[HN Gopher] I'm going to miss you, but I am taking a sabbatical ___________________________________________________________________ I'm going to miss you, but I am taking a sabbatical Author : gaws Score : 224 points Date : 2022-05-09 16:57 UTC (6 hours ago) (HTM) web link (kottke.org) (TXT) w3m dump (kottke.org) | joemazerino wrote: | I've been a big fan of Jason since I came across his blog in the | 2000s. I wish the best for him and his tree. | tabiv wrote: | Maybe, like his tree, his pot is way to small and he is root- | bound. | chizhik-pyzhik wrote: | He should probably plant the fig tree outside, at this point. | (Not sure how that fits in to the analogy.) | jcims wrote: | Probably that he should put himself into reality rather than | the facsimile that's necessarily created through the editorial | process. | DFHippie wrote: | I infer he's living in Vermont at this point. I don't think it | will thrive outside unless he's got a greenhouse. | MontyCarloHall wrote: | Jason posts a handful of cool links each week and occasionally | writes a few paragraphs about them. He also sometimes produces a | podcast. As far as I can tell, this is the full extent of his | job. | | It's really hard to imagine getting "burnt out" from this. It | sounds exactly how many people actively enjoy spending their free | time: surf the internet for fun and take a few minutes sharing a | couple cool links with your friends. | astroalex wrote: | I disagree. | | Firstly, I believe you underestimate the amount of work Jason | does and the amount of stress he is under. | | I've read Kottke.org since I was a kid, and it's the only blog | I still regularly read. There's a reason it's the only website | I've looked at _everyday_ for the _majority of my life_ : | consistent excellence. Anecdotally, whenever Jason has a guest | writer come on his blog, I can tell before I even read the by- | line. It's just not the same quality. | | And that doesn't happen for free. I imagine it takes a huge | amount of work and thought to successfully curate The Whole | Internet into something that people actually want to read for | 24 years. Remember that his livelihood depends directly on | driving traffic to his website -- there's no safety net or | wiggle room. This sounds incredibly stressful to me. | | Secondly, in another comment you claim that because other | people with different jobs might be burnt out from those jobs, | it is not reasonable for Jason to feel burnt out from his job, | and therefore his sabbatical is unwarranted. | | This makes no sense. Anyone can get burnt out from any job, and | if they have the privilege to do so (and I do agree with you | that it is a privilege), they should take time off. In a | similar vein, if someone suffers from depression, that person | should seek therapy if they can, regardless of whether someone | else has life circumstances that are worse. | | It makes no sense to prevent someone from taking time off (or | seeking therapy) just because their life isn't as bad as | someone else's. Instead, we should advocate for better working | conditions (or access to therapy) for those who cannot afford | the privilege. | MontyCarloHall wrote: | I didn't say his sabbatical is unwarranted; he can spend his | life however he pleases. I simply said that I think it's | extremely tone deaf and sneeringly privileged for Jason to | describe his current state as "burnt out." This is a very | strong term referring to a state of extreme mental anguish | induced by an unreasonable and inescapable level of overwork | that applies more to people forced to work 60+ hour weeks at | minimum wage than to people whose livelihood is posting cool | links a handful of times a week. As I said in another post, | it would be equally tone deaf for a millionaire to | unironically describe themselves as being "impoverished" due | to a small cut in their yearly bonus or an underperforming | investment. | | If Jason simply wrote that he's sick of maintaining his blog | and wants to try something new, that would be perfectly fine. | | >I imagine it takes a huge amount of work and thought to | successfully curate The Whole Internet into something that | people actually want to read for 24 years. | | I disagree. Plenty of prolific Reddit and Hacker News posters | do the same thing in their spare time. | | >Anecdotally, whenever Jason has a guest writer come on his | blog, I can tell before I even read the by-line. It's just | not the same quality. | | Isn't that because they usually post more long-form original | content (e.g. https://kottke.org/tag/Tim%20Carmody) than cool | links? | wfme wrote: | I enjoy the irony of calling the author " tone deaf". | jpadkins wrote: | maybe people just need to take a break from the internet? | especially people who have been a part of the internet for | almost the whole time of the commercial web. | MontyCarloHall wrote: | It really rubs me the wrong way