[HN Gopher] Mental Liquidity ___________________________________________________________________ Mental Liquidity Author : bkohlmann Score : 159 points Date : 2023-06-11 12:31 UTC (10 hours ago) (HTM) web link (collabfund.com) (TXT) w3m dump (collabfund.com) | hammock wrote: | Of course we must reference Berlins fable the Fox and the | Hedgehog here. | | A great essay in this area is Venk's Cactus and the Weasel. | https://www.ribbonfarm.com/2014/02/20/the-cactus-and-the-wea... | yowlingcat wrote: | In my experience, This attribute is an absolutely critical part | of successfully building culture at an early stage startup, and | you have to be ruthless about culling those who are not willing | to give it a try nevermind master it. | conradev wrote: | > Most fields have lots of rules, theories, ideas, and hunches. | But laws - things that are unimpeachable and cannot ever change - | are extremely rare. | | This sounds like a rehash of Popperian epistemology. We should | look forward to disproving existing theories (finding new | problems), because it leads to new, better theories. | [deleted] | lcuff wrote: | This article matches my own life experience: Rather than what | have you changed your mind about in the past decade, I use 'in | your whole life'. Speaking personally, there are only two big | things I've changed my mind about. I'm working on a third... I | wish the article had included something in the vein expressed by | Charlie Munger, which is a 'how-to' for intellectual integrity. | | "I never allow myself to have an opinion on anything that I don't | know the other side's argument better than they do." | lostdog wrote: | What kind of deliberate practice can help if morove your mental | liquidity? | krm01 wrote: | One of the biggest beliefs I keep struggling with is the need to | be perfect. I've been jamming away for many many weekends on a | side project that literally was done. I just kept adding tiny | tweaks left and right, until I literally just now launched it | (https://amee.la). | | Nothing ground breaking, and in the end nothing that needed to | have so much perfectionism around. | | The belief of having to need something perfect is one of the | strongest I see among founders here on HN and elsewhere. It's | almost always bad. I have zero examples where that ended up being | good. Yet, even though the facts are clear, it's extremely hard | to overcome. | 2h wrote: | FYI the whole "lets type out some text" style is really, REALLY | annoying. please just give the plain, non animated text on the | screen. use whatever fonts or colors you want, BUT DON'T make | the text type itself or jump around the screen. | nicbou wrote: | There's no kill like overkill. I've been overdoing a project | for the last 5 years and I thoroughly enjoy it. The site is | live and pays my bills so why not? | | That being said, this comment feels more like self-promotion | than conversation. Don't do that. | david_allison wrote: | Unsolicited feedback: | | * Your input box doesn't look like a text box | | * The 'enter' key doesn't work in the text box | | * 'Refresh' neither looks like a refresh icon, nor has a label | | * The fade on the right of the gallery implies you can scroll, | but this isn't possible | | * The generated logo + icon pair wasn't immediately noticeable | (the first image is the icon without text, and the first icon | isn't guaranteed to be noticeable), possibly generate image | with text + logo on a transparent background and put it above | the 4 sample images. | cassepipe wrote: | Haha, that's a bit of a cruel response to someone who just | wrote he had a "perfection" problem. You probably had OP to | waste the entire week now. WebDesign is a total time sink | | On desktop, you can actually scroll right now | motoxpro wrote: | Haha totally. I had to keep in mind that my perfect is | someone else's average. | Gaessaki wrote: | This is good feedback though, as I had the same issues. It | shows the value of launching and iterating quickly with | user feedback, rather than building in the dark in the | guise of perfection. | interlinked wrote: | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=opbF9Nz_Emg | detourdog wrote: | If you actually shipped the extra weeks was probably | worthwhile. My side project effort can be measured in decades | with little real progress yet. I really think this year might | see some movement. | xwowsersx wrote: | Yeah, we are all susceptible to this. The tweaks were not worth | the time because they didn't move the needle on the core | offering. At the end of the day, this succeeds or fails based | on how good the logos are. In my few minutes of trying this | out, the generated logos were random, seemingly unrelated to | the names, and just generally very unoriginal and low quality. | I don't want to sound discouraging because this is a cool | project, but just to say that spending time perfecting pixels | and whatever else that doesn't have to do with the underlying | functionality is probably not time well spent at this point. | usefulcat wrote: | When I do this, rather than thinking of it as some kind of | mistake or failing, I think of it as an experiment or learning | experience. | ben_vueJS wrote: | This has been a mental barrier for me as well. I'm not sure if | it's in the realm of belief or rather fear of failure. | Personally more inclined to say it's the latter. | haswell wrote: | I'd argue that the fear of failure still boils down to | underlying beliefs about: | | - What it actually means to fail | | - That failure is inherently bad | | - What will happen next after failure occurs | | - What it says about me when