[HN Gopher] Mental Liquidity
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       Mental Liquidity
        
       Author : bkohlmann
       Score  : 159 points
       Date   : 2023-06-11 12:31 UTC (10 hours ago)
        
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       | hammock wrote:
       | Of course we must reference Berlins fable the Fox and the
       | Hedgehog here.
       | 
       | A great essay in this area is Venk's Cactus and the Weasel.
       | https://www.ribbonfarm.com/2014/02/20/the-cactus-and-the-wea...
        
       | yowlingcat wrote:
       | In my experience, This attribute is an absolutely critical part
       | of successfully building culture at an early stage startup, and
       | you have to be ruthless about culling those who are not willing
       | to give it a try nevermind master it.
        
       | conradev wrote:
       | > Most fields have lots of rules, theories, ideas, and hunches.
       | But laws - things that are unimpeachable and cannot ever change -
       | are extremely rare.
       | 
       | This sounds like a rehash of Popperian epistemology. We should
       | look forward to disproving existing theories (finding new
       | problems), because it leads to new, better theories.
        
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       | lcuff wrote:
       | This article matches my own life experience: Rather than what
       | have you changed your mind about in the past decade, I use 'in
       | your whole life'. Speaking personally, there are only two big
       | things I've changed my mind about. I'm working on a third... I
       | wish the article had included something in the vein expressed by
       | Charlie Munger, which is a 'how-to' for intellectual integrity.
       | 
       | "I never allow myself to have an opinion on anything that I don't
       | know the other side's argument better than they do."
        
       | lostdog wrote:
       | What kind of deliberate practice can help if morove your mental
       | liquidity?
        
       | krm01 wrote:
       | One of the biggest beliefs I keep struggling with is the need to
       | be perfect. I've been jamming away for many many weekends on a
       | side project that literally was done. I just kept adding tiny
       | tweaks left and right, until I literally just now launched it
       | (https://amee.la).
       | 
       | Nothing ground breaking, and in the end nothing that needed to
       | have so much perfectionism around.
       | 
       | The belief of having to need something perfect is one of the
       | strongest I see among founders here on HN and elsewhere. It's
       | almost always bad. I have zero examples where that ended up being
       | good. Yet, even though the facts are clear, it's extremely hard
       | to overcome.
        
         | 2h wrote:
         | FYI the whole "lets type out some text" style is really, REALLY
         | annoying. please just give the plain, non animated text on the
         | screen. use whatever fonts or colors you want, BUT DON'T make
         | the text type itself or jump around the screen.
        
         | nicbou wrote:
         | There's no kill like overkill. I've been overdoing a project
         | for the last 5 years and I thoroughly enjoy it. The site is
         | live and pays my bills so why not?
         | 
         | That being said, this comment feels more like self-promotion
         | than conversation. Don't do that.
        
         | david_allison wrote:
         | Unsolicited feedback:
         | 
         | * Your input box doesn't look like a text box
         | 
         | * The 'enter' key doesn't work in the text box
         | 
         | * 'Refresh' neither looks like a refresh icon, nor has a label
         | 
         | * The fade on the right of the gallery implies you can scroll,
         | but this isn't possible
         | 
         | * The generated logo + icon pair wasn't immediately noticeable
         | (the first image is the icon without text, and the first icon
         | isn't guaranteed to be noticeable), possibly generate image
         | with text + logo on a transparent background and put it above
         | the 4 sample images.
        
           | cassepipe wrote:
           | Haha, that's a bit of a cruel response to someone who just
           | wrote he had a "perfection" problem. You probably had OP to
           | waste the entire week now. WebDesign is a total time sink
           | 
           | On desktop, you can actually scroll right now
        
             | motoxpro wrote:
             | Haha totally. I had to keep in mind that my perfect is
             | someone else's average.
        
             | Gaessaki wrote:
             | This is good feedback though, as I had the same issues. It
             | shows the value of launching and iterating quickly with
             | user feedback, rather than building in the dark in the
             | guise of perfection.
        
           | interlinked wrote:
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=opbF9Nz_Emg
        
         | detourdog wrote:
         | If you actually shipped the extra weeks was probably
         | worthwhile. My side project effort can be measured in decades
         | with little real progress yet. I really think this year might
         | see some movement.
        
         | xwowsersx wrote:
         | Yeah, we are all susceptible to this. The tweaks were not worth
         | the time because they didn't move the needle on the core
         | offering. At the end of the day, this succeeds or fails based
         | on how good the logos are. In my few minutes of trying this
         | out, the generated logos were random, seemingly unrelated to
         | the names, and just generally very unoriginal and low quality.
         | I don't want to sound discouraging because this is a cool
         | project, but just to say that spending time perfecting pixels
         | and whatever else that doesn't have to do with the underlying
         | functionality is probably not time well spent at this point.
        
         | usefulcat wrote:
         | When I do this, rather than thinking of it as some kind of
         | mistake or failing, I think of it as an experiment or learning
         | experience.
        
         | ben_vueJS wrote:
         | This has been a mental barrier for me as well. I'm not sure if
         | it's in the realm of belief or rather fear of failure.
         | Personally more inclined to say it's the latter.
        
