[HN Gopher] The internet wants to be fragmented ___________________________________________________________________ The internet wants to be fragmented Author : miletus Score : 224 points Date : 2023-01-01 12:37 UTC (10 hours ago) (HTM) web link (noahpinion.substack.com) (TXT) w3m dump (noahpinion.substack.com) | superkuh wrote: | Hah. Good joke website gets the point across. I cannot connect to | or load https://noahpinion.substack.com/p/the-internet-wants-to- | be-f... from my comcast home IP. I can only load it by tunneling | through one of my VPSes. Definitely fragmentation. | [deleted] | jacooper wrote: | The entire problem lies with the twisted motives of social media. | | They don't want to make you happy or feel good, they want money, | at all costs which results in you being angry and toxic. | | I agree with this article in general, and think that its worth it | to spend time arguing with people you care about rather some | rando on twitter. | | community run _communities_ will probably have a resurge, the | problem is the tech barrier, we have already seen how mastodon is | seen as to complex or has "horrid UX" for normal users. | | So I doubt anything will change for the mainstream, techies and | other geeky communities might go to mastodon or create a forum, | but normal users won't bother doing any of this. | mindslight wrote: | > _The entire problem lies with the twisted motives of social | media_ | | Exactly! I myself do not identify with " _we take the internet | wherever we go, and its little colored icons are always | beckoning, telling us to abandon whoever we're talking to or | whatever we're working on and check the latest posts._ " | | This is due to a few things. First, having long established | pattern of using desktop computers / laptops, revealing "smart" | phones as frustratingly limited devices. I can tap out maybe | 5wpm on a mobile device, perhaps 10-20wpm if it has swipe | input. Yet on a familiar keyboard, I can do upwards of | 120-140wpm. That's an order of magnitude difference, with the | qualitative difference of being able to type at the speed I am | thinking. | | This means when I'm using a mobile device, I'm only using it | begrudgingly because I'm away from a real computer and need to | solve a problem. If I'm hanging out with friends and someone | else texts me, basically the last thing I want to do is take my | phone out of my pocket, focus on a tiny screen, and start | plodding along tapping out characters. This behavior descends | from having mobile computing devices much earlier than most | people (laptop and palm pilot around Y2k), when it was not | socially accepted to ignore the people you're with and play | with your device. | | The second is that for a long time I used a phone running | Lineage/microG, with only software from F-droid. Free software | is designed with its main goal of helping the user accomplish | their own goals, rather than the perverse incentive of | proprietary web/apps that treat the user as a subject to be | sucked in for as long as possible ("engagement"). If I take my | phone out of my pocket to use the calendar or calculator or | whatever, it's not like I then want to continue scrolling | through my calendar or dividing numbers. If I take my phone out | to show someone some photos, that is a real-world social | activity. Both are limited stimulation based on tasks that can | be finished, rather than the endless drip-drip of social media. | | Sadly I stopped using that phone due to the early 4G shutdown | in the US, and I have yet to find a good device to replace it. | I've been using a throwaway "full take" Android that the | carrier sent me for free, but my usage patterns have basically | stayed the same. When I'm home, I generally leave that phone | near the door since I have no use for it until I go out again. | | Of course it's easy for me to say this - the difficult part is | how to kick one's own addiction to the always-on proprietary | software hellhole. I'd propose a large part of this is | segmenting your usage across different physical devices - | despite the universality of computation, having one or two | devices that encompass all of simple tasks like checking the | weather, employment, personal productivity, creativity, active | relaxation, and passive relaxation is an anti-pattern. It | simply blurs the lines too much. | | Get at least one new device, ideally running only Free | software, but at the bare minimum you need to not install any | of the corporate willpower-destroying apps. You can still keep | your "trash" device with all those apps you can't imagine | living without, but silence the notifications and leave it on a | desk/coffee table/etc. Only check on it occasionally, like | daily or when you're relaxing at night or when you need to | accomplish a specific task on one of the corporate dopamine | apps. | jacooper wrote: | > Sadly I stopped using that phone due to the early 4G | shutdown in the US, and I have yet to find a good device to | replace it. | | A pixel with GrapheneOS or Calyx. | LinuxBender wrote: | Adding to this, having run small communities I can see | platforms like Mastodon growing into Twitter albeit with a | different twist of behavior but eventually becoming equally | toxic, just a different flavor of toxic. | | I believe one of the root causes is that the internet basically | connected billions of people from many different cultures into | one big pool without any arbiter mechanisms which is bound to | get ugly fast. In this regard I agree with the article that the | internet wants to be segmented. Mastodon will probably start | with silos of similar thinking people but as it grows they too | will run into culture clashes leading to groups of people being | silenced. Then some other platform will come along to make | smaller silos or tribes and this pattern will repeat. | fleddr wrote: | I think Mastodon has the tendency to grow into the opposite | extreme of toxicity: fragility. People as well as instances | are very generously blocked, leading to perfectly peaceful | bubbles. | | Which are not that great. There's almost perfect ideological | agreement...but not really. A handful of people dominate | conversation by posting frequently whilst the rest barely | engages and/or is afraid to speak their mind. | | As an example, on a fairly large Mastodon instance I saw a | popular user claiming how we should still wear masks. There | were a few dozen replies, all in perfect agreement. | | That's truly bizarre, as this is a topic that people have | strong opinions on across the entire political landscape. | Even amidst just progressives, there's no uniform consensus, | granted people are free to speak their minds without | repercussions. The fact that there wasn't even a hint of | disagreement or nuance I find telling. | | So I agree with your point, this too is a type of toxicity, | just a different flavor. Fragility, toxic positivity, I'm not | sure what to call it, but it's not healthy. | | Another fun opposite effect (in comparison to Twitter) to | reason about is algorithms and amplification. Mastodon has | very little of that which is considered good. It's a more | "organic" social network. | | Quite a few users will discover though that an organic social | network makes the chance of getting engagement on your posts | even harder than it already was. Just getting your post seen | at all is a challenge, and building somewhat of a following | can takes months if not years of purposeful effort. This | means that for the typical user, the feeling that you're | screaming into the void will be common, leaving the question: | why post at all? | jacooper wrote: | But is that limited to just Mastodon? | | That happens on other social media to avoid getting banned. | | One example is anything showing disagreement with LGBTQ | movement from the east, no matter how much you think that | is a done thing, it definitely not, especially there. | fleddr wrote: | No, I think the effect of "toxic positivity" is found | wherever you create a small community, whether that be | Reddit, Mastodon, or anything else. | | Toxic positivity isn't necessarily about banning, it's | rather "soft silencing" within the bubble. Those most | ideologically active dominate the network and discourage | any type of dissent. | | To stick with my mask example. There's absolutely no | consensus within progressive circles that mandatory | masking should make a comeback. So there should be | significant debate even within the progressive bubble. | But there is none. Zero. That likely means that a lot of | people in the bubble disagree yet are afraid to express | that. | lapcat wrote: | > A handful of people dominate conversation by posting | frequently whilst the rest barely engages and/or is afraid | to speak their mind. | | This is true of Twitter too. | | > Just getting your post seen at all is a challenge, and | building somewhat of a following can takes months if not | years of purposeful effort. This means that for the typical | user, the feeling that you're screaming into the void will | be common, leaving the question: why post at all? | | I've also felt this is true of Twitter. | | > As an example, on a fairly large Mastodon instance I saw | a popular user claiming how we should still wear masks. | There were a few dozen replies, all in perfect agreement. | | Maybe people aren't there for debate club? I personally | joined Twitter, and Mastodon, for tech. In fact I first | joined Twitter for a tech conference. I have very little | interest in debating political and social issues on social | media. I muted/blocked all that stuff on Twitter and will | do so if necessary on Mastodon. | | There are too many people on Twitter who are just looking | for a fight. A lot of us aren't interested at that at all, | and would rather just participate congenially in a shared | interest. If that's a "bubble", then I'm happy to be a | bubble boy. | LinuxBender wrote: | _toxic positivity_ | | Positively toxic echo chambers. I think you summed it up | perfectly. I've seen what you described occur in the past | on other chat platforms and forums. Mostly forums. People | that think alike get some high rank and access to private | sub-forums and people that have thoughts not aligned with | the tribe start to think the forum is no longer being used. | Not sure how that would translate into the Mastodon | platform. | krapp wrote: | Meh. What's wrong with not wanting every online space I | inhabit to be embroiled in ceaseless no-holds-barred | political and social warfare? If I want that, it's easy | to find, it doesn't have to be everywhere. | fleddr wrote: | I think today it translates into every platform due to | the highly polarized political landscape. This sorts | people into just 2 buckets, after which each bucket is | dominated by radicals or semi-radicals. | | That's why I dislike the term "bubble", because it fails | to describe the inner working of the bubble. It suggests | that it is uniform and consensus-based, whilst instead | they are ran by an autocratic elite that "softly" silence | dissent. By making dissent costly. | | The state of online conversation: 50% of the population | is evil. Luckily