that someone claims to be | "burnt out" from a job that probably requires an average of | an hour or two a day of non-taxing work. I'd love to see | Jason say with a straight face that he's "burnt out" to a | minimum wage worker who works 12+ hours days, 7 days a week, | or even to your average office drone who spends 8 hours a day | pushing TPS reports without any breaks in a soulless cubicle. | It just seems really tone deaf and privileged, especially | given how much Jason has loved to post about issues regarding | privilege as of late. | | It's on the level of someone saying they're "malnourished" | because they had to give up a daily diet of Michelin Star- | level restaurant food. | edmcnulty101 wrote: | I got the same feeling. | | Wish I had the luxury to tell my boss , hey I'm burnt out, | be back in 6 months or so. | bombcar wrote: | The term used to be ennui in this case - but burnout | makes you sound more like you're "one of us" I guess. | santoshalper wrote: | I really feel like you're reading too much into the term | "burned out". You can get sick of doing anything and lose | the spark. I've never managed to do anything consistently | for half as long as he's run his blog. It's kind of amazing | to me he lasted this long. | | I just get the sense that his interest in it is waning, and | he doesn't want to just "check the box" every day. It's his | right. Just because some people live in terrible | conditions, doesn't mean he can't be sick of his job. | | I'm curious, would it have bothered you as much if he'd | just said: "I'm sick of this blog and I'm quitting it?" | because that's basically what he did, except he promised to | come back (I wonder if he'll regret that promise in six | months). | MontyCarloHall wrote: | I agree with everything you wrote. This is the crux of my | annoyance: | | >I'm curious, would it have bothered you as much if he'd | just said: "I'm sick of this blog and I'm quitting it?" | because that's basically what he did, except he promised | to come back (I wonder if he'll regret that promise in | six months). | | Yes, this is exactly how he should have phrased it. | "Burnt out" is a very strong term that refers to a state | of extreme mental anguish induced by an unreasonable and | inescapable level of overwork. It feels insulting and | sneeringly privileged coming from someone whose job is to | surf the internet for a few hours a day and sometimes | post about it. | | It is as if someone unironically described themselves as | "severely clinically depressed" after their favorite | sports team lost a game, or someone in the top 1% | sincerely calling themselves "impoverished" after a | slight cut to their yearly bonus (or the recent bloodbath | in the stock market). | nullandvoid wrote: | I think burnout is unique to an individual, and can | simply be bought on by prolonged working on something | (anything) that doesn't deliver the results you expect. | | If the blog poster expected to be happy, or to have | riches for example, and neither occurred at the level | they expect (especially now 24 years in) burn out occurs. | nocman wrote: | While I see where you are coming from, that's your | definition of "burnt out", but it is not the only valid | one, and many obviously don't require the condition to be | as extreme as you do for the term to be valid. | | I don't know anything about Jason, so I can't make an | informed call on whether I think he is overly | exaggerating things by using the term. | | I do think there is at least a version of "burnt out" | that just means you are really tired, because you have | put a lot of effort into something for a long period of | time, to the point that you are questioning whether it is | worth it to you to continue doing it. | | However, yeah, some people probably say "I'm so burnt out | on 'X'" because they've spent over a half hour on it, and | it still isn't done. That doesn't qualify, in my opinion. | patternMachine wrote: | Is it possible that running a blog is not as easy as you | think? | thefaux wrote: | You sound burned out. | karaterobot wrote: | You can get burned out from anything, though. I like pizza, and | look forward to the next pizza I get to eat. But if you made me | eat pizza every day for 24 years, I'd want to take a long break | from eating pizza. | kajecounterhack wrote: | I'm not saying curation is the world's hardest job but stakes | are a bit different when you've become popular enough to make a | living off of it. It's like being a Youtuber -- folks donate to | you because you add value to their lives via your content. Even | if generating links and paragraphs seems low-effort to you, to | do it well every day for 24 years you can't shut off your | consumption of media and you need to stay in a certain mindset. | You are always a bit concerned about whether you are delivering | value too. Every job takes a psychological toll and one that | involves being "on" for 24 years certainly warrants taking a | break. | | It's also clear that Jason has other things going on in life | and wanting to clear your plate and reset is very human and | understandable. | judofyr wrote: | I think people react here because of the term "burn out". | It's usually used when you've been under high stress for a | longer period and you completely collapse and is unable to do | any work. | | Losing motivation for a project and moving over to new things | is _very_ different from a burn out. | kajecounterhack wrote: | > I think people react here because of the term "burn out". | It's usually used when you've been under high stress for a | longer period and you completely collapse and is unable to | do any work. | | Yeah you're probably right, though it's so annoying when | people can't contextualize the usage of terms like "burn | out" -- what's "high stress" or "a longer period?" Isn't | that subjective? | | > Losing motivation for a project and moving over to new | things is very different from a burn out. | | Is it though? I googled "burnout" and got "Burnout is a | form of exhaustion caused by constantly feeling swamped." | If someone says the reason they are taking a break is | because they are burned out, who is anyone to say that's | not what they're experiencing? | | If you've heard of Chinese water torture, it's one little | drop at a time over a long period of time -- seems entirely | plausible that 24 years of being in non-stop curation mode | could make someone feel exhausted and constantly swamped. | munificent wrote: | The emotional experience of an activity is 10% the activity | itself and 90% the framing around the activity and what it | means for your life. | | It's not the surfing and posting links. It's the knowing _if I | don 't surf and post sufficiently interesting links every day, | I can't afford my health insurance._ The stakes are much higher | in the latter. | MontyCarloHall wrote: | >[K]nowing _if I don 't <perform satisfactorily at my job>, I | can't afford my <life necessities>_" | | is true for literally everyone except the independently | wealthy. It is a lot easier to not stress over for someone | for whom "the activity itself" is a non-demanding job, than | for someone whose job is inherently extremely emotionally or | physically draining. | | As an extreme example, suppose my parents bestowed on me a | trust fund. It affords me a monthly allowance that lets me | live an upper middle class lifestyle without having to | otherwise work. The only requirement to get this allowance is | to have an earnest phone call with my mother for an hour each | week. Failure to do so results in the trust being revoked. | Saying that I'm "burnt out" from "knowing _if I don 't call | my mom this week, my whole income disappears_" would be | absurd. The ease of my carefree lifestyle is more than enough | to offset the mild stress of having to remember to call my | mom on a weekly basis. | munificent wrote: | Yes, and that's why jobs are more stressful than hobbies | even when the activity is the same. I think you're just | restating my point? | | The parent comment was, essentially, "Why is doing X | stressful for Kottke who does it for work when I do X for | fun and don't find it stressful at all?" And the answer | is... Kottke does it for work and you do it for fun. | kinnth wrote: | Currently on my 4th month of a Sabbatical and not looking back. | It's great to explore and find joy in the world offline again. | | I also no longer feel the need to be validated by the work that I | do but really by how I feel and I feel good. | benjaminwootton wrote: | Could you expand on that? | | Something about "not feeling the need to be validated by work" | sounds appealing and is bubbling in my mind recently, but I'm | not sure how that looks day to day. | gilbetron wrote: | Fittingly, that tree seems to mostly need a larger place to grow, | much like the author. | newaccount2021 wrote: | people posting things on the internet just isn't that much of a | novelty anymore | | frankly nothing "internet" is a novelty anymore | | no one needs your edgy take, nonlinear thinking, "challenging | ideas"...its all just blah blah blah | | the world needs people to build houses, not websites | | get used to seeing more old-tyme content creators sign off for | good, most of their bits had just been reduced to noise anyway | gentle wrote: | I've been reading Jason every day for the last 20-something | years. I love his writing voice and his perspective on the world. | | There's no other blog I read as consistently or as | enthusiastically. I hope he gets the time out he needs from his | sabbatical. I look forward to the next 20 years of reading his | work. | kingnothing wrote: | I took a 6 month sabbatical and am just now interviewing for work | again. It's been one of the best decisions of my career and I | would highly recommend everyone who can to