           | haswell wrote:
           | I'd argue that the fear of failure still boils down to
           | underlying beliefs about:
           | 
           | - What it actually means to fail
           | 
           | - That failure is inherently bad
           | 
           | - What will happen next after failure occurs
           | 
           | - What it says about me when fail
           | 
           | - What others will think about me when I fail
           | 
           | - That I can't recover from failure
           | 
           | etc.
           | 
           | If you grow up hearing that failure is bad/wrong/implies
           | something about you as a person, it might never occur to you
           | that another framing is that life is a series of experiments,
           | and failure can be one of the best ways to zero in on success
           | (in some cases, this may be the _only_ possible way).
           | 
           | As far as I can tell, it's beliefs all the way down, and
           | adjusting certain beliefs can fundamentally transform
           | experience relative to all downstream implications of that
           | belief.
        
             | nathants wrote:
             | the best attitudes are an acquired taste. losing is fun!
        
         | mattgreenrocks wrote:
         | Am partially convinced that overexposure to the comment section
         | can encourage perfectionism in those that are already disposed.
         | 
         | And the comment section is rarely a representative sample of
         | your target audience.
        
         | deepzn wrote:
         | Reminds of reading what Reid hoffman said...
         | https://twitter.com/reidhoffman/status/847142924240379904?la...
        
         | moneywoes wrote:
         | Is this project just a funnel for your SaaS as a graphic
         | design? Reminds me of that Twitter user who popularized that
         | model.
         | 
         | If so does it matter if it's perfect when yore goal is just to
         | boost top of funnel for the agency?
        
         | ianbutler wrote:
         | I like this, quick suggestion, I'd add an ability to take one
         | of the generated logos and refine from that same logo.
        
       | wwweston wrote:
       | > A question I love to ask people is, "What have you changed your
       | mind about in the last decade?" I use "decade" because it pushes
       | you into thinking about big things, not who you think will win
       | the Super Bowl.
       | 
       | This is a great question. And "decade" is a good time frame not
       | only because of size but because it's a long enough time frame
       | there's a better chance people will have good answers.
       | 
       | The Dee Hock quotes ("A belief is not dangerous until it turns
       | absolute" and "We are built with an almost infinite capacity to
       | believe things because the beliefs are advantageous for us to
       | hold, rather than because they are even remotely related to the
       | truth") are great too.
        
       | turnsout wrote:
       | Mental Liquidity is another way of thinking about "Psychological
       | Flexibility," which is the subject of a huge amount of clinical
       | research. There's an entire therapeutic framework called
       | Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) which came out of this
       | research.
       | 
       | Check out this article [0] for a description of ACT from a
       | founder's perspective.
       | 
       | [0] https://every.to/no-small-plans/how-to-do-hard-things
        
       | SnowHill9902 wrote:
       | Stay humble.
        
       | jrflowers wrote:
       | > _Be careful what beliefs you let become part of your identity._
       | 
       | "I have a tight enough knowledge and grasp of my beliefs to
       | intentionally control my sense of identity" is a fascinating
       | belief to turn into an identity.
        
         | neerajsi wrote:
         | This might be relevant: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-
         | authorship
         | 
         | According to the Kegan theory, it's possible. I'd be fascinated
         | to see it if anyone knows of a study that demonstrates self
         | authorship in a population of real people.
        
           | jrflowers wrote:
           | I've yet to hear anything akin to self authorship from
           | someone that didn't have a book/seminar/consultancy to sell.
           | 
           | It's a somewhat amusing thought that there is this human
           | phenomenon wherein we can transcend nature, nurture, the id,
           | the ego, the superego, biology and chemistry -- and
           | overwhelmingly those that achieve this enlightened state
           | coincidentally tend to end up as self-help bloggers and
           | motivational speakers.
        
       | skilled wrote:
       | I think this article is a little too overzealous with trying to
       | simplify a topic like beliefs and ideas.
       | 
       | A lot of it also sounds like common sense to me, the people
       | capable of grasping this:
       | 
       | > Be careful what beliefs you let become part of your identity.
       | 
       | Are quite capable of adjusting themselves.
       | 
       | Everything else falls into either Ego, or people being
       | self-(un)aware, and for the latter - you can only change "their"
       | belief system if they themselves are willing to change.
        
       | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
       | I have had to have an open mind.
       | 
       | Long story. Lots of tears. Get your hanky.
       | 
       | It's served me well, in my technical work.
       | 
       | I now do a lot of stuff that I used to scoff at.
        
       | jonasenordin wrote:
       | Brings to mind Robert Pirsig's 'value rigidity' concept: 'an
       | inability to revalue what one sees because of commitment to
       | previous values.' I don't remember if there was a term for the
       | opposite, but 'flexibility' seems to be right.
        
       | Borrible wrote:
       | Take a die with six to twenty sides and assign a belief
       | system/worldview to each number. Roll the dice twice, first for
       | the belief system/worldview, the other for the number of months
       | you live by it. Of course, you can vary the parameter according
       | to your taste and courage. But it is important to persevere, so
       | you better start small. I call it Rhinehartian chaotic paradigm
       | shift. Dice Man goes chaos magic.
        
       | moneywoes wrote:
       | AI taking away jobs is one. Previously though more jobs would be
       | created but now my beliefs have fundamentally shifted
        
       | wayeq wrote:
       | > Albert Einstein hated the idea of quantum physics.
       | 
       | Einstein came up with most of what physicists now recognize as
       | the essential features of quantum physics. He was not anti
       | quantum, he just believed randomness could not be a fundamental
       | feature of nature.
        