fail | | - What others will think about me when I fail | | - That I can't recover from failure | | etc. | | If you grow up hearing that failure is bad/wrong/implies | something about you as a person, it might never occur to you | that another framing is that life is a series of experiments, | and failure can be one of the best ways to zero in on success | (in some cases, this may be the _only_ possible way). | | As far as I can tell, it's beliefs all the way down, and | adjusting certain beliefs can fundamentally transform | experience relative to all downstream implications of that | belief. | nathants wrote: | the best attitudes are an acquired taste. losing is fun! | mattgreenrocks wrote: | Am partially convinced that overexposure to the comment section | can encourage perfectionism in those that are already disposed. | | And the comment section is rarely a representative sample of | your target audience. | deepzn wrote: | Reminds of reading what Reid hoffman said... | https://twitter.com/reidhoffman/status/847142924240379904?la... | moneywoes wrote: | Is this project just a funnel for your SaaS as a graphic | design? Reminds me of that Twitter user who popularized that | model. | | If so does it matter if it's perfect when yore goal is just to | boost top of funnel for the agency? | ianbutler wrote: | I like this, quick suggestion, I'd add an ability to take one | of the generated logos and refine from that same logo. | wwweston wrote: | > A question I love to ask people is, "What have you changed your | mind about in the last decade?" I use "decade" because it pushes | you into thinking about big things, not who you think will win | the Super Bowl. | | This is a great question. And "decade" is a good time frame not | only because of size but because it's a long enough time frame | there's a better chance people will have good answers. | | The Dee Hock quotes ("A belief is not dangerous until it turns | absolute" and "We are built with an almost infinite capacity to | believe things because the beliefs are advantageous for us to | hold, rather than because they are even remotely related to the | truth") are great too. | turnsout wrote: | Mental Liquidity is another way of thinking about "Psychological | Flexibility," which is the subject of a huge amount of clinical | research. There's an entire therapeutic framework called | Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) which came out of this | research. | | Check out this article [0] for a description of ACT from a | founder's perspective. | | [0] https://every.to/no-small-plans/how-to-do-hard-things | SnowHill9902 wrote: | Stay humble. | jrflowers wrote: | > _Be careful what beliefs you let become part of your identity._ | | "I have a tight enough knowledge and grasp of my beliefs to | intentionally control my sense of identity" is a fascinating | belief to turn into an identity. | neerajsi wrote: | This might be relevant: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self- | authorship | | According to the Kegan theory, it's possible. I'd be fascinated | to see it if anyone knows of a study that demonstrates self | authorship in a population of real people. | jrflowers wrote: | I've yet to hear anything akin to self authorship from | someone that didn't have a book/seminar/consultancy to sell. | | It's a somewhat amusing thought that there is this human | phenomenon wherein we can transcend nature, nurture, the id, | the ego, the superego, biology and chemistry -- and | overwhelmingly those that achieve this enlightened state | coincidentally tend to end up as self-help bloggers and | motivational speakers. | skilled wrote: | I think this article is a little too overzealous with trying to | simplify a topic like beliefs and ideas. | | A lot of it also sounds like common sense to me, the people | capable of grasping this: | | > Be careful what beliefs you let become part of your identity. | | Are quite capable of adjusting themselves. | | Everything else falls into either Ego, or people being | self-(un)aware, and for the latter - you can only change "their" | belief system if they themselves are willing to change. | ChrisMarshallNY wrote: | I have had to have an open mind. | | Long story. Lots of tears. Get your hanky. | | It's served me well, in my technical work. | | I now do a lot of stuff that I used to scoff at. | jonasenordin wrote: | Brings to mind Robert Pirsig's 'value rigidity' concept: 'an | inability to revalue what one sees because of commitment to | previous values.' I don't remember if there was a term for the | opposite, but 'flexibility' seems to be right. | Borrible wrote: | Take a die with six to twenty sides and assign a belief | system/worldview to each number. Roll the dice twice, first for | the belief system/worldview, the other for the number of months | you live by it. Of course, you can vary the parameter according | to your taste and courage. But it is important to persevere, so | you better start small. I call it Rhinehartian chaotic paradigm | shift. Dice Man goes chaos magic. | moneywoes wrote: | AI taking away jobs is one. Previously though more jobs would be | created but now my beliefs have fundamentally shifted | wayeq wrote: | > Albert Einstein hated the idea of quantum physics. | | Einstein came up with most of what physicists now recognize as | the essential features of quantum physics. He was not anti | quantum, he just believed randomness could not be a fundamental | feature of nature. | bsder wrote: | Einstein also had a bunch of real, substantial objections. | | One of the big ones had to do with whether the "fields" | formulation was valid and primary. One