[HN Gopher] Silicon Valley offices less empty than other regions
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       Silicon Valley offices less empty than other regions
        
       Author : gumby
       Score  : 88 points
       Date   : 2022-12-29 15:41 UTC (7 hours ago)
        
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       | api wrote:
       | Wasn't it a supply constrained market before? So now there is
       | just a bit of slack but less than other markets they were
       | previously less crazy.
        
       | xchip wrote:
       | Sales people always claim their product is in high demand. Same
       | here.
        
       | jayzalowitz wrote:
       | Longer term leases.
       | 
       | Its gonna hit hard before 2030.
        
         | randomopining wrote:
         | You mean they aren't gonna renew en masse?
        
         | bushbaba wrote:
         | Disagree Silicon Valley is home to many hardware, medical, and
         | other industries which require labs or equipment that requires
         | in person work.
        
       | softwaredoug wrote:
       | This is what makes modern Nimbyism even more destructive.
       | 
       | We're heading to a new urban death spiral. With no commuters and
       | empty office building. Residential density could salve some of
       | the issues that creates for cities. But nimbyism will of course
       | prevent that, and leave cities the decaying while stodgy citizens
       | delay any solution and argue against density.
        
         | ViViDboarder wrote:
         | No commuters? What city are you referring to? In SF, Muni is
         | packed along my commute to the city. Probably there's not as
         | much commuting, but there's certainly quite a bit.
         | 
         | Also, more dense housing actually usually means less commuting.
         | That's one of the reasons I generally support it. People living
         | closer to work means less commute time resulting in less carbon
         | as well.
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | My observation in Boston is that driving in by car at rush
           | hour is as bad as it has ever been. Commuter rail ridership
           | seems to be significantly down relative to pre-pandemic so
           | some of the traffic probably comes from that, but it's still
           | very heavy so a lot of people are obviously still commuting
           | in.
        
           | gumby wrote:
           | I think we could easily go back to the days (not so long ago)
           | when SF was a bedroom community for SV and working in SF was
           | the reverse commute. SF could become a fun place to live and
           | play again.
        
       | banach wrote:
       | I am still waiting for companies to realize that offices in the
       | pre-pandemic sense are a completely unnecessary expense, a drag
       | on productivity and a competitive disadvantage for the
       | organizations that keep clinging on to this idea. It's easy to
       | talk about the importance of meeting face-to-face, when you
       | ignore the opportunity cost of enabling this versus scaling down
       | to more up-to-date spaces that make things like workshops, larger
       | meetings and pair programming truly comfortable, and reinvesting
       | the savings into higher salaries and other benefits. Are the
       | management teams in our industry just waiting for someone to pull
       | the trigger, or are they hoping that no-one will do so, and that
       | everyone will just forget that the pandemic taught us how
       | meaningless commuting to work is?
        
         | dragonwriter wrote:
         | > I am still waiting for companies to realize that offices in
         | the pre-pandemic sense are a completely unnecessary expense, a
         | drag on productivity and a competitive disadvantage for the
         | organizations that keep clinging on to this idea.
         | 
         | When their top investors and board members are often also top
         | investors and board members of the firms that own the
         | commercial real estate, it may be hard for them to come to that
         | realization.
        
         | kcplate wrote:
         | I am waiting for the exact opposite. I love WFH, my team loves
         | WFH. All of us will tell you how much more productive we are
         | and Individually we might be. As a team...we are definitely not
         | more productive and no one wants to say that uncomfortable part
         | out loud.
         | 
         | Sooner or later that truth will trickle upwards and we will all
         | be back to a commute and cubicles.
        
           | CapmCrackaWaka wrote:
           | > Sooner or later that truth will trickle upwards and we will
           | all be back to a commute and cubicles.
           | 
           | This very might well be the case for your company. However,
           | globally, there are advantages for the employer, and
           | disadvantages for the employee that need to be accounted for.
           | I believe we will start to see salaries diverge between
           | remote and in-office work to adjust for whatever particular
           | situation the company is facing.
           | 
           | Advantages for Company: - A lower salary can be offered. -
           | Employees are less Geo-constrained - Less office space to
           | rent
           | 
           | Disadvantages for Employee: - Harder for junior employees to
           | learn - Social isolation - Lower salary is possible
           | 
           | The situation is likely to be variable from company to
           | company, I have a feeling that soon "remote work" will be an
           | integral part of the identity of each job posting.
        
           | bitcharmer wrote:
           | So you're saying everyone is more productive when WFH
           | individually, but somehow the team as a whole isn't.
           | 
           | Could you please explain how that works?
        
             | HDThoreaun wrote:
             | Maybe just a management issue, but my team is full of
             | people being really productive at their pet project. When
             | it comes to accomplishing business goals, less so. An
             | effective team needs to effectively work together, and that
             | largely is not happening with remote.
        
               | bitcharmer wrote:
               | I understand but having worked across multiple remote
               | teams something tells me it's not WFH to blame, rather
               | how it's implemented in your company.
               | 
               | We're doing exceptionally well and my friends from other
               | tech shops have similar experience.
        
       | qqtt wrote:
       | Seems like the entire WFH/RTO conversation is based around
       | feelings, anecdotes, and personal opinions. For every person
       | saying WFH has been a game changer, you have a person saying RTO
       | is essential for some reason or other.
       | 
       | This is one of the few times I've seen the entire tech sector
       | basically collectively raise their hands and give up on any form
       | of data driven analysis, and go whole turkey into personal
       | conviction as the only guiding factor.
       | 
       | This seems like an area ripe for assessing with metrics. FANG
       | companies onboarded hundreds of thousands of employees over the
       | past 2 years, in addition to their existing workforce. And yet, I
       | haven't seen any CEO anywhere give a compelling case one way or
       | the other with data backed conclusions.
       | 
       | This entire conversation just devolves into "trust me bro"
       | anecdotes and personal opinion, even at the CEO level. It is
       | downright bizarre to me.
        
         | nickfromseattle wrote:
         | This is a good point.
         | 
         | What kind of metrics do you think could be used to evaluate WFH
         | versus in-office productivity? Any initial ideas on the pros &
         | cons of the metrics you would use?
        
         | nitwit005 wrote:
         | General strategies for how to manage employees have always been
         | driven more by gut feeling and emotion than anything else.
         | 
         | People rarely asked for data before adopting "agile" practices,
         | for example. Often they tweaked those practices in ways that
         | would have invalidated any data anyways. They just hopped on a
         | trend.
        
         | benatkin wrote:
         | Probably a good thing to ask ChatGPT.
        
       | AntiRemoteWork wrote:
       | [dead]
        
       | spritefs wrote:
       | What's this? An SV newspaper posting copium about office space in
       | SV?
        
       | sylens wrote:
       | I wonder how much of this might be due to every member of a team
       | being more likely to work out of the same office in a SV located
       | company than in other companies.
       | 
       | The reason I've been so bullish on remote work coming out of the
       | pandemic is because multiple jobs I had before the pandemic were
       | very much remote jobs, with the added requirement of having to
       | perform them from an office building 45-60 minutes away from me.
       | My team was distributed across New York, Florida, Texas, and
       | California, so all of our meetings were using Teams or Zoom
       | anyway. The fact that I had to ride a train twice a day just to
       | take those zoom calls from a local office was always an
       | annoyance.
        
         | gumby wrote:
         | > The fact that I had to ride a train twice a day just to take
         | those zoom calls from a local office was always an annoyance.
         | 
         | This. My gf's company mandated back to the office in mid
         | January 2022 so she went in on the first day...and was the only
         | member of her group to do so. In fact most of the group was in
         | other locations anyway, so she just zoomed from work that day.
         | 
         | I remember even before that, working for FAANG the office
         | complexes were so big that most of her meetings ended up on
         | Zoom anyway even if the participants were elsewhere on the same
         | campus.
        