         | bsder wrote:
         | Einstein also had a bunch of real, substantial objections.
         | 
         | One of the big ones had to do with whether the "fields"
         | formulation was valid and primary. One of the issues is that if
         | you follow the fields formulations that Einstein believed in
         | out to conclusion you get things like "atomic oribtals never
         | decay".
         | 
         | Which, of course, is obviously wrong. And an example of one of
         | the reasons why Bohr is considered to have won his debates with
         | Einstein.
         | 
         |  _Except_
         | 
         | Einstein was right! We now know that when you isolate an atom,
         | it's atomic orbital decay gets slower and slower the more you
         | isolate it.
         | 
         | The problem at the time was that all of the experiments that
         | could be run were statistical aggregations and obscured the
         | nature of single state quantum systems.
        
         | lo_zamoyski wrote:
         | N.b.. Rob Koon's book[0] may be of interest to some of the more
         | philosophically inclined. He argues that the proper
         | interpretation of QM is in light of hylomorphic dualism.
         | 
         | [0] https://a.co/d/6eq227u
        
       | javajosh wrote:
       | The prerequisite for "mental liquidity" is articulated by
       | Aristotle: "It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to
       | entertain a thought without accepting it." If you entertain the
       | thought, this gives you the chance to try out a new belief
       | network. If you find your belief network would be strengthened by
       | its inclusion, then you adopt it. Otherwise, you reject it. In
       | this way, ones interconnected set of beliefs grows monotonically
       | stronger. And this is right and good.
       | 
       | EDIT: got downvoted! I would love love love to know why! Not
       | offended, just curious.
        
         | rgrieselhuber wrote:
         | [flagged]
        
           | dang wrote:
           | Your experiment has a confounding variable--it broke the
           | penultimate guideline.
           | 
           | https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
        
           | javajosh wrote:
           | That seems a bit trite. I was thinking it was a misclick, but
           | hopefully whoever did it will chime in, and they will NOT
           | themselves get down-voted, whatever their reason.
        
         | MrPatan wrote:
         | The mind that doesn't want to risk entertaining "wrong" truths
         | can't stand being reminded of the fact.
        
         | Etrnl_President wrote:
         | "One can not learn what one thinks one already knows"
         | --Epictetus
        
         | kubanczyk wrote:
         | You cannot say _belief_. Say _hypothesis_ while leaving rest of
         | your argument intact. If you value that kind of score in your
         | life.
        
           | javajosh wrote:
           | What is a belief it not the highest-ranked hypothesis of all
           | possible options? Obviously beliefs are more complex than
           | that, since we have a default set installed in us as
           | children, and only a subset of humans are taught the rational
           | methods of improving those beliefs over time. I consider
           | myself a member of that subset.
           | 
           | (Quoting Aristotle always puts me in the mood to rank
           | things.)
        
             | theredfury wrote:
             | I do believe a hypothesis to be different than a belief. A
             | belief performs a different function than a hypothesis.
             | 
             | A hypothesis can be defined as a "proposition made as a
             | basis for reasoning, without any assumption of its truth"
             | (Oxford Languages definition). Typically a function you
             | perform to unearth a truth.
             | 
             | A belief on the other hand holds some position on the
             | spectrum of truth. To believe is to make an assertion about
             | truth. A hypothesis is somewhat of a precursor to that.
             | 
             | But hey, regardless of our stance on the definitions of
             | these words, I heavily jive with the idea that we should
             | improve our beliefs over time and I have mad respect for
             | Aristotle.
        
               | javajosh wrote:
               | I don't think we disagree. A hypothesis is upgraded to
               | "belief" and therefore to the "spectrum of truth" only
               | because it's the best you know of, not because it's the
               | only one. It's a matter of degree, not kind. And a
               | belief's position as the best one is always precarious;
               | it can be unseated at any time by a better hypothesis.
               | 
               | Axioms are different, but over time I've found that even
               | those weaken and become "merely" strong beliefs (or, more
               | usually, only True within the context you're working in,
               | e.g. mathematics). Even "I think therefore I am" is not
               | axiomatic, I have come to believe. In fact I doubt it's
               | important to identify some sort of root cause, which is
               | rationalist heresy. Oh well.
        
         | saiya-jin wrote:
         | > And this is right and good.
         | 
         | I disagree (without down-voting). This is basically 1-man echo
         | chamber, you take what you like (it doesn't matter how many
         | eloquent words you use to describe this, result is same),
         | reject what would challenge your beliefs and would make them
         | weaker. That's the opposite of critical thinking so needed in
         | real world, and prime source why the current world,
         | particularly west, is so torn to pieces about shit like russia,
         | trump, guns, migrants and so on.
         | 
         | Stuff in life is complex, always, almost at fractal level. You
         | keep learning, if you actually want, about new viewpoints that
         | will challenge your current ones, every effin' day. Maybe at
         | the end conclusion is don't trust anybody, people are generally
         | a-holes etc. That's still fine as long as it represents truth.
        
