I try to be careful with my own certainty about things; I like to know what "way of thinking" is behind my way of thinking; I like to challenge my own assumptions as much as i can; it's one of the reasons why I like to debate hot topics such as science and religion on occasion; by explaining what I'm thinking, I am forced to research and "dig deep" into understanding what I really believe. I don't think atheism is idiotic per se; but the direction I've noticed it's been taking over the last few years, is that it's becoming Evangelical; it's using the same techniques used by Evangelical Christians; except instead of pointing to the Bible, they point to other proofs that work as their Bible. Look up "New Atheism" to get an idea of the "thinking" behind their thinking. So yes, it is becoming a religion in its own right; very dependent upon a set assumptions that seem to "fall from the sky" (a priori is the phrase I think) - and challenging others based on their history and logic WITHOUT also challenging their OWN assumptions and looking into their own history. I've been looking, probably since I was 8 years old and started questioning both the church I went to (Methodist) and the school I went to; and saw things that were wrong with it. Since that point, I've been trying to find a "system of thinking" that matched up with how I already saw the world. Very hard to do; I did a lot of religion hopping in my 20s, Buddhist, eastern Orthodox, Unitarian, Muslim, to try to find truths; and I found many, but it wasn't "it" for me. In my 30s, I studied the sciences as heavily as I could; and I found a lot of truths in the science too; in fact, much more than I did in my religious quests. But still, something was missing. Yet I noticed a thread tying them all together; I always had a strong interest in Linguistics, Metaphors, Neuobiology and the concept that we're our brain and our bodies and our environments -* rather than just "computers in a meatbag"; When I discovered Embodied Cognition, it "clicked" for me.* I wouldn't say that it is the answer for everybody, but for me, it gave me a framework from within which I can work from; In short, our way of thinking works through a series of analogies built up upon other analogies; "pure reason" is a nice idea; but doesn't reflect the neural circuitry; - our emotional system always engages first before we begin reasoning; making "reasoning without emotion" physically not possible. We may not recognize the emotions as emotions; but they are; certainty is an emotion, complete with measuable levels of chemicals, parts of the brain being activated during certainty. Also, I've been finding great benefit in going through the history behind different ways of thinking; I don't think any idea "fell from the sky" and is automatically true simply because it "makes sense"; there's a history behind the concepts; and travelling backwards through time to find the sources really is eye opening to me..