[HN Gopher] Price shocks in formative years scar consumption for...
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       Price shocks in formative years scar consumption for life
        
       Author : NickRandom
       Score  : 234 points
       Date   : 2022-06-15 11:02 UTC (11 hours ago)
        
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       | qgin wrote:
       | As an aside, gas prices now are basically the same as they were
       | in 2013, adjusted for inflation.
        
       | tomcam wrote:
       | Growing up not rich in the 60s and 70s was useful on the balance.
       | I was willing to take risks in business because when you don't
       | have much to lose you are perhaps a little more free to try scary
       | things. I read tons of how to succeed books and biographies and
       | learned a lot about how failures are learning experiences. OTOH
       | many of my peers wound up dead, on drugs, or incarcerated.
       | 
       | I do tend to be hoardy and my clever technique has been to just
       | buy more houses, so not a great role model in that regard.
        
       | giantg2 wrote:
       | I had a grandfather who lived through the depression. He never
       | threw away anything that could possibly be useful in the future.
        
         | [deleted]
        
       | dukeofdoom wrote:
       | I don't really think penny pinching works during inflation. Your
       | money will be worth less in the future
        
       | PaulDavisThe1st wrote:
       | The paper fails to consider:
       | 
       | 1. the cotemporaneous rise of (this iteration of an)
       | environmental movement during exactly the same time period as the
       | "price shocks" for gasoline that it considers. This has almost
       | certainly had a significant impact on the zeitgeist for the
       | cohort the study is considering, and it doesn't take much
       | imagination to believe that it is a much more substantive impact.
       | 
       | 2. studiously avoids an international comparison. The 78-80
       | "shock" caused by the Iranian revolution had impacts on gasoline
       | prices everywhere, and even if (as the paper notes) the USA is a
       | much more car-centric culture than elsewhere, certainly people
       | were driving a lot in Europe during that period too. If the
       | effect is real, you should be able to demonstrate it there too.
        
       | varispeed wrote:
       | I know someone who immigrated from a former communist country.
       | She talked how they lived in extreme poverty and now despite
       | having great job and substantial savings, she pretty much lives
       | the way she learned. For instance cooking the same food her
       | parents used to cook from whatever they managed to find, only
       | wearing used clothing. When her phone was stolen and she had to
       | buy a new one, she literaly cried for a week thinking that for
       | the lost money she could have food for months. The bad side is
       | that I remember she berated her then boyfriend because he bought
       | potatoes in the store that had them 20p (like a quarter in the
       | US) more expensive than the one little farther from her place.
       | Can you imagine being screamed at for 20p? He eventually left her
       | and needed to attend therapy.
        
         | astrobe_ wrote:
         | > she pretty much lives the way she learned
         | 
         | This is for me one key to understand this effect. I was a small
         | kid in the 70ies, I didn't have any idea about gas prices and
         | how much a driving license costs - I didn't even know that my
         | toys did cost something - but I grew with parents who would
         | scold me whenever we left some light on for no reason, or a
         | door open for too long when it was cold outside, or opening the
         | fridge for too long.
         | 
         | I remember I was witnessing the exact opposite behavior in the
         | American TV shows of that time. The "traditional" food battles
         | were in particular not entertaining at all, but rather we were
         | disgusted by the huge waste of food - this, although we were a
         | middle class family that certainly had less money problems than
         | your friend.
         | 
         | To this day I still turn off unused stuff and close doors as
         | soon as possible. And I try not to waste water too. And I check
         | the price-per-weight rather than the unit price. Despite the
         | fact I could afford to not give a huck to all this.
        
         | Markoff wrote:
         | I perfectly understand her, I am in similar position despite
         | being in top 3% earners in Czechia I will refuse to buy
         | overpriced goods I know they are cheaper in other shop. I have
         | 4 years old phone, wanted to upgrade for really long time, but
         | I don't see the value in new one worth spending that much money
         | for flagship just because I want compact phone with good camera
         | and battery (Pixel 4A was closest price wise, but battery and
         | punch hole killed it) despite I could buy easily 4-5 flagships
         | from my monthly income.
         | 
         | Is there something wrong though with keeping your spending
         | habits low instead splurging on stupid things and risking
         | potentially you will have to adjust them, if you lose job? I
         | find it better to just keep them pretty much stable no matter
         | how high is the income. Though I would not touch second hand
         | clothes, but would not have problem to buy second hand phone
         | and I consider people buying brand new cars crazy, you will
         | lose lot of value just after leaving the dealership.
         | 
         | It probably helps my wife is (stereo)typical Chinese who will
         | reuse everything and has problem to throw away anything, that's
         | even more extreme than me not buying overpriced goods when I
         | know they are cheaper elsewhere (I'm actually supporting price
         | competition this way, sadly most of the people are lazy and
         | don't give a F about few cents causing inflation for everyone).
         | I love especially expiring food with 60-70% discounts, finding
         | best possible deal makes me probably more happy than products
         | itself.
        
           | baal80spam wrote:
           | Can almost fully relate and I also grew up in a communist
           | country (Poland).
        
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       | fleddr wrote:
       | A "food shock" variation...
       | 
       | My late grandmother, whom lived to the respectable age of 99
       | years, experienced the Dutch hunger winter. A period of famine
       | during WW2.
       | 
       | For the rest of her lengthy life she could not tolerate any type
       | of food waste. As an example, she'd buy a cabbage and then eat
       | cabbage the entire week, even as it increasingly goes bad.
       | 
       | She had zero interest in food quality or nutritional value, just
       | food in itself. Behavior learned during the famine where you
       | don't have the luxury to discriminate. As an example, she once
       | babysat me and my brother and made an abundance of snacks. Just
       | way too much. Quite soon we were full, but the single word
       | "finish..." and her stare told us all we needed to know. We
       | finished, with stomach cramps. Out of respect.
       | 
       | Also, she had 9 children and survived 7 (genetic blood disease).
       | She survived two husbands. In her extended family and friends,
       | she survived...everybody.
       | 
       | We have a single photo of her childhood, where she stands in
       | front of her house. Which was...made from clay and reed. An
       | astonishing reminder of how even in today's developed nations,
       | wealth for common people is brand new. Despite plenty of
       | opportunities in her lifetime, she rejected material wealth
       | outside some basics. Zero material desires.
       | 
       | Despite all this, not once in her life have I seen her sad or
       | complain or moan. If us grandchildren did something bad or
       | stupid, she didn't give a shit. You're still alive, in
       | health...so what's the problem? Carry on.
       | 
       | She didn't eat very healthy, smoke a pack a day and didn't
       | exercise. And still she made a daily trip on her bicycle to get
       | her own groceries. Or make two trips in a row if needed. Up to
       | the age of 98.
       | 
       | The collapse was short and sudden. After a hospital stay she was
       | returned home to die. As she got carried out of the ambulance she
       | saw my dad's work: her front-garden completely replanted with
       | hundreds of blooming flowers, a sight to behold.
       | 
       | "That looks nice"
       | 
       | She was never very generous with compliments. And those were her
       | last words. I'd call her Iron Lady, but it's an insult really.
       | Iron is too soft to describe her.
       | 
       | She lives on as my compass for life. When I worry, see darkness
       | in the world, contemplate about world events and threats, I think
       | of her.
       | 
       | I'm alive, and I'm eating. I'm fine. Her scars are my lesson, and
       | it's liberating.
        
       | CapitalistCartr wrote:
       | I remember there not being seconds at supper (1960s), Mom would
       | serve, deciding how much everyone got: Dad first, then each of
       | four kids, then herself. I know this is part of who I am, and
       | some of why the house is stuffed. My wife laughs at how much
       | clothing I have, because I still have clothes from 1979. Well,
       | mostly she laughs at my stuff from the Eighties. But I remember
       | shopping at Goodwill or my mom making everything we wore. It's
       | not worth the anxiety to not-have.
        
         | scruple wrote:
         | At first appearances, I'm not too dissimilar to you though I am
         | younger (in my 40s).
         | 
         | > It's not worth the anxiety to not-have.
         | 
         | Yes, but having too much stuff can also cause anxiety. There's
         | a line in there somewhere that I strive to meet.
        
       | bambax wrote:
       | "scar" consumption? Or _immunize_ against compulsive consumption?
        
         | meepmorp wrote:
         | Keep in mind, this article is from a business school website.
         | The perspective is going to be skewed towards whatever is
         | perceived towards benefitting businesses.
        
         | mjmsmith wrote:
         | How Price Stability in Formative Years Incites Consumption for
         | Life
        
         | ponow wrote:
         | Absa-bloody-lutely. Living through a price shock informs you of
         | actual reality, not the government created illusory one
         | (constructed with central banking and government policy) that
         | encourages indebtedness and leaves you weak and unprepared for
         | unforeseen events.
        
       | mmaunder wrote:
       | Notable that the gas price doubled in 3 years. We're almost at
       | that point today.
       | 
       | https://www.eia.gov/dnav/pet/hist/LeafHandler.ashx?n=pet&s=e...
        
       | cageface wrote:
       | My grandmother grew up during the great depression and often went
       | hungry as a child.
       | 
       | Decades later when she had plenty of money she still refused to
       | ever throw _anything_ away. Her huge house was stuffed full of
       | balls of old string, used popsicle sticks, ancient newspapers and
       | wire.
        
         | NickRandom wrote:
         | I had a relative that was a child during WWII and they had some
         | very distinctive (borderline maladaptive) 'quirks' ....
         | 
         | One of which is they would never take the last item of anything
         | from out of the fridge (eggs, cheese slices etc) and would
         | become irate if anybody else did. They (much like your
         | grandmother) were also unable/unwilling to throw anything out
         | 'just in case'.
        
       | sbf501 wrote:
       | > Americans Have an Affinity for Driving
       | 
       | Anecdata: I hate driving. I'd much rather take a bus or light
       | rail, but that battle was lost in the 1940's[1], along with
       | asinine city planning that was pro-car, anti-community that still
       | exists today.
       | 
       | [1]
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/General_Motors_streetcar_consp...
        
       | swatcoder wrote:
       | There was an article here yesterday[1] about a study showing a
       | correlation between Glucosamine and reduced lung cancer
       | mortality. The top comment[2] challenged the worth of the study
       | on the grounds that these sort of observational studies in large
       | populations have too many confounders to be taken seriously.
       | 
       | There's truth to that point, but it's interesting to see which
       | topics slide into skepticism and critiques of method, and which
       | take results at face value and build a discussion on top of them.
       | 
       | [1] https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=31746980 [2]
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=31747822
        
       | sys_64738 wrote:
       | This isn't exactly unexpected as your childhood and adolescent
       | experiences are what people vividly remember the most. Adulthood
       | is all a blur otherwise.
        
       | photochemsyn wrote:
       | Mindless consumption is nothing but a disease, of the mental
       | illness variety. People who get a dopamine burst or some similar
       | neurotransmitter release when they go shopping have been
       | indoctrinated into patterns of behavior that do them no good in
       | the long run. They'll end up with a house crammed with
       | possessions they never use, bought on a whim in order to make
       | themselves feel better.
       | 
       | A better mentality is to always think: "Do I really need this
       | product/service, or can I make do with things on hand that I can
       | rebuild/repair/reuse in some manner, and am I sure this purchase
       | isn't just for the dopamine reward?"
       | 
       | Sometimes the answer will be yes, and a simple purchase can have
       | a lot of positive knock on effects - good tools, for example,
       | allow you to repair things that would otherwise cost much more to
       | replace, and last much longer than cheap tools.
       | 
       | The claim that economic growth relies on consumer confidence
       | (high levels of consumption) is also pretty suspect and relies a
       | lot on how you define 'growth' - what's wrong with a steady-state
       | economy with a stable human population and fixed levels of demand
       | for goods and services, anyway?
        
         | samstave wrote:
         | > _Mindless consumption is nothing but a disease_
         | 
         | Take a moment, when you leave your house next, and find
         | anything upon your travels/commute/walk, man-made, which is
         | trying to NOT get you to spend (time/attention/money).
         | 
         | Our entire civilization is built around programming
         | consumerism, and lauding profiting from the inability to NOT
         | spend.
        
         | leetcrew wrote:
         | > The claim that economic growth relies on consumer confidence
         | (high levels of consumption) is also pretty suspect and relies
         | a lot on how you define 'growth' - what's wrong with a steady-
         | state economy with a stable human population and fixed levels
         | of demand for goods and services, anyway?
         | 
         | on a micro level, most people would prefer for their QOL to
         | increase over time. I was happy to live like a college student
         | when I was in college, but I wouldn't be happy to live that way
         | as a 35 yo. this can't happen for everyone without some amount
         | of growth.
         | 
         | you rightly call out that people often spend money on temporary
         | kicks that don't actually improve their QOL. but if you take a
         | more intentional approach to spending, there are lots of
         | opportunities to exchange money for less stress or more free
         | time. for example, not everyone can afford an in-unit
         | washer/dryer, but it sure is nice to have one.
         | 
         | and then on a macro level, there is the unfortunate reality
         | that we are a tribal species, constantly locked in a prisoner's
         | dilemma with the other tribes. the more tribes onboard to the
         | "steady state" model, the greater the incentive to defect and
         | outgrow/dominate the others.
        
         | bombcar wrote:
         | > what's wrong with a steady-state economy with a stable human
         | population and fixed levels of demand for goods and services,
         | anyway?
         | 
         | In one word, debt. The debt must be paid, which requires
         | growth.
         | 
         | (I guess one could argue that the growth demands debt.)
        
         | AuthorizedCust wrote:
         | > what's wrong with a steady-state economy with a stable human
         | population
         | 
         | We don't have a stable population. It's growing.
         | 
         | We like things to get better even if we don't have "more". I
         | don't have multiple cars just for me. But the car I have now
         | has adaptive cruise control. It costs more, it makes my driving
         | experience better, and I'm glad I have it.
         | 
         | Both of these, among many other factors, influence economic
         | growth.
        
           | usrn wrote:
           | No it's not, most developed countries force their populations
           | to accept immigrants to keep the population growing in order
           | to prop up the "growth" economy.
        
           | onlyrealcuzzo wrote:
           | > We don't have a stable population. It's growing.
           | 
           | The rate of growth is declining, though. So it's not
           | unreasonable to foresee peak population in the near future
           | (most estimates are around 2060, and it's not going to
           | increase much between 2050 and then).
        
         | solatic wrote:
         | > what's wrong with a steady-state economy with a stable human
         | population and fixed levels of demand for goods and services,
         | anyway?
         | 
         | Because there's no such thing as a steady-state economy. You
         | might as well ask why people need to breathe in and out, why
         | can't they just hold their breath?
        
           | asimpletune wrote:
           | I thought that was pretty funny, but after laughing it made
           | me think... is it?
           | 
           | Breathing in and out actually sounds like the respiration
           | equivalent of exactly a steady state economy. Like, I don't
           | continue to grow in size with each year, thus requiring more
           | breath than the previous year. I grew a lot as a
           | kid/teenager, then a tiny bit as an adult, and now I am more
           | or less the same size (and relatively same breath size) as I
           | will ever be.
        
       | quantified wrote:
       | Yeah, we don't just burn gas driving everywhere.
       | 
       | "Scar consumption" as a phrase assumes that consumption in the
       | American style is a healthy activity to begin with, and this
       | outcome is damaging or ugly. "Permanently reduce consumption"
       | would be more worthy of an academic setting, that title is
       | clickbaity. Perhaps some will overdo avoidance of something
       | because of fear of expense. Better than masses overdoing from
       | building their lives around unsustainable inexpensive
       | consumption. Look where we are for sprawl and emissions.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | cs137 wrote:
         | Plus, a lot of that gas consumption is spent commuting, which
         | makes people miserable. Murdering the daily commute is a good
         | thing Covid-19 did, although I don't expect it to last long
         | (WFH-ers will get fewer promotions, despite working harder, and
         | eventually RTO fetishists will rule the roost).
         | 
         | Very few people want to "consume gas". They want to be able to
         | live decently and have meaningful jobs. Unfortunately, in
         | today's market, that usually means a shit-ass load [1] of
         | driving.
         | 
         | ----
         | 
         | [1] You don't want to know how much time I spent deciding
         | whether to use the more conventional hyphenization ("shit-ass-
         | load") or the version with better cadence.
        
           | quantified wrote:
           | Hopefully a lot less than you spend behind the wheel getting
           | anywhere.
        
           | mistersquid wrote:
           | > You don't want to know how much time I spent deciding
           | whether to use the more conventional hyphenization ("shit-
           | ass-load") or the version with better cadence.
           | 
           | It's not a question of "cadence" but of grammar. "Shit-ass"
           | is an adjective modifying the noun "load". Your choice is
           | grammatically correct.
        
             | lcnPylGDnU4H9OF wrote:
             | Could there not be a noun, "ass-load"?
        
