Thank you for telling me your story Kimberly; I was never happy with the Special Ed direction I'd seen offered; and even the role of Guidance Counsellor was surprisingly limited... and Educational Psychology as a whole is a bit of a joke. Extremely disappointed at how children are viewed from an educator's standpoint. I never thought of a dichotomy though; but when you said "two different ways to teach", that helps explain the irritation I always had with education; I always felt they were "doing it wrong". I wish you the best in your struggles and you've provided some needed encouragement. I hope I take a step and don't just go "wouldnt' it be nice if".