[HN Gopher] Let Teenagers Sleep
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       Let Teenagers Sleep
        
       Author : LinuxBender
       Score  : 316 points
       Date   : 2023-02-13 20:57 UTC (2 hours ago)
        
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       | fdgsdfogijq wrote:
       | As a teenager I was diagnosed with "ADD". Very intelligent, but
       | unable to focus or complete assignments.
       | 
       | My life habits were carb heavy unhealthy food (from the
       | cafeteria), soda, lack of sleep due to long school commute, not
       | much exercise
       | 
       | As an adult, I eat no carbs, all meat and vegetables, I work from
       | home and sleep in as far as I need every night. My thinking is
       | laser sharp.
       | 
       | They tried to medicate me with all sorts of anti depression drugs
       | and amphetamines. Turns out I was just very unhealthy, from a
       | basic lifestyle perspective. And the school was pushing that
       | lifestyle. My guidance counseler suggested I dont attend college,
       | just a community college (despite the fact that I got admitted to
       | a decent state school), or maybe go into the "trades".
       | 
       | These large scale school systems treat students like cattle, with
       | zero regard for the long term effects. Many mental health
       | concerns would disappear if people were actually healthy in the
       | most basic sense.
        
         | UniverseHacker wrote:
         | Modern psychiatry entirely ignores mechanism. All diagnoses are
         | sets of symptoms, and treatments are drugs that reduce specific
         | symptoms. It isn't surprising that in many cases the causes
         | would be obvious, but there isn't any type of system for even
         | trying to approach mental health that way.
         | 
         | Another problem is the feedback loop of mental illness. A lot
         | of people might feel better if they got exercise, ate healthy,
         | got enough sleep, made some friends, took on some fun hobbies,
         | etc. but most people aren't willing or able to do any of that
         | if they are stuck in a bad mental state.
        
           | ck425 wrote:
           | > Another problem is the feedback loop of mental illness. A
           | lot of people might feel better if they got exercise, ate
           | healthy, got enough sleep, made some friends, took on some
           | fun hobbies, etc. but most people aren't willing or able to
           | do any of that if they are stuck in a bad mental state.
           | 
           | I've found CBT super helpful for my ADHD because it focuses
           | on the small steps to break that loop. I thoroughly recommend
           | it for ADHD and mental illness, particularly for engineers as
           | it's far more system based and obviously "logical" than any
           | other form of therapy I've tried.
        
         | jermaustin1 wrote:
         | I was never diagnosed with ADD, but I had a long commute to
         | school (2+ hours each way - I was closest to the bus barn, so
         | first on in morning, last off at night). So I was on the bus at
         | 5:15am, and not getting home until 5:45-6:30pm, just in time to
         | eat dinner and go to bed so that I could wake up at 4:30am to
         | get my shower, and walk a half mile to the bus stop.
         | 
         | The fact that they would pull that shit on 13 year old kids,
         | then tell them they are dumb and fail them is ridiculous.
         | Thankfully I had a few teachers that would stand up for me, but
         | most of them though I was a lazy burn-out and would never
         | amount to anything, and almost no teacher had empathy for me. I
         | should be doing my school work on the bumpy bus that spent more
         | than half its time on rural dirt roads.
         | 
         | When I got my first real job, I was glad to realize how wrong
         | they all were. But it shattered my confidence.
        
         | rajin444 wrote:
         | I used to be really big on trust the experts, seek authorities
         | for advice, etc etc. Especially for areas involving mental /
         | general health. Specifics like fixing a broken arm I'm still on
         | the experts side :)
         | 
         | Decades later I've had many (eerily similar) experiences to
         | what you detailed above. I've gotten the best results
         | evaluating issues on my own / with the help of a few trusted
         | sources. Expert advice is about as reliable as chatgpt (in the
         | majority of cases). There's too many devils in the details when
         | it comes to complex issues like health. Find people who got
         | results or find results yourself.
         | 
         | I think the majority of modern healthcare exists to make a
         | profit and curing patients isn't really a good business model.
         | Unfortunately they can use those profits to create an army of
         | experts and studies.
        
           | Waterluvian wrote:
           | I don't distrust modern medical community, but I think it
           | often suffers from overconfidence that leads me to more
           | carefully scrutinize (but not outright reject) expert
           | opinion.
           | 
           | I've been listening to a podcast called Sawbones where they
           | talk through the history of medicine. It's basically a tour
           | of all the ways we got things wrong. My conclusion has been:
           | and why are we so confident that this time we're right? Seems
           | like every generation is confident that finally, they've got
           | it right.
        
             | waboremo wrote:
             | If we expect every day to be an improvement, the needle has
             | been moved forward that much more, how else would history
             | function except a retelling of mistakes, missteps, and
             | wrongdoings?
        
           | Folcon wrote:
           | > I think the majority of modern healthcare exists to make a
           | profit and curing patients isn't really a good business
           | model. Unfortunately they can use those profits to create an
           | army of experts and studies.
           | 
           | Not all healthcare is for-profit healthcare. I agree
           | incentive alignment is an issue when we're talking about for-
           | profit healthcare, but in other cases medical professionals
           | treat patients to the best of their ability.
        
           | SoftTalker wrote:
           | > I think the majority of modern healthcare exists to make a
           | profit
           | 
           | 100%. Healthcare is a big, big business.
        
         | thinking4real wrote:
         | [dead]
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | steve_adams_86 wrote:
         | Weird. My guidance councillor did the same. Well, I wasn't
         | accepted to a school at the point in which they encouraged me
         | to settle for less, but it was a very heartfelt "don't even
         | try".
         | 
         | I left the room very confused and upset. Went in with ambition
         | and excitement about my future and left feeling like I must be
         | a complete idiot.
         | 
         | I remember her saying "Let's focus on being realistic. You
         | aren't actually going to do this. You won't accomplish any of
         | this".
         | 
         | Like you I was diagnosed with ADD, though long after this. I
         | was inattentive, but succeeding wildly in technology classes
         | and even went to some programming and animation "competitions"
         | which I managed to win. She still told me to set my sights low
         | and aim for trades or something.
         | 
         | For what it's worth I managed to trick everyone else into
         | letting me become a programmer and I did well despite the
         | advice. It still haunts me to think that kids are getting
         | slapped in the self esteem with advice from people like that;
         | people who are supposed to give them objective, constructive,
         | actionable advice in order to begin setting up their academic
         | and professional futures.
         | 
         | I'd add though that unlike you, my diet more or less went the
         | opposite direction and I feel much better too. I went
         | completely plant-based with an emphasis on whole foods and as
         | far as I can tell my entire body works better. I'm not saying
         | you're wrong because I absolutely believe you and agree that we
         | were probably just extremely unhealthy before. Maybe any
         | healthier diet would have sufficed. But yeah, this thing seems
         | extremely variable from person to person. Plant based with
         | heaps of carbs might annihilate your brain, but a bowl of
         | barley with steamed tofu, broccoli, carrots, and peanut sauce
         | is like heavenly brain food for me.
         | 
         | Exercise was the other missing link. The more I exercise the
         | better I feel. I'm like a dog that needs to be taken or runs
         | and swims. When my owner forgets I turn into a needy, whining,
         | anxious, lethargic little beast of a human.
        
           | darkerside wrote:
           | Was this meeting before lunch? Maybe she was just hungry. As
           | terrifying as that is.
        
           | username3 wrote:
           | Reverse psychology works if they're wrong and true if they're
           | right.
        
           | waynesonfire wrote:
           | We're all winners! Here is your sticker.
           | 
           | World is a savage place and everyone will try to keep you
           | down. There are lucky few that are surrounded by a support
           | group that cares and safety nets at every corner.
        
             | PicassoCTs wrote:
             | Its actually a elitist, slap down machine. Cause academic
             | families will not fear such a slap. After all, everyone you
             | know has studied. And some of them are idiots, you know
             | those. So why shouldn't you.
             | 
             | But the one person from a poor household, who never went
             | far in life. No matter how bright, will have noone to put
             | them back upright again. Its pure evil and very unamerican
             | and anti-meritocratic. Its also a thing, thats very common
             | in european societys with rigid class structures, like
             | Britain.
             | 
             | They sort you in, just for your dialect and your place of
             | birth. And look what it got them..
        
           | Fr0styMatt88 wrote:
           | A bit of an aside but it's so strange to me seeing 'trades'
           | referred to as a lowly thing. Here in Australia, tradies are
           | admired, often earn really good money and get a lot of good
           | attention. They can work hard and put in the hours to get
           | ahead whereas us IT guys on salary have a much more 'fixed'
           | earning potential.
        
             | steve_adams_86 wrote:
             | I have no aversion to trades and actually worked in joinery
             | for many years before I began programming professionally. I
             | don't mean to look down on it at all. I actually find it
             | absurd that I earn as much as I do compared to say, a red
             | seal carpenter here in Canada where their breadth of skill
             | and knowledge means more and accomplishes more than my own
             | skill set in very tangible and crucial ways.
             | 
             | If I could support my family as well in trades I might have
             | considered staying -- I loved working the giant industrial
             | CNC machine and began to love learning to set it up and
             | create CAD drawings for it. I probably would have enjoyed a
             | career headed in that direction, but I could have ended up
             | earning around 1/3 of what I do now... At best.
        
               | Fr0styMatt88 wrote:
               | Oh just to clarify - I didn't think you were looking down
               | on the trades at all, it's the sentiment expressed by the
               | school guidance counsellor that I found strange. I've
               | heard it is a very culturally-dependent thing, to be
               | fair.
               | 
               | Your comment reminded me of going with my dad to a place
               | that had a huge laser-cutting machine when I was young.
               | They were awesome!
        
           | yamtaddle wrote:
           | > I'd add though that unlike you, my diet more or less went
           | the opposite direction and I feel much better too. I went
           | completely plant-based with an emphasis on whole foods and as
           | far as I can tell my entire body works better. I'm not saying
           | you're wrong because I absolutely believe you and agree that
           | we were probably just extremely unhealthy before. Maybe any
           | healthier diet would have sufficed. But yeah, this thing
           | seems extremely variable from person to person. Plant based
           | with heaps of carbs might annihilate your brain, but a bowl
           | of barley with steamed tofu, broccoli, carrots, and peanut
           | sauce is like heavenly brain food for me.
           | 
           | The great thing about the SAD (Standard American Diet) is
           | that most any not-totally-insane restrictive diet will be
           | significantly better. It hardly even matters which you
           | choose, it _will_ be better. When you start with terrible,
           | even  "bad" is an improvement!
        
         | beebmam wrote:
         | > As an adult, I eat no carbs, all meat and vegetables
         | 
         | This is contradictory. Vegetables are high in carbohydrates as
         | a percentage of their calories.
        
           | navierstokess wrote:
           | Low carb doesn't mean you can't eat food with carbs, it means
           | most of your diet is protein and fat, and you restrict
           | carbohydrate consumption. He can have a low carbohydrate diet
           | while eating vegetables, as long as he eats less vegetables
           | than meat.
        
             | beebmam wrote:
             | He said he eats no carbs.
        
           | hgsgm wrote:
           | Non-starch vegetable have almost no carbs and almost no
           | calories.
        
             | jay_kyburz wrote:
             | But they have the fiber and other green goodness you need.
        
