[HN Gopher] Productivity porn
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       Productivity porn
        
       Author : triplechill
       Score  : 278 points
       Date   : 2022-08-03 18:21 UTC (4 hours ago)
        
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       | FredPret wrote:
       | I recently read The Focal Point and The One Thing. While these
       | are tangentially related to productivity porn, they finally
       | allowed me to let go of optimizing my work methods and focus on
       | the one or two important things every
       | day/week/month/year/lifetime.
       | 
       | Stress levels: plummeting.
       | 
       | Output (& happiness) much, much higher, far more than 10x before
       | 
       | Optimized work methods: I now print out a very short to-do list
       | for each business I work in. A literal printout from Notepad or
       | Apple Notes.
       | 
       | "Productivity": trending towards zero
        
         | sdoering wrote:
         | Have these books on my list. I feel you would recommend them?
        
           | FredPret wrote:
           | 10/10, yes.
        
       | hahnbee wrote:
       | It's the lesser of 2 evils. At least I'm learning when I'm
       | consuming content that surrounds my work/lifestyle goals rather
       | than just mindlessly scrolling through content that doesn't help
       | me at all.
        
         | Syntonicles wrote:
         | Agreed. This thread is filled with people who are confusing
         | "consuming productivity content" with "actively being
         | productive". It is one thing to discount reading blogs about
         | time-tracking, efficiency and scheduling _instead of_
         | implementing it in your daily life. It is quite another to
         | discount the habits of productive people. To write those off en
         | masse is to ignore the very real and obvious gradation of
         | effectiveness we see in those around us.
         | 
         | There are two counter-points that are often dismissed. The
         | first is that if you haven't encountered the concepts, you
         | aren't likely to stumble upon them without searching. Learning
         | to plan and organize your behavior is no different from
         | learning the fundamentals of any other skill.
         | 
         | The second is precisely your point. Our thoughts and behaviors
         | are driven by context. Given a person reading a blog about
         | time-tracking and a person who-knows-where on an infinite
         | social media scroll, who is more likely to close their browser
         | and do whatever they feel is most important? I know who I would
         | bet on.
        
           | Apocryphon wrote:
           | I think there is truth to the idea that someone who is
           | actually implementing these systems, even half-heartedly, is
           | at least putting in some effort towards whatever their goals
           | is. However, I don't think the following is so clear-cut.
           | 
           | > who is more likely to close their browser and do whatever
           | they feel is most important? I know who I would bet on.
           | 
           | Immersing oneself in productivity lifehacks is often a good
           | way to _feel_ productive without actually being so. So I
           | don't think either person stands to have a greater chance
           | than the other towards getting back to work.
        
       | Kosirich wrote:
       | I wonder if people with (adult) ADD are more susceptible to this.
       | Same as the author, I would like to hear the story of someone
       | breaking the cycle for good.
        
         | Ensorceled wrote:
         | I think the cure is to find a couple of systems that work and
         | "settle" on them and stick to them.
         | 
         | I have settled on the idea of "Minimal Viable Day" and "Minimal
         | Viable Week" ... what are things that, if I did those things
         | AND NOTHING ELSE, I would consider the day and week a success.
         | 
         | Friday afternoon, I create a MVW todo item with 2-3 important
         | things in it for the next week. Every morning I create MVD todo
         | item with several things in it (often a bunch of smaller items
         | and one or two largish items).
         | 
         | Everything else goes into the todo list and is ignored until
         | the next MVD/MVW checkpoint.
         | 
         | Now I ignore all other "productivity hacks" and focus on doing
         | this one.
        
           | Kosirich wrote:
           | Thanks for sharing. I understand what you mean and I'm
           | currently doing something similar...again. What I (often)
           | lack is the steps needed to go from a more complex long term
           | project to MVW/MVD tasks and then sustaining that in the long
           | run. I'm currently looking into ways of hacking this, this
           | being the dopamine cycle.
        
             | Ensorceled wrote:
             | I've been doing SCRUM for a long time ... it's pretty
             | natural for me to break down projects into smaller pieces
             | that fit into a 1 week or 2 week cycle.
        
         | alexalx666 wrote:
         | my ADD is coupled with being obsessive, this combo works
        
         | kstrauser wrote:
         | I know I am. The catch is that I _have_ to do at least a little
         | bit of this if I want to not be homeless. I 've settled on the
         | Things app with something that looks vaguely like GTD if you
         | squint:
         | 
         | - I have an inbox. _Everything_ I agree to do that I can 't do
         | in the next couple of minutes goes in there. "Buy dogfood".
         | "Paint the house". "Do a thing for work". Everything.
         | 
         | - I triage the inbox and put starting dates on everything I
         | can't do right now (like "buy a Christmas ornament") so that
         | they'll show up on my daily to-do list when the time comes.
         | 
         | - I review everything weekly, add stuff I've forgotten, and
         | delete things I've finished or abandoned.
         | 
         | And that's about it. Thing is, without this system, I can't and
         | won't remember to do any of the things I need to. It doesn't
         | matter how important it is to me to make sure I buy an
         | anniversary card for my wife: I'll forget until it's too late.
         | The above is how I walk the line between "letting my life fall
         | apart due to disorganization and forgetfulness" and "wasting
         | time optimizing a fancy process".
        
         | thenerdhead wrote:
         | I'm writing a book on this(in my bio). I don't claim to have
         | broke the cycle, but I discuss the challenges of my generation
         | in it.
        
       | petecooper wrote:
       | _adds to Safari reading list, later files to `to read` bookmarks_
        
       | zeroonetwothree wrote:
       | I think it's equally unhealthy to be obsessed with being
       | productive 100% of the time.
        
         | triplechill wrote:
         | Agreed, the trick is finding the balance. Personally still
         | figuring how to do that.
        
       | nicbou wrote:
       | Here is a really pleasant video with a similar message:
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sz4YqwH_6D0
       | 
       | A writer writes. A painter paints. You are not defined by what
       | you want or prepare for, but by what you _do_.
       | 
       | On the other hand, you don't have to spend every waking hour
       | being productive. You can go on a bicycle ride without measuring
       | speed and distance. You can work on things that won't develop
       | into income streams. Not everything has to be about the hustle
       | and the grind.
        
         | BolexNOLA wrote:
         | >You can go on a bicycle ride without measuring speed and
         | distance.
         | 
         | It's kind of wild how people need metrics - myself included -
         | in order to feel like they _did_ something. I have been really
         | trying to address that in my own life after I found it had
         | creeped so far into my daily life that it was influencing _what
         | video games I play_. I mean...what?
         | 
         | I blame it on the fitbit I got years ago haha
        
       | rr888 wrote:
       | I wonder how many "successful" people actually read this stuff.
        