I'm in the good 50%, which is full of | terrible ideas but I can't afford to challenge them. | poszlem wrote: | You can already see that. If you think Twitter moderation is | arbitrary or weird, clearly you haven't seen some of the | popular Mastodon servers. Meet the new boss same as the old | boss. | jacooper wrote: | The difference, as the article mentions, is that you can | just leave. You can follow the same content from another | instance with other rules and not be effected by any of the | weird laws on the main mastodon instance. | ilyt wrote: | > The entire problem lies with the twisted motives of social | media. | | Just media. Social media might be latest iteration, but | traditional media works the same way, outrage gets you views or | sells your newspaper. | jacooper wrote: | The difference is normal media isn't the main conversations | space for many people, social media is. | CTDOCodebases wrote: | Written on substack no less... | hypfer wrote: | And yet you participate in society | doublepg23 wrote: | I think it's reasonable to say federated blogging platforms | are a solved problem in 2022 (2023!) I don't think this is | analogous to debates about economic systems. | smitty1e wrote: | "Fragmented" is not "eradicated". | | The Famous Article: | | > Why did this happen to the centralized internet when it | hadn't happened to the decentralized internet of previous | decades? | | The reason is that people scale poorly. Dunbar's Number[1] is a | thing, and every human effort in physical- or cyber-space, | sacred or profane, tends toward a Tower of Babel[2] over time. | | Those that conform to Gall's Law[3] may prove relatively | durable. | | [1] https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunbar's_number | | [2] https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tower_of_Babel | | [3] | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Gall_(author)#Gall's_la... | CTDOCodebases wrote: | > The reason is that people scale poorly. | | I would propose that humans scale magnificently. | | Our need for belonging and our propensity for conflict has | spread us to all the corners of the earth and it continues to | keep us there. | | Great from the collective perspective if you want to see | humanity as a whole survive. | | Not so great for those who suffer from the conflict though. | smitty1e wrote: | >> The reason is that people scale poorly. | | > I would propose that humans scale magnificently. | | Certainly, apex predator on the food chain. But that is a | different point than the human organizational one I was | going after. | frereubu wrote: | I'm not sure this was anything new, even when the original tweet | was posted. I remember back in around 2000 when someone put up a | page on a random domain that simply said "Well done, you have | reached the end of the internet. You can now go outside." It was | early enough that people could still remember when one person | could have visited most sites on the internet, but that was long | enough ago that it was clearly impossible to do again. I remember | reading that page when someone sent it to me and feeling a deep | sense of relief at the idea, even though I knew it was | impossible. | aWidebrant wrote: | "Why did such a bland observation resonate with so many people?" | | Asked and answered. | TobyTheDog123 wrote: | This is a brilliantly potent and beautifully written article, and | plan on sourcing it on an upcoming business plan of mine. | borski wrote: | We should chat, because I plan on doing the same. Email's in my | profile. :) | INeedMoreRam wrote: | [dead] | Puts wrote: | Now the article was only talking about twitter and social media, | but I can't help react on the title since there really is no | evidence at all of internet wanting to be fragmented. In fact | it's just the opposite. | | - Not even the most hardcore people are using IRC anymore | | - All web hosting is now in the cloud | | - There's basically only two rendering engines left, of which one | is at the moment extremely marginalized | | - GIT that was supposed to be distributed is now used as a | centralized versioning system in centralized services. | | If anything it seems that the internet wants to be consolidated. | LinuxBender wrote: | I rarely use IRC any more and I used to run some small IRC | servers. Most moved to Discord but I refuse to use such | platforms for their abuse of retaining both text and voice | transcription chat history forever. Discord voice transcription | can run silently in any public or private channel and nobody | can prove otherwise. This was not impossible on IRC but far | less likely. Public channels were recorded with publicly | visible bots that had permission to be in the channel. Some | IRCD's had modules that would allow a NetAdmin to monitor | private chats but that can be mitigated with clients that | support OTR. | | Nowadays if I need to spin up a chat with people I know I just | give them a shell function that utilizes a self-hosted instance | of devzat. # uncensored chat using self | hosted https://github.com/quackduck/devzat.git # add to | .bashrc or /etc/profile.d/functions.sh on a VM somewhere | function chat() { # make us a temporary | nickname Name=$(base64 /dev/urandom | tr -d '/+' | dd | bs=12 count=1 2>/dev/null) # make us a temporary throw | away ssh key. key is our ID. ssh-keygen -q -t rsa -b | 2048 -N "" -C "${Name}" -f ~/.ssh/.chat_"${Name}" # add | +ssh-rsa in the event client restricts weaker ciphers | ssh -i ~/.ssh/.chat_"${Name}" -p 22 -4 -o "HostkeyAlgorithms | +ssh-rsa" -o "PubkeyAcceptedKeyTypes +ssh-rsa" | "${Name}"@23.239.0.70 rm -vf ~/.ssh/.chat_"${Name}" | ~/.ssh/.chat_"${Name}".pub } | | If things go sideways I just nuke that instance and what little | chat history the daemon had is gone. | ilyt wrote: | Uh, IRC didn't even had encryption and anyone in IRC chat can | still record everything just fine. That's so weird thing to | have issue with. | LinuxBender wrote: | IRC has had encryption for a very long time. IRCS is | typically on port 6697 but some admins also have it listen | on 443 for people behind fascist firewalls. | | _anyone in IRC chat can still record everything just fine_ | | I addressed this. Yes, someone can invite a bot in a | channel they control and the channel operators can kick/ban | a bot. Also people can achieve E2EE encryption using OTR. | So in fact there are two layers of encryption, one of which | individuals control and the IRC admin has no visibility | into. There is an unsupported OTR custom client for Discord | but it is against the terms of service. | | Discord on the other hand has visibility into everything | and no way for users to know this. Anything said on Discord | in text or voice is a permanent transcription record. | People are made to believe they can delete messages, but | they are just flagged as deleted in Cassandra. | | If I want a private voice conversation with someone or a | group, I invite them to my private uMurmur server. There | are clients for workstations and cell phones. Some people | won't use such things and those are not people I would | likely ever talk to anyway. | vasqw wrote: | >IRC has had encryption for a very long time. IRCS is | typically on port 6697 but some admins also have it | listen on 443 for people behind fascist firewalls. | | Transit encryption maybe, but admins can still read | everything. | LinuxBender wrote: | Yup like I mentioned there are modules that allow | snooping. This is why if people truly want privacy they | need to use a client that supports OTR add-ons providing | end-to-end encryption. Pidgin is one of them. | | Another option would be for each small circle of friends | to run their own uMurmur or ngircd servers, then at worst | the admin would spy on their friends. ngircd can be spun | up in a few minutes, even faster if one already has some | LetsEncrypt keys for a domain. uMurmur can also be spun | up super fast on a linux home router. | quackduck wrote: | Hiii, I'm the person who made devzat. | | Devzat supports a "private" mode in which only some IDs you | specify in the config file are allowed to join. In that mode, | it disables the 16 message backlog on #main too. It seems | like that would be a good option for you, but it looks like | you're having the people you know gen new SSH keys every time | (which is what IDs are based on). I'm curious why. | | Would you have liked a standalone preference for whether to | have a backlog? What features would you like / what things | could be improved? | | Always interesting to see how devzat is being used. | LinuxBender wrote: | _but it looks like you 're having the people you know gen | new SSH keys every time_ | | This is just an example of an ephemeral implementation of | your chat system. Spin up a node, have some people play | around with it, communicate whatever they wish then destroy | the node _in the sense of destroying a VM_. One could | certainly leave it running and people could use persistent | ssh keys like you do on your instance. Using ephemeral ssh | keys implies more aspect of anonymity assuming one connects | from a short-lived VM. People could of course adjust my | example shell function to not remove keys and to use a | persistent nick-name. | | _Would you have liked a standalone preference for whether | to have a backlog?_ | | That sounds like a great feature/configuration option. | Maybe even allow a admin-defined backlog size for people | that want persistent instances. | | _What features would you like / what things could be | improved?