           | tenebrisalietum wrote:
           | Betting here that "no carbs" = no bread or other grain
           | products.
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | Spivak wrote:
           | We've ruined multiple generations by not explaining that our
           | bodies don't care that much about what form our nutrients
           | take. Getting the meat sweats from an Italian sub doesn't
           | mean it was unhealthy, it's just your body's reaction to
           | processing it which can be a desirable feeling (say on
           | Thanksgiving) or not.
           | 
           | People who switch to "healthy" and feel better pretty much
           | fall into three categories.
           | 
           | * Their new diet is less enjoyable and they simply eat less
           | and burning fat feels good.
           | 
           | * They accidentally switched to a FODMAP diet and associate
           | the lack of "reaction" from food as a sign of health.
           | 
           | * They have been criminally deprived of fiber and are now
           | regular for the first time in recent memory.
        
         | solveit wrote:
         | > My guidance counseler suggested I dont attend college, just a
         | community college (despite the fact that I got admitted to a
         | decent state school)
         | 
         | What's wrong with guidance counselors in American high schools?
         | Why do I keep hearing about them giving kids incredibly stupid
         | advice?
        
           | musicale wrote:
           | > just a community college
           | 
           | Community colleges are the best deal in higher education, and
           | often have faculty who are interested in teaching rather than
           | research.
        
           | yamtaddle wrote:
           | Most of them are really bad at their jobs, but the pay kinda
           | sucks, so that's not likely to improve. And with all the
           | glamour of telling burn-outs that they're not getting into
           | Harvard all day long, and the low pay, you also get to be
           | point person when a kid offs themselves or dies in a car
           | wreck. Fun!
           | 
           | You get what you pay for, and the pay's low. Also, the job
           | sucks. That's a recipe for terrible service.
           | 
           | [EDIT] Incidentally, you want consistently-great counselors,
           | as far as the college planning side goes? Elite prep schools.
           | Half of what you're paying for is an expert with insider
           | knowledge & contacts to ensure your kid gets into the best
           | possible school they can. They treat the position--at least
           | as far as that side of it goes-- _very_ seriously, when
           | hiring.
        
           | chasd00 wrote:
           | > Why do I keep hearing about them giving kids incredibly
           | stupid advice?
           | 
           | most people with insight on good advice do not become high
           | school guidance counselors. why would they?
        
           | xypage wrote:
           | Because a guidance counselor doing a good job is really
           | boring, they ask you where you want to go to school, get you
           | links to those applications, and maybe walk you through the
           | application/point you to a campus resource that'll proofread
           | your essays before you submit them. None of these are
           | particularly note worthy, no one's going to go home and write
           | about that experience, so you don't hear about it. That's
           | what my counselor did, they got me fee waivers too so I
           | didn't have to pay a cent for any of my applications, it's
           | just not something I raced to write about, like I would've if
           | they told me I shouldn't go to college and then I did well or
           | something.
        
             | geoduck14 wrote:
             | I agree. My guidance counselor had 2 3-ring binders FULL of
             | schools that fit some criteria I had, but were also aligned
             | to my disabilities. My mom and I spent ~2 hours with the
             | counselor looking through the schools and applying. It was
             | pretty boring. They also arranged for schools to come and
             | talk to us about them. That was rad because we got to skip
             | class
        
             | clint wrote:
             | I'm often surprised that so many folks seemed to have
             | "Guidance Counselors" at their schools. I went to a public
             | science and technology magnet school in Kansas during the
             | 90s and I don't think I ever saw a guidance counselor ever.
        
           | mjhay wrote:
           | They have a strong tendency to steer high-performing students
           | from lower-income families away from prestigious schools,
           | despite the fact that those are often cheaper with
           | scholarships.
        
           | bigbillheck wrote:
           | I think I talked to guidance counselors twice during my
           | entire high school career, and neither time came away
           | satisfied, but had friends who were in and out of their
           | offices on the regular without complaint beyond the usual
           | ones you'd expect from teenage boys.
        
           | kcplate wrote:
           | I am not sure it's necessarily bad advice in this case--
           | community college or trade school route--I would consider
           | that pretty good general advice for an underperforming but
           | intelligent teen. However, I do know firsthand from an
           | experience involving my son's guidance counselor providing
           | remarkably bad advice that at times the guidance isn't
           | beneficial to the teen, but more to the school.
        
           | giantg2 wrote:
           | "What's wrong with guidance counselors in American high
           | schools? Why do I keep hearing about them giving kids
           | incredibly stupid advice?"
           | 
           | Because most of them couldn't get a "real" job. If they could
           | they'd be making more money somewhere else. (yes, there are
           | some great people doing the job for ideological reasons too)
        
           | hd95489 wrote:
           | Yeah I mean the guidance counselor is at best a failed
           | therapist so why would you expect good advice
        
           | TylerE wrote:
           | That is excellent advice in many states. For instance, here
           | in NC you can do the first 2 years of almost any undergrad
           | degree (all the basic non-subject matter stuff) for a
           | fraction of the cost, and every single credit transfers.
           | Also, much much smaller classes.
        
           | Merad wrote:
           | Why do you think this was stupid advice? More than a few
           | "normal" kids go off to college and crash and burn or
           | otherwise fail spectacularly because they aren't prepared to
           | be on their own. It sounds _totally reasonable_ to suggest
           | that a kid struggling with issues like the GP might consider
           | community college so they can stay around family support
           | structures, continue seeing the same doctors or therapists,
           | etc.
        
           | screye wrote:
           | My cynical take is that someone who cannot figure out what
           | career to be in themselves ends up a guidance counselor.
           | 
           | The job isn't well paid. And anyone who can do large scale
           | talent identification will likely be paid a lot more in the
           | corporate world. So you end up with the least competent ones
           | in public schools.
        
           | vlunkr wrote:
           | Selection bias?
        
           | seeEllArr wrote:
           | [dead]
        
         | westurner wrote:
         | /? ADHD and sleep; REM / non-REM:
         | https://www.google.com/search?q=adhd+and+sleep
         | 
         | Sleep hygiene: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sleep_hygiene
         | https://www.google.com/search?q=sleep+hygiene
         | 
         | - Enough exercise and water
         | 
         | - Otherwise, limit calories and/or protein in the preceding
         | hours
         | 
         | Sleep induction: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sleep_induction
         | 
         | Pranayama; breathing yoga:
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pranayama
         | 
         | 4-7-8 breathing:
         | https://www.google.com/search?q=4-7-8+breathing
         | 
         | Attributed both to Army and Navy:
         | https://www.fastcompany.com/90253444/what-happened-when-i-tr...
         | :
         | 
         | > _The Independent says the technique was first described in a
         | book from 1981 called "Relax and Win: Championship Performance"
         | by Lloyd Bud Winter._
         | 
         | /? "Relax and Win: Championship Performance"
         | https://www.google.com/search?q=%22Relax+and+Win%3A+Champion...
         | https://archive.org/details/Relax-and-Win_Championship-Perfo...
        
         | phillipcarter wrote:
         | > These large scale school systems treat students like cattle
         | 
         | I think that's by design, though, as school primarily exists as
         | extended daycare so that parents can work.
        
           | fdgsdfogijq wrote:
           | I just think about how many people early in life are
           | completely thrown off course because there isnt someone
           | around to provide the basics. And it can happen in well off
           | families.
        
             | jxramos wrote:
             | I wonder how the experience would have went if we were in
             | on the design of it all. We had our suspicions but I wonder
             | if some folks would have been more compelled to take things
             | into their own hands than passively take all the crazy
             | environments dished out on us. Sort of in the space of
             | informed consent, I can react to that which I'm explicitly
             | aware of you know? Youth frequently pay the price is these
             | sorts of information asymetries.
        
         | the_third_wave wrote:
         | > My guidance counseler suggested I dont attend college, just a
         | community college (despite the fact that I got admitted to a
         | decent state school), or maybe go into the "trades".
         | 
         | While I can only assume the people at that school to have been
         | clueless as to your personal preferences and capabilities I do
         | not see anything wrong with advising someone to skip college
         | and learn a trade. College is not for everyone, college is not
         | needed for many types of employment and college is all too
         | often only used as a filtering device to reduce the number of
         | interview candidates to manageable proportions. Add to that the
         | fact that many colleges have ditched or are on the way to
         | ditching objectivity and the scientific method to replace it
         | with a post-modern portion of bullshit bingo in the name of
         | D.I.E. and such and it suddenly becomes sage advice for many to
         | skip this needless and needlessly expensive step. If you're
         | aspiring to build bridges, heal the sick or raise the dead
         | you'd better get yourself a degree, preferably one which
         | actually means something. If you're planning to go into sales,
         | start a small business or tend to a farm you don't need
         | college.
        
         | alienalp wrote:
         | This is the biggest issue with developing countries. Nobody
         | really understand how important chronic diseases and a good
         | diet is. In terms of this for majority of its population US is
         | also just like an ordinary developing country. Very similar to
         | Saudi Arabia. Majority of vegetables are also not very
         | innocent. Maybe not comparable to processed junk food with tons
         | of sugar but there is almost no developed country with high
         | vegetable intake yet Vegetables are advertised as healthy and
         | people in developing countries fall victim to it. Fortunately
         | our body is very versatile but i don't think a sensitive organ
         | like brain can keep its ideal condition over time.
        
         | exfatloss wrote:
         | [dead]
        
         | peoplearepeople wrote:
         | > My guidance counseler suggested I dont attend college
         | 
         | Reminder to self, tell my children to ignore anything a
         | 'guidance councilor' says
        
           | krolden wrote:
           | "What do you want to do with your life"
           | 
           | Me: "I dunno"
           | 
           | "Ok, back to class"
        
           | hgsgm wrote:
           | Should they take education advice from someone who changes
           | correctly spelled words to incorrectly spelled?
        
           | isk517 wrote:
           | There's the old joke that if the guidance councilor was good
           | at their job they wouldn't be working as a guidance
           | councilor.
        
           | Yoric wrote:
           | I never quite understood what the role was. Does anyone
           | listen to them?
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | xupybd wrote:
         | My high school math teacher told me I wouldn't make it to
         | university.
         | 
         | I ended up with a math heavy engineering degree. First class
         | honours.
         | 
         | I'm home schooling my kids . They will do better with their
         | parents as teachers. My friends have done it and their kids
         | were academically ready for university years before their
         | peers.
        
       | Zetice wrote:
       | Maybe just schedule the not-intellectually-heavy stuff earlier in
       | the day, if we can't screw up the parents' schedules with a later
       | start time.
       | 
       | For example, start school with a study hall (that you can miss if
       | you're so able e.g. if you can drive yourself to school), and let
       | the kids nap. Honestly that would have been a game changer for
       | me, as I never did my homework until the last second.
        
         | trgn wrote:
         | Yeah, a few hours of optional study hall before or after school
         | would be so good. It gives some buffer for the studious kids.
         | Plus, 50% of class time is wasted anyway. Just teach
         | essentials.
         | 
         | Getting on my soap box: most important buildings in an
         | educational institution are the library and the sports hall.
         | Healthy mind in healthy body. Dial in formal instruction
         | tactfully. That's really it.
        
