[HN Gopher] Neuropsychiatric researchers rethink what depression...
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       Neuropsychiatric researchers rethink what depression might be
        
       Author : theafh
       Score  : 165 points
       Date   : 2023-01-26 15:31 UTC (7 hours ago)
        
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       | ErikVandeWater wrote:
       | > Our knowledge of the genetics, however, is incomplete. Krystal
       | noted that studies of twins suggest that genetics may account for
       | 40% of the risk of depression. Yet the currently identified genes
       | seem to explain only about 5%.
       | 
       | I see the value in analyzing genetics for depressive genes, but I
       | also consider that how the genes interact with our environment
       | that play a role. For example, if the state of women's rights
       | around the world returned to where it was 200 years ago, it would
       | likely appear a genetic cause of depression is related to having
       | two X chromosomes. To wit - is the issue with the genes
       | themselves, or is it that those with the genes are somehow
       | repressed by the way society works?
        
         | zeroonetwothree wrote:
         | Women have 2x the rates of depression as men. But is there any
         | reason to think that 200 years ago it was even more so?
         | 
         | I think we overestimate the impact of external factors on our
         | internal mental states. That's why the typical treatment for
         | depression is CBT (literally changing your thoughts and
         | behaviors) and not "improve your external situation".
        
           | ErikVandeWater wrote:
           | > Women have 2x the rates of depression as men. But is there
           | any reason to think that 200 years ago it was even more so?
           | 
           | That's interesting. I would have thought men would have it
           | more since it's an abnormality, and with only 1 X chromosome,
           | men are much more frequently abnormal.
           | 
           | When I said "If the state of women's rights around the world
           | returned to where it was 200 years ago," I meant if women who
           | currently had normal human rights lost them. In that case we
           | would see a major increase in depression among women, the
           | point being that depression would be explained much more
           | clearly by genetic factors, even though the genes didn't
           | change; the interaction between the genes and the world
           | changed.
           | 
           | > I think we overestimate the impact of external factors on
           | our internal mental states.
           | 
           | We definitely do. And the external factors that affect our
           | happiness the most are often the least controllable.
        
             | asdff wrote:
             | I think that's in part due to the fact that women are an
             | oppressed group in this world. Even in this country, the
             | rhetoric used against women by certain politicians is
             | abhorrant, and startlingly accepted by a huge swath of the
             | population. There are politicians who want teenagers to
             | carry their rapists baby to term; we've had a rapist
             | president and now there's a rapist sitting on the supreme
             | court bench. Then you have a huge swath of people who still
             | believe in the patriarchal mid century views towards women,
             | or who have raised sons who continue to believe that crap
             | and saddle that behavior on their partners, perpetuating
             | mistreatment just like how racism continues to be
             | perpetuated. Minorities are similarly at higher risk for
             | chronic depression than whites.
        
           | asdff wrote:
           | At the same time, there's only so much to improve your
           | external situation, especially if you are dealing with hard
           | facts sort of situations (e.g. chronic health problems or
           | terminal illness, poverty). If your source of depression is
           | something external you can do something to improve, your
           | therapist will definitely recommend you moving away from
           | whatever that is (e.g. a toxic work environment or an abusive
           | partner). The reason why we encourage cbt is that it gives
           | you some tools in the mean time, as sometimes the external
           | factors driving your depression are going to be difficult or
           | impossible to change.
        
         | asdff wrote:
         | Gene by environment interactions are super important for
         | understanding how genotypes affect fitness in context. Change
         | your environment to the open ocean instead of on land, for
         | example, and you can readily see how your genes now hurt your
         | chances for survival instead of improve them.
         | 
         | That being said, there's a lot to the genetic compotent of
         | disease risk beyond just changes to the sequence of protein
         | coding genes. How much protein that gene produces can be
         | affected by a number of factors, such as the presence of singe
         | nucleotide polymorphisms (changes to one site in the DNA) that
         | may be well outside the gene region in the genome, but are a
         | binding region for a transcription factor or an enhancer that
         | drives expression of that gene and therefore dramatically
         | lowers (or increases) the protein produced. You can also have
         | epigenetic changes that similarly effect gene expression, but
         | these are not reflected anywhere in the genomic sequence since
         | these represent changes to the proteins that package DNA in the
         | nucleus, not to the DNA itself.
        
       | tus666 wrote:
       | Move psychology and psychiatry into the Astrology department
       | please. It ain't science.
        
         | elil17 wrote:
         | I'd tend to agree that psychology can be unscientific at times.
         | Certainly a lot in that field is derived from very abstract
         | theories (e.g. psychodynamics) that are not as falsifiable as
         | one might hope.
         | 
         | Yet, the comparison to astrology is also unfair. Scientific
         | studies have repeatedly shown that many psychological
         | treatments (e.g. CBT, DBT, interpersonal therapy) are
         | effective. A lot of early medicine worked this way: we knew a
         | treatment was useful before we understood the fundamental
         | biology of how it worked (e.g., rudimentary vaccines came
         | before germ theory).
        
           | tus666 wrote:
           | You are making a false equivalence between clearly
           | identifiable physical disease (e.g. shingles), and this
           | questionable concept called "mental illness" or "depression",
           | and this false equivalence is at the root of the problem.
           | 
           | This is one of the problems of how the scientific revolution
           | has been carried out in western society. The scientific
           | method which was so successful in application to certain
           | problems (mainly in the physical realm), has been assumed to
           | be just as effective in other areas as well.
           | 
           | Then we see false inferences being drawn and faulty
           | conclusions being reached based on philosophically
           | questionable assumptions being drawn - "hey, it looks like we
           | are applying the scientific method, therefore we must be
           | right!". Badly applied science is just as bad a non-science
           | like astrology.
           | 
           | Guess what - if you lock a chimpanzee in a cage it will
           | become "depressed". Maybe just let it out and return it to
           | the jungle? That ain't science, it's just common sense.
        
             | elil17 wrote:
             | If you run a bunch of people who are unhappy through a
             | standardized psychology program (e.g. CBT), they get
             | happier compared to the people who didn't get that program.
             | That's just a fact.
             | 
             | Maybe that's not the scientific method by your definition,
             | but I'm not sure it matters.
             | 
             | And yes, I get that a lot of mental health problems are
             | caused by problems in society. To extend your analogy,
             | we're not the zookeepers, we're other chimpanzees. We're a
             | lot smarter than monkeys so we even perhaps have a shot of
             | escaping. But it is absolutely reasonable to try to help
             | each other make the most of our lot.
             | 
             | So who care's what you call it, therapy is a way to help
             | people have more fulfilling lives. Medications can be too.
        
               | tus666 wrote:
               | Again you run face first into the brick wall of
               | questionable assumptions and get a bloody nose.
               | 
               | What's happiness? How do we measure it? How long does
               | this feeling last? Was it measured again 10 and 20 and 30
               | years later? And what was the "control measure"? People
               | who did not go through any program at all? Was it simply
               | the opportunity to think through their life issues rather
               | than the "CBT" itself the main driver to improve their
               | mood? Did the study attempt to identify different causal
               | factors? Did the participants actually make substantive
               | changes to their lives or did they simply start to "feel
               | better"? Did different people with different backgrounds
               | respond differently to different kinds of treatment?
               | (rhetorical question obviously).
               | 
               | Are you now starting to get a taste of the absurdity of
               | psychology and psychiatry? Sure getting people into a
               | room to simply start _talking and thinking about their
               | lives_ is a good thing. It probably helps, in different
               | ways for different people. But again, this is not
               | science, just common sense.
               | 
               | The attempt to "sciencify" and pathologize lived human
               | experience is like a kind of mental corruption by the
               | scientific establishment that refuses to believe anything
               | is beyond it's scope. But again, just because you run
               | what looks like a "scientific study" and write a fancy
               | "scientific paper" does _not_ validate the corrupt and
               | invalid assumptions and beliefs it is attempting to
               | demostrate.
               | 
               | It's a bit like the cognitive failure that led to
               | "software engineering". Engineering was created to
               | formalize the manipulation of the physical world.
               | Applying it to information synthesis was always wrong,
               | yet people did it anyway, and it led to spectacular
               | failure. We now have agile development as a result. Maybe
               | the same thing needs to happen to psych "sciences".
        
       | igammarays wrote:
       | Depression, and almost all mental disorders, can't even be
       | defined or reliably identified by any diagnosis test, leave alone
       | finding a biological cause.
       | 
       | Found a book recently on the topic, "Cracked: The Unhappy Truth
       | about Psychiatry" by James Davies, an expert who worked as a
       | clinical psychiatrist, and was himself present at meetings when
       | organizations like the NHS worked on standardizing definitions
       | for mental disorders (DSM and ICD).
       | 
       | My notes:
       | 
       | * Naming mental disorders is like naming constellations in the
       | sky: the phenomena are real, but finding a pattern is completely
       | subjective and arbitrary.
       | 
       | * There is a growing movement of professional psychiatrists
       | calling for the abandonment of the DSM and ICD and other newly
       | created terms for mental disorders.
       | 
       | * There is no scientific evidence whatsoever for the existence of
       | ANY of the "mental disorders" described in the DSM or ICD, yet
       | these mental health manuals are taken as bibles in the West. The
       | authors of the manuals themselves are publicly quoted to have
       | said that these manuals are simply subjective guidelines, with
       | absolutely no biologically-identified cause for these "diseases".
       | 
       | * Most of these "disorders" are simply describing normal
       | variations in personality found among people at different periods
       | of life. Identifying behavioural patterns and assigning a name to
       | it is a purely subjective matter.
        
       | endorphine wrote:
       | I was hoping to see Finasteride mentioned in the article. I've
       | read that it was found to trigger suicidal thoughts in patients.
       | I'm curious why that is.
        
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         | rhinoceraptor wrote:
         | The most common reason I've seen speculated is the
         | neurosteroids that 5-alpha reductase is involved in,
         | allopregnanole and isopregnanolone.
        
         | asdff wrote:
         | I'm really curious what the long term effects of finasteride
         | use will be or if there are side effects from withdrawl. So
         | many people I know use it and this is the first I've read of
         | this side effect, so it must be relatively understudied. I
         | guess the silver lining with so many people testing out a drug
         | like this is that it makes it easier to look at more rare side
         | effects with a larger sample size. Sometimes I think if there's
         | an actual perfectly safe cure for baldness out there, you'd at
         | least see rich people like the British Royal Family or LeBron
         | James using it.
        
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       | benibela wrote:
       | Pet theory: It is a protection from negative emotions
       | 
       | Someone experiences too much sadness and other negative emotions,
       | so the brain tries to stop the negative emotions by shutting down
       | all emotion processing. Then you do not feel so many negative
       | emotions anymore, but also no more positive emotions. You just do
       | not feel anything. Since motivation comes from emotions, you also
       | lose all motivation to do stuff
        
         | elil17 wrote:
         | Sounds like psychodynamics. A core part of that theory is that
         | unbearable emotions/thoughts are relegated to the "unconscious
         | mind."
        
       | super256 wrote:
       | Maybe it's different across cultures, but to me it was
       | communicated that more serotonin makes you more risk-taking and
       | removes anxiety from you. The anti-depressant effect is coming
       | from the rewards of taking risk (e.g. asking someone out,
       | applying for a new job, asking for extra ketchup on your fries).
       | 
       | There was a funny study about crayfish changing behaviour when
       | exposed to SSRI, where they became bolder to the point of
       | endangering their life.
       | 
       | https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2021/jun/15/crayfish...
        
       | alienalp wrote:
       | Chronic inflammation is also result of many other health problem.
       | Depression is ultimately a natural process. It is known that
       | depression caused by health issues probably big portion of cases.
       | Nothing new. I realized that bluntly interfering with a mechanism
       | built-in in our body is ridicules. People should be focusing in
       | root causes. However i doubt that SSRIs really interfere with
       | depression anyway. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TTDPV1XOIPY I
       | think what happens is SSRIs make recovery faster for people who
       | are at the stage of recovery by giving false hope. There are ones
       | that really interfere with depression and result is drastically
       | increased mortality. Which is really what should happen if you
       | surpress a natural mechanism solely exists to increase survival.
        
       | ogwh wrote:
       | There is literally no useful information in this article.
       | 
       | It could be summed up as "everything people have been told is
       | bullshit and we don't know what isn't".
       | 
       | What a waste of time.
        
       | NickM wrote:
       | It's really bizarre to me how fixated people are on viewing
       | depression solely through the "disease with a biological cause"
       | lens. Even in this article, which acknowledges the serious flaws
       | in the serotonin hypothesis, all the alternatives they explore
       | are around other biological things like other neurotransmitters,
       | inflammation, etc.
       | 
       | Maybe more people are anxious and depressed than in the past
       | because modern life really sucks for a lot of people. I'm not
       | saying that's a simple thing to fix, and certainly there is a
       | biological component for _some_ people...but the idea that
       | societal changes are increasing rates of anxiety and depression
       | seems _way_ more plausible than there being some sudden and
       | mysterious shift in the biology of a significant percentage of
       | the population that needs correcting via medication.
        
         | mhardcastle wrote:
         | Here is a lecture by Robert Sapolsky, an extremely well-
         | regarded researcher, that goes over some evidence on depression
         | being a disease: https://youtu.be/NOAgplgTxfc
         | 
         | It's been a while since I've seen it, but I recall his evidence
         | including some rather striking non-behavioral symptoms, like
         | changes in sleep cycles.
         | 
         | To address your specific thoughts on it, his position
         | (paraphrased from memory) is that social stressors like you
         | describe cause elevated cortisol, which causes depression -
         | such that your position that "modern life really sucks" is not
         | incompatible with a biological cause.
         | 
         | It's extraordinarily interesting in a lot of other ways -
         | definitely worth a watch in spite of the length.
        
           | NickM wrote:
           | Oh yeah, certainly, being depressed is correlated with all
           | kinds of changes in biology. I'm not saying it's like "just
           | in your head", but the question is, do those changes lead to
           | being depressed or does being depressed lead to biological
           | changes?
           | 
           | Of course that question is an oversimplification since the
           | answer is certainly some of both; but the prevailing wisdom
           | seems to be that it's mostly/all biological changes leading
           | to feeling depressed, whereas I'm not convinced the scales
           | don't lean more in the other direction, at least on average.
           | 
           | EDIT: but as to your point about stress leading to elevated
           | cortisol levels, to me that's clearly _not_ a biological
           | cause. The cause is stress, and the elevated cortisol levels
           | are an effect of the stress. It 's not like the hormone
           | levels just went up all by themselves due to some genetic
           | abnormality or something; if they did, then yeah maybe that's
           | a biological disease that warrants some kind of chemical
           | correction, but that's not at all what we're talking about.
        
         | alexfromapex wrote:
         | Not disagreeing with you I think depression is a constellation
         | of things but anhedonia in my opinion definitely has a
         | biological cause because it comes and goes.
        
       | johnthealy3 wrote:
       | Correct me if I'm wrong, but this could be the first real
       | acknowledgement in science that RA, lupus, and autoimmune disease
       | in general could be CAUSED by mental health issues? FTA:
       | 
       | "It's also unclear whether simply treating inflammation could be
       | enough to alleviate depression. Clinicians are still trying to
       | parse whether depression causes inflammation or inflammation
       | leads to depression. "It's a sort of chicken-and-egg phenomenon,"
       | Nemeroff said."
        