               | mistersquid wrote:
               | > Could there not be a noun, "ass-load"?
               | 
               | Absolutely. Had the GGP wrote "shit-ass-load" the whole
               | hyphenated string would be a noun, which is also
               | grammatically correct.
               | 
               | But "shit-ass load" is a bit more evocative and
               | digestible than "shit-ass-load".
               | 
               | I would have gone your direction with "assload" (no
               | hyphen) which is a satisfying single noun with no
               | adjective.
        
           | ackfoobar wrote:
           | > a lot of that gas consumption is spent commuting, which
           | makes people miserable. Murdering the daily commute is a good
           | thing Covid-19 did
           | 
           | I guess this applies more to those who drive from the suburb.
           | 
           | I lived in a dense city with great transit. I miss the
           | commute, which forces me to walk a bit, starts myself up, and
           | helps me compartmentalize my time.
        
       | ChuckNorris89 wrote:
       | Being poor in general, during your childhood, scars you for life.
       | 
       | It makes you penny wise and pound foolish, adverse to taking
       | risks in your career and investments, can destroy your confidence
       | in yourself, while always having to look over your shoulder
       | monetarily speaking.
       | 
       | Habits that even after you remove poverty from your live, you
       | still feel the the anxiety and triggers in your head.
        
         | wolverine876 wrote:
         | > Habits that even after you remove poverty from your live, you
         | still feel the the anxiety and triggers in your head.
         | 
         | In high school, I went to a friend's house for lunch. Their
         | father served a mountain of food. My friend said, a bit
         | exasperated, 'Dad - why do you always serve so much food?!'
         | 
         | Dad said, caringly but directly: 'Remember that I grew up in a
         | refugee camp in Palestine. It is very important to me that
         | nobody ever runs out of food to eat in my home.'
         | 
         | An eye-opening moment for a teenager.
        
         | hansword wrote:
         | It's being poor, that scars you.
         | 
         | As with everything, during childhood impressions are stronger
         | and effect your life more, but being really poor in your 20s
         | has quite a similar effect.
        
           | ricardobayes wrote:
           | That's true, I grew up during the 2008 recession so I
           | constantly have that at the back of my mind. Massive layoffs,
           | housing crash, breaking news everyday, everyone in just
           | constant worry for an extended period of time. Now in 2022 I
           | find myself reliving these memories a little, and I have
           | observed my behavior to be extremely risk-averse these days.
        
             | nomel wrote:
             | For me, the current projection of the economy are
             | justifying all of me, most likely unhealthy, behavior.
        
         | 01100011 wrote:
         | I feel like the results of risky behavior in the real world are
         | somewhat similar to risky behavior in investing. When there is
         | a bull market and overall growth trajectory, risky behavior is
         | more likely to pay off. When a nation is in its growth phase,
         | risky behavior is also more likely to pay off. If a nation
         | starts to enter a phase of decline, perhaps more conservative
         | behavior is a better gamble? Certainly you have to take risk to
         | make outsized gains, I'm just thinking the likelihood of a
         | payoff changes depending on the overall environment.
        
         | doix wrote:
         | > It makes you penny wise and pound foolish while always having
         | to look over your shoulder monetarily speaking.
         | 
         | Could you explain what you mean? I grew up pretty poor, single
         | income PhD student/post-doc salary family with two kids.
         | Eventually my father got a proper position at a university, but
         | until then we were pretty poor. My parents used to sleep on the
         | floor, we had almost no furniture(I remember playing football
         | in our living room with my dad since it was entirely empty)
         | with most of our stuff coming from charities.
         | 
         | I wonder if I exhibit the behavior you talk about or not.
        
           | teddyh wrote:
           | I often link to these articles. Especially the second one is
           | exactly what you are asking about:
           | 
           | * 5 Things Nobody Tells You About Being Poor, May 27, 2011:
           | https://www.cracked.com/blog/5-things-nobody-tells-you-
           | about...
           | 
           | * The 5 Stupidest Habits You Develop Growing Up Poor, January
           | 19, 2012: https://www.cracked.com/blog/the-5-stupidest-
           | habits-you-deve...
           | 
           | * 4 Things Politicians Will Never Understand About Poor
           | People, February 21, 2013:
           | https://www.cracked.com/blog/4-things-politicians-will-
           | never...
        
             | flybrand wrote:
             | There were many brilliant Cracked articles in their day.
        
               | ev1 wrote:
               | Was this formerly a good site? I remember running into
               | cracked periodically in the last few years and it always
               | looked like the absolute worst of clickbait spam, but
               | these articles are rather decent
        
               | fknorangesite wrote:
               | Once upon a time, yes. I mean, it was always a bit fluffy
               | and lighthearted - that's the point, right? - but they
               | often had quality articles. But then they were acquired
               | in 2016 and it was downhill from there.
        
           | peyton wrote:
           | You grew up in the modern day priest class, not poor.
        
             | corrral wrote:
             | There's a reason Fussell puts college professors as a kind
             | of appendix on the side of his "Upper-Middle", and not down
             | in classes that tend to be closer to their income level
             | (Middle, or even Prole).
             | 
             | Still, I'm not sure how much difference that upper-middle-
             | adjacent socialization makes when it comes to poverty
             | thinking.
        
             | doix wrote:
             | That's fair. My parents left the collapsing USSR with
             | nothing and ended up in Australia. Materially poor with no
             | support network or generational wealth, but well educated
             | and with a clear path to the middle class. I still think
             | I/we were very fortunate and didn't mean to offend anyone
             | by saying we were poor. I am well aware there are/were many
             | people less fortunate than us.
        
               | ponow wrote:
               | It's not fair.
        
             | Mezzie wrote:
             | This is one problem with socio-economic class: When
             | somebody's 'socio' doesn't match their 'economic', things
             | get weird. I'm a first generation college student who has 3
             | great-grandparents with college degrees.
             | 
             | It makes it easier to dig yourself out, but depending on
             | the circumstances it can also cause its own issues. For
             | example, my mother ran away from an abusive but well-off
             | home, so I was regaled with tales of upper-middle and well-
             | off hypocrisy and all their problems, which makes it really
             | hard to want to fit in/keep my mouth shut in spaces that I
             | share with those people.
        
             | ponow wrote:
             | No, poor is poor. Please don't move or re-label goal posts.
        
           | ChuckNorris89 wrote:
           | _> Could you explain what you mean?_
           | 
           | Sure.
           | 
           | I realize I waste a lot of time in supermarkets, shops or
           | online stores, browsing/walking around and comparing prices
           | just to penny pinch on low value things, when the savings I
           | would make would have no meaningful impact on my yearly net
           | worth, but the time and mental energy wasted browsing/walking
           | around comparing prices could have better return on
           | investment if used on other things like learning a new skill,
           | reading a book, etc.
           | 
           | I avoid any kind of subscription services (Netflix, Spotify,
           | cloud-storage, phone contract, etc.) to the disbelief of my
           | friends ( _" But it's only 10 Euros a month!, Why don't you
           | have it?"_), preffering instead to spend my time building my
           | own self-hosted solutions for cheap, which probably explains
           | how I got into tech in the first place.
           | 
           | I own a cheap old car and prefer to fix it myself if I can,
           | rather than paying someone to do it, even though the time I
           | spend learning how to fix it, buying the parts, then actually
           | fixing it, is probably worth more than a professional would
           | have cost.
           | 
           | I'm afraid to make investments fearing that the market could
           | crash the second I enter it, and erase my money, leaving me
           | vulnerable to being homeless or dependent on doing shitty
           | jobs I hate just to stay afloat, so I just hoard cash like an
           | idiot as that makes me feels safe and lets me sleep well at
           | night.
           | 
           | I think I might not be good enough for some bold career
           | steps, like giving up my tech job and risking everything to
           | start my own business of a coffee cart in the city center or
           | pivoting to something other than tech that's less well paid,
           | like being a teacher.
           | 
           | I spent too much of my youth studying hard at useless
           | subjects on the pressure from my parents that _" education
           | will get you far in life, so beat those books and get good
           | grades"_, only to realize far too late in life that I could
           | have gotten in the same spot with 20% of the effort, leaving
           | me time to actually enjoy my youth.
           | 
           | Sure, I'm working my way out of these habits slowly, but the
           | Pavlovian impulses are still in my brain. Complex things
           | these minds of ours.
        
             | thegeomaster wrote:
             | Wow, this is very similar to my own behavior. I always
             | suspected it's related to financial hardship in my teen
             | years, but this removes all doubt.
        
             | pea wrote:
             | Strangely, I've observed the same behaviour with people on
             | the exact opposite side of the spectrum too (i.e. UHNW).
             | 
             | A friend of mine worked on superyachts which were PS400k a
             | week to rent. He said that without fail the owners would be
             | penny pinching at the end over a few PS here and there (on
             | food, drink, suncream etc.) Same with upper-class Brits who
             | had hundreds of years of intergenerational wealth but won't
             | turn their heating on until November.
             | 
             | Not sure what to make of this; I've often wondered if it is
             | a form of bell curve.
        
               | mlyle wrote:
               | Rich penny pinching is often all about forcing
               | counterparties to give you more favorable terms-- using
               | the copious other economic options you have as leverage.
               | 
               | Poor penny pinching is often about doing what's necessary
               | to survive, even if it's a terrible outcome in the medium
               | term.
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | I wonder how much of that is because at those wealth
               | levels, you start to feel you don't have much in the way
               | of agency (you're not bargaining for the cost of the
               | superyacht, someone does that for you, etc) - and you
               | want to feel "in the game".
               | 
               | Now if by "owners" you mean the owners of the yacht, then
               | it makes more sense as it's a business and they're
               | controlling costs, especially the ones they see as
               | "variable".
        
               | joncrocks wrote:
               | How many of those UHNW individuals came from money vs.
               | had to build it themselves?
               | 
               | "Wealth does not last beyond three generations"
               | 
               | https://www.nasdaq.com/articles/generational-
               | wealth%3A-why-d...
        
             | vishnugupta wrote:
             | > "education will get you far in life, so beat those books
             | and get good grades"
             | 
             | In India at least, this is a time tested way to escape
             | poverty. Doing well in academics and get into STEM you will
             | greatly increase your odds. Not for nothing India has
             | millions of coaching centres and some of the most valued
             | ed-tech startups. The poor can and do mortgage their house,
             | land etc., to send their kids to good school and college.
        
             | cpsns wrote:
             | I'm guilty of doing everything you've mentioned as well,
             | for the same reasons, but this especially:
             | 
             | >I'm afraid to make investments fearing that the market
             | could crash the second I enter, and erase my money, leaving
             | me vulnerable to being homeless or dependent on doing
             | shitty jobs I hate just to stay afloat, so I just hoard
             | cash like an idiot as that makes me feels safe and lets me
             | sleep well at night.
             | 
             | I am terrified I won't have money when I need it, worried
             | it won't be there or accessible. I've learned over time
             | that there is no amount of money in my savings account that
             | can alleviate this.
             | 
             | When I was a kid there was never enough money and disaster
             | was one unexpected bill away. As an adult I know that's not
             | true of my situation now, but I am incapable of getting out
             | of that mindset.
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | I've found that reducing the "monthly" bills can help -
               | which usually means paying down and off debt entirely.
               | 
               | Then consider things as "one time purchases" instead of
               | monthly obligations - buy Disney+ for a year, once, and
               | immediately cancel. Then if something goes wrong, there's
               | no upcoming bill to pay.
        
               | almost_usual wrote:
               | If I were you I'd reach out to a therapist if you haven't
               | already. It sounds like you're dealing with anxiety and
               | catastrophic thinking.
        
             | ponow wrote:
             | > the time and mental energy wasted comparing prices could
             | have better return on investment if used on other things
             | like learning a new skill, meeting a friend, reading a book
             | 
             | Maybe. Actual cost savings are observable now, with very
             | high probability. Maybe that book or skill is useless; in
             | other words, there's a broad distribution on possible
             | outcomes. Who actually measures this stuff to assess ROI?
             | It's not obvious that most people get a good ROI out of
             | university degree, or at least at the same levels as in the
             | past. At best I've seen some average measures, but not
             | bottom 10 percentile measures, you know, essentially
             | guarantees that one's time and energy and money isn't
             | wasted. It should be of significant concern that even a CS
             | degree isn't an effective guarantee of a job offer that
             | requires the knowledge gained from that CS degree. It's as
             | if a lot of the actual skill an employer requires is
             | learned outside school, which is insane and conflicts with
             | the broad everyone-must-graduate-college narrative in the
             | US and Canada.
        
               | mwint wrote:
               | Correct, this is what I've observed too. It's stunning to
               | me that the big tech companies - Amazon comes to mind -
               | aren't writing colleges big checks in exchange for
               | "produce us people who can function in real life teams".
        
               | ChuckNorris89 wrote:
               | _> aren't writing colleges big checks in exchange for
               | "produce us people who can function in real life teams"._
               | 
               | The US has has the privilege($$$) to import the minds and
               | workforce it needs, thereby skipping the need to invest
               | in local education, and offshoring this burden to brain-
               | drain countries in the process.
        
               | ponow wrote:
               | And this is done without any violent process of physical
               | capture. Others could play that game too, and the US
               | could play it as well as it once did. All the
               | participating parties would benefit directly, and "the
               | world" indirectly.
        
               | mountainb wrote:
               | The US spends more per capita on education than any other
               | large country on earth. The only countries in the OECD
               | that surpass the US in per capita education spending are
               | Luxembourg, Norway, Austria, and Iceland.
               | https://nces.ed.gov/programs/coe/indicator/cmd
               | 
               | So, the US is actually doing both: doing its best to
               | brain-drain other developed countries while also spending
               | more than anyone else on education. Is college the best
               | place to train people to function better in teams? Or
               | would Amazon be better served in funding lots of youth
               | sports teams and recruiting from those?
        
             | outworlder wrote:
             | > I own a cheap old car and prefer to fix it myself if I
             | can (...) probably worth more than a professional would
             | have cost.
             | 
             | Maybe! It all depends on whether or not you would actually
             | do something more productive with the time. If you were to
             | write a book or work on your company or take an extra job
             | with those hours, sure, pay the professional. But if,
             | instead, you were going to be watching TV instead, then you
             | are way ahead. You have learned a skill, which can save you
             | in the long run, even if you pay (you know if you are
             | getting a good service and not being gouged, etc).
             | 
             | Having a cheap car - as long as it's not a lemon - is a
             | good thing.
             | 
             | > I'm afraid to make investments fearing that the market
             | could crash the second I enter it
             | 
             | Ok, that is a problem. Keep hoarding cash if it makes you
             | feel better but take a portion and invest. Once you have
             | managed to save enough to have 3-6 months expenses covered,
             | you should be investing the rest. That's how you get out of
             | shitty jobs, specially later in life. Markets generally
             | recover and have for a century. If this stops we'll have
             | bigger problems (and not investing doesn't shield you from
             | them).
             | 
             | I basically agree with everything else you said.
        
             | dmux wrote:
             | >So I just hoard cash like an idiot as that makes me feels
             | safe and lets me sleep well at night.
             | 
             | If you haven't already, look into Certificates of Deposit
             | ("CD") at your local bank. They're FDIC insured (so if the
             | bank goes under, you're covered, up to something like
             | $250k) and you don't have to worry about losing the
             | principal amount you put in. If you ever need to withdraw
             | that money in case of an emergency, you only risk losing
             | out on the interest. Instead of dumping a ton of money into
             | a single CD, look into CD laddering wherein you setup
             | multiple CDs that expire in 3 months, 6 months, etc or some
             | other cadence that you're comfortable with.
        
               | selimthegrim wrote:
               | Are interest rates high enough again to make laddering
               | worth it?
        
               | jacobr1 wrote:
               | For I-Bonds the rates are now worth it. They are very CD-
               | like, in that you can't withdraw them for the first year,
               | and in the first 5 there is a few month interest penalty
               | for early withdrawal.
               | 
               | You can only buy $10k per person per year, but as a
               | married couple, you could build up 100K in savings over 5
               | years, and even faster if you hold them in a trust.
        
               | Infernal wrote:
               | Can you explain why it would be faster to hold I-bonds in
               | a trust?
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | From the internet:
               | 
               | One limitation of buying I Bonds is the annual purchase
               | limit. Each person can buy a maximum of $10,000 per
               | calendar year as the primary owner.
               | 
               | In addition, if you have a trust, you can buy another
               | $10,000 per year under the name of the trust. A lawyer
               | created a revocable living trust for us back in 2018. It
               | was surprisingly easy when I opened an account for the
               | trust at TreasuryDirect last month. It took only 15
               | minutes to open a new trust account and buy another
               | $10,000 of I Bonds.
               | 
               | So it lets you double the amount you can buy.
        
               | robotresearcher wrote:
               | Was offered 1% for 11 month deposit yesterday. Much
               | better than last year's 0.25%, but still, what, 1/8 of US
               | inflation?!
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | Even less worth it when Alliant is paying 1% for a bog-
               | standard saving account:
               | https://www.alliantcreditunion.org/bank/high-yield-
               | savings
        
               | robotresearcher wrote:
               | That's relatively good. My credit union is still offering
               | only 0.2% on >$100K.
               | 
               | The main benefit of cash recently is losing less value
               | each day than stocks!
               | 
               | https://kpcu.com/Rates
        
               | dmux wrote:
               | I only mentioned laddering to ease any fears of "locking
               | everything up all at once" the OP may have had -- I
               | hadn't considered interest rates.
        