       | legitster wrote:
       | > And around puberty, their circadian clocks shift by a couple of
       | hours, meaning they get tired later at night than before and wake
       | up later in the morning than they used to. This shift reverses at
       | adulthood. The biological nature of this daily rhythm means that
       | sending a teenager to bed earlier won't necessarily mean they
       | fall asleep earlier.
       | 
       | It's not clear to me that this shift is actually biological in
       | nature, or trained in from years of habit. I still have friends
       | who never got jobs or careers after high school. Now into their
       | 30s they are staying up regularly to 3-4am. If anything, their
       | circadian rhythm has further extended.
       | 
       | If this is the case, "letting teenagers sleep in" might just
       | offset that habit correction into the college years, or the early
       | career years, or etc. Or constitute a permanent change in
       | circadian rhythm for that generation.
        
       | Eumenes wrote:
       | Kids can also go to bed earlier. When they leave the protected
       | confines of public education, the world won't bend to your
       | schedule (maybe with the rise of the 4 day work week being talked
       | about on linkedin every other day). Every teen in my family is up
       | till 2/3am on weekends, playing video games with friends,
       | streaming something. All good, but best not for a school night.
       | I'd be pretty tired too if I stayed up every work night till
       | 2/3am. Perhaps try to read before bed, or go for a walk.
        
       | harry8 wrote:
       | What time does school start in the USA? I assumed it would be the
       | same as here but apparently not, never heard of a school formal
       | lesson starting before 8:30 here and 9am start is the norm for
       | all school and always(?) has been.
       | 
       | Separate to that how cynical should we be about these psychology
       | studies? As a science it seems hell bent on demonstrating that it
       | is closer to poetry or religion which means we should start with
       | an extremely sceptical prior before closely examining evidence
       | /especially/ when it is telling us something to which we're
       | sympathetic. Stats is hard, sure. Get it wrong by all means,
       | repeatedly wrong even. There is no excuse for not owning that and
       | correcting it rather than doubling down when that comes out if
       | you're claiming to be a science. None. No excuse for not clearly
       | identifying it every time it happens and publicly noting it. [1]
       | No excuse that every first year, university level psych textbook
       | seems to contain the completely discredited [2] "Stanford Prison
       | Experiment" as though it was anything other than gross scientific
       | fraud. It is still being taught to first year as though it were
       | science. How? Seriously. Is everyone in psychology a fraud?
       | Surely not.
       | 
       | [1] https://statmodeling.stat.columbia.edu/2016/03/05/29195/
       | 
       | [2] https://www.nine.com.au/entertainment/viral/stanford-
       | prison-....
       | 
       | edit: links backing it up for those who haven't yet heard how bad
       | it is or just want it to go away. It won't.
        
         | kesslern wrote:
         | My school bus arrived at the school at 7:05 every morning. We
         | were allowed in the building at 7:15. At 7:28 we were allowed
         | to go to our lockers. Classes began at 7:30. My bus time varied
         | by year, but the earliest pickup time I had was 6:20.
        
           | harry8 wrote:
           | Ok. Deeply surprised by that info. I basically never woke
           | before 7am (and that was too early!)
        
       | robg wrote:
       | Really amazing that two key bugs in schools work actively hurt
       | the brain's ability to learn, remember, focus, and make
       | decisions:
       | 
       | 1. Long school days mean brains are overworked and so don't
       | function well 2. Multi month summer breaks actively overwrite
       | what was learned the prior year
       | 
       | When will schooling be built to best optimize brain power?
        
         | Levitz wrote:
         | To your second point, that's just a testament of the failure of
         | schooling.
         | 
         | If anything, the only things kids learn are those that they
         | still know after summer break, or better yet, a couple of years
         | afterwards.
         | 
         | The current model is based on memorizing a whole lot of stuff
         | and then later forgetting it. very little is learned at schools
         | and high-schools. The relationship between invested time and
         | knowledge returned is appalling, but it makes sense once you
         | accept that, like others in the thread have said, school and
         | high school are essentially grown-up childcare.
        
       | lr4444lr wrote:
       | I've gotta ask: is this really such a big problem in other
       | countries? If not, are they starting school later? How are the
       | successful ones dealing with it if not that way?
        
         | witheld wrote:
         | The scientific consensus is that children need more sleep than
         | theyre getting, and that waking up later is healthier. I assume
         | this problem is the same in most parts of the world.
        
           | marginalia_nu wrote:
           | Can solve that by going to bed earlier too, but I doubt my
           | teenager self would have listened to that.
        
             | jobs_throwaway wrote:
             | Its more than just rebelliousness. Teens' circadian rhythms
             | are naturally shifted towards falling asleep later in the
             | evening and waking up later in the morning.
        
               | marginalia_nu wrote:
               | The cicadian rhytm doesn't actually know what the clock
               | on your wall says, only when you eat and get daylight. A
               | late cicadian rhytm is functionally equivalent with poor
               | sleep hyhiene.
        
               | jltsiren wrote:
               | And when other people are active. It seems to be fairly
               | common that night owls need an hour or two of their own
               | time after most other people have gone to sleep, or at
               | least have stopped bothering them.
        
           | jenadine wrote:
           | Why not going to sleep earlier?
        
             | djcannabiz wrote:
             | in the article: ,,And around puberty, their circadian
             | clocks shift by a couple of hours, meaning they get tired
             | later at night than before and wake up later in the morning
             | than they used to. This shift reverses at adulthood." I
             | agree with you somewhat that there is some personal
             | responsibility required here, but I disagree that the
             | answer here is so simple as going to sleep earlier.
        
               | dobbysfirstsock wrote:
               | >I agree with you somewhat that there is some personal
               | responsibility required here, but I disagree that the
               | answer here is so simple as going to sleep earlier.
               | 
               | I think this is where I'm at. I know its entirely
               | possible to sleep earlier with lifestyle changes. I spent
               | a summer at my grandparents with no wifi, tech etc and
               | going outside to play, I was so bored but damn if that
               | wasn't the best sleep I ever had in my life, lol... and
               | early too, never more than 10 PM.
               | 
               | I'm just worried if we start later and later, it could
               | keep creeping up until you have no reasonable time left
               | to start later. I suppose experimenting with it couldn't
               | hurt though.
        
               | juve1996 wrote:
               | Did the article cite the source for this and maybe I
               | missed it? It says a lot of things and "countless
               | studies" but curiously doesn't list all of them.
        
               | djcannabiz wrote:
               | user jobs_throwaway posted a link to a paper on this
               | topic
               | 
               | https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK222804/#:~:text=Res
               | ear...
               | 
               | In the article, they link to this website.
               | 
               | https://www.nationwidechildrens.org/specialties/sleep-
               | disord...
        
             | jobs_throwaway wrote:
             | Because teens have a natural tendency to fall asleep later:
             | https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK222804/#:~:text=Resea
             | r...
             | 
             | Sure, it is possible to have them go to bed earlier, but
             | you're fighting biology
        
         | saurik wrote:
         | You can just ask Google for the typical high school (noting
         | that the term for such schooling can drift) hours in another
         | country. I chose Spain, and it says 9-5 with a 2 hour break for
         | lunch in the middle. Some of the sources say 8:30. Nothing says
         | earlier than that. This article, in contrast, says it required
         | this argument to even get some schools here to compromise on
         | 8:30, and that 9 was the recommendation.
        
           | ck425 wrote:
           | All the high schools I know of in the UK start at 9am. Never
           | heard of any starting earlier, though private schools might
           | be different.
        
           | staunton wrote:
           | Spain has an absurd timezone though
        
             | kzrdude wrote:
             | Spain is just an hour off compared to the sun, comparing to
             | countries close like UK (same longitude, 1 hr time diff)
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | corbulo wrote:
       | We seem to be approaching enough chaos where major entrenched
       | systems changes like this will start to become possible.
       | 
       | There are no lobbying groups on behalf of 9am school start times.
       | You have to break the national teachers unions to get this kind
       | of change, which parents appear the right amount of pissed off to
       | do at this point.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | giantg2 wrote:
       | Maybe schedule and school choice would be better. I even went to
       | earlier classes before the official start of school and did fine.
       | One size does not fit all, and pushing a universal change in
       | start time will hurt some students.
        
       | rahidz wrote:
       | Sorry teens, school isn't about your wellbeing. It's about
       | glorified childcare (if we let out later, who will watch the
       | younger kids? Before it may have been a parent, but now both
       | parents are away at work) and athletics (later start times means
       | your kid will come back from sports practice when it's dark).
        
       | exfatloss wrote:
       | Can't stress enough how important this is. People's circadian
       | rhythms shift with age, and during teenage years, they are the
       | latest (or most "night owl"-like).
       | 
       | Current school times practically guarantee that teenagers will be
       | too tired and sleep-deprived to learn much.
        
         | juve1996 wrote:
         | And yet many teenagers do just fine and end up learning a lot.
         | How do they manage? Are they tired? Do they have magical
         | circadian rhythms?
        
           | steve_adams_86 wrote:
           | Ideal support at home in some cases. Being allowed to rest
           | and sleep as needed, good food around, transportation to help
           | minimize commute times, etc. Having this makes it much easier
           | to meet the demands.
           | 
           | Not in all cases. But there are absolutely logistical
           | advantages some kids have and others don't, and some kids
           | suffer significantly for that disadvantage.
           | 
           | Always exceptions to rules of course. And humans can still do
           | impressive things under duress. Maybe the question is not how
           | do they manage, but how much better could they manage under
           | more ideal schedules, and how many more kids would do better
           | as well?
        
           | exfatloss wrote:
           | [dead]
        
       | tmpz22 wrote:
       | As a teenager I used to stay up until 2-3am watching movies on my
       | ipod touch - which had a ludicrously small screen by todays
       | standards.
       | 
       | I'm in favor of moving back start times but we should also better
       | study and educate on the consequences of bad personal habits.
        
         | dobbysfirstsock wrote:
         | I 100% agree. I'm unfortunately not an expert in the field but
         | over the years I've seen "studies" that are very flawed or
         | impossible to replicate. I'm all for some experiments for those
         | willing... perhaps it would overall increase the amount of
         | sleep students get... but for some I feel it would completely
         | wreck their schedules.
         | 
         | This is anecdotal but when I went to live with my grandparents
         | for a summer, I hated every minute of it. They lived on a farm
         | with no wifi. By the last week or two though, I realized I
         | sorta enjoyed it. I was out like a light by 10 pm every day. I
         | was getting more exercise etc. I had no reliable reason to stay
         | up past 10 pm and my body seemed to adjust to what felt
         | natural.
         | 
         | As an adult, I can say that if school started later, I would
         | have just stayed up later. There was even a time in college
         | that I would stay up till 4-5 am. Sometimes you would know a
         | snow day the night before and I would tell my friends on the
         | west coast that I could stay up even later. It was awful but I
         | couldn't see it at the time. It took me years to fix. I now
         | sleep around 1 AM which I still wish I could sleep earlier but
         | I'll take it.
        
         | xyzelement wrote:
         | // should also better study and educate on the consequences of
         | bad personal habits.
         | 
         | Yeah - and you can get away with bad habits until you can't. An
         | ex of mine was very successful through her early 30s despite
         | being out and partying late quite often. Then she joined
         | Goldman Sachs where the bar is higher, and all of a sudden she
         | was like "shit, I gotta go to bed early if I need to keep up."
        