_ | | I think it is great as-is but that is just my personal | take. For me, simpler is better. I appreciate that you | added a configuration to disable external integrations. | Less specific to devzat but more specific to golang would | be to have default compile-time hardening options. I am | impressed with how nice you made it look with the color | schemes. | | Perhaps others here will play around with it and offer | suggestions. SSH based chat is not super popular which | really surprises me. I could see devzat being an amazing | fall-back for a private chat inside a company when Slack or | Discord are having a moment or for those times when people | want to say something that isn't recorded forever and | especially not visible to their management. I think it | would also be amazing for people in oppressive regimes that | block access to all the mainstream chat platforms but allow | SSH to specific VPS providers. | TobyTheDog123 wrote: | These are all false equivalencies, as you're talking technology | and implementation instead of a consumer product or idea. The | author is talking about centralization of moderation and | audience, not how it's hosted or how that moderation/audience | is presented to the user | | People moved off of IRC because it was inconvenient for less- | technical users, it is far easier to just download an app. That | doesn't mean they want those apps to be centralized, or don't | want their social media to be fragmented so they're talking to | only like-minded individuals. | | It is 100% possible that someone creates a technologically- | centralized app that allows for a decentralized audience and | moderation. I'm not aware of anyone doing this though. | borski wrote: | I agree, but I'd also argue discord or Slack does this, in | the same way that IRC did; you essentially spin up separate | servers and thus separate communities. Sure, it's still | hosted by a central entity, but the moderation and discourse | is all yours to manage. | TobyTheDog123 wrote: | I have _no_ idea how I blanked on Discord. To me Slack | still screams "business tool" and "only business tool," | but you're very much right regardless. | | There's also Reddit (to an extent) | poszlem wrote: | I think the reason why you disagree is because you mean a | different thing by "the internet". | | "The internet" - the corporate internet. "The internet" - | normal people on the internet. "The internet" - etc. | api wrote: | People don't use IRC anymore because there are better open | alternatives like Matrix and ActivityPub based systems. Those | are what the "hard core" people use. | | As for the cloud there are loads of clouds. Web sites can be | moved. Same with git hosting which just provides a convenient | place to store the repo and post meta data like issues. Moving | from GitHub to Gitea or GitLab is usually pretty easy. | | More and more people seem to be at least trying a less | centralized approach. Personally I think we passed peak | centralization in the middle 20-teens when there were just a | few social platforms everyone used and federated stuff was | primitive and new. We are well into the beginning of the | unbundling phase. | Wazako wrote: | What is important is, as the article says, "to be allowed to | leave", this consists in having alternatives. | | - The web hosting is in the cloud, but if it's easy to change | it, what's the problem? | | - Git a url and you can easily change the central backup server | point. | nonrandomstring wrote: | One of the most frightening bits of social science/philosophy I | heard came from Slavoj Zizek, because it's about harbingers of | big change. | | I have tried in vain to find a written reference. It's buried | within some of his often tediously tangential talks - but I would | love to know if any former Yugoslavians can attest to the truth | or falsity of it. | | Zizek said that the former Yugoslavia was a tense but stable | amalgam for decades in which good humour and brutally free speech | - including "edgy but acceptable" racism - was permitted and even | celebrated. | | Sometime before the 90s that changed, and a chilling taciturnity | overcame the nation. The "politically correct" atmosphere was a | lead up to civil war. | | It's possible Zizek completely misreads cause and effect. But I | always take his point to be - as elementary psychoanalysis - that | when people stop talking about how they really feel, it's the | start of a road to trouble; jaw jaw jaw being better than war, | war, war. The culture of faux "offence" created by Social media | had definitely done the same to online discourse. | crazygringo wrote: | I don't know about the specific case of Yugoslavia, but I'd be | incredibly wary of drawing any broader conclusions, even if it | were a factor in that specific case. | | The US Civil War certainly had plenty of "jaw jaw jaw" before | it, there was no "political correctness" at the time, and that | didn't prevent it. | | Similarly we've had something like three and a half decades of | "political correctness" in the US without any civil war yet | (Jan 6 notwithstanding). While you'd think that if political | correctness really had such a strong effect, there would have | been a second civil war by the late 1990's. | | Not to mention that "jaw jaw jaw" can be the horrible hate | speech that works to _incite_ war. | | If you look at history, the counterexamples seem incredibly | more numerous. So hopefully we can feel less frightened by | political correctness. :) | Taek wrote: | January 6th is a significant data point and shouldn't just be | handwaved away. I've watched political correctness erode the | dynamic of my own family, it's continuously sewing resent | between people who have different angles of non-PC opinions. | watwut wrote: | Escalating racial and ethnic hate was lead up to war. Just | like, before Russia attacked now, the anti Ukrainian propaganda | went up. | | And before WWII, nazi went up with hate and their anti Jews | language went up both in lead up to war and during ir, | culminating in holocaust. | nonrandomstring wrote: | > Escalating racial and ethnic hate was lead up to war. | | That's exactly what I'd think. And historically I'd wager | every well documented example shows it. | | And yet Zizek gave that as a first hand account (that's where | he is from please correct me if I am wrong), and it's an | intriguing hypothesis. Certainly an unpopular one judging by | my immediate down-vote for even mentioning it (as an open | question no less) | | I don't think he was talking about "hate". He was talking | about open acceptance of difference. That's what it seems is | getting ever less permissible - and that's what I find | concerning. | | Can we no longer make that distinction? Are we too timid to | even discuss that? Is that what social media has done to us? | EZ-Cheeze wrote: | It's going to be paradise when we can find our natural best | friends AT SCALE | | Here's my second most recent idea on how to do it, haven't | written up the latest yet: | | http://zeroprecedent.com/A%E2%9D%AF%E2%9D%AEON%20deck%20v.3.... | npilk wrote: | Interesting concept but what seems more compelling to me would | be more like a Tiktok/Reddit hybrid. You log in and see content | that "the algorithm" knows you'll like, but with an added | element of community from people "the algorithm" knows you'll | find cool/funny/insightful/etc. Like a simulacrum of the | Facebook feed but instead of friends and family it's this | "tribe". No need for labels or even naming those people. | | Feels like this is what social media is trying to achieve | anyway but they're mostly stuck with the existing social graph | as a starting point... | EZ-Cheeze wrote: | I actually mention extremely good content aggregation in | there, but more as a byproduct of good matching than as a way | to arrive at it. But it really could work the other way | around, with the things you and everyone else likes providing | strong signal that can be correlated. | | I hope this is the year we all get a thousand true friends! | Instant connection every time | machina_ex_deus wrote: | The biggest problem is the like button. The like button is not | only a bad metric - it's the worst possible metric. | | Speaking up used to be something you do to change someone's mind | or yours. What's the point in speaking up if nobody does anything | with what you said? | | The like button reprogrammed people. They started getting | positive feedback for speaking in an echo chamber, for saying and | doing things their audience already agrees with. They started | getting negative feedback for doing the thing language was | designed for. | | Normal purposeful speech makes different opinions closer, while | speech under the feedback of the like button makes similar | opinions even closer and different opinions further apart. | | If the interaction stays the same of course fragmentation is | inevitable - but that's not a good thing. This fragmentation | extends to the real world and has real consequences. It will blow | up. Even with Twitter being internally fragmented the | polarization in society grew. Nobody wants to listen to the other | side anymore, while there's always the most to be learned from | listening to the other side. | | The core of the problem needs to be addressed: that social media | has reprogrammed people to the purpose of speech. | | One of the reasons I'm even bothering with websites like HN as | opposed to social media is because it still feels like there's a | slight chance of making people change their minds here. | ROTMetro wrote: | Finally, big geek brains are going to get applied to this | problem. Maybe we can come up with some algorithms to improve | this experience! I was hoping this demographic would do | something to fix the problems created... the last time this | demographic tried to fix this and created these problems. ( | glad to see such humility and self awareness on what made | internet toxic in this discussion). | hinkley wrote: | Once in a while I'll say something snarky and get downvoted. I | usually delete those because I'm not really adding to the | dialog. But the world is full of uncomfortable truths, software | doubly so (or at least, I can see more of them). It's humbling | when people agree, irritating or amusing when they don't. | Confusing when I say the same thing in two replies in one | thread and one gets 25 downvotes while the other gets 35 | upvotes. | | My fake internet points go up every week whether I say | something controversial or not so since they're fake anyway | what do I care? I know some people do but get a grip. | | At the end of the day if you understand something that other | people don't, I figure that's a way to stay gainfully employed. | I don't like cleaning up other people's messes for long though. | It's fun at first and on some teams I get copycats and | everything goes well, more or less. I've maybe made the world a | better place by teaching some people something new. On others I | become the janitor and end up leaving. Getting "downvoted" at | work does matter. | TEP_Kim_Il_Sung wrote: | I leave my stuff up, since most people downvote based on what | they think I am trying to say, not based on what I am | actually saying, at least seeing from responses I get. | lapcat wrote: | 1) "Speaking up" is just one of many forms of speech. Why is | speaking up "the purpose of speech", or even the purpose of | social media speech? | | 2) There are many reasons to speak up. One may be to organize | like-minded people into an effective advocacy group. Another | may just be to lament something that you can't change. | | 3) I'm not trying to be snarky, but do you have any examples of | changing people's minds on HN or social media? I personally | don't feel like I ever change anyone's mind. | machina_ex_deus wrote: | Speaking is meant to exchange information. You're not | exchanging any information when the other side agrees with | you and knows everything you're saying. | | An advocacy group is ineffective if all its members have this | mindset. With signaling mindset you have no chance to | convince anyone of anything. I'd rather get someone thinking | differently a little bit confused than lament something with | people who think the same. It doesn't reinforce helplessness. | | I have many anecdotes with somewhat low chance of moving | opinions. Few people will admit changing their minds, but | sometimes they will agree with you but still offer a weaker | counterpoint of the opposing narrative. | | You can't flip someone's opinion 180deg on the internet, but | you can get someone on the other side to acknowledge a | counter point. | lapcat wrote: | > Speaking is meant to exchange information. | | Speaking has many purposes. Why do you keep trying to | "limit speech", so to speak? | | > You're not exchanging any information when the other side | agrees with