               | mlyle wrote:
               | No. But if you're going to hoard cash, laddering is a
               | slightly better way to do so.
        
               | vasco wrote:
               | That's for you to assess based on your risk profile. My
               | answer is at the moment it's not worth it
        
             | doix wrote:
             | > I realize I waste a lot of time in the supermarket
             | comparing prices,
             | 
             | Interesting, I've always hated shopping for food, but I
             | happily waste money on takeaways/restaurants. I think for
             | me it is more about food waste and the mental energy wasted
             | planning all my ingredients to make sure nothing goes to
             | waste rather than saving money. I spend money now to not
             | have to worry about it as much.
             | 
             | > I'm afraid to make investments fearing that the market
             | crash or something like that would erase them leaving me
             | vulnerable to being homeless or dependent on doing jobs I
             | hate.
             | 
             | Yeah, I'm pretty risk averse when it comes to investments,
             | which is screwing me right now with inflation as high as it
             | is :(.
        
             | notahacker wrote:
             | > I realize I waste a lot of time in supermarkets, shops or
             | online stores, browsing/walking around and comparing prices
             | just to penny pinch on low value things, when the savings I
             | would make would have no meaningful impact on my yearly net
             | worth, but the time and mental energy wasted
             | browsing/walking around comparing prices could have better
             | return on investment if used on other things like learning
             | a new skill, reading a book, etc.
             | 
             | That's a feeling I know well. It's even more irrational
             | when it's a habit inherited from parents who weren't
             | particularly poor, so you grow up living in quite a nice
             | house that a lot of time and money has been spent
             | extending, but a 50p ice cream is considered decadent. And
             | after you've made a whole bunch of career choices not
             | optimising for income, saved loads without investing it
             | well, you still find yourself avoiding buying icecreams or
             | coffees when out unless you've got company and comparing
             | cheese prices per kg in a cheap supermarket, not because
             | it's necessary or because you aren't aware that negotiating
             | the price of your next house will save you more than three
             | lifetimes of cheese price comparisons, but simply because
             | doing anything else feels like being ripped off.
        
             | throwaway0a5e wrote:
             | >I realize I waste a lot of time in supermarkets, shops or
             | online stores, browsing/walking around and comparing prices
             | just to penny pinch on low value things
             | 
             | Of course it pales in comparison to cashing out your
             | overpriced McMansion in some Karen infested suburb of a
             | major metro with nice schools and moving to rural Idaho or
             | switching jobs for a new one with "senior" in the title.
             | But have you ever actually run the numbers? Cheaping out
             | and/or reducing consumption has a huge impact on weekly or
             | monthly finances if it is applied with any breadth. Monthly
             | finances have a huge impact on money available for
             | savings/investment.
        
               | pertymcpert wrote:
               | The right answer really depends on what the opportunity
               | cost is. If you're a FAANG engineer, the time spent
               | trying to save small amounts of money could be better
               | spent doing a better job at work, getting a better
               | review, having a bigger impact, and a bigger RSU grant or
               | even promotion.
        
             | com2kid wrote:
             | > I'm afraid to make investments fearing that the market
             | could crash the second I enter it, and erase my money,
             | leaving me vulnerable to being homeless or dependent on
             | doing shitty jobs I hate just to stay afloat, so I just
             | hoard cash like an idiot as that makes me feels safe and
             | lets me sleep well at night.
             | 
             | Blended funds! You can choose what % of your money is
             | invested at various risk levels. Choose a fund that puts
             | only a fraction of your money in stocks, money markets,
             | CDs, etc., and finally cash.
        
             | daniel-cussen wrote:
             | It's an adaptation to an environment where nothing you
             | could do or say would earn you a raise, ever. Never get
             | more money to take home, exploitation in the workplace. In
             | comparison comparing for pennies on flour is fun, it's
             | entertainment.
        
               | Broken_Hippo wrote:
               | * In comparison comparing for pennies on flour is fun,
               | it's entertainment.*
               | 
               | This just isn't true for me. Comparing pennies on flour
               | is extremely stressful. At one time - a time when I
               | couldn't pay for natural gas for proper heat nor hot
               | water - I cried because I spent 25 cents more on a
               | product I liked a whole heck of a lot better. That
               | quarter might have been the difference between going to
               | the laundry or washing clothing in the sink (with water
               | heated on a hotplate). Or at least, this was what was in
               | my head.
               | 
               | I generally don't count pennies for flour as much
               | anymore, but it took years, divce, remarriage, and a move
               | to another country to even get to that position. I still
               | get pretty panicked about spending money. Usually it
               | happens on things more than approximately $50-$100 (after
               | exchange rate). Occasionally I just go without a haircut
               | or don't buy new clothes despite a few holes/being a bit
               | threadbare, though.
        
           | lordnacho wrote:
           | I remember feeling like I'd bought cheap shirts at my first
           | job. I didn't want to spend PS25-PS100 on nice shirts when
           | there were cheapass shirts you could buy for PS10. Made me
           | look cheap at a place where the bosses were driving Ferraris.
           | 
           | Also, not buying a holiday until well into my 20s. I still
           | feel like it's mostly not worth it, even though I can pay for
           | it and it's probably sensible to take a break from time to
           | time.
        
             | SoftTalker wrote:
             | Yeah I don't like travel either. Not because I can't afford
             | it, I just find it more tiring than anything and don't
             | really get a lot of pleasure or relaxation just being
             | somewhere different. I'd rather be sitting on my back porch
             | given the choice.
        
         | kosyblysk2 wrote:
         | you can make the same argument (in reverse) about being rich.
         | 
         | it is like saying: ohhh my mommy was so bad to me and now i
         | have issues, ohhh my mommy was so good to me and now i have
         | issues.
         | 
         | victim mentality
        
           | wing-_-nuts wrote:
           | I think you should try and understand the definition of
           | 'victim mentality' a little better.
           | 
           | There's great power in understanding where you came from, and
           | how that affects your behavior today.
        
           | bobkazamakis wrote:
        
           | tidbits wrote:
           | Or extremes are bad?
        
           | Fezzik wrote:
           | Not all consequences are the same, even if the initial
           | conditions are of the same-type; not all people who
           | acknowledge negative consequences think of themselves as
           | victims. Saying one is aware that certain conditions and
           | circumstances in childhood tend to cause certain negative
           | behaviors in adulthood is helpful information. Dismissing it
           | as having a victim mentality is unhelpful.
        
         | Melatonic wrote:
         | I have seen it also go other ways though - I think it really
         | depends on the family and how they deal with being poor.
         | Families who are poor in currency but very rich in love and
         | social connections seem to still produce great adults who might
         | have some of the scars you are talking about but also are able
         | to overcome them.
        
         | throwaway98797 wrote:
         | Had this problem
         | 
         | Easy solution
         | 
         | take a few hundred from the bank and physical set it on fire
         | 
         | keep doing it until you don't care
         | 
         | it's illegal but it works
        
           | blackoil wrote:
           | Better approach that I am trying is try to buy luxury version
           | whenever I need something. Broke a plate, buy one from
           | boutique ceramic shop. Need some glasses sure a high end
           | crystal. Though on counter side, be really sure that you are
           | rich before trying to act like one.
        
             | phil21 wrote:
             | This is very similar to how I tried (am trying?) to evolve
             | my spending, usually having the impulse to buy something
             | now before it become scarce or buy the cheapest possible
             | thing to get the task done in the moment.
             | 
             | These days I realize I have nearly everything I need, so if
             | I'm buying something I figure I can't really afford it
             | unless I'm getting the "best" out there. Best for me means
             | researching the best performing/quality/etc. item in the
             | category. If I'm replacing a broken item I also take the
             | opportunity to upgrade.
             | 
             | For example I needed a carpet shampoo cleaner recently.
             | Instead of heading to Walmart to buy whatever consumer gear
             | was slapped on the shelf, I spent a few weeks deeply
             | researching the ecosystem and ended up with something about
             | 4-5x the expense - but with performance to match. The
             | difference in quality makes it almost a pleasure to clean
             | my carpets these days.
             | 
             | It's easy to spend money simply on fancy and not get much
             | out of it. But I feel pretty satisfied when I make an
             | absurdly expensive purchase like the above but still feel
             | great about it a year later due to the value/increased
             | quality of life it bought me. In the moment if feels
             | ridiculous paying many multiples more than I would have in
             | the past, but over time these little incremental
             | improvements add up.
             | 
             | It's the spending that I do like a "poor person" that
             | bothers me the most - just buying crap on impulse, or
             | "collector" behavior. I find I need to actively mitigate
             | both impulses or I'd end up on a hoarding TV show.
        
           | ChuckNorris89 wrote:
           | _> take a few hundred from the bank and physical set it on
           | fire keep doing it until you don't care_
           | 
           | That sounds bad. Why not give it to a homeless guy or to
           | charity or something?
           | 
           |  _> it's illegal_
           | 
           | Honestly, the central banks can go to hell. They can print
           | way more money than you can ever burn, which they do, even
           | far too much of it, bringing us to where we are today.
        
             | olddustytrail wrote:
             | You are simultaneously saying that destroying money is a
             | bad thing and that creating money is a bad thing.
             | 
             | There is no "natural" amount of money.
        
         | tootie wrote:
         | So much of economics seems so obvious when you read about it
         | but it runs very strongly against our lizard brain instincts.
        
         | throwaway0a5e wrote:
         | Everyone's character, behaviors, preferences, etc, etc, are
         | formed in very large part by their life experience.
         | 
         | If I had a nickle for every time someone said something about
         | the poors being scarred or broken and then in short order
         | started spewing nonsense about how the poors have minimal
         | agency, need guidance or protecting from themselves, are doing
         | it wrong, etc, etc. I would be a very wealthy man. And a hell
         | of a lot of HN would be poorer in $.05 increments.
         | 
         | Did you (in general, not personally) ever think that maybe it's
         | all the upper middle class types who are doing it wrong and the
         | only reason we get away with it is because we have money to
         | sustain the lifestyle?
         | 
         | People who act like cheapskates, buying $500 cars, $20 Walmart
         | jeans, while their peers sneer about the $2k Camry, and $50
         | Levis being a "better value", seem to do well at all levels of
         | the economic ladders and even frequently improve their lot in
         | life.
        
         | sbf501 wrote:
         | > penny wise and pound foolish
         | 
         | I've seen this in action: e.g., clipping coupons but not paying
         | down debt faster than the schedule.
        
         | snarfy wrote:
         | I'll never have another credit card. Frequent flyer miles, what
         | are those? The whole industry can go fuck themselves.
        
           | sokoloff wrote:
           | If you're able to live without the credit aspects of the
           | credit card, why not take the 1-2% discount on nearly
           | everything consumable that you buy?
           | 
           | If you pay it off every month, credit cards have a negative
           | cost (to you) and a fair amount of convenience (for renting
           | cars, hotels, booking flights, etc).
        
             | duncan_idaho wrote:
             | That 1-2% is what they pay you for all your data. Credit
             | cards are a key component of data brokers.
        
               | astrange wrote:
               | It's a refund on the interchange fee from not doing
               | chargebacks and paying your bills on time. Your data is
               | not interesting or valuable, that's your ego talking.
        
               | kube-system wrote:
               | Data brokering is a 200 billion dollar industry. Some
               | individual data brokers say they have data on half of all
               | transactions in the US, so it's safe to say that your
               | transactions are more likely to be sold than not.
               | 
               | Nobody cares about _your_ data (unless you 're high
               | profile), but -- for example -- hedge funds and the like
               | will spend big bucks to get aggregate sales data before
               | this quarter's financial reports are written.
        
               | throwaway193948 wrote:
               | compared to all the other data collected about me with no
               | benefit to myself that seems like an ok deal
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | The 1-2% is what they pay you for helping strong-arm the
               | merchant into giving them 3%.
        
             | bombcar wrote:
             | Not everyone can do it - it can be like asking an alcoholic
             | why they don't go to the bar anymore, because the walk and
             | the beer has health benefits.
             | 
             | Sometimes you have to identify your weakness and ruthlessly
             | cut them out of your life.
        
             | Arrath wrote:
             | I also like the extra layer of fraudulent transaction
             | protection vs e.g. a debit card.
        
         | ciconia wrote:
         | > scars you for life.
         | 
         | You could also say being poor in childhood teaches you how to
         | be frugal. I regard this as a healthy habit and better
         | discipline I wish I had with money (coming from a middle-class
         | family).
         | 
         | Another way to look at frugality is just an aversion to
         | spending money on whatever it is that society or mass media
         | tell you you _have_ to buy, an important and healthy attitude
         | one can have, IMO.
        
           | stu2b50 wrote:
           | There's a fine line between frugality and being stuck in a
           | local optima. Sometimes, expensive things are better in the
           | long run, because they serve their purpose better and last
           | longer.
        
             | Loic wrote:
             | My approach is to always buy the first "stuff" cheap and
             | then try to use it the best possible way. If it breaks or I
             | see the limits with the "stuff", then I go for the good and
             | expensive one. This way I know I need it but I can also
             | better assess the quality.
             | 
             | This of course after having spent too much on high quality
             | "stuff" with little use.
        
               | SoftTalker wrote:
               | This is what I do with tools. If it's obviously something
               | I will use again and again, I'll pay for quality. If it's
               | something I might need just once, but not certain, I'll
               | buy a cheap one to get the immediate job done. If I need
               | it again and it breaks, I've now needed it twice so I'll
               | replace it with a good one. (If it doesn't break, it's a
               | better value than I thought).
        
               | cactus2093 wrote:
               | The only problem with this approach is the amount of time
               | before your interest in a new thing starts to fade is
               | often just about the same amount of time it takes to
               | recognize the limits of the cheap stuff and decide to
               | upgrade.
               | 
               | It's definitely happened to me multiple times. And I
               | don't think it's just a coincidence, with any new hobby
               | or skill you will start out improving very quickly and
               | then eventually hit a plateau. The first thing you think
               | when you hit the plateau is "I would be a little bit
               | better/have a little bit more fun with this if I had
               | better gear", and it's usually true and you do get a
               | slight boost. But then a little while after that you hit
               | a sustained plateau anyway and that's the point where
               | you'll often lose interest.
        
             | dougmwne wrote:
             | First order frugality: buy cheaper things or go without.
             | Hoard all your trash in case you need it again.
             | 
             | Second order frugality: Buy it for life. Quality over
             | quantity.
             | 
             | Third order frugality: This inert matter is not nearly as
             | interesting as the people who wish to sell it to us want us
             | to believe.
        
               | senortumnus wrote:
               | Well said
        
             | throwamon wrote:
             | optimum*
        
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           | twblalock wrote:
           | One of the other aspects of being poor is the assumption that
           | any windfall you get will be nickeled and dimed away from you
           | pretty soon, so the only way you'll ever be able to enjoy it
           | is to spend it all immediately.
           | 
           | That turns out to be the opposite of frugality.
        
             | nradov wrote:
             | Poor people who manage to accumulate some savings also face
             | intense social pressure to give or "loan" that money to
             | family and friends who are in more desperate circumstances
             | (or at least claim to be). It's nice to help people out,
             | but being too generous makes it impossible to ever get
             | ahead.
        
           | sangnoir wrote:
           | It goes way beyond frugality - it is usually accompanied by a
           | touch of hoarding (bought a new phone? Let's keep the old one
           | even if it has a cracked screen, _just in case_...  <throws
           | phone into drawer full of hopelessly unusable and outdated
           | electronic doodads>.)
           | 
           | A term I've seen bandied about for the collective symptoms is
           | having a _Scarcity mindset_ and it 's based on
           | insecurity/fear of unexpectedly running out of money (which
           | was a frequent event in childhood)
           | 
           | John Scalzi's classic "Being Poor" blog post[1] details the
           | effects of poverty in detail.
           | 
           | 1. https://whatever.scalzi.com/2005/09/03/being-poor/
        
             | SoftTalker wrote:
             | With electronics specifically, it's often just more
             | convenient to toss the old device in a drawer. You're not
             | supposed to put them in the trash, and e-waste disposal
             | often incurs a fee. This is why refrigerators end up dumped
             | on the side of a road in a ravine, because municipalities
             | make it _harder_ to dispose of them responsibly than to
             | just dump them.
        
             | jlawson wrote:
             | >(bought a new phone? Let's keep the old one even if it has
             | a cracked screen, just in case... <throws phone into drawer
             | full of hopelessly unusable and outdated electronic
             | doodads>.)
             | 
             | Never been poor; me and my whole family have always done
             | this. I just forced them to get rid of their standalone DVD
             | player. They have remote controls for devices going back to
             | the 90's.
             | 
             | The cellphone example is even better; you'd be a fool to
             | immediately dump your old phone. It's small and easy to
             | store, and if your new phone craps out or gets lost or
             | stolen you may very well have a use for another phone that
             | works _right now_. I have phones going back 2 generations.
             | 
             | This is just frugality and contingency planning.
             | 
             | Scarcity mindset is more like, "I have $300, I need to
             | spend it before it goes away". That's what keeps people
             | poor.
        