       | burlesona wrote:
       | My high school in Texas started at 9:05 am. Sample size of 1, but
       | my experience was:
       | 
       | (a) It still felt "early" to me at the time, but not "difficult"
       | to be up for.
       | 
       | (b) I don't remember anyone complaining about school starting
       | early or people being generally sleep deprived - if someone was
       | exhausted in school we were all amused and curious what
       | adventures they'd been having to stay out way too late.
       | 
       | (c) I do recall that there was an optional "early period" that
       | started at 7:30 and some people took classes then or had sports
       | stuff at that time, and I specifically remembering thinking that
       | you had to be out of your mind to participate in anything
       | requiring you to be up that early.
       | 
       | By contrast my wife, who is much more the "go to bed on time"
       | type than I ever was, had band at 6am and school at 7:30, and
       | describes her high school as a blur that she slept through half
       | of.
       | 
       | So the article's recommendation for a 9am start time seems pretty
       | logical to me.
        
       | tptacek wrote:
       | One big reason this shift isn't happening is that it creates
       | coordination problems: for many families, everyone leaves for
       | school at the same time, so if you move grade 9 forward an hour,
       | you have to do the same with grade 4 to get any benefit; the 9th
       | grader is taking the 4th grader to school. That problem stopped
       | this shift dead recently where I live.
        
         | jobs_throwaway wrote:
         | This is why we have school busses. Why are children being
         | tasked with transporting other children to school?
        
           | justinlink wrote:
           | Not OP, but OP may have meant:
           | 
           | Sometimes older siblings contribute to childcare. A 9th
           | grader that is home at 3pm, can watch a 4th grader that is
           | home at 4pm until parents arrive home at 5pm.
        
           | legitster wrote:
           | School busses are shared across age ranges. So teenagers get
           | the first bus, then middle schoolers get one an hour later,
           | then grade schoolers.
           | 
           | So if you punt the highschool bus to later, you are either
           | making for a _very_ late school day, or making younger kids
           | wake up earlier.
           | 
           | Or the solution could be to triple the cost of school
           | transportation.
        
             | [deleted]
        
             | nicoburns wrote:
             | Or locate schools closer to where people live. It seems
             | like it ought to be possible to locate at least elementary
             | schools within walking distance of the kids homes.
        
             | lostapathy wrote:
             | > Or the solution could be to triple the cost of school
             | transportation.
             | 
             | Yes, let's try to kill the one form of public
             | transportation we have in the USA that works decently and
             | is widely available.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | bmitc wrote:
         | This showcases other problems with American society. With poor
         | social support structures and urban design, kids can't simply
         | walk to and from school, take public transportation, or ride
         | school provided transportation to remove parents being
         | chauffeurs.
        
           | weberer wrote:
           | Got any citations to back that up? I remember everyone in
           | high school in Philadelphia commuting via public transit. And
           | what do you meant can't walk to school? The whole city is a
           | grid, completely covered with sidewalks. Go pull up an online
           | map if you've never seen it before. The only thing impeding
           | people from walking everywhere is the fear of getting mugged
           | or worse in certain neighborhoods.
        
           | sologoub wrote:
           | That would not fix the coordination problem - if the family
           | includes one of each (elementary, middle and high school
           | kids) you still have to make breakfast for them, get everyone
           | ready and head out. Let's say they all don't have to leave at
           | the same time, but most other activities have to be
           | coordinated and the sheer noise in the household will wake
           | people up, not to mention it's a bit easier to feed all 3
           | kids together.
        
             | bmitc wrote:
             | That again relates to social support structures. In fact,
             | many kids' parents can't afford breakfast or even lunch.
             | 
             | It seems there are programs that exist already to help feed
             | kids breakfast and lunch at schools.
             | 
             | https://www.fns.usda.gov/programs
             | 
             | https://www.projectbread.org/
        
               | rcme wrote:
               | > That again relates to social support structures. In
               | fact, many kids' parents can't afford breakfast or even
               | lunch.
               | 
               | That's not what the GP is talking about. They're saying
               | that there is an overhead to people leaving at different
               | times.
        
             | kyeb wrote:
             | It would have solved it completely for my family - we just
             | ate cereal or a bagel in the morning for breakfast, no
             | coordination necessary.
        
             | ginko wrote:
             | >if the family includes one of each (elementary, middle and
             | high school kids) you still have to make breakfast for
             | them, get everyone ready and head out.
             | 
             | Surely high school aged kids can make their own breakfast.
        
               | shagie wrote:
               | Surely the high school aged kids can make sure to not
               | oversleep and be responsible enough to ensure that their
               | parents won't get a call at 9:15 when they've failed to
               | show up on time.
        
               | humanizersequel wrote:
               | The vast majority of them are... to the detriment of
               | their health and learning. Did you read the article?
        
             | _whiteCaps_ wrote:
             | Most high schoolers are capable of feeding themselves
             | breakfast and getting out the door. And in my experience,
             | aren't going to let themselves be woken up early by the
             | younger ones getting ready for school.
        
             | peoplearepeople wrote:
             | > you still have to make breakfast for them, get everyone
             | ready
             | 
             | Past a certain age they can do this themselves. A 12 year
             | old is very capable of doing everything besides driving a
             | car
        
         | yamtaddle wrote:
         | It is _heavily_ resisted by sports parents, especially. They
         | like the extra afternoon time after school that an early start
         | provides. It 's one of the main reasons I've seen these kinds
         | of proposals shot down before it could really get going,
         | locally.
         | 
         | > everyone leaves for school at the same time, so if you move
         | grade 9 forward an hour, you have to do the same with grade 4
         | to get any benefit; the 9th grader is taking the 4th grader to
         | school. That problem stopped this shift dead recently where I
         | live.
         | 
         | Where?! Around here they don't have enough busses for everyone
         | to go at once. Young kids start late (which sucks, because
         | they've already burnt at least one of their best and most-alert
         | hours of the day by then) and older kids start early (which
         | also sucks, of course). They could flip it--after all, the
         | older kids are the ones best-equipped to get themselves to
         | school after the parents leave for work--but see again the
         | sports-parents' (and, within the schools, coaches and athletic
         | directors') objections.
        
           | zip1234 wrote:
           | Sports have become way too important in high school. In
           | addition to bad ideas about start times, site selection for
           | schools based on having huge amounts of land for sports
           | fields means far away schools instead of being centrally
           | located near a lot of people so students can walk to school
           | easily.
        
             | yamtaddle wrote:
             | We have one local district with a weirdly-far-removed area
             | with a couple local schools but who have to travel _really_
             | far to get to the high school, which is farther out of the
             | city in an exurb town. That 's (the town) also where all
             | the sports facilities are.
             | 
             | Everyone concerned would clearly be better off if this
             | little area could be absorbed by another district (it has
             | _two_ better-fit candidates bordering it! Of the three
             | plausible options, it 's connected to the silliest one!
             | And, hell, those two are _both_ better ranked, academically
             | than the one it 's attached to, by a long shot!) or become
             | its own mini-district--the ones up in the town hate the
             | ones from "down South" (and, yes, there's _very explicitly_
             | a racist element to this for some of them--which is fucking
             | absurd anyway, the area 's _majority white_ and includes
             | some neighborhoods far richer than the average of the town,
             | but having lived in a different but similarly-situated far-
             | removed exurb growing up, I know exactly the kind of
             | messed-up ideas they get about  "the city") and resent
             | sending any district money that way, while having to go way
             | North for high school sucks for the ones down South, both
             | due to the sheer distance and because of the, ahem,
             | _cultural differences_.
             | 
             | Why will they _never_ separate? Losing those kids would
             | drop the district into a less-prestigious sports
             | conference, since they 'd be smaller. No way they wouldn't
             | fight any change, tooth and nail, despite _plainly_
             | thinking the kids from farther south are shit. Plus they,
             | ah, rely on that geographically-nonsensical southern annex
             | for player recruitment. Yes, the whole thing 's just as
             | gross, in fact, as that reads. All because of fucking
             | school sports.
        
         | powersnail wrote:
         | I'm quite confused about this, since I'm from a place where
         | nearly everybody is a lone child.
         | 
         | But what if the 4th grader doesn't have a 9th grader sibling?
         | Like what do the family do when the 9th grader was a 4th
         | grader? Do parents literally drive them every day to school?
         | Isn't there some kind of school bus system that transports kids
         | from and to their school?
        
         | flandish wrote:
         | If.. uhh... society wasn't so capitalistically expensive as to
         | require the entire household's adults to work, a lot of these
         | logistical concerns would work out. Resulting in smarter and
         | healthier children.
         | 
         | But: smart and healthy children demand wages as adults that cut
         | into shareholder profits...
        
           | tptacek wrote:
           | Plenty of families that don't _need_ two incomes have two
           | working parents; parents work because work is fulfilling.
        
           | satvikpendem wrote:
           | > _If.. uhh... society wasn't so capitalistically expensive
           | as to require the entire household's adults to work_
           | 
           | It is a tragedy of the commons problem. As soon as the other
           | spouse starts working, the family has more money, but once
           | every family thinks to have both partners working, sellers
           | will catch on and increase their prices, bringing you back to
           | the initial problem but now with one fewer spouse at home.
           | It's not a capitalism problem, it's a general markets
           | problem.
        
         | corbulo wrote:
         | You can find counterarguments like this for any entrenched
         | problem that has an obvious solution. When people want the
         | solution they'll figure out those issues themselves.
        
         | justinlink wrote:
         | To answer some of the questions posed to this comment, I really
         | think the problem is many school districts do not have enough
         | buses and drivers to transport their entire student body at the
         | same time.
         | 
         | By having secondary start first, you require 50% less buses.
         | 
         | If we were to switch secondary goes second and primary age
         | students go first, your primary age children would leave for
         | school around 7am and arrive home at 3pm. Most parents are not
         | home at 3pm and this causes a large problem for families. In
         | some instances, the older children who are in secondary schools
         | -- watch the younger children until parents get home.
        
         | Analemma_ wrote:
         | Yeah, IIRC Boston actually tried this, and the uproar from
         | parents whose schedules were thrown into disarray was so
         | intense it had to immediately be walked back. It sucks, but
         | there are broader considerations at play.
        
           | krolden wrote:
           | Sounds like parents have too much to worry about since both
           | parents have to work or their house will be foreclosed on.
           | 
           | Ive read some speculation that the women's right to work
           | movement was just a ploy to double the workforce. Not only
           | that, thet get double the workers for less money since nearly
           | all women are paid less than their male counterparts.
        
             | lotsofpulp wrote:
             | It could have had something to do with women desiring
             | independence.
        
               | krolden wrote:
               | Ofcouse. however they may have been misguided to think
               | their families would benefit from both parents working
               | while it was actually a detriment to their family in the
               | end. Again, not saying women should t be able to work
               | like anyone else, I'm saying having g both parents have
               | to go to work does not benefit the family unit as they
               | hoped. Especially since women are paid nearly half as
               | much as men across nearly every industry.
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | Who is "they", and why do you presume "they" pushed for
               | women being able to work because it would benefit
               | families?
               | 
               | I want women to be able to work because I want the women
               | in my life to not be caught under the thumb of an abuser.
               | If it harms families somehow, that is a separate problem,
               | with separate solutions that do not have anything to do
               | with restricting the independence of women.
               | 
               | >Especially since women are paid nearly half as much as
               | men across nearly every industry.
               | 
               | This is not true when comparing the price of the same
               | labor offered by a man or woman.
        