         | nerdponx wrote:
         | > The fact that I had to ride a train twice a day just to take
         | those zoom calls from a local office was always an annoyance.
         | 
         | This exactly. I was already working more or less remotely
         | before the pandemic, but from an office 1 hour from my
         | apartment. I often worked from home anyway and nobody noticed
         | other than my manager, who usually was also working in a
         | different office from me (1 hour drive away) but who insisted
         | that I come into the office whenever possible. Covid gave me
         | the chance to stop wasting my time and energy on the train just
         | to keep up appearances for the person who did my annual
         | performance reviews.
         | 
         | My current job is a bit different. Our team is "global", but
         | several of my coworkers actually work in the office near where
         | I live, so going into the office is actually a nice experience.
         | Also my commute is 1/3 what it used to be, which helps.
        
         | NikolaNovak wrote:
         | Same here. My teams are primarily in Ottawa and Halifax, as
         | well as Toronto, Calgary, Edmonton, and few stragglers all over
         | the place. Going to office will allow you to talk in person to
         | some of the people but ends up creating massive insulated
         | islands. Remote has put us all on same page and made us
         | communicate, resulting in pervasive awareness.
         | 
         | Operationally we are distinctly more effective remote and I
         | shudder for the inevitable return to office where it'll be "you
         | guys in Halifax can't see this on the 1993 broken polycom
         | speaker phone, but Claus is drawing an updated architecture.
         | Sorry you can't hear him he's also far from phone, we'll catch
         | you up later " (they never do)
        
         | Tade0 wrote:
         | I'll do you one better: I've been in a project where our PM was
         | in South Carolina, the bulk of the team in Poland and our
         | single Indian teammate phoned in from Hyderabad.
         | 
         | We were all working remotely at the time, but before the
         | pandemic the Polish team would commute to the office.
        
           | scruple wrote:
           | I ran a team where myself and the TPM were local in SoCal, QA
           | was remote in NorCal, and developers were in Texas, Chicago,
           | Argentina, and the Netherlands. It worked surprisingly well
           | but that boiled down to 80% having the right set of
           | personalities.
        
       | hnburnsy wrote:
       | Just saw on CNBC that San Francisco office vancancy was 3.7% in
       | Q4 2019 and just hit a record 27.2% for Q4 2022.
        
         | gumby wrote:
         | San Francisco is the worst performer in this report.
         | Unsurprisingly, Silicon Valley is doing much better than SF.
        
       | cadence- wrote:
       | Most office leases are for 5 to 10 years periods. I'm not
       | surprised they are not seeing huge changes yet. It would be more
       | interesting to find out how much of that space is actually
       | occupied by meatbags. Most offices I went to this year were
       | basically empty chairs.
        
       | yardie wrote:
       | Ahem, "the average amount of space per lease is decreasing across
       | all types of commercial property."
       | 
       | Fewer, new commercial projects going up, and smaller office
       | sizes. Vacancy is down if you count the number of leases signed
       | and not the size of the property. So still going down.
        
         | gumby wrote:
         | The actual linked report does the calculation by area, not
         | lease count.
        
       | huntsman wrote:
       | The vacancy rate of offices looks low because the big tech
       | companies are still "occupying" them, but if go into many of them
       | and they still look like ghost towns. Much more that offices in
       | other locations.
       | 
       | This feels unsustainable.
        
         | lazide wrote:
         | It definitely is unsustainable. A lot of wil-e-coyote running
         | off the cliff type of stuff going on. And hey, maybe some
         | places will connect with a cliff on the other side. But I
         | wouldn't want to be in the commercial real estate space right
         | now.
         | 
         | About 90% of every office and co-working space is empty now,
         | all day, every day here. It's only slightly busier than during
         | Covid when it was 99%.
         | 
         | Light industrial and retail (strip mall type stuff) is doing
         | well and super busy however.
        
           | macNchz wrote:
           | Here in NYC I've been to a couple of coworking spaces in the
           | past 6 months and was surprised to find them downright
           | bustling, I had trouble finding a quiet space to work. There
           | are definitely serious problems in commercial real estate
           | here, but the coworking situation was unexpected to me.
        
             | bart_spoon wrote:
             | The thing about coworking is that, for employees at least,
             | it is an actual solution to some of the problems with
             | remote and in-office work, as opposed to the "hybrid" model
             | which manages to be the worst of all worlds. With
             | coworking, you can still have more flexibility to live
             | where you'd like as opposed to being bound to a specific
             | office and the often high COL and long commutes that come
             | with it. Coworking allows one to still separate their home
             | from their office, which some prefer, and it also allows
             | employees to get out of the house and engage with others,
             | socialize, and engage with their community/city, but you
             | aren't forced to do this at your work which will always be
             | tainted by the financial implications of the
             | employee/employer relationship that loom over it all.
        
             | blevin wrote:
             | One succesful mode of applying coworking spaces seems to be
             | less for heads-down focus time and more for periodic get-
             | together time for teams. These spaces seem not very good as
             | a full-time micro-office due to the noise issues you
             | mention... but as a place to go whiteboard or empathize
             | they seem quite useful. Bonus if there are nearby
             | interesting excursion options, food courts, recreation,
             | etc. and multiple easy-ish commute options. Part of
             | economic development seems to be exploring options for how
             | to dis- and re-aggregate services like this, providing more
             | and smaller transitions across the tradeoff landscape.
        
               | lazide wrote:
               | Makes sense. I'm in the middle of finding a standalone
               | office so I can do actual meetings and be productive, but
               | it's tempting to keep the co-working space for exactly
               | what you describe. One day here, another day there type
               | of thing for when those things are helpful.
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | A business writer friend of mine told me a month or so ago
           | that, based on a sampling of key swipes, office occupancy is
           | down about a third compared to pre-pandemic although I'm sure
           | it varies a lot.
        
             | gumby wrote:
             | From the article this appears to be the case for san
             | francisco (20+% vacancy) but not for Silicon Valley.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | Although commercial occupancy rates are a different
               | measurement from how many seats are filled on an average
               | day.
        
               | lazide wrote:
               | Yeah, re: my 'lights are on, but nobody home' anecdote
               | from the peninsula - I'm specifically referring to butts
               | in seats. Said seats are currently very relaxed and well
               | aired out compared to typical.
        
             | 0cf8612b2e1e wrote:
             | About a third or to a third? Regardless, at my place of
             | work ("hybrid"), I would be shocked if badge swipes were
             | 10% of pre-pandemic levels.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | I can't find the reference but, as I recall it was a drop
               | from 65% pre-pandemic (that may seem low because pre-
               | pandemic a lot of people still traveled or otherwise
               | weren't in the office on a typical day) to around 40%
               | these days. I'm told my workplace is quite a bit lower as
               | well.
        
           | toomuchtodo wrote:
           | Colloquially this was known as "extend and pretend" during
           | the GFC.
        
           | gregmac wrote:
           | My office (near Toronto) was up for lease renewal about 1.5
           | years ago. Pre-pandemic about 50% of people were working from
           | home at least some of the time, and by 2021 there were maybe
           | 2-3 people in the office regularly (in a space that could
           | easily have 45). The company was debating what to do but did
           | want some physical space, and possibly would have just stayed
           | considering the investment in build-out, networking
           | (including at least a rack of internal servers and other
           | infrastructure, with dedicated fibre to other company
           | datacenters), video conference rooms, etc. What I heard was
           | the building was trying to nearly double the rent, so this
           | made a pretty easy decision and the place was closed. Servers
           | were migrated to other locations, and everything else was
           | shipped to other offices, given to employees, sold or
           | scrapped.
           | 
           | Now it's 6 months later, and last time I drove by it still
           | has our old sign up, and I can see online the entire space is
           | still available to lease. Seems silly to risk it in the
           | current market and take $0 instead of keep a quiet,
           | established tenant.. but what do I know.
        
