[HN Gopher] The internet wants to be fragmented
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       The internet wants to be fragmented
        
       Author : miletus
       Score  : 224 points
       Date   : 2023-01-01 12:37 UTC (10 hours ago)
        
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       | superkuh wrote:
       | Hah. Good joke website gets the point across. I cannot connect to
       | or load https://noahpinion.substack.com/p/the-internet-wants-to-
       | be-f... from my comcast home IP. I can only load it by tunneling
       | through one of my VPSes. Definitely fragmentation.
        
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       | jacooper wrote:
       | The entire problem lies with the twisted motives of social media.
       | 
       | They don't want to make you happy or feel good, they want money,
       | at all costs which results in you being angry and toxic.
       | 
       | I agree with this article in general, and think that its worth it
       | to spend time arguing with people you care about rather some
       | rando on twitter.
       | 
       | community run _communities_ will probably have a resurge, the
       | problem is the tech barrier, we have already seen how mastodon is
       | seen as to complex or has  "horrid UX" for normal users.
       | 
       | So I doubt anything will change for the mainstream, techies and
       | other geeky communities might go to mastodon or create a forum,
       | but normal users won't bother doing any of this.
        
         | mindslight wrote:
         | > _The entire problem lies with the twisted motives of social
         | media_
         | 
         | Exactly! I myself do not identify with " _we take the internet
         | wherever we go, and its little colored icons are always
         | beckoning, telling us to abandon whoever we're talking to or
         | whatever we're working on and check the latest posts._ "
         | 
         | This is due to a few things. First, having long established
         | pattern of using desktop computers / laptops, revealing "smart"
         | phones as frustratingly limited devices. I can tap out maybe
         | 5wpm on a mobile device, perhaps 10-20wpm if it has swipe
         | input. Yet on a familiar keyboard, I can do upwards of
         | 120-140wpm. That's an order of magnitude difference, with the
         | qualitative difference of being able to type at the speed I am
         | thinking.
         | 
         | This means when I'm using a mobile device, I'm only using it
         | begrudgingly because I'm away from a real computer and need to
         | solve a problem. If I'm hanging out with friends and someone
         | else texts me, basically the last thing I want to do is take my
         | phone out of my pocket, focus on a tiny screen, and start
         | plodding along tapping out characters. This behavior descends
         | from having mobile computing devices much earlier than most
         | people (laptop and palm pilot around Y2k), when it was not
         | socially accepted to ignore the people you're with and play
         | with your device.
         | 
         | The second is that for a long time I used a phone running
         | Lineage/microG, with only software from F-droid. Free software
         | is designed with its main goal of helping the user accomplish
         | their own goals, rather than the perverse incentive of
         | proprietary web/apps that treat the user as a subject to be
         | sucked in for as long as possible ("engagement"). If I take my
         | phone out of my pocket to use the calendar or calculator or
         | whatever, it's not like I then want to continue scrolling
         | through my calendar or dividing numbers. If I take my phone out
         | to show someone some photos, that is a real-world social
         | activity. Both are limited stimulation based on tasks that can
         | be finished, rather than the endless drip-drip of social media.
         | 
         | Sadly I stopped using that phone due to the early 4G shutdown
         | in the US, and I have yet to find a good device to replace it.
         | I've been using a throwaway "full take" Android that the
         | carrier sent me for free, but my usage patterns have basically
         | stayed the same. When I'm home, I generally leave that phone
         | near the door since I have no use for it until I go out again.
         | 
         | Of course it's easy for me to say this - the difficult part is
         | how to kick one's own addiction to the always-on proprietary
         | software hellhole. I'd propose a large part of this is
         | segmenting your usage across different physical devices -
         | despite the universality of computation, having one or two
         | devices that encompass all of simple tasks like checking the
         | weather, employment, personal productivity, creativity, active
         | relaxation, and passive relaxation is an anti-pattern. It
         | simply blurs the lines too much.
         | 
         | Get at least one new device, ideally running only Free
         | software, but at the bare minimum you need to not install any
         | of the corporate willpower-destroying apps. You can still keep
         | your "trash" device with all those apps you can't imagine
         | living without, but silence the notifications and leave it on a
         | desk/coffee table/etc. Only check on it occasionally, like
         | daily or when you're relaxing at night or when you need to
         | accomplish a specific task on one of the corporate dopamine
         | apps.
        
           | jacooper wrote:
           | > Sadly I stopped using that phone due to the early 4G
           | shutdown in the US, and I have yet to find a good device to
           | replace it.
           | 
           | A pixel with GrapheneOS or Calyx.
        
         | LinuxBender wrote:
         | Adding to this, having run small communities I can see
         | platforms like Mastodon growing into Twitter albeit with a
         | different twist of behavior but eventually becoming equally
         | toxic, just a different flavor of toxic.
         | 
         | I believe one of the root causes is that the internet basically
         | connected billions of people from many different cultures into
         | one big pool without any arbiter mechanisms which is bound to
         | get ugly fast. In this regard I agree with the article that the
         | internet wants to be segmented. Mastodon will probably start
         | with silos of similar thinking people but as it grows they too
         | will run into culture clashes leading to groups of people being
         | silenced. Then some other platform will come along to make
         | smaller silos or tribes and this pattern will repeat.
        
           | fleddr wrote:
           | I think Mastodon has the tendency to grow into the opposite
           | extreme of toxicity: fragility. People as well as instances
           | are very generously blocked, leading to perfectly peaceful
           | bubbles.
           | 
           | Which are not that great. There's almost perfect ideological
           | agreement...but not really. A handful of people dominate
           | conversation by posting frequently whilst the rest barely
           | engages and/or is afraid to speak their mind.
           | 
           | As an example, on a fairly large Mastodon instance I saw a
           | popular user claiming how we should still wear masks. There
           | were a few dozen replies, all in perfect agreement.
           | 
           | That's truly bizarre, as this is a topic that people have
           | strong opinions on across the entire political landscape.
           | Even amidst just progressives, there's no uniform consensus,
           | granted people are free to speak their minds without
           | repercussions. The fact that there wasn't even a hint of
           | disagreement or nuance I find telling.
           | 
           | So I agree with your point, this too is a type of toxicity,
           | just a different flavor. Fragility, toxic positivity, I'm not
           | sure what to call it, but it's not healthy.
           | 
           | Another fun opposite effect (in comparison to Twitter) to
           | reason about is algorithms and amplification. Mastodon has
           | very little of that which is considered good. It's a more
           | "organic" social network.
           | 
           | Quite a few users will discover though that an organic social
           | network makes the chance of getting engagement on your posts
           | even harder than it already was. Just getting your post seen
           | at all is a challenge, and building somewhat of a following
           | can takes months if not years of purposeful effort. This
           | means that for the typical user, the feeling that you're
           | screaming into the void will be common, leaving the question:
           | why post at all?
        
             | jacooper wrote:
             | But is that limited to just Mastodon?
             | 
             | That happens on other social media to avoid getting banned.
             | 
             | One example is anything showing disagreement with LGBTQ
             | movement from the east, no matter how much you think that
             | is a done thing, it definitely not, especially there.
        
               | fleddr wrote:
               | No, I think the effect of "toxic positivity" is found
               | wherever you create a small community, whether that be
               | Reddit, Mastodon, or anything else.
               | 
               | Toxic positivity isn't necessarily about banning, it's
               | rather "soft silencing" within the bubble. Those most
               | ideologically active dominate the network and discourage
               | any type of dissent.
               | 
               | To stick with my mask example. There's absolutely no
               | consensus within progressive circles that mandatory
               | masking should make a comeback. So there should be
               | significant debate even within the progressive bubble.
               | But there is none. Zero. That likely means that a lot of
               | people in the bubble disagree yet are afraid to express
               | that.
        
             | lapcat wrote:
             | > A handful of people dominate conversation by posting
             | frequently whilst the rest barely engages and/or is afraid
             | to speak their mind.
             | 
             | This is true of Twitter too.
             | 
             | > Just getting your post seen at all is a challenge, and
             | building somewhat of a following can takes months if not
             | years of purposeful effort. This means that for the typical
             | user, the feeling that you're screaming into the void will
             | be common, leaving the question: why post at all?
             | 
             | I've also felt this is true of Twitter.
             | 
             | > As an example, on a fairly large Mastodon instance I saw
             | a popular user claiming how we should still wear masks.
             | There were a few dozen replies, all in perfect agreement.
             | 
             | Maybe people aren't there for debate club? I personally
             | joined Twitter, and Mastodon, for tech. In fact I first
             | joined Twitter for a tech conference. I have very little
             | interest in debating political and social issues on social
             | media. I muted/blocked all that stuff on Twitter and will
             | do so if necessary on Mastodon.
             | 
             | There are too many people on Twitter who are just looking
             | for a fight. A lot of us aren't interested at that at all,
             | and would rather just participate congenially in a shared
             | interest. If that's a "bubble", then I'm happy to be a
             | bubble boy.
        
             | LinuxBender wrote:
             | _toxic positivity_
             | 
             | Positively toxic echo chambers. I think you summed it up
             | perfectly. I've seen what you described occur in the past
             | on other chat platforms and forums. Mostly forums. People
             | that think alike get some high rank and access to private
             | sub-forums and people that have thoughts not aligned with
             | the tribe start to think the forum is no longer being used.
             | Not sure how that would translate into the Mastodon
             | platform.
        
               | krapp wrote:
               | Meh. What's wrong with not wanting every online space I
               | inhabit to be embroiled in ceaseless no-holds-barred
               | political and social warfare? If I want that, it's easy
               | to find, it doesn't have to be everywhere.
        
               | fleddr wrote:
               | I think today it translates into every platform due to
               | the highly polarized political landscape. This sorts
               | people into just 2 buckets, after which each bucket is
               | dominated by radicals or semi-radicals.
               | 
               | That's why I dislike the term "bubble", because it fails
               | to describe the inner working of the bubble. It suggests
               | that it is uniform and consensus-based, whilst instead
               | they are ran by an autocratic elite that "softly" silence
               | dissent. By making dissent costly.
               | 
               | The state of online conversation: 50% of the population
               | is evil. Luckily I'm in the good 50%, which is full of
               | terrible ideas but I can't afford to challenge them.
        
           | poszlem wrote:
           | You can already see that. If you think Twitter moderation is
           | arbitrary or weird, clearly you haven't seen some of the
           | popular Mastodon servers. Meet the new boss same as the old
           | boss.
        