               | krolden wrote:
               | "They" in this context are the people who benefit from an
               | increased labor pool (capitalists, who want lower wages
               | for everyone) and those who thought it was done for their
               | benefit.
               | 
               | >This is not true when comparing the price of the same
               | labor offered by a man or woman.
               | 
               | Okay, maybe not HALF, but you can't argue with the gender
               | wage gap. Men make ~20% more than women.
               | 
               | https://www.dol.gov/agencies/wb/data/occupations
        
               | thegrimmest wrote:
               | > _Men make ~20% more than women._
               | 
               | This is so disingenuous it really shouldn't be repeated.
               | The pay gap within the same job is miniscule. Men and
               | women make different career choices - there's just no
               | accounting for the lack of women applying for high-paying
               | positions as roughnecks.
        
             | SamoyedFurFluff wrote:
             | I want to counter the "women's right to work movement was
             | just a ploy to double the workforce" because it implies
             | that there is a double meaning or some wild conspiracy. In
             | reality, women being financially independent is highly
             | protective against financial abuse. Financial Abuse occurs
             | in the vast majority of domestic violence cases and a
             | majority of victims who return to their abusers do so
             | because of financial insecurity. With the additional risk
             | that the majority of women who are murdered are murdered by
             | their abusive partners, a woman's right to work is a matter
             | of survival. That it has additional consequences
             | societally, such as workforce doubling, doesn't mean that
             | there aren't women behaving independently for their own
             | benefits more so than there are "they" who manipulate half
             | the population for some nebulous capitalist gain.
        
           | autoexec wrote:
           | It's odd that parents consider broader considerations like
           | their 9-5 schedule more important than the health and well-
           | being of their own children. With all the resources and
           | technology we have it's not as if we don't have the ability
           | to find solutions to problems like "How to move a child from
           | point A to point B at time C", so I guess this is more of a
           | lack of will than a lack of capability.
        
             | dragonwriter wrote:
             | > It's odd that parents consider broader considerations
             | like their 9-5 schedule more important than the health and
             | well-being of their own children.
             | 
             | For most parents, the ability to maintain the work schedule
             | demanded by their employer is rather central to, not a
             | separate unrelated interest from, the health and well-being
             | of their children.
             | 
             | When we have both the economic structure to support and a
             | government run by a political ideology that will allow a
             | robust UBI that makes this optional (and thereby forces
             | employers to accommodate it if they want to have employees
             | at all), we can discuss the issues as if they were
             | separate. But in the concrete would we live in, they are
             | not.
        
             | Merad wrote:
             | > It's odd that parents consider broader considerations
             | like their 9-5 schedule more important than the health and
             | well-being of their own children.
             | 
             | Why are you blaming the parents? Most people in the world
             | don't have the benefit of flexible tech jobs that allow
             | them to work 10-6 or to come and go as needed during the
             | work day.
        
               | autoexec wrote:
               | > Why are you blaming the parents?
               | 
               | Because when Boston tried this, uproar from parents was
               | sufficient to cause meaningful change, but that uproar
               | was directed at their schools and not their workplaces.
               | They used their collective power to defend their work
               | schedules at the expense of their children.
               | 
               | Why not insist on more flexibility in their work
               | schedules, or for additional transportation solutions to
               | assist in getting teens to/from schools? Is this really
               | an insurmountable problem?
        
               | dragonwriter wrote:
               | > Because when Boston tried this, uproar from parents was
               | sufficient to cause meaningful change, but that uproar
               | was directed at their schools and not their workplaces.
               | 
               | School officials are _locally democratically
               | accountable_. Employers generally are not, and are often
               | able to play workers in different localities (and even
               | states and countries, in many cases) against each other
               | to create a race-to-the-bottom effect.
               | 
               | Parents directed their force against the movable object,
               | not the immovable one.
        
         | eganist wrote:
         | It could've happened if the transition to remote work was
         | allowed to keep going, but too many companies were invested in
         | commercial real estate (e.g via REITs etc) to let it happen.
         | 
         | ^^gross oversimplification, but I'm standing by it
        
           | bsder wrote:
           | Most people in the US work in businesses shelpping shit
           | around (Amazon, WalMart, UPS, etc.). Work from home simply
           | isn't in the cards for them, ever.
        
             | eganist wrote:
             | Yes, that much is true. But their schedules are also not
             | necessarily fixed at 9-5.
             | 
             | So there's something to be said for labor where it very
             | easily could be flexible but arbitrarily isn't.
        
         | jameshart wrote:
         | The sequencing in districts where high schools start earliest,
         | then middle schools, then elementary feels backwards to me
         | though.
         | 
         | Elementary school parents who have jobs to get to wind up
         | needing preschool care to fill that gap between their departure
         | time and school start - high school age siblings aren't even
         | available to cover. Late elementary school drop off times
         | impact parents' options for work and commuting.
         | 
         | High school age kids can (or certainly should be able to) _get
         | themselves_ to school, so later starts don't interfere with
         | other family routines.
        
           | lolinder wrote:
           | The staggering works best for the _return_ from school. There
           | are 2-3 hours at the end of the day where school is out but
           | mom 's not home yet, and having the high schooler finished by
           | the time the 3rd grader is out means they can fill in that
           | gap.
        
             | jameshart wrote:
             | Elementary age kids whose parents work are going to need
             | afterschool care. I think that's inevitable, and honestly
             | solvable. Teenage siblings are a fairly limited part of
             | that solution.
             | 
             | I think forcing all the additional logistical complexity
             | and cost of pre-school-day care is an accidental and
             | unnecessary layer though.
        
           | hgsgm wrote:
           | The obvious solution is extdended day care at school, on both
           | sides, not focing5 older kids to run parenting around their
           | own school commute.
        
           | HDThoreaun wrote:
           | I think high school generally starts earliest so that
           | sports/extracurriculars can practice after school for two
           | hours before the sun sets. Elementary schoolers just go home.
        
         | thatjoeoverthr wrote:
         | So find another solution to the coordination problem.
        
       | rr888 wrote:
       | The problem is if you start later, you'll end school later which
       | means you'll start activities/dinner/homework later and go to bed
       | later and there wont be much difference.
        
       | avgcorrection wrote:
       | Pet peeve of mine: some older adults are _proud_ that they get up
       | early. And that's OK in isolation. The problem though is that
       | older adults rule society moreso than younger adults, and
       | certainly compared to teenagers. So for many older adults it
       | feels natural to go to bed early and to get up early. But then
       | _we_ as a society confuse that with universal "good behavior"
       | /good character, so everyone has to dance to that tune.[1] And we
       | _do_ get up to things so that we aren't expelled from school or
       | fired from our jobs. But some of us do it at the cost of our
       | health and well-being.
       | 
       | [1] Or maybe the cause of our early starts is completely
       | different. It's not like I have any proof.
        
         | xyzelement wrote:
         | I do think there's actual correlation between getting up
         | earlier and achievement. I don't know many successful people
         | who get up super late. Don't know if that's correlation or
         | causation, just that there's something to getting up early to
         | crush it.
        
           | waboremo wrote:
           | There are only a certain amount of hours in a day that you
           | can be actively chasing something. Your energy depletes,
           | places close, sun goes down. So it doesn't matter if you get
           | up at 4AM or at 10AM, what matters is the active hours you
           | give yourself. The 4AM person is probably going to sleep
           | earlier than the 10AM, so it equals out.
           | 
           | The only real catch about this all is the simple fact society
           | is based around the sun, and so if you are someone who wants
           | to get up extremely late (2PM+), you have to work harder to
           | accommodate. But those are very rare outside of health
           | conditions. Even most night owls who say they're not a
           | morning person, tend to wake up before 12PM purely because of
           | how society functions. They can't have meetings when others
           | are asleep!
           | 
           | Although the interesting part is how much this changes in the
           | future, with increasing levels of remote work and automation
           | to compensate.
        
             | xyzelement wrote:
             | // So it doesn't matter if you get up at 4AM or at 10AM,
             | what matters is the active hours you give yourself. The 4AM
             | person is probably going to sleep earlier than the 10AM, so
             | it equals out
             | 
             | What I am observing is that it doesn't actually seem to
             | equal out for whatever reason.
        
           | lolinder wrote:
           | There may or may not be a correlation, but how much of that
           | is a vicious cycle?
           | 
           | The kids who grow up to be high achievers tend to have done
           | well in school, which means at the very least they were able
           | to cope with an early schedule. They then observe the
           | correlation that you note and think to themselves "huh, my
           | parents were right, everyone _should_ wake up early " and
           | proceed to preach it to the next generation, who learns it as
           | if it were some fundamental fact of life and not a
           | consequence of the way we've designed our systems.
           | 
           | It's like the problem with math education: the people who
           | dictate the way that the world works tend to be the ones who
           | did well in the existing systems and can't see anything wrong
           | with them.
        
         | rcpt wrote:
         | We have ceded far too much power to the morning people.
        
           | providedotemacs wrote:
           | We change our clocks every year for the night owls.
        
           | anthomtb wrote:
           | First mover advantage.
        
         | asciii wrote:
         | I feel like you're onto something. Growing up, I was always
         | told "The early bird gets the morning worm." In my opinion, I
         | did not want to be the worm waking up early.
        
         | CadmiumYellow wrote:
         | It took me a long time to accept that I wasn't going to grow
         | out of my night owl tendencies (or at least I haven't yet, in
         | my 30s). So much conventional wisdom about health,
         | productivity, and even diet begins with "early to bed, early to
         | rise" type of advice. I've never been happier and healthier,
         | though, than when I gave up trying to force myself into that
         | kind of schedule. I enjoy my most alert and creative hours in
         | the evening and I hate the world in the morning. I have no
         | appetite til the afternoon, so I can't comply with all the
         | advice about no eating after 6pm or after dark or whatever.
         | When I try to get up early to go to the gym my workouts are
         | terrible because my body does not want to be awake or alert at
         | that time. I wish society was more flexible and had more career
         | paths that allowed for a less morning-oriented schedule! There
         | is natural variation in human circadian rhythm and not everyone
         | will grow out of that teenage sleep schedule. Well, I certainly
         | sleep less now, and get up at a time my teenage self would have
         | considered early (9 am), but I cannot properly enjoy my life
         | when forced to go to bed before midnight so I've simply given
         | up trying. We need a night owl movement!!
        
         | [deleted]
        
       | ArchOversight wrote:
       | > This shift reverses at adulthood. The biological nature of this
       | daily rhythm means that sending a teenager to bed earlier won't
       | necessarily mean they fall asleep earlier.
       | 
       | No, this shift does not reverse in adulthood for some people... I
       | am in my 30's and I still fall asleep midnight to 1 AM, and wake
       | up "late" by most adult standards at around 8/9 AM.
       | 
       | I can not shift my sleep schedule to earlier, I've tried many
       | times, it's just not how I am wired.
        
         | asebold wrote:
         | Same. I tried having a bed time routine, eating/drinking at
         | certain times, reading before bed, no phone, etc. Nothing makes
         | a difference. I get sleepy around midnight and wake up around 8
         | - 9 am.
         | 
         | All I wanted to do growing up was sleep. We were the first ones
         | on the bus at 6:30am every weekday, and then my parents dragged
         | us to some kind of sport extracurricular on Saturday mornings
         | and church on Sunday. I would have been so much easier to deal
         | with if I'd just had a chance to sleep.
        
         | xyzelement wrote:
         | If you are anything like me, what you are able to do is driven
         | by what you have to do :)
         | 
         | I used to be a developer/dev manager and in that life, if you
         | booked a 9 or even 9:30 am meeting with me, the odds of me
         | being in by then were low. I loved sleeping in.
         | 
         | Then I moved to the business side and my life was that quite
         | often, I had to be at the airport say 7am. So now there was a
         | REASON to move my life to an earlier schedule and it was
         | doable.
         | 
         | Now we have little kids, who get up super early so there's yet
         | another pull towards an earlier start to the day, and I am able
         | to do it fine.
         | 
         | If there was no pull, I'd probably sleep till 10 but I don't
         | think I'd be happier or more productive.
        
         | TedDoesntTalk wrote:
         | do you consume any caffeine after 12:00 noon? Caffeine's half
         | life is 6 hours. So if you consume at 3pm, you still have 1/2
         | that caffeine in your body at 9 pm. 1/4 of it at 3am.
        