you | | I disagree. Is there not a difference between facts and | opinions? Why do I have to "change my mind" in order to | learn a new fact? What if the new fact actually _supports_ | my opinion? | | > and knows everything you're saying | | Confirming that another person knows what you know can be | useful. | | > An advocacy group is ineffective if all its members have | this mindset. | | To the contrary, advocacy groups are most effective when | the members agree with each other, and most ineffective | when they fight among themselves. | | > Few people will admit changing their minds, but sometimes | they will agree with you but still offer a weaker | counterpoint of the opposing narrative. | | This gives the appearance to me that you're telling | yourself you've changed other people's mind and that they | now agree with you, despite evidence to the contrary. | | > You can't flip someone's opinion 180deg on the internet, | but you can get someone on the other side to acknowledge a | counter point. | | What does this mean? To me it sounds kind of like debate | club, a game with scoring. | robertlagrant wrote: | If you change your mind right now that people's minds are | changed on HN then you will have evidence of it happening : - | ) | nickthegreek wrote: | I've had my mind changed due to HN. But the posters of | comments would never know. I'll give them an upvote and move | on. | lapcat wrote: | > I've had my mind changed due to HN. | | Do you have an example? | nickthegreek wrote: | No specific one comes to mind, but normally the comments | move my position, not flip it on its head. This is most | effectively done by the poster giving an example of | something I didn't know about along with a link to a | primary resource. | greggman3 wrote: | It's not the "like" button. It's the "likes" number. Hide the | number and the like button is signal to the system. So "likes" | and it's a signal to the poster. That IMO is the problem, not | the button itself, the "score" you see visually. | | I've hidden the score here on HN for myself and on | StackOverflow. Two places where score has a negative effect on | myself. | culi wrote: | Imo there's dimensions to which different systems let users | express themselves. | | 1. The like button (e.g. Twitter) [1 dimension, discrete] | | 2. Clapping (e.g. Medium) [1 dimension, (kinda-)cotinuous] | | 2. Upvote/downvote (e.g. Reddit) [1 dimension, 2 directions, | discrete] | | 3. Preset reactions (e.g. iMessage) [multiple dimensions, | discrete] | | 4. Any emoji reaction (e.g. Slack) [(kinda-)infinite | dimensions, discrete] | | 5. User-defined tags (e.g. Steam) [infinite dimensions, | discrete] | | 6. Tags you can agree/disagree with (e.g. Kongregate) [infinite | dimensions, bidirectional, discrete] | | I could go on, but my point is that maybe the reason the like | button is so bad is because it's literally the simplest | possible implementation of user interactions to content. | Perhaps a system that allowed for more nuance would make users | consider their interaction more | harvey9 wrote: | The maximum amount of nuance is here: the Reply button. But I | agree with your point. We need something short of the Reply | button because reading large numbers of replies just to get a | sentiment analysis is not practical. | culi wrote: | Right, I generally agree. But even comments can be | agree/disagreed with or voted on or saved to lists or... | etc. We're back to where we started | | Imagine hackernews or stackexchange if there was absolutely | no upvote/downvote mechanism | machina_ex_deus wrote: | The simplest possible implementation of user interaction is | writing a response. It's already as rich as it can be. It | gives less power to bots because bots are incoherent. I feel | like the internet devolved us from eloquent human speakers | back into monkeys making few noises for communicating. Emoji | is similar. | | Speak. Write text. Formulate your position. We're humans not | apes. Get feedback from speaking. The video format in some | cases is the same - ape like reaction movies, no content. | Assume you're interacting with someone intelligent who isn't | convinced by the funny number of likes on your post, but by | the content of what you say. | borski wrote: | > It gives less power to bots because bots are incoherent. | | ChatGPT would like a word with you. | culi wrote: | I agree with this, but the point of these user interactions | is to whittle them down to something that others can easily | relate to. | | If you then say "well people can agree/disagree" with | comments, then we're back where we started. Why are they | agreeing? Do they find it funny, useful, or just like the | way the user makes their point? How MUCH do they agree? | What if they disagree? | | If your reaction is that we should completely kill these | interactions then... well have you ever been on giant | forums with no way to sort? Sometimes they're fine. Like | when there's low volume. Some forums evolve chronologically | and that method works as well. But if you're not gonna | commit to reading a pamphlet, you're probably not gonna | find such a comment section very useful | pixl97 wrote: | I've always wondered why someone hasn't created what I call | the 'orange slice' expression button. Much like cutting an | orange in half it gives a preset amount of positive and | negative values. Sort of a play off the meta moderation that | Slashdot did. | | For positive values it you could have something like | | [I believe this is truthful], [I like this | content],[Funny],[Positive message] | | and for negative values | | [I believe this is false/untruthful],[I dislike this | content],[Sad/hateful],[Something else negative I can't think | of at the moment?] | TEP_Kim_Il_Sung wrote: | That's what trive.news was about. Turns out crowd sourcing | truth gives a weighted average towards accuracy. Something | tells me businesses relying on getting "experts" to sell | you on things, would want to keep general public opinion | out of the equation. | | http://www.trive.news/Whitepaper.0.2.6x.pdf | neilwilson wrote: | The dislike button is worse than the like button. | | You may as well say get lost. | | The Orville episode "Majority Rules" allegorises the concept | wonderfully | swayvil wrote: | I've caught myself being sensitive to the popular narrative | when uttering my opinions, fearful of my "citizenship score". | Shameful, yes. To a degree, here (yes!) but much moreso | elsewhere (might be unavoidable). | | Feedback is divine. Convenience is king. So let's go with the | vote button. This distributed god-king is our best way to | control this stuff (moderation, filteration etc). | | We should not only be voting but looking at our peer's votes | too. Weight votes by the voter. Stuff like that | zajio1am wrote: | > The biggest problem is the like button. The like button is | not only a bad metric - it's the worst possible metric | | But there is a real need for some kind of post rating/ranking | (like like/dislike button, or explicit point rating). Once you | got to thousand-post threads the without ranking mechanisms | interesting posts are lost in noise. I guess that effectiveness | of these mechanisms is an important part of why people prefer | one forum before others. | ilyt wrote: | The problem is no system is immune to | incompetent/uncooperative users. | | If in reddit/hn-like sites users use up/downvote as "okay, | this is interesting discussion"/"this adds nothing to the | topic" it works reasonably well. | | If they decide that it is just same as like/dislike button | (as is common on many bigger subreddits), then we get back to | promoting echo chambers | postalrat wrote: | Maybe AI is the answer. It can be be the better judge of | comments in a conversation. | vorpalhex wrote: | "Ah sorry the magic AI has decided only comments aligned | with <X> political party are good. It must be correct!" | | AI is just an algorithm. It's not a magic truth knower. | barbariangrunge wrote: | What about upvoting and downvoting in hn? Do you find that to | be positive? | | Personally, I find I have to work to not write striking | statements because I know they give me chance of getting a ton | of upvotes. If I'm tired, the temptation is harder to resist | yawnxyz wrote: | On Reddit, sometimes it's fun to sort by "most | controversial", e.g. posts with most upvotes AND downvotes. | That's where some of the most "edgy takes" lie. I kind of | wish you could do that here, too | jmyeet wrote: | The like button or upvote or whatever has the same meaning: the | viewer is signalling most of the time "I agree with this". Once | you factor in other things like quotes and replies you're no | longer measuring "engagement". You're measuring and optimizing | for "outrage". | | Thing is, social media didn't invent this. Outrage-as- | engagement existed on TV long before social media existed. For | decades, local news has pushed the "crime is out of control" | narrative because it gets viewers and readers. Car chases, | wall-to-wall coverage of violent and property crime, etc. To do | this, local news needs to cooperation of the police so the net | effect is local news becomes the propaganda arm of the police. | | Cable news has been on this bandwagon since at least the 1990s. | | > ... that social media has reprogrammed people to the purpose | of speech. | | I disagree. We have this high-minded view of what speech used | to be only because we weren't there. Go back and look at | segregregation-era (let alone slavery-era) newspapers, | speeches, etc. | machina_ex_deus wrote: | I agree with you on mass media, in fact I think the problem | already started there, and it's even worse because it's not | even a conversation, it's one sided. | | When I'm speaking in person it's still similar to what I'm | describing. I could have political discussion in highly | polarized family with different opinions and people | listening, and with friends too. | | It's not "used to be", unless somehow you stopped talking in | the real world. | falcolas wrote: | Why does someone's position need to change? That implies that | somebody is wrong, and that's not necessarily the case. More | often, the "wrongness" comes from having a different point of | view. | | For example, it's easy to say "fuck cars" when you live in the | city and they are only polluting, noisy nuisances that are, at | best, optional for living your life. But when you live where I | do, not having a car means a significant number of unreasonable | changes to your life. | hattmall wrote: | It's not a binary. The position doesn't have to change from | one to the other. It's that with more information from each | side, both positions should evolve. That's where progress can | be actualized. Echo chambers don't get results, they just | echo. | pessimizer wrote: | > Why does someone's position need to change? That implies | that somebody is wrong, and that's not necessarily the case. | | Depends on your purpose in talking. My purposes are to inform | people of things, to request information about things, to ask | people to do things, to play, or to indirectly express | approval(hug) or disapproval(hiss.) | | If I'm arguing with somebody, I should either