               | wolverine876 wrote:
               | > Never been poor
               | 
               | So what basis do you have for commenting on the
               | experience of it?
               | 
               | > me and my whole family have always done this.
               | 
               | I'm sure there are other things that both your family and
               | poor families have done, but that doesn't have
               | explanatory value.
        
               | sangnoir wrote:
               | A -> B =/= B -> A
               | 
               | You don't have to be/(have been) poor to be a hoarder. On
               | the old cellphone, my emphasis was a drawer full of
               | backup-to-a-backup-to-a-backup devices that are now 10
               | years old and is running Android 2 and are potentially a
               | fire hazard while charging and are not fit for use - they
               | are _emotional support devices_. Keeping one generation
               | of backup device is rational, 3+ means there 's something
               | to unpack.
               | 
               | I'm curious about how your family tradition came to be: a
               | high number of people who experienced the great
               | depressions in their formative years are/were compulsive
               | hoarders in latter years.
               | 
               |  _Being poor_ is what keeps poor people poor; costs of
               | necessities go down the richer you get; being poor is
               | _expensive_
        
           | Melatonic wrote:
           | You can very easily teach yourself to be frugal now as well -
           | it just requires taking the time out of your day to do so. Of
           | course there are potential confounding factors but there are
           | plenty of super rich people I know who are annoyingly frugal.
        
           | abc_lisper wrote:
           | This is fixable without suffering. Read a few books on the
           | subject, and develop an appreciation of why money is
           | important. Suffering is the last and blunt resort.
        
           | wolverine876 wrote:
           | > You could also say being poor in childhood teaches you how
           | to be frugal.
           | 
           | You _could_ say anything, but what 's true is that it's not
           | frugality. Where do you get that?
           | 
           | It's a traumatic experience with lifelong consequences. I
           | know that from many people who have experienced it.
        
           | option wrote:
           | It's not just frugality. Being "penny wise and pound foolish"
           | and being risk averse is a huge drag on one's financial
           | opportunities.
        
           | short_sells_poo wrote:
           | I think you are both correct. It is true that people who grow
           | up poor simply have much fewer chances to learn how to grow
           | wealth. They may be frugal and manage the little they have
           | with care, but that kind of mindset is not enough in general.
           | They don't get any chance to learn how to invest money
           | properly, because they don't have any to invest. If they do
           | put something aside, they are encouraged (by the
           | circumstances) to keep it as safe as possible (ie cash),
           | which is generally a bad investment decision.
           | 
           | You are also right in that there are plenty of people who are
           | high earners, but never get to actually build wealth because
           | they spend it all. This can often be the curse of living in a
           | high cost of living area. You see all the wealthy people
           | driving in nice cars and living in luxury homes, and this
           | makes it difficult to consciously deny yourself these things
           | and live (relatively) modestly but build long term wealth
           | instead.
        
             | wolverine876 wrote:
             | That overlooks the basic point, that poverty causes trauma.
             | Budgeting is just one symptom. It causes negative life-long
             | outcomes; there's plenty of research on this.
        
         | DrBazza wrote:
         | Another way of stating that article is that most people in
         | their 20s and 30s have only ever known low-inflation and
         | stability. Those in their mid-40s onwards are possibly young
         | enough to remember how what their parents dealt with in the
         | 70s.
        
           | laputan_machine wrote:
           | I'm in my 30s, I remember 2008 not being a fun time, didn't
           | feel stable watching friends and family lose their jobs and
           | then their houses!
        
           | itronitron wrote:
           | I remember sitting in the car with my mom outside an Amtrak
           | train station in the late `70's asking her why she was
           | cutting the tops off of several cereal boxes that we had just
           | bought from the grocery store. Apparently they were for a
           | discount on train tickets.
        
             | thebigspacefuck wrote:
             | Some coupons are just worth it. A guy in the 90s figured
             | out he could get millions of frequent flyer miles from a
             | few thousand dollars of pudding.
        
               | DrBazza wrote:
               | Or a military jet?
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leonard_v._Pepsico,_Inc.
        
           | w-j-w wrote:
        
           | thebigspacefuck wrote:
           | What about the Great Recession?
        
         | mabbo wrote:
         | My wife grew up very close to the poverty line, with her
         | parents always just about to lose the house. And she has this
         | anxiety. (Edit: to be clear, she's a successful civil engineer,
         | considered one of the best in her field locally and makes great
         | money- she has nothing to worry about.)
         | 
         | In order to help with it, we have a bank account that our bills
         | come out of that has a little more than 6 months worth of all
         | our bills (mortgage payment included) just sitting there,
         | collecting zero interest. Every time a bill is paid, we top it
         | up to the target amount. If we stop making money today, we
         | don't have to do anything differently for 6 months.
         | 
         | It's not logical or financially wise, but it means that she
         | doesn't worry about money as much. I consider the opportunity
         | cost on the interest we might collect on that money as a bill
         | that I'm happy to pay.
        
           | bombcar wrote:
           | People vastly underestimate the "peace of mind" costs - once
           | those are taken into effect it can suddenly _make sense_ to
           | do things that many consider  "financially unwise", such as
           | having a large emergency fund, paying off a mortgage, etc.
           | 
           | And once you _do_ that you can find yourself suddenly feeling
           | much more free - knowing that even if everything goes south
           | room and board is taken care of can give you the courage to
           | take risks you 'd not otherwise take, such as starting a
           | business, a family, even moving.
           | 
           | The main thing about "living paycheck to paycheck" that
           | scares me is that feeling of being trapped.
        
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           | ticviking wrote:
           | Having a solid emergency fund is actually pretty wise. Maybe
           | split some of that into something low risk like I-bonds. My
           | wife has similar anxiety, and it took years of financial
           | education to get her comfortable with the idea that we only
           | need a month of backup, and can float the rest on CC until we
           | liquidate other assets.
        
             | nomel wrote:
             | > we only need a month of backup
             | 
             | As someone who went through two recessions, survived
             | multiple layoffs, and had a few medical things, this seems
             | like crazy talk. The general rule of thumb is 6 months of
             | savings. I've known many that didn't follow this rule, and
             | ended up in very bad debt.
        
               | cableshaft wrote:
               | Do you need it all sitting in a savings account, though?
               | Inflation ate almost 9% of its value this past year.
               | Granted stocks are down 20% this year, but assuming you
               | don't have to touch it for a while, they should more than
               | recover in a few years (well, assuming no massive global
               | disaster, which seem more and more common lately).
               | 
               | We have a decent amount sitting in our savings account,
               | but not six months worth. But I can liquidate assets to
               | get us the rest of that six months if necessary, and it
               | would take about a week to get that into our bank
               | account.
        
               | happyopossum wrote:
               | > Inflation ate almost 9% of its value this past year.
               | Granted stocks are down 20% this year,
               | 
               | yeah, so you're still ahead of the game if you had it
               | saved.
        
               | cableshaft wrote:
               | This year. Meanwhile it would have missed out on 27% in
               | gains the previous year (and its associated dividends),
               | if I kept it in a bank account.
               | 
               | Also that 20% loss will most likely recover in time.
               | Inflation almost never reverses itself, it only slows
               | down.
               | 
               | There's a reason rich people park most of their money in
               | assets, and not in savings accounts. If they got more
               | returns by keeping it in savings accounts, they would do
               | that.
        
           | collinvandyck76 wrote:
           | with the market being as it is, actually very wise to have a
           | lot of cash on hand :) we also operate this way. i could
           | become unemployed today and we buffer enough so that it's not
           | an emergency at all.
        
             | Melatonic wrote:
             | I prefer a layered approach - some investments take longer
             | than others to cash out. And some are in between but still
             | provide some return. A ton of cash on hand is probably a
             | bad idea
        
               | moffkalast wrote:
               | https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/tou7v2/
               | oc_...
               | 
               | Even Warren Buffet always keeps at least something like a
               | fifth of his investments in cash. Otherwise how the hell
               | are you going to buy low?
        
               | petronio wrote:
               | Should be noted that a significant portion of Berkshire
               | Hathaway's usual cash pile is not for deal making, but as
               | a backstop for their large insurance portfolio.
        
               | Melatonic wrote:
               | I would imagine though that he is also very often selling
               | / buying so that hes not just sitting on a pile of cash
               | for months at a time?
        
               | moffkalast wrote:
               | See reverse repos.
        
           | thebigspacefuck wrote:
           | I have a high yield savings account and interest is 0.75%, 6
           | withdrawals per month and the transfer completes same day if
           | I need it in an emergency, plus it's FDIC insured. Same peace
           | of mind plus interest.
        
             | abnercoimbre wrote:
             | You might be talking about AMEX Savings? I remember when it
             | was 1.70% before the pandemic. That almost beat inflation!
        
               | thebigspacefuck wrote:
               | That's the one. It looks like some others are offering
               | 1%+ now.
        
           | happyopossum wrote:
           | > It's not logical or financially wise
           | 
           | It's absolutely both of those things. It's financially unwise
           | to take any risks at all with your emergency funds and
           | operating expenses, so having 3-6 months worth locked up is
           | absolutely the best thing you can do.
        
           | dageshi wrote:
           | It's both logical and financially wise. Nothing is more
           | valuable than time when you need it. That money will give you
           | time when you need it.
        
           | throwawayarnty wrote:
           | How is this not logical or financially wise ?
           | 
           | It is common advice to have an emergency fund equal to
           | several months of expenses in cash.
           | 
           | What is the alternative ? Having no emergency fund?
        
             | aoeusnth1 wrote:
             | Minimum buffer / maximizing investments in ETFs has higher
             | EV and depending on your time horizon and model, may even
             | be lower risk.
        
             | lmm wrote:
             | Several months is excessive. Even if you think you might
             | going to spend six months with no income, you don't need
             | six months' expenses in cash - one month's worth in instant
             | access savings (or, sure, half in savings and half in cash
             | under the matress, just in case), two months' in one
             | months' notice savings, and three months' worth in three
             | months' notice savings works just as well and will get you
             | a better return.
        
           | Gamemaster1379 wrote:
           | > It's not logical or financially wise I'm taken aback by
           | this statement. I am in an incredibly similar situation to
           | your wife in terms of growing up and being successful today,
           | and I do this. Granted, I think I'm at 3.5 months, but the
           | point stands.
           | 
           | Sure, the money isn't generating more wealth, but that amount
           | is finite. It's a cushion that should effectively
           | indefinitely and every dollar beyond is vigorously invested.
           | And, should something happen to employment, you use it as a
           | buffer (assuming no severance) and replenish as soon as
           | you're employed again.
           | 
           | I have a friend who helped me get where I am. He makes even
           | more than I do, but financially, I'm more well off than he is
           | because he thinks that every single dollar needs invested --
           | to the point that despite making the top 2-3% of income for
           | our entire region, he regularly is paying off revolving
           | credit card interest because he isn't equipped to pay a $500
           | unexpected expense.
           | 
           | Sure, if you invest every single dollar, it's always earning
           | 7-10% on average. But if you have to then pay 20%+ APR on
           | credit cards because you can't handle unexpected expenses, it
           | begs the question whether you're really getting ahead.
        
             | yunwal wrote:
             | Stocks are liquid enough that you can sell enough to pay
             | your credit card off before getting hit with interest.
             | There's no reason to have 6 months worth of expenses in
             | cash just sitting around unless you strongly suspect a
             | crash.
        
               | pishpash wrote:
               | Stocks are the definition of not liquid, in that their
               | implied duration is 10+ years at least. How many fools
               | are using stocks as an emergency fund during a tightening
               | cycle that's removing liquidity at the fastest pace since
               | the 1980's?
        
               | mcguire wrote:
               | The S&P 500 is down 21% since the beginning of the year.
        
               | astrange wrote:
               | Muni bond and treasury ETFs are not down 21%, and neither
               | is my emergency fund investment account.
        
               | pishpash wrote:
               | Broad munis and intermediate treasuries are both down 10%
               | YTD, and so are TIPS (though at least those have had
               | inflation adjustments). You might want to check your
               | "emergency fund investment account" lol...
        
               | Damogran6 wrote:
               | And will be back up in less than 18 months.
        
               | mabbo wrote:
               | That sounds like a lot of work, with added risks.
               | 
               | With our system, our bills get paid with the money we
               | have, and then when we make more money, it just goes back
               | to the buffer account. Overflow goes into investing.
        
               | maxerickson wrote:
               | It's not something you need to justify to other people!
        
         | jmcgough wrote:
         | It's pretty well studied that people who grew up poor have a
         | harder time saving and are actually more reckless about
         | spending, because they a) didn't have modeling or financial
         | education from their parents and b) had to spend money when
         | they got it before some random fee or cost gobbled it up
        
         | ClumsyPilot wrote:
         | I frequently encounter people and family with obvious issues
         | arising from childhood, and 95% of the time their parents were
         | poor as kids and thats where it all comes from.
         | 
         | On one hand these people are a pain to deal with, but in most
         | cases its not their fault either.
        
           | jjj123 wrote:
           | What makes them a pain to deal with?
           | 
           | I work with ultra-privileged people who by all accounts are
           | "well adjusted" and I find them harder to deal with than
           | people I grew up with from home. Many of them have no history
           | of and don't understand trauma, and as a result they're
           | unempathetic to what the literal majority of people
           | experience.
           | 
           | Edited for clarity
        
             | wolverine876 wrote:
             | > I work with ultra-privileged people who by all accounts
             | are "well adjusted" and I find them harder to deal with
             | than people I grew up with from home. Many of them have no
             | history of and don't understand trauma, and as a result
             | they're unempathetic to what the literal majority of people
             | experience.
             | 
             | Financial issues aren't the only trauma in life, by a long
             | shot. Plenty of people in that group have trauma. What
             | makes people unempathetic is often that they don't come to
             | grips with their own trauma; they deny it and thus deny it
             | for others - if it's too painful to admit to yourself,
             | think how dangerous other people's trauma could be!
        
         | spaetzleesser wrote:
         | It doesn't have to even be in your youth. I lost a lot of money
         | with a real estate deal in the 90s plus a lot more when the
         | .COM bubble crashed. Since then I have no confidence in
         | investing or jobs. I always look over my shoulder and wait for
         | things to go bad. Especially since 2008 it made sense to
         | blindly invest into housing and stocks even while knowing they
         | would crash eventually. Being gunshy from previous experience
         | made you lose out on a lot of gains.
        
           | wing-_-nuts wrote:
           | Yeah, it's not just in childhood, it also hits early
           | adulthood as well, when people are just starting out.
           | 
           | I scraped by on ~ $600 / mo in disability until I graduated
           | college in my mid 20s in 2008. My spending habits, my
           | hobbies, everything was ingrained around that age.
           | 
           | Today I make 25x as much, and barely spend 2x. It's hard to
           | change early habits.
        
         | twoquestions wrote:
         | True facts, this. My spouse never had to wonder where the
         | electric or gas money was coming from, even though their family
         | is really frugal despite making really good money, and I'm
         | still surprised at their decisions that I irrationally describe
         | as extravagant even though they're better decisions all told.
         | 
         | Even though I have a great job now and have for years, I still
         | find myself shying away from good things that I really can
         | afford, or buying cheap shoes when dropping a Benjamin is
         | better even in the immediate term.
        
           | scottLobster wrote:
           | Coming from the more well-off side, it makes friendships with
           | people on the other side harder as well. By chance a good
           | chunk of my social circle in college was less well off than
           | me, and while we liked playing games together I got weird
           | looks for buying shirts new at Macy's or Michelin tires. It
           | just seemed to rub them the wrong way, like they thought I
           | was trying to show off or rub something in their face even
           | though I'm just upper-middle-class and buying what I saw as
           | the best product for what I needed. It's not like I was
           | showing up in a new Lexus or something. Some of them also
           | expected me to drive them everywhere even though they had
           | working cars of their own, and that got rather toxic after a
           | while.
        
             | mettamage wrote:
             | Can confirm this. Middle class here. Have a relationship
             | with someone well-off. I view it as cultural differences
             | that we need to overcome. In our case we did. The only
             | "downside" is that it takes a very consistent form of
             | energy. I'm constantly thinking "if I'd be as rich as she
             | is, how would I deal with the situation?" I can imagine it
             | to some extent due to how I play poker and seeing parallels
             | with my stack size versus my financial situation. Long
             | story short: when I feel I don't have enough, I get very
             | tight on my spending. When I feel I have enough, I get
             | loose and lax. As one might imagine, I wasn't a very good
             | poker player because of that ;-)
        
         | almost_usual wrote:
         | > Being poor in general, during your childhood, scars you for
         | life.
         | 
         | You can learn to cope with the anxiety better if you talk to a
         | therapist but it will never fully go away.
        
           | wolverine876 wrote:
           | Who can afford a therapist?
        