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       | UniverseHacker wrote:
       | I was a nerdy, awkward kid with a lot of social anxiety, that
       | experienced a lot of bullying and hazing at school. I would stay
       | up all night playing on the computer, and just sleep in class
       | during school. At home I would draw the blinds and stay in my
       | messy room alone, in the dark. I was overweight, had bad acne,
       | and had no energy.
       | 
       | I was in a lot of pain, and felt like absolute shit, but nobody
       | seemed to understand or care. They would tell me I needed to stop
       | being "lazy" and clean my room, and do my homework. I wanted to
       | really bad... but didn't know why I couldn't focus. I felt an
       | enormous amount of guilt, like I was a total failure.
       | 
       | As an adult, I was able to turn all of that around by focusing on
       | basic health things- exercise, sleep, diet, and processing
       | emotions. It seems like I was just extra sensitive to those
       | issues, more so than most people. As a father, I hope I can help
       | my son from going through the same.
        
         | nsxwolf wrote:
         | Weird did I write this?
        
       | agomez314 wrote:
       | Is smartphone/digital screen attributable to some degree to
       | teenager's late-night habits, and therefore a need for later
       | school times?
        
         | NoZebra120vClip wrote:
         | I was an avid reader, and my best opportunities to read were
         | late at night. I'd start with a flashlight under the covers,
         | but I found out that the best way to slip by was to go into the
         | bathroom, lie in the dry bathtub with the light on, and read
         | for as long as I wanted. It worked fairly well for a while, I
         | guess. My mom went absolutely nuts over that strategy though. I
         | suppose I was about 10 years old at the time. Later on, when I
         | was 16, I had a so-called "girlfriend" and I would fall asleep
         | during late night phone conversations with her. Or I'd go visit
         | her house and come home late at night.
         | 
         | In high school, I was beginning to feel the onset of a chronic
         | major depression, and I absolutely could not wake up on time.
         | My hair regimen took 60-90 minutes to fix up in the bathroom,
         | and by the time I was driving myself, I found an 11-minute
         | route to rocket to school as fast as possible. Most of the
         | time, it would be my father pouring cold water into my face
         | just to get me roused out of bed. Therefore, mornings became an
         | absolutely traumatic time in addition to all the other
         | childhood traumas I was undergoing, and it took me decades to
         | recover from that.
        
         | daneel_w wrote:
         | To some degree, perhaps. But this problem/requirement was
         | around long before smartphones, long before home computers.
        
         | ScoobleDoodle wrote:
         | I was a pre smart phone teenager. Up into the late late night
         | reading, drawing with pencil and paper, and playing acoustic
         | guitar. Sleep did not accept me early in the night no matter
         | how much I wanted and tried.
         | 
         | Now mornings are the best part of my days. I'm in my later 40s.
        
         | krolden wrote:
         | I was going to school at 6am and sleeping through class long
         | before everyone had screens in their pockets.
        
         | n4r9 wrote:
         | Research into teenagers' shifted body clocks has been going on
         | since well before smartphones and even laptops, if I recall.
        
           | kitsunesoba wrote:
           | Anecdotally, as sometime who was a teenager in the pre-
           | smartphone era I stayed up late plenty without any personal
           | portable screens. I'd just be staying up to watch TV or read
           | a book instead.
        
           | at-fates-hands wrote:
           | You are correct. I think research started into the effects of
           | TV screens on teenagers sleeping patterns.
           | 
           |  _Research has indicated that extensive television viewing
           | tends to be associated with sleep problems among children,
           | adolescents, and adults.1-6 However, few studies of risk for
           | sleep problems have assessed television viewing.1 Only 2
           | studies have investigated the sequencing of the association
           | between television viewing and the development of sleep
           | problems during childhood or early adolescence.2,5 The
           | findings of both studies suggested that television viewing
           | was associated with increased risk for sleep problems during
           | the next 9 to 12 months. However, no prospective longitudinal
           | study has investigated the long-term association of
           | television viewing with the development of sleep problems
           | from early adolescence through early adulthood. Thus, little
           | is known about the nature and direction of the association
           | between television viewing and sleep problems during
           | adolescence and early adulthood._
           | 
           | https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapediatrics/fullarticle/.
           | ..
        
           | steve_adams_86 wrote:
           | I read about it several times in Discover magazine as an
           | early tween/teen. I had a subscription, haha. So, it was a
           | recurring topic 20+ years ago in a fairly popular magazine.
           | 
           | This was well before kids commonly had phones, and while I
           | owned a palm pilot, it didn't keep me up at night and it
           | was... atypical at best for kids to have or perhaps even want
           | them, haha.
           | 
           | Around the time I turned 18 most kids my age had cell (not
           | smart) phones and computers had become common in households,
           | but I don't recall them being a major sleep disturber yet. I
           | would stay up on mine learning to program and playing
           | StarCraft around 20 years ago, but again, I don't think this
           | was nearly as typical as kids watching tv in their rooms back
           | then, let alone using phones or tablets today.
        
         | murphyslab wrote:
         | The issue has existed since well before widespread availability
         | of smartphones and cheap laptops.
         | 
         | Here's a clinical review from 2003 (largely citing studies from
         | the late 1990s) where the same issues were already clear:
         | 
         | http://web.mit.edu/writing/2010/July/Wolfson%26Carskadon2003...
         | 
         | One major part of the problem is that teens tend to go to bed
         | at the same time regardless of when school starts the next day.
         | Hence those students in school districts with earlier start
         | times simply get less sleep, resulting in more irregular sleep
         | schedules. In turn, that leads to worse cognitive performance.
        
         | greenflag wrote:
         | Anecdotal, but as a pre-smartphone teenager I was a night owl
         | which has gradually vanished despite the introduction of
         | smartphones, so I think there's more at play
        
           | exfatloss wrote:
           | [dead]
        
       | gabereiser wrote:
       | The real blame for early high school is extra-curricular sports.
       | Basketball, Football, etc.
       | 
       | For those sports to thrive, teams need to practice, in order for
       | practice to be efficient, it needs to be at least an hour. So 2
       | hours are allocated (suit up, practice, suit down). In order for
       | children to be able to commit to 2 hours extra of their time
       | BEFORE their parents get home (5pm), class would have to end by
       | 3pm. Now, pair that with the fact that most school districts
       | don't have enough bus drivers for every school, they pair up. A
       | single bus driver will start their day bussing high school, then
       | will bus elementary school (which starts later in the day). So
       | high school ends a little earlier so the bus drivers can bus the
       | elementary school kids home after they bus the high school kids.
       | In order for the kids in high school to end at 2:15pm for sports
       | and to save money on bus driver employment and bus fleet, they
       | have to start 2:15pm - 8hr: 6:15am. It's crazy. It was like that
       | when I went to high school in the early 90s, it's still the same
       | today.
        
         | nicoburns wrote:
         | > In order for children to be able to commit to 2 hours extra
         | of their time BEFORE their parents get home (5pm), class would
         | have to end by 3pm
         | 
         | Why would they need to be able to complete their sports before
         | their parents get home?
        
           | uncletaco wrote:
           | It was probably more accurate to say before their parents get
           | off.
        
             | nicoburns wrote:
             | I still don't really understand why this is important.
             | Presumably kids aren't playing sports every day of the
             | week, so they'll have plenty of time to spend with their
             | parents on the other days. I used to play Tennis from
             | something like 5pm to 7pm a couple of days a week when I
             | was a kid and that didn't seem to cause any problems.
        
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         | twright0 wrote:
         | The reason that sports dictate school start times isn't
         | difficulty in scheduling practices (since you could, at least
         | on paper, put those practices before school starts rather than
         | after). The problem is that sports are competitive between
         | school districts, so you need shared non-school but school-
         | adjacent time blocks between neighboring districts to schedule
         | games in. Shifting one district much later (to run 9-5, for
         | example) would make it impossible for that school to compete
         | with others after school, which is going to be a practical
         | nonstarter.
         | 
         | In my mind, this is one of the biggest obstacles to changing
         | school timing significantly. Most other objections are internal
         | to a school district, so a single motivated school board could
         | tackle and fix them, but this problem requires coordination
         | between many different school districts all at once.
        
         | snapetom wrote:
         | Uh, this is pretty much the case with other extra-curriculars,
         | too. My school had a very strong and diverse performing arts
         | program and kids often stayed late enough for parents to pick
         | them up after work.
        
         | uncletaco wrote:
         | Same principle but it was different in my schools system. High
         | school starts 30 minutes after elementary and middle school.
        
         | joezydeco wrote:
         | This is exactly why. We've been at our administrators for years
         | and the response always is "the bus routes" but in reality it's
         | because of the sports schedules.
         | 
         | High school sports is a drain on the educational system, plain
         | and simple. It lacks equity - an disproportionate amount of
         | money is spent on very few children. The football coach in our
         | HS has a Vice Principal title, so he doesn't have to teach
         | classes but knocks down $100K+ to run the team. There are maybe
         | 120 kids in the football program, in a high school of 2000.
         | 
         | If you look at Europe, sports clubs are run by outside groups
         | and happen after school on their own resources. I'd love to see
         | that here. I mean, we do have year-round club teams and that's
         | another problem. Too many parents overload their kids with
         | sports either because they're living through their kids, or
         | they think it's a shot at a college scholarship. It burns the
         | kids out and rarely turns into anything profitable.
        
           | boringg wrote:
           | It's weird to discuss children as turning them into something
           | profitable
        
             | joezydeco wrote:
             | When college costs six figures, you hope to break even. And
             | that's a whole different ball of wax in America.
        
             | jandrese wrote:
             | That's the entire purpose of the school system. To make
             | them into workers that can produce value for companies.
        
               | ajmurmann wrote:
               | Having an educated electorate is a goal as well, at least
               | in some places in the world.
        
           | SoftTalker wrote:
           | Private sports outside of school are too expensive for all
           | but the well-off families. School sports are basically free
           | for the participants, and they are good for kids' social
           | development and physical health. Sports keeps many kids in
           | high school, certainly if my oldest hadn't had cross-country
           | and track he probably would have dropped out.
        
             | ajmurmann wrote:
             | That's another difference between Europe and the US. When I
             | grew up in Germany there was a huge amount of sports
             | available that were taught by volunteers. Soccer, judo,
             | karate all for free even in the rural area I grew up in. I
             | wonder if it's possible because everyone isn't constantly
             | threatened by looming bankruptcy if they don't save big
             | piles of cash.
        