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       | untech wrote:
       | ...because literally nobody really knows what causes the
       | depression.
        
         | cpncrunch wrote:
         | We do actually have a lot of research into factors that can
         | cause depression, which the article mentions:
         | 
         | "Different genetic variations can affect whether individuals
         | respond to certain types of stress, such as sleep deprivation,
         | physical or emotional abuse, and lack of social contact, by
         | becoming depressed."
        
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       | LatteLazy wrote:
       | We really have no idea what "the" cause is. It maybe have one
       | cause or many (it almost certainly has many...).
       | 
       | We don't even really know what depression is. Is it a disease or
       | a symptom or both? Is it actually multiple different diseases all
       | presenting similarly?
       | 
       | One look at how regularly professionals change the
       | name/definition/diagnostic criteria for this shows you we are
       | still in very early days for mental health...
        
         | zeroonetwothree wrote:
         | Right, depression isn't just one thing. It's a general term we
         | give for a family of related symptoms. Sometimes it can be
         | caused by obvious external factors (your loved one dies or you
         | lose your job), in which case it's not considered a "disorder",
         | just a normal response of your brain. Other times there is no
         | obvious external cause and you just have those symptoms for no
         | apparent reason. In such cases we call it "depressive disorder"
         | and treat it with therapy or drugs (which are at best only
         | moderately effective).
         | 
         | Of course there are many things in medicine that have no known
         | cause so it's not exactly unique to depression or even mental
         | illness. For example some large % of chronic pain is idiopathic
         | (no known cause), and there are a host of physical conditions
         | that we similarly have no idea about (fibromyalgia, IBS, etc.).
        
           | LatteLazy wrote:
           | Of course, before it was called "depressive disorder" it was
           | called clinical depression and defined slightly differently.
           | Before that it was just (unipolar) depression. Before that it
           | was Melancholy. I think it is actually now called something
           | else but I cannot for the life of me remember what...
           | 
           | It's like in the dark ages when people just had "fever" and
           | died.
        
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       | dbg31415 wrote:
       | Not that I've had extensive conversations with licensed
       | professionals about this topic for the last 25+ years... but oh,
       | wait.
       | 
       | It's a tripod, and you need all 3 to be aligned or else you can
       | be susceptible to falling back into the shit. You don't have to
       | have problems with all 3, problems with just 1 will do it. But
       | you do need to aware that sometimes you do need to fix all 3.
       | 
       | Circumstances.
       | 
       | Biology.
       | 
       | Behavior.
       | 
       | And it's complicated.
       | 
       | Circumstances. If you have a ton of shit going on that isn't
       | making you happy, you can be depressed. You'll need to work to
       | avoid circumstances that get you down. But... we're seldom able
       | to control our lives.
       | 
       | Biology. There can be unbalances. Lack of exercise, for me, is
       | the most common way to feel shitty. If I didn't have my health,
       | I'd feel shitty. Brain health, body health, just health. Also
       | just physical comfort. You have to make sure you're physically
       | OK.
       | 
       | Behavior. You have to want to be happy. You have to be open to
       | it. You have to strive for it. You have to respond and interact
       | with people in a way that doesn't make them feel shitty, or else
       | you'll drive them away. And... you have to avoid people looking
       | to just be shitty and drag others down.
       | 
       | If a friend tells me that they're depressed, my go to is to take
       | them for a hike. Get them out of their surroundings, get some
       | sunshine, fresh air, and get them moving. I like small tasks,
       | small goals that can build into bigger ones. "We don't have to
       | climb the mountain, let's just go a mile and see how we feel."
       | And it's nice to just have someone there, in the moment with you,
       | doing the same thing. And when I'm down, and I know I'm doing the
       | same thing someone else is, and they're able to enjoy it, I am
       | reminded to let myself enjoy it too.
       | 
       | For me personally... it's hard. We all live our own mistakes.
       | Finding a way to forgive myself, while still learning how to
       | improve. Finding ways to keep my step count up. Finding ways to
       | cross off to-dos at work. I have a little consequence / reward
       | system in my head... if I am late to a meeting, I have to do 10
       | pushups. If I do my chores (stuff like cleaning up, doing the
       | dishes, and yard, and laundry), I get to play a video game at the
       | end of the day... and not beat myself up for being lazy. You get
       | to set your own.
       | 
       | It's important to reflect on why you do things. I get down when I
       | feel like I'm just floating between things that are expected of
       | me.
       | 
       | Anyway I don't know, if there were cures, if this shit were
       | simple, it wouldn't just constantly be in the background.
       | Routines, friendships, and small goals... staying active, try not
       | to eat pure garbage, try to be thankful and show appreciation to
       | others. I don't know, no real punchline here. Just that life is a
       | struggle to keep decay at bay.
        
       | rcarr wrote:
       | What is currently called "depression" needs splitting up into
       | finer grained categories because it's become a useless catch all
       | term at this point. I would argue that the people who are really
       | truly rendered catatonic (and so likely have something seriously
       | wrong in the brain that needs addressing with drugs) should be in
       | one category and I would argue this is quite a small minority. I
       | personally believe that the "depression" the majority are
       | experiencing is more akin to what Johan Hari talks about in Lost
       | Connections and it's root causes are absurd societal structures
       | and political failures which are deeply harming people. If
       | someone feels trapped in a hopeless situation and this drags on
       | for years because society is not providing any means to help them
       | escape and improve their lives then depresssion is a pretty
       | inevitable outcome.
       | 
       | In a modern day society it really isn't acceptable. Give people
       | access to low cost housing. Reduce the cost of education so no
       | one is priced out of it or forced into massive debts. Subsidise
       | healthy food and tax junk. Subsidise gym memberships and sports
       | clubs for the poorest. Increase the amount of therapists being
       | trained and make them more accessible. Pay people proper wages.
       | Watch depression plummet. The solutions are there - why is there
       | no political will to enact them?
       | 
       | Edit:
       | 
       | I have no idea why but people are reading "subsidise" and seeing
       | "free". That is not what I said. Subsidise the things you want to
       | encourage so it is cheaper for the consumer at the point of sale
       | and do the opposite for the things you want to discourage. The
       | cost you pay as a society ends up being less in the long run.
       | Less people ill and ending up in hospital means more people
       | working and paying taxes etc.
        
         | davidn20 wrote:
         | I would argue we live in an era with the most access to
         | everything you listed out ever. There are more programs to help
         | the poor than any other period in history. The internet and
         | YouTube give you access to the world's knowledge. You can get a
         | membership to Planet Fitness for $10/month.
         | 
         | Also, I realize all of this is great, but the opposite side is
         | true too. We also live in an era with the most amount of
         | obstacles and vices people can fall into. Yes, there are
         | amazing lectures on YouTube, but there are also millions of
         | addicting cute cat videos.
         | 
         | I state all this to say depression and improving people lives
         | is not as easy as providing them access. They need to want to
         | put in the work themselves.
        
           | rcarr wrote:
           | I agree that people do need to put the effort in themselves.
           | I just think that they put the effort in when they have
           | breathing space and hope. If people can't see a way out of
           | their situation then they won't put any effort in, they've
           | become hopeless and therefore depressed. You could argue that
           | the disease in that case may be one of perception, and that
           | you need to enrich the person's life by opening up to new
           | possibilities and ways of perceiving the world. But you can
           | also build more visible progression paths into the system so
           | people never feel that way in the first place and can always
           | see a route out if they choose to take it.
           | 
           | I'd also argue that there are some social programs but:
           | 
           | - we're drowning in information overload so people don't
           | necessarily know how to access them. For example, a lot of
           | the poorest households in the Uk did not claim the money they
           | were entitled to from the government for energy payments this
           | winter.
           | 
           | - We don't really have policies that are addressing the root
           | causes of poverty which are unaffordable housing,
           | unaffordable and/or poor quality education and low wages.
        
         | landemva wrote:
         | > political failures
         | 
         | If politics is being blamed for depression, it is because
         | people voluntarily consume media about politics. Just say no.
         | Refuse to be sucked in to that pattern.
        
           | rcarr wrote:
           | Second and third order effects.
           | 
           | If the main cause of poverty is unaffordable housing and low
           | wages and poverty is one of the leading causes of depression
           | then the people who have the ability to tackle the housing
           | crisis and low wages but instead choose to do nothing are
           | also responsible for the causation of a lot of depression.
           | The people who are able to do something about the housing
           | crisis are politicians. I do agree with you though if you
           | think political media is pretty toxic.
        
         | s1artibartfast wrote:
         | I would argue that most depression is something more
         | philosophical and behavioral then simple material conditions.
         | 
         | It is a state of disconnect from one's own life and the World
         | At Large. This is symptomatic of a loss of individual agency
         | and ability to interact with their environment in a personally
         | meaningful way.
         | 
         | All the free gym memberships and free food in the world is
         | useless if individuals don't want to go to the gym or cook the
         | food. In reality, there are opportunities for free recreation
         | and cheap healthy food readily available, but that isn't the
         | bottleneck.
         | 
         | Bottleneck is trained helplessness which leads people to self
         | medicate and watch an average of 40 plus hours of Television a
         | week instead of doing something that actually Sparks Joy.
        
         | DrThunder wrote:
         | I agree with your first paragraph. However, I don't think your
         | 2nd paragraph is a fix that'll help very many people at all.
         | 
         | This idea that just throwing free things at people will give
         | them any amount of deeper happiness is typically proven false.
         | I also don't find therapists all that useful but I guess that's
         | a personal subjective take... maybe for the right people they
         | can be. The healthy food thing is a cultural issue and no
         | amount of subsidizing it to make it cheaper will get people to
         | eat healthier. The percentage of obese people is too high to
         | place all the obesity blame on food pricing.
         | 
         | The issue is simply that modern day life is typically TOO easy
         | for most people and gives back very little deep meaning. We've
         | created a culture that gives zero meaning to anyone and
         | promotes nihilism. You will not fix that with welfare. Some of
         | the most depressed mentally ill people you find will be very
         | well off financially.
        
           | landemva wrote:
           | > modern day life is typically TOO easy for most people and
           | gives back very little deep meaning.
           | 
           | That is about accurate for USA. People can start a garden or
           | put a pepper plant under a CFL bulb. Grow some food to get
           | some appreciation for how life has become easier.
        
           | juve1996 wrote:
           | > Some of the most depressed mentally ill people you find
           | will be very well off financially.
           | 
           | Is this statistically true? otherwise this is worthless.
           | 
           | See: Study Finds Strong Relation Between Income and
           | Happiness, Does Not Max Out at $75k. Turns out that famous
           | study that everyone loved to quote isn't exactly truth.
           | https://www.nysscpa.org/news/publications/nextgen/nextgen-
           | ar...
        
           | digdugdirk wrote:
           | I believe you're interpreting the OP's second paragraph
           | differently to how it was intended.
           | 
           | The idea isn't that you're "giving" or "providing" or
           | "subsidizing" with welfare - the point is that the
           | subsidization has already occurred, just in a non-human
           | focused way. Factory farming has been subsidized so processed
           | sugars and unhealthy food are the norm. Companies are
           | effectively subsidized by allowing minimum wage scheduling
           | without providing healthcare.
           | 
           | This all has knock on effects. Healthy food isn't just a
           | cultural issue, many people simply don't have the time or
           | access to be able to cook healthy natural food. For the vast
           | majority of people, they have no possible access to a
           | therapist, even if they wanted to or were able to afford it
           | (unlikely in the case of the US healthcare system). And of
           | course, since there's minimal insurance support for general
           | therapy, there's a much smaller market for people to go into
           | it. The negative feedback loop continues.
           | 
           | I agree with your general point that life gives back very
           | little meaning in our society, but its important to
           | understand that this doesn't just occur because life is too
           | easy. For many people, life is hard. And there isn't a
           | visible path out of the situation they're currently in.
           | Checking out/dropping out/giving up is honestly a reasonable
           | response.
           | 
           | TLDR: Try not to think of Welfare as a handout. See it as a
           | signal of a broken society that needs fixing.
        
           | rcarr wrote:
           | I didn't say free, I said subsidised.
           | 
           | You need to reduce friction for good habits and increase
           | friction for bad ones. At the minute, our societies do the
           | exact opposite. Unhealthy food and Netflix and cheap. Healthy
           | food and education are expensive.
           | 
           | It doesn't matter how it happened, once someone is in the
           | hole, the negative feedback loop makes it very hard for them
           | to escape. If you are worked to the bone on minimum wage to
           | keep an overpriced roof over your head you will likely fall
           | into the trap of eating shit food and binging on Netflix
           | because summoning the energy to cook, teach yourself skills
           | and exercise is going to be difficult. And the more you give
           | in to doing that the deeper into the hole you fall. People at
           | the bottom need breathing space. Reduce the amount of money
           | they have to spend to survive which means they don't have to
           | work themselves to the bone to survive and they can actually
           | focus on improving themselves. I've literally seen it happen
           | with my own eyes.
           | 
           | And yes, for some people life can be too easy and that can
           | also cause depression. Which is why I believe we need finer
           | grained categories to narrows down the root causes and
           | provide more tailored solutions than just handing out happy
           | pills willy nilly to everyone.
        