             | nomel wrote:
             | Especially if you have anxiety around spending money.
        
               | wolverine876 wrote:
               | Great point.
        
         | Markoff wrote:
         | Not necessarily, I grew up pretty poor, my mother stealing food
         | from kitchen she worked to save money (and I had to lug it
         | every day when I was older), father having mediocre salary
         | (later divorced without father's income), yet now belonging to
         | like top 3% earners in country I live, I have like 150K EUR in
         | stocks and don't really give a F about losing currently 10-20%,
         | it's long term investment. It probably also helps I bought
         | apartment without mortgage in 4th most touristy city in Europe.
         | 
         | So yeah, I dislike the idea of being mortgage slave, but if I
         | didn't optimize my income I wouldn't mind taking one to buy
         | investment apartment, so I had to invest money in stock.
         | 
         | But the funny thing is I will refuse to buy something I
         | consider overpriced even when total sum makes absolutely no
         | difference at my income, I just don't like the idea of wasting
         | my money on something which can be bought cheaper, so some
         | people may think I am poor or cheap although I don't mind
         | spending money on something I consider worth the money. For
         | instance almost nobody here in Czechia has AC, but I am one of
         | those few people who have one, because I value my comfort at
         | home more than having newest smartphones and other crap.
        
       | mdeck_ wrote:
       | > Between late 1978 and early 1981, drivers in the U.S. saw the
       | price at the pump nearly double from 63 cents to $1.31 a gallon.
       | 
       | Not sure how that change would amount to NEARLY doubling...
        
         | selimthegrim wrote:
         | I don't think inflation was on holiday during those
         | years...also nearly doesn't have to mean almost
        
       | beezle wrote:
       | I was a kid during both oil shocks of the 1970s. That has
       | absolutely nothing to do with my driving. What does, and not just
       | for driving, is the family taught cultural value of 'don't be
       | wasteful'.
       | 
       | So unlike so many people today, I don't make 12 trips a day to
       | stores/friends/whatever when I can just make one or two if I
       | actually think 5 minutes ahead. That applies whether gas is $1 or
       | $5 per gallon.
       | 
       | I also try to make good use of what I own and not discard things
       | that are functional simply to get the new shiny.
        
         | eric_cc wrote:
         | > I don't make 12 trips a day to stores/friends/whatever when I
         | can just make one or two
         | 
         | Forget gas: This type behavior is a waste of time! The most
         | precious resource of all.
        
           | odensc wrote:
           | "Waste" is subjective. Some people may enjoy driving/running
           | a bunch of errands (I find it fun sometimes when I have
           | nothing else to do).
        
             | nickff wrote:
             | I read a few news stories that during lockdowns, many
             | people would only buy a few groceries at a time, so that
             | they could go out more, and spend time at the market.
        
           | Gigachad wrote:
           | I do this all the time, but I walk everywhere so I just see
           | the trips as extra exercise time.
        
         | sbf501 wrote:
         | In the late 1970's Star Wars toys still worked if the batteries
         | died! Can't say that about an iPad.
        
           | babypuncher wrote:
           | I wonder which is more wasteful: A built-in rechargeable
           | battery that lasts 500-1000 charge cycles but is difficult to
           | replace, or a requirement of six AAA batteries that need
           | replacement after every 3-4 hours of use.
        
             | tessierashpool wrote:
             | ok, but you're replying to a comment about toys that don't
             | _need_ their batteries replaced, because they still work
             | without the batteries.
             | 
             | a toy with _optional_ batteries obviously requires less
             | battery use than a thing which _requires_ a battery. it 's
             | tautological.
        
         | seanmcdirmid wrote:
         | I was a kid during the 80s when gas was (comparatively) cheap.
         | But I got so sick of living out in the middle of nowhere and
         | having to drive all the time (as a kid, with my parents), that
         | I spend more on housing in urban areas where I can walk to
         | multiple stores.
         | 
         | Throwing things away is so difficult these days that I try to
         | make purchases that avoid it. But like...we still have my 5
         | year olds car seat in our garage because no place will take
         | them (I have to make a trip to the dump, or get a junk hauler
         | to come by with a big load for them and a few hundred bucks).
        
           | dragonwriter wrote:
           | > I was a kid during the 80s when gas was (comparatively)
           | cheap.
           | 
           | The 1980s are funny, because, the early 1980s were one of the
           | periods of highest sustained gas prices in history, while the
           | late 1980s and 1990s are the lowest ever.
        
         | jackblemming wrote:
         | How many years earlier does that let you retire?
        
           | bornfreddy wrote:
           | Is that the only goal people are supposed to have in life?
        
             | up_o wrote:
             | if you're a worker, then mostly yes. Ideally, self-
             | fulfilling goals that require those extra 40-60 hours
             | you're giving to a company then can be diverted. Not
             | everyone can work at ChangeTheWorld corp for their day job.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | Part of it is that, in general, there aren't great
               | options to spend 10 or 20 hours/week--or, really, 700 or
               | so hours a year doing interesting work for someone else
               | on your schedule getting paid at full-time professional
               | salary levels. You're not available when needed. You're
               | not keeping current probably. Even if I could do some
               | part-time consulting on what I currently work on, I'd
               | become much less interesting to hire pretty quickly.
        
             | ninjanomnom wrote:
             | Many people nowadays see retirement, especially early
             | retirement, as a means towards whatever goal they have in
             | life. You can focus on whatever you like without worrying
             | about your financial stability.
        
             | na85 wrote:
             | It is if work sucks. Not all of us are lucky enough to love
             | what we do.
             | 
             | I can't fucking wait to retire, and spend time doing what I
             | actually want to instead of useless work.
        
           | Xeoncross wrote:
           | Not years, hours.
           | 
           | While I'm on my 4th trip out for the day I'll bet he's
           | already back home watching TV.
           | 
           | Joking aside, I've definitely see the cost/hr add up by
           | purchasing new things that still have bugs to work out. The
           | price might be $500, but I'll spend another $700 of time
           | working on issues. I'm fine being a few months late to the
           | party so I can conserve time for more important things.
           | 
           | In the words of the characterized OP: "If it ain't broke,
           | don't fix it"
        
       | annoyingnoob wrote:
       | My grand-parents lived through the Great Depression and were the
       | most frugal people I've ever met.
        
       | nonrandomstring wrote:
       | > Scar Consumption for Life
       | 
       | Sounds like a good thing in a world where we over-consume almost
       | everything?
       | 
       | I can't agree with some of the commentary in this thread about
       | risk, drive and early poverty. Some of the wealthiest people
       | started out dirt poor. They didn't like it and resolved to become
       | rich. Plenty more started out spoiled rotten and grew up to be
       | lazy minded with mediocre life outcomes.
       | 
       | "Brewster's Millions" is still a great film on this theme of
       | growing a healthy relationship with money.
        
       | bitcurious wrote:
       | My grandparents didn't go hungry this year (after Russia's
       | invasion) because they had a cellar full of preserves. For them,
       | it was part of a tradition of hunger, a "never waste food"
       | mentality reinforced by WWII, and Holodomor prior, and WWI prior,
       | and the experience of being serfs prior to that.
        
         | kgwgk wrote:
         | > WWI prior, and the experience of being serfs prior to that
         | 
         | They may be quite old!
        
           | nostromo wrote:
           | > it was part of a tradition
        
             | kgwgk wrote:
             | it was a joke, anyway
        
         | 2-718-281-828 wrote:
         | In the spirit of the article or at least the title one might
         | say your grandparent's regular food wasting attitude has been
         | scarred by WWII.
        
       | seunosewa wrote:
       | Is it fair to conclude that fossil fuel price shocks are good for
       | the planet? If everyone experiences them early then we will all
       | reduce our carbon footprint for life and slow global warming?
        
         | ffggvv wrote:
         | what if i told you a lot of fossil fuels go into producing
         | electric cars, which then drives up the price of them making
         | them out of reach for the avg person
        
           | throitallaway wrote:
           | I'm sorry, but are you saying that the high price of EVs is
           | due to fossil fuel prices? EVs were far out of reach of the
           | average person well before fuel prices ticked up. They're
           | priced high because they're based on relatively new
           | technology and processes.
        
             | ffggvv wrote:
             | no i'm saying high energy prices make them even more
             | expensive
        
         | jrumbut wrote:
         | The article addresses that a bit. The effect is small and they
         | are still driving everywhere alone (instead of public
         | transport) so the authors say that electric vehicles are the
         | only way out.
        
         | duffyjp wrote:
         | I 100% welcome higher gas prices. Americans are so wasteful
         | it's ridiculous. It'll hurt if you're currently in an
         | inefficient car but once you get a hybrid / EV you won't care.
         | I don't even look at the price filling up my Prius.
         | 
         | SUVs that look like school buses and people commuting to an
         | office job in full size trucks is madness.
        
           | paulywog wrote:
           | I'm in the automotive industry and the biggest fan of EVs in
           | general. I was even home-building an EV before I moved to the
           | city.
           | 
           | I think we still have a lot to figure out with our charging
           | infrastructure, in cities where often it's hard just to park.
           | I want an EV badly, but it'd be a constant struggle to keep
           | it charged.
           | 
           | There's also an issue with car companies generally not making
           | the cars I want anymore, though I understand this is a me
           | problem. There's not a nice plug-in hybrid small convertible,
           | even if I could charge it.
        
             | themacguffinman wrote:
             | EVs have really large batteries nowadays which should make
             | home charging feasible for most. The Tesla Model 3 has an
             | EPA estimated mileage of 358 while the Nissan Leaf has
             | estimated 149. If you mostly travel within city limits, I'd
             | be surprised if you could deplete your whole battery before
             | you get home at the end of the day.
        
               | Nition wrote:
               | Indeed almost all EV charging happens at home, but the
               | parent comment is talking about city living where people
               | may not have access to charging at home.
        
           | [deleted]
        
       | cs137 wrote:
       | I worked in a grocery store in the late '90s, and the older
       | customers (who grew up in the Great Depression) always carried
       | penny pouches, because they remembered a time when one had to
       | keep track of cents to survive.
       | 
       | This is how I know that, even if we miraculously fixed our
       | medical system tomorrow and outlawed private health insurance by
       | a constitutional amendment, we'll still have, thirty years from
       | now, 60-year-old Millennials dropping dead of preventable causes.
       | The American healthcare system has already killed millions, but
       | it's also killed future millions.
        
         | throwaway894345 wrote:
         | Scarcity mindset is real. I studied abroad in France, and the
         | government promised up and down that they would cover my
         | housing only to reneg a few days before my trip (long after I
         | had secured my student loan money, bought my flight, etc) and
         | saddled me with a $600/month payment and no income. I was
         | counting individual bus trips into town and skipping meals (I
         | went from 160 to 140 pounds in a few months) to save up 60
         | euros for a RyanAir flight to visit my then-girlfriend-now-wife
         | who was studying in Austria at the time (and I broke down when
         | I was forced to miss it because I put my luggage in a train
         | station locker that advertised "24 hours" but the _room
         | housing_ the lockers was only available during the day, and
         | this was not advertised).
         | 
         | Even after I graduated and got a series of increasingly high-
         | paying engineering jobs, I couldn't shake the scarcity mindset,
         | and I would scrimp and save (although I didn't skip meals any
         | longer!). In time (with a whole lot of help and encouragement
         | with my wife), I was able to largely overcome it. We're still
         | _very_ conservative with our money--we 're probably in the top
         | 10% of Americans with respect to income, but we spend like
         | we're median (or lower) Americans and save the difference.
         | However, now it's because we want to retire early or pursue
         | other loftier goals (some combination of traveling the world,
         | buying a hobby farm, and/or starting a small business) rather
         | than my debilitating anxiety.
         | 
         | (Since we're getting a little political) It also makes it hard
         | to sympathize with my peers who didn't work, skipped class,
         | lived in the dorms, paid for meal plans and _still_ went out to
         | eat several times a week, bought daily $7 lattes, and majored
         | in some art history or leisure services or (non-teaching)
         | English Literature when they insist that the government should
         | forgive their enormous student loan debt (I 'm fine with
         | universal education, but no one should be surprised that they
         | have to repay the debt that financed their unsustainable
         | lifestyle or demand that society foot the bill).
        
         | tootie wrote:
         | My grandma did this. Never left a penny on the sidewalk, always
         | took the bread from a breadbasket home. Even my parents
         | absorbed some of that behavior despite being born in the next
         | generation.
        
           | ansible wrote:
           | Same. I always clean my plate (though I try hard not to take
           | more than I can eat), and am always very reluctant to get rid
           | of anything that "still works".
        
           | CalRobert wrote:
           | We were surprised to discover after her death (in the late
           | 80's) that my great grandmother kept $1,000 in a pouch in her
           | bra. I can understand not trusting the banks and wanting to
           | always have some sort of cash on your person.
        
             | aerostable_slug wrote:
             | My grandfather carried $3k in his wallet every day for the
             | same reason.
        
               | cableshaft wrote:
               | I'd worry more about being mugged with that much in my
               | wallet than an emergency happening that required needing
               | that much cash on-my-person.
        
             | lotsofpulp wrote:
             | I cannot understand not having at least a couple hundred
             | cash on you, and much more at home. What are people's plans
             | if the power or payment networks go offline? Earthquake,
             | hurricane, ice storm, volcano, etc.
        
               | tomjakubowski wrote:
               | I'm expecting to rely on pen and paper IOUs in this
               | situation. That's really no different than cash,
               | presuming you and local businesses have already
               | established some trust.
        
               | josephcsible wrote:
               | Carrying significant accounts of cash on you all the time
               | seems like a good recipe for it to get lost or stolen.
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | There are always tradeoffs. Based on how much fuel and
               | food costs these days, I would not say a couple hundred
               | dollars is a significant amount of cash. Not even enough
               | to get you a bed at night in case of an emergency.
        
               | throwaway894345 wrote:
               | What kind of emergency would:
               | 
               | 1. leave me with cash
               | 
               | 2. not affect the ability of shops, hotels, etc to
               | process those cash payments and render goods and services
               | 
               | 3. prevent me from driving to the next town, county, etc
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | When hurricane sandy rolled through NJ/NYC area, I
               | remember the power being out for 4+ days, and we used
               | cash to buy groceries and fuel.
               | 
               | I also did not have time to drive 1+ hours for supplies,
               | especially when roads were not necessarily cleared of
               | trees and whatnot, and I had elderly to take care of at
               | home.
               | 
               | Also, gas itself was challenging to get with very long
               | lines so driving an hour was not a guarantee to getting
               | it (since everyone else has the same bright idea, you
               | can't just shift 10M+ vehicles worth of demand overnight
               | to surrounding areas).
        
               | Red_Leaves_Flyy wrote:
               | You obviously have considerable wealth if you think most
               | people have the savings to keep hundreds of dollars on
               | them at all times and much more at home. A large
               | percentage of Americans can't afford a $500 emergency.
               | Also, many people don't carry cash because they're
               | worried, rightfully or not, about being robbed. Same idea
               | behind leaving stuff in your vehicle.
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | I am suspicious of that "can't afford a $500 emergency"
               | number that is thrown around.
               | 
               | It apparently comes from a survey [52] which says:
               | 
               | "53% could manage an unforeseen expense of $500 without
               | worry"
               | 
               | What that actually _means_ isn 't directly stated - but
               | people _read_ it as  "half of Americans can't afford
               | $500" which isn't what it's stating.
               | 
               | https://www.personalcapital.com/assets/public/src/2022-We
               | alt...
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | I thought it would be obvious that my comment would
               | preclude people who did not have emergency funds. Or who
               | live in areas where the probability of robbery is high
               | enough to negate the benefit of having some cash on you.
               | 
               | My intent was to show that while electronic payments are
               | nice and convenient, I still like the peace of mind of
               | knowing I have a resilient payment method like cash on
               | me.
        
               | Brybry wrote:
               | While having some cash is good, if you're planning ahead
               | for a disaster it's better to have _stuff_ than cash
               | cause in the event of disaster your ability to buy things
               | is likely to be decreased.
               | 
               | Or at least that's my experience from living in an area
               | where hurricanes sometimes take down power for 2+ weeks.
               | 
               | When things shut down for a long time the government
               | usually sets up free distribution of MREs and water and
               | already having gas in your tank is more valuable than
               | having cash to buy gas at the theoretical gas station
               | with power to pump but not payment network access.
        
               | mgkimsal wrote:
               | Plenty of us didn't always have 'a couple hundred cash'
               | at all, much less 'free' to just carry around 'in case of
               | emergency'. I can _now_ , but don't for the most part,
               | partially because of decades of not being in that
               | position. We have a modest amount of cash on hand at home
               | - we sometimes pay service folks in cash, or can tip a
               | delivery person now and then, but those are rare
               | instances. Neighbor kids selling door to door now and
               | then too, but even then I wrote a check last time,
               | directly to a school fundraiser, didn't just hand over
               | cash.
               | 
               | If we needed to leave due to an emergency, some cash may
               | help for a hotel, probably, assuming it's far enough away
               | to have power/water.
               | 
               | If there's earthquake/hurricane/etc with resulting power
               | outages, most of the places I'd go to wouldn't be able to
               | even open their POS systems to take cash in the first
               | place.
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | > If there's earthquake/hurricane/etc with resulting
               | power outages, most of the places I'd go to wouldn't be
               | able to even open their POS systems to take cash in the
               | first place.
               | 
               | Businesses or anyone wanting to get paid will figure out
               | an alternative. Dealing with cash is not complicated.
        