       | owow123 wrote:
       | "im not productive" === "im not happy / socially isolated and my
       | self esteem is low" this statement probably holds true for 99%
       | who "relate" to this shite.
       | 
       | Stop lying to yourself, more work wont make you happy - It didnt
       | the first time.
       | 
       | There is no easy fix, disabling social media wont fix it. Most
       | gains of that nature are short lived.
       | 
       | For real results its long term work on yourself and changes to
       | your environment (I'm just getting started on my journey of
       | solving this dont take it from me, talk to people > 10 years old
       | than you or read a philosophy book > 500 years old)
        
       | therealasdf wrote:
       | I unsubscribed from Ali Abdal's youtube channel for this same
       | reason. I have the utmost respect for him and I'm amazed at how
       | well he manages his life. However, i always felt anxious after
       | watching his videos. This video to be exact made me feel like
       | shit and made me decide I should unsubscribe
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tQSKyvjsUuI
        
       | travisgriggs wrote:
       | I'm gonna go read an article about how to be a better stoic now.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | jedberg wrote:
       | I disagree with the premise. I think the things you learn reading
       | that tweet or that medium post can be useful. There were
       | definitely times when I ran into a problem and thought to myself,
       | "Hey I remember reading about this on Hacker News, how did they
       | solve it?" and then going back and finding the post and finding a
       | solution to my problem.
       | 
       | There is also the notion of being able to make better decisions
       | with more "connection material" in your mind. The more you know,
       | the more likely you are to make a novel connection.
       | 
       | I consider reading HN and the like part of building up that
       | library.
        
         | epolanski wrote:
         | The point isn't expanding your knowledge, but doing so when
         | there's other priorities.
        
           | jedberg wrote:
           | But priorities are just a personal preference and ever
           | shifting. Sure sometimes there are external forces driving
           | our priorities, like needing to finish a work project to get
           | paid, bur once you've taken care of those, it's totally
           | reasonable for "knowledge acquisition" to be at the top.
        
       | a9h74j wrote:
       | The article itself explores the analogy to porn more deeply than
       | the usual offhand reference to productivity porn, particularly
       | with reference to energy-sapping and demotivating effects.
        
       | redanddead wrote:
       | While reading this story it felt like we are subscriber()
       | functions to social media's eventemitters. Like we're all hooked
       | up to this larger system
        
       | ericmcer wrote:
       | If you peruse instagram accounts that post tutorials of how to do
       | things (cooking, art, engineering, etc.) you will quickly realize
       | that there are thousands of positive comments and likes on
       | instructional videos that teach things completely wrong. Anyone
       | attempting to follow the video would be baffled. This article
       | definitely comes up with a good term for the phenomenon behind
       | the success of those videos.
        
       | Barrin92 wrote:
       | The biggest issue with the whole productivity porn thing is that
       | it's fundamentally 'midwit' activity. Genuinely novel work, by
       | definition cuts through existing things, brushes them away and
       | produces something that is new. Tending to your knowledge gardens
       | and note taking tools and reading blogs and whatnot is just
       | busywork.
       | 
       | People who built real things generally do so because they have
       | the will to do it, not because they have 500 pages of investment
       | advice collected on Notion.
        
       | 999900000999 wrote:
       | Life advice, self help, etc, all of it is too general to be
       | helpful to anyone.
       | 
       | What works for a 46 year old married mother of 3 probably won't
       | be what works for a 23 year old tech nerd.
       | 
       | You have this obsession with becoming some type of super human
       | who can do things vastly beyond your peers.
       | 
       | Sure the average 30 year old living in LA will never buy a home.
       | 
       | That doesn't concern you super elite hustle bro. Hustle so hard
       | you have 3 houses, 2 lifted trucks, and a dog who can speak basic
       | French.
       | 
       | Most of us are by definition average. Actual life advice for our
       | above character would be to move somewhere with affordable
       | housing, only buy a lifted truck if you have cash, etc.
       | 
       | No body wants to read.
       | 
       | "Fix your life over 18 to 24 months by making difficult choices"
       | 
       | People want.
       | 
       | "Fix your life in 3 weeks, only takes 30 minutes a day"
        
         | notsapiensatall wrote:
         | You keep saying "lifted truck" like it's something to aspire
         | to, but aren't pickups dirt cheap in the US?
        
           | trebbble wrote:
           | God no. Even before the recent huge bump in car prices.
           | 
           | They're very _common_ , but not cheap.
           | 
           | They're either actual work trucks built to do real work (so,
           | not cheap) or are status symbols (so burning cash is part of
           | the point--also not cheap).
           | 
           | Like with anything, you can save buying used, but I don't see
           | very many older trucks around these days. Dunno if a lot got
           | taken off the roads with Cash for Clunkers, or if rising gas
           | prices made older trucks less appealing so a bunch got
           | scrapped, or what. Seems like _most_ trucks I used to see
           | were older, but since they got more popular for normal
           | drivers, even one visibly 7-8 model years old is pretty
           | unusual. Less so out in the sticks, but near the city, it 's
           | almost all fairly-new trucks.
           | 
           | The people who really want to show off can get trucks that
           | approach six figures, retail. Not some custom job, that's in-
           | demand enough that it's a normal trim level they make.
           | 
           | Any extra stuff done to a truck after purchase is _sometimes_
           | about functionality but _most cases you see_ will be
           | conspicuous consumption instead, including lift kits. Tons of
           | them are on trucks that 'll rarely leave pavement--they're
           | the same as fancy, expensive rims or whatever.
           | 
           | [EDIT] Cheap (relatively cheap, anyway) light trucks _used
           | to_ be a thing, like in the 90s and earlier, but are damn
           | near not made at all, anymore.
        
           | jjice wrote:
           | New pick ups are pretty expensive, at least from my
           | perspective. A baseline F150 starts at 40k-ish. A decked out
           | one could run you near double that I believe.
           | 
           | Compare to a baseline Civic at around 23k.
        
             | notsapiensatall wrote:
             | Wow. People are really paying $80k for an F-150?
             | 
             | Every time I think I can't get any more cynical, life
             | throws a curveball like that.
        
               | BolexNOLA wrote:
               | Many pickup trucks in the US are basically luxury
               | vehicles akin to a high end Mercedes or BMW.
        
               | philk10 wrote:
               | wait til you hear about the waitlist for the F-150
               | Lightning...
        
               | pugets wrote:
               | I worked with a guy who spent $55k on a new truck. We
               | were both making $18 an hour. He was in his early 20s
               | living with his parents.
               | 
               | That was in 2017... I wonder if he's still paying it off.
        
       | mustafabisic1 wrote:
       | Love it, and totally felt this myself. That's why I created a
       | newsletter for remote working parents. To be on the creation side
       | and as least as possible on the consuming side.
       | 
       | https://thursdaydigest.com/
        
         | ChildOfChaos wrote:
         | Your solution to productivity porn is to create more
         | productivity porn?
        