save up and make it | happen for themselves. I worked for over a decade before feeling | burnt out and realizing I needed to make a change. Fortunately | I'd been saving for this for quite a while, knowing I'd want to | do it eventually. It's been amazing to have time to myself to | ponder what I want out of the rest of my work life, enjoy hikes | in the middle of the week, work on a side project, level up my | cooking game, and spend time with friends and family without | regard for having to return to work at the end of several week | long vacations. I'm eager to get back to work and am already | looking forward to my next sabbatical and how it will affect my | future self. Live a little leaner, save up, and take some time | for yourself. We don't have much of it. | | Here's a relevant TED talk I found to be inspiring: | https://www.ted.com/talks/stefan_sagmeister_the_power_of_tim... | alisonatwork wrote: | I am just returning from a 10 month sabbatical, my second | deliberate one in the past 5 years, and one of several career | breaks I have taken since I started working in tech in the late | 90s. I also highly recommend it. For me weekends and even | annual leave doesn't reach the same level of relaxation that I | can hit when I know that there is no job hanging over my head, | and no countdown to when I need to return. (Running out of cash | would be a fairly hard limit, of course, but in our industry | it's easy to put enough money away to live without work for a | year every few years.) | | One thing I don't feel is that these sabbaticals have | necessarily been some kind of radical life-altering experience. | I pretty much just did the same stuff that I enjoyed doing | anyway, but I did it entirely at my own pace, with zero | pressure or stress. I'm not really seeking enlightment, I'm | just seeking peacefulness. | | As I am getting older, I am thinking that perhaps instead of | doing my usual 1-2 years at a couple of different companies and | then breaking, it might be nicer to have a consistent job that | would allow me to break and come back. I have returned to two | companies in my employment history - one after spending a year | overseas, and another that I returned to part-time as a remote | freelancer during COVID. Unfortunately I don't think many | companies are inclined to offer this as a formal benefit, | especially in countries where months-long parental leave isn't | a thing. I suppose people who enjoy these kinds of sabbaticals | and come back refreshed and hopefully more productive are still | enough of a minority that it isn't seen as something that would | be in a company's interest to promote. | xirdstl wrote: | I took two sabbaticals last decade, the first 6 months and the | second about a year. | | After the last, I started a new job full time for about a year, | after which I transitioned to working just Monday - Wednesday | (8 hour days). I'm in year 4 of this schedule. For me, I think | this works better than full time and occasional sabbaticals. I | have not approached anything near burn out. | genmon wrote: | Kottke.org defined a kind of blogging which expresses wonder in | the world around us, a format which has been cloned and bent to | the shape of SEO a million times since. More Kottkes and fewer | content farms in the future please. My newsreader will be a less | inspiring place until he returns. | | (Although... 24 years is a hella long time without a break. | Sabbaticals traditionally come after 7 years. So no pressure to | come back anytime soon Jason.) | at-fates-hands wrote: | Last year I started cycling off of social media. I normally do 30 | days on and then 60 days off. Rinse and repeat. Its definitely | has re-shaped a lot of how I view my life and what's truly | important and what's just white noise bogging my brain down. | | I'm not surprised by his move to unplug for an extended period of | time. A lot of older people I work with (40-50's) are unplugging | their social media, and starting to limit a lot of their screen | time and their kids screen time. | | I feel like a pendulum is starting to swing away from being | accessible 24/7 and always feeling like you need to be constantly | plugged into everything. | lqet wrote: | > My plant is not ok. | | That pot is too small for such a large plant. | jhoechtl wrote: | The fig trees pot is to small. | calibas wrote: | It's also lanky and lopsided because it's trying to get more | light. | unpopularopp wrote: | Wish more people had the financial freedom to just take a break. | Everyone needs it, only a few can do it. | thecrumb wrote: | Must be wonderful to actually have the luxury to step away... I'm | living the American dream - to work a non-rewarding job for no | other reason other than health insurance. How do people manage | these sabbaticals? Are they just wealthy enough so they don't | need income? | the_lonely_road wrote: | You can buy your own insurance