be improving | the quality of their information or improving the quality of | my own, or determined to convince somebody that they should | do something. If I'm playing, by definition I can't be | seriously arguing. The only people who care about my approval | or disapproval _as such_ are my parents and other loved ones; | to other people the news about my current feelings as an | individual aren 't important, and if other people who didn't | care about me found them important, they wouldn't want | innuendo, they'd just want the facts. | | If we have two incompatible opinions about something, yet we | have no desire to bring them into agreement, why are we even | arguing about it? Surely there's something better we could be | doing. | | I think a lot of people have started to think that the | internet loves or hates them personally, and are desperate | for its approval in an unhealthy way. The fact that there's | money to be made in being noticed on the internet makes the | situation even worse. | | > For example, it's easy to say "fuck cars" when you live in | the city and they are only polluting, noisy nuisances that | are, at best, optional for living your life. But when you | live where I do, not having a car means a significant number | of unreasonable changes to your life. | | "It's easy to say that if you're you" isn't part of any | legitimate argument. It's just extraneous ad hominem that | people add while making (or eliding past) an argument. It | also doesn't get you out of explaining "significant number" | or especially "unreasonable," which begs the question. | Karrot_Kream wrote: | The "fuck cars" position is a great example. I advocate for | pedestrian and cyclist friendly infrastructure for our city | at our local planning board. The quality of online discourse | even for people that share my position is terrible. There's a | lot to discuss like fire apparatus access or construction | labor shortages causing backups, street classifications, but | the online discourse has so little of that. | | A lot of these folks are driven by YouTubers who do advocacy | work for those unfamiliar with the debate. But actually | showing up at a planning meeting with that kind of rhetoric | makes no sense. And this isn't even beginning to engage with | people with different positions on road infrastructure. It's | the double edged sword of the internet that raises awareness | for issues but loses nuance because nuance loses engagement. | ehnto wrote: | Great example, because people saying "fuck cars" probably | aren't talking about your cars or your situation. They mean | the cities. They too have a different point of view. What | discussion is good at is allowing us to talk about topics | even with differing points of view, but a like/dislike button | only rewards or disuades what you said. There is no | opportunity for the meeting of minds, and it makes an | echochamber. | | Had you seen a video titled "Fuck cars" and disliked it, | Youtube would a stop showing you that content, and now you | only get pro-car content. Or someone who loves bikes sees the | video, they like it, they would never get pro-car content, | and would never see your point of view. No one is challenged, | no one is brought closer together in understanding. | feet wrote: | Generally from my experience, people saying "fuck cars" | aren't just talking about cars alone. They're talking about | all poorly designed towns, cities, and infrastructure that | completely cater to cars while disregarding the necessity | of human movement, transportation, and health. | TEP_Kim_Il_Sung wrote: | So get rid of pre-fabbed "individualization" by the | platform, and allow individuals to choose what they | do&don't want to see. This usually cuts ads way down, so I | see why they don't do it, but it would fix the issues of | bubbles. (Assuming bubbles and division is not what they | wanted in the first place). | machina_ex_deus wrote: | Ever heard of someone saying "fuck cars" in person? Where the | conversation just stood on "fuck cars", and stopped there? | When someone on the internet says "fuck cars", it's because | he's expecting to get some dopamine from getting liked by | similarly minded friends who also hate cars. | | If his purpose was to have a discussion, to convince you, it | wouldn't be "fuck cars", it would be "cars are polluting". | And even if he's an arrogant asshole in real life, you could | explain how cars are useful to you, and ask what he's | suggesting to do. Maybe 1% are such total careless assholes | you shouldn't be talking to them, but others will try to come | up with an answer, and if they fail to give it, they will | remember it. | poszlem wrote: | Isn't the whole point that you can change the position of a | person who says "fuck cars" by talking to them and telling | them why some people need them? | | If they are not trolls, learning about how much of the world | is reliant on cars should absolutely change their position. | sokoloff wrote: | My experience is that people who say "fuck cars" are | entirely aware of how much of world is absolutely reliant | upon them. | pkdpic wrote: | I'm pretty sure I agree with you 100% but as I write this I'm | wondering how different an upvote is from a like button... | | Also wondering if there was a pre-internet social equivalent of | a like button. Maybe there wasn't one. It's probably dangerous | to assume there was always some version of a like button. But | it's probably just as dangerous to assume there wasn't?... | amadeuspagel wrote: | Everything you say about the like button also applies to votes, | so if the like button is what makes social media bad, I don't | see why HN should be better. | Andrew_nenakhov wrote: | HN's vote count is not public, and negative count is capped | at -4 so you can't downvote someone into oblivion. | amadeuspagel wrote: | Most social networks don't have an equivalent to downvotes | at all. | mikrl wrote: | I think this might be structurally related to our | political ideology of liberal democracy. | | We assume that bad takes die out or are overcome by good | takes in the marketplace of ideas. Therefore, the | 'magnitude' of a bad take should intuitively be close to | 0, and the magnitude of a good take should be positive | and nonzero. | | Allowing negative scores permits bad takes to become | large in magnitude. Allowing or disallowing downvotes is | basically just scaling the distribution of magnitude of | takes since bad takes will sit closer to zero than good | takes in general, even if they cannot be downvoted. | ilyt wrote: | But lack of downvotes mixes "just average takes not worth | a upvote" with "this guy is obviously a moron, why I'm | even seeing his comments together with other competent | people?" | amadeuspagel wrote: | That's why upvotes and downvotes should be shown | separately. | doublerabbit wrote: | I feel the better approach would be where if you wish to | downvote you must give a reason for the downvote. | | This would eliminate the snowball effect. | crazygringo wrote: | When -4 pushes you to the very bottom of the page in text | so grayed-out that it's not even readable unless you | highlight it first, I'd still call that oblivion. Also, | flags from just two (?) people remove your comment | entirely. | poszlem wrote: | Yeah, as much as I don't want it to be true, HN algorithm | is one of the harshest I've seen in terms of allowing | people to hide/remove unpopular opinions. Some people | think it's a feature not a bug though. I am not one of | those people. | | It's definitely "an elegant system for a more civilized | age". Not for whatever you call the internet in 2023. | airstrike wrote: | _> The biggest problem is the like button. The like button is | not only a bad metric - it 's the worst possible metric._ | | Upvoted for this | mypetocean wrote: | For me it was this: | | > Normal purposeful speech makes different opinions closer, | while speech under the feedback of the like button makes | similar opinions even closer and different opinions further | apart. | | But there is another aspect to the complexities here. | | Years ago, I started thinking of the LIKE/UPVOTE button as an | "increase visibility" button. | | I don't upvote just because I like it (humor perhaps being an | exception). | | Often, I'm not upvoting just the comments I like: I'm | upvoting the whole containing _thread_, including the | conflicting views if they seem to have been made in good | faith. | | Because when good quality discourse takes place, I want the | whole instance to be seen. | | In these cases, the intended audience of my upvotes is most | immediately the algorithm (in a way), rather than human | viewers. | | Sometimes I've found myself wishing my upvotes could be made | invisible to humans since I know many of them will interpret | my upvote differently than intended. There is no nuance. | | It gets me wondering how feedback mechanisms might be | diversified to add nuance back into these systems (while | still moderating complexity). | | Emoticons (as on Slack) do add nuance, but every emoticon | pack I've seen lacks nuance most in neutral and critical | responses. | | Of course, no technology we have now can compare with verbal | discourse for nuance. But you and I are more likely to be | able to influence feedback features on social media than to | succeed in eliminating them. | idatum wrote: | > Years ago, I started thinking of the LIKE/UPVOTE button | as an "increase visibility" button. | | I think Mastodon tries to make that distinction with like | vs boost. Boost seems to be about making a post more | visible ("hey look at this!") and like is more about | "thanks for posting". At least on the server I use. | Mistletoe wrote: | This is one of the more astute things I've read in a while. The | like button has become what an angry mob yelling to one another | while holding pitchforks use language for. And this is what | using the internet feels like now. | dayvid wrote: | The biggest problem is that you can make money from the | internet. | | The internet was more about self-expression and fun. Then | people realized they can sell things or themselves (being a | "content-creator", "thought-leader", etc.). | | As a result the most active people are tailoring their actions | towards increasing engagement, getting you to buy something, | getting you to think a certain way, etc. and we have a divide | between "content-creator" influencers/producers and passive | consumers who like or retweet things they haven't thought | through but sound catchy and provide the same opinions. | | It's not 100% bad; content is more polished and organized, but | you have to be discerning in order to get good value and a lot | of people don't have those abilities. | zackmorris wrote: | To expand on Parkinson's Law: capitalism grows to fill the | space allotted to it. | | The 90s internet was great because it was built by academia. | Post Dot Bomb, the internet got saturated by big business. | Everything evolves so quickly on the web that we're already | finding ourselves living under the eventualities of late- | stage capitalism and ultimate wealth inequality (slavery). | | I've come to view tech as an ever-tightening