of the issues is that if | you follow the fields formulations that Einstein believed in | out to conclusion you get things like "atomic oribtals never | decay". | | Which, of course, is obviously wrong. And an example of one of | the reasons why Bohr is considered to have won his debates with | Einstein. | | _Except_ | | Einstein was right! We now know that when you isolate an atom, | it's atomic orbital decay gets slower and slower the more you | isolate it. | | The problem at the time was that all of the experiments that | could be run were statistical aggregations and obscured the | nature of single state quantum systems. | lo_zamoyski wrote: | N.b.. Rob Koon's book[0] may be of interest to some of the more | philosophically inclined. He argues that the proper | interpretation of QM is in light of hylomorphic dualism. | | [0] https://a.co/d/6eq227u | javajosh wrote: | The prerequisite for "mental liquidity" is articulated by | Aristotle: "It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to | entertain a thought without accepting it." If you entertain the | thought, this gives you the chance to try out a new belief | network. If you find your belief network would be strengthened by | its inclusion, then you adopt it. Otherwise, you reject it. In | this way, ones interconnected set of beliefs grows monotonically | stronger. And this is right and good. | | EDIT: got downvoted! I would love love love to know why! Not | offended, just curious. | rgrieselhuber wrote: | [flagged] | dang wrote: | Your experiment has a confounding variable--it broke the | penultimate guideline. | | https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html | javajosh wrote: | That seems a bit trite. I was thinking it was a misclick, but | hopefully whoever did it will chime in, and they will NOT | themselves get down-voted, whatever their reason. | MrPatan wrote: | The mind that doesn't want to risk entertaining "wrong" truths | can't stand being reminded of the fact. | Etrnl_President wrote: | "One can not learn what one thinks one already knows" | --Epictetus | kubanczyk wrote: | You cannot say _belief_. Say _hypothesis_ while leaving rest of | your argument intact. If you value that kind of score in your | life. | javajosh wrote: | What is a belief it not the highest-ranked hypothesis of all | possible options? Obviously beliefs are more complex than | that, since we have a default set installed in us as | children, and only a subset of humans are taught the rational | methods of improving those beliefs over time. I consider | myself a member of that subset. | | (Quoting Aristotle always puts me in the mood to rank | things.) | theredfury wrote: | I do believe a hypothesis to be different than a belief. A | belief performs a different function than a hypothesis. | | A hypothesis can be defined as a "proposition made as a | basis for reasoning, without any assumption of its truth" | (Oxford Languages definition). Typically a function you | perform to unearth a truth. | | A belief on the other hand holds some position on the | spectrum of truth. To believe is to make an assertion about | truth. A hypothesis is somewhat of a precursor to that. | | But hey, regardless of our stance on the definitions of | these words, I heavily jive with the idea that we should | improve our beliefs over time and I have mad respect for | Aristotle. | javajosh wrote: | I don't think we disagree. A hypothesis is upgraded to | "belief" and therefore to the "spectrum of truth" only | because it's the best you know of, not because it's the | only one. It's a matter of degree, not kind. And a | belief's position as the best one is always precarious; | it can be unseated at any time by a better hypothesis. | | Axioms are different, but over time I've found that even | those weaken and become "merely" strong beliefs (or, more | usually, only True within the context you're working in, | e.g. mathematics). Even "I think therefore I am" is not | axiomatic, I have come to believe. In fact I doubt it's | important to identify some sort of root cause, which is | rationalist heresy. Oh well. | saiya-jin wrote: | > And this is right and good. | | I disagree (without down-voting). This is basically 1-man echo | chamber, you take what you like (it doesn't matter how many | eloquent words you use to describe this, result is same), | reject what would challenge your beliefs and would make them | weaker. That's the opposite of critical thinking so needed in | real world, and prime source why the current world, | particularly west, is so torn to pieces about shit like russia, | trump, guns, migrants and so on. | | Stuff in life is complex, always, almost at fractal level. You | keep learning, if you actually want, about new viewpoints that | will challenge your current ones, every effin' day. Maybe at | the end conclusion is don't trust anybody, people are generally | a-holes etc. That's still fine as long as it represents truth. | javajosh wrote: | It seems like you misread what I was saying. I am not | advocating a "1-man echo chamber" - that would be a person | who never changes their beliefs. When I say "weaker" and | "stronger" I am referring to the whole of the belief network, | not individual beliefs. This means, generally, that every | change reduces inconsistency and increases cohesion _of the | entire network_. The ignorant people in the world pay no | attention to consistency, only to feeling, which makes their | network intrinsically weak, and they become emotional and | ultimately resort to violence rather than resolve to improve | their beliefs. (The internet makes this kind of interaction | more common, even