             | s1artibartfast wrote:
             | >You need to reduce friction for good habits and increase
             | friction for bad ones. At the minute, our societies do the
             | exact opposite. Unhealthy food and Netflix and cheap.
             | Healthy food and education are expensive
             | 
             | I would argue the opposite. healthy food is already dirt
             | cheap, and education is free.
             | 
             | One hour at minimum wage can buy enough clean healthy food
             | to last an adult most of a week.[1] Free education as
             | available at online and at libraries, ranging all the way
             | from simple tasks to Phd courses from Stanford.
             | 
             | My point isn't to minimize the hardship of the depressed,
             | but point out that friction isn't the issue. If 5 minutes
             | of cooking, picking up a book, or typing an educational
             | topic into youtube is too much effort, there is a
             | _different_ problem.
             | 
             | Why does reading a book, cooking, or learning seem like
             | work, and not fun? It certainly isn't because it is too
             | hard in reality, especially when the same depressed person
             | found pleasure and relaxation in doing these things before
             | they were depressed.
             | 
             | [1] I was at the store yesterday and pork was 88 cents/lb,
             | frozen vegetables ~ $1/lb, and rice and beans ~$1/lb.
        
               | rcarr wrote:
               | I agree with some of your points but not all of it.
               | Healthy food can be affordable if you know what to buy
               | and how to cook it. But I disagree that it is cheaper
               | than junk food and it is certainly less convenient to
               | cook and purchase. In the UK at least, there are also
               | 'food deserts'[1] which means it is difficult to access
               | healthy food.
               | 
               | I also agree that you can teach yourself stuff online for
               | free. However it doesn't change the fact that you don't
               | have the piece of paper saying you've got a degree which
               | is one of the societal structures that holds a lot of
               | people back. If you want the certification for an online
               | program, you have to pay a similar amount of money to
               | what you would have if you'd attended in person. There
               | are lots of immigrants working in Western countries as
               | taxi drivers who are scientists, doctors and the like
               | back in their home countries but can't practice here for
               | whatever reason, normally to do with the paperwork.
               | IT/Dev is an outlier in that they will hire people
               | without degrees in ways that don't happen in other
               | industries. Something like 'Good Will Hunting' where a
               | self taught janitor makes it into a white collar career
               | is pretty rare.
               | 
               | > My point isn't to minimize the hardship of the
               | depressed, but point out that friction isn't the issue.
               | If 5 minutes of cooking, picking up a book, or typing an
               | educational topic into youtube is too much effort, there
               | is a different problem.
               | 
               | I still believe friction is a key component. Say you're
               | on the minimum wage and you have to work as many hours as
               | you possibly can to keep a roof over your head. Plus you
               | have a lengthy commute. When you return home you are
               | physically and mentally depleted, particularly if you are
               | an ill fit for whatever job you've had to take on to
               | survive. You want to turn your life around, but you've
               | only got limited time available outside of work to do it.
               | So you start looking for ways to save time. Maybe you'll
               | cut back on exercise, or start eating more junk food so
               | you don't have to cook as much and you can study. Or
               | maybe you'll cut back on sleep. You keep this up for a
               | while but eventually the physical and mental effects
               | start to become overwhelming and you become more and more
               | ill and eventually you burn out. You've worked hard,
               | you've studied and you've still gotten nowhere. And your
               | body and mind are a mess. Maybe you end up losing your
               | job as a result. You lose faith that anything will ever
               | pay off and you stop studying. You fall into depression
               | and the cycle gets even worse. Maybe you even turn to
               | alcohol and drugs to numb the pain. What that person
               | needs is less friction in their life and a bit of help.
               | Maybe it's work from home, maybe it's cheap and healthy
               | takeaway food and probably a higher wage.
               | 
               | > Why does reading a book, cooking, or learning seem like
               | work, and not fun? It certainly isn't because it is too
               | hard in reality, especially when the same depressed
               | person found pleasure and relaxation in doing these
               | things before they were depressed.
               | 
               | Because the person is engaged in a fight for survival.
               | They are not necessarily studying a topic because they
               | want to but because it's the only thing that will help
               | them get a job in their current location. They can't move
               | away because they have no savings. Whatever they have to
               | learn becomes high stakes. You can't afford to mess up or
               | fail because if you do then you're toast. And learning
               | requires failure so it's a stressful experience on top of
               | your already stressful life. You've got society telling
               | you you're worthless due to paying you barely enough to
               | survive and now you've got a compiler error or a textbook
               | you can't decipher saying the same thing. It takes a
               | large amount of strength to hold fast and have faith that
               | you will eventually come out the other side victorious,
               | especially if this kind of thing goes on for years.
               | 
               | [1] https://www.theguardian.com/society/2018/oct/12/more-
               | than-a-...
        
               | s1artibartfast wrote:
               | I think we are talking past eachother.
               | 
               | When I talk about access to learning, I am not talking
               | about obtaining a piece of paper increasing economic
               | mobility. I am talking about learning for the sake of
               | personal enjoyment.
               | 
               | Most poor people are not depressed, so you have to ask
               | what sets the depressed apart from the rest. Why can one
               | person find joy in learning, and not another?
               | 
               | I think this points to something greater than money=
               | happiness. Im not saying it doesnt matter, just that I
               | don't think is accurate simplification.
               | 
               | You constructed an elaborate and plausible narrative why
               | someone is depressed because of their economic situation.
               | However, it ignores the person in identical situation who
               | is happy. What is different between them?
        
               | rcarr wrote:
               | > I think we are talking past eachother.
               | 
               | I think we are too.
               | 
               | > You constructed an elaborate and plausible narrative
               | why someone is depressed because of their economic
               | situation. However, it ignores the person in identical
               | situation who is happy. What is different between them?
               | 
               | From my viewpoint, there are four components:
               | 
               | - Personality
               | 
               | - Expectation
               | 
               | - Perception
               | 
               | - Resilience
               | 
               | Starting with the first, imagine you're really, really
               | into the arts. Maybe you're really into musical theatre
               | or something like that because you saw them on TV. Now
               | imagine you're stuck living in an isolated town in
               | Alaska.
               | 
               | Now we can move on to expectation. Maybe you grew up as
               | kid and thought one day I'll make it out of this town and
               | move to a city where I can work in musical theatre. Or
               | maybe you don't even have that high expectations, you
               | just want to live in a city where you can watch musical
               | theatre. You think you'll grow up and earn the money and
               | get out of the town. But it doesn't go to plan. Maybe you
               | struggle to find a job because you don't have the skills
               | needed in the area. You're working as a bartender and
               | don't seem to have any money left over at the end of the
               | week to put towards your new life. Years go by and you've
               | not made any progress. Your dream is fading further and
               | further into the distance.
               | 
               | Which moves on to perception. So many years have gone by
               | that you no longer see any possible way of achieving your
               | expectations and living somewhere that matches your
               | personality. You know what you're doing isn't working but
               | you can't think of anything that will. You fall into a
               | depression. You let your body and mind go to shit.
               | 
               | A year or two goes by and maybe your perception changes
               | and you think "maybe if I train as a lumberjack then I
               | can earn more money and then I'll be able to save and get
               | out of here." So you go to college to train as a
               | lumberjack. But you've been out of school for a while and
               | you've forgotten how long it takes to learn a new skill.
               | You fuck up a lot. You're not really a lumberjack type so
               | the other students take the piss out of you and you
               | become the butt of the jokes. You try and start running
               | for your mental health but you're that out of shape that
               | you can't even run a mile. You give up on both because
               | you haven't built up enough resilience through previous
               | challenges to make it through.
               | 
               | That last part is absolute key. When you're exercising,
               | the total stress the body endures needs to be appropriate
               | for it to have the intended effect. If you push someone
               | too hard who is out of shape you risk injuring them. Even
               | if you're a seasoned athlete and overtrain, your fitness
               | decreases. Similarly if you don't work hard enough to
               | trigger growth, your fitness won't increase.
               | 
               | It is the exact same thing with depression and why some
               | people on here are saying depression is caused because
               | life is too hard and others are saying it's caused
               | because life is too easy. The stress stimulus needs to be
               | tailored for the individual. For a lot of people the
               | stress is either too high or too low and it is causing
               | major, major problems. We're calling both of these polar
               | opposite cause and effects "depression" and it means
               | everyone is shouting at each other rather than coming
               | together and helping each other.
               | 
               | Going back to our original scenario, you might have
               | another poor person who lives in that small Alaska town.
               | Maybe he loved musical theatre too. But maybe his
               | personality extended to other interests so he was happy.
               | Or maybe he never expected much out of life so he was
               | happy. Or maybe he could perceive different opportunities
               | to escape. Or maybe he took the same lumberjack and
               | running route but he knew that it was going to take a
               | long, long time to get good at either and he was going to
               | have suffer and persevere for a long long time.
               | 
               | It doesn't matter how someone got in the hole, when they
               | decide that they're ready to get out, society needs to
               | rally around them to offer support. That doesn't mean to
               | completely molly coddle them but it means that, just like
               | a good coach or physio, you've got to realistically
               | evaluate how much stress and damages they've endured and
               | how much they can currently tolerate and then gradually
               | increase their ability to handle more over time until
               | they're back on their feet again. At the minute, in my
               | opinion, society is far too much Led Tasso and not enough
               | Ted Lasso.
        
           | D-Coder wrote:
           | > The issue is simply that modern day life is typically TOO
           | easy for most people and gives back very little deep meaning.
           | 
           | Any references that people were less depressed when things
           | were more difficult?
        
           | PuppyTailWags wrote:
           | I disagree that modern day life is too easy for most people
           | and that's why people are depressed. Specifically, I don't
           | think there's any evidence that lives with more adversity are
           | less prone to mental illness. By this logic, PTSD shouldn't
           | exist, neither should the myriad of studies that prove
           | beating your children statistically results in a whole host
           | of negative outcomes.
           | 
           | I think you personally just might not be engaging with people
           | who aren't well off financially. The rate of mental illness
           | among the homeless and the jailed populations is way, way
           | higher than the rate of mental illness among the wealthy.
        
         | starkd wrote:
         | Way to completely ignore the point. It is also addressing a
         | spiritual problem with material concerns. Just throw more money
         | at it and the problem goes away?
         | 
         | It is also founded on the premise that the government is in a
         | position to remove any and all risk from people's lives.
         | Indeed, it would be obligated to do this. It is extending a
         | guarantee it has no way of fulfilling.
        
         | jaywalk wrote:
         | So only poor people suffer from depression?
        
           | re-actor wrote:
           | Poor not in wealth but in quality of life, which is almost
           | everyone.
        
           | rcarr wrote:
           | No not at all. Rich people who benefit from the system can
           | also be victim to it in other ways. Not all managers are
           | sociopaths and I'm sure a lot of them feel shit about some of
           | the things they have to do in order to maintain their jobs.
           | And everyone, regardless of wealth and status, is subject to
           | the "slings and arrows of outrageous fortune" and whatever
           | personal tragedies they may bring. As I said we need finer
           | grained diagnoses. You might have for example:
           | 
           | - Catatonic depression, likely physical in nature
           | 
           | - Shit Life Syndrome [1], likely societal cause, possibly
           | other issues are play
           | 
           | - Privilege Pathos, likely caused by past trauma, loss or
           | existential issues
           | 
           | These are obviously exaggerated groupings to make the point.
           | At the end of the day, at the receiving end of every
           | diagnosis is an individual with a unique biology and
           | backstory that lead to their depression. But if you want to
           | have the most impact on reducing the ever skyrocketing amount
           | of depression cases, you would be best to focus on the
           | societal issues and that, in my opinion, is what is causing
           | the most symptoms in the most amount of people. The people in
           | the other two categories (the catatonic and the rich) are the
           | people most likely to be currently receiving treatment
           | anyway, the first because they can no longer look after
           | themselves and so wind up in the system and the second
           | because they have the means to access therapies.
           | 
           | [1] -
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shit_life_syndrome?wprov=sfti1
        
           | Buttons840 wrote:
           | You really missed the point. He's saying "depression" means a
           | lot of different things[0], and that many people are unhappy
           | simply because their societal (economic and social) situation
           | sucks and thus their life sucks.
           | 
           | [0]: It would be interesting to have a discussion about
           | "depression" without actually using the word, since it's so
           | overloaded.
        
             | DrThunder wrote:
             | I think OP is referring to the 2nd paragraph.
        
       | ex3xu wrote:
       | I am a subscriber to the microbiome inflammasome hypothesis for
       | major depression [0], so I wouldn't be surprised if a treatment
       | course for depression in many people could be as simple as better
       | dental hygiene + magnesium orotate + probiotic supplements. I've
       | had my eye on studies linking schizophrenia with inflammatory
       | cytokine markers, and it follows that other psychological
       | conditions could have similar etiology and pathogenesis. Research
       | on the influence of gut bacteria and intestinal dysbiosis on
       | anxiety and depression has been coming out since at least 2013
       | [1].
       | 
       | After reading Robert Whitaker's 2010 _Anatomy of an Epidemic_
       | [2], I 'm convinced that future generations will look back on
       | this era of psychiatric treatment with the same critical eye that
       | our generation points at Moliere's 17th-century leeches or George
       | Washington's personal doctor treating his strep throat with
       | several blood-letting phlebotomies -- an absolute iatrogenic
       | travesty. The overprescription of potentially mania-inducing
       | antidepressants in children and teenagers is especially egregious
       | to me. Add in the perverse incentives of profit-driven
       | pharmaceutical companies, and you get issues like Zyprexa's 2009
       | class action lawsuit, for example [3].
       | 
       | For those looking for a readable introduction to the potential
       | link between chronic inflammation and depression, there is _The
       | Inflamed Mind_ by Edward Bullmore from 2018 which did some rounds
       | on talk shows and the like.
       | 
       | [0] https://sci-hub.st/https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30004130/
       | 
       | [1] https://sci-
       | hub.st/https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/art...
       | 
       | [2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anatomy_of_an_Epidemic
       | 
       | [3]
       | https://www.justice.gov/archive/opa/pr/2009/January/09-civ-0...
        
         | dennis_jeeves1 wrote:
         | I have not specifically dug into depression, but I think I can
         | overall agree with the line of thought. As far as modern
         | medicine goes, it is almost undoubtedly primitive but puts
         | forth a facade of sophistication.
        
         | standardly wrote:
         | The fact that healthy people still get depression makes me
         | skeptical of hypotheses like this. If it were as simple as
         | taking probiotics, x and y supplements, and eating healthier,
         | (and brushing teeth more), I think a lot more people would have
         | beaten major depression by now.
         | 
         | Someone else in the thread suggested it's just exercise, sleep,
         | and diet. Yet there are plenty of folks who do these things
         | perfectly and still get depression.
        
       | hot_gril wrote:
       | I like how the website puts a progress bar at the top to
       | compensate for browsers increasingly hiding the regular scroll
       | bar on the right.
        