noose that | solves every problem except how to get out of it. Loosely | that means that whatever goal each of us has for going into | tech will be the one that gets us in the end. We get older, | conditions change and we find ourselves becoming the villain | of our own story. Even if we succeed, we fail. | | Stepping outside of that, I've decided to embrace magical | thinking in my own life. I believe that ultimately tech will | bring magic back into the world and we'll find ourselves | confronting the ethical dilemmas of fairy tails. In the New | Age, when everyone has the ability to change the world for | better or worse, wisdom becomes more important than | knowledge. | | The status quo is threatened by that, so there's already a | backlash against stuff like wokeism. Socialism becomes the | bogeyman to keep us distracted so we don't turn our attention | away from systems of control in general. And so on. | | How to protect ourselves from that? I think it's helpful to | meditate on what the opposite of all this might look like. | What's the opposite of profit? Or power? Softer questions | might be: what's our individual definition of success? Why | are we doing this? | | Now to get back to watching superhero movies on New Year's | Day.. | hinkley wrote: | The Internet is television with lower production value and | longer commercials. | lotsofpulp wrote: | I spend far less time subjected to advertisements on the | internet than when I used to watch TV. Near zero time, | actually. | | Now it is a game of figuring out the shills that are | advertising, but trying to disguise their content as not | advertising. | hinkley wrote: | That is exactly what "spending your time dealing with | advertising" means. See also cigarettes and food products | with the labels turned out. Soap operas are literally | named after advertising. At least they're honest about | it. | lotsofpulp wrote: | TV is minimum 1/3 time advertising, 2/3 content, but that | is ignoring shilling and product placement in the | content. | | I do not spend anywhere near 1/3rd of my time on the | internet figuring out what is and is not advertising. | Mostly by avoiding content with images and video. | hinkley wrote: | I'd say 1/4 advertising, 2/3 content and 1/12 opening and | closing credits but I take your point. | | I don't know if you've tried to search for anything on | the internet lately, but I've found that any time I'm | trying to be an active rather than a passive consumer of | the internet, it's getting damned hard to avoid things | that are 'SEO optimized' and relevant content pessimized. | dayvid wrote: | A lot of internet advertising comes in different forms. | For example, with Search Engine Optimization, businesses | will create "content" or pages with information for | keywords to get their pages ranked higher. This also | applies to social media and youtube. In order to be | popular or remained ranked, you have to put out video | content or stream almost daily. | | This is essentially "junk" content which shows itself as | reaction videos and related content. If you want | engagement, then it turns into having a strong opinion | about something the creators probably don't care that | much about because it will get people who agree or | disagree with the stance to comment and get into comment | battles, etc. | | It's definitely not as annoying as TV commercials, but | it's not good for people unaware of it who get anxiety or | waste a lot of time feeling upset about things designed | to push views to someone's platform, or in worst cases | push their agenda. | __MatrixMan__ wrote: | Money does this to everything. | | Radio used to be cool, now it's mostly ads. | | Circulating pamphlets was once a potent political tool, now | they come sandwiched between ads in a newspaper that nobody | reads. | | Evaluate a randomly chosen NFT-referent for artistic merit | and see how it stack up to a randomly chosen pre-nft art. | | I'm still optimistic about the web though. It's more | configurable than the other media. We may yet find a way to | wall off the advertising cancer and make some space for cool | stuff to survive. | Nextgrid wrote: | I would say the biggest problem is advertising. It would be | much less harmful if commercial content was upfront about | asking for your wallet, and the transaction ended there (the | publisher's incentives are directly aligned with the end- | customer's). Instead, we have stuff that's technically "free" | but actually comes with plenty of strings attached such as | mismatched incentives - the content is only there as bait and | the actual objective is to get you to look at an ad or think | a certain way for commercial gain. Worse, this "free" stuff | being out there means there's not enough pressure to build a | good, universal micropayments system to displace advertising, | so the problem remains. | idiotsecant wrote: | I would hazard a guess to say that the best micropayment | service in the world is going to have trouble competing | with "free" for the average user. | TchoBeer wrote: | I've said this for so long. The horrible mismatched | incentives that ad money has wrought is disasterous. | creeble wrote: | Pushing like button on this. | paulryanrogers wrote: | Speech is also about comfort and venting where echo chambers | shine. And those chambers predate the social media. IME even | IRL people tend to congregate mostly with like minded | individuals. | | And if the congregation turns out to have too many views in | contrast to ones own then folks tend to leave. | vorpalhex wrote: | > even IRL people tend to congregate mostly with like minded | individuals | | Historically, forming these tiny niche communities wasn't | possible. Sure you had different social groups but they were | geographically limited. You are also stuck to a degree when | there is conflict. | | > if the congregation turns out to have too many views in | contrast to ones own then folks tend to leave. | | Sure and it tends to be moderate people who leave first. | Groups become more dogmatic and cultish, more extreme over | time as they demoderate. | lapcat wrote: | > Historically, forming these tiny niche communities wasn't | possible. | | Friends? | vorpalhex wrote: | Your friends were your church, schoolmates, etc. You | can't pick "People who are X, Y, Z and support only A and | B" because the pool of potential friend candidates just | wasn't large enough. | | On Twitter, I can choose to only be friends with | conservative libertarian furries who believe in crypto. | That doesn't scale to real life. | lapcat wrote: | > Your friends were your church, schoolmates, etc. You | can't pick "People who are X, Y, Z and support only A and | B" because the pool of potential friend candidates just | wasn't large enough. | | It seemed to work well enough for me. One thing worth | noting is that people who live in the same geographical | location already tend to be somewhat like-minded, for | obvious reasons. But you seem to be talking about a | "perfect match", which is an impossible, unnecessary | standard. | | > On Twitter, I can choose to only be friends with | conservative libertarian furries who believe in crypto. | | You're not friends with people on Twitter. If you think | you are, try leaving Twitter, and see how many of your | "friends" still talk to you afterward. | nunez wrote: | I think the like button is fine. There have been ways of | expressing agreement or disagreement long before that idea came | along. (See also: "This") | | In my opinion, infinite scrolling is substantially more | damaging. If you have poor self control, which I think many | people do, using an app that does nothing to tell you when to | quit is an open invitation to addiction. | prox wrote: | First, I agree with the reprogramming. | | But in my experience, the goals shouldn't be to as you state | "to change their minds." , it should be to listen and respond. | If I disagree with you, I want to know _how you came to that | conclusion_ , I am not interested in your talking points you | had recycled from somewhere. | | This also makes discussions way more interesting. Now, this | principle should extend to anyone, and the problem is that in | online debates discussions often become asymmetrical. Say if | your debate partner has no interest in listening, or argues | with bad faith. Online communication should promote that | mindset (something HN does in a form, but surely not perfected | yet) | chrisweekly wrote: | "Seek to understand before seeking to be understood." | machina_ex_deus wrote: | I said change theirs or yours. Not necessarily change it | completely but at least learn where the difference comes | from, and either move my position to account for new | information or logic, or try to convince the other side. | | But I do see it as a goal to get the opinions closer. I | prefer listening while having a clear picture of what I'm | currently thinking about it because only then you can realize | where's the difference, and the difference is what you want | to learn. | | If the other side doesn't listen to statements, they might | listen to questions. Asking what they think about X might get | a better response than just stating X. Works in real world | too against these types. Many times it's not because it's | online, it's just narcissistic personality. Many people won't | acknowledge when something moves their opinion. | zackees wrote: | [dead] | mikewarot wrote: | >The biggest problem is the like button. The like button is not | only a bad metric - it's the worst possible metric. | | ANY single metric is going to be unfit for purpose. We need to | have a continuum of responses, tags or perhaps a vector for | votes instead of a scalar. | | It's like trying to force everything into a single hierarchy, | it never works. You always end up at Matthew 6:24[1]: | No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, | and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and | despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon. | | Any single vote/rank/option range ends up serving mammon | | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matthew_6:24 | nathias wrote: | Not at all, we want to have a unified discourse, but we have | vastly different values and therefore moderation preferences. The | only solution to this is making moderation user-based, but with | better UX than just block everyone you don't like. The user | initiatives formed 'block lists' on twitter, which are kind of a | good idea for this, you have decentralized decisions that get | aggregated into a single filter which then the user simply | applies if he chooses so. | fexecve wrote: | This is already a solved problem. If I block every anti-vaxxer | I see on Twitter, eventually Twitter will stop showing them to | me. But if I view the tweet replies to President Biden, I see | the anti-vaxxer replies right at the top. So they just need to | apply the user preferences across the entire platform. | nathias wrote: | yea, thats what I mean, we have the solutions and they would | also work for decentralized protocols which is always | presented as the biggest obstacle for alternatives ... | tshadley wrote: | If twitter dies, where do I