             | jacooper wrote:
             | The difference, as the article mentions, is that you can
             | just leave. You can follow the same content from another
             | instance with other rules and not be effected by any of the
             | weird laws on the main mastodon instance.
        
         | ilyt wrote:
         | > The entire problem lies with the twisted motives of social
         | media.
         | 
         | Just media. Social media might be latest iteration, but
         | traditional media works the same way, outrage gets you views or
         | sells your newspaper.
        
           | jacooper wrote:
           | The difference is normal media isn't the main conversations
           | space for many people, social media is.
        
       | CTDOCodebases wrote:
       | Written on substack no less...
        
         | hypfer wrote:
         | And yet you participate in society
        
           | doublepg23 wrote:
           | I think it's reasonable to say federated blogging platforms
           | are a solved problem in 2022 (2023!) I don't think this is
           | analogous to debates about economic systems.
        
         | smitty1e wrote:
         | "Fragmented" is not "eradicated".
         | 
         | The Famous Article:
         | 
         | > Why did this happen to the centralized internet when it
         | hadn't happened to the decentralized internet of previous
         | decades?
         | 
         | The reason is that people scale poorly. Dunbar's Number[1] is a
         | thing, and every human effort in physical- or cyber-space,
         | sacred or profane, tends toward a Tower of Babel[2] over time.
         | 
         | Those that conform to Gall's Law[3] may prove relatively
         | durable.
         | 
         | [1] https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunbar's_number
         | 
         | [2] https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tower_of_Babel
         | 
         | [3]
         | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Gall_(author)#Gall's_la...
        
           | CTDOCodebases wrote:
           | > The reason is that people scale poorly.
           | 
           | I would propose that humans scale magnificently.
           | 
           | Our need for belonging and our propensity for conflict has
           | spread us to all the corners of the earth and it continues to
           | keep us there.
           | 
           | Great from the collective perspective if you want to see
           | humanity as a whole survive.
           | 
           | Not so great for those who suffer from the conflict though.
        
             | smitty1e wrote:
             | >> The reason is that people scale poorly.
             | 
             | > I would propose that humans scale magnificently.
             | 
             | Certainly, apex predator on the food chain. But that is a
             | different point than the human organizational one I was
             | going after.
        
       | frereubu wrote:
       | I'm not sure this was anything new, even when the original tweet
       | was posted. I remember back in around 2000 when someone put up a
       | page on a random domain that simply said "Well done, you have
       | reached the end of the internet. You can now go outside." It was
       | early enough that people could still remember when one person
       | could have visited most sites on the internet, but that was long
       | enough ago that it was clearly impossible to do again. I remember
       | reading that page when someone sent it to me and feeling a deep
       | sense of relief at the idea, even though I knew it was
       | impossible.
        
       | aWidebrant wrote:
       | "Why did such a bland observation resonate with so many people?"
       | 
       | Asked and answered.
        
       | TobyTheDog123 wrote:
       | This is a brilliantly potent and beautifully written article, and
       | plan on sourcing it on an upcoming business plan of mine.
        
         | borski wrote:
         | We should chat, because I plan on doing the same. Email's in my
         | profile. :)
        
       | INeedMoreRam wrote:
       | [dead]
        
       | Puts wrote:
       | Now the article was only talking about twitter and social media,
       | but I can't help react on the title since there really is no
       | evidence at all of internet wanting to be fragmented. In fact
       | it's just the opposite.
       | 
       | - Not even the most hardcore people are using IRC anymore
       | 
       | - All web hosting is now in the cloud
       | 
       | - There's basically only two rendering engines left, of which one
       | is at the moment extremely marginalized
       | 
       | - GIT that was supposed to be distributed is now used as a
       | centralized versioning system in centralized services.
       | 
       | If anything it seems that the internet wants to be consolidated.
        
         | LinuxBender wrote:
         | I rarely use IRC any more and I used to run some small IRC
         | servers. Most moved to Discord but I refuse to use such
         | platforms for their abuse of retaining both text and voice
         | transcription chat history forever. Discord voice transcription
         | can run silently in any public or private channel and nobody
         | can prove otherwise. This was not impossible on IRC but far
         | less likely. Public channels were recorded with publicly
         | visible bots that had permission to be in the channel. Some
         | IRCD's had modules that would allow a NetAdmin to monitor
         | private chats but that can be mitigated with clients that
         | support OTR.
         | 
         | Nowadays if I need to spin up a chat with people I know I just
         | give them a shell function that utilizes a self-hosted instance
         | of devzat.                   # uncensored chat using self
         | hosted https://github.com/quackduck/devzat.git         # add to
         | .bashrc or /etc/profile.d/functions.sh on a VM somewhere
         | function chat()         {         # make us a temporary
         | nickname         Name=$(base64 /dev/urandom | tr -d '/+' | dd
         | bs=12 count=1 2>/dev/null)         # make us a temporary throw
         | away ssh key.  key is our ID.         ssh-keygen -q -t rsa -b
         | 2048 -N "" -C "${Name}" -f ~/.ssh/.chat_"${Name}"         # add
         | +ssh-rsa in the event client restricts weaker ciphers
         | ssh -i ~/.ssh/.chat_"${Name}" -p 22 -4 -o "HostkeyAlgorithms
         | +ssh-rsa" -o "PubkeyAcceptedKeyTypes +ssh-rsa"
         | "${Name}"@23.239.0.70         rm -vf ~/.ssh/.chat_"${Name}"
         | ~/.ssh/.chat_"${Name}".pub         }
         | 
         | If things go sideways I just nuke that instance and what little
         | chat history the daemon had is gone.
        
           | ilyt wrote:
           | Uh, IRC didn't even had encryption and anyone in IRC chat can
           | still record everything just fine. That's so weird thing to
           | have issue with.
        
             | LinuxBender wrote:
             | IRC has had encryption for a very long time. IRCS is
             | typically on port 6697 but some admins also have it listen
             | on 443 for people behind fascist firewalls.
             | 
             |  _anyone in IRC chat can still record everything just fine_
             | 
             | I addressed this. Yes, someone can invite a bot in a
             | channel they control and the channel operators can kick/ban
             | a bot. Also people can achieve E2EE encryption using OTR.
             | So in fact there are two layers of encryption, one of which
             | individuals control and the IRC admin has no visibility
             | into. There is an unsupported OTR custom client for Discord
             | but it is against the terms of service.
             | 
             | Discord on the other hand has visibility into everything
             | and no way for users to know this. Anything said on Discord
             | in text or voice is a permanent transcription record.
             | People are made to believe they can delete messages, but
             | they are just flagged as deleted in Cassandra.
             | 
             | If I want a private voice conversation with someone or a
             | group, I invite them to my private uMurmur server. There
             | are clients for workstations and cell phones. Some people
             | won't use such things and those are not people I would
             | likely ever talk to anyway.
        
               | vasqw wrote:
               | >IRC has had encryption for a very long time. IRCS is
               | typically on port 6697 but some admins also have it
               | listen on 443 for people behind fascist firewalls.
               | 
               | Transit encryption maybe, but admins can still read
               | everything.
        
               | LinuxBender wrote:
               | Yup like I mentioned there are modules that allow
               | snooping. This is why if people truly want privacy they
               | need to use a client that supports OTR add-ons providing
               | end-to-end encryption. Pidgin is one of them.
               | 
               | Another option would be for each small circle of friends
               | to run their own uMurmur or ngircd servers, then at worst
               | the admin would spy on their friends. ngircd can be spun
               | up in a few minutes, even faster if one already has some
               | LetsEncrypt keys for a domain. uMurmur can also be spun
               | up super fast on a linux home router.
        
           | quackduck wrote:
           | Hiii, I'm the person who made devzat.
           | 
           | Devzat supports a "private" mode in which only some IDs you
           | specify in the config file are allowed to join. In that mode,
           | it disables the 16 message backlog on #main too. It seems
           | like that would be a good option for you, but it looks like
           | you're having the people you know gen new SSH keys every time
           | (which is what IDs are based on). I'm curious why.
           | 
           | Would you have liked a standalone preference for whether to
           | have a backlog? What features would you like / what things
           | could be improved?
           | 
           | Always interesting to see how devzat is being used.
        
             | LinuxBender wrote:
             | _but it looks like you 're having the people you know gen
             | new SSH keys every time_
             | 
             | This is just an example of an ephemeral implementation of
             | your chat system. Spin up a node, have some people play
             | around with it, communicate whatever they wish then destroy
             | the node _in the sense of destroying a VM_. One could
             | certainly leave it running and people could use persistent
             | ssh keys like you do on your instance. Using ephemeral ssh
             | keys implies more aspect of anonymity assuming one connects
             | from a short-lived VM. People could of course adjust my
             | example shell function to not remove keys and to use a
             | persistent nick-name.
             | 
             |  _Would you have liked a standalone preference for whether
             | to have a backlog?_
             | 
             | That sounds like a great feature/configuration option.
             | Maybe even allow a admin-defined backlog size for people
             | that want persistent instances.
             | 
             |  _What features would you like / what things could be
             | improved?_
             | 
             | I think it is great as-is but that is just my personal
             | take. For me, simpler is better. I appreciate that you
             | added a configuration to disable external integrations.
             | Less specific to devzat but more specific to golang would
             | be to have default compile-time hardening options. I am
             | impressed with how nice you made it look with the color
             | schemes.
             | 
             | Perhaps others here will play around with it and offer
             | suggestions. SSH based chat is not super popular which
             | really surprises me. I could see devzat being an amazing
             | fall-back for a private chat inside a company when Slack or
             | Discord are having a moment or for those times when people
             | want to say something that isn't recorded forever and
             | especially not visible to their management. I think it
             | would also be amazing for people in oppressive regimes that
             | block access to all the mainstream chat platforms but allow
             | SSH to specific VPS providers.
        
         | TobyTheDog123 wrote:
         | These are all false equivalencies, as you're talking technology
         | and implementation instead of a consumer product or idea. The
         | author is talking about centralization of moderation and
         | audience, not how it's hosted or how that moderation/audience
         | is presented to the user
         | 
         | People moved off of IRC because it was inconvenient for less-
         | technical users, it is far easier to just download an app. That
         | doesn't mean they want those apps to be centralized, or don't
         | want their social media to be fragmented so they're talking to
         | only like-minded individuals.
         | 
         | It is 100% possible that someone creates a technologically-
         | centralized app that allows for a decentralized audience and
         | moderation. I'm not aware of anyone doing this though.
        