encouraged, since it drives "engagement" - | one of the great tragedies of our time.) | | Stuff in life is complex, people are assholes, but even | assholes have good ideas sometimes. I recommend listening to | everyone who speaks for themselves in good faith. Anyone can | cook! | throwaway14356 wrote: | >This means, generally, that every change reduces | inconsistency and increases cohesion of the entire network | | This is analog to growing the tree, the page talks about | cutting it down. | | One could give many examples but the good ones are unlikely | to resonate with others. | | To give a poor one. There was a time when I understood | human decision making as a hierarchy of people in | increasingly greater positions of power with access to | better information and to people with greater skill. Then | one day it struck me how they too are just going though the | motions with their freedom for creativity limited to a | single potentially career ending move. The machine happily | grinds on without anyone behind the wheel. | kbenson wrote: | I think you're making assumptions about people and their | capability to judge consistency over large chunks of | information, when that information is at least internally | consistent and common in their experience. | | If I believe the Clinton's are pedophiles and murderers and | are part of a ring of like minded people, and I'm inundated | with information from people and organizations which | support this (or at least carefully don't refute it), then | when I'm presented with information about a pizza parlor | that is supposedly holding children in the basement, is | that consistent with my beliefs? | | I think what you're presenting is just what everyone | already does. Instead of assessing thi gs based on how well | they fit our beliefs, we should assess them based on a | consistent objective standard, and then alter our beliefs | if it meets that standard but conflicts with our beliefs. | | This may in fact be what you belief, because you belive in | facts and the importance of the truth. The problem is that | you get wildly different results when someone that values | different things applies the same system. | testacct22 wrote: | > reject what would challenge your beliefs and would make | them weaker. | | Most unresolved disagreements I know of are because the | groups disagree on some unprovable underlying assumption. | Switching positions on it doesn't make the beliefs stronger | or weaker | | Being able to believe something and stick to it, regardless | of challenges from competing interests or forms of coercion: | that's more valuable in practice than being more | reconciliatory | TeMPOraL wrote: | > _Most unresolved disagreements I know of are because the | groups disagree on some unprovable underlying assumption. | Switching positions on it doesn 't make the beliefs | stronger or weaker, just different_ | | In my experience, that assumption isn't in principle | "unprovable" - the parties to the disagreement usually | don't realize they're making such assumption in the first | place! Switching positions can make the existence of that | assumption apparent to all, and if people involved are | intellectually honest and discussing in good faith, it's | pretty much impossible for their disagreement to remain as | strong as it was before. | | > _Personally, I prefer having convictions and sticking to | them._ | | Good point about competing interests and "reducing to | something manageable". I prefer "strong opinions weakly | held", but in practice, I embrace the natural _inertia_ of | beliefs. I.e. I don 't consider me already believing | something to be strong evidence the belief is true (i.e. | "having convictions") - but the stronger a belief is, or | more high-impact changing it would be (e.g. suddenly | feeling a moral compulsion to upend my entire life), the | more evidence _and time_ I need to change my mind. | | This may be also a dumber and less admirable strategy, but | it's effectively a low-pass filter on evidence: it saves me | from changing my mind every other day, and suffering the | costs (including cognitive dissonance if I plain override | my beliefs for sake of quality of life). | throwaway14356 wrote: | Binary people are funny. Everything is always 1 or 0, | nothing is ever undefined and the idea to have different | levels of certainty never occurs to them. | | It is a rather offensive way to portray the world. All the | questions, all the puzzles, all the mystery, everything has | been answered and further investigation frowned upon. They | would have to _again_ defend their chosen "truth", they | would have to question everything! | byteware wrote: | I am curious how one would measure if their "belief network | would be strengthened" | ABCLAW wrote: | There's a common issue in philosophy and epistemology over how | we come to know things. We wanted to know what 'knowledge' was, | and settled upon the concept of a 'justified true belief' for a | fairly long period of time. | | However, one day, a philosopher found a situation in which a | justified true belief was incorrect. This is the Gettier | problem. | | What you describe is something akin to a network of baysian | conditionals attached to certain proposition, which upon | confrontation with new information update their relative | weights. We know with certainty that this process has | significant benefits in general (it's certainly better than | most systems not internalizing new information), but can and | does create false reasoning. | | In short, it's good but not sufficient to create knowledge. The | problem of individuals creating ideological