         | slaw wrote:
         | There are malls empty for 20 years, offices could be also empty
         | for 20 years.
        
           | modeless wrote:
           | Those malls don't have paying tenants while they're empty
           | though. Big tech companies aren't going to keep paying leases
           | they don't need forever.
        
             | KerrAvon wrote:
             | They are if they have contracts specifying that the must do
             | that. Or possibly can negotiate a payout, but I imagine it
             | won't be cheap.
        
               | ffggffggj wrote:
               | Musk is doing this now by holding up a refinancing of
               | Twitter's building by defaulting on the rent. Anyone with
               | a big enough war chest can just stop paying, drag it out
               | in court, and wait the owners out. And tech companies
               | have some of the biggest war chests.
        
               | kibwen wrote:
               | _> And tech companies have some of the biggest war
               | chests._
               | 
               | Most tech companies do, but if reports of Twitter's
               | finances are to be believed, they do not.
        
           | gitfan86 wrote:
           | That is a good point. The people who invested in long term
           | leases in the late 90s in malls went bankrupt but the malls
           | mostly stayed around. I assume the same thing will happen
           | with office space. Demolishing the building is expensive,
           | might as well keep the lights on and wait to see if someone
           | wants the space for offices or storage or whatever.
        
         | shostack wrote:
         | How has the commercial office space market been fairing? What's
         | the play if one thinks it will crater?
        
         | wing-_-nuts wrote:
         | Good. Maybe we can mass retrofit old office space into new
         | housing. I know there are issues with office buildings not
         | having the electricity and plumbing or lighting for proper
         | residential, but I'm sure there are a lot of budding architects
         | working on the problem.
         | 
         | It would be great for cities if we had a massive influx of
         | relatively affordable housing.
        
           | nerdponx wrote:
           | It's ridiculous to even consider this in New York, where they
           | could have just been building normal apartments instead of
           | luxury condo towers for the last 10 years.
        
             | asdajksah2123 wrote:
             | What's the difference between "normal apartments" and
             | "luxury condo towers"?
        
               | nerdponx wrote:
               | Price, mostly. Luxury amenities are a consequence
               | thereof.
               | 
               | However you can't just blame it on demand. These are $16
               | million condos we are talking about. Functionally they
               | are entirely different goods from apartments intended to
               | be inhabited as a primary residence by people who are not
               | extravagantly wealthy. Moreover, vacancy rates for luxury
               | apartments were high before Covid, and remain high now,
               | even while the rest of the city continues to deal with
               | brutally low vacancy rates in all other housing
               | categories.
               | 
               | So the situation is a little more subtle than "low
               | supply, therefore high prices" and warrants further
               | scrutiny.
        
             | bcrosby95 wrote:
             | Nah, gotta create more piggy banks for the billionaire
             | class.
        
               | kibwen wrote:
               | This doesn't deserve to be downvoted, it is a perfectly
               | apt description of many of NYC's newest skyscrapers.
        
           | gumby wrote:
           | I was a big fan of this but it's harder than it sounds. After
           | all, we all know of some great commercial conversions from
           | prior generations (most of the southern part of Manhattan,
           | for example).
           | 
           | Unfortunately the big modern office towers often aren't
           | constructed in a way that supports apartment conversion.
           | There are lots of offices in those buildings with no windows,
           | and all the service(i.e bathrooms) are in the core. Retail
           | space is often worse in this regard, especially in malls. The
           | renovation costs often end up higher than demolishing and
           | building anew.
           | 
           | I still think you're on the right track though, it's just
           | that the obvious fix is harder than it looks. But I do
           | believe cities are in for a great renaissance of mixed-use
           | buildings.
        
             | plasticchris wrote:
             | Maybe apartments are the wrong paradigm - this sounds
             | perfect for creating something like a dormitory with rooms
             | on the perimeter and shared bathrooms.
        
           | aorloff wrote:
           | AB 2011 purports to address this. I don't have confidence it
           | will move the needle.
        
       | icapybara wrote:
       | Much of Silicon Valley is hardware work that literally can't be
       | done from home.
        
         | KerrAvon wrote:
         | In 2023? Do you have statistics? I want to believe, but isn't
         | it mostly web shops of one type or another, like everywhere
         | else on the planet?
        
           | iron2disulfide wrote:
           | The "Silicon" part of Silicon Valley is still very much
           | relevant. Intel, AMD, nVidia, etc. all have major presences
           | down there. There's also a multi-billion dollar industry
           | supporting silicon design shops in various ways, and they're
           | all in SV too.
        
           | gumby wrote:
           | The Valley is mostly tech, while SF is more the web shops. SF
           | didn't even have much tech exposure at all until the dotcom
           | boom; in 2000 it was still mostly old line industries (a
           | stock exchange!) and music and other art. People in tech
           | lived up there and commuted to work in the Valley.
        
           | icapybara wrote:
           | I don't have statistics. It's in the name though, "silicon"
           | valley. The South Bay is home to the semiconductor industry
           | and its ecosystem.
           | 
           | My own company has about 15k employees in San Jose, and we're
           | all back to the office full time. Many of us can't do our
           | jobs from home, it's hardware work.
        
         | Tempest1981 wrote:
         | That's also my perception.
         | 
         | Just by looking at buildings and job offerings, there seems to
         | be more hardware in the South Bay, vs. the peninsula or SF. Not
         | sure about the Oakland area.
         | 
         | The article defines Silicon Valley as "Santa Clara and San
         | Mateo counties, along with the cities of Fremont and Newark." I
         | would have split out the first two.
        
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       | zephrx1111 wrote:
       | I feel someday, going to office will become a privilege.
        
       | outside1234 wrote:
       | I technically work from my Silicon Valley office - but haven't
       | been there in two years.
        
         | ghaff wrote:
         | You have to actually look at person-days in an office. How many
         | people are technically assigned to that office is pretty much
         | meaningless. I haven't been been into my official office in 3
         | years (although I've very occasionally gone into another couple
         | company offices).
        
       | rconti wrote:
       | So, official vacancy rates from a leasing perspective. This
       | doesn't cover leased space that nobody's using or that's
       | partially occupied. My understanding is that office leasing tends
       | to be longer term than residential, though I'm not sure what kind
       | of early termination provisions might be typical that would add
       | signal back to the noise.
       | 
       | Some reasons I can think these stats might be misleading:
       | 
       | * Long term leases signed recently (pre-pandemic) that are still
       | in effect (though now that I realize we're almost at the 3 year
       | mark, I suppose this is wearing off). So younger companies that
       | just got started in SV might disproportionately skew our stats.
       | 
       | * Companies prioritizing some cost saving measures (layoffs) over
       | others (real estate).
       | 
       | "Legitimate" reasons I can think of that SV offices might be more
       | in-demand than other places:
       | 
       | * Younger average workforce (?). Anecdotally, younger workers
       | prefer the office, and it feels like younger talent flock to SV
       | early in their career (and/or tech companies discriminate against
       | older workers). Younger workers might prefer the office for all
       | sorts of reasons; social life, fewer fears about illness, etc.
       | Which brings us to...
       | 
       | * Real estate costs mean that fewer people can afford a home
       | office / more of these younger workers share apartments or small
       | homes, so the office is a necessary space to spread out. (plus
       | someone else pays for the A/C and snacks!)
       | 
       | * More need for dual-income / more dual-income "professional"
       | workers, combined with small housing, means more need for space
       | just as in point #2 above.
        