               | kayodelycaon wrote:
               | Dealing with cash is complicated actually. You need to
               | protect it from theft. You need to count it daily. You
               | need a bank to deposit it. You need to have change
               | because people don't bring exact amounts. Having change
               | requires a bank or some other facility to exchange
               | currency with.
               | 
               | Cards require a machine, some kind of network
               | connectivity, and an account. It's actually a lot easier
               | to deal with as a small business. Most of the people I
               | know who go to conventions as vendors prefer cards
               | because it greatly simplifies their logistics.
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | Yes, but I was talking about a scenario where there is no
               | network connectivity and hence no ability to take card
               | payments.
               | 
               | In the case of getting paid something versus getting paid
               | nothing, I am guessing most merchants will opt to put in
               | the work to accept cash rather than shut down.
        
               | aerostable_slug wrote:
               | Note that some retailers can and do store and forward
               | transactions, for example with gas stations using
               | satellite connectivity for payment processing. The amount
               | one stores depends upon one's fraud tolerance.
               | 
               | There are attacks where bad guys will disable a gas
               | station's dish (by covering it with foil among other
               | methods) and then rack up a bunch of gasoline sales with
               | a stolen card. They've got generally got a limited window
               | so they have to hit a bunch of local stations quickly,
               | but meth users aren't known for high dollar scores.
        
               | lobocinza wrote:
               | I saw a supermarket operate with calculators ~10 years
               | ago when power grid was off for days. I don't believe I
               | will see it again at least not in any big store as
               | financial conciliation is a PITA and the old ways are
               | lost. But small vendors that are often marginalized by
               | the market will.
        
               | leksak wrote:
               | But if someone robs you then you have both zero money and
               | less merch due to sales that day. I'm guessing a lot of
               | places will err on the side of caution rather than some
               | income.
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | mgkimsal wrote:
               | I worked at a fast food place where our power went out.
               | They forced us to keep ... open and selling anyway. The
               | 240v was out so no grill, but 120 outlets worked so we
               | could make coffee/tea. That was about it. Cash registers
               | didn't work. I was writing everything by hand,
               | calculating tax, etc, keeping records.
               | 
               | 2 hrs later, the regional manager - WHO HAD TOLD US IN NO
               | UNCERTAIN TERMS THAT WE HAD TO REMAIN OPEN DESPITE NOT
               | HAVING POWER - came in and chastised me for 1) not
               | wearing the full uniform (we had no AC and it was July,
               | so I took off the tie) and 2) handling money without a
               | register. "You can't guarantee your numbers are right -
               | that's what computers are for". "But... they're down, and
               | you said to stay open and keep selling". "That doesn't
               | change the fact that you might be making mistakes!"
               | 
               | Insanity.
        
               | throwaway894345 wrote:
               | I'd probably just drive somewhere that has power/payment
               | networks (stay with friends, family, or
               | airbnb/hotel/etc), especially since those point-of-sale
               | systems are almost universally electronic anyway.
        
           | Markoff wrote:
           | > always took the bread from a breadbasket home
           | 
           | Care to explain it to non native speaker from Europe? Is it
           | some bakery chain and she took home some cheap/free leftover
           | bread?
        
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             | quartesixte wrote:
             | Some restaurants give a free basket of bread with a meal as
             | a sort of appetizer. Most people either consume all of it
             | or just leave the leftovers.
        
               | SilasX wrote:
               | Ah so like a mild version of this xkcd:
               | 
               | https://xkcd.com/1499/
        
               | Markoff wrote:
               | Ah, OK, my (Chinese) wife is like that, she won't leave
               | anything behind, I don't mind leaving it behind, but I
               | can understand trying to avoid waste since many places
               | will throw away bread which was offered to other
               | customer. And often the bread taste actually good, so it
               | makes sense to take it.
        
               | tablespoon wrote:
               | Ah, so it's just that the OP wrote something that was
               | prone to be misparsed.
               | 
               | I read "breadbasket home" as a compound noun and guessed
               | it was some kind of food bank or something, but "home"
               | was really an adverb modifying took. So what was meant
               | was something like "My grandma ... always took [home] the
               | bread from a [restaurant] breadbasket..."
        
               | quartesixte wrote:
               | Yeah welcome to split verb-adverb pairs in English!
        
               | bluedino wrote:
               | Many people ask for more bread after they wolf it down
               | and even ask for some to take home.
               | 
               | It might be buttery, lightly seasoned bread or something
               | like rolls, usually fresh-baked.
        
               | yobbo wrote:
               | It's to fill stomachs so that the portion sizes seem
               | bigger.
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | quartesixte wrote:
           | > Even my parents absorbed some of that behavior despite
           | being born in the next generation
           | 
           | Yup. As a child of immigrants it gets passed down a very long
           | way.
           | 
           | Pass it down far enough and it just becomes "culture" and
           | "tradition".
        
           | JamesSwift wrote:
           | Yep, my parents are baby boomers and definitely have this
           | ingrained in them. I also have some habits around eating
           | where I (usually) waste nothing, which was instilled in me by
           | my grandfather.
        
             | distances wrote:
             | Not wasting food is just normal though, or is it just so
             | ingrained in me that it only seems so?
        
               | JamesSwift wrote:
               | When I say dont waste food I mean my plate is completely
               | clean when I'm done. I eat everything off a chicken wing
               | so its _just_ bone left (eat all the cartilage and clean
               | every bit of meat off). My grandfather would actually
               | break the bones and suck the marrow out of each one.
        
         | ravenstine wrote:
         | The generation of the Great Depression didn't have ubiquitous
         | forms of usury. With credit cards, personal loans and student
         | loans, I imagine the future stinginess of Millennials will be
         | short lived.
        
           | faitswulff wrote:
           | It's not so much about stinginess as unwillingness to seek
           | medical attention because it's so highly correlated with
           | unbearable medical debt.
        
           | Nick87633 wrote:
           | They still had installment plans for buying appliances and
           | repossessions. I'm pretty sure usurious loans have existed
           | since money was invented.
        
             | ravenstine wrote:
             | Of course. Loans have existed since the beginning of money.
             | That doesn't mean average people were using credit and
             | loans to buy everything from Lambos to Cheetos to pornos
             | like they can today. Not until very recently. Credit wasn't
             | really something that was available to most people until
             | around the 70s when it began to be digitized successfully.
             | The psychology of debt today compared to that of a few
             | generations ago is entirely different.
        
               | astrange wrote:
               | If you know the general store owner or your pub landlord
               | and you ask them to put something on your tab, that's
               | credit. Exact payment on the spot is what develops when
               | you're trading with strangers.
        
             | Domenic_S wrote:
             | Yep, various holy books talk about usury and they're quite
             | old.
        
         | giantg2 wrote:
         | "always carried penny pouches, because they remembered a time
         | when one had to keep track of cents to survive."
         | 
         | Sure. But you also have to realize that a loaf a bread cost a
         | nickle and that cards didn't exist. People carried around
         | change because you could actually buy meaningful stuff with it
         | and there wasn't really an alternative to cash (sure someplaces
         | give credit but much different than using a card today).
        
           | aksss wrote:
           | I paid $1.50 for a candy bar the other day. My earliest
           | memory of scrounging change for a commercial transaction to
           | obtain a candy bar was a $0.45. That would have been in the
           | eighties.
        
           | throw8383833jj wrote:
           | yup, it's pretty easy to forget that the dollar has already
           | lost over 98% of it's value.
        
             | dixie_land wrote:
             | exactly, back in the days a penny coin actually was worth
             | more than the metal in it
        
             | Mountain_Skies wrote:
             | IIRC, when the US stopped minting the half penny, the whole
             | penny was worth somewhere around $0.33 in 2022 currency.
             | Lopping the last digit off of everything isn't practical
             | for many reasons but I wish we could at least finally put
             | the stupid "9/10" on gas prices into the grave.
        
               | rootusrootus wrote:
               | In some places you're getting your wish, because they
               | plan to need that space on the sign when the dollars go
               | double digit.
        
               | takeda wrote:
               | Yeah, seriously. It was there to visually fool customer
               | into thinking the price is cheaper than it really is. But
               | because today it is insignificant difference as well
               | everyone else is doing it, it is just nonsense and no
               | longer serves its purpose.
               | 
               | Another thing (and that actually matters much more) is
               | that tax is not included in the prices there are excuses
               | about it that tax is different in different areas, but
               | it's just yet another way to lie to a customer.
        
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         | usrn wrote:
         | Honestly fuck the medical system, young people don't care.
         | Housing is what's really getting us.
         | 
         | Some days I feel like driving up to McLean and burning banks
         | down.
         | 
         | EDIT: I'm out of comment quota but dymk I'm so tired of hearing
         | that, here's my reply: Oh fuck off. I make six figures and work
         | remotely. My family lives in a rural part of a small state and
         | I can't afford a house within driving distance of them.
         | 
         | EDIT2: Asset price inflation pops an asset price bubble? Who
         | taught you economics? They should be fired. Also, that's not a
         | bubble this time, it's the market equilibrium. We aren't
         | building enough housing and it's so bad the cost of labor to
         | build more housing is going up. The entire US is the bubble
         | this time.
         | 
         | EDIT3: Is that your solution? Send all the children to therapy
         | for being kicked out of their own country? How do you expect
         | that to work?
         | 
         | EDIT4: corrral: when the upper middle class ends up in "lower
         | class" conditions you usually get guillotines.
        
           | mellavora wrote:
           | Obligatory Fight Club reference.
           | 
           | Fight club: people fed up with the system decide to blow it
           | up, release date movie 1999, book 1996.
           | 
           | Millenials: people born 1981-1996, thus a critical mass hits
           | adolescence when Fight Club is released.
        
           | diob wrote:
           | What... I don't know if you realize this but plenty of young
           | folks need healthcare.
           | 
           | Ultimately, we can do both (fixing healthcare and housing).
           | But honestly more countries have solved healthcare than
           | housing.
        
             | usrn wrote:
             | Maybe "plenty" need healthcare but _all_ of them need
             | housing. This sounds like some boomer whining about their
             | issues and pretending to care about millennials.
        
               | diob wrote:
               | Me or the article? No need to go on the attack btw, I was
               | pointing out the privilege / falsehood rooted in saying
               | young folks don't need healthcare.
               | 
               | I stand by my statement, healthcare is much easier to
               | solve (we have examples of places doing it right). AND we
               | can try to tackle both.
        
               | usrn wrote:
               | Is it? What countries is it solved in? Do their
               | demographics look like ours (hint: no.) Most of us get by
               | just fine without healthcare. Some of us certainly could
               | use it but that's not what nearly all of us care about
               | right now, that is in every way another problem for old
               | people (and probably another way they're going to fuck us
               | all over.)
               | 
               | Edit: No Australia is mostly White with the largest
               | minority (5%) being Chinese. Try again. Also, I'm done
               | empathizing; I'm warning/threatening everyone.
        
               | diob wrote:
               | Honestly, to me, this sounds more like an older person
               | take than a young person take (ironic given your claim of
               | boomer whining). America is not exceptional! Talking
               | about demographics / geography, all that bs is how we get
               | rooted in thinking America can't learn from other
               | countries or change.
               | 
               | Australia, for one, does a massively wonderful job with
               | healthcare. My friends there, young by the way, love the
               | healthcare there. But, like us, the housing market is
               | awful. Well, worse honestly.
               | 
               | And this is one of many countries who have great social
               | healthcare.
               | 
               | I don't think you're talking to me in good faith though
               | given you've fallen back to "most of us get by just fine
               | without healthcare". I'm young, like you, and I need
               | healthcare. Plenty of my friends do too, especially some
               | with rare conditions like narcolepsy.
               | 
               | Did you honestly accept in an earlier comment that plenty
               | need healthcare?
               | 
               | It sounds to me like you want someone to confirm your
               | viewpoints rather than to talk / learn / empathize with
               | others.
        
               | jnovek wrote:
               | I believe your perspective is limited by your experience.
               | 
               | As someone who is (a) a millennial and (b) has a chronic
               | medical condition, I need medical care WAY MORE than I
               | need to own a house. Or even rent a house. A crappy
               | apartment will do. Right now I live in a relative's
               | basement.
               | 
               | I've learned to settle on living situations that I don't
               | love because medical care takes priority.
        
           | tyleo wrote:
           | I'm a very well off millennial. My fiance and I both have
           | high paying tech jobs. We easily make the income of multiple
           | families.
           | 
           | That being said we are strained to buy a 3-bedroom house like
           | that of my single Mother who only has a high school education
           | to her name.
           | 
           | Given our success, we don't have the "burn it all down"
           | mentality but I fear it building in many of my friends and
           | totally understand the sentiment of this being a #1 problem
           | for younger generations.
        
             | usrn wrote:
             | At least you have a partner. If you're on your own you're
             | absolutely fucked. Not only are you alone but everyone else
             | is out to get you. When we have the crunch in the near
             | future I could see me and my peers torching things.
             | 
             | I don't even worry about this anymore; I look forward to
             | it.
        
               | danuker wrote:
               | House prices more than doubled since 1965, yet incomes
               | barely increased.
               | 
               | https://wtfhappenedin1971home.files.wordpress.com/2021/12
               | /un...
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | I wonder when dual-income households became the standard.
        
               | ssully wrote:
               | Based on your other posts, I don't think you would sound
               | much different if you had a partner. You clearly have a
               | lot of anger and I encourage you to find someone to talk
               | to. I mainly mean a therapist, but if that isn't an
               | option than a close friend. Those feelings will eat you
               | alive.
        
               | iosystem wrote:
               | Majority of millennials on social media sites like reddit
               | share the same thoughts as that person. To be more
               | specific everyone that isn't making six figures in a
               | career like tech. I have anxiety about the resentment of
               | my peers and I think the riots we've seen in the US non-
               | related to the housing crisis have been bad but likely
               | nothing compared to what's to come. The elephant in the
               | room is that therapy isn't going to cut it and especially
               | when almost all of young adults entering into the
               | timeline of entry-homeownership years realize it's
               | impossible while having flashbacks of how much easier it
               | was for their parents while comparing homes on the market
               | to what they lived in during childhood years. I think the
               | older generation is naive to think that everyone is just
               | going to adapt to apartment living without extreme
               | resentment and torching things down. Even my tech
               | colleague millennials are trying to prepare for what
               | their peers are likely to do.
        
             | dymk wrote:
             | Depends on where you want to buy. SF? Probably not going to
             | happen. Almost anywhere else? Houses are plenty affordable.
        
               | twox2 wrote:
               | 100% also, why do you need to buy a house in the first
               | place?
        
               | doubled112 wrote:
               | Because my mother taught me that 100% of my value as a
               | person is being a home owner because that's the only
               | thing that matters. Not even a condo will do.
               | 
               | /s but only sort of
        
               | usrn wrote:
               | Mine literally told me _every day_ you shouldn 't have
               | kids unless you own a house.
        
               | deathanatos wrote:
               | I'm not in SF. The last listing I looked at was 800 sq
               | ft, run down, literally "as-is" property: $500k valuation
               | from Zillow (it's listed for less ... but not by much).
               | That's about $2500/mo, in mortgage alone.
               | 
               | Decent properties, in suburban areas, at ~$1M.
               | 
               | Ir rural areas, yeah, they're cheaper ... and salary
               | would get "adjusted" the moment I try that.
        
               | nradov wrote:
               | Here's a decent 3-bedroom single family house in suburban
               | Cleveland for $395K.
               | 
               | https://apps.realtor.com/mUAZ/313q9jxa
               | 
               | That's just one example but you can find thousands of
               | similar listings all over the country. Outside of high-
               | cost coastal areas, housing is still fairly affordable in
               | most of the country.
        
               | deathanatos wrote:
               | And, as stated, I would take a "CoL adjustment" by moving
               | there.
               | 
               | That particular property falls pretty squarely in the
               | "exception proves the rule" territory for me; it's a 135
               | y/o dwelling, so I expect you'll be paying more than the
               | immediate price tag. Like too many listings, it doesn't
               | come w/ a floorplan, and with what photos it gives I'm a
               | bit suss on the 3bd/3ba (piecing together the photos, I
               | think we've converted a second story apt.'s LR into a
               | BR?). It's certainly seen a remodel (although ... IDK
               | about the taste of the remodel. But let's say taste is
               | unimportant!) No driveway. The backyard is ... well it
               | needs work. You're still batting $2k/mo _in Cleveland._
               | 
               | I'd almost hazard a guess that my CoL adjust would be
               | >$500/mo, but I don't get to know these things, being an
               | employee.
               | 
               | There are a few intangibles in my situation that make
               | "move to Cleveland" a "it's not going to happen".
               | 
               | There's a point where one needs to step back and ask
               | oneself, if that's what's affordable on SWE's salary,
               | what's affordable on a baker's salary?
        