           | borski wrote:
           | I agree, but I'd also argue discord or Slack does this, in
           | the same way that IRC did; you essentially spin up separate
           | servers and thus separate communities. Sure, it's still
           | hosted by a central entity, but the moderation and discourse
           | is all yours to manage.
        
             | TobyTheDog123 wrote:
             | I have _no_ idea how I blanked on Discord. To me Slack
             | still screams  "business tool" and "only business tool,"
             | but you're very much right regardless.
             | 
             | There's also Reddit (to an extent)
        
         | poszlem wrote:
         | I think the reason why you disagree is because you mean a
         | different thing by "the internet".
         | 
         | "The internet" - the corporate internet. "The internet" -
         | normal people on the internet. "The internet" - etc.
        
         | api wrote:
         | People don't use IRC anymore because there are better open
         | alternatives like Matrix and ActivityPub based systems. Those
         | are what the "hard core" people use.
         | 
         | As for the cloud there are loads of clouds. Web sites can be
         | moved. Same with git hosting which just provides a convenient
         | place to store the repo and post meta data like issues. Moving
         | from GitHub to Gitea or GitLab is usually pretty easy.
         | 
         | More and more people seem to be at least trying a less
         | centralized approach. Personally I think we passed peak
         | centralization in the middle 20-teens when there were just a
         | few social platforms everyone used and federated stuff was
         | primitive and new. We are well into the beginning of the
         | unbundling phase.
        
         | Wazako wrote:
         | What is important is, as the article says, "to be allowed to
         | leave", this consists in having alternatives.
         | 
         | - The web hosting is in the cloud, but if it's easy to change
         | it, what's the problem?
         | 
         | - Git a url and you can easily change the central backup server
         | point.
        
       | nonrandomstring wrote:
       | One of the most frightening bits of social science/philosophy I
       | heard came from Slavoj Zizek, because it's about harbingers of
       | big change.
       | 
       | I have tried in vain to find a written reference. It's buried
       | within some of his often tediously tangential talks - but I would
       | love to know if any former Yugoslavians can attest to the truth
       | or falsity of it.
       | 
       | Zizek said that the former Yugoslavia was a tense but stable
       | amalgam for decades in which good humour and brutally free speech
       | - including "edgy but acceptable" racism - was permitted and even
       | celebrated.
       | 
       | Sometime before the 90s that changed, and a chilling taciturnity
       | overcame the nation. The "politically correct" atmosphere was a
       | lead up to civil war.
       | 
       | It's possible Zizek completely misreads cause and effect. But I
       | always take his point to be - as elementary psychoanalysis - that
       | when people stop talking about how they really feel, it's the
       | start of a road to trouble; jaw jaw jaw being better than war,
       | war, war. The culture of faux "offence" created by Social media
       | had definitely done the same to online discourse.
        
         | crazygringo wrote:
         | I don't know about the specific case of Yugoslavia, but I'd be
         | incredibly wary of drawing any broader conclusions, even if it
         | were a factor in that specific case.
         | 
         | The US Civil War certainly had plenty of "jaw jaw jaw" before
         | it, there was no "political correctness" at the time, and that
         | didn't prevent it.
         | 
         | Similarly we've had something like three and a half decades of
         | "political correctness" in the US without any civil war yet
         | (Jan 6 notwithstanding). While you'd think that if political
         | correctness really had such a strong effect, there would have
         | been a second civil war by the late 1990's.
         | 
         | Not to mention that "jaw jaw jaw" can be the horrible hate
         | speech that works to _incite_ war.
         | 
         | If you look at history, the counterexamples seem incredibly
         | more numerous. So hopefully we can feel less frightened by
         | political correctness. :)
        
           | Taek wrote:
           | January 6th is a significant data point and shouldn't just be
           | handwaved away. I've watched political correctness erode the
           | dynamic of my own family, it's continuously sewing resent
           | between people who have different angles of non-PC opinions.
        
         | watwut wrote:
         | Escalating racial and ethnic hate was lead up to war. Just
         | like, before Russia attacked now, the anti Ukrainian propaganda
         | went up.
         | 
         | And before WWII, nazi went up with hate and their anti Jews
         | language went up both in lead up to war and during ir,
         | culminating in holocaust.
        
           | nonrandomstring wrote:
           | > Escalating racial and ethnic hate was lead up to war.
           | 
           | That's exactly what I'd think. And historically I'd wager
           | every well documented example shows it.
           | 
           | And yet Zizek gave that as a first hand account (that's where
           | he is from please correct me if I am wrong), and it's an
           | intriguing hypothesis. Certainly an unpopular one judging by
           | my immediate down-vote for even mentioning it (as an open
           | question no less)
           | 
           | I don't think he was talking about "hate". He was talking
           | about open acceptance of difference. That's what it seems is
           | getting ever less permissible - and that's what I find
           | concerning.
           | 
           | Can we no longer make that distinction? Are we too timid to
           | even discuss that? Is that what social media has done to us?
        
       | EZ-Cheeze wrote:
       | It's going to be paradise when we can find our natural best
       | friends AT SCALE
       | 
       | Here's my second most recent idea on how to do it, haven't
       | written up the latest yet:
       | 
       | http://zeroprecedent.com/A%E2%9D%AF%E2%9D%AEON%20deck%20v.3....
        
         | npilk wrote:
         | Interesting concept but what seems more compelling to me would
         | be more like a Tiktok/Reddit hybrid. You log in and see content
         | that "the algorithm" knows you'll like, but with an added
         | element of community from people "the algorithm" knows you'll
         | find cool/funny/insightful/etc. Like a simulacrum of the
         | Facebook feed but instead of friends and family it's this
         | "tribe". No need for labels or even naming those people.
         | 
         | Feels like this is what social media is trying to achieve
         | anyway but they're mostly stuck with the existing social graph
         | as a starting point...
        
           | EZ-Cheeze wrote:
           | I actually mention extremely good content aggregation in
           | there, but more as a byproduct of good matching than as a way
           | to arrive at it. But it really could work the other way
           | around, with the things you and everyone else likes providing
           | strong signal that can be correlated.
           | 
           | I hope this is the year we all get a thousand true friends!
           | Instant connection every time
        
       | machina_ex_deus wrote:
       | The biggest problem is the like button. The like button is not
       | only a bad metric - it's the worst possible metric.
       | 
       | Speaking up used to be something you do to change someone's mind
       | or yours. What's the point in speaking up if nobody does anything
       | with what you said?
       | 
       | The like button reprogrammed people. They started getting
       | positive feedback for speaking in an echo chamber, for saying and
       | doing things their audience already agrees with. They started
       | getting negative feedback for doing the thing language was
       | designed for.
       | 
       | Normal purposeful speech makes different opinions closer, while
       | speech under the feedback of the like button makes similar
       | opinions even closer and different opinions further apart.
       | 
       | If the interaction stays the same of course fragmentation is
       | inevitable - but that's not a good thing. This fragmentation
       | extends to the real world and has real consequences. It will blow
       | up. Even with Twitter being internally fragmented the
       | polarization in society grew. Nobody wants to listen to the other
       | side anymore, while there's always the most to be learned from
       | listening to the other side.
       | 
       | The core of the problem needs to be addressed: that social media
       | has reprogrammed people to the purpose of speech.
       | 
       | One of the reasons I'm even bothering with websites like HN as
       | opposed to social media is because it still feels like there's a
       | slight chance of making people change their minds here.
        
         | ROTMetro wrote:
         | Finally, big geek brains are going to get applied to this
         | problem. Maybe we can come up with some algorithms to improve
         | this experience! I was hoping this demographic would do
         | something to fix the problems created... the last time this
         | demographic tried to fix this and created these problems. (
         | glad to see such humility and self awareness on what made
         | internet toxic in this discussion).
        
         | hinkley wrote:
         | Once in a while I'll say something snarky and get downvoted. I
         | usually delete those because I'm not really adding to the
         | dialog. But the world is full of uncomfortable truths, software
         | doubly so (or at least, I can see more of them). It's humbling
         | when people agree, irritating or amusing when they don't.
         | Confusing when I say the same thing in two replies in one
         | thread and one gets 25 downvotes while the other gets 35
         | upvotes.
         | 
         | My fake internet points go up every week whether I say
         | something controversial or not so since they're fake anyway
         | what do I care? I know some people do but get a grip.
         | 
         | At the end of the day if you understand something that other
         | people don't, I figure that's a way to stay gainfully employed.
         | I don't like cleaning up other people's messes for long though.
         | It's fun at first and on some teams I get copycats and
         | everything goes well, more or less. I've maybe made the world a
         | better place by teaching some people something new. On others I
         | become the janitor and end up leaving. Getting "downvoted" at
         | work does matter.
        
           | TEP_Kim_Il_Sung wrote:
           | I leave my stuff up, since most people downvote based on what
           | they think I am trying to say, not based on what I am
           | actually saying, at least seeing from responses I get.
        
         | lapcat wrote:
         | 1) "Speaking up" is just one of many forms of speech. Why is
         | speaking up "the purpose of speech", or even the purpose of
         | social media speech?
         | 
         | 2) There are many reasons to speak up. One may be to organize
         | like-minded people into an effective advocacy group. Another
         | may just be to lament something that you can't change.
         | 
         | 3) I'm not trying to be snarky, but do you have any examples of
         | changing people's minds on HN or social media? I personally
         | don't feel like I ever change anyone's mind.
        
           | machina_ex_deus wrote:
           | Speaking is meant to exchange information. You're not
           | exchanging any information when the other side agrees with
           | you and knows everything you're saying.
           | 
           | An advocacy group is ineffective if all its members have this
           | mindset. With signaling mindset you have no chance to
           | convince anyone of anything. I'd rather get someone thinking
           | differently a little bit confused than lament something with
           | people who think the same. It doesn't reinforce helplessness.
           | 
           | I have many anecdotes with somewhat low chance of moving
           | opinions. Few people will admit changing their minds, but
           | sometimes they will agree with you but still offer a weaker
           | counterpoint of the opposing narrative.
           | 
           | You can't flip someone's opinion 180deg on the internet, but
           | you can get someone on the other side to acknowledge a
           | counter point.
        