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       | MuffinFlavored wrote:
       | What are some good ways to get a bunch of serotonin when
       | seemingly nothing really excites you/brings you joy and you view
       | almost everything in the form of "pros/cons" (aka everything is
       | not without its downsides)?
        
         | googlryas wrote:
         | Change your thought patterns to be less cynical.
        
           | MuffinFlavored wrote:
           | How does one control their own mind?
        
             | googlryas wrote:
             | Read philosophy, go to therapy(maybe CBT), generally change
             | your inputs.
        
             | zeroonetwothree wrote:
             | I encourage you to look into CBT. The best version of it
             | I've seen is in the David Burns book "Feeling Good: The New
             | Mood Therapy". Although you can also try a therapist (but
             | they might be more hit/miss).
             | 
             | The basic idea of CBT is that our thoughts are a result of
             | our actions, and by changing our actions we can change our
             | thoughts. I'm not going to say it's super easy, but it
             | definitely does work.
        
               | barrysteve wrote:
               | It works for six months to mask problems.
        
         | lhuser123 wrote:
         | Some ideas: Signup for classes of some hobby you really like.
         | Read good books about something that can help you see life from
         | a different perspective. Learn from Dr Andrew Hubberman on
         | YouTube
        
           | MuffinFlavored wrote:
           | Hobbies I like: incessantly refreshing HackerNews/Reddit.
           | Distracting myself with random coding projects. I feel like
           | my attention span has been fried from TikTok/being a
           | "computer kid" for the past 20 years or so. Books don't
           | "capture" my attention I guess.
        
             | lhuser123 wrote:
             | Lol. I guess I was referring to try something different.
             | Not that I'm an expert but have tried many things & one of
             | the best was taking classes for a hobby I enjoy. You met
             | people with similar interest & have something to talk
             | about. The mere fact of interacting with people & see life
             | from a different perspective can have a real impact. Of
             | course this is just the beginning.
        
         | asdff wrote:
         | I've struggled with this. In the end the solution was to just
         | ignore my pros and cons list, and go with the flow. There's
         | been plenty of times I've gone into something thinking not much
         | of it, and being pleasantly surprised after. There's also a
         | book that really helps me which I periodically reread every few
         | years: _Siddartha_ by Herman Hesse. Its a short read, ~150
         | pages. It reminds me how important the fullness of life is, the
         | good and the bad.
        
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         | mikrl wrote:
         | I've been taking the precursor as a supplement (5-HTP) but I'm
         | not sure of it's efficacy as I'm not a nutritionist.
        
         | ajkjk wrote:
         | This whole article about how "getting a bunch of serotonin"
         | isn't the problem.
        
           | ajkjk wrote:
           | *is
        
         | bt4u wrote:
         | [dead]
        
         | rcarr wrote:
         | "If exercise could be packaged in a pill, it would be the
         | single most widely prescribed and beneficial medicine in the
         | nation."
         | 
         | Robert Butler
        
           | MuffinFlavored wrote:
           | I go for a 3 mile walk every now and then. Doesn't really do
           | much to be honest. I guess you could be referring to the kind
           | of exercise where you need to at least get sweaty.
        
             | rcarr wrote:
             | Put a backpack on with some weight in it and go for the
             | same walk. You'll get a much better workout, you'll feel
             | better and it doesn't even feel all that different to
             | walking without it. If you want more information on this
             | have a read through this:
             | 
             | https://blog.goruck.com/rucking-training/the-rucking-
             | white-p...
             | 
             | It helped me get through a depressing period in my life.
        
               | asdff wrote:
               | If you do this though I wouldn't use a jansport, I would
               | use a dedicated hiking backpack with a waist and chest
               | strap that is designed to support your back.
        
               | rcarr wrote:
               | Haha yeah absolutely don't use something with unpadded
               | straps!
        
             | zeroonetwothree wrote:
             | Yes, unfortunately walking isn't really sufficient. You
             | need to get your heart rate up sufficiently, so something
             | like running, biking, weightlifting, dance, etc. work. I've
             | long suffered from depression, and while I find it very
             | hard to exercise regularly, when I do I definitely feels
             | significant improvement to my mood. It's unfortunate that
             | it's so hard to do it consistently.
        
               | rcarr wrote:
               | For what it's worth, try bringing the exercise to you. If
               | you like cycling, set up a turbo trainer or exercise bike
               | in your house. If you like weightlifting, get some
               | dumbbells or a sandbag or a squat rack. Reduce the
               | friction and set yourself a goal of doing 1 repetition or
               | 1 minute of exercise a day. It's such a trivial amount
               | and you've reduced the friction of doing the task to such
               | an amount that it makes it much easier to get a
               | consistent habit going.
        
               | asdff wrote:
               | You can also bake in exercise into your daily life.
               | Rather than drive 5 mins to the grocery store and put the
               | groceries in your trunk, walk for 15 and carry them by
               | hand. You can even do curls, squats, deadlifts, and
               | overhead presses with your grocery bags along the way (in
               | college I'd do this with beer cases, they are about a
               | pound per can). It's also easy to add few more steps to
               | your day you wouldn't normally do, like taking a lap
               | around your house before you leave and when you get back.
               | Take the scenic route to the neighborhood mailbox when
               | you drop off a letter. Go up and down your stairs twice.
        
             | asdff wrote:
             | Give yourself some credit here. Walking 3 miles is an
             | accomplishment especially if you do it regularly. We
             | evolved to walk, not to sit around all day. Simulate being
             | the hunter gatherer ('modern' ones e.g. in Africa walk 3-8
             | miles a day), its good for your health to use your body for
             | what its supposed to do. It's like driving the car every
             | now and then so you don't get flat spots on the tires.
        
           | asdff wrote:
           | I feel like you can get pretty close with a
           | steroid+amphetamine cocktail.
        
       | beedeebeedee wrote:
       | Really surprised no one here has made the connection between
       | depression and the fight-flight-freeze response. Depression is
       | just the freeze response, just like we see in our animal
       | relatives. Only difference is we can be triggered by thoughts and
       | not only the presence of danger. Freezing is when you are so
       | powerless, you cannot fight and you cannot fly away. You freeze.
       | That response can be reinforced, and sadly, reinforced by thought
       | alone.
        
       | tjpnz wrote:
       | I wonder to what degree medicine would be "solved" if in the
       | future chronic inflammation could be removed from the equation.
       | Based on my own consumption of pop-medical articles it's the
       | biggest recurring villain.
        
       | david_draco wrote:
       | "The Cause of Depression" assumes there is a single cause, which
       | may not be the case.
        
         | mettamage wrote:
         | I agree with this idea. I personally think there isn't. There
         | are more parts of the system that can be attacked in order to
         | cause depression
        
           | cpncrunch wrote:
           | I wouldn't say attack is the right word. Depression seems to
           | be an evolved mechanism that has developed in the brain, as a
           | way to change the organism's behaviour, e.g. resting while
           | sick (sickness behaviour depression), getting more sleep,
           | getting out of a stressful situation, etc. The problem is,
           | it's more like a generic "check engine" light, but without
           | having access to an OBD, so you kinda have to look at your
           | lifestyle and try to figure out what's causing the
           | depression, which isn't always easy.
        
       | debacle wrote:
       | HN has seen a steep rise in mental health related posts in the
       | last year. Am I the only one who has noticed?
        
         | digitalsankhara wrote:
         | No. I see an increase in mental health awareness in general
         | across most media. Which is a good thing.
        
           | debacle wrote:
           | Unless it's symptomatic of a sharp increase in mental health
           | difficulties. Most MH folks I know are completely booked
           | months out at this point.
        
             | DenisM wrote:
             | Booked? What do you mean?
        
             | harvey9 wrote:
             | Those bookings could be increased willingness to seek
             | treatment rather than increased difficulties.
        
           | trgn wrote:
           | Is that increased exposure making us healthier (ie. mindful,
           | tolerant, understanding, patient, ...) or more neurotic (ie.
           | ruminative, paranoid, self-absorbed, defensive, ...)?
        
             | fahadkhan wrote:
             | No doubt the correct answer is "it requires research." But
             | I guess the answer is going to be "it depends, on the
             | individual and the circumstances"
        
             | digitalsankhara wrote:
             | This is a good question and one that must vex most mental
             | health practitioners. You list both states of mind and some
             | potential mitigations.
             | 
             | I'm a bit uncomfortable with the term neurotic myself as it
             | can have dismissive connotations.
        
           | DrThunder wrote:
           | Ehhh it can be a good thing to an extent. Over-indulging
           | yourself with mental health discussion is bad though imo.
           | There's TOO MUCH talk about it nowadays. To the point where
           | people with normal negative thoughts and emotions are
           | diagnosing themselves with severe mental illnesses and
           | running to the doctor for prescription meds.
           | 
           | From personal experience with anxiety it's also not great to
           | continue discussing your issues 24/7 because you get to the
           | point where you're only forcing yourself to stay in that
           | mindset. You need to get out and live at some point or you'll
           | never recover.
        
             | asdff wrote:
             | IMO people have historically been not talking nearly enough
             | about mental health. I think everyone should be seeing a
             | therapist regularly, mentally ill or not. The demands of
             | society are stressful and people are expected to just put
             | up with it and not ever have room to be anxious or sad.
             | Most psychologists I've spoken with also have poor views of
             | the psychiatric approach to a lot of mental health issues.
             | Psychologists favor actually working with you and
             | developing internal strategies to protect yourself long
             | term such as cognitive behavioral therapy, whereas
             | psychiatrists have a tendency to talk little and send you
             | home with a prescription versus leaving that as an option
             | of last resort.
        
               | digitalsankhara wrote:
               | Please accept an upvote for this wonderful comment. My
               | experience bears out your view. Whilst there is good
               | stress - the sort that can make us feel alive, the
               | majority is harmful to a lot of people.
               | 
               | I've long felt there is an epidemic of stress which I
               | think accounts for a host of poor outcomes for many, many
               | people and society in general. I wish I had the ability
               | to describe it more fully myself but my thinking on this
               | is not fully formed given it must involve sociology,
               | culture, politics, work, family, education and philosophy
               | etc. In fact the whole fabric on the way we live our
               | lives and why.
               | 
               | I think the foundations for possible solutions have been
               | set by many cultures. Chinese, Japanese and Greek
               | philosophies in particular are, of course, practised by a
               | lot of people, myself included. Ultimately, I feel human
               | evolution will be through the mind and perhaps
               | generations, hundreds of years in the future, will look
               | back at this time in horror the same way we may look back
               | to when leg amputations were carried out with no
               | anaesthetics.
        
             | alar44 wrote:
             | Yeah I agree. I had an ex that listened to mental health
             | podcasts 8+ hours a day. It's all she'd talk about. It
             | became pretty clear that she was addicted to mental health
             | in a way. Her entire life revolved around grief and trauma.
             | It's good for us to work on ourselves, but you have to
             | actually BE yourself at some point.
        
             | digitalsankhara wrote:
             | I would say that too much mis-informed talk is probably not
             | a good idea. The balanced view would be to acknowledge
             | those normal negative thoughts and emotions. And that is
             | the crux of the issue. Knowing when those thoughts become
             | abnormal is, hopefully, helped though a broader public
             | education and acceptance of mental health.
             | 
             | Knowing that, if you do in fact need to seek help whether
             | from a friend, professional or even a stranger, you will
             | not made to feel neurotic or told to "snap out of it" is
             | where I hope the end game for increased mental health goes.
             | 
             | Mental and physical health are so closely related - mind
             | and body. It's taken decades to start to get a foothold of
             | acceptance for this type of thinking in the mainstream.
             | 
             | I hear what you are saying about not overdoing it, but
             | lives have been lost because people were too afraid to
             | talk. I don't know what the longer impact of more social
             | acceptance of mental health issues will be but it is my
             | wish it leads to a more compassionate world.
        
       | petesergeant wrote:
       | Very anecdotal, but I've noticed on HN that people taking the
       | SSRI Lexapro for GAD seem to think it's incredible, and people
       | taking it for depression seem to be underwhelmed
        
         | tylermac1 wrote:
         | Also anecdotal, but everyone metabolizes these classes of drugs
         | differently. I'm an "ultra-rapid metabolizer" of a slew of
         | SSRIs, so they're next to worthless for me compared to other
         | medications.
        
           | lhuser123 wrote:
           | Also anecdotal. And some people are ultra-slow metabolizers,
           | which can cause the drugs to stay in the body longer than
           | anyone could have anticipated. So the effects of 1 pill daily
           | can feel like twice that amount since previous day dosis is
           | still in the blood.
        
           | edgyquant wrote:
           | SSRIs affect me strangely. I feel mentally like I'm not
           | depressed but then I have all of the symptoms of depression
           | amplified. Oversleep, no motivation etc but hey I feel like
           | I'm not sad internally.
        
       | thenerdhead wrote:
       | I've always thought depression to be a symptom to a larger cause.
       | There's many books that talk about why such as everyday stress,
       | childhood trauma, genetics, spirituality/meaning, and even lack
       | of quality human basics(foods, sleep, air, etc). So many factors
       | and even all those can be wrong.
       | 
       | This article is promising that it seems science is rethinking
       | this challenge one small step at a time. I've always been
       | fascinated with stories where previously depressed people found
       | the right combination of change to turn their lives around.
       | Sometimes it feels like it is cyclical in life. Being able to
       | treat it with a kitchen sink of tools could really help outside
       | of a single drug solution.
        
       | marosgrego wrote:
       | They seem to look for causes on the hardware level, but maybe
       | it's a software issue many times.
        
