In today's yoga nidra session, the discussion leading to the practice had to do with anger. I was trying to verbalize what anger was for me, but the idea kept floating in my mind during the practice. Anger is self-harm. This is where my reflection landed. There is no way to have anger without self-harm. Next time you decide to be angry, changer the word to self harm. Because this person insult me, I will do self-harm. Because I didn't get what I wanted, I will do self-harm. Not only does anger is self harm, it transform and harms other around us. There is tremendous power in emotions. We should be clear about which emotions are harmful, and work toward not cultivating them. When I get angry, my mind finds a good reason why I should be angry. I have the right to be angry, and therefore I will be angry and show the other person how wrong they were. Anger in my culture is justifiable. Movies are made to justify anger. It's a good anger, which give the power to the hero to defeat the bad guy. Anger is not only justifiable, it's wanted. I want to have a good reason to be angry, so that it could give purpose to my life. I would have a goal, to resolve my anger with violence and reach a state of pure joy and freedom. Anger is sold to us as a mean to a goal. You need anger to get you going. Without anger your life has no meaning. Prove me wrong, but nothing good comes out of anger. Anger is self-harm.