           | mustafabisic1 wrote:
           | Everything about this post seems to be like that lol There is
           | something to it for sure. Thanks for the comment, you cracked
           | me up :D
        
       | aaaaaaaaaaab wrote:
       | Cool! Added this to my Notion board!
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | LordHeini wrote:
       | I really don't get any of those "be more productive", book,
       | video, course and so on.
       | 
       | Every single person I know just wastes their time with that.
       | Usualy they work long hours and still don't get much done.
       | 
       | But hey, they have Zettelkasten with things the never read. A to
       | do list with stuff they never do. And they go out in the morning
       | at 5 for jogging, while gulping down a liter of coffe or energy
       | drinks which results in them being groggy the whole day.
       | 
       | If you ever think you need to adhere to what is preached in any
       | self improvement thing, just don't.
       | 
       | Habe your shit in order, avoid working mor than 7 hours day and
       | take your weekends and vacations seriously.
       | 
       | Especially in IT nothing will get you further than being smartly
       | lazy.
        
         | tamsaraas wrote:
         | You don't understand how the trick works. I am a person who
         | fell for the bait thrown by info / "guides" sellers.2010-2015 -
         | peak in my life of productivity. I was able to do damn a lot of
         | things altogether. Fix challenging and complex bugs, implement
         | modern and crazy stuff, etc.
         | 
         | And my hobby project (game) became popular. Unfortunately, I
         | did not use any GTD / todolists, etc. Maybe a tiny todo program
         | like qtodotxt because it's small, and I am too greedy to pay
         | for todoist.
         | 
         | But since the end of 2015 - I have noticed how slowly I was
         | starting to do smaller and smaller amounts of work. I was just
         | sitting and can't push myself to continue with the previous
         | speed of results. Not because things become more complex, but
         | because I can't explain to myself what is going on.
         | 
         | More tasks on the todo, more things to do, more promises
         | freaked off, etc. And after googling for a better todo tools,
         | ads networks got my interest and started to offer through
         | youtube and ads different promoted videos about GTD, matrix
         | Gunzenhauser or how it is called, and other stuff.
         | 
         | Tons of really nice made videos, which work like popcorn for
         | brains. Do X to get the Y result. Extremely easily explained
         | things and procedures. I followed this bullshit and dug in
         | because someone else was thinking for me, not me myself. I did
         | not realize that at that point in time.
         | 
         | I think this is extremely important to bold: I was not ready to
         | even try to think or understand that I want to job done not by
         | me but by someone else. This is an important thing, please try
         | to remember it, I will get back to it later.
         | 
         | In 2016 -> I started to learn different methodologies, follow
         | different literature and books which do the same, and around
         | the end of 2016, I got a strict understanding that this is
         | business. Literally structured business which makes by
         | themselves via tricks and manipulations with information and
         | reasons <-> results relations which force idiots like me follow
         | it, purchase more to get something that never will work. But
         | you are forced to purchase and learn more because you can't
         | make the thing work because it's impossible to make the
         | thing/methodology work. Because the methodology sucks. Because
         | it's made for business more. Like drugs -> while you read all
         | of that bullshit and believe in that -> you feel good, when you
         | trying to do something - you feel pissed off. And you face some
         | kind of addiction.
         | 
         | God bless, I met some girl in 2019, which was suicidal, and was
         | hospitalized and treated by psychiatrists. She told me -> "man,
         | the thing that you have this is typical symptoms of depression,
         | try to visit doctor."
         | 
         | I was denying that thing for damn a long time, maybe two years
         | for sure. The problem with depression - is that the thing you
         | can't beat alone. You will always go deeper and deeper to
         | darker and more problematic things which impossible to cure
         | yourself. That does not work like that.
         | 
         | Anyway, finally, when I worked in 2020 for only two weeks in
         | the whole year, I strongly realized something extremely bad
         | with me. I tried damn everything, just imagine everything that
         | you can or who suggest you something: nothing helped. Literally
         | everything (relax, changing work, changing friends circle,
         | restriction of something X, doing something Y, whatever). Does
         | not matter.
         | 
         | Just save your time and nerves - do not listen to anybody like
         | me. So, in 2021, I slowly got a strong wish, like when you are
         | hungry or want water, but that wish is about to die. This
         | feeling follows you every single day, every single thing. If
         | somehow you got a conflict / emotional problem -> boom, you
         | wanna die. No, this is not a "pissed off" thing. This thing is
         | about 3,2,1 - jump from a window. No jokes here. Crazy shit.
         | 
         | Anyway. Somehow after one of such days when I almost committed
         | suicide -> I visited a doctor. Diagnosed with the latest stage
         | of depression (it's when people kill themselves), and got
         | offered to be hospitalized, and so on. I refused that, and I
         | got pills to drink and talked with psychiatrists for a few
         | months (until the war started).
         | 
         | So. What do I want to say to you? After starting to visit
         | doctors who treat depression with pills + I tried to fix my
         | problems with professional specialists in a clinic -> I started
         | to feel better.
         | 
         | My libido because of pills -> goes down. But my intellectual
         | potential -> go up in 2016-2015 years. I was able again, for
         | almost a month, non-stop work, work great, did tons of a good
         | job, and be productive.
         | 
         | I did not follow any tools, methodology, etc. I just had an
         | inner power to do that. I got it back. Some kind of will.
         | 
         | So why do I write all of that? I hope my post helps many IT
         | specialists like me (who feel burned) to understand those head
         | problems -> it's common problems, and these problems are
         | treated and help damn a lot to return back the previous level
         | of productivity of your nature.
         | 
         | It will not boost you over your limits, but correct treatment
         | will help you cure the source of your wasted will.
         | 
         | Just stop jerking for GTD / kanban / scrum / other bullshit.
         | All of that shit does not work and should not work. Just
         | abstraction, which will make life harder. If you feel extremely
         | overwhelmed, can't do things in time, or lose your focus, or
         | can't force yourself to work as you worked before ->, visit
         | your doctor.
         | 
         | Pills are not costly, and treatment in the early stages too.
         | And results - damn awesome.
        
         | doix wrote:
         | > Especially in IT nothing will get you further than being
         | smartly lazy.
         | 
         | One day I'll finish my "self-help" book which is all about
         | doing as little as possible and leaving everything until the
         | last minute in case it resolves itself. Unfortunately, I listen
         | to my own advise and will probably never finish the book.
        
           | barking_biscuit wrote:
           | Reminds me of that line from that movie "you and your stupid
           | mate" where the guy ignores the letter and doesn't open and
           | he says something like "If I wait 5 days and then open it, if
           | it's bad news then that's 5 extra days of happiness that I
           | got that I wouldn't have got if I opened it now".
           | 
           | Can't fault that logic.
        
           | lkschubert8 wrote:
           | The JIT Productivity Method. You'll have it written just as
           | soon as someone goes to read it.
        
             | JacobThreeThree wrote:
             | Schrodinger's productivity.
        
             | paulryanrogers wrote:
             | You jest but didn't the guy who wrote "The Martian" do it
             | one blog post at a time?
        
           | Sinidir wrote:
           | What the hell. Why are you stealing my idea? I've been
           | working on this for 30 years. Its about 10% done. I'll do the
           | rest next weekend.
        