           | javajosh wrote:
           | It seems like you misread what I was saying. I am not
           | advocating a "1-man echo chamber" - that would be a person
           | who never changes their beliefs. When I say "weaker" and
           | "stronger" I am referring to the whole of the belief network,
           | not individual beliefs. This means, generally, that every
           | change reduces inconsistency and increases cohesion _of the
           | entire network_. The ignorant people in the world pay no
           | attention to consistency, only to feeling, which makes their
           | network intrinsically weak, and they become emotional and
           | ultimately resort to violence rather than resolve to improve
           | their beliefs. (The internet makes this kind of interaction
           | more common, even encouraged, since it drives  "engagement" -
           | one of the great tragedies of our time.)
           | 
           | Stuff in life is complex, people are assholes, but even
           | assholes have good ideas sometimes. I recommend listening to
           | everyone who speaks for themselves in good faith. Anyone can
           | cook!
        
             | throwaway14356 wrote:
             | >This means, generally, that every change reduces
             | inconsistency and increases cohesion of the entire network
             | 
             | This is analog to growing the tree, the page talks about
             | cutting it down.
             | 
             | One could give many examples but the good ones are unlikely
             | to resonate with others.
             | 
             | To give a poor one. There was a time when I understood
             | human decision making as a hierarchy of people in
             | increasingly greater positions of power with access to
             | better information and to people with greater skill. Then
             | one day it struck me how they too are just going though the
             | motions with their freedom for creativity limited to a
             | single potentially career ending move. The machine happily
             | grinds on without anyone behind the wheel.
        
             | kbenson wrote:
             | I think you're making assumptions about people and their
             | capability to judge consistency over large chunks of
             | information, when that information is at least internally
             | consistent and common in their experience.
             | 
             | If I believe the Clinton's are pedophiles and murderers and
             | are part of a ring of like minded people, and I'm inundated
             | with information from people and organizations which
             | support this (or at least carefully don't refute it), then
             | when I'm presented with information about a pizza parlor
             | that is supposedly holding children in the basement, is
             | that consistent with my beliefs?
             | 
             | I think what you're presenting is just what everyone
             | already does. Instead of assessing thi gs based on how well
             | they fit our beliefs, we should assess them based on a
             | consistent objective standard, and then alter our beliefs
             | if it meets that standard but conflicts with our beliefs.
             | 
             | This may in fact be what you belief, because you belive in
             | facts and the importance of the truth. The problem is that
             | you get wildly different results when someone that values
             | different things applies the same system.
        
           | testacct22 wrote:
           | > reject what would challenge your beliefs and would make
           | them weaker.
           | 
           | Most unresolved disagreements I know of are because the
           | groups disagree on some unprovable underlying assumption.
           | Switching positions on it doesn't make the beliefs stronger
           | or weaker
           | 
           | Being able to believe something and stick to it, regardless
           | of challenges from competing interests or forms of coercion:
           | that's more valuable in practice than being more
           | reconciliatory
        
             | TeMPOraL wrote:
             | > _Most unresolved disagreements I know of are because the
             | groups disagree on some unprovable underlying assumption.
             | Switching positions on it doesn 't make the beliefs
             | stronger or weaker, just different_
             | 
             | In my experience, that assumption isn't in principle
             | "unprovable" - the parties to the disagreement usually
             | don't realize they're making such assumption in the first
             | place! Switching positions can make the existence of that
             | assumption apparent to all, and if people involved are
             | intellectually honest and discussing in good faith, it's
             | pretty much impossible for their disagreement to remain as
             | strong as it was before.
             | 
             | > _Personally, I prefer having convictions and sticking to
             | them._
             | 
             | Good point about competing interests and "reducing to
             | something manageable". I prefer "strong opinions weakly
             | held", but in practice, I embrace the natural _inertia_ of
             | beliefs. I.e. I don 't consider me already believing
             | something to be strong evidence the belief is true (i.e.
             | "having convictions") - but the stronger a belief is, or
             | more high-impact changing it would be (e.g. suddenly
             | feeling a moral compulsion to upend my entire life), the
             | more evidence _and time_ I need to change my mind.
             | 
             | This may be also a dumber and less admirable strategy, but
             | it's effectively a low-pass filter on evidence: it saves me
             | from changing my mind every other day, and suffering the
             | costs (including cognitive dissonance if I plain override
             | my beliefs for sake of quality of life).
        
             | throwaway14356 wrote:
             | Binary people are funny. Everything is always 1 or 0,
             | nothing is ever undefined and the idea to have different
             | levels of certainty never occurs to them.
             | 
             | It is a rather offensive way to portray the world. All the
             | questions, all the puzzles, all the mystery, everything has
             | been answered and further investigation frowned upon. They
             | would have to _again_ defend their chosen  "truth", they
             | would have to question everything!
        
         | byteware wrote:
         | I am curious how one would measure if their "belief network
         | would be strengthened"
        
         | ABCLAW wrote:
         | There's a common issue in philosophy and epistemology over how
         | we come to know things. We wanted to know what 'knowledge' was,
         | and settled upon the concept of a 'justified true belief' for a
         | fairly long period of time.
         | 
         | However, one day, a philosopher found a situation in which a
         | justified true belief was incorrect. This is the Gettier
         | problem.
         | 
         | What you describe is something akin to a network of baysian
         | conditionals attached to certain proposition, which upon
         | confrontation with new information update their relative
         | weights. We know with certainty that this process has
         | significant benefits in general (it's certainly better than
         | most systems not internalizing new information), but can and
         | does create false reasoning.
         | 
         | In short, it's good but not sufficient to create knowledge. The
         | problem of individuals creating ideological filter bubbles
         | around themselves is very related to the idea that their
         | evidentiary priors become more and more rigid as they note
         | confirmatory evidence over time that justifies their views over
         | time. The issue isn't that they stop intaking new information,
         | but that their priors and the new information are interpreted
         | based upon that belief network.
         | 
         | Thankfully, as a super-organism, we have a great solution for
         | that mental ossification. We die. New people who have less
         | evidentiary accumulation can address the issue with new priors
         | and often that's all that's needed for huge breakthroughs.
        
