is, unless you are a lawyer, you can't trust
             | anything they write about how they use your data -- they
             | don't speak the same language as us.
        
               | johndfsgdgdfg wrote:
               | The irony is what you wrote is categorically false.
               | Selling user personal data to a third party, which users
               | have no idea how that data will be used, is not better
               | than companies showing users targeted ads. Not everything
               | on earth has to be a hot take.
        
               | pessimizer wrote:
               | > Selling user personal data to a third party, which
               | users have no idea how that data will be used, is not
               | better than companies showing users targeted ads.
               | 
               | This isn't what was said. What was being said is that the
               | people who claim that they don't sell your data have such
               | complex ways of still selling your data while being
               | literally truthful that there's no way to confidently
               | evaluate risks no matter what they say.
               | 
               | edit: I mean, do you know for certain that a determined
               | attacker can't bulk unmask Google or Facebook users
               | through skillful monitoring of ad auctions and specific
               | ad placements?
        
             | aaomidi wrote:
             | It definitely is still a privacy issue. You only need a few
             | data points to fully identify a person.
             | 
             | But no it's not as bad as just selling the raw data.
        
         | Syonyk wrote:
         | Just read anything from a privacy policy in a Nixon-intonation
         | "I am not a crook!" style and you'll get what you need from it.
         | A touch of Futurama-Nixon jowl-flapping adds much to the
         | imagined statements.
         | 
         | They're all written in the, "Well, _technically,_ our lawyers
         | claim we 're not _lying_... " style. But they're sure not end-
         | user friendly, which is the exact point.
         | 
         | And any time they claim they're not doing something explicitly,
         | look for ways they might have navigated around it carefully.
         | Roku's "you agree to let us do anything we want" policy, for
         | instance, includes a dutiful agreement to not do anything
         | prohibited by the laws of the country your data is stored in.
         | Of course, they then later state that they can move your data
         | to any country they want.
        
       | mrtweetyhack wrote:
        
       | blakesterz wrote:
       | "The activities that have been described would not be possible
       | with Grindr's current privacy practices, which we've had in place
       | for two years."
       | 
       | At least according to them, it's more accurate to say "Had been
       | for sale for years". They say they've put a stop to it.
        
         | jmcgough wrote:
         | I don't really trust them tbh they've never cared that much
         | about user safety or privacy. You can still triangulate
         | people's location, in Egypt this was used to imprison LGBT
         | people.
        
           | hsbauauvhabzb wrote:
           | Don't quote me, and I'm not defending grindr, but I _think_
           | they geoban certain locations for this reason.
        
           | heavyset_go wrote:
           | It's a nitpick, but it's trilateration and you're right that
           | it is still trivial to do.
        
             | daniel-cussen wrote:
             | I'm sure there's navigators who discovered California-sized
             | lands (from the perspective of Europeans not of those who
             | already lived there), that called it "triangulizacion" in
             | Spanish. They triangulized, or triangulated.
             | 
             | And it was cool the first time, with mountain peaks, and a
             | very accurate compass, going on a hike and figuring out
             | where you were on a map, without the whole satellite
             | cakewalk.
             | 
             | But all of that's a nitpick of a nitpick, you and the
             | parent post are totally right. But like totally. You should
             | all have read the last paragraph in this post first, what I
             | said doesn't change things, it's trivial to get our
             | positions.
        
               | heavyset_go wrote:
               | Haha, yeah, that's what I get for doing a "well,
               | akshully" on my phone.
        
       | rkallos wrote:
       | Grindr's response to this article:
       | https://blog.grindr.com/blog/the-wsjs-old-news
       | 
       | > What the WSJ describes would not be possible with our privacy
       | practices today, practices we proactively implemented two years
       | ago
       | 
       | > Grindr takes the privacy of its users extremely seriously, and
       | we have put privacy before profit
       | 
       | > Grindr does not share users' precise location, we do not share
       | user profile information, and we do not share even industry
       | standard data like age or gender
        
         | onlyrealcuzzo wrote:
         | > or gender
         | 
         | Gee, I wonder if the advertiser can take a guess.
        
