But knowing one's own biases and the potential biases of others does make for more effective communication when done properly. it's not legitimizing their *ultimate* validity - as ultimately, I don't there's a heck of a lot of difference between people, on a deep-down level. But we're also social creatures with social expectations and.. well, ignore at one's own peril. I've been the hippie-type treat-everyone-the-same _without_ paying attention to how I tend to appear to different groups of people - because I didn't think in terms of "groups". (I still have trouble with that). But I'm at least _aware_ of the potential of trouble by those who *do* think in terms of groups... and "what my actions represent as a member of a group" that I might not even see myself in.