My life tends to be erratic as stronger personalities like to
   dictate the use of much of my time.

   So, I take care of what I must [things with due dates and such]
   which takes planning. I have far flung plans that I work on a
   little here and there and I entirely absorb myself in whatever
   project I'm on at the moment when I'm _not_ having my time
   utilized by serving other people's needs.

   So for me, life is a lot of coping and making the best of the
   situation I find myself in, having a successful resolution to
   whatever the other person's needs are at that moment. I try to
   "exceed" far past what I expect their expectations are so that
   they leave me alone for a while.

   Then, I go back to my project. Never been good with calendar
   planning beyond pay the mortage type things.