       | photonbeam wrote:
       | If they provided a private room with a closable door, then I
       | might be tempted to commute.
       | 
       | Open office means the home office instead
        
         | amalgamated_inc wrote:
         | Correct answer
        
       | JoshTko wrote:
       | Could this be partially explained by longer leases in SV on avg
       | prior to Covid? Meaning that actual utilization of office in SF
       | is much lower, but some tenants were locked in longer contracts
       | which have yet to expire.
        
       | black_13 wrote:
       | [dead]
        
       | kilotaras wrote:
       | Per TFA: *Vacancy rate is lower* than in other region.
       | 
       | At least for MANGA I work at SV office is way emptier than London
       | one. Which is not surprising if you take commute time difference
       | into account.
        
       | nashashmi wrote:
       | Seems like a spin from Silicon Valley Real Estate companies and
       | Mayors
        
       | repeekad wrote:
       | People who love remote work seem to be senior, well established
       | employees who were already fully ramped up and had a social
       | foundation in SV before the pandemic. I left my entire life
       | behind after college to relocate to SV; I loved working with
       | talented engineers and gained so much experience and mentorship
       | in 2019. But remote work was isolating and lonely, mentorship
       | went to zero, and it has caused me a lot of stress realizing that
       | remote work is never going away. It was very sad, but I had to
       | leave SV behind to find a career with people who cared about my
       | success again, rather than preferring remote work for themselves
       | at the expense of less experience engineers having to ping and
       | zoom for every question, with less authentic relationships being
       | formed. Remote work might seem like employees vs the boss, but
       | there are people like me who actually loved their jobs, and now
       | can only do them through a screen alone in a bedroom.
        
         | jasmer wrote:
         | Great point. And I'll bet $100 that people wouldn't mind the
         | office if it was literally across the street.
         | 
         | We don't always 'hate the commute' but what if you could just
         | pop in and out as needed? No waiting? Pick up the kids, drop
         | them at home, then back to the office if you want? Home for
         | lunch? No brutal traffic?
         | 
         | And - people need their own spaces. The cost of squeezing in
         | everyone on a bench is being born a bit in people not wanting
         | to come back. I literally could not get anything done.
        
         | almost_usual wrote:
         | People who love remote work usually have families. Time is a
         | very limited resource when you have kids. Commuting and
         | socializing with coworkers at lunch or at happy hours gets
         | deprioritized.
        
         | pcurve wrote:
         | I'm in my 40s, unattached. Strong introvert. I didn't realize
         | how much I missed going into the office until a few of us had
         | half day in person meeting at office.
         | 
         | I wanted to do more of it. Sadly, the office was still mostly
         | empty, so there was no point going in. I left the job. There
         | were other reasons of course, but I want my next job to be at
         | least in-person 3 days a week.
        
           | yamtaddle wrote:
           | I'm a remote worker who likes a good (emphasis _good_ )
           | office environment better than working at home. But I prefer
           | WFH nonetheless--because I don't like the office enough to
           | pay five stressful hours of my waking time for it per week
           | (for the commute).
           | 
           | That's nearly five percent of my waking hours per week (does
           | hit 5%, if traffic's unusually bad one or two of those days),
           | including weekends. It's more than 6% of my waking hours on a
           | weekday. That's a pretty steep cost, especially since the
           | activity's in no way pleasant and I'm not compensated for it.
           | Then factor in how many hours I'd spend working just to pay
           | for the means to commute....
        
           | yodsanklai wrote:
           | I'm a bit in the same boat. I recently switched to full
           | remote work. In retrospect, I think it was a bad decision. I
           | don't feel I'm a part of the company anymore, and staying
           | home feels lonely.
           | 
           | Ironically, I liked to go to the office when my team actually
           | wasn't there! I like to socialise with people from different
           | teams but seeing my teammates is sometimes stressful. Also,
           | I'm a slow thinker and I often prefer to work on problems
           | asynchronously.
        
             | bart_spoon wrote:
             | > Ironically, I liked to go to the office when my team
             | actually wasn't there! I like to socialise with people from
             | different teams but seeing my teammates is sometimes
             | stressful.
             | 
             | Have you considered a coworking space? Some of the
             | criticisms I see of remote work basically boil down to
             | being completely isolated at home, or a home not being a
             | conducive working environment (as opposed to feeling like
             | they are more productive in office, enjoy being around
             | their coworkers, etc.) I think in these cases the solution
             | isn't necessarily to go into the office, but to simply get
             | out of the house to work. For many this might be a happy
             | medium, allowing you to get out of your home for a good
             | chunk of the day, into an environment with amenities for
             | working, and possibilities for socializing with others,
             | while allowing flexibility to live far away from the
             | office, shortening commutes or housing costs, and not
             | having your daily social life tied to coworkers, which has
             | downsides.
        
             | pcurve wrote:
             | You know, pre-covid when everyone worked at office Mon-
             | Thursday, I also liked going into the office on Friday when
             | no one was around. Something calming about working in a
             | deserted 1500 person office building.
             | 
             | I'm also slow thinker as well. I do terrible during those
             | post-it note brainstorming sessions where you have to come
             | up with ideas in response to something. Sometimes I wonder
             | how I managed to work my way up to management.:)
        
           | amalgamated_inc wrote:
           | Try just going to a coffee shop every day as a routine, just
           | to see some actual faces. Works for me.
        
         | Manuel_D wrote:
         | Remote work is definitely not going to be universal. My company
         | (in Seattle) shifted away from remote work starting in July
         | 2021, and formally went back to 5 days in the office per week
         | as the norm July 2022. My friends on the east coast report that
         | their companies are also moving back to in-person work at least
         | 3 days a week.
         | 
         | I do like that COVID has normalized WFH when I have an
         | appointment or something else I need to get done during the
         | day. But I do think that working in person is better and I'm
         | glad it's returning.
        
         | MH15 wrote:
         | I'm finding myself in a similar situation. Moved across the
         | country to an LA tech job for a mostly in-person team less than
         | a year ago. We had a reorg and now most of the new team is
         | remote, manager in eastern time, office empty most days etc.
         | Unsure what to do now to balance career goals.
        
         | Operyl wrote:
         | I frequently do day trips, or at one point monthly rentals, to
         | various cowork offices to get that interaction with "more
         | senior people." While I couldn't ask overly specific questions
         | of those around me, we all tend to help each other the best we
         | could. I don't live in SV (Florida here), but it was kind of
         | interesting. It's not a complete solution to the problem you're
         | describing, of course, but it built network and I have some
         | friendships that grew from it. Also YMMV on how social people
         | are around you, we kind of had an unofficial card system, red
         | meant don't interrupt and green meant I was open for chatting.
        
         | marricks wrote:
         | Why do we talk about how it's good for people to have choices
         | except when it comes to choosing to work remotely? It seems
         | like big tech companies are forcing people back into the office
         | so if you need mentorship it's available from established
         | channels.
         | 
         | On the other side of the coin, if you're junior, what's it like
         | uprooting your life and social network for a job at a location
         | with probably much higher rent and no existing social network?
         | 
         | "Lamenting the junior dev" is pretty much the only
         | compassionate argument for in-person work so of course it's
         | brought up a dozen times on any remote thread on HN. It gets
         | unnerving.
        
           | zeroonetwothree wrote:
           | Work inherently limits your choices. That's why they pay you
           | money, it's an exchange. Likewise I might want to code on
           | Python but my employee has a legacy Java codebase so I'm
           | forced to work with that instead.
        