       | verisimi wrote:
       | I'm pretty sure that lots and lots of companies are collecting
       | and selling data.
       | 
       | What I really wonder is whether disclosure of these sorts of
       | leaks is selective. I suspect it is. The point being that in
       | showing one or 2 cases, and then showing the system taking a
       | retrospective action, gives the impression that we are being
       | protected. I suspect that grindr has been selected as a
       | sacrificial lamb (of little consequence - eg its not tinder) -
       | and will possible be put through some legal process and appear to
       | be made an example of.
       | 
       | If so, the news will have some headlines, and it will appear that
       | the governance process is doing its job.
       | 
       | I don't think we are being protected though - it would be easy to
       | pass legislation that made these sorts of actions illegal. What
       | is being protected is the reputation of those businesses
       | undertaking the collection. The cost is that we are kept in
       | ignorance of how bad and systemic the situation really is.
        
         | pessimizer wrote:
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limited_hangout
        
         | pedro2 wrote:
         | Aurora Store allows to list the trackers embedded in apps you
         | install.
        
           | a-dub wrote:
           | there's another system i saw on here that uses the VPN api to
           | monitor for saas adware connections in apps. i think it was
           | developed in europe or was part of a research project.
           | 
           | the future of firewalls will be keeping your data in is my
           | bet...
        
             | heavyset_go wrote:
             | Anyone have a link to this or have information that makes
             | finding it easier?
        
               | a-dub wrote:
               | found it!
               | 
               | https://trackercontrol.org/
        
               | heavyset_go wrote:
               | Thanks
        
               | a-dub wrote:
               | worth noting that this doesn't catch instances where the
               | app developer collects the data itself and then sells it
               | (as opposed to just linking in a collection library from
               | the third party).
               | 
               | i suspect that there will probably be some cool research
               | projects that try to embed identifiable watermarks in
               | behavioral data and then attempt to detect them in
               | purchasable data or data products and/or realtime
               | behavior of ad companies.
        
       | Melatonic wrote:
       | Wow. This is pretty bad. So much potential for abuse or
       | discrimination using this data.
        
       | junon wrote:
       | Anyone have a non-paywalled link?
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | Vladimof wrote:
         | https://archive.ph/9V4kY
        
       | nerdjon wrote:
       | I hate that all of these apps (Grindr and similar) appear to take
       | security and privacy secondary... which is just insane given the
       | market they are serving.
       | 
       | Sex is still considered taboo in many parts of the world and some
       | parts of the US.
       | 
       | Now this, we have them using the Facebook API and them knowing
       | every time I open the app (or did).
       | 
       | I have made every choice I can to reduce the privacy invasion
       | that these companies engage in, but there are simply no
       | alternatives for this one. I would be very surprised to find out
       | that Scruff is actually any better.
       | 
       | The web based ones are likely far far worse.
       | 
       | I hate that this has become normal so much.
        
         | firephonestival wrote:
         | If you are a startup, you cannot create a popular app in a
         | crowded marketplace by being scrupulous about best practices.
         | 
         | Match owns almost all of the dating-app market, and they have
         | extremely deep pockets to buy/extinguish competition with.
         | 
         | Because of the consolidated nature of the market, and the
         | winner-takes-all nature of the industry, I really believe that
         | it is impossible for a new entry to gain popularity _and_ focus
         | on hard problems like security.
         | 
         | This is fundamentally a problem with capital allocation and
         | incentives. There's not much that a small team can do about it.
        
           | rhizome wrote:
           | > _If you are a startup, you cannot create a popular app in a
           | crowded marketplace by being scrupulous about best
           | practices._
           | 
           | > _Match owns almost all of the dating-app market, and they
           | have extremely deep pockets to buy /extinguish competition
           | with._
           | 
           | Match owns almost all of the dating app market because
           | they've acquired who? Startups who created popular apps in a
           | crowded marketplace that they don't already own.
           | 
           | Now, if you want to argue that you cannot create a popular
           | app in a crowded marketplace without accepting a buyout offer
           | from the dominant player, now that's a topic I think is worth
           | quite a bit of discussion.
        
           | ramesh31 wrote:
           | >I really believe that it is impossible for a new entry to
           | gain popularity and focus on hard problems like security.
           | 
           | Well, they _can_. New entrants to the dating app market
           | always start out this way. They gain loads of initial trust
           | and word of mouth growth by putting users first. But they
           | inevitably fall victim to the same market forces as their
           | competition, and slowly become the same thing. It happened to
           | Tinder, it happened to Bumble, and it will happen to Hinge.
        
             | rchaud wrote:
             | Or they get acquired by the Match company (Tinder, OKC,
             | Match.com, others) and just start poisoning the UX straight
             | away.
        
