The thing about love and hate and judging and being
   non-judgemental -- is that most people really don't care enough
   to love OR hate. I think it's more a case of "Oh, that's
   pleasant." or "Oh, that's unpleasant." I think the majority are
   hedonists - "feels good" or "doesn't feel good" rather than a
   love/hate situation. I suspect the majority are simply too
   wrapped up in themselves to really think much about anybody
   else. But I guess it depends on the individual person. "