The three pillar is a concept that I have developed for my own life. I might have read the idea somewhere else but I don't know anymore, it's been quite some years that I'm using this as a foundational principle. The three pillars are: Sex, Money, and Food. These are 3 activities that can give me energy or that I can waste my energy with. By transmuting that outward energy into an inward energy I can create the life I want to live. By letting these 3 pillars being use in a wasteful way, I loose the momentum of a creative life and also spill my life force all around, I give away my power. From eating only for the pleasure, fast food and unhealthy food, to using food as a creative healing practice. This is not to say to not enjoy food anymore. Pleasure is important, cooking food is an beautiful art and at the same time the food being cook can be use as medicine, on many layers. From wasting sexual energy to cultivating a inner power of growth an healing. It's not in being celibate and never having sex that this power can be used. Sexuality is a practice that can mix pleasure and raising of our internal energy. From spending money as a entertainment to spending wisely in order to create a fluid life. Money is the symbol of my own energy, and what I do with my money is a direct relation of how I treat myself.