           | nerdjon wrote:
           | Maybe for security (however that being second for any app is
           | a serious issue).
           | 
           | But this is a conscious choice. A small team should not need
           | to make the decision to do something like this.
           | 
           | Also Grindr or Scruff isn't exactly small and have a fairly
           | devoted base that doesn't end just because they get into a
           | relationship.
        
             | aerostable_slug wrote:
             | > have a fairly devoted base that doesn't end just because
             | they get into a relationship.
             | 
             | At least in the US, one might imagine this is more
             | important to users than hiding their sexual preference.
        
               | throwanem wrote:
               | That's quite a claim when, until Grindr's practice of
               | selling PII was disclosed, no one had any reason to
               | imagine that by using the app they would be disclosing
               | their sexual orientation and behavior. In light of that I
               | have no idea what preference you imagine to have been
               | meaningfully revealed here.
        
             | madamelic wrote:
             | Users kinda suck and hate to pull out their wallets if they
             | don't have to.
             | 
             | Dating apps also suck at giving compelling reasons to pay
             | them unless the app is purposefully made worse so they can
             | sell the functionality back.
        
               | nerdjon wrote:
               | How much of that is because they have been conditioned
               | that things should be free though?
               | 
               | We have 10+ years of Google, Facebook, and others handing
               | out major tools and functionality for free because of the
               | privacy invasion.
               | 
               | I have to wonder how things would have looked had that
               | not become the norm.
               | 
               | As far as being purposefully made worse, yeah both apps
               | do that. Grindr charges $100, Scruff charges $120 a year.
               | Considering how popular both apps are I have to assume
               | they are pulling in quite a bit of money.
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | throwanem wrote:
           | You appear to be arguing that it's better to betray your
           | customers' intimate confidences, than to find a market you
           | can address _without_ doing that.
           | 
           | I'm sure that can't be what you are _trying_ to say -
           | although, if it is, I can certainly understand why you made a
           | throwaway to say it.
        
             | [deleted]
        
             | bombcar wrote:
             | I think he's saying don't even try, because some other
             | company won't bother and it'll crush you.
        
               | throwanem wrote:
               | Fine! Don't try, then. "Someone is going to do this
               | shameful thing, therefore there is no reason why _I_
               | should _not_ do this shameful thing " isn't quite the
               | logic of a sociopath, but only because a sociopath sees
               | no need in the first place to excuse his own immoral
               | behavior.
        
             | firephonestival wrote:
             | I'm not saying it's better, but that it is unavoidable
             | given current market conditions.
             | 
             | We all want our data to be handled securely, and we should
             | try to understand why that does not happen.
        
               | throwanem wrote:
               | There's a difference between understanding why people
               | behave dishonestly, and making excuses for dishonest
               | behavior. You're doing the second one under the color of
               | the first.
               | 
               | No one _has_ to make a dating app. I don 't see how "no
               | one could do it without betraying their users either!" as
               | you argue - and, again, even granting this is true, which
               | you've done nothing thus far to show - excuses the actual
               | betrayal that actually has occurred. If you'd like to
               | make an argument that it does, I'd be interested to hear
               | that.
        
             | pessimizer wrote:
             | I'm pretty sure it's just an observation about the
             | situation that any player in that market would find itself
             | in, so therefore when you look at apps in that market
             | they're shitty about privacy.
             | 
             | It's a comment about dating apps, not about people who
             | decided _not_ to go into dating apps i.e. found  "a market
             | you can address without doing that."
        
           | rootusrootus wrote:
           | > Match owns almost all of the dating-app market, and they
           | have extremely deep pockets to buy/extinguish competition
           | with.
           | 
           | Sounds like a business opportunity.
        
         | tomc1985 wrote:
         | There's a few other sites that are good for hookups, but I
         | wouldn't trust any apps. Sniffies and A4A are the ones I know
         | of
        
           | nerdjon wrote:
           | I don't imagine sniffies, a4a, MH, bbrts (for anyone reading,
           | please don't look these up while at work... or at least not
           | on a work computer... these are all Gay hookup sites) is any
           | better. Particularly the first one when it comes to location
           | data considering it just legit shows a map if people.
           | 
           | I really don't trust any of them (App or Website), enough so
           | I have seriously contemplated getting an iPod touch or
           | something and tethering anytime I want to use them. But I
           | have not quite gone that far yet.
           | 
           | There are certain conveniences the apps get you.
        
         | aaomidi wrote:
         | Eventually EU is going to ban data warehousing for any purpose
         | other than storing and giving it back to the user.
         | 
         | And honestly, I think it's necessary.
        