       | syntaxfree wrote:
       | This is a little unfair to _Listening to Prozac_, which was
       | raising speculation about SSRIs effect on trophic and atrophic
       | factors back in the 90s. In fact it's unclear whether anyone ever
       | believed in the catecholamine hypothesis (excepting simplified
       | accounts for marketing or doctor-patient communication), and it's
       | been for decades now a cottage industry to disprove it in favor
       | of something ele.
       | 
       | It's on the other hand disturbing that there's talk of broadening
       | the term "depression", when it really needs narrowing. There's
       | such a thing as a medical condition "depression" that one might
       | as well define as "responds to antidepressants" and then there's
       | everything else -- the invisible boundary accounting for how
       | little effectiveness antidepressants have at large. It's a damn
       | shame that we don't have the means of diagnosing it (whereasw
       | Kraepelin developed the bipolar/schizophrenia differential
       | diagnosis before Freud even arrived on the scene).
       | 
       | Overall this article does nothing to inform or educate.
        
         | opportune wrote:
         | Depression and anxiety may as well be the cough and fever of
         | the mental health world. We can certainly treat cough and fever
         | symptoms but that is quite different from treating the
         | underlying condition.
         | 
         | I think the big problem is we probably have a lot of recent
         | societal/cultural changes which at least contribute to
         | depression and anxiety, but are very hard to detect because of
         | near universal adoption + too many confounding variables when
         | examining holdout populations. Thinking of things like diet
         | (and trace chemicals, pesticides), sleep habits, screen usage
         | (internet, social media, porn, passive media, games), caffeine,
         | etc. Somewhere in those areas, IMO, likely lie very large
         | causal contributors to all of the reportedly increasing mental
         | health problems we are seeing.
         | 
         | I can also speak from personal experience that I had very
         | debilitating depression/anxiety as an adolescent which has
         | since greatly leveled off but not quite cleared. While I could
         | likely still be diagnosed with depression now, to me the two
         | states comparing now vs then are so wildly, qualitatively
         | different that I am convinced they represent different
         | underlying pathologies. What I have now feels more like the
         | same thing that most other malcontents seem to have.
        
       | anonreeeeplor wrote:
       | I hate articles like this. They are part of an entire genre of
       | pseudo intellectual nonsense that seems to be this genius insight
       | but directly ignores obvious causes.
       | 
       | They treat depression like it is some mystery of science when it
       | is directly caused by...everything about modern society,
       | institutions and lifestyles.
       | 
       | People in Africa living in villages don't get depressed. People
       | living in suburbs eating shitty food with no hope due to
       | capitalism and crappy prison schools do.
       | 
       | The cause of depression is so obvious only a PHD would be able to
       | write and publish a BS article like this, and it is total horse
       | shit, and pretend it's a mystery.
       | 
       | It's not a mystery, they just want to try to solve it with crappy
       | drugs that you don't actually need rather than target the root
       | problems, which they can't target.
       | 
       | I hate these articles and think they are promoting an
       | intellectual culture of pretending not to understand the obvious
       | by drenching it in overly intellectualized nonsense.
       | 
       | This is a media coverup. We know what causes it.
        
         | gverrilla wrote:
         | Agreed. I had an introduction to this perspective long ago by
         | reading what Karl Marx wrote about suicide [0].
         | 
         | 0: https://www.amazon.com/Marx-Suicide-Psychosocial-Issues-
         | Karl...
        
         | ako wrote:
         | > People in Africa living in villages don't get depressed.
         | 
         | Any data or studies on this?
        
         | fragmede wrote:
         | > People in Africa living in villages don't get depresse
         | 
         | Holy shit yes they do, I don't know where this myth comes from!
         | 
         | https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S266724212...
        
           | rgbrenner wrote:
           | It's an old myth... like here's an article in American
           | Anthropologist from 1934 talking about it: https://anthrosour
           | ce.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/pdf/10.1525...
           | 
           | There's a lot of data showing it isn't true, but it's one of
           | those "facts" that feels true because there's a lot of
           | stressors and unhealthy things about modern life.
        
       | bannedbybros wrote:
       | [dead]
        
       | ding_dang wrote:
       | I've yet to see someone qualified on HN discussing this. It's all
       | vapid anecdotes and unfounded/untested beliefs and subscriptions
       | to various pet theories.
        
         | rpastuszak wrote:
         | > Reject the bad, false, negativity, darkness and move toward
         | the love, true, light and goodness. When I was depressed, only
         | spiritual teachings, love and God moved me nearer good feelings
         | and comfort.
         | 
         | I have no idea what you're talking about.
        
       | avgcorrection wrote:
       | Oh, so what is it?
       | 
       | > To treat depression effectively, medical researchers may
       | therefore need to develop a nuanced understanding of the ways it
       | can arise. [...]
       | 
       | > That prediction may frustrate some physicians and drug
       | developers, since it's much easier to prescribe a one-size-fits-
       | all solution.
       | 
       | But it will not frustrate headline writers.
        
       | sys32768 wrote:
       | If I drink to a very buzzed state three nights in a row, I become
       | palpably depressed, irritable, and anxious. If something bad
       | happens during this time, it cuts deep and feels overwhelming.
       | All of the negative things in my life become tormenting devils.
       | 
       | It takes about 24 hours of sobriety for me to begin to feel
       | normal again, and at least 48 to feel I am at my normal baseline.
       | 
       | I always assumed the alcohol was depleting my serotonin.
       | 
       | Beyond that, most of my depression seems to be due to my heroic
       | and idealistic self raging and wallowing in the chasm between my
       | ideals and hard realities that I cannot defeat.
        
       | jobs_throwaway wrote:
       | > Experiments in which researchers artificially lowered the
       | serotonin levels of volunteers didn't consistently cause
       | depression
       | 
       | Jesus...hard to imagine volunteering for that study
        
       | likeabbas wrote:
       | There's no single cause and no single cure which is why it's so
       | hard.
       | 
       | I moved cities at 10 years old, and was bullied and isolated
       | during the entirety of Middle School. Ever since then, I've
       | always had negative and depressive thoughts lurking around. It's
       | just my normal.
       | 
       | A psychiatrist helped me understand that those formative years
       | are when your cortex is developing. The cortex learns through
       | repetition, and during those years I was having constant sadness
       | and suffering events. So, my emotional intelligence learned to be
       | that way and that's why I've suffered ever since.
       | 
       | If I'm not pro active in thinking about being happy or doing
       | active things, I default to being depressed. After almost 20
       | years, I'm still suffering.
       | 
       | A side effect of being isolated during those years is my social
       | skills have taken longer to develop. I didn't have a true batch
       | of friends until college, but now I've lost all of them.
        
         | RobotToaster wrote:
         | I've read early life adversity can cause epigenetic changes.
        
         | exo-pla-net wrote:
         | Your brain cannot "learn" to be sad. You can, however, learn
         | maladaptive schemata: fundamental ways of viewing the world and
         | oneself that can help a child get through adverse periods (like
         | bullying and ostracization), but which are ultimately
         | maladaptive and inaccurate in adulthood.
         | 
         | You might have come to believe, for instance, that you're
         | fundamentally "different" or "unlovable", and that you can't
         | expect to be socially accepted or loved.
         | 
         | These core beliefs, these schemata, are difficult but possible
         | to change. Schema Therapy has had empirical success at doing
         | so.
         | 
         | The subjective experience of changing a maladaptive schema is
         | like teleporting from a miserable planet to a strange but much
         | happier, more loving planet. You can be (much) happier than you
         | think; you're just stranded on a miserable planet, one that
         | would make anybody sad.
         | 
         | I'd suggest checking out Reinventing Your Life by Jeffrey
         | Young: it provides the tools you need to get to that happier
         | planet, where you can feel safer and loved and accepted.
        
           | likeabbas wrote:
           | > Your brain cannot "learn" to be sad.
           | 
           | This is ~equivocally~ unequivocally false. The portion of the
           | brain that develops emotional intelligence forms during your
           | formative years and can learn to be put in a depressive
           | mindset.
           | 
           | * https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5984129/
           | 
           | * https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6132040/
           | 
           | > Humans are likely the most emotionally regulated creatures
           | on earth. Compared to other animal species, we can modulate
           | and modify emotional reactions and experiences, even very
           | intense ones, through a large and sophisticated emotion
           | regulation repertoire that includes skills of distraction,
           | reappraisal, language, prediction, social interaction,
           | suppression, and more.1-5 At times, these skills require
           | effort, and at other times, they seem reflexive and
           | automatic. But what are some of the variables in this
           | sophisticated emotion regulation repertoire? The parent of
           | any toddler or even adolescent can attest to the very slow
           | development of emotion regulation processes. This slow
           | development has been documented in empirical research, which
           | also notes the large individual differences from one person's
           | ability or style of emotion regulation to another's.
           | Evolutionarily speaking, this slow development of emotion
           | regulation ability in childhood that culminates in an
           | exquisite ability in adulthood points to the benefits of a
           | slow-maturing emotion regulation system. Indeed, humans are
           | not only a highly emotionally regulated species, but they are
           | slowly developing in general, relative to other species, 6
           | with a prolonged period of immaturity. Phylogenetically, slow
           | development may confer benefits through an extended period of
           | neural plasticity--a feature of a developing neural system
           | that heightens its ability to learn from the environment. If
           | so, then humans may owe their sophisticated emotion
           | regulation skills to the "extension" of childhood that has
           | evolved in us. The nature, chronicity, and quality of
           | environmental inputs during these periods of plasticity, in
           | particular those from close relationships (e.g., parents,
           | friends, teachers), in large part determine emotion
           | regulation functioning in adulthood.7 Thus, adult brain and
           | behavioral function in this regard can be conceptualized as a
           | historical reflection of what was experienced during
           | development. To fully appreciate individual differences in
           | adult emotion regulation skills, then, it is helpful to
           | understand how the brain develops.
        
             | ASalazarMX wrote:
             | > during your formidable years
             | 
             | I had to lookup "formidable" in case it was a specialized
             | term, but I think it's a typo. Nevertheless, I like it
             | better this way.
        
               | likeabbas wrote:
               | Definitely a typo. Thanks
        
             | yowlingcat wrote:
             | First of all, the phrase "emotional intelligence" is a pop-
             | psychology invention created by Daniel Goleman which has no
             | clinically meaningful use. There's a big difference between
             | emotional intelligence and emotional regulation.
             | 
             | There's also a difference between traumatic experiences
             | (such as you moving somewhere new at 10 and struggling with
             | isolation and being bullied) and how you may have
             | psychologically adapted to these situations. But nothing
             | you've mentioned implies that your brain can "learn to be
             | put into a depressive mindset" -- it's more the case that
             | strenuous challenges that haven't been addressed, or moved
             | past, or evolved from, will continue to cause problems
             | until work is gradually done to address them.
             | 
             | I have always felt it's similar to musculoskeletal issues.
             | You can do a lot of damage to your lower back by sitting at
             | a desk all day, or to your wrists by typing at an angle
             | that causes repetitive strain. That damage can be
             | "mitigated" in different ways -- medication, surgery,
             | physical rehabilitation. While the last one is most
             | difficult, it's also the most effective because you're
             | training the mind-muscle connection at the point where it's
             | fragility is causing and compounding structural damage.
             | 
             | Even as people get older, until they reach very old age,
             | it's rare for these kinds of MSK problems to occur in ways
             | that cannot be unwound by adherence to physical therapy and
             | a good exercise regimen. I think the same is true for our
             | minds. As you mention in an earlier comment, if you do
             | something that makes you happy, you feel happy for that
             | time before drifting back to depression. But that in and of
             | itself may be the point -- if you are constantly doing
             | things which make you happy, it may not be immediate, but
             | eventually you can re-orient your brain you being default-
             | happy with depressive episodes rather than the other way
             | around. That doesn't make it easy, of course, nor is there
             | a one time fix.
        
               | likeabbas wrote:
               | > But nothing you've mentioned implies that your brain
               | can "learn to be put into a depressive mindset" -- it's
               | more the case that strenuous challenges that haven't been
               | addressed, or moved past, or evolved from, will continue
               | to cause problems until work is gradually done to address
               | them.
               | 
               | What is the practical difference between saying "learnt
               | to be put in a depressive mindset" and "psychologically
               | adapted to these situations"? Psychiatrists don't need to
               | be so technical when explaining the differences to
               | people. I'm only framing the conversation in a colloquial
               | manner such that non-psych majors will understand them.
               | In some manner I've "learned" to be in a depressive
               | mindset. And, through repetition, I can "un-learn" it.
               | 
               | > Even as people get older, until they reach very old
               | age, it's rare for these kinds of MSK problems to occur
               | in ways that cannot be unwound by adherence to physical
               | therapy and a good exercise regimen... if you are
               | constantly doing things which make you happy, it may not
               | be immediate, but eventually you can re-orient your brain
               | you being default-happy with depressive episodes rather
               | than the other way around.
               | 
               | I'm not disputing this. The times where I am the happiest
               | is when I'm in my routine of working out and playing
               | tennis. But when I get out of my routine, I fall back
               | into the depressive habits. It's hard to stay consistent.
               | Maybe if I stay consistent for long enough, my default
               | will not be depressed. But I have yet to be consistent
               | for long enough to reach that point.
        
               | mensetmanusman wrote:
               | Emotional intelligence is another way of saying that you
               | have the ability to read the room, which clearly many
               | people (and very many of the technical people I interact
               | with) did not have great ability for (which results in a
               | lot of cringe-worthy moments).
        
             | exo-pla-net wrote:
             | [flagged]
        
               | likeabbas wrote:
               | Practically, what is the difference between emotional
               | state and consistently emotionally regulating into a
               | depressive mindset? I'm not a psychiatrist and I don't
               | care what the precise terminology is. In layman's terms,
               | what I've stated is correct.
        
               | exo-pla-net wrote:
               | [flagged]
        
               | JimtheCoder wrote:
               | [flagged]
        
               | likeabbas wrote:
               | Nothing I've said is incorrect. I'm just using colloquial
               | language to describe the issue.
               | 
               | You are just being an asshole by trying to show off your
               | technical knowledge in the subject, which is not helping
               | anyone.
        
         | vervez wrote:
         | Thanks for sharing and i'm happy to be your friend :)
        
         | Pigo wrote:
         | This reminds me of how long it took me to notice a pattern in
         | my relationships. When I look back, it's so obvious that I was
         | picking a certain kind of person, and behaving in a certain
         | kind of way, that would lead to the same conclusion. But it
         | didn't feel like I was repeating the same story over and over
         | again just to satisfy some malformed part of my psyche. I can't
         | rewire something so deep in me that even effects who I'm
         | attracted to. All I can do is be aware of it, and course
         | correct.
        
