To me, the answer is simply being civil and diplomatic. I've never affiliated with any side* myself. I'm 43 years old. Always independent. I have 'left leanings' but also understand that the right makes valid points as well. Yet, I don't seem to be a centrist. I took a 'political quiz' to determine where I fit on a four-square chart of political leanings. Seems I'm even more left than the Dalai Lama. From what I could figure, I seemed to end up as a "Social Anarchist" or something like that... whatever that is.