find a site where I can follow at | least one expert/leader in every major | discipline/social/political-movement to get a sort of snapshot of | what's happening in the world? | | I don't need to agree with every expert/leader, I just want to | know what they think. | fleddr wrote: | There's no singular replacement currently that meets those | conditions. Which is also the one thing almost guaranteeing | Twitter's survival. | seydor wrote: | First of all it needs a Change of attitude, from expecting | recommendations to venturing into the unknown by ourselves. | There are tons of people's online who can do this. | | Unfortunately, even the adventurous ones got sucked into the | populatity contest of social media and wasted a lot of time | repeating the same points that others make. | peoplefromibiza wrote: | the way we did before massive corporate social walled gardens | | people keep a blog and you subscribe to the blog feed. | | bonus point: it's completely free, you don't even need to give | away your personal data and be forced to watch ads. | | but it's 2023, realistically if Twitter dies these people will | open a fediverse account that you can follow. | ROTMetro wrote: | Blogs were awful. Lack of actual discussion, just | pontification and ultimately you curate your own list of | (mainly) like minded blogs. Give me a reddit thread anyday | where some rando (whose blog I never would have followed) | calls out the original post with differing | thoughts/viewpoints. Sites like reddit/twitter broke me away | from the trap of blogs by people with great credentials | giving/polished public face giving them un-deserved authority | over my thinking. Reddit causes me to re-evaluate and change | my positions regularly, something that neither blogs nor | mainstream media ever managed to do. Twitter makes me | actively angry if I read replies, but it has also surfaced | many interesting people who are deep thinkers with positions | other than mine. But twitter's most powerful revelation is | when it shows me I HATE so many of the people whose positions | I used to align with, and whose slower more thoughtful blog | posts swayed me. When I see their immediate response to | something, and it is just awful and ugly and full of hate, | not rational thought but just knee jerk reaction, then yeah, | no thanks. I don't need a deeper insight into your thoughts. | Twitter has weeded out so many ugly people from having | influence on me. | | Reddit - injects thoughts/opinions I would never have sought | out on my own. Twitter - Shows the true face of 'thought | leaders',takes away their polished persona and shows me when | I have been giving too much credit to horrible people. | peoplefromibiza wrote: | > Blogs were awful. Lack of actual discussion | | citation needed? | | > just pontification and ultimately you curate your own | list of (mainly) like minded blogs | | is a curated list of fellow "leaders" pontificating on | almost everything to blind "followers" helped by an opaque | "algorithm" with the ability to block the "heretics" and | direct their followers' hate against them, better? | | notice the cultist terminology: leader, follower, heretic | etc | | > Give me a reddit thread anyday where some rando (whose | blog I never would have followed) calls out the original | post with differing thoughts/viewpoints | | I am not advocating for blogs per se, but a reddit thread | where "some rando calls out the original post" could have | easily have been a thread of comments somewhere else that | did not made money for reddit, but for the randos creating | the actual content you are interested in | | you are criticizing the presentation, but the actual meat | (the value) is in the content. | | > Sites like reddit/twitter broke me away from the trap of | blogs by people with great credentials giving/polished | public face giving them un-deserved authority over my | thinking | | sounds more like a your problem than a blogs problem | honestly. | | if you are assign authority to someone writing on the | internet under fake credentials, it's not that it's written | in a blog the issue IMO. | | twitter and reddit (which are vastly different anyway both | as kind of platform and as audience) made the problem | worse, if anything. | | > Reddit causes me to re-evaluate and change my positions | regularly | | again, good for you. but there's no inner quality of reddit | that makes it especially good at that. I changed my mind a | lot of times by reading books and when reddit was born I | was already almost 30, so... | | > Twitter makes me actively angry if I read replies, but it | has also surfaced many interesting people who are deep | thinkers with positions other than mine | | replace the word Twitter with "internet" or "school" or | "traveling or "hip-hop battles" and you'll find billions of | people who had the same realization. | | anyway, nothing that a good old BBS couldn't already do 40 | years ago. It's where I discovered and then downloaded the | Wolfenstein 3D demo. | | To wrap it up: the question was "where could I follow X and | Y if Twitter dies"? | | The answer is: don't worry, Twitter eventually dying won't | be an issue, they'll tell you where to follow them cause | their status depends on it. You might as well ask them some | money to follow them, they'll probably give it to you. | rc-1140 wrote: | I mostly agree with the author in that everyone shouldn't be on | one platform and that yes, Twitter, Facebook, etc., aren't | anywhere close to ideal sites for actually forming strong | relationships and having good discussions. I also agree that the | separation of internet self and real self has all but vanished | from the internet, despite my own personal attempts to retain it. | Additionally, as someone who has spent their formative, | adolescent, and even current years being parts of independent | communities on the internet, I can assure you that there were | people out there who knew what was being lost and what the | problems were as Reddit, Facebook, and the others became the hubs | for everything. | | However, the author makes references to things like MUDs, IRC | chats, web forums, and then antagonists like "random internet | Nazis" (come on dude) and Gamergate of all things, and I can't | help but feel that the author of the article is part of a | intellectual group that appeared _after_ things like internet | forums, transient chatrooms, and video game servers. It 's very | popular to try to "dunk" on sowing doubt in a case like this | because everyone cites that "Yet you participate in it. Curious!" | comic in some way or another, but I think the doubt is warranted | in this case. | | The author may have been around when those things were active, | but expressed no deep interest at worst or a passing interest at | best in any of them _until_ centralization became a problem to | think about, and SUDDENLY all of those things captured their | attention. A HN poster who doesn 't _really_ care about non- | techie niche communities but puts on big airs about caring | because rebelling against centralized monoliths like Twitter is | part of (hacker) counterculture /social signaling. | | The author didn't have to deal with being a powerless normal user | as internet Nazi groups infiltrating communities they were a part | of, never had to watch independent sites and projects get | absorbed into Reddit and its abhorrent community; it's all just a | fun intellectual thought puzzle to ruminate on with a buddy at a | bar and philosophical soapbox to stand on with their web blog and | Twitter account. The author even boils it down to political | pundits retreating to private circles, which completely separates | it from the real experiences of loss of and yearning for smaller | communities. | | We've read this same song and dance here on HN almost weekly if | not daily here on HN: everyone's glued to their smartphones, | Twitter and Facebook control all online content, return to | tradition, yadda yadda. I don't really know how this comment is | going to be taken but because of all these things, I find it very | difficult to believe the author isn't subject to the tyranny of | likes and internet attention himself, and that the post reads | more as disingenuous intellectual fellatio than anything else, | intended to resonate with those who closely follow hacker culture | on HN for traction. | sboomer wrote: | There are many people who haven't seen the internet before 2010. | Their internet experience of limited to Facebook, Instagram, | YouTube, and WhatsApp. | brnaftr361 wrote: | It _was_ the smartphone. Not necessarily the phones themselves, | but the wide reaching accessibility. Internet users skyrocketed | and if phoneposters we 're any indication of the aggregate impact | - the quality of conversation deteriorated. And yes, mobile | accessible platforms caused a sort of gravity and viola. | | Also I'm reasonably sure this is just a truism. "Schismogenesis" | in addition to the fact that everybody wants to be on the same | page with their community. The nature of the internet in that | it's basically just a huge, permanent log of interactions just | allows us to observe this shit more easily and remark on it in | post. | reidrac wrote: | [flagged] | lapcat wrote: | "Please don't complain about tangential annoyances--e.g. | article or website formats, name collisions, or back-button | breakage. They're too common to be interesting." | https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html | | FWIW I just disable JavaScript on Substack. | jimkleiber wrote: | I find the topic of annoying pop-ups interesting and was | thinking, to align better with the site rules, maybe the OP | could start an Ask HN topic about the pop-ups and we continue | there. | nunez wrote: | Heavily agree with this. The internet of 1998 or even 2006 is | very very different than the Internet of today. | | However, I think this desire for fragmentation and divisiveness | was inevitable. People were always in conflict with each other; | we just didn't have the means to butt heads like we can now. If | the Internet existed in 1920, I think we would (a) have some | amazing historical artifacts, and (b) see a lot of the same | behaviors we're seeing today. | waspight wrote: | In the spirit of the article, how do you start your own community | these days? I think it was phpbb that was popular last time I | checked (perhaps 15 y ago). | sboomer wrote: | I believe Discord and Telegram may fill in the gap. WhatsApp is | kind of personal, where you communicate with your real world | friends. | waspight wrote: | But these are all closed communities. I just think that it | would be a point in having a community that is also | searchable from google? Why is closed communities like | Discord so popular? | doublepg23 wrote: | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Discourse If you're | thinking closer to forum software of yore. | | If you don't mind being centralized Reddit is what really | killed forums and is still very good despite a drive to | make it worse every year. There are many Reddit clones as | well. | ultra_nick wrote: | Marketing is the eternal way. | | Software changes frequently. | waspight