           | neerajsi wrote:
           | Thanks for your point about death.
           | 
           | Death forces our species wide belief set to go through the
           | constrained channel of education and communication, the same
           | way that our bodily attributes go through the constrained
           | channel of our germ-line genes.
           | 
           | This process lossily compresses the signals, which allows for
           | drift or attenuation when the next generation reconstructs
           | the beliefs and associated behaviors. Transmission also
           | applies stress that acts as a filter to weed out beliefs that
           | are no longer adaptive.
        
           | lo_zamoyski wrote:
           | The Gettier problem is overrated.
           | 
           | The question is "what _is_ knowledge? ", not "do we know
           | _that_ we know _p_? ". And I see no issue with the definition
           | of knowledge as justified, _true_ belief. Now, if I believe
           | _p_ , and you ask me whether I know _p_ , I may say yes. But
           | whether I actually know _p_ will depend on whether my
           | justification is valid (that it really is a justification and
           | a sufficient one) and whether it is _true_ , which has
           | nothing to do with whether anyone _knows_ whether the
           | justification is valid and the belief is true. It 's a
           | separate question, and conflating the two questions leads to
           | an infinite regress of skepticism. So the definition of
           | knowledge qua knowledge still stands.
           | 
           | I would also suggest you try to apply your general approach
           | to the very theory you are proposing. I see an opportunity
           | for retorsion arguments.
        
       | Invictus0 wrote:
       | Mental flexibility would be a better term but of course finance
       | people rarely perceive much outside their own bubble.
        
       | trentnix wrote:
       | I've heard it also said "strong opinions, weakly held". Unlike
       | "mental liquidity", it doesn't require explanation.
        
         | zug_zug wrote:
         | I disagree, I just heard this phrase from you the first time
         | just now, and I don't think it's self-explanatory.
         | 
         | It's unclear to me in what respect the opinions are "strong" if
         | not one's conviction in them. To my mind a strong opinion is an
         | opinion one is confident in.
         | 
         | Also it's unclear to me if/how/why this is better than "less
         | opinions". Like is it better to have a "strong opinion weakly
         | held" on topic X versus "My opinion is pending scientific
         | research will answer this"?
         | 
         | A nitpick -- I actually have a pretty big distaste for maxims
         | that have some cutesy rhyming/wordplay to them (in this case
         | it's X y, !X z, X = strong).
        
           | dasil003 wrote:
           | I agree it's not self-explanatory. All such pithy statements
           | are only insightful based on hard-won experience behind them
           | --the map is not the territory, after all ;)
           | 
           | As far as "strong opinions, weakly held", this is one of my
           | favorites at work in a large scale product engineering
           | environment. It goes beyond "mental liquidity" as described
           | in the OA (which is really just about the "weakly held"
           | part). The "strong opinions" part is that often times groups
           | will succumb to analysis paralysis or unwillingness to make a
           | decision due to group dynamics. Having a strong opinion
           | (ideally backed by knowledge and expertise) is a way to push
           | through and bring clarity. The risk is there is a personality
           | type prone to blustering overconfidence that will push a
           | group in a certain direction without reasonable
           | justification. Ideally what you want is a critical mass of
           | smart, decisive, but open-minded people who are quick to
           | assimilate new evidence into their viewpoint.
        
           | dgs_sgd wrote:
           | > To my mind a strong opinion is an opinion one is confident
           | in.
           | 
           | That's the correct interpretation of "strong opinions", as I
           | understand the phrase.
           | 
           | The "weakly held" part means that you are willing to adjust
           | your opinion in the face of contradictory evidence, which is
           | difficult to do for deeply held beliefs.
        
           | chefandy wrote:
           | I'm not interested in delving into pedantry, so I'll stop
           | after this. My intuitive understanding of this phrase is that
           | strong or weak opinions are generally a measure of magnitude
           | more than stability, while strongly or weakly _held_ opinions
           | are a matter of stability rather than magnitude. Someone
           | might have a milder opinion of something, like  "Pepperoni
           | pizza is fine" vs. a stronger stance, such as "Pepperoni
           | pizza is the BEST pizza." How easily that opinion is changed
           | does not necessarily correlate. Perhaps the person who thinks
           | pepperoni pizza is the best has never tried salami pizza and
           | will be an instant convert. Maybe they're the worlds BIGGEST
           | pepperoni fan. Maybe the person with the weaker opinion on
           | pepperoni might be very very unlikely to change it because
           | they don't care enough about pizza in general to consider it
           | much. Maybe they love pizza, but are one bite of pepperoni
           | pizza away from saying "bleh, hand me a slice of mushroom."
        
