Remember the airpla...ne rule: Put the oxygen mask on yourself
   before putting it on someone else. You need to be here, as the
   baton is passed completely to God now for Bob's ongoing journey.
   Here, God assists but your free will needs to let God do what
   God do, and you do what you need to do. And John and Tim and
   everybody involved in this process: this goes for you as well.
   Do what needs doing but take care of yourself 1st. Brush your
   teeth if they need brushing. ... "