The thing is, you're now in the People Management business. I've learned more about myself from managing large crowds of people online than I *ever did* sitting and contemplating things. So many conflicting personalities and yet somehow, you have to manage the flow. As head, your words are chistled when you participate. You're an Authority Figure. When people argue with you, they're not arguing with an equal: they're arguing with the teacher of their 4th grade class, or arguing with their mom over why they didn't clean their room, or they're arguing with a cop who just gave them a speeding ticket. Can't be helped. What kind of parent/teacher/cop will you be? I have no idea tongue emoticon