       | mo_42 wrote:
       | I like this nice little text. Einstein is a perfect example for
       | mental liquidity. I think we should be very forgiving about this
       | for two reasons: first, Einstein was one of the people
       | establishing quantum mechanics. He also got the Nobel Price for
       | his work on the photoelectric effect. Second, even the brightest
       | minds have only a narrow time frame until mental ability starts
       | to decline. So we cannot expect a brain to dig deep into general
       | relativity and at the same time something completely different
       | like QM. Surprisingly, Einstein even contributed to QM in old age
       | by trying to poke holes into the theory that later proved to be
       | true (e.g., spooky effects at a distance).
        
       | golemotron wrote:
       | It seems like this is a term for the ability to avoid sunk cost
       | fallacy ( https://www.scribbr.com/fallacies/sunk-cost-fallacy/ )
       | 
       | The link contains a number of reasons why people get trapped in
       | sunk cost fallacy.
        
       | technological wrote:
       | I think it is hard to change your beliefs is because of the
       | discomfort that is associated with that change.
        
       | HellDunkel wrote:
       | I just finished the Einstein biography by Walter I. and found
       | Einsteins stubbornness quite entertaining. He knew about this
       | trait, accepted it as an effect of ageing and even was making
       | jokes about it. He simply disliked some facts about quantum m.
       | and allowed himself to pursue a rather fruitless endeavour for
       | many years. He knew that this kind of stubbornness would kill the
       | career of a younger scientist but he could afford to do so. In
       | that sense he contributed to science.
        
         | neerajsi wrote:
         | You're quite right. Science requires the skepticism to apply
         | the stress to theories needed to make them strong. I'm assuming
         | Einstein tried to raise objections using evidence to the
         | contrary and alternative explanations.
        
           | n4r9 wrote:
           | Along with Podolsky and Rosen he formulated one of the
           | original quantum thought experiments to challenge the
           | accepted conventions: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Einstei
           | n%E2%80%93Podolsky%E2...
           | 
           | This in turn inspired Bell's theorem, and eventually quantum
           | information theory.
        
       | zone411 wrote:
       | "Mental fluidity," "mental flexibility," or "cognitive
       | flexibility" seem like better terms.
        
         | layer8 wrote:
         | Creedoplasticity? Pisteuoplasticity?
        
         | gms7777 wrote:
         | or "mental/cognitive plasticity"
        
           | nmstoker wrote:
           | My thoughts exactly: this is generally referred to in the
           | literature as mental/brain plasticity.
           | 
           | Coining a new term when a perfectly good one exists is
           | unfortunate but happens, as see with the author here.
           | 
           | Edit: here's a link to neuroplasticity (aka brain
           | plasticity):
           | 
           | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuroplasticity
        
       | cortesoft wrote:
       | > It might sound crazy, but I think a good rule of thumb is that
       | your strongest convictions have the highest chance of being wrong
       | or incomplete, if only because they are the hardest beliefs to
       | challenge, update, and abandon when necessary.
       | 
       | I strongly disagree with this, unless we are only talking about
       | beliefs that are about facts of the universe.
       | 
       | For example, my strongest belief is that all people have an equal
       | right to exist and pursue their own purpose... this is not a
       | belief about the facts of the universe, but about my own
       | morality. I don't think it has a chance to be 'wrong'
        
         | JakkTrent wrote:
         | I believe that knowing and believe are two different things ;)
         | 
         | Belief is far stronger - that's why people do things all the
         | time they themselves at one point "knew" they couldn't do.
         | 
         | If you start with a flawed belief - things won't improve from
         | there. You'll ending "knowing" a whole lot of stuff that
         | reinforces your flawed belief - simply
         | glossing/ignoring/downplaying the facts that don't support...
         | this becomes a bit of feedback loop after awhile.
         | 
         | So either learn to let go of your beliefs and adapt or at least
         | don't firmly establish beliefs until after you know enough
         | stuff to decide for yourself what to believe.
         | 
         | I reevaluate mine all the time and I'm not wrong on of my
         | strong convictions - albeit from my point of view, which I've
         | made as broad as possible but I'm still human.
         | 
         | My highest beliefs today are built upon a foundation of
         | information, learning and mistakes - I may state a belief with
         | a single sentence but I can write books about why I've arrived
         | at that belief.
         | 
         | I don't that's morality - I sometimes do things I "know" to be
         | immoral, when the justification warrants it, I've never
         | knowingly decided to believe something I know is wrong - even
         | if I was forced, I'd only pretend to believe at best.
         | 
         | In college I'd cheat on a test tho if I thought it the only way
         | I'd pass - bc I believed passing was more important than the
         | test... maybe it's a bad example of immorality.
         | 
         | Anyways, I completely agree with Cortesoft - I'm settling on
         | the understanding that all people everywhere are fundamentally
         | important, collectively and individually.
         | 
         | Allowing and empowering all people to live their best lives is
         | in all of our best interest. I've gone further even than equal
         | right to existence and yet I'm supremely confident.
         | 
         | I think this rant also rather effectively demonstrates exactly
         | what the OP was saying about our strongest convictions.
         | 
         | An incorrect fundamental belief - like say I believed the earth
         | was flat, that belief would be implicit in all that I believe
         | after that, just part of my world view and muddling up
         | everything I think about anything - I wouldn't even be aware of
         | that.
         | 
         | Mental liquidity. Fantastic.
         | 
         | Otherwise knowledge can be an immovable trap that becomes
         | harder to avoid/escape the more stuff you know.
         | 
         | Scientists are great examples of this - if it can't be
         | scientifically methoidized it doesn't exist and therefore must
         | be explainable within the framework they already know, bc
         | that's always right ;)
        
       | robg wrote:
       | It's easy to forget how difficult learning is, for us as
       | individuals and as flocks in formation. Pick any topic and it's
       | likely it took you years to learn well. So simply switching out
       | beliefs embedded in that topic requires overwriting years of
       | patterns and synapses in sync.
       | 
       | Where Kuhn is so helpful in understanding that even scientists
       | have immense difficulty, if not vigorous myopia, stuck with wrong
       | beliefs. Paradigm shifts with funerals is easier over decades
       | than getting scientists to evolve their models.
        