         | agumonkey wrote:
         | It would be interesting to know what phases our brains go
         | through that 'settle' emotional / social reflexes.
         | 
         | I had a strange life due to pre-wired issues, until 30 when a
         | few traumatic event (including a first relationship that was as
         | positive as negative) completely altered my reality. I was very
         | surprising to say the least how one day you cannot exist
         | socially (total shut-in with obsessive painful thoughts on a
         | daily basis), and the next one you see colors and friendliness
         | everywhere. Deep in your guts, something that really lifts your
         | mind, imagination and heart solidly, not just a philosophical
         | understanding.
         | 
         | I had a year of socially vibrant emotions but gradually went
         | back to my old self (avoidant) but I still remember that my
         | reality is somehow altered and very far from what others can
         | experience or what is healthy.
         | 
         | If anybody has resources to read or places to monitor I'll be
         | glad to know.
         | 
         | ps: I have a ton of questions regarding the neurology of the
         | perception of "the self" and others for the lack of better
         | terms. if any neuroscientist has time to waste, my email is in
         | my profile, feel free to spam.
        
         | incognito_robot wrote:
         | It is uncanny how much this mimics my own experience.
         | 
         | Was bullied between ages 11-16. Grew a a social circle in high
         | school, which started fragmenting once everyone went off to
         | university. I rarely if ever see any of them anymore.
         | 
         | Before the bullying, I was aparently happy and excited for most
         | things (according to siblings). After it I have always been the
         | low energy serious guy.
         | 
         | 20 years on I feel an intense need for human connection, but no
         | matter how much I try I never seem to be able to cultivate any
         | kind of lasting relationship with others.
        
           | Traubenfuchs wrote:
           | > It is uncanny how much this mimics my own experience.
           | 
           | A significant amount of people damaged exactly like that run
           | around. It's nothing noteworthy nor exceptional. And there is
           | no recognized cure for us.
           | 
           | My pet theory is that through either nature or nurture, we
           | are permanently damaged individuals that won't ever
           | experience what we perceive as the normal, healthy social
           | life and mental states. Our brains are permanently altered to
           | our detriment.
           | 
           | Connecting to your anecdote: I am 30 and my mom still
           | mentions what a lively and happy child I was. I wish she
           | wouldn't, because it hurts to hear about the potential I
           | squandered, lost or had stolen.
        
             | ryanwaggoner wrote:
             | There are no magic bullets, but the research on
             | psychedelics and depression are encouraging.
        
               | Traubenfuchs wrote:
               | The only time I managed to acquire psylocobin was on an
               | island where a big rave was happening. A hippie guy sold
               | me magic mushroom pills. I was too scared to take it in
               | this atmosphere and wanted to take the pills home. To
               | leave the island, one had to walk through nipple-high
               | water. The pills in my wallet melted away in the water.
               | 
               | Maybe some other day.
        
             | imiric wrote:
             | > I wish she wouldn't, because it hurts to hear about the
             | potential I squandered, lost or had stolen.
             | 
             | I think this negative mentality doesn't help. The sooner
             | you try to live life to the best of your abilities with the
             | cards you've been dealt, the sooner you'll feel better
             | about your present and future. We can't change the past,
             | but we can choose to accept it and move on.
        
           | jvm___ wrote:
           | Same. Insulting nicknames from elementary into highschool.
           | Same 15 boys due to small classes at private Christian
           | school.
           | 
           | Married the first girl who showed me positive attention. I
           | didn't know what a friend for me was, so we're married but
           | not friends.
           | 
           | The hope for you is that I found a group through a local
           | running group. They posted on Facebook and we run weekly.
           | They added me to the group chat last year and it's been
           | amazing having people to chat with and go on runs with.
           | 
           | Going home to someone who you can't have a conversation with
           | is hard though.
           | 
           | Trite advice that worked for me. Find a group of people who
           | do the thing you like as a way to make friends. This group
           | was started by someone just looking to not run alone in town.
           | 
           | I can picture in my head walking up to the running group
           | meetup for the first time, it honestly feels like a new birth
           | after being friendless from grade 7 til age 40+.
        
             | ryanwaggoner wrote:
             | I wasn't bullied, but I was a homeschool kid who ended up
             | at a private Christian school and then married the first
             | girl who showed me any interest. We finally divorced after
             | two decades of struggle. The entire 3-4 year period of my
             | marriage finally collapsing under its own weight came with
             | several beautiful bright spots: I went to therapy, I had
             | several life-changing experiences with psychedelics, and I
             | found a group of incredibly good friends in similar
             | situations. It's mindblowing the difference that a few good
             | friends can make.
        
           | theGnuMe wrote:
           | People develop a set of psychological defense mechanisms to
           | the bullying that work at the time but can be maladaptive
           | later. Maybe you were bullied because the bullies found your
           | happy excitement upsetting to their feelings and wanted you
           | to feel the way they feel. This is not uncommon. I'm sorry
           | that happened to you. But it sounds like you are finding the
           | time to reflect on your past.
           | 
           | As for relationships, the "one simple trick" for human
           | connection and relationships is that there is no trick, you
           | have to continuously put the work in. It helps if you find
           | activities that you want to do and make friends there. A lot
           | of people find satisfaction in helping other people, so
           | volunteering can be one way to meet new people.
           | 
           | You might face constant rejection at first but you are not
           | unlovable. But if you are nice and kind to others and help
           | others people will value that and think of you in the future.
           | 
           | At some point you will reach critical mass and things will
           | get easier.
        
           | zeroonetwothree wrote:
           | Depression often develops in adolescence so I think we should
           | be a bit skeptical with the 'correlation is not causation'
           | going on with these examples.
        
           | vbezhenar wrote:
           | I'm in a similar situation. Best friends I've found are when
           | I actively played WoW and attended raids. I didn't kept them
           | though but that was nice time and probably I had best
           | interactions at that time. I'm trying to replicate that time
           | but WoW changed and its audience changed, I don't feel like I
           | fit there anymore.
        
           | PuppyTailWags wrote:
           | I found out that part of the issue with creating lasting
           | relationships with others is that it actually takes a lot of
           | effort to maintain relationships. It's not like a dating game
           | where if you have a good dialogue on day 1 and then another
           | good dialogue on day 2 their disposition changes. It's much
           | more nuanced and much more specific on individual-to-
           | individual interactions over months or years. Remembering
           | common events to talk about regularly, responding and being
           | responded to, birthdays, holiday celebrations, mutual
           | activities, organizing intimate setting (think "potluck at
           | X's house") socialization, the list goes on and on about the
           | wide variety of behaviors.
           | 
           | If you're struggling, I found graythorn's various assessment
           | resources super helpful, as it systematizes aspects of
           | relationship building that most people find intuitive. Things
           | like "what level of friendship am I with this person" and
           | "assessment on expressing needs and support" were helpful to
           | me. Although these guides are specifically towards autistics,
           | so keep that in mind when you try them.
        
           | com2kid wrote:
           | > but no matter how much I try I never seem to be able to
           | cultivate any kind of lasting relationship with others.
           | 
           | I used to run a startup focused on this, here is what I
           | learned:
           | 
           | Time. The answer is time. Research shows there are two ways
           | long term bonds are formed, shared adversity[1], or lots of
           | time spent together. General rule of thumb for relationship
           | building:
           | 
           | 1. 10 hours together is someone you know 2. 100 hours
           | together is a good acquittance. 3. 1000 hours together is a
           | good friend and a relationship that can now last a long time
           | 
           | This is why activities such as football watching (3*18, 54
           | hours a year, 2 years and you now have the beginnings of a
           | good friends circle), or weekly poker matches (2 hours,
           | almost 100 hours in a year) are so effective at building
           | relationships.
           | 
           | Interpersonal hobbies with lots of down time, like rock
           | climbing or playing in a band, accelerate this process
           | greatly.
           | 
           | For people with kids, weekly play dates, or a weekly rotated
           | dinner hosting.
           | 
           | Friendship is literally grinding hours, when we are young it
           | is easy, studying and hanging out get those hours in, but
           | when we get older, we have to be purposeful about it.
           | 
           | [1] Military boot camps are an example of this, so are the
           | various culture wars. If you make people feel they are part
           | of an oppressed group, preferably while isolating them from
           | society at large, you will forms a cohesive group that acts
           | together and one where everyone feels connected to each
           | other. "Both sides" of the political spectrum do this, once
           | you learn to spot it you start seeing it everywhere.
        
             | citilife wrote:
             | I recommend people try to go to Church -- even if you're
             | not exceptionally religious (you can even tell them that,
             | I've never seen anyone mind; though they may try to
             | convince you).
             | 
             | It's an easy place to meet 30-40 people in a day, everyone
             | there has different interests and comes from different
             | walks of life. If you attend for a few weeks you'll often
             | start attending lunch together, meeting out at some
             | activities, etc. Plus, all you have to do is show up.
             | People at a church tend to be outgoing, at least some of
             | them are. Someone is bound to reach out to you if you sit
             | there and drink a coffee.
        
             | spidersouris wrote:
             | > Research shows...
             | 
             | Do you have any references in mind?
        
               | com2kid wrote:
               | When running my startup I did a deep dive into the
               | psychology behind friendship and relationship building,
               | but I haven't kept track of any of the references since
               | then.
        
             | takk309 wrote:
             | I can't agree more on the shared adversity. My three main
             | hobbies are rock climbing, hockey, and cycling. With
             | climbing you have to battle against yourself and your
             | limits. Good partners will support you in those pursuits.
             | Add in the fact that your life is literally in someone
             | else's hands when they belay you, it is a quick path to
             | trust. Add in the down time, as stated above, and you will
             | make true friends. Going on a week long climbing trip with
             | a small group will stack up quality hours fast.
             | 
             | Hockey is different but you still have a team working
             | towards a goal, literally! With a good group of people,
             | good as in nice people, not skilled, you win and lose as a
             | team. Plus the on bench and locker room time means you get
             | to know one another over time.
             | 
             | Cycling is different for me, it is a solo experience and as
             | a result I don't have any friends in that world.
        
               | geph2021 wrote:
               | Cycling is different for me, it is a solo experience and
               | as a result I don't have any friends in that world.
               | 
               | I guess it depends where you live, but usually there are
               | cycling clubs or bike stores that have organized group
               | rides. Riding with a group is an incredible way to enjoy
               | longer rides while socializing, and it's safer.
               | 
               | I started cycling and was amazed at how social it was
               | (albeit living in a town with a sizable cycling
               | community). In my youth I was a swimmer, and although
               | there is a lot of shared experience/adversity and
               | friendship on any sports team, there's a lot less
               | socializing that can be done while your head is
               | underwater!
        
           | likeabbas wrote:
           | I believe we find it hard to keep relationships because we
           | take criticism/rejection harder than others. My (former)
           | friends would say that I have no trouble burning bridges with
           | anyone. Any time I've found myself embarrassed or hurt by
           | someone else, I've pushed them out of my life. This
           | definitely comes from how I handled people in my formative
           | years
        
             | waboremo wrote:
             | For me this was Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria, linked to
             | ADHD but of course that itself has a lot of overlap with
             | the anxiety/depression realm.
             | 
             | It's a pretty messed up condition to deal with, especially
             | because even the mere perception of potentially being
             | rejected can cause disproportionate reactions.
        
             | UncleOxidant wrote:
             | Yep, because we have very negative associations with
             | criticism. In addition to being bullied, we tended to move
             | a lot when I was a kid. So it became easy to just leave and
             | start over somewhere else - I think I even started to look
             | forward to being able to start over. I remember as a kid
             | playing with other kids and after a bit just disappearing
             | and hearing them in the distance say "hey, where did he
             | go?" - I'd often do this. Much later I came to realize that
             | this was some kind of avoidance and that it wasn't the
             | norm. I think that I expected even amicable play situations
             | to eventually lead to being bullied and I think that's why
             | I'd just ghost people.
        
         | citilife wrote:
         | Probably wont be taken well, but IMO depression is an illness
         | in the spiritual sense. Depression is described as being sad,
         | alone and without hope. That's quite literally what
         | spirituality is for.
         | 
         | I think it's probably impossible to treat with drugs because
         | what people really need are friends, hope and a good outlook on
         | life (which often comes from hope). I'm sure drugs can improve
         | people with imbalances and I'm also sure it's not just one
         | thing that causes depression. That said, it seems like it can
         | often be solved with more traditional means -- finding
         | community and purpose.
        
         | csours wrote:
         | It seems likely that depression is also not a single disease.
        
         | UncleOxidant wrote:
         | Bullying is such a detrimental thing to experience. It has
         | lifelong consequences. It's good to see that schools in the US
         | are taking it more seriously than they used to. In the past the
         | attitude from adults seemed to be that experiencing bullying
         | would make you tougher. Now we know better.
         | 
         | I know that I personally still suffer the effects of bullying
         | some 40 to 50 years later - for example, I tend to withdraw
         | from any conflict/confrontation in the work setting
         | misinterpreting even constructive conflict/criticism as being
         | directed at me personally. When I was a kid playing with other
         | kids I tended to withdraw and disappear even in situations
         | where there was no bullying because I came to expect it would
         | happen. And I see that I withdraw similarly in the workplace.
         | In that sense the bullying from many years ago has negatively
         | impacted my career and mental health (anxiety, panic attacks
         | and a bit of paranoia as I'm always expecting the worst from
         | other people).
        
         | mathematicaster wrote:
         | Thank you for sharing this.
        
           | likeabbas wrote:
           | Any time. I wish every child could have rich formative years
           | so they can avoid long lasting emotional pain.
        
         | ASalazarMX wrote:
         | > I didn't have a true batch of friends until college, but now
         | I've lost all of them.
         | 
         | I think losing college friends is inevitable. People get jobs,
         | move, marry, change, etc. Clutching to the friends when life
         | was much simpler might not work now.
         | 
         | The solution would be making more social ties with neighbors,
         | family, acquaintances, hobbyists, etc., and try to find new
         | friendships/relationships within them.
        
         | hi41 wrote:
         | I can relate to your comment a lot. I went through many years
         | of isolation during my childhood resulting in poor social
         | skills. After so many years my thoughts are continually
         | negative. Like you, I too don't have any friends. I am unable
         | to break the cycle of loneliness. When I try my interactions
         | are awkward which makes me self-conscious and I withdraw.
        
