I just want to say, your nuanced back-and-forth is enjoyable. I
   want to insert my opinion but you two are on the level of
   sorting out the spaghetti mess of certainty, belief, intention,
   social appearance (how 'would'/'will'/'won't perceive intent)...
   and away from the simple "right/wrong" question.

   Enjoyable brain food. Thank you - and please continue. I'm
   learning.