         | suzzer99 wrote:
         | As a senior engineer I completely agree with this. A few
         | days/week remote is fine. But full time remote is a disaster
         | for junior engineers.
         | 
         | As you alluded to, it's not just easier access to senior
         | engineers. It's also feeling like you're part of something that
         | matters. I've been lucky to have those kinds of jobs in the
         | past. Now I just have a _job_ , I'm fully remote, and I hate
         | it. It would be even worse if I was just starting out.
         | 
         | I suspect that some companies will eventually migrate back to a
         | hybrid model because of this. I can't be the only senior
         | engineer who feels this way.
        
           | kace91 wrote:
           | > But full time remote is a disaster for junior engineers.
           | 
           | I think this is a cultural problem. There is no reason why
           | you can't pair or engage with people just as effectively in a
           | remote setup.
           | 
           | But the change is not magical, it requires having a system
           | for things that previously happened in an improvised manner.
        
             | Shindi wrote:
             | I think you're right, my comment isnt to disagree with you.
             | You can make pairing and constant communication work
             | remotely. However you have to make it work so to speak.
             | 
             | Meaning, there is a little bit more friction. You have to
             | harangue senior engs to pair, you have to be posting in
             | slack more, you have to do all these little things. But
             | when you're in person there is less friction and so it gets
             | done more naturally.
             | 
             | Like if a task is taking longer than expected, sometimes
             | its because it takes longer than expected. In remote world,
             | you have to know when to ask for help. In person, you might
             | be casually complaining about a task and someone who knows
             | a better way can chime in and get you unstuck without you
             | realizing you're stuck.
        
           | mempko wrote:
           | It's true co-located teams do better. Remote is worse. But,
           | for the sake of the climate and environment, we need to
           | eliminate commutes and wasted resources on office buildings.
        
           | TuringNYC wrote:
           | > It's also feeling like you're a part of something that
           | matters.
           | 
           | I feel the same way w/r/t something that matters. The trade-
           | off there is when you look at when you
           | 
           | - Find parking at a commuter station
           | 
           | - Wait for a 6:50AM commuter train (which especially on the
           | return trip can be mysteriously cancelled)
           | 
           | - Arrive at the city and then transfer to a subway, which
           | some-times doesnt even run well
           | 
           | - Realize you've paid ~$48 for the day's commute
        
             | zeroonetwothree wrote:
             | This article is about Silicon Valley which doesn't have
             | this experience.
        
             | HDThoreaun wrote:
             | Right, seniors who live in the suburbs like remote. Juniors
             | who tend to live near the office have less to gain in a
             | remote environment and a lot more to lose.
        
           | tedmiston wrote:
           | > But full time remote is a disaster for junior engineers.
           | 
           | This is very handwavy.
           | 
           | As a principal engineer, I've worked with junior engineers
           | that have adapted just fine and thrived, even as their first
           | or second job out of college.
           | 
           | But for that to happen, the company's culture has to be
           | willing and able to shift to remote-first and/or fully
           | remote. The more senior people need to role model the way of
           | how to do remote well in a way that counters its (few)
           | disadvantages.
           | 
           | There is definitely a personal component too though. I've
           | also worked with junior engineers that do not work well
           | remotely. But I think that is more personality-based or
           | perhaps maturity-based than seniority-based.
        
           | irrational wrote:
           | In my opinion, none of it matters. And all of us are
           | expendable. I've seen so many projects closed up - and nobody
           | missed them. I've seen so many people retire or move on, and
           | they are never missed. Companies are just machines and
           | neither their output nor the cogs of the machine really
           | matter or are missed once they are gone. That is my
           | experience, anyway.
        
             | theGnuMe wrote:
             | My personal observation is that all companies that succeed,
             | succeed despite themselves. This is basically why you need
             | Product Market Fit. It forgives all sins.
             | 
             | It is all that matters. You can even completely fuck up a
             | la Southwest and be totally fine.
        
           | optimalsolver wrote:
           | > It's also feeling like you're part of something that
           | matters.
           | 
           | This is where I realise I'm dealing with a completely
           | different mindset.
           | 
           | Work is something I reluctantly do to fund the things I
           | actually care about. It sure as hell isn't my entire life or
           | cause for existence.
           | 
           | This probably explains why I love being remote.
        
             | novok wrote:
             | IMO I don't think it's mentally healthy to not at least
             | 'enjoy' your work and have decent professional
             | relationships with your coworkers. Work is a significant
             | part of your life and to be socially disconnected and
             | emotionally discordant about what your doing is not good.
        
               | donmaq wrote:
               | >IMO I don't think it's mentally healthy to not at least
               | 'enjoy' your work and have decent professional
               | relationships with your coworkers.
               | 
               | You can have "decent professional relationships" with
               | coworkers while remote. Virtual beer (I prefer scotch)
               | drinking sessions work great, for example. And also opens
               | your circle to ppl continents away.
               | 
               | >Work is a significant part of your life and to be
               | socially disconnected and emotionally discordant about
               | what your doing is not good.
               | 
               | Physical proximity is not necessary for social
               | connection. Especially when it seems every app has
               | webconference (slack too).
               | 
               | Also, frequency of needed connection differs if you're an
               | introvert vs extrovert. Larger society typically views
               | the latter as 'normal' & the former as 'ill-adjusted',
               | but I wouldn't expect that tendency on HN(?)
        
             | rowanajmarshall wrote:
             | Equally, someone who moves straight to SV (or equivalent
             | tech hub) is probably significantly more career-focused
             | than someone who stays put, or moves to a city, so it's
             | unsurprisingly SV is seeing more office work than other
             | regions.
        
             | janosett wrote:
             | > Work is something I reluctantly do to fund the things I
             | actually care about. It sure as hell isn't my entire life
             | or cause for existence.
             | 
             | Some of us prefer to care about our work. 40 hours per week
             | is a lot of time to spend on something you don't care
             | about. Caring about your work isn't the same as it being
             | your "entire life or cause for existence". Our lives can
             | consist of many different interests.
        
               | HWR_14 wrote:
               | There's a lot of work that needs to get done that no one
               | really cares about. It tends to, ultimately, be very
               | important work too.
               | 
               | Not that it's done by people who aren't proud of the job
               | they do, but most people don't really care about their
               | work just the lifestyle it supports.
        
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               | bobkazamakis wrote:
               | >Caring about your work isn't the same as it being your
               | "entire life or cause for existence".
               | 
               | Nor is all work "things you care about" even if you love
               | your job, unless you own the entity. Even if you had a
               | passion for picking up garbage, you'd rather be doing it
               | your way than the way your boss is doing it.
               | 
               | There's nothing wrong with wanting to spend non-working
               | hours on something that isn't exploiting you...
        
               | raverbashing wrote:
               | Sure, I care about my work and its mission.
               | 
               | But shouldn't mean I have to be in an office all the time
               | for me to care about it
        
           | nugget wrote:
           | The trend I'm seeing companies settle into is one where
           | Monday and Friday are work from home days, with Friday being
           | more like a half day or optional day. Tuesday, Wednesday, and
           | Thursday are default in-office days. I'm curious how this
           | will impact commercial real estate prices, because while
           | there's less overall utilization, the peak load remains more
           | or less the same.
        
           | ericmay wrote:
           | > It's also feeling like you're a part of something that
           | matters.
           | 
           | Maybe this assumption needs to change?
           | 
           | I do think you and the OP you replied to are correct about it
           | being more difficult for junior engineers, but at the same
           | time it selects for people who don't need someone to tell
           | them what to do, which would be a good thing for a company
           | depending on the role and such.
        
             | suzzer99 wrote:
             | If a junior engineer isn't pestering me with questions, I
             | know they aren't learning much. Also they overhear stuff
             | and get drawn into conversations. Or more senior engineers
             | join in conversations between them and another senior.
             | 
             | All of this is a challenge over zoom.
             | 
             | As far as being a part of something that matters, if I'm
             | going to do a job for 8 hours a day, I'd like for it be as
             | fulfilling as possible. For me that means pressure,
             | teamwork, and at least some in-person interaction. I
             | realize not everyone is the same.
        