         | ozim wrote:
         | There is a joke:
         | 
         | Boss is stepping outside of brand new BMW - good morning Joe,
         | you see that brand new BMW, if you keep working hard and make
         | more hours I will get new one next year!
        
         | stingraycharles wrote:
         | Being more productive rarely leads to a happy and fulfilled
         | life. It's often precisely those moments in life when I'm on my
         | least productive, that I look back on as if I really lived.
         | 
         | Of course, be mindful of your time, but learn how to use it
         | wisely, rather than optimizing for "productivity" as observed
         | by others.
        
           | SoftTalker wrote:
           | Always needing to be "productive" or busy can be a sign that
           | you're avoiding something else in your life. The classic
           | example is the workaholic who is hiding from the reality that
           | he doesn't like spending time with his spouse or family.
           | Instead of confronting and solving that problem, he runs away
           | from it by working 60 hour weeks.
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | bobthechef wrote:
        
           | baby wrote:
           | I wouldn't put it this way. I think sometimes life gets into
           | the way of my work, and that's not a bad thing, and sometimes
           | work gets into the way of my life, and I get shit done and
           | feel good about it as well.
        
           | lmm wrote:
           | > Being more productive rarely leads to a happy and fulfilled
           | life. It's often precisely those moments in life when I'm on
           | my least productive, that I look back on as if I really
           | lived.
           | 
           | Hmm, I've had the opposite experience.
        
           | throw149102 wrote:
           | I think we might just have different definitions of
           | productive. To me, writing code or reading a paper can be
           | productive, but so can a conversation with my dad or a nice
           | meal out. Basically I see "Productivity" and replace it with
           | "Productivity towards producing more personal utility" where
           | that utility can be anything - happiness, relaxation, actual
           | goods and services, etc.
           | 
           | Furthermore, I think putting on the hat of "productivity" can
           | sometimes reveal unusual things. Like how a conversation with
           | a friend is just repeating the same old dreary boring stuff,
           | and if you put a little effort in you can have a more
           | "productive" conversation.
        
         | xkcd1963 wrote:
         | It's nice to be able to live ones potential through. This
         | desire seems to stem from observing others "oh, could I
         | eventually accomplish the same, or reach the same level?". It
         | seems to me though genuine happiness can also be found through
         | other means.
        
       | nvch wrote:
       | It's like fishing or hunting for somebody. Only a few pieces of
       | information will be today's catch (if I'll be lucky today), but
       | the hunting time is well spent anyway.
        
       | TrackerFF wrote:
       | Hustle and grind. Create 7 streams of income. Work 18 hour days -
       | anything less and you're a loser destined for mediocrity. Read 5
       | books a week. Start trading stocks and crypto. Take cold showers,
       | hit the gym. Optimize your schedule, log every minute spent.
       | Ditch your loser friends and only hang out with likeminded -
       | success breeds success. Sigma grindset. Moon or bust. If you're
       | not worth $1 million liquid before 30, cut off your finger and
       | work even harder. Analyze your productivity and always look for
       | places to cut fat.
        
         | fastbenz wrote:
         | that's why I'm Doraemon now
        
         | bryanrasmussen wrote:
         | I believe the last line is supposed to be 'A pig in a cage on
         | antibiotics.'
        
         | Yajirobe wrote:
         | Reminds me of this awesome video - The Hustle:
         | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_o7qjN3KF8U
        
           | weakfish wrote:
           | This is my all time favorite video to show people
           | 
           | > "Check robinhood. All red, just as I expected."
        
           | Trasmatta wrote:
           | The videos on that channel are so good that they're painful
           | to watch, when you realize how closely it matches the life
           | you're living.
           | 
           | This one is my favorite (or "least favorite" depending on how
           | hard it hits on any given day):
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DYvhC_RdIwQ
           | 
           | I feel like the people doing that channel could write a very
           | effective modern Office Space.
        
             | omginternets wrote:
             | The last minute of him stammering on the zoom call makes me
             | want to hide under the bed.
        
             | willcipriano wrote:
             | My favorite: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FDoH15ylAeo
        
             | easton wrote:
             | The most recent one, "Leadership Sync", pops into my head
             | in pretty much every meeting I've had in the last two
             | weeks: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1RAMRukKqQg
        
             | the_af wrote:
             | This video is hilarious (like many on that channel). What
             | cracks me up is the little jokes you can miss unless you
             | pause some frames, like
             | 
             | "...but not before I read my blogs" --> "What Ancient
             | Mayans Can Teach You About Living Your Best Life"
             | 
             | "and journal about creativity" --> "sleep retrospective,
             | epiphanies: 0"
        
             | colpabar wrote:
             | it is insane to me that this channel is being discussed
             | today because literally 2 days ago it was recommended to me
             | on youtube.
             | 
             | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y8OnoxKotPQ
        
           | cercatrova wrote:
           | The one about microservices is incredible:
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y8OnoxKotPQ
        
             | wizofaus wrote:
             | Gold!
        
             | jamil7 wrote:
             | 2 Years later I still have trouble watching this one, hits
             | too close to home for an old job I had.
        
               | epolanski wrote:
               | Reminds me when I had to sort some payments FE-wise which
               | was a very trivial array sort (there was at most 50
               | payments per page, nothing impactful performance-wise) on
               | a json array which had a timestamp value, but CTO got
               | involved with this triviality for some reason and started
               | blabbering of how business logic had to be on the
               | backend.
               | 
               | I literally had a working feature branch in 10 minutes,
               | but it ended up being a 6 weeks job involving architects,
               | devops, 3 backend engineers to have a microservice
               | implemented in GO (which basically no backender knew) to
               | handle those payments sorting. I'm not kidding.
               | 
               | I didn't got a promotion to staff engineer or architect
               | few months later because CTO was fixated with "micro
               | services experts" which basically consisted of anyone
               | putting Go on their CV and having an AWS certification.
               | 
               | The guys hired were so sweet, they would spend like
               | months repeating in the daily every day they were doing
               | analysis and understanding our architecture, just to
               | produce after 8 weeks a pdf of few pages with their in-
               | depth analysis of Kafka vs RabbitMQ which was basically a
               | summary of their landing pages lol.
               | 
               | I love the information economy.
        
               | [deleted]
        
             | WelcomeShorty wrote:
             | So... that's me. FCUK. I really need to listen to these
             | "work life balance" types more.
        
           | xivzgrev wrote:
           | "Read Marcus Aurelius - meditations. didn't understand shit"
           | 
           | LOL
        
           | jkereako wrote:
           | Thank you for this.
        
           | TrackerFF wrote:
           | The real deal folks
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EjfwxZcsKoI
        
             | t00ny wrote:
             | Ouch
        
             | badpun wrote:
             | Wow. This is literally poison for the mind and soul.
        
             | jedberg wrote:
             | I honestly can't tell if this is satire or not.
        