           | doliveira wrote:
           | I really hope so. Maybe this will yield better privacy-
           | preserving schemes for data analysis and recommendation
           | engines. Necessity is the mother of invention (or whatever
           | the equivalent idiom is in English).
           | 
           | I think I'm hardly making an original argument, but a big
           | problem is binding Compute and Data, so companies have an
           | incentive to hoard as much data as possible and keep it
           | hostage. Feels like deep down that's the whole valuation of
           | Silicon Valley
        
           | perfunctory wrote:
           | Why do you think the EU will do it?
        
             | baisq wrote:
             | They don't have a tech industry so they have nothing to
             | lose from it.
        
             | dspillett wrote:
             | They are the closest to doing it than anywhere else at
             | least, and still edging in the direction of greater
             | regulation not less or on a plateau.
        
             | OkayPhysicist wrote:
             | Probably because they're the jurisdiction that's taking
             | user privacy rights the most seriously so far, with enough
             | market share to leverage their demands.
        
             | ajsnigrutin wrote:
             | Because most of that kind of industry is US based, and they
             | earn money from EU users, so on one hand, you seem to be
             | working "for the people", on the other hand, you fuck the
             | americans :)
        
       | smm11 wrote:
       | Grindr's UI is second-to-none, in my opinion.
       | 
       | At least the last time I checked it out, which was the day before
       | I interviewed there. Were I working there, and found this out, I
       | would no longer be working there.
        
       | pinewurst wrote:
       | https://archive.ph/9V4kY
        
       | toper-centage wrote:
       | At this point we need to be able to set our reported location
       | manually on our phones natively. I don't want any number of apps
       | to be able to sneakily collect such data. Android sort of allows
       | it through 3rd party apps, but Google has all incentives in not
       | making this trivial.
        
         | m3047 wrote:
         | There's a funny thing about cellphone modulation: makes it hard
         | to locate a device. Cell phones need GPS so they can give their
         | location to the eNBs (towers) so that the best tower can be
         | selected, the towers can't do it on their own.
        
         | est31 wrote:
         | Android 12 finally has a feature to select approximate location
         | per-app. iOS has supported this for a bit longer, since version
         | 14. The accuracy of the "approximate" location is also much
         | bigger for Android 12 than it is for iOS, but it's a good
         | start.
        
         | Syonyk wrote:
         | I would go further. At this point, the "sneaky snacky
         | smartphone" approach to data collection (in which everything
         | that _can_ be collected _is_ being collected, and probably used
         | for things you can 't imagine it would be useful for) starts to
         | press heavily on the "And I therefore shouldn't carry a
         | smartphone" side of the scales.
         | 
         | I've seen some fun papers of "Well, you _could_ do this awful
         | thing... " (comparison of accelerometer data to deconflict
         | which nearby phones are in the same vehicle vs separate ones to
         | better refine social graphs), in addition to all the stuff we
         | _know_ is being done (ultrasonic signals in various ads,
         | tracking shoppers by their wifi /bt beacon MACs, etc). I assume
         | the state of what's actually being done is far worse than
         | what's in the papers, because someone, somewhere, though they
         | could get a signal out of something.
         | 
         | Trying to "de-evil" this sort of system is, first and foremost,
         | fiddling around the edges of what's possible (I expect various
         | people are reading and thinking, "Oh, you think spoofing GPS
         | will matter, _cute!_ ), but it's also remaining in the
         | ecosystem that has, repeatedly, demonstrated that they're going
         | to get their paws on everything they think they can justify,
         | and then expand that over time.
         | 
         | There's no reason that a TV needs to be doing automatic content
         | recognition on various inputs, but they're all doing it these
         | days.
         | 
         | I've given up and I no longer carry a smartphone. I'd encourage
         | those who can get away with it to do the same thing. You can't
         | go hoovering up all my data from a dumber KaiOS device because
         | it doesn't run all the apps, and if a company makes their
         | desktop/laptop interface so painful to use to drive people to
         | the phone interface, well, they're probably doing things I
         | don't want to support anymore.
         | 
         | Trying to "reduce the harm" of smartphones, more and more,
         | feels like trying to figure out how to mitigate the impact of a
         | world class meth addiction by focusing on the symptoms - "Oh,
         | you need to hydrate better!" "Here's some skin moisturizer and
         | a toothbrush!" and so on - without ever stating that the
         | problem is the meth and that you need to stop using that, not
         | try to figure out how to avoid losing your teeth while doing
         | it.
        