               | selimthegrim wrote:
               | That's not the suburbs.
        
               | nradov wrote:
               | I guess it depends how you define "suburbs", but it's
               | outside the core downtown area. If your prefer a house
               | further out in the suburbs or exurbs then there are
               | plenty of options to pick from.
               | 
               | Anyway, the point is that people on HN who have
               | relatively high incomes and job skills, and still
               | complain about lack of affordable housing are mostly just
               | being picky about location. There are options available
               | but it might mean living in a area with shitty weather or
               | not being able to walk to trendy restaurants or among
               | neighbors who don't share your political views. The real
               | housing crisis is hitting people with much lower incomes
               | who are being squeezed out.
        
               | deathanatos wrote:
               | I think that's their "point", in that it's an urban home
               | that's "affordable". I.e., if I only chose a city that
               | wasn't part of one of the megalopolises, I wouldn't have
               | problems.
        
               | charlieflowers wrote:
               | Everyone sells 30 years of their future for a house, so
               | you're competing with that. On top of that, when prices
               | rise people can leapfrog into more expensive houses, and
               | you're competing with that. Finally there's a lot of
               | corporate and private investing money in single family
               | housing. It's fucked up. But many do predict a decline or
               | even crash soon.
        
               | bsagdiyev wrote:
               | Jesus where do you live? I moved from San Diego to
               | Raleigh, didn't get a pay adjustment and even that place
               | wouldn't be anywhere near that cost here.
        
               | corrral wrote:
               | I'm looking at moving to a _significantly_ nicer [edit:
               | than where I am now, that is], coastal region with
               | excellent schools and within occasional-but-not-daily
               | commute distance of _two_ top-tier US cities, including
               | by rail (some of you may be be able to guess the area, at
               | this point), and the housing prices (4-bedroom with some
               | land, even) are surprisingly affordable. Nothing like
               | that, certainly. Houses within daily commute range of one
               | (but not both) of those cities can be had for way under
               | that, too, some miles away from where I 'm looking,
               | especially if you'll accept good-but-not-excellent
               | schools.
               | 
               | I guess if you're somewhere insanely expensive and won't
               | go somewhere that's not, then... you're gonna pay a lot
               | for housing. Go figure. "Here's the 97% of the country
               | that's not like that, just throw a dart at a US map and
               | you'll probably hit a place with much cheaper
               | housing"--"No, I won't, because reasons"--"Uh, OK then,
               | kinda sounds like a choice, good luck"
        
               | moneywoes wrote:
               | Where
        
               | idkyall wrote:
               | The train comment makes me guess somewhere on the mid-
               | Atlantic east coast: DC, Baltimore, Philadelphia or NYC
               | are all fairly close together, and a train ride from NYC
               | to DC I think is only ~3 hours
        
               | usrn wrote:
               | This is what I mean when I say "kicked out." You're
               | forced to move away from everything and everyone you
               | know.
        
               | corrral wrote:
               | If you grew up somewhere cheap, you probably encountered
               | the attitude that people moving to big cities and
               | expensive states were insane because of the housing
               | prices (and/or taxes and general living expenses). Actual
               | concern over the wellbeing of friends and relatives who
               | did so. For a large segment of people living cheap
               | places, moving to California (as in, the whole state) New
               | York (ditto, except _maybe_ the extremely rural and also
               | not-popular-for-vacations bits), several entire New
               | England states, most big cities unless you 're actually
               | living _way_ outside them, et c., was seen as simply
               | _impossible_. Not in the cards. Cannot be done without
               | ruining your finances. You don 't buy somewhere expensive
               | until you retire, and then it's probably in Florida or
               | the Carolinas. On a local lake if you're not rich enough
               | for those.
               | 
               | From that perspective, nothing's changed except that some
               | people living in those expensive places are starting to
               | realize the same thing, and the people experiencing that
               | are a bit higher up the economic ladder than before.
               | Welcome to the lower classes, folks. Don't worry, you've
               | got plenty of company.
        
           | mellavora wrote:
           | Hey, there is a chance that inflation pops the housing
           | bubble. Why risks crimes yourself when you can let the Fed
           | burn the whole thing down for you?
        
             | astrange wrote:
             | There isn't a housing bubble, they are fundamentally that
             | expensive because there's a shortage of them.
        
         | daniel-cussen wrote:
         | Doctors say they are the only profession that saves lives. Well
         | they're the only profession allowed to save lives. And the only
         | profession making money saving lives.
         | 
         | Charging for saving lives. Price discriminating to save lives.
         | 
         | What happens when they make a mistake in what someone is able
         | to pay?
         | 
         | EDIT (I tried replying but can't yet): The basic solution to
         | make medicine cheaper is supply more medics.
         | 
         | In Chile anybody who wants to be a doctor can go to some
         | medical school and make a pretty decent wage (but less than 20x
         | what an American doctor makes) and help people in some role,
         | some specialty, if that's what she really wants to do.
         | 
         | No quota on helping people.
         | 
         | And they get better results, lower infection rates than
         | American hospitals, longer life expectancy, and medical school
         | is shorter and much cheaper, like night and day. In particular
         | maternity care is like the best in the world--I can't
         | corroborate that but I've heard that.
         | 
         | Lowest medicine costs in the OECD, blows every other developed
         | country out of the water. America is the most expensive and
         | Chile is the cheapest.
        
           | jodrellblank wrote:
           | > " _Lowest medicine costs in the OECD, blows every other
           | developed country out of the water. America is the most
           | expensive and Chile is the cheapest._ "
           | 
           | I just happened to have this RAND corporation ranking of
           | "most expensive insulin in the world" from 2018 handy;
           | America is first, Chile is second.
           | 
           | https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/cost-
           | of-i...
        
             | spaetzleesser wrote:
             | Looking at this it's mind boggling how much the US is being
             | overcharged vs all other countries. How are Americans
             | putting up with paying 400%-900% more than any other
             | country?
        
               | somebodythere wrote:
               | It's not "putting up with". What are they going to do
               | otherwise, not take insulin?
        
               | spaetzleesser wrote:
               | Demand action from their representatives. Works in a lot
               | of other areas but not in health care. I guess the
               | lobbies are too strong.
        
             | daniel-cussen wrote:
             | OK yeah the medication is expensive, the pharmacies are
             | rigged. Farmacias Ahumada, Farmacias Cruz Verde, and
             | Salcobrand are three divisions of the same single...trust,
             | basically. The Chilean pharmacy monopoly. Enforced with eg
             | intermarriage. However, now there's lots more pharmacies,
             | it's opening up. And I am personally boycotting Cruz Verde
             | in almost all circumstances because I saw a shill of theirs
             | (a real life shill, not on a forum, in a brick-and-mortar
             | retailer) shilling for Cruz Verde[1] at a pharmacy that
             | actually competed with them. There's some.
             | 
             | But I don't know, did you try the municipal pharmacy in
             | Recoleta? Way cheaper.
             | 
             | [1] Note for admins: this is not the same as calling
             | someone a shill on the forum, I went and gave my account
             | and signed an affidavit in the complaints and suggestions
             | book, with the help of the guard who also witnessed the
             | shill, and backed by a third witness who conversed with the
             | shill like I did. I told them by all means use this in
             | court, I'll vouch on the witness stand, and I'm doing this
             | with the same moral authority and motivation of being a
             | hero according to Roman Law, in a very similar set of
             | conditions that led to my actions and consequent
             | recognition as a hero by the victims in the spur of the
             | moment, ten years ago.
        
           | manuelabeledo wrote:
           | > Charging for saving lives. Price discriminating to save
           | lives.
           | 
           | Most first world countries have a solution for this already.
           | It is baffling that the US does not.
        
             | ChuckNorris89 wrote:
             | _> Most first world countries have a solution for this
             | already._
             | 
             | Even second and third world countries have implemented this
             | solution.
        
               | TedDoesntTalk wrote:
               | Part of the cost is equipment, too. Have you seen the
               | regulations that medical equipment must meet? And the
               | certifications that equipment requires? I'm not talking
               | about big ticket items like MRI machines. I mean just
               | blood pressure cuffs.
        
               | freeone3000 wrote:
               | I promise you, Canada and Germany and Chile and France
               | also have MRI machines and blood pressure cuffs.
        
               | nradov wrote:
               | Canada doesn't have enough MRI machines. Wait times are
               | long and increasing.
               | 
               | https://www.fraserinstitute.org/studies/waiting-your-
               | turn-wa...
               | 
               | All healthcare systems impose some sort of rationing.
               | Canada rations care by imposing long queues for non-
               | emergency cases, with significant variations between
               | provinces. Affluent Canadians frequently travel to the US
               | as medical tourists and pay for treatment out of pocket
               | in order to skip the lines.
               | 
               | There are also major differences in MRI scanners. A 3.0T
               | unit can produce higher resolution images than a 1.5T
               | unit, and this makes a difference in patient care
               | quality. Countries like Chile are more likely to have the
               | cheaper units.
               | 
               | https://doi.org/10.1097/rli.0000000000000801
        
               | daniel-cussen wrote:
               | Funny, I do the same thing, medical tourism in Chile.
               | Like all Hispanics. We all get all medicine in Latin
               | America, never in America, to the extent it's avoidable.
               | It used to be the other way around, like I knew a kid who
               | kept traveling for medical tourism from Chile to America
               | because he had a rare heart thing, rare disease.
               | 
               | There should be flying ambulances, like international
               | flights taking emergency patients to where they can be
               | treated economically instead of getting signature after
               | signature squeezed out of them, one per hour starting
               | inside the ambulance.
        
               | travisporter wrote:
               | Well I'm waiting in the US. Appointment times for a
               | dermatologist are out to 6 months earliest.
               | 
               | The Fraser institute is a libertarian think tank so even
               | if their data is right I don't trust their conclusion. So
               | what if 3% of people are waiting on a procedure? This
               | needs to be apples to apples compared to other countries,
               | per capita healthcare spending, life expectancy before
               | drawing conclusions
        
               | manuelabeledo wrote:
               | > Affluent Canadians frequently travel to the US as
               | medical tourists and pay for treatment out of pocket in
               | order to skip the lines.
               | 
               | This is exacerbated in the US itself, where only the top
               | 10% have access to expensive and timely medical
               | treatment.
               | 
               | I would argue that, at the very least, Canada does offer
               | medical treatment to everyone.
        
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           | CodeMage wrote:
           | Chile _might_ have cheaper healthcare, although I doubt it,
           | but that 's completely obscured by their health insurance.
           | They copied the US health insurance racket almost perfectly,
           | and that's what needs fixing much more than healthcare costs.
           | 
           | The only real solution is to completely abolish privatized
           | healthcare. No more discrimination between the poor and the
           | rich when it comes to something as critical as that. When
           | everyone has to row the same boat, then the rich will finally
           | have a good reason to make sure the poor don't drown.
           | 
           | EDIT: I don't remember Chile having that much cheaper
           | healthcare, either. I lived there for 14 years and it was
           | just as much of a constant drain on my salary as it is here
           | in the US. And those who couldn't afford good insurance were
           | pretty much screwed, just like here in the US. And the real
           | costs were buried deep and obscured by insurance waffle, just
           | like here in the US.
        
           | olalonde wrote:
           | > The basic solution to make medicine cheaper is supply more
           | medics.
           | 
           | It's shocking how little this is talked about... This is so
           | obviously the root of the problem. People like to blame the
           | free market but there is no free market in medicine.
           | Corporatism is to blame for artificially restricting the
           | supply of doctors and artificially restricting who is allowed
           | to render medical services, both of which benefit the
           | corporate members, the doctors. Of course, those anti-
           | competitive measures are always sold under the guise of
           | protecting the population.
        
             | nradov wrote:
             | Actually the primary bottleneck in the supply of new
             | doctors is lack of federal (Medicare) funding for residency
             | slots. Every year, students graduate from US accredited
             | medical schools but are unable to enter clinical practice
             | because they can't get matched to a residency program. Ask
             | Congress to increase funding.
             | 
             | https://www.ama-assn.org/press-center/press-releases/ama-
             | fun...
        
               | olalonde wrote:
               | How does that make any sense? Aren't student graduates
               | actually paid to do those residency programs? If it's too
               | expensive to train them, can't they take a pay cut? How
               | come no other profession requires federal funding for
               | placing/training graduates? Makes absolutely no sense
               | unless you uncritically accept the status quo.
        
               | nradov wrote:
               | Residents are paid an average salary of $64K. That's less
               | than many entry-level STEM jobs, and they often work up
               | to 80 hours per week. They can't afford to take a pay
               | cut. And hospitals incur other costs for running
               | residency programs which go beyond paying resident
               | salaries.
               | 
               | Most other private sector professions don't require
               | nearly as much postgraduate training before being allowed
               | to work. Prospective lawyers usually take the bar exam
               | less than a year after graduating from law school.
               | Medicine is simply more complex.
               | 
               | What would you propose as an alternative to the status
               | quo? The AMA has proposed a number of improvements, but
               | perhaps there are alternatives?
               | 
               | https://savegme.org/
        
               | kaesar14 wrote:
               | Using an AMA source is disingenuous since it's a
               | professional cartel with a massive vested interest in
               | keeping doctor supply as limited as possible.
        
               | nradov wrote:
               | Do you have a substantive comment to contribute or are
               | you going to stick with baseless low-effort snark? The
               | comment I posted is true and correct. You could verify it
               | with other independent sources if you bothered to do any
               | research.
        
               | kaesar14 wrote:
               | Yeah sure.
               | 
               | Fighting residency expansion:
               | http://www.usatoday.com/news/health/2005-03-02-doctor-
               | shorta...
               | 
               | Fighting expansion of care to other types of
               | practicioners: https://www.ama-assn.org/practice-
               | management/scope-practice/...
               | 
               | Why would you believe the AMA's line on this? Do you
               | think the professional association that represents all
               | doctors, one of the highest paid and influential
               | professions in the country, has no power to control the
               | amount of residencies are funded by the government? They
               | have no reason to increase the number of doctors,
               | absolutely none. They benefit in every way from having
               | constrained supply.
        
               | nradov wrote:
               | The AMA is literally lobbying Congress to expand
               | residency program funding, and even putting their own
               | money into it. Did you even read the article?
        
               | kaesar14 wrote:
               | Yes - they're lobbying now to reverse caps they
               | themselves[1] helped put into place, and like I said,
               | have also limited primary care availability by lobbying
               | against the ability of NPs and PAs to provided basic
               | medical care. It's a complete bunch of talk until they
               | get change done.
               | 
               | By the way, that expansion of 15000 residency positions
               | barely puts a dent in the number of doctors we are
               | lacking[2]. But yeah, a press release from 3 years ago
               | really absolves them of guilt for sure.
               | 
               | [1]: http://www.cnn.com/HEALTH/9708/24/doctor.glut/ [2]:
               | https://www.washingtonian.com/2020/04/13/were-short-on-
               | healt....
        
               | dlp211 wrote:
               | An article from 17 years ago reflects the PoV at that
               | time, not today. The AMA has had different positions
               | based on what they thought was best at the that time.
        
               | kaesar14 wrote:
               | If they cared about expanding access to medical care
               | they'd stop lobbying to prevent PAs and NPs from
               | providing care. A half hearted attempt to add a paltry
               | amount of residencies after 30 years of lobbying which
               | led to the state we're in now does not absolve them of
               | blame.
        
               | teh64 wrote:
               | But they are arguing in the source for more doctor
               | supply?
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | They are _blaming_ the lack of supply on something they
               | don 't control. There's a subtle difference.
        
             | teh64 wrote:
             | Even if they supply of doctors was infinite, there is still
             | the problem of demand being basically inelastic. What would
             | the incentive of healthcare providers to lower prices?
             | Inelastic demand means there is no incentive to lower
             | prices, because there is no where else for someone to go
             | and comparison/price shop. If you are hit by a bus, there
             | is no ability for price negotiation to get healthcare.
             | 
             | Also blaming "corporatism" is basically just a meme at this
             | point, because it is just used by libertarians when someone
             | criticizes capitalism. Its the same when communists say
             | "true communism has never been tried".
        
               | olalonde wrote:
               | > What would the incentive of healthcare providers to
               | lower prices?
               | 
               | In case of life or death emergencies, your insurance or
               | ambulance driver would send you to a reasonably priced
               | doctor, and doctors that charge unreasonable prices would
               | go out of business. But my guess is that life or death
               | emergencies do not account for most doctor visits.
               | 
               | > Also blaming "corporatism" is basically just a meme at
               | this point, because it is just used by libertarians when
               | someone criticizes capitalism. Its the same when
               | communists say "true communism has never been tried".
               | 
               | Well, I don't feel like arguing about semantics. Feel
               | free to call the problem I described however you like.
        