             | lapcat wrote:
             | > Speaking is meant to exchange information.
             | 
             | Speaking has many purposes. Why do you keep trying to
             | "limit speech", so to speak?
             | 
             | > You're not exchanging any information when the other side
             | agrees with you
             | 
             | I disagree. Is there not a difference between facts and
             | opinions? Why do I have to "change my mind" in order to
             | learn a new fact? What if the new fact actually _supports_
             | my opinion?
             | 
             | > and knows everything you're saying
             | 
             | Confirming that another person knows what you know can be
             | useful.
             | 
             | > An advocacy group is ineffective if all its members have
             | this mindset.
             | 
             | To the contrary, advocacy groups are most effective when
             | the members agree with each other, and most ineffective
             | when they fight among themselves.
             | 
             | > Few people will admit changing their minds, but sometimes
             | they will agree with you but still offer a weaker
             | counterpoint of the opposing narrative.
             | 
             | This gives the appearance to me that you're telling
             | yourself you've changed other people's mind and that they
             | now agree with you, despite evidence to the contrary.
             | 
             | > You can't flip someone's opinion 180deg on the internet,
             | but you can get someone on the other side to acknowledge a
             | counter point.
             | 
             | What does this mean? To me it sounds kind of like debate
             | club, a game with scoring.
        
           | robertlagrant wrote:
           | If you change your mind right now that people's minds are
           | changed on HN then you will have evidence of it happening : -
           | )
        
           | nickthegreek wrote:
           | I've had my mind changed due to HN. But the posters of
           | comments would never know. I'll give them an upvote and move
           | on.
        
             | lapcat wrote:
             | > I've had my mind changed due to HN.
             | 
             | Do you have an example?
        
               | nickthegreek wrote:
               | No specific one comes to mind, but normally the comments
               | move my position, not flip it on its head. This is most
               | effectively done by the poster giving an example of
               | something I didn't know about along with a link to a
               | primary resource.
        
         | greggman3 wrote:
         | It's not the "like" button. It's the "likes" number. Hide the
         | number and the like button is signal to the system. So "likes"
         | and it's a signal to the poster. That IMO is the problem, not
         | the button itself, the "score" you see visually.
         | 
         | I've hidden the score here on HN for myself and on
         | StackOverflow. Two places where score has a negative effect on
         | myself.
        
         | culi wrote:
         | Imo there's dimensions to which different systems let users
         | express themselves.
         | 
         | 1. The like button (e.g. Twitter) [1 dimension, discrete]
         | 
         | 2. Clapping (e.g. Medium) [1 dimension, (kinda-)cotinuous]
         | 
         | 2. Upvote/downvote (e.g. Reddit) [1 dimension, 2 directions,
         | discrete]
         | 
         | 3. Preset reactions (e.g. iMessage) [multiple dimensions,
         | discrete]
         | 
         | 4. Any emoji reaction (e.g. Slack) [(kinda-)infinite
         | dimensions, discrete]
         | 
         | 5. User-defined tags (e.g. Steam) [infinite dimensions,
         | discrete]
         | 
         | 6. Tags you can agree/disagree with (e.g. Kongregate) [infinite
         | dimensions, bidirectional, discrete]
         | 
         | I could go on, but my point is that maybe the reason the like
         | button is so bad is because it's literally the simplest
         | possible implementation of user interactions to content.
         | Perhaps a system that allowed for more nuance would make users
         | consider their interaction more
        
           | harvey9 wrote:
           | The maximum amount of nuance is here: the Reply button. But I
           | agree with your point. We need something short of the Reply
           | button because reading large numbers of replies just to get a
           | sentiment analysis is not practical.
        
             | culi wrote:
             | Right, I generally agree. But even comments can be
             | agree/disagreed with or voted on or saved to lists or...
             | etc. We're back to where we started
             | 
             | Imagine hackernews or stackexchange if there was absolutely
             | no upvote/downvote mechanism
        
           | machina_ex_deus wrote:
           | The simplest possible implementation of user interaction is
           | writing a response. It's already as rich as it can be. It
           | gives less power to bots because bots are incoherent. I feel
           | like the internet devolved us from eloquent human speakers
           | back into monkeys making few noises for communicating. Emoji
           | is similar.
           | 
           | Speak. Write text. Formulate your position. We're humans not
           | apes. Get feedback from speaking. The video format in some
           | cases is the same - ape like reaction movies, no content.
           | Assume you're interacting with someone intelligent who isn't
           | convinced by the funny number of likes on your post, but by
           | the content of what you say.
        
             | borski wrote:
             | > It gives less power to bots because bots are incoherent.
             | 
             | ChatGPT would like a word with you.
        
             | culi wrote:
             | I agree with this, but the point of these user interactions
             | is to whittle them down to something that others can easily
             | relate to.
             | 
             | If you then say "well people can agree/disagree" with
             | comments, then we're back where we started. Why are they
             | agreeing? Do they find it funny, useful, or just like the
             | way the user makes their point? How MUCH do they agree?
             | What if they disagree?
             | 
             | If your reaction is that we should completely kill these
             | interactions then... well have you ever been on giant
             | forums with no way to sort? Sometimes they're fine. Like
             | when there's low volume. Some forums evolve chronologically
             | and that method works as well. But if you're not gonna
             | commit to reading a pamphlet, you're probably not gonna
             | find such a comment section very useful
        
           | pixl97 wrote:
           | I've always wondered why someone hasn't created what I call
           | the 'orange slice' expression button. Much like cutting an
           | orange in half it gives a preset amount of positive and
           | negative values. Sort of a play off the meta moderation that
           | Slashdot did.
           | 
           | For positive values it you could have something like
           | 
           | [I believe this is truthful], [I like this
           | content],[Funny],[Positive message]
           | 
           | and for negative values
           | 
           | [I believe this is false/untruthful],[I dislike this
           | content],[Sad/hateful],[Something else negative I can't think
           | of at the moment?]
        
             | TEP_Kim_Il_Sung wrote:
             | That's what trive.news was about. Turns out crowd sourcing
             | truth gives a weighted average towards accuracy. Something
             | tells me businesses relying on getting "experts" to sell
             | you on things, would want to keep general public opinion
             | out of the equation.
             | 
             | http://www.trive.news/Whitepaper.0.2.6x.pdf
        
         | neilwilson wrote:
         | The dislike button is worse than the like button.
         | 
         | You may as well say get lost.
         | 
         | The Orville episode "Majority Rules" allegorises the concept
         | wonderfully
        
         | swayvil wrote:
         | I've caught myself being sensitive to the popular narrative
         | when uttering my opinions, fearful of my "citizenship score".
         | Shameful, yes. To a degree, here (yes!) but much moreso
         | elsewhere (might be unavoidable).
         | 
         | Feedback is divine. Convenience is king. So let's go with the
         | vote button. This distributed god-king is our best way to
         | control this stuff (moderation, filteration etc).
         | 
         | We should not only be voting but looking at our peer's votes
         | too. Weight votes by the voter. Stuff like that
        
         | zajio1am wrote:
         | > The biggest problem is the like button. The like button is
         | not only a bad metric - it's the worst possible metric
         | 
         | But there is a real need for some kind of post rating/ranking
         | (like like/dislike button, or explicit point rating). Once you
         | got to thousand-post threads the without ranking mechanisms
         | interesting posts are lost in noise. I guess that effectiveness
         | of these mechanisms is an important part of why people prefer
         | one forum before others.
        
           | ilyt wrote:
           | The problem is no system is immune to
           | incompetent/uncooperative users.
           | 
           | If in reddit/hn-like sites users use up/downvote as "okay,
           | this is interesting discussion"/"this adds nothing to the
           | topic" it works reasonably well.
           | 
           | If they decide that it is just same as like/dislike button
           | (as is common on many bigger subreddits), then we get back to
           | promoting echo chambers
        
           | postalrat wrote:
           | Maybe AI is the answer. It can be be the better judge of
           | comments in a conversation.
        
             | vorpalhex wrote:
             | "Ah sorry the magic AI has decided only comments aligned
             | with <X> political party are good. It must be correct!"
             | 
             | AI is just an algorithm. It's not a magic truth knower.
        
         | barbariangrunge wrote:
         | What about upvoting and downvoting in hn? Do you find that to
         | be positive?
         | 
         | Personally, I find I have to work to not write striking
         | statements because I know they give me chance of getting a ton
         | of upvotes. If I'm tired, the temptation is harder to resist
        
           | yawnxyz wrote:
           | On Reddit, sometimes it's fun to sort by "most
           | controversial", e.g. posts with most upvotes AND downvotes.
           | That's where some of the most "edgy takes" lie. I kind of
           | wish you could do that here, too
        
         | jmyeet wrote:
         | The like button or upvote or whatever has the same meaning: the
         | viewer is signalling most of the time "I agree with this". Once
         | you factor in other things like quotes and replies you're no
         | longer measuring "engagement". You're measuring and optimizing
         | for "outrage".
         | 
         | Thing is, social media didn't invent this. Outrage-as-
         | engagement existed on TV long before social media existed. For
         | decades, local news has pushed the "crime is out of control"
         | narrative because it gets viewers and readers. Car chases,
         | wall-to-wall coverage of violent and property crime, etc. To do
         | this, local news needs to cooperation of the police so the net
         | effect is local news becomes the propaganda arm of the police.
         | 
         | Cable news has been on this bandwagon since at least the 1990s.
         | 
         | > ... that social media has reprogrammed people to the purpose
         | of speech.
         | 
         | I disagree. We have this high-minded view of what speech used
         | to be only because we weren't there. Go back and look at
         | segregregation-era (let alone slavery-era) newspapers,
         | speeches, etc.
        
           | machina_ex_deus wrote:
           | I agree with you on mass media, in fact I think the problem
           | already started there, and it's even worse because it's not
           | even a conversation, it's one sided.
           | 
           | When I'm speaking in person it's still similar to what I'm
           | describing. I could have political discussion in highly
           | polarized family with different opinions and people
           | listening, and with friends too.
           | 
           | It's not "used to be", unless somehow you stopped talking in
           | the real world.
        
         | falcolas wrote:
         | Why does someone's position need to change? That implies that
         | somebody is wrong, and that's not necessarily the case. More
         | often, the "wrongness" comes from having a different point of
         | view.
         | 
         | For example, it's easy to say "fuck cars" when you live in the
         | city and they are only polluting, noisy nuisances that are, at
         | best, optional for living your life. But when you live where I
         | do, not having a car means a significant number of unreasonable
         | changes to your life.
        
           | hattmall wrote:
           | It's not a binary. The position doesn't have to change from
           | one to the other. It's that with more information from each
           | side, both positions should evolve. That's where progress can
           | be actualized. Echo chambers don't get results, they just
           | echo.
        