               | ericmay wrote:
               | It depends and it's a balance. Too many questions is a
               | bad sign because it means they aren't investing time into
               | solving problems on their own (like math, try for 3
               | minutes give up and look at the back of the book).
               | 
               | The nice thing about Slack/Zoom combo is that if you have
               | a highly self-directed engineer and a self-starter then
               | they can spend time working until they truly feel stuck
               | and then connect and share code snippets and do screen
               | shares and calls. Instead of everything having to be a
               | "stop the world" Q/A session you get a nice async
               | communication channel that allows for various levels of
               | triage.
               | 
               | That being said I certainly find in-person collaboration
               | to be very valuable, but not so valuable as to drive a
               | car and sit in an office where I can't wear sweatpants or
               | get up whenever I want to make an espresso or run an
               | errand if I'm stuck on a problem for a bit.
        
               | akavi wrote:
               | In my experience, there's no such thing as too many
               | questions, so long as they're of good quality.
               | 
               | The best intern I've ever had was would hit me every
               | single morning with a laundry list of questions, but,
               | crucially they were almost 100% things she didn't yet
               | have the tools or context to find out on her own.
               | 
               | By the end she was asking me questions I hadn't even
               | thought to ask
        
               | ericmay wrote:
               | I think there is. Asking for things you can look up how
               | to do on the Internet just isn't a good question, for
               | example. (Like something generic like how to install a
               | package with NPM or something).
        
               | warkdarrior wrote:
               | > Asking for things you can look up how to do on the
               | Internet just isn't a good question
               | 
               | That is becoming less true by the day, as forums, blogs,
               | etc., are filled with AI-generated pablum or with simply
               | incorrect content. You still need an expert to tell you
               | right from wrong, and the best option is to have a senior
               | person in your team be that expert.
        
               | ericmay wrote:
               | > That is becoming less true by the day, as forums,
               | blogs, etc., are filled with AI-generated pablum or with
               | simply incorrect content.
               | 
               | I'd contend if you can't tell as a junior engineer that's
               | a problem.
        
               | novok wrote:
               | Either way, you need to bother to try to look up stuff
               | for 5 minutes and figure it out yourself, and for
               | technical content that isn't really the case much.
               | Otherwise you make your mentor annoyed because you didn't
               | even bother to put in the minimum effort and your
               | essentially disrespecting them which creates emotional
               | fallout. Even the bad content gives you some context and
               | will make your question asking work better.
               | 
               | This is a great guide to give to everyone: https://quick-
               | answers.kronis.dev/
        
               | 908B64B197 wrote:
               | Often the barrage of questions is a symptom of an
               | inability to debug and investigate.
               | 
               | Sadly, it's common with folks who learned programming
               | with rote (they expect every answer to be somewhere they
               | can just memorize).
        
               | donmaq wrote:
               | > [junior engineers] overhear stuff and get drawn into
               | conversations. Or more senior engineers join in
               | conversations between them and another senior
               | 
               | Even on-prem before 2020, this happened most often in
               | slack at least in the tech startups I was in(?)
        
               | turdprincess wrote:
               | I think this attitude of making sure each junior engineer
               | has someone senior answer every question as soon as it
               | comes up is doing a disservice to our junior engineers.
               | One of the most important qualities of a senior engineer
               | is that they can independently solve an open ended
               | problem, especially one they haven't solved before.
               | 
               | Being senior means you have learned how to learn. You
               | don't get this skill by asking a bunch of questions, you
               | get it by answering your own questions without having
               | someone else to rely on. This is a skill we should foster
               | in our junior engineers as early as possible, and being
               | available as a shoulder to tap on every 15 minutes
               | actively prevents that skill from developing.
               | 
               | I think it is perfectly resonable to mentor a junior
               | developer using a single, daily video meeting of 30
               | minutes or 1 hour. This is a time they can use to ask
               | questions about their previous day, bounce ideas, etc. If
               | a question comes up later, they can spend the day trying
               | to solve it and report on it in the next daily meeting.
               | 
               | The best thing you can do for your junior engineer is to
               | find a stream of work which challenges them at the right
               | level (not too much, but just enough), and let them go
               | independently while keeping some guard rails. This should
               | not require many hours of 1:1 face time.
               | 
               | I understand this approach might not work for some
               | juniors who can only learn in a highly social context
               | with a mentor in the room. But I think it can work for
               | many juniors, and actually be beneficial in the long run.
        
             | mym1990 wrote:
             | This is like a high school or college classroom where no
             | one asks any question...you know no one understands what is
             | going on. What I would look for is juniors who can ask
             | questions, take a morsel of feedback, run with it for a
             | bit, and then ask another question. (But avoiding giving
             | away solutions right away, since you want it to be a
             | learning experience).
        
           | lumost wrote:
           | The challenge is finding enough people to go into the office.
           | Companies got used to hiring anyone in their region, commute
           | stopped being a consideration.
           | 
           | How many people are willing to pay an extra 1-2k per month to
           | live closer to their job? How many of those people are the
           | people you want to hire?
        
             | TuringNYC wrote:
             | >> How many people are willing to pay an extra 1-2k per
             | month to live closer to their job?
             | 
             | I dont think it is as simple as "willing to pay an extra
             | 1-2k per month". It is with junior engineers w/o families.
             | Once you have families, living closer to the job is way,
             | way harder, esp for tech jobs concentrated in expensive
             | cities. You cant just share a room with a friend when you
             | have children. Also, things like schooling become
             | considerations -- in NYC for example, you arent even
             | guaranteed a seat in your _local_ school (you 're
             | guaranteed a seat at "a" school.) It isnt surprising that
             | SWE salaries ballooned in expensive metro areas and there
             | are constantly "shortages" -- the huge premiums either go
             | into super-expensive family housing near the city, private
             | schools, a pied-e-tierre in the city, or some other
             | acrobatics
        
           | 908B64B197 wrote:
           | > But full time remote is a disaster for junior engineers.
           | 
           | I used to think the same but realized it's more nuanced than
           | that.
           | 
           | There are basically two markets for junior hires: those who
           | can prosper in a remote-first environment (capable of
           | debugging on their own, read doc and ask relevant questions)
           | and those who can't. The contrast is striking. A lot of
           | businesses tried to cut programmer salaried with junior hires
           | from "diverse" pipelines (codeword for bootcamps and
           | certificates) and are now struggling onboarding them in a
           | remote-first environment because of the required handholding.
           | 
           | Of course, what the market hasn't figured out yet, is that
           | there's a premium for the later.
        
           | tnel77 wrote:
           | I think employers should strive for flexibility. My employer
           | allows full remote, but flies us in twice a year for what
           | mostly boils down to "team building." More local employees
           | have the option to go into the office as much/little as they
           | would like. It seems to be a good balance and I feel like I
           | have decent relationship with the entire team even though I
           | live across the country.
        
           | AuthorizedCust wrote:
           | > _But full time remote is a disaster for junior engineers._
           | 
           | Nonsense. If you have a good boss, you'll be mentored to
           | success in person or remotely. Source: I'm the boss who's
           | done that!
           | 
           | Before you say "but but but", all the buts will point back to
           | a bad boss, who isn't fixed by in-person presence.
        
             | vidarh wrote:
             | There is a severe problem of promoting engineers into
             | management positions and providing no or insufficient
             | training in line management or mentoring, though. A lot of
             | companies with poor training and mentoring culture will get
             | caught out by remote work and struggle to adapt fast
             | enough.
        