filter bubbles | around themselves is very related to the idea that their | evidentiary priors become more and more rigid as they note | confirmatory evidence over time that justifies their views over | time. The issue isn't that they stop intaking new information, | but that their priors and the new information are interpreted | based upon that belief network. | | Thankfully, as a super-organism, we have a great solution for | that mental ossification. We die. New people who have less | evidentiary accumulation can address the issue with new priors | and often that's all that's needed for huge breakthroughs. | neerajsi wrote: | Thanks for your point about death. | | Death forces our species wide belief set to go through the | constrained channel of education and communication, the same | way that our bodily attributes go through the constrained | channel of our germ-line genes. | | This process lossily compresses the signals, which allows for | drift or attenuation when the next generation reconstructs | the beliefs and associated behaviors. Transmission also | applies stress that acts as a filter to weed out beliefs that | are no longer adaptive. | lo_zamoyski wrote: | The Gettier problem is overrated. | | The question is "what _is_ knowledge? ", not "do we know | _that_ we know _p_? ". And I see no issue with the definition | of knowledge as justified, _true_ belief. Now, if I believe | _p_ , and you ask me whether I know _p_ , I may say yes. But | whether I actually know _p_ will depend on whether my | justification is valid (that it really is a justification and | a sufficient one) and whether it is _true_ , which has | nothing to do with whether anyone _knows_ whether the | justification is valid and the belief is true. It 's a | separate question, and conflating the two questions leads to | an infinite regress of skepticism. So the definition of | knowledge qua knowledge still stands. | | I would also suggest you try to apply your general approach | to the very theory you are proposing. I see an opportunity | for retorsion arguments. | Invictus0 wrote: | Mental flexibility would be a better term but of course finance | people rarely perceive much outside their own bubble. | trentnix wrote: | I've heard it also said "strong opinions, weakly held". Unlike | "mental liquidity", it doesn't require explanation. | zug_zug wrote: | I disagree, I just heard this phrase from you the first time | just now, and I don't think it's self-explanatory. | | It's unclear to me in what respect the opinions are "strong" if | not one's conviction in them. To my mind a strong opinion is an | opinion one is confident in. | | Also it's unclear to me if/how/why this is better than "less | opinions". Like is it better to have a "strong opinion weakly | held" on topic X versus "My opinion is pending scientific | research will answer this"? | | A nitpick -- I actually have a pretty big distaste for maxims | that have some cutesy rhyming/wordplay to them (in this case | it's X y, !X z, X = strong). | dasil003 wrote: | I agree it's not self-explanatory. All such pithy statements | are only insightful based on hard-won experience behind them | --the map is not the territory, after all ;) | | As far as "strong opinions, weakly held", this is one of my | favorites at work in a large scale product engineering | environment. It goes beyond "mental liquidity" as described | in the OA (which is really just about the "weakly held" | part). The "strong opinions" part is that often times groups | will succumb to analysis paralysis or unwillingness to make a | decision due to group dynamics. Having a strong opinion | (ideally backed by knowledge and expertise) is a way to push | through and bring clarity. The risk is there is a personality | type prone to blustering overconfidence that will push a | group in a certain direction without reasonable | justification. Ideally what you want is a critical mass of | smart, decisive, but open-minded people who are quick to | assimilate new evidence into their viewpoint. | dgs_sgd wrote: | > To my mind a strong opinion is an opinion one is confident | in. | | That's the correct interpretation of "strong opinions", as I | understand the phrase. | | The "weakly held" part means that you are willing to adjust | your opinion in the face of contradictory evidence, which is | difficult to do for deeply held beliefs. | chefandy wrote: | I'm not interested in delving into pedantry, so I'll stop | after this. My intuitive understanding of this phrase is that | strong or weak opinions are generally a measure of magnitude | more than stability, while strongly or weakly _held_ opinions | are a matter of stability rather than magnitude. Someone | might have a milder opinion of something, like "Pepperoni | pizza is fine" vs. a stronger stance, such as "Pepperoni | pizza is the BEST pizza." How easily that opinion is changed | does not necessarily correlate. Perhaps the person who thinks | pepperoni pizza is the best has never tried salami pizza and | will be an instant convert. Maybe they're the worlds BIGGEST | pepperoni fan. Maybe the person with the weaker opinion on | pepperoni might be very very unlikely to change it because | they don't care enough about pizza in general to consider it | much. Maybe they love pizza, but are one bite of pepperoni | pizza away from saying "bleh, hand me a slice of mushroom." | mo_42 wrote: | I like this nice little text. Einstein is a perfect example for | mental liquidity. I think we should be very forgiving about this | for two reasons: first, Einstein was one of the people | establishing quantum mechanics. He also got the Nobel Price for | his work on the photoelectric effect. Second, even the brightest | minds have only a narrow time frame until mental ability starts | to decline. So we cannot expect a brain to dig deep into general | relativity and at the same time something completely different | like QM. Surprisingly, Einstein even contributed to QM in old age | by trying to poke holes into the theory that later proved to be | true (e.g., spooky effects at a distance). | golemotron wrote: | It seems like this is a term for the ability to avoid sunk cost | fallacy ( https://www.scribbr.com/fallacies/sunk-cost-fallacy/ ) | | The link contains a number of reasons why people get trapped in | sunk cost fallacy. | technological wrote: | I think it is hard to change your beliefs is because of the | discomfort that is associated with that change. | HellDunkel wrote: | I just finished the Einstein biography by Walter I. and found | Einsteins stubbornness quite entertaining. He knew about this | trait, accepted it as an effect of ageing and even was making | jokes about it. He simply disliked some facts about quantum m. | and allowed himself to pursue a rather fruitless endeavour for | many years. He knew that this kind of stubbornness would kill the | career of a younger scientist but he could afford to do so. In | that sense he contributed to science. | neerajsi wrote: | You're quite right. Science requires the skepticism to apply | the stress to theories needed to make them strong. I'm assuming | Einstein tried to raise objections using evidence to the | contrary and alternative explanations. | n4r9 wrote: | Along with Podolsky and Rosen he formulated one of the | original quantum thought experiments to challenge the | accepted conventions: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Einstei | n%E2%80%93Podolsky%E2... | | This in turn inspired Bell's theorem, and eventually quantum | information theory. | zone411 wrote: | "Mental fluidity," "mental flexibility," or "cognitive | flexibility" seem like better terms. | layer8 wrote: | Creedoplasticity? Pisteuoplasticity? | gms7777 wrote: | or "mental/cognitive plasticity" | nmstoker wrote: | My thoughts exactly: this is generally referred to in the | literature as mental/brain plasticity. | | Coining a new term when a perfectly good one exists is | unfortunate but happens, as see with the author here. | | Edit: here's a link to neuroplasticity (aka brain | plasticity): | | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuroplasticity | cortesoft wrote: | > It might sound crazy, but I think a good rule of thumb is that | your strongest convictions have the highest chance of being wrong | or incomplete, if only because they are the hardest beliefs to | challenge, update, and abandon when necessary. | | I strongly disagree with this, unless we are only talking about | beliefs that are about facts of the universe. | | For example, my strongest belief is that all people have an equal | right to exist and pursue their own purpose... this is not a | belief about the facts of the universe, but about my own | morality. I don't think it has a chance to be 'wrong' | JakkTrent wrote: | I believe that knowing and believe are two different things ;) | | Belief is far stronger - that's why people do things all the | time they themselves at one point "knew" they couldn't do. | | If you start with a flawed belief - things won't improve from | there. You'll ending "knowing" a whole lot of stuff that | reinforces your flawed belief - simply | glossing/ignoring/downplaying the facts that don't support... | this becomes a bit of feedback loop after awhile. | | So either learn to let go of your beliefs and adapt or at least | don't firmly establish beliefs until after you know enough | stuff to decide for yourself what to believe. | | I reevaluate mine all the time and I'm not wrong on of my | strong convictions - albeit from my point of view, which I've | made as broad as possible but I'm still human. | | My highest beliefs today are built upon a foundation of | information, learning and mistakes - I may state a belief with | a single sentence but I can write books about why I've arrived | at that belief. | | I don't that's morality - I sometimes do things I "know" to be | immoral, when the justification warrants it, I've never | knowingly decided to believe something I know is wrong - even | if I was forced, I'd only pretend to believe at best. | | In college I'd cheat on a test tho if I thought it the only way | I'd pass - bc I believed passing was more important than the | test... maybe it's a bad example of immorality. | | Anyways, I completely agree with Cortesoft - I'm settling on | the understanding that all people everywhere are fundamentally | important, collectively and individually. | | Allowing and empowering all people to live their best lives is | in all of our best interest. I've gone further even than equal | right to existence and yet I'm supremely confident. | | I think this rant also rather effectively demonstrates exactly | what the OP was saying about our strongest convictions. | | An incorrect fundamental belief - like say I believed the earth | was flat, that belief would be implicit in all that I believe | after that, just part of my world view and muddling up | everything I think about anything - I wouldn't even be aware of | that. | | Mental liquidity. Fantastic. | | Otherwise knowledge can be an immovable trap that becomes | harder to avoid/escape the more stuff you know. | | Scientists are great examples of this - if it can't be | scientifically methoidized it doesn't exist and therefore must | be explainable within the framework they already