         | MichaelZuo wrote:
         | It's so much so that I would almost define intelligence as the
         | ability to "switch out beliefs".
        
           | lanstin wrote:
           | The geologists that died disbelieving in plate tectonics
           | weren't free of intelligence. The very systems that allow us
           | to find patterns are also liable to get stuck with seeing
           | certain patterns.
           | 
           | Not only is it impossible with current human knowledge to
           | construct an infallible theory that predicts everything we
           | encounter, it is also impossible with current human
           | physiology never to cling to wrong ideas in the face of
           | counter evidence. When examining our rationality, we must not
           | only admit our data are incomplete and our theories flawed,
           | but we ourselves might be thinking foolishly.
        
       | sedivy94 wrote:
       | A term I've come to like more is "cognitive flexibility".
        
       | xyzelement wrote:
       | Perhaps unexpectedly, I find that thoughtful engagement with
       | religion (Judaism in my case) has helped me become much more
       | liquid on other topics.
       | 
       | When you accept on faith a handful of principles that deal with
       | an unknowable domain, it becomes much easier to be less attached
       | to the other stuff.
        
         | haswell wrote:
         | I grew up under a toxic form of fundamentalist Christianity
         | that left deep scars and made me pretty allergic to religion.
         | 
         | For me, I've found success and deep value in exploring non-
         | sectarian Buddhist philosophy, which points directly at the
         | problems caused by attachment to ideas and things, and does a
         | good job of deconstructing thought processes that most of us
         | engage in without realizing.
         | 
         | To me, this is less about choosing to accept certain principles
         | on faith as much as it is about recognizing/acknowledging that
         | _this is what we already do_ in most aspects of our lives.
         | 
         | To anyone who can find value in traditional religious
         | contemplation while avoiding the downsides, more power to you.
         | The point of my comment isn't to say there's nothing to be
         | found there, but if the version of religiosity you're familiar
         | with is the toxic kind, there are other paths to follow that
         | get at some arguably important insights without some of the
         | baggage that can be difficult to avoid.
         | 
         | (I realize Buddhism has religious roots, but there is a long
         | history of exploring the underlying insights in a non-religious
         | context e.g. Zen, and the analytical framework associated with
         | traditions like Dzogchen and Vipassana are applicable without
         | any of the metaphysical underpinnings).
        
           | xyzelement wrote:
           | (I am the person you are responding to) I grew up completely
           | ignorant of religion and my first foray into that was the
           | study of yogic tradition. Once I got a taste of what exists,
           | I was very lucky to realize my ancestral faith has incredible
           | depth, beyond that which is even understood by those say they
           | are kinda religious (ie, many people who say they are
           | religion X don't know how much there is to X)
           | 
           | On the toxic part, sorry to hear that. I think anything can
           | be toxic originally to the value of the concept. (ie someone
           | may have a horrible experience with a coach but that doesn't
           | take away from the value of fitness in general) but it sounds
           | like you have a pattern that works well for you.
        
         | wwweston wrote:
         | > I find that thoughtful engagement with religion (Judaism in
         | my case)
         | 
         | I've heard Judaism characterized as very accepting of discourse
         | and reinterpretation of itself. Does this strike you as
         | accurate? If so, it sounds like a kind of mental liquidity...
         | 
         | > When you accept on faith a handful of principles that deal
         | with an unknowable domain
         | 
         | Sounds like mathematics, in which practitioners become used to
         | both the process of relying on a set of axioms and selecting
         | them for the purposes of exploring or constraining systems,
         | which makes one aware that there's a certain degree of choice
         | or even potentially arbitrariness to it...
        
           | xyzelement wrote:
           | I agree with you on both counts.
           | 
           | For example, the study of the Talmud is an example of both
           | mental training in debating an issue from several
           | perspectives, and the installment of the idea that this is
           | part of the religion.
           | 
           | You can also look up "Jewish responsa" on Wikipedia as a
           | diving point into this.
        
         | Mutlut wrote:
         | You just might discovered yourself what others did without
         | thinking: Following some given path to stop worring and using
         | it as 'this can't be wrong because its old and others are doing
         | it and enabling me'.
         | 
         | Perhaps community fits even better.
         | 
         | I personally am free enough to design my own life without
         | boundaris.
        
           | xyzelement wrote:
           | Your current self-description and opinion of religion is
           | where I was prior to moving onto my current state. Looking
           | backwards, going beyond this represented breaking a boundary
           | for me.
           | 
           | I am not trying to persuade you and I am holding back from
           | expounding on what I mean at length here, just sharing the
           | perspective.
        