             | _vertigo wrote:
             | > all the buts will point back to a bad boss, who isn't
             | fixed by in-person presence.
             | 
             | This reasoning is faulty and nearly circular. "Remote work
             | can't be bad, because if it were, it'd be the fault of the
             | boss, and a bad boss is going to be bad regardless of
             | whether or not you're remote."
             | 
             | That's a neat rhetorical trick for making almost any
             | argument. You're sidestepping the fact that remote work
             | makes mentorship harder and less likely to work. A good
             | boss can make up for that, but not all bosses are good.
             | Most are just average, and it's certainly not the case that
             | managing a fully remote team is easier than managing a
             | fully in-person one. Mentorship, knowledge transfer, and
             | values transfer happen automatically more often than not in
             | person, but they have to be intentionally fostered in a
             | remote setting. That's harder for a manager to pull off.
             | Remote work just makes this kind of stuff harder.
             | 
             | When I worked in person, I could seek out mentorship myself
             | in a natural way by making connections on my own, at lunch
             | for example. Now, I guess what you're saying is that it's
             | my boss's responsibility to schedule those opportunities
             | for me, and if he doesn't, he's a bad boss. Okay -- how
             | does that help me? Should I leave my job if I can't find a
             | way to improve it? What if the next job has the same
             | problem?
             | 
             | Working remotely as a junior or intermediate engineer is
             | basically stacking the deck against yourself. Sure, there
             | are ways to make it work, but on average it works less
             | well, and it's also more likely to just not work at all.
             | Sweeping it under the rug by saying it's the boss's job to
             | make it work does not absolve it of its problems.
        
             | mym1990 wrote:
             | Caveat being that not many people get to pick who their
             | boss is, and quite frankly I don't know that I've met too
             | many good bosses that toot their own horn.
             | 
             | At the end of the day, people should have full
             | accountability for their career and actions, but at a
             | junior level there is a poor baseline for what a good
             | trajectory and a bad trajectory looks like, so room for
             | mistakes is bigger...which should allow people to learn
             | faster.
        
               | AuthorizedCust wrote:
               | > _Caveat being that not many people get to pick who
               | their boss is..._
               | 
               | Orthogonal to my premise. Being in person doesn't entitle
               | you to pick your boss, either.
        
               | _vertigo wrote:
               | No, but at least in person it's easier and much more
               | natural to facilitate mentorship opportunities for
               | yourself if your boss isn't so good.
        
         | monero-xmr wrote:
         | New companies will be formed that are remote-only from Day 1
         | and stay that way forever. Employees who like remote work
         | should go to these companies. I believe remote-only is
         | superior, as I observe mentorship and frequent communication
         | within my company, as everyone is dedicated to the remote-only
         | mode.
         | 
         | I believe that in-person office work is not about communication
         | or mentorship but mostly about providing socialization benefits
         | (chatting, going out to lunch) that are not needed for a
         | company to succeed. "Less authentic relationships" has nothing
         | to do with company success and everything to do with your own
         | personal well-being.
         | 
         | The correct move is to build a social life outside of your work
         | - family, friends, community. As a remote only worker my social
         | life is excellent because I did not tie my social well being to
         | any company.
        
           | bcrosby95 wrote:
           | One thing to recognize is that people who moved to SV for
           | work, pretty much by definition, put career ahead of friends,
           | community, and likely family. So it shouldn't be surprising
           | that many of them will not like remote work if the whole
           | reason they moved is nullified.
           | 
           | I feel lucky to have been born and raised in SV. I can have
           | my cake and eat it too - remote work, in person work,
           | whatever - and I can still go out and have lunch with friends
           | I've had for 30+ years.
        
             | kace91 wrote:
             | > One thing to recognize is that people who moved to SV for
             | work, pretty much by definition, put career ahead of
             | friends, community, and likely family. So it shouldn't be
             | surprising that many of them will not like remote work if
             | the whole reason they moved is nullified.
             | 
             | Shouldn't they be happy that they can have their cake and
             | eat it now?
             | 
             | Move back closer to those friends and family and keep
             | working your dream job!
        
               | benatkin wrote:
               | Except there is the RTO crowd and the WFH crowd might
               | have to defend WFH. Hence all these comments.
               | 
               | I personally prefer WFH but think WFH is secure and don't
               | want to unnecessarily hurt RTO but I'm not sure I'm
               | right.
        
               | almost_usual wrote:
               | I think a lot of younger people want the tech boom at the
               | beginning of the 2010s they missed out on. Tech was still
               | 'cool' and the energy in SV/SF was high. That era is
               | over, honestly it started ebbing in 2017.
        
             | gumby wrote:
             | > One thing to recognize is that people who moved ... for
             | work, pretty much by definition, put career ahead of
             | friends, community, and likely family.
             | 
             | That's a broad and unfair generalization and implication.
             | People _decide_ to move for all sorts of reasons, and
             | _then_ perhaps a job determines a destination. People who
             | move to a cheaper location (which can be young people
             | starting a family or retirees or any life stage in between)
             | are also putting cost or quality of life  "ahead of
             | friends, community, and likely family."
             | 
             | If you are a person who makes friends you will make friends
             | in your new community. Ubiquitous networking lets you keep
             | in touch to the level you wish with friends and family.
             | When I go back to my home country I see friends with whom
             | we just pick up mid-conversation as if I'd just been over
             | their home the day before.
             | 
             | Life has been so for thousands of years. Not necessarily a
             | sacrifice as you frame it.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | It's a generalization but I'm not sure it's really
               | unfair.
               | 
               | I'm pretty sure that most people moving to SV/SF or most
               | high cost areas really do so because they (or their
               | partner) got a good job offer there, and especially in
               | the case of tech and northern California, because there's
               | a high density of other job possibilities as well.
               | 
               | People do just decide they want to move _someplace_ but I
               | doubt a lot choose the Bay area unless there 's a job
               | offer attached.
        
               | almost_usual wrote:
               | The Bay Area offers great weather and nature. More people
               | would live here if it weren't so expensive.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | And more people (probably different people) would live in
               | Manhattan if it weren't so expensive. But they _are_
               | expensive so people tend not to move to them absent a
               | well-paying job.
        
           | marricks wrote:
           | It takes time to learn, but I found it much healthier to have
           | a social life primarily outside of work.
           | 
           | What happens if you change jobs? Get laid off? What happens
           | if you make a big mistake and the social network you relied
           | on is now angry at you? It can be way more of an emotional
           | roller coaster.
           | 
           | Of course that's not everyone! There's still plenty of in-
           | person jobs for people who want or need it but at least
           | there's more of a fair split now for folks who do not want
           | that.
        
           | [deleted]
        
         | pts_ wrote:
         | The problem is workplaces wanting all day presence like a
         | prison and letting families including elder parents go to the
         | dogs. Workplaces should be flexible.
        
         | yamtaddle wrote:
         | > People who love remote work seem to be senior, well
         | established employees who were already fully ramped up and had
         | a social foundation in SV before the pandemic. I left my entire
         | life behind after college to relocate to SV
         | 
         | The other ones who love it are the vast sea of workers who
         | chose to stay near family and friends rather than leaving to
         | chase money in expensive coastal cities. Not being constrained
         | to 3rd-tier-landlocked-city rates is great.
         | 
         | [EDIT] Ah, you mean specifically the ones already in (or
         | recently-late-of) SV who love it. I'll leave the comment but
         | it's less-on-topic than I thought on my first reading.
        
         | fhd2 wrote:
         | It seems a bit cynical to imply that people who care about
         | mentoring juniors prefer to work in an office and selfish
         | people prefer to work remote. Having mentored dozens of
         | engineers, remotely and onsite, my evidence suggests neither
         | approach is entirely superior for everyone, it depends on
         | mentor and mentee.
         | 
         | It's just that, your preference - it doesn't have to be
         | sinister or heroic, more or less effective. Some people prefer
         | an office and some don't. That's valid enough on its own, isn't
         | it?
        