know, bc | that's always right ;) | robg wrote: | It's easy to forget how difficult learning is, for us as | individuals and as flocks in formation. Pick any topic and it's | likely it took you years to learn well. So simply switching out | beliefs embedded in that topic requires overwriting years of | patterns and synapses in sync. | | Where Kuhn is so helpful in understanding that even scientists | have immense difficulty, if not vigorous myopia, stuck with wrong | beliefs. Paradigm shifts with funerals is easier over decades | than getting scientists to evolve their models. | MichaelZuo wrote: | It's so much so that I would almost define intelligence as the | ability to "switch out beliefs". | lanstin wrote: | The geologists that died disbelieving in plate tectonics | weren't free of intelligence. The very systems that allow us | to find patterns are also liable to get stuck with seeing | certain patterns. | | Not only is it impossible with current human knowledge to | construct an infallible theory that predicts everything we | encounter, it is also impossible with current human | physiology never to cling to wrong ideas in the face of | counter evidence. When examining our rationality, we must not | only admit our data are incomplete and our theories flawed, | but we ourselves might be thinking foolishly. | sedivy94 wrote: | A term I've come to like more is "cognitive flexibility". | xyzelement wrote: | Perhaps unexpectedly, I find that thoughtful engagement with | religion (Judaism in my case) has helped me become much more | liquid on other topics. | | When you accept on faith a handful of principles that deal with | an unknowable domain, it becomes much easier to be less attached | to the other stuff. | haswell wrote: | I grew up under a toxic form of fundamentalist Christianity | that left deep scars and made me pretty allergic to religion. | | For me, I've found success and deep value in exploring non- | sectarian Buddhist philosophy, which points directly at the | problems caused by attachment to ideas and things, and does a | good job of deconstructing thought processes that most of us | engage in without realizing. | | To me, this is less about choosing to accept certain principles | on faith as much as it is about recognizing/acknowledging that | _this is what we already do_ in most aspects of our lives. | | To anyone who can find value in traditional religious | contemplation while avoiding the downsides, more power to you. | The point of my comment isn't to say there's nothing to be | found there, but if the version of religiosity you're familiar | with is the toxic kind, there are other paths to follow that | get at some arguably important insights without some of the | baggage that can be difficult to avoid. | | (I realize Buddhism has religious roots, but there is a long | history of exploring the underlying insights in a non-religious | context e.g. Zen, and the analytical framework associated with | traditions like Dzogchen and Vipassana are applicable without | any of the metaphysical underpinnings). | xyzelement wrote: | (I am the person you are responding to) I grew up completely | ignorant of religion and my first foray into that was the | study of yogic tradition. Once I got a taste of what exists, | I was very lucky to realize my ancestral faith has incredible | depth, beyond that which is even understood by those say they | are kinda religious (ie, many people who say they are | religion X don't know how much there is to X) | | On the toxic part, sorry to hear that. I think anything can | be toxic originally to the value of the concept. (ie someone | may have a horrible experience with a coach but that doesn't | take away from the value of fitness in general) but it sounds | like you have a pattern that works well for you. | wwweston wrote: | > I find that thoughtful engagement with religion (Judaism in | my case) | | I've heard Judaism characterized as very accepting of discourse | and reinterpretation of itself. Does this strike you as | accurate? If so, it sounds like a kind of mental liquidity... | | > When you accept on faith a handful of principles that deal | with an unknowable domain | | Sounds like mathematics, in which practitioners become used to | both the process of relying on a set of axioms and selecting | them for the purposes of exploring or constraining systems, | which makes one aware that there's a certain degree of choice | or even potentially arbitrariness to it... | xyzelement wrote: | I agree with you on both counts. | | For example, the study of the Talmud is an example of both | mental training in debating an issue from several | perspectives, and the installment of the idea that this is | part of the religion. | | You can also look up "Jewish responsa" on Wikipedia as a | diving point into this. | Mutlut wrote: | You just might discovered yourself what others did without | thinking: Following some given path to stop worring and using | it as 'this can't be wrong because its old and others are doing | it and enabling me'. | | Perhaps community fits even better. | | I personally am free enough to design my own life without | boundaris. | xyzelement wrote: | Your current self-description and opinion of religion is | where I was prior to moving onto my current state. Looking | backwards, going beyond this represented breaking a boundary | for me. | | I am not trying to persuade you and I am holding back from | expounding on what I mean at length here, just sharing the | perspective. | Mutlut wrote: | i wouldn't mind your perspective. | | I do thought about a lot and its definitly exhausting to be | free but i have been