Opportunities are everywhere in your life. We can't see them
   until they're happening and then you have only a short time to
   decide before acting.

   Also, trying to be perfect? Well, keep working on it; in the
   end, it comes down to how big of a gap am I willing to accept
   about myself? (the gap because how I think I should be and how I
   really am - and how I think other people see me)

   (we don't REALLY know how other ppl see us - just what we THINK
   they see of us and what they tell us. But we don't really know)