         | granshaw wrote:
         | I think the picture is pretty clear at this point and further
         | discussion is pretty pointless as it just results in the same
         | points keep being brought up:
         | 
         | Junior/single/ADHD/work-is-social-circle: REMOTE BAD
         | 
         | Senior/married (esp with kids)/prefers-non-work-social-circle:
         | REMOTE GOOD
        
           | suzzer99 wrote:
           | Yeah that's basically it. I'm single/senior/ADHD/work-was-
           | social-circle (at previous job). Hate remote full time.
        
           | zeroonetwothree wrote:
           | I'm senior/married/kids and I hate full time remote. I don't
           | want to go in every day but 2-3 days a week is great. I just
           | find it very hard to connect with people over screens.
        
           | fsociety wrote:
           | I have ADHD and greatly prefer remote as I can tailor my
           | office how I like, and can break up my day as I like.
        
           | repeekad wrote:
           | But then how do companies capture both? Offices with only
           | junior, single, social seekers kind of defeats all the
           | benefits that those people are searching for. Do we just
           | leave the first group behind to better benefit the second
           | group?
        
             | treis wrote:
             | I don't think you do. This falls under "irreconcilable
             | differences" and the solution is for people to work at
             | companies that match their preferences.
        
             | philippejara wrote:
             | I'd be willing to bet a lot more would prefer to have only
             | remote than only in person work, on both demographics. And
             | even if not, seniors are just more important to retain
             | anyway.
        
             | granshaw wrote:
             | Companies will just have to accept more of one of the other
             | depending on their policies.
             | 
             | Alternatively they could become such an attractive place to
             | work via other factors that they can attract employees
             | whether remote or not
        
             | ffggffggj wrote:
             | If companies want people to come into the office, they
             | could pay them more and make it a condition of employment.
             | In some sense they were getting a free ride for a long time
             | by forcing senior employees to waste hours commuting for
             | the benefits of in person mentorship. After all, upskilling
             | junior engineers benefits the company much more than the
             | senior engineer who is taking time away from doing stuff
             | relevant to their own technical skills. Now the market has
             | shifted: you want that, you pay more for it.
        
               | TylerE wrote:
               | And make the conditions not suck! At the very very least
               | this means an office with a door that closes? And ideally
               | blinds on interior windows.
               | 
               | I've been remote for 8 years now and doubt I could ever
               | go back, but above would be like a bare minimum to even
               | consider - that and a minimum of a 25% comp bump over a
               | remote option.
        
             | gedy wrote:
             | I'd gladly live near office if I could afford a decent
             | house and schools for a family. Companies won't pay that to
             | make it happen, so yes, I guess it's sorry/not sorry junior
             | devs?
        
           | nibbleshifter wrote:
           | Senior/married/ADHD/work-was-social-circle: I fucking love
           | remote work, I'm straight up never going back to an office.
        
           | jitix wrote:
           | I think the main determinant is the last part.
           | 
           | For me, Senior/Single/ADHD/prefers-non-work-social-circle:
           | REMOTE GOOD
           | 
           | But the issue raised in this thread is very real, with full
           | remote I've see both junior training as well as new employee
           | ramp up considerably slowed down, and there's no clear
           | alternative to knowledge gained from random hallway
           | conversations.
        
           | seneca wrote:
           | I think this is pretty accurate other than the ADHD part.
           | 
           | Work from home is vastly superior to the distractions of an
           | office (especially open offices) for me. At home, I have much
           | more control over interruptions and noise, and completely
           | eliminate the constant activity around me.
           | 
           | I actually never realized how badly ADHD hurt my productivity
           | until I started working remotely and the constant
           | distractions severely decreased.
        
         | synu wrote:
         | I realise we are both sharing anecdotes, but I was at GitLab
         | from about 250 employees to 1500 or so. It was all remote from
         | the beginning, and it definitely wasn't all senior, fully
         | ramped employees with pre-established work social networks in
         | Silicon Valley (or any other single place for that matter).
         | There was mentorship, as well as social events and travel.
         | 
         | I'm sure your experience is factual, but maybe it's not a
         | universal truth or something generally applicable about remote
         | work.
         | 
         | One thing for sure I would feel down about is if I moved
         | somewhere I didn't like to advance my career, and then everyone
         | there started working remotely making the whole move pointless.
        
           | repeekad wrote:
           | SF is disgusting, and SV in general is so expensive to live
           | in and enjoy. It feels unsustainable for a region to profit
           | so much from remote work that itself is so bad to live in if
           | you aren't already successful. People can just ignore the
           | homeless WFH and uber to their bars and restaurants, with
           | staff who can't even afford to live there, I had to leave.
        
         | deeptote wrote:
         | [flagged]
        
           | repeekad wrote:
           | It's not about a social life outside my job, it's about also
           | loving my work and enjoying what I do. Anyone can trade time
           | for money and use that money outside work. But true success
           | to me is loving both, and to me that's not possible without
           | authentic relationships at work.
        
           | dang wrote:
           | We've banned this account for repeatedly posting
           | unsubstantive and/or flamebait comments, and this time
           | breaking the site guidelines extremely badly. Seriously not
           | cool.
           | 
           | If you don't want to be banned, you're welcome to email
           | hn@ycombinator.com and give us reason to believe that you'll
           | follow the rules in the future. They're here:
           | https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html.
        
         | peoplefromibiza wrote:
         | As a long time software developer, I completely agree on this.
         | 
         | I don't necessarily believe that "the office" and long commutes
         | are the right way to employee workers, but I strongly believe
         | that in person relationships tend to work a lot better for
         | knowledge transfer and leveling up skills of junior employees.
         | A solution, the feasibility of which I'm still actively
         | researching, is a network of decentralized much smaller offices
         | managed by a senior employee to meet other people in the area
         | in person, at least once a week or more if deemed necessary by
         | the group.
         | 
         | The other thing I completely agree on is that it's not employee
         | vs boss.
         | 
         | Many of my colleagues have agreed to a cut of their paycheck to
         | work remotely, which is a net win for every boss out there,
         | they love to pay less for the same output, while also
         | transferring all the expenses and the disadvantages of building
         | a place suited to work at home to the employer. Kinda like a
         | gig economy worker that has to buy a car, pay for the insurance
         | and the maintenance to become a "self employed" Uber driver.
        
       | goldenchrome wrote:
       | Truly challenging work approached with a deep passion is best
       | done in direct collaboration with others. There's no replacement
       | for the energy that you find from a desperately hard working team
       | that's working together in person. I'd estimate that 90% of
       | people aren't interested in working that hard so remote works
       | just fine.
       | 
       | SV has been pumping out money for the last decade so they've had
       | to offer cushier environments to attract talent, but now that the
       | free money is drying up I hope that more companies will return to
       | what made SV great in the first place: obsessive work.
       | 
       | We're already seeing the more committed business owners enforcing
       | in-person work, but there's been strong push back from employees.
       | Only the companies that are truly creating value will be able to
       | entice enough talent to work there, and many companies will
       | falter in the process, but I think it's good for us all. It's
       | like a forest fire that creates space for new growth.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | amalgamated_inc wrote:
         | > Truly challenging work approached with a deep passion is best
         | done in direct collaboration with others.
         | 
         | It is also best done in a quiet, comfortable place and not in a
         | mosh pit with a dozen sales and HR people yelling on the phone
         | all day.
         | 
         | I've never worked in an office that was better for deep work
         | than my home.
        
         | horns4lyfe wrote:
         | Agreed, but I'd add: 90% of people aren't interested in working
         | that hard to make a founder life changing money while they're
         | collecting a salary and adding a bullet point to their resume.
         | And reasonably so.
        
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