         | kodah wrote:
         | Same thing, ish, here. I don't know if my experience is
         | anecdotal but this gets easier with age. I can hypothesize that
         | I did a lot of unpacking and that my experiences today are much
         | more net positive, thus drifting my "default state" farther
         | from a depressive mindset. Mushrooms helped, but I'd recommend
         | anyone looking into mushrooms, or psychedelics in general, to
         | be cognizant that dealing with trauma in a trip can either be
         | really great or really terrifying. You also are largely not in
         | the driver's seat when dealing with trauma in a trip and
         | fighting it will make things worse. The latter being a lesson
         | I've learned many times over at this point.
        
         | dmd wrote:
         | > There's no single cause and no single cure which is why it's
         | so hard.
         | 
         | My neurologist once said to me "any time you see the phrase
         | 'multiple mechanisms of X' in a medical journal, that's code
         | for 'we have no fucking clue'".
        
         | spiffytech wrote:
         | > There's no single cause and no single cure which is why it's
         | so hard.
         | 
         | This is exactly right. I'm at the tail end of a long depressive
         | journey that wasn't caused by self-beliefs, distorted thoughts,
         | trauma, etc. Nearly every depression treatment I sought had
         | zero effect.
         | 
         | My problems came about because I had undiagnosed and
         | unappreciated neurological + genetic conditions that created
         | stacking debuffs that made ordinary SWE jobs tax my executive
         | function and deplete my neurotransmitters, eventually leaving
         | me personally and professionally debilitated.
         | 
         | Because I suffered the symptoms for so long before identifying
         | the causes, neurologically I seemed to have entered a new
         | attractor (in dynamical systems terms). I couldn't recover by
         | just discontinuing what brought me there; my neurology kept
         | gravitating towards the new steady-state. (A good chunk of this
         | is black-box reverse engineering what helped me recover)
         | 
         | I've only gotten better by radically changing my circumstances,
         | identifying a crucial supplement, and undergoing a medical
         | procedure.
         | 
         | The eye-opening part of the journey was understanding that
         | because depression is defined by a set of symptoms, receiving a
         | diagnosis doesn't tell you anything at all about what's wrong
         | with you. It only confirms you have a problem at all.
        
           | TurkishPoptart wrote:
           | >My problems came about because I had undiagnosed and
           | unappreciated neurological + genetic conditions that created
           | stacking debuffs that made ordinary SWE jobs tax my executive
           | function and deplete my neurotransmitters, eventually leaving
           | me personally and professionally debilitated.
           | 
           | I love how you used "stacking debuffs" here. That made me
           | smile.
        
           | smn1234 wrote:
           | which supplement helped you most ?
        
             | spiffytech wrote:
             | I have a genetic mutation called MTHFR C677T, which means
             | my body doesn't process vitamin B9 with the necessary
             | efficiency. B9 is upstream of regulating the quantities of
             | monoamine neurotransmitters the brain synthesizes
             | (serotonin, dopamine, and norepinepherine).
             | 
             | (Not everyone with an MTHFR mutation experiences symptoms.
             | For a long time I didn't. Best guess is my body changed
             | after a period of intense stress.)
             | 
             | I take L-Methylfolate 15mg, which bypasses my digestion and
             | provides my body with the processed materials directly.
             | 
             | The brand name for this is Deplin, which requires a
             | prescription. I just switched to over-the-counter
             | L-Methylfolate - it remains to be seen if it's as
             | effective.
             | 
             | Fun fact: once I started taking Deplin, I had to come off
             | of all my traditional antidepressants. They were at max
             | dosage and having no effect, but once my brain was flooded
             | with neurotransmitters, all the antidepressant side effects
             | kicked in, including (perversely) amplifying depression
             | symptoms.
        
               | bnjms wrote:
               | How did you find out about the MTHFR mutation? How was it
               | tested for?
        
               | spiffytech wrote:
               | I took a mail-in genetic test from Genomind. I didn't
               | understand the significance of the result until I was
               | coincidentally prescribed Deplin and mentioned the mood
               | change to my ADHD coach, who connected the dots.
               | 
               | Having a concrete scientific explanation for the
               | empirical result I was seeing was a great confidence
               | booster, bolstered some hypotheses I had, and helped me
               | identify next steps in my journey.
        
           | trevwilson wrote:
           | > identifying a crucial supplement, and undergoing a medical
           | procedure
           | 
           | Would you feel comfortable sharing some specifics on what
           | these were for you?
        
             | spiffytech wrote:
             | I remarked on the supplement in another comment.
             | 
             | The medical procedure was TMS - I spent ~6 weeks coming in
             | every weekday, had my head strapped into a magnet helmet,
             | and the magnets stimulate the parts of the brain associated
             | with depression. I understand it to be vaguely like jump-
             | starting an engine with a dead battery.
             | 
             | I just had my last session yesterday, and I see huge
             | changes from December.
             | 
             | Crucially, I underwent TMS in 2019 and saw almost no
             | change. At that time, I was still in the abrasive career
             | situation, and wasn't on the supplement, so my hypothesis
             | is TMS had very limited benefit because I didn't have
             | sufficient quantities of neurotransmitters for stimulation
             | to do anything, and any possible benefit was being
             | immediately eroded by the circumstances that created my
             | problems in the first place.
             | 
             | I also had undiagnosed autism (which came with hardcoded
             | limitations I'd been treating as personal preferences or
             | bad attitude), and ADHD (which I was diagnosed with as a
             | kid, but didn't understand how it manifests as an adult).
             | Both of these tax executive function (neurotransmitters)
             | heavily, and the MTHFR mutation handicapped how much
             | executive function I had to go around in the first place.
             | My particular neurodiverse needs appear to be at odds with
             | the typical SWE work environment, so every day I was
             | powering through my special needs, until my brain couldn't
             | take it anymore and simply gave out.
        
       | golemotron wrote:
       | It's amazing how far we go to avoid seeing depression in the
       | context of a person's social interactions.
        
       | tifik wrote:
       | I made it a principle to never click a title (or a thumbnail in
       | case of e.g. youtube) that is intentionally this click-baity.
       | 
       | If it's a topic I genuinely am interested in, I just look the
       | information up somewhere else.
        
         | spacemadness wrote:
         | Or titles in the form of a question that ultimately is either
         | answered "no" or "we have no idea. keep clicking each week to
         | find out more!"
        
           | tifik wrote:
           | Just for the record, the original title was 'The real cause
           | of depression is not what you think it is', or sth very close
           | to that.
           | 
           | I am happy to see it was changed.
        
       | joescharf wrote:
       | Everyone wants a pill as a quick effortless fix, but IMO it seems
       | a lot of our modern afflictions come down to an gross imbalance
       | of exercise, diet, sleep, and social connection. Most likely the
       | way society (see disclaimer) currently functions - how we work,
       | how we consume our limited leisure time is sort of an
       | occupational hazard to peak health.
       | 
       | Not to mention, exercise is "too hard" for most, the food supply
       | is weaponized with sugar and FUD, everyone is so tired at the end
       | of their "BS job" workday, so hit the couch and stream the
       | streams. And now you have a vicious flywheel that quickly turns
       | people into candidates for the latest big-pharma "cure"
       | 
       | HN Disclaimer: I'm in the US and making generalizations based on
       | my observations. Not saying that there aren't needs for pharma /
       | pills / afflictions that aren't solvable by the above, etc...
        
         | stronglikedan wrote:
         | I'd lump those pill into that list of the cause of modern
         | afflictions. I got off them, because they made things worse,
         | just in different ways than the depression itself. I cured
         | myself with diet and exercise.
        
         | com2kid wrote:
         | I know the serotonin theory of depression is pretty much dead,
         | but it is a fact that being around people raises serotonin
         | levels. For introverts it is _tiring_ , but it is better than
         | not being around people.
         | 
         | Being around people reduces cognitive decline in old age.
         | 
         | Being around people reduces depression levels.
         | 
         | Being in a supportive community _reduces the severity of
         | symptoms from schizophrenia_.
         | 
         | The 2+2 nuclear family concept is an abomination, we are
         | supposed to live in a multigenerational community, surrounded
         | by friends and family.
         | 
         | The modern American lifestyle destroys psychological health.
         | Without large social circles, finding romantic partners is
         | hard, which leads to all sorts of negative life outcomes.
         | 
         | Raising kids is hard, friends of mine who have nearby extended
         | family have a much easier time raising kids (and are more
         | likely to have more kids!) Heck my sister had kids 20 years
         | before I did (bit of an age difference), 2 sets of grand
         | parents, lots of free baby sitting, and aunts and uncles to
         | help out with homework. It was also useful for me, I got to
         | learn a lot about babies early on.
         | 
         | > gross imbalance of exercise, diet, sleep, and social
         | connection
         | 
         | Yeah lots of these are solved with a large social group. I have
         | some good friends (who sadly now live a bit aways from me) who
         | host dinner parties 3 or 4 nights a week. People come over and
         | help cook and clean up, so everyone eats healthy meals all the
         | time.
         | 
         | Friends who have lots of family nearby, just rotate whose house
         | they go to on different nights, all the kids and adults after
         | school/work get together to do child care and cooking. Healthy
         | food for everyone, less work.
         | 
         | Lots of modern life scales up really well. 2 parents will get
         | exhausted taking care of 1 baby, between cooking, cleaning, and
         | watching the child.
         | 
         | 4 parents, 3 kids? Much easier. Seriously, piece of cake.
         | 
         | 3 grand parents, 4 parents, a young auntie, 5 kids? No problem
         | at all.
         | 
         | Society has seriously screwed the pooch.
         | 
         | If I had some insane amount of capitol I'd try to start some
         | sort of shared housing for families, do intense interviews to
         | match people up (see: My last failed startup) people cook
         | together, raise kids together, support each other. Put 3-5
         | new/young families in a mid size housing complex with a shared
         | yard. Put a support network in place, house chaperone ( _cough_
         | RA _cough_ ) to help out now and then.
         | 
         | Extended Family as a Service. Dystopian, maybe, but possibly
         | it'd do a lot of good in the world.
         | 
         | (If any investors want to get in touch, please do, :-D )
        
           | thowaway959125 wrote:
           | To me, this is undoubatedly a huge part of the problem.
           | 
           | I noticed that my depression spiked when I started to become
           | more isolated. I was getting older, long time friends are now
           | scattered about the country/world, difficult to make new
           | ones. Family members are isolated and scattered doing their
           | own thing in their nuclear units. Parents are divoced and
           | fending for themselves too. Finding a romantic partner under
           | these circumstances is difficult ... having no friends can be
           | seen as a "red flag". It snowballs.
           | 
           | I have also thought of the concept of shared housing for
           | adults. I LOVE this idea.
           | 
           | They share the responsibilities much like a multi-
           | generational family would, they just happen to be strangers.
        
           | AnIdiotOnTheNet wrote:
           | > Society has seriously screwed the pooch.
           | 
           | Pretty much all available data says as much, but we refuse to
           | do anything about it. Hell, most refuse to recognize there's
           | even a problem.
        
         | elric wrote:
         | > gross imbalance of exercise, diet, sleep, and social
         | connection
         | 
         | Indeed. What's worse is that we, as individuals, know this. But
         | we, as in the western society at large, seem to be utterly
         | unwilling or incapable of addressing this.
         | 
         | Long working hours to make ends meet. The shittiest food is the
         | most convenient option. There's a metric fuckton of light- and
         | sound pollution which messes with our sleep. 10% of folks
         | suffer from sleep apnea for a variety of reasons. So many
         | things are messing with us. At some point, we're going to have
         | to start dealing with these things.
        
         | gatonegro wrote:
         | > _it seems a lot of our modern afflictions come down to an
         | gross imbalance of exercise, diet, sleep, and social
         | connection_
         | 
         | If you think about it in an evolutionary timescale, the way
         | most of us live in the West these days is horrendously
         | incompatible with the sort of life we evolved to live.
         | Thousands and thousands of years were spent out in nature, in
         | small communities, eating certain types of foods, engaging in
         | physical activities, etc.
         | 
         | The sit-on-a-chair-all-day, look-at-screens-all-day lifestyle
         | is a comparatively new development, and neither our minds nor
         | our bodies are suited for such an existence. That's enough to
         | cause us a fair amount of trouble. Add all the socioeconomic
         | issues you mention into the mix, and it all starts to make
         | perfect sense to me.
        
         | 2OEH8eoCRo0 wrote:
         | I think so too. 9 times out of 10 a person has horrible eating,
         | sleeping, or drug habits and a sedentary lifestyle.
        
         | robocat wrote:
         | I'll add situational-depression to your list: an ongoing
         | sadness due to being stuck in a bad circumstance (bad
         | relationship, terrible job, etcetera). The defining factor is
         | that once the bad circumstance is "fixed", the long-term
         | sadness is quickly gone (replaced with ongoing contentment) and
         | symptoms don't reappear. This is not an academic definition,
         | just a personal observation, although perhaps you have seen the
         | effect happen to others in your life.
         | 
         | I've had situational-depression badly enough that I would
         | easily have been diagnosed as clinically depressed (more than
         | one person said so, and if I had gone to a doctor I am sure I
         | would have been given a label and some pills). When the cause
         | was resolved, I immediately switched out of the funk and all
         | symptoms of "depression" were gone. I don't believe it was
         | correlation, that is I don't believe depression lifting caused
         | me to fix my bad circumstance: I don't think I had any
         | influence over the actual date the underlying cause was
         | "fixed". Chronic clinical depression is not usually fixed in a
         | day.
        