wrote: | What do you mean? | seydor wrote: | The internet is vast. But if your attention is fully absorbed | between twitter and substack (like the author is), you feel | trapped, because, well, you are. | | Maybe try to venture out of your internet comfort zone. It's not | all spam out there, nor is it worthless because it was not | recommended by someone cool. Just don't be lazy | Taek wrote: | This comment doesn't offer any practical advice on where to | find content of higher quality, it just condescends people who | don't feel like they have high quality options. | seydor wrote: | my comment is condescending to people who don't put the | effort for searching needles in the haystack, but instead | spend their whole online time in the well beaten path. | | The content wont always be of "higher quality" , because | quality is subjective. Here are two nearby sources of such | content: | | https://news.ycombinator.com/newest | | https://news.ycombinator.com/newcomments | borski wrote: | > my comment is condescending to people who don't put the | effort for searching needles in the haystack, but instead | spend their whole online time in the well beaten path. | | Another way of saying this is that your comment is | condescending to... most people. | | Most people used to have an easy way to find forums on the | internet, even if they were AOL chat rooms, where they | could find moderated content that was interesting to them. | That _was_ the well beaten path. | | Nowadays, that's no longer the case, and most people don't | seek out those needles in the haystack. | | My contention is that they _shouldn't have to_ , just as | they didn't have to before the 2010s. | | A corollary: "just don't be lazy" is almost never good | advice, as there is almost always a reason people are | "lazy." People make similar arguments about the | impoverished and how "if they just pulled themselves up by | their bootstraps and stopped being lazy" they could easily | get out of it, but that's really hard to do with two kids, | three jobs, and no time to think about anything other than | survival. They're not lazy, they are overwhelmed. | | I'd say that applies to a lot of facets of life, including | time spent on the internet; amid the firehose of nonsense, | and given that most of the internet (read: where most | people spend time now) is literally rigged against moving | away from it, by using human psychology to generate hits of | dopamine in the form of likes and views, it is _hard_ to | find a better path, and the people who don't aren't | necessarily lazy. They just don't _live on the internet_ , | and it _shouldn't be that hard._ | seydor wrote: | I think you re making the argument that people should | stick to the mainstream of every medium (in this case the | internet) because it's easy. That's why i called it lazy. | I 'm not saying it's bad, but people shouldn't complain | that everything looks alike, when they literally only | stick to things that are alike | | forums are just as hard to find today, as they were | before. In fact many of them are back in the places where | they used to be, it's just people have forgot about them | because they chose to sell their attention elsewhere | borski wrote: | I'm not saying they _should_ stick to the mainstream, but | I'm saying that a majority _will_. What has changed isn't | most people's behavior, but the internet around them, and | I'm arguing it's changed for the worse. | the_only_law wrote: | Reminds me of people who complain about how all music sucks | nowadays but only passively listen to the radio. | lebaux wrote: | agreed | [deleted] | isaacremuant wrote: | > weirdos mad about video game journalism. | | Funny how being interested in accountability, transparency and | good journalism makes you "a weirdo" worth ignoring. | | Oh well, if you're moderately effective about highlighting a | problem you'll always get attacked with labels. | | Funny too how he lumps them and other groups with "Nazis". | | Feels like yet another person who is suddenly whining because | their authoritarian websites are no longer controlled by their | authoritarian ideologues they agreed with. | | The Elon musk takeover has been very positive, if anything to | display how hypocritical some of the authortiarians from any side | are. It's all about censoring ideas they don't like because | "they're righteous (TM)". | | Having destroyed alternatives like Parler every time they got | popular, makes it feel that no competition will be allowed and | theres a sudden desperate turn to descentralization, which is | awesome, but it will come with the same ridiculous shouts of | censorship when any idea authoritarians don't like, gets | mainstream notoriety. Suddenly the interest of society will be to | censor that descentralized network. The excuse will be one of the | typical scares: terrorism, harm, crime, etc | | Interesting times but not an interesting article. Just the | typical "how do we go back to what I liked and agreed with me" | andrepd wrote: | >The Elon musk takeover has been very positive | | Of course it has. Twitter stopped censoring neonazis and | harassment and started censoring things Musk doesn't like. | | >authortiarians from any side. It's all about censoring ideas | they don't like | | How ironic | lapcat wrote: | I found myself agreeing with every word of this article. The | penultimate paragraph summarizes it well: | | > People call Twitter an indispensable public space because it's | the "town square", but in the real world there isn't just one | town square, because there isn't just one town. There are many. | And the internet works when you can exit -- when you can move to | a different town if you don't like the mayor or the local | culture. | | > Disagreement in society is necessary for progress, but it's | most constructive when it's mediated by bonds of trust and | affinity and semi-privacy. | adesanmi wrote: | Same here. The biggest annoyance for me was whenever people use | the "town square" analogy, especially as a Brit. | | The idea that my "town square" is owned by a private American | company is a nightmare. | foddermange wrote: | We can see this happening with Reddit. Either because they got | fed up with the administration of the site, or were forcibly | kicked off, a number of communities that were previously | subreddits have branched off and made their own forums instead. | | Examples: | | https://rdrama.net | | https://ovarit.com | | https://patriots.win | | https://hexbear.net | | https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com/forum | | https://www.saidit.net/s/TumblrInAction | causality0 wrote: | Being the same person online as offline destroyed everything | great about the internet. When you were an asshole you got banned | from the website, and then you had to trim some of your sharp | edges off so you didn't get banned from the next one. These days | being an asshole results in either you aurrou ding yourself | entirely with other assholes or getting your real life ruined by | losing your job or even being arrested in some countries. There's | no more opportunity to learn and grow. You either get it right | the first try or you keep your online discourse rated PG so you | don't cross the wrong people. | | Everything is so serious now. We couldn't even go back if we | wanted to, because ignoring and banning xXWeedLuvurXx for calling | you the n-word and moving on is a lot tougher when his name is | John Smith and he works in accounting. | slater- wrote: | I think you're exactly right. | | In my youth, the internet was about having fun, about being | INTERESTING, even if your mom or your boss wouldn't understand. | And you could always just walk away from your Buffy Xanga and | get into something else. | | Now, the language of ridiculous places like LinkedIn has become | the norm, on pain of having your life derailed. | | "HI MY NAME IS JOHN (HE/HIM), I LIVE AND BREATHE ENTERPRISE | SALES SUPPORT IN THE THRILLINGLY DYNAMIC ECOSYSTEM OF SAAS, MY | DREAM EVER SINCE I WAS A CHILD WAS TO BE SERIOUS ABOUT WORK, I | WEAR MANY HATS, MY DOG IS MY SON, IT WAS A BLESSING TO ATTEND | THE BLACK EYED PEAS CONCERT, SINCERE THANKS TO UNITED PETROLEUM | AND ALSO TO ROSA PARKS" | | I return again and again to the scene with the construction | worker neighbor from Office Space: | | Peter: "does anyone ever say to you 'sounds like someone has a | case of The Mondays?' | | Neighbor: "No, man. Shit, no, man! I believe you'd get your ass | kicked saying something like that" | Kenji wrote: | [dead] | giardini wrote: | _aurrou ding_ !? | | Is this a new Australian metaphor? | burnished wrote: | Think it was intended to be surrounding | thenerdhead wrote: | I don't really get the premise here. The popular tweet relates | because 15 years ago most people weren't spending almost 1/3 of | their day on a screen. | | Now that is definitely the case and backed with data throughout | the years. | | The internet has always been fragmented. I think the arguments of | Facebook or Twitter being some type of global consciousness is | short sighted. It has maybe as many users as the population of | the USA. The world has an estimated 5 billion people who have | regular access to the internet. Is the world consciousness really | representative of the most engaged internet users? That's a huge | problem in itself and the thought that journalists are stuck on | Twitter makes no sense. If life is all about change and we see | behemoths come and go, then surely journalism will evolve outside | of a single platform. | fleddr wrote: | I tend to agree with the conclusions of the article but at the | same time I think it leaves out a few important factors in | comparing the old internet versus today's internet. | | First, the political macro backdrop. The extreme political | polarization in the US leading to the so-called culture wars. | This is a massive driver of toxicity on social media. This | conflict machine is relatively new, people fondly remember | centralized social media as being far less "political" just a few | years ago. | | Second, the mobile revolution. Which leads to a dumbing down of | engagement. Before, people would sit behind a PC with a large | screen and functional keyboard, enabling deep engagement as seen | here on HN. Today, people sit on the toilet, look at a tiny | screen with endless content, and any engagement (most never | engage at all) is very shallow and lazy: a like, a retweet. It's | not a conversation, it's amplification. In the rare case where | somebody produces original content (a self-composed tweet), | Twitter's format incentivizes hot takes and makes context and | nuance impossible or impractical. | | Third, amplification. It's a specific choice by Twitter (UX, | algorithms) to promote and reward the worst opinions. It's a | complete inversion from real life. | | Hence, rather than stating that human conversation absolutely | does not scale, I'd refine that conclusion. It does not scale in | these particular conditions. | amadeuspagel wrote: | Chatrooms replace twitter like book clubs replace cities. | seydor wrote: | Do they? Those are different behavior patterns. 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