           | pessimizer wrote:
           | > Why does someone's position need to change? That implies
           | that somebody is wrong, and that's not necessarily the case.
           | 
           | Depends on your purpose in talking. My purposes are to inform
           | people of things, to request information about things, to ask
           | people to do things, to play, or to indirectly express
           | approval(hug) or disapproval(hiss.)
           | 
           | If I'm arguing with somebody, I should either be improving
           | the quality of their information or improving the quality of
           | my own, or determined to convince somebody that they should
           | do something. If I'm playing, by definition I can't be
           | seriously arguing. The only people who care about my approval
           | or disapproval _as such_ are my parents and other loved ones;
           | to other people the news about my current feelings as an
           | individual aren 't important, and if other people who didn't
           | care about me found them important, they wouldn't want
           | innuendo, they'd just want the facts.
           | 
           | If we have two incompatible opinions about something, yet we
           | have no desire to bring them into agreement, why are we even
           | arguing about it? Surely there's something better we could be
           | doing.
           | 
           | I think a lot of people have started to think that the
           | internet loves or hates them personally, and are desperate
           | for its approval in an unhealthy way. The fact that there's
           | money to be made in being noticed on the internet makes the
           | situation even worse.
           | 
           | > For example, it's easy to say "fuck cars" when you live in
           | the city and they are only polluting, noisy nuisances that
           | are, at best, optional for living your life. But when you
           | live where I do, not having a car means a significant number
           | of unreasonable changes to your life.
           | 
           | "It's easy to say that if you're you" isn't part of any
           | legitimate argument. It's just extraneous ad hominem that
           | people add while making (or eliding past) an argument. It
           | also doesn't get you out of explaining "significant number"
           | or especially "unreasonable," which begs the question.
        
           | Karrot_Kream wrote:
           | The "fuck cars" position is a great example. I advocate for
           | pedestrian and cyclist friendly infrastructure for our city
           | at our local planning board. The quality of online discourse
           | even for people that share my position is terrible. There's a
           | lot to discuss like fire apparatus access or construction
           | labor shortages causing backups, street classifications, but
           | the online discourse has so little of that.
           | 
           | A lot of these folks are driven by YouTubers who do advocacy
           | work for those unfamiliar with the debate. But actually
           | showing up at a planning meeting with that kind of rhetoric
           | makes no sense. And this isn't even beginning to engage with
           | people with different positions on road infrastructure. It's
           | the double edged sword of the internet that raises awareness
           | for issues but loses nuance because nuance loses engagement.
        
           | ehnto wrote:
           | Great example, because people saying "fuck cars" probably
           | aren't talking about your cars or your situation. They mean
           | the cities. They too have a different point of view. What
           | discussion is good at is allowing us to talk about topics
           | even with differing points of view, but a like/dislike button
           | only rewards or disuades what you said. There is no
           | opportunity for the meeting of minds, and it makes an
           | echochamber.
           | 
           | Had you seen a video titled "Fuck cars" and disliked it,
           | Youtube would a stop showing you that content, and now you
           | only get pro-car content. Or someone who loves bikes sees the
           | video, they like it, they would never get pro-car content,
           | and would never see your point of view. No one is challenged,
           | no one is brought closer together in understanding.
        
             | feet wrote:
             | Generally from my experience, people saying "fuck cars"
             | aren't just talking about cars alone. They're talking about
             | all poorly designed towns, cities, and infrastructure that
             | completely cater to cars while disregarding the necessity
             | of human movement, transportation, and health.
        
             | TEP_Kim_Il_Sung wrote:
             | So get rid of pre-fabbed "individualization" by the
             | platform, and allow individuals to choose what they
             | do&don't want to see. This usually cuts ads way down, so I
             | see why they don't do it, but it would fix the issues of
             | bubbles. (Assuming bubbles and division is not what they
             | wanted in the first place).
        
           | machina_ex_deus wrote:
           | Ever heard of someone saying "fuck cars" in person? Where the
           | conversation just stood on "fuck cars", and stopped there?
           | When someone on the internet says "fuck cars", it's because
           | he's expecting to get some dopamine from getting liked by
           | similarly minded friends who also hate cars.
           | 
           | If his purpose was to have a discussion, to convince you, it
           | wouldn't be "fuck cars", it would be "cars are polluting".
           | And even if he's an arrogant asshole in real life, you could
           | explain how cars are useful to you, and ask what he's
           | suggesting to do. Maybe 1% are such total careless assholes
           | you shouldn't be talking to them, but others will try to come
           | up with an answer, and if they fail to give it, they will
           | remember it.
        
           | poszlem wrote:
           | Isn't the whole point that you can change the position of a
           | person who says "fuck cars" by talking to them and telling
           | them why some people need them?
           | 
           | If they are not trolls, learning about how much of the world
           | is reliant on cars should absolutely change their position.
        
             | sokoloff wrote:
             | My experience is that people who say "fuck cars" are
             | entirely aware of how much of world is absolutely reliant
             | upon them.
        
         | pkdpic wrote:
         | I'm pretty sure I agree with you 100% but as I write this I'm
         | wondering how different an upvote is from a like button...
         | 
         | Also wondering if there was a pre-internet social equivalent of
         | a like button. Maybe there wasn't one. It's probably dangerous
         | to assume there was always some version of a like button. But
         | it's probably just as dangerous to assume there wasn't?...
        
         | amadeuspagel wrote:
         | Everything you say about the like button also applies to votes,
         | so if the like button is what makes social media bad, I don't
         | see why HN should be better.
        
           | Andrew_nenakhov wrote:
           | HN's vote count is not public, and negative count is capped
           | at -4 so you can't downvote someone into oblivion.
        
             | amadeuspagel wrote:
             | Most social networks don't have an equivalent to downvotes
             | at all.
        
               | mikrl wrote:
               | I think this might be structurally related to our
               | political ideology of liberal democracy.
               | 
               | We assume that bad takes die out or are overcome by good
               | takes in the marketplace of ideas. Therefore, the
               | 'magnitude' of a bad take should intuitively be close to
               | 0, and the magnitude of a good take should be positive
               | and nonzero.
               | 
               | Allowing negative scores permits bad takes to become
               | large in magnitude. Allowing or disallowing downvotes is
               | basically just scaling the distribution of magnitude of
               | takes since bad takes will sit closer to zero than good
               | takes in general, even if they cannot be downvoted.
        
               | ilyt wrote:
               | But lack of downvotes mixes "just average takes not worth
               | a upvote" with "this guy is obviously a moron, why I'm
               | even seeing his comments together with other competent
               | people?"
        
               | amadeuspagel wrote:
               | That's why upvotes and downvotes should be shown
               | separately.
        
               | doublerabbit wrote:
               | I feel the better approach would be where if you wish to
               | downvote you must give a reason for the downvote.
               | 
               | This would eliminate the snowball effect.
        
             | crazygringo wrote:
             | When -4 pushes you to the very bottom of the page in text
             | so grayed-out that it's not even readable unless you
             | highlight it first, I'd still call that oblivion. Also,
             | flags from just two (?) people remove your comment
             | entirely.
        
               | poszlem wrote:
               | Yeah, as much as I don't want it to be true, HN algorithm
               | is one of the harshest I've seen in terms of allowing
               | people to hide/remove unpopular opinions. Some people
               | think it's a feature not a bug though. I am not one of
               | those people.
               | 
               | It's definitely "an elegant system for a more civilized
               | age". Not for whatever you call the internet in 2023.
        
         | airstrike wrote:
         | _> The biggest problem is the like button. The like button is
         | not only a bad metric - it 's the worst possible metric._
         | 
         | Upvoted for this
        
           | mypetocean wrote:
           | For me it was this:
           | 
           | > Normal purposeful speech makes different opinions closer,
           | while speech under the feedback of the like button makes
           | similar opinions even closer and different opinions further
           | apart.
           | 
           | But there is another aspect to the complexities here.
           | 
           | Years ago, I started thinking of the LIKE/UPVOTE button as an
           | "increase visibility" button.
           | 
           | I don't upvote just because I like it (humor perhaps being an
           | exception).
           | 
           | Often, I'm not upvoting just the comments I like: I'm
           | upvoting the whole containing _thread_, including the
           | conflicting views if they seem to have been made in good
           | faith.
           | 
           | Because when good quality discourse takes place, I want the
           | whole instance to be seen.
           | 
           | In these cases, the intended audience of my upvotes is most
           | immediately the algorithm (in a way), rather than human
           | viewers.
           | 
           | Sometimes I've found myself wishing my upvotes could be made
           | invisible to humans since I know many of them will interpret
           | my upvote differently than intended. There is no nuance.
           | 
           | It gets me wondering how feedback mechanisms might be
           | diversified to add nuance back into these systems (while
           | still moderating complexity).
           | 
           | Emoticons (as on Slack) do add nuance, but every emoticon
           | pack I've seen lacks nuance most in neutral and critical
           | responses.
           | 
           | Of course, no technology we have now can compare with verbal
           | discourse for nuance. But you and I are more likely to be
           | able to influence feedback features on social media than to
           | succeed in eliminating them.
        
             | idatum wrote:
             | > Years ago, I started thinking of the LIKE/UPVOTE button
             | as an "increase visibility" button.
             | 
             | I think Mastodon tries to make that distinction with like
             | vs boost. Boost seems to be about making a post more
             | visible ("hey look at this!") and like is more about
             | "thanks for posting". At least on the server I use.
        
         | Mistletoe wrote:
         | This is one of the more astute things I've read in a while. The
         | like button has become what an angry mob yelling to one another
         | while holding pitchforks use language for. And this is what
         | using the internet feels like now.
        
         | dayvid wrote:
         | The biggest problem is that you can make money from the
         | internet.
         | 
         | The internet was more about self-expression and fun. Then
         | people realized they can sell things or themselves (being a
         | "content-creator", "thought-leader", etc.).
         | 
         | As a result the most active people are tailoring their actions
         | towards increasing engagement, getting you to buy something,
         | getting you to think a certain way, etc. and we have a divide
         | between "content-creator" influencers/producers and passive
         | consumers who like or retweet things they haven't thought
         | through but sound catchy and provide the same opinions.
         | 
         | It's not 100% bad; content is more polished and organized, but
         | you have to be discerning in order to get good value and a lot
         | of people don't have those abilities.
        