             | Apocryphon wrote:
             | When I read "24 year old CEO" I think of Hinton:
             | 
             | http://www.smashcompany.com/business/what-happens-when-
             | the-b...
        
             | BolexNOLA wrote:
             | The real Patrick Batemen folks
        
             | BbzzbB wrote:
             | The funniest part about this video is how he gets
             | absolutely nothing done professionally except read two
             | emails. Driving around to flash his expensive (leased) car
             | doesn't count.
        
               | omega3 wrote:
               | Isn't this a satire?
        
               | BbzzbB wrote:
               | Not intentionally anyway. If it was intentional, it was
               | to grab attention (like include a mistake in a tweet),
               | but it seems serious and on-brand for an
               | influencerpreneur.
        
               | trebbble wrote:
               | These kinds of windows into a life explain how some
               | entrepreneur/CEO types can be owner and/or CEO of like
               | three businesses, on the board of a couple others, in
               | some kind of advisory role on a couple startups, and so
               | on, and still always seem to be starting or trying to get
               | a hand in some new thing: it's because they don't really
               | do jack shit.
               | 
               | Meanwhile the peons get an anti-moonlighting clause and
               | absurd claims over any work done in off-hours.
        
               | 8f2ab37a-ed6c wrote:
               | Nothing says you're a successful high-impact CEO like
               | having a camera crew following you around all day as you
               | work out twice and eat salad.
        
             | neilv wrote:
             | Finally, an innovation in dating site profiles!
        
             | dominotw wrote:
             | kept waiting for the punchline that never dropped.
        
           | shepherdjerred wrote:
           | I stumbled upon these guys in NYC! They've got the most
           | relatable videos.
        
         | grudg3 wrote:
         | I read this in my head like the intro to Trainspotting.
        
           | R0b0t1 wrote:
           | Fitting, overwork is a coping behavior for some people. Just
           | like taking drugs is for others.
        
         | owow123 wrote:
         | 18 hours a day? Telsa ran on 4 hours sleep, stop slacking.
         | 
         | Putting you on PIP for this attitude, not very "big org"
         | mindset.
        
           | the_af wrote:
           | You can shave some slacking off time by skipping lunch and
           | dinner and instead chugging some Silicon Valley energy drink
           | mix, marketed with a fancy name.
           | 
           | Wasting time with meals is for unsuccessful losers!
        
         | dvfjsdhgfv wrote:
         | Sounds like the beginning of a Radiohead song.
        
         | Suro wrote:
         | Fitter happier
         | 
         | More productive
         | 
         | Comfortable
         | 
         | Not drinking too much
         | 
         | Regular exercise at the gym (3 days a week)
         | 
         | Getting on better with your associate employee contemporaries
         | 
         | At ease
         | 
         | Eating well (no more microwave dinners and saturated fats)
         | 
         | A patient, better driver
         | 
         | ...
        
         | codyZ wrote:
         | I think that I actually 'L - O - L' at most three times a year
         | when reading on my computer. "cut off your finger and work even
         | harder." is the best one yet!
        
         | MuffinFlavored wrote:
         | I get that this is satire but could you expand on why people
         | who want to be healthy + productive "have it wrong" (which I
         | feel your satirical comment alludes to?)
         | 
         | You're "taking the piss" at people who value working hard/long
         | hours, reading, trying to be successful financially, taking
         | care of their health/fitness, cutting ties with loser friends
         | (drug addicts? bums?)
        
           | matsemann wrote:
           | It's not that any one of them is wrong. It's overdoing them,
           | or doing them all at once to the detriment of the others.
           | 
           | Or more likely: the image being put forward isn't even real,
           | because it's not enough hours in a day to do them all.
        
             | MuffinFlavored wrote:
             | > doing them all at once to the detriment of the others.
             | 
             | a situation comes to mind
             | 
             | a father who has to ignore his wife + children because he's
             | addicted to "the grind/hustle" of working 12+ hour days and
             | traveling... so he can make money... for his wife +
             | children
             | 
             | is there true net detriment in that case? i'm sure the wife
             | + children appreciate the extra income?
        
               | 0xFF0123 wrote:
               | It depends, there's obviously a happy medium between the
               | two extremes. Optimising for family happiness, sure.
               | Optimising for making money and expecting that to return
               | family happiness, probably not.
        
           | Swizec wrote:
           | It's like people who spend so much time optimizing their
           | perfect productivity system that it doesn't leave any time
           | for doing the things. Their entire life is about managing the
           | productivity system.
           | 
           | Talking about the work !== doing the work. 9 times out of 10
           | you're better off doing something, anything, than worrying
           | about productivity. Go _do_ stuff.
           | 
           | Doing every productivity hack and good habit in something
           | like Ferris's Tools of Titans is literally a full time job if
           | not more.
           | 
           | I have the same critique for note taking porn.
        
           | epolanski wrote:
           | There's nothing wrong in it, if taken lightly and in a
           | healthy positive manner.
           | 
           | I think he's parodying the extreme fixation with one's
           | productivity.
        
           | ravenstine wrote:
           | Not who you're replying to, but the problem I see with
           | productivity porn is that it completely ignores the luck
           | involved in success. We all have agency, but some people will
           | work more hours and take more ice baths than everyone else
           | and still end up poor and irrelevant. Some people are better
           | off realizing they don't have "it" and taking a more relaxed
           | approach to life.
        
           | eptcyka wrote:
           | Valuing hard work, reading and trying to be financially
           | successful is something completely unrelated to trying to do
           | 18 hour work days, skimming several books a day, and running
           | the hamster wheel off the peg and into the frying pan. Hard
           | work is often what is required to be successful, but just
           | mindlessly toiling away is not the key ingredient to success.
           | 
           | Also, what good is a friend who wouldn't come to your aid in
           | the hardest of times?
        
             | MuffinFlavored wrote:
             | > Valuing hard work, reading and trying to be financially
             | successful is something completely unrelated to trying to
             | do 18 hour work days
             | 
             | Are you trying to say "it's easy to be financially
             | successful by working 8 hours a day instead of 18 hours"?
             | 
             | like... it's "overstated" that people think they need to
             | "work more/work harder" to become successful?
        
               | lmm wrote:
               | Easy, no. Easier, yes. People absolutely overvalue
               | putting in more time/effort, which actually has pretty
               | poor returns.
        
           | CSMastermind wrote:
           | Some people who push these values on social media care way
           | more about the image of being a "successful person" than
           | actually doing what it takes to achieve success (which rarely
           | involves bragging about how hard you work on social media).
           | 
           | They're at best untrustworthy sources and at worst snakeoil
           | salesmen.
           | 
           | Speaking of the latter there's a special brand of cognitive
           | dissonance being shown here.
           | 
           | If there were some surefire way to be rich and happy, etc. in
           | a very short period of time. A system so simple that anyone
           | could follow it then why doesn't everyone?
           | 
           | If you really believe that these habits would make anyone
           | successful then you have to explain why everyone isn't doing
           | it.
           | 
           | And they convince others and themselves that it's because
           | most people aren't willing to do what it takes. They won't
           | sacrifice their comfort or friends or whatever to the point
           | that it takes to be successful.
           | 
           | If you do all these things are still aren't rich and retired?
           | Well it must mean you haven't sacrificed enough or worked
           | hard enough or whatever!
           | 
           | The real answer is that none of these habits are a guarantee
           | of success. Are they good ideas? Sure! Like for sure eat
           | healthy, get enough sleep, read books, and work out.
           | 
           | Like everything though there are tradeoffs, often on your
           | time, and moderation can be the key for most people. There
           | are other inputs into your success and there's no one size
           | fits all plan that works for everyone.
        