policy. You only chose to use | your company provided insurance because they pay for half of it | and no rational person takes on a large expense for no reason. | If you can afford to take six months off and travel to Europe | you can afford to pay full rate for insurance for 6 months | while you do it and they go back to a half priced company | policy when you get back. | mgkimsal wrote: | They may pay half, or most, or all, or none. OP didn't say | explicitly? | | But... you may not be able to get your own with any tax | benefits if your company offers _something_ and you choose | not to take it. That 's my understanding anyway. And... | health insurance is just totally hosed in the US, with | regulations like that on the books. | | Take employers out of the equation. Let everyone buy their | own, and/or, institute some basic govt policy, and let people | buy private on top. | | If you're buying for a family, it can be prohibitively | expensive. Even a few years back (2016/207), high deductible | plans for some of my colleagues were north of $1500/month | with $10k deductibles for 2 people in their 50s with an early | 20s kid. | nightski wrote: | For a family yes it gets crazy. But as a self employed mid- | thirties person it wasn't too terrible. $300/mo, $1,500 | deductible, etc.. Yes expensive, but doable for someone | determined enough. | dhosek wrote: | I take 1/6 of every paycheck1 and put it in a CD ladder. This | enables me (in theory) to take every seventh year off. I would | be taking next year off except I ended up taking an unplanned | 6-month break last year because of Covid, so I'm going to wait | until 2025 for my next sabbatical. One key thing is to live a | far below your means as possible. | | [?] 1. I also put half of any "extra" income that comes my way | and if I slide money that I don't use into that fund as well. | ryantgtg wrote: | Kottke has a paid membership system, and in the post he notes | he's not closing it down and doesn't expect _everyone_ to | cancel their sub. | tylergetsay wrote: | If a knowledgeable person on your team is burnt out and | considering a new job, a long (paid) vacation can be | advantageous for all. | SQueeeeeL wrote: | Most managers don't have the luxury of being Gabe Newell from | Valve. They'll just fire you as soon as you sound like your | numbers are going down with some cause. Even if in the long | run it'll be better, most managers only work at companies for | 4 years, under VPs who only work their 6 or 7 years. The long | term health of the team isn't a priority for anyone. | giraffe_lady wrote: | I'm sure it would be but I've never heard of that happening. | | I once went to my manager saying I was worried about burning | out bc of pushing so hard on a project with a legal deadline. | Asked him to consider/look into options for me to take a | month off _unpaid_ at the end of it. | | He said he'd talk to leadership about it and get back to me. | I got fired the next day. | askonomm wrote: | This is where I would have lawyered up. I don't know where | this happened to you, but over in Europe I'm pretty sure | this is illegal and I'd be gunning for some sweet, sweet | money. | themadturk wrote: | Unless they're in a legally protected class or live in | Montana, his or her employer can fire them for whatever | reason they want (and the employee can leave for whatever | reason they want as well). | munificent wrote: | _> Are they just wealthy enough so they don 't need income?_ | | There's a sliding scale here. Few are wealthy enough that they | don't need income _forever_. But many can save up enough to | take a few weeks or a few months off. More like a long unpaid | vacation. | asellke wrote: | Dare I say no one has done more for the blog form than Mr. | Kottke. His humble, almost monkish 24-year commitment to not only | the pursuit of knowledge and meaning in the world, but his | absolute insistence on sharing that pursuit with anyone who wants | to ride along in that journey is one of the all-time greatest | contributions to the web. | | Godspeed, Jason. Be well and see you on the flip (in whatever way | you deem fit). | naikrovek wrote: | mkr-hn wrote: | I wish therapy were more accessible and better regulated. You | shouldn't have to still be so upset about a normal early | adopter experience 27 years later that you unload on | strangers like this. | shortformblog wrote: | This has been downvoted, but as someone who has been blogging | for 13 and a half years now, I'm sorry you had to deal with | that. You did not deserve that discouragement. | | I faced discouragement early on when I wanted to get into | blogging--in my first attempt, I faced a guy who was | effectively trying to cyberbully me--but I eventually found | my way in. I've been at it ever since. I encourage you to | give it another shot, if you haven't. | madrox wrote: | I can't believe it's been 24 years. I remember exploring 0sil8 | way back when and being inspired by the cool things you could | do with html. How time flies. | smohnot wrote: | I have to admit, I will miss the blog. Post the demise of RSS | it's one of the few places I check in on directly every few days. | | What are your other favorites that might help me fill the gap? | Adraghast wrote: | > Post the demise of RSS it's one of the few places I check in | on directly every few days. | | What do you mean by this? I saw the announcement in my RSS | reader before seeing it here. | | > What are your other favorites that might help me fill the | gap? | | I actually just purged a lot of my media consumption for | "burnout" related reasons of my own, but can second some of the | recommendations Jason included at the end of the post like | Colossal and Open Culture. He also posted this a couple years | back: | | https://kottke.org/18/04/blogging-is-most-certainly-not-dead | camgunz wrote: | Huge fan of kottke, he should take all the time he needs. I will | say there's no way that tree isn't pot-bound though. | deltarholamda wrote: | Agree. Bigger pot will probably do wonders for it. | mkr-hn wrote: | >> _" What good is a blog without a thriving community of other | blogs?"_ | | This is something I feel every time I think about getting back | into blogging. A post wasn't quite the scream into the void it is | now. Back then you'd at least get a few views and a comment or | two if you wrote something compelling. Sometimes a _lot_ of views | and someone you don 't even know liking your words enough to | share them.[0] | | I don't know if it's the context shift or the fact that | newsletters are ascendant but drafting a newsletter doesn't feel | as useless as drafting something in WordPress. Even with 0 | subscribers. | | [0] https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=4719730 | reggieband wrote: | I watch a lot of YouTube and a fair amount of Twitch. Sooner or | later every creator talks a bit about their anxiety working in | that content creator grind. | | On Twitch, taking a day off may mean losing hundreds of | subscribers. Streamers are cautious about taking bathroom breaks | since they can lose thousands of viewers during a short break. | YouTube ruthlessly punishes creators that don't upload on a | consistent schedule. I imagine TikTok and Instagram are similar. | | My guess is that Kottke has been living under a similar stress | for 24 years. That has got to wear a person down. | dahfizz wrote: | If you're a streamer large enough to be receiving hundreds of | subs a day, and so many viewers you could lose thousands during | a bathroom break, you're a multi millionaire. It's hard for me | to be sympathetic about how stressful their job is when they | could retire comfortably at any point. | mkr-hn wrote: | They always have staff they pay with that money. It doesn't | all flow into their pockets. It's _very_ hard to reach that | scale on your own. | tmp_anon_22 wrote: | It seems many streamers can barely take care of themselves. | With the money involved I'd imagine a large cottage | industry of Agents, Marketers, Content editors, and | subsidies to friends and teammates who participate in their | content. Not to mention a complicated tax situations, | irregular income levels, periodic industry events, etc. | mwidell wrote: | Youtube does not punish you if you are not consistent. That is | simply a myth. There are plenty of very successful youtubers | who only publish occasionally or irregularly. | eropple wrote: | How many of them 1) _always_ published long-form material, | and 2) hit their stride /"were selected by the algorithm" in | the last few years? | | I would believe that what you describe is true for long- | established YouTube personalities, and I can think of plenty | myself, but I can think of pretty few that haven't been doing | it for at least five years or so (with the exception of the | woodworking space, where it seems like perhaps there's still | some growth opportunities despite plenty of creators--my | guess is it's because the ad revenue is way better there). I | follow a lot of smaller essayists 'cause I like that sort of | thing and have a friendly recommendation network to leverage; | YouTube _very_ rarely recommends me long-form content, in | either Search or Suggested Videos, from somebody I 've never | seen before. | manquer wrote: | This is the same as between making tv series of 5-6 episodes | or one of 24 episodes/season or a soap opera doing 200+ | episodes a year. | | YT as a platform works for all kinds of producers , but as a | content creator you are the in the space of high volume low | quality content then yes publishing frequently is a must. | | However if you are high quality low volume creator who is | almost guaranteed tens of million views you could do only | infrequently, however each video is going take a lot of time | to produce. | rockinghigh wrote: | > YouTube