           | zackmorris wrote:
           | To expand on Parkinson's Law: capitalism grows to fill the
           | space allotted to it.
           | 
           | The 90s internet was great because it was built by academia.
           | Post Dot Bomb, the internet got saturated by big business.
           | Everything evolves so quickly on the web that we're already
           | finding ourselves living under the eventualities of late-
           | stage capitalism and ultimate wealth inequality (slavery).
           | 
           | I've come to view tech as an ever-tightening noose that
           | solves every problem except how to get out of it. Loosely
           | that means that whatever goal each of us has for going into
           | tech will be the one that gets us in the end. We get older,
           | conditions change and we find ourselves becoming the villain
           | of our own story. Even if we succeed, we fail.
           | 
           | Stepping outside of that, I've decided to embrace magical
           | thinking in my own life. I believe that ultimately tech will
           | bring magic back into the world and we'll find ourselves
           | confronting the ethical dilemmas of fairy tails. In the New
           | Age, when everyone has the ability to change the world for
           | better or worse, wisdom becomes more important than
           | knowledge.
           | 
           | The status quo is threatened by that, so there's already a
           | backlash against stuff like wokeism. Socialism becomes the
           | bogeyman to keep us distracted so we don't turn our attention
           | away from systems of control in general. And so on.
           | 
           | How to protect ourselves from that? I think it's helpful to
           | meditate on what the opposite of all this might look like.
           | What's the opposite of profit? Or power? Softer questions
           | might be: what's our individual definition of success? Why
           | are we doing this?
           | 
           | Now to get back to watching superhero movies on New Year's
           | Day..
        
           | hinkley wrote:
           | The Internet is television with lower production value and
           | longer commercials.
        
             | lotsofpulp wrote:
             | I spend far less time subjected to advertisements on the
             | internet than when I used to watch TV. Near zero time,
             | actually.
             | 
             | Now it is a game of figuring out the shills that are
             | advertising, but trying to disguise their content as not
             | advertising.
        
               | hinkley wrote:
               | That is exactly what "spending your time dealing with
               | advertising" means. See also cigarettes and food products
               | with the labels turned out. Soap operas are literally
               | named after advertising. At least they're honest about
               | it.
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | TV is minimum 1/3 time advertising, 2/3 content, but that
               | is ignoring shilling and product placement in the
               | content.
               | 
               | I do not spend anywhere near 1/3rd of my time on the
               | internet figuring out what is and is not advertising.
               | Mostly by avoiding content with images and video.
        
               | hinkley wrote:
               | I'd say 1/4 advertising, 2/3 content and 1/12 opening and
               | closing credits but I take your point.
               | 
               | I don't know if you've tried to search for anything on
               | the internet lately, but I've found that any time I'm
               | trying to be an active rather than a passive consumer of
               | the internet, it's getting damned hard to avoid things
               | that are 'SEO optimized' and relevant content pessimized.
        
               | dayvid wrote:
               | A lot of internet advertising comes in different forms.
               | For example, with Search Engine Optimization, businesses
               | will create "content" or pages with information for
               | keywords to get their pages ranked higher. This also
               | applies to social media and youtube. In order to be
               | popular or remained ranked, you have to put out video
               | content or stream almost daily.
               | 
               | This is essentially "junk" content which shows itself as
               | reaction videos and related content. If you want
               | engagement, then it turns into having a strong opinion
               | about something the creators probably don't care that
               | much about because it will get people who agree or
               | disagree with the stance to comment and get into comment
               | battles, etc.
               | 
               | It's definitely not as annoying as TV commercials, but
               | it's not good for people unaware of it who get anxiety or
               | waste a lot of time feeling upset about things designed
               | to push views to someone's platform, or in worst cases
               | push their agenda.
        
           | __MatrixMan__ wrote:
           | Money does this to everything.
           | 
           | Radio used to be cool, now it's mostly ads.
           | 
           | Circulating pamphlets was once a potent political tool, now
           | they come sandwiched between ads in a newspaper that nobody
           | reads.
           | 
           | Evaluate a randomly chosen NFT-referent for artistic merit
           | and see how it stack up to a randomly chosen pre-nft art.
           | 
           | I'm still optimistic about the web though. It's more
           | configurable than the other media. We may yet find a way to
           | wall off the advertising cancer and make some space for cool
           | stuff to survive.
        
           | Nextgrid wrote:
           | I would say the biggest problem is advertising. It would be
           | much less harmful if commercial content was upfront about
           | asking for your wallet, and the transaction ended there (the
           | publisher's incentives are directly aligned with the end-
           | customer's). Instead, we have stuff that's technically "free"
           | but actually comes with plenty of strings attached such as
           | mismatched incentives - the content is only there as bait and
           | the actual objective is to get you to look at an ad or think
           | a certain way for commercial gain. Worse, this "free" stuff
           | being out there means there's not enough pressure to build a
           | good, universal micropayments system to displace advertising,
           | so the problem remains.
        
             | idiotsecant wrote:
             | I would hazard a guess to say that the best micropayment
             | service in the world is going to have trouble competing
             | with "free" for the average user.
        
             | TchoBeer wrote:
             | I've said this for so long. The horrible mismatched
             | incentives that ad money has wrought is disasterous.
        
             | creeble wrote:
             | Pushing like button on this.
        
         | paulryanrogers wrote:
         | Speech is also about comfort and venting where echo chambers
         | shine. And those chambers predate the social media. IME even
         | IRL people tend to congregate mostly with like minded
         | individuals.
         | 
         | And if the congregation turns out to have too many views in
         | contrast to ones own then folks tend to leave.
        
           | vorpalhex wrote:
           | > even IRL people tend to congregate mostly with like minded
           | individuals
           | 
           | Historically, forming these tiny niche communities wasn't
           | possible. Sure you had different social groups but they were
           | geographically limited. You are also stuck to a degree when
           | there is conflict.
           | 
           | > if the congregation turns out to have too many views in
           | contrast to ones own then folks tend to leave.
           | 
           | Sure and it tends to be moderate people who leave first.
           | Groups become more dogmatic and cultish, more extreme over
           | time as they demoderate.
        
             | lapcat wrote:
             | > Historically, forming these tiny niche communities wasn't
             | possible.
             | 
             | Friends?
        
               | vorpalhex wrote:
               | Your friends were your church, schoolmates, etc. You
               | can't pick "People who are X, Y, Z and support only A and
               | B" because the pool of potential friend candidates just
               | wasn't large enough.
               | 
               | On Twitter, I can choose to only be friends with
               | conservative libertarian furries who believe in crypto.
               | That doesn't scale to real life.
        
               | lapcat wrote:
               | > Your friends were your church, schoolmates, etc. You
               | can't pick "People who are X, Y, Z and support only A and
               | B" because the pool of potential friend candidates just
               | wasn't large enough.
               | 
               | It seemed to work well enough for me. One thing worth
               | noting is that people who live in the same geographical
               | location already tend to be somewhat like-minded, for
               | obvious reasons. But you seem to be talking about a
               | "perfect match", which is an impossible, unnecessary
               | standard.
               | 
               | > On Twitter, I can choose to only be friends with
               | conservative libertarian furries who believe in crypto.
               | 
               | You're not friends with people on Twitter. If you think
               | you are, try leaving Twitter, and see how many of your
               | "friends" still talk to you afterward.
        
         | nunez wrote:
         | I think the like button is fine. There have been ways of
         | expressing agreement or disagreement long before that idea came
         | along. (See also: "This")
         | 
         | In my opinion, infinite scrolling is substantially more
         | damaging. If you have poor self control, which I think many
         | people do, using an app that does nothing to tell you when to
         | quit is an open invitation to addiction.
        
         | prox wrote:
         | First, I agree with the reprogramming.
         | 
         | But in my experience, the goals shouldn't be to as you state
         | "to change their minds." , it should be to listen and respond.
         | If I disagree with you, I want to know _how you came to that
         | conclusion_ , I am not interested in your talking points you
         | had recycled from somewhere.
         | 
         | This also makes discussions way more interesting. Now, this
         | principle should extend to anyone, and the problem is that in
         | online debates discussions often become asymmetrical. Say if
         | your debate partner has no interest in listening, or argues
         | with bad faith. Online communication should promote that
         | mindset (something HN does in a form, but surely not perfected
         | yet)
        
           | chrisweekly wrote:
           | "Seek to understand before seeking to be understood."
        
           | machina_ex_deus wrote:
           | I said change theirs or yours. Not necessarily change it
           | completely but at least learn where the difference comes
           | from, and either move my position to account for new
           | information or logic, or try to convince the other side.
           | 
           | But I do see it as a goal to get the opinions closer. I
           | prefer listening while having a clear picture of what I'm
           | currently thinking about it because only then you can realize
           | where's the difference, and the difference is what you want
           | to learn.
           | 
           | If the other side doesn't listen to statements, they might
           | listen to questions. Asking what they think about X might get
           | a better response than just stating X. Works in real world
           | too against these types. Many times it's not because it's
           | online, it's just narcissistic personality. Many people won't
           | acknowledge when something moves their opinion.
        
         | zackees wrote:
         | [dead]
        
         | mikewarot wrote:
         | >The biggest problem is the like button. The like button is not
         | only a bad metric - it's the worst possible metric.
         | 
         | ANY single metric is going to be unfit for purpose. We need to
         | have a continuum of responses, tags or perhaps a vector for
         | votes instead of a scalar.
         | 
         | It's like trying to force everything into a single hierarchy,
         | it never works. You always end up at Matthew 6:24[1]:
         | No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one,
         | and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and
         | despise the other.        Ye cannot serve God and mammon.
         | 
         | Any single vote/rank/option range ends up serving mammon
         | 
         | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matthew_6:24
        
       | nathias wrote:
       | Not at all, we want to have a unified discourse, but we have
       | vastly different values and therefore moderation preferences. The
       | only solution to this is making moderation user-based, but with
       | better UX than just block everyone you don't like. The user
       | initiatives formed 'block lists' on twitter, which are kind of a
       | good idea for this, you have decentralized decisions that get
       | aggregated into a single filter which then the user simply
       | applies if he chooses so.
        
         | fexecve wrote:
         | This is already a solved problem. If I block every anti-vaxxer
         | I see on Twitter, eventually Twitter will stop showing them to
         | me. But if I view the tweet replies to President Biden, I see
         | the anti-vaxxer replies right at the top. So they just need to
         | apply the user preferences across the entire platform.
        
           | nathias wrote:
           | yea, thats what I mean, we have the solutions and they would
           | also work for decentralized protocols which is always
           | presented as the biggest obstacle for alternatives ...
        