               | teh64 wrote:
               | So for life or death decisions, the ambulance driver
               | would first go on some price comparison website or ask
               | the insurance and see "ok, this person wants a doctor in
               | the $10,000-15,000 range, the closest of which is 30m
               | away. The hospital next door costs at least $50,000
               | minimum, so we will not send them there for life saving
               | medical care." And what incentive would insurance have to
               | send me to a reasonably priced doctor, when they can send
               | me to one in their network which is more expensive but
               | means they keep more money? Also, they could send me to
               | an expensive hospital and then just not pay out. These
               | are both things Obamacare tried to fix [0]. Insurances
               | want to maximize profits, which means paying as little as
               | possible themselves and extracting as much as possible
               | from customers. Your system would only work if insurances
               | had to always pay 100% of medical costs and could never
               | deny care, which is similar to how it works in Germany
               | (at least for some baseline level of care).
               | 
               | Again, what incentive would there be to lower prices? New
               | doctors could just be bought out and the prices jacked
               | up. There are a lot of industries where there is little
               | barrier to entry (for example tech), where the big
               | companies just buy anyone trying to "get in on their
               | territory".
               | 
               | Also, why would the "unreasonable prices" (what would
               | that even look like?) doctors go out of business? They
               | could just provide some kind of "luxury deluxe" ("no poor
               | people here") state of the art care for people who can
               | afford it.
               | 
               | [0] https://www.healthcare.gov/health-care-law-
               | protections/docto....
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | No, very quickly everyone would know the hospitals that
               | charge way more than the others, and not patronize them.
               | 
               | Emergency services are only like 5% of costs, anyway
               | [367]:
               | 
               | > The percentage of U.S. health spending attributable to
               | the ED has increased from 3.9% (CI, 3.9%-3.9%) in 2006 to
               | 5.0% (CI, 5.0%-5.0%) in 2016.
               | 
               | So the other 95% is more flexible. I know when looking at
               | birthing costs they could vary wildly but it didn't
               | really matter because who cares, they're all in-network
               | anyway.
               | 
               | [367] https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.137
               | 1/journal...
        
               | olalonde wrote:
               | It feels like you don't understand or don't believe in
               | free enterprise in general, not just when it comes to
               | medicine. All the theoretical issues you mention do not
               | actually occur in industries that are closer to a free
               | market.
               | 
               | There is no cost problem in "tech". In fact, many
               | services are literally free of charge. Despite Google
               | having a near-monopoly on search, it is unable to charge
               | users for it. Demand for software developers has grown
               | massively in the past decades and yet, wages have only
               | slightly gone up.
               | 
               | Anyways, I didn't mean to start a debate on the merits of
               | free enterprise. I was hoping that we could at least
               | agree that artificial limiting the supply of doctors
               | causes medicine to be more costly, regardless of the
               | economic system.
        
               | teh64 wrote:
               | I understand just fine, I just don't share the naive
               | "invisible hand" narrative. I think there are a lot of
               | places where free markets make for better products and
               | services, but not all products and markets are
               | fundamentally the same, so I believe the same
               | prescription of "just remove all limits to a free market
               | -> all problems solved" does not work everywhere.
               | 
               | But Google can charge their "actual" users, i.e.
               | advertisers quite a bit, and it is much harder to do any
               | advertising without also advertising on Google Platforms,
               | such as Search, Maps, Youtube, Adwords, etc. The wages
               | may have only slightly gone up, but the profits
               | definitely have gone up quite a bit, which shows that
               | amount of workers and their pay has little to do with how
               | much money can be made (which I believe is perfectly
               | fine, because tech is not a place where I think free
               | markets create a detriment to society).
               | 
               | I don't want to start a debate on free enterprise in
               | general, just to show that free enterprise is not a once
               | size fits all solution. My argument was just that the
               | supply of doctors has very little to do with the price of
               | medicine, because the market forces that determine price
               | and can lead to lower prices in some markets do not work
               | correctly in this market.
        
               | aksss wrote:
               | Their analogy is bad, and it's valuable to call out the
               | nuance.
               | 
               | The statement is a reaction to blaming free market
               | economics when the reality is a scenario of the opaque
               | third party payer system in a highly regulated
               | environment. Consumer gets no price transparency, state
               | regulatory boards made up of current market suppliers
               | control market entry - say what you want about it's
               | appropriateness but the US medical industry hardly
               | resembles a free market.
               | 
               | "Corporatism" may be a ham-handed way to call this out,
               | but it's not helping society to lay the medical
               | industry's problems at the feet of capitalism. This
               | problem of cronyism in markets (especially) exists in
               | communist economies as well. It's throwing out the baby
               | with the bath water.
        
           | bell-cot wrote:
           | > Doctors say they are the only profession that saves
           | lives...
           | 
           | Yeah. Because rescue workers, fire fighters, EMT's, nurses,
           | etc., etc. don't count. (As if the ways in which America's
           | medical establishment treats those people didn't make that
           | obvious enough. And the alpha sociopath in the room always
           | deserves 100% of the credit for anything good
           | happening...right?)
           | 
           | My impression is that other countries (ones not poisoned by
           | the AMA) don't have this particular problem nearly so much.
        
           | medeshago wrote:
           | I'm from Chile (and still live here). I don't know where you
           | got the idea that anybody whot wants to be a doctor can go to
           | a medical school without much effort. Medicine is by far the
           | most exclusive career that you can apply to, they're always
           | the highest scores in our version of the SAT (you can check
           | the scores that are needed for one of our universities here
           | https://www.uchile.cl/admision-y-matriculas/admision-
           | regular...). There are some private colleges that have a
           | lower entry barrier, but they're still far and above the rest
           | of the careers that you can apply to. Their salaries are also
           | ridicously higher than the rest of the population, our
           | minimum wage is 462 USD$ and a doctor can make easily 20
           | times that amount (and if you're a specialist you can make
           | way more than that). Obviously there are some cases where a
           | doctor can earn less than that, but they are in no way or
           | form just another professional.
        
             | onemoresoop wrote:
             | Yes, there are plenty of people who would work in the
             | medical field not necessarily for the big pay but because
             | of their calling, to care for the others. A lot of these
             | people can't make it through the med school gauntlet and
             | don't want to risk their mental health while in med school.
             | Plus the crazy and insanely school loans... It's a system
             | that disincentives the people with a calling and instead is
             | replaced by people who can put up and have a stomach for a
             | very complicated and inefficient system. While hospitals
             | are run by MBAs this problem will not go away.
        
             | daniel-cussen wrote:
             | Yeah but compared to American medical schools? Whole
             | different ball game.
             | 
             | 10x cheaper, and longer life expectancy.
        
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       | giarc wrote:
       | I have a form of this in other areas. Growing up we didn't have a
       | ton of money and batteries were expensive. We never had batteries
       | to replace depleted ones, so once a toy was out of batteries, it
       | was done. We just played without those features. Now, having
       | kids, I'm so conscience of batteries. I have a tester and check
       | each battery when "dead" and put them in a separate box if I
       | think they have enough juice for a lower power item. We have the
       | money to just replace batteries when we need to... I just _need_
       | to conserve them.
       | 
       | The other area is colour ink. Printing in colour as a kid was a
       | big deal. I think think I'm going to get in trouble at work when
       | I print in colour... like the massive organization I work for is
       | going to care about 5 pages of full colour document.
        
         | countvonbalzac wrote:
         | You can get rechargeable batteries.
        
       | weinzierl wrote:
       | It's more that abundance in formative years spoils you for life.
        
         | kylecordes wrote:
         | Extreme are often bad. Having either not enough, or excessively
         | much early on, lead to various irrational or otherwise
         | maladaptive behaviors later. Humans perform best in a happy
         | middle range along many axes.
        
           | april_22 wrote:
           | This is so true. The middle is the best for most things in
           | life. Too much pleasure can also mean pain
        
         | cs137 wrote:
         | Debateable. The reason rich kids turn into such pieces of shit
         | isn't material abundance (since, after all, anyone born before
         | ~1990 in the middle class also experienced material abundance)
         | but the unearned high social status and the impunity that comes
         | with it.
         | 
         | Deprivation and poverty, on the other hand, fuck people up
         | severely--often, through no fault of their own--and there's
         | tons of empirical evidence showing this.
        
           | daniel-cussen wrote:
           | Yeah and like rich kids have impunity, poor kids have excess
           | punishment meted out against them. Scapegoated a lot of the
           | time.
        
           | ponow wrote:
           | Huh? Social status is relative, that is, defined by some kind
           | of difference in a characteristic over which there is some
           | competition (like wealth, looks, connections, fame, etc.). So
           | how do you get that rich kid status without reference to
           | material abundance?
           | 
           | Remember, most people are comparatively poor: the wealth
           | histogram is heavily skewed toward zero and with a wide tail
           | toward infinity.
           | 
           | It's impossible for everyone to be relatively wealthy and
           | relatively high status. It is possible for everyone to have
           | absolute wealth (or at least income) beyond a fixed absolute
           | level, yet still widely disparate status.
        
             | oh_sigh wrote:
             | Is there a "material abundance" difference between a new
             | Benz and a 25 year old Camry? I wouldn't think so, they
             | both fulfill the same basic role and are composed of
             | approximately the same materials, but getting dropped off
             | at school in one will get you unearned social clout and the
             | other might get you unearned social derision.
        
               | ponow wrote:
               | Unless you're claiming violent seizure, then the Benz had
               | a good probability of being earned by someone, thus
               | meriting some social clout by those who value those
               | contributions. I have a pickup over a decade old and with
               | a noisy muffler, and write comments on forums like this
               | instead of, apparently, providing value sufficient to
               | afford more. It's not meritorious, and I receive and
               | deserve some derision. Well at least I don't genuflect
               | before the God of egalitarianism, so I'll accept credit
               | for that.
        
               | oh_sigh wrote:
               | In almost all situations, a high school student being
               | dropped off by parents in a fancy car did nothing to help
               | the parents earn the fancy car. In fact, generally kids
               | at that stage are a net negative on parents finances.
        
               | ponow wrote:
               | The key is that the wealth used to buy the car was earned
               | (unless evidence to the contrary is convincing). The
               | parents elected to buy an expensive car, and maybe they
               | bought their kid more expensive clothing. But can't you
               | see, that having one's child lack want is (one)
               | motivation for making the efforts to earn wealth? Suppose
               | those parents were otherwise identical (in terms of their
               | privileges), but, like you, decided that such
               | differential wealth displays were to be shunned. Not
               | needing those displays caused them in part to lose
               | motivation to obtain wealth, and thus lose motivation to
               | perform the efforts that would lead to that. So they
               | produce less. Great, now the people who can produce the
               | most are encouraged to produce less. Try selling that to
               | the people who will now be more poor as a consequence.
               | 
               | Instead of clipping the knees of the productive, realize
               | that envy can encourage the unproductive to imitate the
               | habits of the productive to themselves become productive.
               | We all benefit indirectly thereby.
        
               | googlryas wrote:
               | I never claimed the wealth was unearned - I said it was
               | unearned _by the high school student_ who is gaining
               | clout from it.
               | 
               | > but, like you, decided that such differential wealth
               | displays were to be shunned. Not needing those displays
               | caused them in part to lose motivation to obtain wealth
               | 
               | I don't think you'll find any evidence to support this.
               | No one decides that since they don't need a Benz to show
               | off, that they would like to live in a hovel and work
               | until they are 75.
               | 
               | > Instead of clipping the knees of the productive,
               | realize that envy can encourage the unproductive to
               | imitate the habits of the productive to themselves become
               | productive
               | 
               | An equally plausible scenario is that the envy leads
               | unproductive people to spend every last penny they can
               | earn on the displays, leaving them in a much worse
               | financial position than someone who eschews the displays
               | and invests their money in productive enterprises.
               | 
               | edit: just realized I posted this from my phone which has
               | a different account signed on...opsec fail, just a heads
               | up googlryas=oh_sigh
        
       | crikeyjoe wrote:
        
       | Grustaf wrote:
        
       | mathgladiator wrote:
       | I grew up and watched Enron implode with stories of life savings
       | going poof. That influenced me to sell every vesting round which
       | is averaging. This strategy always haunted, but thankfully my
       | performance made up for it.
       | 
       | With the recent crash, the stock went down over 50% and it turns
       | out that my strategy yielded me an average loss of 22% from peak.
       | 
       | I feel like it is more optimal to have those scars to be cautious
       | earlier than later. That being said, there is also a truth in
       | taking more risks earlier in life.
       | 
       | There is a balance to be achieved.
        
       | ffggvv wrote:
       | scarring consumption is probably a good thing at an individual
       | level as most people are reckless with money
       | 
       | but the way our society is built we need people to consume to
       | keep the economy afloat
        
       | jmyeet wrote:
       | Let's extend this a little further.
       | 
       | If we accept that events in life can scar or even just affect you
       | for life (as this article claims) then why stop there? These
       | people have children. Do you think that habits that form out of
       | trauma, housing insecurity, food insecurity or were in fear of
       | their lives don't subconciously impact their children?
       | 
       | We don't even have to imagine that. We have _physical_ evidence
       | that the conditions a woman faces can impact her grandchildren
       | [1]. Remember that a cis-woman is born all the ova she 'll have
       | so pregnancy conditions can affect grandchildren.
       | 
       | But even if you ignore the physical, you'll find cultural and
       | psychological effects on children from people who, say, fled a
       | war zone or survived the Holocaust or whatever.
       | 
       | If you accept all that you've then accepted that generational
       | trauma is real (which it is).
       | 
       | So what do you think that slavery did to people long after
       | chattel slavery (officially) ended?
       | 
       | [1]: https://www.science.org/content/article/moms-environment-
       | dur...
        
         | krapht wrote:
         | At least from the conversations I've heard about this topic,
         | the issue isn't acknowledging that slavery and Jim Crow has
         | caused problems for generations of blacks. The problem comes
         | when measures to address it are discussed, like reparations or
         | quotas. People see it as monumentally unfair because, while
         | being black is a handicap, it's only one of many that are too
         | endless to enumerate. For example, there is no affirmative
         | action for poor whites who grow up in broken homes. There is no
         | affirmative action for simply having parents who are a standard
         | deviation below the population in IQ. Insofar as student spots
         | at high-tier institutions go, here poor whites see favorable
         | action to benefit blacks when they themselves never played a
         | part in their oppression. Black, well-spoken immigrants from
         | Nigeria who never experience discrimination in their home
         | countries get benefits merely by dint of their skin color, and
         | not actual suffering.
         | 
         | Even if you limited it to some way to only US blacks who could
         | prove lineage to an actual enslaved individual, suffering is
         | difficult, if not impossible, to quantify. So... why action on
         | this topic is politically impossible. I think color-blind
         | welfare policies based on economic resources would be much more
         | feasible, but... good luck raising taxes to increase the size
         | of the welfare state.
        
       | refurb wrote:
       | ""Those who came of driving age during the oil crises of the
       | 1970s drive less in the year 2000," the paper found. The doubling
       | of gasoline prices in the late 1970s saw that generation drive
       | 3.6% to 8.7% less than those born earlier or later"
       | 
       | I can't find the paper, but when they say "born earlier or later"
       | are they still looking at rate of driving in the year 2000?
       | 
       | If so, aren't they just comparing ages? People born earlier or
       | later would just be younger or older in the year 2000, which
       | likely impacts driving too.
       | 
       | Oh economics! You keep calling yourself a science, but you need
       | to start acting like one!
        
         | anamexis wrote:
         | Presumably if it was just based on age, the effect would be
         | fairly uniform, instead of correlated to periods of price
         | shock.
        
         | bilgames wrote:
        
         | NickRandom wrote:
         | Link to Full paper
         | https://cseveren.github.io/files/FormativeExperiences_Paper_...
         | if that helps?
        
           | refurb wrote:
           | Maybe I'm going nuts but it looks like they used 2000 US
           | Census data on driving, so yes, they only looked at that
           | year.
           | 
           | They are literally comparing people who are older and younger
           | with the cohort in question, so confounding results with how
           | driving changes at various ages.
        
             | JumpCrisscross wrote:
             | > _it looks like they used 2000 US Census data on driving,
             | so yes, they only looked at that year_
             | 
             | The first major sentence under data:
             | 
             | "The decennial census asks questions about commuting mode
             | and time. 'Journey to Work' questions appear in the 1980,
             | 1990, and 2000 censuses, and in the American Community
             | Survey (ACS) (Ruggles et al. 2020). We use data from these
             | three censuses, as well as the 2006/10, 2011/15, 2016, and
             | 2017 ACS" [1].
             | 
             | Confirmation bias much [2]?
             | 
             | [1] https://cseveren.github.io/files/FormativeExperiences_P
             | aper_... _bottom of page 6_
             | 
             | [2] https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confirmation_bias
        
               | refurb wrote:
               | It must be my years of reading shoddy economics studies
               | that created that bias.
        
               | superhuzza wrote:
               | Given the exchange that just happened, are you sure they
               | were all so shoddy? ;)
        
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