             | MuffinFlavored wrote:
             | > Some people who push these values on social media care
             | way more about the image of being a "successful person"
             | than actually doing what it takes to achieve success (which
             | rarely involves bragging about how hard you work on social
             | media).
             | 
             | Devil's advocate but
             | 
             | you can measurably tell if you are financially successful
             | (from working hard/long hours) and our healthy fitness wise
             | (from going to the gym/eating clean/going for a run/etc.)
             | 
             | you can also measurably tell if you are in a good headspace
             | from meditation/yoga/reading
             | 
             | I'm the first person to poop on people who "do it for the
             | Gram" but...
             | 
             | Most people I know who post about being successful are the
             | same people who wouldn't want their image hurt by being
             | caught in a lie.
             | 
             | aka... they aren't really "fronting", they are really
             | "about it" when it comes to living a "let's talk about it"
             | lifestyle
        
               | Retric wrote:
               | It's really tempting to assuming the things you think are
               | important are what actually result in success. Nobody
               | sees all the possible lives they could have had.
               | 
               | Daily jogging seems like a healthy choice when you
               | wheren't hit by a car etc etc.
               | 
               | Add in all the actual lying and it's easy to get an
               | incredibly distorted view of reality.
        
               | MuffinFlavored wrote:
               | Avoiding jogging (in lieu of gaining obesity/any various
               | degree of issues that come from lack of exercise) in fear
               | of getting hit by a car seems irrational, wouldn't you
               | agree?
               | 
               | You should strive for "perfect". If "perfect" is healthy
               | and healthy means go for a run (with risks), you have to
               | weigh it against the alternative (don't run, be
               | unhealthy).
        
           | BolexNOLA wrote:
           | The guy spends so much time optimizing every minute of his
           | day that he's functionally not "living."
           | 
           | Also notice he has literally _no_ human interaction.
        
             | MuffinFlavored wrote:
             | what do we define as living?
             | 
             | i have many friends who swear it is more fun to work than
             | to "sit around watching netflix/hang out with friends
             | passing time/drinking alcohol"
        
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           | ziddoap wrote:
           | Parent poster is referring to the people that take "healthy
           | and productive", condense it, distill it, then shoot it into
           | their veins.
           | 
           | At some threshold it becomes an obsession, which is not
           | great.
        
             | MuffinFlavored wrote:
             | why would anybody want to be unhealthy and unproductive?
             | what is to be gained from those two characteristics?
        
               | gedy wrote:
               | The opposite of these people is not necessarily
               | "unhealthy and unproductive".
        
               | the_af wrote:
               | I don't think that's a reasonable take on the comment
               | you're replying to.
               | 
               | The answer to mindless obsession with health,
               | productivity and success fads for entrepreneurs is not to
               | become unhealthy and unproductive.
               | 
               | Though, on that note, what do these "productivity" and
               | "success" even mean? Why is being extremely productive a
               | worthy goal? Leisure is good, too.
        
               | maximus-decimus wrote:
               | Fun. The answer is fun.
               | 
               | But obviously, it's not that you have fun eating because
               | you're unhealthy, it's that you're unhealthy because you
               | eat stuff for enjoyment.
               | 
               | Similarly, being unproductive isn't fun in itself, but
               | having fun means almost by definition not being
               | productive. If a hobby is productive, it's not really a
               | hobby.
        
               | samatman wrote:
               | There is a whole world of lucrative fun out there.
               | 
               | One thing about a livelihood though: it's never fun all
               | the time.
               | 
               | The same is true of many serious hobbies however.
               | 
               | Fun certainly doesn't have to be productive, nor is it an
               | antonym.
        
               | smiddereens wrote:
        
           | leokennis wrote:
           | I'm not qualified to comment on the health factor. In general
           | striving to be healthy is good, no contest there.
           | 
           | But regarding working those long and hard hours (which then
           | cannot be spent on other things) maybe we should heed the
           | advice of the dying:
           | 
           | https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2012/feb/01/top-
           | fiv...
           | 
           | > 2. I wish I hadn't worked so hard. > > "This came from
           | every male patient that I nursed. They missed their
           | children's youth and their partner's companionship. Women
           | also spoke of this regret, but as most were from an older
           | generation, many of the female patients had not been
           | breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted
           | spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work
           | existence."
        
             | MuffinFlavored wrote:
             | For anybody who is just scrolling by and not clicking any
             | links:
             | 
             | Top five regrets of the dying
             | 
             | 1. I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to
             | myself, not the life others expected of me.
             | 
             | 2. I wish I hadn't worked so hard.
             | 
             | 3. I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings.
             | 
             | 4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
             | 
             | 5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.
        
               | borroka wrote:
               | This list has been circulating forever, following the
               | publication of the book, and I believe they should be
               | called "top five very theoretical and after the fact and
               | with no empirical evidence they are regrets and they
               | would do something different if in the same position of
               | the dying".
               | 
               | Now, think of those who like to eat until they are full,
               | those 7k calorie meals. There are many such cases,
               | especially in the United States. After such a large meal,
               | which would frighten weaker stomachs, if they were asked,
               | "Do you regret eating like that?" they would almost
               | certainly say yes. But they would do it again tomorrow,
               | some would say because they have a medical condition,
               | others because they love to eat and don't mind having
               | problems with walking, diabetes, and all the assorted
               | ailments that go hand in hand with overeating, or
               | alcohol, or any combination of the two.
               | 
               | In a moment of tremendous weakness, of fear of crossing
               | the Acheron, when asked "do you regret working so hard?"
               | even the laziest worker the world has ever seen, the
               | anti-Stakanov, would say, "yes, I do, it's one of my
               | biggest regrets."
               | 
               | Some of my friends did not continue studying after middle
               | school and sometimes say, "I would have/should have
               | continued studying," regardless of the fact that at that
               | time they were not inclined to open a textbook even with
               | a gun pointed at their head. But in their minds, if they
               | had a chance to go back in time and armed with motivation
               | that they did not have at the time, they would study, of
               | course they would. But they only like the idea, not the
               | action. They are the same people. And it's the same for
               | those five regrets, the "if I had $10 million, I would
               | give $9.5 million to charity." But they don't have that
               | $10 million.
        