             | runarberg wrote:
             | In Europe these clubs are often community or publicly
             | funded. If they charge partition fees, you'll often find
             | municipalities subsidizing them heavily making them
             | effectively free for kids and parents. Now there is still
             | some problems with this system (in particular overemphasis
             | on sports over other cultural activities such as theater,
             | music, etc.)
        
           | raincole wrote:
           | After reading all of these I still think it's "the bus
           | routes", or more generally speaking, "the commuting".
           | 
           | I grew up in an asian country and my parents never picked me
           | up after I was 10. I just took buses from home to school and
           | then from school to home. I'm not saying our system is better
           | than the US, but it's a bit of culture shock that everyone
           | commutes in their (parents') cars there.
        
         | hgsgm wrote:
         | Huh? Sports can practice before school. And high school
         | athletes don't need parental supervision.
         | 
         | School hours are set by transportation needs, as you already
         | observed.
        
           | greedo wrote:
           | School hours are set by tradition. My city provides no bus
           | service to any students (excepting special needs kids). Crazy
           | I know. Kids can ride the city metro buses for free, but
           | those aren't the same as school buses.
        
             | prawn wrote:
             | What's the rationale for some schools having a bus service
             | and others not? In Australia, I'm not aware of any
             | metropolitan state school having a bus service, so it
             | sounds bizarre that buses would dictate starting times.
             | 
             | Some private schools might have small buses. Otherwise,
             | public and private students would use public transport,
             | ride, walk or get dropped off by parents.
        
           | deanCommie wrote:
           | > Sports can practice before school
           | 
           | Hilarious, given the original thread.
           | 
           | School already starts far too early.
        
             | sidibe wrote:
             | No such thing as too early. Our public HS swim team used to
             | do the water part at 6am then cross training (running or
             | weight room) after school. Probably because of pool
             | availability
        
               | SoftTalker wrote:
               | Swimming seems to have a tradition of pre-dawn practice
               | times. I never understood that. Nobody uses the high
               | school pool after school (unless there's a meet).
        
               | sidibe wrote:
               | No schools around here have pools, have to share the YMCA
               | pools with other groups
        
               | layman51 wrote:
               | You're kidding right? To me, requiring students to wake
               | up before 7 AM should be considered hazing.
        
             | adrianmonk wrote:
             | They're saying that, rather than having school from 8am to
             | 3pm and sports to 3pm to 5pm, you could have sports from
             | 8am to 10am and school from 10am to 5pm, for example.
             | 
             | In other words, have the students who do optional
             | activities come in early rather than stay late. Then only
             | some students come in early instead of all of them.
        
           | smileysteve wrote:
           | In the Friday nights lights states, we lift every other
           | morning at 6am, practice ends at 6pm
        
         | asdff wrote:
         | In my high school we had a few "competitive" sports teams,
         | which really meant just absolute suffering. Kids would be
         | waking up for 2 hours of swim practice before class, where they
         | would be puking on the edge of the pool, followed by more
         | practice after class, then they had to you know do the whole
         | homework part time job and get into college thing in whatever
         | time is left. Wrestling was just as bad but the kids would
         | starve themselves or wear trashbags under hoodies during the
         | day to make weight on tournaments, along with chewing tobacco
         | to spit more water. At least our football team and basketball
         | teams sucked enough for the players to never take practice or
         | games seriously.
        
         | JenrHywy wrote:
         | 6:15? Holy crap. High school here (Australia) starts at 8:50.
         | And even then I think that's too early for natural teenage
         | sleep patterns.
         | 
         | My kids are lucky in that we're close enough to school that
         | they can leave at around 8:15. When I was in high school I had
         | to get the bus at 7:30, which was a real struggle. The idea of
         | starting school at 6:15 is just pure insanity.
        
           | calt wrote:
           | My public school in the US always started at 8:00.
           | 
           | I've never heard of a 6:15 start time.
           | 
           | Also, school was never a full 8 hours. So I'm confused about
           | their reasoning.
        
       | bookstore-romeo wrote:
       | A teenager myself, I agree schools should start later. To my
       | surprise, the gym teacher is allowed to make some students wake
       | up at 5 A.M. to run laps. There's also no reason why classes
       | starts so early at my specific school, as sport teams and
       | extracurriculars are basically inexistant. The bureaucracy behind
       | all of this must be such a nightmare in Canada too...
        
       | graycat wrote:
       | Naw: Not all but much of the unwritten but standard rule of all
       | of education from K-Ph.D. is (A) to exercise the standard drive
       | people, the teachers and their bureaucracies, have to control and
       | direct other people, the students, and (B) to make those under
       | the control to _knuckle down_ , put their nose to the grindstone,
       | shoulder to the wheel, burn the midnight oil, be disciplined,
       | prove themselves, be obedient, stimulate the metabolism to be
       | able to work while sleep deprived, ....
       | 
       | One way to see this -- as I did twice in grad school and once in
       | high school -- is to take a _filter, flunk out_ course when
       | already know the material very well and easily and effortlessly
       | make As and lead the class -- the prof can become really angry
       | that he was not able to intimidate the student, lower the student
       | 's self-esteem, show the student that they, the prof, know more
       | than the student could hope to know, etc.
       | 
       | In this case, the 3Rs, the STEM fields, the term papers, etc. are
       | not really the _preparation for life_ but merely the packaging
       | while the real _preparation_ is (B).
        
       | heisenbit wrote:
       | When I went to school I had to be there at 7:20 which meant
       | leaving home at 7:00. It sucked but it also meant I had most
       | afternoons free to play with friends. When looking how schools
       | today for various reasons swallow whole days I wonder whether I
       | did not grow up in a golden age.
        
       | Jun8 wrote:
       | This post on the front page was SO timely for us! My son (16) was
       | feeling very sleepy and tired the past week. On Friday he took a
       | brief nap at 5pm, but woke up next morning, after 15 hours.
       | 
       | This morning when I went to wake him up at 6am he just couldn't
       | make it so I let him stay at home. This never happened before.
        
         | sillysaurusx wrote:
         | Please have him do a sleep study. It turned out that I had
         | undiagnosed narcolepsy for decades. Sleeping 15 hours is
         | exactly what I used to do.
         | 
         | It's a low cost high return kind of thing. If I'd had early
         | diagnosis, I wouldn't have been fired due to getting jobs that
         | really, really wanted my butt in a chair at exactly 9am.
         | (https://twitter.com/theshawwn/status/1392213804684038150)
         | 
         | That said, the rate of narcolepsy is extremely small, so
         | there's probably nothing to worry about. But hey, it happened
         | to me, so maybe worry a teensy tiny bit.
        
           | jaggederest wrote:
           | Add sleep apnea to that. I don't have it myself, but some of
           | my friends had a night-and-day difference in their life as a
           | result of getting their obstructive sleep apnea treated.
           | Significant weight loss, depression gone, no headaches, doing
           | well in life instead of struggling every day.
        
             | kimixa wrote:
             | One of my friends effectively dropped out of university due
             | to sleep apnea. He just wouldn't be able to get up for
             | lectures or engineering labs, or be so out of it he had
             | difficulty absorbing the material. A shame as he was a
             | sharp guy, and has struggled with things in the decade
             | since due to various knock-on reasons.
             | 
             | We used to laugh about how loud he snored echoing through
             | the house - but looking back this was more a symptom of a
             | medical issue than a joke.
             | 
             | It's a failure of modern western society IMHO where we see
             | people actually needing sleep as "lazy", rather than a
             | requirement to actually be their best.
        
         | cperciva wrote:
         | In addition to things like sleep apnea, this could be a viral
         | illness (mononucleosis is famous, but there are other "post-
         | viral fatigue" culprits) or even type 1 diabetes (before I was
         | diagnosed, the first sign I noticed was sleeping 16 hours a
         | day). Has your son lost weight recently?
         | 
         | There a lot of possibilities but I'd encourage you to not just
         | write this off as "he's a teenager". He didn't just become a
         | teenager in the last week.
        
         | isk517 wrote:
         | This describes a lot of what my life was like between the ages
         | of 17 to 20. I would sleep for 12+ hours at a time if I got the
         | chance and would also take constant naps. Got tested for a few
         | things but nothing ever came up. Eventually my sleep patterns
         | returned to normal and these days I get by on 8-9 hours a sleep
         | a night.
        
         | aaron695 wrote:
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       | ClumsyPilot wrote:
       | Its a common misconception that the goal of Education System is
       | to educate. It's not, and the system will never accept
       | 'improvements' that run contrary to it's purpose.
       | 
       | In actuality education system serves four purposes:
       | 
       | One: make both parents avaliable for the job market. For that it
       | must supervise children during work hours, to make sure they
       | aren't getting in trouble, drugs, or worst of all, into politics
       | and protest
       | 
       | Two - They must habituate little wild chimps into highly
       | unnatural behaviour. Wake up early, commute into arbitrary
       | location, sit in one place for hours on end, stare into paper,
       | whiteboard or screen, perform meaningless tasts tasks that have
       | no meaning to your life. Thats your whole life.
       | 
       | If you don't ease people into this gradually, you run out of
       | psycaotrists.
       | 
       | Three - grade people into quality batches, based off their
       | punctuality and ability to perform meaningless tasks to arbitrary
       | and meaningless quality standards
       | 
       | Four - because the management has gone trhough the same system of
       | educations, the pupils must learn to read through poorly worded
       | vague instructions and understand what their superior actually
       | wants to see, even though they are not capable of expressing it
       | clearly. Poorly worded exam papers serve as good training.
        
         | mc32 wrote:
         | If the above is all true, that would prepare pupils for future
         | jobs --whether self-employed or working a corporate job.
         | 
         | One cannot run (successfully) a corner bakery without being
         | able to handle routine and carry out mundane tasks or without
         | getting up early and doing basic chores as well as being able
         | to interact with others, keep track of your finances, etc. Corp
         | job is much of the same.
         | 
         | You're getting moulded to have the potential to be a productive
         | human being. The alternative is to have people find out what
         | works and not on their own.
         | 
         | Even drugs dealers and macs know the importance of all the
         | above.
         | 
         | Now, sure some people for various reasons cannot conform and
         | revert to more "chimp self" and don't do well in civilization.
         | But even if they became foragers and lived off the land, they'd
         | have to learn routines, patience and so on.
        
         | codingdave wrote:
         | You are grossly mischaracterizing the word "purpose". The
         | purpose is to educate.
         | 
         | Yet the flaws in the system are quite real, and you have called
         | some of them out. But calling out the flaws and claiming they
         | are the intended purpose is quite simply wrong.
         | 
         | BTW, you can change who is in control - school boards are
         | locally elected. Your vote has more power to change schools
         | than almost anything else. If you want improvement, get
         | involved.
        
           | tuatoru wrote:
           | The purpose of any system is what it does.
        
         | andy_ppp wrote:
         | I dunno man, pre-civilisation and education wasn't exactly much
         | fun either. I'd rather be a part of the system that basically
         | gives us everything from food to iPhones and the Internet than
         | fight against it (while avoiding predators in the wild).
         | 
         | This is not to say that education, especially for boys and
         | young men couldn't be made considerably better.
        