             | Mutlut wrote:
             | i wouldn't mind your perspective.
             | 
             | I do thought about a lot and its definitly exhausting to be
             | free but i have been a nihilist since 16. Thought through
             | tons of ideas and concepts (what if the universe is
             | repeating itself, no free will, after life, before life,
             | 'the egg' story, lsd, mdma, ...)
             | 
             | I'm now quite happy and content and still curious with my
             | life. Havent' felt better than this and going the next
             | step: getting a farm and transforming my environment how i
             | want it to be.
        
       | willtemperley wrote:
       | Be a goldfish: Ted Lasso, 2020.
        
         | Etrnl_President wrote:
         | [dead]
        
       | photochemsyn wrote:
       | One approach to preserving mental fluidity is to not get
       | emotionally attached to ideas. This was expressed by Richard
       | Feynman in his 1979 lectures on quantum electrodynamics,
       | available here:
       | 
       | http://www.vega.org.uk/video/subseries/8
       | 
       | > Q: "Do you like the idea that our picture of the world has to
       | be based on a calculation which involves probability?"
       | 
       | > A: "...if I get right down to it, I don't say I like it and I
       | don't say I don't like it. I got very highly trained over the
       | years to be a scientist and there's a certain way you have to
       | look at things. When I give a talk I simplify a little bit, I
       | cheat a little bit to make it sound like I don't like it. What I
       | mean is it's peculiar. But I never think, this is what I like and
       | this is what I don't like, I think this is what it is and this is
       | what it isn't. And whether I like it or I don't like it is really
       | irrelevant and believe it or not I have extracted it out of my
       | mind. I do not even ask myself whether I like it or I don't like
       | it because it's a complete irrelevance."
       | 
       | I think that's critical, because if you become emotionally
       | involved with promoting an abstract idea, it becomes part of your
       | personal identity or self-image, and then changing your mind
       | about it in the face of new evidence becomes very difficult if
       | not impossible.
       | 
       | In another lecture, Feynman also said something about not telling
       | Nature how it should behave, as that would be an act of hubris or
       | words to that effect, you just have to accept what the evidence
       | points to, like it or not.
       | 
       | (Changing your mind about what's morally acceptable, socially
       | taboo, aesthetically pleasing etc. is an entirely different
       | subject, science can't really help much with such questions.)
        
       | cubefox wrote:
       | The best way to test your "mental liquidity" is to think about
       | some hypotheses that are outside the "Overton window" or even
       | outright taboo.
       | 
       | "What if ***** were true? Surely it can't be true. If it were,
       | that would be terrible."
       | 
       | That's motivated reasoning. Remember that the truth of any
       | hypothesis is not influenced by how much you want it to be true,
       | or false. Some hypotheses are deeply uncomfortable, but you
       | should nonetheless strive to believe the truth. Or rather, what
       | is best supported by the evidence. Even if it hurts.
        
         | noduerme wrote:
         | Actually, most people shouldn't do that in most cases, because
         | they aren't qualified to understand the evidence presented to
         | them. Nor are the hypotheses they're testing their own.
         | Valuable hypotheses arise from evidence - not vice versa. This
         | is why juries in complex cases need so much time to be walked
         | through subject matter by expert witnesses, and why standards
         | of evidence are applied to what they are and aren't allowed to
         | hear, and why the conclusions they may or may not draw are
         | circumscribed to the cases being made by lawyers as allowed by
         | judges. When people search the internet for evidence to support
         | their most uncomfortable hypotheses, they'll always find it.
         | That's how we get masses of people who believe in conspiracy
         | theories and satanic panics, with the certainty of those who
         | incorrectly believe they've done their own "research".
         | 
         | Taking up the most uncomfortable (i.e. "forbidden") hypothesis
         | and giving it the weight required to attempt to prove it to
         | yourself is not a systematic way of finding truth; it's a way
         | of deceiving yourself into believing in the simplistic
         | frameworks of other people's paranoid conspiracy theories.
        
           | cubefox wrote:
           | The above was only a case against wishful thinking and
           | rationalization. Of course expert testimony is still some
           | form of evidence. The point is not to willfully ignore or
           | reinterpret the evidence because you don't like the direction
           | it is pointing at.
           | 
           | It is worth citing the Litany of Gendlin:
           | 
           |  _What is true is already so.
           | 
           | Owning up to it doesn't make it worse.
           | 
           | Not being open about it doesn't make it go away.
           | 
           | And because it's true, it is what is there to be interacted
           | with.
           | 
           | Anything untrue isn't there to be lived.
           | 
           | People can stand what is true,
           | 
           | for they are already enduring it._
        
             | lanstin wrote:
             | What was that old definition of ideology, an unreal
             | relation to real facts?
        
       | hcarvalhoalves wrote:
       | > Changing your mind is hard because it's easier to fool yourself
       | into believing a falsehood than admit a mistake.
       | 
       | Different angle: it's not simply "fooling" oneself, but it's
       | because ideas are one way or another built on top of an
       | ideological foundation.
       | 
       | Einstein rejecting quantum theory on the basis the universe
       | shouldn't have a random component to it is also rejecting the
       | idea of having to re-examine all philosophy past Descartes and
       | Newton, which aligned so well with society's viewpoint at the
       | time - a deterministic, cause-consequence universe, where things
       | have logical explanations and where hard work is rewarded.
        
       | tartakovsky wrote:
       | Related: https://medium.com/@ameet/strong-opinions-weakly-held-a-
       | fram...
        
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