               | lupire wrote:
        
         | throw149102 wrote:
         | I mean this is funny but this isn't at all what the post is
         | about. What it means by "productivity porn" is only
         | tangentially related with the hustle sigma male trillionaire
         | grindset stuff.
        
         | baal80spam wrote:
         | > Work 18 hour days
         | 
         | ...and meditate the other 6.
        
           | ourmandave wrote:
           | Ultimate life hack:
           | 
           | 1. Dude, move to Venus where a day is 5,832 hours.
           | 
           | 2. Become a 10,000 hour expert in less than a weekend bro!
           | 
           | 3. Profit!
        
         | mellosouls wrote:
         | You are Andrew Tate and I claim my five pounds.
         | 
         | Or Russ Hanneman.
        
         | abledon wrote:
         | dont forget to use discountcode huberman at athetlic greens
        
           | ghostbrainalpha wrote:
           | I really like Athletic Greens though....
        
             | nickstinemates wrote:
             | I don't. Tastes like shit.
        
       | mise_en_place wrote:
       | I guess I take a different approach than the author does. I waste
       | several hours a day on such social media consumption, but I don't
       | delude myself into thinking I was productive. If anything, it
       | lights a fire under me because I wasted so much time, and that
       | gives me a productivity boost to finish the things I was supposed
       | to do.
        
       | quickthrower2 wrote:
       | He seems to conflate learning with productivity porn. Doing a
       | course or even a short gym video is fine if (a) you sought it out
       | to solve a problem and (b) you apply what you have learned.
       | 
       | Even serendipitous "I will learn that interesting thing on HN" if
       | done with purpose and diligence is fine.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | thenerdhead wrote:
       | While this term gets overused, I think what we're really saying
       | is that we're addicted to success. Or the idea that we will be
       | successful if we are overly productive.
       | 
       | If you watch many of the people on social media who are
       | "productivity gurus", you will notice that their philosophy of
       | how to stay productive will shift as the content gets stale and
       | they need something more novel to talk about with their growing
       | audience. Many of them are just like you and me and cover the
       | latest bestseller book or popular tweet that has merit to it, but
       | then gets discarded after we realize it doesn't work in our
       | lives.
       | 
       | In turn, they also become wildly successful by providing you
       | surface level tips on how to be a little more productive each
       | day.
       | 
       | While I used to be obsessed about this topic or what others call
       | "hustle culture", I think you have to go through it before you
       | realize how finite one's life really is. The overworking, the
       | "always on"-ness, the comparison to others who happened to reach
       | success earlier than us.
       | 
       | It all doesn't matter at the end of the day. The simplistic
       | perspective is that you can take common occasions and make them
       | great and you'll find success or at least a better understanding
       | of your definition of "success".
        
         | googlryas wrote:
         | > Or the idea that we will be successful if we are overly
         | productive.
         | 
         | I find this one the most fascinating. It implies a supreme
         | confidence in the correctness of one's beliefs, which I simply
         | have never had. As if to say, the only thing stopping my
         | success is my ability to drive faster, but without any doubt
         | that you're actually on the right road, heading the right
         | direction, etc...
        
         | truncate wrote:
         | I've come to realize that there is some kind of wisdom on not
         | caring too much about outcomes, being in present and keeping
         | things simple. For a long time, I believed in exactly opposite,
         | success, over-optimize - whatever I do do it right way. Until
         | during COVID, I found myself doing so many things, music,
         | fitness, coding, photography, and later dating -- and you can
         | constantly find endless amount of advise and new ways to do
         | things on YouTube, while not realizing you are getting mentally
         | exhausted. Trying to stay more in present, and keeping things
         | simple now -- not to succumb to the mass-marketing campaign of
         | whatever that something on internet usually is (most times it
         | is marketing something, be it some product or themselves).
        
           | thenerdhead wrote:
           | Exactly. I firmly believe that there's even a paradox to all
           | this. The less you care, the more successful you can be.
           | Almost like Office Space.
           | 
           | Doing a few things very well is what separates you from
           | someone who does a hundred things not well at all.
           | 
           | Attention is your most previous resource and it's stolen from
           | us everyday by others when we should reclaim it for ourselves
           | and those few things that we're passionate for.
        
       | bilater wrote:
       | Meta point: Reading this article was productivity porn.
        
         | wizofaus wrote:
         | But reading the comments has made my day, some zingers and
         | great references to other resources of genuine comedic value I
         | hadn't seen before.
        
         | sdoering wrote:
         | > Meta point
         | 
         | Meta porn
        
           | redanddead wrote:
           | I was listening to Zuckerberg's internal Facebook memo to
           | employees and they're really going all out on VR, they think
           | it'll go big, trying to generate monopolistic effects by
           | subsidizing their VR hardware so that more people buy in, and
           | buying VR studios.
           | 
           | Porn. Just give people meta porn
        
             | notsapiensatall wrote:
             | They can't. The money is in ads, and advertisers won't
             | touch anything that isn't family-friendly.
             | 
             | A startup might be able to do a decent job, but they would
             | get booted off the app store faster than you can say a
             | four-letter word.
             | 
             | Too bad there's no good way for users to write and run
             | arbitrary code on their devices.
        
             | ChildOfChaos wrote:
             | Yet they just increased the cost of the quest by $100
        
               | redanddead wrote:
               | Just checked, yeah you're right! Wonder why
        
             | [deleted]
        
         | ketzo wrote:
         | Only if you don't follow its advice!
        
         | triplechill wrote:
         | I love this :D
        
         | atmosx wrote:
         | busted
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | personjerry wrote:
       | I think for content like this there's a scale between mostly
       | "feel good" fluff (i.e. Gary V stuff, imo) to mostly "useful"
       | stuff (i.e. Atomic Habits, imo). But everything has a mixture of
       | actionability and story-based fluff thrown in there
       | entertainment/inspirational value.
       | 
       | In my opinion, the fluff gets you through the drier parts of the
       | reads. But what you decide to actually take out of the book and
       | action on - that's up to you.
       | 
       | You turned it into mere entertainment when you read but didn't
       | take action, for example, clean up your desk to enable your
       | habits to begin, as clearly described in the Atomic Habits book.
       | 
       | The good reads you'll probably need to note down and return to a
       | few times to extract all the useful, concrete advice.
        
         | jbjbjbjb wrote:
         | That's an interesting distinction. I think the in-between is
         | the worst. At least with Gary V you know you're getting energy
         | and motivation. Another YouTube video skimming over lessons
         | from Atomic Habits for the hundredth time is the mindless faux
         | learning to avoid.
        
       | bckr wrote:
       | Darn, this is completely true. I feel like such a techie when I
       | scroll HN and hoard links for later perusal. In fact I feel so
       | much better than I did about the same time spent on FB or Reddit.
       | But I'm still not putting that time into constructive pursuits.
        
         | alexalx666 wrote:
         | what helped me is having a filing system I can trust and tinker
         | with, check out linkding on github
        
           | amelius wrote:
           | Perhaps we should write down the things we _really_ learned
           | from reading HN, so we can decide later if it was worth the
           | time.
        
