I enjoy getting to know people. Like, I love finding out what
   fascinates them.. what 'drives' them... their enthusiasm... what
   their "nerdy" about. If you find someone's driving force, you
   always have a place to go in a conversation. I'm 43, online
   since I was 17. I see each person as a unique individual yet
   also can sometimes see patterns. Because of this, I try to find
   the places where people are NOT following the patterns... I try
   to find the unique bits - and everybody has unique bits about
   them. I sound like a TV commercial. ugh, I must be tired.