a nihilist since 16. Thought through | tons of ideas and concepts (what if the universe is | repeating itself, no free will, after life, before life, | 'the egg' story, lsd, mdma, ...) | | I'm now quite happy and content and still curious with my | life. Havent' felt better than this and going the next | step: getting a farm and transforming my environment how i | want it to be. | willtemperley wrote: | Be a goldfish: Ted Lasso, 2020. | Etrnl_President wrote: | [dead] | photochemsyn wrote: | One approach to preserving mental fluidity is to not get | emotionally attached to ideas. This was expressed by Richard | Feynman in his 1979 lectures on quantum electrodynamics, | available here: | | http://www.vega.org.uk/video/subseries/8 | | > Q: "Do you like the idea that our picture of the world has to | be based on a calculation which involves probability?" | | > A: "...if I get right down to it, I don't say I like it and I | don't say I don't like it. I got very highly trained over the | years to be a scientist and there's a certain way you have to | look at things. When I give a talk I simplify a little bit, I | cheat a little bit to make it sound like I don't like it. What I | mean is it's peculiar. But I never think, this is what I like and | this is what I don't like, I think this is what it is and this is | what it isn't. And whether I like it or I don't like it is really | irrelevant and believe it or not I have extracted it out of my | mind. I do not even ask myself whether I like it or I don't like | it because it's a complete irrelevance." | | I think that's critical, because if you become emotionally | involved with promoting an abstract idea, it becomes part of your | personal identity or self-image, and then changing your mind | about it in the face of new evidence becomes very difficult if | not impossible. | | In another lecture, Feynman also said something about not telling | Nature how it should behave, as that would be an act of hubris or | words to that effect, you just have to accept what the evidence | points to, like it or not. | | (Changing your mind about what's morally acceptable, socially | taboo, aesthetically pleasing etc. is an entirely different | subject, science can't really help much with such questions.) | cubefox wrote: | The best way to test your "mental liquidity" is to think about | some hypotheses that are outside the "Overton window" or even | outright taboo. | | "What if ***** were true? Surely it can't be true. If it were, | that would be terrible." | | That's motivated reasoning. Remember that the truth of any | hypothesis is not influenced by how much you want it to be true, | or false. Some hypotheses are deeply uncomfortable, but you | should nonetheless strive to believe the truth. Or rather, what | is best supported by the evidence. Even if it hurts. | noduerme wrote: | Actually, most people shouldn't do that in most cases, because | they aren't qualified to understand the evidence presented to | them. Nor are the hypotheses they're testing their own. | Valuable hypotheses arise from evidence - not vice versa. This | is why juries in complex cases need so much time to be walked | through subject matter by expert witnesses, and why standards | of evidence are applied to what they are and aren't allowed to | hear, and why the conclusions they may or may not draw are | circumscribed to the cases being made by lawyers as allowed by | judges. When people search the internet for evidence to support | their most uncomfortable hypotheses, they'll always find it. | That's how we get masses of people who believe in conspiracy | theories and satanic panics, with the certainty of those who | incorrectly believe they've done their own "research". | | Taking up the most uncomfortable (i.e. "forbidden") hypothesis | and giving it the weight required to attempt to prove it to | yourself is not a systematic way of finding truth; it's a way | of deceiving yourself into believing in the simplistic | frameworks of other people's paranoid conspiracy theories. | cubefox wrote: | The above was only a case against wishful thinking and | rationalization. Of course expert testimony is still some | form of evidence. The point is not to willfully ignore or | reinterpret the evidence because you don't like the direction | it is pointing at. | | It is worth citing the Litany of Gendlin: | | _What is true is already so. | | Owning up to it doesn't make it worse. | | Not being open about it doesn't make it go away. | | And because it's true, it is what is there to be interacted | with. | | Anything untrue isn't there to be lived. | | People can stand what is true, | | for they are already enduring it._ | lanstin wrote: | What was that old definition of ideology, an unreal | relation to real facts? | hcarvalhoalves wrote: | > Changing your mind is hard because it's easier to fool yourself | into believing a falsehood than admit a mistake. | | Different angle: it's not simply "fooling" oneself, but it's | because ideas are one way or another built on top of an | ideological foundation. | | Einstein rejecting quantum theory on the basis the universe | shouldn't have a random component to it is also rejecting the | idea of having to re-examine all philosophy past Descartes and | Newton, which aligned so well with society's viewpoint at the | time - a deterministic, cause-consequence universe, where things | have logical explanations and where hard work is rewarded. | tartakovsky wrote: | Related: https://medium.com/@ameet/strong-opinions-weakly-held-a- | fram... ___________________________________________________________________ (page generated 2023-06-11 23:00 UTC)