       | tshadley wrote:
       | If twitter dies, where do I find a site where I can follow at
       | least one expert/leader in every major
       | discipline/social/political-movement to get a sort of snapshot of
       | what's happening in the world?
       | 
       | I don't need to agree with every expert/leader, I just want to
       | know what they think.
        
         | fleddr wrote:
         | There's no singular replacement currently that meets those
         | conditions. Which is also the one thing almost guaranteeing
         | Twitter's survival.
        
         | seydor wrote:
         | First of all it needs a Change of attitude, from expecting
         | recommendations to venturing into the unknown by ourselves.
         | There are tons of people's online who can do this.
         | 
         | Unfortunately, even the adventurous ones got sucked into the
         | populatity contest of social media and wasted a lot of time
         | repeating the same points that others make.
        
         | peoplefromibiza wrote:
         | the way we did before massive corporate social walled gardens
         | 
         | people keep a blog and you subscribe to the blog feed.
         | 
         | bonus point: it's completely free, you don't even need to give
         | away your personal data and be forced to watch ads.
         | 
         | but it's 2023, realistically if Twitter dies these people will
         | open a fediverse account that you can follow.
        
           | ROTMetro wrote:
           | Blogs were awful. Lack of actual discussion, just
           | pontification and ultimately you curate your own list of
           | (mainly) like minded blogs. Give me a reddit thread anyday
           | where some rando (whose blog I never would have followed)
           | calls out the original post with differing
           | thoughts/viewpoints. Sites like reddit/twitter broke me away
           | from the trap of blogs by people with great credentials
           | giving/polished public face giving them un-deserved authority
           | over my thinking. Reddit causes me to re-evaluate and change
           | my positions regularly, something that neither blogs nor
           | mainstream media ever managed to do. Twitter makes me
           | actively angry if I read replies, but it has also surfaced
           | many interesting people who are deep thinkers with positions
           | other than mine. But twitter's most powerful revelation is
           | when it shows me I HATE so many of the people whose positions
           | I used to align with, and whose slower more thoughtful blog
           | posts swayed me. When I see their immediate response to
           | something, and it is just awful and ugly and full of hate,
           | not rational thought but just knee jerk reaction, then yeah,
           | no thanks. I don't need a deeper insight into your thoughts.
           | Twitter has weeded out so many ugly people from having
           | influence on me.
           | 
           | Reddit - injects thoughts/opinions I would never have sought
           | out on my own. Twitter - Shows the true face of 'thought
           | leaders',takes away their polished persona and shows me when
           | I have been giving too much credit to horrible people.
        
             | peoplefromibiza wrote:
             | > Blogs were awful. Lack of actual discussion
             | 
             | citation needed?
             | 
             | > just pontification and ultimately you curate your own
             | list of (mainly) like minded blogs
             | 
             | is a curated list of fellow "leaders" pontificating on
             | almost everything to blind "followers" helped by an opaque
             | "algorithm" with the ability to block the "heretics" and
             | direct their followers' hate against them, better?
             | 
             | notice the cultist terminology: leader, follower, heretic
             | etc
             | 
             | > Give me a reddit thread anyday where some rando (whose
             | blog I never would have followed) calls out the original
             | post with differing thoughts/viewpoints
             | 
             | I am not advocating for blogs per se, but a reddit thread
             | where "some rando calls out the original post" could have
             | easily have been a thread of comments somewhere else that
             | did not made money for reddit, but for the randos creating
             | the actual content you are interested in
             | 
             | you are criticizing the presentation, but the actual meat
             | (the value) is in the content.
             | 
             | > Sites like reddit/twitter broke me away from the trap of
             | blogs by people with great credentials giving/polished
             | public face giving them un-deserved authority over my
             | thinking
             | 
             | sounds more like a your problem than a blogs problem
             | honestly.
             | 
             | if you are assign authority to someone writing on the
             | internet under fake credentials, it's not that it's written
             | in a blog the issue IMO.
             | 
             | twitter and reddit (which are vastly different anyway both
             | as kind of platform and as audience) made the problem
             | worse, if anything.
             | 
             | > Reddit causes me to re-evaluate and change my positions
             | regularly
             | 
             | again, good for you. but there's no inner quality of reddit
             | that makes it especially good at that. I changed my mind a
             | lot of times by reading books and when reddit was born I
             | was already almost 30, so...
             | 
             | > Twitter makes me actively angry if I read replies, but it
             | has also surfaced many interesting people who are deep
             | thinkers with positions other than mine
             | 
             | replace the word Twitter with "internet" or "school" or
             | "traveling or "hip-hop battles" and you'll find billions of
             | people who had the same realization.
             | 
             | anyway, nothing that a good old BBS couldn't already do 40
             | years ago. It's where I discovered and then downloaded the
             | Wolfenstein 3D demo.
             | 
             | To wrap it up: the question was "where could I follow X and
             | Y if Twitter dies"?
             | 
             | The answer is: don't worry, Twitter eventually dying won't
             | be an issue, they'll tell you where to follow them cause
             | their status depends on it. You might as well ask them some
             | money to follow them, they'll probably give it to you.
        
       | rc-1140 wrote:
       | I mostly agree with the author in that everyone shouldn't be on
       | one platform and that yes, Twitter, Facebook, etc., aren't
       | anywhere close to ideal sites for actually forming strong
       | relationships and having good discussions. I also agree that the
       | separation of internet self and real self has all but vanished
       | from the internet, despite my own personal attempts to retain it.
       | Additionally, as someone who has spent their formative,
       | adolescent, and even current years being parts of independent
       | communities on the internet, I can assure you that there were
       | people out there who knew what was being lost and what the
       | problems were as Reddit, Facebook, and the others became the hubs
       | for everything.
       | 
       | However, the author makes references to things like MUDs, IRC
       | chats, web forums, and then antagonists like "random internet
       | Nazis" (come on dude) and Gamergate of all things, and I can't
       | help but feel that the author of the article is part of a
       | intellectual group that appeared _after_ things like internet
       | forums, transient chatrooms, and video game servers. It 's very
       | popular to try to "dunk" on sowing doubt in a case like this
       | because everyone cites that "Yet you participate in it. Curious!"
       | comic in some way or another, but I think the doubt is warranted
       | in this case.
       | 
       | The author may have been around when those things were active,
       | but expressed no deep interest at worst or a passing interest at
       | best in any of them _until_ centralization became a problem to
       | think about, and SUDDENLY all of those things captured their
       | attention. A HN poster who doesn 't _really_ care about non-
       | techie niche communities but puts on big airs about caring
       | because rebelling against centralized monoliths like Twitter is
       | part of (hacker) counterculture /social signaling.
       | 
       | The author didn't have to deal with being a powerless normal user
       | as internet Nazi groups infiltrating communities they were a part
       | of, never had to watch independent sites and projects get
       | absorbed into Reddit and its abhorrent community; it's all just a
       | fun intellectual thought puzzle to ruminate on with a buddy at a
       | bar and philosophical soapbox to stand on with their web blog and
       | Twitter account. The author even boils it down to political
       | pundits retreating to private circles, which completely separates
       | it from the real experiences of loss of and yearning for smaller
       | communities.
       | 
       | We've read this same song and dance here on HN almost weekly if
       | not daily here on HN: everyone's glued to their smartphones,
       | Twitter and Facebook control all online content, return to
       | tradition, yadda yadda. I don't really know how this comment is
       | going to be taken but because of all these things, I find it very
       | difficult to believe the author isn't subject to the tyranny of
       | likes and internet attention himself, and that the post reads
       | more as disingenuous intellectual fellatio than anything else,
       | intended to resonate with those who closely follow hacker culture
       | on HN for traction.
        
       | sboomer wrote:
       | There are many people who haven't seen the internet before 2010.
       | Their internet experience of limited to Facebook, Instagram,
       | YouTube, and WhatsApp.
        
       | brnaftr361 wrote:
       | It _was_ the smartphone. Not necessarily the phones themselves,
       | but the wide reaching accessibility. Internet users skyrocketed
       | and if phoneposters we 're any indication of the aggregate impact
       | - the quality of conversation deteriorated. And yes, mobile
       | accessible platforms caused a sort of gravity and viola.
       | 
       | Also I'm reasonably sure this is just a truism. "Schismogenesis"
       | in addition to the fact that everybody wants to be on the same
       | page with their community. The nature of the internet in that
       | it's basically just a huge, permanent log of interactions just
       | allows us to observe this shit more easily and remark on it in
       | post.
        
       | reidrac wrote:
       | [flagged]
        
         | lapcat wrote:
         | "Please don't complain about tangential annoyances--e.g.
         | article or website formats, name collisions, or back-button
         | breakage. They're too common to be interesting."
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
         | 
         | FWIW I just disable JavaScript on Substack.
        
           | jimkleiber wrote:
           | I find the topic of annoying pop-ups interesting and was
           | thinking, to align better with the site rules, maybe the OP
           | could start an Ask HN topic about the pop-ups and we continue
           | there.
        
       | nunez wrote:
       | Heavily agree with this. The internet of 1998 or even 2006 is
       | very very different than the Internet of today.
       | 
       | However, I think this desire for fragmentation and divisiveness
       | was inevitable. People were always in conflict with each other;
       | we just didn't have the means to butt heads like we can now. If
       | the Internet existed in 1920, I think we would (a) have some
       | amazing historical artifacts, and (b) see a lot of the same
       | behaviors we're seeing today.
        
       | waspight wrote:
       | In the spirit of the article, how do you start your own community
       | these days? I think it was phpbb that was popular last time I
       | checked (perhaps 15 y ago).
        
         | sboomer wrote:
         | I believe Discord and Telegram may fill in the gap. WhatsApp is
         | kind of personal, where you communicate with your real world
         | friends.
        
           | waspight wrote:
           | But these are all closed communities. I just think that it
           | would be a point in having a community that is also
           | searchable from google? Why is closed communities like
           | Discord so popular?
        
             | doublepg23 wrote:
             | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Discourse If you're
             | thinking closer to forum software of yore.
             | 
             | If you don't mind being centralized Reddit is what really
             | killed forums and is still very good despite a drive to
             | make it worse every year. There are many Reddit clones as
             | well.
        
         | ultra_nick wrote:
         | Marketing is the eternal way.
         | 
         | Software changes frequently.
        
           | waspight wrote:
           | What do you mean?
        