           | bombcar wrote:
           | I wonder if our smartphone addiction is going to look to
           | people in the future the same way we look at smoking now.
           | 
           | He says whilst posting from his phone ...
        
             | Syonyk wrote:
             | I sure hope so. And I hope that future is an awful lot
             | closer. The past decade or so of teenagers can speak to
             | just how nasty smartphone addictions can be, in terms of
             | mental health, suicides, etc. I grew up with the internet,
             | but we didn't have profit-driven advertising empires
             | pretending to "connect people together" back then, either.
             | 
             | Part of my reason for not carrying a smartphone anymore is
             | to be a better example to my kids, and I certainly point
             | out couples staring at his-n-hers smartphones at a
             | restaurant instead of actually enjoying each other's
             | company.
             | 
             | Odds are good that instead of a smartphone, my daughter
             | will just end up with her HAM license and a VHF handset
             | instead. It'll cover the common cases direct simplex if I
             | put a base station on the house, and my wife isn't opposed
             | to getting her license either. :)
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | HAM is nice also because it helps you remember that
               | someone could be listening at any time, a lesson we often
               | forget.
        
         | kbos87 wrote:
         | This is really tough because the only purpose of Grindr is to
         | give it your location to see who is around you. There also
         | needs to be much stronger requirements for end user
         | transparency about where their data is going.
        
           | heavyset_go wrote:
           | It would still serve its purpose even if you spoofed your
           | location to be somewhere nearby or elsewhere. Nobody needs to
           | be able to figure out exactly where specific users
           | are/live/work via the platform.
        
             | nerdjon wrote:
             | Removing that ability removes one of the key functionality
             | of these apps and why they are popular.
             | 
             | Seeing that someone is 100 ft away is a common start of a
             | conversation. Maybe they live in the same apartment, at a
             | local coffee shop, work in the same building. Which leads
             | to... well...
             | 
             | That doesn't excuse the privacy issues though.
        
               | heavyset_go wrote:
               | Plenty of people already spoof their locations on the app
               | and the app itself offers location changing
               | functionality, I'd hardly say that is removing
               | functionality or defeating the purpose of the app.
        
             | bobro wrote:
             | dont they? isnt the point that you share your true location
             | and in return see others' true locations?
        
               | mrguyorama wrote:
               | Tindr straightforwardly sells the option to "Swipe" from
               | other locations.
        
         | mistrial9 wrote:
         | > we need to be able to set our reported location manually on
         | our phones
         | 
         | down-low, we have an emergency
        
         | kevin_thibedeau wrote:
         | It's a shame that LineageOS doesn't let you spoof apps with
         | bogus data anymore. It's much easier to let them think they're
         | getting permissions than try to play whack-a-mole with opt out
         | settings that could get reset at any time by bad actors.
        
           | a-dub wrote:
           | my understanding was that the first instance of that was way
           | back in cyanogenmod back in the late 00s and that it was
           | quashed when google basically said "we'll let you bootleg the
           | play store, but only if you don't screw up revenue streams by
           | feeding app developers garbage data"
        
         | Melatonic wrote:
         | If you enable "mock locations" in the Android developer
         | settings I believe you can do just that. It has been awhile
         | though
        
         | InitialLastName wrote:
         | A long time ago, when I lived within dating distance of the
         | default coordinate (maybe City Hall?) of a global-destination
         | city, a dating site I used introduced a feature that let users
         | set their locations manually. Within hours of rollout, the site
         | was completely unusable due to being full of people from around
         | the world saying "I wonder what the dating scene in $city is
         | like?".
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | rchaud wrote:
           | That is still the case on some big apps like OKCupid. There
           | are green-card hunters from poor countries that fill up the
           | swipe queue and all have the same giveaway line:
           | 
           | "I'm not based in [your city], I just change the location to
           | talk to new people". It's frequent enough that I stopped
           | using the app altogether. OKC was already going downhill well
           | before this.
        
             | NaturalPhallacy wrote:
             | OKC died when match bought it and they took down their blog
             | post about why you should never pay for a dating app.
        
         | heavyset_go wrote:
         | Even if you use 3rd party apps, Google location services will
         | side step your mocked location. Apps can detect mocked
         | locations, as well.
         | 
         | Pretty sure SafetyNet, or something like it, from Google will
         | also tattle on you if you spoof your location in apps that
         | don't want you using mock locations, preventing you from using
         | mock locations at all with apps.
        
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