           | d136o wrote:
           | Sometimes I think it's also naive to think that food and
           | modern conveniences (for you and your descendants) will
           | continue to arrive if you just do your job... today you may
           | have food on the table for your family by just showing up to
           | work. But are you sure that whoever you work for won't keep
           | upping their share and reduce yours as time passes?
           | 
           | Maybe just maybe "the system" (as you called it) is just a
           | seemingly more civilized way of doing what was done before:
           | surviving.
        
           | kbrannigan wrote:
           | The older I get the more I'm realizing "pre-history", "pre-
           | civilisation" are very Western European Concepts.
           | 
           | Like when the Conquistadors "civilized" mexico Or when the
           | Portuguese and French "civilized" West Africa.
        
             | asdff wrote:
             | Plus when the bombs go off over the Amazon warehouses, who
             | lives? You, who can follow a Hello Fresh recipe reasonably
             | well, or the paleoindian who can flint knap all the tools
             | they need to process their calories?
        
             | freejazz wrote:
             | but iPhone!
        
             | tim333 wrote:
             | Early civilisation mostly kicked off around Egypt and China
             | so not all that Western European.
        
           | notch898a wrote:
           | There's always the question over whether a comfortable
           | unnatural life is better than the sort of hunter-gatherer
           | life our brains and bodies spent most of the human
           | generations adapting for.
           | 
           | No matter, without organized mechanized agriculture and the
           | nitrogen fixation process and other technology of the
           | present, most of us would be dead and not able to ponder the
           | question.
        
         | fosk wrote:
         | There should be two categorizations for students: highly
         | creative students should be placed on a different path to
         | adulthood, everybody else could use the current system. Highly
         | creative people are more likely to be successful dropouts.
         | 
         | To force highly creative people into this routine, is
         | dictatorship of the mind. That's how it was for me.
        
           | prawn wrote:
           | Why not three? One stream for creative types, one for
           | practical types, then the rest. For the practical stream,
           | unless it's changed, we already do this - from year 10 (about
           | 15yo), Australian students can begin an apprenticeship/trade.
           | From that age group, students are choosing electives and
           | focusing on their strengths or interest, whether STEM or arts
           | or physical electives.
           | 
           | And otherwise or for highly creative people, a grounding in
           | most other things is useful. If you're an artist of some
           | sort, you're going to be writing supporting documentation for
           | exhibitions, or running business admin selling your work. To
           | some degree, I think it's healthy for people to be pushed out
           | of their comfort zone here and there.
        
           | lamontcg wrote:
           | Nice caste system you've got there
        
             | krolden wrote:
             | That's like, the opposite of a caste system
        
           | NullPrefix wrote:
           | Do you suppose there should be a test to get into the
           | creatives path? Because every kid will want to be there
        
           | SamoyedFurFluff wrote:
           | How would you identify highly creative people? Genuinely
           | asking. If you advantage them, parents will do everything
           | they can to make their kid look like one even if they aren't
           | one. And some kids will not look like one due to a bad home
           | life or food insecurity or untreated developmental disorder.
        
             | fosk wrote:
             | You don't advantage them. A creative track is probably as
             | infuriating to a non-creative person as the current system
             | is to creative ones. Creative tracks should still have
             | outcomes.
             | 
             | It's like trying to cheat your way into professional
             | sports: if you are not a good fit, it won't be pretty. And
             | indeed we do have a track for athletes.
             | 
             | To think that all students are identical and they all
             | deserve the same track is myopic. Turns out, we are all
             | different people.
        
         | kiba wrote:
         | I argue that the school's purpose is to educate. These effects
         | you describe are merely incidental to the process of education.
         | It's not about producing disciplined workers for an industrial
         | era, it just a story we concoct after the fact.
         | 
         | Now, could we reform the system? I supposed we could, but
         | society relied on a set of assumptions on how schools work. If
         | you need to implement reforms, you cannot focus on school
         | systems in isolation.
        
         | jacobsenscott wrote:
         | Some of this is true, and some isn't. It is quite a mishmash.
         | That said it is easy to find places in the world where kids
         | aren't required to go to school, and those places aren't any
         | kind of utopia.
        
         | msla wrote:
         | Thinking everything is a conspiracy is giving the assholes too
         | much credit.
         | 
         | The education system is an education system. It's bad because
         | it's underfunded, mismanaged, and pulled in multiple directions
         | for political reasons, not to mention occasionally tasked with
         | impossible jobs, such as keeping a roomful of emotionally
         | disturbed children going in the same direction using only one
         | underpaid teacher and a couple para-professionals. If it were
         | actively designed to be malicious, it would be a lot more
         | competent.
        
           | sixo wrote:
           | I'm sympathetic to OP, it's not that it's a conspiracy--it's
           | the survival criteria of the system. It has to "work" as an
           | institution to go on existing. Things that make the
           | institution of education more effective tend to happen:
           | 
           | 1. It has to be compatible with the modern system of
           | employment (feat the 40hr workweek, generally a commute,
           | workers who typically fit into many companies in standardized
           | roles)
           | 
           | 2. Opportunities to make it more efficient that don't run
           | directly contrary to its stated goal of educating tend to
           | happen, e.g. standardized testing. And because students move
           | around and its inefficient for everybody everywhere to invent
           | their own curriculum, they need to be standardized.
           | 
           | 3. It needs to be legible meritocratically, to justify and
           | measure it's own existence and also as an input into the
           | employment system.
        
             | jack_riminton wrote:
             | These are excellent points. Especially the last one, the
             | veneer of meritocracy is an important socialisation tool as
             | much at is a sorting tool
        
           | Lammy wrote:
           | > Thinking everything is a conspiracy is giving the assholes
           | too much credit.
           | 
           | "maxwellhill"? :)
           | https://www.nytimes.com/1989/05/18/business/mcgraw-hill-
           | and-... / https://archive.is/bZKuA
        
         | Cerium wrote:
         | My dad is a teacher, and each day when dropping my off for high
         | school he used to say "be careful, it is an institution out
         | there."
        
         | koonsolo wrote:
         | Nice that we can have a conversations here. Where did you learn
         | how to read and write? English is not my main language, guess
         | where I learned it.
         | 
         | I don't know your background, but we learned loads of things in
         | school.
         | 
         | Go talk to some kids in the world that are unable to go to
         | schools, and explain them how lucky they are.
        
         | rimliu wrote:
         | #iam14andthisisdeep
         | 
         | On the more serious note, this crap which is so popular among
         | the people who have zero understanding of what education is
         | gets really tiresome.
        
         | nineplay wrote:
         | I'm not sure how this all jibs with "classroom" education far
         | predating the modern era. See English boarding school stories
         | or any number US girl coming-of-age stories. Certainly none of
         | them justify the idea that education's purpose is to support
         | two income families.
         | 
         | With that, I think you'd find that most leaders of politics and
         | industry had some manner of classroom education. Homeschooling
         | is not a common practice among the elite. It may still serve
         | the purpose of "habituating chimps into highly unnatural
         | behavior" but if so, it's behavior that is so commonplace as to
         | be indistinguishable from "natural" behavior.
         | 
         | So I'm not sure how we can ascribe all these negative
         | objectives to the Education System as few better methods have
         | come along and found wide acceptance. There's the Waldorfs and
         | the Nontessoris and the variety of homeschool co-ops of course,
         | but they are serve a pretty small percentage of students
         | worldwide.
        
         | sushisource wrote:
         | What a completely absurd and nonsense take. Where does this
         | "purpose" get decided? Some secret cabal that controls the
         | education system? Insane.
         | 
         | There are some flaws in our education system that are likely
         | the result of the fact that it is huge, serves an incredibly
         | diverse set of people, and thus is a very complex and difficult
         | to manage system.
         | 
         | There's no secret back room of evil people controlling the
         | populace via an imperfect education system. What a weird take.
        
         | louwrentius wrote:
         | "They want obedient workers. Obedient workers, people who are
         | just smart enough to run the machines and do the paperwork....
         | " -- George Carlin
        
         | password11 wrote:
         | I generally agree with your criticism of the education system
         | as an instrument of filtering/segregation but I would argue
         | school has some practical value.
         | 
         | > _Three - grade people into quality batches, based off their
         | punctuality and ability to perform meaningless tasks to
         | arbitrary and meaningless quality standards_
         | 
         | For example, doing math is a useful skill, not a meaningless
         | task.
         | 
         | > _Four - because the management has gone though the same
         | system of education, the pupils must learn to read through
         | poorly worded vague instructions and understand what their
         | superior actually wants to see, even though they are not
         | capable of expressing it clearly. Poorly worded exam papers
         | serve as good training_
         | 
         | There is a lot of nuance to English communication, at least
         | among native speakers. Things like active/passive voice,
         | hyperbole, and different kinds of logical arguments are
         | implicit to communication in professional circles. It's
         | important to study them.
         | 
         | Also you're ignoring the cultural education that studying
         | literature/writing provides you. There are tons of literary
         | references in everyday communication and you will be at a
         | disadvantage if you don't know them (a "Scarlet Letter", "Big
         | Brother", etc.). These stories are foundational to Western
         | culture and you are expected to know them.
        
           | moonchrome wrote:
           | > For example, doing math is a useful skill, not a
           | meaningless task.
           | 
           | I can't define trig relations, I sort of remember how to do
           | multiple unknowns/linear algebra, can't even remember the
           | definition of a quadratic equation and I couldn't do
           | derivations if my life depended on it.
           | 
           | Funny thing is I used to know this stuff and actually used
           | some of it when I was in to game dev. 10 years later anything
           | that's above elementary school I'd probably need to Google or
           | Wolfram.
           | 
           | > There are tons of literary references in everyday
           | communication and you will be at a disadvantage if you don't
           | know them (a "Scarlet Letter", "Big Brother", etc.)
           | 
           | You can look up idioms/references without reading the works.
        
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         | chasing wrote:
         | This is a deeply cynical view and mistakes what makes educating
         | children challenging for the goals of education. Some educators
         | suck. Some educational systems suck. Some engineers suck. Some
         | tech companies suck. But to paint the entire educational system
         | with the same shitty brush is absurd. I know many teachers and
         | many people who work in education who go _above and beyond_ to
         | try to give kids the best experience possible. And despite what
         | the tech universe seems to think, educational approaches change
         | and improve and new ideas come into the mix, sometimes fairly
         | rapidly. If anything, it 's the fact that educational systems
         | seem to be habitually underfunded that hinders them more than
         | anything.
         | 
         | Fund free public education. It pays back huge dividends.
         | 
         | And treat teachers with respect.
        
           | eldaisfish wrote:
           | I find a lot of commentary here to be false dichotomies.
           | Here, education is either bad or good when the reality is
           | that it depends. Some aspects are good, some are bad, some
           | are good in some places, worse in others.
           | 
           | A lot of people struggle with complexity and it is telling
           | that a forum focused on computer science, IT and general tech
           | is so challenged to realise this.
        
             | gonzo41 wrote:
             | Being good at one thing doesn't make you good at
             | everything. See elon musk.
             | 
             | Whilst I love the cynical view, and it somewhat sadly
             | clicks. I agree high school education sits in the grey.
             | From personal experience the most valuable lesson I leaned
             | in high school is when I was doing something I was
             | interested in getting sleep didn't matter. But learning how
             | to grind through work is a really useful like skill.
             | There's no way to teach hard work. You just got to do it.
        
               | wahnfrieden wrote:
               | Adults ought to be liberated as the starting point. HS is
               | full of violence
        
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