       | macrael wrote:
       | I can't find an online article where Merlin Mann discusses this
       | but I remember very vividly him talking about why he stopped
       | posting on 43Folders.com a decade ago. 43Folders was a GTD
       | productivity porn site and after while Merlin decided that he
       | didn't want to be "giving drugs to addicts" and stopped posting
       | little "5 ways to write a better task title" articles for all the
       | same reasons OP is writing about here.
        
         | dougskinner wrote:
         | Here ya go, one of my all time favorites of his:
         | https://www.43folders.com/2011/04/22/cranking
        
           | macrael wrote:
           | A beautiful piece, thank you. But this is more about him
           | prioritizing family over his book. It must have been on a
           | podcast I remember him talking about how he kind of had a
           | crisis of faith over running 43folders and stopped doing
           | little "life hack" posts.
        
       | Oarch wrote:
       | You've discovered the motivational industrial complex. I think
       | this nicely sums up the content of many magazines.
        
         | goatcode wrote:
         | I was disheartened when I read about all these successful
         | people and their lofty advice. I was more disheartened when I
         | realized their advice is just the random stuff they happened to
         | do that on their path to success, and that equivalent advice of
         | the myriad failures that complement them would never be heard
         | (and that both were of approximately equal value). Despite how
         | in the overmind the notion of "correlation is not causation,"
         | this snake oil is surprisingly only beginning to go out of
         | fashion.
        
           | thenerdhead wrote:
           | I like to read self-help. I think it can actually change your
           | life.
           | 
           | The problem is finding actual good self-help. Most stuff is
           | garbage or dives too deep into a specific topic.
           | 
           | One of my favorite authors is Orison Swett Marden
           | (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orison_Swett_Marden) who
           | writes well-rounded self-help and founded a magazine
           | ironically called "Success". There's also Samuel Smiles who
           | wrote the original title called "Self-Help".
           | 
           | If you go back in time far enough, you will come to the
           | conclusion that most self-help stems back to certain
           | influences at the time. You can go as far back as to the tao
           | te ching, meditations, or even the bible. Not much of this
           | stuff changes, but is repackaged with modern examples of
           | successful people into bestsellers.
        
             | robocat wrote:
             | One friend calls them "self harm books" because the vast
             | majority are harmful overall - sold as part of the self-
             | harm-industrial-complex.
        
             | WastingMyTime89 wrote:
             | > You can go as far back as to the tao te ching,
             | meditations, or even the bible.
             | 
             | The Tao Te Ching with the adjonction of its commentaries is
             | a book on Confucian moral and ethic. The Meditations is a
             | journal and also mostly a book about ethics. I think
             | linking them to modern self-help books is somewhat
             | disingenuous.
             | 
             | I deeply believe that if people actually stopped reading
             | self-help books and read books about ethics instead the
             | world would definitely be a far better place. "How to live
             | a life worth living?" is after all a far more interesting
             | question than "How to do the most of your life?".
        
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           | heavyset_go wrote:
           | Most of the "advice" is just stuff some ghostwriters came up
           | with that sound good and fit into whatever image those people
           | want to publicly project.
        
             | prometheus76 wrote:
             | Goes back to Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. That
             | book really started the "self-improvement" movement.
        
           | ozim wrote:
           | You say you were disheartened.
           | 
           | I bought and read Robert Kiyosaki - Rich Dad Poor Dad
           | followed with Donald Trump - The Art of the Deal.
           | 
           | After reading these I felt worse than at the time I was
           | actually mugged on the street. I think I paid like $20 for
           | both books and muggers got something like $15 I had on me.
        
           | swyx wrote:
           | the irony is that they are just giving the audience what it
           | wants - a causal formula for success. a guy just saying "i
           | got really lucky" over and over would get no readership.
        
         | smiddereens wrote:
        
       | 8f2ab37a-ed6c wrote:
       | I would recommend
       | https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/54785515-four-thousand-w...
       | as an interesting counter-argument to all of the productivity
       | literature out there.
        
         | emadabdulrahim wrote:
         | I listened to his short lectures on the Waking Up app. Really
         | enjoyed them and clicked for me. I wonder if it's still worth
         | reading the book.
        
       | someweirdperson wrote:
       | > "Whether you are doom-scrolling on Instagram" [...]
       | 
       | This most likely isn't intended to be reading a never-ending
       | stream of bad news (on instagram?), but simply an endlessly
       | scrolling site that keeps loading content before reaching the end
       | of the page. The wiktionary definition [0] seems wrong.
       | 
       | [0] https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/doomscrolling#English
        
         | californical wrote:
         | I think that people use it hyperbolically rather than literally
         | in that context -- the original meaning is correct, but people
         | use the word in an exaggerated context to make a point
        
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       | biztos wrote:
       | One of the original, and most effective, competition hacks is to
       | convince people that you sleep less than they do.
       | 
       | When someone tells you they sleep 5 hours a night then run two
       | miles and take a 15-minute cold shower then start their work day,
       | 85% of the time they are lying, 10% of the time you will have
       | already noticed the effects of chronic sleep deprivation, and 5%
       | of the time it's drugs.
       | 
       | But this has been a surefire way to put your competitors on the
       | back foot for hundreds, probably thousands of years.
        
       | the__alchemist wrote:
       | Where's the line? Watching self-help content is described in the
       | article as productivity porn. What about reading a self-help
       | book? A (let's say good quality) non-fiction book? A scientific
       | paper? A text book? Taking a class? Working on a project that is
       | likely to fail? Writing code? Writing an article? Writing a book?
       | 
       | > When I look for solutions to this problem I only come up with
       | half-baked ideas and more questions.
       | 
       | It sounds like the author's talking about science.
        
         | Ensorceled wrote:
         | If you are spending all your time "sharpening your saw" and no
         | time "cutting wood" ... you are probable over the line.
        
         | sdoering wrote:
         | I think in the end the question is what the result is. Does the
         | self help content prompt action, ideally sustainable action. Or
         | is it porn as described.
         | 
         | Like porn could be a tool for people to engage in
         | (re)productive action. Or just porn.
        
         | ketzo wrote:
         | I think the easy rule of thumb is "do you ever actually _do_
         | the thing you read about?"
        
           | cpach wrote:
           | I like to read about lots of things. Urban planning,
           | manufacturing, arts, culture, movies, politics, etc etc.
           | 
           | Am I a manufacturer? Do I make oil paintings? Do I direct
           | movies? Am I an elected officiel? No. I'm in tech, doing
           | programming and sysadmin things. I'm a small cog in the whole
           | scheme of things. Still interesting to read about what's
           | going on in other fields. Nothing wrong with that IMHO.
        
             | ketzo wrote:
             | Agreed - but by the same token, I don't think you would
             | call any of that reading "productivity-related," right?
             | 
             | Whereas if I, a software engineer, read 100 articles about
             | micro services and make a bunch of grand plans without ever
             | actually implementing anything... pornography.
        
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