ruthlessly punishes creators that don't upload on a | consistent schedule. I imagine TikTok and Instagram are | similar. | | Older videos are naturally downranked because users want fresh | content. The age of a post is a strong predictor of user | interaction. However, it doesn't mean Youtube actively punishes | less frequent creators. YouTube actually promotes a lot of old | content (>1 year old) compared to other platforms. At the | extreme, Instagram Stories are deleted after 24 hours forcing | you to produce content daily. | prox wrote: | Sovietwomble has had a stable following (and even growing) for | years. He doesn't always stream, but yet he is very consistent | in his timetable. He hardly loses many people when he doesn't | stream for a while. The guy never goes on holiday though, but | not because he fears losing subs. | | Perhaps it depends on what kind of content creator we are | talking about. Is it the shock and awe / latest greatest / hype | train type of content? | waynesonfire wrote: | nickelcitymario wrote: | Please be sure to publish a confessional post the next time | you're struggling and need a break. I'm sure we'd all like to | give you the same love and respect you're affording Mr. | Kottke. | SCUSKU wrote: | Personally I have finally come to terms with the fact that I am | burnt out. This post is inspiring and I appreciate the author's | honesty about his struggles. I hope soon I can take well well | needed rest to recharge, and hopefully feel better about my life. | djvdq wrote: | I'm about to read it, just wanted to glance at the comments | first. Man, I know your feel. It was end of last week when I | realized I'm facing burnout. I've no idea what to do with it. | Ideally I know that break would be good but yeah, I need to | work because I like not to starve :/ | | I hope this post will inspire also me somehow. | | But in the meantime - I hope you'll beat it fast. | epberry wrote: | Seems it's a good time to step away. Come back in a year with | a less crazy market and mind. | admn2 wrote: | Kottke was very formative to my first big "deep dive" into the | web and truly being blown away by the community / what would you | could create. He was one of the original patreons. | | Side note: what happened to his social bookmarking site he was | working on? | throwawaycuriou wrote: | kottke heavily shaped my thinking during peak RSS years. I miss | it. social media taints the deep reflective thought he's fostered | for over 20 years. I wish him bountiful inspiration on this | journey. | Vox_Leone wrote: | >>> the plant is listing so badly to one side that the whole | thing tips over without the weight of water in the pot | | It is listing towards the light of the window. All trees do it. | Give it a 180 deg rotation and maybe it will straighten up. Good | luck. | lastofthemojito wrote: | I see myself in Jason Kottke's writing about burnout. I used to | occasionally marvel that I got paid (and paid pretty well!) to | solve problems in software. The past few years I've felt mired in | Jira/Agile hell, working on machines slowed by corporate-mandated | anti-virus and whatever other spyware, building software that is | often thrown away due to unrealistic requirements or just plain | bad requirements gathering. | | I've also become a father, which is obviously a time-consuming | and stressful endeavor. | | Oh, and there's this pandemic going on, so I didn't get to see | much of my Mom while she was dying, but I did feel like I saw | some extra ugliness in society in general. | | I'm not sure which of these (or other) factors have contributed | more or less to my feeling this way. I've been starting to think | about taking some time off, although I'm not sure how much I'll | be able to swing. But if there were a clone of me out there, and | I could press a button to approve a 6 month sabbatical for him, | I'd definitely do it. | | It's easy to look at the superficial and think, "man this Kottke | guy had an easy gig, he doesn't deserve a 6 month break", but if | he's feeling similarly to me, I don't begrudge him. Like the | Chinese expression says: Only the wearer knows where the shoe | pinches. | whafro wrote: | Good for him. I hope he comes back in a few months with renewed | energy for the next evolution of kottke.org, but even if not, or | he heads in a different direction entirely, he deserves it. | chrismeller wrote: | While I respect Kottke... | | > I appreciate so much what I've built here at kottke.org -- I | get to read and learn about all sorts of new things every day, | create new ideas and connections for people, and think in public | -- and I feel incredibly lucky to be able to set my own schedule, | be my own boss, and provide for my family. | | Yeah, sounds miserable. If only those of us with 9-5 jobs and | bills to pay could take six months off. | | Edit: and those who are commenting and downvoting... where are | the people who