         | chasil wrote:
         | _Serotonin syndrome_ is also a real risk.
         | 
         | SSRIs are extremely dangerous if tryptophan intake is also
         | increased (with supplements, for example), even moreso if
         | niacin is also consumed to encourage the tryptophan ->
         | serotonin pathway.
         | 
         | https://selfhacked.com/blog/serotonin-syndrome/
         | 
         | https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6184959/
        
         | PragmaticPulp wrote:
         | > Everyone wants a pill as a quick effortless fix, but IMO it
         | seems a lot of our modern afflictions come down to an gross
         | imbalance of exercise, diet, sleep, and social connection.
         | 
         | For what it's worth, exercise, diet, sleep, social engagement,
         | and lifestyle changes _are_ well-known inputs to addressing
         | depression. Therapists will explore and encourage improvements
         | in all of these areas. Good psychiatrists will as well, given
         | enough time and a patient who is open to listening.
         | 
         | One of the difficult issues is that many depressed patients
         | often don't want to hear any suggestions that depression might
         | be due to anything other than external factors. This is why the
         | pop-science version of the "chemical imbalance" theory became
         | so popular in the mainstream: It gives a plausible explanation
         | that depression is just something that happens to you due to no
         | fault of your own, which is weirdly easier to accept for many
         | people.
         | 
         | There are similar treatment problems with a host of health
         | issues, such as obesity. The trend on social media and pop
         | culture is to explain obesity away as a chemical or societal
         | problem, minimizing the input of personal choice and actions.
         | It's very popular to propose theories that "counting calories
         | doesn't work" or hear anecdotes about people who claim to only
         | eat less than 1000 calories per day but never lose weight
         | (which isn't possible, even 100% sedentary coma patients need
         | more calories than that).
        
           | AnIdiotOnTheNet wrote:
           | But Obesity isn't very much about personal choice, as
           | evidenced by most people being able to keep a reasonable
           | weight without counting calories or putting in any effort
           | whatsoever, while people like me have to obsess over
           | everything because if we ate the way we "naturally" feel like
           | we should then we'd be blimps.
           | 
           | Or rather, it is about choice, but the choice for some is
           | "obsess over it and suffer a lot more than the people around
           | you for the rest of your life", not to mention generally
           | being treated like not being able to fight your body's
           | compulsions is a personal failing by people who _don 't have
           | to fucking do that_.
           | 
           | P.S.: And before you go shoving your fad bullshit advice of
           | the week at me, it should be noted that at one point I had
           | lost half my body weight and am still over 100lbs down. I
           | have been doing this for over a decade, I have tried every
           | trick anyone has yet devised to make this easier and none of
           | the work for this kind of weight.
           | 
           | Any diet will work for 10-15lbs. Like, literally _any_ diet.
           | This has been shown multiple times. Losing real, serious,
           | obesity-level weight takes significant effort and suffering
           | _continuously_ and anyone who says differently is full of
           | shit.
           | 
           | ...unless there 's a drug involved. Amphetamines and the new
           | class of diabetes drugs seem to actually work wonders. The
           | former is obviously problematic and ill-advised.
        
             | elric wrote:
             | I think the folks on HN are generally aware that weight
             | loss is incredibly hard, I'd be surprised to see anyone
             | here trying to shove fad advice down your gullet.
        
           | kar5pt wrote:
           | I could flip this around and say that focusing on internal
           | causes of depression is a way for those in power to avoid the
           | social responsibility of having to change it. We can kick the
           | responsibility ball back and forth all day.
           | 
           |  _Why_ is it so hard for people to get adequate sleep,
           | exercise, a good diet and social interaction? Even most non-
           | depressed people I know don 't do these things well (except
           | maybe the last one), so this isn't something unique to
           | depression.
        
             | ryanwaggoner wrote:
             | Exactly this. We throw people into a sick society and then
             | blame them for their lack of personal responsibility when
             | they get sick themselves.
             | 
             | As an individual, yes, do what you can (which might mean
             | changing to a less "sick" culture or subculture so you're
             | not fighting a sisyphean battle). _And also_ , we should do
             | better as a society.
        
             | elric wrote:
             | Same with drugs. There's a bit of cocaine-epidemic where I
             | live. With lots of gung-ho politicians clamoring for a "war
             | on drugs" and "zero tolerance" and "hold the addicts
             | accountable", etc. But I don't hear any politicians talking
             | about _why_ so many people want to snort cocaine...
        
           | joescharf wrote:
           | > This is why the pop-science version of the "chemical
           | imbalance" theory became so popular in the mainstream: It
           | gives a plausible explanation that depression is just
           | something that happens to you due to no fault of your own,
           | which is weirdly easier to accept for many people.
           | 
           | Yes, and "chemical imbalance" is totally legit but not like
           | its predominantly being marketed. The chemicals (dopamine,
           | seratonin, whatever) are already present in our bodies - they
           | just aren't consistently expressed across the population. For
           | many people, these chemicals aren't released as regularly or
           | in sufficient quantities for a given time period. Often due
           | to lifestyle, but also just differs from person to person.
           | But hey, put in 45 minutes of Z2-Z3 cardio and it can be
           | amazing how the cobwebs get cleared.
           | 
           | > The trend on social media and pop culture is to explain
           | obesity away as a chemical or societal problem
           | 
           | The somewhat recent corporate opportunism targeting obesity
           | and marketing it as completely normal and healthy, almost
           | something to strive for, is incredibly concerning.
        
           | 2OEH8eoCRo0 wrote:
           | > One of the difficult issues is that many depressed patients
           | often don't want to hear any suggestions that depression
           | might be due to anything other than external factors.
           | 
           | I knew someone like this. She'd get new therapists until one
           | of them tells her what she wants to hear.
           | 
           | You're nailing it IMO. If you get to blame society, genetics,
           | or external factors then you don't have to take
           | responsibility. You get a pass. (people think)
        
             | PuppyTailWags wrote:
             | To counterpoint your anecdote: I know a girl who is fit,
             | eats great, gets good sleep, regularly goes on long trips
             | with friends, still clinically depressed and struggles to
             | experience any sort of joy which is why she puts in so much
             | effort into trying to improve her life. Still got
             | depression, baybee.
        
               | whstl wrote:
               | Funny thing. I actually got depression/burnout when I was
               | preparing to run a half-marathon (I do it yearly).
               | 
               | It pissed me to no end that the couple people who got to
               | know about it basically told me to "exercise more and do
               | volunteer work", even when I told them that it was caused
               | by work-related stress.
        
             | rconti wrote:
             | Telling a depressed person to just start exercising, eating
             | well, and sleeping sufficiently is really not significantly
             | more helpful than telling them to just be happier.
        
               | Dma54rhs wrote:
               | Telling them they can fix their problems without doing
               | any of those is not working either.
        
       | pojzon wrote:
       | I dont like myself and I have no way to change myself as the
       | issues I face are of a genetic cause.
       | 
       | I wont be happy till I accept myself, but I wont accept myself
       | like Im not accepted by others.
       | 
       | Simple as that. This is the burden Ill carry till the end of my
       | days. Hopefully sooner than later.
        
       | theGnuMe wrote:
       | I think it is the gut microbiome and chemicals. Basically drink
       | too much alcohol, get depressed or inferred from the hangover.
       | It's a negative feedback look b/c usually drinking relieves
       | depression at first. Then fail to eat properly for what you and
       | your microbiome need, you get depressed. Tryptophan depletion for
       | example. Take a serious course of antibiotics get depressed since
       | your microbiome is out of whack.
       | 
       | There's probably genetics involved as well. Sun light exposure
       | modulates hormones and Vit D.
       | 
       | I wonder if there's a correlation with caesarean section births
       | and depression as well. The hypothesis would be that the infant
       | is born into a sterile environment and does not get populated by
       | the moms microbiome.
       | 
       | Exercise probably plays a role as well since it boosts resilence.
        
       | PaulHoule wrote:
       | "Serotonin" is itself a complex entity.
       | 
       | There are 14 known serotonin receptors in 7 families
       | 
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/5-HT_receptor
       | 
       | not to mention other targets such as the serotonin transporter
       | which is a target of many antidepressants.
       | 
       | Serotonin pharmacology includes antidepressant and antianxiety
       | medication, psychedelic drugs such as LSD and mescaline, the
       | nearly unique drug MDMA (aka Ecstacy), drugs to suppress
       | vomiting, part of the action of some antipsychotic drugs, anti-
       | migraine, and drugs that increase gastric and intestinal
       | motility.
       | 
       | Platelets, your gut, and heart valves are just a few tissues that
       | are full of serotonin receptors: some serotonin-active drugs can
       | seriously damage your heart valves, see
       | 
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fenfluramine/phentermine
       | 
       | ----
       | 
       | The conclusions that people made about free serotonin in spinal
       | taps of psychiatric patients in the 1960s have been long used in
       | a facile manner in psych med marketing and the chickens seem to
       | finally be coming home to roost on that one.
       | 
       | I'd almost call the SSRIs "antineurotic" drugs in that they are
       | helpful for both anxiety and depression in many people. There has
       | been a lot of negativity about them in the news in the last
       | months or so, particularly reports of bad efficacy which I think
       | draw the wrong conclusion.
       | 
       | Basically if you try "X mg of fluoxetine vs a placebo" you are
       | going to have poor response and a lot of side effects. In good
       | clinical practice you see your doc, fill a script, talk to your
       | doc in three weeks, maybe increase the dose, maybe try a
       | different med if you don't get a response or if you are bothered
       | by side effects. If you do that you get much better results that
       | the average clinical trial of a single antidepressant but you are
       | going to talk to your doc (maybe sometimes to the nurse over the
       | phone) several times over 6 months or so.
        
       | zttg wrote:
       | [dead]
        
       | ThinkBeat wrote:
       | We dont understand the brain nearly enough to form a cohesive
       | understaning of depression. (or many other brain related things).
       | 
       | Now, some are saying that gut flora might also be involved. And
       | possible genetic markers. This would create a gigantic number of
       | permutations.
       | 
       | I doubt we can ever "fix" depression with just drugs / chemical
       | imbalance. We may help it along.
       | 
       | Current treatment for depression, in so far as drugs are
       | concerned, is a doctor throwing an "anti depression" pill at you
       | and askinf you to try it for a while and see how you feel.
       | 
       | If you feel worse, or no better, you get to try another.
       | 
       | The loop repeats until something works better or until you are
       | out of alternatives.
       | 
       | In which case, if you have severe depression, options like
       | electrocution of the brain (forget proper English term) becomes
       | an option.
       | 
       | It is often successful, but usually must be repeated and it is
       | not a good thing for the brains other functionality.
        
         | edgyquant wrote:
         | I definitely get the "we don't understand the brain" aspect.
         | This applies to a ton of things in psychology which I can't say
         | I'm a fan of. For instance my sister (a psych major) spent
         | thanksgiving arguing with me that babies can be born
         | sociopaths. This is something we definitely can't state for
         | sure and seems like predetermination with a fancy name.
        
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           | nobody9999 wrote:
           | >I definitely get the "we don't understand the brain" aspect.
           | This applies to a ton of things in psychology which I can't
           | say I'm a fan of. For instance my sister (a psych major)
           | spent thanksgiving arguing with me that babies can be born
           | sociopaths. This is something we definitely can't state for
           | sure and seems like predetermination with a fancy name.
           | 
           | I'd go further and say that most things we class as "mental
           | illness" is just a way of categorizing our ignorance.
           | 
           | Even drugs that purport to help with "mental illness" at best
           | treat some of the symptoms of the _unknown_ causes of such
           | symptoms often have side effects that can be worse than the
           | symptoms.
           | 
           | While significant advances in neuroscience have given us more
           | knowledge about how our brains/mental states work, most
           | attempts at treatment are at the level of trepanning[0] to
           | release evil spirits.
           | 
           | Hopefully that will change as we learn more. I'm not holding
           | my breath.
           | 
           | [0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trepanning
        
       | robotburrito wrote:
       | I can't help but imagine the principal Skinner meme in this case.
       | "Am I out of touch? Is society causing depression? No... It's the
       | chemicals that are wrong."
        
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       | samsquire wrote:
       | When you cannot find something inside something you can try
       | looking outside where you were looking for answers.
       | 
       | In my experience, my spiritual health, acceptances, lack of
       | rejecting bad (and source of) things is the direct cause of all
       | negative thoughts, feelings.
       | 
       | Reject the bad, false, negativity, darkness and move toward the
       | love, true, light and goodness. When I was depressed, only
       | spiritual teachings, love and God moved me nearer good feelings
       | and comfort.
        
         | nobody9999 wrote:
         | >Reject the bad, false, negativity, darkness and move toward
         | the love, true, light and goodness. When I was depressed, only
         | spiritual teachings, love and God moved me nearer good feelings
         | and comfort.
         | 
         | I'm glad that works for you, and I encourage you to do those
         | things that make your life better.
         | 
         | As an empiricist, for me "spirituality" is just a trope that
         | many use as a crutch (which can be _very_ useful to some).
         | There is only the _natural_ (nothing  "super" about it) world.
         | There is no "spirit" or "soul" that defines us separately from
         | our physical existence (i.e., I reject the concept of Mind-Body
         | Dualism[0])
         | 
         | And the "God" you mention is just an _imaginary_ sky daddy,
         | whose inscrutable  "motives" are generally co-opted[1] by the
         | opportunistic to gain acceptance from those who have such
         | beliefs.
         | 
         | I prefer to create meaning from the _natural_ world and take
         | great comfort in the vastness and incredible beauty, variety
         | and complexity of the universe as it actually is, rather than
         | the, unsupported by evidence and often manipulative, ideas
         | around the existence of supernatural beings /causes/effects.
         | 
         | All that said, what's most important is (by one's individual
         | estimation) living a happy, satisfying life. If others require
         | beliefs I reject to do so, I have no issue with that.
         | 
         | We all need to make our own (whether good or bad) decisions
         | about what constitutes a "happy, satisfying life." And while
         | expressing opinions about that is certainly reasonable and
         | expected, attempting to force[2][3] those opinions on others is
         | _wrong_.
         | 
         | [0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mind%E2%80%93body_dualism
         | 
         | [1] https://www.encyclopedia.com/history/applied-and-social-
         | scie...
         | 
         | [2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Apostasy_in_Islam
         | 
         | [3]
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dobbs_v._Jackson_Women%27s_Hea...
        
           | mx24 wrote:
           | >I prefer to create meaning from the natural world and take
           | great comfort in the vastness and incredible beauty, variety
           | and complexity of the universe as it actually is, rather than
           | the, unsupported by evidence and often manipulative, ideas
           | around the existence of supernatural beings/causes/effects.
           | 
           | If your life is so meaningful why are you taking so much time
           | to prove how rational and knowledgeable you are? I mean are
           | the references linked above really necessary? You sound like
           | a teenager that just discovered Atheism.
        
         | rpastuszak wrote:
         | For the love of God and all that is holy, please stop.
        
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