       | seydor wrote:
       | The internet is vast. But if your attention is fully absorbed
       | between twitter and substack (like the author is), you feel
       | trapped, because, well, you are.
       | 
       | Maybe try to venture out of your internet comfort zone. It's not
       | all spam out there, nor is it worthless because it was not
       | recommended by someone cool. Just don't be lazy
        
         | Taek wrote:
         | This comment doesn't offer any practical advice on where to
         | find content of higher quality, it just condescends people who
         | don't feel like they have high quality options.
        
           | seydor wrote:
           | my comment is condescending to people who don't put the
           | effort for searching needles in the haystack, but instead
           | spend their whole online time in the well beaten path.
           | 
           | The content wont always be of "higher quality" , because
           | quality is subjective. Here are two nearby sources of such
           | content:
           | 
           | https://news.ycombinator.com/newest
           | 
           | https://news.ycombinator.com/newcomments
        
             | borski wrote:
             | > my comment is condescending to people who don't put the
             | effort for searching needles in the haystack, but instead
             | spend their whole online time in the well beaten path.
             | 
             | Another way of saying this is that your comment is
             | condescending to... most people.
             | 
             | Most people used to have an easy way to find forums on the
             | internet, even if they were AOL chat rooms, where they
             | could find moderated content that was interesting to them.
             | That _was_ the well beaten path.
             | 
             | Nowadays, that's no longer the case, and most people don't
             | seek out those needles in the haystack.
             | 
             | My contention is that they _shouldn't have to_ , just as
             | they didn't have to before the 2010s.
             | 
             | A corollary: "just don't be lazy" is almost never good
             | advice, as there is almost always a reason people are
             | "lazy." People make similar arguments about the
             | impoverished and how "if they just pulled themselves up by
             | their bootstraps and stopped being lazy" they could easily
             | get out of it, but that's really hard to do with two kids,
             | three jobs, and no time to think about anything other than
             | survival. They're not lazy, they are overwhelmed.
             | 
             | I'd say that applies to a lot of facets of life, including
             | time spent on the internet; amid the firehose of nonsense,
             | and given that most of the internet (read: where most
             | people spend time now) is literally rigged against moving
             | away from it, by using human psychology to generate hits of
             | dopamine in the form of likes and views, it is _hard_ to
             | find a better path, and the people who don't aren't
             | necessarily lazy. They just don't _live on the internet_ ,
             | and it _shouldn't be that hard._
        
               | seydor wrote:
               | I think you re making the argument that people should
               | stick to the mainstream of every medium (in this case the
               | internet) because it's easy. That's why i called it lazy.
               | I 'm not saying it's bad, but people shouldn't complain
               | that everything looks alike, when they literally only
               | stick to things that are alike
               | 
               | forums are just as hard to find today, as they were
               | before. In fact many of them are back in the places where
               | they used to be, it's just people have forgot about them
               | because they chose to sell their attention elsewhere
        
               | borski wrote:
               | I'm not saying they _should_ stick to the mainstream, but
               | I'm saying that a majority _will_. What has changed isn't
               | most people's behavior, but the internet around them, and
               | I'm arguing it's changed for the worse.
        
         | the_only_law wrote:
         | Reminds me of people who complain about how all music sucks
         | nowadays but only passively listen to the radio.
        
       | lebaux wrote:
       | agreed
        
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       | isaacremuant wrote:
       | > weirdos mad about video game journalism.
       | 
       | Funny how being interested in accountability, transparency and
       | good journalism makes you "a weirdo" worth ignoring.
       | 
       | Oh well, if you're moderately effective about highlighting a
       | problem you'll always get attacked with labels.
       | 
       | Funny too how he lumps them and other groups with "Nazis".
       | 
       | Feels like yet another person who is suddenly whining because
       | their authoritarian websites are no longer controlled by their
       | authoritarian ideologues they agreed with.
       | 
       | The Elon musk takeover has been very positive, if anything to
       | display how hypocritical some of the authortiarians from any side
       | are. It's all about censoring ideas they don't like because
       | "they're righteous (TM)".
       | 
       | Having destroyed alternatives like Parler every time they got
       | popular, makes it feel that no competition will be allowed and
       | theres a sudden desperate turn to descentralization, which is
       | awesome, but it will come with the same ridiculous shouts of
       | censorship when any idea authoritarians don't like, gets
       | mainstream notoriety. Suddenly the interest of society will be to
       | censor that descentralized network. The excuse will be one of the
       | typical scares: terrorism, harm, crime, etc
       | 
       | Interesting times but not an interesting article. Just the
       | typical "how do we go back to what I liked and agreed with me"
        
         | andrepd wrote:
         | >The Elon musk takeover has been very positive
         | 
         | Of course it has. Twitter stopped censoring neonazis and
         | harassment and started censoring things Musk doesn't like.
         | 
         | >authortiarians from any side. It's all about censoring ideas
         | they don't like
         | 
         | How ironic
        
       | lapcat wrote:
       | I found myself agreeing with every word of this article. The
       | penultimate paragraph summarizes it well:
       | 
       | > People call Twitter an indispensable public space because it's
       | the "town square", but in the real world there isn't just one
       | town square, because there isn't just one town. There are many.
       | And the internet works when you can exit -- when you can move to
       | a different town if you don't like the mayor or the local
       | culture.
       | 
       | > Disagreement in society is necessary for progress, but it's
       | most constructive when it's mediated by bonds of trust and
       | affinity and semi-privacy.
        
         | adesanmi wrote:
         | Same here. The biggest annoyance for me was whenever people use
         | the "town square" analogy, especially as a Brit.
         | 
         | The idea that my "town square" is owned by a private American
         | company is a nightmare.
        
       | foddermange wrote:
       | We can see this happening with Reddit. Either because they got
       | fed up with the administration of the site, or were forcibly
       | kicked off, a number of communities that were previously
       | subreddits have branched off and made their own forums instead.
       | 
       | Examples:
       | 
       | https://rdrama.net
       | 
       | https://ovarit.com
       | 
       | https://patriots.win
       | 
       | https://hexbear.net
       | 
       | https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com/forum
       | 
       | https://www.saidit.net/s/TumblrInAction
        
       | causality0 wrote:
       | Being the same person online as offline destroyed everything
       | great about the internet. When you were an asshole you got banned
       | from the website, and then you had to trim some of your sharp
       | edges off so you didn't get banned from the next one. These days
       | being an asshole results in either you aurrou ding yourself
       | entirely with other assholes or getting your real life ruined by
       | losing your job or even being arrested in some countries. There's
       | no more opportunity to learn and grow. You either get it right
       | the first try or you keep your online discourse rated PG so you
       | don't cross the wrong people.
       | 
       | Everything is so serious now. We couldn't even go back if we
       | wanted to, because ignoring and banning xXWeedLuvurXx for calling
       | you the n-word and moving on is a lot tougher when his name is
       | John Smith and he works in accounting.
        
         | slater- wrote:
         | I think you're exactly right.
         | 
         | In my youth, the internet was about having fun, about being
         | INTERESTING, even if your mom or your boss wouldn't understand.
         | And you could always just walk away from your Buffy Xanga and
         | get into something else.
         | 
         | Now, the language of ridiculous places like LinkedIn has become
         | the norm, on pain of having your life derailed.
         | 
         | "HI MY NAME IS JOHN (HE/HIM), I LIVE AND BREATHE ENTERPRISE
         | SALES SUPPORT IN THE THRILLINGLY DYNAMIC ECOSYSTEM OF SAAS, MY
         | DREAM EVER SINCE I WAS A CHILD WAS TO BE SERIOUS ABOUT WORK, I
         | WEAR MANY HATS, MY DOG IS MY SON, IT WAS A BLESSING TO ATTEND
         | THE BLACK EYED PEAS CONCERT, SINCERE THANKS TO UNITED PETROLEUM
         | AND ALSO TO ROSA PARKS"
         | 
         | I return again and again to the scene with the construction
         | worker neighbor from Office Space:
         | 
         | Peter: "does anyone ever say to you 'sounds like someone has a
         | case of The Mondays?'
         | 
         | Neighbor: "No, man. Shit, no, man! I believe you'd get your ass
         | kicked saying something like that"
        
         | Kenji wrote:
         | [dead]
        
         | giardini wrote:
         | _aurrou ding_ !?
         | 
         | Is this a new Australian metaphor?
        
           | burnished wrote:
           | Think it was intended to be surrounding
        
       | thenerdhead wrote:
       | I don't really get the premise here. The popular tweet relates
       | because 15 years ago most people weren't spending almost 1/3 of
       | their day on a screen.
       | 
       | Now that is definitely the case and backed with data throughout
       | the years.
       | 
       | The internet has always been fragmented. I think the arguments of
       | Facebook or Twitter being some type of global consciousness is
       | short sighted. It has maybe as many users as the population of
       | the USA. The world has an estimated 5 billion people who have
       | regular access to the internet. Is the world consciousness really
       | representative of the most engaged internet users? That's a huge
       | problem in itself and the thought that journalists are stuck on
       | Twitter makes no sense. If life is all about change and we see
       | behemoths come and go, then surely journalism will evolve outside
       | of a single platform.
        
       | fleddr wrote:
       | I tend to agree with the conclusions of the article but at the
       | same time I think it leaves out a few important factors in
       | comparing the old internet versus today's internet.
       | 
       | First, the political macro backdrop. The extreme political
       | polarization in the US leading to the so-called culture wars.
       | This is a massive driver of toxicity on social media. This
       | conflict machine is relatively new, people fondly remember
       | centralized social media as being far less "political" just a few
       | years ago.
       | 
       | Second, the mobile revolution. Which leads to a dumbing down of
       | engagement. Before, people would sit behind a PC with a large
       | screen and functional keyboard, enabling deep engagement as seen
       | here on HN. Today, people sit on the toilet, look at a tiny
       | screen with endless content, and any engagement (most never
       | engage at all) is very shallow and lazy: a like, a retweet. It's
       | not a conversation, it's amplification. In the rare case where
       | somebody produces original content (a self-composed tweet),
       | Twitter's format incentivizes hot takes and makes context and
       | nuance impossible or impractical.
       | 
       | Third, amplification. It's a specific choice by Twitter (UX,
       | algorithms) to promote and reward the worst opinions. It's a
       | complete inversion from real life.
       | 
       | Hence, rather than stating that human conversation absolutely
       | does not scale, I'd refine that conclusion. It does not scale in
       | these particular conditions.
        
       | amadeuspagel wrote:
       | Chatrooms replace twitter like book clubs replace cities.
        
         | seydor wrote:
         | Do they? Those are different behavior patterns. We have a lot
         | of different behaviors as humans, we don't need to replace one
         | with another
        
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