claim they have student loans to pay? The ones who | can't afford healthcare? The game devs that work 90 hours a week? | This is a white male who can _afford_ to take 6 months off | because he can't handle having no boss and writing a blog from | time to time. | | Stop aggrandizing him, it doesn't take courage to take time off, | it takes _money_. Hypocrites. | [deleted] | idiotsecant wrote: | This comment seems to be more about your situation than it is | about his. | | We aren't crabs in a pot. Someone else doing a good thing does | not make your life worse. You can simultaneously strive for | making your own life better and celebrate someone else doing | something healthy for themselves. | bombcar wrote: | I mean this basically is a case of the pot calling the kottke | black ... | Adraghast wrote: | "You're not wrong, you're just being an asshole." | | No, it's not very fair he's been able to coast through most of | his adult life by scrounging up links to things that elder | millennial nerds find neat, but taking swipes at a person who's | been going through turmoil for a few years (apparently eight, | but it's been coming across in his writing for at least the | past two) does nothing to change that. | | Telling kids to clear their plates because there are children | starving in Africa doesn't actually help feed those children. | mym1990 wrote: | Because mental health issues, burnout, and a general want to do | something different at some point in life can ONLY be | experienced if you have a 9-5 job and bills to pay. | Sohcahtoa82 wrote: | > Stop aggrandizing him, it doesn't take courage to take time | off, it takes money. Hypocrites. | | This is a fine point to make, and I 100% agree. | | But your excellent point is ruined by the obnoxious negativity | preceding it. It's obvious you're incredibly envious, and | you've allowed your envy to turn you bitter. | | But more on topic, there was another thread somewhat recently | where I commented a similar thing: There are so many people | that rave about how much happier they are once they quit their | job and started just doing things they want to do like travel | the world and work on projects they deem enjoyable. These | people conveniently leave out the fact that they've got a | 7-figure savings account to fund their activities. They will | literally ask minimum wage workers why they work shitty jobs | instead of going backpacking in New Zealand or some shit. | DocTomoe wrote: | Have you considered that 9-5 jobs and bills to pay are a choice | or at least the result of choices made earlier in your life? | | There's no sense in being jealous for the paths other people | have chosen. | chrismeller wrote: | mym1990 wrote: | And what would be wrong with that? | chrismeller wrote: | That's asinine. The fact that someone thinks you could | just not have a 9-5 job or bills to pay? Sure, I'll just | pull myself up by my bootstraps and suddenly not worry | about a job or bills. Thanks, I'll just let them eat cake | instead! | jodrellblank wrote: | You think kottke doesn't have bills to pay? | | You think there are no alternatives to 9-5 jobs? No | people who work different shifts, no people who work 12hr | days then take long days off? No people who work 9 months | on / 3 months off? No people who work and live cheap | while saving then spend the savings on long holidays | because they want to? No people who have spent years | building passive income sources so that they can one day | take long breaks from working? No people who quit their | jobs to live in the overdraft of their bank account? | | And on top of that you think a sarcastic one-line | complaint is a good contribution to the thread? | leokennis wrote: | It's not either - or. I am glad Jason can take half a year off. | And I wish people with a 9 to 5 like you or me could too. | [deleted] | sdoering wrote: | > While I respect Kottke... | | And than showing utmost disrespect by gaslighting and | diminishing their described experience/state of mind. | | Do you really think these "I'm not a... but' or" While I... | but" comments add positively to the discussion? Why not accept | that the author is in the described state, acknowledge what you | read and then, without snark, write that you wished you would | be able to have a sabbatical from your 9to5 job. | | Because than some people might be able to point out that there | maybe are ways to achieve this. I know a lot of people that did | that with a regular 9to5 job. | | Sure depends on the circumstances. But not impossible. | Aeolun wrote: | Wasn't there a post on here recently from a wise old man? | | I think they pointed out that _anything_ you say before the | 'but' is invalidated, and what you really mean comes after. | ask_b123 wrote: | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=31199300 ___________________________________________________________________ (page generated 2022-05-09 23:00 UTC)